1 00:00:01,760 --> 00:00:10,400 Speaker 1: Police Haley's mid Winter Christmas Cocktail Special. Welcome to the 2 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: Midwinter Christmas Contown Special. Our Big pod is back on 3 00:00:14,360 --> 00:00:19,120 Speaker 1: July fifteenths and fatter than ever. Yeah, and also guarantee 4 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:22,919 Speaker 1: show motto I believe also protesta Carwen's birthday on the 5 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 1: day we get back from mid roll down. Yeah, don't 6 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 1: forget my cow as as we've been doing already reading 7 00:00:30,440 --> 00:00:35,240 Speaker 1: out listener, Well, we asked you this is your podcast. Yeah, 8 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 1: we can't be coming up with as much content. You 9 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 1: guys got to pull your bloody heads and get something time. 10 00:00:40,520 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 1: You pulled some way around from you. Some questions. We 11 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 1: asked some questions on a web based page. I think 12 00:00:49,720 --> 00:00:53,360 Speaker 1: it's called the Internet. The Internet, Yeah, so much about it. 13 00:00:53,360 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 1: It's a web based form. We had some questions sort 14 00:00:57,040 --> 00:00:58,480 Speaker 1: of thing that you want to say hello to anybody 15 00:00:58,520 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: else that listens to the podcast. What's this exciting thing 16 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,080 Speaker 1: that happened to you this year? Do you need advice 17 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: on anything? What's juicy? What have you got any regrets 18 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 1: you'd like to get off your chest? And we drink 19 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 1: concktails during and we're still on our first cocktail into 20 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 1: into You'll notice that this this time round, there's a 21 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 1: bit more restraint. 22 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 2: Hey, look, if you're new here and you haven't listened 23 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 2: to last year's Christmas feel. 24 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 1: Free and it escalated and went downhill quite rapidly. None 25 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 1: of us have listened because it was too confronting. Yeah, 26 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:34,480 Speaker 1: let's pop up to funer Daniel Melages. Then whould you 27 00:01:34,480 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 1: like to shout out? He wants to shad out his 28 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 1: hot fiance Josh. Okay, that's our fourth. What does she do? 29 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:44,800 Speaker 1: But well, that's what I was going to say, our fourth. 30 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: We had a lot of gay second gay okay, very gay, 31 00:01:49,720 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 1: look confirmed gay. Get it's the other ones might have devil. 32 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 1: It's not a case of something for me to assume. Yeah, 33 00:01:56,960 --> 00:02:00,080 Speaker 1: meaning we do this, we should say you gay question you, 34 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 1: sexuality question mark. He wants to give a shout out 35 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 1: to his hot fiance Josh and Josh and Dan's the 36 00:02:07,480 --> 00:02:09,360 Speaker 1: most exciting thing that happened to you this year getting 37 00:02:09,400 --> 00:02:13,799 Speaker 1: engaged to my boyfriend. That's when that was exciting in 38 00:02:13,840 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 1: a while. We don't have any gay winnings on the 39 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:21,240 Speaker 1: horizon do this year? And both really well catered, fabulous, 40 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 1: very well caated, not like the two gay winnings last year. 41 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 1: They were alone, light on food born. You're already in 42 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 1: enough trouble with those guys. What's the greatest regret of 43 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 1: your life? And Daniel, this is a big one. Not 44 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 1: telling my mama was gay before she died nine years ago. 45 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 1: Oh fuck, because I assume you probably thought you had 46 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 1: time up your sleep. Yeah, and they're not getting to 47 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 1: tell her m Is there anything you have? Is there 48 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 1: anything you haven't told your parents that you'll want to 49 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 1: tell them one day? I want to tell my parents 50 00:02:53,960 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 1: one day, but not yet. So anybody listenings, what did 51 00:02:56,600 --> 00:03:00,920 Speaker 1: you do when you're a kid? I broke the shirt 52 00:03:01,160 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 1: and let my brother take the blame. 53 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 2: Do you know what va I reckon? They probably know 54 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 2: it will be one of those things that they're like, yeah, 55 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:06,320 Speaker 2: we know. 56 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 1: But how good was it when you can blame your brother? 57 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 1: It was so good. I saw a thing this week 58 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:11,920 Speaker 1: where it was like when you know, when you were 59 00:03:11,960 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 1: young and you break something, so you balance it back 60 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: as best you could and then back away from it 61 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 1: and let just the next person who touched it let 62 00:03:17,919 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: them believe they broke it. Uh huh. 63 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 2: I don't think I have anything that I haven't told 64 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 2: my parents. We're pretty we're pretty pretty open. Yeah, I 65 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 2: had a lot of sex in their house without them knowing. 66 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:32,480 Speaker 1: Early on. You don't think they knew then, and they 67 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 1: justs like I knew, I could tell my mum's face 68 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 1: and yeah, okay, because you're not quite you're not quite 69 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:43,200 Speaker 1: young at me. 70 00:03:43,240 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 2: An Arrand when I first started, right, but now I 71 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 2: don't have any secrets I keep from my parents. 72 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:53,520 Speaker 1: I think there's the chats I wish I had started 73 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: as an interesting way of describing your sexual history. I 74 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 1: didn't want to to stand back when when that got 75 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 1: back then when I bloody going up there, and then 76 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 1: just since then, we'll let it be. 77 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:07,160 Speaker 2: Let it be some advice to pass on to our 78 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 2: other listeners that may be sitting on a secret that 79 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 2: they would love to tell you. 80 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, you never know, but then you've got to 81 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 1: wag it up, like what if they don't take it 82 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:18,720 Speaker 1: well and then I don't know that. Yeah, eriends and 83 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 1: it's different. Oh my god, Hailey, Hailey keeps getting chips. 84 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 1: Where it is, it's in the way of the Homers. 85 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to move it because movie everything this 86 00:04:27,800 --> 00:04:30,200 Speaker 2: moves is so good. No, that's just there, just there 87 00:04:30,240 --> 00:04:31,840 Speaker 2: is fine, okay, because I'm left handed. 88 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:37,000 Speaker 1: Flavors tip. You're dipping into the commas, into a garla 89 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:41,599 Speaker 1: and caramelized. Interesting, interesting and juiciest thing that happened to 90 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 1: you this year, Daniel going out on the farm with 91 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: my fiance and have some great sex out on the farm. 92 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 1: I love a little bit of outdoor. We're about to 93 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 1: you on a like a dairy farm. Where about you 94 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:56,720 Speaker 1: having sex on a dairy farm? Would I came around 95 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:57,960 Speaker 1: on the farm, and you've got to pick the place 96 00:04:57,960 --> 00:05:01,279 Speaker 1: where not all the neighbors can see, right, and there's 97 00:05:01,320 --> 00:05:03,719 Speaker 1: no like ship. Yeah? Yeah, you want to dodge fresh 98 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 1: ego on the on the old hard stuff, not on 99 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:11,479 Speaker 1: the fresh stuff. Laid down a shirt romance? Do you 100 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:13,480 Speaker 1: want to go lay down on a hot dry patch 101 00:05:13,560 --> 00:05:20,520 Speaker 1: of dirt and fuck? No? Kind of really, Well, we 102 00:05:20,680 --> 00:05:23,280 Speaker 1: were flying up the country just this morning. I was 103 00:05:23,279 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 1: looking down. We've got a beautiful country, and I was 104 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:27,480 Speaker 1: looking down at sort of the high country farms in 105 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:30,039 Speaker 1: the photo of the mountain. Into my mind, I did beautiful. 106 00:05:30,080 --> 00:05:31,839 Speaker 1: I said it to my mum as well, and that 107 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 1: both mothers were equally as impressed. Mountain mountain photos love 108 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 1: a mountain Mums love getting the mountain too. If we 109 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 1: get back to what I was saying about country farms 110 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:44,280 Speaker 1: and I was just getting so isolated. You could get 111 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 1: away with anything on some of those hills. Yeah, yeah, 112 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 1: like what just go up and with a tint and 113 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 1: just take your clothes off and spend the whole weekend. 114 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 1: That'd be lovely and summer you'd want to do in 115 00:05:54,760 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 1: summer or the whistly winded tea your bones. Yeah, but anyway, 116 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:01,159 Speaker 1: when you was out there banging on the farm. So 117 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 1: congratulations Daniel, and thank you for listening, and thank you 118 00:06:03,240 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 1: for the correspondence. Congrats Rachel who lives in Huntley lovely 119 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 1: And there's in the White cuttau for we don't go 120 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 1: there anymore. I feel I've forgotten now that we've bypassed it. 121 00:06:15,600 --> 00:06:17,920 Speaker 2: That'd probably quite grateful. I always felt bad for them. 122 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, how sad, no one's going to 123 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 2: go anymore. Yeah, and they're just like, thank. 124 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:25,599 Speaker 1: God, maybe there's no lines at those fast food restaurants anymore. No, no, no, 125 00:06:26,680 --> 00:06:27,920 Speaker 1: how would you like to shout out? Always listen to 126 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 1: the podcast who is It Milking and the Cow Milk 127 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 1: and Cows and the White Cutter to hear you're live 128 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:35,719 Speaker 1: every day love Vorn's vorn Litz vorn Litz, Vaughn's farm 129 00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:39,360 Speaker 1: lit chat and subtle positive vibes into the farming community 130 00:06:39,920 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 1: and making sure the correct messaging gets out there and 131 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 1: can't fail the conversations. But hey, you know me, I'm on, 132 00:06:44,080 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 1: I'm on Big Fonte truth teller. I'm on Big Dairy Bag. 133 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 1: Up to the whole team. Shout out to my sister 134 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:53,160 Speaker 1: Steff and my childhood best for in Emma, what's the 135 00:06:53,200 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 1: most exciting thing that happened to this year? I bought 136 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 1: three hundred and fifty cows and went shear milking. Oh shoot, 137 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:02,920 Speaker 1: what's sheer milks? A can? My dad's heard the average 138 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:05,120 Speaker 1: because he sold his this yet valued at just over 139 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 1: two thousand a cow. Yeah. 140 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 2: So there was a friend who not a friend, but 141 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 2: like we know someone that buys and then you buy 142 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 2: them for. 143 00:07:11,560 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 1: Like cheaper, you buy them when they're young, and then you. 144 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:16,760 Speaker 2: Keep them for the legal amount of time and then 145 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:18,920 Speaker 2: you can sell them for like meat one to two 146 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 2: thousand dollars. 147 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:21,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, is that like for meat? I don't know what 148 00:07:21,720 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 1: he sells. How long does he have them? For females 149 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 1: or males. I'm asking a lot of questions, none of these. 150 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 1: I just know that this young he's only seventeen years old. Wow, 151 00:07:31,520 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 1: when he is illegally trading cows is not illegally trading them. 152 00:07:34,800 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 1: He bought them, and you raise them and then you 153 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 1: can sell them to like people who will butcher them 154 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 1: and sell them meat I think butchered to eat for me, 155 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:45,440 Speaker 1: or raise them. And then you could buy some young 156 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 1: ones and put them at like Cornwall Park. You can 157 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 1: go back in like a year catching. 158 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:55,480 Speaker 2: No, you can't because the Cornwell Park farm lands gated 159 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 2: off people own farmed. 160 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 1: I'll get over the gates and then most people would 161 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 1: notice if more cows turned up, you could kill some 162 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:10,440 Speaker 1: of their cows and for your cows and then going 163 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 1: to my cows. That's a terrible idea and a stupid idea. 164 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 1: So sharemilking is where Emma would own the cows, but 165 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 1: the person would retain ownership of the land and they 166 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:23,640 Speaker 1: split costs and profits fifty to fifty. Here's an idea. 167 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 1: Floating cows, then you don't pay the farmer for the land. 168 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 1: So they're flying. How do they get down to the 169 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 1: grass they first? How are they flying? That's the bigger question. 170 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 1: You don't have to You're still allowed to eat the 171 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:39,520 Speaker 1: gram because it's fear game. I don't know if it is, 172 00:08:39,600 --> 00:08:41,920 Speaker 1: but if their legs aren't so never to the ground, 173 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:42,559 Speaker 1: you don't have to pay. 174 00:08:43,080 --> 00:08:45,959 Speaker 2: How much you're paying for this harnessed system in which 175 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,719 Speaker 2: you're picking up all of your cows into like slings. 176 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 1: I don't know many drones v out crowed to a cow. 177 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:54,720 Speaker 2: That's a lot of money. I don't think it's worth it. 178 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:55,959 Speaker 2: You're better buying land. 179 00:08:56,520 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 1: Or eating seagulls. That is everye the cows eating seagulls, 180 00:09:01,440 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 1: or if the cow no, I don't think that would 181 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 1: be great and that would be the start of the 182 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 1: next well the meat. Well, look, I'm just trying to 183 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:09,240 Speaker 1: bring Sky some ideas. We asked Rachel what she needs 184 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 1: advice on, and she said, finding a husband. Okay, all 185 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:18,840 Speaker 1: these all these gays are taking up all the area 186 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 1: on the farms, aren't they. God, no wonder she everybody 187 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:24,520 Speaker 1: was worried about foreign buyers. It's the gays we've got 188 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 1: to be worried about. I don't know. I don't have 189 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: any advice. We've been to get it too long. You're 190 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:32,719 Speaker 1: a hard working woman in the dairy industry. To mention, 191 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:35,280 Speaker 1: there'd be many single dairy farmers out there looking for 192 00:09:35,360 --> 00:09:41,439 Speaker 1: exactly what you've got, Billboard, exactly what you've got. I'm 193 00:09:41,440 --> 00:09:46,920 Speaker 1: a hard working farm woman coming in. Is wanted for 194 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 1: this hard work in Sheila? Yeah, yeah, get that up 195 00:09:49,559 --> 00:09:51,160 Speaker 1: on the side of the get that up on the 196 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:54,040 Speaker 1: side of the Royal Thanks Rachel and from Huntley, she 197 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 1: would we go all the way to northern Ireland. Oh yes, 198 00:09:57,040 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 1: this is our first international shout out, lightly light. We 199 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 1: have upset Ireland of late. Yeah we have Victoria Wilson 200 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:10,200 Speaker 1: is messaging on from Belfast and Nora in Ireland. Good morning, 201 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 1: I who would you like to shoot out the top 202 00:10:11,880 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 1: of the morning. Do you think she's been on air lingers? Maybe? Okay, 203 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 1: I'm the woman with a pretty handwriting. I seem to 204 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:23,439 Speaker 1: postcard the last few times. Oh my god, I remember 205 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:26,840 Speaker 1: just beauty, do you know? I always remember her handwriting 206 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 1: and that girl we used to work with years ago, 207 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:34,520 Speaker 1: Rachel Langford. Amazing because Rachel's handwriting looked like a print out, 208 00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 1: looked like it was beautiful. To her birthday on Facebook, 209 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:40,880 Speaker 1: always wash her Happy birthday to her and her handwriting 210 00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 1: and for the last ten years, she said, say something different. 211 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 1: What else do you know about that? You know me, 212 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 1: but do you judge me? Cowen's for many su because 213 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:59,640 Speaker 1: it's his PTO. But there's no pto. It's his No. Noah, 214 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 1: my god, run out of would like you has to 215 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:06,320 Speaker 1: shout it. I'm the woman the pretty hetero set post cards. 216 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:08,319 Speaker 1: The last few Christmas is the end and then that's 217 00:11:08,360 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 1: the next page. Oh no, oh no, so oh no, 218 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:25,120 Speaker 1: oh my god, miss miss Ireland. Oh oh, you have 219 00:11:25,160 --> 00:11:26,560 Speaker 1: a little bit of a Look, we're going to come back. 220 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:29,880 Speaker 1: We're going to come back to Victoria. Is pt over? 221 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 1: What pages? It all? It's at the end of the 222 00:11:31,720 --> 00:11:34,640 Speaker 1: second film, doesn't waiting music? Oh love it? End of 223 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:37,720 Speaker 1: the second page? Yes, it is the moder Then when 224 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 1: you got the top, so he doesn't finish. It doesn't finish? 225 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:43,840 Speaker 1: Does that? Oh my god? Was that that was a yeah? 226 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 1: Goodness to three? Okay, well, I'll tell you what. Come 227 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 1: back to you, Victoria, dear, We'll come back and we'll 228 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 1: see if we can finish. Then I don't know who 229 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:55,680 Speaker 1: they belonged to. Oh god, do you think that's Do 230 00:11:55,679 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 1: you think that's the end of Victoria's just yeah, probably 231 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 1: the last year presses because she who would you like 232 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 1: us to shout out? But she didn't say anyone, And 233 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 1: I expected the next pact to be shut some of them. Okay, Okay, 234 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 1: there wasn't. You just didn't read it right. I just 235 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:15,440 Speaker 1: didn't read it right. Wow, there was no full stop there. 236 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 1: There was no full stops full stop. What we're hearing 237 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 1: is that some of our dear listeners didn't use full stops. 238 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 1: So it's okay, has passed the blame to the listeners there, Yeah, 239 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 1: stand by, stand by. Should we bitch about Fletch? Okay, God, 240 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:44,840 Speaker 1: he's welcome to the Fletch bitch helpline. 241 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:48,920 Speaker 2: Okay, we've just actually traveled with Fletch. It's he's very organized, 242 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 2: but it's almost friend. 243 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 1: We're fucking running. Literally, I was not that big welcome 244 00:13:01,160 --> 00:13:07,840 Speaker 1: the show beautiful, believable. I know that very rude. Assume 245 00:13:08,360 --> 00:13:10,559 Speaker 1: that it was Victoria's message. You see, what's the most 246 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:13,959 Speaker 1: exciting thing that happened to this year? She got married? Ah, 247 00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 1: and I was the most perfect day. That's lovely, that's 248 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:20,080 Speaker 1: absolutely lovely. What do you need advice? Sign? Victoria said, 249 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:21,400 Speaker 1: I'd like to know how to handle when a work 250 00:13:21,400 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 1: colleague is negative about every little thing. It's very draining. 251 00:13:26,040 --> 00:13:30,439 Speaker 1: You're not negative about he said, Why don't you look 252 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:35,600 Speaker 1: at me like you're just eyeballing me, Like I'm the problem. 253 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 2: What you do is you try to make them laugh, 254 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:42,559 Speaker 2: and you tickle and you give them naughty gestures. 255 00:13:42,720 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 1: You give them a reason to live. You wake up 256 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 1: every day. I'm on the bum what the negative them 257 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:49,280 Speaker 1: might be? Like, No, I don't like that. We do 258 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:52,240 Speaker 1: know these kind of people. You know, every single thing 259 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:57,520 Speaker 1: is just bad. So I don't know from across the phone, 260 00:13:57,520 --> 00:14:04,079 Speaker 1: how do you mine gave them into yeahgeous, just having 261 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:07,840 Speaker 1: a good time. Yeah's plant of sea. Yeah. I just 262 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 1: kind of notice like this week, like everything you've said 263 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 1: it has been quite negative. You know, you're okay, is 264 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:15,800 Speaker 1: there anything I can do? What about if they don't 265 00:14:15,840 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 1: know they're even doing it? So you kept a little 266 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:21,840 Speaker 1: tally negative thoughts around the office, But like, guys, I've 267 00:14:21,880 --> 00:14:23,840 Speaker 1: just noticed everybody there's been a bit of a negative vibe. 268 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 1: I'm going to start keeping a track of making a problem. Yeah, 269 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 1: you're making everybody's problem. And then there's lots up there 270 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:31,480 Speaker 1: and everyone's like, but I can't remember the thing negative 271 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:33,080 Speaker 1: and then be like, oh, well maybe we should we 272 00:14:33,120 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 1: break it down to see who. That's too personal. It's 273 00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 1: too personal. I think just asking them you're right is everything? Okay? Yeah, 274 00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 1: keeping a negative versus possibly and then have a chat 275 00:14:44,360 --> 00:14:47,040 Speaker 1: and then to see you're so fucking training. Yeah, do 276 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:51,000 Speaker 1: you have like you? I find you put your life 277 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 1: out of this environment. You are a ball ache. Yeah, 278 00:14:55,280 --> 00:14:57,960 Speaker 1: that's great advice. Great, great advice from us, great advice 279 00:14:58,440 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 1: worthy of a horse. Quite a loss in a calendar 280 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:07,120 Speaker 1: quote that one Kelsey's next for a shout out episode. Yeah, 281 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:10,680 Speaker 1: we're gonna I'm ready for a new drunk. Actually, if 282 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:11,920 Speaker 1: you could just keep an eye on the time, like 283 00:15:11,960 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 1: we said, I couldn't see the time. I was behind 284 00:15:14,120 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 1: the bag of chips. Oh so that was Haley's fault, 285 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:20,200 Speaker 1: was that I'll move the chat there. I could see 286 00:15:20,200 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 1: it there. Actually, Yes, Okay, now we've reached the grange 287 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:27,320 Speaker 1: the timer, and we're ready for the next episode.