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Speaker 1: The ziti In podcast Network, The Fletchhahn and Haley Big Pod.

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Speaker 1: Great things are brewing at mcafe, the perfect start to

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Speaker 1: every day. Welcome to the show, Fletchfawn and Hailey. Two

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Speaker 1: minutes past six. Good morning. What was that grinned for?

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Speaker 1: It's a little rye kind of smile.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm just bringing the six appeal, Okay, Right, we've

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Speaker 2: had a discussion before the show. We consider changing roles. Flitch,

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Speaker 2: you were going to maybe be the vibe hire today.

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Speaker 1: Because it's not feeling today. You're not feeling the vibe. No,

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Speaker 1: I know where the vibe the vibe? Hi, Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: having to the straight guy for the day. It's a

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Speaker 1: straight guy straight, not straight sexually. Oh yeah, straight sexually,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, right right, straight guy. I'm not going to

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Speaker 1: be dead serious but sleeping with dudes, right right, Okay,

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Speaker 1: that would be the straight You're a straight gay guy,

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Speaker 1: and I'm not going to be the you know, jovial,

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Speaker 1: happy fellow pater sexual. That would be the gay strang on. Right,

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Speaker 1: So you're just gonna be straight, straight, straight, dead pan

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Speaker 1: straight straight. Okay, that's not what behind you for. You're

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Speaker 1: not fulfilling the role. Okay, I'm going to need a redbook.

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Speaker 1: Then it's going to take fifteen minutes. Chances for you

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Speaker 1: to win today are one golden song at eight o'clock,

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Speaker 1: the song that could win you one thousand dollars today.

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Speaker 1: Loads of chances as well during the show and today

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Speaker 1: on zid M to go in the drawer to see

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Speaker 1: Sabrina Carpenter live in La. Just listen now for the

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Speaker 1: mother Trucker. Have you seen that video of.

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Speaker 2: Someone at a concert and they're stuck behind a screaming fan.

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Speaker 1: Screaming the lyrics working leg you can't hear. That's my

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Speaker 1: worst nightmare. I kind of hate that. I mean, it's

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Speaker 1: okay if you're the one drunk singing, but not when

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Speaker 1: you're stuck behind that person.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Next on the show, Pits, I have some, You've got

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Speaker 1: the most, and children you've got also have some. You

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Speaker 1: also have the most of anybody in this room. You

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Speaker 1: can probably see where my ViBe's not off on with

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Speaker 1: all these children and pits. Things draining you. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: tiring stuff. And they get rid of some of them

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Speaker 1: with the children, meaning but the dogs would be gone

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Speaker 1: to pick.

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Speaker 4: Really, you got dogs over the kids.

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Speaker 1: That shocks me. That I'd put my children over the dogs.

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Speaker 1: Interesting doing my head at the moment. Pits. When you

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Speaker 1: have children, they have thoughts. Let's discuss those things next. Jealousy,

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Speaker 1: play and Haley. Uh, you know when you guys don't

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Speaker 1: know because you don't have kids but you've got pets. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and you're that's how I feel when I don't remember

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Speaker 1: that you are have pits, though, and you prioritize them

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Speaker 1: even though your kid's a bit skidary. Here's scy he's

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Speaker 1: a scatty cat, and your cat's spoiled and you need

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Speaker 1: to smack him. No, he doesn't need smacks. He's just cute. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And then when you have kids, it's been officially recognized

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Speaker 1: by animal behavioral experts ye, that your pit has resentment

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Speaker 1: towards you one hundred percent. Oh yeah, pits have resentment,

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Speaker 1: especially cats. Cats have resentment when you are just out yeah,

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Speaker 1: oh my god. Yeah. And they were like, well, I

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Speaker 1: was outside, but then I came inside and you weren't

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Speaker 1: here with hell, will you. Yeah. We get such a

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Speaker 1: tued from Rollig when we're out late. He would come

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Speaker 1: home and we're a little bit late for dinner. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he's just like, well, well, wow, brink of starvation. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you left me with Uncle Vaughan. He came in weekend. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and a spoon. That was very hard to work out

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Speaker 1: exactly how much was level because it was just the

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Speaker 1: dessert spoon and the chunks on the chunks, the cat

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Speaker 1: for chunks were big, right possible. You see you say

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Speaker 1: our level scoop when it's a scoop. This wasn't a scoop.

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Speaker 1: It was a sponge.

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Speaker 2: Do you reckon you underfed or overfeitigh? Probably overfear that's good.

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Speaker 2: Then that makes me happy. Probably overfeed that's good. So

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Speaker 2: they get jealous, Yeah, they get jealous. I can imagine

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Speaker 2: they get the ships were our cat out Anakin, he's dead.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about it. It's been like

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Speaker 1: how many years now, three would be coming.

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Speaker 4: Out three years?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he he just took off when Indy was born

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Speaker 1: for like ten days, got at home because she stayed

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Speaker 1: in Negro and stuff for like a week even a

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Speaker 1: and he was just like, no, not for me that

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Speaker 1: I don't know where he went, but he was just like,

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Speaker 1: not for me. How long did he take? Ten days?

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Speaker 1: I reckon he was trialing some other neighbors around. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: do you want to taby cat? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Hi, I'm cutee.

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Speaker 1: Now you guys want to feed me? Oh no, I

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Speaker 1: can't stay here. It's a primarily dry food diet. Hey,

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Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with the dry biscuits. Look at my

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Speaker 1: cat's silky coat. You've got to give your cat. So

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Speaker 1: if we're comparing some yeah, it's under the ground, not anymore. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he might not have lived well, he did live a

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Speaker 1: long life. He was around for a very long time.

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Speaker 1: But he was happy because his food wasn't making them cough.

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Speaker 1: So what appearance do then, Because you do prioritize your

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Speaker 1: obviously your kids more than you can, your kids become

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Speaker 1: second second rate citizens around the house. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: You just see all the time, especially like dogs as well,

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Speaker 2: people that were obsessed with their dogs.

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Speaker 1: These are my food babies.

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Speaker 2: And then they have a real baby and the dogs

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Speaker 2: like get out, stinky dogs just waiting for it to

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, how are you looking at?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, PiZZ are definitely second classes, and apparently it's important

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Speaker 1: to remember that pens responding the moment to the environment

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Speaker 1: around them, right, prioritize, So that's why we're there noise

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Speaker 1: or new stuff for like screaming baby smells for dogs,

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Speaker 1: apparently dogs. The new smells or the new smells in

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Speaker 1: the house, like the poos itself and the nappy wipes,

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Speaker 1: the ointments, the arms, the bubble baths. You guys, haven't

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Speaker 1: exactly sold either of you sold that parenting is even

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Speaker 1: on the radar.

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Speaker 2: I have to baby wipe my cat's bottom. Yeah, you

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Speaker 2: might one day, and I worked happily because he's.

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Speaker 1: My fo baby eleven past six.

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Speaker 2: Next on the show Why it is Good for young

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Speaker 2: Men to Live with women.

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Speaker 3: Play Fledchbourne and Haley.

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Speaker 2: This is out of the UK and Australia combined study

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Speaker 2: here okay that looked into the benefits of mix mixing

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Speaker 2: flatmates like mixed genders having with a good mix of

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Speaker 2: girls and boys. The benefits it had particularly on men.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no effect on women will be fine regards. I

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Speaker 1: think I've always lived and mixed. When I flattered was

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Speaker 1: always mixed. I've lived in pretty much every scenario, right,

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Speaker 1: I've lived in all guys, and that was just a

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Speaker 1: hovel yuck. There was no super like Marchown. There was

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Speaker 1: no that sort of stuff. But it was just a

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Speaker 1: messy like ah. But then females can be messy too,

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Speaker 1: so don't give me that whole females are always clean.

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Speaker 1: I've lived completely with girls.

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Speaker 2: And then the only other other than Aaron was one

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Speaker 2: homosexual male.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, so practically a girl.

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Speaker 2: No, I never, I've never lived with straight men other

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Speaker 2: than lover. So the benefit for men was that it

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Speaker 2: absolutely decreased their level of competitiveness aka there machho noess okay,

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Speaker 2: and found that it was extremely beneficial for them and

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Speaker 2: their well being and the way that they exist in

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Speaker 2: the world because they're less like beating on the.

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Speaker 1: Chest softens softens, softens men. But yeah, because I lived

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Speaker 1: in a flat where it was me and one of

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Speaker 1: the other girls, four other you were the only boy,

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Speaker 1: my dad, I don't know, the king of the cause.

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Speaker 1: And we went and saw that movie Signs. Remember that

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Speaker 1: movie Sign Love Sign. It was a great movie, right

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Speaker 1: mel Gibson Gibson the Aliens? Have you seen it? Maybe? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: maybe one of the Colkins is in it, isn't he?

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Speaker 1: And that then we went home and they were also terrified.

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Speaker 1: Everyone slept in my room that night, and I found

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Speaker 1: other than that, what the beginning of a foreigner. But

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Speaker 1: that's what everyone That's why it softens me is because

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Speaker 1: you're like, it's a bit off it to have like

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Speaker 1: a full blown orgy.

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Speaker 4: Do you think so?

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Speaker 1: Unde hundred percent? And or when you're doing all like

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Speaker 1: the girly things, you're just like mama's her booby here.

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Speaker 2: I would have thought it was like the positive influence

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Speaker 2: of women, and we're doing nice things. We're lighting candles,

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Speaker 2: we're putting flowers around the place.

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Speaker 1: Ah, this is the true story too. Ah, what's happened?

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Speaker 1: This is spider in here, she's in the shower.

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Speaker 4: To get it.

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Speaker 1: Are your life in the porner? This was wild Masters Hamilton.

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Speaker 1: It's a medical center now got torn down. So I

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Speaker 1: was the last king to live in that castle. Fall

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Speaker 1: of the condown and I went in. I was like, oh,

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Speaker 1: you've got a towel one. They're like, no, I haven't

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Speaker 1: got a towel yet. I was like, I'll bring a tower.

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Speaker 1: I don't look, I don't. I handed the tower because

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Speaker 1: I was a gentleman, but I was like, yeah, he's hope.

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Speaker 2: We were talking about this and Shannon you think you've

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Speaker 2: lived in lots of setups as well.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and girls, boys.

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Speaker 5: Boys, and like guys I knew before moving in, guys

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Speaker 5: I didn't know. And there was such a difference week

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Speaker 1: So like what kind of thing, like, like how does

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Speaker 1: it soften them?

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Speaker 5: There was lots of times where I'd be watching reality

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Speaker 5: TV week one, they'd walk past me, like like Love

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Speaker 5: Island three months and they're like how and they would

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Speaker 5: love a face mask. They'd come hang out in my room.

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Speaker 1: You're only saying you're watching Love Island. He's hoping you're

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Speaker 1: going to get all revved up sexually by watching it,

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Speaker 1: and he's going to be the nearest penis. And you

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Speaker 1: watch some mobies that he wants to see. This is

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Speaker 1: how man function and if the guys just want homosexual

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Speaker 1: but not every guy wants to hook up with their

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Speaker 1: female flight pane. Dudes love a convenience hookup. Don't think

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Speaker 1: about how awkward it's going to be on the other

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Speaker 1: side of things, Jared, is I need to look behind

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Speaker 1: myself to see alarms up?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we don't think long term just animals were animals, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: to be fair. You can tell.

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Speaker 5: You could tell which male flatmate was down and which

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Speaker 5: wasn't because I had to and one of the guys

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Speaker 5: his name was Shannon as well, and it was just

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Speaker 5: like obviously never going to happen.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there was a yah vorn happened, I said, orn.

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Speaker 1: But okay, sure there's probably a female worn out there

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Speaker 1: that I would female worn I wasn't. I don't marry Carla. Carla.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, there you go, there's a Karla. But you

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Speaker 1: knew what was happening.

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Speaker 5: But you can tell that with this research is literally

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Speaker 5: just does this say anything about the guys?

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Speaker 2: Basically softens them. It makes them less because they're not

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Speaker 2: around men being like competitive competitive on the King of the.

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Speaker 1: Came because they don't have the men to compete with,

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Speaker 1: so they say mixed. So you know they may be

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Speaker 1: maybe some others that the game has changed. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: if a woman wanders into a den full of men,

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Speaker 4: Tintin tin tink tink tink, tink tink.

434
00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:59,080
Speaker 1: Tinklet wrap your nipple piercing right, Yeah, do you guys

435
00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:04,200
Speaker 1: know that got a nip? You've got his nip crazym

436
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:06,640
Speaker 1: the beginning of my midlife crisis. It could be. Yeah,

437
00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:10,440
Speaker 1: number four on the last of the top six ways

438
00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:13,679
Speaker 1: to get the munitions out of the Swiss Lake. Well,

439
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:15,199
Speaker 1: I don't know, but whoever's going to go down there

440
00:24:15,320 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 1: is going to need an air tank. Number three on

441
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:21,440
Speaker 1: the list. That one didn't. I don't think you're winning

442
00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:24,800
Speaker 1: with these tank is munitions. Yeah, and they're going underwater,

443
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 1: so that I need an air tank. Whoever's going down

444
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:31,679
Speaker 1: there is going to need a air tank. These ideas

445
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 1: are not winning. So you you literally couldn't have explained

446
00:24:34,640 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 1: it harder and you still don't know. Yeah, so that

447
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,000
Speaker 1: they dumped tanks in the lake, Yeah I know that. Yeah.

448
00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:41,680
Speaker 1: And then if you're going to go down diving under

449
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:43,119
Speaker 1: a lake, you need on your back. You need a

450
00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:46,640
Speaker 1: oxygen and oxygen tank. So whoever's going to go down

451
00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:50,800
Speaker 1: there is going to need an oxygen tank. It's just

452
00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:54,360
Speaker 1: the comma and the dot dot. It's just a it's

453
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 1: two space bars. Number three others of the top six

454
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,840
Speaker 1: ways to get munitions out of a Swiss lake, how

455
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:04,520
Speaker 1: about we send down some swordfish. They're already bloody weapons,

456
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 1: aren't they. Number two on the less of the top

457
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:09,959
Speaker 1: sex ways. I'm just gonna get this over the top

458
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:18,280
Speaker 1: the ninja turtles. I reckon ninja turtles. Do you want

459
00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 1: this price or not? Under the lake? It's the closest

460
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,440
Speaker 1: you've had a good idea. We've got to go back

461
00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 1: to the magnet and number one on the less of

462
00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:29,840
Speaker 1: the top.

463
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 4: Hang on, hang on, you've.

464
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:33,400
Speaker 1: Dropped a couple in here. What are the teenage mutant

465
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:35,880
Speaker 1: ninja turtles doing all that. Turtles that can go underwater

466
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:41,200
Speaker 1: and they yeah, they can hold their breath and trying

467
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:45,360
Speaker 1: to give that's because they're familiar with weapons, right, more

468
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:48,640
Speaker 1: like swords and stuff. Well, they might be bane it's

469
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 1: down there and number one of the less of the

470
00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 1: toxic ways to get those munitions out of that. So

471
00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:54,719
Speaker 1: it's like, how about we call them the Navy Seals

472
00:25:56,240 --> 00:26:02,439
Speaker 1: because Navy seals, because Navy Seals are American terrible ideas,

473
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:04,040
Speaker 1: terrible ideas.

474
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:10,680
Speaker 3: Seal Flitchborne and Haley.

475
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:16,080
Speaker 1: We love toasted sandwiches, Oh godgie, toasty, toasty. We love

476
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:18,639
Speaker 1: just there's something about it, isn't there?

477
00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 4: It just rules.

478
00:26:20,920 --> 00:26:24,400
Speaker 1: So this is a nationwide competition that's taken place. Yes,

479
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 1: happens every year, doesn't that? Yes, yep.

480
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:30,679
Speaker 2: And and cafes and restaurants all across New Zealand they

481
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:33,360
Speaker 2: put them out and then and then some restaurants where

482
00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 2: was iron they'd done one and they don't usually have

483
00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:38,040
Speaker 2: it on the menu, right, but they put one together

484
00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 2: for this, you know, right, the toasty TAKEO McClure's Peckles sponsor.

485
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 1: Oh they are the great, They're so good. They're good Peckle.

486
00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,119
Speaker 1: You know, they're bougie. They're a bit more expensive than

487
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:52,919
Speaker 1: the other peckles. Taste. They are tasting top tear pickle,

488
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:57,800
Speaker 1: top tier, top top tier pickle. You know, sweet peckle

489
00:26:58,200 --> 00:27:01,840
Speaker 1: wear peckle, crazy you wear pickle. We go show, Mum

490
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:03,880
Speaker 1: will bring us a big jar from Costco. I'm talking

491
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:07,880
Speaker 1: like this bag, like two leaders of peckles a week. Yeah, yeah,

492
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:09,640
Speaker 1: because I just find.

493
00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:11,400
Speaker 4: The kids with their bloody fault from the jar.

494
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:14,280
Speaker 1: Are they the Costco Peckles? Yeah, they're pretty good. Okay, okay,

495
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:17,680
Speaker 1: they're a good pele. Now what who's won this year?

496
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:23,480
Speaker 1: The winner is from Okaty Full Store, which is I

497
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:26,160
Speaker 1: been a couple of times. We went to october Fest

498
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:27,440
Speaker 1: once and I was like, oh, this will be fun,

499
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 1: and it was wild. And then at the end of

500
00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:30,600
Speaker 1: the night these people were like, do you want to

501
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:32,399
Speaker 1: ride back to the hotel you're staying it which was

502
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 1: on the lake front jumping the boat and it turns

503
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 1: out it was Aunt Green's mum. And then all of

504
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 1: a sudden, like I would just go our place and

505
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 1: then we've got boat napped willingly boat napped. This is amazing,

506
00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:51,480
Speaker 1: and it was it's just that was the weekend where

507
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: I was like, I could do a lakehouse. He says,

508
00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:58,360
Speaker 1: the lake I could.

509
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:01,440
Speaker 4: I could do one of these, should we I could

510
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 4: do it.

511
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 1: It's a beautiful spot. It's like maybe fifteen minutes out

512
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 1: of on the lake, on the side of the Lake

513
00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 1: of and it's the Okeddy Falls are the highest commercially

514
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 1: rafted waterfalls. There's a massive at the end. Yeah, she's amazing,

515
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:22,400
Speaker 1: seven meter drop. She's just an also place and chuck

516
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:24,160
Speaker 1: the Toasty and on top of the Okady full store,

517
00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 1: which is amazing and doesn't October. I stopped in March.

518
00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 1: Any of the food there is just amazing.

519
00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 2: I'm looking at the menu because I think most places

520
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:35,399
Speaker 2: put together a special toasty to enter into the toasty takeover.

521
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 1: But in general they've just got like a cheese toast.

522
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:41,800
Speaker 1: But you'll be able to go and get I mean

523
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:43,560
Speaker 1: I want to go and get this. I want to

524
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 1: literally drive three hours.

525
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:45,800
Speaker 4: To get it.

526
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 1: This is what's in This is an unusual one. Okay,

527
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:52,959
Speaker 1: what's it called. It's the winner though in the middle. Wait,

528
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 1: what happened to the pict in place? It does great,

529
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:57,160
Speaker 1: It'll be in there. It'll be in there because you

530
00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 1: know the regions in the place is famous for its

531
00:28:59,720 --> 00:29:04,360
Speaker 1: toast these. Yeah, there's different regions as well. Okay, but

532
00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:06,560
Speaker 1: that's called toasty right and picked in.

533
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just good stuff, just stuff.

534
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:12,760
Speaker 1: It's called Figgi in the middle in the middle, and

535
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 1: it has dill, pickle, cheesecake wet so you're talking a

536
00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 1: mask a pony sort of ye element which isn't necessarily sweet, No,

537
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 1: you would just sugar creamy. Yeah, it's not sweety. Swiss cheese,

538
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 1: Vandy's streaky bacon, toasted walnuts, rocket pickles, blue cheese, a

539
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:40,360
Speaker 1: drizzle of chili honey, and apparently they were like, it

540
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 1: needs something else, and that's where the figs came in.

541
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 4: Figs.

542
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 2: I like so because I was reading about this and

543
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 2: they call it a cheeseboard and a toasted you know

544
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:53,120
Speaker 2: when you get those cheeseboards of the honey comb, the

545
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 2: chutney's and the pickles, yum yum.

546
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 1: I want to try this. So then the People's Choice

547
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 1: Award was also Caper's Cafe.

548
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:04,880
Speaker 4: Listen to this one.

549
00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:07,680
Speaker 1: This was This was created by apprentice chefs Zion and

550
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 1: Juicy Huge Future in my Culinary Listen to this hoisten

551
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 1: glazed pork belly. I'm I'm in with sweet Hilly and

552
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:21,960
Speaker 1: chill down a rock hard. And also to clarify for

553
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:24,920
Speaker 1: Fletcher's mum who heard her saying before, you said before

554
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 1: that I had got nipple piercings. That was a joke.

555
00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 1: As soon than if I ever need defibulated, they're gonna

556
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:32,880
Speaker 1: have to tear up my nipple piercings. Know that you

557
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:35,600
Speaker 1: had to take out nipple piercings if they needed to defeat.

558
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 1: I suppose to conduct the vault away from the heart. Yeah,

559
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 1: maybe I'd clamp to the next one. I find someone

560
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:46,640
Speaker 1: in the supermarket, I don't know, and I'm I've got

561
00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:51,040
Speaker 1: to defend them because I don't know to check that

562
00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 1: they've even got nipple piercings. Or you've got to do

563
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:55,959
Speaker 1: you have to take the or you've got to get

564
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:59,719
Speaker 1: the the de fabulator has got to touch bear skin anyway,

565
00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:03,040
Speaker 1: I'm sorry someone else I was wearing a bra. Well,

566
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:05,920
Speaker 1: I mean, that's life. What do you want me to

567
00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:10,160
Speaker 1: keep my modesty? You want to remain a modest lady.

568
00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 1: I'm glad we took a break halfway through the sandwiches

569
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 1: ingredients because we're not even Okay, go back and recap

570
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:20,040
Speaker 1: the nipples for this one. There's poison glazed pork beley

571
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 1: with sweet chili and garlic, mc clure's sweet and spicy pickles,

572
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:31,240
Speaker 1: crispy fried shalottes, cut up mozzarella, tasty cheese, spring onion

573
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 1: and red onion miso mayonnaise on a gary buttered sesame bread.

574
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 1: Get out of that when the only thing that would

575
00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 1: make Asian food bitter put cheese on it?

576
00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:44,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what I mean?

577
00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 1: Yeah that don't go huge on the cheese. And oh

578
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 1: my god, my god, roady this weekend? What do we do?

579
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:53,440
Speaker 3: Why?

580
00:31:53,600 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 1: Why are we sitting here? A toasty the great toasted?

581
00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 2: These photos if you can go on toasty takeover dot

582
00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 2: com and there's a photos all the the finalists because

583
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:08,920
Speaker 2: we've got some note we have a few toasties around

584
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 2: Auckland that we love and they're not even on the left,

585
00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 2: so this must be inside.

586
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,440
Speaker 1: And there's different one is for different regions on that

587
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:17,280
Speaker 1: website as well, so you can find out like what

588
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:19,720
Speaker 1: the red the place that has a bit toasty in

589
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 1: your area? Oh okay, I love it when they've cut

590
00:32:22,120 --> 00:32:26,480
Speaker 1: some chops on it, some chops silly little pole is next?

591
00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:28,840
Speaker 1: How do we feel about tatos? Turn on or no?

592
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 1: Not as much of a turn on as these toasties

593
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:37,200
Speaker 1: play it? Silly little pools.

594
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 4: It is so silly, silly, silly, bad, silly little pool

595
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 4: silly silly.

596
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:57,480
Speaker 1: Today's silly little pole? Is it is? It is?

597
00:32:57,720 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 4: It is tatos? Have they turn on?

598
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 1: Or are they not a turn on? Or just like

599
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:07,960
Speaker 1: this doesn't Yeah it doesn't phase you? Six Wally, you

600
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 1: were not phased.

601
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 2: I think when I see a grown man without them,

602
00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 2: and I do apologize to you tube, I think, grow up.

603
00:33:13,720 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 1: You can grow and get to them. Okay, are you

604
00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 1: doing Okay? I just I always got tatoos for tough

605
00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 1: dudes growing up, because our bus driver had one cause

606
00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 1: they got in World War They used to be Oh

607
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 1: yeah those are tough tattoos. Yeah. When you see the

608
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:29,280
Speaker 1: main they're so blown out and blurring, you're like, man, yeah,

609
00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:31,040
Speaker 1: that's that was never good.

610
00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:33,040
Speaker 4: That's what you think when you look at that.

611
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:36,960
Speaker 1: Well, forty five percent of people said they're a turn on.

612
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 1: Oh okay, seven percent said doesn't phase me, eighteen percent

613
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 1: not turned on by tattoos. Okay, right, let's dive in

614
00:33:46,560 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 1: Courtney says, depends if that shredded or not. So they what, No,

615
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:51,480
Speaker 1: what's the problem, Courtney. It's not the tattoo doing.

616
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:52,200
Speaker 4: The heavy lifting there.

617
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:55,400
Speaker 1: You want to you just like you just like the abs.

618
00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 3: Yeah.

619
00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like, oh, that beautiful house has some paintings

620
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 1: on it. That's what you're seeing. Yeah, the house has

621
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 1: already sold you. Well, it's landscaping, Yeah, Michelle, definitely not

622
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 1: when they're on the face or the neck, and bad

623
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:11,719
Speaker 1: tattoos are horrific, but when they have nice ones kind

624
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:13,239
Speaker 1: of hidden away that you see when you're getting to

625
00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 1: the generally more company. And then she's done two splash emojis, Okay,

626
00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:22,480
Speaker 1: gosh you horned of Yeah, which weird that she's like, no,

627
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:24,680
Speaker 1: no to the neck, but if it's under the shirt,

628
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:30,439
Speaker 1: she's like, well if the owner said, not bothered really,

629
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 1: but super hot male or female on someone you'd least

630
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:37,600
Speaker 1: expect to have tattoos ah okay, yeah, especially if our

631
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:39,359
Speaker 1: big or not run of the mill. And then it's

632
00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:43,280
Speaker 1: an unexpected tattoo gets hur what's there gets her going,

633
00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:45,680
Speaker 1: gets her a little bit hot? Hot depends on the

634
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:51,000
Speaker 1: tattoo again, another one completely dependent on location, probably not

635
00:34:51,440 --> 00:34:54,400
Speaker 1: on the side of the face. Yeah, your side of

636
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:57,840
Speaker 1: the face is full noise. Yeah, Casey said, I'm a

637
00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 1: og emo from the two thousands. Nat, I say more yummy, yummy,

638
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 1: yummy tattoos, smiley face looking its lips, squirt cup Why

639
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:13,440
Speaker 1: the cup on the end, like like, do you want

640
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 1: to take a little drink? Yeah, maybe she's thirsty for it.

641
00:35:17,760 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 1: Thirsty for depends what they are. Any mythical creature like

642
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 1: a dragon is an absolute no from me, Sarah. If

643
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 1: it's the flag dragon, right, what if it's an imagined dragon? Yeah?

644
00:35:32,800 --> 00:35:36,399
Speaker 1: What a band? The band? Imagine the portraits, the full

645
00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:40,360
Speaker 1: portraits of the bands. Yeah, that' not a mythical technically,

646
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:45,240
Speaker 1: not a mythical dragon. Ashley said, proper sleeves, yes, sticker

647
00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:49,479
Speaker 1: but looking sleeves. Definitely not vomb Okay, it's trendy. Yeah,

648
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:55,399
Speaker 1: far more for females than males though, right a stick

649
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 1: of tats. Mason said, Yes, Daddy likes his princess with

650
00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:02,160
Speaker 1: some ink. Jesus, I hated there. If she can commit,

651
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:07,600
Speaker 1: if she can commit to those she can, Daddy didday

652
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:09,960
Speaker 1: princes did not like it. Also, he's found Daddy d

653
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 1: a d d I E with a macron O day Shay.

654
00:36:18,000 --> 00:36:21,279
Speaker 1: I told my zero tats needle foe back husband, I

655
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:23,680
Speaker 1: pay for him to get a sleeve, but no luck

656
00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:25,759
Speaker 1: yet managed to get him to grow a beard, though,

657
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 1: So my vision feels partly complete. The sounds like she

658
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:30,279
Speaker 1: wants him to be someone else.

659
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, tells he trying to change too much of who

660
00:36:32,640 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 2: he is on the inside by changing his outside. Yeah,

661
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:44,400
Speaker 2: mish sleeves. You know those teams off team have sleeves

662
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 2: on them. Yeah, the difference maybe, hennah, And then you

663
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 2: can change the design.

664
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 1: That's right. You just kind of trial him with a

665
00:36:52,360 --> 00:36:55,400
Speaker 1: sleeve before you he commits. What of all these renovations

666
00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:57,720
Speaker 1: you're doing, You're just creating a sexy man that everybody

667
00:36:57,719 --> 00:36:58,399
Speaker 1: else is gonna want.

668
00:36:58,520 --> 00:37:01,400
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, and he's gonna know it too, You know

669
00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:02,000
Speaker 4: it because they.

670
00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:05,640
Speaker 1: Keep telling him careful, careful, tread lightly.

671
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 4: That's similar, little time.

672
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:12,600
Speaker 3: Play play.

673
00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:13,719
Speaker 1: Okay.

674
00:37:13,800 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 2: So there is a woman and she believes she has

675
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:25,919
Speaker 2: a severe allergy to the big oh reaching Oprah. She's

676
00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:27,800
Speaker 2: been on ozempic, so she's not big anymore.

677
00:37:27,920 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 1: She's tired. I just meant beggars in celebrity. Yeah, yeah, No,

678
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:38,800
Speaker 1: she's not allugitic to it's a matter of time. She

679
00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:44,280
Speaker 1: is from yoyo, from one yoyo to another yoyock oprah,

680
00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:47,600
Speaker 1: she will never be back. She can afford it. Yeah,

681
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:51,720
Speaker 1: it's the people that can't afford it. Oh, I know. Yeah. Anyway, anyway,

682
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:52,920
Speaker 1: we digress.

683
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:56,759
Speaker 2: So apparently, whether she is with a partner, a lover,

684
00:37:57,120 --> 00:38:02,359
Speaker 2: or with herself, if she ever is the big, the big, Oh,

685
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 2: she has an anaphylactic reaction.

686
00:38:06,480 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 1: So has she just kind of because some people develop

687
00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:13,520
Speaker 1: allergies later and yeah, light see this hasn't always been

688
00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:15,480
Speaker 1: the case, but all of a sudden, it's like, yeah,

689
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:17,080
Speaker 1: this is happening, and this is just happening.

690
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 2: And she's gone to doctors who were like very hesitant

691
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 2: to give her an official diagnosis, but they believe it's

692
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:27,359
Speaker 2: something called postal gasmic illness syndrome, which's a very rare

693
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:31,680
Speaker 2: condition in which a person develops flu like and allergy symptoms.

694
00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:35,319
Speaker 1: So I was reading an article as well this week.

695
00:38:35,320 --> 00:38:37,719
Speaker 1: There was a guy who plays in the Yankees, and

696
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:40,759
Speaker 1: of course that's what baseball and they have to wear

697
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 1: the gloves, yes, and he's allergic to the gloves. I've

698
00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:46,879
Speaker 1: heard about people being allergic to the leather and something

699
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 1: in the leather and the gloves. Apparently for the last

700
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:51,320
Speaker 1: like three years he's been dealing with the fact that

701
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 1: and like he's a you know, pro sportsman, you just

702
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 1: have to get some nice cotton liners, some nice soft

703
00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:00,520
Speaker 1: cotton liner. They have to but don't they have to

704
00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:04,320
Speaker 1: take the glove off and then throw Yeah, desire. I

705
00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:06,319
Speaker 1: don't know how it works, but apparently this is something

706
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:08,399
Speaker 1: he deals with. And that's something as well that's happened

707
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:10,279
Speaker 1: kind of later in life. Yeah, he's just all of

708
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:13,400
Speaker 1: a sudden found out he's allergic to something has to

709
00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:14,560
Speaker 1: work with to earn his money.

710
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, so instead of going for a life without, she

711
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 2: just carries an ipipin around what you're like worth today?

712
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 1: Aren't they like a hundred bucks or something? Easy and America? Yeah,

713
00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:31,279
Speaker 1: I imagine it's absolutely horrible. I mean, I mean, you know,

714
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 1: like it's sort of it doesn't happen every time or

715
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 1: it's every time. Yeah, every time. So she sort of

716
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 1: just what she wants to have an intimate moment where

717
00:39:39,480 --> 00:39:41,960
Speaker 1: a boyfriend or to cut it off. She's got to

718
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:44,360
Speaker 1: cut it right, okay, Yeah.

719
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:48,880
Speaker 2: Which, oh, anyway, we would to know how did you

720
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 2: discover you were allergic to something, because, as you say,

721
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:54,839
Speaker 2: sometimes it develops out of nowhere. Yeah, and you don't

722
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:57,399
Speaker 2: know that it's happening until you try, if you try something,

723
00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 2: or try a food or whatever.

724
00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:01,799
Speaker 1: And then also people grow you're allergic to peanuts, won't you. Yeah,

725
00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:03,520
Speaker 1: and you grow out of that one of the ones

726
00:40:03,560 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 1: you can grow out of. Yeah, when you go through

727
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:10,359
Speaker 1: your puty change. Right, I've been through there twenty five.

728
00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:14,399
Speaker 1: I didn't get all the bits they about They talk

729
00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 1: about the beds still waiting for me. Yeah, this sort

730
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:28,920
Speaker 1: of increase infantile situation going on. Well, maybe you're just

731
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:31,880
Speaker 1: not through the whole cycle. Yeah, Well, this is what

732
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 1: I want to know this morning. Eight one hundred of

733
00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 1: dars at him. Give us a call, you can take

734
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 1: through nine six nine six. How did you discover you're

735
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:39,720
Speaker 1: allergic to something?

736
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:42,360
Speaker 2: There's got to be a moment that you, yeah, something's

737
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:45,879
Speaker 2: wrong here, and whether it's a food or something you touch,

738
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:48,759
Speaker 2: or something as obscure as this this pool.

739
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe it wasn't until later and you know, your

740
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:53,359
Speaker 1: teen years or your twenties that you find this out,

741
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:56,000
Speaker 1: because I don't know, you just grew up not eating

742
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:58,360
Speaker 1: a certain kind of food. Maybe this is super common.

743
00:40:58,440 --> 00:40:58,759
Speaker 1: This one.

744
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 2: Someone just tacks in an allergit condoms, which is like latex, right, yes,

745
00:41:02,400 --> 00:41:04,759
Speaker 2: and then the first time you don't know, and then

746
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 2: the first time then you use them. And then he said,

747
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:08,720
Speaker 2: I thought I had an STD because it was burnar.

748
00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 1: So what do you use instead? Like glad rap you

749
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 1: can get latex free law, right, Okay, I wouldn't use Okay,

750
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:18,320
Speaker 1: our advice is not to use glad rap as a

751
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:20,040
Speaker 1: replace was for a latex condom?

752
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 4: Made a joke.

753
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:25,239
Speaker 1: No, he uses clad rap And that is why there's

754
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:29,120
Speaker 1: so many little features running around, all those frozen those

755
00:41:29,239 --> 00:41:32,359
Speaker 1: frozen torpedo things that you snap in half, and having

756
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:34,359
Speaker 1: summer flesh cuts the bottom off that, so I can't

757
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:36,879
Speaker 1: put as well in it. And that is a condom. Hey,

758
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:39,400
Speaker 1: we want to know how you discovered you were.

759
00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 2: You were allergic to something, because there is a woman

760
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:51,920
Speaker 2: who is apparently allergic to reaching the pinnacle of sexual intimacy.

761
00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:54,719
Speaker 1: The bag O, the Big O, and so has an EpiPen.

762
00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 1: It happens just in case it happens. Hard thing to stop. Georgia,

763
00:41:59,200 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 1: what's your friend allergic too? She is allergic to giraffe

764
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:08,480
Speaker 1: saliza giraffe saliva. I've heard of this where they let

765
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 1: you and it's a reaction.

766
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 6: Yes, so she's anaphylactic to giraft saliza.

767
00:42:14,960 --> 00:42:17,200
Speaker 1: So how often is she getting licked by giraftes?

768
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:19,320
Speaker 6: Luckily not often.

769
00:42:21,760 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 1: Did you find this out at a zoo? Yes?

770
00:42:25,160 --> 00:42:26,480
Speaker 4: Okay, wow?

771
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:30,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, so she could have gone her whole life and

772
00:42:30,280 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 6: not known that.

773
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:32,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I suppose so.

774
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:33,759
Speaker 2: Way she went up to like one of those things

775
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 2: where you go stand on that platform, and the giraffe

776
00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:37,040
Speaker 2: came and licked her, and then she went and she

777
00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:37,840
Speaker 2: got sack.

778
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:41,960
Speaker 7: What she got to feed draft as she was feeding

779
00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:45,640
Speaker 7: the giraffe lictor and ended up in hospital.

780
00:42:46,280 --> 00:42:48,839
Speaker 1: Does she have any other allergies? Because I'm reading here

781
00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 1: that they've got an antiseptic property the giraft saliva to

782
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 1: protect its throat from the spiky thorns that it eats,

783
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 1: because it makes little cuts on the way down. So

784
00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 1: the saliva goes down and stops the cuts from getting

785
00:42:58,680 --> 00:43:03,560
Speaker 1: like infected. Oh, because it's amazing, isn't it evolution some

786
00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 1: sort of allergy to that? Yeah, what it was doing? Yeah? Wow, okay.

787
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:13,959
Speaker 1: I would zoos have ePIE pins. They would in case,

788
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 1: like I've got EPI pinguins. Don't don't let your laps

789
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:22,160
Speaker 1: at your own, joke your laps at your own. I

790
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:25,279
Speaker 1: don't like it, Stacey. What did you find out that

791
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:25,960
Speaker 1: you're allergic to?

792
00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:27,520
Speaker 3: Oh?

793
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 7: I found out I'm allergic to cold water just suddenly.

794
00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 7: So yeah, I'm a cold water I'm a vet student,

795
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 7: so I'm always having to help clean stuff out, and

796
00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:42,719
Speaker 7: I was trying to help clean the cows shut out

797
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 7: and turn on the cold water, and instantly just broke

798
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:46,719
Speaker 7: out in the hive.

799
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:51,400
Speaker 1: Hell, you didn't come across cold water until you were

800
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:52,759
Speaker 1: revered student? What about?

801
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:54,080
Speaker 3: No?

802
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:57,880
Speaker 7: I mean I've been fine, but then suddenly like just

803
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:02,000
Speaker 7: cold water. And I I'm originally from California, so maybe

804
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 7: it's just the New Zealand cold winters that.

805
00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:08,719
Speaker 1: I just can't hang whoa, but not warm water? Cold though?

806
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:10,520
Speaker 1: Do you guys assume I'm going to see water in

807
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 1: California white colder than real because.

808
00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:20,560
Speaker 7: Instantly, just yeah, my skin turns bright red, tie all

809
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:22,120
Speaker 7: up on my neck everywhere.

810
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 1: So how do you like? Can you drink it?

811
00:44:26,640 --> 00:44:29,279
Speaker 7: I can drink cold water, It's fine, it's just on

812
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:29,919
Speaker 7: my skin.

813
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:31,000
Speaker 4: Wow.

814
00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:35,320
Speaker 1: Did you go to see like a dermatologist or adopter

815
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:35,800
Speaker 1: about that.

816
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:39,399
Speaker 7: It's honestly just aren't happening this year, and I'm kind

817
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 7: of like, I'm just gonna pretend it's not happening.

818
00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: I re can go see someone.

819
00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:47,120
Speaker 4: You can't avoid cold water your whole life.

820
00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 7: Oh if I weren't gloves, it's fine. And as long

821
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:55,160
Speaker 7: as it's not super icy cold, then yeah.

822
00:44:55,040 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 1: We're all stacey. Thank you messages. Partner's allergic to zinc oxide,

823
00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:03,279
Speaker 1: You might be thinking, how did he work that out? Well,

824
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 1: he used acne medication it does have it in us

825
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:08,280
Speaker 1: and had to be rushed to the when he started

826
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 1: to die. Oh my god? What else is is that?

827
00:45:11,400 --> 00:45:14,000
Speaker 1: Like in zinc like that you put on your nine oxide.

828
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:18,320
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe I'm allergic to seamen condoms for life. The

829
00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:26,399
Speaker 1: Navy is not for the it's a real good yep.

830
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:31,520
Speaker 1: Maybe the Armies for them. Yeah, okay, may be allergic

831
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 1: to see what about pins are now free in New

832
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:34,440
Speaker 1: Zealand under prescription.

833
00:45:35,640 --> 00:45:36,920
Speaker 4: It should be that's great.

834
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:38,760
Speaker 1: I work in a pharmacy in one of our customers

835
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 1: is allergic to water, has to take a huge amount

836
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:41,919
Speaker 1: of a he has means every day just to brush

837
00:45:41,960 --> 00:45:45,320
Speaker 1: your teeth. And have a shower. I've seen this. Oh my, no,

838
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 1: awful lame. Someone said, I am allergic to lactose, not

839
00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:55,279
Speaker 1: just intolerant, allergic, allergic anything. But I tell you what,

840
00:45:55,320 --> 00:46:02,320
Speaker 1: I love mix floury with that sometimes acause you just

841
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:05,840
Speaker 1: drove past, like, let's get a look flurry. Allergic to

842
00:46:05,880 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 1: a eucalyptus. Washed my hair with a plant based shampoo

843
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 1: that's active ingredient was eucalyptus, and just had the most

844
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 1: insane rash on my scalp and down my back. Oh wow.

845
00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 1: From that being I was pregnant with first child. Craving

846
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:22,319
Speaker 1: white peaches. Ye won't be I always go yellow, but yeah,

847
00:46:22,480 --> 00:46:24,560
Speaker 1: pieces peaches. Have had a couple of shoutouts on the

848
00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:27,960
Speaker 1: show because the girl dinner was a tin of peaches yesterday.

849
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:28,200
Speaker 3: Ye.

850
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, have gone to the dogs.

851
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:34,400
Speaker 2: In the last few years, peaches, it's all gone to

852
00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:38,840
Speaker 2: the dogs. Wow, it's not like it used to be

853
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:40,080
Speaker 2: when we were when we were kids.

854
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:42,800
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think you need a little roady and central

855
00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:48,560
Speaker 1: and target some roadside stools. Yeah, road side still quality.

856
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 3: Yeah.

857
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:53,600
Speaker 1: And so I had a white peach throat started tingling,

858
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:57,600
Speaker 1: felt scratchy, wrung the husband to tell her. He said,

859
00:46:57,680 --> 00:46:58,800
Speaker 1: I can hear you still eating it.

860
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:01,920
Speaker 4: It's delicious.

861
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:05,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, So that that was when I was allergic to that.

862
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:07,560
Speaker 1: I'm allergic to ip Profann. Couldn't figure it out for

863
00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:09,719
Speaker 1: ages because after a burzey night, I get up to

864
00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:12,360
Speaker 1: take an Iberprofen. Then I assumed it was the hangover

865
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:14,279
Speaker 1: getting worse, But it was actually the iber profen that

866
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:16,840
Speaker 1: was to it. Okay, so I had analogy to it.

867
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:21,239
Speaker 1: I'm allergic to the glue on plasters.

868
00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:23,680
Speaker 7: Yeah.

869
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:25,840
Speaker 1: I've heard a few few people having that.

870
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:26,799
Speaker 4: It comes off and.

871
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:28,719
Speaker 1: It's just super scratchy. What do you do if you

872
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:33,439
Speaker 1: can't have a pasta? Just put a pat on it? Oh? Yeah? Yeah.

873
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:37,319
Speaker 2: But then, oh my god, alluded to alcohol. I had

874
00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:40,759
Speaker 2: a friend that we had became allergic to alcohol, like

875
00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 2: really would get super super sick, like just from one drink.

876
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:49,520
Speaker 1: Might it should be good some people? Literally, he's the

877
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:52,600
Speaker 1: healthiest friend I have. Yeah, And then you've got those

878
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:54,319
Speaker 1: other people who think they're allerged to alcohol, but they

879
00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:57,920
Speaker 1: drank twenty of them. So I think even allergy it

880
00:47:58,000 --> 00:47:59,640
Speaker 1: was a volume thing more than an analogy.

881
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:02,239
Speaker 3: Plays fledged Thorn and.

882
00:48:02,400 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 4: Hayley have a little scroll.

883
00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:04,839
Speaker 1: Do you know what I've been.

884
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:07,120
Speaker 2: I've been terrible because I didn't sleep much the night

885
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 2: before last did I And then because I was on

886
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 2: my phone to like eleven thirty.

887
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:13,680
Speaker 1: Got to put your phone down, I know.

888
00:48:14,040 --> 00:48:15,600
Speaker 2: And then yesterday I went home, I had a two

889
00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:17,400
Speaker 2: hour nap and that sort of sorted that out. And

890
00:48:17,440 --> 00:48:18,719
Speaker 2: then I got into bed and I shold on my

891
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:20,239
Speaker 2: phone it was ten thirty and I was like, what

892
00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:23,759
Speaker 2: am I doing? I know better, but it's like that

893
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:27,400
Speaker 2: little I'm a dopamine ad it. I just want little

894
00:48:28,040 --> 00:48:31,040
Speaker 2: delicious things treats. And that's why I doom scroll.

895
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 1: I always my brain. I always know when I wake up.

896
00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 1: And in our group chat, you've seen us videos at

897
00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:39,839
Speaker 1: ten o'clock at night, I'm like, yeah, here's the reels pop.

898
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:40,919
Speaker 4: Yeah.

899
00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:42,439
Speaker 2: So a lot of people are jumping on their phones

900
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 2: when they're bored, right then they're going, I just need

901
00:48:44,560 --> 00:48:45,760
Speaker 2: something to entertain the brain.

902
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 4: Get that going.

903
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:48,800
Speaker 1: We're all guilty of it, whether it's at night or

904
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:52,560
Speaker 1: during the day. Apparently, according to this research out of Taranto,

905
00:48:53,120 --> 00:48:56,360
Speaker 1: the University of Tarana, it's doing the opposite. It is

906
00:48:56,560 --> 00:49:00,200
Speaker 1: dulling our brain, making it far more bored, so it's

907
00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:02,760
Speaker 1: not actually giving us the little sparkle or the energy

908
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 1: or the sort of entertainment that we think it is.

909
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:08,439
Speaker 1: It's actually it's called digital switching. But we all still

910
00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:10,239
Speaker 1: do it. Ain't like we know that it makes us

911
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:14,360
Speaker 1: feel bad. We know that it's like making us sleep worse.

912
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:16,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, but we still do it.

913
00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:16,560
Speaker 6: Yeah.

914
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:20,800
Speaker 2: Why so even though even if even they said, because

915
00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 2: you know, like Instagram's my one and you don't get

916
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:26,560
Speaker 2: to choose your reels, you're just flicking through and it

917
00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:27,320
Speaker 2: curates it.

918
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:28,880
Speaker 1: Yea, it's the algorithm.

919
00:49:28,960 --> 00:49:32,759
Speaker 2: Y's the algorithm, they said, Even when the videos were

920
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:36,120
Speaker 2: curated by yourself in this research, even if you'd made

921
00:49:36,160 --> 00:49:39,120
Speaker 2: your own playlist of little entertaining videos, it didn't actually

922
00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:42,160
Speaker 2: ignite that part of the brain that was entertained or

923
00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:44,920
Speaker 2: made happier by it at all. So it's actually got

924
00:49:44,920 --> 00:49:48,760
Speaker 2: nothing to do with just the like mundaneity of the content.

925
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:54,080
Speaker 2: Just the action of watching endless videos doom scrolling.

926
00:49:53,760 --> 00:49:55,759
Speaker 4: Again and again and again and again and again.

927
00:49:56,120 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 1: Is actually dulling your brain and making you even more

928
00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:02,359
Speaker 1: bored and less satisfied. You were reading before, Beard, well

929
00:50:02,400 --> 00:50:04,399
Speaker 1: I do, I do, Yeah, I know, and I thought

930
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 1: you were journaling. The journal has remained empty for a week.

931
00:50:09,320 --> 00:50:11,759
Speaker 1: Oh no, she's off the journal. See that you were

932
00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:13,879
Speaker 1: on a good You were on a good was it bored?

933
00:50:14,480 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 1: So boring? You were on this good street. You were like,

934
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:19,880
Speaker 1: I'm journaling, I'm reading a boat and then I'm falling.

935
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:23,000
Speaker 2: Asleep and I got sack, and yeah, I got sack,

936
00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:24,879
Speaker 2: and then I didn't couldn't go to the gym.

937
00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 1: So then you can't sleep as well.

938
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 2: And then when you can't sleep as well, you're like, well,

939
00:50:28,560 --> 00:50:30,239
Speaker 2: what's the point of doing the journaling and listening to

940
00:50:30,239 --> 00:50:30,720
Speaker 2: the meditation.

941
00:50:30,840 --> 00:50:32,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go on my phone. It's all you just

942
00:50:32,480 --> 00:50:33,479
Speaker 1: throw it all out the window.

943
00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:35,160
Speaker 4: Have I made it?

944
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:37,239
Speaker 1: Have vann and I made it into the journal? Been

945
00:50:37,280 --> 00:50:39,759
Speaker 1: in the journal? Ones? What did you say about it?

946
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 1: You were in my appreciation post. Actually that's nice, that's

947
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:44,800
Speaker 1: the ones you want. You're in my gratitude. It was

948
00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:46,400
Speaker 1: on a Friday, and you're like, I appreciate that I

949
00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:58,840
Speaker 1: don't have to see my gym. They've instigated a new sign.

950
00:50:59,200 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 1: Oh okay, you sign, I said instigator, because yesterday at

951
00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:04,799
Speaker 1: the gym, I watched the new Matt Damon movie The Instigators,

952
00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:06,279
Speaker 1: which you won't even know.

953
00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:06,960
Speaker 4: You watched that.

954
00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:09,600
Speaker 1: You watched that, did you?

955
00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:10,080
Speaker 5: Yeah?

956
00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 1: The one where he like steals, everything goes terribly wrong

957
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:16,440
Speaker 1: and he plays like this weird straight guy. It was

958
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:19,719
Speaker 1: quite a bizarre choice for him. Yeah, I like it.

959
00:51:20,320 --> 00:51:22,640
Speaker 1: It's weirdly flowing under the radar of I just kind

960
00:51:22,680 --> 00:51:24,880
Speaker 1: of stumbled across it on It's an Apple TV original.

961
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:27,919
Speaker 1: Great glast Why how do you? How do you watch

962
00:51:27,960 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 1: a whole movie at the gym?

963
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:30,040
Speaker 3: Like?

964
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:34,840
Speaker 1: Are you actually doing anything? Yeah? I do one hours

965
00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:39,000
Speaker 1: of cardio and some other stuff while watching a movie.

966
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:39,920
Speaker 1: I can't do it.

967
00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 2: I tried to get inspired by you because I need

968
00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:43,839
Speaker 2: have enough time to watch the shows I want to watch.

969
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:46,120
Speaker 1: And I try on the bike and then I'm like,

970
00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 1: doesn't doesn't get me going? Are you on the steer

971
00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:54,319
Speaker 1: Master sometime? Today's steer mask? No, No, yesterday was steer mask.

972
00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:58,880
Speaker 1: I saw somebody walking sideways up the steer Master. But

973
00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 1: you never walk up sideways, So what's the point of

974
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:04,520
Speaker 1: training walking up the stairs sideways? Get the glooty, get

975
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:08,879
Speaker 1: the booty poplar just in case you squeeze past somebody. No, well,

976
00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 1: I never sit down and pulled something down from the

977
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:14,760
Speaker 1: ceiling like doing at the gym. I just never randomly

978
00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:19,920
Speaker 1: pick up stuff and go point. Yeah. I don't even

979
00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:22,200
Speaker 1: bug all stuff that I do at the gym. Outside

980
00:52:22,239 --> 00:52:25,240
Speaker 1: of the gym, yeah, I never run that fast unless

981
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:25,920
Speaker 1: I'm being chased.

982
00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:26,480
Speaker 3: Yeah.

983
00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:30,359
Speaker 1: So there's a new sign at the gym and it says,

984
00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:32,520
Speaker 1: if you're on your phone, please don't also be on

985
00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:37,080
Speaker 1: the equipment, because there's been some godless, there's been some

986
00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:40,359
Speaker 1: people sit on sit on the equipment. We've all done that, though.

987
00:52:40,520 --> 00:52:42,520
Speaker 1: You gotta take your breaks. Wait, is the sign of

988
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:44,960
Speaker 1: the equipment aimed at you because you're watching movies? No,

989
00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:47,839
Speaker 1: because I'm doing stuff while I'm on the treadmill, I'm

990
00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:50,800
Speaker 1: running between seats. When you sit there and you just

991
00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 1: sit and you're like, yeah, because there was a shocker,

992
00:52:54,080 --> 00:52:57,279
Speaker 1: because when you're on the thing on the treadmill, you

993
00:52:57,320 --> 00:52:59,600
Speaker 1: get the reflection off the window. Yeah, and there was

994
00:52:59,600 --> 00:53:01,080
Speaker 1: a dirt. I reckon he would have sat there for

995
00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:03,320
Speaker 1: like he would have been on the equipment for the

996
00:53:03,640 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 1: like fift three minutes in total. I reckon, he's doing

997
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:08,200
Speaker 1: something for about five of the tops and then he

998
00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:10,399
Speaker 1: just went. And you know that one where you we've

999
00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:12,200
Speaker 1: all been there, you know that one where you set

1000
00:53:12,280 --> 00:53:14,920
Speaker 1: and you push the legs up the leg press leg

1001
00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:18,000
Speaker 1: press yep. That one. Someone was like fully snoozing on that.

1002
00:53:18,080 --> 00:53:20,040
Speaker 1: The other day they had their eyes shutting their head back.

1003
00:53:20,520 --> 00:53:25,359
Speaker 1: Oh no, it's not a seat, and I could see

1004
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:28,160
Speaker 1: them breathing their wrist was like, well, I'm just gonna

1005
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:31,680
Speaker 1: catch a crook. It would especially at smaller gems where

1006
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:34,239
Speaker 1: there's only one machine. Yeah, and if there's not a

1007
00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:36,920
Speaker 1: second or third machine, then you're waiting for someone.

1008
00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:38,920
Speaker 2: You're like, well then someone will come take your machine.

1009
00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:41,120
Speaker 2: If you've got three seats and you've got one, what

1010
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:43,759
Speaker 2: are you supposed to get? Just sit there and read off.

1011
00:53:43,880 --> 00:53:46,440
Speaker 1: But people don't like to because that's the best thing

1012
00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:48,520
Speaker 1: to say to someone is hey, do you mind if

1013
00:53:48,600 --> 00:53:51,719
Speaker 1: while you're doing yours we share tag and yeah, so

1014
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:55,600
Speaker 1: when they're on their phone, they can just get up

1015
00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:57,760
Speaker 1: and stand there and you can quickly use the machine.

1016
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:00,560
Speaker 1: But some people don't like to talk to people. Yeah, yeah,

1017
00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:03,239
Speaker 1: they just hit phones on and there was maybe they're

1018
00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:05,160
Speaker 1: intimidated by them, I don't know. The gym did a

1019
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:07,680
Speaker 1: video as well about the people just sitting on the

1020
00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:11,799
Speaker 1: on their phone, being on your phone and definitely being

1021
00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:13,080
Speaker 1: guilty of it because you have those days.

1022
00:54:13,160 --> 00:54:16,160
Speaker 2: You just say, someone said three minutes between seats is

1023
00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 2: best for muscle building.

1024
00:54:17,920 --> 00:54:19,759
Speaker 1: Three minutes three minutes long?

1025
00:54:20,040 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 3: Is that?

1026
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:23,680
Speaker 1: What? Would just get up and get out of the way,

1027
00:54:23,920 --> 00:54:25,279
Speaker 1: Get up and get out of the way. Maybe if

1028
00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:27,120
Speaker 1: someone so, what did you say? There's a video. They've

1029
00:54:27,120 --> 00:54:28,880
Speaker 1: made a video as well. They made a video of

1030
00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:29,759
Speaker 1: what not to do.

1031
00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:32,479
Speaker 4: It's real.

1032
00:54:32,880 --> 00:54:37,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's real, like scooch off. Right. It is a

1033
00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 1: small gym, your gym. It's not massive. It's not like

1034
00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:44,600
Speaker 1: I think you're you guys. Gym's massive thing. Yeah, it's big.

1035
00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:47,719
Speaker 1: You go to a big gym. I don't need overcomments.

1036
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:51,480
Speaker 1: We go to a big gym, big gym, a big gym.

1037
00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 2: But then I go into the small women's gym, which

1038
00:54:53,719 --> 00:54:58,240
Speaker 2: is half the side of yeah. Wow, but there's sometimes

1039
00:54:58,280 --> 00:55:02,040
Speaker 2: there's only one machine of particular you know types of machines.

1040
00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:04,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, but the women are pretty good. Would around each other.

1041
00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:07,600
Speaker 1: Men seemed to be the people who are sitting, yes,

1042
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:11,600
Speaker 1: sitting on the well. Both cases that I used of

1043
00:55:11,680 --> 00:55:14,839
Speaker 1: the guy on the phone and the person having both

1044
00:55:14,880 --> 00:55:15,319
Speaker 1: men having a.

1045
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:18,840
Speaker 2: Little God, okay, well right, will you will you be

1046
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:21,560
Speaker 2: keeping a vigilant eye out for sitters.

1047
00:55:21,960 --> 00:55:25,440
Speaker 1: You bet, and what are you just going not actually

1048
00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:29,600
Speaker 1: doing it? Read the sign us, oh god, tap the sign? Yeah,

1049
00:55:29,840 --> 00:55:33,000
Speaker 1: tap the sign. Oh no, that's where that's worse. That's

1050
00:55:33,040 --> 00:55:40,839
Speaker 1: not good, plays Fable and Hayley. Now this fella, he's

1051
00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:41,960
Speaker 1: fifty five years old.

1052
00:55:42,840 --> 00:55:44,879
Speaker 2: I don't know I'm saying that like it's a shocking fact,

1053
00:55:44,920 --> 00:55:47,160
Speaker 2: but I sort of imagined a younger person employing this

1054
00:55:47,480 --> 00:55:48,799
Speaker 2: tactic to break up with someone.

1055
00:55:48,920 --> 00:55:50,160
Speaker 1: Okay, however, fifty five.

1056
00:55:50,120 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 2: Years old was dating, going out looking for things, and

1057
00:55:55,000 --> 00:55:58,319
Speaker 2: when you are dating, not casually, but we wore going

1058
00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:00,440
Speaker 2: a number of dates of people and when come time

1059
00:56:00,520 --> 00:56:02,560
Speaker 2: to being like, I don't actually want to you know,

1060
00:56:02,600 --> 00:56:03,839
Speaker 2: I don't see this going any further.

1061
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:06,160
Speaker 4: You've had it horrible to sort of have to break

1062
00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:06,799
Speaker 4: up with them.

1063
00:56:07,160 --> 00:56:08,640
Speaker 1: Well, no one likes breaking up.

1064
00:56:08,800 --> 00:56:12,000
Speaker 2: It's hard, awful, no matter how long you've been together.

1065
00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 2: So he employed the powers of chat GPT. He was like,

1066
00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:19,320
Speaker 2: do you know what, I just like, I decided I

1067
00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:21,200
Speaker 2: didn't want to be with this person after the third day.

1068
00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:23,480
Speaker 2: I just thought I wanted to word it really nicely

1069
00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:26,040
Speaker 2: and make sure that they didn't feel hurt, didn't hate

1070
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:27,239
Speaker 2: me afterwards.

1071
00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:29,160
Speaker 1: And this would be acceptable over a message, right, if

1072
00:56:29,200 --> 00:56:30,799
Speaker 1: you've been on three dates or something, you.

1073
00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:31,239
Speaker 4: Could do that.

1074
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:33,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean he said it, but yeah.

1075
00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:35,400
Speaker 2: He was like, I can't remember the exact words of

1076
00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:39,360
Speaker 2: the message, but it was basically an expansion of it,

1077
00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:41,719
Speaker 2: it's not you, it's me da da da dah, and

1078
00:56:41,800 --> 00:56:44,239
Speaker 2: then sent it to her and the person it said

1079
00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:47,279
Speaker 2: it was a beautifully crafted breakup later and then and

1080
00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:48,120
Speaker 2: the woman.

1081
00:56:48,239 --> 00:56:49,120
Speaker 4: Received it really well.

1082
00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:50,440
Speaker 1: She was like, that's a really nice thing to say,

1083
00:56:50,440 --> 00:56:51,880
Speaker 1: and I appreciate you taking the time and thank you

1084
00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 1: very much and I wish you all the best. Nice anyway,

1085
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:56,600
Speaker 1: So a relationship coach came in and was like, look,

1086
00:56:56,800 --> 00:56:59,520
Speaker 1: it's not inappropriate all the time to use chet GPT

1087
00:56:59,600 --> 00:57:01,399
Speaker 1: to break up people. It does depend on how long

1088
00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:04,200
Speaker 1: you've been together. Yeah, you wouldn't use it. Have you

1089
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:05,560
Speaker 1: been with some of the three years?

1090
00:57:05,760 --> 00:57:05,960
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1091
00:57:06,000 --> 00:57:07,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, And you seen them a little message being

1092
00:57:08,040 --> 00:57:11,600
Speaker 2: like it's over, dear flyinch. Yeah, I'm writing this to

1093
00:57:11,719 --> 00:57:15,360
Speaker 2: inform you. Anyways, I want to put this to the

1094
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:18,760
Speaker 2: test because he hasn't included his letter how good chat

1095
00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:23,840
Speaker 2: GPT would be at actually personally breaking.

1096
00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:25,160
Speaker 1: Up with Oh, I like this, Okay, So Vaughn, you

1097
00:57:25,320 --> 00:57:28,400
Speaker 1: had it open now, so four are we going to

1098
00:57:28,480 --> 00:57:31,720
Speaker 1: pretend you to breaking up? I said, let's use Haley's

1099
00:57:31,720 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 1: acting degree. He wishes, Oh, you Vaughn would be the

1100
00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:38,280
Speaker 1: one to dump me. He wishes, he wishes. Okay, well

1101
00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:44,760
Speaker 1: we'll play this silly sabariover. We'll see. Okay. I am

1102
00:57:44,880 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 1: male and need a nice, friendly, short, complimentary breakup message

1103
00:57:48,360 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 1: to see into my needy, short tempered, boozy girlfriend who

1104
00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:55,880
Speaker 1: cheated on me with her female WORKMATEE cure. Wow, okay, okay,

1105
00:57:56,000 --> 00:57:59,240
Speaker 1: chat GPT. I'm sorry you're going through this. Can you

1106
00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:01,560
Speaker 1: tell me what time you're raiming for? More formal or casual?

1107
00:58:02,160 --> 00:58:06,360
Speaker 1: Like a formal? Like, what's a concern that its casual?

1108
00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 1: Here's the message. Let's keep things short, respectful and straightforward. Hey, Hailey,

1109
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:14,600
Speaker 1: I think it's best to go our separate ways. I

1110
00:58:14,680 --> 00:58:16,200
Speaker 1: wish you all the best, Take care.

1111
00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:19,960
Speaker 4: That's that's too short.

1112
00:58:20,200 --> 00:58:22,720
Speaker 2: Could you put into chat GPT that we've been together

1113
00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:26,440
Speaker 2: for three years? Like up the stakes and more emotional,

1114
00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:27,480
Speaker 2: make it more emotional.

1115
00:58:30,080 --> 00:58:33,880
Speaker 1: It's all the best. Maybe you should have gone formal. Actually,

1116
00:58:34,640 --> 00:58:36,600
Speaker 1: maybe formal would bring out a bit more of that.

1117
00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:38,640
Speaker 2: I think just ask them to sort of craft it

1118
00:58:38,680 --> 00:58:41,200
Speaker 2: a bit more. I would be like, loll, babes, are

1119
00:58:41,200 --> 00:58:43,160
Speaker 2: you so funny? What time I picking you up?

1120
00:58:43,520 --> 00:58:47,160
Speaker 1: Yeah? Do you know what I meant, babes. Hey Hailey,

1121
00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:48,720
Speaker 1: this is really tough for me to say, but after

1122
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:50,720
Speaker 1: three years, I think it's best if we part ways.

1123
00:58:51,680 --> 00:58:53,560
Speaker 1: We've had a lot of good times. I always tru

1124
00:58:53,800 --> 00:58:57,040
Speaker 1: cheerish those memories. However, I feel we're going in different

1125
00:58:57,080 --> 00:58:58,919
Speaker 1: directions and it's important for both of us to find

1126
00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:01,880
Speaker 1: happiness separately. I genuinely hope you find what you're looking

1127
00:59:01,880 --> 00:59:03,080
Speaker 1: for and wish you all the best of the future.

1128
00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:06,640
Speaker 1: To take care of yourself, that's quite nice. Take curiousselfs

1129
00:59:06,680 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 1: quite nice. It isn't even mention that I've cheated on you.

1130
00:59:09,880 --> 00:59:18,200
Speaker 1: I feel like I need to acknowledge that this is

1131
00:59:18,480 --> 00:59:21,560
Speaker 1: all her fault. Yeah, there needs to be some blame

1132
00:59:21,720 --> 00:59:22,320
Speaker 1: applied here.

1133
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:25,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I'm taking control of my emotions because you

1134
00:59:25,080 --> 00:59:25,920
Speaker 2: didn't respect man.

1135
00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:27,760
Speaker 1: Hey Hailey. It's really hard for me to say this,

1136
00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:29,400
Speaker 1: but after everything that's happened, I think it's best if

1137
00:59:29,440 --> 00:59:32,200
Speaker 1: we end things. That's a bit nice, that's a bit better.

1138
00:59:32,680 --> 00:59:34,680
Speaker 1: The trust has been broken and it's in clearer, and

1139
00:59:35,520 --> 00:59:37,800
Speaker 1: it's clearer in different places now. I value the time

1140
00:59:37,840 --> 00:59:39,760
Speaker 1: we spend together and I need to but I need

1141
00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:41,880
Speaker 1: to move forward. I hope you take curious olf and

1142
00:59:41,920 --> 00:59:43,920
Speaker 1: find what you need. Wishing you the best. More blame,

1143
00:59:45,720 --> 00:59:50,920
Speaker 1: like bloody, good job. More blame though, more anger? Maybe

1144
00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:56,360
Speaker 1: make angrier I had more anger? Or passive aggressive? Yeah,

1145
00:59:59,440 --> 01:00:03,720
Speaker 1: maybe make this more passive aggressive.

1146
01:00:03,880 --> 01:00:04,640
Speaker 4: It's okay.

1147
01:00:05,040 --> 01:00:07,520
Speaker 1: I thought that was quite a good yes, you know,

1148
01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:10,080
Speaker 1: I mean, even if you used that to kind of

1149
01:00:10,120 --> 01:00:12,080
Speaker 1: give you some ideas what to say, A bit of

1150
01:00:12,080 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 1: a frame work, a bit of a framework.

1151
01:00:13,920 --> 01:00:16,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, Okay.

1152
01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:18,200
Speaker 1: Hey, Hailey, after everything that has happened, I've realized that

1153
01:00:18,240 --> 01:00:20,000
Speaker 1: we need to go our separate ways. It's clear that

1154
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:22,280
Speaker 1: the trust and respect we had is no longer there,

1155
01:00:22,320 --> 01:00:26,560
Speaker 1: and I can't ignore the impact of your choices. More

1156
01:00:26,600 --> 01:00:29,920
Speaker 1: passive aggressive enough for my life? What you're looking for,

1157
01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:32,640
Speaker 1: I want it to be, but it's clear we're not

1158
01:00:32,680 --> 01:00:34,200
Speaker 1: on the same path anymore. You want it to be

1159
01:00:34,320 --> 01:00:39,480
Speaker 1: more bitchy? Okay, can it be? We've completely changed the

1160
01:00:39,560 --> 01:00:47,280
Speaker 1: original We wanted to be respectful. You can it be

1161
01:00:48,440 --> 01:00:56,400
Speaker 1: more bitchy? And also inform her that I'm keeping every

1162
01:00:56,640 --> 01:01:01,840
Speaker 1: big TV GAT. So he's a message. Hey, Haley, given

1163
01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:03,840
Speaker 1: everything that's happened, it's pretty clear that we're better off apart.

1164
01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:05,560
Speaker 1: The trust has gone and I can't ignore the choices

1165
01:01:05,560 --> 01:01:06,920
Speaker 1: you're made. I'm going to keep the big TV as

1166
01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:08,520
Speaker 1: a reminder of the times you've had doubt me.

1167
01:01:08,600 --> 01:01:09,520
Speaker 4: Move on, you can.

1168
01:01:10,440 --> 01:01:13,640
Speaker 1: I hope you can figure things out. Goodbye. That's that.

1169
01:01:13,840 --> 01:01:16,240
Speaker 1: I hope you can figure things out. I hope it's good.

1170
01:01:16,400 --> 01:01:20,320
Speaker 1: It's a nice part. Yeah, you can figure things out.

1171
01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:21,720
Speaker 3: This is you.

1172
01:01:22,320 --> 01:01:26,040
Speaker 1: Ye, you've done and actually, you know what, I'm taking

1173
01:01:26,120 --> 01:01:29,240
Speaker 1: the TV as a reminder of the times I've had together. Yeah,

1174
01:01:29,280 --> 01:01:31,760
Speaker 1: this message is direct and also includes the details about

1175
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:36,919
Speaker 1: the television you asked for. It's not bad. It's not bad.

1176
01:01:37,200 --> 01:01:39,560
Speaker 1: I've used it for quite a few things, have you. Yeah,

1177
01:01:39,800 --> 01:01:42,040
Speaker 1: I've never never used it. And you can just be

1178
01:01:42,160 --> 01:01:43,720
Speaker 1: like I feel like it needs to be longer and

1179
01:01:43,840 --> 01:01:45,600
Speaker 1: you don't even have to give a ship what is?

1180
01:01:45,720 --> 01:01:47,920
Speaker 1: It fills up the gap. It's like I work that

1181
01:01:47,960 --> 01:01:48,320
Speaker 1: out for you.

1182
01:01:48,640 --> 01:01:50,400
Speaker 2: Wait, so when you're like talking to us in our

1183
01:01:50,440 --> 01:01:52,160
Speaker 2: group chatting stuff and you see all those really like

1184
01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:53,640
Speaker 2: lovely long messages to us.

1185
01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:56,200
Speaker 4: I don't even know what said. I just copy past.

1186
01:01:56,280 --> 01:01:58,600
Speaker 1: This is really personal stuff about how you. I don't

1187
01:01:58,640 --> 01:02:00,000
Speaker 1: even do it. I just get my children to do it.

1188
01:02:00,280 --> 01:02:01,720
Speaker 1: I'm like read it out to me. They read it.

1189
01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:04,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, here are the instructions. Yes, that's fine coffee

1190
01:02:04,840 --> 01:02:09,720
Speaker 1: paste and wow. Yeah the future right, it's the future, right,

1191
01:02:10,840 --> 01:02:13,600
Speaker 1: plays Fletchborne and Hailey.

1192
01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:24,240
Speaker 4: Fact of the Day, day day day day do do

1193
01:02:24,760 --> 01:02:28,840
Speaker 4: do do do doo doo dooo doo.

1194
01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:34,720
Speaker 1: This we expected the day themeous national dishes that aren't

1195
01:02:35,280 --> 01:02:38,320
Speaker 1: that didn't originate in the country that you associate them with. Yeah,

1196
01:02:38,640 --> 01:02:41,040
Speaker 1: and today we're talking hot dogs.

1197
01:02:42,840 --> 01:02:45,000
Speaker 4: What the German?

1198
01:02:45,040 --> 01:02:47,600
Speaker 1: Aren't they? They are German, but they are the national

1199
01:02:47,680 --> 01:02:50,280
Speaker 1: dish of America. They are American hot dogs, I suppose.

1200
01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:51,800
Speaker 1: So when you buy them at the carnival, they call

1201
01:02:51,840 --> 01:02:54,720
Speaker 1: them American hot dogs. Nearly do Are we talking hot dogs?

1202
01:02:54,760 --> 01:02:57,680
Speaker 1: Isn't in the bun and the bun corn dogs is

1203
01:02:57,720 --> 01:03:01,760
Speaker 1: what You're all them hot dogs. And that's why we

1204
01:03:01,840 --> 01:03:05,960
Speaker 1: call American hot dogs American hot dogs because we call

1205
01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:07,560
Speaker 1: the sausage on the stick in the batter. We call

1206
01:03:07,640 --> 01:03:09,680
Speaker 1: them hot dogs as well. Though they're supposed to be

1207
01:03:09,720 --> 01:03:11,720
Speaker 1: corn dogs. You don't rather have one of our hot

1208
01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:15,360
Speaker 1: dogs and the Carnie sauce over an American hot dog.

1209
01:03:16,840 --> 01:03:18,720
Speaker 2: If someone said to me right now, I'll bring you

1210
01:03:19,000 --> 01:03:21,520
Speaker 2: I'll get you a corn dog dipped in Carnie sauce.

1211
01:03:21,560 --> 01:03:24,320
Speaker 1: I'll put one hundred bucks. I love them because someone

1212
01:03:24,360 --> 01:03:26,920
Speaker 1: said right now, Oh my god, I just want one

1213
01:03:26,960 --> 01:03:33,600
Speaker 1: so bad. Yum. It's like I'm just right now. But

1214
01:03:33,720 --> 01:03:35,720
Speaker 1: what if someone shows up in five minutes with one?

1215
01:03:37,240 --> 01:03:41,440
Speaker 1: Please don't, please don't. I won't expect hundred probably spark

1216
01:03:41,520 --> 01:03:46,120
Speaker 1: up the deep fryer and everything. I would give anything

1217
01:03:46,200 --> 01:03:48,160
Speaker 1: to have one in my hand like that right now.

1218
01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:50,280
Speaker 1: Have you ever had the one where they.

1219
01:03:52,240 --> 01:03:52,960
Speaker 4: What do they call them?

1220
01:03:53,280 --> 01:03:55,240
Speaker 1: And they smash all the other stuff into the batter,

1221
01:03:55,520 --> 01:03:58,200
Speaker 1: But have you ever had that corn dog with their

1222
01:03:58,320 --> 01:04:02,280
Speaker 1: chips like hot chips are chopped up into little bits

1223
01:04:02,320 --> 01:04:03,680
Speaker 1: and they put them in the batter, and so they

1224
01:04:03,720 --> 01:04:05,320
Speaker 1: put the batter on and then they like smash it

1225
01:04:05,480 --> 01:04:08,080
Speaker 1: like sprinkles on an ice tram. And they call them

1226
01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:10,080
Speaker 1: like ugly dogs or something. And they've got a whole

1227
01:04:10,080 --> 01:04:13,520
Speaker 1: lot of different ones rights and it can be like

1228
01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:16,680
Speaker 1: bacon bits and stuff, and then they batter again, and yeah,

1229
01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:25,840
Speaker 1: my heart was like, you konds me, you take it.

1230
01:04:26,680 --> 01:04:29,160
Speaker 1: So hot dogs are German, of course, the sausages and

1231
01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:34,200
Speaker 1: the hot dogs called frankfurtersas traditionally Zavena. Exactly, all right,

1232
01:04:34,320 --> 01:04:36,400
Speaker 1: so this is the the hot dog is not American,

1233
01:04:36,480 --> 01:04:39,160
Speaker 1: it's German. But also adding to this hot dogs, because

1234
01:04:39,160 --> 01:04:41,200
Speaker 1: I've never known what they're called hot dogs stand by

1235
01:04:41,600 --> 01:04:43,800
Speaker 1: stand by dog, don't get stand by, stand by stand by.

1236
01:04:43,840 --> 01:04:47,640
Speaker 1: Guess they've bastardized from three separate German names. Frankfurt A

1237
01:04:47,680 --> 01:04:50,680
Speaker 1: sausages were a bit formal, so when they first got

1238
01:04:50,680 --> 01:04:54,320
Speaker 1: to America they called them hot dushounds like the dogs.

1239
01:04:54,480 --> 01:04:58,120
Speaker 1: The dogs, Yeah, except Americans could neither spell nor pronounce dushound.

1240
01:04:58,680 --> 01:05:00,120
Speaker 1: So then they were just like, let's just go the

1241
01:05:00,240 --> 01:05:03,560
Speaker 1: hot dogs. Oh yeah, right, what about it? I know

1242
01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:05,439
Speaker 1: I've never called a thought why they were called hot dogs,

1243
01:05:05,560 --> 01:05:08,160
Speaker 1: but now, but now we call the dusholls sausage dogs

1244
01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:12,280
Speaker 1: hot You probably get was a wiener in a bun,

1245
01:05:12,400 --> 01:05:14,880
Speaker 1: from the English word wiener, which is a loanword from

1246
01:05:15,040 --> 01:05:26,440
Speaker 1: German meaning from Vienna, referring to smith. You're a wiener

1247
01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:28,800
Speaker 1: more of a sad boy. I'm more of a sad

1248
01:05:28,800 --> 01:05:32,720
Speaker 1: boy boy in myself. You're a wiener people, Wieners, what

1249
01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:38,800
Speaker 1: a strange thing, weird times it's trucker. So if you

1250
01:05:38,840 --> 01:05:40,840
Speaker 1: are hot dog, you aready is a whinner in a bun, which,

1251
01:05:40,920 --> 01:05:46,600
Speaker 1: of course whenna is a loanword from German meaning a

1252
01:05:46,680 --> 01:05:50,600
Speaker 1: little set. So that's a loanword from German meaning from Vienna.

1253
01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:54,280
Speaker 1: We've talked about this before. Weena Nitzel is Vienna's schnitzel

1254
01:05:54,320 --> 01:05:58,760
Speaker 1: from Vienna and German. It's Vienna's snitzel. So we say

1255
01:05:59,160 --> 01:06:04,160
Speaker 1: Weena Snitzel referring to Vienna sausages or Weena sausages, and

1256
01:06:04,240 --> 01:06:06,920
Speaker 1: they will go full circle because dash Honds are now

1257
01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:11,440
Speaker 1: often called sausage dogs, sausage dogs or Wiena dogs. So

1258
01:06:11,560 --> 01:06:13,520
Speaker 1: when they are so, I mean you're getting you're getting

1259
01:06:13,520 --> 01:06:16,160
Speaker 1: a too for here. Yeah, the hot dog is an American,

1260
01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:19,520
Speaker 1: it's German. And when they first went to America, the

1261
01:06:20,000 --> 01:06:26,520
Speaker 1: hot dog in the barn with mustard worth sauce worth onions. Yes,

1262
01:06:26,600 --> 01:06:29,920
Speaker 1: if you're not getting onions, grub grub and gets was

1263
01:06:29,960 --> 01:06:34,520
Speaker 1: originally called a hot dush Hond. Fact of the day,

1264
01:06:34,880 --> 01:06:40,040
Speaker 1: day day day Dayah.

1265
01:06:41,080 --> 01:06:47,240
Speaker 4: Did do do do do do do do doo doo.

1266
01:06:50,240 --> 01:06:56,720
Speaker 1: Play play well ancestry dot com. There's what, there's twenty

1267
01:06:56,800 --> 01:07:00,160
Speaker 1: three and me this heap of DNA ancestry tests you

1268
01:07:00,240 --> 01:07:02,680
Speaker 1: can do all over the world and like we've got

1269
01:07:02,720 --> 01:07:08,400
Speaker 1: the ancestry ones. They're fascinating all the time I did,

1270
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Speaker 1: I didn't.

1271
01:07:09,160 --> 01:07:11,800
Speaker 2: I didn't discover anything fun or spicy other than my

1272
01:07:11,880 --> 01:07:13,240
Speaker 2: one percent Hawaiian that was quite fun.

1273
01:07:13,480 --> 01:07:16,200
Speaker 1: Yep. I'm a few what am I A little bit Swedish,

1274
01:07:16,400 --> 01:07:22,880
Speaker 1: a little bit a little bit North. Always updating always,

1275
01:07:24,240 --> 01:07:26,880
Speaker 1: I think I think a lot of that were your

1276
01:07:26,920 --> 01:07:29,720
Speaker 1: people are from. Its bullshit. I just think it's just changes.

1277
01:07:30,360 --> 01:07:32,240
Speaker 1: But it's always changing because the more people do it,

1278
01:07:32,480 --> 01:07:35,160
Speaker 1: you know, and update their family trees. It's fascinating. But

1279
01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:37,320
Speaker 1: since Brick sat and this is a story out of

1280
01:07:37,360 --> 01:07:40,120
Speaker 1: the UK, since Brick said, because you know that passport's

1281
01:07:40,160 --> 01:07:42,600
Speaker 1: become a bit dud now the UK part because you

1282
01:07:42,800 --> 01:07:44,800
Speaker 1: used to with bricks that be able to travel all

1283
01:07:44,840 --> 01:07:47,920
Speaker 1: over Europe. Used to live you live in Spain, you

1284
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Speaker 1: could retire in the south of France. But now they

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01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:55,280
Speaker 1: now British citizens can't like they have like like us.

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01:07:55,400 --> 01:07:57,880
Speaker 1: Basically I think what your parents are there five months

1287
01:07:57,920 --> 01:07:59,800
Speaker 1: a year? Yeah, they can live there. I think six

1288
01:08:00,680 --> 01:08:02,680
Speaker 1: you can, and then you've got to go. Well, people

1289
01:08:02,760 --> 01:08:04,640
Speaker 1: are turning to DNA tests to see if they can

1290
01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:07,760
Speaker 1: get a bit of passport, particularly the Irish passport, because

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01:08:07,840 --> 01:08:11,120
Speaker 1: Irish passports can still or still part of the EU.

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01:08:11,600 --> 01:08:14,000
Speaker 1: I would happily get an Irish passport in an Irish

1293
01:08:14,720 --> 01:08:21,400
Speaker 1: Ireland right the south part, not the Protestants Catholic to

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01:08:21,479 --> 01:08:24,640
Speaker 1: get this passport come out. Well, and you've also got

1295
01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:27,360
Speaker 1: to have some ancestry as well. I've got seventeen percent

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01:08:27,400 --> 01:08:29,880
Speaker 1: it's right here. But in the past, like you've had

1297
01:08:29,920 --> 01:08:35,320
Speaker 1: to have like birth certificates, like your grandfather's or the relative.

1298
01:08:35,560 --> 01:08:37,959
Speaker 1: Every country is different to how you can get a passport.

1299
01:08:38,240 --> 01:08:41,800
Speaker 1: But people are now using ancestry tests, these DNA tests

1300
01:08:41,840 --> 01:08:45,519
Speaker 1: to back up their applications. Really yeah, to say, look

1301
01:08:45,600 --> 01:08:49,080
Speaker 1: here's what's happened. Well, I mean, what is the what's

1302
01:08:49,160 --> 01:08:52,120
Speaker 1: the quota? Do you know what I mean? I don't

1303
01:08:52,120 --> 01:08:56,080
Speaker 1: know what. Then but then the scottiship removed, do you

1304
01:08:56,120 --> 01:08:58,280
Speaker 1: know what I mean? That doesn't give you an EU passport,

1305
01:08:58,360 --> 01:08:58,560
Speaker 1: does it?

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01:08:58,840 --> 01:08:59,000
Speaker 3: Nah?

1307
01:08:59,160 --> 01:09:03,120
Speaker 1: But you know Scotland's nice, it's nice, just gives you

1308
01:09:03,240 --> 01:09:07,360
Speaker 1: another past, something, another place to live. Yeah, you know

1309
01:09:07,520 --> 01:09:10,000
Speaker 1: it would be because there was no surprises in mine

1310
01:09:10,160 --> 01:09:11,760
Speaker 1: or any of ours really, right, there was no big

1311
01:09:11,840 --> 01:09:15,840
Speaker 1: surprise if you were adopted, Oh you would that would

1312
01:09:15,840 --> 01:09:18,479
Speaker 1: be that would be like this would be such a

1313
01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:22,759
Speaker 1: key opening a door of who you are. Yeah, totally,

1314
01:09:23,040 --> 01:09:25,920
Speaker 1: And that's what I wanted to ask this morning. Have

1315
01:09:26,080 --> 01:09:28,519
Speaker 1: you done a DNA TIS and did you find something out?

1316
01:09:28,600 --> 01:09:33,680
Speaker 1: Like was there a surprise? Well maybe you've got surprise surprise.

1317
01:09:33,920 --> 01:09:37,080
Speaker 1: Maybe you're like your uncle is your cousin's mum?

1318
01:09:37,160 --> 01:09:37,680
Speaker 4: You know what I mean?

1319
01:09:37,800 --> 01:09:40,560
Speaker 1: Like yeah, yeah, yeah, those weird family tree stuff that

1320
01:09:40,640 --> 01:09:45,479
Speaker 1: get that gets that gets exposed by this because the

1321
01:09:45,600 --> 01:09:51,920
Speaker 1: TV show that's on at the mid Yeah, Vaughan's father

1322
01:09:52,320 --> 01:09:55,439
Speaker 1: that one. No, okay, well what are you talk about about?

1323
01:09:55,479 --> 01:09:58,280
Speaker 1: The one that sonyr Gray is doing. The like, we've

1324
01:09:58,280 --> 01:10:00,960
Speaker 1: got this weird mystery in our family and there's always

1325
01:10:00,960 --> 01:10:02,880
Speaker 1: a DNA aspect to it, right, A who lot of

1326
01:10:02,960 --> 01:10:06,439
Speaker 1: investigations and quite often in those sorts of shows, they

1327
01:10:06,520 --> 01:10:09,160
Speaker 1: find out that someone they thought was and it was

1328
01:10:09,160 --> 01:10:11,400
Speaker 1: the same with wasn't Steve Beshemi that was the big

1329
01:10:11,560 --> 01:10:15,040
Speaker 1: celebrity that had it. He growing up, he thought he

1330
01:10:15,160 --> 01:10:17,439
Speaker 1: had an older sister, but it was it was his mum.

1331
01:10:18,040 --> 01:10:21,960
Speaker 1: Oh okay, his parents were actually his grandparents. You could

1332
01:10:22,000 --> 01:10:25,000
Speaker 1: get away with that back in the day because DNA

1333
01:10:25,200 --> 01:10:27,680
Speaker 1: wasn't a thing, or it was, and it wasn't like

1334
01:10:27,800 --> 01:10:30,200
Speaker 1: so accessible to the public. You can pay one hundred

1335
01:10:30,240 --> 01:10:31,920
Speaker 1: dollars and find out who you related to.

1336
01:10:32,080 --> 01:10:32,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, totally.

1337
01:10:33,040 --> 01:10:35,519
Speaker 1: We want to know this morning what you found out

1338
01:10:35,560 --> 01:10:38,439
Speaker 1: from a DNA test, because people are using DNA tests

1339
01:10:38,479 --> 01:10:41,040
Speaker 1: to get extra passports. Yeah, because you know, maybe they

1340
01:10:41,040 --> 01:10:45,000
Speaker 1: can heritage. Yeah, maybe they can live somewhere I don't know, exotic, fun, spicy.

1341
01:10:45,560 --> 01:10:48,560
Speaker 1: Now we are hearing from people with plenty of surprises

1342
01:10:49,120 --> 01:10:54,439
Speaker 1: through DNA test. Taran, you found a half sister and

1343
01:10:54,520 --> 01:10:56,479
Speaker 1: you had half the top half of the bottom heart

1344
01:11:02,320 --> 01:11:04,400
Speaker 1: and you had no idea she even existed.

1345
01:11:05,360 --> 01:11:07,640
Speaker 6: No, but it sort of doesn't surprise me because my

1346
01:11:07,920 --> 01:11:11,360
Speaker 6: father was married before my mother and had three daughters

1347
01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:15,679
Speaker 6: which I've never met but they're in England. And then yes,

1348
01:11:15,720 --> 01:11:17,920
Speaker 6: I had three girls, and then married my mum and

1349
01:11:18,040 --> 01:11:22,679
Speaker 6: had four kids, two boys, two girls, and then my yeah,

1350
01:11:23,400 --> 01:11:28,560
Speaker 6: and two good and then my my daughter decided to

1351
01:11:28,560 --> 01:11:30,760
Speaker 6: get her DNA tested and it flagged up. There was

1352
01:11:30,840 --> 01:11:32,600
Speaker 6: some kind of match that we couldn't figure out what.

1353
01:11:32,840 --> 01:11:35,200
Speaker 6: So I got mind tested and then it showed that

1354
01:11:35,280 --> 01:11:38,760
Speaker 6: I've got this half blood sister, which sort of doesn't

1355
01:11:38,760 --> 01:11:42,480
Speaker 6: surprise me because obviously he's, you know, quite romantic.

1356
01:11:42,360 --> 01:11:46,120
Speaker 1: Is a breeder. Yeah, so is this in New Zealand

1357
01:11:46,320 --> 01:11:47,080
Speaker 1: or in England?

1358
01:11:47,720 --> 01:11:48,479
Speaker 6: She's in England?

1359
01:11:48,600 --> 01:11:51,759
Speaker 1: Yeah? So she one of the three from the previous marriage,

1360
01:11:51,880 --> 01:11:53,439
Speaker 1: or she's not, she's a.

1361
01:11:53,479 --> 01:11:58,200
Speaker 6: New one, she's in between the two marriages. It was

1362
01:11:58,320 --> 01:12:01,439
Speaker 6: understandable for me the fact that she thought she was

1363
01:12:01,520 --> 01:12:03,519
Speaker 6: an only child and I told her that she had

1364
01:12:03,640 --> 01:12:05,120
Speaker 6: five sisters and two brothers.

1365
01:12:05,240 --> 01:12:07,680
Speaker 1: Oh my god, they must have rocked a world. You

1366
01:12:07,840 --> 01:12:10,639
Speaker 1: just like, yeah, did you because I've had those messages

1367
01:12:10,720 --> 01:12:12,880
Speaker 1: on ancestry dot com. I was like, so and so

1368
01:12:13,080 --> 01:12:15,960
Speaker 1: wants to you know, as a distant cousin, and just

1369
01:12:16,720 --> 01:12:18,840
Speaker 1: one of those what did you just get? Did you

1370
01:12:18,960 --> 01:12:20,880
Speaker 1: just message her and say, hey, by the way, you've

1371
01:12:20,920 --> 01:12:22,519
Speaker 1: got all these half sisters and brothers.

1372
01:12:23,680 --> 01:12:23,840
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1373
01:12:23,880 --> 01:12:25,920
Speaker 6: I sort of messaged her and said would you like

1374
01:12:26,040 --> 01:12:28,320
Speaker 6: to you know, chat and sort of know about the

1375
01:12:28,360 --> 01:12:31,160
Speaker 6: family and everything. And then after a few emails, I

1376
01:12:31,280 --> 01:12:33,200
Speaker 6: rang her and yeah, I'm going to go see her

1377
01:12:33,200 --> 01:12:35,559
Speaker 6: and hopefully junior next year.

1378
01:12:35,800 --> 01:12:42,479
Speaker 1: Oh my god, wild god, yeah, Tarin, think of sharing, Rebecca,

1379
01:12:43,040 --> 01:12:46,840
Speaker 1: you found a whole bunch of sisters on a DNA test.

1380
01:12:48,080 --> 01:12:49,879
Speaker 8: Yeah, I found six sisters.

1381
01:12:50,360 --> 01:12:53,479
Speaker 1: Whack no, wait, half sisters or actual sisters.

1382
01:12:54,080 --> 01:12:57,240
Speaker 8: I've got one actual sister and the rest the half sisters.

1383
01:12:57,640 --> 01:13:00,640
Speaker 1: Are you adopted when I was?

1384
01:13:01,479 --> 01:13:01,679
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1385
01:13:01,840 --> 01:13:02,200
Speaker 4: Wow?

1386
01:13:02,680 --> 01:13:04,960
Speaker 1: Wow, so forces and a bunch of And then so

1387
01:13:05,080 --> 01:13:07,480
Speaker 1: did you reach out to them and connect.

1388
01:13:07,200 --> 01:13:09,920
Speaker 8: With them and be like, hi, So I don't know

1389
01:13:10,000 --> 01:13:15,080
Speaker 8: who they are unfortunately because they haven't done the DNA testing,

1390
01:13:15,840 --> 01:13:18,960
Speaker 8: but one yes, since she lives not so I went

1391
01:13:19,000 --> 01:13:20,720
Speaker 8: to school with Oh my.

1392
01:13:20,880 --> 01:13:26,840
Speaker 1: God, So were you all adopted out? Yeah?

1393
01:13:27,400 --> 01:13:28,400
Speaker 8: I think so, right.

1394
01:13:28,439 --> 01:13:30,880
Speaker 1: And so there's just like a couple of blank like

1395
01:13:31,080 --> 01:13:35,120
Speaker 1: squeeze on your ancestory dot and there's like two people

1396
01:13:35,160 --> 01:13:37,160
Speaker 1: out there that don't know they have all these Wow,

1397
01:13:37,240 --> 01:13:38,240
Speaker 1: that's so fascinating.

1398
01:13:38,720 --> 01:13:41,280
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, it's a bit it's a bit different.

1399
01:13:42,080 --> 01:13:42,360
Speaker 4: Wow.

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01:13:42,600 --> 01:13:44,599
Speaker 1: And so do you keep in touch with the ones

1401
01:13:44,680 --> 01:13:45,840
Speaker 1: that you've spoken to?

1402
01:13:46,760 --> 01:13:46,920
Speaker 3: Yes?

1403
01:13:47,000 --> 01:13:49,080
Speaker 1: I do. Yeah, Oh my god, it's so cool.

1404
01:13:49,160 --> 01:13:50,160
Speaker 4: Thank you for sharing family.

1405
01:13:50,560 --> 01:13:53,280
Speaker 1: Family later in life. We want to know this morning

1406
01:13:54,200 --> 01:13:58,360
Speaker 1: what surprises you got from a DNA test? Realized. I

1407
01:13:58,400 --> 01:14:01,800
Speaker 1: didn't realize there's a message system ancestry dot com. Yeah.

1408
01:14:01,800 --> 01:14:03,360
Speaker 1: A couple of people reach out being like, I think

1409
01:14:03,439 --> 01:14:06,080
Speaker 1: that we share a great great grandfather. I know I

1410
01:14:06,200 --> 01:14:07,720
Speaker 1: had those, and I was just like, I don't care.

1411
01:14:08,200 --> 01:14:12,519
Speaker 1: You're not welcome at Christmas. You think about how many

1412
01:14:12,640 --> 01:14:16,680
Speaker 1: relatives you're going back great great grandfather, so you're going

1413
01:14:16,720 --> 01:14:21,280
Speaker 1: back four lots. You think of back in the day grandfather. Yeah,

1414
01:14:21,840 --> 01:14:24,160
Speaker 1: you think about how many cousins you'd have at that level.

1415
01:14:24,320 --> 01:14:26,400
Speaker 1: I know you're not coming to the wedding. It makes

1416
01:14:26,439 --> 01:14:29,200
Speaker 1: it sound like I'm trying to legitimately justify sleeping with

1417
01:14:29,280 --> 01:14:32,600
Speaker 1: my cousin there. I just caught the tone of the yeah, like,

1418
01:14:32,680 --> 01:14:35,799
Speaker 1: it's not even that freakish. Well, so your your mothers

1419
01:14:35,800 --> 01:14:41,880
Speaker 1: were sisters who cares some wild stories, so it's still close. DNA.

1420
01:14:42,280 --> 01:14:45,680
Speaker 1: I found out my husband is my third cousin, and

1421
01:14:45,800 --> 01:14:48,960
Speaker 1: that's going back to a great great grandparent. You're right,

1422
01:14:49,600 --> 01:14:51,479
Speaker 1: but you don't text the radio station and tell people

1423
01:14:51,520 --> 01:14:56,240
Speaker 1: about that. They do have a shocked face. It hasn't

1424
01:14:56,320 --> 01:15:00,880
Speaker 1: ended their marriage anything that's made them closer. I found

1425
01:15:00,880 --> 01:15:03,599
Speaker 1: out through a dnaties I had an eighteen year old daughter.

1426
01:15:04,320 --> 01:15:07,200
Speaker 1: What that would be freaky right, So someone just was like,

1427
01:15:07,280 --> 01:15:09,000
Speaker 1: I'm pregnant and they're like, well, I'm going to tell them,

1428
01:15:09,040 --> 01:15:11,360
Speaker 1: not gonna tell him? Well more, maybe I don't know

1429
01:15:11,400 --> 01:15:13,240
Speaker 1: who he is because if it way back in the

1430
01:15:13,320 --> 01:15:16,479
Speaker 1: day and out of town or somewhere different and didn't

1431
01:15:16,479 --> 01:15:20,080
Speaker 1: get a name. Yeah, so I wonder, wait, do you message?

1432
01:15:21,080 --> 01:15:24,960
Speaker 1: Did you message them and be like hey, I'm oh yeah,

1433
01:15:25,040 --> 01:15:27,599
Speaker 1: But what if he doesn't especially message him like now

1434
01:15:27,720 --> 01:15:29,880
Speaker 1: because it's Father's Day in like a couple of weeks,

1435
01:15:30,680 --> 01:15:36,840
Speaker 1: get a prison. So I thought I was one called

1436
01:15:36,840 --> 01:15:40,599
Speaker 1: a Mexican for my whole life. Okay, I thirty seven.

1437
01:15:40,640 --> 01:15:43,960
Speaker 1: I did an ancestry test. What I'm a boring old

1438
01:15:44,040 --> 01:15:46,720
Speaker 1: white European. Turns out my biological father is just a

1439
01:15:46,760 --> 01:15:53,120
Speaker 1: big fat liar tanned. Well what I found dad? My

1440
01:15:53,240 --> 01:15:57,200
Speaker 1: dad doing a DNA tis so I found in my

1441
01:15:57,360 --> 01:15:59,679
Speaker 1: mind she walked into the kitchen and Dad's like sitting

1442
01:15:59,720 --> 01:16:03,040
Speaker 1: in it. I found my father using a DNA test.

1443
01:16:03,200 --> 01:16:05,519
Speaker 1: Oh wow, I don't even know I was looking for him.

1444
01:16:06,080 --> 01:16:08,400
Speaker 1: My mum had been wrong. My entire life was incredible.

1445
01:16:08,400 --> 01:16:10,479
Speaker 1: I have two brothers and two sisters and thirty three nieces.

1446
01:16:10,520 --> 01:16:10,920
Speaker 4: And nephews.

1447
01:16:10,960 --> 01:16:14,960
Speaker 1: Now, hold on, whoa wow, Wait, you've got four siblings

1448
01:16:15,040 --> 01:16:17,439
Speaker 1: and thirty three children between them. Even that, what are

1449
01:16:17,479 --> 01:16:22,400
Speaker 1: we looking at there? Six seven? No, I'd like cancel

1450
01:16:22,479 --> 01:16:25,400
Speaker 1: my ship because that's a lot of Christmas prison. I

1451
01:16:25,439 --> 01:16:26,640
Speaker 1: don't want to say, all of a sudden, I have

1452
01:16:26,680 --> 01:16:28,479
Speaker 1: to buy that many prisons. Yeah, you do one of

1453
01:16:28,520 --> 01:16:31,080
Speaker 1: those men two dollars shop pick and Max. Yeah, even

1454
01:16:31,160 --> 01:16:34,120
Speaker 1: grab a wrapped up thing. My real father of thirty

1455
01:16:34,160 --> 01:16:35,760
Speaker 1: two years, all of a sudden we did as well,

1456
01:16:35,800 --> 01:16:37,559
Speaker 1: and forced me to take a DNA test to find

1457
01:16:37,600 --> 01:16:40,360
Speaker 1: out is actually his real daughter? Who would have thought

1458
01:16:40,400 --> 01:16:42,439
Speaker 1: summed up with a one hundred dollars Farmers voucher as

1459
01:16:42,439 --> 01:16:44,320
Speaker 1: a sorry and a thank you to myself and mom

1460
01:16:45,160 --> 01:16:48,040
Speaker 1: because she is his daughter. No, I took that as

1461
01:16:48,200 --> 01:16:51,920
Speaker 1: not one hundred dollars voucher. What was that the makeup

1462
01:16:52,040 --> 01:16:52,439
Speaker 1: make good?

1463
01:16:52,680 --> 01:16:52,720
Speaker 3: No?

1464
01:16:52,840 --> 01:16:55,160
Speaker 1: I like, sorry, I accuse you of not being mine. Right,

1465
01:16:55,280 --> 01:16:58,080
Speaker 1: here's a one hundred Farmers You wait till jockeys are

1466
01:16:58,080 --> 01:17:00,800
Speaker 1: on special piston. Yeah, wait for a ale for sure.

1467
01:17:01,280 --> 01:17:03,360
Speaker 1: There's so many of these, And think like, how long

1468
01:17:03,400 --> 01:17:06,320
Speaker 1: has DNA testing been open to the general public for funding?

1469
01:17:06,720 --> 01:17:10,360
Speaker 1: Soueven crimes like ten years. We started here and they

1470
01:17:10,400 --> 01:17:12,560
Speaker 1: gave us a free one. That's my only reason we

1471
01:17:12,680 --> 01:17:12,880
Speaker 1: did it.

1472
01:17:13,240 --> 01:17:15,400
Speaker 2: A lot of people this is an interesting message a

1473
01:17:15,439 --> 01:17:17,680
Speaker 2: lot of not me directly, but I've been proving to

1474
01:17:17,800 --> 01:17:19,760
Speaker 2: many young people in their late teens who have just

1475
01:17:19,840 --> 01:17:22,080
Speaker 2: found out that they're Mardy because their grandmothers were sent

1476
01:17:22,160 --> 01:17:24,320
Speaker 2: away when they had illegitimate pregnancies.

1477
01:17:23,840 --> 01:17:24,479
Speaker 1: With Mardy men.

1478
01:17:25,000 --> 01:17:27,439
Speaker 2: Right, and then that's been a kept, a big secret.

1479
01:17:27,520 --> 01:17:35,679
Speaker 2: Come back tanned baby Tan's well, Marty yeah, Italian, Italian. Yeah,

1480
01:17:36,600 --> 01:17:39,840
Speaker 2: I don't get way, that's I mean, that was a

1481
01:17:39,880 --> 01:17:42,960
Speaker 2: different time time then, this poor woman being sent away.

1482
01:17:43,000 --> 01:17:45,760
Speaker 2: My dad's massively into DNA testing and family trees. He

1483
01:17:45,840 --> 01:17:49,000
Speaker 2: has found a sister that his father had. He only

1484
01:17:49,040 --> 01:17:51,519
Speaker 2: found her in his fifties and his father had passed on,

1485
01:17:51,680 --> 01:17:53,679
Speaker 2: so they didn't even know if his father knew.

1486
01:17:53,520 --> 01:17:54,679
Speaker 4: He had an illegitimate daughter.

1487
01:17:54,920 --> 01:17:57,639
Speaker 1: Oh okay. He also found out that my mum's grandparents

1488
01:17:57,760 --> 01:17:59,280
Speaker 1: lied about where they were from so they could move

1489
01:17:59,360 --> 01:18:04,160
Speaker 1: to New Zealand. So the false pretense of our nationality

1490
01:18:05,040 --> 01:18:07,120
Speaker 1: I matched with the dute on Tinder. That's not the

1491
01:18:07,200 --> 01:18:10,680
Speaker 1: start of this const where's this going? I matched the

1492
01:18:10,760 --> 01:18:12,400
Speaker 1: dude on tender and things were going so well, so

1493
01:18:12,479 --> 01:18:14,680
Speaker 1: I added them on Snapchat and then the snapchat had

1494
01:18:14,720 --> 01:18:17,280
Speaker 1: my last name in it, so it wasn't even a

1495
01:18:17,400 --> 01:18:20,120
Speaker 1: DNA test. It was a Snapchat test. Okay, the last

1496
01:18:20,200 --> 01:18:23,880
Speaker 1: name was like, that's interesting ass around cousin. Oh okay

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Speaker 1: that it was a bit of a bit of a

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Speaker 1: ty hoe. Yeah, wow, I love this.

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Speaker 2: My son had to get genetic testing done a NIKU

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Speaker 2: and when the results came back, it had some irregularities

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Speaker 2: and the doctor had to ask if my husband and

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Speaker 2: I could be related. We had to get tested, but

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Speaker 2: thankfully we're not. But god, I had a good old

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Speaker 2: giggle about cousin people.

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Speaker 1: Another one in the bag, and it's a a Sanci

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Speaker 1: bag as well. If you enjoyed that, give us a

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Speaker 1: writing and review and be sure to tell your mates

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Speaker 1: you don't sound sincere there, but I'm just reading what's

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Speaker 1: written here. Sid AM's Fletch born in Highley,