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Speaker 1: The ZiT M podcast network, The Fleet Whom and Haley

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Speaker 1: Big Pod. Great things are brewing in mcafe, the perfect

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Speaker 1: start to every day.

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Speaker 2: Homiest try that I'm doing a sup homie.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was just going to try some homies. You're

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Speaker 3: in your Long Johns today and yeah long John's got

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Speaker 3: my Long john shirt on. Yep, you little Pj's Yep.

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Speaker 2: Ready to get some gold out of them there.

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Speaker 4: I like it. Sure, I'm ready. I'll top sex coming on.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's expers have revealed the eight main reasons you're tired,

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Speaker 2: and I'll have this sex other reasons that you're tired.

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Speaker 3: You're around all fourteen reasons you're tired. I slipt terribly

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Speaker 3: last night Live in thirty.

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Speaker 4: He's in the way till I live in thirty.

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Speaker 2: Buzzy Brian, I don't know why, Okay, yeah, okay, Well

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Speaker 2: I had all the best plans and intentions are going

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Speaker 2: to be very early, but then that hilarious Alan Carr

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Speaker 2: is doing up an Italian villa.

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Speaker 4: Lovely a boomer. I know.

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Speaker 2: It was one of the shows and it was just

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Speaker 2: on after whatever we were watching or whatever, and I

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Speaker 2: was like, oh god, five minutes and I was like

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Speaker 2: what are they going to do with this house?

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Speaker 1: I love so cute that you sit down and watch TV,

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Speaker 1: I know, and then.

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Speaker 2: It adds some other stuff. Got already got up my

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Speaker 2: bag all sort of for today's work once I was

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Speaker 2: in and next week's the finals.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, so you're hopped. Your beard looks so good.

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Speaker 1: I did I notice that went to went to a

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Speaker 1: bed place, went to a barber. He took a photo

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Speaker 1: one we talked about this last week when you're away.

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Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, asked for the Rachel. Yeah, of course

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Speaker 2: was season two of Friends.

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Speaker 4: Do you know who?

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Speaker 1: He took a photo of the Craig David.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, who was the photo? Henry Cavill Oh yea.

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Speaker 2: And yeah the gentleman, the unwar, the warfare, the ministry,

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Speaker 2: gentleman lead stuff.

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Speaker 4: Oh you look great, Sorry, but it's nice.

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Speaker 2: It's like getting a happy birthday of the day after

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Speaker 2: your birthday extends the birthday.

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Speaker 4: It does four or five days later.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, silly little pole on the way, do you

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Speaker 1: regret turning your hobby into a side hustle, like making

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Speaker 1: something you love a job and then slaving slaving over it?

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Speaker 1: The pole results coming up, But nixt on the show

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Speaker 1: beautiful thought.

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Speaker 3: There was a man who went to a great Inns

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Speaker 3: are great Inns put in some great effort for his proposals,

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Speaker 3: Flew and Hailey. Elaborate proposals always take a bit of planning,

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Speaker 3: don't they. And there was a gentleman in America who

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Speaker 3: planned out what he thought was the perfect proposal, a

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Speaker 3: road trip across America, big road trap, and the map,

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Speaker 3: the GPS map would spell out will you marry me?

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Speaker 4: Now, it does look like.

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Speaker 3: It was written by someone using their non dominant hand

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Speaker 3: in the middle of a seizure, but at the end

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Speaker 3: of the trip it does say, yeah, will.

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Speaker 4: You marry him? And so he's I mean, I don't

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Speaker 4: want to say cheated.

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Speaker 1: But where there's a gap between the med he has

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Speaker 1: just turned off the GPS map, the mapping. Yeah, okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: still for nomenal effort.

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Speaker 4: How many kilometers were driven? Oh? Good questions?

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Speaker 1: So weird because he's gone literally up and then only

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Speaker 1: just straight back down next to.

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Speaker 3: It's a very good story because it doesn't say the

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Speaker 3: total kilometers.

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Speaker 4: But I mean that's I mean, America is genormous.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so that would be literally months and months in

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So the way he did it was he mapped it

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Speaker 3: he would like not not have the GPS on. And

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Speaker 3: the way he did it was because on some of

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Speaker 3: them it's not just a straight down you he's got

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Speaker 3: Capital Lie, he's gone along, then he's got to go

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Speaker 2: Wild, why are we coming back along this road the

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Speaker 3: Very much so born because one he made all these

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Speaker 3: excuses being like, oh god, I've left my bloody wallet,

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Speaker 3: like if you see the size of this trip how

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Speaker 4: And then she's going to get livid. Way you keep

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Speaker 4: forgiving your bloody wallet.

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Speaker 3: Well so much so that they got to the end

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Speaker 3: of the trip successfully having written out will you marry me,

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Speaker 3: only to realize yeah, not compatible at all, And actually

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Speaker 3: the road trip was enough to break them up.

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Speaker 4: After being stuck in this god.

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Speaker 3: Forsaken car for months on ease, he got due spid.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, I've got to go back to this town.

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Speaker 1: Also, you'd be going along roads and there might not

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Speaker 3: Everyone said, I feel like any relationship would fall apart

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Speaker 3: with such an absurd trip. Weeks of driving and the

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Speaker 3: constant excuses to backtrack would drive anyone insane.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Nine out of teen marriages would never survive that

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Speaker 3: form of road trap. So that basically the only thing

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Speaker 3: that this road trip revealed to him was that they

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Speaker 3: were not compatible.

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Speaker 4: He should have just gone for a cycle around the neighborhood.

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Speaker 3: What about some stones in the sand, some stones, Oh,

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Speaker 3: you're still do the GPS thing, smaller stone, Scott said,

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Speaker 3: scones in the sand.

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Speaker 4: You should bake art dozens and dons dozens.

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Speaker 3: Of scones and to take them to the beach, and

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Speaker 3: then with the scones filled with jam and cream.

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Speaker 4: No stones on the beach, easy, you'll get a yeah.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 3: Months of planning, months of execution, and at the end

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Speaker 3: they couldn't get way to get out of the car

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Speaker 3: and not be together anymore.

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Speaker 1: Plays Fletchvoorne and Hailey fled Hailey, silly little pool, silly littupo.

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Speaker 5: It is so silly, silly, silly that silly little pool,

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Speaker 5: silly poo, silly littupodn.

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Speaker 4: I was distracted. Look at that.

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Speaker 2: Well, but look at this this guy. This is Do

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Speaker 2: you guys know about this Instagram? This Facebook group called

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Speaker 2: the Dull Men's Club. Yes, and they post things that

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Speaker 2: they tried to tell their wives and their wives were interested.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Look at us go into a dam in America.

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Speaker 2: Look, I'm massive that dammers And he's like, what's that

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Speaker 2: right at the bottom And it's someone on a right

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Speaker 2: on lawnmar er at the bottom mowing the grass.

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Speaker 4: On the inside of the dam. And look how that's

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Speaker 4: a huge damn. Anyway, that's a massive I love damns,

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Speaker 4: though I do love damns. I should have seen you

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Speaker 4: the video. Have I got a video? I saw a

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Speaker 4: video online of a damn collapsing?

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, a lot of would much no good like

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Speaker 1: it when they drop things off damn.

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Speaker 4: But spend them and the.

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Speaker 7: Weird.

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Speaker 2: Do you regret today's little pole is not about dams, unfortunately,

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Speaker 2: Little pole. Do you regret turning your hobby into a

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Speaker 2: side hustle? Well, that's what they say. If you never

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Speaker 2: want to work another day in your life, do something

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Speaker 2: you love, because you'll end up hating it.

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Speaker 4: Is that If you see that right? If that's quite right?

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Speaker 2: Get a job you love, and boy, you'll hate it

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Speaker 2: in six months. Turn your favorite thing into a job

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Speaker 2: and you'll hate it. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I sort of did this, I guess by going to

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Speaker 3: drama school. And then you're like, you've got to replace

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Speaker 3: the hobby or something else. Yeah, Pope needs a hobby.

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Speaker 4: Do you guys have hobbies?

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Speaker 2: Pepes, we're talking abou. My group of mates is talking

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Speaker 2: about this at the weekend. Our partners just don't have hobbies.

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Speaker 4: I've got hobbies. Marching is a hobby. Playing piano as

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Speaker 4: a hobby, Yeah, yeah, yeah, Lots of people don't have hobbies. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Her hobbies would include watching Instagram reels and spending money.

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Speaker 4: Like a hobby.

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Speaker 1: It's a hobby. You're shopping. Yeahs terrible hobby, passions of passion.

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Speaker 1: It's terrible, puple hobby. Do you regret turning your hobby

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Speaker 1: into a side huse? Or twenty three percent of people

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Speaker 1: say yes, it's seventy seven percent said no. Okay, I

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Speaker 1: love cleaning and it's now my business. I've turned my

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Speaker 1: OCD diagnosis into a money maker.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay. They love cleaning, cleaning, cleaning, I hate cleaning.

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Speaker 4: I hate cleaning.

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Speaker 2: But some people they've played at therapeutic right there, I'll

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Speaker 2: get in the mood for cleaning and i'll do it right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I can speak because she's not out of bed.

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Speaker 2: I shadow was out doing like the weekly shop or whatever,

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Speaker 2: and I started cleaning the aluminium frame of our windows.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, it's a horrible job.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, especially on double glazing because it's warmer on the

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Speaker 2: inside that it grows like molding.

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Speaker 2: And she got home and I was like, guess what

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Speaker 2: I'm doing. And she's like what, And I said, cleaning

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Speaker 2: the inside of the window. She's like, well, I've kind

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Speaker 2: of already done that. And I was like, explain that

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Speaker 2: to half a bag of absolutely filthy wipes. You did

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Speaker 2: a ship job.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, So when I clean, I'm yeah, right, I did.

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Speaker 3: I did that minstrel thug of when you just look

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Speaker 3: around the house and then you storm into the room

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Speaker 4: Say to Erin, we've got to clean this house. It's

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Speaker 4: a bag start. Yeah, I know that. That's you know

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Speaker 4: what It just every you look around and suddenly you're like.

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Speaker 1: Oh, everything's a mixed clutter. Yeah, but I don't want

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Speaker 1: to do not something you have to deal with, feach.

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Speaker 1: But it's definitely a sign of menstruating, or yeah, right

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Speaker 1: to me, Okay, you come over to my plane in

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Speaker 1: three hundred days when you get your nixt one.

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Speaker 4: She's not cleaning, she's telling you you need to Okay,

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Speaker 4: don't know you're not no, no, no, no, I'm not

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Speaker 4: cleaning it.

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Speaker 2: She's just telling you somehow all your fault and you

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Speaker 2: should be sorting it out, even though.

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Speaker 4: Literally, if you looked around and looked at what is

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Speaker 4: the mess, it's all me. Yeah, yeah, I'm not cleaning it.

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Speaker 4: I'm men's treating. Isn't that enough. I'm here potentially creating life.

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Speaker 4: Well no, you're showing the signs of definitely not creating life.

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Speaker 2: Tony says, I love baking and decorating cakes, but I'm

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Speaker 2: also a people pleaser, so I can't say no when

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Speaker 2: people ask me to do a cake, even when I'm

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Speaker 2: too busy.

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Speaker 4: Yes, people don't put the value.

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Speaker 2: On the cake decorating friend, No, you're gonna put some

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Speaker 2: value there, Darryl. Because it never became a fully fledged

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Speaker 2: side hustle, made no sales and spent lots of money,

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Speaker 2: so technically it never left being a hobby. Oh that sucks,

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Speaker 2: Ryan said, I made money from doing it and I

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Speaker 2: still love it. That's a win win.

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Speaker 4: So one of those I assume he's a male jiggler.

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Speaker 4: I think so the only thing male is is that Juice.

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Speaker 4: Is it his name?

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Speaker 2: in why the eight main reasons you're tired? And then

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Speaker 2: with a sound yeap with sound. Wow, that's how.

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Speaker 4: That's how. I'm a bit of a thesaurus when it

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Speaker 2: So the experts said, not exercising is one of the

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Speaker 2: Another you've got a bit gluggy on the carbos midway

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Speaker 4: I think just playing with yourself the.

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Speaker 4: Bad for you. Drinking a fizzy drink every day, that's

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Speaker 2: It boosts the sugar right up, and then of course

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Speaker 2: there's a subsequent subsequent.

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Speaker 1: Crash and sometimes you can see too much coffee.

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Speaker 2: That's next on the list, temporary energy boost similar to

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Speaker 2: fizzy drinks. Adrenaline fatigue d d D. You aren't feeding

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Speaker 2: your gut. That's when's the last time you had some gut? How?

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Speaker 4: Foods?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and that's not not fermented fermented foods.

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Speaker 7: Beer.

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Speaker 4: No, that's for mentors. She's got you there, actually, checkmate?

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Speaker 4: So those are those reasons.

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Speaker 2: I've got the top six Other reasons you're tired number

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Speaker 4: To be tired.

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Speaker 2: Feature of the kids, sound okay, Number six on the list. Kids, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I can get inside and outside of go wheeze and

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Speaker 2: in the laundry as everything the cat needs. But someone

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Speaker 2: he went outside. Tomorrow tonight it'll be more thorough chicken.

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Speaker 2: Number four on the list of the top six other reasons.

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Speaker 4: You're tired. Curtains. Your curtains aren't up to snuff.

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Speaker 2: Oh, you got a good blackouts the eye mask.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so you still wake up before the sun?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Yeah late this morning? What this morning? I was early,

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, will you wake up and you look at

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Speaker 4: Yeah, number three on the less of the top six

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Speaker 4: other reasons. You're tired. Conditioning of the air. Oh, you've

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Speaker 4: Air circulation. I know it's good for the house to

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Speaker 4: have the air circulating around it. Yes, the morning, Yeah,

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Speaker 4: someone in the heat. Number two and the less of

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Speaker 2: Other reasons you're tired again A top sex last consisting

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Speaker 2: I just got kids and then I was like concursions

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Speaker 2: Sometimes you just wake up and remember that one day

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Speaker 2: you will die, and then you can't get back to sleep.

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Speaker 4: See everybody dies. You're awake.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, wake up, that's why I can't sleep. You don't

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Speaker 1: get I don't want to again. It's still a reason

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Speaker 1: for you.

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Speaker 4: But you will though, no, I won't. Science will save me.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna be like those crazy like tech billionaires that

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, your viron X will keep you going. Then

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Speaker 4: how's that going? Awaken? About what time? My dirt pills

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Speaker 4: aren't working? My dirt pills they are working. I just

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Speaker 4: have a very strong cold and flu. Oh the man

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Speaker 4: flows did you get it from a man, I don't

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Speaker 3: Okay, well, the boys always kissing, Yeah, yeah, I was

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Speaker 6: All the boys.

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Speaker 4: And number one of the list of the top sex reasons.

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Speaker 2: You're tired companions, the person that you share a bed with,

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Speaker 2: have you because of the sniffles, because of the cold.

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Speaker 4: I don't think I'm going to return, but anyway, I

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Speaker 4: to yourself. It's a sleep. Divorce is one more night,

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00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:50,680
Speaker 4: one more night. It works. Such a trait that is

442
00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:51,840
Speaker 4: today subsex.

443
00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:55,399
Speaker 7: Fleable and Haley.

444
00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:59,760
Speaker 4: I don't even remember sitting that. There was a long

445
00:21:59,800 --> 00:22:01,240
Speaker 4: way to get a driver's license.

446
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:03,639
Speaker 2: When I got my driver's license, I remember you'd be

447
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:05,640
Speaker 2: you'd ring on the Monday and they'd be like, yeah,

448
00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:07,600
Speaker 2: coming on Thursday or Wednesday or whatever.

449
00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:12,760
Speaker 4: It's pretty wise. Remember it Cranking and Morrinsville we used

450
00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:13,359
Speaker 4: to it was it.

451
00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, we could do it in Mornsville. You go into

452
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:16,720
Speaker 2: I don't even know if the building is still there.

453
00:22:16,960 --> 00:22:18,960
Speaker 2: It was opposite the dairy Factor and you'd leave from

454
00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:22,720
Speaker 2: there and then you're the tricky spots.

455
00:22:23,040 --> 00:22:25,360
Speaker 4: Take a left up there. Yeah, the first one.

456
00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:27,480
Speaker 2: If if you came left, you'd stuck up a hill

457
00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 2: and they'd be like turning here. But it was one

458
00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:31,840
Speaker 2: of those like you got to turn across traffic and

459
00:22:31,960 --> 00:22:33,720
Speaker 2: it was a hell as well, so you were on

460
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:35,600
Speaker 2: a slight hell, so they get you to stop there

461
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:39,680
Speaker 2: and then you go kind of hell start and a

462
00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:41,520
Speaker 2: turn and back.

463
00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:48,040
Speaker 4: Always automatics then not a single automatic car on the world.

464
00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:53,399
Speaker 2: You set engine manual, you could drive an automatic, no

465
00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:55,359
Speaker 2: questions asked. But there was that weird thing if you

466
00:22:55,440 --> 00:22:57,320
Speaker 2: did it in automatic, you could only drive an automatic.

467
00:22:57,400 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 4: But it was but not for your full license. There

468
00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:00,440
Speaker 4: was your director.

469
00:23:00,680 --> 00:23:04,760
Speaker 1: Now there are huge weights to do your driver's test

470
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:05,840
Speaker 1: all over the country.

471
00:23:06,119 --> 00:23:08,440
Speaker 4: Some of these went a man insane. A man drove

472
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:10,600
Speaker 4: from book to go here to Danny Urke.

473
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:15,359
Speaker 2: That's note of those are confused all the time because

474
00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:16,720
Speaker 2: it's some of the only places in the country that

475
00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 2: start with the DA between like Hawks Bay and it's

476
00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:26,120
Speaker 2: the Viking place right, yeah, King settled by the Nordics.

477
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 4: It's got a great army surplus. It's a great army

478
00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:32,920
Speaker 4: surplus store in the area. Are you sucking a lozenge?

479
00:23:35,680 --> 00:23:39,200
Speaker 4: Maybe so unpal it might be stucking a lot of

480
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:44,480
Speaker 4: Is this someone that is going to get there restricted?

481
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:48,439
Speaker 4: Or they're full full? Okay, so they can drive by themselves?

482
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:49,680
Speaker 4: And are they doing it?

483
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 1: Should have had to have left in the morning again

484
00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:54,960
Speaker 1: there maybe so and get back quite smart to be

485
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:58,720
Speaker 1: back by the ten o'clock curview or you've got to

486
00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 1: count on pass because then that have the fall if

487
00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:04,400
Speaker 1: you have your little paper, you can drive back at night.

488
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:06,679
Speaker 1: And was it only because it was busy or because

489
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 1: you know, because Pocokoy is South Auckland, you know that

490
00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:14,080
Speaker 1: it's easier to sit them in those small towns because there's.

491
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:18,160
Speaker 2: Like streets, so you be familiar with danny vert unless

492
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:19,320
Speaker 2: you're originally from there.

493
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:22,040
Speaker 4: No, I don't know. Everything's fifty kilometers.

494
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 1: You just drive around the streets, right, you just have

495
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:26,199
Speaker 1: a little like ten minutes.

496
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:28,080
Speaker 4: But wouldn't you be to sit at where you know

497
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:30,440
Speaker 4: the roads? Yeah, you know the way.

498
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 2: You're not going to be like where are we going?

499
00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:34,680
Speaker 2: Because you're already familiar in the area. So what's the

500
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:39,000
Speaker 2: weight in like compared months and months? Apparently good on

501
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 2: them now. Apparently the long long wait times are only

502
00:24:44,040 --> 00:24:46,399
Speaker 2: getting longer. Because of this whole Now you don't have

503
00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 2: to pay to reset.

504
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:51,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, because I see why they did that, because they

505
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:54,840
Speaker 1: were charging people every time they reset, Like producer Jared

506
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 1: did you had to do it twelve times?

507
00:24:57,760 --> 00:24:58,200
Speaker 4: Is that right?

508
00:24:58,760 --> 00:24:58,960
Speaker 6: Three?

509
00:24:59,320 --> 00:24:59,520
Speaker 2: Three?

510
00:25:00,080 --> 00:25:01,359
Speaker 4: Still it's not great.

511
00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 1: But every time you are to reset, you paid. So

512
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 1: I can see why they got rid of that because

513
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:08,240
Speaker 1: they're like, well, it's kind of unfair that people pay.

514
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 1: But now people aren't trying fresher and so they're and

515
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 1: so they're clogging.

516
00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 4: Up the system.

517
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:17,800
Speaker 2: You're only allowed of single research because they changed it

518
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 2: again because of how but due to the long waits

519
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:23,960
Speaker 2: and the fact that you still get one reset, they

520
00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:26,280
Speaker 2: still think it'll be a while before it comes down.

521
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:29,840
Speaker 4: Oh God, maybe should just get rid of it. Didn't

522
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 4: they used to just send it to you back in

523
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 4: the day.

524
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,680
Speaker 1: Well after a certain amount of time. But this makes

525
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 1: sure that people can drive. This is why they deal

526
00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 1: it fool I mean, think about it this way. You

527
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:44,920
Speaker 1: see people driving on the road. They got their.

528
00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:48,040
Speaker 4: License somehow, I know, someone sitting in the car while

529
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 4: they drove.

530
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 8: I know.

531
00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:51,440
Speaker 4: And you're like, how how did you get worse from

532
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 4: that point?

533
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:55,320
Speaker 2: What was the back in the day, it was test

534
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:58,879
Speaker 2: to get your learners. Yeah, our all questions and the

535
00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:01,200
Speaker 2: screen and just time. Then it was just time to

536
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:03,680
Speaker 2: get you restricted eight yeah, and then you do something

537
00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:06,639
Speaker 2: to reduce it. And then you did drive driver for

538
00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 2: the full yeah, and you could do a defensive driving

539
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:11,200
Speaker 2: course to cut that from like eighteen months to nine.

540
00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 4: So back in the day, you go from no license

541
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,920
Speaker 4: to full license in one year. Yeah. Yeah, God, not

542
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 4: long enough, good old days and loose the day.

543
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:23,080
Speaker 2: But at nineties this, I just showed you a photo

544
00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 2: of me in nineteen ninety six. Oh my god, I

545
00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:29,400
Speaker 2: was a heartbreaker.

546
00:26:31,800 --> 00:26:33,120
Speaker 3: Fled Thorn and Hale.

547
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:33,880
Speaker 4: This is the name.

548
00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 3: It's on a parenting read it threads. The name of

549
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:40,240
Speaker 3: the post is my daughter is the weird kid. Now,

550
00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:42,040
Speaker 3: this daughter is really young, third.

551
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:48,240
Speaker 4: Grade what's that Yeah year at school? That makes seven? Yeah, right,

552
00:26:48,359 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 4: so quite young.

553
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:54,919
Speaker 3: And she jumped on this parenting read it thread saying,

554
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:58,760
Speaker 3: oh my god, guys, I just realized that my poor

555
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,480
Speaker 3: daughter is the weird And she does come on being like,

556
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 3: oh I don't have that many friends, and her heartbreaks

557
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 3: for her and she's like she's sort of into weird

558
00:27:07,200 --> 00:27:11,160
Speaker 3: witchy stuff and da da da dah anyway, and everyone

559
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 3: jumped on being like, oh, don't worry, how on my

560
00:27:13,920 --> 00:27:16,840
Speaker 3: son just got into his goth days, or my kid's

561
00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 3: the weird kid. My kid is seven and likes you know,

562
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:24,240
Speaker 3: thinks he's a wizard. And I read this being like,

563
00:27:24,280 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 3: oh my god, this was so my parents, because I

564
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:29,680
Speaker 3: meant I've mentioned many times and I thought I was

565
00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:30,360
Speaker 3: a teenage witch.

566
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:31,879
Speaker 4: I was a goth when I was thirteen for.

567
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:34,480
Speaker 3: Many years and then but even earlier than that, I

568
00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:37,679
Speaker 3: went to like witch school on a holiday program.

569
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 4: They have a witch school holiday. It was like at

570
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:44,399
Speaker 4: this place in the heart called Arcadia that feels like

571
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 4: nerdy witches.

572
00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:50,040
Speaker 2: That doesn't feel like authentic witches, commercialization of wich It wasn't.

573
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:53,879
Speaker 3: It was this these weird spiritual classes that me and

574
00:27:53,960 --> 00:27:56,200
Speaker 3: my best friends you just went to as old.

575
00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:01,119
Speaker 4: Maybe did you go to this?

576
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:02,720
Speaker 3: Both of our mum's got to get in there, like

577
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:06,399
Speaker 3: they're so into the stuff. We did horses because it

578
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:06,840
Speaker 3: was allowed.

579
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:10,760
Speaker 4: That was a smack allowed. Yeah, I was allowed to

580
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:11,440
Speaker 4: get smacked.

581
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:15,160
Speaker 3: But like one of them was about like reading auras,

582
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 3: and there was this weird girl called Genevieve.

583
00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:18,879
Speaker 4: It was like see the girl in the corner. It

584
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:21,399
Speaker 4: was bizarre. Anyway. I think Genevieve was just trying to

585
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 4: make it. She was trying to get extra.

586
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:27,160
Speaker 3: Genevieve was such an attention Yeah, yah, yeah, you're telling

587
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 3: me not everyone who was at witch School wasn't something.

588
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 3: I think of it all the time, weirdest thing we

589
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 3: ever did. But I was like, yeah, I was the

590
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:37,159
Speaker 3: weird d I wouldn't have paid for it.

591
00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 1: Parents, missage Patsy, I know she's an She'll be awake,

592
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 1: just like, do you mean that much?

593
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,760
Speaker 4: The watch? Do you remember that?

594
00:28:50,400 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 2: Through Messy Messy University does a Magic and Witchcraft It

595
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:59,080
Speaker 2: was a disciplinary study of magic and witchcraft and selected

596
00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 2: societies in different periods. More of course, more of an

597
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 2: observation course to get you a couple of good credits

598
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:07,120
Speaker 2: and a couple of credits and.

599
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:13,320
Speaker 4: Joint in Arcadia in the Hut in the nineties.

600
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 3: Anyway, it must have been like so worried, I think

601
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:17,720
Speaker 3: for a little bit. And then when I was a Goth.

602
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:20,239
Speaker 3: I think she found it quite entertaining, right, she was like, oh,

603
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:20,760
Speaker 3: you're so weird.

604
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:22,960
Speaker 2: But the parents that worry too much and the kids

605
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 2: are are like that, yeah, attention, right, The parents aren't

606
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:27,040
Speaker 2: paying enough attention.

607
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 4: I'm going to be weird that my parents, so they

608
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,760
Speaker 4: downplayed it. Yeah, totally, that's the way to do it.

609
00:29:31,920 --> 00:29:36,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you get really entrenched against that, the kids

610
00:29:36,160 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 2: just like getting what I wanted. It's a bit of attention,

611
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 2: h yeah. Yeah, and they'll just go deeper into it.

612
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 2: It'd be hard to know they're putting up posters about

613
00:29:45,080 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 2: the vaccine. Yeah, so I'm just saying it's tread lightly. Yeah,

614
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 2: that's right.

615
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 3: Well, this is what I wanted to ask, because if

616
00:29:51,480 --> 00:29:53,800
Speaker 3: maybe you were witchy and a bit gothy like I was,

617
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:56,520
Speaker 3: and like this mum, you know, is worried about her

618
00:29:56,680 --> 00:30:01,760
Speaker 3: little seven year old doors was a daughter, How weird

619
00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 3: were you as a kid, Like maybe you just went

620
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 3: through a really odd phase or really bizarre or you

621
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,920
Speaker 3: had your little imaginary friend or like.

622
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 4: Mum, I don't even really remember them. Oh it was

623
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:15,480
Speaker 4: lib By. It was lib By, my besties mum, who

624
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:18,320
Speaker 4: was also happy a lot of painkillers. He's a real

625
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 4: estate agent in the nineties. Oh yeah, painkillers and prescription

626
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:28,680
Speaker 4: is the original khle real estate agents of the nineties.

627
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 4: Where do you think the kidman problem came from?

628
00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 3: Oh god, anyway, I want to know how weird were

629
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:37,640
Speaker 3: you as a kid. We want to know how weird

630
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 3: you were as a kid.

631
00:30:39,160 --> 00:30:43,280
Speaker 4: I love I just a lot going on in their

632
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:45,800
Speaker 4: little mind, and they like not know how to tell

633
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 4: you how to work it out. And this is a

634
00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:51,840
Speaker 4: mum posted about her golf kid, a little girl.

635
00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 2: You know you we just mentioned you went to witch

636
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:56,600
Speaker 2: class at Arcadia As somebody messaged and they went to faery.

637
00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:58,200
Speaker 4: Class at Arkadie and learned how to be fairies.

638
00:30:59,600 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 1: Ka it was I don't I feel like fairies aren't

639
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 1: as weird as like witches.

640
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:05,480
Speaker 4: Fairies you sort of know.

641
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:09,840
Speaker 3: I was one of the classes was I was trying

642
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 3: to read objects, you know, that was my mind, Like

643
00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:15,360
Speaker 3: someone was holding up a card.

644
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 4: And you were trying to weird. Callum, why were you

645
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 4: the weird kid?

646
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:24,520
Speaker 6: I was the weird kid really just because I like

647
00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 6: to eat spiders, and you know, just kind of do

648
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:33,520
Speaker 6: really really really strange things. Like I'd have sleepovers and

649
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 6: I was always the quiet kid that everybody thought was mute,

650
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 6: and for some reason I used to like get up

651
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:41,680
Speaker 6: in the middle of the night and just stand in

652
00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:43,720
Speaker 6: the corners of rooms. Oh you're weird.

653
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 2: I was driving at calum like, were you like this

654
00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:49,720
Speaker 2: is going to be funny if people wake up and

655
00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 2: see me in the corner of the room, or you

656
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 2: just didn't know why you did these things.

657
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:55,440
Speaker 6: I think it was a bit of both, Like I

658
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 6: think I really enjoyed just, you know, putting the shits

659
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:05,680
Speaker 6: right up. People also really enjoyed watching them just look

660
00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 6: at me like, what the hell is this creep?

661
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 8: Yeah?

662
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, we all knew the kid call and thank you, Laura.

663
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Speaker 4: Why were you the weird kid?

664
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Speaker 8: My mom would come hang out with me at lunchtime

665
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:25,360
Speaker 8: because I don't like getting sweaty, so I don't like

666
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 8: running around with the kids, so you should come hang

667
00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 8: out with me at lunchtime for months.

668
00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 4: Wait, that wouldn't have helped.

669
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 2: Just the loaner kid who sat and a lot at

670
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:38,480
Speaker 2: lunchtime probably read a book or watched Now you're the

671
00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 2: loaner kid whose mom's coming to keep her company at school.

672
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 8: Yes, that was a yeah, and everyone was like, oh,

673
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 8: that kid is weird her mom has to come hang

674
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 8: out with her every day. But it was quite sweet

675
00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 8: of virtual.

676
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:55,080
Speaker 4: So you just don't like the feeling of getting sweetie.

677
00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 8: No, I didn't, so I didn't play any sports. I

678
00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,960
Speaker 8: don't like running around like they don't like playing tear

679
00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 8: and that's all the kids wanted to do.

680
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 4: Had to come now.

681
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 8: Yeah, well yeah, mom had to spend time with me.

682
00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 4: How long did this last?

683
00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 7: Months?

684
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 2: Like?

685
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 8: It only stopped because one of the teachers were like, Okay,

686
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 8: this is kind of hurting her, so you have to stop. Yeah,

687
00:33:20,080 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 8: come hang out with her.

688
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:25,440
Speaker 4: Throw you into it, wrap off the band aid. Are

689
00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 4: you sporty now, Laura, do you're like getting sweaty?

690
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 2: No?

691
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, Laura, thank you some messages? Why why were you?

692
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 2: My friend and I used to go around burying roadkills,

693
00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 2: so we go to heaven because we were told at

694
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:46,760
Speaker 2: church that at least you got a.

695
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 4: Proper burial, you wouldn't go to heaven.

696
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 2: So we're like, oh, the possums and rabbits, so we

697
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 2: go around full of maggot stick them the man.

698
00:33:55,720 --> 00:33:58,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was a Pokemon trainer. I took my invisible

699
00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 4: Pokemon everywhere. I threw balls. Oh god, I got bullied,

700
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 4: I'd pull out my Pika Choe.

701
00:34:06,160 --> 00:34:06,600
Speaker 6: So I said.

702
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:09,799
Speaker 2: We were the weird horse girls, long unstarved brown hair,

703
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:12,400
Speaker 2: galloping around the plagueund Saddle Club everything.

704
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:16,560
Speaker 4: A horse girl, Yeah, they were who was obsessed.

705
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:18,839
Speaker 3: I was obsessed with Princess Diana as a seven year

706
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:22,799
Speaker 3: old girl. And I even got the short haircut. Wow

707
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 3: quickly in the nineties that would have been cool.

708
00:34:24,960 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 2: I had and grew plants. Everyone thought it was really

709
00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:30,440
Speaker 2: weird that a kid was so into it. But now

710
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:33,320
Speaker 2: they have houses full of plants, and I had plants.

711
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:34,439
Speaker 4: They were Yeah.

712
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 2: When I was a kiddated Ford rolls on the ground

713
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 2: everywhere I went, just I would just be like, whoop, whoop, that's.

714
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 4: Not good, not worth the dog poop. Charlotte as a

715
00:34:46,080 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 4: kid was obsessed with drawing feet. Okay, that's good, that's good.

716
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 4: Some money to be made and feet.

717
00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:56,880
Speaker 2: I ate worms and crickets and high school was a

718
00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 2: party trick. That's from Alley. I expected that being from

719
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 2: a dude the same I loved the dentist, said Tammy.

720
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:05,319
Speaker 4: I used to call the drill the helicopter, and I asked, Mum,

721
00:35:05,360 --> 00:35:07,400
Speaker 4: can we go back to the dentist a bit of

722
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 4: a sate of massacus. Yeah, now they're into spanks.

723
00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:15,640
Speaker 1: There's a home for them, Yeah, there is now, Well,

724
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:17,399
Speaker 1: now they have to pay thousands of dollars to get

725
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 1: the helicopter.

726
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 2: Drill. Yeah, to put your rider, to put your right

727
00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 2: by your own team and just do your own teach trill.

728
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:26,680
Speaker 2: If that's your thing, you surely you cannot buy a dentist.

729
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 4: Are you kidding me? Off, gourgle, You can if it's

730
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:32,720
Speaker 4: not on team, it's on Early Express.

731
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:37,360
Speaker 1: Yep, there is a best dental turbine unit for one thousand,

732
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 1: six hundred US dollars with everything you need.

733
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:44,760
Speaker 4: He's giving team of one thousand dollars dollars. If it's free.

734
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 9: Postage, it's a whole set. It's a whole dental cat

735
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:52,880
Speaker 9: not I want it. I can sell my own practice.

736
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:55,000
Speaker 9: You know, I've always wanted to be a dentist, but

737
00:35:55,120 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 9: I think you need to know what you're doing. Drill

738
00:35:57,320 --> 00:35:58,080
Speaker 9: out the bad bits.

739
00:35:58,160 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

740
00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 3: My sister and her friend went through a when they're

741
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:02,839
Speaker 3: obsessed with the Titanic. They made signs and stuck them

742
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:04,919
Speaker 3: on my mum's car, saying justice for those who.

743
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:05,840
Speaker 4: Died on the Titanic.

744
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:13,480
Speaker 8: Play play.

745
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:19,200
Speaker 1: Time out the It's like kind of a famous kind

746
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:24,040
Speaker 1: of entertainment publication worldwide. They have published their best cities

747
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 1: for nightlife in the whole world.

748
00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:28,200
Speaker 4: Okay, I want to know how many I've been to

749
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 4: New Zealand.

750
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:33,840
Speaker 2: Not on the list Courtney Place, Courtney Play, maybe like

751
00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 2: teen years ago, fifteen years ago.

752
00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:40,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, but no, nothing in New Zealand has made the

753
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 1: Time Out list of best nightlife cities in the world.

754
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:48,439
Speaker 1: Rio de Janeiro and Brasil has taken out the number

755
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:49,440
Speaker 1: one spot globally.

756
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:52,919
Speaker 4: Is the best place. I'm doing a list. You don't

757
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:56,320
Speaker 4: start at number one. You start a number at I'm fine,

758
00:36:57,000 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 4: Oh my god.

759
00:36:58,440 --> 00:37:00,120
Speaker 1: On the list is only I've only got a f you.

760
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:04,960
Speaker 1: That's kind of the broken down. It's been broken down regionally.

761
00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:08,760
Speaker 1: And then the number one spot is Rare Degenio.

762
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:11,759
Speaker 4: Have you partied in Rio? I've been to Rio for a.

763
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:13,680
Speaker 1: Couple of days, but I didn't. I'm not like a

764
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 1: go out until like, you know, five in the morning.

765
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:20,640
Speaker 4: Did you have you partied in Rio? I've never been amazing.

766
00:37:20,680 --> 00:37:23,360
Speaker 2: So I used to wear Rio, the underwear brand, and

767
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:27,279
Speaker 2: I partied Rios. Yeah, but that's the closest you've been

768
00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 2: to Rio.

769
00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:28,240
Speaker 4: Correct.

770
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:33,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll score scoring ninety with high ranking for affordability.

771
00:37:33,880 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 1: So not only is it fun, it's cheap as well.

772
00:37:37,160 --> 00:37:38,440
Speaker 4: That's if that's some of the criteria.

773
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:41,279
Speaker 1: Bangcock's got to be in there live music, dance or

774
00:37:41,320 --> 00:37:46,240
Speaker 1: spontaneous outdoors some samba parties, said time Out. The Philippine

775
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 1: capital of Manela came in second place, emerging the most

776
00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:52,120
Speaker 1: affordable city on the list for nightline were looking for

777
00:37:52,200 --> 00:37:56,320
Speaker 1: cheap drugs. This sounds a lot like cheap dregs. Berlin

778
00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 1: was the best in Europe for nightlife. I mean that's Berlin.

779
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:00,880
Speaker 7: I've been.

780
00:38:01,480 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 1: You know, they've got the twenty four hour clubs. You

781
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:08,839
Speaker 1: know those clubs story stories are techno parties, and yeah,

782
00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:12,120
Speaker 1: it does have a twenty four hour kind of party status.

783
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 4: London was also popular.

784
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:18,440
Speaker 1: On the list of Yeah lots of bars and top

785
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 1: djpex were Barcelona in Spain, Hong Kong and Brisbane.

786
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:24,920
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I've had a good night out in Hong Kong, Brisbane,

787
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:29,520
Speaker 4: Brisbane and so Brisbane takes out Australia.

788
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, Carlson wrote, Bangkok's not only James Vanilla got it

789
00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:36,680
Speaker 2: because of the folders.

790
00:38:37,400 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah. When I hit the clubs, I like

791
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:42,880
Speaker 4: it to be organized. Yeah, you're a nice brown folder.

792
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:45,200
Speaker 1: It's another kind of tip of the hats are Guadalajara

793
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,680
Speaker 1: in Mexico, the home of tequila that was fourth on

794
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:52,719
Speaker 1: the list, Austin, Texas, uh Legott, Lagos and Nigeria, and

795
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:57,320
Speaker 1: Rotterdam in the Netherlands. Right pissed as well as it

796
00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:00,520
Speaker 1: just made because I don't go out anymore. But the

797
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 1: nightlife is not what it used to be.

798
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:02,959
Speaker 4: No, it's weird.

799
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 3: I don't know where to go, but that's the oldestly

800
00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:10,959
Speaker 3: When I was of clubbing age, it very clear.

801
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, everybody knew. Everyone knew where to go, even like

802
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 4: your parents knew where to pick you up.

803
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 2: From if you were going to get a ride or

804
00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 2: It just feels like it's not what it used to be,

805
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:24,360
Speaker 2: and that might also be the oldest thing I've seen it,

806
00:39:24,360 --> 00:39:27,440
Speaker 2: although a range of things that age me significantly more

807
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:28,880
Speaker 2: than my number age.

808
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:31,319
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's not as what it was once upon

809
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:33,319
Speaker 4: a time. Hey, is that a fair thing to say?

810
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:37,840
Speaker 4: You don't just like trawl from I remember like pre earthquake,

811
00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 4: christ Church, different world, different ways, young bucks out there nowadays.

812
00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:44,080
Speaker 4: I don't never know. They won't know, they don't ever

813
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:44,800
Speaker 4: know what it was like.

814
00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:50,600
Speaker 1: Shooters a filthy grumpy mole, don't know over the road

815
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:51,800
Speaker 1: your shooters, the diagonal.

816
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:53,759
Speaker 4: Never know, this isn't working.

817
00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:56,160
Speaker 2: Let's go down to what was that one with like

818
00:39:56,239 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 2: the stadium seating and it called no the Holy Grail.

819
00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, sometings our best left in the past nostalgia, but

820
00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:09,400
Speaker 4: maybe it's a bit of that, yeah, play.

821
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:11,240
Speaker 7: And Haley.

822
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 3: Edinburgh Fringe runs for the month of August. Lots of

823
00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:17,480
Speaker 3: keys over there at the moment, heaps of people, Mel

824
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 3: Bracewell's selling out shows, Laura Daniel, Joseph Moore selling out shows,

825
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 3: Nick Sampson, yo' lary's Rayan Leary's been doing great, heaps

826
00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 3: of keyies. It's amazing to see and every year, well

827
00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:32,359
Speaker 3: that's for the last fifteen years of Edinburgh Fringe. They've

828
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:35,880
Speaker 3: awarded Joke of the Fringe. I guess to the comedy,

829
00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:39,000
Speaker 3: yeah section of it. It's the one liner, right and

830
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:41,839
Speaker 3: some sort of classic joke rather than like a big

831
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 3: good yarn. So it's there's fifteen sort of short lists

832
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:50,319
Speaker 3: and it works its way up to number one. I'm

833
00:40:50,320 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 3: going to read a few of them because I really

834
00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:55,359
Speaker 3: like both of your approaching lists completely the wrong way.

835
00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:57,400
Speaker 3: You just blow it out a whole lot of nightclubs

836
00:40:57,440 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 3: before and.

837
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:01,360
Speaker 4: I just because if I don't like for me.

838
00:41:01,600 --> 00:41:04,640
Speaker 3: There's some that from ten to fifteen that I like

839
00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 3: that I'm going to include, but I might skip some.

840
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 4: So you think you're a better at picking the top

841
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 4: joke of the committee of Wow.

842
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:20,080
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, okay, I'm going to read the thirteenth funniest

843
00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:22,439
Speaker 3: joke from Edinburgh Fringe this year. Perfect place to start,

844
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:26,400
Speaker 3: by comedian Lou Wall. Gay people are very bad at maths.

845
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 3: We don't naturally multiply.

846
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:33,120
Speaker 4: That's it's good. Probably more of one for the room,

847
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:33,360
Speaker 4: you know.

848
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:40,320
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, these are all for the room. Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay,

849
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 3: here's I like this one number. This is number eleven

850
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 3: from zerwelve. I don't know who twelve was, but I'd

851
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:47,800
Speaker 3: take that personally.

852
00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:48,319
Speaker 4: You're out.

853
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:52,640
Speaker 3: This is by comedian Sarah Keyworth. I'm an extremely emotionally

854
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:55,440
Speaker 3: needy non binary person. My pronouns are there there.

855
00:41:58,080 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 4: There.

856
00:41:58,719 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 8: I like that.

857
00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:01,279
Speaker 4: Number ten.

858
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:05,759
Speaker 3: I'm skipping number nine. My partner told me. This is

859
00:42:05,800 --> 00:42:08,440
Speaker 3: by Zoe Cumsma. My partner told me that she'd never

860
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 3: seen the film gas Light. I told her she definitely has.

861
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 4: I'm skippy. I'm gonna skip seven.

862
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:21,799
Speaker 3: Number six my from O left Faluffl who has won

863
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:25,160
Speaker 3: the top prize in the past. Okay, my dad used

864
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 3: to say to me pints Gallon's leaders, which I think

865
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:28,480
Speaker 3: speaks volumes.

866
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 4: Now I don't get the I don't get the context

867
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:33,920
Speaker 4: of the joke. Volume.

868
00:42:34,160 --> 00:42:36,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, pints Gallon's letters are a measurement of volume. No,

869
00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:38,600
Speaker 2: I get the joke, but I was like, I wonder

870
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:39,680
Speaker 2: what it came on the back of. Ah.

871
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:43,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, here's the top five. Number five from Mark Simmons.

872
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:46,279
Speaker 3: I love the Olympics. My friend and I invented a

873
00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:48,719
Speaker 3: new type of relay baton. Well he came up with

874
00:42:48,719 --> 00:42:49,880
Speaker 3: the idea and I just ran with it.

875
00:42:51,360 --> 00:42:52,799
Speaker 4: Okay, that's really good. That's good.

876
00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:55,799
Speaker 3: That's good Arthur Smith. And number four I sailed through

877
00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 3: my driving test. That's why I failed it.

878
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 4: Okay. Number three. These are the top jokes at Edinburgh Fringe. Yeah,

879
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:06,480
Speaker 4: they're all judged.

880
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 3: They have judges that go and see all the comedy shows.

881
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:11,920
Speaker 3: Number three from Alex Kitson eight Horse at a restaurant

882
00:43:12,000 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 3: once wasn't great. Starter was all right, but the main

883
00:43:14,239 --> 00:43:20,520
Speaker 3: was dreadful. Okay, here's the top two that the judges chose.

884
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:24,720
Speaker 3: Alex Snook is number two. I've been taking salsa lessons

885
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 3: for months, but I just don't feel like I'm progressing.

886
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:32,719
Speaker 4: It's just one step forward, two steps back. Really made

887
00:43:32,760 --> 00:43:33,120
Speaker 4: me laugh.

888
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:36,319
Speaker 3: And Mark Simmons, who he is British right, he's been

889
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:38,960
Speaker 3: shortless of three times before free Faint. You recognize him,

890
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:44,440
Speaker 3: ginger hair, beard always shows and this he was voted

891
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:47,680
Speaker 3: Joke of the French for twenty twenty four. I was

892
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:50,839
Speaker 3: going to sail around the globe in the world's smallest ship,

893
00:43:51,200 --> 00:43:51,840
Speaker 3: but I bottled it.

894
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:54,200
Speaker 4: That's crap.

895
00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:56,439
Speaker 1: Okay, is this this classic joke?

896
00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 4: That's a good one. It's good told by themselves.

897
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:01,279
Speaker 2: You'd say, dad jokes all are the ones you just

898
00:44:01,320 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 2: said without the context about the story, without the set up,

899
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:04,880
Speaker 2: without the atmosphere.

900
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:07,799
Speaker 3: In that way, with the joke of the fringe as

901
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:10,279
Speaker 3: they are just classic jokes, you could just take them out.

902
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:13,640
Speaker 3: They're dadish, they can stand alone, they don't need context.

903
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:16,720
Speaker 4: I don't think they're really good this year. Really funny

904
00:44:17,600 --> 00:44:19,399
Speaker 4: must mean a lot coming from you from your year.

905
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:24,640
Speaker 3: Renowned respected New Zealand comedian who has only done a

906
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 3: referend once ten years ago.

907
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 4: I'm sure they value my opinion.

908
00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 7: Fled Vorn and Hailey.

909
00:44:31,680 --> 00:44:34,760
Speaker 3: Some are just messages saying that I'm mumbling this morning.

910
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:37,520
Speaker 3: I mumbled in the when I was giving the delivery

911
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:40,360
Speaker 3: of that last joke. I'm sorry, I mumble, she's.

912
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 1: Got a bit of a cold, you're a bit snotty,

913
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:44,040
Speaker 1: and that used to a cold.

914
00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:46,320
Speaker 4: Last thing? Any more than a day, I shall articulate

915
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:52,320
Speaker 4: much clear enough. There was a woman. Now she's American.

916
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:55,359
Speaker 3: She is the equivalent of a New Zealand size ten,

917
00:44:55,640 --> 00:45:00,480
Speaker 3: which I will say is small, Okay, what would be.

918
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:06,080
Speaker 4: To convert it to small? Medium? Large? Small?

919
00:45:06,239 --> 00:45:10,880
Speaker 2: Small TENA small mediums of twelve, large as a fourteen?

920
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 4: Okay, so you're a small you are by definitions?

921
00:45:15,360 --> 00:45:15,719
Speaker 1: What am I.

922
00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:24,080
Speaker 4: Huge? I don't they call you a mama jummer, big

923
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:27,160
Speaker 4: mama dummer? Right? Like you walk in and people go, oh,

924
00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 4: shoulders on this woman as a woman. You're saying, if

925
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:36,239
Speaker 4: you a woman's clothing, I'd be a what would I

926
00:45:36,400 --> 00:45:42,879
Speaker 4: be though, in woman's clothing? Hard? Because you're not woman,

927
00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:44,280
Speaker 4: you're not woman's shape.

928
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:46,839
Speaker 3: Yeah right, okay, because you'd be like a fourteen across

929
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:48,880
Speaker 3: the top because you've got man's shoulders.

930
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:52,279
Speaker 4: Yeah. But then any a little snatched little waist, yeah right,

931
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 4: So then we hit it.

932
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:57,400
Speaker 2: Then calves, Yeah, I'm going to rock into a tina

933
00:45:57,480 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 2: or twelve and jeans because you've got fourteen.

934
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 4: I'm gonna have to sixteen? Maybe yeah, maybe? What is

935
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:05,040
Speaker 4: what size of this?

936
00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:05,880
Speaker 8: Is it?

937
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:08,400
Speaker 4: Eighteen? Eighteen? Yeah? I love rocking a bit like I

938
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:12,680
Speaker 4: just I size up and oversized ship. Yeah, I love it.

939
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:15,640
Speaker 3: Anyway, So she's a size tin quite small. She went

940
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 3: shopping in Thailand. Now, oh no, I have been shopping

941
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:22,960
Speaker 3: in Thailand. I once went with my friend Rachel and

942
00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:25,279
Speaker 3: we were on holiday and we were around about the

943
00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:27,400
Speaker 3: same size. And I would say at the time, probably

944
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:28,960
Speaker 3: the slim must have ever been. I was like, I

945
00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:31,320
Speaker 3: was a size ten and we would walk into stores

946
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:33,480
Speaker 3: and like the tire shop assessors would be like no no.

947
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:36,200
Speaker 4: No, no, no, no no no, like like turn around

948
00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:41,600
Speaker 4: a tourist, nothing for you, you want a Bangkok Like yeah, right, okay.

949
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 3: And this woman had the same thing. She went to

950
00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:47,040
Speaker 3: a shopping mall in Bangkok. She was like, hey, just

951
00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 3: like wanting to try this. Do you have it in

952
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:50,280
Speaker 3: a bigger size?

953
00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:50,680
Speaker 4: Same thing?

954
00:46:50,719 --> 00:46:52,359
Speaker 3: The woman said no, no, no, but she sent her

955
00:46:52,480 --> 00:46:59,360
Speaker 3: to a specific plus size mall size ten. She was like, okay,

956
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,800
Speaker 3: it tie. People in general are smaller than me. So

957
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:06,120
Speaker 3: I'll go to this plus size more, which is fine.

958
00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 3: She had no problem with that except when she got there.

959
00:47:08,680 --> 00:47:10,320
Speaker 3: Here are the names of some of the shops in

960
00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:12,920
Speaker 3: this mall. Love Calories.

961
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:20,560
Speaker 4: Oh my god, that's one shop. I imagine. I imagine

962
00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:22,240
Speaker 4: those with a little flower on the side.

963
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:25,000
Speaker 1: I imagine it's not done like maliciously.

964
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:28,440
Speaker 4: If you meet thy people, you're fat.

965
00:47:29,239 --> 00:47:30,520
Speaker 8: Law will like.

966
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:35,560
Speaker 2: Get back from seeing his son say to us, I've

967
00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:41,200
Speaker 2: not his weight. Any said to me, how have you

968
00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 2: put on weight?

969
00:47:45,320 --> 00:47:47,439
Speaker 4: Grandma? I used to and Tyler, you go and see

970
00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:48,120
Speaker 4: her and the girls.

971
00:47:48,160 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 2: She'd hold by the wrist and put her finger her

972
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:53,440
Speaker 2: middle finger and if her thumb could meet, couldn't meet.

973
00:47:53,480 --> 00:48:00,600
Speaker 2: You'd be like, wow, yeah, yeah, yeah, who I'm telling

974
00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 2: you you're too fat.

975
00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 3: Okay, here's some morse. We've got Love Calories. Next door

976
00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:07,719
Speaker 3: to Love Calories was fit Fat. Then there was a

977
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:09,800
Speaker 3: shop called fat Boys, Fat Girls.

978
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 8: I want to go to this.

979
00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 2: Wasn't there that song Fat Boys, Fat Girls DG Here

980
00:48:20,080 --> 00:48:20,279
Speaker 2: we go?

981
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 4: Why not? There was a store simply called chubby.

982
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:28,480
Speaker 3: There was one called big Girl, and my favorite is Fatty,

983
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:30,320
Speaker 3: fat Girl, Fatty.

984
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 1: Fat girl, and this would only be like the size

985
00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:35,879
Speaker 1: of clothing that you would find in New Zealand stores.

986
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 3: Like the smaller in Yeah, not even I can't imagine

987
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:43,960
Speaker 3: for like actually like globally considered plus those people, you're

988
00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:46,319
Speaker 3: not you're not even finding clothes at fatty fat girl.

989
00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:50,799
Speaker 4: She had a good laugh though, she took it all

990
00:48:50,840 --> 00:48:51,520
Speaker 4: in good humor.

991
00:48:52,280 --> 00:48:54,160
Speaker 3: But then if so, she shared this on light and

992
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:56,359
Speaker 3: so many people were jumping in and being like, oh

993
00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:59,000
Speaker 3: my god, I know it's like this everywhere. I've had

994
00:48:59,040 --> 00:49:01,719
Speaker 3: this in Hong Kong, like most Asian countries look at

995
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:02,200
Speaker 3: you in the lake.

996
00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:04,319
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, what do you think they're are

997
00:49:04,600 --> 00:49:06,719
Speaker 1: thinking when they're sewing all of these clothes and like

998
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 1: all of these Asian countries, Yeah, like an ex exl

999
00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:10,560
Speaker 1: of them, Like.

1000
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 4: They're just making parachutes.

1001
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:17,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, ole fatty fat girl, big size, I gurgled, Thailand

1002
00:49:17,440 --> 00:49:20,719
Speaker 2: plus sized thoughts. Yeah, fatty fat, fatty fat girl, big size,

1003
00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:22,479
Speaker 2: fatty fat pink peggy shop.

1004
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:25,239
Speaker 4: Oh my god, no.

1005
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 2: Should I gosh sugar lover well move as a not

1006
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:35,759
Speaker 2: move not momour was amour is in two kalmus.

1007
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:37,279
Speaker 4: Oh my god, so we said.

1008
00:49:37,280 --> 00:49:39,439
Speaker 3: They walked into a shop, and the shop keeper yelled

1009
00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:42,160
Speaker 3: at them, no, no, too big, too long. It was

1010
00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:45,480
Speaker 3: ten years ago, and her husband still shouts.

1011
00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:48,280
Speaker 4: Too big, too long.

1012
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:53,959
Speaker 8: Play play.

1013
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:55,319
Speaker 6: Hey.

1014
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:58,239
Speaker 3: Look, I think couples therapy is a great thing. I

1015
00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 3: have many friends that have you and it's it's saved.

1016
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:04,320
Speaker 4: Them and they and they useful all the time. But

1017
00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:06,520
Speaker 4: this story has made me laugh so much.

1018
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:08,719
Speaker 1: Well and again this is one of those if we

1019
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 1: don't laugh with crist situations. Now, I don't even think

1020
00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:15,360
Speaker 1: they got to a couple therapy.

1021
00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:17,400
Speaker 3: So this couple, right, they're in their thirties, they've been

1022
00:50:17,480 --> 00:50:20,000
Speaker 3: together for just over a year, and we were just

1023
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 3: discussing this off year.

1024
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 4: I wouldn't bother going to a couple of therapy with

1025
00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:23,719
Speaker 4: someone I don't have been with a year.

1026
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:27,680
Speaker 2: I just call it because it's expensive, right, that's still

1027
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:29,359
Speaker 2: supposed to be the honeymoon period.

1028
00:50:29,400 --> 00:50:31,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, like a year, two years?

1029
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 1: I mean, don't they say it's better to go to

1030
00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:38,439
Speaker 1: relationship therapy early on in a relation, because then you're learning.

1031
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:42,239
Speaker 4: The good communication early on, the good skills, and you're

1032
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:45,200
Speaker 4: not trudging through years of crap.

1033
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:50,279
Speaker 2: They were still thinking three years plus anyway, so early

1034
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:53,040
Speaker 2: you mean like a yearn and then you break up

1035
00:50:53,040 --> 00:50:54,759
Speaker 2: with someone I need to go to for a year.

1036
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:58,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is a couple in America. They're thirty. They're thirty. Yep,

1037
00:50:59,160 --> 00:51:01,960
Speaker 4: not America's a bit of therapy. A oh, they love therapy.

1038
00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:04,400
Speaker 4: So the woman ship that.

1039
00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:06,400
Speaker 3: So they decided that they had some issues in their

1040
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:07,840
Speaker 3: relationship they were going to go to therapy.

1041
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:08,399
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1042
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 3: This is somehow ended in the woman being arrested for

1043
00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:15,319
Speaker 3: second degree assault, criminal vehicular operation, bodily harm, gross new

1044
00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:19,240
Speaker 3: negligence because but it was still his fault.

1045
00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:22,839
Speaker 4: And if they got to the room, he'd be able

1046
00:51:22,880 --> 00:51:23,600
Speaker 4: to see that therapist.

1047
00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:27,880
Speaker 3: So they were in the car together heading to their

1048
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:32,160
Speaker 3: first therapy session when they started fighting.

1049
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:36,160
Speaker 4: It was just great, great word right hot in the room.

1050
00:51:37,040 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 4: They were driving there and he was like, I've just

1051
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:42,520
Speaker 4: had enough of this, Like I'm just so sick of it.

1052
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:44,720
Speaker 4: I don't even want to go this session. She was like, fine,

1053
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:46,400
Speaker 4: pulls over the car, get out of the car.

1054
00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:48,279
Speaker 3: He gets out of the car, goes across the road,

1055
00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:52,560
Speaker 3: and she runs him over, just like hits him with

1056
00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:52,960
Speaker 3: the car.

1057
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:54,880
Speaker 4: He was fine.

1058
00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:59,760
Speaker 3: He rolled across the windscreen over the hood of the vehicle,

1059
00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:02,240
Speaker 3: shadded the windscreen and he cut his a little elbow

1060
00:52:02,320 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 3: on the Zone's all right, And if he hadn't been

1061
00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 3: able to communicate better, she wouldn't have needed to have

1062
00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 3: shopped him.

1063
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:12,760
Speaker 1: Oh my god, psycho behavior.

1064
00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:16,000
Speaker 3: And she was like, I didn't try to hit him

1065
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:18,759
Speaker 3: with the car. I was just pulling out and he

1066
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:20,920
Speaker 3: happened to be standing in front of it. This is

1067
00:52:20,960 --> 00:52:23,200
Speaker 3: the problem, and he always stands on the road dumb

1068
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:26,920
Speaker 3: things like this his fault. That's why we're going to counseling.

1069
00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:28,439
Speaker 4: It's all his fault. Yeah.

1070
00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:33,480
Speaker 3: Now we want to know how bad did couple counseling go.

1071
00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:35,520
Speaker 3: Maybe it was in the room, maybe it was just

1072
00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:38,919
Speaker 3: before because we had already had a message in about someone.

1073
00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:40,600
Speaker 2: I would love to know if any counselor has ever

1074
00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:43,080
Speaker 2: given up give any the couple.

1075
00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:48,120
Speaker 4: Is do they actually?

1076
00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:48,399
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1077
00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:52,799
Speaker 3: There's the very famous relationship counselor Ester Perrell, who does

1078
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:55,080
Speaker 3: the Plight books and does the podcast and stuff.

1079
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:58,200
Speaker 4: She talks about where is she from. I don't know, Yes, I.

1080
00:52:58,320 --> 00:53:01,439
Speaker 3: Heard on the podcast now And then she says, yeah,

1081
00:53:01,840 --> 00:53:06,880
Speaker 3: it is like this relationship is not worth saving, like

1082
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:08,880
Speaker 3: you are not one for each other and I do not.

1083
00:53:08,920 --> 00:53:10,879
Speaker 4: See this changing. I recommend that you split.

1084
00:53:11,000 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 3: Imagine like a therapist saying that to you. Yeah, oh yeah,

1085
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:19,359
Speaker 3: fix it. No, I don't think there is much point.

1086
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:21,200
Speaker 3: I think you'll be happier apart.

1087
00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:26,600
Speaker 4: Oh fix it. This is too much Edmund. Oh oh.

1088
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:31,480
Speaker 1: A couple of This is what we want to know. Oh,

1089
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:33,200
Speaker 1: eight hundred dollars at air and you can give us

1090
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:35,439
Speaker 1: a call. You can text her in nine six nine six.

1091
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:39,680
Speaker 1: How bad did the couples counseling go? Maybe your partner

1092
00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 1: at the time was like, well, this is all your fault.

1093
00:53:42,400 --> 00:53:43,960
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, absolutely turned on you.

1094
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:47,040
Speaker 3: I mean maybe because I think that's eyone's worst fear, right,

1095
00:53:47,320 --> 00:53:49,680
Speaker 3: is that you're fighting as a two and you get

1096
00:53:49,719 --> 00:53:51,239
Speaker 3: in there and then it's two against you.

1097
00:53:52,400 --> 00:53:55,759
Speaker 4: Absolute. Absolutely, you do your buddy start to do this

1098
00:53:57,600 --> 00:53:59,759
Speaker 4: to now that hasn't been you trou.

1099
00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:03,960
Speaker 3: We have an event, we have an event. We want

1100
00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:07,520
Speaker 3: to know how badly it is actually very healthy. We

1101
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:10,160
Speaker 3: want to know how badly couple's therapy went. Because a

1102
00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:14,759
Speaker 3: couple was hitting to don't clay pants. A couple broke

1103
00:54:14,880 --> 00:54:16,840
Speaker 3: up on the way and then she may have knocked

1104
00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:20,439
Speaker 3: him gently with her car and he may have rolled

1105
00:54:20,480 --> 00:54:21,000
Speaker 3: over the hood.

1106
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:22,560
Speaker 1: Or she's saying that he was in the way when

1107
00:54:22,560 --> 00:54:23,480
Speaker 1: she was doing a yewie.

1108
00:54:23,600 --> 00:54:25,800
Speaker 4: She was just trying to pull out. Yeah, exactly. Oh no,

1109
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:26,839
Speaker 4: it'll go to court.

1110
00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:27,160
Speaker 2: My not.

1111
00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:33,440
Speaker 4: Some messages I'm clapping with excitement. There was one that

1112
00:54:33,600 --> 00:54:35,880
Speaker 4: just came in and both of our jaws hit the floor.

1113
00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:39,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, when you're a couple of therapists. But ended up

1114
00:54:39,760 --> 00:54:42,600
Speaker 2: breaking up anyway, thousands of dollars later. A year later,

1115
00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:44,440
Speaker 2: my ex was dating the therapists.

1116
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 4: I was waiting for it. I was waiting for it.

1117
00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:49,120
Speaker 6: My God to do that.

1118
00:54:49,400 --> 00:54:51,799
Speaker 4: There must be like a cool down period the year.

1119
00:54:52,160 --> 00:54:58,319
Speaker 4: Surely whaall ind your like career, wouldn't it. It would

1120
00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:01,240
Speaker 4: serddenly get around pretty quick, I would imagine.

1121
00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:04,680
Speaker 2: Yeah. When it came time to split the counseling bell afterwards,

1122
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:07,360
Speaker 2: my partner said, well, I mean this was all your faults,

1123
00:55:07,400 --> 00:55:08,200
Speaker 2: so you're paying the bell.

1124
00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:12,920
Speaker 4: We only lasted three more months. Oh wow, okay, I'm

1125
00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:15,800
Speaker 4: not paying for this. I wasn't the problem. Yeah, you

1126
00:55:15,960 --> 00:55:17,000
Speaker 4: heard him, he said it was you.

1127
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:23,200
Speaker 2: Yeah. We were booked in for some counseling and we said, look,

1128
00:55:23,560 --> 00:55:26,920
Speaker 2: we'll keep an eye out for signs. Yeah, whether or

1129
00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:29,359
Speaker 2: not this is doomed. We woke up on the morning

1130
00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:33,640
Speaker 2: of our first counseling session. The date was the eleventh

1131
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:37,680
Speaker 2: of September two thousand and one, technically would have been

1132
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:39,600
Speaker 2: the twelfth of September two thousand and if you were

1133
00:55:39,640 --> 00:55:42,840
Speaker 2: in New Zealand when it happened and we watched a

1134
00:55:42,920 --> 00:55:46,399
Speaker 2: horrendous world event take place, and we're like, that's not good.

1135
00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:50,080
Speaker 2: He wasn't foreboded well, and yeah, after one session of counseling,

1136
00:55:50,160 --> 00:55:53,560
Speaker 2: we were done right. What if people were saying afterwards

1137
00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 2: after the couple's counseling session the counselors like, well, I

1138
00:55:56,239 --> 00:56:01,160
Speaker 2: actually think you'd benefit from individual sessions and is alone

1139
00:56:01,239 --> 00:56:04,759
Speaker 2: They're like, you need to leave. They're not They're not

1140
00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:08,120
Speaker 2: going to leave. Okay, you see this sort of behavior

1141
00:56:09,160 --> 00:56:12,680
Speaker 2: or where I'll just keep back. You need to be

1142
00:56:12,760 --> 00:56:14,920
Speaker 2: the one that's leaving, basically getting you alone to say

1143
00:56:15,160 --> 00:56:16,200
Speaker 2: that it is their fault.

1144
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:17,960
Speaker 4: You're all right. I had a counselor.

1145
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:19,880
Speaker 2: We went to couple's counselor and they told us that

1146
00:56:19,960 --> 00:56:21,800
Speaker 2: we were exhausting and we were better apart.

1147
00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:28,320
Speaker 4: Sorry, I'm paying you three hundred dollars an hour. It

1148
00:56:28,440 --> 00:56:29,759
Speaker 4: is exhaust exhausted.

1149
00:56:31,520 --> 00:56:34,719
Speaker 1: Imagine that's like someone's opinion of you and you're not

1150
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:36,160
Speaker 1: even there like an hour.

1151
00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:40,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, imagine how exhausted your friends must have been dealing

1152
00:56:40,080 --> 00:56:41,920
Speaker 2: with because these people were dinner party fighters.

1153
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:47,000
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, so that exhausted. We were better apart, broke

1154
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:49,520
Speaker 4: up then in there and haven't spoken ever again. Wow,

1155
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:50,200
Speaker 4: this thing.

1156
00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:54,720
Speaker 2: Ever, My partner's ex was cheating and he caught her cheating.

1157
00:56:55,000 --> 00:56:57,200
Speaker 2: She suggested couple's counseling. He went along with that, and

1158
00:56:57,239 --> 00:57:00,399
Speaker 2: then the couple's counselor suggested an open relationship. That's worked

1159
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:02,640
Speaker 2: in her favor, hasn't that? I feel like this was

1160
00:57:02,719 --> 00:57:04,400
Speaker 2: just a friend of hers that he had met, dressed

1161
00:57:04,440 --> 00:57:06,440
Speaker 2: up as a therapist and a flash on one of

1162
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:09,080
Speaker 2: those airbnbs, one of those minimalist airbnbs lots of the

1163
00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:11,600
Speaker 2: therapy office but doesn't have signs because we find science

1164
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:13,080
Speaker 2: can put the extra stress on the situation.

1165
00:57:13,600 --> 00:57:15,680
Speaker 3: I love that some message and saying I've been looking

1166
00:57:15,719 --> 00:57:18,080
Speaker 3: into it, actually getting some counseling with my husband, but

1167
00:57:18,080 --> 00:57:19,600
Speaker 3: I've decided I'm not going to pay two hundred and

1168
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:21,160
Speaker 3: seventy dollars an hour for somemer just to sit there

1169
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:21,760
Speaker 3: and agree with me.

1170
00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:27,560
Speaker 4: Not like how it's always going to go. We went

1171
00:57:27,640 --> 00:57:29,120
Speaker 4: to marriage counseling on my ex.

1172
00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:33,120
Speaker 2: When asked to describe what attracted him to me, me

1173
00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:35,880
Speaker 2: to him list of the things you'd used to describe

1174
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:40,280
Speaker 2: a tour out of Corolla reliable? Oh etce no unny counselor,

1175
00:57:40,400 --> 00:57:43,680
Speaker 2: can no russ have brandput canceled the next session because

1176
00:57:43,720 --> 00:57:45,120
Speaker 2: he had to go spraying and it was the only

1177
00:57:45,160 --> 00:57:47,479
Speaker 2: weather window that was going to work right. My farm

1178
00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:53,560
Speaker 2: took precedence. That's the x of the relationship. We went

1179
00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 2: to a couple therapy with two separate partners over different times.

1180
00:57:56,680 --> 00:57:58,800
Speaker 2: It was a catalyst of enny both relationships. I think

1181
00:57:58,800 --> 00:58:05,680
Speaker 2: we found the common denominated went both times, both ended.

1182
00:58:06,040 --> 00:58:08,439
Speaker 2: It could be the problem here anyway onto the next

1183
00:58:09,760 --> 00:58:11,560
Speaker 2: and it could have just been two bad guys in

1184
00:58:11,600 --> 00:58:13,480
Speaker 2: a row or two bad partners.

1185
00:58:16,120 --> 00:58:17,720
Speaker 4: I really wish we could read it the one that's

1186
00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:19,280
Speaker 4: below that, but it's a bit saucy.

1187
00:58:21,360 --> 00:58:25,640
Speaker 3: The counselor was trying to write a list of household jobs,

1188
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:28,640
Speaker 3: and then what I can't.

1189
00:58:28,600 --> 00:58:30,479
Speaker 4: You know, I can't say it's too It's okay.

1190
00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:34,320
Speaker 2: We went to a couple's counselor and we thought they

1191
00:58:34,360 --> 00:58:36,640
Speaker 2: were taking notes throughout the entire session on the iPad.

1192
00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:38,360
Speaker 2: My partner peeped the screen on the way out and

1193
00:58:38,360 --> 00:58:40,560
Speaker 2: saw that they were doing the New York Times mega crosswords.

1194
00:58:44,600 --> 00:58:47,160
Speaker 2: To this day, united hate for that counselor has saved

1195
00:58:47,160 --> 00:58:52,440
Speaker 2: our marriage. What if it was a ploy from the counselor,

1196
00:58:54,600 --> 00:58:58,440
Speaker 2: I give you, give you something. You know, it's a

1197
00:58:58,560 --> 00:58:59,480
Speaker 2: lazy counselor.

1198
00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:06,560
Speaker 4: It's rough. Yeah, wow, No, it certainly doesn't not. According

1199
00:59:06,600 --> 00:59:06,840
Speaker 4: to this.

1200
00:59:08,360 --> 00:59:10,960
Speaker 2: Couple, Siahy didn't stop it in fidelity, so the relationship

1201
00:59:11,000 --> 00:59:12,440
Speaker 2: couldn't be saved. But it was great for me to

1202
00:59:12,520 --> 00:59:14,440
Speaker 2: understand myself. Okay, this sounds like a success story in

1203
00:59:14,520 --> 00:59:17,040
Speaker 2: a way. Yeah, to come out to understand yourself a

1204
00:59:17,040 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 2: little bit better. I was alwaysquock to apologize even if

1205
00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 2: I was wrong, but would argue to the end of

1206
00:59:22,000 --> 00:59:23,040
Speaker 2: the days if I was right.

1207
00:59:23,800 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 4: Sorry.

1208
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:26,120
Speaker 2: I was quick to apologize if I was wrong, argue

1209
00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:27,080
Speaker 2: to the end of the days if I was right.

1210
00:59:27,120 --> 00:59:29,480
Speaker 2: But I've learned that it's not black and white. Sometimes

1211
00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:30,720
Speaker 2: both can be right and both can be wrong.

1212
00:59:30,760 --> 00:59:33,000
Speaker 4: So you still benefited even though the relationship wasn't safe.

1213
00:59:33,120 --> 00:59:40,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, somebody else slept with their counselor to somebody pretty quickly,

1214
00:59:40,440 --> 00:59:42,800
Speaker 1: pretty quickly after they said, and the counseling session, they

1215
00:59:42,840 --> 00:59:43,520
Speaker 1: were getting a vibe.

1216
00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:52,160
Speaker 4: I suppose you where else you going to find love drinking.

1217
00:59:52,160 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 2: It's the same sort of person that's like that counselor

1218
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:55,240
Speaker 2: is really into me. It's the same person that's like

1219
00:59:55,280 --> 00:59:57,760
Speaker 2: that Lone Star restaurant employee was really to me.

1220
00:59:57,920 --> 00:59:59,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, and she women just want me to stop.

1221
01:00:00,840 --> 01:00:04,120
Speaker 4: Women do woman in hospitality do want me? No, They're

1222
01:00:04,280 --> 01:00:07,920
Speaker 4: just being nice to you. She was very keen to

1223
01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:09,400
Speaker 4: see if I looked at them in the clothes.

1224
01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:14,080
Speaker 7: Sidiums Flits one and Haley.

1225
01:00:16,320 --> 01:00:22,560
Speaker 10: Fact of the day, day day day day, do do

1226
01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:24,600
Speaker 10: do do do do do do do do do do

1227
01:00:24,800 --> 01:00:26,840
Speaker 10: do do do do do do do do do do

1228
01:00:26,960 --> 01:00:27,240
Speaker 10: do do do.

1229
01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:28,320
Speaker 2: Do do do do.

1230
01:00:31,480 --> 01:00:31,720
Speaker 8: Wow.

1231
01:00:32,640 --> 01:00:36,360
Speaker 2: We're doing national foods and drinks as today's is a

1232
01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:39,880
Speaker 2: drink that aren't from the country you think they are today?

1233
01:00:40,040 --> 01:00:41,080
Speaker 4: What was yesterday's again.

1234
01:00:42,440 --> 01:00:47,560
Speaker 1: Tempora Temporat was in Japanese Portuguese. The Portuguese bought the

1235
01:00:47,640 --> 01:00:49,560
Speaker 1: practice of tell I'm hearing a bit more from those

1236
01:00:49,640 --> 01:00:50,440
Speaker 1: jeekie Portuguese.

1237
01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:53,240
Speaker 4: This is really this is the when you were.

1238
01:00:53,200 --> 01:01:00,200
Speaker 2: A big, conquering, colonializing kingdom. YEP you tend to your

1239
01:01:00,200 --> 01:01:03,160
Speaker 2: stuff around to other parts of the world, and they

1240
01:01:03,400 --> 01:01:05,400
Speaker 2: leave him behind. And then the Tenporus, and I'm going

1241
01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:09,480
Speaker 2: to hearing more from them. But today Corona beer not

1242
01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:17,200
Speaker 2: Mexican what made in Mexico, but a German beer, the Germans,

1243
01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:18,920
Speaker 2: the Germans.

1244
01:01:18,640 --> 01:01:20,720
Speaker 4: That does not give off German beer, viz.

1245
01:01:20,880 --> 01:01:23,120
Speaker 2: The German brewers just took exactly the beer that I've

1246
01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:25,760
Speaker 2: been making over in Germany, the lager, and took it

1247
01:01:25,840 --> 01:01:29,440
Speaker 2: into Mexico as they saw a market there. Yeah, and

1248
01:01:29,920 --> 01:01:34,840
Speaker 2: Corona was established named after You're not for me, you're

1249
01:01:35,120 --> 01:01:35,520
Speaker 2: not a fan.

1250
01:01:35,520 --> 01:01:36,600
Speaker 4: That's what we've gon to put a lemon in it

1251
01:01:36,760 --> 01:01:37,480
Speaker 4: to try to hide up.

1252
01:01:38,360 --> 01:01:40,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, leman on a lime, a little bit of a

1253
01:01:41,000 --> 01:01:43,680
Speaker 2: gi give it something, give it, give it a little

1254
01:01:43,680 --> 01:01:45,320
Speaker 2: bit of a taste. It got its name from the

1255
01:01:45,400 --> 01:01:48,600
Speaker 2: cathedral of our Lady Gudelupe in the city of Porto

1256
01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:52,920
Speaker 2: Vlata because of Kuroshio, where's a crown and the Corona's

1257
01:01:52,920 --> 01:01:54,880
Speaker 2: crown And that's why, of course it was a coronavirus,

1258
01:01:54,960 --> 01:01:56,720
Speaker 2: because it looked like a crown and.

1259
01:01:58,240 --> 01:01:59,520
Speaker 4: Looked like it was wearing a crown.

1260
01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:03,000
Speaker 2: And Corona was what did that for sounds went up,

1261
01:02:03,040 --> 01:02:05,600
Speaker 2: and this one reading about this like the history of Corona. Yeah,

1262
01:02:06,080 --> 01:02:09,680
Speaker 2: when everyone was talking about the coronavirus in early twenty twenty.

1263
01:02:09,720 --> 01:02:12,520
Speaker 2: Apparently just hearing the word was enough wow for people

1264
01:02:12,560 --> 01:02:14,400
Speaker 2: to be like, oh man, I'd kill for one of those.

1265
01:02:14,840 --> 01:02:16,760
Speaker 4: You're true in the zeitgeist front of mine.

1266
01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:22,040
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, thirsty, Yeah, a little bit of laundry waters,

1267
01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:22,640
Speaker 3: some line in it.

1268
01:02:22,640 --> 01:02:24,520
Speaker 4: A little bit of a little bit of a diluted

1269
01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:29,560
Speaker 4: down urine, yeah, well hydrated, yeah, but the beer equivalent

1270
01:02:29,600 --> 01:02:31,240
Speaker 4: of cordial. When your mum was mixing it and she

1271
01:02:31,280 --> 01:02:34,000
Speaker 4: didn't want to using too much power, You're like, can

1272
01:02:34,040 --> 01:02:36,360
Speaker 4: I have a little bit more? No, that's got plenty

1273
01:02:36,400 --> 01:02:37,760
Speaker 4: in it. One teaspoon is what it says.

1274
01:02:38,120 --> 01:02:41,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, mum, it's one sachet, poo leader, one teaspoon.

1275
01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:43,840
Speaker 4: That's all you're going to get. So it went up.

1276
01:02:44,160 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 2: But yeah, apparently made by the original owners of the

1277
01:02:47,040 --> 01:02:49,880
Speaker 2: brewery and everything were Germans, and the German brewers came in,

1278
01:02:50,000 --> 01:02:53,040
Speaker 2: and then after a little while it got sold to

1279
01:02:53,960 --> 01:02:57,640
Speaker 2: a more local company. But now it's owned by a

1280
01:02:57,720 --> 01:03:00,680
Speaker 2: Belgian beer brewing company Corona.

1281
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:03,640
Speaker 4: But all the marketing is like, you know, a Mexican bee.

1282
01:03:05,040 --> 01:03:07,600
Speaker 2: Always says on it, which is Mexican for beer, right,

1283
01:03:07,680 --> 01:03:10,000
Speaker 2: and it all looks very Mexican.

1284
01:03:09,680 --> 01:03:13,880
Speaker 4: But no, not bees. We've been lied to. It was German.

1285
01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:16,200
Speaker 2: So today's our fact of the day is Corona is

1286
01:03:16,320 --> 01:03:21,960
Speaker 2: a German beer. Technically fact of the day day.

1287
01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:38,920
Speaker 7: Day day day do play.

1288
01:03:41,320 --> 01:03:46,400
Speaker 3: Play a clock appointment yesterday? Not convenient for anyone, And

1289
01:03:46,480 --> 01:03:49,200
Speaker 3: it was in town, so I didn't go home. So

1290
01:03:49,360 --> 01:03:51,320
Speaker 3: I I took the mickey a little bit and I

1291
01:03:51,360 --> 01:03:53,400
Speaker 3: parked up in a cafe for three hours and did

1292
01:03:53,440 --> 01:03:54,000
Speaker 3: somewhere and.

1293
01:03:54,040 --> 01:03:56,280
Speaker 4: Did you buy like one scone?

1294
01:03:56,600 --> 01:03:56,640
Speaker 8: No?

1295
01:03:56,760 --> 01:03:58,760
Speaker 4: I bought two coffees and an omelet.

1296
01:03:59,520 --> 01:04:02,680
Speaker 1: That's that's still not worth three hours of a table.

1297
01:04:03,040 --> 01:04:04,800
Speaker 3: It did that thing where it tips past one, and

1298
01:04:04,880 --> 01:04:07,120
Speaker 3: I thought, should I get a glass of wine? You know,

1299
01:04:07,240 --> 01:04:10,400
Speaker 3: it's a cafe that's right all day, But I didn't.

1300
01:04:10,640 --> 01:04:13,520
Speaker 3: You're being so healthy, I know, and they didn't really mind.

1301
01:04:13,560 --> 01:04:15,360
Speaker 3: It was a big place, so it was fine, okay.

1302
01:04:15,520 --> 01:04:17,640
Speaker 3: So I sat at the back of this cafe. There's

1303
01:04:17,680 --> 01:04:20,520
Speaker 3: a long table, you know, like we'd lots of people

1304
01:04:20,600 --> 01:04:23,080
Speaker 3: can kind of share the table at the back. And

1305
01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:25,760
Speaker 3: I was there and it's a dog friendly cafe, which

1306
01:04:25,800 --> 01:04:27,120
Speaker 3: I'm always up for it's fun.

1307
01:04:27,560 --> 01:04:30,600
Speaker 4: Dogs, little dogs in these cute dogs. You're not a

1308
01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:33,200
Speaker 4: fan born No dogs, don't take your dog. You don't

1309
01:04:33,200 --> 01:04:34,920
Speaker 4: need to take your dog there. I got dogs I

1310
01:04:34,960 --> 01:04:38,320
Speaker 4: don't know, taking them the local beer spot out our way,

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Speaker 4: and the girls are come. We go to the dogs.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, we a pain in the ass. No,

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Speaker 4: I love it when his dog's there. That's one. I'm

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01:04:44,920 --> 01:04:45,480
Speaker 4: well behaved.

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01:04:45,520 --> 01:04:48,080
Speaker 2: Dogs fine, But a cafe no, because people are eating

1316
01:04:48,400 --> 01:04:52,840
Speaker 2: pub different cafe because people don't eat in pubs or

1317
01:04:52,880 --> 01:04:53,440
Speaker 2: they snack.

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01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:56,800
Speaker 4: Cafe. Is you going for the specific purpose of eating.

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01:04:56,920 --> 01:05:00,400
Speaker 3: It is weird having dogs and eggs, for sure, and

1320
01:05:00,520 --> 01:05:02,919
Speaker 3: sometimes they bark anyway. But there was a myriad of dogs,

1321
01:05:02,960 --> 01:05:05,200
Speaker 3: and I was actually enjoying all the dogs. And then

1322
01:05:06,600 --> 01:05:09,240
Speaker 3: at the end of my table, a little ready chihoa

1323
01:05:09,280 --> 01:05:10,160
Speaker 3: who turned dark.

1324
01:05:12,280 --> 01:05:13,160
Speaker 4: I don't want to talk about this.

1325
01:05:13,360 --> 01:05:15,800
Speaker 3: I grew up with a chehoa who because my best

1326
01:05:15,840 --> 01:05:18,560
Speaker 3: friend got one when she was like ten maybe, and

1327
01:05:18,680 --> 01:05:20,000
Speaker 3: then it'd only died not.

1328
01:05:20,040 --> 01:05:23,040
Speaker 4: So long ago. It was it was real old. Yeah,

1329
01:05:23,200 --> 01:05:25,160
Speaker 4: one of those. No, she wasn't ten, she wouldn't must

1330
01:05:25,160 --> 01:05:30,600
Speaker 4: have been like a new teenagers a taken to a

1331
01:05:30,800 --> 01:05:31,400
Speaker 4: farm all.

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01:05:31,840 --> 01:05:33,720
Speaker 1: So, yeah, they're not the best, are they, Although some

1333
01:05:33,800 --> 01:05:35,320
Speaker 1: people love them, they just adore them.

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01:05:35,920 --> 01:05:37,560
Speaker 4: Love them. And this was a cute looking chehoa.

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01:05:38,280 --> 01:05:41,600
Speaker 3: And then I was like, did that thing? And I

1336
01:05:41,640 --> 01:05:43,320
Speaker 3: was like, you know, I smile at the dogs, Yeah,

1337
01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:45,200
Speaker 3: little hello, And I looked at it. I was like,

1338
01:05:45,520 --> 01:05:46,880
Speaker 3: and then I went back to my laptop. I was

1339
01:05:46,920 --> 01:05:48,960
Speaker 3: doing my work, and then I looked, and then the

1340
01:05:49,080 --> 01:05:54,640
Speaker 3: owner had the chihuahua on the table, on the table.

1341
01:05:54,880 --> 01:05:58,920
Speaker 4: You don't put a dog or dogs on the tables.

1342
01:05:59,240 --> 01:06:00,880
Speaker 3: And just because it's a small dog doesn't mean that

1343
01:06:01,000 --> 01:06:04,280
Speaker 3: your dog's are now belongs on the table like that.

1344
01:06:04,640 --> 01:06:07,040
Speaker 4: My cat can go on my table, but that's okay

1345
01:06:07,120 --> 01:06:08,760
Speaker 4: because it's my table. That's your business.

1346
01:06:08,880 --> 01:06:10,760
Speaker 3: If you want to eat off that cat ass table,

1347
01:06:10,840 --> 01:06:13,240
Speaker 3: that's fine, and I'll have the same at my house.

1348
01:06:13,360 --> 01:06:15,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're in your cat's scoot and it's worms

1349
01:06:15,400 --> 01:06:17,240
Speaker 2: ars across the table, by all means, but.

1350
01:06:17,280 --> 01:06:19,520
Speaker 4: That's your table and your plant. I'll do what I

1351
01:06:19,640 --> 01:06:20,560
Speaker 4: want to at your table.

1352
01:06:20,680 --> 01:06:22,680
Speaker 1: I would never take my cat or a dog to

1353
01:06:22,760 --> 01:06:25,360
Speaker 1: a restaurant or a cafe and put it on the table.

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01:06:25,480 --> 01:06:25,680
Speaker 8: I know.

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01:06:26,440 --> 01:06:28,680
Speaker 3: And for some reason, it just really irked me, and

1356
01:06:28,800 --> 01:06:31,160
Speaker 3: then the owners were like there were two of them.

1357
01:06:31,520 --> 01:06:38,240
Speaker 3: One was the chiho who owner and then the other

1358
01:06:38,320 --> 01:06:40,040
Speaker 3: one was just a friend, right, And I was sort

1359
01:06:40,040 --> 01:06:42,400
Speaker 3: of looking at this dog like a little bit like,

1360
01:06:42,800 --> 01:06:45,000
Speaker 3: get your ass off the shed table. This is going

1361
01:06:45,080 --> 01:06:47,000
Speaker 3: to crawl its way down to my end, and I'm

1362
01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:48,640
Speaker 3: trying to have my lovely omelette.

1363
01:06:49,560 --> 01:06:50,600
Speaker 4: So I did this seing.

1364
01:06:50,680 --> 01:06:52,480
Speaker 3: And I do it sometimes with kids, and I do

1365
01:06:52,560 --> 01:06:54,440
Speaker 3: it sometimes with animals, and I don't know why I

1366
01:06:54,520 --> 01:06:56,680
Speaker 3: do it, but I try to mentally psych them out,

1367
01:06:57,520 --> 01:06:59,720
Speaker 3: you know, like sometimes you see a kid and the

1368
01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:01,400
Speaker 3: more thing to do would be like look at the

1369
01:07:01,440 --> 01:07:03,280
Speaker 3: kid and be like hi, Hi.

1370
01:07:03,840 --> 01:07:06,120
Speaker 4: Sometimes I just steer it with like a really aggressive

1371
01:07:06,200 --> 01:07:07,080
Speaker 4: blank smile.

1372
01:07:06,880 --> 01:07:10,440
Speaker 1: Like what especially on a plane your seat, yeah, and

1373
01:07:10,560 --> 01:07:11,080
Speaker 1: be like if.

1374
01:07:11,000 --> 01:07:12,880
Speaker 3: The parents or the owner aren't looking, and I'm just

1375
01:07:12,960 --> 01:07:15,320
Speaker 3: like and I was just like pull like a grassive

1376
01:07:15,360 --> 01:07:16,880
Speaker 3: face because in my head I'm like, I wonder what

1377
01:07:16,960 --> 01:07:18,720
Speaker 3: this kid is making of me right now.

1378
01:07:19,120 --> 01:07:20,280
Speaker 4: I want this dog so much.

1379
01:07:21,200 --> 01:07:22,560
Speaker 7: Yeah, crush that.

1380
01:07:22,760 --> 01:07:24,960
Speaker 4: And you usually would be like, oh, hello, look puppy,

1381
01:07:25,040 --> 01:07:26,760
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, she's gorgeous, and I'm just there being

1382
01:07:26,840 --> 01:07:30,880
Speaker 4: like heye, essay, like, what's she doing? Why you got

1383
01:07:30,920 --> 01:07:35,640
Speaker 4: into the Yeah you imagined, Yeah.

1384
01:07:35,480 --> 01:07:37,320
Speaker 3: And I started doing wide eyes in it and and

1385
01:07:37,440 --> 01:07:40,160
Speaker 3: it was like steering at me, like and then it's

1386
01:07:40,240 --> 01:07:43,000
Speaker 3: whole face transformed, is like, and then it was like

1387
01:07:43,040 --> 01:07:43,640
Speaker 3: looking away like.

1388
01:07:43,640 --> 01:07:45,240
Speaker 4: Oh my god, what is this woman? And I just

1389
01:07:45,600 --> 01:07:48,600
Speaker 4: sighted it out. Yeah, I did out of this dog.

1390
01:07:48,760 --> 01:07:50,640
Speaker 4: It was such weird behavior from men. And did it

1391
01:07:50,800 --> 01:07:52,200
Speaker 4: like did it settle down?

1392
01:07:52,600 --> 01:07:53,200
Speaker 2: Like what was it?

1393
01:07:53,320 --> 01:07:55,520
Speaker 4: Yeah? It wasn't.

1394
01:07:55,880 --> 01:07:59,760
Speaker 3: It wasn't, which I will say was probably not the

1395
01:07:59,800 --> 01:08:02,120
Speaker 3: dog fault. Yeah, it was the owner's fault.

1396
01:08:02,160 --> 01:08:02,640
Speaker 4: But I don't.

1397
01:08:02,680 --> 01:08:06,680
Speaker 3: I just I mentally played with this chihua who are

1398
01:08:06,960 --> 01:08:08,880
Speaker 3: for honestly an hour, and anytime it would look at me,

1399
01:08:08,960 --> 01:08:11,760
Speaker 3: I'll just give it this real attitude like you remember

1400
01:08:12,720 --> 01:08:14,480
Speaker 3: you try and come over here, man, I'll cut you.

1401
01:08:17,080 --> 01:08:18,599
Speaker 4: Eventually, they I think I went to the toilet.

1402
01:08:18,640 --> 01:08:21,120
Speaker 3: I came back and they were gone, right, and then

1403
01:08:21,160 --> 01:08:23,599
Speaker 3: I saw I did see the staff wiping the table.

1404
01:08:23,680 --> 01:08:25,360
Speaker 1: But I was like, it's not enough. I feel like

1405
01:08:25,360 --> 01:08:31,320
Speaker 1: I should have said I was working there, like we

1406
01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:33,400
Speaker 1: take the dog off the table place. Yeah, this is

1407
01:08:33,439 --> 01:08:34,519
Speaker 1: a place of eating.

1408
01:08:34,920 --> 01:08:36,679
Speaker 3: I wonder if they lift because they saw me psyching

1409
01:08:36,720 --> 01:08:38,479
Speaker 3: out the dog, which is a psychotic behavior.

1410
01:08:39,520 --> 01:08:41,479
Speaker 1: Imagine if the owners looked over and you're just like.

1411
01:08:41,760 --> 01:08:43,559
Speaker 4: I've been caught doing it to a kid, for sure.

1412
01:08:43,640 --> 01:08:45,120
Speaker 3: When I turned around, I've been going to the kid

1413
01:08:45,280 --> 01:08:48,680
Speaker 3: like hey, little and they're like, why are you looking

1414
01:08:48,680 --> 01:08:49,320
Speaker 3: at my kid like that?

1415
01:08:50,120 --> 01:08:52,120
Speaker 4: Because I don't have to pander to its cuteness.

1416
01:08:55,840 --> 01:08:58,519
Speaker 1: Well, expects to worry because he's been a rise and

1417
01:08:58,720 --> 01:09:02,160
Speaker 1: basically people just taking up travel on the credits on

1418
01:09:02,240 --> 01:09:06,080
Speaker 1: the on the credit, yeah, like getting loans or just yeah,

1419
01:09:06,439 --> 01:09:08,680
Speaker 1: I mean you can even have to pay flights and

1420
01:09:08,720 --> 01:09:09,599
Speaker 1: stuff now right.

1421
01:09:10,160 --> 01:09:14,920
Speaker 4: Yeah four payments, yeah, I mean.

1422
01:09:16,680 --> 01:09:19,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, or you can or you can get the you know,

1423
01:09:19,200 --> 01:09:23,160
Speaker 1: the special cards, the cues and the purr gyms and

1424
01:09:23,200 --> 01:09:26,639
Speaker 1: all those kind of things. But yeah, there's research suggesting

1425
01:09:26,680 --> 01:09:30,639
Speaker 1: that your younger generations, your gen z's millennials are yeah,

1426
01:09:30,720 --> 01:09:32,639
Speaker 1: are going into did all for the sake of fun

1427
01:09:32,720 --> 01:09:33,920
Speaker 1: and travel, just like.

1428
01:09:33,960 --> 01:09:36,360
Speaker 4: I'm young, I'm free and while let's go, I'll deal

1429
01:09:36,400 --> 01:09:36,840
Speaker 4: with it later.

1430
01:09:37,040 --> 01:09:39,040
Speaker 1: And well, they're also saying it's a bit of doom

1431
01:09:39,120 --> 01:09:41,200
Speaker 1: spending post pandemic, you know.

1432
01:09:41,320 --> 01:09:43,680
Speaker 4: Like we've had all that time little dopamine.

1433
01:09:43,920 --> 01:09:46,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, locked up and kind of confined that people are like, well,

1434
01:09:47,080 --> 01:09:48,519
Speaker 1: I don't know the world in next week.

1435
01:09:49,040 --> 01:09:51,040
Speaker 4: Why why don't I just a couple of holiday to

1436
01:09:51,120 --> 01:09:56,599
Speaker 4: ye what exactly I'll die? I never haven't been to make.

1437
01:09:58,040 --> 01:10:01,480
Speaker 3: Sorts, washed up, bar and meaconized.

1438
01:10:01,560 --> 01:10:04,479
Speaker 4: Yes, sort of existence when ever been would have been

1439
01:10:04,520 --> 01:10:04,800
Speaker 4: worth it.

1440
01:10:05,000 --> 01:10:08,080
Speaker 3: I'm conflicted by this because I don't encourage I've the

1441
01:10:08,200 --> 01:10:10,320
Speaker 3: only I only got deep once. I got a mortgage,

1442
01:10:10,560 --> 01:10:12,439
Speaker 3: like I never had it because my dad owned a

1443
01:10:12,479 --> 01:10:14,680
Speaker 3: finance company. I've seen what dick can do to people. Yeah,

1444
01:10:14,760 --> 01:10:15,479
Speaker 3: that's terrible thing.

1445
01:10:15,640 --> 01:10:19,120
Speaker 4: Firsthand. You watched people's knees get caved in with bats. Yeah,

1446
01:10:19,200 --> 01:10:20,360
Speaker 4: I used to do it. You used to do it.

1447
01:10:20,960 --> 01:10:24,200
Speaker 4: It's swung at the knees man.

1448
01:10:25,800 --> 01:10:26,560
Speaker 8: Yeah. No.

1449
01:10:26,760 --> 01:10:29,479
Speaker 3: But like, I'm sort of conflicted because I, you know,

1450
01:10:29,760 --> 01:10:32,120
Speaker 3: I don't encourage people to have if they don't have

1451
01:10:32,240 --> 01:10:34,880
Speaker 3: the means to pay it off. But also when you're young,

1452
01:10:34,920 --> 01:10:37,160
Speaker 3: I sort of get the attitude of like, well I'm

1453
01:10:37,200 --> 01:10:40,439
Speaker 3: only young once and yeah, literally there saying the world

1454
01:10:40,479 --> 01:10:42,400
Speaker 3: could be all over tomorrow felt quite close a few

1455
01:10:42,479 --> 01:10:45,200
Speaker 3: years ago. You know, we're all like, oh my god,

1456
01:10:45,240 --> 01:10:46,479
Speaker 3: are we ever going to see the world again?

1457
01:10:46,560 --> 01:10:48,320
Speaker 4: We're all locked in. We're all trapped.

1458
01:10:48,520 --> 01:10:51,120
Speaker 1: And then also you're looking at and it's so hard

1459
01:10:51,160 --> 01:10:53,200
Speaker 1: to like for a lot of people to get houses.

1460
01:10:53,680 --> 01:10:57,439
Speaker 4: Now, yeah, it was. You'd be like, well, what's the point.

1461
01:10:58,040 --> 01:10:59,720
Speaker 4: Yeah what am I saying? Europe for a while. We'll

1462
01:10:59,760 --> 01:11:01,840
Speaker 4: just go to Europe. Oh you should be saving your

1463
01:11:01,840 --> 01:11:02,360
Speaker 4: money for what?

1464
01:11:03,120 --> 01:11:05,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, literally to see the world anyway, you might as

1465
01:11:05,080 --> 01:11:06,439
Speaker 3: well go where your knees don't hurt.

1466
01:11:06,680 --> 01:11:09,760
Speaker 4: So yeah, there's a bit of that. But yeah, well,

1467
01:11:09,840 --> 01:11:10,120
Speaker 4: I mean.

1468
01:11:10,080 --> 01:11:14,920
Speaker 3: It's your money, it's your your problem, your money because

1469
01:11:14,960 --> 01:11:16,720
Speaker 3: they're doing that. I mean, it's also comes down to

1470
01:11:16,800 --> 01:11:19,479
Speaker 3: responsible lending, doesn't it. I mean that's the whole thing. Yeah,

1471
01:11:19,720 --> 01:11:22,920
Speaker 3: that's true. I mean you can get card if you

1472
01:11:23,000 --> 01:11:23,479
Speaker 3: can pay it.

1473
01:11:23,560 --> 01:11:27,200
Speaker 1: I mean, well, yeah, well that's the supposed how it's

1474
01:11:27,200 --> 01:11:29,280
Speaker 1: supposed to go. But then, you know, I remember even

1475
01:11:29,400 --> 01:11:32,040
Speaker 1: getting a credit card and I was like, what, this

1476
01:11:32,320 --> 01:11:33,519
Speaker 1: is a whig limits.

1477
01:11:33,560 --> 01:11:35,479
Speaker 4: I can spend all of that credit.

1478
01:11:35,360 --> 01:11:37,240
Speaker 1: Card til But that was how I played with my

1479
01:11:37,320 --> 01:11:40,639
Speaker 1: overdraft when I was a student. Yeah, oh yes, same.

1480
01:11:41,080 --> 01:11:42,800
Speaker 4: I got a five hundred dollars one and then they

1481
01:11:42,840 --> 01:11:44,200
Speaker 4: were like you go a bit more. I was like, good,

1482
01:11:44,200 --> 01:11:48,960
Speaker 4: I know, what are we talking is just mine now,

1483
01:11:49,080 --> 01:11:50,720
Speaker 4: and then when do I pay this man?

1484
01:11:50,920 --> 01:11:53,559
Speaker 1: And then and then your balance and then your balance

1485
01:11:53,760 --> 01:11:54,080
Speaker 1: is just.

1486
01:11:55,760 --> 01:11:55,800
Speaker 2: That.

1487
01:11:56,120 --> 01:11:57,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, doing your good mats.

1488
01:11:57,360 --> 01:12:01,880
Speaker 2: Though, like say you draft limited as a negative five

1489
01:12:02,000 --> 01:12:05,519
Speaker 2: hundred and you've got four hundred and twelve dollars you

1490
01:12:05,600 --> 01:12:06,120
Speaker 2: know exactly.

1491
01:12:07,400 --> 01:12:11,639
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I reckon my bank account as a young person.

1492
01:12:11,800 --> 01:12:14,200
Speaker 3: Taught me more about maths than doing maths of high school,

1493
01:12:14,200 --> 01:12:16,240
Speaker 3: because you're constantly like, well, if I spend this now

1494
01:12:16,280 --> 01:12:17,800
Speaker 3: and I can, I can transfer them, then I get

1495
01:12:17,800 --> 01:12:19,360
Speaker 3: paid this amount, and then that's how much I own.

1496
01:12:19,439 --> 01:12:21,040
Speaker 3: Then I could do this, and then I could go

1497
01:12:21,080 --> 01:12:23,960
Speaker 3: to Mikanos and have a delicious drinky poose. Someone just

1498
01:12:24,040 --> 01:12:26,000
Speaker 3: text down, Funny, I just maxed my credit card to

1499
01:12:26,000 --> 01:12:27,599
Speaker 3: pay for a family Disney cruise in November.

1500
01:12:29,400 --> 01:12:30,479
Speaker 4: Kids are on the last.

1501
01:12:30,680 --> 01:12:32,280
Speaker 2: That was pretty fun last year, that was pretty You

1502
01:12:32,320 --> 01:12:34,840
Speaker 2: did the Disney cruiser, Yeah, that was pretty fun.

1503
01:12:35,479 --> 01:12:39,439
Speaker 4: Careful where you like the cocktails? Yeah you did?

1504
01:12:41,400 --> 01:12:41,439
Speaker 2: It.

1505
01:12:41,520 --> 01:12:42,960
Speaker 4: Was just nice to get off the farm, wasn't it.

1506
01:12:43,040 --> 01:12:45,400
Speaker 4: Born not straight back to the farm.

1507
01:12:45,600 --> 01:12:48,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, likes, which actually costs me more week to week

1508
01:12:48,600 --> 01:12:49,360
Speaker 2: than most holidays.

1509
01:12:49,439 --> 01:12:52,880
Speaker 4: So you know, where what are we doing?

1510
01:12:53,120 --> 01:12:55,240
Speaker 1: Have you thought about just living on a Disney cruise.

1511
01:12:55,800 --> 01:12:59,360
Speaker 3: Also, we just tixt in people are ticking up useless diplomas,

1512
01:12:59,360 --> 01:13:01,000
Speaker 3: We're going to pay you off and getting far less

1513
01:13:01,040 --> 01:13:03,680
Speaker 3: from them than they were throwing up travel. So absolutely,

1514
01:13:04,400 --> 01:13:06,320
Speaker 3: it's all about how you look at it. Yeah, how

1515
01:13:06,400 --> 01:13:09,800
Speaker 3: much was your forty eight thousand?

1516
01:13:11,000 --> 01:13:13,280
Speaker 4: But you can cry idate that with studio, you can

1517
01:13:13,479 --> 01:13:15,800
Speaker 4: act and cry on demand. Yeah, she just thinks about

1518
01:13:15,840 --> 01:13:17,759
Speaker 4: how she'spent thirty eight thousand dollars in it. Moost tears

1519
01:13:17,800 --> 01:13:23,439
Speaker 4: to her eyes every single time. Shivers guys ten out

1520
01:13:23,439 --> 01:13:25,680
Speaker 4: of ten podcasts, that one. Yeah, I think two of

1521
01:13:25,800 --> 01:13:27,040
Speaker 4: us were ten out of ten and one of us

1522
01:13:27,200 --> 01:13:29,160
Speaker 4: wasn't or who was that? Which one? We'll just leave that.

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01:13:29,280 --> 01:13:30,120
Speaker 4: We'll just leave that there.

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01:13:30,320 --> 01:13:32,519
Speaker 1: Well, if you enjoyed today's podcast, give us a rating

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01:13:32,600 --> 01:13:33,640
Speaker 1: and review, please do.

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Speaker 4: And this is a bad one.

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Speaker 7: Don't know, don't bother?

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01:13:36,400 --> 01:13:37,479
Speaker 4: Yeah no, don't don't bother.

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01:13:38,240 --> 01:13:39,880
Speaker 7: Zid ms fletch Vonnon Hailey