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Speaker 1: Police Worn and Hayley's mid Winter Christmas Cocktail Special.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the Midwinter Christmas Cocktail Special. The Big Pot

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Speaker 2: is back when we are back from holidays on July

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Speaker 2: the fifteenth, Monday.

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Speaker 3: Guys, shout out to us. We're doing so well.

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Speaker 2: Pacing because we did God. Out of all of us,

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Speaker 2: I think Jared's the most liddy right now.

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Speaker 4: I did worry about the little follow when he was

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Speaker 4: prey much going of every cocktail we had, he.

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Speaker 5: Was having half because he's not a drinker.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've had Jared and I have a sheer our

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Speaker 1: love of metal, and we've had a couple of nights

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Speaker 1: out just the two of us, and I've always worried because,

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Speaker 1: you know me.

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Speaker 2: Who keeping up with mama?

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Speaker 1: No, Daddy kept up with mama. The last time Disturbed,

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Speaker 1: he did better than I did. Oh yeah, Okay, anyway,

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Speaker 1: you're doing well, Jared, and I just feel like, as

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Speaker 1: I said, we you know all did a prediction of

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Speaker 1: who we get the sloppyest, and.

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Speaker 3: You might be wrong.

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Speaker 6: Now.

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Speaker 3: I haven't plaped my hair yet.

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Speaker 2: Have I a friend big hearted James? It just popped

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Speaker 2: over in the last episode, went straight to the bathroom.

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Speaker 2: I think it's quite rude.

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Speaker 7: Kind of though.

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Speaker 4: I think he needs the ship even.

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Speaker 2: It's quite rude to finish work, leave your workplace and

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Speaker 2: then come to a friend's house and ship in the

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Speaker 2: toilet to put it? Do you wanted to put it?

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Speaker 3: I don't know. It's just quite public.

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Speaker 2: It's rude.

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Speaker 3: And then, oh, little cable.

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Speaker 2: You're cutting the cheese right into the cable. What are

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Speaker 2: you doing?

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Speaker 3: And I'm trying to get a little bit of cheese. No,

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Speaker 3: let him do a poope.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're happy to hear everybody poops.

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Speaker 6: I really need.

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Speaker 5: Toilet.

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Speaker 6: I know.

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Speaker 2: That's why you should do it at work. Carry on board.

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Speaker 4: Well, anonymous is next? What would you like us to

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Speaker 4: shout out? Shout out to the wags? It's the wives

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Speaker 4: and girlfriends of sports people. Well, Car was just breathing

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Speaker 4: because she knows this one's juicy one. This is anonymous,

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Speaker 4: So it's cause it's juicy. Shout out to the wag

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Speaker 4: who are the unsung heroes of sport?

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, go.

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Speaker 2: On, why is this juicy?

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Speaker 5: Okay? Oh hush, what's the most juicy thing that's happened

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Speaker 5: to you this year? God having an affair?

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Speaker 4: Oh fuck, We've got a wag on the We're a

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Speaker 4: wag on the blower having an affair.

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Speaker 3: She's having off.

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Speaker 5: She's having an affair. That's the juiciest thing that's happened

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Speaker 5: to her this year.

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Speaker 2: I'd like to interrupt before we go on this juicy story,

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Speaker 2: little morsel. If you could be a wife, a girlfriend,

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Speaker 2: a wife or husband or girlfriend or boyfriend of.

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Speaker 5: Stephen Formula one?

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Speaker 3: What sport basketball?

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Speaker 5: NBA?

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Speaker 3: They get multi million dollar contracts even if they're ship.

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Speaker 2: And it's the best live sport to watch.

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Speaker 7: I love us.

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Speaker 1: Sport's quacks bound to We've got such long legs.

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Speaker 3: And I'm not.

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Speaker 2: On magicians not a sport.

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Speaker 6: Do you know what?

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Speaker 5: Shon's all horned up?

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Speaker 1: Because I'm part of these horny groups that recommend smart

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Speaker 1: books everyone.

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Speaker 3: And I was on one of these groups and someone.

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Speaker 1: Said, please, I am gagging for recommendations with a main

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Speaker 1: my god, I see this is Shannon And then apparently

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Speaker 2: Big hand of James is back from the bathroom. We

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Speaker 2: were just saying it was quite rude that you come

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Speaker 2: straight to someone's house and just ship in their toilet. Okay, Okay, Now,

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Speaker 2: the I've got a list here from Forbes the highest paid.

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Speaker 5: But you can't just go.

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Speaker 4: Highest paid because you've also got to If you're a

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Speaker 4: wag and all you're doing is for the money, you're

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Speaker 4: also going to be going for the hop off.

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Would you be a wag for Christ and the brain

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Speaker 1: injury and everything else?

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Speaker 5: So Christians?

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Speaker 2: Stop?

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Speaker 7: But is.

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Speaker 3: Part religious?

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Speaker 5: Isn't it? Just like he's got seven seven children? Oh yeah,

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Speaker 5: crash Ronaldo has got a bunch of kids, very careful.

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Speaker 2: Total earnings one hundred and thirty six million. Behind him

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Speaker 2: is Linel Missy one hundred. Now, oh that Killian might

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Speaker 2: have admitted Killian Marpy that he's one hundred and twenty mil.

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Speaker 3: He's Killian Marpy, Killian Murphy.

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Speaker 5: No, kill Marpy.

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Speaker 2: Aurean football, yeah, football, and then Lebron James is after

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Speaker 2: him at nineteen.

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Speaker 3: But you gotta go, you gotta go.

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Speaker 2: You golfers, would you be would you be a wag

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Speaker 3: Vest and the washing vest and a dry cleaner, no thing?

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Speaker 5: No, yeah, it's all soccer. Basketball.

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Speaker 4: Ever, yeah, you're never going to be their main priority.

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Speaker 4: Football players players.

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Speaker 2: Like, what about like someone racing, But then you've got

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Speaker 2: with them, when they've got like first degree burns.

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Speaker 5: The Formula one has become much safer than it was.

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Speaker 3: I would go because Warren's big Formula one.

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Speaker 1: Now they are all assholes of south, right, I think.

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Speaker 4: Because of all like everything else, like football, there's football

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Speaker 4: teams in every country and every continent has this amazing

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Speaker 4: and then the world cut.

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Speaker 5: The Formula one.

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Speaker 4: There's literally like one forty dudes in the entire world.

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Speaker 5: Become pressed and they paid very well.

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Speaker 4: Maybe not as much as the top football players, but

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Speaker 4: they paid very well. And there's forty of them, and

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Speaker 4: they're all precks.

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Speaker 3: Basketball man, give a big hit as well.

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Speaker 2: If somebody changed your car tire way, Yeah, I am

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Speaker 1: You know, Steven Adams were specifically Steven Adams.

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Speaker 4: Formula one would be the best for travel and would

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Speaker 4: end and you would get treated to all the good stuff.

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Speaker 4: So I can see I can see the benefits. You

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Speaker 3: Prack though, yeah, big prep, big preck.

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Speaker 4: But as what about a hags games and boyfriends okay,

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Speaker 1: Though very focused, like very some of those games for game.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, there's already been drunk follow the summer winter very often.

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Speaker 2: What about like a wife a wag of like a

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Speaker 2: pro surfer.

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Speaker 3: You didn't atually that there was a lot to you know,

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Speaker 3: be Kelly Slater.

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Speaker 5: He's you constantly be like in all through the shower.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, your gendles house, can you please.

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Speaker 5: Rinse your legs before you come back from.

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Speaker 3: The house, trying to give you a blood But.

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Speaker 5: I pulled back the foreskin and it was just.

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Speaker 6: My mouth.

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Speaker 3: You got half an orange here, it's all of my.

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Speaker 2: Still wearing board shorts.

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Speaker 5: Surface. But don't even winner.

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Speaker 4: If you flipped on television and there was some surfing

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Speaker 1: I thought this because I would like, I think i'd

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Speaker 1: Small, not board shorts but above the knee shorts. When

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Speaker 1: exercise you wear a speed out.

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Speaker 2: Yeah I do.

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Speaker 3: I don't know that. I could face you and every.

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Speaker 3: Was like, have you James, have you seen him?

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Speaker 6: I will put on my shorts.

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Speaker 5: When he goes another one.

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Speaker 2: I do lanes and I'm with a friend afterwards, when

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Speaker 3: My god, Toddy, what have we got here? Pause? I

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Speaker 3: thought it was because it's what midwinter Christmas theme.

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Speaker 2: Don't tell me there's some star Raus in this that

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Speaker 4: Okay, in the room, there's a couple of star James

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Speaker 4: in a sleep South America.

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Speaker 5: It's a maple old fashioned sugar maple syrup. Using we're Canadian.

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Speaker 5: We're going for a little Canadian touch our Canadian listeners.

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Speaker 2: All, Hi, how are you you're gonna love that?

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Speaker 6: Born?

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Speaker 2: I feel you're going to love that.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's good and assistant Shanny.

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Speaker 5: Oh Toddy, Oh my goodness.

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Speaker 2: Well let's carry on with the wag goss. Sorry, we

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Speaker 2: literally got side checked for eight minutes. You were imagining

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Speaker 2: you're a wag with Stephen Adams and your bloody I want.

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Speaker 3: To be Hailey Jane Adams, part of the Adams family.

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Speaker 5: The family.

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Speaker 2: Valerie to get you for Christmas?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 6: My god?

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Speaker 3: Me and we get on.

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Speaker 8: So blood transfusion, they're religious religious, She want to get

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Speaker 8: your bloods.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, soon in law. Sorry, it's my blood.

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Speaker 5: We're emerging blood type.

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Speaker 4: And I know you've just been in an accident that's

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Speaker 4: cost you a leader of blood.

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Speaker 5: I simply non religious grounds.

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Speaker 2: Wow, okay, get it from a non gay donor.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the juicy is didn't happened to this wag this year?

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Speaker 4: Is that are having an affair? Do you remember that again?

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Speaker 3: Who are we were? Who we were?

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Speaker 5: Anonymous? Shout out to the wags.

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Speaker 4: So the unsung heroes are sport and then we talked

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Speaker 4: about way way wag waging.

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Speaker 5: This happened to you this year?

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Speaker 4: an a fear. The wags maybe feeling sick into the sport,

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Speaker 4: identify as wags. They find the term offensive. But this

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Speaker 5: They might not be famous, yeah, but what sports they.

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Speaker 2: But if my husband, for example, was like a table

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Speaker 5: Do you think it's Sally Ridge?

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Speaker 2: I wait, have we been missage from Sally Ridge in

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Speaker 2: the nineties had a message from read for them.

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Speaker 4: My husband plays at the Manly Seagulls and the New

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Speaker 4: Zealand Letters. She was New Zealand's first wag. Yeah, lovely ladies.

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Speaker 3: I'm pretty aware she is.

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Speaker 5: Part of Gold.

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Speaker 2: I love Sally.

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Speaker 4: She's real estate, real estate. Real estate does some renovations.

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Speaker 4: But I would say New Zealand's most first high profile wag. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: so the juiciest thing is having an fear and their advice.

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Speaker 4: They would like advice on should I in my affair?

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Speaker 1: Fuck?

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Speaker 3: I don't know. Do you love the person? Do you

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Speaker 3: actually what.

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Speaker 6: Was the reason?

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Speaker 3: Anonymous? Anonymous voice, Oh yeah, okay.

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Speaker 9: Wait wait wait wait voice, dis guise. There are eight

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Speaker 9: people in this room. Now put up your hand, not cheating,

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Speaker 9: put up your hand. If you've had an afear, wow, Okay, someone.

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Speaker 6: In the room is asking this. Ain't that you have

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Speaker 7: That's been the toy boy. Well someone's been the toy boy.

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Speaker 7: But one of our team has had an affear. Wow

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Speaker 7: when you anonymous.

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Speaker 6: Just looking around the room, looking around the room, when

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Speaker 7: It's not that there's still hits some other people here.

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Speaker 7: But I don't mean this bullshit on my annual. Leans Okay,

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Speaker 7: someone's going to be like, oh, there was an episode

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Speaker 6: People. Now I'm just my annually right now. I'm going

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Speaker 6: to be getting jobs done. I don't need to be

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Speaker 7: Gon drawn DearS down is gonna come running out and.

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Speaker 6: They're like, cut the track job, cut the track job,

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Speaker 6: and I'll be like, what are you talking about? Okay, fine,

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Speaker 6: it's me.

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Speaker 2: I'm a person.

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Speaker 6: I'm so disgusting. Yeah, I was even implicated. I'm going

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Speaker 6: to the word fine one person in our group and.

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Speaker 7: I shall not even hint head in the field when

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Speaker 7: you had this fear person, did you like the person

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Speaker 7: you were having the affair with more than you liked

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Speaker 6: I was counter affair. I was an affiliated to person

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Speaker 7: What what.

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Speaker 1: That meaning?

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Speaker 6: Here? Was just saying we had a you know, he

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Speaker 6: dogged me language we use every day after the fact

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Speaker 6: I don't know.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I actually was going to say, you can't believe

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Speaker 7: other humor? And you know, I want to know if.

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Speaker 6: Any of us.

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Speaker 1: I want to know if any of us don't Actually

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 3: Well, good for you, Anonymous.

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Speaker 2: Also, everybody, everybody listens to the show knows how everyone

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Speaker 3: That's the moment she came on. I was just now

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Speaker 3: a woman is what's that?

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Speaker 5: Good old fashioned water?

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Speaker 3: This feels quite.

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Speaker 6: Wow giving us water.

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Speaker 5: Handed the water on the way to the bathroom.

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Speaker 4: I was coughing so much when I was in the bathroom.

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Speaker 4: But yes, that's actually a very good, cool God's cocktail

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Speaker 4: the water.

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Speaker 3: I would usually be happy, but Godbret Flinchers, it's thick.

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Speaker 2: I don't have thick water. Guys.

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Speaker 5: Sorry, sorry, is this water or syrup?

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Speaker 3: Honey from a bee?

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Speaker 2: Or is it from like the fucking deser? Just be

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Speaker 2: happy you've got a couple of water. South African Jesus.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So what happened on the question from anonymous?

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Speaker 4: Well, why are you having the affair that's only with

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Speaker 5: A bit of a status. Because that's the only reason. Then,

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Speaker 5: I'd say the affair is telling you it's time to

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Speaker 1: I agree, I think you should end the affair either

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Speaker 2: But then from the other side, you have spoken this

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Speaker 5: Yes, what's the difference in an a fair and cheating.

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Speaker 1: By the way, with the cheating is like a one off.

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Speaker 1: You fear as I'm maintaining a relationship.

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Speaker 2: But then you joke about having an affair about your fiance. No,

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Speaker 2: it's not like you're going to leave Aaron.

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Speaker 1: My whole thing about my affair brewing was it was

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Speaker 1: of it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And this all started when my past can't started fucking

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Speaker 1: coming to New Zealand for half the year, and.

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Speaker 5: I said, well, your past cut is seeing my past card.

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Speaker 1: I know, unofficially we cannot say, but my past card

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Speaker 1: were Vaughan's past card.

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Speaker 2: But then and but then talk to the gays because

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Speaker 2: the gays will just.

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Speaker 3: Have open and and so I know, I know, and

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Speaker 3: I don't really believe in monogamy. To be fair, I do.

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Speaker 5: Listen undern Eyeblad's a great one, mahogany.

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Speaker 1: Sturdy, But I go, I don't know if you are,

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Speaker 1: so if you only want to if you love the

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Speaker 3: Open the conversations and if.

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Speaker 2: You love the person you're with, you wouldn't cheat shed

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Speaker 3: Right, No, that's not true.

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Speaker 5: Search some keywords of what that what?

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Speaker 1: I think you can love someone and still desire to

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Speaker 1: Maybe thought about it that hard?

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Speaker 5: Do you think we've sufficiently dealt with this? Dominated the

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Speaker 3: I love saying I reckon, I say our answer to

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Speaker 5: Yes, But then.

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Speaker 2: Around and stay with them and breakout with your yeah.

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Speaker 1: In the affair by saying to your partner you're currently

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Speaker 3: This is an exploratory time for me.

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Speaker 4: That's in Finally, car when when this came in was

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Speaker 6: It was.

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Speaker 2: Can the wag message me and just tell me who

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Speaker 3: Because we love God and actually we kine got to

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Speaker 2: Very good.

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Speaker 5: Secret is not to tell people you're keeping a secret.

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Speaker 7: Ye.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I don't like to be burdened with the secret.

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Speaker 5: Had a person had a name, don't tell us because.

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Speaker 7: Be told.

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Speaker 5: I've been

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Speaker 3: Too much