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Speaker 1: The Heads Drive with Meddy and Paja. Thanks to Chimis

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Speaker 1: were House, the Real House of Fragrances.

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Speaker 2: And on that.

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Speaker 1: Hello, welcome to the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so do you want to go with that plan tonight?

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Speaker 1: I'll send you a message at about eight o'clock. Is

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Speaker 1: that what you're thinking? Yeah? Please do maybe eight point thirty. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So Maddie's going to a BBYO. It's a friend's birthday, besh.

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Speaker 1: But you don't want to get lit.

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Speaker 3: I actually don't even want to drink at all. I've

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Speaker 3: just had some big nights recently and I just need

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Speaker 3: to have some self control and I want to have

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Speaker 3: a nice week, nice chill weekend, speak that where I

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Speaker 3: can wake up tomorrow morning with any regrets.

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Speaker 1: And not feeling sack.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And will you set yourself up for a good one though,

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Speaker 1: because your husband Ryan is a sober driver tonight, so

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Speaker 1: he can't eag you on. That's good.

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Speaker 3: He's actually pulled out what Yeah, Yeah, he's called out.

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Speaker 2: No, he's just he's.

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Speaker 1: Had because he has he had a few drinks with work.

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Speaker 2: No no, no, he's at home on the couch.

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Speaker 1: He's just had a pulled out of the night.

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Speaker 3: He's had a and I totally get it. And we

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Speaker 3: had a big weekend last weekend, so he just he

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Speaker 3: messaged me just before and said, do you.

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Speaker 2: Mind if I don't come? And I was like, totally fine.

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Speaker 2: I don't get that.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, your chances are looking not so great that

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Speaker 1: he's going to be your support. He was going to

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Speaker 1: be a lifeline because.

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Speaker 2: He was sober driving.

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Speaker 3: So here's my thing. I said the page, please can

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Speaker 3: you see me a text? And I reckon eight is

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Speaker 3: still a good time to do it?

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Speaker 1: Or do you want me to call you? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Or do I do that? Oh my god, Oh my god,

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Speaker 2: what's happened? Oh no, oh my god.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'll be there as soon as I can and

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Speaker 3: then go. Sorry, guys, I do to go with my

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Speaker 3: friends in trouble. Just I mean, what when do you

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Speaker 3: do that?

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Speaker 1: You'll you'll suck it up.

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Speaker 2: I will.

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Speaker 3: And also I should just have the like strength to

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Speaker 3: be able to say to my friends, I'm not drinking.

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Speaker 1: You're grown ass man, can do this, your grown man?

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Speaker 1: Are you gonna go to your little juice box run

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's on Sunday. I think I might go.

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Speaker 1: It'll be nice it'll be a nice thing today.

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Speaker 2: What about you? What are you doing with your weekend?

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I don't have much planned. We've got some really

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Speaker 1: cute labrator puppies which we are in the process of

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Speaker 1: selling in the next few weeks, so just looking after them.

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Speaker 2: Is this your little plug?

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Speaker 3: If you would like a cute little puppy, hit us

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Speaker 3: up on the heads drive on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: By all means, you can get to touch on me

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Speaker 1: pja DJ on Instagram if you want. I actually I

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Speaker 1: got overwhelmed the other day when I did that on

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Speaker 1: so that's coming around quickly. So yeah, by all means,

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Speaker 1: slide into my dms p j DJ. If you're like

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Speaker 2: They doing so cute?

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Speaker 1: Do you want to do their little chunks?

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Speaker 1: BJ? Is chief pup? Look her after its wrangler because

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Speaker 1: With extra food, So give them a little bit of

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Speaker 1: extra food. They're very, very cute. So yeah, other than that,

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Speaker 1: I haven't really got much planned. I'm quite strong. I

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Speaker 1: But I must have just slipped awkwardly. So I'm going

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Speaker 3: That's so nice? Is there a good is there a

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Speaker 3: My issue with messages is it goes one of two ways.

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Speaker 3: I'm I'm not great with a lot of pressure. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: But that's why you just say, wind it back, Lindsey,

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Speaker 2: But then if it's not if it's if the pressure

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Speaker 1: Hard, yeah, when you go wind it up, Lindsey, wind it.

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Speaker 3: Hard, yeah, if it's like soft and gentle, then you

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Speaker 1: Of course. So you're lying on your stomach, do you

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Speaker 3: and I did have to apologize once.

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Speaker 1: It would happen a lot. It would surely a lot.

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Speaker 1: But like, how do you deal with a boner if

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Speaker 3: And oh my god, I'm talking to being way too

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Speaker 1: I've got so many quitions I've got asked you anyway,

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Speaker 1: There was something in the water with the calls today, weird.

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Speaker 2: How did it go? I'll fill you in.

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Speaker 1: And the pity revenge that you've taken on your partner,

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Speaker 1: this is where the calls really thrive.

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Speaker 3: If no funny, no money was weird. The pity revenge

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Speaker 3: was the most bizarre phone topic we've ever done on

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Speaker 1: So that's all coming up and more. Enjoying the podcast

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Speaker 1: and have a great weekend.

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Speaker 2: The podcast.

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Speaker 1: A big show this morning with John O beIN and

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Speaker 1: Megan doing the all nineties morning. Of course, they've done

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Speaker 1: bettle of the decades. This week it was nineties with

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Speaker 1: I think it's just more novelty, isn't it.

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Speaker 1: and we've been talking about nineties artists. I don't know

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Speaker 1: how this popped up in the show. Behind the scenes,

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Speaker 1: from the nineties, Equa, and then producer Sira said, you

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Speaker 1: And then sirah, you looked pretty horrified when we revealed

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Speaker 3: When we get callers through. Sometimes some people want to

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Speaker 3: Or maybe after say twenty seven years, like producer Serra,

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Speaker 3: maybe longer you found out that you'd been pronouncing a

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Speaker 1: call one one one, what do you expect to get?

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Speaker 1: My friend would say the Ambliance, Ambliance ambulance to take it.

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Speaker 1: The Ambliance, Yeah, oh one hundred. The hats ticks more

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Speaker 1: by eight seven? What is the word that someone closes?

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Speaker 1: You says rather straight the podcast, Sorry, producer Sierra, we've

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Speaker 1: kind of thrown you under the bus. I feel bad.

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Speaker 1: You don't need to get a complete complex, everyone says.

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Speaker 1: No anonymouses. So we've just been giving dear producer Sarah

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Speaker 6: My eight year olds is ridiculous? Actually yourself.

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Speaker 7: Actually myself.

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Speaker 1: It's just croll.

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Speaker 7: I get a lot of crept from a partner.

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Speaker 2: Chris, you can't help it exactly.

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Speaker 1: You're not on your phone.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for calling.

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Speaker 1: Been a long time since I've been single. McClain, same

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Speaker 3: It's very start of twenty seventeen, very stat of seventeen.

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Speaker 1: Well, you were in it. You went running like a

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Speaker 2: Please.

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Speaker 1: So if you're single at the moment and you're looking

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Speaker 3: I would love to know if anyone has ever actually

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Speaker 3: Let us know four for eight seven, Yeah, text us.

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Speaker 1: Has there been success in the run club or is

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Speaker 2: Many and PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 1: That's no Funny, No Money. In the meantime, it's time

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Speaker 1: for you to tell you jokes. Oh eight hundred hats

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Speaker 2: I'm ready, I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: You look, you look like you've actually started thinking about

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Speaker 2: So when you don't laugh, I'm like the state of

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Speaker 2: Knock knock, who's there?

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Speaker 1: Who's there?

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Speaker 7: Let us let us ho let us.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for your cool break good. It's a good joke,

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Brixton.

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Speaker 7: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: It's a real old thank you.

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Speaker 1: Chris on eight hundred hits high.

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Speaker 8: Chris, the funniest part of that.

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Speaker 4: Joe was listening to you too, trying to work it out.

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Speaker 3: This is this is Chris. It's me trying to explain

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Speaker 8: I met with my mate and I said, he, where

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Speaker 8: is your sister go hunting? And he said Alaska. I said,

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Speaker 1: That's that's an acknowledgement that I did. I just wanted

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Speaker 1: Laugh you laugh, Okay, Chris, fifty bucks is coming away

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Speaker 8: You called you got it?

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Speaker 6: Very good?

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Speaker 1: Do we have any more or are we we've got Eshton? Oh,

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Speaker 4: It's kind of like combined? Okay, Okay, why did the

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Speaker 2: She got there. She got there about five seekers too late,

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Speaker 2: It's okay, That's why I'm here. I'm here to help.

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Speaker 2: Maddy and PJ Medi and PJ the podcast The Head Mistake.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the good Side. My friend was good here.

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Speaker 3: This was a blissful, radiant, joyful morning that I had

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Speaker 1: Okay, now I feel like you're mocking me.

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Speaker 2: This was my first ever yoga class that I went

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Speaker 1: Blows my mind, like I feel like, You've done so

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Speaker 3: It's that I'm really wildly inflexible, right, And I don't

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Speaker 1: Can I just say? And yoga it's not about going

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Speaker 3: So my dear friend Ash said to me and my

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Speaker 2: It was hot yoga.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that can be a lot. It can

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Speaker 3: I immediately gone in there and went, yeah, the shirt's

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Speaker 3: I struggle, I struggle on like an autumn day in

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Speaker 1: At least everyone else is sweating next to you, Like yeah,

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Speaker 2: To get oh. I was like, am I only a

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Speaker 3: Honestly, it felt like they were having they were having

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Speaker 3: some sort of like demonic position.

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Speaker 1: Reminds me of the Green Mile. It reminds me of

447
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Speaker 1: the Green Mile when he starts blushing out all the

448
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Speaker 1: bad stuff.

449
00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:45,399
Speaker 3: And so everyone's standing there doing that noise, and I

450
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Speaker 3: got the giggles, which.

451
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Speaker 1: Was not the way I know, how how far? And

452
00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:51,080
Speaker 1: was it right at the beginning, right.

453
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Speaker 3: At the beginning. And then I got into it and

454
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Speaker 3: I started and I did. I did enjoy it, and

455
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Speaker 3: I was better at it than I thought I was

456
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Speaker 3: going to good lady behind, because you had said to me,

457
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Speaker 3: what did you say to me yesterday as.

458
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Speaker 1: I was walking out, as you just watch our like

459
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Speaker 1: the yoga fart is not a math, It does happen,

460
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Speaker 1: And so I.

461
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Speaker 2: Was so terrified. My sphincter was so so clenched the

462
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Speaker 2: entire time, just say.

463
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Speaker 3: But the lady behind me lit one rip in the

464
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Speaker 3: middle of the class, and I thought, oh, it is real.

465
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Speaker 2: It is a thing.

466
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Speaker 1: Sometimes sometimes though it's just your stomach, your stomach can

467
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Speaker 1: actually get caught and like and it makes the suction noise,

468
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Speaker 1: and sometimes everyone thinks you've let rip, but it's actually

469
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Speaker 1: just the between your tummy and the mad Yes.

470
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Speaker 2: And then by the end of it, I was all

471
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Speaker 2: about it, and I was at the end.

472
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Speaker 3: I was going.

473
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Speaker 2: During the Deep Breath the podcast.

474
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Speaker 3: That you know, relationships are complicated and sure sometimes things

475
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Speaker 3: happen and you partner can can piss you off. But

476
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Speaker 3: there's fighting and arguing with your partner and then there's

477
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Speaker 3: taking them to the disciplinary tribunal.

478
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I saw this headline. This happened here

479
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Speaker 1: in New Zealand.

480
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Speaker 8: Didn't that it?

481
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Speaker 2: Did? It did?

482
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Speaker 3: A woman has taken her boyfriend to the disputes tribunal

483
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Speaker 3: after he failed to take her to the airport.

484
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Speaker 1: I get it.

485
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Speaker 2: I get it.

486
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Speaker 1: Like also, I understand from the boyfriend's side, because taking

487
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Speaker 1: someone to the airport sucks.

488
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Speaker 2: Are such a punish.

489
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Speaker 3: You're in a big city, you know, you know when

490
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Speaker 3: you offer that as a favor, you go, hey, let

491
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Speaker 3: me know if you need to ride to the airport,

492
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Speaker 3: and you hope, you hope you try that.

493
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Speaker 1: They say no, no, I'm good, I actually need to

494
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Speaker 1: check him by five thirty Tomorrow's okay. What did I agree?

495
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Speaker 2: What did I agree? It is a horrible job.

496
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Speaker 3: But this boyfriend promised his girlfriend, Yep, babe, I'm going

497
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Speaker 3: to take you to the airport so that you can

498
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Speaker 3: catch your flight. She was going to our concert. M

499
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Speaker 3: he she waited, and she waited. He was also meant

500
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Speaker 3: to come and stay at her house and look after

501
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Speaker 3: her dogs while she was away, and he just he never.

502
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Speaker 1: Shows multifactorial and it was more than.

503
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Speaker 2: Off these layers.

504
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Speaker 3: So as a result, she ended up missing her flight

505
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Speaker 3: because she just didn't get to the airport on time

506
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Speaker 3: because she was waiting for a boyfriend to come and

507
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Speaker 3: collect her and it never did. So they broke up,

508
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Speaker 3: and then she took him to the Disputes Tribunal because

509
00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:28,840
Speaker 3: she said, well, I'm now out of pocket for the

510
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:30,880
Speaker 3: flights that I had to change to the next day.

511
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:35,280
Speaker 3: I had to get an airport shuttle to get me

512
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Speaker 3: to the airport. I had to uh the cost to

513
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Speaker 3: put her dogs into a kennel because he wasn't staying

514
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Speaker 3: that weekend. And she said, we had a verbally binding

515
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Speaker 3: contract when you agreed to take me to the airport,

516
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Speaker 3: that constitutes a legally binding agreement.

517
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Speaker 1: I love that he's gone the court over this.

518
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Speaker 3: There is nothing better, in my view than someone that

519
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Speaker 3: is so petty that they will take their boyfriend to

520
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Speaker 3: the dispute tribute like most people will be.

521
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Speaker 1: I don't want to see him again. I don't want

522
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:10,280
Speaker 1: to have to deal.

523
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 2: With him, bloody, take him.

524
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 1: So touchy? Do you reckon she'll she'll get money for it?

525
00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:21,560
Speaker 2: No, No, it hasn't Actually it hasn't gone through.

526
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Speaker 3: Ultimately, the court decided that although a promise was made,

527
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:29,960
Speaker 3: it fell short of being a contract, with the promises

528
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Speaker 3: exchanged as a normal give and take in a relationship,

529
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Speaker 3: and the women's claims were dismissed. And believe it or not,

530
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:39,560
Speaker 3: the couple have now separated.

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Speaker 1: Shock horror.

532
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 3: Imagine if they hadn't imagine if gone through the process

533
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Speaker 3: and then he had to go back and sleep at

534
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Speaker 3: the same.

535
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Speaker 1: Beard at night, A very awkward evening for the two

536
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Speaker 1: of them. But I do love pety revenge. I'm not

537
00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:59,280
Speaker 1: good at it. I've never been good at pettiness and

538
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 1: like really good revenge. I've always been of the belief

539
00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:05,879
Speaker 1: that just being happy and confident and successful in yourself

540
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:07,879
Speaker 1: is the best form of revenge, which is lovely.

541
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Speaker 3: But I want the missing toy and it doesn't need

542
00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:12,680
Speaker 3: to be It doesn't need to be serious revenge. No,

543
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 3: I need to have taken them to the dispute tribunal.

544
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 3: Maybe you just like swapped out their sugar for their

545
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 3: salts or something like that. And maybe it was funny

546
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 3: petty revenge.

547
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Speaker 1: Okay, so we'll keep it light and bright and tight

548
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:28,639
Speaker 1: for a Friday. But the pitiest revenge you got over someone,

549
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:30,800
Speaker 1: or maybe someone got over you, and now you can

550
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 1: laugh in hindsight.

551
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:38,680
Speaker 2: Many the podcast, I'm so excited about that we're talking

552
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:39,359
Speaker 2: pity this.

553
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:41,440
Speaker 3: We just shared the story of a woman here in

554
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Speaker 3: New Zealand who took her ex boyfriend to the dispute

555
00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,679
Speaker 3: tribunal because he didn't take her to the airport when

556
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:48,880
Speaker 3: she needed to go on a flight.

557
00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:50,160
Speaker 2: Brilliant.

558
00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:52,399
Speaker 1: So we wanted to know what pity revenge have you

559
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:55,000
Speaker 1: got on someone or maybe they got on you. Adrian

560
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 1: is joining us on our eight hundred the hertz Hi Adrianne.

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Speaker 1: What happened.

562
00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 7: I lived in with actually my friend's dad, and there

563
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:10,119
Speaker 7: was an agreement that I would get reduced rent by

564
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:13,359
Speaker 7: doing that hooking and the cleaning. You know, we're all

565
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:16,240
Speaker 7: good and dandy, And then his flatmate needed certainly sorry,

566
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:20,680
Speaker 7: his cousin needed somewhere to stay, so he moved in

567
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 7: and every time the landlord needed a distance, the cousin

568
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 7: would say, well, yeah, you're pay so I got a

569
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 7: little antsy and one of my high horse because he

570
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:40,440
Speaker 7: was living there rent free, right, and I every Sunday, Yeah,

571
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:44,399
Speaker 7: I would get up early and do the cleaning. And

572
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:48,639
Speaker 7: there's one song called fat Baby. Now I can't think, Okay,

573
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:52,440
Speaker 7: I cannot think, so I'm apologizing now. But there's part

574
00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:54,400
Speaker 7: of the song and I would turn it up loud

575
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,320
Speaker 7: and then I would be kind of yelling with it

576
00:27:56,440 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 7: as well. It would be going, You're just a fat,

577
00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:05,920
Speaker 7: fat fat fad that that that that that little baby.

578
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 1: And that was the chorus, right, and you do that

579
00:28:11,440 --> 00:28:16,720
Speaker 1: for revenge every Sunday morning. Yes, all right, thank you.

580
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 2: Revenge comes in every form, I would say, page, really,

581
00:28:20,960 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 2: it really does. Let me read a couple of texts.

582
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:24,120
Speaker 3: When I broke up with my ex girlfriend, she took

583
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:25,920
Speaker 3: all my shirts and cut off the sleeves. She also

584
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 3: took all my jeans and cut the legs off.

585
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:30,359
Speaker 2: Amazing. I love it.

586
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:32,400
Speaker 1: This is quite a common one, but my best friend

587
00:28:32,480 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 1: once signed his ex boyfriend up to a bunch of

588
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 1: spam emails, like hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of them

589
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 1: on all email addresses that his ex boyfriend had someone

590
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 1: else also text and saying that they did that? Friends

591
00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 1: is joining us?

592
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:50,440
Speaker 2: Hello, Hey, good god?

593
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 1: What was the revenge?

594
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:55,680
Speaker 5: Well, I went and had a I was heaving smoker

595
00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 5: in a workshop, and while I was out going to

596
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 5: the toilet some of the guys, I bought a whole

597
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:04,720
Speaker 5: bunch of salt in my coffee. And I came back

598
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:07,280
Speaker 5: and I drank it and spit it all over the place,

599
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 5: and everyone's laughing and laughing and laughing. Right, get my

600
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 5: revenge on the guy who did it. And he's a

601
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 5: tea drinker, and his cup was never washed. He just

602
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,720
Speaker 5: swirled a bit of water around and away. It was

603
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:22,280
Speaker 5: brown and disgusting and horrible. And I thought, here, I'm

604
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:23,040
Speaker 5: going to get into it.

605
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:23,320
Speaker 8: Here.

606
00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 5: I washed his cup so it was sparkling like brand new,

607
00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 5: and I put it back where it normally drink. He

608
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 5: had to drink out of another cup for like two

609
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 5: or three weeks because he just didn't trust what I've

610
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 5: done with his cup.

611
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:38,400
Speaker 2: And all you and all you've done is clean as

612
00:29:38,680 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 2: his dirty, gross cup.

613
00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 1: All right, it's cold, getting some interesting weird.

614
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 2: That's fine, let's move on.

615
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 1: Let's go to Simon. Oh wait, one hundred minutes. What

616
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:53,440
Speaker 1: was the petty revenge? Simon?

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Speaker 4: Oh, guys, made of mind.

618
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 2: Dave.

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Speaker 8: He cheated on his girlfriend and she found about it,

620
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 8: and she decided to get some revenge on him, obviously,

621
00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 8: so she was all nice as pie and hey, baby,

622
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:13,800
Speaker 8: why didn't we shave downstairs for you? And he was like, oh, yeah,

623
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Speaker 8: this will be a bit of fun because he didn't

624
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 8: know she knew. So she got the vat out and

625
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 8: she was, you know, cleaning him up, and she put

626
00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:25,240
Speaker 8: a big dollop right under his sack and.

627
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 4: He's going, oh, it's getting a bit warm. You No, no,

628
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:32,120
Speaker 4: it's supposed to be like that. You're supposed to leave

629
00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 4: it after ten minutes.

630
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 8: And she scraped everything off except this big dollop and.

631
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Speaker 4: He's going, oh burns, it burns. She goes, no, no, wait,

632
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,000
Speaker 4: wait wait, I'm almost done. And she kept them there

633
00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 4: for age, and he was walking around pulling his pants

634
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 4: down every five seconds for about two weeks. They had

635
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 4: a big burn right under his neck.

636
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Speaker 1: Oh oh, why, Diamond, thank you very much for you cool.

637
00:30:56,440 --> 00:30:57,480
Speaker 2: What just happened?

638
00:30:57,920 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 1: I don't know.

639
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:01,840
Speaker 2: We had so many good tics.

640
00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:09,720
Speaker 1: Friday. Maybe he's a solstice, shortest day of the year.

641
00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:12,040
Speaker 1: It's something in the something in the water.

642
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:14,160
Speaker 2: The podcast.

643
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 1: So prior to the show kicking off this afternoon, I

644
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 1: met up with my husband in town. It's always a

645
00:31:23,520 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 1: big it's always a big event when the hobby comes into. Yes,

646
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:28,480
Speaker 1: we love twenty minutes.

647
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 2: Out and she's a big drive.

648
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Speaker 1: She's a big drive. I mean, I come in every

649
00:31:33,120 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 1: day for work, but when he comes in, you know,

650
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 1: it's always a bit of an event. And it's not

651
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:41,120
Speaker 1: like he really dressed up for it though, honestly so

652
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:45,959
Speaker 1: we had planned this accountant meeting for quite some time now,

653
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 1: I'd have been in the calendar for a few weeks.

654
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Speaker 1: He knew it was coming right last time.

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Speaker 2: Didn't you didn't you dress up? Didn't you put on

656
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 2: a like a blaze or anything? That's right?

657
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 1: Because I was trying to them so i'd get less

658
00:31:56,720 --> 00:32:00,400
Speaker 1: text back. You say, everyone dressing up does not the

659
00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 1: tax that you have to pay. I learned that the

660
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:06,600
Speaker 1: hard way. Anyway, today, Yeah, BJ, my husband did the opposite.

661
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 1: And so he rocks in and we met in the

662
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Speaker 1: car park and I'm like, are you gonna get changed?

663
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:13,640
Speaker 1: And he's like what And he's literally got this joosey

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Speaker 1: on which he's like, oh, smells like cat puson. I

665
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 1: want to take that off. So he then steps off

666
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 1: to this rugby shirt he's got underneath, he's got his

667
00:32:21,360 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 1: work pants on, which have car shite literally all up

668
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Speaker 1: the sides. He's got his big boots on, so he

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Speaker 1: used to rock and take his boots off. And he's

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Speaker 1: walking in with socks into this like official actency firm

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Speaker 1: where everyone's dressed quite nicely. And I'm like, okay, that's right.

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Speaker 1: So we go in to the meeting and we sit

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Speaker 1: down and we're trying to talk.

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Speaker 2: Like serious things.

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Speaker 1: We're talking about potential, you know, business ideas down the

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Speaker 1: track and whatnot.

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Speaker 2: I don't know that I've ever seen your husband talk

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Speaker 2: serious in his life.

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Speaker 1: I know it was quite funny, and so I look

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Speaker 1: to my side and I can't help but cackle mid meeting.

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Speaker 1: I look at his hand.

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Speaker 2: He's still got cash all.

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Speaker 1: He's got dude all up his hands. He hasn't washed them.

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Speaker 1: He's obviously gone straight from the farm into this meeting

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Speaker 1: and he's trying to discuss serious business issues. I'm like, PJ,

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Speaker 1: you need to wash your hands.

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Speaker 3: Look, I'll give him the stubbies, like the jersey the

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Speaker 3: stubbies fine, but washing.

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Speaker 1: Rocking in and socks. All good.

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Speaker 9: Wash your hands.

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Speaker 1: He's usually so good at it. I think it's just

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Speaker 1: because he had to fly. I think he was running

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Speaker 1: bay and I was sorry. He usually washes when we

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Speaker 1: go out. But I thought, because I know that other

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Speaker 1: people have farmers who listen to the show, is their

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Speaker 1: partners or husbands text ind a four four eight seven,

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Speaker 1: complete the sentence you know you're dating a farmer when

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Speaker 1: dot dot dot so in my case, they go to

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Speaker 1: an appointment still in their farm. Gears for the airs.

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Speaker 2: Maddy and PJ. Mady and PJ the podcast. We talk

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Speaker 2: about a lot of silly, silly things on the show.

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Speaker 1: Are you talking about We're a hard hitting, journalistic news

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Speaker 1: newsworthy show.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely we are, and so because of that, sometimes we

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Speaker 3: like to bring a little bit more of the serious

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Speaker 3: to this show. And I saw this beautiful, beautiful video

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Speaker 3: on social media. It was an Australian Olympic boxer by

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Speaker 3: the name of Harry Garside. He's a young, young, young

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Speaker 3: Olympic boxer. He competed in Japan in twenty twenty in Tokyo,

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Speaker 3: and he has recently been photographed wearing dresses like full

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Speaker 3: skirts dresses and it's just this really kind of I

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Speaker 3: guess jarring image, right. You see this very like manlys

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Speaker 3: Lan Boxer, and he's wearing what is predominantly assumed to

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Speaker 3: be women's clothes, and so it's obviously sparked a lot

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Speaker 3: of interest and a lot of conversation about why is

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Speaker 3: he doing this, what is this all for? And I

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Speaker 3: saw him talk about it on a podcast and someone

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Speaker 3: in the podcast host asked him why he was wearing

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Speaker 3: the dress, and the way that he explained it, I

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Speaker 3: just think takes a topic that is quite complicated and

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Speaker 3: nuanced and made it really really easy for people to understand.

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Speaker 9: I believe that all we've been told since today we're

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Speaker 9: born is just stories upon stories upon stories about how

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Speaker 9: to live our life. And no one knows what we're

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Speaker 9: doing on a spinning rock in the middle of nowhere.

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Speaker 9: You just told stories from your parents and their parents

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Speaker 9: and your community, your teachers, and I just think that

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Speaker 9: and you just follow it. And I just think like

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Speaker 9: we should always challenge and question everything. And as I said,

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Speaker 9: I could be wrong. I don't know, like I have

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Speaker 9: no idea, and I.

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Speaker 1: Think your opinion made that cannot be wrong, that's the thing.

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Speaker 9: And I just think is if we could show more

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Speaker 9: young peop people that they don't have to form in

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Speaker 9: line and be like what they're told, they can chase

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Speaker 9: their wildest trends. If there's a young girl out there

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Speaker 9: who comes from a family who wants her to do this,

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Speaker 9: but she has a calling for boxing, go do that.

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Speaker 9: If there's a young boy who wants to do performance arts,

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Speaker 9: like go do that. Like that is your calling, you know.

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Speaker 9: And I just want to try and inspire people to

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Speaker 9: go inside and see what they find and then express

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Speaker 9: that to the world.

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Speaker 3: Oh, isn't the most beautiful way of conveying that message

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00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:33,320
Speaker 3: that you should absolutely just live your life authentically be

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Speaker 3: one hundred percent yourself because at the hard to do.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes it's so hard to do, especially when you're online

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Speaker 1: and people are telling you you should be doing what

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Speaker 1: you should be saying, and you know, it can get

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Speaker 1: really really confusing out there.

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Speaker 3: And society has given us this idea that you have

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Speaker 3: to live your life this way or if you're you know,

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Speaker 3: if you're a female, these are the ideals you have

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Speaker 3: to live by. If you're a male, these are the

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Speaker 3: ideals you have to live by.

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Speaker 2: Nah, you don't like.

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Speaker 3: We should be following our own We've be making up

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Speaker 3: our own rules and following our own path. And I

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Speaker 3: just love that from Harry Garside, and so I wanted

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Speaker 3: to share its nice.

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Speaker 1: Bit of motivation and inspiration hitting into the weekend.

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Speaker 2: The podcast that Man.

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Speaker 1: Honestly, I thought I was young for so long, and

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Speaker 1: then the last year or two, I've just felt a

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Speaker 1: lot older. It's when they're taking over society.

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Speaker 2: It's when you start seeing trends.

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Speaker 3: Like for a while, even when the new trends would

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Speaker 3: come in, you would have a grasp on what they

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Speaker 3: were and you'd understand. It's when you stop understanding them

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Speaker 3: that you realize that you're old.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and like growing up, I never got it. I

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Speaker 1: was like, you know, that'll never be me. Well, I

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Speaker 1: really think that that's starting to happen anyway. A speech expert,

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Speaker 1: a language expert, has come out basically saying, well, forecasting

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Speaker 1: the death of a well used phrase, particularly for the

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Speaker 1: younger gins. They pull this out a lot, the word

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Speaker 1: I'll make you guess it. The words is used to

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Speaker 1: describe anything cool, pretty, awesome. What do you think it is?

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Speaker 2: No, not dope. That's a bit older.

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Speaker 3: There, that slaps it's slay.

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Speaker 1: It is the word slay, which I never fully got

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Speaker 1: on board with. I sort of started flirting with it,

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00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 1: like the phrase it's giving because that's what a lot

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Speaker 1: of young people say, and I only just started saying that.

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Speaker 1: But you know what, that's probably also going to start

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Speaker 1: going out too, because I'm that late to the party

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Speaker 1: with these phrases. This guy has said that in its place,

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Speaker 1: he has forecasted a new term.

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Speaker 2: Do we like this one more?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 1: I don't think so, but at least we can be

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Speaker 1: like kind of a hit of the wave. Although, actually, producers, Sarah,

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Speaker 1: can you tell us if this is already a thing?

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Speaker 1: Because you don't even know me with these things. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So apparently I'm gagged is going to replace just from

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Speaker 1: the nineties or something gagged.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, it's going to be used like as an expression

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Speaker 1: of endearment or general admiration. So it's like, oh, I'm gagged.

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Speaker 1: That is so awesome.

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Speaker 2: I don't think I can't pull that off.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I can't either. Yeah. There was

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Speaker 1: basically a graph showing the recent uptake of Google search

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Speaker 1: terms gagged meaning in gag slang, So it's obviously on

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Speaker 1: the art uprising son. You were sound cool with your curs. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: can you tell me something cool? And okay, Oh, you

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Speaker 1: won't believe the second you Oh my gosh, this paints

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Speaker 1: throughout there.

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Speaker 2: Many this, I'm gagged.

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Speaker 1: I can't do it. It sounds like you're gags. I

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Speaker 1: don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know about this. I'm as Sleigh Many the

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Speaker 2: podcast