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Speaker 1: The Hits Drive with Maddy and Paja thanks to chimis

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Speaker 1: Wee House, the Real House of Fragrances and on the

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Speaker 1: Hello everyone, and welcome to the podcast. I keep forgetting

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Speaker 1: the day today. I thought it was Monday, and then

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Speaker 1: I was about to say heavy Wednesday.

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Speaker 2: Fucking cooked.

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Speaker 3: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's Tuesday, which means you're recording your do we say,

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Speaker 1: do we speak about the mistress?

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Speaker 3: I mean we can talk about it. Do you How

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Speaker 3: do you feel about talking about it? Are you okay?

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Speaker 2: Okay? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I feel comfortable enough in our own relationship that I

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Speaker 1: don't need to be thriatened by your other partnership that

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Speaker 1: goes on side.

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Speaker 3: You shouldn't be because what we have is really special.

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Speaker 1: Thank you great.

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Speaker 3: I think so to, But you know, twenty twenty four

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Speaker 3: and exploring other options can be healthy in a relationship.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's give it a little pluck because it is

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Speaker 1: in the iHeartRadio family. Once you've listened to that, don't

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Speaker 1: go and cheat and go listen before you've listened to

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Speaker 1: the median, listen.

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Speaker 3: To this one first and foremost, because this is my

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Speaker 3: main job. This is just my little side, my side

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Speaker 3: hustle don't tell me, don't tell give him out the Gates.

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Speaker 3: You can listen on our heart radio if you get

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Speaker 3: your podcasts. Actually, I got a message today from my brother.

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Speaker 3: My brother lives in LA and he works over there,

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Speaker 3: and he got a message today where he works, they've actually,

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Speaker 3: sadly just had like a whole heap of redundancies I.

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Speaker 1: Know, unfortunately incredibly common, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: And this guy messaged him out of the blue, just

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Speaker 3: who This guy had obviously been made redundant in the

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Speaker 3: latest string, and he said, hey, Rob, now that we're

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Speaker 3: no longer co workers and there's little chance of us meeting,

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Speaker 3: so I don't even think of meet in person before

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Speaker 3: I just wanted to say that I've been listening to

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Speaker 3: your brother's podcast Out the Gate religiously for the last two.

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Speaker 2: Crazy.

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Speaker 1: Look at that samboy.

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Speaker 3: We've got a little it's quite hot. We've got we've

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Speaker 3: got an American fan.

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Speaker 1: Hey, that's cool. Can you break down the stairs? I

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Speaker 1: always find it?

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Speaker 2: Really Yeah we can.

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Speaker 3: I haven't actually asked for the updated stats recently, so

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Speaker 3: I couldn't tell you what they were, but yeah, we

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Speaker 3: would be able to. This guy messaged them. Rob. Obviously

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Speaker 3: my brother obviously went back to him and said, oh funny, like,

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Speaker 3: how did you find out about it? And he said

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Speaker 3: that when when when my brother joined this company, this

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Speaker 3: guy looked him up to see if he if Rob

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Speaker 3: was gay? Profile and podcasts and yeah, crazy.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, the internet is a crazy, wild place.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're about to hear how crazy with our group

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Speaker 3: therapy on today's podcast.

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Speaker 1: Group Therapy was yeah, fuck, it's a tough position. But

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Speaker 1: actually I feel more firm. I feel pretty just like

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Speaker 1: where we ended up. I think we ended up pretty pretty.

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Speaker 3: Good in the end.

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Speaker 1: It was a bit of a journey. I was a

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Speaker 1: bit a decisive at the beginning.

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Speaker 3: It's a hard one, though. I can see why you

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Speaker 3: would be indecisive. It's really hard to know what to do.

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Speaker 1: Well, Okay, so we talk about I'll give you a

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Speaker 1: little taste. Someone got intel that one of their friends

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Speaker 1: maybe getting involved in dating apps.

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Speaker 3: Let's just say that a married a married man.

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Speaker 1: A married man on a gay dating app. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: that aside, I have found out that, well, I thought

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Speaker 1: I was seeing someone and then I found out that

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Speaker 1: he had had a girlfriend, had.

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Speaker 3: Time, right, and you really appreciated the heads up, right.

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Speaker 1: Well, I actually got a heads up from a sister

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Speaker 1: of the girl. I didn't even know her, so I

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Speaker 1: got the phone called. Yes, I did appreciate the hits up.

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Speaker 1: But then I found out down the track that you know,

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Speaker 2: No, I didn't want to fully.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, you'll hear the fall Dallima coming up on the show. Also,

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Speaker 1: an incredible moment happened to men Bathura in this morning.

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Speaker 3: So it was so it was just so embarrassing. So

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Speaker 3: but do you know the stupid thing is, as soon

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Speaker 3: a good story to tell peage later.

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Speaker 2: It's the sick thing about being a radio.

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Speaker 1: Something fucked, twisted, awkward shit happens and you're like, well,

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Speaker 1: that was ship, but it's going to be great. Every

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Speaker 1: every silver lining, no, every.

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Speaker 3: Cloud, every cloud.

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Speaker 2: Every cloud, every cloud do you.

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Speaker 3: Have because because you've been doing this for such a

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Speaker 3: long time, now, do you have friends or bjor or

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Speaker 3: family who say, do you hey, don't you talk about

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Speaker 3: this on the radio, you know, like if something happens,

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Speaker 3: like if you're if they tell you something, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, the odds the odd time.

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Speaker 1: I used to get it a lot more, but I

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Speaker 1: don't get it as much anymore. Maybe is like, well,

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Speaker 1: you've got to make a crust share all of my

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Speaker 1: personal stuff.

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Speaker 3: I don't care.

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Speaker 2: He'll have and be like.

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Speaker 1: This is content and I'm like, no, it's a bit

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Speaker 1: lane bab.

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Speaker 3: He's yeah, I know, but he's just desperate for us

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Speaker 3: to talk about him more.

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Speaker 1: He wants Yeah, did I talk about this yesterday about

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Speaker 1: how he got recognized in tomorrow?

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Speaker 3: You did to me? I don't know if we talked

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Speaker 3: about it on the podcast, but I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he got recognized a few times over the weekend. Anyway, Look,

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Speaker 1: we have got to go, but we so Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: talk about many story We talk about the group therapy

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Speaker 1: few questions about the protocol regarding my new activity go there,

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Speaker 1: plus so much more coming up in the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Enjoy and many to podcast.

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Speaker 3: I'm always amazed by how quickly kids these days just

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Speaker 3: understand technology.

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Speaker 1: You know, well, they're exposed to it such a young age.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but even still, it's almost like instinctive. I've got

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Speaker 1: But think about when we like used to be on

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Speaker 1: just our parents' generation. Yes to you know, I think

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Speaker 1: I don't know, because we're exposed to a younger age

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Speaker 3: When my oldest niece in this family is just turned six,

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Speaker 3: and whenever we facetimeed, she's like knows how to put

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Speaker 1: You're already starting to sound old, old, am I?

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Speaker 3: Yeah you are.

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Speaker 1: You're not even forty, mate, You've got years of you

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Speaker 3: They just really know how to use the technology. But

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Speaker 3: I saw this video from a dead in America who

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Speaker 3: kids had no idea what a commercial was. They didn't

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Speaker 3: even wilder than that, they were like they said to

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Speaker 2: Of course, Oh my god, it's crazy.

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Speaker 3: He went, it's he just it was like mind blown.

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Speaker 1: But you gotta think it like the old humble home

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Speaker 2: Kids growing up now like they would have no.

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Speaker 1: No comprehension of how that works, like, but to us

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Speaker 3: It truly was. And so I just thought there must

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Speaker 3: be so many moments like this for parents and for teachers,

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Speaker 1: Could be music, could be pop culture, could be an item,

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Speaker 1: like one hundred of the hits. What was that moment

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Speaker 2: And it made you realize, Oh you old Mary J

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Speaker 2: Many and PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, got a few double passes to give away for

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Speaker 1: you to go see Blink twice in cinema. It's got

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Speaker 1: Naomi Aki and Channing Tatum in it, all about a

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Speaker 1: will Wind dream vacation to a tropical island with a

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Speaker 1: charming tech billionaire. It's too good to be true, but

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Speaker 1: there's something wrong with this place. Dot dot dot.

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Speaker 3: I cannot recommend it highly enough.

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Speaker 1: It's really just because we're giving away to tecond no.

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Speaker 2: No, no, truly, and it's such a good movie.

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Speaker 1: Okay, see you want to one days, all you need

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Speaker 1: to do is give us a call. Eight hundred the hats.

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Speaker 1: We've just been talking about those moments where you're with

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Speaker 3: A dad in America was caught short when he realized

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Speaker 1: I mean, let's be honest, life is better with our kid.

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Speaker 2: All right, let's go to Kate on the phone.

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Speaker 1: What was the moment that you realized you were considerably older?

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Speaker 4: Hey, guys, Yeah, I was on the balcony just string

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Speaker 2: No Obviously, you just put it was your button, mum.

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Speaker 3: That is brilliant. Someone actually teaches him with a very

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Speaker 3: similar story and said, I bought an old D twenty

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Speaker 3: six and seven year olds. I asked them to wind

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Speaker 3: it for ages until they they he realized they were

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: And it wasn't the end. No, no, no, no, you

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Speaker 1: So the question today is pretty simple for People's Poll.

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Speaker 3: This is an awful situation for the person that really

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Speaker 3: is they said I noticed on Facebook Messenger a few

447
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Speaker 3: days ago, I had a message request from someone I

448
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Speaker 3: didn't know. This person had messaged me about the husband

449
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Speaker 3: of a good female friend of mine. They told me

450
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Speaker 3: that my friend's husband was on a gay dating app

451
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Speaker 3: looking for casual experiences. They then attached a few very

452
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Speaker 3: explicit photos of my friend's husband. So now I'm at

453
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Speaker 3: a losses to what to do this couple of kids together.

454
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Speaker 3: So what do I do now that I have this information?

455
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Speaker 3: Do I keep it to myself? Or do I say

456
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Speaker 3: something to my friend about her husband?

457
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Speaker 1: I said, oh my gosh, I don't think I could

458
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Speaker 1: keep that. But you're right, like, there's so much at

459
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Speaker 1: stake here. You would be seriously meddling with a family, right,

460
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Speaker 1: So you want to know that you got the facts

461
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Speaker 1: right if you're going to approach it.

462
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Speaker 3: And that's a few people who have said, is this

463
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Speaker 3: maybe a case of AI the forest could be manipulated

464
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Speaker 3: a scam? You just don't know these days, do you.

465
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Speaker 1: So we obviously don't have the answers, but all hundred

466
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Speaker 1: the hats if you'd like to weigh in on the

467
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Speaker 1: sweet script therapy and none is joining us and you've

468
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Speaker 1: got a personal experience, Yes.

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Speaker 4: Happened, Well, I know this person and found out, but

470
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Speaker 4: I approached it. I said, you know, this is happening.

471
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Speaker 9: She was cheating.

472
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Speaker 4: And I told the wife that she was cheating, well

473
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Speaker 4: he was cheating, and she just blocked me and everything

474
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Speaker 4: because she believed what her husband. But the proof was

475
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Speaker 4: there and everything was there.

476
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Speaker 3: Wow.

477
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Speaker 4: Yeah, if you want to do it, just do it

478
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Speaker 4: enormous so they don't know who you are. I know

479
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Speaker 4: that's your friend, and I really didn't wanted to, you know,

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Speaker 4: end up our friendship. I was thinking I was helping her,

481
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Speaker 4: you know that what I was doing to try to

482
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Speaker 4: help her. Do you not to her husband to not

483
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Speaker 4: do that? But it bites back on me.

484
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Speaker 1: So yeah, and that's a tough thing. You You know,

485
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Speaker 1: you've got to weigh it up, like is it worth

486
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Speaker 1: potentially ruining your friendship over it because they might absolutely

487
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Speaker 1: reject And that's the information.

488
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Speaker 3: You do not know how someone is going to react

489
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Speaker 3: when they are handed that kind of information, and people

490
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Speaker 3: get very defensive, don't Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Graham is joining us, Oh light hundred hats what do

492
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Speaker 1: you reckon?

493
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Speaker 3: Graham?

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Speaker 9: So I'm going to come of this from a slightly

495
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Speaker 9: different angle. I know, the call or the friends said

496
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Speaker 9: that they they believe that is the person. But these

497
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Speaker 9: these the way that you can digitally alter photos, and

498
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Speaker 9: the ammount of guys that would have shirtless photos, you know,

499
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Speaker 9: on their socials, I would be questioning first off, whether

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Speaker 9: or not the photos are real because you, as the

501
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Speaker 9: previous corner said, and that there's a lot of risk

502
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Speaker 9: involved with this. So maybe, I mean, you can either

503
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Speaker 9: just ignore it or maybe doing the research and go, hey,

504
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Speaker 9: does the sky actually have you know, sort of shirtless

505
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Speaker 9: and could they be? Because it doesn't take much too

506
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Speaker 9: I know, although.

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Speaker 3: You've got to wonder, You've got to wonder why that

508
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Speaker 3: why someone would reach out to a random contact to

509
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Speaker 3: send these folks like.

510
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Speaker 1: As though they might be sailing going give me this

511
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Speaker 1: amount of money or I'll go to your friends. Someone

512
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Speaker 1: actual messaged in saying it might be very old images

513
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Speaker 1: from before though I'm married. That's another thing to consider.

514
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 1: So true, we don't know that these images are recent.

515
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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for Wayne and Graham. At least

516
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Speaker 1: go to Chris on eight hundred hats could I.

517
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Speaker 2: Chris, Hey, how are you both very well?

518
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Speaker 7: Happy?

519
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Speaker 2: You're not so bad? What do you think?

520
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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 10: In my in my opinion, I think that it could

522
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Speaker 10: get too messy too quickly. You know, you've got kids involved.

523
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Speaker 10: You don't want to break up a family, you know,

524
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Speaker 10: and you just don't have all the all the evidence,

525
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Speaker 10: you know. I mean, you've got pictures, but they, like

526
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Speaker 10: Graham said, they could be genetically altered or AI altered.

527
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Speaker 10: You know, you just have no idea and me all

528
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Speaker 10: could be a really big mistake.

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Speaker 1: I think, yeah, yeah, okay, I regret my initial reaction.

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Speaker 1: You're true, No, no, no, because I've actually thought about this.

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Speaker 1: We did not know enough information about the whole pack chat.

532
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Speaker 3: I know, but that you know, I guess it's different

533
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Speaker 3: for everyone. If you, if you as a person could

534
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Speaker 3: not sit on this information without saying anything, then you

535
00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:30,000
Speaker 3: kind of have to trust your gut on what is

536
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Speaker 3: best for you.

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Speaker 2: Right, That is true.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people are saying this sounds like a scam,

539
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Speaker 1: so I wonder if this is something that commonly goes on.

540
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Speaker 3: It could be. And I think the key thing is

541
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Speaker 3: a lot of people said, don't say anything. But people said,

542
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Speaker 3: if you are going to say something, say it to

543
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Speaker 3: the husband.

544
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Speaker 1: Yeah, not to the wife, because you don't know enough.

545
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Speaker 3: Yet, you don't know enough.

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Speaker 2: You Oh that was a good group therapy this week, Jose.

547
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Speaker 1: I do not envy being in that position, but thank

548
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Speaker 1: you so much for getting in touch with us this week.

549
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:00,879
Speaker 1: If you would like to get in touch, you can

550
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Speaker 1: text us all full eight seven.

551
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Speaker 2: Maddy and PJ. Mady and PJ.

552
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Speaker 1: The podcast The Head's an exciting development, medi and my search.

553
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Speaker 2: For a car.

554
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Speaker 3: Oh, you've been looking for a very long time. First

555
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Speaker 3: of all, you're going to clean out your original bloody cars.

556
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Speaker 3: You can sell it.

557
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Speaker 1: Excuse me, I've still got that on trade me. What

558
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Speaker 1: do you mean clean it up? It's amazing, it's immecula

559
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Speaker 1: and it's a real catch. If anyone's after a golf getn't.

560
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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, it's great. It's great. You'd love it,

561
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Speaker 3: You love it.

562
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Speaker 1: I have been on the hunt for an upgrade because

563
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Speaker 1: we love on a pretty rough and ready rural road

564
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Speaker 1: and obviously got a toddler.

565
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Speaker 2: We look in for a bit of a family wagon.

566
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Speaker 1: No, I'm not trying to get car companies to listen

567
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Speaker 1: to this and say, oh, PJ, would.

568
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Speaker 3: You like a car? But I just remember what happened

569
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Speaker 3: when we got when we got taken around all of

570
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Speaker 3: the different air agencies at the start of the year.

571
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Speaker 2: Excuse me, that was a lot time ago.

572
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Speaker 1: Anyway, we've come across a really perfect little family megod

573
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Speaker 1: like little suv.

574
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Speaker 2: I have found it. So my husband was like, right,

575
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 2: you need to go and do like a little test drive.

576
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:14,240
Speaker 1: You've just got to check that.

577
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Speaker 2: This is all good.

578
00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 1: So I've arranged because this was actually through Facebook marketplace,

579
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Speaker 1: which is all good.

580
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Speaker 3: I'm sure it is. I'm sure it is.

581
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:27,639
Speaker 1: You have obsessed with it, honestly, it's an addiction. So

582
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Speaker 1: We've planned this weekend to meet up for a little

583
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Speaker 1: little test drive. And I've got a couple of questions,

584
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Speaker 1: many just on what do you think is kosher for

585
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Speaker 1: a test drive? Like how long do you think I

586
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:39,560
Speaker 1: can take it for a spurt?

587
00:28:39,680 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 3: Am reckon? Half an Hour's fine?

588
00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 1: Have na? What if I wanted to like go and

589
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Speaker 1: test the country roads and do like see how it

590
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Speaker 1: goes on like a sort of longer haul drive.

591
00:28:51,160 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 2: How long are you thinking?

592
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:55,400
Speaker 1: I don't know, forty five go for a little Sunday.

593
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:56,920
Speaker 1: It's going to be Father's Day, so I feel like

594
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Speaker 1: col tied them for a little joy, right, Okay, No,

595
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Speaker 1: I'm taking the.

596
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Speaker 2: Plus if I go over thirty minutes.

597
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:08,320
Speaker 3: You RecA I reckon you could push it out to

598
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:12,440
Speaker 3: forty five minutes. Okay, I think anything close to an hour,

599
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:14,720
Speaker 3: and you yeah, you're taking them ackey a little bit.

600
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Speaker 1: Question does the salar need to come with me.

601
00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 3: In the car? No? But sometimes sometimes they might insist.

602
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:22,360
Speaker 3: But I find that really annoying.

603
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:25,960
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, because my third question was going to be

604
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Speaker 1: do you think I need to drive well? Because otherwise

605
00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 1: she may not want to pass the vehicle on to me.

606
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 1: But if she's not watching, then it's.

607
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,120
Speaker 3: Also no skin of her nose. Whether you're a good

608
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Speaker 3: driver or not. She just wants to I can't.

609
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Speaker 1: That's true, Okay, Okay, Well, happy days. I'll let you

610
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Speaker 1: know we finally it's not going to happen. I feel

611
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:45,280
Speaker 1: like I'm eternally on a searcher and upgrade.

612
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Speaker 3: I just love it. I love the idea of this

613
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Speaker 3: lady sitting there for like three hours, being like, oh

614
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Speaker 3: my god, that's still not bad. And there you are

615
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Speaker 3: on your picnic with your husband for Father's Day.

616
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Speaker 2: Many in the podcast.

617
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Speaker 1: That was pushing it fine, Matthew McClay.

618
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Speaker 3: Look when you gotta go, you gotta go.

619
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Speaker 1: I was like, what am I going to talk about?

620
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Speaker 1: He's got this one. There was Dasher with Austin on

621
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Speaker 1: the Hurts five minutes to five with Maddy and PJ.

622
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Speaker 3: Hey, I saw a brilliant story about a would be

623
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Speaker 3: burglar in Rome. Now terrible thing to go and want

624
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Speaker 3: to rob someone in their own home. But this man

625
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Speaker 3: in Rome decided that's what he was going to do.

626
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Speaker 3: But he was caught mid robbery because he got distracted

627
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Speaker 3: while robbing this person's home with a book on their bedside. Cabnet.

628
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Speaker 2: What was the book?

629
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Speaker 3: The book was Iliad, which is like a really famous

630
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Speaker 3: old school like philosophy book.

631
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Speaker 1: And well, he was like, oh mate, I love that.

632
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Speaker 1: I'm just going to go check out a few pages. Yeah.

633
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Speaker 3: I started reading it and then got interrupted by the

634
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:58,720
Speaker 3: guy who owned the house. It was like, mate, what

635
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 3: are you doing? And he goes, I'm sorry, I got distracted.

636
00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:03,200
Speaker 3: I was trying to rob you. But the book is

637
00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:07,480
Speaker 3: so good. I loved Criminals. That is so good.

638
00:31:07,720 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 1: I was wondering it might have been like a ghost

639
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 1: Bumps book. My husband still had I kid you not

640
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:16,000
Speaker 1: goost Bumps like the series of ghost Bumps by his

641
00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 1: bed when I met him at the age of twenty seven.

642
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:21,840
Speaker 3: I was obsessed with goosebumps. So I get it, But

643
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Speaker 3: I wanted to know on the text machine four four

644
00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 3: eight seven, what would be the thing that would distract you?

645
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Speaker 3: What would you be distracted by if you were robbing

646
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Speaker 3: someone's house?

647
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Speaker 2: All right, taxs three four eight seven.

648
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Speaker 5: Mary J.

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Speaker 2: Many and PJ the podcast The Heads.

650
00:31:43,680 --> 00:31:47,200
Speaker 3: There are three facts about me, I reckon that you

651
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:51,240
Speaker 3: should know, and you probably know them all.

652
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:54,040
Speaker 1: Three of these peage, you won celebrity Treasure Island, You're

653
00:31:54,040 --> 00:31:57,440
Speaker 1: incredibly competitive, and you're a labristar sign.

654
00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:00,560
Speaker 3: No, those are three. Those are three things, but those

655
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Speaker 3: aren't the things that I was thinking of. One I

656
00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:09,280
Speaker 3: walk very fast, Yeah, I hate dodd linge. Two I

657
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 3: overheat like I'm quite a I'm quite a a sweat profusely.

658
00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:16,440
Speaker 2: Do you run hot?

659
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 1: So that's why you go like full nerdy at bedtime?

660
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:20,080
Speaker 3: Yes?

661
00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:22,440
Speaker 2: So often makes sense?

662
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Speaker 1: Yeah.

663
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:25,720
Speaker 3: And three I'm often running late to things.

664
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Speaker 2: Tastes.

665
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Speaker 3: Yeah, you hear me both. So this is the situation,

666
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Speaker 3: the predicament I found myself in today when I was

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Speaker 3: had organized to go and see my barber to get

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Speaker 3: a haircut. I was running late. I was walking from

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Speaker 3: where I part my car at work to the barber's shop,

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Speaker 3: and I was walking fast because that's just naturally how

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Speaker 3: I how I operate. So when I arrived at the barbers,

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Speaker 3: I was.

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Speaker 2: Very sweety already.

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Speaker 3: I could feel the back of my shirt getting quite

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Speaker 3: wheat close. Yeah, it's it's such a horrible feeling as well,

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Speaker 3: it's gross, like.

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Speaker 1: Can you put.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you can?

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Speaker 10: You can?

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Speaker 3: And I and I did do that. But when I

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Speaker 3: walked in, my hair dresser said, oh, have you run here?

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Speaker 3: You're looking very dewy, and I went, oh god, so

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Speaker 3: I so he was actually finishing up, So even though

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Speaker 3: I was running late, he was actually running late himself.

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Speaker 3: So it did give me a few minutes window. So

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Speaker 3: I thought, Okay, I'll quickly duck into the bathrooms that

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Speaker 3: are next door to the barbers and I'll just quickly

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Speaker 3: go into the cubicle and sort myself out. So I

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Speaker 3: grabbed a couple of paper towels and I walked into

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Speaker 3: the cubicle and I took my shirt off because I

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Speaker 3: was so wet and like sticky. Took my shirt off

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Speaker 3: and I pulled down my jeans. Basically I felt like

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Speaker 3: I just needed to airrate, like I needed to dry.

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Speaker 3: Why did you take a jans Because I was all over,

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Speaker 3: I was hot and I just needed to get some

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Speaker 3: fresh air all over my body. So that's the picture

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Speaker 3: I'm painting for you, Me standing in a cubicle with

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Speaker 3: my shirt off and my jeans around my ankles, with

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Speaker 3: paper towels in my hand.

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Speaker 2: That doesn't look great.

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Speaker 3: Its bad. What are you doing with them? And it

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Speaker 3: gets so much worse because I hadn't obviously locked the door.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, So next thing I know, someone has pushed

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Speaker 3: open the door to the cubicle and there I am

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Speaker 3: standing in the cubicle, jeans around my ankles, t shirt

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Speaker 3: off and hanging on the side of the toilet wall,

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Speaker 3: and paper towels in my.

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Speaker 1: That would have been damped. You've been damning your body.

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Speaker 1: Were you at least wearing nice underwear?

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Speaker 3: They're not. They don't have holes in them. If that's

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Speaker 3: what you're asking.

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Speaker 2: They were tidy wies. It's even better.

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Speaker 3: So luckily I never saw this guy again, because I

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Speaker 3: would have been mortified if I'd had to run into him.

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Speaker 3: But it was one of the more compromising situations I've

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Speaker 3: ever found myself in.

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Speaker 2: That is so good.

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Speaker 3: I just I wish I was the no, you don't,

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Speaker 3: And I just wonder what this guy is going back

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Speaker 3: and telling like his colleagues or whatever.

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Speaker 1: That image you'll be living room for his year for

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Speaker 1: the rest of the year.

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Speaker 3: He'll be like sure. I think it was the guy

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Speaker 3: that used to be on breakfast and he was standing

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Speaker 3: with his like chudes around his ankles and his top off.

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Speaker 1: I wait, hundred the hats. I'm gonna make you feel

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Speaker 1: better right now on the phone, many when did you

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Speaker 1: get caught in a compromising position? Beddie McLain has just

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Speaker 1: opened up and she had his vulnerable experience this morning.

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Speaker 1: Have you been in a similar situation where someone walked

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Speaker 1: in and it did not look good at all? When

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Speaker 1: did you get caught in a compromising possession? I wait

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Speaker 1: hundred the hat.

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Speaker 2: Mady, J, Maddy and pja' the podcast.

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Speaker 1: That Beddy has just shared an incredibly humiliating story that

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Speaker 1: happened to him in the bathroom this morning. Do you

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Speaker 1: want to real limit.

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Speaker 3: I got to my barber's really sweaty, and I walked

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Speaker 3: fast and was hot outside and I needed to aerate basically,

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Speaker 3: so I went into the cubicle in the bathroom. I

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Speaker 3: took my top off, my t shirt off, and pulled

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Speaker 3: my pants down and was standing in there just like

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Speaker 3: trying to dry out. But I obviously not locked the

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Speaker 3: door properly and someone walked into the cubicle. It was mortifying.

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Speaker 1: So we wanted to know, one hundred the hets, when

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Speaker 1: did you get caught in a compromising position? I told

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Speaker 1: you this three eight years back, when I was a

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Speaker 1: few years ago. I was on the plane wearing a

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Speaker 1: jumpsuit and I'd gone toilet, And any anyone who wears

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Speaker 1: a jumpsuit will know that it's not a flattering sight

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Speaker 1: where you're sitting on the low your unders.

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Speaker 2: It dawn, everything is out and it.

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Speaker 1: Too had forgotten to fully lock the door, and a

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Speaker 1: guy proceeded to walk through. It was not a nice

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Speaker 1: time for myself, for my ego. So look, oh waite,

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Speaker 1: hundred the hets, don't be afraid to share when you

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Speaker 1: got caught in a compromising moment?

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Speaker 2: What happened Brendan?

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Speaker 6: So me and my mate went duck shooting. We had

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Speaker 6: to my mate's mother's car to do that.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, you, I think you've got a bad patch

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Speaker 1: of receiver, sir. Come back, let's okay, we'll try. Are

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Speaker 1: you there, Brenda, Brendan near there?

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Speaker 3: Yes, all right, keep going. So you were in your

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Speaker 3: your friend's mum's car.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, so we borrowed that.

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Speaker 6: We went duck shooting. We got covered in mud and stuff.

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Speaker 6: It was raining, so we get back to the car

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Speaker 6: and took all our clothes off from underwear and threw

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Speaker 6: them in the carsn't get covered and stuff, and the

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Speaker 6: keys were in the boot of the car on no trapped. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: so we're out in the rain and underwear and we

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Speaker 6: were sort of on top of a stop bank nest

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Speaker 6: to a road. Oh god, trying to break into the

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Speaker 6: car with a piece of wife and the for a

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Speaker 6: good twenty minutes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my god, you've really the picture for us. Brendan,

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Speaker 3: thank you.

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Speaker 1: So you can be treated in the middle of lasa

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Speaker 1: is joining us. What was the compromising possession, hiery, guys.

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Speaker 11: So it was more that I taught my mum and

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Speaker 11: dad in a compromised spopulation.

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Speaker 7: So it was just a speak birthday party and.

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Speaker 11: Then everyone was downstairs party having a good time. I

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Speaker 11: wanted to a hair, stay my hair, so I went upstairs,

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Speaker 11: not realizing my mam and dad, okay. I walked into

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Speaker 11: their bed all and they were having a special puddle

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Speaker 11: on the bed. I just walked straight past him, really

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Speaker 11: poorly into the Great straightway hair, walked back past them

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Speaker 11: and then down to were in the party, and face

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Speaker 11: was impestial. She came down a short while later, tous

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Speaker 11: dress softly.

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Speaker 1: I remember having one of my friends. Her parents had

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Speaker 1: a water bed though, and she just vividly remembers on.

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Speaker 2: This son hands her till this day. Mary and Mary

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Speaker 2: and PJ. The podcast The Heads