1 00:00:00,160 --> 00:00:02,639 Speaker 1: Daily bespoke content that you won't find on the radio 2 00:00:02,680 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 1: show The HURTARKI Breakfast Podcast. 3 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:09,480 Speaker 2: Big weekend coming up, fellas or is it Thursday? Today? 4 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:10,360 Speaker 2: This Thursday? 5 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 3: There's a big weekend available to me if I should 6 00:00:13,080 --> 00:00:17,160 Speaker 3: I choose to take it. We're going to the Breakers tonight, yes, 7 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:19,400 Speaker 3: across there on the North should then tomorrow night we're 8 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 3: going to push push Yes. Saturday Tuesday, I am commentating 9 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 3: rugby okay with James mccaroney. But I've also got a 10 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:34,160 Speaker 3: mate who's in town and he's going to come around 11 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 3: for a beer on Saturday afternoon. 12 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:37,520 Speaker 2: So that's going to be It's just in common reason, 13 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:40,479 Speaker 2: isn't it is not? Is it not? So? 14 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:42,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, ben are available, but I'm gonna know I'm going 15 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 3: to play it pretty pretty safe, I think. 16 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:48,159 Speaker 2: So you're going to get completely him whole weekend. That's interesting. 17 00:00:48,320 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 2: I'm pretty good lately. Good luck on Monday, That's what 18 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:53,920 Speaker 2: I say. Good luck Actually a Monday and Tuesday and Wednesday, 19 00:00:54,760 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 2: the kind of thing. 20 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 3: You do, and even a Thursday. 21 00:00:57,640 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 2: Yeah. 22 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 3: For those of you plany at home, you were that 23 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 3: you're getting better at bendering. 24 00:01:02,840 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I am better at the bend as I get older. 25 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:07,840 Speaker 3: I've got a theory on this. My theory is, and 26 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 3: new fellows will be able to explain some better than I. 27 00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:14,919 Speaker 3: Once you have kids, once you're a father, the amount 28 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:17,400 Speaker 3: of sleep you need is drastically reduced. 29 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 2: Yep. 30 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 3: My dad sleeps like thirty four minutes and then it's 31 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 3: back up and back down the mind. Yeah, whereas me, 32 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 3: I need eight or I'm a wreck. 33 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:28,360 Speaker 2: You go through those early days of babies, like the 34 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:32,960 Speaker 2: first I'm talking six months and at least we inderstand 35 00:01:33,000 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 2: and know sleep at all, and you're you're in a 36 00:01:35,560 --> 00:01:40,399 Speaker 2: messive cloud. Essentially, it's a good cloud. You're happy because 37 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 2: you've got a baby and it's fun and it's cool 38 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:48,480 Speaker 2: and it's awesome, but it's definitely makes working and particularly 39 00:01:48,520 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 2: creative work very hard. 40 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:54,480 Speaker 3: And as part of it that you forces you to 41 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 3: confront how much actual sleep you can get by on 42 00:01:57,840 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 3: and so you find out what that proper baseline baseliners, 43 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:03,280 Speaker 3: and then there on you're like everything else the luxury and. 44 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 2: Also you're working out with your partner of that age 45 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 2: what you like doing and what they like doing, and 46 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:11,200 Speaker 2: what you're happy doing each there's a lot of working 47 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 2: outs going on. There's a lot of relationship working outs. 48 00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 2: There's a lot of this is what I'm capable of, 49 00:02:16,240 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 2: this is what I'm not. There's a lot of you 50 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 2: need patience and all sorts of stuff. It's good, it's 51 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 2: super good for you. 52 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 3: But the result of it is you sped out the 53 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 3: other end of the fully formed father and you know 54 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 3: how much slip you do or don't need an I 55 00:02:29,200 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 3: think that's where it's a significant shift in your ability 56 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 3: to bend. 57 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. And I think as well, if you're like me 58 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 2: and you've had that really good solid core training up 59 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 2: to the age of thirty, the reps and the bend 60 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 2: runs on the board, Yeah, where you've really pushed it 61 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 2: out and seen what you're capable of. Then all of 62 00:02:47,320 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 2: a sudden, then you go into the into the into 63 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 2: the nesting phase yep, and then you go into the 64 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 2: family phase, and then you're ready to emerge yep. Just 65 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 2: what's happening to me at the moment? 66 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 3: Fully formed? There's a beautiful, beautiful butterfu. 67 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:02,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, when you're coming out the other side and moth, yeah, yeah, 68 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 2: my situation probably moth one of those ones that pantry 69 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 2: moth that's so easy to kill. Their ten to dust. 70 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:11,520 Speaker 2: That's that's me. And then but when you do come 71 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:14,640 Speaker 2: out of there, you've got you're an empty nest. You 72 00:03:14,760 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 2: got all this time on your hand. 73 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 3: If you've done a few things right, you probably have 74 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:20,320 Speaker 3: more money than beforehand. 75 00:03:20,360 --> 00:03:23,519 Speaker 2: Absolutely, so you can treat yourself better through it. The 76 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:26,280 Speaker 2: possibilities are greater what you can afford. 77 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:28,920 Speaker 3: You also know you've picked up a few trucks, you 78 00:03:28,960 --> 00:03:32,239 Speaker 3: know what not to do, ye certain things dos and don't. 79 00:03:32,200 --> 00:03:34,399 Speaker 2: And then you can probably you can probably also look 80 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 2: after yourself a little bit better in the after Yeah, 81 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 2: after bend a care, which is a crucial part of it. 82 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 2: After bend a care is crucial. 83 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 3: I forgive me if I'm off here, Jary, I feel 84 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 3: like you haven't done a great job with that this week. 85 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 2: Well, my issue is minigh not that I haven't been 86 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 2: looking after myself properly in the after been a care, 87 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 2: because I've realized you don't want to be too doing 88 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:57,840 Speaker 2: too much exercise up post bending. No, no, no, don't 89 00:03:57,920 --> 00:03:59,200 Speaker 2: don't tee yourself out physically. 90 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 3: You're going to you instinct, there's going to be let's 91 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:03,680 Speaker 3: blow this thing out of the night. It doesn't work, No, 92 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 3: you get it's worse. 93 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:06,920 Speaker 2: I actually am getting better. I had lots of water, 94 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 2: which is great, a lot on Monday. I have eaten 95 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:16,360 Speaker 2: especially well, lots of lots of fruit, lots of vegetables, fish, 96 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:20,719 Speaker 2: nothing to hearvy, no fast food. I reckon The gut 97 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:23,160 Speaker 2: part of it is a crucial part, because you've destroyed 98 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 2: your gut all that biome. There's an issue with your biome, 99 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 2: so you've got to try and get that back to 100 00:04:29,800 --> 00:04:32,760 Speaker 2: balance because otherwise something in your stomach makes you feel 101 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:35,279 Speaker 2: like you've committed some horrific crime, and you get the 102 00:04:35,360 --> 00:04:38,039 Speaker 2: churning gut, like a nervous gut. 103 00:04:38,120 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 3: Whether you have the anxiety piled on top of that 104 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 3: as well, so that doesn't help ye, And apparently that's 105 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 3: a lot of dehydration is causing that anxiety. 106 00:04:45,040 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 2: Actually just dehydration. So no, actually I've got that part right. 107 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:50,080 Speaker 2: My issue is that I wake up at five in 108 00:04:50,120 --> 00:04:52,719 Speaker 2: the morning and then I get home at eight o'clock 109 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 2: at night, and so I get a couple of hours 110 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:57,280 Speaker 2: are and you can go to You never really can 111 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 2: recover from the weekend. Yeah, sleep wise. 112 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,240 Speaker 3: That last year, and you'll recall if you're a long 113 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 3: time listening to this podcast, or indeed the radio show, 114 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 3: there was a period last year we were all just 115 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 3: quadrilling on for probably like two months, that's right, And 116 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:14,159 Speaker 3: that's because we're shockers. For as soon as you've come right, 117 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 3: then you just flog yourself again and then. 118 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 2: Yes, celebrate, Yeah you've recovered. 119 00:05:19,960 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, because people always ask me on the early mornings, 120 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:25,720 Speaker 3: they're not that early, you know what I mean, if 121 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:29,239 Speaker 3: you were, you know, builders, a beginner, dairy Farm's definitely 122 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:32,919 Speaker 3: gidding up earlier than us. But the hard part is 123 00:05:32,960 --> 00:05:35,920 Speaker 3: if you have a massive blowout, it's the recovery takes 124 00:05:35,920 --> 00:05:38,400 Speaker 3: a long long time. You're basically not seeing in color 125 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 3: till Thursday, yeah, and you don't actually recover till you 126 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 3: get the next week in yeah, by which point you're like, jeez, 127 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 3: this week was a grind. Might just have another fucking 128 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 3: full on blowout. 129 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:53,159 Speaker 2: And so also one other thing, it's not like you 130 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 2: can be on a radio show and just quietly sit 131 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:58,760 Speaker 2: and check your emails. No, and then you know, google 132 00:05:58,800 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 2: some things and just not talk to anyone. It doesn't 133 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 2: really kind of work like that and just shut yourself off. No. 134 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:06,799 Speaker 3: I have always said, though, do your hangovers on the clock, 135 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 3: like do go to work. Don't even take a day off. 136 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 3: But now as you hungover. If you have a physical job, 137 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 3: you will sweet it out by about smoker like you'll 138 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:16,240 Speaker 3: be dead by the time you get home, but you 139 00:06:16,279 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 3: will get through it. And if you have an office job, 140 00:06:19,520 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 3: like you saying, just have an extra coffee, you pull 141 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:24,279 Speaker 3: your head and shut the fuck up. Don't draw any 142 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 3: attention to yourself. 143 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 2: Go to the toilet. Yeah, sit on the toilet for 144 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:28,720 Speaker 2: fifteen minutes. 145 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 3: Scroll find something entertaining to do, like for example. Clearest 146 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:38,040 Speaker 3: example I can remember is one of the when I 147 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 3: used to work here years ago. One of the people 148 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:43,719 Speaker 3: out in the office brought their kids in when we 149 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:46,040 Speaker 3: were all hungover. After I think of radio awards or something, 150 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:49,040 Speaker 3: and I found in the promo cup at a kazoo 151 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 3: and I gave it to that kittensing your mum loves 152 00:06:53,920 --> 00:06:56,680 Speaker 3: when people pass. Oh my god, don't show your mom 153 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 3: how good you are at playing this kazoo horrible And 154 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 3: she was lying on the ca and I'm in the background. 155 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 3: Double thumbs up. Good work, brother, As. 156 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 2: I give a four year older recorder for their birthday 157 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:13,520 Speaker 2: and a can of the here you go, well, I 158 00:07:13,600 --> 00:07:16,160 Speaker 2: like you, uncle Jeremy's giving me a give them give 159 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:17,040 Speaker 2: me a recorder. 160 00:07:17,600 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 1: Jeremy Wells and Manaia Stewart find them on Instagram at 161 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:25,920 Speaker 1: Hodaki Breakfast. Jerry and Manaia joined the conflict the Hodaki 162 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 1: Breakfast discussion group on Facebook for more. 163 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:31,800 Speaker 3: I will say the last MESSI of hangover ahead. I 164 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 3: was really disappointed in myself at how bad I am 165 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:36,840 Speaker 3: at hangovers. Considering how many I've had, I still am 166 00:07:36,880 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 3: not getting very good at them. 167 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 2: You know what I mean, I don't what do you do? 168 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 4: Know? 169 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:44,080 Speaker 2: You a lie arounder? Yeah? Yeah, here's your problem. 170 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:46,600 Speaker 3: That is your problem. The more you the less you do, 171 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 3: the more you focus on your hangover. 172 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 2: You got to get up and do something you do. 173 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:51,520 Speaker 2: You got to get out of the house. Yeah, go up, 174 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 2: give for a walk. I mean it's difficult if you're 175 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 2: so drunk that you can't drive still, yeah, which is 176 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 2: probably you. Yeah, but you've got to go for a 177 00:07:58,200 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 2: hot girl walk or something. 178 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:03,480 Speaker 3: Yeah. Achieve something is generally the go, even if it's 179 00:08:03,520 --> 00:08:05,240 Speaker 3: just you know, a couple of loads of washing and 180 00:08:05,840 --> 00:08:06,720 Speaker 3: the dishes or something. 181 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 2: Get out of the house. See good to have a sauna. 182 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because you know you don't actually have to. 183 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 2: You could do the sitting around plus with the demon 184 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 2: some kind of health benefit. 185 00:08:16,360 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 3: Can I recommend something that was forced upon us a 186 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 3: while ago. We went to the movies when the last 187 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 3: Avatar movie came out, So there was a couple of 188 00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 3: years ago. Now we were just stuck in christ such 189 00:08:27,520 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 3: and had five hours to kill for our flight, and 190 00:08:29,720 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 3: we're desperately hungover, man my missus, and we're like, buggeru, 191 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:35,320 Speaker 3: let's go to the movies. And basically you're sitting in 192 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 3: a dark, cold room snacks, fizzy drinks. But it's what 193 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:43,439 Speaker 3: you would be doing at home anyway. 194 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:47,600 Speaker 2: And it was great. Yeah, that's good. And for parents 195 00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 2: out there as well, and your parents, the best thing 196 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 2: you can ever do is take your if you hungover, 197 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:55,199 Speaker 2: take your kids to a movie on a Sunday morning. 198 00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:59,480 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and you can sleep while they're watching a movie. 199 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:04,319 Speaker 2: It costs you a fucking fortune, but it's pretty much 200 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 2: worth it because you will get another two hours sleep 201 00:09:06,120 --> 00:09:09,679 Speaker 2: in there. And your partner's like, oh god, there's such 202 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 2: a nice thing that you want. The worst thing that 203 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 2: you can ever do as a partner to another partner 204 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 2: with small children swimming lessons I've had is evil. Lane's 205 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 2: brought this up before. Whoever does that to their partner. 206 00:09:23,200 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 2: I've seen so many relationships and one thing and fall apart. 207 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 2: And the one thing that is common is that it's 208 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:34,720 Speaker 2: generally this is gonna sound sexist, but it's generally the 209 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 2: female who books and their children. And then when I'm 210 00:09:38,760 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 2: saying children, I'm talking toddlers. I'm talking one year olds 211 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 2: to swimming lessons. It's not swimming lessons, what is it. 212 00:09:45,200 --> 00:09:51,720 Speaker 2: It's taking It's father punishment. So dad, you have to 213 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 2: take your toddler along to a poll and you are 214 00:09:54,880 --> 00:09:58,679 Speaker 2: humiliated by doing these silly songs and groups, and you 215 00:09:58,720 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 2: go up and down with your in the water and 216 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:02,319 Speaker 2: you dunk them in another water, and you have to 217 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:04,080 Speaker 2: sing fishy in the water, fishing in the sea, et 218 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:07,319 Speaker 2: cetera with other dads, and you're all hungover and you're 219 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:10,400 Speaker 2: standing there looking at each other like this is a 220 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 2: incredibly embarrassing, but this is painful. And the sound of 221 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:19,200 Speaker 2: an indoor pool with the humidity, and you want to 222 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:21,200 Speaker 2: have a yack in the pole, and but you know 223 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:23,760 Speaker 2: you can't yack because you be yacking in the water, 224 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 2: and that would be a terrible. 225 00:10:24,800 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 3: Look, why do they do it like that? Why don't 226 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:30,199 Speaker 3: they do it? Is because I've got to be in 227 00:10:30,200 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 3: a swimming when you hungover it it can actually be 228 00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:35,079 Speaker 3: really really nice. It can also be awful, but being 229 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:37,040 Speaker 3: in the ice cold water, you know, can sometimes be 230 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 3: quite good. Why don't they just put like, you know, 231 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 3: the twenty fifteen NRL Grand Final on a big screen 232 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 3: and you all get together and watch that and dunk 233 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:45,960 Speaker 3: your kids up. 234 00:10:45,840 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 2: And do that. It's not embarrassing enough. So what it's 235 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 2: generally is as mums who have been punished all week 236 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 2: by these little kids and they've been looking after them. 237 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:57,559 Speaker 2: It's full on. It takes a lot of energy, and 238 00:10:57,600 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 2: I get it. And then they're like and then maybe 239 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:01,599 Speaker 2: you you might be a mail and you might have 240 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:04,720 Speaker 2: been working all week so you haven't had the day punishment, 241 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 2: and then this is payback. So it's like, this is 242 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:10,199 Speaker 2: my time. I don't have to hang out with the 243 00:11:10,240 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 2: kids that you are taking away. That's fine. I'm all 244 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:17,360 Speaker 2: for that, but just don't do it. Don't don't do 245 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 2: it as a swimming lesson. It costs money. Just do 246 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:22,880 Speaker 2: an enforced I'm going to have Sunday morning off and 247 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:25,199 Speaker 2: you do whatever you want, but I don't want to 248 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 2: see the kids for a few hours, and you take 249 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:30,120 Speaker 2: them and do something else and take them away from me, 250 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 2: take them away from. 251 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:34,280 Speaker 3: Me, right, But that's not enough. I also need to 252 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 3: flog you for it. 253 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 2: Don't don't do it under the under the auspices of 254 00:11:39,240 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 2: a swimming lesson, right, It's it's full punishment. So yeah, 255 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 2: and it's cost money. 256 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 4: It's like pretty amazing though, the first time you see 257 00:11:49,400 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 4: them just shove your kid underwater, and the way that 258 00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:54,840 Speaker 4: they just bounce up and that there's that surprise, look like, 259 00:11:54,840 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 4: what the fuck did you just do? But this kid 260 00:11:57,600 --> 00:12:02,120 Speaker 4: that shouldn't be able to swim just naturally buoyantly comes 261 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 4: back up and can swim. I actually did find that. 262 00:12:06,040 --> 00:12:08,440 Speaker 4: Did you have to do the dad punishment? So of course, yeah, 263 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 4: of course I did. And my wife I'm especially thinking 264 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 4: of when we only had our first chilt the. 265 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:16,439 Speaker 3: First and no long as a funk by the second. 266 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 2: That third's not going, that's for sure. Don't even have 267 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:21,560 Speaker 2: any photos. Take it figure it out. 268 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, the second one not so much. Wasn't really a thing, 269 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:26,560 Speaker 4: but the first one, You're right, Jarry, it was. It 270 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 4: was good for the wife because the pool that I'm 271 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:32,480 Speaker 4: thinking of that we went to there was a nice cafe. 272 00:12:32,679 --> 00:12:34,960 Speaker 4: So she would just be like, here is the bubba. 273 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 4: You go and do your bit. Now, I'm just gonna 274 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:39,839 Speaker 4: sit over here, I'll scroll my phone, I'm going to 275 00:12:39,880 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 4: get a beautiful, nice coffee, and you're just gonna. 276 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:46,080 Speaker 2: Do That's got nothing to teaching the kid to swim. 277 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:50,320 Speaker 2: Don't learn anything to swim. So I that is another reason, 278 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 2: another one of the let's be honest millions is of 279 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:58,840 Speaker 2: reasons why I love my kit. She never she understood 280 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:00,719 Speaker 2: what that was. She called all it for what it 281 00:13:00,840 --> 00:13:04,320 Speaker 2: was dad punishment, she said, and never punished me with that. 282 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:08,000 Speaker 2: God bless her. Yeah, it's one of the millions of 283 00:13:08,080 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 2: lovely things that she did for me. But she never 284 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 2: did that to me. 285 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:12,400 Speaker 3: That tit for tat stuff. 286 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:12,720 Speaker 2: You know. 287 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:17,599 Speaker 3: It's a little ROADI relation. It'll fuck you, it'll fuck you, 288 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:21,440 Speaker 3: it'll fuck you all right. On that note, On that note, 289 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 3: let's fuck this. 290 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 1: Jerry and Manyah matched the radio show from six till 291 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 1: ten weekdays, The Hadarchy Breakfast