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Speaker 1: The Hits Drive with Media and Paja thanks to Chimis

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Speaker 1: were House the Real House of Fragrances and on that

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Speaker 1: Hello everyone and welcome to the podcast. Hello, right, meeting adjourned.

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Speaker 1: What is on the agenda this evening?

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Speaker 2: I stole a protein bar from the kiss warehouse shelf.

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Speaker 1: Now that's a free for all. Yeah, I think so.

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Speaker 1: But you just feel a little bit more naughty.

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Speaker 2: I felt.

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Speaker 1: Usually you'll just take like hand sanitizer or shaving crease.

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Speaker 2: Well I did feel a little bit naughty. But then

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Speaker 2: I realized I have become such an office scrounge.

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Speaker 1: Because I did and this job, because we're in here

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Speaker 1: at the time of day when you get the cravies.

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Speaker 2: Yes, so I went. I often will go out into

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Speaker 2: the into the into the office and walk around going,

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Speaker 2: this is one.

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Speaker 1: Any snacks that guy?

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Speaker 2: Any snacks?

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Speaker 1: Do you get?

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Speaker 3: Any?

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Speaker 1: Thanks? What do you what? What would you tune your

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Speaker 1: nose up at?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: When do you think you have kind of crossed the

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Speaker 1: lines of hygiene?

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Speaker 2: Oh that's a good question. M Do you mean, like,

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Speaker 2: what would I say? Not? What would I say? What

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Speaker 2: would you?

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Speaker 1: What would you? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I mean if someone was offering me like

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Speaker 2: part of the actual meal, like I feel like helping

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Speaker 2: yourself to someone's chips or like helping yourself to someone's

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Speaker 2: snaky food is.

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Speaker 1: But if someone was.

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Speaker 2: Like, do you want some carbinara? Yeah, do you want

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Speaker 2: some spag bowl?

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, no, I made the best freaking spag

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Speaker 1: bowl used today. I don't want to take my horn.

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Speaker 1: But it was amazing.

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Speaker 2: Anything special about it? Because spag bowl, I mean, I

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Speaker 2: love a good spag bowl. And I'm not saying it's

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Speaker 2: like no, hard to know what you mean? But was

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Speaker 2: there anything that made it particularly good? Because it's a

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Speaker 2: pretty basic meal, that's.

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Speaker 1: Pretty basic And I don't because I love spare bowl

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Speaker 1: and I actually chocolate full with VG's and stuff just

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Speaker 1: I put in it?

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Speaker 4: Now?

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Speaker 1: I always just have, you know, a bit of tomato,

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Speaker 1: peas and to and tomatoes, garlic, you stocks. I don't

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Speaker 1: know it just maybe it simmered longer. I had it

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Speaker 1: sort of brewing longer. Usually BJA doesn't really appreciate my

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Speaker 1: spare bowl, but last night I loved it. I'll give

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Speaker 1: you that. That is a good speak bowl.

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Speaker 2: All right, now you've maybe wont spag bob.

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Speaker 1: It was so good.

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Speaker 2: So we went to the movies last night. Yeah, and

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Speaker 2: I told you it was like cheap Mondays at this particular. Yes,

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Speaker 2: so they do cheap tickets, but they also if you're

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Speaker 1: Oh so that was the thing because you mentioned that usterday.

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Speaker 2: I was they were still doing it. But they are

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Speaker 1: How many if I would? I don't know. I can't

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Speaker 2: So how many? How many buckets do you think is

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Speaker 2: too many? And I'm not talking about big big buckets.

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Speaker 2: That was like small.

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Speaker 1: Oh you'd be taking the person if you go for

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Speaker 1: three or more. I reckon four.

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Speaker 2: I did three?

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Speaker 1: I mean to be fair, was the smallest size, one large?

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Speaker 1: There could be one large year, but like is it

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Speaker 2: Why can I have some more like free pop?

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Speaker 1: It's like at the was it what establishments did it?

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Speaker 1: Where you could go up for refills and I'd always

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Speaker 2: Yeah you know the look. Oh I know.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, we've both dumped you a couple of our

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Speaker 1: personal food stories. You had a bit of food theming

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Speaker 1: in the show today we asked the question are you

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Speaker 1: top or bottom when it comes to Heads out of

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Speaker 1: if we're cann have a word about that. I want

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Speaker 2: We've got a meeting tomorrow. Actually, let's see if he

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Speaker 2: brings it up. Is that hey, hey, I love the content.

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Speaker 2: Willonderfoe's deck was an interesting break.

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Speaker 1: I just need to know them why.

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Speaker 2: I did wonder because we talked about top or bottom

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Speaker 1: What you're talking about? A lot over a lot of

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Speaker 2: So we talked about that. We talked about our group

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Speaker 2: therapy was interesting, a real juicy one today.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was. It was quite unique. But I think

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Speaker 1: there's more and more stories like that's popping up. And

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Speaker 1: actually we've got some really good beneficial solutions for it

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so some good stuff on the show today.

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Speaker 1: Enjoy it will waiting for me because you usually lived

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Speaker 1: and normally I come in, I'll wrap it up. Also,

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Speaker 1: we wanted to know how you welcomed the neighbors who

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I think you've done it. I think you've done

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Speaker 2: too much.

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Speaker 1: Oh I think you went with talking.

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Speaker 1: Sweet? Enjoy the podcast, everyone, the podcast that Are You

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Speaker 1: an Office Chameleon? Treading a rather interesting article just before

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Speaker 1: Matty about why are professional and private selves often differ?

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Speaker 1: So do you think you're a bit of an office chameleon?

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Speaker 1: Do you think that your persona changes quite drastically between

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Speaker 2: No, but I have had numerous times where I've thought

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Speaker 1: Like exude more professionals.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, I am one hundred percent myself warts and all

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Speaker 1: Will They talk about how a lot of people adopt

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Speaker 1: an altered persona changing vocabulary, clothes, I mean obviously clothes

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Speaker 1: they talk about how it's, you know, wanting to succeed

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I was trying to think about myself.

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Speaker 1: I think I'm like a heightened version of myself at work,

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Speaker 1: like I'm certainly it's like I've had a few energy

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Speaker 2: But that is part of that, the fact that you know,

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Speaker 2: you're you have the opportunity to be like a completely

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you kind of you Yeah, you sort of

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Speaker 1: about it, Like my husband definitely says a slightly nastier

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Speaker 2: There were I've definitely caught myself on a fewer few

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Speaker 2: something and I've gone, this should just be at home behavior,

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Speaker 2: because my husband has to love me right like he

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Speaker 2: has to love me no matter.

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Speaker 1: We don't. We have no othergations. We haven't signed any contracts.

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Speaker 2: There was when I was working on breakfast at TV

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Speaker 1: You know, oh yeah, cranky could get very.

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Speaker 2: Cranky the printer. I had the biggest issues with our

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Speaker 2: printer at work. In every morning, like clockwork, I would

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Speaker 1: We're a media company, how can they not see us

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Speaker 1: simple technology in the year twenty twenty three.

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Speaker 2: And I would think to myself, this isn't like tone

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Speaker 2: down many like, this isn't behavior your work colleagues should

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Speaker 1: This is really low little is this scheme of worldwide?

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 5: Maddy and PJ. Meddy and PJ the podcast The Heads.

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Speaker 1: Got another knock on the door over the weekend, Meddie.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't there. It wasn't the strangers that you caught

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Speaker 1: It, Oh, the one that looked like Dumbledore.

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Speaker 1: No, they've never returned and we've never worked out they wanted. No,

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Speaker 1: this was another group of guests. Take what for? Somewhere

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Speaker 1: where we are, which is incredibly remote, we do have

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Speaker 1: Yes? Absolutely so, you have a dog, it's great usually

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Speaker 1: I was pretty excited to meet new people, as you

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Speaker 1: I said, oh, my gosh, guys, it's going to be great.

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Speaker 1: And they're like, look, we're not fully moved in, but

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Speaker 1: And I said, well, honestly, when you move in, hey,

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Speaker 7: Well, it's not so much I have welcomed your neighbors.

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Speaker 7: Super Well, it's a perception thing. I'm quite an outgoing

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Speaker 7: That gives some time to forget about it or not.

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Speaker 1: Sign of a great time.

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Speaker 5: Many and the podcast The People's.

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Speaker 2: Poll, The People's Poll, Everybody comes together.

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Speaker 1: Peach texts are already coming through. Top half is far better.

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Speaker 1: It's crispy, yummy bits. Yes, we're not going to count that.

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Speaker 1: the results of the People's Poles.

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Speaker 5: Mary and PJ, Mady and PJ.

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Speaker 2: The podcasts, the People's Pole, the People's Pole, everybody comes together.

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Speaker 1: It's the People's poll today. Oh, the People's Pole. We're

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Speaker 1: asking the question, are you bottom or top? When it

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Speaker 1: It reminds me. It reminds me of the crust in

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Speaker 2: You and I are a match made in heaven. I

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Speaker 1: So we really are all right. So what is the

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Speaker 2: The tops have it page eighty seven percent to thirteen percent.

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Speaker 2: It's read PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 5: That's manimpjs group therapy.

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Speaker 1: Ah take a deep collective breath at his time some therapy. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So you can get in touch with us at the

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Speaker 1: HATTO and Ziz or hit us up on the hats,

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Speaker 1: drive with many and PJ on Instagram every week. We

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Speaker 1: shared is a problem halved.

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Speaker 2: And do you know what we get such amazing advice

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Speaker 1: Okay, hear everyone coming through this week. Recently, my eighteen

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 1: Wow? Wow? There is a heavy situation to be in.

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Speaker 2: Send him to Uncle Maddy.

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Speaker 1: And he'll take you under your one from Uncle Maddie

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Speaker 2: I'm assuming of your little brother, and you can see

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Speaker 2: the red flags and let's call a spada spade. This

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Speaker 2: sounds dodgy on the face of things. I'm not saying

447
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Speaker 2: that I know for certain that this is not right

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Speaker 2: or not real, or a scam in any way, but

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Speaker 2: it definitely has the markings of something like that. Right.

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Speaker 2: We had an issue earlier in the year with group

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Speaker 2: therapy where someone was talking about the fact that they

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Speaker 2: had never video chatted with a person that they were

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Speaker 2: speaking to, and we all came to the conclusion there's

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Speaker 2: no way in twenty twenty four that you cannot have

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Speaker 2: a FaceTime, a video call, a phone call at the

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Speaker 2: very least with someone that you're in a relationship with.

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Speaker 2: But I think you've got to approach this with calm

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Speaker 2: and care, because your first instinct, I think would be

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Speaker 2: to freak out and there, idiot, why are you doing

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Speaker 2: this and project that onto him, and that I think

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Speaker 2: would only potentially alienate him even more, make him feel

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Speaker 2: very defensive, especially as an eighteen year old. We all

463
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Speaker 2: remember being eighteen. Think you know the world right. So

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Speaker 2: I think you've just got to approach it with calm

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Speaker 2: and care and go. I get it. I get what

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Speaker 2: I get why you want to go. I understand that

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Speaker 2: you're excited and you feel this way, but you've just

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Speaker 2: got to hear it from my point of view and

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Speaker 2: talk to him about it respectfully and calmly to try

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Speaker 2: and maintain him on side.

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Speaker 1: I've got an idea, why don't you go with him

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Speaker 1: and you take the flight with him so then you

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Speaker 1: can support him. Then you're like there from a distance,

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Speaker 1: just being like, look at any of the Gibbons. I'm

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Speaker 1: you know, I'm close by. I'm here. I support you

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Speaker 1: on this decision, but I want to come over just

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Speaker 1: if anything goes wrong, I'm here. Do you reckon? That's

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Speaker 1: good advice.

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Speaker 2: I think there's a I think there's great advice if

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Speaker 2: this person is able to obviously afford to be able

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Speaker 2: to head overseas. I mean, SUBI is a long way

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Speaker 2: to go.

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Speaker 1: It is a long way.

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Speaker 5: Maddy and PJ. Maddy and PJ The Podcast the head's

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Speaker 5: many mpj's group therapy.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this week's one is admittedly quite heavy, and it's

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Speaker 1: quite unique as well. But on eight hundred the hats,

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Speaker 1: if you've got any advice to help out a person

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Speaker 1: who's got in touch, this is what it said. Recently,

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Speaker 1: my eighteen year old little brother came out as gay.

491
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Speaker 1: That's not an shoe at all, but he's had zero

492
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Speaker 1: dating experience and has now told me, in our entire

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Speaker 1: family that he plans to go and meet his online

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Speaker 1: boyfriend in Serbia at the end of the year. He's

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Speaker 1: trying to get a passport, saving up money from his

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Speaker 1: part time job, and is adamant he's going to go. However,

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Speaker 1: he's never video chatted or even had a phone call

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Speaker 1: with the supposed boyfriend, and my brother does not even

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Speaker 1: speak a word of Serbian. Naturally, we're all freaking out

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Speaker 1: and my mum's not supporting him in this. I have

501
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Speaker 1: tried to tell him how dangerous it is, but he's

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Speaker 1: determined to go over and meet this guy. I don't

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Speaker 1: know how to support him or talk him out of this,

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Speaker 1: as is obviously so many red flags. Please help. She's

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Speaker 1: a heavy one this week, all right, LEAs go to Julie,

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Speaker 1: who has got in touch. Julie, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 6: Thanks, thanks, What do you think, Julie? It is a

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Speaker 6: very heavy subject, and as a parent the teenage boy,

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Speaker 6: it's one that I am very aware of the dangers,

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Speaker 6: especially since I've spend so much time online and I

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Speaker 6: as my way of trying to curb what's happening with

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Speaker 6: online presences, I follow net safe and net safe actually

513
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Speaker 6: has this year they've launched a program called Understanding Romance

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Speaker 6: Scams and you can find out and you can help

515
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Speaker 6: your family members and net safe can help provide information

516
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Speaker 6: and they can help work out what scams what's not

517
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Speaker 6: because it will literally it's a guide to what a

518
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Speaker 6: romance scam is, who uses them, what they use them for,

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Speaker 6: and how they use them. And it's a brilliant tool

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Speaker 6: that anyone can use. And it's not just for kids.

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Speaker 6: That's for all ages, stages of all the information they

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Speaker 6: need about it.

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Speaker 1: It's brilliant, what a great resource. So that's just net Safe.

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Speaker 1: People can go check that out online.

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Speaker 2: I love that, Julia on Facebook.

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Speaker 6: They can follow it on all social media's and it's

527
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Speaker 6: all funded, so it's available for everyone. They do learning

528
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Speaker 6: simposing through schools, they do online learning. Really contact them

529
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Speaker 6: and you can send through information about scans and report scans.

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Speaker 2: Amazing.

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Speaker 1: Oh, that's very good resource. If anyone else who's listening

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Speaker 1: is in a similar situation and net safe me again. Hello,

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Speaker 1: what do you think?

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Speaker 8: H Yeah, no, I've got armboos. I've been talking to

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Speaker 8: someone overstairs actually for about the last ten years. Today

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Speaker 8: they were in the middle of a tornado warning and

537
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Speaker 8: they still managed a video call. Yeah right, wow, there

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Speaker 8: is no way you cannot video call.

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Speaker 2: So the hard thing is though the sister doesn't really

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Speaker 2: know how to approach it with the brother. That's the

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Speaker 2: tough thing, right.

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Speaker 8: I like the idea maybe often to go to, but

543
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Speaker 8: unfortunately the brother as the one is to realize it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, his family, So just be there, support him and

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Speaker 2: hopefully work work through it with him in a really calm,

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Speaker 2: clear way.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: And as it comes to the crunch of it, then yeah,

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Speaker 8: definally someone go because.

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Speaker 2: You've got to look after him at the end of

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Speaker 2: the day.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, more importantly as her safety. That's the most important

554
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Speaker 8: thing now, is everything.

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Speaker 5: Maddy and PJ.

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Speaker 1: Maddy and PJ the podcast on the show yesterday evening,

557
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Speaker 1: Matty was talking us through a moment he had on Sunday.

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Speaker 1: He was feeling quite sorry for himself with his husband Ryan.

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Speaker 1: You're a little bit hung dog, a little bit. We

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Speaker 1: had a big night on Saturday.

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Speaker 2: And when we when we're feeling a little bit vulnerable

562
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Speaker 2: after a night out, the snacks come out, and for us,

563
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Speaker 2: the snacks involved potato chips. So we went to the dairy,

564
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Speaker 2: brought our sell some potato chips and I got salt

565
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Speaker 2: and vinegar. And I love salt and vinegar chips with

566
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Speaker 2: a bit of Kiwi onion depth.

567
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Speaker 1: It just balances everything, the salt and the neutral taste.

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Speaker 1: I love the reduced cream.

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Speaker 2: I love it. But the issue is when you buy

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Speaker 2: the reduced cream, it's straight off the shelf, and as

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Speaker 2: we all know, when you're making Kewy onion dip, it

572
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Speaker 2: needs to be chilled, needs to go on the fridge

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Speaker 2: when you want chips. Can you be bothered waiting? No?

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Speaker 3: No, no, no no.

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Speaker 1: You did not have the patience on Sunday, So you

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Speaker 1: came up with the genius concept of actually refrigerating the

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Speaker 1: reduced cream.

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Speaker 2: Why not, because as you and I spoke about PJ,

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Speaker 2: what else do we really use reduce cream for anyway?

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Speaker 1: It's the sole purpose of reduced cream. I don't think

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Speaker 1: it actually has any other benefits.

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Speaker 2: So because we all love our key onion dip to

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Speaker 2: be chilled, it just makes sense to pull it straight

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Speaker 2: from the fridge so that you can just make the

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Speaker 2: dip immediately.

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Speaker 1: We thought, look, we don't have the answers we have

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Speaker 1: in fact, track down someone from the Nesle Food marketing team.

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Speaker 1: Robin joins us this afternoon. Hi Robin, Hi guys, thanks

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Speaker 1: for having me on, Madam Peter.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for helping us out of a

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Speaker 2: little bit of a bind here, because yes, we we're

592
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Speaker 2: desperate to know whether this silly little idea we've had

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Speaker 2: is even plausible, feasible, something you've considered in the past,

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Speaker 2: because we all love Kiwi onion dip.

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Speaker 4: Robin, I'm so glad to hear you love original Kiwi dip, Maddie,

596
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Speaker 4: and you're not alone.

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Speaker 9: We've talked to Kiwi's about this.

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Speaker 4: They actually enjoy the ritual of mixed chill dip, so

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Speaker 4: original Kiwi dip. It's often enjoyed with friends and family.

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Speaker 1: Right, Yes, yes, preparation is a little bit.

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Speaker 4: Effort to show that you go the extra mile for

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Speaker 4: those you care about. We love to say here acquaintances

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Speaker 4: serve chips, that mates serve chip and dip.

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Speaker 2: Oh, well, she's got us with the company line, She's

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Speaker 2: got us.

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Speaker 1: I love the tagline.

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Speaker 2: But what about those hungover sundays where you can't where

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Speaker 2: you don't have the patience to wait, Robin.

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Speaker 4: I know, and I've thought about this for you, Maddie.

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Speaker 4: I think what you could do is you could preempt

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Speaker 4: your Sunday cram.

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Speaker 3: No, you could put a.

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Speaker 4: Can in the night before. So in that case, you

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Speaker 4: would simply switch the preparation around so you would chill first,

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Speaker 4: mixed second, and then dip.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I've got one more scenario for you. Could you

617
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Speaker 2: not have and have it? So have the reduced cream

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Speaker 2: on the shelf for those that love to make it

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Speaker 2: for friends and family, but then just have some in

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Speaker 2: the fridge section. And it could even be like it

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Speaker 2: could be hidden somewhere, Robin, so that those of us

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Speaker 2: that just need to quickly run in and make it

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Speaker 2: make a dip at last minute could just sneakily grab

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Speaker 2: one out of the chiller.

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Speaker 4: It's not a bad idea. Maddie. Now in the soupermarket, right,

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Speaker 4: we're in the soup aire with our Madgie soup mate.

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Speaker 9: Yes, we're around the baking with our sorry.

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Speaker 4: With our nest they reduced cream, and then most recently

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Speaker 4: we've kind of made it into the cheap art with

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Speaker 4: both of them together. So you're proposing a fourth aisle

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Speaker 4: in the soupermn It's.

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Speaker 1: A lot, I hear you, Robin.

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Speaker 4: We can try, can you?

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Speaker 2: Can you at least at least for my sake? Just

635
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Speaker 2: tell me sure, Maddy, I'll go and talk to some

636
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Speaker 2: people and we'll see what we can do.

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Speaker 1: Famous last words.

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Speaker 5: The podcast.

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Speaker 1: Now, earlier in the show, we were talking about a

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Speaker 1: moment yesterday. We're Meddi was fit up, to say the

641
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Speaker 1: least over the weekend after he wanted as schnacks and

642
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Speaker 1: he wanted them now and he wanted your classic Kiwi

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Speaker 1: onion depth. But obviously you have to refrigerate the reduced cream. Well,

644
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Speaker 1: you have to refrigerate at first, And you said, well,

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Speaker 1: why can't you just buy the reduced cream refrigerated already

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Speaker 1: from the soupermnte exact.

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Speaker 2: Wouldn't there be so smart? You just go into the

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Speaker 2: chilled section you get, you pick it out and it's

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Speaker 2: ready to go. You can make the dip immediately.

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Speaker 1: Or you could be like a lot of people that

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Speaker 1: have texted out siven and it's just I don't know,

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Speaker 1: being organized and prepared for when this moment might strike.

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Speaker 2: Well, well done to all of you. You're absolute heroes,

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Speaker 2: and I'm the slacker who's never organized.

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Speaker 1: In some of the texts, I thought everyone refrigerated their

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Speaker 1: tens of reduced cream. Someone said, I always till the

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Speaker 1: reduced cream first, so we don't have to wait. So

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Speaker 1: I think your problem has been solved by the people

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Speaker 1: of New Zealand's just be more organized, just be better

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Speaker 1: a lot.

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Speaker 5: Madi and PJ the podcast that's.

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Speaker 2: My husband, Ryan is concerned page He's he's worried that

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Speaker 2: I'm making something my entire personality.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's got to be one of the TV shows

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Speaker 1: you're watching.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no no, And actually you're like, you're partially

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Speaker 2: responsible for that.

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Speaker 1: Don't do that. No, you're a grown man and you're

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Speaker 1: responsible for your own actions. Don't you dare heap me

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Speaker 1: into your own problem.

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Speaker 2: It's running. Oh okay, because you and I started training

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Speaker 2: for this half marathon that we did in May, and

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Speaker 2: I have really taken to running. And now I'm kind

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Speaker 2: of this person that runs a lot and posts about running,

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Speaker 2: and I've joined a run club and I'm talking about

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Speaker 2: how I've got to I've gotta I've gotta hit the pavement,

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Speaker 2: you know, I've gotta get me run it.

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Speaker 1: I haven't run since the.

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Speaker 2: Not part of your personality.

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Speaker 1: Please do not blame me.

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Speaker 2: I have nothing to do with this, but I am

682
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Speaker 2: really enjoying getting into running. And so now my entire

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Speaker 2: like feed on Instagram or on TikTok or whatever, it's

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Speaker 2: just like running content, running content, running content, and most

685
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Speaker 2: of it is just like videos of people doing workouts,

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Speaker 2: or tips and tricks on how to get your splits

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Speaker 2: faster and all sorts.

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Speaker 1: Of reb if I'm wrong, but running is back in vogue,

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Speaker 1: isn't it.

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Speaker 2: I saw it.

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Speaker 1: I saw a lot of people talking about it. Now

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Speaker 1: it's it's definitely becoming trendy again.

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Speaker 8: I know.

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Speaker 2: But I hear myself talking about it and I kind

695
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Speaker 2: of hate myself for it. But this video came up

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Speaker 2: online today which was very different from the running content

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Speaker 2: I'm used to being fed, and it was an Irish

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Speaker 2: influencer who had posted a video on TikTok talking about

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Speaker 2: another influencer that she met at an event and Influences

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Speaker 2: in the Wild Influences in the Wild. The two of

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Speaker 2: them were talking and the influencer who made this video

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Speaker 2: said that she was talking about how she was running,

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Speaker 2: and the other influencer said, oh, that's so funny. I

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Speaker 2: never see you posting about running or anything. And this

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Speaker 2: woman said, no, well I wouldn't I look terrible when

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Speaker 2: I run. I'm so blotchy, I'm drenched and sweat. It's

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Speaker 2: not how I want to like portray myself on social media,

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Speaker 2: so you won't see me posting about running. And this

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Speaker 2: other influencer said, wait, but you don't actually post your

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Speaker 2: runs online and this woman said, what do you mean?

711
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 2: And this influencer said, well, what I do is I

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Speaker 2: just get my phone out and I'll say I'll record

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Speaker 2: myself saying one k in, and then I'll get in

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Speaker 2: my car and I'll drive to another spot and then

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Speaker 2: get out in my running gear and post another video

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Speaker 2: saying two k's it. And then I'll get in my

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Speaker 2: car and I'll drive again, and I'll get out and

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Speaker 2: I'll say three k's in. This influencer isn't even running

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Speaker 2: and she's posting videos as if she's going on these

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Speaker 2: massive runs every day.

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Speaker 1: How is she recreating the sweat and the hot red

722
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Speaker 1: face that looks like tomatoes.

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Speaker 2: She's not peage and people are buying it thinking that

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Speaker 2: this one and there's some absolute like glamouris on who

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00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:05,839
Speaker 2: doesn't sweat and doesn't blatch like the rest of us

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Speaker 2: when they run.

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Speaker 1: Let's be a lissen that not everything you said online

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Speaker 1: is real.

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Speaker 2: It's a lie. It's an absolute lie. And she's been

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Speaker 2: caught out and now the influencer world and especially in Ireland,

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Speaker 2: is going absolutely crazy.

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Speaker 1: It's got a niche little world with the running like.

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Speaker 2: Growth I would have said so, and the not just

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Speaker 2: the running world, but like the Irish running. Shall we

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Speaker 2: run with this asavo?

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Speaker 1: When did you because obviously someone has been caught out

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Speaker 1: because she's fabricating these amazing runs. When did you catch

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Speaker 1: someone out?

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Speaker 2: And the lie?

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Speaker 1: I love this And maybe they knew about you catching

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Speaker 1: them out, or maybe you found out and you didn't

742
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Speaker 1: even you didn't say word, you kept it to yourself.

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Speaker 1: What was the lie that you caught out? Things could

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Speaker 1: get juicy here. Oh wait, one hundred the hits so

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Speaker 1: you can text us four four eight.

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Speaker 5: Sevenj the podcast.

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Speaker 1: Asking the saucy question, what lie did you catch uart?

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Speaker 1: On eight hundred hits so you can text four four

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Speaker 1: eight seven.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this influencer in Ireland was caught out for getting

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Speaker 2: in a car and then driving to different spots and

752
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Speaker 2: then getting out and pretending like she was running.

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Speaker 1: Are we really surprised?

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Speaker 4: Though?

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Speaker 1: Like this shouldn't shock us twenty four that all things

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Speaker 1: that we witnessed Advance is doing online is not one

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Speaker 1: hundred percentro absolutely not absolutely Ah, let's God of Shares

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Speaker 1: joining us one hundred the hats What lie did you

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Speaker 1: catch out?

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Speaker 3: So my friend was doing shifting and so he qualified

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Speaker 3: and he said to us, Oh, I'll work at this

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Speaker 3: this this really high restaurant.

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Speaker 9: They've got like.

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Speaker 3: Five star michellin stars and we're like, okay, that's so awesome.

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Speaker 3: And it came out that he actually worked at a

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Speaker 3: cafe and we felt so bad. We just didn't say

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Speaker 3: anything because it just happened that we knew the owner,

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Speaker 3: and yeah, we didn't say anything. He still thinks he

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Speaker 3: worked to the first.

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Speaker 2: Oh, really really sweet chair there's nothing there's nothing wrong

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Speaker 2: with being a sheep and a kid.

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Speaker 3: Bad as.

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Speaker 2: Poor good.

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Speaker 1: Let him live in his own delusion, I reckon chairs.

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Speaker 1: Yeah he's got of Brenda. What lie did you catch out?

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Speaker 1: Brenda hi Kennevin.

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Speaker 9: Guys, Look, I got in my married life and family

778
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Speaker 9: in life really really young. I was in high school

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Speaker 9: and I met this guy who was older than me,

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Speaker 9: so got married, had beautiful cares. And then my uncles

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Speaker 9: was eight years at the time. And then I found

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Speaker 9: out that who his child was also eight years old,

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Speaker 9: same as mine, my youngest.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, well wait, sorry, Brenda, I got so lost.

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Speaker 1: I lost so he had had another child at the

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Speaker 1: same time as he. Is it what you say?

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Speaker 9: Yes? Absolutely got mary for twelve years, been married for

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Speaker 9: twelve years.

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Speaker 2: And how did you find this out?

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Speaker 9: Well overseas trip and I saw all the receipts that

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Speaker 9: you know, dining on the boat and stuff like that,

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Speaker 9: and I thought, what the hell we went to something

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Speaker 9: else and I see something else online on my banking

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Speaker 9: online banking, and yeah, that's how I slowly, slowly found out.

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Speaker 9: But I lived your life. I was young. Yeah, I

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Speaker 9: started my family life really young. But yeah, I got

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Speaker 9: up and I left. I just left. I left everything.

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Speaker 9: I felt that I ain't going to be a second

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Speaker 9: to nobody, to be honest, and many women for wrong reason,

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Speaker 9: but for me, I'm like, no, what the hell, I

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Speaker 9: ain't going to be second to nobody.

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Speaker 1: Chet Rachet story, Brenda, how are you doing?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 1: You're doing? You're doing well?

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Speaker 9: Now I'm remarried this guy literally nothing but hey, respect

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Speaker 9: and love is all I needed.

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Speaker 2: Oh, Brenda, I love you.

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Speaker 1: We're going to hold him up with the Chemistry House price,

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Speaker 1: which you know, I mean, after you're telling so much

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Speaker 1: of your life to us. I know that doesn't seem much,

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Speaker 1: but we're going to send that out to you.

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Speaker 5: Maddy and PJ. Mady and PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 1: That's just a quick little question, Mattie hit hypothetical. If

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Speaker 1: you were in my situation this morning and you're standing

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Speaker 1: in the kitchen and all of a sudden, my ear

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Speaker 1: just started on one side reverberating. It was almost like

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, is here an earthquake? And it

818
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Speaker 1: was like this massive vibration and my right ear and

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Speaker 1: I was like, hang on, what's going on? I was like,

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Speaker 1: is there a vehicle? Is there an earthquake? And then

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Speaker 1: at dawn on me, I think it's an insect. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: And it was like, like so loud, what.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know what you're doing that situation.

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Speaker 1: Well, I got my husband to look and he couldn't

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Speaker 1: see anything, and I was like, you know how, sometimes

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Speaker 1: like a tiny, tiny creature, if it's in you in

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Speaker 1: your ear, it could sound really really large. So I'm

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Speaker 1: thinking maybe it was just like a tiny little was do.

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Speaker 2: You and blow? Would like?

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Speaker 1: Would that try and pop it out the other side?

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Speaker 9: Maybe?

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Speaker 1: Well, I actually I'll tell you what I did. Not

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Speaker 1: doctor's advice, by the way, but I had some ear

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Speaker 1: drops that I give my toddler, and I thought I

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Speaker 1: could lubricate the drum by pouring them in, and I

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Speaker 1: thought if I tipped my ear it might fall out

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Speaker 1: with it. But nothing's come out, and I've sort of

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Speaker 1: just been tapping all afternoon, and now I'm like, was

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Speaker 1: it a bug or was something more?

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Speaker 5: Sinister?

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Speaker 1: Ringg no, no, no, no, vibrated for like a solid minute,

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Speaker 1: and my husband thought I was absolutely nuts. I was like,

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Speaker 1: can you hear that? And then I was like, oh no,

844
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Speaker 1: I think there's actually insick. It's me. I'm not going

845
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Speaker 1: to ask for doctor's advice because it's probably not a

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Speaker 1: good idea on the radio. But if you've been in

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Speaker 1: a similar boat to Rich.

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Speaker 5: Medi and PJ the podcast The Heads

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Speaker 3: MHM