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Speaker 1: The Hits Drive with Maddy and Paja thanks to Chimis Warehouse,

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Speaker 1: the Real House of Fragrances, Many and PJ on that

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Speaker 1: Hi and welcome to the podcast for a Tuesday.

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Speaker 2: Hello, how are you?

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Speaker 1: Hi?

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Speaker 2: Good?

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Speaker 1: How are you good?

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Speaker 2: Oh? God? I do you when you put up stories

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Speaker 2: on your Instagram? Do you ever rock a close friends

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Speaker 2: You know, you can create a close friends group and

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Speaker 2: then you can know certain stories out just to a

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Speaker 2: select few.

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Speaker 1: I might have done it like once or twice. Invact,

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Speaker 1: I accidentally did it the other day and then I

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Speaker 1: was like, oh shit, so I deleted it, and then

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Speaker 1: I did it again, just a normal But I do

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Speaker 1: feir really special when the old greenplings comes up and

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Speaker 1: I know that I've been allocated and the close friends list.

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Speaker 2: I'm always I'm often amazed at whose close friends list

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Speaker 2: I've made.

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Speaker 3: Same.

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Speaker 1: I think Clint from Zidim, I think I was one

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Speaker 1: of his close friends. Maybe.

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Speaker 2: But you've known each other for a long time, you're

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Speaker 2: and Clinton?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, well, I mean yeah, but I've never got

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Speaker 1: to know him like so well, I suppose I've known

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Speaker 1: him like in a digital space, but I've never actually like,

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Speaker 1: you know, this is the first year, we've been actually

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Speaker 1: working for the same company, but it's still I'm like

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Speaker 1: in the mighty worded up. But you know, there's a guy.

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Speaker 2: There's a guy I know. I wouldn't say I know

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Speaker 2: him super well, but we've met a few times and we, like,

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Speaker 2: you know, kind of those social media friends will message

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Speaker 2: each other, like, you know, react to each other's stories

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Speaker 2: and stuff. Yes, I just found out that I was

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Speaker 2: on his close friends list.

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Speaker 1: Anyway you want to play call though you kind of

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Speaker 1: don't want to be like, oh my god, thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for putting me on here.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to send you a photo PJ of what

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Speaker 2: just came up on his close friends list?

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Speaker 1: Was that a sexy picture?

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Speaker 2: Are you ready for it?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, send it to me. I am describe

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Speaker 1: the picture. Oh my god, he's nude in a spar

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Speaker 1: an inflatable hot tub. I can't well, I'd be honored

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Speaker 1: to It's a.

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Speaker 2: Great photos, great photo.

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Speaker 1: So you've never met it, So he's also a digital friend,

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Speaker 1: like we.

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Speaker 2: Have no we have met in personal so you have

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Speaker 2: I yet. I was just surprised to make his close

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Speaker 2: friends list. But yeah, I.

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Speaker 1: Would love to know. See this is the next part

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Speaker 1: you want to know how many people make it onto

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Speaker 1: that close friends like house fishal are you? Because you

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Speaker 1: can feel really special right until you realize actually it's

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Speaker 1: most of his bar a few because maybe he just

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Speaker 1: want to boost any bubbles. And I'm actually getting anxiety

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Speaker 1: actually don't know if I was. I think I got

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Speaker 2: I don't want to be in stag. I want his

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Speaker 2: close friends list I made. I made a close friends

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Speaker 2: list once. It's got fifty two people one and I'm

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, who's on it? How do you find

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Speaker 1: out who's on your close friends list?

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Speaker 2: Where do you go? Okay, are you on your thing?

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Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, close friends? I got forty eight yep, Oh

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Speaker 2: It's very old though, Like I'm looking at this step smith.

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Speaker 4: On there's like a really well, very very big name

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Speaker 1: I don't know if only chose these, that's brilliant.

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Speaker 2: Of course you did. If Steve Cliss that's on there,

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Speaker 2: of course you did. You're desperate to be her.

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Speaker 1: Friend, meg Allie. I feel like this is kind of

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Speaker 1: from people I've DMed the most, not reciprocated.

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Speaker 2: But one way I'll tell you, I'll tell you something

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Speaker 2: for free. And this this, this is an indication of

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Speaker 1: It road because I feel like we always interact with

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Speaker 3: How far how far we have cow we have?

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Speaker 1: Honestly, we've got so close.

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Speaker 2: And you'd be top of my close friends list.

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Speaker 1: Now, yeah, I think you've been there. Do you have

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Speaker 1: Just seems like one more thing?

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Speaker 2: Ah, yeah, No I don't.

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Speaker 1: Actually, probably actually would be easy, so you can just

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Speaker 2: There's very few. The very few people like call. I'm

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Speaker 2: It's my brother, my best friend, Chloe, Ryan, my agent,

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Speaker 2: and that's pretty much it.

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Speaker 1: I sometimes want to call you, but then I'm like, nah,

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Speaker 1: just I'll give him a break because he sees me

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Speaker 1: till we get to it.

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Speaker 2: Can call me anytime.

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Speaker 1: I bet co workers in the bas who called a

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Speaker 2: Anytime, I love a phone call, I prefer calling.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you don't like the voice message that my

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Speaker 2: No, I love the voice members Ryan Ryan, I doesn't

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Speaker 1: I love a voice. Actually. Caitlyn, my really good friend

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Speaker 1: Caitlin from the Girls Uninterrupted podcast formerly from Sidium, she

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Speaker 1: the other day got the eck. She got the eck

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Speaker 1: from me when I seen a voice message. She's like,

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Speaker 1: So I think it like really divides people.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I used to hate them, but I'm getting better.

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Speaker 1: It's just a good dump. It's just like a little

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Speaker 1: want to and there's enormous interpretations. Anyway. Coming up the

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Speaker 1: podcast today, we talked about your partner's beij flax. This

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Speaker 1: is like the quirky thing that they do that doesn't

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Speaker 2: Plus, you seed something on the show last week during

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Speaker 2: a game of headle miss that we do every day

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Speaker 2: that came.

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Speaker 1: Back time and group therapy. Can you ever come back

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Speaker 1: from hooking up with your best friend? We tackle that

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Speaker 1: plus so much more in today's podcast.

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Speaker 3: Enjoy Many and PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 2: That's okay, very lucky. You and I have got a

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Speaker 2: week's holiday coming.

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Speaker 3: Out very shortly.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm so excited. Not that I don't

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Speaker 1: enjoy my job day and day out, but it's just

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Speaker 1: like a really long feust. It's just busy going it

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's so much going on in your life, so

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Speaker 2: it'll be nice to just step away.

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Speaker 3: For a week.

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Speaker 1: Right, So excited?

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Speaker 2: Your well planned, like, you're very organized, you know what

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Speaker 2: you're doing. I'm such a last minute organizer of trips.

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Speaker 2: It's terrible.

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Speaker 1: You can't afford to do that without kids, So I

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Speaker 1: think you can be a little bit spontaneous. It's way

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Speaker 1: harder when you've got dependence. Truly last minute.

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Speaker 2: It's not smart on the bank balance, though, is it

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Speaker 2: when you do a last minute bookings?

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Speaker 2: But I so I thought, what could we do? Maybe

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Speaker 2: like we don't fly anywhere. Maybe there's something some cute

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Speaker 2: grid there's like no Wi Fi, there's no anything.

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Speaker 1: Like, so many cool options. Now you got the have

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Speaker 1: you seen the gds at domes. We wanted to do

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Speaker 1: one of them for any of VMB. It's like they're

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Speaker 2: Yeah, these are these really cute little cabins and some

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Speaker 1: Many that's the idea of going off grid.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but then I'm literally I know, but my concern

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Speaker 2: is what do I do? Like, what do you do

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Speaker 1: Do what humans have done for years on years?

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Speaker 2: And what's that?

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Speaker 1: Well, a couple of things. If you're just there with

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Speaker 6: I know.

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Speaker 2: But you don't think I'll get too bored.

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Speaker 1: You will, You will get bored, But no, you'll be fine.

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Speaker 1: I think it's just the initial part. It's like we

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Speaker 1: genuinely as humans these days have actual like screen addictions, right,

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Speaker 1: So it'll be tough when you have the withdrawal, Like

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Speaker 1: the first maybe few hours you'll be like and you're like,

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Speaker 1: what do you like tape? What do I do now?

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Speaker 1: But then you'll go into the state of bliss and

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Speaker 1: you'll be like, why do I look at this thing

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Speaker 1: all the time? I honestly I cannot encourage it enough.

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Speaker 3: Do it?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I'm going to okay, I'm going to okay,

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Speaker 2: excuse me?

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Speaker 1: You mean on Celebrity True to Ryland and you're like, guys,

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Speaker 1: I didn't use my phone for like, how long were

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Speaker 1: you on the book?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, three weeks?

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Speaker 1: But I head, do we need to turn it and

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Speaker 1: like a reality?

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Speaker 2: If I'm not digging for I don't what to do

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Speaker 2: with my days.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Meddie made the Best Man went out of You

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Speaker 1: and Ryan two Me and one Kevin.

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Speaker 3: It's not the new show, Meddi and PJ the podcast

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Speaker 1: So we'll take newspapers, we'll take radio, we'll take the

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Speaker 2: Have you made top of the six o'clock news bulletin.

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Speaker 1: We're asking the question, when did you make the news?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you and I have been reminiscing. I made the

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Speaker 2: You made the actual television.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I made the CTV news for being the only student

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Speaker 7: Why.

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Speaker 4: Get to see it? Did you need to see a

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 8: I did.

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Speaker 1: I think so much. You're getting in touch. It's got

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Speaker 8: We meet Prince Chow?

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Speaker 3: Oh wow?

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Speaker 8: He was next door farm where we lived, just out

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Speaker 1: Oh, you should put him in for a coppa cat.

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Speaker 8: One night, we had a dog who just like him.

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Speaker 8: Well, they had the whole entourage following behind Prince Charles.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, we made the news, We made the papers, and

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Speaker 1: Very exciting, a great, very exciting day for Balls. Let's

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Speaker 1: wrap up with Mark from the Cargo Mark how did

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Speaker 10: I was on the split of New Zealand and when

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Speaker 2: From ye were you front page? Were you front page?

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Speaker 1: There's so many amazing ticks coming through. I was on

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Speaker 2: Am I love this one. Not the news, but I

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Speaker 1: Okay? What's the age old saying? Is it? Time heals everything?

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Speaker 2: I thought you wouldn't say don't screw the crew.

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Speaker 1: the abyss.

447
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Speaker 2: The fact that they text that the best friend texts

448
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Speaker 2: this person and said we need to talk about what happens. Yeah,

449
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Speaker 2: that means they want to talk about it. It might

450
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Speaker 2: be their needs, it might be an uncomfortable conversation but

451
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:34,760
Speaker 2: they're willing to talk about it, so you kind of

452
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Speaker 2: need to come to the party as well. I think.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, we'd love to hear your advice, now, your

454
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Speaker 1: feedback on this. Do you think you can come back

455
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Speaker 1: from hooking up with your best friends?

456
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Speaker 2: Maybe you've had experience, maybe you've maybe you've been in

457
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Speaker 2: the situation before.

458
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Speaker 1: What do you think this person should do? What is

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Speaker 1: their best next step? Get in touch? Oh eight hundred.

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Speaker 3: Maddy and PJ.

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Speaker 6: Maddy in PJ the Podcast Many mpj's group Therapy.

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Speaker 1: Collective. Sigh of relief. All right, get in touch. We

463
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Speaker 1: do this every week on the show. You can tat

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Speaker 1: four four eight seven, had us up on social the

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Speaker 1: hat strive, slide into our DMS. Anything that's going on

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Speaker 1: in your life. You just need a bit of external

467
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Speaker 1: advice or we are here to help. And this week's

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Speaker 1: problem is spicy.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to read it to you. I'm single and

470
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Speaker 2: I currently live with my best friend who's also single.

471
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Speaker 2: I'm gay, straight. I've never been romantically interested in them

472
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Speaker 2: at all though my best friend, but we had a

473
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Speaker 2: big night out on Saturday and I definitely had one

474
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Speaker 2: too many gents. Next thing I know I've tried to

475
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Speaker 2: kiss my best friend. I woke up the next morning

476
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Speaker 2: to a text from them saying we need to talk

477
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Speaker 2: about what happens last night. But I'm so mortified and

478
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Speaker 2: uncomfortable that I've been avoiding them since then. I'm so

479
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Speaker 2: worried that I've damaged our friendship with a stupid drunken mistake.

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Speaker 2: Is there any coming back from this? How do I

481
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Speaker 2: make it better and patch up my friendship?

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Speaker 1: I swear this is on a TV show, Medie. I

483
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Speaker 1: feel like this storyline is very good. That where am

484
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Speaker 1: I saying that? I mean, it's probably a tail as

485
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Speaker 1: old as time, really, isn't it.

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Speaker 2: That's true?

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Speaker 1: Now, Maddie and I both think that you need to

488
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Speaker 1: acknowledge it straight out. The Gates do have the chat,

489
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Speaker 1: and then maybe give them a bit of space. But

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Speaker 1: let's see your thoughts. Oh Light one hundred and has

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Speaker 1: Paul from Auckland wants to weigh and Paul, what are your.

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Speaker 7: Thoughts whether it's guys or girls or whatever sexual dynamics

493
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Speaker 7: it is. I think what needs to happen is t

494
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Speaker 7: hear the scab off the wounds straight away and make

495
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Speaker 7: the phone call and have to have the conversation because

496
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Speaker 7: you use the word best friends in that term. Best

497
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Speaker 7: friends always go through trials and tribulations, and this is

498
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Speaker 7: just one of them. It's not just about sexuality, it's

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Speaker 7: about how comfortable he felt, and when alcohol plays a part.

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Speaker 7: We all know, and we've all been in a stupid

501
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Speaker 7: place in our life with alcohol that we've done something

502
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Speaker 7: and the best thing you can do is attack it

503
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Speaker 7: straight away. And he just needs to be honest own up.

504
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Speaker 7: He has feelings for him, then that's obviously different. He

505
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Speaker 7: needs to have that conversation too, But I definitely think

506
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Speaker 7: an immediate conversation is worth it and play play it

507
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Speaker 7: like a lighthearted situation that I can't believe this happened.

508
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Speaker 7: I was so drunk, you know. You know, there's obviously

509
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Speaker 7: care and trust factors that he had with this person

510
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Speaker 7: that made him feel that comfortable, so and alcohol brought

511
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Speaker 7: it out.

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Speaker 1: I love it. Well, you're coming out of the gates

513
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Speaker 1: like an expert. Is this are you speaking from experience?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: I am, Yeah amazing.

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Speaker 1: I love that you go first and advice. Thank you

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Speaker 1: so much. You're getting in touch. Let's go to Steve

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Speaker 1: on Oh I under the Steve, what are your thoughts.

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Speaker 9: Hey you how you doing?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, very well?

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Speaker 7: That The first thing is no contact about that friend.

522
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Speaker 7: The words here was the best friend?

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Speaker 2: Like that?

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Speaker 1: That That's what I was so many tas saying that

525
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Speaker 1: someone goes have the talk buss. He might be keen

526
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Speaker 1: to jump the fence.

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Speaker 4: Over he's got he's got one leg over at least talk.

528
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Speaker 7: It could be a good he's making as it may.

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Speaker 1: Be the true story, Steve, it's a whole new level

530
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Speaker 1: because this person doesn't want a romantic relationship, right see

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Speaker 1: them as a frint. Well, maybe that's.

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Speaker 7: Going to Steve the drunk people the truth.

533
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Speaker 2: That's that's true. I love that, Steve Good.

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Speaker 7: Definitely contact them, what's going on, don't be afraid friend, and.

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Speaker 2: Then just okay. So I think that where we've landed

536
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Speaker 2: is you've got to write the bandit of, You've got

537
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Speaker 2: to have that conversation, and then you never know.

538
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Speaker 1: Something you never know, love could be in the air.

539
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Speaker 1: I love the calls that we hit this week. Thank you, Steve.

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Speaker 1: Be back this week with group therapy. If there's anything

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Speaker 1: you would like us to tackle. Texts four four eight

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Speaker 1: seven the podcast. All right, so it's a little bit

543
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Speaker 1: of a trend going on aline where you have to

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Speaker 1: share your partner's beige flag.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, We're we're always being served up these new terms, right,

546
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Speaker 2: there's so many different things that we're going to keep

547
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Speaker 2: hard to keep up. But I'm sure so many people

548
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Speaker 2: out there have heard of red flags, right.

549
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Speaker 1: That's yeah, because I do not do not proceed in

550
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Speaker 1: the relationship.

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Speaker 2: The key buzz word of of the moment, which is, yeah,

552
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Speaker 2: those things in a person that really give off like

553
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Speaker 2: a like a literal red flag, like the relationship not good.

554
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Speaker 2: And then there's green flags, which are the things that

555
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Speaker 2: people do that are beautiful and should be really celebrated.

556
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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, And then I read about beige flags. I'm going

558
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Speaker 2: to read you the definition of what a beige flag is,

559
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Speaker 2: which might help people understand. Beige flag refers to a

560
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Speaker 2: person's strange or odd behaviors that catch someone off guard

561
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Speaker 2: but typically don't hurt that person's desirability. A beige flag

562
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Speaker 2: is neither good nor bad, but it does draw attention.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm feeling like quirky, kind of curious interesting.

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Speaker 1: When I initially heard beij I was like, oh, so

565
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Speaker 1: the boring traits about this person, but it's not that,

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Speaker 1: it's actually what makes them them, I suppose uniquely them.

567
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Speaker 2: I'm gonna this is what brought my attention to It

568
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Speaker 2: was a video online that someone took of their husband's

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Speaker 2: beige flag, which is that he makes her what makes

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Speaker 2: them sit down to have a mandatory monthly meeting regarding

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Speaker 2: the organization of their fridge. So they literally sit down

572
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Speaker 2: in front of the fridge and go, okay, so are

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Speaker 2: we happy with the placement of the condiments here? Do

574
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Speaker 2: we like where the where the meat is sitting right now?

575
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Speaker 2: Is this the best place for our fruit and veggies?

576
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Speaker 2: You know, all of that kind of thing they do.

577
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Speaker 1: That we need to implement this meeting in our household.

578
00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 1: Our friends can really do with some organizing.

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Speaker 2: So I thought to myself, well, what what would our

580
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Speaker 2: beije flags be? So I send a message to both

581
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Speaker 2: of our partners today.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, don't, because I'm trying to think of bj

583
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Speaker 1: my husband's. I'd be the beigist in the relationship. I'm

584
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Speaker 1: certainly the quirky one out of us.

585
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Speaker 2: So, yes, he said about you, he said, does going

586
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Speaker 2: from a run and staying in your running gear all

587
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Speaker 2: day count? No?

588
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Speaker 1: How dear, I hate. No, I've done that once.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. It sounds like you do this often,

590
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Speaker 2: he hates.

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Speaker 1: He hates it if I don't get straight in the

592
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Speaker 1: shower after working out, because I am guilty of just

593
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Speaker 1: staying in my active with Did he say anything else?

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Speaker 2: He said, the shutting of doors three times before leaving

595
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Speaker 2: the room or the car.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's so, I said, How I can't help that?

597
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Speaker 1: Can I? Tho? He can't deal that? He cannot. I

598
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Speaker 1: have many different things. I touched door handles.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not hand I was worried that I'd opened

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Speaker 2: up Pandora's box. He said, the list can go on.

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Speaker 2: She is all beige, no red flags. Would rather be

602
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Speaker 2: all beige flags.

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Speaker 1: Exactly What did run your husband say?

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Speaker 2: He said, walking way ahead of people, or getting out

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Speaker 2: of a car and walking off regardless of how fast

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Speaker 2: other people moving.

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Speaker 1: My god, that is so true. Oh bij Bja's beig flag.

608
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Speaker 1: That would be him getting in the car when I'm

609
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Speaker 1: not even ready getting in. De turns the.

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Speaker 7: Car on right.

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Speaker 1: I'm ready to go, to say, when I'm not even ready.

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Speaker 1: It's so passive aggressive. All right. These are some examples

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Speaker 1: of beije flags. We want you to join the conversation

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Speaker 1: right now. Oh wait, one hundred the hats. Maybe this

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Speaker 1: brought up something that your partner does that would come

616
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Speaker 1: under the beije flag umbrella.

617
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Speaker 2: The weird and wonderful things that they do that make

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Speaker 2: them uniquely them.

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Speaker 1: Let's celebrate. We've got some pries and STI give away

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Speaker 1: from Chemists were House. If we get you on the air.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, one hundred the hats. You can also text

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Speaker 1: us four for eight.

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Speaker 3: Million a podcast.

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Speaker 1: And does your partner have a beige flag? Oh? Eight

625
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Speaker 1: hundred the hats. Definition of beige flag, go Maddie McLean.

626
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 2: Beige flag refers to a person's strange or odd behaviors

627
00:30:21,360 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 2: that catch someone off guard, but typically don't hurt that

628
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:28,240
Speaker 2: person's desirability. A beige flag is neither good nor bad,

629
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Speaker 2: but it does draw attention.

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Speaker 1: All right, let's go to pull Paul. What is your

631
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Speaker 1: partner's beige flag?

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Speaker 10: Okay, yeah, were wat it's a chef, but I love

633
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Speaker 10: to cop.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 10: What generally happens is I'll be at home cooking dinner

636
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Speaker 10: because I loved to cook, because he's been working, and

637
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Speaker 10: while I'm cooking, she'll clean up. She hates a really

638
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:50,920
Speaker 10: messy kitchen. Right, So I'll be using a knife or

639
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Speaker 10: something like that. I'll put it down, go back to

640
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Speaker 10: get it and it's gone. It's been clean.

641
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Speaker 7: Literally, got a.

642
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Speaker 10: Plate out of the cupboard, turned around to get to

643
00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:03,320
Speaker 10: the pot and come back and the plant's gone.

644
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:04,240
Speaker 2: Okay.

645
00:31:04,360 --> 00:31:08,440
Speaker 1: So like, sometimes it must be blessful when you finished

646
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 1: cooking and the kitchen is just immegula. It must only

647
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Speaker 1: be a few times you go back to reuse, you

648
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Speaker 1: know some of the appliants and.

649
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 2: Those few times and bloody frustrating.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, especially a knife when you're chopping up stuff the

651
00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:23,040
Speaker 10: cook and you go to grab.

652
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:27,000
Speaker 2: Something exactly time.

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Speaker 1: I think, so much for your call. It's got to

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Speaker 1: the Carbony coast. Corey joins us. Corey, what's your partner's

655
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Speaker 1: beide flag?

656
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Speaker 9: Good evening. It's not my partner, it's me.

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Speaker 2: You yourself confessing here, Corey sting himself out. Yeah.

658
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Speaker 9: Yeah, I'm a bit of a sleep eater.

659
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Speaker 1: What do you mean, Oh my gosh, So you eat

660
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Speaker 1: in the night and you're not even aware of it.

661
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Speaker 9: Yeah, Like I'll wake up in bed with like a

662
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Speaker 9: pack of chips, a pack of chocolate boscuits in the

663
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Speaker 9: morning and I won't even know I've done it. I've

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Speaker 9: woken up in the pantry like eating, thinking what the

665
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Speaker 9: hell am I doing here?

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Speaker 1: This is such a thing. Do you dream? Are you like?

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Speaker 1: Because I remember when I was little, Ice you dream

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Speaker 1: I've got to the toilet and I wake up in

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Speaker 1: so sheets? Are you dreaming that I was little? I

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Speaker 1: was little? But Corey, are you actually dreaming that you're eating?

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Speaker 1: Or is it a total surprise?

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Speaker 9: I never dream of eating. I just just eat. I'll

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Speaker 9: walk around sometimes I'll find like a pack and a

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Speaker 9: pack of biscuits on the lounge or okay, on the lounge,

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Speaker 9: and I mean, I get to blame because I'm the sleeper.

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Speaker 2: And how here's my next question? How much of the

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Speaker 2: packet do you get through? Corey?

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Speaker 9: Sometimes the whole thing?

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Speaker 1: I love that.

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Speaker 9: Sometimes sometimes there's a few crumbs in the bed, which

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Speaker 9: isn't isn't too great.

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Speaker 1: But if I would just I would pass it off

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Speaker 1: all the time. I can't help her. I was a

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Speaker 1: sleep really, I was actually right away.

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Speaker 9: I don't.

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Speaker 3: Self Guy G Maddy ANDJ Mady and PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 6: Hey.

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Speaker 2: One of the one of my favorite things about starting

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Speaker 2: this job and working in radio is that everything is archived. Yes,

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Speaker 2: Like when you say something on the radio, we keep

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Speaker 2: like a file of that audio clip for so long,

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Speaker 2: and so it's so easy to like trawl back through

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Speaker 2: the archives and find something that one of us is seared.

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Speaker 1: It's danger I say, when you go back and you

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Speaker 1: look at the year, it's like Matty awkward story at

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Speaker 1: the petrol Start.

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Speaker 6: I know.

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Speaker 2: And so I wanted to actually remind you of something

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Speaker 2: that you said on our show recently. Mess I love

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Speaker 2: I love magic.

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Speaker 1: I love magic, absolutely love magic. I love mysticism. I

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Speaker 1: love you name it a bit of woe, but just

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Speaker 1: kind of break me out. I don't get me wrong.

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Speaker 1: I can be very impressed by a good magic trick,

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Speaker 1: but just magicians generally only a traveling magician.

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Speaker 2: I'm a traveling magician. Look, it was the end of

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Speaker 2: us show.

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Speaker 1: It was after sex. You know, I get a little

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Speaker 1: loose and a little ruthless. I have so much respect

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Speaker 1: for magicians. I think they're one of the most fascinating

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Speaker 1: people out there. If I were to have another life,

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Speaker 1: maybe I'd be a magician.

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Speaker 2: I think what you actually said was they freak me out,

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Speaker 2: and then went on to kind of mock the fact

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Speaker 2: that they traveled the country. So I thought, we can't

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Speaker 2: have this, Peege. We can't have you feeling this way

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Speaker 2: about magicians. Maybe I can help you get over your fear.

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Speaker 1: Oh you're not going to make me do a live track?

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Speaker 7: Are you?

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Speaker 2: Traveling magicians? So I'd like to welcome into the studio

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Speaker 2: a very very incredible magician. Brendan.

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Speaker 1: Hey, how's it goal, Hi brand, how's it going, dude?

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Speaker 1: How are you okay? Do you want to He's so

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Speaker 1: good to have you on the show.

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Speaker 11: Well, sure, do.

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Speaker 2: You want to? Do you just want to remind Brendan

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Speaker 2: of what you said about magician's.

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Speaker 1: Peach or I just said I don't I personally I

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Speaker 1: have so much know what you see it. I just

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Speaker 1: I think they're misunderstood it either. Okay, I see they

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Speaker 1: freak me out, all right, that's okay.

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Speaker 11: The way you're harming myself esteem right now is why

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Speaker 11: I do this. So it's not new information. This is

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Speaker 11: the export of a Saint Bede's education.

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Speaker 1: Look, Brendan, I I you know, magic's just not everyone.

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Speaker 1: It's okay, I love magic, but just magic tricks.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 11: I have to be in the right mode for it

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Speaker 11: I completely understand, but like, see what I love about

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Speaker 11: this is for me. You know, when I say I'm

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Speaker 11: a magician for a living, people go they either think

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Speaker 11: birthday party magician or dynamo. There's no one between.

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Speaker 3: Yes, So you know, for me, I've grown up loving.

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Speaker 11: This and for me the job is I wanted to

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Speaker 11: create a show for people who love magic, but then

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Speaker 11: for people who don't love magic. It's about creating this

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Speaker 11: joint and relatable experience, making it modern and accessible.

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Speaker 2: So I love magic and you and I have already

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Speaker 2: done a little magic trek outside and I was blown away.

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Speaker 2: Do you think you can get PJ to love magic

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Speaker 2: with a magic trick? Right now?

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Speaker 1: Let's give something a go?

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Speaker 7: Why not?

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Speaker 1: All right, we're going to come back. We're joined by

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Speaker 1: Brendan Doley, the magician. He is gonna wow Wa Snixt

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Speaker 1: with a little trek and we'll go the air right

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Speaker 1: after Morgan Wallen on the.

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Speaker 3: Hats Many and PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 1: It's Morgan Wallin on the Hats from Many and PJ.

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Speaker 1: We're joined by magician Brendan Dooley and he is about

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Speaker 1: to do a magic trek live on the air for us.

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Speaker 1: Head at Brendan, what have you got too?

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Speaker 11: I flew back in last night, saw a magazine I

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Speaker 11: stole from a cornou wound yesterday evening. Maybe just because

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Speaker 11: you're qulose, I'll get you to be the eyes. You

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Speaker 11: can see different pages, different words. Yes, beautiful, I'll go

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Speaker 11: through you to say stop for me, dude, stop right here,

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Speaker 11: here we go, souve an air from me. You spared

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Speaker 11: the hits. Do me a favor, dude, hold the page

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Speaker 11: out of both hands for me. Go ahead and rip

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Speaker 11: that sucker in half for me. Okay, now we're gonna

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Speaker 11: do this is like a mental experiment.

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Speaker 3: Right now.

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Speaker 11: Drop one of those pieces of the four four piece

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Speaker 11: in your hand, rip that in half physically for me. Beautiful,

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Speaker 11: look at that force.

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Speaker 9: I love it.

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Speaker 11: Drop one of those pieces of the four, the piece

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Speaker 11: in your hand, rip that in half. There we drop

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Speaker 11: one of those pieces, so you have one piece in

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Speaker 11: your hand. Correct, correct, beautiful. What I would love for

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Speaker 11: you to do is hold one of those sides up

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Speaker 11: of the page for PJ to see, and PJ. What

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Speaker 11: I would love you to do off that piece is

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Speaker 11: go ahead and choose any word that you want.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So do you want me to tell you the word.

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Speaker 11: No, So I want you to just yeah, go ahead

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Speaker 11: and see any word that you want. Oh, I'll ask

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Speaker 11: is that it's a big meati sucker at least eight

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Speaker 11: or nine years. Okay, amazing, what do we do?

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Speaker 1: Go ahead?

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Speaker 11: Think of that first letter for me. This is what

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Speaker 11: we'll do. That's a B C, D E F g

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Speaker 11: H I J K l amin O, p q R

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Speaker 11: S t U v w x Y.

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Speaker 1: I'm maddie.

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Speaker 11: If you were to take a guess right now, what

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Speaker 11: do you think the first letter of Pj's word is?

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Speaker 1: What do I think?

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Speaker 2: The letter is you?

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Speaker 1: You, and the letter is by. That's a year. We're

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Speaker 1: doing good.

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Speaker 3: We're doing good.

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Speaker 11: That scares me to It scares me too. It's all right, Okay,

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Speaker 11: say your name out loud.

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Speaker 2: For me, PJ.

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Speaker 1: PJ. Harding, beautiful.

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Speaker 11: Say your name in your head, yep, beautiful. Okay, say

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Speaker 11: the word in your head over over over, cracky. You're

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Speaker 11: sweating like a church full of sinners right now.

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Speaker 2: I love that. Okay. So he's writing what he thinks

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Speaker 2: her word is on a piece of paper right now?

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Speaker 1: What is it? This is freaking me out.

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Speaker 11: I'm locked and load to close your eyes for me, PJ.

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Speaker 11: I'll tell you when to open them. This is the

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Speaker 11: word that I believe that's sending on your head right now.

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Speaker 11: I know one hundred old pages, thousands of words. You're

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Speaker 11: thinking of one of them nice and loud for us, PJ.

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Speaker 11: What was the word?

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Speaker 2: What say that out loud?

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Speaker 1: It was universe?

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Speaker 2: That is amazing.

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Speaker 11: That reaction is why I do what I do. Like

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Speaker 11: for me, there's job wake, you know, I have the

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Speaker 11: pusure traveling around the world doing this. My work compileds

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Speaker 11: of corporate events and cruise ships and theater touring all

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Speaker 11: around the world. And for me, it's given the people

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Speaker 11: the gift of time. To Maddie, I want to give

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Speaker 11: you a gift as well. Actually, if you don't mind,

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Speaker 11: do me a favor to shake out your hands for me.

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Speaker 11: Just copy what I say. Say O MG, oh MG,

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Speaker 11: I can't believe.

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Speaker 2: I can't believe.

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Speaker 11: Brindan Dowey, Brindon Dooley stole my watch, stole my watch?

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Speaker 11: What I'm sorry? I spent way too much time in

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Speaker 11: myth and growing up.

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Speaker 2: Hell, oh my god, there's myth fan.

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Speaker 1: Did you know that I grew up a myth fan?

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Speaker 1: Are you inside my head again. What's going on?

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Speaker 2: That's okay.

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Speaker 11: It scares me to blink twice.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so do they still freak you out? Page or

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Speaker 4: you were impressed? I'm officially convinted. That was amazing.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for coming in.

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Speaker 3: Holy how did you do that? Median p J the podcast.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's