1 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: Kilda. 2 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 2: I'm Chelsea Daniels and This is the Front Page, a 3 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 2: daily podcast presented by The New Zealand Herald. It's been 4 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 2: revealed that police ignored sex allegations against a former top 5 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 2: cop and instead prosecuted a woman for revenge emails. The 6 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 2: woman had emailed police, politicians and newsrooms accusing former Deputy 7 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:36,879 Speaker 2: Police Commissioner Jevin mcskimming of being a sexual predator. The 8 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:40,839 Speaker 2: Police watchdog has released a scathing one hundred and thirty 9 00:00:40,920 --> 00:00:45,559 Speaker 2: five page report into how the allegations were treated and 10 00:00:45,600 --> 00:00:49,240 Speaker 2: how the ambitions of a senior police officer were put 11 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 2: above the interests of a vulnerable woman. Police Commissioner Richard 12 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 2: Chambers has said she was ignored and badly let down. 13 00:00:58,840 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 2: He said it makes four appalling reading and the conduct 14 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 2: of the former top brass is inexcusable. He was briefed 15 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:10,000 Speaker 2: about the situation just two days before he stepped into 16 00:01:10,000 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 2: the role, and during the course of the investigation, detectives 17 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 2: discovered mcskimming had used his work devices to search for pornography, 18 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:23,000 Speaker 2: including beast reality and child sex exploitation material for at 19 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:26,280 Speaker 2: least five years. The fifty two year old resigned in 20 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 2: disgrace and was later charged. He's pleaded guilty last week 21 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:35,840 Speaker 2: and will be sentenced next month. This whole ordeal has 22 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 2: been indisputably damaging to one of the most important institutions 23 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 2: in our country. Later, we'll speak to help Auckland's executive director, 24 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 2: Catherine McPhillips about how to support anyone who has experienced 25 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 2: sexual abuse. But first, someone who knows all too well 26 00:01:56,040 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 2: what it's like to step up to those in power 27 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:03,760 Speaker 2: is law Nicholas. She alleged police officers raped her as 28 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 2: a teen in the eighties and this resulted in criminal trials, 29 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 2: a commission of inquiry, and an officer being jailed for 30 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 2: attempting to pervert the course of justice. She is a 31 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 2: campaigner for victims of sexual assault and joins us now 32 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 2: on the front page. First off, Louise, when you heard 33 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:28,360 Speaker 2: this news, what was your first reaction? 34 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 1: Oh, just belief and then sadness and then anger and 35 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 1: a bit of deja booth thrown in amongst it all. 36 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that deja vuo that would bring back some 37 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 2: pretty heavy feelings for you hearing about that happening in 38 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:51,880 Speaker 2: the police force again. 39 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:55,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, And I think that's that's what It was 40 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:59,640 Speaker 1: that kind of like kicked me back into that time. 41 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 1: But I soon realized that this is it came across 42 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:13,639 Speaker 1: as this time police were actually doing something about it 43 00:03:14,200 --> 00:03:18,200 Speaker 1: and not dragging the chain or dragging it out or 44 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:20,640 Speaker 1: you know, putting their hands up and saying nah, not 45 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:23,919 Speaker 1: us sort of thing. They were onto it being straight away. 46 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 1: As soon as that IPCA report came out, it was 47 00:03:27,040 --> 00:03:27,360 Speaker 1: all on. 48 00:03:28,200 --> 00:03:31,680 Speaker 2: So hearing Richard Chambers and Mark Mitchell speak, was that 49 00:03:31,800 --> 00:03:34,639 Speaker 2: quite a bit different than what you experienced. 50 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely absolutely. It was like I wouldn't say a 51 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 1: breath of fresh air, but it just it gave me. 52 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: It made me feel this is actually going to be 53 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 1: okay in the long run because they are onto it. 54 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 1: They're acknowledging the harm, they're acknowledging the survivor, they're acknowledging 55 00:03:57,240 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 1: where police have gone wrong with that team that covered 56 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 1: everything up. So for me, it was this is going 57 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 1: to be okay, better sweet pretty much. Yeah. 58 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 2: When there are questions around public trust in police, I 59 00:04:16,040 --> 00:04:19,320 Speaker 2: suppose the response is usually something like, you know, these 60 00:04:19,400 --> 00:04:22,000 Speaker 2: kind of things happen, that's rotten apples in the basket. 61 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:25,280 Speaker 2: But the majority, I mean, it'd be hitting the thousands 62 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:29,479 Speaker 2: of sworn and unsworn police officers, mind you pretty hard 63 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 2: at the moment. What's your first thought when you hear 64 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 2: statements like that? 65 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:38,679 Speaker 1: Immediately go to those that are actually doing the work 66 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: and doing the work really, really well, to a point 67 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 1: that you know, this is why our survivors are coming forward. 68 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 1: It's because of the the empathy, the integrity that take 69 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 1: the cop hat off and actually be human when they're 70 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: dealing with our survivors that are going through this. You know, 71 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: the just describes this this horror, and you've got a 72 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 1: copper sitting there in front of them, acknowledging the harm 73 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:14,839 Speaker 1: and saying, we will do what we can and you 74 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:17,520 Speaker 1: can't be I wish that had happened way back in 75 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:21,280 Speaker 1: the day, you know, but it is happening now. 76 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 2: The Independent Police Conduct Authority did an investigation, I suppose 77 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:30,159 Speaker 2: whether the allegations were true, and that's not their role here, 78 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:32,479 Speaker 2: but it did find police ignored the woman at the 79 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 2: center of this, delayed the investigation, and accepted mixed Skimming's 80 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 2: version of versions of events. 81 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:41,400 Speaker 3: What message do you. 82 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 2: Think that that sends anyone kind of weighing up at 83 00:05:44,520 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 2: the moment whether or not to come forward about something 84 00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 2: like this. 85 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 1: Well, I think what we've got to remember it was 86 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 1: senior star that took control of that investigation and when 87 00:05:57,839 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 1: somebody from you know, underneath that came in and challenged 88 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 1: what they were doing. That to me is the hope 89 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 1: that New Zealanders need to remember that there's always somebody 90 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:12,880 Speaker 1: within the New Zealand place. They've got you back. They 91 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 1: absolutely have. And when I heard that actually how it 92 00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:23,200 Speaker 1: all unfolded, I thought, yeah, that you've got people that 93 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:26,520 Speaker 1: aren't the bad eggs, that are the good people that 94 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:30,760 Speaker 1: are that are helping our communities. And so for me 95 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:37,840 Speaker 1: it was a revelation of thoughts. 96 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:37,400 Speaker 3: That something's actually happening. 97 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, that somebody's actually you know, taking the bull 98 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 1: by the horns and bringing the people that are doing 99 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 1: the bad to account. 100 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 2: Yeah. I did find solace in the fact that despite 101 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 2: I suppose the efforts efforts to keep this all covered up, 102 00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 2: there were a few staffers who made sure that it 103 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:55,720 Speaker 2: made the light of day. 104 00:06:56,680 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 3: Judith Collins said it herself when she said was. 105 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 4: All was some sort of group think going on, but 106 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:08,400 Speaker 4: there were thankfully at least three people, lower ranked people 107 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:11,360 Speaker 4: who stood up for what they knew was the right thing, 108 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 4: and one of them sent this matter as the IPCA 109 00:07:14,480 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 4: as a complaint, and without her work and their work 110 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 4: of the others, this might never have seen the light 111 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:20,920 Speaker 4: of day. 112 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 2: Do you wish that there were some junior staff as 113 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:31,480 Speaker 2: a woman there, lower in the ranks there in your situation. 114 00:07:32,560 --> 00:07:37,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, instead of a reporter what it was, you know, 115 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 1: And that's what it took somebody within the media to 116 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 1: actually acknowledge and investigate and show that there was all 117 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 1: this corruptness going on and all this harm being done 118 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 1: to not only the South, but to how many others. 119 00:07:55,000 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 1: And he took the ball by the horns and did 120 00:07:57,600 --> 00:08:00,880 Speaker 1: something about it. And it's kind of like it's mirrored 121 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 1: with the police that you know, the lower ranked police 122 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:09,560 Speaker 1: officers that did exactly the same thing. That is what 123 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 1: the change has been. They believed, without a doubt, absolutely 124 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 1: they saw that process and protocol and everything, you know, 125 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 1: it's standard in how to investigate a disclosure of that type, 126 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 1: and that was just shoved under and yeah, they did everything. 127 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 1: They questioned why this wasn't happening, why are you doing this? 128 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 1: And so because of that it brought it to the 129 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 1: light of day. 130 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 5: We will continue to do what is needed to ensure 131 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 5: this does not happen again. The police have also accepted 132 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 5: all the recommendations in the report. The Police Commissioner will 133 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 5: speak to that and more details shortly. The New Zealand 134 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:09,439 Speaker 5: Police enjoy strong public trust and confidence. It is imperative 135 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 5: that this trust is maintained. That comes with strong action 136 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 5: on the part of the government. Finally, I do want 137 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 5: to stress that these adverse findings should not be seen 138 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 5: as a reflection on our police service as a whole. 139 00:09:29,520 --> 00:09:31,720 Speaker 2: When you look back at what you've been through with 140 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:37,720 Speaker 2: the police in the past, obviously from the eighties until 141 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:42,720 Speaker 2: the early two thousands up until you know now and 142 00:09:42,760 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 2: you now work with police, you with the sexual assault 143 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 2: advocacy work that you do, did you personally find it 144 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:58,079 Speaker 2: difficult to regain that trust or for the police? 145 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 1: In the beginning, absolutely trust them and I told them 146 00:10:01,760 --> 00:10:06,960 Speaker 1: that to their basis, especially going through the thought process 147 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:09,959 Speaker 1: and that you know, they were wanting me to make 148 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 1: another statement to do this, and I kept saying, no, 149 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 1: I'm not doing that. I don't trust you, bastards was 150 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 1: my words. But it's been over. It was a huge 151 00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 1: learning for myself and it was a conclusion that I 152 00:10:24,360 --> 00:10:30,599 Speaker 1: came to that it wasn't the New Zealand police that 153 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:34,120 Speaker 1: hurt me. It was individuals with them. And it's the 154 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:37,359 Speaker 1: same for this as well. And that's why I'm advocating 155 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 1: on you know, on behalf of those police people that 156 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:43,840 Speaker 1: I work alongside, that my team works alongside every single 157 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:47,640 Speaker 1: day right across the country, is that we're advocating for 158 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:50,600 Speaker 1: you because we know that you're doing the best that 159 00:10:50,640 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 1: you can for our survivors. And so it wasn't you, 160 00:10:55,920 --> 00:10:59,079 Speaker 1: as an individual who did what that senior do it 161 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:03,239 Speaker 1: up the ring. And that's what people need to understand. 162 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:08,959 Speaker 1: Don't define what we're skimming and those others did and say, well, 163 00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:11,679 Speaker 1: every cops are saying no, no, it's not. 164 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 2: If there is someone out there right now struggling and 165 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:21,439 Speaker 2: they want to come forward with any allegation something's happened 166 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:27,000 Speaker 2: to them, they've survived something horrific and they they felt 167 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 2: knocked back by what's happened, and when the story came out, 168 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:31,320 Speaker 2: they kind. 169 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:32,200 Speaker 3: Of took a step back. 170 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 2: I suppose, what would you tell them to take that 171 00:11:35,480 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 2: couple of steps forward? 172 00:11:37,720 --> 00:11:40,520 Speaker 1: Yep, please take that couple of steps forward. There are 173 00:11:40,600 --> 00:11:45,319 Speaker 1: agencies right across organizations right across New Zealand that can 174 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:49,319 Speaker 1: support you. And the core thing that we have worked 175 00:11:49,760 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 1: hard alongside police with is how do we get that 176 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:56,080 Speaker 1: first describe it. How do we get our survivors to 177 00:11:56,280 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 1: trust in the police and in the process. And it's 178 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:04,199 Speaker 1: quite simple. It's like a meet and greet. So we 179 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 1: meet with a detective who is in the Adult Sexual 180 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:11,560 Speaker 1: Assault team or in the child Protection team or you know, 181 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 1: and we have that conversation. And we have done that 182 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 1: hundreds of times and not one survivors turned around and said, 183 00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 1: I'm not doing this because it's about bringing together and 184 00:12:25,320 --> 00:12:30,320 Speaker 1: helping each other. The police officer and the survivor and 185 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:34,160 Speaker 1: the FARNO actually understand what this process is all about. 186 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 1: And it's in a safe place. It's not at the 187 00:12:36,800 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 1: police station. It's a mutual area and yeah, that's what works. 188 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 1: If you're unsure, pick up the phone, whether it's you 189 00:12:51,440 --> 00:12:54,960 Speaker 1: rape crisis, whether it's the Luise Nicholas, trust, it doesn't 190 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:58,719 Speaker 1: matter who, and then ask the information and guidance. If 191 00:12:58,720 --> 00:13:00,760 Speaker 1: we're there to guide, we're there to advocate on your 192 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:05,800 Speaker 1: behalf to do what we can. Because we know we 193 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:10,679 Speaker 1: have that lived experience, we understand the trauma. We understand that, 194 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:14,719 Speaker 1: you know, taking that keep forward into Actually I want 195 00:13:14,720 --> 00:13:16,520 Speaker 1: to tell my story. How do I do that? 196 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:19,079 Speaker 3: Do you remember what was going through your head before 197 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:20,199 Speaker 3: you told your story? 198 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:27,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I absolutely it was I can't because I need 199 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:32,240 Speaker 1: to protect everyone around me. No one's going to believe me. 200 00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 1: Look who I'm up against. You know, I'm going to 201 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 1: be telling the story of a rape by members of 202 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 1: the New Zealand place. Who the hell I'm going to 203 00:13:39,800 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 1: believe me? But it was the sup thought I had 204 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:47,800 Speaker 1: with my family, especially my husband, who said that you can. 205 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:50,560 Speaker 1: You can do this because everything that has happened to 206 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 1: you is not your fault. And that's what our survivors 207 00:13:55,120 --> 00:14:00,160 Speaker 1: need to understand and appreciate that you now have an 208 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 1: opportunity to right the wrongs of the past. And for me, 209 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:07,840 Speaker 1: when I talk to our survivors, it's I always say 210 00:14:07,840 --> 00:14:13,040 Speaker 1: to them, it's not about the destination, it's the journey. 211 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:17,360 Speaker 1: And regardless of the outcome if it gets to court, 212 00:14:17,720 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 1: regardless of the outcome, you have told you have held 213 00:14:21,680 --> 00:14:26,360 Speaker 1: that person to account. You have taken back the power 214 00:14:27,040 --> 00:14:31,000 Speaker 1: that was taken from you. And it's amazing how our 215 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:34,920 Speaker 1: survivors go into the process with their heads down and 216 00:14:34,960 --> 00:14:37,520 Speaker 1: they walk out the other side going I did it, 217 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 1: I did it. It is our absolutely, you can absolutely 218 00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:48,520 Speaker 1: as our justice system and the way we have to 219 00:14:48,560 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 1: go through this process. Okay, no, it's not easy. I'm 220 00:14:51,880 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 1: not going to lie. But at the end of the day, 221 00:14:55,080 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 1: all you can do is tell you the truth and 222 00:14:57,720 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 1: it doesn't matter what anyone else throws at you. You 223 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 1: can stand to you tell your truth and it's all 224 00:15:03,080 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 1: you've got to do. 225 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 3: Thanks so much for joining us, Louise. 226 00:15:07,160 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 1: No worries at all. Thank you for having them Man Help. 227 00:15:15,720 --> 00:15:18,320 Speaker 2: Auckland was set up in nineteen eighty two and has 228 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:22,560 Speaker 2: been a specialist provider of sexual abuse support services in 229 00:15:22,600 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 2: Tatnicke Makodo ever since. Executive director Katherine McPhillips is a 230 00:15:27,640 --> 00:15:34,600 Speaker 2: clinical psychologist and joins us now on the front page. So, Catherine, 231 00:15:34,680 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 2: what was your first reaction when you heard the details 232 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 2: about the woman at the center. 233 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 3: Of all this. 234 00:15:41,520 --> 00:15:44,600 Speaker 6: Well, you know, first reaction is to feel empathy for her. 235 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:48,680 Speaker 6: To be honest, she's been through a terrible ordeal over 236 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 6: some years, through all of this, but I have to 237 00:15:52,720 --> 00:15:56,200 Speaker 6: say it's not an uncommon story, not in terms of 238 00:15:57,320 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 6: you know, the nature of the role of the person 239 00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 6: who was hurting her or you know, all of the 240 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:09,800 Speaker 6: investigation that followed. But certainly men in positions of power. 241 00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:12,840 Speaker 6: It's not uncommon for us to hear kind of stories 242 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:16,120 Speaker 6: where where women are victimized over quite a period of 243 00:16:16,120 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 6: time and try to get out of those situations or 244 00:16:19,520 --> 00:16:22,320 Speaker 6: alert other people to it and don't get listened to. 245 00:16:22,920 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 2: How do you think sexual assault survivors felt at hearing 246 00:16:26,720 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 2: about this case, Well. 247 00:16:29,000 --> 00:16:33,160 Speaker 6: You know, really concerned that it will diminish people's trust 248 00:16:33,240 --> 00:16:37,000 Speaker 6: in the police and make people feel, you know, even 249 00:16:37,040 --> 00:16:39,360 Speaker 6: more unsafe to go and report to police. 250 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:42,200 Speaker 7: It's it's a really hard thing to do to do 251 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:43,120 Speaker 7: that anyway, and. 252 00:16:43,080 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 6: This kind of you know, finding out about this kind 253 00:16:46,080 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 6: of thing having occurred just you know, not just that down. 254 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:52,560 Speaker 6: And to be honest, we've you know, New Zealand's been 255 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 6: quite slow to get up our reporting and you know 256 00:16:54,800 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 6: we've only just in the last year or so been 257 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 6: getting those reporting rapes up. So, you know, my concern 258 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 6: is that it will lead people to feel concerned that 259 00:17:03,080 --> 00:17:05,400 Speaker 6: they won't be listened to, they won't be heard, and you. 260 00:17:05,359 --> 00:17:07,720 Speaker 7: Know that they'll be blamed for what's happened to them, 261 00:17:07,840 --> 00:17:10,000 Speaker 7: and so yeah. 262 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:13,440 Speaker 6: I think it's really important that people understand that there 263 00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 6: are support services in place, so services like help where 264 00:17:17,800 --> 00:17:21,080 Speaker 6: I am, there's services right across the country. So if 265 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:23,280 Speaker 6: you go to a police station to make a complaint 266 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:26,120 Speaker 6: of sexual assault, you know that there is an independent 267 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 6: support person there with you through that process, and that 268 00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:32,439 Speaker 6: those services available to you for as long as you 269 00:17:32,520 --> 00:17:33,800 Speaker 6: need them. 270 00:17:34,160 --> 00:17:36,120 Speaker 7: And you know that's a you. 271 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:40,399 Speaker 6: Know, we're there to ensure that or kind of to 272 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:43,320 Speaker 6: promote people's well being through the process, but that certainly 273 00:17:43,400 --> 00:17:46,800 Speaker 6: can involve talking with the police if things are going astray. 274 00:17:47,119 --> 00:17:49,399 Speaker 6: You know, we work with police every day, so we 275 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:54,000 Speaker 6: have those kind of relationships where we are able to ask, oh, 276 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 6: you know, why is that happening, and you know, be in. 277 00:17:57,440 --> 00:17:58,760 Speaker 7: That place to support people. 278 00:17:58,880 --> 00:18:02,200 Speaker 6: So I really want to know that you're not only 279 00:18:02,200 --> 00:18:04,480 Speaker 6: trusting the police if you want to make those complaints, 280 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:07,920 Speaker 6: but there are independent support people there as well. 281 00:18:14,160 --> 00:18:16,639 Speaker 1: I want to apologize to the woman at the center 282 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:20,159 Speaker 1: of this for the repeated early failures in following the 283 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 1: proper processes investigating this matter by those at such a 284 00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:30,159 Speaker 1: senior level of police. You had asked for help, you 285 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:33,360 Speaker 1: would badly let down. That was unacceptable. 286 00:18:36,119 --> 00:18:38,840 Speaker 2: What are some of the biggest barriers in general for 287 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:41,360 Speaker 2: people to come forward other than I mean, I guess 288 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 2: it would be really scary going to police in the 289 00:18:44,040 --> 00:18:44,679 Speaker 2: first place. 290 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:46,679 Speaker 7: Hey, yeah, it's really scary. 291 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 6: But you know, big barrier is that you don't expect 292 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:52,520 Speaker 6: to be believed often, you know, that's the nature of grooming, 293 00:18:52,560 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 6: that's the nature of sexual violence, and you know, that's 294 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:58,919 Speaker 6: why it's so important that people who are responding to 295 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:03,960 Speaker 6: complaints really do understand the dynamics that a lot of time, 296 00:19:04,320 --> 00:19:06,720 Speaker 6: what that grooman does is, you know, the person causing 297 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:10,240 Speaker 6: harm will do things and say things to diminish the 298 00:19:10,280 --> 00:19:13,959 Speaker 6: person or you know, as appears to have occurred in 299 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:14,720 Speaker 6: this situation. 300 00:19:16,040 --> 00:19:17,919 Speaker 7: They groom the environment that they're in. 301 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 6: So, you know, an example of that here is that 302 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:24,960 Speaker 6: you know that you talk negatively about the person before 303 00:19:25,000 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 6: they've even made a complaint, so that when that complaint 304 00:19:27,600 --> 00:19:28,200 Speaker 6: comes in. 305 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:29,640 Speaker 7: The person isn't believed. 306 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:32,680 Speaker 6: You know, that's a really really common dynamic of sexual violence, 307 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:35,000 Speaker 6: and so you know, we really need to make sure 308 00:19:35,040 --> 00:19:38,359 Speaker 6: that the people responsible for responding to complaints, you know, 309 00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:42,199 Speaker 6: are always informed about those dynamics and certainly, the you know, 310 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:45,960 Speaker 6: the sex assault police teams at the front Light are 311 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:49,000 Speaker 6: informed about those but you know, one you know, reading 312 00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:51,280 Speaker 6: the IPCA report, you have to question whether the police 313 00:19:51,320 --> 00:19:51,800 Speaker 6: hire up. 314 00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:54,280 Speaker 7: We're well informed about those dynamics. 315 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:57,080 Speaker 2: If someone was to come to you for advice and 316 00:19:57,119 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 2: they had been sitting on something and they were ready 317 00:19:59,359 --> 00:20:01,560 Speaker 2: to come forward, but then they see something like this 318 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 2: happening and it kind of you know, pushes them back 319 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:06,800 Speaker 2: a little bit, what kind of advice would you give them? 320 00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:09,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, so we would talk to them about 321 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:11,119 Speaker 6: what they needed to feel safe. 322 00:20:11,320 --> 00:20:12,680 Speaker 7: I mean, it's always their decision. 323 00:20:12,720 --> 00:20:15,240 Speaker 6: There's no pressure from us about whether you report or 324 00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:17,160 Speaker 6: don't report, because it really has to be the. 325 00:20:17,119 --> 00:20:19,439 Speaker 7: Individual's decision on that. 326 00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:22,240 Speaker 6: But really, I mean the kinds of things that we 327 00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:24,920 Speaker 6: would do is talk with them through their worries, talk 328 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:28,680 Speaker 6: with them about how those worries might be addressed. You know, 329 00:20:28,800 --> 00:20:30,880 Speaker 6: if they wanted to make that complaint, then we would 330 00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:33,359 Speaker 6: make sure that we were with them and you know, 331 00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:35,520 Speaker 6: fully able to support them through the process. 332 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 7: But it really is an individual decision, and. 333 00:20:39,960 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 6: You know, I think that that can be hard sometimes 334 00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:43,480 Speaker 6: for friends and family to understand. 335 00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:45,439 Speaker 7: They're like, well, why aren't you reporting? Why don't you're reporting? 336 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:47,440 Speaker 7: But it is a tough process. 337 00:20:47,600 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 6: You have to talk about things which can feel shaving 338 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 6: and that are very intimate, and you know, the reality is, 339 00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:58,080 Speaker 6: you know we see from things like the Gender Attitudes 340 00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:02,479 Speaker 6: Survey for example, you know there are lots of New 341 00:21:02,560 --> 00:21:05,760 Speaker 6: Zealanders who do don't blame people who are victims of 342 00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:08,880 Speaker 6: sexual assaultants. So there is always that wondering and so 343 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 6: you know, people really have to make that decision themselves 344 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:13,680 Speaker 6: about whether they want to go forward with a complaint 345 00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:14,000 Speaker 6: or not. 346 00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 2: And I suppose psychologically as well bringing up those things 347 00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:20,359 Speaker 2: and speaking about them, I guess people may not understand 348 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:25,479 Speaker 2: that PTSD you actually feel those emotions, You feel like 349 00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:28,159 Speaker 2: you did at the time that it happens. So it 350 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,440 Speaker 2: doesn't matter whether it's a couple of years, a couple 351 00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:32,920 Speaker 2: of months, or a couple of decades afterwards, right. 352 00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:36,800 Speaker 6: Yes, absolutely, absolutely, so thinking about it can you know, 353 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:38,840 Speaker 6: we call that an internal trigger that can. 354 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:41,240 Speaker 7: Take you back to those feelings. 355 00:21:41,400 --> 00:21:44,679 Speaker 6: But certainly being in a situation where somebody's asking you 356 00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:46,600 Speaker 6: about it can put you back in that place, or 357 00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:49,159 Speaker 6: even if there's dynamics going on that just remind you 358 00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:52,879 Speaker 6: of those experiences, and so you know that's the reason 359 00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:56,359 Speaker 6: for those independence support people being there is that we 360 00:21:56,480 --> 00:22:00,119 Speaker 6: can help people get through that process keeping their well 361 00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:01,800 Speaker 6: being as intact as possible. 362 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:04,600 Speaker 2: And I suppose Fano and friends can come to you 363 00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:06,919 Speaker 2: as well for advice if they have somebody close to 364 00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:10,639 Speaker 2: them who has experienced this or is going through something 365 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:11,000 Speaker 2: like this. 366 00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:15,359 Speaker 6: Absolutely, we welcome our friends and Fano coming to us 367 00:22:16,080 --> 00:22:19,200 Speaker 6: because you know, we're in people's lives for a short 368 00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 6: period of time. Your friends and your family are around 369 00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:24,440 Speaker 6: your long term, so the better equipped that they are 370 00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:26,760 Speaker 6: to support survivors are the better. 371 00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:29,199 Speaker 3: Thank you so much for joining us, Catherine. 372 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:30,159 Speaker 7: Thanks Chelsea. 373 00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:36,600 Speaker 2: That's it for this episode of the Front Page. You 374 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:40,520 Speaker 2: can read more about today's stories and extensive news coverage 375 00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:44,639 Speaker 2: at enzadherld dot co dot nz. 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