WEBVTT - What a Palaver

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<v Speaker 1>This is an iHeart Radio New Zealand podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Out the Gates with Maddy McLean, Chris Henry and Brad Christensen.

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<v Speaker 1>Cheer he is no babies? Is hi?

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<v Speaker 2>Hi?

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<v Speaker 3>Just like start the podcasting what we're doing. Start we're

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<v Speaker 3>doing a podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm almost with the cheers. And famously I've done it

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<v Speaker 1>before because I've been on the phone and I was

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<v Speaker 1>just getting ridly like, I've got the dock up, I've

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<v Speaker 1>got some you know, some contient.

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<v Speaker 3>You've got some supporting documents since when it isn't isn't

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<v Speaker 3>you man and your man? You go, you go, I

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<v Speaker 3>doubt you go to Washington, d C. Once and you

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<v Speaker 3>come back a changed man.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, they say be prepared. They do scouts. Honor was

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<v Speaker 1>never a scout. I think we've talked about this, but

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<v Speaker 1>always be prepared.

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<v Speaker 2>I was a scout.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you a scout?

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<v Speaker 3>Crass?

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<v Speaker 1>I was a scout Sea scout.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you're you're from the beach, ben.

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<v Speaker 3>So bad. I haven't actually get called out in a year.

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<v Speaker 3>It was like I thought I thought it was coming,

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<v Speaker 3>but no.

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<v Speaker 2>I was a boy scout and then weirdly.

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<v Speaker 1>We that's that's a thing that's before a girl guy

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<v Speaker 1>always I think so.

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<v Speaker 3>One of those words when you say it out loud,

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<v Speaker 3>you're like, that's a weird word.

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<v Speaker 1>It is a weird No, it was a boy scout.

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<v Speaker 2>And then we changed in Queenstown from like just regular scouts.

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<v Speaker 1>To sea scouts.

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<v Speaker 2>You don't even see famously on the lake, fustly on

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<v Speaker 2>the lake.

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<v Speaker 3>Answer answer it live? How is that?

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<v Speaker 1>No, we won't answer that. Well, it's just someone bringing

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<v Speaker 1>me to organize pre Christmas be it. Oh it's not

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<v Speaker 1>boss actually, oh right.

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<v Speaker 2>So after that, I thought, can.

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<v Speaker 3>Be doing this? Absolutely not? If I'm for anybody see

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm a scout, what are we going to be doing?

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<v Speaker 3>I suppose you can go sailing on the lake, can't you?

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<v Speaker 1>Hood?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah you could, And that's what There's what the plan

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<v Speaker 2>was to go selling on the lake, but it wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Kind knots and survival all of that. Plava pilava is

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<v Speaker 1>also another funny word I heard today and I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to try and bring pola. Plovers are great love lava.

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<v Speaker 2>I went on a jamboree, a scout jamboree. Wow to Fiji,

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<v Speaker 2>bougie seaman skin what queens down?

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<v Speaker 1>Of course? What do you expeed?

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<v Speaker 3>A jamboree in Fiji.

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<v Speaker 2>Jamboree in Fiji. So there's like a New Zealand.

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<v Speaker 1>It's copa trees, r island and contingent.

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<v Speaker 2>The thing is the only terms I've ever been to

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<v Speaker 2>the islands either fucking boy Scouts or Treasure Island.

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<v Speaker 3>So you've never gone there, and just like at.

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<v Speaker 1>All year, can eat no resort.

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<v Speaker 2>So I went to the jamboree in Fiji and I

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<v Speaker 2>got on a like argument with another scout another boy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah those islands. They really got into a fight with

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<v Speaker 2>a fellow scout. And then this is very unscout like behavior.

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<v Speaker 2>You pushed me over a little ship.

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<v Speaker 3>There would definitely not be part of the code of ethics.

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<v Speaker 2>Pushed me over, I fell backwards. I landed on my

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<v Speaker 2>elbow on a tent pig shattered my elbow. The only

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<v Speaker 2>bottom I've ever broken my elbow in Fiji on a

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<v Speaker 2>scout jemboree.

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<v Speaker 3>There is did you reckon that? That person just spent

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<v Speaker 3>their life being like, oh god, I remember times iping

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<v Speaker 3>bit of a dick in my life when I was younger,

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<v Speaker 3>I did this thing and then.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope so I hope you remind me own but

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<v Speaker 2>not funny, funny, nothing funny about it.

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<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, just before we get into this podcast, we've got

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<v Speaker 3>some unfortunately sad news that's developed today, and I think

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<v Speaker 3>we should just address it early in the pace because

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<v Speaker 3>I think it's worthy of saying the right honorable for

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<v Speaker 3>former National Party minister Nicki Kay has passed away today.

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<v Speaker 3>And I know that some people might be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>what has that got to do with your podcast? Well,

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<v Speaker 3>she was quite the ally old Nicky Kay, a huge ally,

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<v Speaker 3>a massive ally. She crossed the floor on quite a

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<v Speaker 3>few gay issues across her time. She's a huge supporter

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<v Speaker 3>of a lot of Rainbow organizations. She always threw her

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<v Speaker 3>weight behind a bunch of things to support our wider community.

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<v Speaker 3>And we knew that she did cancer and she kind

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<v Speaker 3>of seemed to have like she'd got a bit better,

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<v Speaker 3>but obviously has gone down hele and is today passed away.

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<v Speaker 3>And I, yeah, I just think that's really says said moment.

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<v Speaker 2>I got to meet her quite a few times over

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<v Speaker 2>the years, Like just in my role on TVNZ, we

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<v Speaker 2>used to do a segment on breakfast called young Guns

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<v Speaker 2>where we had like some of the younger politicians.

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<v Speaker 1>We had like Simon Bridges, was on there.

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<v Speaker 2>Just Dern was a young gun at one point, Paula

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<v Speaker 2>Bennett was a young gun at one point, and Nikki

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<v Speaker 2>Kay was one of our young guns.

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<v Speaker 1>So I got to meet her quite a few times.

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<v Speaker 2>Over the years, and she was just always so kind

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<v Speaker 2>and very very thoughtful and passionate but really cared about

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<v Speaker 2>about the issues that she was proud about. But also

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<v Speaker 2>I always felt like she put people over politics, like

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<v Speaker 2>she wasn't She wasn't a career politician. She really was

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<v Speaker 2>in there because she truly wanted to make a difference

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<v Speaker 2>for people. And regardless of what you thought of her

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<v Speaker 2>politics or the party that she represent entered, she was

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<v Speaker 2>she always cared deeply about people. Yeah, and so yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>very sad to hear that news today.

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<v Speaker 3>Really sad well, sending lots of att hard to her

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<v Speaker 3>Fano and friends who yet no doubt. Yeah, pretty upset,

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<v Speaker 3>but thanks Chris.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you boys? Otherwise good?

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<v Speaker 3>I think I'm getting towards surviving November. I feel like

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<v Speaker 3>maybe is worse than December. I feel like everyone's just like,

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<v Speaker 3>let's do a this ship early and other time December

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<v Speaker 3>comes around, it calms down a little bit. Or am

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<v Speaker 3>I just being a bit optimistic.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I think I think you're right. I think you're right.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's it is the silly season. Oh, it is

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<v Speaker 3>so silly. It's quite the plava.

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<v Speaker 1>That is quite the pluma.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Hell, your weeen kicks off and it I think it

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<v Speaker 1>starts from mere right, Yeah, yeah, the silly season. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, so yeah, I tend to agree.

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<v Speaker 3>Tell you what, though, one from in front of the other.

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<v Speaker 3>That's how it feels. I actually feel a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>like I was thinking today about our dear friend and

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<v Speaker 3>producer Jodes, who used to say to us, oh, oh, boys,

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<v Speaker 3>go for a gold in the busy Olympics.

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<v Speaker 1>This week is the Olympic? Yeah, is the Olympics.

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<v Speaker 3>Yep, And I reckon, I reckon. That's what I'm aiming

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<v Speaker 3>for this week. I think at the moment, I'm probably

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<v Speaker 3>just like if it wise, I'm going for a gold

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<v Speaker 3>achievement wise, probably the silver.

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<v Speaker 1>He's still on the podium, absolutely on the podium.

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<v Speaker 3>But she's been busy, and I don't want to make

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<v Speaker 3>that my personality trait, but that's been a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>of a a character a character trait of myself over

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<v Speaker 3>the last last week. While but apart from that, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>what positive do you do?

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<v Speaker 4>You do?

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<v Speaker 2>You bite off more than you can choose? Sometimes?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 2>Is it like a classic Chris thing too?

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<v Speaker 3>I can't Yeah, I can't help myself. Yeah, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>am my own worst thing of me when it comes

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<v Speaker 3>to it. Obviously, I had some professional responsibilities, which I

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<v Speaker 3>think probably causes a little bit of a bit of that.

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<v Speaker 3>But is I like to say to myself, this is

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<v Speaker 3>my little pep talk I give myself in the morning

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<v Speaker 3>if I think about the busyness and what's going on,

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<v Speaker 3>and you know, here I am busy day at work

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<v Speaker 3>and then coming and recording a podcast with you guys

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<v Speaker 3>and then off to some drinks tonight. If my fifteen

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<v Speaker 3>year olds i've heard me it' say one mony thing

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<v Speaker 3>about what my life is like at the moment, they'd

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<v Speaker 3>kick me in the day.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, totally. And at that time where you do start

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<v Speaker 1>reflecting because you think on new year and news is

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<v Speaker 1>coming up, and that's the stuff. I sort of had

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<v Speaker 1>similar thoughts as well. So yeah, I bite off more

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<v Speaker 1>than I can chew. And sometimes and actually I look

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<v Speaker 1>back and think, fuck, look at where you've come from,

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<v Speaker 1>look at what you're doing, and it's pretty cool, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>From stealing me out of a woman's freezer to hosting

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<v Speaker 3>an LGBT podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>With us, I mean a gbt Q plus Pope podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, it's great, isn't it. Yeah? Having to catch cray

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<v Speaker 3>up the no babies knowing by thousands of people all

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<v Speaker 3>over the more too.

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<v Speaker 2>I may have recruited a new listener today.

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<v Speaker 3>Every year I might have welcome.

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<v Speaker 2>Have I told you about how I've been cheating on barbers?

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<v Speaker 1>So the new barber?

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<v Speaker 3>Have you cheated?

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<v Speaker 1>Like? Have you?

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<v Speaker 3>Have you actually broken up with the barber and have

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<v Speaker 3>decided to go to the new one?

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<v Speaker 1>It was, it was It was always meant to just

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<v Speaker 1>be a one off fling.

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<v Speaker 3>It's how it normally starts.

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<v Speaker 1>It starts.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a slippery slope. But I had a good time,

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<v Speaker 2>enjoyed myself. You connected connected, you know, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Mean that your other barber obviously like very unavailable, quite distant,

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<v Speaker 3>sort of pushing you away totally.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was, yeah, you know what, And I just

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<v Speaker 2>I felt like I started to get something from this

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<v Speaker 2>from this barber, you dick.

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<v Speaker 3>Rub We all laugh because it's so true.

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<v Speaker 1>TikTok. Maybe last week week before, maybe around and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>pops up ere now and again on my algorithm. Algorithm,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know about that, but you you know, sitting

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<v Speaker 1>at the barbers and the barber said, the barber isn't

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<v Speaker 1>on it, and you know, the boys got their elbows

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<v Speaker 1>out trying to, you know, and the barber just sort

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<v Speaker 1>of rubs.

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<v Speaker 2>The old pen on the elbow or the funny bone,

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<v Speaker 2>funny bone on the bone. I didn't get one of

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<v Speaker 2>those from this guy. But there's still time.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, may probably treats you with respects, totally totally.

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<v Speaker 1>For now, consentual.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but god, maybe you'll be calling me a little

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<v Speaker 2>slap before.

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<v Speaker 3>We know it. You know, haven't he listened to this.

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<v Speaker 1>Look out for the elbows, keep you keep your hands

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<v Speaker 1>in your anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>So I went to see this guy once and then

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<v Speaker 2>I thought, that's I'm going to return to my old barber.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely, I've scratched the itch. I'm ready to I'm ready

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<v Speaker 3>to settle back down. No one needs to know, no.

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<v Speaker 1>One needs to know. It's a one time thing. This

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<v Speaker 1>can just stay between us.

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<v Speaker 2>But then, of course, so because when I used to

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<v Speaker 2>go to my old barber at the end of the session,

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<v Speaker 2>i'd always book my next hair cut in right. But

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<v Speaker 2>because I hadn't gone to him and I'd gone to

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<v Speaker 2>this new guy, I hadn't booked the next apploytment with

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<v Speaker 2>my old barber. And then when the time came around,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm pretty regular, like a four weeker. Oh yeah, four weeks,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll get a new haircut. So when the four weeks

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<v Speaker 2>came around, I thought, shit, I never actually booked him

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<v Speaker 2>with the old barber. And then of course I went

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<v Speaker 2>to booking with him, fully booked. I couldn't get him

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<v Speaker 2>the silly season the others so I couldn't get him

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<v Speaker 2>with him. So then I went crawling back to the

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<v Speaker 2>one night stand and said do you have any room

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<v Speaker 2>for me? And he said absolutely, I can squeeze you

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<v Speaker 2>in great, had a great time with you last time.

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<v Speaker 2>Come back indoors open, just squeeze you win.

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<v Speaker 1>Great to squeeze you win.

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<v Speaker 3>So shut it behind her on the bed.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>So then I went back and stow him a second time.

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<v Speaker 2>And then of course same thing happened again, and I

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<v Speaker 2>forgot to book him with the old barber again, and

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<v Speaker 2>so this week I thought, here's getting long le the

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<v Speaker 2>haircuts today, went back to the guy. So three times.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, Okay, you're gonna I think you need to. I

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<v Speaker 3>think you need to admit it, and you need to

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<v Speaker 3>break out with this other barber.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you break up or do you just ghost? Funny? Funny?

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<v Speaker 1>You should bring this up because I had a haircut

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<v Speaker 1>last Thursday and I've cheated on my barber for the

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<v Speaker 1>last six months. We've heard about it, you know, so

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, what I can I go beat?

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<v Speaker 1>What's the conversation with me? With your bet? We have

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<v Speaker 1>you been getting haircuts?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>So what did you do?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't gone back. No. I think you just need

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<v Speaker 3>to know. Life's too short for not following your heart.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think is the courtesy tags. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, you've been seeing him for a long time.

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<v Speaker 2>I have been seeing him for a long time. And

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<v Speaker 2>then just be straight up, but I'm enjoying the new guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, oh fuck it. Then just you know, get short like.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, this was all a little diversion to say. I

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<v Speaker 2>told the new Guy about the podcast very well. We're

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<v Speaker 2>listening right now. So anyway, thanks for a good time.

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<v Speaker 2>It was fun and I'll see you again soon. Planet

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<v Speaker 2>book all week on the calendar build it all up,

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<v Speaker 2>roll it out. It's about you, not well hope, well

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<v Speaker 2>new listeners. We had we had a message at DM

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<v Speaker 2>and our in our out the Gate Instagram, did.

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<v Speaker 3>We I've stopped reading them?

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<v Speaker 2>Excuse me, partly because I enjoy I like, I like

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<v Speaker 2>them being a surprise, and I just forget. I always

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<v Speaker 2>forget to look in there.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, hang on, I'll just see if this person did

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<v Speaker 1>message that or just message you. I think they have.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm watching, do you know what?

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<v Speaker 2>I just realized this, and God, we opened the canon

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<v Speaker 2>wombs last week when we asked people for their feedback,

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<v Speaker 2>I just had this realization that people probably have their

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<v Speaker 2>favorite right one.

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<v Speaker 1>Hun sorry say that again? What I was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>read and listen at the same time.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not to know the Gaters probably have their favorite.

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<v Speaker 2>Like they'll listen and they'll be like, I'm such a

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<v Speaker 2>I'm such a Brad fan, or like I love Chris,

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<v Speaker 2>like Chris favorite.

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<v Speaker 1>Has to be. So this person's obviously well, this person's coming,

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<v Speaker 1>like has it's Cam he said, thanks for the shout

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<v Speaker 1>out last in last week's episode. I'm late to listen,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm listening, he he he, But he has obviously

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<v Speaker 1>messaged us and out the gate and I can't now

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<v Speaker 1>see No, I know what it was. He put a

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<v Speaker 1>story up on his thing. That's right.

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<v Speaker 2>He put a story up and he called christ chriss out.

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<v Speaker 2>That's right, because you said he was you called bullshit

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<v Speaker 2>and thought he was a fear with a friend who

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't actually listening to the podcast. Now that he wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>on it, I did do that, and he put up

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<v Speaker 2>a screenshot of listening on his app and he said

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<v Speaker 2>I'm absolutely listening to the podcast, and then has clearly thought, hello,

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<v Speaker 2>mister Bray Christiansen, I'll slide into your DMS and let

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<v Speaker 2>you know I was definitely so.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice to have you acknowledge Chris's calling Chris out, but

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<v Speaker 1>nice to have you us been in your ears?

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<v Speaker 3>Did I say that right?

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<v Speaker 1>I can't get words out tonight, and him and your

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<v Speaker 1>and you something. Cam is listening now.

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<v Speaker 3>He knows he's thrilled about. He's thrilled about being the

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<v Speaker 3>hot topic of conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>Really is the bum No babies, indeed, that's what they say. No,

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<v Speaker 2>you're both happily taken me absolutely, we just enjoy good

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<v Speaker 2>personalities and great looks.

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<v Speaker 3>Speaking of ice throw on the internet that someone might

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<v Speaker 3>have had a conjugal visit over the weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>I was down in Queenstown.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you catch out with Trace?

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<v Speaker 1>She was busy. I went in for some think she

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<v Speaker 1>was busy and she said, no, I do not have

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<v Speaker 1>enough going on that face.

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<v Speaker 2>Silly season for her as well.

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<v Speaker 3>Just got a little bag all around the town.

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<v Speaker 2>Go go, go go. So no.

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<v Speaker 1>I flew into Queenstown and spent the weekend with my

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<v Speaker 1>prince in Central and Central Attago. So it was really

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<v Speaker 1>really cool. It was lovely to see him because we

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<v Speaker 1>haven't we haven't seen each other for like seven weeks,

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<v Speaker 1>so nice. It was so nice.

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<v Speaker 3>Came in without some excess baggage a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't leave anything significant behind. But we did

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<v Speaker 1>a fair bit of walking, so I'm guessing I lost

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<v Speaker 1>a bit of weight.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, that's definitely exactly it maybe a perfect that.

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<v Speaker 2>Was not beautiful weather. God, Central attag is beautiful. It's

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<v Speaker 2>stunning region, stunning, stunning region.

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<v Speaker 1>So what's it like after see.

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<v Speaker 2>I wouldn't even know what I wouldn't even know what

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<v Speaker 2>to do after seven weeks apart used to kick off

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<v Speaker 2>with you?

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<v Speaker 3>Was it like riding in a bike. You just want

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<v Speaker 3>to call him a bike.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, some people might just talked and we caught up

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<v Speaker 2>about you know what do you run? What we've each

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<v Speaker 2>been up to and had a cattle.

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<v Speaker 3>It was great.

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<v Speaker 1>It is like running liken that. Yeah, it doesn't it? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you blushing for me? I'm not blushing at all.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah, great, I'm just feeling I'm feeling jealous because

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<v Speaker 2>You've gone from Cam to Carl and I'm nowhere to

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<v Speaker 2>be seen.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you're still in the fold, babes. But mind you,

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<v Speaker 1>you know after this barber, the barber is just a friend,

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<v Speaker 1>just a friend, just a friend in some competition while

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<v Speaker 1>I was down there, you know, because I was over

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<v Speaker 1>in the States a few weeks ago on Canal Street

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<v Speaker 1>and I got hussled for a gatchy wallet. And so

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<v Speaker 1>we're about to break this one.

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<v Speaker 2>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been I've been called out quite a lot. I

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<v Speaker 1>said to couch wallet cost me twenty bucks.

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<v Speaker 2>It's great, it's gotchy, gotch Have you seen this.

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<v Speaker 1>Man?

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<v Speaker 3>Have you got out here in the fleet?

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<v Speaker 1>Cal No, I haven't actually American Express card.

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<v Speaker 3>But anyway, it's having really beach with a slight Connie in.

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<v Speaker 1>Through it, and I said, oh, look I can while

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<v Speaker 1>on the stage, and he was like, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>So took a photo of it and he goes, can

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<v Speaker 1>you get any gayer? So I got called out by

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<v Speaker 1>Carl's social He's got a big following, and I have

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<v Speaker 1>been called out significantly on Carl's social media about my wallet.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, should we join the pylon or would you

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<v Speaker 3>like to be would you like support or would you

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<v Speaker 3>like honesty?

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<v Speaker 1>And I just like that. I do like the honest honesty.

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<v Speaker 1>This message from one of Carl's online followers, I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I think your boyfriend's gay ding clearly. Here's another one here.

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<v Speaker 1>This is great. That wallet just offered me some poppers

0:19:09.424 --> 0:19:12.784
<v Speaker 1>in the club. That while it has been playing Disease

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<v Speaker 1>on repeat, that wallet has been de slee wicked six

0:19:16.384 --> 0:19:21.504
<v Speaker 1>times while it was a judge on drag Wax. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. This is so good. Over the coals for it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So thanks to if you're a gaming you listen,

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<v Speaker 2>thanks for your constructive feedback about my gutchy wallet. Now

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<v Speaker 2>I do feel like I should come clean and admit

0:19:39.504 --> 0:19:41.824
<v Speaker 2>that I did reply to that story and say that

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<v Speaker 2>it was the gayest wallet I'd ever seen.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really proud of it. I love it. It's soft,

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<v Speaker 1>it holds my cards, it's got a pouch for some notes.

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<v Speaker 1>It just no spit it out, you know, I've got

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<v Speaker 1>I've got like a really thick hide because it's because

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<v Speaker 1>it's real weather as well.

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<v Speaker 2>I just think, like we've talked about it before, you're

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<v Speaker 2>overall esthetic. It doesn't match the rest of it, okay, right.

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<v Speaker 3>If he's just driving the highlights down to the down

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<v Speaker 3>to the dump Andess goes swaning on and he just

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<v Speaker 3>whips out.

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<v Speaker 2>The gutchy wallet like, that's when I think of you.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Swanny highlus So.

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<v Speaker 1>One way to describe all of the above practical holds cards,

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<v Speaker 1>holds cash, goes on the little cubby hole in the highlight.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, I know, but it's like, but it's cute.

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<v Speaker 2>It's cute and leathery with like fashion brands, fake logo

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<v Speaker 2>on it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's authentic from Canal Street.

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<v Speaker 3>That's my biggest sessue is that if you decide to

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<v Speaker 3>go with something that is very fake.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I pat well Price.

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<v Speaker 2>The thing about it is, I just if I was

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<v Speaker 2>if anyone was to come to me and say, what

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<v Speaker 2>kind of brown wallet would bread have.

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<v Speaker 1>I would think valcrow, Oh you know there was long

0:21:10.184 --> 0:21:14.144
<v Speaker 1>gone like Billabong, long gone. Oh, long gone. But that

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<v Speaker 1>sounds more like you than quite keen to get one again,

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<v Speaker 1>because I think they're practical and quite cool.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyone with a chain?

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<v Speaker 1>Nah, No, definitely not that we draw the line. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well I went from a brown leather barker's wallet. You

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<v Speaker 1>very kind of bloke your friend did coming like, yeah,

0:21:34.944 --> 0:21:38.064
<v Speaker 1>that's the kind of wall like speak to you ahead, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>like like that. This is such a warm.

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<v Speaker 3>But anyway, look, do you know what we take the

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<v Speaker 3>best because we love you? But also what is the

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<v Speaker 3>golden rule of this podcast? What is one of the

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<v Speaker 3>founding values that I.

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<v Speaker 2>Would say one of the core pillars We do not

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<v Speaker 2>yuck one's young?

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<v Speaker 1>But please can we keep taking the pasovnia that we do?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh we can, we can.

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<v Speaker 1>But also we love and support you no matter what

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<v Speaker 1>you do. Thanks very much, hey.

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<v Speaker 3>And if you want to identify it as a guy

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<v Speaker 3>that carries that waller, then that's all good with us.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks. Gutchy gay got gotchy gay actually got while on

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<v Speaker 1>the same street, I got a.

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<v Speaker 4>Man as well, all right, I didn't creak fish, not

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<v Speaker 4>authen pic but great.

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<v Speaker 3>I take it.

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<v Speaker 1>I take it back, I take my gosh, my god,

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<v Speaker 1>any great podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Great seeing you two, and I'll catch you le great

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<v Speaker 2>see great seeing you boys as well.

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<v Speaker 3>For a second I was like, as it finished, we

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<v Speaker 3>haven't even got any of the dog.

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<v Speaker 2>That's one topic on the dock. But what time are

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<v Speaker 2>we I'm going to ask the severe time twenty two minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>Up?

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<v Speaker 3>All Right's litzt is and Correick fires many, McLain gates

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<v Speaker 3>everything news.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, colead, you know colead the singer.

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<v Speaker 3>Now we discussed as before. I didn't immediately know my

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<v Speaker 3>name backy, the name is familiar. I couldn't do the songs.

0:23:18.464 --> 0:23:19.984
<v Speaker 3>But when you played me the songs, it's so many,

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<v Speaker 3>so many read drunk young drunk and yes banger.

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<v Speaker 2>The right, the right, tune, the wrong lyrics closely young Dum,

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<v Speaker 2>Young Young Dum and Brook young young Yuh. He has

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<v Speaker 2>joined the family. Welcome home, welcome, welcomes dancers, though pocket

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<v Speaker 2>we will put some we will what do we do

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<v Speaker 2>organize drinks and nibbles like a welcoming party.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we give him a cheer, give him a che

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<v Speaker 3>the side of his room.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll blind Porpody. Yeah, and we give him a cheir.

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<v Speaker 3>You're right, and then we scour the internet to see

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<v Speaker 3>who's going to release his deck brick first.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and we watch his follow account go up. Oh,

0:24:07.024 --> 0:24:09.424
<v Speaker 2>all of the gays starting to follow.

0:24:09.544 --> 0:24:10.504
<v Speaker 3>It's a very good point.

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<v Speaker 2>Unfortunately, he has been kind of forced to come out

0:24:14.384 --> 0:24:21.384
<v Speaker 2>of the closet because someone has outed him online. They

0:24:21.424 --> 0:24:29.944
<v Speaker 2>have shared photos of him to get like with a man,

0:24:30.104 --> 0:24:33.944
<v Speaker 2>and so this man has shared in a slightly intimate

0:24:33.984 --> 0:24:35.664
<v Speaker 2>photo of the two of them together.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, just quickly, the man that shared the photos is

0:24:38.904 --> 0:24:40.984
<v Speaker 3>the man in the photos or is a different man?

0:24:41.584 --> 0:24:42.984
<v Speaker 2>Is the man in the photos?

0:24:43.384 --> 0:24:45.264
<v Speaker 3>So he's been intimate with him, and then he's decided

0:24:46.064 --> 0:24:49.704
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to do a hard launch of this for clouds.

0:24:50.024 --> 0:24:52.864
<v Speaker 2>They've clearly had some sort of falling out the two

0:24:52.944 --> 0:24:55.984
<v Speaker 2>of them, and so this guy has gone, screw it,

0:24:56.104 --> 0:24:59.184
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to out him online, which is just I

0:24:59.384 --> 0:25:02.864
<v Speaker 2>just think, no matter no matter what you know, I

0:25:02.944 --> 0:25:04.224
<v Speaker 2>don't I'm not privy to.

0:25:04.304 --> 0:25:06.104
<v Speaker 1>What has gone on between these two people.

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<v Speaker 2>No matter what happens, no matter how angry you are

0:25:10.304 --> 0:25:13.824
<v Speaker 2>at someone, no matter how personal it gets. With a

0:25:13.904 --> 0:25:16.304
<v Speaker 2>breakup and break ups, it can be ugly. You know,

0:25:17.104 --> 0:25:19.024
<v Speaker 2>I just think this is not the way.

0:25:19.264 --> 0:25:19.824
<v Speaker 1>That you do it.

0:25:20.184 --> 0:25:23.704
<v Speaker 2>Do it that is such personal news that you know,

0:25:23.744 --> 0:25:25.544
<v Speaker 2>we've talked a lot about that on this podcast. You

0:25:25.664 --> 0:25:27.824
<v Speaker 2>have to come out when you are ready to come out.

0:25:27.864 --> 0:25:31.704
<v Speaker 2>That is your story to tell, and it's not anyone

0:25:31.744 --> 0:25:35.384
<v Speaker 2>else's story to tell. And I just think it's really

0:25:35.464 --> 0:25:38.344
<v Speaker 2>sad that that that is he has been forced to

0:25:38.464 --> 0:25:42.744
<v Speaker 2>address this very personal thing about him because someone else

0:25:42.744 --> 0:25:44.544
<v Speaker 2>has taken that story out of his hands.

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<v Speaker 3>Definitely not somebody else's story to tell. No. Yeah, well,

0:25:52.504 --> 0:25:54.384
<v Speaker 3>now that it's happened, I watched some of the comments

0:25:54.464 --> 0:25:57.384
<v Speaker 3>about how he's played it, hopefully a little bit at

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<v Speaker 3>peace about it and kind of being honest and would

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<v Speaker 3>like everyone to move on.

0:26:02.304 --> 0:26:06.064
<v Speaker 2>And to his to his credit, he has he said

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<v Speaker 2>I was never hiding anything. I just this was just

0:26:10.544 --> 0:26:13.944
<v Speaker 2>no one's business. You know, I was living my life

0:26:14.024 --> 0:26:17.144
<v Speaker 2>quite happily and healthily. I just didn't feel the need

0:26:17.184 --> 0:26:20.864
<v Speaker 2>to talk about it publicly. And that is absolutely his prerogative.

0:26:22.064 --> 0:26:25.504
<v Speaker 2>So it's not like he's been shamefully hiding the secret,

0:26:25.624 --> 0:26:27.184
<v Speaker 2>which just wasn't a part of his life he wanted

0:26:27.184 --> 0:26:29.504
<v Speaker 2>to share with people and have We talked about this

0:26:29.584 --> 0:26:32.904
<v Speaker 2>on the show before, about how celebrities there's there is

0:26:33.024 --> 0:26:35.224
<v Speaker 2>this thing where I think you feel like you are

0:26:35.304 --> 0:26:40.464
<v Speaker 2>owed everything absolutely from a celebrity, and we're absolutely not.

0:26:40.864 --> 0:26:46.144
<v Speaker 2>We are not owed anything, let alone everything. So if

0:26:46.344 --> 0:26:49.184
<v Speaker 2>you if you're a celebrity and you want to keep

0:26:49.264 --> 0:26:52.824
<v Speaker 2>something personal and private, you are absolutely entitled to do that,

0:26:53.344 --> 0:26:58.464
<v Speaker 2>especially around your sexuality. But how am I welcome?

0:26:58.744 --> 0:26:59.824
<v Speaker 3>Come on and on?

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<v Speaker 1>And the water is fine being very popular there.

0:27:03.184 --> 0:27:05.024
<v Speaker 3>There's been some great people coming and getting in the

0:27:05.064 --> 0:27:08.824
<v Speaker 3>party recently. Sure, and Mendy is coming, well, you know

0:27:09.584 --> 0:27:12.304
<v Speaker 3>he's dept is depest toe in the water. We got

0:27:12.384 --> 0:27:14.904
<v Speaker 3>Khalid in I see our brother Teaks has got a

0:27:14.944 --> 0:27:17.464
<v Speaker 3>beautiful video with him with a lovely little in it too.

0:27:18.544 --> 0:27:23.064
<v Speaker 1>One not Mendys or ticket free tickets to Taylor Swift.

0:27:23.984 --> 0:27:25.744
<v Speaker 3>Oh do you want? I'm sure Mindy is sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>I think I'd take the Taylor Swift tickets.

0:27:31.064 --> 0:27:34.784
<v Speaker 1>To go to Taylors with concerts. Yeah, okay, because this

0:27:34.944 --> 0:27:37.064
<v Speaker 1>is in the dark. Was on train, sorry, and it

0:27:37.184 --> 0:27:41.224
<v Speaker 1>was just seemed the right time. One night with Tom

0:27:41.304 --> 0:27:48.824
<v Speaker 1>Daily or free tickets to Beyonce. Oh, you're picking the

0:27:48.864 --> 0:27:53.944
<v Speaker 1>wrong people. This is what the instagram is feeding, right, okay, okay,

0:27:54.104 --> 0:27:56.424
<v Speaker 1>and that those are two very good examples of what

0:27:56.664 --> 0:27:57.184
<v Speaker 1>what's been fed.

0:27:57.824 --> 0:28:01.344
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I think the tickets to Beyonce, but then

0:28:01.384 --> 0:28:04.584
<v Speaker 2>maybe for the story, I just feel like Tom and

0:28:04.664 --> 0:28:09.744
<v Speaker 2>I would be obviously similar. Elk, yeah, okay, do you

0:28:09.824 --> 0:28:11.184
<v Speaker 2>know what I mean? I do know what you mean,

0:28:11.504 --> 0:28:13.184
<v Speaker 2>and I'm just not sure that we would be able

0:28:13.264 --> 0:28:16.824
<v Speaker 2>to provide anything to the other one that would be

0:28:17.184 --> 0:28:18.184
<v Speaker 2>of much use.

0:28:18.744 --> 0:28:20.864
<v Speaker 3>No, fair enough bumping and grinding around.

0:28:22.664 --> 0:28:25.264
<v Speaker 1>Chris hems like tortoises.

0:28:26.144 --> 0:28:30.984
<v Speaker 3>No, I'm long on my stomach. I'm long on my stomach.

0:28:31.424 --> 0:28:39.304
<v Speaker 1>Awkward toodle Chris m Daily or tickets to Beyonce or

0:28:39.344 --> 0:28:44.464
<v Speaker 1>definitely don't okay cool Chris Hemsworth or tickets to Adele Chris.

0:28:46.744 --> 0:28:50.944
<v Speaker 2>Now you're thinking a ol maybe Yeah. See this is

0:28:50.984 --> 0:28:52.704
<v Speaker 2>that it all comes down to the person.

0:28:52.544 --> 0:28:53.144
<v Speaker 1>It really does.

0:28:54.024 --> 0:29:01.304
<v Speaker 3>What about David ni or a Sunday afternoon session at Wicked?

0:29:01.784 --> 0:29:09.064
<v Speaker 1>Oh hello David, Hello David. A photo We the group

0:29:09.184 --> 0:29:13.704
<v Speaker 1>chat lit up got quite clucky.

0:29:15.304 --> 0:29:18.264
<v Speaker 3>That's good. Our true gators that are a big fan

0:29:18.264 --> 0:29:20.064
<v Speaker 3>of David will be like, I know what you mean.

0:29:20.264 --> 0:29:22.184
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, it was just.

0:29:24.184 --> 0:29:28.104
<v Speaker 2>I mean partly innocent, partly you know what the fuck

0:29:28.144 --> 0:29:28.544
<v Speaker 2>you're doing.

0:29:30.784 --> 0:29:33.504
<v Speaker 3>And also he knows what he's doing. But you know,

0:29:33.544 --> 0:29:34.624
<v Speaker 3>who really knows what they're doing?

0:29:34.784 --> 0:29:39.264
<v Speaker 2>His girlfriend, girlfriend, his girlfriend. Bless her and bless her

0:29:39.424 --> 0:29:40.104
<v Speaker 2>because it would be.

0:29:40.184 --> 0:29:43.344
<v Speaker 1>Very easy to keep what would be very easy.

0:29:43.624 --> 0:29:46.504
<v Speaker 2>And she's going no, no, no, no, no, gals and gays,

0:29:47.024 --> 0:29:50.264
<v Speaker 2>I got Yeah, she's looking after us, she's really looking

0:29:50.424 --> 0:29:52.384
<v Speaker 2>up so much. And do you know what, I feel

0:29:52.464 --> 0:29:55.864
<v Speaker 2>it very I feel it's personal. I feel it's personal.

0:29:56.224 --> 0:30:00.984
<v Speaker 1>She's a gator. I can you please, we won't let

0:30:01.224 --> 0:30:02.424
<v Speaker 1>we won't let the world know that.

0:30:02.584 --> 0:30:05.184
<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, no no, but just for our benefits.

0:30:06.624 --> 0:30:11.744
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, now ver again, they haven't seen it because obviously,

0:30:12.104 --> 0:30:14.624
<v Speaker 3>like I mean, m covers a shot to nobody, we're

0:30:14.624 --> 0:30:16.744
<v Speaker 3>not tagged in these stories of David, so we can't

0:30:16.784 --> 0:30:18.624
<v Speaker 3>share them to our story to shop what they're about.

0:30:18.664 --> 0:30:20.624
<v Speaker 3>But maybe Bread, would you be able to just give it,

0:30:20.664 --> 0:30:23.424
<v Speaker 3>like a little explanation of what was in the photo,

0:30:23.504 --> 0:30:26.344
<v Speaker 3>maybe even the composition that the photo was taken in.

0:30:27.344 --> 0:30:34.904
<v Speaker 1>Mid drift, chicken skin, teddy, si titty, what really stuck

0:30:34.944 --> 0:30:35.584
<v Speaker 1>out for you? Though?

0:30:35.784 --> 0:30:36.504
<v Speaker 3>He's got anady?

0:30:37.424 --> 0:30:40.984
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know this it's hot. It's a really hot,

0:30:41.704 --> 0:30:44.944
<v Speaker 1>really hot, just halo everything. And I tell you what

0:30:45.104 --> 0:30:49.624
<v Speaker 1>he looks after his boods, doesn't he he's really passionate

0:30:49.664 --> 0:30:50.704
<v Speaker 1>about his boods.

0:30:52.864 --> 0:30:54.144
<v Speaker 3>Because he's got no cock around.

0:30:54.264 --> 0:31:01.744
<v Speaker 1>So there'll be three around there and oh, becoming home

0:31:01.784 --> 0:31:04.504
<v Speaker 1>to roost head.

0:31:05.904 --> 0:31:09.264
<v Speaker 3>I've got something to share with the group. Guess what

0:31:09.344 --> 0:31:10.104
<v Speaker 3>I did in the weekend.

0:31:12.104 --> 0:31:13.264
<v Speaker 1>What could it's been?

0:31:13.744 --> 0:31:13.784
<v Speaker 3>No?

0:31:13.944 --> 0:31:14.904
<v Speaker 1>Have you said you've seen wicked?

0:31:15.464 --> 0:31:20.984
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you've I finished my Christmas shopping in November. I

0:31:21.024 --> 0:31:23.944
<v Speaker 3>haven't even started. It's a slight lie because I realized

0:31:23.984 --> 0:31:25.784
<v Speaker 3>this morning is on the way to work, I was like,

0:31:25.864 --> 0:31:28.104
<v Speaker 3>I've definitely got everyone. I've got anything all sorted than

0:31:28.144 --> 0:31:32.384
<v Speaker 3>I thought to myself. You've got two very important people

0:31:32.424 --> 0:31:35.184
<v Speaker 3>in your life. I've taught you two to go. But

0:31:35.304 --> 0:31:38.024
<v Speaker 3>you guys require a lot of thought to make your

0:31:38.064 --> 0:31:40.024
<v Speaker 3>ultimate birthday gifts Christmas gifts.

0:31:40.904 --> 0:31:44.024
<v Speaker 2>I've got an idea. But it is I've had this

0:31:44.144 --> 0:31:45.224
<v Speaker 2>idea for quite a while.

0:31:45.384 --> 0:31:46.704
<v Speaker 1>Now, who's it for?

0:31:49.824 --> 0:31:55.344
<v Speaker 2>I might actually be getting you both very similar gifts

0:31:55.464 --> 0:31:57.784
<v Speaker 2>but slightly slightly adapted.

0:31:58.464 --> 0:32:04.864
<v Speaker 5>Okay, but I it's I've just even a large I've

0:32:05.064 --> 0:32:08.344
<v Speaker 5>just remembered it was, and it's not a it's not

0:32:08.464 --> 0:32:11.384
<v Speaker 5>a clique. No, you can't tell us because it's good.

0:32:11.384 --> 0:32:11.744
<v Speaker 3>It's prime.

0:32:11.824 --> 0:32:12.824
<v Speaker 1>No no, no, no, no, no, I know.

0:32:12.984 --> 0:32:15.544
<v Speaker 2>But what this is just reminded me. If I'm going

0:32:15.584 --> 0:32:17.104
<v Speaker 2>to get it, I need to get onto it now.

0:32:17.584 --> 0:32:18.384
<v Speaker 2>Don't outdigate it.

0:32:19.344 --> 0:32:23.784
<v Speaker 1>No no, no, never, that's a good term. Yeah, that's

0:32:23.784 --> 0:32:24.664
<v Speaker 1>a great no. Never.

0:32:25.304 --> 0:32:27.784
<v Speaker 3>So it's almos. Christmas shopping is done. However, I do

0:32:27.864 --> 0:32:31.624
<v Speaker 3>a little bone to peck with society. Mean so, I

0:32:31.664 --> 0:32:33.264
<v Speaker 3>can't remember whether we talked about this last year, but

0:32:33.304 --> 0:32:35.664
<v Speaker 3>it's definitely got worse, you know, in the old Cozi

0:32:35.744 --> 0:32:38.464
<v Speaker 3>living crisis and everything's expencing and all that sort of shit.

0:32:39.144 --> 0:32:41.144
<v Speaker 3>Do you know how hard it is to try and

0:32:41.264 --> 0:32:44.144
<v Speaker 3>buy a present for your sort of like family secret

0:32:44.264 --> 0:32:47.784
<v Speaker 3>center that is at the nominal price of fifty dollars?

0:32:48.144 --> 0:32:48.384
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:32:48.664 --> 0:32:51.864
<v Speaker 3>There is fuck all out there. There's fifty bucks. That's

0:32:51.944 --> 0:32:57.224
<v Speaker 3>not absolute tach garbage. Yeah, yeah, I there was. I've

0:32:57.264 --> 0:33:00.584
<v Speaker 3>got so I'm trying to make out whether people listen

0:33:00.584 --> 0:33:03.304
<v Speaker 3>to this or not. There's two I would have buy

0:33:03.384 --> 0:33:06.064
<v Speaker 3>two by two to fifty dollars presents and my partner's

0:33:06.184 --> 0:33:09.504
<v Speaker 3>family secret center. And I just was like looking at it,

0:33:09.584 --> 0:33:11.704
<v Speaker 3>and I was like, am I going to buy something

0:33:11.744 --> 0:33:16.024
<v Speaker 3>that's absolutely like it's just shit? Or am I just

0:33:16.104 --> 0:33:18.664
<v Speaker 3>going to break the rules and go up about higher

0:33:19.144 --> 0:33:21.664
<v Speaker 3>so that I can actually get something that somebody that

0:33:21.864 --> 0:33:23.944
<v Speaker 3>means something to somebody. I'd break the kind of cares.

0:33:24.024 --> 0:33:25.504
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I would break the life bak the rules.

0:33:25.544 --> 0:33:27.144
<v Speaker 3>I think seventy five is the new fifty when it

0:33:27.184 --> 0:33:27.504
<v Speaker 3>comes to it.

0:33:27.744 --> 0:33:30.024
<v Speaker 2>When it comes to it, you know what we've got

0:33:30.064 --> 0:33:32.344
<v Speaker 2>to do for our work Christmas party? Twenty dollars?

0:33:33.024 --> 0:33:33.584
<v Speaker 3>Twenty dollars?

0:33:33.784 --> 0:33:35.304
<v Speaker 1>Fuck? Am I getting for twenty dollars?

0:33:35.384 --> 0:33:36.824
<v Speaker 3>It's what I'm not gonna be in the landfall in

0:33:37.264 --> 0:33:39.504
<v Speaker 3>thirty seconds to look.

0:33:39.424 --> 0:33:41.864
<v Speaker 2>At the chocolate is like twenty bucks these days.

0:33:41.664 --> 0:33:45.264
<v Speaker 3>I remember there's something worse like then, how do you? Yeah,

0:33:45.704 --> 0:33:47.344
<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to think about something that has thoughts like

0:33:47.424 --> 0:33:49.944
<v Speaker 3>you can't. You can't find something that's twenty dollars. There

0:33:49.984 --> 0:33:53.424
<v Speaker 3>has thought unless it's just rude and silly, which I

0:33:53.464 --> 0:33:55.704
<v Speaker 3>suppose maybe it's the point, maybe, but.

0:33:55.744 --> 0:33:57.584
<v Speaker 2>It's also a work colleague, I'm going to get this

0:33:57.664 --> 0:33:57.984
<v Speaker 2>for us.

0:33:58.104 --> 0:33:59.704
<v Speaker 1>Do you know who it is? Or do I know

0:33:59.784 --> 0:34:00.184
<v Speaker 1>who it is?

0:34:00.464 --> 0:34:04.144
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? But also so you've got to be semi professional,

0:34:04.264 --> 0:34:09.984
<v Speaker 2>don't true, but also thoughtful and funny for twenty dollars.

0:34:10.864 --> 0:34:12.824
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, push me last what a pilava?

0:34:13.184 --> 0:34:16.064
<v Speaker 2>What a pilava? That's the word of that. I think

0:34:16.064 --> 0:34:18.824
<v Speaker 2>it might be. It's gonna definitely be integrated into the

0:34:18.864 --> 0:34:19.504
<v Speaker 2>title of the year.

0:34:19.864 --> 0:34:25.304
<v Speaker 3>Absolutely. Yeah. So I mean I'm gonna throw it outs

0:34:25.304 --> 0:34:26.744
<v Speaker 3>out to the gators because I feel like a lot

0:34:26.784 --> 0:34:30.904
<v Speaker 3>of our gators excuse me, would be responsible for buying

0:34:30.944 --> 0:34:33.224
<v Speaker 3>all the Christmas presents in their house, which is your

0:34:33.264 --> 0:34:36.744
<v Speaker 3>good point actually segueing here, and I feel like, actually

0:34:36.744 --> 0:34:38.944
<v Speaker 3>propects this is a more a question for you, for

0:34:39.064 --> 0:34:42.704
<v Speaker 3>you bread right, since you've become a married man. Yeah,

0:34:44.224 --> 0:34:47.344
<v Speaker 3>do you still segregate who like that you have, sorry,

0:34:47.384 --> 0:34:53.784
<v Speaker 3>the responsibility for Christmas present buying? Like is Ryan have

0:34:53.864 --> 0:34:55.944
<v Speaker 3>to buy for people on his side of the family

0:34:55.984 --> 0:34:57.464
<v Speaker 3>and you buy for your side of the family, but

0:34:57.544 --> 0:34:58.104
<v Speaker 3>for both of you.

0:34:58.824 --> 0:35:03.224
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, that's probably generally how it goes, although.

0:35:03.144 --> 0:35:04.664
<v Speaker 3>I feel like a Hittory world, it's like you must

0:35:04.704 --> 0:35:07.864
<v Speaker 3>get married and it's like you're your responsibility wife.

0:35:08.264 --> 0:35:11.984
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know, Yeah, I think this is generally He'll

0:35:12.024 --> 0:35:14.624
<v Speaker 2>do his family, I'll do mine. But then occasionally I'll

0:35:14.624 --> 0:35:16.824
<v Speaker 2>be like, right, I've got some time up high sleeve.

0:35:16.984 --> 0:35:19.344
<v Speaker 2>I'll go get the kids. Because it's we don't we're

0:35:19.464 --> 0:35:22.384
<v Speaker 2>pretty minimal in terms of who we do presents for,

0:35:23.424 --> 0:35:26.504
<v Speaker 2>so like our family, for example, this year of my

0:35:26.744 --> 0:35:30.424
<v Speaker 2>family have said we're not doing presents, but we're all

0:35:30.544 --> 0:35:32.784
<v Speaker 2>together at Christmas time, so we're just going to go

0:35:32.864 --> 0:35:35.304
<v Speaker 2>and do something nice as a family together.

0:35:37.464 --> 0:35:40.184
<v Speaker 1>After we catch up on Christmas morning breakfast, oh.

0:35:40.144 --> 0:35:43.464
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, breakfast, sorry to breakfast mimosas the three of us,

0:35:43.904 --> 0:35:48.704
<v Speaker 2>and then we'll go and do family stuff. And then

0:35:48.984 --> 0:35:52.504
<v Speaker 2>we only really get presents for Ryan's nieces and nephews.

0:35:54.304 --> 0:35:56.984
<v Speaker 2>A bit cheaper, yeah it does, yeah, easier.

0:35:56.704 --> 0:35:58.184
<v Speaker 3>A little bit entertain medical on the morning.

0:35:58.464 --> 0:35:59.104
<v Speaker 1>I don't care.

0:35:59.184 --> 0:36:03.344
<v Speaker 2>I honestly don't care. Christmas is so not about gifts

0:36:03.464 --> 0:36:03.704
<v Speaker 2>for me.

0:36:04.704 --> 0:36:05.264
<v Speaker 3>I don't care.

0:36:05.784 --> 0:36:08.064
<v Speaker 2>But we do do fun little thing is our family.

0:36:09.104 --> 0:36:13.224
<v Speaker 2>We play this game where you get little presents, silly

0:36:13.304 --> 0:36:15.544
<v Speaker 2>little presents, and we put them in the middle and

0:36:15.624 --> 0:36:17.904
<v Speaker 2>you roll the dice and if you land on a

0:36:17.944 --> 0:36:19.464
<v Speaker 2>sex you get to pull one of the presents from

0:36:19.504 --> 0:36:22.504
<v Speaker 2>the middle. It's very fun. We play this fun little game.

0:36:23.224 --> 0:36:26.144
<v Speaker 1>How do you go with that? Even you're quite competitive.

0:36:26.264 --> 0:36:29.544
<v Speaker 2>Horrible, because my whole family knows I'm very competitive, and

0:36:29.624 --> 0:36:32.464
<v Speaker 2>my brother and sister always gang up on me because

0:36:32.464 --> 0:36:36.424
<v Speaker 2>you're allowed to steal presents from people, and I'm constantly

0:36:36.544 --> 0:36:38.864
<v Speaker 2>being targeted. So I might need to actually have a

0:36:38.904 --> 0:36:42.944
<v Speaker 2>little chat to my sister pre game and almost form like.

0:36:42.984 --> 0:36:45.424
<v Speaker 1>A little lion and a lion.

0:36:46.224 --> 0:36:49.224
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, nice getting off for my brother this year because

0:36:49.224 --> 0:36:51.224
<v Speaker 2>she's always safe because she's the little sister.

0:36:51.464 --> 0:36:53.544
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm every in your family home for Christmas.

0:36:53.664 --> 0:36:54.344
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the whole family.

0:36:55.224 --> 0:36:57.344
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, my brother's bringing his girlfriend home.

0:36:59.744 --> 0:37:00.464
<v Speaker 1>And the family chat.

0:37:00.984 --> 0:37:03.024
<v Speaker 2>She's not in the family chat yet, but he's in

0:37:03.144 --> 0:37:06.224
<v Speaker 2>her family chat. But I think what will happen is

0:37:06.224 --> 0:37:09.584
<v Speaker 2>because she has met mom and dad and my sister.

0:37:09.824 --> 0:37:12.264
<v Speaker 2>She hasn't met me and Ryan yet, So I think

0:37:12.784 --> 0:37:16.024
<v Speaker 2>post Christmas, having spent a bit of time together as

0:37:16.064 --> 0:37:19.984
<v Speaker 2>a family and not just a one off, meat random meeting,

0:37:20.144 --> 0:37:21.024
<v Speaker 2>I think that'll be.

0:37:23.624 --> 0:37:24.144
<v Speaker 1>Group chat.

0:37:24.744 --> 0:37:27.464
<v Speaker 3>Do you think that perhaps Tracy will either see it

0:37:27.464 --> 0:37:29.664
<v Speaker 3>as a bad omen or she just do a tried

0:37:29.784 --> 0:37:32.904
<v Speaker 3>and trude approach and just wait till they're just on the.

0:37:32.904 --> 0:37:37.024
<v Speaker 2>Time, and like, dang on the time. This is for

0:37:37.104 --> 0:37:38.864
<v Speaker 2>those who don't know. This is what happened to my husband,

0:37:38.944 --> 0:37:40.544
<v Speaker 2>Ryan Firs Timmer. I brought him home for the weekend,

0:37:40.624 --> 0:37:42.824
<v Speaker 2>sitting on the timeac flag home. Mom headed him to

0:37:42.904 --> 0:37:44.824
<v Speaker 2>the family chat. Yeah, and he's been there ever since.

0:37:45.104 --> 0:37:48.064
<v Speaker 2>So it did work. Yeah, but we also have had

0:37:48.824 --> 0:37:54.424
<v Speaker 2>one awkward encounter where we added someone prematurely and had

0:37:54.464 --> 0:37:58.264
<v Speaker 2>to remove, had to remove, So we don't want we

0:37:58.304 --> 0:37:59.584
<v Speaker 2>don't want to repeat of that.

0:38:02.264 --> 0:38:03.344
<v Speaker 3>I'm excited about Christmas.

0:38:03.584 --> 0:38:04.504
<v Speaker 1>I'm so excited.

0:38:04.624 --> 0:38:05.784
<v Speaker 3>I feel like I'm into it this year.

0:38:06.264 --> 0:38:08.544
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm into it this year. I'm going to purchase

0:38:08.624 --> 0:38:11.304
<v Speaker 1>a Christmas tree this year because I'm we're hosting my

0:38:11.464 --> 0:38:16.864
<v Speaker 1>mum's sister and little nephew. I'm quite fair, so I

0:38:16.944 --> 0:38:19.704
<v Speaker 1>want to get a Christmas tree. And as you know,

0:38:19.904 --> 0:38:22.224
<v Speaker 1>and the Gators will know that past Christmas is I'm

0:38:22.264 --> 0:38:24.184
<v Speaker 1>usually a bit of a faxaate least get out and

0:38:24.304 --> 0:38:27.104
<v Speaker 1>done with you. Yeah, I'm really embracing it this year.

0:38:27.704 --> 0:38:29.024
<v Speaker 1>So you've got to put a tree up. I'm going

0:38:29.104 --> 0:38:30.704
<v Speaker 1>to go and purchase a tree and put it up

0:38:30.784 --> 0:38:33.184
<v Speaker 1>this weekend. I am aria I wander a fake run

0:38:33.424 --> 0:38:33.984
<v Speaker 1>to be a fake one.

0:38:34.064 --> 0:38:35.864
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, what do you do? Real?

0:38:36.024 --> 0:38:36.264
<v Speaker 1>Fake?

0:38:36.504 --> 0:38:38.384
<v Speaker 3>Fake? Yeah? We bought a bigger one a couple of

0:38:38.424 --> 0:38:38.744
<v Speaker 3>years ago.

0:38:38.864 --> 0:38:39.904
<v Speaker 1>Have you put yourself already?

0:38:40.104 --> 0:38:40.744
<v Speaker 3>No, not yet.

0:38:40.824 --> 0:38:43.184
<v Speaker 1>When you're putting an app it's December first, this weekend.

0:38:43.464 --> 0:38:45.904
<v Speaker 3>Soon hopefully, and it came out of the roof earlier

0:38:45.944 --> 0:38:46.304
<v Speaker 3>in the week.

0:38:46.504 --> 0:38:50.664
<v Speaker 1>So thinker's cross cool. You know, I'm excited about Christmas.

0:38:50.824 --> 0:38:53.864
<v Speaker 1>I'm putting mine up this weekend. Ryan doesn't know it yet.

0:38:54.344 --> 0:38:55.664
<v Speaker 3>I think it's totally acceptable though.

0:38:56.544 --> 0:38:56.744
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:38:57.824 --> 0:39:01.064
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So he's away doing an ocean swim up north

0:39:01.144 --> 0:39:03.584
<v Speaker 2>on Saturday. So I'm going to take Saturday as my

0:39:03.624 --> 0:39:05.304
<v Speaker 2>opportunity to put it up. And then when you get time,

0:39:05.344 --> 0:39:06.784
<v Speaker 2>it's already going to be up. And what you're going

0:39:06.824 --> 0:39:07.264
<v Speaker 2>to do about it.

0:39:08.024 --> 0:39:08.744
<v Speaker 1>It's not gonna take down.

0:39:08.824 --> 0:39:10.264
<v Speaker 2>Don't want to take it down because it's a pain

0:39:10.304 --> 0:39:15.064
<v Speaker 2>in the ass. So it's gone up. Put on a

0:39:15.144 --> 0:39:19.304
<v Speaker 2>Christmas movie. It's my little tradition for myself. Put on

0:39:19.344 --> 0:39:22.784
<v Speaker 2>a Christmas movie, pour myself a glass wine.

0:39:23.064 --> 0:39:24.824
<v Speaker 1>Oh yes, put up the Christmas tree.

0:39:25.424 --> 0:39:25.704
<v Speaker 3>Love it.

0:39:26.464 --> 0:39:27.224
<v Speaker 1>I'm so excited.

0:39:27.864 --> 0:39:34.264
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Christmas. Well, that's us. I think that's us.

0:39:34.304 --> 0:39:37.064
<v Speaker 1>I think that's again not a great great party.

0:39:37.304 --> 0:39:38.904
<v Speaker 3>Oh we've missed something.

0:39:40.824 --> 0:39:44.184
<v Speaker 2>It's not us at all. The most important thing. What

0:39:44.304 --> 0:39:45.424
<v Speaker 2>did we talk about last week?

0:39:46.784 --> 0:39:51.304
<v Speaker 1>Jesus all got excited about putting Christmas tree.

0:39:52.144 --> 0:39:53.864
<v Speaker 3>They were like moving on and real out the gate

0:39:53.904 --> 0:39:55.464
<v Speaker 3>Star we talked about something we followed up.

0:39:56.104 --> 0:39:59.864
<v Speaker 2>We know John never went anywhere. So last week on

0:39:59.944 --> 0:40:03.864
<v Speaker 2>the podcast, we said, we don't ever ask for people

0:40:04.064 --> 0:40:08.344
<v Speaker 2>to do ratings or us you know, a review or

0:40:08.384 --> 0:40:11.544
<v Speaker 2>anything like that, but we would love you too because

0:40:11.584 --> 0:40:14.184
<v Speaker 2>it would help get the word out for the podcast,

0:40:14.224 --> 0:40:16.024
<v Speaker 2>and we want as many Gators as possible to listen.

0:40:17.264 --> 0:40:19.744
<v Speaker 2>So we said to you, well, leads, do a little

0:40:19.944 --> 0:40:22.144
<v Speaker 2>We're almost three years into this podcast. Let's do a

0:40:22.224 --> 0:40:27.344
<v Speaker 2>little review. How are we going any feedback? Is it

0:40:27.424 --> 0:40:30.504
<v Speaker 2>anything that we need to know about, anything we can

0:40:30.584 --> 0:40:33.384
<v Speaker 2>improve on? And the Gators have come to the.

0:40:33.424 --> 0:40:37.704
<v Speaker 1>Party with some feedback.

0:40:38.544 --> 0:40:41.064
<v Speaker 3>They did, most certainly did. And also I was a

0:40:41.144 --> 0:40:45.984
<v Speaker 3>bit nervous about the feedback, but I shouldn't have been

0:40:46.024 --> 0:40:47.624
<v Speaker 3>because everyone was so nice.

0:40:47.504 --> 0:40:52.704
<v Speaker 2>So nice, I really and power to you because you know,

0:40:53.224 --> 0:40:55.504
<v Speaker 2>you could have easily ribbed us, even if just in

0:40:55.584 --> 0:40:58.264
<v Speaker 2>a joking way, and we would have loved that. But

0:40:58.384 --> 0:41:01.144
<v Speaker 2>you were so nice, which god, it just warms the

0:41:01.264 --> 0:41:05.264
<v Speaker 2>cockles of my heart. Credit a very lovely little community here,

0:41:05.304 --> 0:41:06.224
<v Speaker 2>haven't we certainly?

0:41:06.584 --> 0:41:09.464
<v Speaker 3>Indeed, we have literal around the room. We'll read some

0:41:09.544 --> 0:41:12.984
<v Speaker 3>of the nice ones out. I'll start your fantastic role

0:41:13.024 --> 0:41:15.944
<v Speaker 3>models for the community. Keep being authentic and real. We

0:41:16.144 --> 0:41:16.464
<v Speaker 3>see you.

0:41:18.904 --> 0:41:19.264
<v Speaker 1>This one.

0:41:19.664 --> 0:41:21.984
<v Speaker 2>Love it boys. I've learned so much about your beautiful

0:41:22.064 --> 0:41:25.624
<v Speaker 2>and filthy community and considering myself even more of an

0:41:25.664 --> 0:41:28.064
<v Speaker 2>ally since listening to your pod. I've been a Day

0:41:28.144 --> 0:41:30.584
<v Speaker 2>one listener and your episodes bring me so much joy.

0:41:32.144 --> 0:41:33.824
<v Speaker 2>The Troy comp was awesome and I would love to

0:41:33.864 --> 0:41:35.784
<v Speaker 2>come to a live show if it was ever on

0:41:35.904 --> 0:41:36.424
<v Speaker 2>the cards.

0:41:38.864 --> 0:41:41.464
<v Speaker 1>Okay, good to know. We'll lot that one away. Now

0:41:41.464 --> 0:41:42.944
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to read this one out on the back

0:41:42.984 --> 0:41:49.944
<v Speaker 1>of being gated. Yeah, haven't caught up on the potty yet,

0:41:50.064 --> 0:41:52.024
<v Speaker 1>but really want to hear the husbands. That would be

0:41:52.064 --> 0:41:54.984
<v Speaker 1>an epick potty, so we'll follow through. It's a New

0:41:55.064 --> 0:41:55.744
<v Speaker 1>Year news.

0:41:57.904 --> 0:41:59.904
<v Speaker 3>I like this one. I'm out. The gate is whatever

0:41:59.944 --> 0:42:03.544
<v Speaker 3>the adult equivalent is of a pleasure to have in class.

0:42:03.544 --> 0:42:06.064
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I love that's.

0:42:07.464 --> 0:42:10.104
<v Speaker 2>That is really cute. That that was a very that's

0:42:10.224 --> 0:42:10.984
<v Speaker 2>a very gay thing.

0:42:11.104 --> 0:42:13.024
<v Speaker 1>Wasn't that a pleasure to have in classy?

0:42:13.344 --> 0:42:13.984
<v Speaker 3>Very very much so?

0:42:14.704 --> 0:42:17.984
<v Speaker 2>They'll all have bloody gutchy wallets by now, aren't they?

0:42:18.544 --> 0:42:21.064
<v Speaker 3>Some good suggestions in here though I keep sharing all

0:42:21.104 --> 0:42:25.024
<v Speaker 3>the international, local and regional events. Guest speakers from the

0:42:25.064 --> 0:42:27.464
<v Speaker 3>community come and speak about maheting events and awareness at

0:42:27.464 --> 0:42:28.144
<v Speaker 3>they're involved.

0:42:28.264 --> 0:42:30.944
<v Speaker 2>Yes, someone else said that I would love to hear

0:42:31.504 --> 0:42:33.984
<v Speaker 2>some guests. I loved cam on for a few weeks,

0:42:34.024 --> 0:42:37.544
<v Speaker 2>so to Brad, so that's good to know.

0:42:38.224 --> 0:42:41.144
<v Speaker 1>More iconic than k Road, sassier than a Ponsby brunch

0:42:41.344 --> 0:42:42.384
<v Speaker 1>keeps slaying balls.

0:42:44.384 --> 0:42:48.024
<v Speaker 2>So some very very lovely messages which just you know,

0:42:48.504 --> 0:42:51.744
<v Speaker 2>a couple of little couple of little suggestions there are

0:42:51.864 --> 0:42:54.704
<v Speaker 2>things that we need to a either follow up on

0:42:54.784 --> 0:42:58.184
<v Speaker 2>that we've suggested already or be just things to note

0:42:58.304 --> 0:43:03.144
<v Speaker 2>for potentially further on down the track. But very lovely

0:43:03.224 --> 0:43:04.864
<v Speaker 2>and nice to know we're kind of we're on the

0:43:04.944 --> 0:43:09.264
<v Speaker 2>right path certainly. And to everyone that listens in tunes

0:43:09.304 --> 0:43:10.584
<v Speaker 2>and thanks for having us in your ear.

0:43:11.064 --> 0:43:12.824
<v Speaker 1>Can I just read this last one out because they's

0:43:12.864 --> 0:43:15.144
<v Speaker 1>just cracked me up? And please as a core memory,

0:43:16.584 --> 0:43:19.824
<v Speaker 1>love yours yarns you crack me up every week. Also,

0:43:20.024 --> 0:43:23.304
<v Speaker 1>the com trees are smelling. Oh, the countries are in

0:43:23.584 --> 0:43:25.384
<v Speaker 1>full bloom, full bloom.

0:43:26.144 --> 0:43:28.984
<v Speaker 3>This is the time of year for coum trees apparently,

0:43:29.024 --> 0:43:30.144
<v Speaker 3>so I have to get my nose out.

0:43:30.944 --> 0:43:33.184
<v Speaker 2>Go have a little go have a whiff, Go have

0:43:33.424 --> 0:43:37.504
<v Speaker 2>a whiff, and we will see you next week, all right, Bye,