1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,440 Speaker 1: Tell you what we did in the last week or so. 2 00:00:01,480 --> 00:00:04,200 Speaker 1: We paid our last school fees ever. Ever, get this 3 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:05,840 Speaker 1: term out of the way, and the high school years 4 00:00:05,840 --> 00:00:09,320 Speaker 1: at our house are over one of the great insights 5 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 1: we've been lucky enough to have over the years. As 6 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 1: having five kids, you see a lot of school and 7 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 1: you see a lot of schools. We pretty much touched 8 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:18,960 Speaker 1: every part of the New Zealand education system. We've been 9 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 1: to private school, public school, integrated school, single sex, co ed. 10 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 1: We've been to primary, intermediate and high school. We've been 11 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 1: to good schools, ordinary schools, exceptional schools. The overarching view 12 00:00:29,960 --> 00:00:32,920 Speaker 1: is severalfold. One principles make or break a place. We 13 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:35,879 Speaker 1: have seen a school whose reputation had been good suffered 14 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:38,279 Speaker 1: badly when the principal left and the replacement wasn't seen 15 00:00:38,320 --> 00:00:41,519 Speaker 1: as particularly good, only to see it markedly improve when 16 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 1: a new one came along with a fresh focus and 17 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:47,560 Speaker 1: affirmed determination. Two Private schools buys you options and things 18 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:51,880 Speaker 1: like extra help and facilities. Money buys choice and expertise. 19 00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 1: Three teachers very dramatically. In all schools, we've seen a 20 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 1: selection of everything from lazy to brilliant, from effective to hopeless. 21 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:03,639 Speaker 1: Four all kids are different, possibly the most enlightening thing 22 00:01:03,640 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: of all. A school isn't a one stop shop. We 23 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 1: had kids at a school you might have thought would 24 00:01:09,240 --> 00:01:12,040 Speaker 1: do at all. For one child it was it was brilliant. 25 00:01:12,040 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 1: For another, it was a mistake. Five. A lot of 26 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 1: it's down to the child. I'm convinced a child who 27 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 1: is determined will succeed in any school. A brilliant kid 28 00:01:20,720 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 1: who can't be bothered won't. Six. Parents have to be engaged. 29 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 1: School has become a whipping boy, a social welfare department. 30 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:29,559 Speaker 1: They're expected to take on any kid with any problem 31 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 1: from any home and fix them. That attitude is criminal, 32 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 1: and too often it's led by shocking parenting. Seven. There 33 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 1: is too much wastage. Take the stuff out of the 34 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:41,199 Speaker 1: day that isn't needed. You'd be at school. I reckon 35 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:44,199 Speaker 1: about two hours a day. We can do way better. Eight. 36 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: I'm not sure it's all that different than twenty twenty 37 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 1: four from when I was there in eighty one. Good 38 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 1: teachers are rare, Most schools are fine. Most kids would 39 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 1: rather play sport. Essentially like life, you get out of 40 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:58,480 Speaker 1: it what you put into it. The only major difference 41 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 1: is you pay a shed load more now than you 42 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:04,559 Speaker 1: used to. For more from the mic Asking Breakfast, listen 43 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 1: live to News Talks at B from six am weekdays, 44 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 1: or follow the podcast on iHeartRadio