1 00:00:07,133 --> 00:00:10,453 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Saturday Morning with Jack Team podcast 2 00:00:10,573 --> 00:00:11,693 Speaker 1: from News Talks at BE. 3 00:00:12,853 --> 00:00:16,893 Speaker 2: Sustainability expert Kate Hall has had a pretty crazy couple 4 00:00:16,933 --> 00:00:19,533 Speaker 2: of months. She has been expecting a baby. She's had 5 00:00:19,533 --> 00:00:23,973 Speaker 2: a baby daughter Orchard, and you might remember that before 6 00:00:24,053 --> 00:00:27,013 Speaker 2: going into labor, Kate had a whole set of plans 7 00:00:27,053 --> 00:00:31,293 Speaker 2: about how she would try and maintain her sustainability ethos 8 00:00:31,333 --> 00:00:34,213 Speaker 2: heading into motherhood. Top of the list for me, the 9 00:00:34,213 --> 00:00:37,093 Speaker 2: one that stuck out to most of us was her 10 00:00:37,133 --> 00:00:40,613 Speaker 2: plan to try and introduce the elimination method, which basically 11 00:00:40,653 --> 00:00:45,453 Speaker 2: means teaching your baby to teaching your baby to be 12 00:00:45,493 --> 00:00:48,613 Speaker 2: toilet trained as soon as possible, essentially going round a 13 00:00:48,653 --> 00:00:51,893 Speaker 2: lot of the time without using nappies. Anyway, this is 14 00:00:51,933 --> 00:00:54,173 Speaker 2: the first time that we've chatted to Kate Hall in 15 00:00:54,213 --> 00:00:56,253 Speaker 2: a week while she's with us this morning. Great to 16 00:00:56,253 --> 00:00:58,933 Speaker 2: have you back on the show. Good morning, good morning. 17 00:00:59,013 --> 00:00:59,333 Speaker 3: Hello. 18 00:00:59,773 --> 00:01:03,213 Speaker 2: This is the first time we have chatted since you 19 00:01:03,333 --> 00:01:06,573 Speaker 2: have expanded your family. Congratulations, how you doing. 20 00:01:07,253 --> 00:01:11,253 Speaker 3: Thank you. I am actually doing really well. You know, parents, 21 00:01:12,173 --> 00:01:12,693 Speaker 3: you don't have. 22 00:01:12,693 --> 00:01:15,133 Speaker 2: To say, you don't have to yeah. 23 00:01:15,053 --> 00:01:19,213 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, but I genuinely mean it. I genuinely mean it. 24 00:01:19,493 --> 00:01:20,133 Speaker 3: At one moment. 25 00:01:20,253 --> 00:01:22,893 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, okay, in this moment. Yes, as you say, 26 00:01:22,893 --> 00:01:25,053 Speaker 2: there are ups and downs that I know many people 27 00:01:25,093 --> 00:01:28,573 Speaker 2: will relate to, So give us that. What has what 28 00:01:28,653 --> 00:01:30,493 Speaker 2: has surprised you about motherhood so far? 29 00:01:31,813 --> 00:01:36,413 Speaker 3: In many ways? I mean, every day has a surprise, 30 00:01:36,493 --> 00:01:39,493 Speaker 3: but in many ways it is easier than I expected. 31 00:01:39,693 --> 00:01:43,093 Speaker 2: Oh my god, no, no, no, I. 32 00:01:43,053 --> 00:01:45,493 Speaker 3: Have I have a caveat. I have a little asterisk 33 00:01:45,493 --> 00:01:49,093 Speaker 3: and little side note to that because I have my 34 00:01:49,173 --> 00:01:52,253 Speaker 3: parents close by, and because I have a supportive partner. 35 00:01:52,973 --> 00:01:55,453 Speaker 3: I honestly every day I just sit in awe of 36 00:01:55,533 --> 00:01:58,813 Speaker 3: how do people do this on their own? So I 37 00:01:59,373 --> 00:02:02,613 Speaker 3: literally just don't know. They are superheroes. So that has 38 00:02:02,653 --> 00:02:05,573 Speaker 3: surprised me with how much I need other people and 39 00:02:05,613 --> 00:02:08,533 Speaker 3: how hard to ask for help. But I'm getting better at. 40 00:02:08,413 --> 00:02:10,093 Speaker 2: That, So that's so good. 41 00:02:10,653 --> 00:02:13,413 Speaker 3: It's been a big surprise, but a lovely one to 42 00:02:13,413 --> 00:02:15,773 Speaker 3: be like, Oh, I have a community around me I 43 00:02:15,773 --> 00:02:16,333 Speaker 3: can call on. 44 00:02:16,533 --> 00:02:20,613 Speaker 2: So yeah, that makes a massive difference. So before you 45 00:02:21,653 --> 00:02:25,653 Speaker 2: ducked off to become a mum, we talked about your 46 00:02:25,733 --> 00:02:28,293 Speaker 2: kind of preparation and the ways in which you were 47 00:02:28,333 --> 00:02:35,053 Speaker 2: trying to bring your sustainability philosophy to motherhood. And I 48 00:02:35,093 --> 00:02:39,653 Speaker 2: remember one big plan ahead of every every other and 49 00:02:39,693 --> 00:02:43,893 Speaker 2: that was your plan to be very considerate about when 50 00:02:43,933 --> 00:02:47,053 Speaker 2: you use nappies and try and pack up on your 51 00:02:47,173 --> 00:02:50,813 Speaker 2: child's signals, yes, for when they wanted to go to 52 00:02:50,853 --> 00:02:53,333 Speaker 2: the toilet. And I can remember thinking, you know, what, 53 00:02:53,493 --> 00:02:57,733 Speaker 2: power to UK because I am not doing that. But 54 00:02:57,853 --> 00:02:58,733 Speaker 2: how's that gone so far? 55 00:02:59,613 --> 00:03:04,453 Speaker 3: Yeah, so, just to preface, my child always bears a nappy, right, Okay, 56 00:03:04,533 --> 00:03:07,493 Speaker 3: so she always had the back up, like I'm not 57 00:03:07,533 --> 00:03:10,413 Speaker 3: going to come around to someone's house and just lie 58 00:03:11,293 --> 00:03:14,733 Speaker 3: and be like if they go, they go, you know. Okay, 59 00:03:15,933 --> 00:03:19,333 Speaker 3: we have neppees currently has one reusual neppies from day one, 60 00:03:19,373 --> 00:03:21,813 Speaker 3: but again that's because I have support from my partner 61 00:03:21,893 --> 00:03:22,253 Speaker 3: and stuff. 62 00:03:22,373 --> 00:03:25,413 Speaker 2: So reusable are you've got the old cloth ones that 63 00:03:25,453 --> 00:03:27,453 Speaker 2: you kind of stew in a bucket of nappy sand 64 00:03:27,573 --> 00:03:28,013 Speaker 2: or something. 65 00:03:28,413 --> 00:03:33,133 Speaker 3: Yeah, so not the whole clean cloth nephis is a 66 00:03:33,173 --> 00:03:36,773 Speaker 3: really cool space for knowing how to wash them. But yeah, 67 00:03:36,813 --> 00:03:39,213 Speaker 3: we just use a cloth and then there's a cool 68 00:03:39,213 --> 00:03:42,053 Speaker 3: little snappy thing. We're kind of like old school safety pins, 69 00:03:42,053 --> 00:03:44,773 Speaker 3: so they used to eat, so we just use it's 70 00:03:44,773 --> 00:03:46,773 Speaker 3: pretty much just a square piece of fabric when she 71 00:03:46,933 --> 00:03:50,253 Speaker 3: was tiny tiny, But now we use a variety of 72 00:03:50,733 --> 00:03:53,773 Speaker 3: reusable nephies, which I'm going to be reviewing on my 73 00:03:53,973 --> 00:03:57,973 Speaker 3: website and stuff in the future. But the elimination communication thing, 74 00:03:58,173 --> 00:04:01,333 Speaker 3: I remember we had a chat and I genuinely like 75 00:04:01,773 --> 00:04:04,373 Speaker 3: I was quite nervous to say it out loud on air, 76 00:04:04,493 --> 00:04:07,573 Speaker 3: because that's really daunting to, you know, to commit to 77 00:04:07,613 --> 00:04:10,813 Speaker 3: something before you know how it's going to go. However, 78 00:04:11,133 --> 00:04:13,053 Speaker 3: even though I was prepared for it to fail, and 79 00:04:13,093 --> 00:04:15,773 Speaker 3: I just kind of rolling my eyes at myself, it 80 00:04:16,013 --> 00:04:21,533 Speaker 3: has gone brilliantly and my child has she's you know, 81 00:04:21,613 --> 00:04:24,213 Speaker 3: even at six weeks old, she did a four hour 82 00:04:24,333 --> 00:04:27,453 Speaker 3: sleep stretch and had a dry napion and as I 83 00:04:27,493 --> 00:04:30,053 Speaker 3: picked her up, and I had kind of watched her 84 00:04:30,093 --> 00:04:32,693 Speaker 3: cues and knew roughly, you know, when humans wake up 85 00:04:32,733 --> 00:04:35,213 Speaker 3: from asleep, we often go to the toilet first, So 86 00:04:35,253 --> 00:04:38,293 Speaker 3: I offered the potty to her and she went poos 87 00:04:38,293 --> 00:04:39,493 Speaker 3: and wheeze and went back to sleep. 88 00:04:40,333 --> 00:04:43,493 Speaker 2: So that's great. Is there any possibility that was just 89 00:04:43,493 --> 00:04:43,893 Speaker 2: a fluke? 90 00:04:44,493 --> 00:04:47,213 Speaker 3: No, because it's happened at least six times. 91 00:04:47,333 --> 00:04:50,253 Speaker 2: Wow, Okay, yeah, that's really good. And I mean you 92 00:04:50,293 --> 00:04:53,093 Speaker 2: were pretty clear when you were talking about elimination communication 93 00:04:53,133 --> 00:04:54,813 Speaker 2: that you didn't think it was going to work instantly. 94 00:04:54,853 --> 00:04:57,413 Speaker 2: It's not like they come out the womb immediately like 95 00:04:57,453 --> 00:04:59,213 Speaker 2: oh yeah, hey mam, I'm just gonna get other loo 96 00:04:59,293 --> 00:05:01,773 Speaker 2: like that. It's kind of something you build towards. I 97 00:05:01,813 --> 00:05:04,013 Speaker 2: remember too, like we got a few texts of people 98 00:05:04,053 --> 00:05:07,133 Speaker 2: being like, okay, streaming, but we actually t people being 99 00:05:07,173 --> 00:05:10,053 Speaker 2: like this is how until you know, thirty years ago, 100 00:05:10,173 --> 00:05:13,413 Speaker 2: forty years ago, this is how children were, right, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 101 00:05:13,093 --> 00:05:16,133 Speaker 3: Well you think what did they do before nappies? You know, 102 00:05:16,213 --> 00:05:18,413 Speaker 3: like I found an old school as your friend sent 103 00:05:18,493 --> 00:05:20,693 Speaker 3: a picture of old school plunket book from like the 104 00:05:20,813 --> 00:05:24,733 Speaker 3: nineteen sixties, and in it it was telling mothers because 105 00:05:24,773 --> 00:05:27,173 Speaker 3: mothers are the people who the main key givers, then 106 00:05:28,373 --> 00:05:33,333 Speaker 3: saying mothers hold your baby out over a piece of newspaper. Wow, 107 00:05:33,893 --> 00:05:36,653 Speaker 3: so and other cultures like this isn't you you know, 108 00:05:36,693 --> 00:05:39,573 Speaker 3: we call it elimination communication, but that's kind of what 109 00:05:39,653 --> 00:05:42,053 Speaker 3: we're like, you know, we're trying to call it in 110 00:05:42,093 --> 00:05:45,053 Speaker 3: the Western world, and really it's just you know, if 111 00:05:45,173 --> 00:05:48,613 Speaker 3: my child wants feeding, like like you with your child too, Jack, 112 00:05:48,693 --> 00:05:53,533 Speaker 3: it's you know, when they're hungry right, you've had months 113 00:05:53,533 --> 00:05:57,133 Speaker 3: of knowing their cues. But also especially when you know 114 00:05:57,213 --> 00:06:00,213 Speaker 3: a mother has had months of the baby being inside them. 115 00:06:00,493 --> 00:06:03,373 Speaker 3: It was so Orchard was born. Orchard is the name 116 00:06:03,413 --> 00:06:05,693 Speaker 3: of my daughter. I know it's weird. Well we'll go 117 00:06:05,773 --> 00:06:09,613 Speaker 3: with that's she was born on a Thursday night. And 118 00:06:09,653 --> 00:06:13,933 Speaker 3: then on Saturday morning, I woke up and you know, 119 00:06:14,093 --> 00:06:17,573 Speaker 3: I'm just delirious. I've just given birth. I'm in hospital, 120 00:06:18,173 --> 00:06:20,933 Speaker 3: and I remembered, I remembered our conversation. I remembered the 121 00:06:20,933 --> 00:06:23,733 Speaker 3: books I'd read about elimination communication, and I thought, well, 122 00:06:23,773 --> 00:06:25,493 Speaker 3: I need to go to the toilet right now. So 123 00:06:25,533 --> 00:06:27,893 Speaker 3: I picked her up and I held her over the 124 00:06:27,933 --> 00:06:29,893 Speaker 3: potty and I caught her first pernui. 125 00:06:35,053 --> 00:06:35,373 Speaker 1: Weird. 126 00:06:35,693 --> 00:06:39,093 Speaker 2: No, it's not, it's not, it's not. It's amazing, like, honestly, no, 127 00:06:39,213 --> 00:06:43,173 Speaker 2: you do you that's my attitude, thank you? Yeah, yeah, yeah, 128 00:06:43,413 --> 00:06:45,693 Speaker 2: I'm really supportive of it, you know, And I think 129 00:06:45,693 --> 00:06:48,013 Speaker 2: it's amazing you've done this. And I think, you know, 130 00:06:48,213 --> 00:06:52,693 Speaker 2: in just a matter of time that's going to pass. 131 00:06:52,853 --> 00:06:55,173 Speaker 2: Before you know it, you are going to be feeling 132 00:06:55,453 --> 00:06:58,453 Speaker 2: so good because your heart is going to be away 133 00:06:58,533 --> 00:06:59,253 Speaker 2: before mine. 134 00:06:59,173 --> 00:07:02,413 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, well, people, people keep saying, Oh my gosh, 135 00:07:02,613 --> 00:07:04,653 Speaker 3: you know, I'd love to do that, but just and 136 00:07:04,813 --> 00:07:07,533 Speaker 3: I understand if you had other kids around, it would 137 00:07:07,653 --> 00:07:10,213 Speaker 3: be really hard, especially if you were going to like 138 00:07:10,533 --> 00:07:13,493 Speaker 3: try it first off. But for me, I feel like 139 00:07:13,573 --> 00:07:15,933 Speaker 3: I'm the lazy person because when you have a newborn, 140 00:07:15,933 --> 00:07:19,173 Speaker 3: you're holding them lots anyway. And so instead of holding 141 00:07:19,213 --> 00:07:21,973 Speaker 3: her and is watching her going her nappy, I hold 142 00:07:21,973 --> 00:07:24,493 Speaker 3: her over a vessel or a toilet so I don't 143 00:07:24,533 --> 00:07:27,453 Speaker 3: have to being twean something, so her skin's much better. 144 00:07:28,013 --> 00:07:31,173 Speaker 3: I wash way less nappies, like about half the amount. 145 00:07:32,173 --> 00:07:35,613 Speaker 3: It costs nothing, you know, like just hold them over 146 00:07:35,613 --> 00:07:38,133 Speaker 3: a toilet. I was at my sister's house after going 147 00:07:38,173 --> 00:07:40,693 Speaker 3: to the zoo on Thursday, and I was like, oh, 148 00:07:40,813 --> 00:07:42,613 Speaker 3: she want go weez. So I held her over my 149 00:07:42,653 --> 00:07:45,293 Speaker 3: sister's toilet and she peed and my sister stood there going, 150 00:07:45,893 --> 00:07:47,573 Speaker 3: who there? Care you? 151 00:07:47,653 --> 00:07:50,093 Speaker 2: That is amazing? I mean, yeah, yeah, it is. It 152 00:07:50,253 --> 00:07:52,933 Speaker 2: really is incredible. Okay, well done? Well what else is 153 00:07:53,613 --> 00:07:57,613 Speaker 2: you know? Heading heading into this, you were, you know, 154 00:07:57,693 --> 00:08:00,293 Speaker 2: thinking about the stuff you'd actually need. You were thinking 155 00:08:00,333 --> 00:08:03,093 Speaker 2: about polite ways in which to decline hand me down 156 00:08:03,133 --> 00:08:08,373 Speaker 2: to that kind of thing. Has your philosophy around sustainable parenting, 157 00:08:08,493 --> 00:08:11,533 Speaker 2: especially in these early weeks and months. Has that been 158 00:08:11,613 --> 00:08:13,813 Speaker 2: altered at all now that it's all real. 159 00:08:14,693 --> 00:08:17,653 Speaker 3: I think like my values have stayed the same. So 160 00:08:17,693 --> 00:08:20,773 Speaker 3: I've tried really hard. Like I think a lot of 161 00:08:20,813 --> 00:08:24,253 Speaker 3: people rightly so looked at me and thought, well, you know, 162 00:08:24,573 --> 00:08:26,893 Speaker 3: just few waits until you have a baby. But I 163 00:08:26,933 --> 00:08:29,533 Speaker 3: have tried hard over the last eight years to instill 164 00:08:29,533 --> 00:08:33,933 Speaker 3: my own values. So my instinct is to stick to those. 165 00:08:34,373 --> 00:08:37,293 Speaker 3: And I find when I go, oh, you know, I'll 166 00:08:37,413 --> 00:08:40,613 Speaker 3: just I'll just do that, I'll just you know, kind 167 00:08:40,653 --> 00:08:45,693 Speaker 3: of succome to like and ignore my instincts. That's been 168 00:08:45,773 --> 00:08:48,973 Speaker 3: the rails fall off. Yeah, So I find like, even 169 00:08:49,293 --> 00:08:53,533 Speaker 3: even with her clothes at the start, I had all 170 00:08:53,613 --> 00:08:56,293 Speaker 3: secondhand clothes. I've not bought her clothes, only a few 171 00:08:56,293 --> 00:08:59,533 Speaker 3: ones from the trashop, and I had them all out 172 00:08:59,573 --> 00:09:02,973 Speaker 3: in her caddie like you know, all rolled them all, 173 00:09:03,293 --> 00:09:06,413 Speaker 3: roll them all up, which doesn't last very long. But 174 00:09:06,533 --> 00:09:08,893 Speaker 3: I've actually realized I just want to grab like one 175 00:09:08,893 --> 00:09:11,133 Speaker 3: pair of pants, and I don't want to look at 176 00:09:11,173 --> 00:09:12,853 Speaker 3: all the different colors, and I don't want to have 177 00:09:12,933 --> 00:09:17,173 Speaker 3: to decide it's the decision fatigue. Yeah, so there's lots 178 00:09:17,173 --> 00:09:20,213 Speaker 3: of thoughts going through my mind. SOEP prefervation is a thing. 179 00:09:20,573 --> 00:09:23,213 Speaker 3: But I just now have a casual wardrobe for her 180 00:09:23,613 --> 00:09:26,773 Speaker 3: and it works really well because I'm doing the washing 181 00:09:26,773 --> 00:09:30,253 Speaker 3: a lot anyway, because I have riya'sball nappies and I'm 182 00:09:30,333 --> 00:09:33,333 Speaker 3: so grateful, you know, all of the second hand clothes 183 00:09:33,373 --> 00:09:35,693 Speaker 3: that she has, but I just don't need as much. 184 00:09:36,173 --> 00:09:39,533 Speaker 3: So going into it, I thought I've got these second hand, 185 00:09:40,013 --> 00:09:43,173 Speaker 3: but actually I just don't. I still don't need them, 186 00:09:43,213 --> 00:09:45,213 Speaker 3: so I'm going to distribute all of those things to 187 00:09:45,453 --> 00:09:46,093 Speaker 3: other parents. 188 00:09:46,213 --> 00:09:49,933 Speaker 2: Yeah right, Oh, good for you. That's great. Yeah, it'll 189 00:09:49,973 --> 00:09:51,893 Speaker 2: be really interesting over the next couple of months to 190 00:09:51,973 --> 00:09:53,933 Speaker 2: kind of plot this. Obviously a lot changes in a 191 00:09:53,973 --> 00:09:56,413 Speaker 2: short period of time, So yeah, I be intriguing to 192 00:09:56,413 --> 00:09:58,733 Speaker 2: see how the kind of things you thought were easy 193 00:09:58,773 --> 00:10:00,453 Speaker 2: would be harder and as well. 194 00:10:00,573 --> 00:10:05,333 Speaker 3: Yes, exactly. And I do have eleven disposal nappies literally 195 00:10:05,413 --> 00:10:07,413 Speaker 3: sitting right there. 196 00:10:06,813 --> 00:10:10,613 Speaker 2: You monster, I know, Oh my gosh. 197 00:10:10,733 --> 00:10:13,733 Speaker 3: Yeah, I actually like I want to use like I 198 00:10:13,773 --> 00:10:17,533 Speaker 3: said to my family and friends, if you want to 199 00:10:17,653 --> 00:10:21,853 Speaker 3: use disposals, you know, like just by the by the disposables, 200 00:10:21,893 --> 00:10:23,933 Speaker 3: like if you're going to care for my child, you know. 201 00:10:24,173 --> 00:10:28,413 Speaker 3: So it's about keeping a realistic perspective and actually just 202 00:10:28,493 --> 00:10:31,253 Speaker 3: being like, Okay, what do I need right now? I 203 00:10:31,293 --> 00:10:34,653 Speaker 3: need to sleep, I need the basics, and just yeah, 204 00:10:34,813 --> 00:10:38,333 Speaker 3: kind of not holding on to your values and aligning 205 00:10:38,373 --> 00:10:42,613 Speaker 3: them too hard because that makes you for disaster. 206 00:10:42,773 --> 00:10:45,693 Speaker 2: Yeah. Oh well, look, congratulations Kate. It's so good to chat. 207 00:10:45,813 --> 00:10:47,693 Speaker 2: We can't wait to see how this goes over the 208 00:10:47,733 --> 00:10:50,333 Speaker 2: next week while. But congratulations on the arrival of Ward. 209 00:10:51,093 --> 00:10:51,933 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. 210 00:10:52,293 --> 00:10:56,373 Speaker 2: That is Kate hall our sustainability. But honestly, good on her. 211 00:10:57,093 --> 00:10:59,893 Speaker 2: Good on Kate. You know, there were there were a 212 00:10:59,933 --> 00:11:03,853 Speaker 2: few people who said, nah, Kate, you're absolutely dreaming, and 213 00:11:04,133 --> 00:11:05,813 Speaker 2: I don't. I just think it sounds like she's doing 214 00:11:05,813 --> 00:11:08,413 Speaker 2: such an amazing job. And you know, all credit to her. 215 00:11:09,293 --> 00:11:13,573 Speaker 2: Jack says Camella. My wife's from Uzbekistan and did the 216 00:11:13,573 --> 00:11:15,853 Speaker 2: same thing. The kids were tailet trained by two years old. 217 00:11:16,253 --> 00:11:19,453 Speaker 2: Jack were born in the sixties. My mother used cloth nappies. 218 00:11:19,813 --> 00:11:22,013 Speaker 2: My mother was born in the forties and she had 219 00:11:22,053 --> 00:11:24,933 Speaker 2: cloth nappies used on her. I used cloth nappies on 220 00:11:24,973 --> 00:11:27,333 Speaker 2: my two in the nineties. This is nothing new. Yeah, 221 00:11:27,333 --> 00:11:29,213 Speaker 2: I mean, we had cloth nappies when I was a 222 00:11:29,253 --> 00:11:31,253 Speaker 2: kid as well. Cloth nappies are definitely not new. I 223 00:11:31,733 --> 00:11:34,533 Speaker 2: mean the elimination method given the like if you had 224 00:11:34,533 --> 00:11:38,333 Speaker 2: to think about it as a percentage of incomes, right, 225 00:11:38,853 --> 00:11:42,493 Speaker 2: so there's a percentage of incomes. I think disposable nappies 226 00:11:42,533 --> 00:11:46,173 Speaker 2: are much more, not much more, but are more affordable 227 00:11:46,173 --> 00:11:47,973 Speaker 2: today than they were in the past. Like I remember 228 00:11:48,053 --> 00:11:51,333 Speaker 2: Mum saying to us that disposable nappies existed when I 229 00:11:51,373 --> 00:11:53,853 Speaker 2: was a baby, but my parents can't afford them, especially 230 00:11:53,853 --> 00:11:56,933 Speaker 2: with four kids, Like they're really expensive, and so they 231 00:11:56,973 --> 00:12:01,813 Speaker 2: probably have become less expensive relative to the average wage. 232 00:12:02,093 --> 00:12:06,053 Speaker 2: That being said, the number of households that have two 233 00:12:06,093 --> 00:12:09,093 Speaker 2: peer it's working and have to have two parents working 234 00:12:09,133 --> 00:12:11,893 Speaker 2: today just to tick over the bills and stuff compared 235 00:12:11,933 --> 00:12:15,173 Speaker 2: to you know, decades past is also probably a lot higher. 236 00:12:15,173 --> 00:12:18,733 Speaker 2: But yeah, I think Kate is doing an incredible job, 237 00:12:18,773 --> 00:12:20,293 Speaker 2: So thank you for that. 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