1 00:00:09,133 --> 00:00:12,013 Speaker 1: You're listening to a podcast from News Talk zed B. 2 00:00:12,413 --> 00:00:16,213 Speaker 1: Follow this and our Wide Ranger podcast now on iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:16,893 --> 00:00:19,493 Speaker 2: Hello all you great New Zealanders, and welcome to a 4 00:00:19,613 --> 00:00:24,013 Speaker 2: very special Halloween edition of The Matt and Tyler Afternoons 5 00:00:24,173 --> 00:00:28,373 Speaker 2: on News Talk zed B. We get to Halloween later on. 6 00:00:28,732 --> 00:00:32,573 Speaker 2: We've got some horrible songs, We've got some horrific movies. 7 00:00:32,973 --> 00:00:34,333 Speaker 2: And in the first hour. 8 00:00:34,373 --> 00:00:38,973 Speaker 3: We talked about intervention. That was is it okay? Look? 9 00:00:38,973 --> 00:00:41,412 Speaker 3: This is on the back of some pretty hairy situations 10 00:00:41,412 --> 00:00:43,892 Speaker 3: on old public transport. And we talked about on the 11 00:00:43,893 --> 00:00:47,732 Speaker 3: sports field, kids games, parents going a bit crazy. Is 12 00:00:47,772 --> 00:00:49,813 Speaker 3: it too full noise to intervene? 13 00:00:49,853 --> 00:00:50,053 Speaker 4: Boy? 14 00:00:50,092 --> 00:00:52,373 Speaker 5: We heard a lot of really interesting stories about people 15 00:00:52,373 --> 00:00:55,933 Speaker 5: that have intervened in violent situations and terrifying situations, and 16 00:00:55,973 --> 00:00:58,173 Speaker 5: we talked to Mark an X cop about what you 17 00:00:58,293 --> 00:00:59,252 Speaker 5: actually need to do. 18 00:00:59,373 --> 00:01:00,773 Speaker 3: He was great, wasn't he? 19 00:01:00,773 --> 00:01:02,973 Speaker 6: He was great? So fantastic show. 20 00:01:03,893 --> 00:01:05,733 Speaker 3: We talked about the gap year. Wait before we give 21 00:01:05,773 --> 00:01:08,173 Speaker 3: him a taste the KeyWe let's talk about the gamp year. 22 00:01:08,373 --> 00:01:12,533 Speaker 7: It was a fantastic how gap Yeah, people coming and 23 00:01:12,572 --> 00:01:15,173 Speaker 7: sport on, kids going on their gap year because the 24 00:01:15,212 --> 00:01:17,413 Speaker 7: year thirteen's are finishing up for the year right now, 25 00:01:17,493 --> 00:01:18,973 Speaker 7: So that's a great hour as well. 26 00:01:19,013 --> 00:01:20,133 Speaker 6: Give him a taste of kiwish. 27 00:01:20,453 --> 00:01:22,333 Speaker 5: All right there, okay. 28 00:01:23,413 --> 00:01:25,172 Speaker 8: Talking with you all afternoon. 29 00:01:25,373 --> 00:01:29,252 Speaker 1: It's Matt Heathen Taylor Adams Afternoons you for twenty twenty 30 00:01:29,253 --> 00:01:30,693 Speaker 1: four News talk zaid. 31 00:01:32,013 --> 00:01:36,212 Speaker 3: Hello, welcome into the show Thursday afternoon. Matt's how you doing. 32 00:01:36,613 --> 00:01:38,133 Speaker 5: I'm terrified today It's Halloween. 33 00:01:39,013 --> 00:01:40,533 Speaker 6: It's a terrifying, very. 34 00:01:40,453 --> 00:01:41,212 Speaker 5: Very scary day. 35 00:01:41,333 --> 00:01:42,653 Speaker 3: Scared though, I've already. 36 00:01:42,373 --> 00:01:46,133 Speaker 5: Seen a witch and some cobwebs this morning, so yeah, 37 00:01:46,413 --> 00:01:47,092 Speaker 5: I'm on edge. 38 00:01:47,133 --> 00:01:49,333 Speaker 3: I didn't nice you about the Trevor of Scott concert. Actually, 39 00:01:49,413 --> 00:01:52,413 Speaker 3: you live incredibly close to Eden Park. That's all I 40 00:01:52,453 --> 00:01:55,333 Speaker 3: saw online last night, and how blooming allowed that concert was. 41 00:01:55,493 --> 00:01:57,053 Speaker 5: Yeah, the wind was going the other way so I 42 00:01:57,093 --> 00:01:59,532 Speaker 5: couldn't hear at my house. But I live near Eaton 43 00:01:59,573 --> 00:02:01,413 Speaker 5: Park because I love the concerts and I love being 44 00:02:01,413 --> 00:02:04,413 Speaker 5: close to the sporting fixtures, just being able to walk 45 00:02:04,413 --> 00:02:04,853 Speaker 5: down the road. 46 00:02:04,853 --> 00:02:07,253 Speaker 3: You're almost like the opposite of Helen Clark. You love it, 47 00:02:07,293 --> 00:02:09,693 Speaker 3: you bring it on concerts. 48 00:02:09,733 --> 00:02:12,293 Speaker 5: Twenty concerts a year, I'd be happy. Although I've got 49 00:02:12,293 --> 00:02:15,573 Speaker 5: to say post post Trevor Scott concert, there. There was 50 00:02:15,613 --> 00:02:17,972 Speaker 5: a bit of ruckus on the road just in front 51 00:02:17,972 --> 00:02:19,293 Speaker 5: of my house. It was a little bit of a ruckus. 52 00:02:19,333 --> 00:02:20,693 Speaker 5: I was about to go out. I was about to 53 00:02:20,733 --> 00:02:21,653 Speaker 5: go out and say something. 54 00:02:22,252 --> 00:02:25,933 Speaker 3: Not really, you're twitching those curtains and say what are 55 00:02:25,933 --> 00:02:27,692 Speaker 3: these youngsters up to? How dare you? 56 00:02:27,893 --> 00:02:28,093 Speaker 9: Yeah? 57 00:02:28,173 --> 00:02:31,053 Speaker 5: No, it was definitely a sort of a raucous situation 58 00:02:31,133 --> 00:02:33,173 Speaker 5: post concert. But no, I couldn't hear a sound from 59 00:02:33,613 --> 00:02:35,613 Speaker 5: joining the concert, which is amazing. I'm only four hundred 60 00:02:35,693 --> 00:02:36,493 Speaker 5: meters from the ground. 61 00:02:36,532 --> 00:02:39,373 Speaker 3: Good insulation obviously, right onto the show after three o'clock. 62 00:02:39,413 --> 00:02:41,093 Speaker 3: As you mentioned it as Halloween, so we're going to 63 00:02:41,133 --> 00:02:42,693 Speaker 3: be chatting Halloween stuff. 64 00:02:43,373 --> 00:02:45,773 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's right. How do you celebrate it? I like 65 00:02:45,813 --> 00:02:47,493 Speaker 5: to watch a horror movie with my kids. I'm a 66 00:02:47,532 --> 00:02:50,133 Speaker 5: big fan of forcing my kids to watch horror movies. 67 00:02:50,133 --> 00:02:51,693 Speaker 6: Wow, forcing them, they love it. 68 00:02:51,693 --> 00:02:53,692 Speaker 5: It's great. It's great to scare them. It's a great 69 00:02:53,693 --> 00:02:57,893 Speaker 5: way to celebrate Halloween if you do. How do you celebrate? 70 00:02:57,933 --> 00:03:00,293 Speaker 6: Also? What is the best horror movie ever? I watched? 71 00:03:00,532 --> 00:03:02,453 Speaker 6: As I said before, I watched Late Night. 72 00:03:02,453 --> 00:03:06,012 Speaker 5: I was saying to you before Tyler, not to everyone, 73 00:03:06,133 --> 00:03:08,813 Speaker 5: that I watched Late Night with the Devil Last Night. 74 00:03:09,013 --> 00:03:11,252 Speaker 5: Fantastic horror movie, really really good. 75 00:03:11,493 --> 00:03:14,213 Speaker 3: I love that too. It I think it's just dropped, 76 00:03:14,532 --> 00:03:15,933 Speaker 3: if that's the right word on Netflix. 77 00:03:16,053 --> 00:03:16,252 Speaker 10: Yeah. 78 00:03:16,493 --> 00:03:18,452 Speaker 3: And it looks like a B movie, It honestly does. 79 00:03:18,493 --> 00:03:19,573 Speaker 3: It looks like this is good. 80 00:03:19,613 --> 00:03:23,013 Speaker 5: It looks it looks like a nineteen seventy seven television 81 00:03:23,013 --> 00:03:25,253 Speaker 5: show because it's based around a talk show from that era. 82 00:03:25,773 --> 00:03:28,733 Speaker 5: Everything Happens. It's sort of semi found footage show from 83 00:03:29,053 --> 00:03:32,933 Speaker 5: a Letterman style talkback show, a late night show which 84 00:03:33,333 --> 00:03:35,893 Speaker 5: they bring a kid that's possessed on it all goes crazy. 85 00:03:35,973 --> 00:03:38,533 Speaker 3: It's great, so well done. That is after three o'clock. 86 00:03:38,573 --> 00:03:40,933 Speaker 3: After two o'clock we're going to be talking about gap years. 87 00:03:40,973 --> 00:03:43,573 Speaker 3: What is the benefit of a gap year? Have you 88 00:03:43,693 --> 00:03:46,133 Speaker 3: done it? Are your children about to do it? Your 89 00:03:46,253 --> 00:03:47,893 Speaker 3: one of your children is about to do it? 90 00:03:48,813 --> 00:03:52,732 Speaker 5: Yeah, so a lot of kids finishing up your thirteen's 91 00:03:53,373 --> 00:03:56,733 Speaker 5: My oldest son finished school, which made me feel amazing. 92 00:03:56,733 --> 00:03:58,933 Speaker 5: I managed to get a kid through school, which is 93 00:03:59,733 --> 00:04:01,933 Speaker 5: when you're holding it, when you're holding them in your hand, 94 00:04:02,573 --> 00:04:04,053 Speaker 5: in their butt is smaller than your head. 95 00:04:04,093 --> 00:04:04,213 Speaker 10: Love. 96 00:04:04,253 --> 00:04:07,853 Speaker 5: If he's saying this, when their butts, they can hold 97 00:04:07,853 --> 00:04:09,973 Speaker 5: them in their hand, and they're but smaller than your hand, 98 00:04:10,293 --> 00:04:14,053 Speaker 5: and then suddenly there are six foot two hundred kg 99 00:04:15,173 --> 00:04:18,853 Speaker 5: mostly monster leaving school. You feel amazing about it. But 100 00:04:19,573 --> 00:04:21,733 Speaker 5: he's choosing to do a gap year. He's choosing not 101 00:04:21,773 --> 00:04:23,733 Speaker 5: to go to university straight off or any sort of 102 00:04:23,813 --> 00:04:27,453 Speaker 5: tertiary education, and I feel good about it. I think 103 00:04:27,453 --> 00:04:29,973 Speaker 5: it's a good option because he hasn't decided exactly what 104 00:04:30,093 --> 00:04:30,613 Speaker 5: he wants to do. 105 00:04:30,653 --> 00:04:32,093 Speaker 6: Before you start. 106 00:04:31,893 --> 00:04:33,733 Speaker 5: Running up a debt and wasting a year of life 107 00:04:33,773 --> 00:04:35,893 Speaker 5: going on in a course you don't know which way 108 00:04:35,933 --> 00:04:39,533 Speaker 5: you really want to go. Whereas being you know, in 109 00:04:39,573 --> 00:04:43,333 Speaker 5: the real world for a year that focuses your attention. 110 00:04:43,133 --> 00:04:44,693 Speaker 3: That teaches you a lot of stuff. And there's been 111 00:04:44,733 --> 00:04:47,733 Speaker 3: a massive increase in the number of kids leaving school 112 00:04:47,813 --> 00:04:50,253 Speaker 3: doing a gap year in the US and the UK. 113 00:04:50,373 --> 00:04:52,613 Speaker 3: So that's going to be a good chat after two o'clock. 114 00:04:52,653 --> 00:04:55,453 Speaker 3: But right now we want to talk about intervening incidences. 115 00:04:55,533 --> 00:04:58,493 Speaker 3: This is on the back of Auckland Transport data which 116 00:04:58,533 --> 00:05:01,333 Speaker 3: shows the agency reported an average of more than ninety 117 00:05:01,413 --> 00:05:05,533 Speaker 3: three incidents a week on public transport, and also a 118 00:05:05,573 --> 00:05:10,253 Speaker 3: story Aren't Today about a police investigation into an assault 119 00:05:10,333 --> 00:05:13,893 Speaker 3: at a children's football tournament. This was allegedly one of 120 00:05:13,933 --> 00:05:16,133 Speaker 3: the parents took umbrage at what the coach was doing 121 00:05:16,533 --> 00:05:17,853 Speaker 3: and assaulted that coach. 122 00:05:18,053 --> 00:05:21,133 Speaker 5: It is the most revolting behavior if you are at 123 00:05:21,133 --> 00:05:25,213 Speaker 5: a kid's football match and you assault the coach. 124 00:05:25,493 --> 00:05:26,413 Speaker 8: What are you? 125 00:05:26,573 --> 00:05:27,493 Speaker 6: What are you doing? 126 00:05:27,653 --> 00:05:30,933 Speaker 5: That's crazy town, isn't it that you're getting pretty lowly? 127 00:05:30,973 --> 00:05:32,493 Speaker 5: You're getting pretty low on the scale of things that 128 00:05:32,533 --> 00:05:33,333 Speaker 5: you're getting up to. 129 00:05:33,493 --> 00:05:36,573 Speaker 3: Yeah, but we know it is being pretty scary on 130 00:05:36,773 --> 00:05:40,053 Speaker 3: public transport, particularly in Auckland over the last couple of months. 131 00:05:40,853 --> 00:05:43,333 Speaker 3: But on the intervening, because this is a big question 132 00:05:43,653 --> 00:05:46,493 Speaker 3: and Mayor Wayne Brown said that he would like to 133 00:05:46,533 --> 00:05:49,653 Speaker 3: see more police officers on these buses, but he admitted 134 00:05:49,693 --> 00:05:51,813 Speaker 3: that that's a hard thing to do. Resources at tight 135 00:05:51,893 --> 00:05:53,733 Speaker 3: at the moment when it comes to police and we 136 00:05:53,893 --> 00:05:56,373 Speaker 3: just can't have them on every bus. But when it 137 00:05:56,453 --> 00:05:59,933 Speaker 3: comes to us as members of society, do we have 138 00:05:59,973 --> 00:06:02,973 Speaker 3: a responsibility to intervene more when we see these things? 139 00:06:03,533 --> 00:06:04,973 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, I'd like to think I was the 140 00:06:05,053 --> 00:06:07,613 Speaker 5: kind of person that would intervene, but I'm not sure 141 00:06:07,653 --> 00:06:10,453 Speaker 5: it's easy to say that you would. And there's definitely 142 00:06:10,453 --> 00:06:12,093 Speaker 5: people that have And there was one occasion when I 143 00:06:12,133 --> 00:06:13,733 Speaker 5: did an intervene, but at that time I was eleven 144 00:06:13,813 --> 00:06:15,533 Speaker 5: years old, so it was a bit of a different, 145 00:06:15,693 --> 00:06:16,813 Speaker 5: lower stake situation. 146 00:06:17,053 --> 00:06:18,373 Speaker 3: What happened. What happened. 147 00:06:18,493 --> 00:06:20,093 Speaker 6: A kid was builling another kid. 148 00:06:20,173 --> 00:06:21,653 Speaker 5: I waited till we were on Filton Road and we 149 00:06:21,693 --> 00:06:24,333 Speaker 5: were at a steep incline, and I ran down the 150 00:06:24,333 --> 00:06:26,973 Speaker 5: bus from the back and tackled this guy into that's 151 00:06:27,013 --> 00:06:27,733 Speaker 5: much bigger than me. 152 00:06:27,853 --> 00:06:29,493 Speaker 3: He used the gravity to your advantage. 153 00:06:29,533 --> 00:06:31,373 Speaker 5: I did, and then wailed on him. But that's a 154 00:06:31,453 --> 00:06:34,453 Speaker 5: very different situation. It's terrifying out there, and you'd love 155 00:06:34,493 --> 00:06:36,613 Speaker 5: to think you were that person, but then you get involved, 156 00:06:36,613 --> 00:06:39,493 Speaker 5: you don't know how much you're going to escalate the situation. 157 00:06:40,693 --> 00:06:43,333 Speaker 5: So do you intervene? How do you deal with these 158 00:06:43,333 --> 00:06:45,133 Speaker 5: incidents if you see them, if there's not going to 159 00:06:45,133 --> 00:06:48,013 Speaker 5: be police around, and there are going to be more 160 00:06:48,013 --> 00:06:50,013 Speaker 5: and more incidents happening. I mean, there was fights at 161 00:06:50,013 --> 00:06:53,213 Speaker 5: Travis Scott concert last night, and as I said before, 162 00:06:53,253 --> 00:06:54,853 Speaker 5: I sort of heard outside the front of my house 163 00:06:54,933 --> 00:06:57,413 Speaker 5: what sounded like a fight was about to fire up, 164 00:06:57,933 --> 00:06:59,373 Speaker 5: and I was about to sort of go out and 165 00:06:59,413 --> 00:07:01,373 Speaker 5: have a lock, but it sort of moved on. I 166 00:07:01,373 --> 00:07:05,213 Speaker 5: couldn't see anything when I peered, like a wimp out 167 00:07:04,533 --> 00:07:06,653 Speaker 5: the Venetian blinds. 168 00:07:07,373 --> 00:07:09,213 Speaker 3: But it feels more danger us out there, doesn't it. 169 00:07:09,293 --> 00:07:11,653 Speaker 3: And I'm in the same campus you. I'd like to 170 00:07:11,693 --> 00:07:14,093 Speaker 3: think that I would step up and intervene if I 171 00:07:14,133 --> 00:07:16,893 Speaker 3: saw something untoward going on and somebody was in trouble 172 00:07:17,373 --> 00:07:19,573 Speaker 3: and I was the only one around, or even if 173 00:07:19,573 --> 00:07:21,333 Speaker 3: there are other people around. Someone's got to make a 174 00:07:21,333 --> 00:07:23,493 Speaker 3: first move. But in the back of a lot of 175 00:07:23,493 --> 00:07:25,653 Speaker 3: people's minds now is what are they caring? Do they 176 00:07:25,733 --> 00:07:27,773 Speaker 3: have a weapon on them? If it's a group of them, 177 00:07:27,773 --> 00:07:29,733 Speaker 3: are they going to turn on me? And then we're 178 00:07:29,733 --> 00:07:32,093 Speaker 3: both in trouble here the you know, victim, and then 179 00:07:32,133 --> 00:07:34,453 Speaker 3: yourself you get caught into the mix. I mean, there's 180 00:07:34,493 --> 00:07:35,453 Speaker 3: a lot to think about. 181 00:07:35,533 --> 00:07:35,733 Speaker 11: Now. 182 00:07:35,933 --> 00:07:40,213 Speaker 5: Should you intervene? Have you intervened? I'll tell you one 183 00:07:40,253 --> 00:07:41,173 Speaker 5: hundred and eighty ten eighty. 184 00:07:41,213 --> 00:07:44,253 Speaker 3: I'll tell you very shortly about a incident that happened 185 00:07:44,373 --> 00:07:46,853 Speaker 3: ten years ago on a bus in christ Church where 186 00:07:46,893 --> 00:07:50,053 Speaker 3: I didn't intervene as quickly as I should have. But 187 00:07:50,133 --> 00:07:52,373 Speaker 3: love to hear from you. Oh, eight hundred eighty ten eighty. 188 00:07:52,413 --> 00:07:55,013 Speaker 3: As Matt said, nine two nine two is the text number. 189 00:07:55,053 --> 00:07:57,933 Speaker 3: Have you been in a situation where you wanted to 190 00:07:57,973 --> 00:08:01,933 Speaker 3: intervene and you didn't, or indeed, if you have intervened recently, 191 00:08:01,973 --> 00:08:04,053 Speaker 3: Love to hear from you, what was a situation going on? 192 00:08:04,293 --> 00:08:06,693 Speaker 3: Did other people come around to help you? Love to 193 00:08:06,693 --> 00:08:10,053 Speaker 3: hear from you. It is third teen past one. 194 00:08:10,853 --> 00:08:14,333 Speaker 1: The big stories, the big issues, the big trends, and 195 00:08:14,573 --> 00:08:18,293 Speaker 1: everything in between. Matt Heath and Taylor Adams Afternoons You 196 00:08:18,453 --> 00:08:20,613 Speaker 1: for twenty twenty four US Talk said. 197 00:08:20,333 --> 00:08:22,373 Speaker 3: Be sixteen past one. 198 00:08:22,693 --> 00:08:22,893 Speaker 12: Yeah. 199 00:08:22,893 --> 00:08:23,653 Speaker 6: A lot more. 200 00:08:23,573 --> 00:08:27,253 Speaker 5: Assaults and bad behavior on public transport. There were fights 201 00:08:27,253 --> 00:08:31,613 Speaker 5: at the Travis Scott concert last night. There's trouble at kids' 202 00:08:31,613 --> 00:08:34,892 Speaker 5: sports greens. Should you intervene? How do you intervene? Have 203 00:08:34,933 --> 00:08:37,533 Speaker 5: you intervened? Is it up to citizens to police these 204 00:08:37,573 --> 00:08:40,773 Speaker 5: kind of situations? Welcome to the show, Mary Anne, How 205 00:08:40,773 --> 00:08:42,573 Speaker 5: are you. You've got a story from subway. 206 00:08:42,252 --> 00:08:42,732 Speaker 6: In New York? 207 00:08:43,852 --> 00:08:44,453 Speaker 13: Yeah, I have. 208 00:08:45,773 --> 00:08:48,172 Speaker 14: So I was over there. It's a few years ago. Now, 209 00:08:48,732 --> 00:08:52,133 Speaker 14: I'm in my early sixties, so I was still reason 210 00:08:52,213 --> 00:08:52,892 Speaker 14: be elderly. 211 00:08:52,693 --> 00:08:53,173 Speaker 11: At this point. 212 00:08:53,293 --> 00:08:56,693 Speaker 14: I saw this guy and he had his girlfriend up 213 00:08:56,732 --> 00:08:58,733 Speaker 14: against the side of the train and he had his 214 00:08:58,813 --> 00:08:59,772 Speaker 14: hands around her neck. 215 00:08:59,813 --> 00:09:01,852 Speaker 15: He had one hand around in nick and he. 216 00:09:01,852 --> 00:09:05,973 Speaker 14: Was just quietly throttling her. Now, I have spent a 217 00:09:06,012 --> 00:09:08,173 Speaker 14: long time working as a criminal lawyer, and in fact, 218 00:09:08,173 --> 00:09:11,372 Speaker 14: now there's a separate offense of strangulation of a man 219 00:09:11,453 --> 00:09:13,973 Speaker 14: of a woman, but at that time there wasn't. But 220 00:09:14,093 --> 00:09:18,892 Speaker 14: I can tell you it's an incredibly dangerous sign. So anyway, 221 00:09:18,973 --> 00:09:22,053 Speaker 14: I didn't physically and then but I yelled out very 222 00:09:22,093 --> 00:09:24,852 Speaker 14: loudly in this crowded train, excuse me this for you, 223 00:09:24,973 --> 00:09:29,893 Speaker 14: all right, And that drew everybody's attention to what was 224 00:09:29,933 --> 00:09:32,013 Speaker 14: going on. And then I said, if you, if you 225 00:09:32,413 --> 00:09:37,933 Speaker 14: put her again, I'm fulleing that emergency cord. And you 226 00:09:37,973 --> 00:09:42,492 Speaker 14: know he did step away from her. But I remember 227 00:09:42,533 --> 00:09:45,613 Speaker 14: I then met my son and he says, oh my god, Mum, 228 00:09:45,612 --> 00:09:46,493 Speaker 14: you could have got shot. 229 00:09:47,973 --> 00:09:50,973 Speaker 5: Well, good on you, But that seems quite That seems 230 00:09:51,093 --> 00:09:53,693 Speaker 5: very brave in another country, because at least in your 231 00:09:53,732 --> 00:09:56,173 Speaker 5: own country, you kind of know how things go down, 232 00:09:56,252 --> 00:09:59,132 Speaker 5: you know the rules, and you say, people have weapons 233 00:09:59,173 --> 00:10:01,973 Speaker 5: over there in the States, So that was very brave 234 00:10:02,012 --> 00:10:02,213 Speaker 5: of you. 235 00:10:03,372 --> 00:10:05,293 Speaker 14: Well, I think the other thing was that you know, 236 00:10:05,492 --> 00:10:08,133 Speaker 14: immediately at the moment I opened my mouth, everybody could 237 00:10:08,132 --> 00:10:12,533 Speaker 14: tell that I wasn't a local, and so it was like, oh, yeah, 238 00:10:12,573 --> 00:10:15,492 Speaker 14: this this person, and like, honestly, I got lots of 239 00:10:15,653 --> 00:10:20,053 Speaker 14: nods and you know, sort of quiet thumbs up afterwards, 240 00:10:21,012 --> 00:10:26,492 Speaker 14: and so I just think it was seriously, it didn't 241 00:10:26,533 --> 00:10:28,813 Speaker 14: even occur to me for a second not to say anything, 242 00:10:29,533 --> 00:10:30,132 Speaker 14: Well good on. 243 00:10:30,093 --> 00:10:30,773 Speaker 6: You, Mary Anne. 244 00:10:30,973 --> 00:10:32,893 Speaker 5: Do you think you were the only person that had 245 00:10:32,933 --> 00:10:35,773 Speaker 5: seen what was going on? Do you think people had 246 00:10:35,813 --> 00:10:39,133 Speaker 5: sort of seen it and decided not to react, to 247 00:10:39,213 --> 00:10:40,453 Speaker 5: pretend like it wasn't happening. 248 00:10:41,453 --> 00:10:41,612 Speaker 8: No. 249 00:10:41,773 --> 00:10:44,133 Speaker 14: I think I probably was the only one that saw 250 00:10:44,173 --> 00:10:46,453 Speaker 14: it because it was a busy, crowded. 251 00:10:46,132 --> 00:10:46,492 Speaker 10: You know. 252 00:10:48,533 --> 00:10:48,813 Speaker 13: Train. 253 00:10:49,693 --> 00:10:52,612 Speaker 14: I was standing up strap hanging, so I could see 254 00:10:52,653 --> 00:10:55,733 Speaker 14: this guy. He was down towards the end, not that 255 00:10:55,852 --> 00:10:58,413 Speaker 14: far away from me, you know, maybe three meters away. 256 00:10:58,973 --> 00:11:01,012 Speaker 14: And New Yorkers, you know, they just get in their 257 00:11:01,093 --> 00:11:04,333 Speaker 14: zone and maybe don't make eye contact and they whereas 258 00:11:04,372 --> 00:11:08,053 Speaker 14: you know, that's not our culture really, So I don't 259 00:11:08,173 --> 00:11:11,093 Speaker 14: I don't believe anybody did. But I think, you know, 260 00:11:11,173 --> 00:11:13,493 Speaker 14: as soon as I said something, was like, oh God, 261 00:11:13,533 --> 00:11:14,372 Speaker 14: what's going on here? 262 00:11:14,453 --> 00:11:17,893 Speaker 5: You know, Now, Marian got a possibly unanswerable question here, 263 00:11:17,933 --> 00:11:21,853 Speaker 5: But do you think if the train had been just 264 00:11:22,053 --> 00:11:24,933 Speaker 5: you and the two people on there. Do you think 265 00:11:24,933 --> 00:11:26,693 Speaker 5: you would have reacted in the same way. 266 00:11:28,132 --> 00:11:29,372 Speaker 11: Well, I'd like to think I would. 267 00:11:30,053 --> 00:11:32,093 Speaker 14: Yeah, did you like to think I would? 268 00:11:32,132 --> 00:11:34,533 Speaker 5: I mean, I'm not answering you because you've already done 269 00:11:34,573 --> 00:11:38,772 Speaker 5: something really brave asking but that would become really really 270 00:11:39,653 --> 00:11:40,973 Speaker 5: really really testing, wouldn't it. 271 00:11:41,012 --> 00:11:41,252 Speaker 11: Yeah? 272 00:11:41,653 --> 00:11:44,653 Speaker 3: Did you think about if I say something here, I 273 00:11:44,773 --> 00:11:46,573 Speaker 3: could get hurt, this guy could come at me. Or 274 00:11:46,573 --> 00:11:48,093 Speaker 3: you didn't even think about it. You just saw this 275 00:11:48,132 --> 00:11:50,893 Speaker 3: woman getting hat and thinking I'm going to yell here 276 00:11:50,933 --> 00:11:51,772 Speaker 3: because this isn't right. 277 00:11:52,012 --> 00:11:54,012 Speaker 5: Yeah, well, Marian, you're a good person. 278 00:11:54,053 --> 00:11:55,132 Speaker 14: I didn't even think about it. 279 00:11:55,333 --> 00:11:56,973 Speaker 6: Yeah, you're a good person, very brave. 280 00:11:57,573 --> 00:11:59,413 Speaker 3: Oh eight hundred and eighty ten eighty is the number 281 00:11:59,453 --> 00:12:01,333 Speaker 3: to cool love to hear from you if you've been 282 00:12:01,372 --> 00:12:04,413 Speaker 3: in a situation where you have intervened, or if you've 283 00:12:04,453 --> 00:12:06,973 Speaker 3: been in a situation where you thought, no, I cannot 284 00:12:06,973 --> 00:12:09,892 Speaker 3: intervene here because there's no nobody else around and they 285 00:12:09,892 --> 00:12:11,973 Speaker 3: could sit on me. Oh, eight hundred and eighty ten 286 00:12:12,012 --> 00:12:14,573 Speaker 3: eighty is number to call quick takes to the break. 287 00:12:14,773 --> 00:12:17,573 Speaker 3: I wouldn't get involved. Police are more likely to charge 288 00:12:17,573 --> 00:12:20,053 Speaker 3: me than the criminal if I get involved. 289 00:12:21,453 --> 00:12:23,773 Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know if that's the case in 290 00:12:23,773 --> 00:12:26,173 Speaker 5: New Zealand. It's definitely that some of that stuff'sppened in 291 00:12:26,173 --> 00:12:30,133 Speaker 5: America lately. But yeah, I mean, if you're going to 292 00:12:30,132 --> 00:12:32,213 Speaker 5: get involved and do the right thing, are you worrying 293 00:12:32,213 --> 00:12:34,013 Speaker 5: about the consequences for yourself? 294 00:12:34,333 --> 00:12:34,533 Speaker 16: Yeah? 295 00:12:34,573 --> 00:12:36,052 Speaker 6: I guess that's what bravery is, isn't it. 296 00:12:36,173 --> 00:12:36,373 Speaker 9: Yeah? 297 00:12:36,413 --> 00:12:39,853 Speaker 3: Absolutely, It is twenty past one. You're listening to Matt 298 00:12:39,852 --> 00:12:40,573 Speaker 3: and Tyler. 299 00:12:41,053 --> 00:12:43,933 Speaker 1: Putting the tough questions to the news speakers, the mike 300 00:12:44,053 --> 00:12:44,933 Speaker 1: asking breakfast. 301 00:12:44,973 --> 00:12:47,813 Speaker 17: It's an alarming, if not shocking figures around our public 302 00:12:47,852 --> 00:12:50,453 Speaker 17: transport in Auckland. We now know they are dealing with 303 00:12:50,492 --> 00:12:52,613 Speaker 17: more than ninety three incidents a week in terms of 304 00:12:52,612 --> 00:12:54,493 Speaker 17: security issues. What's been done about this is the mirror 305 00:12:54,492 --> 00:12:56,293 Speaker 17: of Auckland is Wayne Brown of course as well. 306 00:12:56,173 --> 00:12:59,333 Speaker 18: As it's probably a reflection of society unfortunately. Or in 307 00:12:59,372 --> 00:13:01,533 Speaker 18: the Pavia yesterday, there's shocking numbers of the kids who 308 00:13:01,533 --> 00:13:04,293 Speaker 18: aren't going know of them are going to be tradesmen 309 00:13:04,372 --> 00:13:06,933 Speaker 18: or doctors. Let's writing as well, So there is an 310 00:13:07,012 --> 00:13:10,333 Speaker 18: issue right across the hard society. Transport is reflecting that 311 00:13:10,612 --> 00:13:13,412 Speaker 18: they want to draw. That's an increasing their percentage of 312 00:13:13,453 --> 00:13:15,973 Speaker 18: people on kitchen transport, which is good that more people 313 00:13:15,973 --> 00:13:17,813 Speaker 18: are getting on buses, but more of the wrong people 314 00:13:17,852 --> 00:13:19,213 Speaker 18: as well as the right people as well. 315 00:13:19,252 --> 00:13:22,853 Speaker 17: Obviously, back tomorrow at six am the Mike Hosking Breakfast 316 00:13:22,852 --> 00:13:25,172 Speaker 17: with Bayley's Real Estate News Talk z B. 317 00:13:25,573 --> 00:13:28,093 Speaker 3: Very good afternoons. You it's twenty three past one, and 318 00:13:28,132 --> 00:13:30,613 Speaker 3: that's what we're talking about right now, the problems on 319 00:13:30,732 --> 00:13:34,213 Speaker 3: public transport and safety. Mayor Wayne Brown has suggested more 320 00:13:34,293 --> 00:13:38,053 Speaker 3: cops on buses, but we are asking the question about 321 00:13:38,053 --> 00:13:41,373 Speaker 3: community intervention. Whether you've been in a situation, not just 322 00:13:41,453 --> 00:13:45,293 Speaker 3: on public transport, but anywhere where you've seen untoward behavior, 323 00:13:45,372 --> 00:13:47,813 Speaker 3: did you step in? Would you step in? Considering the 324 00:13:47,892 --> 00:13:48,973 Speaker 3: dangers that we face now. 325 00:13:48,892 --> 00:13:49,653 Speaker 6: Should you step in? 326 00:13:49,732 --> 00:13:51,732 Speaker 3: Should you step in? Steve? What do you reckon? 327 00:13:52,933 --> 00:13:53,133 Speaker 11: Hey? 328 00:13:53,213 --> 00:13:56,053 Speaker 12: Guys? Yeah, this one's quite close to home because I 329 00:13:56,093 --> 00:13:59,413 Speaker 12: was just requently over in Sydney of Australia walking through 330 00:13:59,453 --> 00:14:03,013 Speaker 12: it all in the downtown city there, and I saw 331 00:14:03,372 --> 00:14:07,012 Speaker 12: three guys who I describe as I guess sha is 332 00:14:07,012 --> 00:14:10,852 Speaker 12: probably the word the dos know what that is? Bailing 333 00:14:10,933 --> 00:14:14,612 Speaker 12: up two young guys do two young well dressed kids 334 00:14:14,612 --> 00:14:17,613 Speaker 12: really in the walkway towards the toilet, and I walked 335 00:14:17,612 --> 00:14:19,693 Speaker 12: past and went, all, this just doesn't look right. I 336 00:14:19,733 --> 00:14:21,172 Speaker 12: said my wife, I'm just going to back peter a 337 00:14:21,213 --> 00:14:23,053 Speaker 12: little bit here. She gave me a weird look because 338 00:14:23,093 --> 00:14:25,173 Speaker 12: she doesn't like that sort of stuff. But I backed 339 00:14:25,213 --> 00:14:26,453 Speaker 12: it a little bit and I just stood there and 340 00:14:26,493 --> 00:14:29,333 Speaker 12: I just watched and watched the situation. Then they saw me, 341 00:14:29,373 --> 00:14:31,453 Speaker 12: and I just stood there. I just kept staring at them. 342 00:14:31,933 --> 00:14:34,573 Speaker 12: These kids were looking terrified. And then the three guys 343 00:14:34,733 --> 00:14:36,613 Speaker 12: walked away and left them. So I went upstair to 344 00:14:36,613 --> 00:14:41,133 Speaker 12: the guys. He goes the right, excuse me, and then 345 00:14:41,173 --> 00:14:43,333 Speaker 12: they explained to me, yeah, look, hey, I don't know 346 00:14:43,333 --> 00:14:44,693 Speaker 12: who they are or what was going on there. And 347 00:14:44,773 --> 00:14:46,893 Speaker 12: then they said, I don't worry, and then they ran off. 348 00:14:47,693 --> 00:14:49,493 Speaker 12: Wow got the better of me and may and I'm 349 00:14:49,493 --> 00:14:53,093 Speaker 12: described probably as either a gentle giant or a scary 350 00:14:53,133 --> 00:14:56,173 Speaker 12: looking dude, one or the other, depending on who's talking 351 00:14:56,173 --> 00:14:57,853 Speaker 12: to me. So I thought, you know what, I'm just 352 00:14:57,853 --> 00:14:59,453 Speaker 12: going to follow these guys out here, and my wife's 353 00:14:59,453 --> 00:15:01,213 Speaker 12: telling me not to. I'm like, nah, no, no, no no. 354 00:15:01,653 --> 00:15:03,373 Speaker 12: So I went up to them and just in the street, 355 00:15:03,413 --> 00:15:05,613 Speaker 12: and I said, hey, guys, what's going on there? They said, 356 00:15:05,613 --> 00:15:06,893 Speaker 12: what do you mean? I said, well, what was that 357 00:15:06,973 --> 00:15:09,133 Speaker 12: all about? Why are you bad? Those kids up in 358 00:15:09,133 --> 00:15:11,573 Speaker 12: the toilet and just walking around the mall boiling people up, 359 00:15:12,053 --> 00:15:13,453 Speaker 12: And he goes, oh, I've just got beef with them. 360 00:15:13,493 --> 00:15:15,733 Speaker 12: I said, what sort of whatever beef you've got, keep 361 00:15:15,733 --> 00:15:17,893 Speaker 12: it out of the public. Then as little mate just 362 00:15:17,893 --> 00:15:19,573 Speaker 12: turns around and goes, yeah, just stay out of it. 363 00:15:20,013 --> 00:15:21,893 Speaker 12: So I turned out to mate, I'm the last person 364 00:15:21,933 --> 00:15:24,173 Speaker 12: you want to mess with boys and the space being white, 365 00:15:24,173 --> 00:15:27,052 Speaker 12: and they ran off right, and anyway, I go back. 366 00:15:27,093 --> 00:15:28,813 Speaker 12: My wife's a bit scared and no way back in. 367 00:15:28,853 --> 00:15:30,532 Speaker 12: And then as I'm walking out the door, another guy 368 00:15:30,533 --> 00:15:32,253 Speaker 12: comes up and goes, oh, well done there, mate, I 369 00:15:32,413 --> 00:15:34,013 Speaker 12: was watching from the other side. He goes, not many 370 00:15:34,053 --> 00:15:36,653 Speaker 12: people would stop, and it actually intervene in a situation 371 00:15:36,733 --> 00:15:39,013 Speaker 12: like that. He had caught up with the boys as 372 00:15:39,053 --> 00:15:40,453 Speaker 12: they ran through the mall and they were boiling their 373 00:15:40,493 --> 00:15:42,533 Speaker 12: eyes out. These guys would just walk around the mall 374 00:15:42,573 --> 00:15:47,253 Speaker 12: trying to rob people, right, wow, and yeah, just something 375 00:15:47,253 --> 00:15:49,453 Speaker 12: about the situation didn't look right and just made me go, 376 00:15:49,813 --> 00:15:51,773 Speaker 12: that just doesn't look like a right scene to me. Right, 377 00:15:52,173 --> 00:15:53,893 Speaker 12: five people and three of them don't look like the 378 00:15:53,893 --> 00:15:54,293 Speaker 12: other two. 379 00:15:54,653 --> 00:15:57,333 Speaker 5: Yeah, so Stevie, you're you say you're a big guy, 380 00:15:57,373 --> 00:16:01,813 Speaker 5: a gentle giant, scary looking guy. Potentially, do you also 381 00:16:02,253 --> 00:16:05,493 Speaker 5: have the skills if things went down? Would you back 382 00:16:05,533 --> 00:16:06,973 Speaker 5: yourself if things that escalated? 383 00:16:07,933 --> 00:16:09,693 Speaker 12: I would, But it's still done right. They could be 384 00:16:09,693 --> 00:16:11,933 Speaker 12: carrying anything, they can have anything on So you know 385 00:16:11,973 --> 00:16:13,412 Speaker 12: my wife. That was where my wife was that she's 386 00:16:13,413 --> 00:16:15,532 Speaker 12: an emergency nurse and she goes, look that that can 387 00:16:15,613 --> 00:16:17,292 Speaker 12: go wrong so quickly. 388 00:16:17,653 --> 00:16:20,413 Speaker 3: Yeah, did it go through your head, Steve, It's interesting 389 00:16:20,453 --> 00:16:22,773 Speaker 3: you mentioned your wife was with you. Did that come 390 00:16:22,813 --> 00:16:26,213 Speaker 3: into the consideration that if you step in that because 391 00:16:26,253 --> 00:16:29,052 Speaker 3: you've got your wife with you, that she may come 392 00:16:29,093 --> 00:16:30,213 Speaker 3: in the crossfire as well. 393 00:16:31,253 --> 00:16:34,653 Speaker 12: We'll tell you what. She's a scary woman. I wouldn't 394 00:16:34,693 --> 00:16:39,173 Speaker 12: met with. But you're right, I kept through a distance, right, 395 00:16:39,213 --> 00:16:41,013 Speaker 12: I kept through when I walked out to tape and 396 00:16:41,093 --> 00:16:42,613 Speaker 12: I left her in the more I wouldn't. I wouldn't 397 00:16:42,653 --> 00:16:45,373 Speaker 12: drag her into that situation. But she she had been 398 00:16:45,413 --> 00:16:48,052 Speaker 12: an emergency nurse. She had seen some bad situations right, 399 00:16:48,213 --> 00:16:50,573 Speaker 12: So to her it was like, wow, I've seen it 400 00:16:50,613 --> 00:16:52,813 Speaker 12: all go bad so quickly. But also I felt for 401 00:16:52,853 --> 00:16:54,893 Speaker 12: these two young kids who were just getting bailed up. Yeah, 402 00:16:55,013 --> 00:16:56,453 Speaker 12: you know they're out them all for a good time 403 00:16:56,493 --> 00:16:58,573 Speaker 12: with their mates, and next minute they've got these three 404 00:16:58,613 --> 00:17:01,333 Speaker 12: little scumbags, you know, pushing them up for their money 405 00:17:01,333 --> 00:17:01,853 Speaker 12: and whatnot. 406 00:17:01,933 --> 00:17:03,853 Speaker 5: So were you good men, Steve that we need to 407 00:17:03,893 --> 00:17:07,532 Speaker 5: steve on every corner? Yeah, those boys were lucky they 408 00:17:07,573 --> 00:17:08,332 Speaker 5: had a Steve around. 409 00:17:08,773 --> 00:17:10,613 Speaker 3: What are you doing? What are you doing today' Steve? 410 00:17:10,653 --> 00:17:13,173 Speaker 3: Do you want to jump on some buses? Maame meya? 411 00:17:13,173 --> 00:17:15,733 Speaker 3: Wayne Brown will be happy. 412 00:17:16,053 --> 00:17:17,253 Speaker 12: Yeah, well if he wants to reduce my. 413 00:17:17,293 --> 00:17:21,293 Speaker 3: Rate for be happy, good man, Hugh, how are you. 414 00:17:22,613 --> 00:17:23,693 Speaker 19: D just let me pull over? 415 00:17:24,093 --> 00:17:25,933 Speaker 5: Okay, we'll let you pull over. Safety first. 416 00:17:26,013 --> 00:17:27,733 Speaker 20: You how you doing? 417 00:17:28,053 --> 00:17:28,253 Speaker 3: Yeah? 418 00:17:28,253 --> 00:17:28,573 Speaker 6: We good? 419 00:17:28,573 --> 00:17:30,173 Speaker 5: How are you good? 420 00:17:30,253 --> 00:17:32,613 Speaker 21: So I intervened and it went the other bloody away. 421 00:17:33,533 --> 00:17:36,733 Speaker 21: This would be few years back in Saturday night at 422 00:17:36,733 --> 00:17:39,573 Speaker 21: eleven o'clock, my wife calls me in a about a 423 00:17:39,653 --> 00:17:43,573 Speaker 21: sixteen year old boys getting a beating from an adult skinhead, 424 00:17:44,373 --> 00:17:49,133 Speaker 21: this weirdy looking, nasty looking skin head, and he was 425 00:17:49,173 --> 00:17:51,293 Speaker 21: playing with him. He was bouncing back with them forwards 426 00:17:51,293 --> 00:17:55,173 Speaker 21: and beating this kid. So I grabbed a baseball bat 427 00:17:55,213 --> 00:17:58,053 Speaker 21: and ran outside, get out and confront. That's going to 428 00:17:58,093 --> 00:18:02,253 Speaker 21: get between him and the kid and go just go away, sorry, 429 00:18:03,573 --> 00:18:05,853 Speaker 21: And he goes, oh, you're a tough guy with a 430 00:18:05,893 --> 00:18:11,053 Speaker 21: baseball bat, and somewhat unwisely, I went rarely put my 431 00:18:11,093 --> 00:18:13,453 Speaker 21: baseball bat down behind me and went here about now, 432 00:18:15,293 --> 00:18:18,173 Speaker 21: and I didn't see that he had two mates in 433 00:18:18,213 --> 00:18:21,853 Speaker 21: his car, went around behind me, picked up the baseball bat, 434 00:18:22,533 --> 00:18:24,893 Speaker 21: hit me in the head so far hard it tipped 435 00:18:24,933 --> 00:18:26,893 Speaker 21: me over a fence and broke both my upper and 436 00:18:26,933 --> 00:18:28,253 Speaker 21: lower jawsh. 437 00:18:27,773 --> 00:18:33,493 Speaker 5: Oh, gosh, wow you and what you know? Were you 438 00:18:33,613 --> 00:18:35,052 Speaker 5: left alone at that point? 439 00:18:36,493 --> 00:18:39,213 Speaker 21: Yeah, skinheads took off because they were in trouble. Yep, 440 00:18:41,053 --> 00:18:43,013 Speaker 21: it turned out there was another boy with someone that 441 00:18:43,533 --> 00:18:46,333 Speaker 21: was being beat up. They got me into my wife 442 00:18:46,333 --> 00:18:50,493 Speaker 21: and then they took off. Wow, And yeah, I got 443 00:18:50,613 --> 00:18:53,493 Speaker 21: carted off to hospital. Cops came and blah blah blah. 444 00:18:53,493 --> 00:18:54,573 Speaker 21: Cops went very interested. 445 00:18:55,373 --> 00:18:59,133 Speaker 5: Well that's that's really really horrible. And you know, boy, boy, 446 00:18:59,413 --> 00:19:02,653 Speaker 5: what a what a full on situation. I mean, you 447 00:19:02,773 --> 00:19:05,413 Speaker 5: saved the day by the sounds of things because the 448 00:19:05,413 --> 00:19:08,133 Speaker 5: skinheads went off, but you definitely didn't save yourself. 449 00:19:09,653 --> 00:19:12,653 Speaker 21: No, And I ended up with a long term brain injury, 450 00:19:14,173 --> 00:19:16,292 Speaker 21: not a real serious one. That it affected the way 451 00:19:16,333 --> 00:19:17,213 Speaker 21: I run my business. 452 00:19:18,653 --> 00:19:21,973 Speaker 3: So going going sorry to you, going forward if you 453 00:19:22,333 --> 00:19:24,733 Speaker 3: had your time again and so sorry what happened to you? 454 00:19:24,733 --> 00:19:26,933 Speaker 3: You know, it's clearly not right, and I hope those 455 00:19:26,973 --> 00:19:30,133 Speaker 3: scumbags were caught and the book was thrown at them. 456 00:19:30,133 --> 00:19:34,613 Speaker 3: But looking back, would you intervene again? Well, clearly not. 457 00:19:34,813 --> 00:19:37,893 Speaker 3: But I suppose that's the point that's too dangerous. 458 00:19:38,813 --> 00:19:41,333 Speaker 21: I would do it differently. I would bring the police 459 00:19:41,533 --> 00:19:44,173 Speaker 21: and go out and yell at them from the two 460 00:19:44,253 --> 00:19:46,733 Speaker 21: of the distance away. But yes, I would definitely intervene, 461 00:19:46,733 --> 00:19:48,253 Speaker 21: because what happens if we don't y. 462 00:19:48,693 --> 00:19:49,893 Speaker 6: Yeah, well that's the thing. 463 00:19:50,013 --> 00:19:51,693 Speaker 5: So so you think if you went back, it was 464 00:19:51,733 --> 00:19:56,533 Speaker 5: the going out with the baseball bat that on the. 465 00:19:56,493 --> 00:20:06,053 Speaker 21: Ground that was there. I actually I shouldn't have taken 466 00:20:06,053 --> 00:20:07,933 Speaker 21: a weapon with me. I didn't even think about it. 467 00:20:08,013 --> 00:20:09,893 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, but I mean yeah, I mean you shouldn't, 468 00:20:09,933 --> 00:20:12,213 Speaker 5: should have, could have would What you did was a 469 00:20:12,213 --> 00:20:15,773 Speaker 5: brave and honorable thing that turned on you, and so 470 00:20:16,373 --> 00:20:18,773 Speaker 5: you don't need to question what you did there. But 471 00:20:19,373 --> 00:20:21,493 Speaker 5: and I know they says that that's the thing. 472 00:20:21,533 --> 00:20:22,933 Speaker 6: I mean, sorry you said you go toime. 473 00:20:23,093 --> 00:20:24,573 Speaker 3: I was just going to say, that's what the police 474 00:20:24,573 --> 00:20:26,653 Speaker 3: would say is that you don't use a weapon, because 475 00:20:26,693 --> 00:20:28,893 Speaker 3: more times than not they take it off you the 476 00:20:28,933 --> 00:20:31,133 Speaker 3: offender and use it against you. But that wouldn't stop 477 00:20:31,173 --> 00:20:33,613 Speaker 3: me from taking a weapon in those situations. It just wouldn't. 478 00:20:33,813 --> 00:20:36,373 Speaker 3: You've got to have something to try and back yourself up. 479 00:20:36,653 --> 00:20:38,613 Speaker 3: But I mean, it's terrible what happened to you, Hugh. 480 00:20:38,813 --> 00:20:41,173 Speaker 3: And you're right, you know, going going. If you had 481 00:20:41,173 --> 00:20:43,973 Speaker 3: your time again, you'd ring the cops. But when you're 482 00:20:43,973 --> 00:20:47,532 Speaker 3: in that scenario there, yeah, yeah, I mean there's a 483 00:20:47,573 --> 00:20:50,293 Speaker 3: text that's come through for you, Hue. It says, Hue, mates, 484 00:20:50,573 --> 00:20:52,773 Speaker 3: there aren't many people like you left. You're a damn 485 00:20:52,813 --> 00:20:54,693 Speaker 3: good human. Sorry to hear what happened to you, Bud. 486 00:20:55,933 --> 00:20:56,373 Speaker 11: That's cool. 487 00:20:56,893 --> 00:20:58,453 Speaker 6: Well, thanks for sharing its story, Hugh. 488 00:20:58,613 --> 00:21:02,013 Speaker 5: And I hope your health issues are okay after doing that. 489 00:21:02,053 --> 00:21:04,253 Speaker 5: I mean, that's the thing that everyone's fearful of, isn't it. 490 00:21:04,573 --> 00:21:07,853 Speaker 5: If they do intervene, then they become the victim. 491 00:21:08,053 --> 00:21:11,093 Speaker 3: Yeah, have you got a you got a weapon by 492 00:21:11,093 --> 00:21:16,813 Speaker 3: your bet? I should rephrase that, have you got something 493 00:21:16,853 --> 00:21:19,052 Speaker 3: by your bed that you can use if someone breaks 494 00:21:19,053 --> 00:21:19,933 Speaker 3: into your house? 495 00:21:20,013 --> 00:21:20,693 Speaker 6: I'm juvenile? 496 00:21:22,133 --> 00:21:25,453 Speaker 5: No, No, I don't but I do have a baseball 497 00:21:25,453 --> 00:21:26,773 Speaker 5: bat by the door and a cricket bat by the 498 00:21:26,813 --> 00:21:28,893 Speaker 5: other door. I do, and I've never used them, but 499 00:21:28,973 --> 00:21:32,573 Speaker 5: I do have them there because I've never had to 500 00:21:32,693 --> 00:21:34,453 Speaker 5: use them. But for some reason, i just think that 501 00:21:34,493 --> 00:21:36,773 Speaker 5: maybe I might have to use them. I've got, you know, 502 00:21:36,853 --> 00:21:40,573 Speaker 5: kids upstairs, and I've thought about the situation where someone's 503 00:21:40,573 --> 00:21:41,933 Speaker 5: just trying to get in and you have to have 504 00:21:41,973 --> 00:21:46,733 Speaker 5: to do something. I mean, I've seen defense videos before 505 00:21:46,733 --> 00:21:49,613 Speaker 5: where they say you should have something a long stick. 506 00:21:49,853 --> 00:21:51,053 Speaker 5: This is what they say they do if someone comes 507 00:21:51,093 --> 00:21:53,293 Speaker 5: into your house. It's a bit different when you're outside, 508 00:21:53,333 --> 00:21:56,133 Speaker 5: but that you should have a long stick or whatever 509 00:21:56,133 --> 00:21:57,573 Speaker 5: it is, but it should have a handle that you 510 00:21:57,613 --> 00:21:58,973 Speaker 5: hold on to it so it's around your hand or 511 00:21:59,013 --> 00:22:00,693 Speaker 5: so it can't be pulled off you and you just 512 00:22:00,773 --> 00:22:02,733 Speaker 5: y'll get out, get out, get out, get out, get out, 513 00:22:02,733 --> 00:22:04,373 Speaker 5: get out, get out, and give them an opportunity to 514 00:22:04,373 --> 00:22:07,653 Speaker 5: get out. But I mean that's a different situation when 515 00:22:07,653 --> 00:22:09,093 Speaker 5: they're on the on the street. 516 00:22:09,293 --> 00:22:09,733 Speaker 12: Yeah. 517 00:22:09,813 --> 00:22:10,093 Speaker 6: Yeah. 518 00:22:10,373 --> 00:22:10,533 Speaker 14: Oh. 519 00:22:10,573 --> 00:22:12,253 Speaker 3: One hundred and eighty ten eighty is the number to 520 00:22:12,293 --> 00:22:13,933 Speaker 3: call love to hear from you of you have been 521 00:22:13,973 --> 00:22:17,133 Speaker 3: in a situation where you have intervened and it either 522 00:22:17,173 --> 00:22:19,573 Speaker 3: worked out or like poor old you didn't work out 523 00:22:19,653 --> 00:22:22,453 Speaker 3: so well, or indeed that you decided to call the 524 00:22:22,453 --> 00:22:24,733 Speaker 3: police and they showed up and did what they needed 525 00:22:24,733 --> 00:22:24,973 Speaker 3: to do. 526 00:22:25,053 --> 00:22:27,573 Speaker 5: We've got a text here from Mark Cure a team 527 00:22:27,813 --> 00:22:30,773 Speaker 5: as a former police officer self defense instructor, calling the 528 00:22:30,773 --> 00:22:33,973 Speaker 5: police should be the first priority. If you fear a 529 00:22:34,053 --> 00:22:36,813 Speaker 5: grievous bodily harm or death and you're a confident in 530 00:22:36,853 --> 00:22:39,573 Speaker 5: handling the scenario, snapper step in. You will only be 531 00:22:39,653 --> 00:22:42,733 Speaker 5: charged if you use excessive force. Use force. Using force 532 00:22:42,813 --> 00:22:46,653 Speaker 5: should be the last resource resort. But those scenarios can 533 00:22:46,693 --> 00:22:48,773 Speaker 5: go so bad, so quick. That's from Mark. Thank good 534 00:22:48,773 --> 00:22:48,973 Speaker 5: for that. 535 00:22:49,093 --> 00:22:52,933 Speaker 3: Yeah, good text. It is twenty eight to two. 536 00:22:53,733 --> 00:22:54,333 Speaker 8: US talks. 537 00:22:54,333 --> 00:22:57,893 Speaker 22: It'd be headlines with blue bubble taxis. It's no trouble 538 00:22:57,933 --> 00:23:01,173 Speaker 22: with a blue bubble. The Mental Health Foundation says Mike 539 00:23:01,253 --> 00:23:03,893 Speaker 22: King's heart is in the right place, but he is 540 00:23:03,933 --> 00:23:07,053 Speaker 22: wrong to say alcohol could be a solution to mental health. 541 00:23:07,413 --> 00:23:11,053 Speaker 22: It says people sell medicate by drinking, but our society 542 00:23:11,133 --> 00:23:15,613 Speaker 22: needs better solutions. Serious injuries are likely after a two 543 00:23:15,733 --> 00:23:18,653 Speaker 22: vehicle crash in Bay of Plentius or Fata this morning 544 00:23:18,693 --> 00:23:22,893 Speaker 22: on Vaughan Road. Hawk's Bay Police are investigating a flurry 545 00:23:22,893 --> 00:23:25,773 Speaker 22: of incidents in the past twenty four hours. Shots were 546 00:23:25,773 --> 00:23:28,813 Speaker 22: fired at three houses in Flaxmire and Palmettea, and the 547 00:23:28,853 --> 00:23:32,013 Speaker 22: fight broke out in a hurri between two groups armed 548 00:23:32,013 --> 00:23:36,693 Speaker 22: with baseball bats and other weapons. Consumer and Zed's asking 549 00:23:36,733 --> 00:23:40,133 Speaker 22: for a Commerce Commission study on aviation to address air 550 00:23:40,133 --> 00:23:44,453 Speaker 22: New Zealand's hold on domestic services with high fears affecting 551 00:23:44,493 --> 00:23:48,893 Speaker 22: the regions. New Zealand's first one stop youth shop has 552 00:23:48,933 --> 00:23:52,093 Speaker 22: opened its first stage in christ Church, providing wrap around 553 00:23:52,133 --> 00:23:56,532 Speaker 22: services and accommodation labor. MP Jenny Anderson says her party 554 00:23:56,613 --> 00:24:00,013 Speaker 22: hasn't told her off for reposting a rude joke about 555 00:24:00,093 --> 00:24:03,933 Speaker 22: King Charles, but she told the whips what she'd done. 556 00:24:04,053 --> 00:24:08,093 Speaker 22: The New Zealand companies with fair gender representation at the top. 557 00:24:08,453 --> 00:24:11,093 Speaker 22: You can find out more at Ancient Herold Premium. I'm 558 00:24:11,133 --> 00:24:12,693 Speaker 22: back to Matt Heathan Tyler Adams. 559 00:24:12,693 --> 00:24:14,293 Speaker 3: Thank you, Ayleen. It's twenty four to two. 560 00:24:14,773 --> 00:24:17,173 Speaker 6: Yeah, we're talking about intervening in incidence. 561 00:24:17,253 --> 00:24:21,693 Speaker 5: There's a whole heap of concerning incidents happening on public 562 00:24:21,813 --> 00:24:25,453 Speaker 5: transport in Auckland, and you know you only have to 563 00:24:26,653 --> 00:24:29,293 Speaker 5: read the news any day to see terrible things happening around. 564 00:24:29,293 --> 00:24:32,013 Speaker 5: But should you jump in and intervene? I've got a 565 00:24:32,053 --> 00:24:35,213 Speaker 5: question for you. Do you think people are more likely 566 00:24:35,333 --> 00:24:37,973 Speaker 5: to intervene if there's a lot of people around, or 567 00:24:38,013 --> 00:24:40,373 Speaker 5: if there's not very many people around, or if you're 568 00:24:40,413 --> 00:24:43,693 Speaker 5: the only person around? Leading question, Well, straight off the bed, 569 00:24:43,773 --> 00:24:46,013 Speaker 5: I'd say if there's a lot of people around, I 570 00:24:46,013 --> 00:24:47,053 Speaker 5: feel like this is a truck question. 571 00:24:47,093 --> 00:24:49,053 Speaker 3: Probably. I think if there's other people around, then you 572 00:24:49,133 --> 00:24:53,093 Speaker 3: feel a bit more confident to jump in to know 573 00:24:53,093 --> 00:24:55,333 Speaker 3: if it goes sideways, at least you've got Becker. 574 00:24:55,573 --> 00:24:55,733 Speaker 6: Well. 575 00:24:55,733 --> 00:25:00,493 Speaker 5: Oddly, it's called the bystander effect. Studies have found in 576 00:25:00,533 --> 00:25:03,573 Speaker 5: the case of emergency or violent act, when people believe 577 00:25:03,613 --> 00:25:05,693 Speaker 5: there are other people around, that are less likely to 578 00:25:06,173 --> 00:25:08,853 Speaker 5: help a victim because they believe someone else will take 579 00:25:08,973 --> 00:25:13,373 Speaker 5: responsibility or they have plausible deniability for not helping. People 580 00:25:13,413 --> 00:25:16,052 Speaker 5: will also fail to take responsibility for the situation, depending 581 00:25:16,053 --> 00:25:19,093 Speaker 5: on the context, So start is fine. If you're a 582 00:25:19,093 --> 00:25:21,653 Speaker 5: person on your own or with just a couple of people, 583 00:25:21,813 --> 00:25:24,533 Speaker 5: you're more likely to intervene than if you're in a crowd. Interesting, 584 00:25:24,573 --> 00:25:24,853 Speaker 5: isn't it? 585 00:25:24,893 --> 00:25:27,173 Speaker 3: That's very interesting? Greg get a mate. 586 00:25:27,613 --> 00:25:31,213 Speaker 23: You know, boys, what I like to think we would intervene. 587 00:25:32,293 --> 00:25:34,813 Speaker 23: It was probably twenty years ago, the Prendice boil that 588 00:25:34,853 --> 00:25:36,493 Speaker 23: I had just now. One of my really good friends 589 00:25:36,813 --> 00:25:39,573 Speaker 23: he was telling me don't and with the intent of 590 00:25:39,653 --> 00:25:43,453 Speaker 23: a mess and fhetamine. His uncle was equipped to intervene, 591 00:25:43,493 --> 00:25:48,293 Speaker 23: and he tried intervene and got himself killed. Yeah, and 592 00:25:48,373 --> 00:25:49,532 Speaker 23: he was equipped to do it. 593 00:25:50,253 --> 00:25:55,213 Speaker 5: Right, Greg, what do you mean by what specifically do 594 00:25:55,213 --> 00:25:56,333 Speaker 5: you mean by equipped to do it? 595 00:25:56,693 --> 00:25:59,812 Speaker 23: It was a policeman intervene, right, and he still got 596 00:25:59,893 --> 00:26:00,813 Speaker 23: himself killed, right. 597 00:26:00,893 --> 00:26:01,173 Speaker 24: Yeah. 598 00:26:01,213 --> 00:26:05,893 Speaker 23: So Morelton's story is if you suspect someone's on mess in, 599 00:26:06,373 --> 00:26:10,213 Speaker 23: don a divine because they're just bullet present ten feet 600 00:26:10,253 --> 00:26:14,133 Speaker 23: tall and it's very difficult, you know. And so I 601 00:26:14,133 --> 00:26:15,413 Speaker 23: would have thought of that stage when I was a 602 00:26:15,453 --> 00:26:18,413 Speaker 23: lot younger. I would definitely intervened, but not probably not 603 00:26:18,453 --> 00:26:22,733 Speaker 23: so much now, unfortunately, depending on the situation obviously. And 604 00:26:22,773 --> 00:26:25,693 Speaker 23: then you're talking about things at home. I've got a 605 00:26:25,773 --> 00:26:29,413 Speaker 23: candlelabra believe it or not, with four fairly large and 606 00:26:29,413 --> 00:26:31,573 Speaker 23: it's quite heavy, and all I do is keep it 607 00:26:31,613 --> 00:26:35,093 Speaker 23: by the bed with some candles that look then and 608 00:26:35,173 --> 00:26:36,333 Speaker 23: you put it in front of you, and it's like 609 00:26:36,373 --> 00:26:38,773 Speaker 23: a shield because it sticks out about the foot and 610 00:26:38,853 --> 00:26:41,613 Speaker 23: it's very heavy, and I think someone's coming at you 611 00:26:41,693 --> 00:26:43,133 Speaker 23: with the knife. It's got four things out of it. 612 00:26:43,213 --> 00:26:47,053 Speaker 23: It's actually would be quite a good defensive weapon. And 613 00:26:47,133 --> 00:26:49,213 Speaker 23: if you're not allow you're not allowed to arm yourself. 614 00:26:49,253 --> 00:26:51,293 Speaker 23: You know, you're allowed baseball, you get the ones to 615 00:26:51,293 --> 00:26:53,813 Speaker 23: get in trouble. But by having the bent candles sitting 616 00:26:53,853 --> 00:26:55,973 Speaker 23: by the bed, I figure, you know, I can say 617 00:26:56,773 --> 00:26:58,413 Speaker 23: I was just having a nice romantic night. 618 00:26:59,733 --> 00:27:01,253 Speaker 3: Yeah, smart, very smart. 619 00:27:01,453 --> 00:27:04,213 Speaker 5: Yeah. I mean I've seen a few people are methan 620 00:27:04,293 --> 00:27:07,053 Speaker 5: fi to mean fire up and it is terrifying. It's 621 00:27:07,573 --> 00:27:10,013 Speaker 5: like dealing it's not like it's like dealing with the zombie, 622 00:27:11,013 --> 00:27:14,173 Speaker 5: the rage and the terror that they bring to a situation. 623 00:27:14,213 --> 00:27:16,733 Speaker 5: I actually saw on a bus at one point, and 624 00:27:16,773 --> 00:27:19,653 Speaker 5: this I don't know for sure he was messed up, 625 00:27:19,653 --> 00:27:21,533 Speaker 5: but I can that's the only explanation that I can have. 626 00:27:22,333 --> 00:27:24,253 Speaker 5: Just banging on the bus. I wasn't on the bus, 627 00:27:24,293 --> 00:27:25,053 Speaker 5: but banging. 628 00:27:24,733 --> 00:27:25,653 Speaker 6: On the bus. Tried to get in. 629 00:27:25,693 --> 00:27:27,693 Speaker 5: The bus driver shut the doors on him, and he 630 00:27:27,773 --> 00:27:29,133 Speaker 5: was just banging on the bus and the bus. 631 00:27:29,053 --> 00:27:29,773 Speaker 6: Driver drove off. 632 00:27:29,773 --> 00:27:32,133 Speaker 5: This was in Grayland and Auckland and he's still banging 633 00:27:32,133 --> 00:27:34,093 Speaker 5: on the bus and the bus driver hit traffic and 634 00:27:34,133 --> 00:27:38,253 Speaker 5: could get away. It was like a zombie attack. And 635 00:27:39,213 --> 00:27:41,693 Speaker 5: I mean that's very very you certainly can't reason with it. 636 00:27:41,853 --> 00:27:44,013 Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you very much, Greg. But they're not on 637 00:27:44,053 --> 00:27:45,653 Speaker 3: their right mind, though, are they? And I think to 638 00:27:45,693 --> 00:27:49,093 Speaker 3: Greg's point, whether he would step in now, probably not 639 00:27:49,253 --> 00:27:52,013 Speaker 3: when he was a younger man. And I think part 640 00:27:52,053 --> 00:27:54,173 Speaker 3: of his point there is it does feel more dangerous. 641 00:27:54,213 --> 00:27:56,413 Speaker 3: People are more unpredictable because you don't know what sort 642 00:27:56,453 --> 00:27:59,133 Speaker 3: of drugs they are on, what that carrying. Twenty years ago. 643 00:27:59,173 --> 00:28:00,813 Speaker 3: I don't think we had that problem, not to the 644 00:28:00,813 --> 00:28:01,373 Speaker 3: same level. 645 00:28:01,453 --> 00:28:02,893 Speaker 6: But I reckon as well. 646 00:28:02,933 --> 00:28:06,733 Speaker 5: We all think that we all imagine that where Bruce 647 00:28:06,773 --> 00:28:10,733 Speaker 5: Willison die hard and we could step in, Yeah, and 648 00:28:10,973 --> 00:28:13,253 Speaker 5: we kind of imagine in our minds something more than 649 00:28:13,253 --> 00:28:17,253 Speaker 5: we are. And well, I mean, as Mark said, you know, 650 00:28:17,333 --> 00:28:19,292 Speaker 5: the first thing you got to do is called the police. Yeah, 651 00:28:19,333 --> 00:28:23,053 Speaker 5: you know, immediately, and then I don't know, scream from 652 00:28:23,053 --> 00:28:25,533 Speaker 5: our way back. It's tough. It's like one of those 653 00:28:25,533 --> 00:28:27,093 Speaker 5: things that's a complete gray area. 654 00:28:27,293 --> 00:28:28,893 Speaker 6: Yep, there's no right or wrong answer. 655 00:28:29,013 --> 00:28:31,093 Speaker 3: Yeah. O eight one hundred and eighty ten eighty love 656 00:28:31,133 --> 00:28:33,133 Speaker 3: to hear from you on this one. It is twenty 657 00:28:33,213 --> 00:28:35,533 Speaker 3: to two, the. 658 00:28:35,573 --> 00:28:39,533 Speaker 1: Big stories, the big issues, the big trends, and everything 659 00:28:39,533 --> 00:28:43,053 Speaker 1: in between. That Heath and Tyler Adams Afternoons you for 660 00:28:43,133 --> 00:28:44,013 Speaker 1: twenty twenty. 661 00:28:43,773 --> 00:28:46,973 Speaker 3: Four US Talk said, be afternoon, Ken. 662 00:28:47,973 --> 00:28:51,813 Speaker 19: Goodday guys. I heard you're talking about protecting yourself if 663 00:28:51,813 --> 00:28:55,973 Speaker 19: your head an home invader. The best suggestion I've heard 664 00:28:56,613 --> 00:28:59,773 Speaker 19: is a wood saw, just an ordinary handsaw with the 665 00:28:59,813 --> 00:29:01,933 Speaker 19: wooden handle on the end of it, plus the candle 666 00:29:01,973 --> 00:29:05,333 Speaker 19: on the end of it. You could say, I'm doing 667 00:29:05,373 --> 00:29:08,533 Speaker 19: some home renovations and this was just the first thing 668 00:29:08,573 --> 00:29:12,573 Speaker 19: I grabbed to protect myself. Imagine someone kind of grabbed 669 00:29:12,573 --> 00:29:14,533 Speaker 19: that off you if they broke into your home. 670 00:29:14,653 --> 00:29:15,613 Speaker 3: Yeah, it wouldn't go well. 671 00:29:17,293 --> 00:29:19,133 Speaker 5: Because it's got it's got a strong handle that you 672 00:29:19,173 --> 00:29:22,053 Speaker 5: can that you can hold on to, and it's also 673 00:29:22,093 --> 00:29:25,053 Speaker 5: got a horrible serrated edge, and. 674 00:29:25,053 --> 00:29:28,213 Speaker 19: It's not a defensive weapon, ye anything, As you've been 675 00:29:28,213 --> 00:29:31,693 Speaker 19: doing some home renovations and that's what your head's handy. Yeah, 676 00:29:32,893 --> 00:29:35,733 Speaker 19: Fortunately I've never had to use it, and whether I 677 00:29:35,773 --> 00:29:37,813 Speaker 19: ever would, who knows. 678 00:29:38,693 --> 00:29:38,853 Speaker 25: Well. 679 00:29:38,853 --> 00:29:41,253 Speaker 5: What I've heard, Ken, is that the best thing you 680 00:29:41,293 --> 00:29:44,133 Speaker 5: can do if someone comes into your house is tell 681 00:29:44,213 --> 00:29:46,613 Speaker 5: them what to do, because often they've been surprised that 682 00:29:46,653 --> 00:29:50,853 Speaker 5: there's someone in there, or they are in a bad state. 683 00:29:50,613 --> 00:29:52,613 Speaker 6: The drunk, or they're on whatever. 684 00:29:53,373 --> 00:29:55,493 Speaker 5: So saying get out, get out, get out, get out 685 00:29:55,533 --> 00:29:56,933 Speaker 5: the door, get out the door, get out the door, 686 00:29:57,013 --> 00:29:59,853 Speaker 5: just yelling them and giving them an option to get out, 687 00:29:59,893 --> 00:30:02,053 Speaker 5: because they're not thinking very clever, so you might just 688 00:30:02,053 --> 00:30:03,773 Speaker 5: get into the head and they might run out the door. 689 00:30:04,213 --> 00:30:06,613 Speaker 5: Soa a wave a handsaw at them and get them 690 00:30:06,613 --> 00:30:07,053 Speaker 5: out of there. 691 00:30:07,133 --> 00:30:08,013 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's good idea. 692 00:30:08,053 --> 00:30:08,213 Speaker 24: Though. 693 00:30:08,693 --> 00:30:11,373 Speaker 3: A dog also works really well, even if in My 694 00:30:11,453 --> 00:30:13,933 Speaker 3: dog Pepper, beautiful dog. She's not a guard dog, but 695 00:30:14,013 --> 00:30:17,253 Speaker 3: she goes absolutely ballistic and she sounds mean. She's not 696 00:30:17,293 --> 00:30:19,613 Speaker 3: a mean dog. If they ever got close to it, 697 00:30:19,693 --> 00:30:22,093 Speaker 3: she'd run away and leave us for dead. But in 698 00:30:22,133 --> 00:30:24,733 Speaker 3: the moment someone breaks in or get us into the house, 699 00:30:24,733 --> 00:30:26,573 Speaker 3: she doesn't know how she goes crazy. 700 00:30:26,653 --> 00:30:28,653 Speaker 5: Well, there was an incident on my street and I 701 00:30:28,733 --> 00:30:31,333 Speaker 5: went out with to have a lock what was going on, 702 00:30:31,693 --> 00:30:33,773 Speaker 5: to try and be a good Samaritan and see what happened. 703 00:30:33,893 --> 00:30:35,813 Speaker 5: And I went out and I went down the driveway 704 00:30:35,813 --> 00:30:37,253 Speaker 5: and I looked out, and then I looked back. My 705 00:30:37,293 --> 00:30:40,093 Speaker 5: dog Colin, who's a mini snail as a jack Russell cross, 706 00:30:40,173 --> 00:30:42,533 Speaker 5: a little snack. He was standing in the door with 707 00:30:42,573 --> 00:30:44,733 Speaker 5: his head around, peering around the corner at me like 708 00:30:44,773 --> 00:30:45,213 Speaker 5: a coward. 709 00:30:46,813 --> 00:30:47,213 Speaker 3: Edge your back. 710 00:30:47,333 --> 00:30:50,533 Speaker 5: No, it was zero backup. He was more scared than 711 00:30:50,573 --> 00:30:52,333 Speaker 5: I was. Zero backup from Colin. 712 00:30:52,813 --> 00:30:55,413 Speaker 3: Liam, how are you doing all right? 713 00:30:55,533 --> 00:30:55,853 Speaker 26: Thinks? 714 00:30:56,493 --> 00:30:57,733 Speaker 3: What's your thoughts on this one? 715 00:30:58,533 --> 00:31:01,293 Speaker 27: I was just saying, like, well, you were saying, how 716 00:31:01,853 --> 00:31:03,893 Speaker 27: it's sometimes you know, better to do nothing and just 717 00:31:03,933 --> 00:31:07,413 Speaker 27: call the police. But and many times, you know, when 718 00:31:07,413 --> 00:31:09,893 Speaker 27: you really need the it takes a really long time 719 00:31:10,253 --> 00:31:12,173 Speaker 27: to get there, and the amount of time it's going 720 00:31:12,173 --> 00:31:14,253 Speaker 27: to take for them to get there, if something's going on, 721 00:31:14,373 --> 00:31:18,853 Speaker 27: it's going to happen. Yeah, And so yeah, just anything 722 00:31:18,973 --> 00:31:20,853 Speaker 27: like if you've got a mag light or any sort 723 00:31:20,893 --> 00:31:23,733 Speaker 27: of torch, especially if you're in the dark, you've got 724 00:31:23,733 --> 00:31:26,533 Speaker 27: a very good way to blind them, startle them, and 725 00:31:26,573 --> 00:31:29,373 Speaker 27: then like you're saying, commence them to get out of there, 726 00:31:29,693 --> 00:31:33,573 Speaker 27: but you know you also have the that's all always 727 00:31:33,573 --> 00:31:37,133 Speaker 27: a very good viable option, any sort of heavy torch. 728 00:31:37,253 --> 00:31:39,373 Speaker 5: Yeah, Liam, even if the police are going to take 729 00:31:39,373 --> 00:31:41,373 Speaker 5: a while to get there, though, I guess before you 730 00:31:41,453 --> 00:31:44,773 Speaker 5: do anything at all, if you can ring the police 731 00:31:45,653 --> 00:31:47,253 Speaker 5: so the call has been put through. 732 00:31:47,453 --> 00:31:49,093 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, and I think you know, I thank you 733 00:31:49,173 --> 00:31:50,653 Speaker 3: very much for your phone call, Liam, And I know 734 00:31:50,733 --> 00:31:52,933 Speaker 3: people have had their frustrations with the cops in the past, 735 00:31:52,973 --> 00:31:54,613 Speaker 3: but I think the person on the other line at 736 00:31:54,613 --> 00:31:57,413 Speaker 3: the call center, when they can understand the gravity of 737 00:31:57,453 --> 00:31:59,733 Speaker 3: the situation that you're facing and you tell them you 738 00:31:59,773 --> 00:32:01,573 Speaker 3: stay with them the whole time or the police are coming, 739 00:32:01,853 --> 00:32:03,733 Speaker 3: then that starts to escalate it up. And if your 740 00:32:03,773 --> 00:32:05,533 Speaker 3: life is in danger, they will get there. Don't worry 741 00:32:05,573 --> 00:32:05,893 Speaker 3: about that. 742 00:32:06,013 --> 00:32:07,573 Speaker 5: Yeah, And if you're on the phone to the police 743 00:32:07,613 --> 00:32:09,253 Speaker 5: at the same time saying that I'm on the phone 744 00:32:09,253 --> 00:32:11,733 Speaker 5: to the police, that's something. And look, the police may 745 00:32:11,773 --> 00:32:14,053 Speaker 5: take whatever time they take to get there, but it's 746 00:32:14,053 --> 00:32:16,173 Speaker 5: a lot sooner from when you call. So if you 747 00:32:16,213 --> 00:32:17,893 Speaker 5: call sooner, the police will be there sooner. 748 00:32:18,013 --> 00:32:21,373 Speaker 3: Absolutely. It is thirteen minutes to two. You're listening to 749 00:32:21,413 --> 00:32:22,653 Speaker 3: Matt and Tyler. Good afternoon to. 750 00:32:22,613 --> 00:32:29,373 Speaker 1: You, Mattiat Tyler Adams seeking your calls on eight Tyler 751 00:32:29,413 --> 00:32:30,613 Speaker 1: Adams Afternoons. 752 00:32:30,773 --> 00:32:33,053 Speaker 8: News doorgs be news? 753 00:32:33,093 --> 00:32:35,333 Speaker 3: Doorgs? They'd be mark very good to chat to you 754 00:32:35,373 --> 00:32:37,533 Speaker 3: because you're a former police officer, is that right? 755 00:32:39,293 --> 00:32:42,333 Speaker 28: Yes, with the police from two thousand and seven to 756 00:32:42,653 --> 00:32:43,333 Speaker 28: twenty eighteen. 757 00:32:43,613 --> 00:32:46,173 Speaker 3: Great, And so what should people do if they see 758 00:32:46,253 --> 00:32:49,693 Speaker 3: something happening on the street that is untoward or they 759 00:32:49,973 --> 00:32:52,693 Speaker 3: think that somebody might be in danger? What should they 760 00:32:52,693 --> 00:32:53,613 Speaker 3: do in that scenario? 761 00:32:55,253 --> 00:32:57,813 Speaker 28: So again, as you perst for your callers, they've all 762 00:32:58,333 --> 00:33:01,493 Speaker 28: called in and each scenario even though that has been 763 00:33:01,573 --> 00:33:05,773 Speaker 28: quite different, and you know it's time place circumstances. You 764 00:33:05,813 --> 00:33:08,213 Speaker 28: had your caller who was stuck on the subway train. 765 00:33:08,373 --> 00:33:10,373 Speaker 28: You know, if it turns bad, you've. 766 00:33:10,213 --> 00:33:10,813 Speaker 12: Got not to go. 767 00:33:11,293 --> 00:33:13,973 Speaker 28: You know, you're locked in the tube. If you're outside 768 00:33:13,973 --> 00:33:16,613 Speaker 28: of your house, you can retreat to the security of 769 00:33:16,653 --> 00:33:20,733 Speaker 28: your home. So it depends where you are and what 770 00:33:20,893 --> 00:33:24,253 Speaker 28: level of confidence you have in dealing with an aggressive person. 771 00:33:25,013 --> 00:33:27,133 Speaker 28: My advice is, if you're going to make that decision 772 00:33:27,133 --> 00:33:31,453 Speaker 28: to step in, do it from a distance. That first engagement, 773 00:33:31,773 --> 00:33:36,213 Speaker 28: they will kind of respond either aggressively or walk away. 774 00:33:36,293 --> 00:33:38,213 Speaker 28: But you don't want to be standing next to them 775 00:33:38,213 --> 00:33:41,373 Speaker 28: when you engage. Try and use distance. As your friend 776 00:33:41,933 --> 00:33:44,853 Speaker 28: always called police. You know, if it's that bad that 777 00:33:44,933 --> 00:33:47,813 Speaker 28: you need to step in. I would inform police you're 778 00:33:47,853 --> 00:33:50,653 Speaker 28: going to be stepping in that there is a possibility 779 00:33:50,653 --> 00:33:53,693 Speaker 28: of a violent situation that's going to happen. Rather have 780 00:33:53,813 --> 00:33:56,093 Speaker 28: like you've said before, rather have police on their way. 781 00:33:56,613 --> 00:33:59,253 Speaker 28: Then it becomes really bad and now you're trying to 782 00:33:59,293 --> 00:34:02,933 Speaker 28: defend yourself and call police. So is it fear a 783 00:34:02,933 --> 00:34:06,853 Speaker 28: little things? All the smartphones now have a built in 784 00:34:07,013 --> 00:34:10,332 Speaker 28: so fetcher Apple use them so you can go into 785 00:34:10,453 --> 00:34:14,932 Speaker 28: Apple settings and set yours calls up so you don't 786 00:34:14,973 --> 00:34:17,933 Speaker 28: have to unlock your phone and automatically goes through to 787 00:34:18,133 --> 00:34:19,733 Speaker 28: police and it will show your location. 788 00:34:21,693 --> 00:34:22,813 Speaker 3: That's great advice. 789 00:34:23,013 --> 00:34:24,652 Speaker 5: That's a really good thing for everyone to set up 790 00:34:24,693 --> 00:34:26,053 Speaker 5: on their phone so they're just ready to go so 791 00:34:26,093 --> 00:34:28,773 Speaker 5: they're not fumbling around trying to unlock their phone and 792 00:34:29,093 --> 00:34:30,773 Speaker 5: tend it on. When you say that you step in 793 00:34:30,813 --> 00:34:34,733 Speaker 5: from a distance, mark, what would you suggest is the 794 00:34:34,733 --> 00:34:37,813 Speaker 5: first kind of things that you start selling saying or 795 00:34:37,893 --> 00:34:40,652 Speaker 5: yelling from a distance, so. 796 00:34:41,253 --> 00:34:44,973 Speaker 28: Distance a noise is your friends. You know, likes to 797 00:34:45,053 --> 00:34:48,573 Speaker 28: teach self affairs classes. We have a lot of females 798 00:34:48,653 --> 00:34:50,692 Speaker 28: and people walk go quiet. A lot of people can 799 00:34:50,733 --> 00:34:53,933 Speaker 28: go fly when they're going to shock. It's a natural defense. 800 00:34:55,413 --> 00:34:58,573 Speaker 28: But make noise. You never know who's nearby. You never 801 00:34:58,613 --> 00:35:02,093 Speaker 28: know if there's if your early morning jogger or whatever 802 00:35:02,173 --> 00:35:04,693 Speaker 28: out by yourself. Make noise. You don't know who's going 803 00:35:04,733 --> 00:35:09,253 Speaker 28: to hear you. So make noise, bring attention to that person, 804 00:35:10,373 --> 00:35:12,613 Speaker 28: and it helps bring other people's attention who may not 805 00:35:12,693 --> 00:35:16,293 Speaker 28: be aware of what's happening to you and what's happening 806 00:35:16,333 --> 00:35:16,692 Speaker 28: near there. 807 00:35:17,493 --> 00:35:20,213 Speaker 5: So do you describe what's going on? Do you say, 808 00:35:20,293 --> 00:35:24,813 Speaker 5: I'm calling the police? Do you yell them, yell directions 809 00:35:24,853 --> 00:35:26,212 Speaker 5: at them? 810 00:35:26,573 --> 00:35:27,053 Speaker 12: Yeah, I would. 811 00:35:27,093 --> 00:35:28,652 Speaker 28: I would just be yelling how I'm on the phone 812 00:35:28,693 --> 00:35:31,413 Speaker 28: the police. Have your phone in your hand and be 813 00:35:31,453 --> 00:35:33,493 Speaker 28: forming it, have it extra Yes, I'm on the phone 814 00:35:33,573 --> 00:35:33,893 Speaker 28: right now. 815 00:35:34,053 --> 00:35:34,373 Speaker 25: Police. 816 00:35:34,413 --> 00:35:38,533 Speaker 28: They're on their way, they're coming on their way and 817 00:35:38,693 --> 00:35:41,333 Speaker 28: just yelling. Other people say, hey, look what that person's doing. 818 00:35:41,613 --> 00:35:44,973 Speaker 28: What of that person's doing. But again this is right 819 00:35:44,973 --> 00:35:46,773 Speaker 28: because they turned and they want to charge at you. 820 00:35:47,253 --> 00:35:48,813 Speaker 28: Make sure you know where you're going to go. You 821 00:35:48,853 --> 00:35:50,533 Speaker 28: know if your vehicle's near by, and make sure you 822 00:35:50,533 --> 00:35:53,493 Speaker 28: can get into your vehicle or going into a store 823 00:35:53,653 --> 00:35:55,493 Speaker 28: somewhere where you can just have some sort of barrier 824 00:35:55,533 --> 00:35:56,533 Speaker 28: of delay or safety. 825 00:35:56,853 --> 00:36:00,093 Speaker 3: Yeah, brilliant stuff. Great advice. Why did you leave the 826 00:36:00,133 --> 00:36:01,172 Speaker 3: force just quickly, Marke? 827 00:36:03,413 --> 00:36:07,773 Speaker 28: I went into the private sector. Yeah, I was close protection. 828 00:36:08,373 --> 00:36:10,413 Speaker 28: We're bringing your government to the weks of private sector. 829 00:36:10,613 --> 00:36:13,533 Speaker 5: Yeah, well, thank you so much for your expertise, Mark, brilliant, 830 00:36:13,733 --> 00:36:15,533 Speaker 5: brilliant way to finish that discussion. 831 00:36:15,573 --> 00:36:17,493 Speaker 3: It is seven minutes to two. 832 00:36:18,013 --> 00:36:19,893 Speaker 8: Matt Heath and Tyler Adams. 833 00:36:20,213 --> 00:36:22,493 Speaker 5: We'll change tack here a little bit. It is Halloween today. 834 00:36:22,533 --> 00:36:25,732 Speaker 5: I'm a big fan of Halloween's so, and after after 835 00:36:25,773 --> 00:36:27,613 Speaker 5: three we're going to be talking about scary movies and 836 00:36:27,853 --> 00:36:31,133 Speaker 5: how people celebrate Halloween and how people feel about Halloween. 837 00:36:31,733 --> 00:36:35,013 Speaker 5: I love it, and so I have concocted the official 838 00:36:35,213 --> 00:36:39,973 Speaker 5: Matt and Tyler Afternoons on ZB top five Halloween songs, 839 00:36:40,093 --> 00:36:43,813 Speaker 5: Yes You of all Time and at number five, so 840 00:36:44,013 --> 00:36:48,293 Speaker 5: called Killers from nineteen seventy seven. 841 00:36:48,373 --> 00:36:50,053 Speaker 6: Talking here, it's Psycho Killer. What a tune? 842 00:36:50,133 --> 00:36:54,053 Speaker 3: Yeah, very goods a little bit. 843 00:36:54,013 --> 00:37:02,773 Speaker 5: Speaking at number four to Michael Jackson, thriller, although I 844 00:37:02,773 --> 00:37:04,853 Speaker 5: think he meant to sing horror, not thriller. I think 845 00:37:04,893 --> 00:37:06,533 Speaker 5: you've got the word wrong there. It's not really he's 846 00:37:06,533 --> 00:37:09,093 Speaker 5: not really describing a thriller. He's just decribbing a Horror 847 00:37:09,173 --> 00:37:13,613 Speaker 5: with the zombies. Great music video, fantastic music video. Add 848 00:37:13,693 --> 00:37:18,613 Speaker 5: number three, D. 849 00:37:24,333 --> 00:37:25,653 Speaker 6: Add number three. 850 00:37:27,853 --> 00:37:28,413 Speaker 4: There we go. 851 00:37:30,853 --> 00:37:34,292 Speaker 5: A bit of mixing problems there for the DJ number 852 00:37:34,333 --> 00:37:37,413 Speaker 5: three Ghost Basters Ray Packard Junior No. Ninety four from 853 00:37:37,413 --> 00:37:39,533 Speaker 5: the movie When I was a kid, the song used 854 00:37:39,533 --> 00:37:42,733 Speaker 5: to scare me. Yeah, yeah, if it came on a 855 00:37:42,853 --> 00:37:44,733 Speaker 5: night in my room by myself, I'd get quite scared. 856 00:37:44,813 --> 00:37:48,653 Speaker 3: The movie is not that scary as. 857 00:37:47,293 --> 00:37:48,373 Speaker 6: In the library it's scary. 858 00:37:48,453 --> 00:37:57,693 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, okay. At number two from ninety four Zombie 859 00:37:57,693 --> 00:38:00,453 Speaker 5: by the Cranberries terrifying zombies. 860 00:38:00,813 --> 00:38:03,573 Speaker 3: Yeah, nobody likes sombies. Everyone loves the Cranberries. 861 00:38:03,613 --> 00:38:11,893 Speaker 5: That and what will number one be? From nineteen seventy eight. 862 00:38:12,413 --> 00:38:17,133 Speaker 5: Brian Devon Wals of London, Good List, goodlest there are 863 00:38:17,133 --> 00:38:21,733 Speaker 5: your top five, your official top five Halloween. 864 00:38:21,973 --> 00:38:24,453 Speaker 3: That is a great song, isn't it Wherees of London? 865 00:38:24,573 --> 00:38:24,772 Speaker 18: Yeah? 866 00:38:24,853 --> 00:38:26,933 Speaker 6: Yeah, was that before. 867 00:38:26,733 --> 00:38:29,253 Speaker 3: Sweet Home Alabama? The other way around? Did they kind 868 00:38:29,253 --> 00:38:30,893 Speaker 3: of cross at the same time or. 869 00:38:31,053 --> 00:38:32,853 Speaker 5: It's a very common chord progression. 870 00:38:32,853 --> 00:38:34,333 Speaker 6: They're very very similar songs. 871 00:38:34,373 --> 00:38:38,493 Speaker 3: Yeah right, very good And thank you for all your 872 00:38:38,493 --> 00:38:41,573 Speaker 3: phone calls and text on intervention. After two o'clock, we 873 00:38:41,613 --> 00:38:44,133 Speaker 3: are going to talk about gap years. This is a 874 00:38:44,213 --> 00:38:46,933 Speaker 3: growing trend around the world US, UK and here in 875 00:38:46,973 --> 00:38:50,253 Speaker 3: New Zealand. Doll children once they leave school to go 876 00:38:50,293 --> 00:38:50,853 Speaker 3: on a gap year. 877 00:38:50,973 --> 00:38:53,013 Speaker 5: Yeah, and a lot of parents out there will be 878 00:38:53,013 --> 00:38:56,533 Speaker 5: in my situation. Year thirteen is ending this week. They've 879 00:38:56,533 --> 00:38:58,973 Speaker 5: got their exams to do. But my son had his 880 00:38:59,093 --> 00:39:02,413 Speaker 5: last day of school ever on Tuesday and now he's 881 00:39:02,413 --> 00:39:04,613 Speaker 5: heading off into the world. So what do they do? 882 00:39:04,693 --> 00:39:07,133 Speaker 5: Go to tertiary education? But what if they haven't got 883 00:39:07,173 --> 00:39:11,653 Speaker 5: anything decided? They're just doing a pointless, pointless course that'll 884 00:39:11,653 --> 00:39:12,573 Speaker 5: cost them a lot of money. 885 00:39:13,213 --> 00:39:14,172 Speaker 6: Do they take a gap year? 886 00:39:14,253 --> 00:39:15,933 Speaker 3: Are you backing him to take a gap year? I 887 00:39:15,973 --> 00:39:17,893 Speaker 3: mean clearly you're saying, Charlie, whatever you want to do, 888 00:39:17,973 --> 00:39:21,133 Speaker 3: you do. But are you excited that he's eyeing up 889 00:39:21,173 --> 00:39:24,693 Speaker 3: doing a gap year rather than going to TERUSI I think. 890 00:39:24,333 --> 00:39:26,413 Speaker 6: A gap year is a good idea. 891 00:39:26,693 --> 00:39:28,373 Speaker 5: I think it's quite good as long as you do 892 00:39:28,453 --> 00:39:30,693 Speaker 5: something in the gap year. You can't do nothing. You 893 00:39:30,733 --> 00:39:32,652 Speaker 5: can't just sit around on the couch and play video games. 894 00:39:32,653 --> 00:39:34,172 Speaker 6: You've got to get a job. See what it's like 895 00:39:34,213 --> 00:39:34,733 Speaker 6: to work. 896 00:39:34,573 --> 00:39:37,172 Speaker 5: Full time in a minimum wage is a really good 897 00:39:37,173 --> 00:39:40,253 Speaker 5: way to focus your attention in life. 898 00:39:40,653 --> 00:39:42,493 Speaker 6: But I think, yeah, I think a gap year is 899 00:39:42,493 --> 00:39:42,853 Speaker 6: a good thing. 900 00:39:42,853 --> 00:39:45,453 Speaker 5: You've had so many years of school, thirteen years of 901 00:39:45,493 --> 00:39:47,732 Speaker 5: being part of an institution in school, it's not bad 902 00:39:47,773 --> 00:39:50,893 Speaker 5: to just get a little taste of the real world. 903 00:39:51,053 --> 00:39:52,853 Speaker 5: I mean different for different kids, but for some, I 904 00:39:52,893 --> 00:39:53,652 Speaker 5: think it's a great one. 905 00:39:53,773 --> 00:39:56,252 Speaker 3: Oh, eight hundred and eighty ten eighty is the number 906 00:39:56,293 --> 00:39:58,293 Speaker 3: to call. You can also tax through on nine to 907 00:39:58,653 --> 00:40:01,533 Speaker 3: nine to two. If you're a parent, you're encouraging your 908 00:40:01,613 --> 00:40:03,293 Speaker 3: child to take a gap year. Do you feel a 909 00:40:03,373 --> 00:40:05,893 Speaker 3: bit concerned about it? Did you take a gap year? 910 00:40:06,053 --> 00:40:08,732 Speaker 3: Love to hear from you. It is three minutes to do. 911 00:40:09,013 --> 00:40:10,173 Speaker 3: Good afternoon. 912 00:40:11,373 --> 00:40:15,493 Speaker 1: Your new home for insightful and entertaining talk. It's Mattie 913 00:40:15,853 --> 00:40:19,373 Speaker 1: and Tyler Adams afternoons on news Talk Zebby. 914 00:40:20,373 --> 00:40:23,413 Speaker 3: Welcome back into the show. Very good to have your company. 915 00:40:23,493 --> 00:40:25,413 Speaker 3: As always, you're listening to matt and Tyler with you 916 00:40:25,493 --> 00:40:28,173 Speaker 3: until four p m. Gap years. 917 00:40:28,493 --> 00:40:30,613 Speaker 5: Yeah, So a lot of parents will be in my 918 00:40:30,653 --> 00:40:32,453 Speaker 5: position today, and a lot of parents have been in 919 00:40:32,493 --> 00:40:33,893 Speaker 5: the past, and a lot of parents will be there 920 00:40:33,893 --> 00:40:36,333 Speaker 5: in the future. And we've all been in this position. 921 00:40:38,373 --> 00:40:41,213 Speaker 5: Finishing year thirteen or seventh form as well as in 922 00:40:41,253 --> 00:40:45,252 Speaker 5: my time. Yep, yeah, my son finished on Tuesday. He's 923 00:40:45,293 --> 00:40:46,773 Speaker 5: not sure what he wants to do in terms of 924 00:40:46,813 --> 00:40:50,053 Speaker 5: his tertiary education, so he's chosen to take a gap year. 925 00:40:50,053 --> 00:40:53,053 Speaker 5: And I support him, although I wouldn't support him if 926 00:40:53,613 --> 00:40:56,333 Speaker 5: he sat around and did absolutely nothing for a year 927 00:40:56,333 --> 00:41:00,253 Speaker 5: and just played video games. But I think there's there's 928 00:41:00,293 --> 00:41:02,973 Speaker 5: something really, really really good and just getting a sniff 929 00:41:03,013 --> 00:41:04,053 Speaker 5: of what the real world's like. 930 00:41:04,413 --> 00:41:06,373 Speaker 3: Does he know what he wants to do for the 931 00:41:06,413 --> 00:41:07,973 Speaker 3: gap year at this stage. 932 00:41:07,853 --> 00:41:09,693 Speaker 5: I think he's he wants to get a job. He 933 00:41:09,733 --> 00:41:11,253 Speaker 5: wants to get a job. And I've got a nephew 934 00:41:11,253 --> 00:41:14,893 Speaker 5: that went worked in a supermarket for a year for 935 00:41:14,973 --> 00:41:17,133 Speaker 5: his gap year, and he worked in the fruit and 936 00:41:17,133 --> 00:41:18,733 Speaker 5: prodiscce the area. He thought it was good, he met some 937 00:41:18,773 --> 00:41:23,013 Speaker 5: good people, but it really really really motivated him to 938 00:41:23,253 --> 00:41:25,373 Speaker 5: go off and get the degree he eventually got. 939 00:41:25,533 --> 00:41:26,333 Speaker 3: Yeah, did you do it? 940 00:41:26,413 --> 00:41:27,333 Speaker 8: Keep you? No? 941 00:41:28,413 --> 00:41:30,453 Speaker 6: Stupidly, I left universe. 942 00:41:30,533 --> 00:41:32,933 Speaker 5: I left high school, went straight to university and did 943 00:41:33,373 --> 00:41:36,053 Speaker 5: a degree that I've never used of. 944 00:41:36,093 --> 00:41:36,853 Speaker 3: What was the degree? 945 00:41:37,093 --> 00:41:39,413 Speaker 6: I did a degree in anthropology. 946 00:41:38,853 --> 00:41:42,573 Speaker 5: And philosophy, Oh and smart, Yeah, but it was I 947 00:41:42,613 --> 00:41:44,853 Speaker 5: didn't even unwrap it. I didn't turn up to the graduation. 948 00:41:44,973 --> 00:41:46,933 Speaker 5: I didn't even up wrap it until last year, where 949 00:41:46,973 --> 00:41:49,973 Speaker 5: I unwrapped it and put it in a frame and 950 00:41:49,973 --> 00:41:51,933 Speaker 5: put it on the wall as a joke, like making 951 00:41:51,973 --> 00:41:53,813 Speaker 5: the din in my house look like it was a clinic. 952 00:41:53,893 --> 00:41:57,253 Speaker 5: Because you know, you can't make money out of anthropology. Well, 953 00:41:57,293 --> 00:41:59,333 Speaker 5: some people can, but basically it has to be in 954 00:42:00,453 --> 00:42:02,813 Speaker 5: a life, in an education. If you're going to do that, 955 00:42:03,053 --> 00:42:05,773 Speaker 5: you're quite a using it human behavior and then philosophy. 956 00:42:05,893 --> 00:42:08,253 Speaker 5: You know, yeah, use that on a regular basis, don't you. 957 00:42:08,493 --> 00:42:11,053 Speaker 6: Yeah, But I mean, was it worth the student alone? 958 00:42:11,093 --> 00:42:14,373 Speaker 3: I had to probably not. I mean I had a 959 00:42:14,373 --> 00:42:17,693 Speaker 3: lot of friends who went straight from school to university, 960 00:42:17,813 --> 00:42:19,692 Speaker 3: didn't know what they wanted to do, so just did 961 00:42:19,693 --> 00:42:21,692 Speaker 3: a b comb. That was kind of what you did 962 00:42:21,693 --> 00:42:23,093 Speaker 3: if you didn't know what you're going to do. My 963 00:42:23,133 --> 00:42:25,853 Speaker 3: older brother as well, actually did a b comb. Never 964 00:42:26,093 --> 00:42:26,493 Speaker 3: used it. 965 00:42:26,613 --> 00:42:28,493 Speaker 5: No, there are people that I know people that had 966 00:42:28,493 --> 00:42:30,133 Speaker 5: did a b comb and then didn't use it, and 967 00:42:30,173 --> 00:42:32,053 Speaker 5: then it's helped them get into the business world many 968 00:42:32,093 --> 00:42:34,933 Speaker 5: years later when their chosen career that they went for 969 00:42:35,053 --> 00:42:35,533 Speaker 5: fell through. 970 00:42:35,733 --> 00:42:39,333 Speaker 6: Yeah, So I don't know. I don't go running down 971 00:42:39,373 --> 00:42:40,653 Speaker 6: the becomb. It's a great degree. 972 00:42:41,733 --> 00:42:44,053 Speaker 3: Hey I'm not running it down, but for my friends 973 00:42:44,093 --> 00:42:46,013 Speaker 3: and I love them to love them to death. But 974 00:42:46,413 --> 00:42:49,533 Speaker 3: they never really got into you're. 975 00:42:48,653 --> 00:42:50,413 Speaker 5: Saying, if you haven't decided what you're going to do 976 00:42:50,733 --> 00:42:53,172 Speaker 5: in life, you just just do a. 977 00:42:53,093 --> 00:42:56,053 Speaker 3: B com No, no, no, go go do a gap yere, 978 00:42:56,173 --> 00:42:58,013 Speaker 3: don't just don't just sign up to a becomb. I 979 00:42:58,013 --> 00:43:00,093 Speaker 3: think they signed up to becom because it was the 980 00:43:00,133 --> 00:43:03,093 Speaker 3: easiest paper to do at the time. And hey, don't 981 00:43:03,093 --> 00:43:04,933 Speaker 3: get me wrong, they love the Scarfee days that was 982 00:43:04,933 --> 00:43:08,253 Speaker 3: down in the University of a Tago. They absolutely adored 983 00:43:08,413 --> 00:43:08,813 Speaker 3: that year. 984 00:43:09,333 --> 00:43:12,212 Speaker 5: But then a students know how to party. That's fine, 985 00:43:12,533 --> 00:43:14,373 Speaker 5: yea being a person that we into a targer university 986 00:43:14,373 --> 00:43:14,692 Speaker 5: as well. 987 00:43:14,693 --> 00:43:17,053 Speaker 3: But was it worth twenty thousand dollars on this student loan? 988 00:43:17,453 --> 00:43:18,692 Speaker 5: I don't know it was. 989 00:43:19,733 --> 00:43:22,773 Speaker 3: But gap, yeah I did. I left school at sixteen 990 00:43:23,293 --> 00:43:26,453 Speaker 3: and the reason I left at sixteen is because I 991 00:43:26,493 --> 00:43:28,013 Speaker 3: didn't think I was going to get much from my 992 00:43:28,253 --> 00:43:30,293 Speaker 3: seventh form year at the time of the year thirteen now, 993 00:43:31,013 --> 00:43:32,733 Speaker 3: and I didn't really know what I wanted to do. 994 00:43:32,773 --> 00:43:34,213 Speaker 3: But Mum said to me, you've got to do something, 995 00:43:34,213 --> 00:43:37,733 Speaker 3: whether you go into polytech or tertiary education, or I 996 00:43:37,933 --> 00:43:40,773 Speaker 3: go and get a job. And I ended up working 997 00:43:41,293 --> 00:43:43,933 Speaker 3: out Mount Upei. Oh yeah, as a lifting. 998 00:43:43,893 --> 00:43:45,853 Speaker 5: Oh I see, that's the dream, going working on. 999 00:43:45,773 --> 00:43:46,493 Speaker 3: A ski field. 1000 00:43:46,733 --> 00:43:46,933 Speaker 12: Yep. 1001 00:43:47,013 --> 00:43:49,893 Speaker 3: I was seventeen, couldn't get into the bars, which was problematic. 1002 00:43:50,293 --> 00:43:53,933 Speaker 3: Managed to get into a couple. Oh really yeah yeah, 1003 00:43:53,973 --> 00:43:55,773 Speaker 3: but that was a great six years my life. 1004 00:43:55,973 --> 00:43:58,413 Speaker 5: Yeah, six years, six. 1005 00:43:58,253 --> 00:44:00,853 Speaker 3: Months, six months, six months. Yeah, it's a long since. 1006 00:44:00,933 --> 00:44:03,652 Speaker 5: It's a long six months at the at the lift 1007 00:44:03,693 --> 00:44:05,093 Speaker 5: as a long shift. 1008 00:44:05,373 --> 00:44:07,773 Speaker 6: But our gap gap is a good thing. Have you 1009 00:44:07,813 --> 00:44:09,533 Speaker 6: been on a gat year? I think they are. 1010 00:44:09,733 --> 00:44:11,813 Speaker 5: I think I think if you don't know what you do, 1011 00:44:12,293 --> 00:44:14,053 Speaker 5: what you're going to do, and you do plan to 1012 00:44:14,093 --> 00:44:18,613 Speaker 5: do some tertiary education, then that's a fantastic thing to do. 1013 00:44:18,613 --> 00:44:21,292 Speaker 5: Do a gap year, get some space, but you've got 1014 00:44:21,293 --> 00:44:22,172 Speaker 5: to make it a gap year. 1015 00:44:22,453 --> 00:44:23,373 Speaker 3: What about traveling? 1016 00:44:24,453 --> 00:44:28,533 Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I mean that age. Yeah, well, I mean 1017 00:44:28,573 --> 00:44:29,652 Speaker 5: I know a lot of people that have done that 1018 00:44:29,693 --> 00:44:31,493 Speaker 5: and it's been very positive. But I'd prefer if my 1019 00:44:31,533 --> 00:44:33,772 Speaker 5: son didn't just go overseas immediately right now. I quite 1020 00:44:33,773 --> 00:44:34,493 Speaker 5: like going help with them. 1021 00:44:34,813 --> 00:44:36,893 Speaker 3: Yeah, good call, I'd miss him. Oh, eight one hundred 1022 00:44:37,013 --> 00:44:39,813 Speaker 3: eighty eight. If you've done a gap year yourself, love 1023 00:44:39,853 --> 00:44:42,413 Speaker 3: to hear from you. If you're in that situation now 1024 00:44:42,533 --> 00:44:44,893 Speaker 3: where your child is about to leave school, are they 1025 00:44:44,933 --> 00:44:47,613 Speaker 3: thinking about a gap year? Are you encouraging them to 1026 00:44:47,653 --> 00:44:49,453 Speaker 3: do that? I've got to say, the stats out from 1027 00:44:49,453 --> 00:44:53,772 Speaker 3: the UK over the past ten years, the students going 1028 00:44:53,813 --> 00:44:56,453 Speaker 3: for a gap year has increased fifty percent, from twenty 1029 00:44:56,533 --> 00:44:59,453 Speaker 3: thousand students to thirty thousand students. That's a big increase. 1030 00:44:59,853 --> 00:45:01,252 Speaker 5: Yeah, and I think a lot of that is people 1031 00:45:01,333 --> 00:45:04,493 Speaker 5: are asking if university is going to deliver what they 1032 00:45:04,533 --> 00:45:07,173 Speaker 5: need in the future, whether their degree will be anything 1033 00:45:07,213 --> 00:45:10,133 Speaker 5: for them in years. Yeah, that's that's a question you're 1034 00:45:10,133 --> 00:45:12,013 Speaker 5: looking at. I mean, what can't you what can't you 1035 00:45:12,053 --> 00:45:12,693 Speaker 5: learn on YouTube? 1036 00:45:12,813 --> 00:45:13,013 Speaker 8: Yep? 1037 00:45:13,053 --> 00:45:15,732 Speaker 3: Exactly nine two ninety two is the text number. It's 1038 00:45:15,773 --> 00:45:16,893 Speaker 3: eleven past two. 1039 00:45:17,173 --> 00:45:21,453 Speaker 29: Good afternoon, your new home of afternoon Talk and Ethen 1040 00:45:21,613 --> 00:45:23,453 Speaker 29: Tyler Adams Afternoon call. 1041 00:45:23,613 --> 00:45:28,053 Speaker 8: Oh eight hundred eighty ten eighty News Talk said, be very. 1042 00:45:27,893 --> 00:45:30,413 Speaker 3: Good afternoon, fourteen past two. What are the benefits of 1043 00:45:30,453 --> 00:45:34,413 Speaker 3: a gap year, particularly for children leaving high school? With Nita? 1044 00:45:34,453 --> 00:45:36,453 Speaker 3: How are you hi? 1045 00:45:36,573 --> 00:45:36,973 Speaker 30: Good in you? 1046 00:45:37,613 --> 00:45:39,812 Speaker 3: Very nice to chat with you. So what's your story. 1047 00:45:39,853 --> 00:45:40,853 Speaker 3: Did you take a gap year? 1048 00:45:41,933 --> 00:45:45,533 Speaker 31: No, I didn't, and I went into hairdressing school right 1049 00:45:45,573 --> 00:45:50,093 Speaker 31: after school and I took the career beyond that. So 1050 00:45:50,213 --> 00:45:53,733 Speaker 31: that's great. But my brother took a gap year and 1051 00:45:53,773 --> 00:45:56,813 Speaker 31: he just played golf for that whole year and he's 1052 00:45:56,853 --> 00:46:01,253 Speaker 31: actually a successful golf player and he works for Titless 1053 00:46:01,333 --> 00:46:04,933 Speaker 31: titleist in South Africa. So yeah, I say, there is 1054 00:46:05,013 --> 00:46:07,093 Speaker 31: quite a it's quite a good thing I think to 1055 00:46:07,173 --> 00:46:09,973 Speaker 31: do a gap year some times, because then you really 1056 00:46:10,013 --> 00:46:11,493 Speaker 31: want to suss out what you want to do in 1057 00:46:11,533 --> 00:46:14,413 Speaker 31: your life, because I always say an eighteen year old 1058 00:46:14,453 --> 00:46:16,773 Speaker 31: can't always decide what a forty year old wants to do. 1059 00:46:17,093 --> 00:46:19,413 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a very good, very very good point. Now, 1060 00:46:19,413 --> 00:46:21,652 Speaker 5: when so when you say your brother took a gap 1061 00:46:21,733 --> 00:46:24,053 Speaker 5: year and just played golf, was he playing the golf 1062 00:46:24,493 --> 00:46:26,893 Speaker 5: with a plan in mind? Or was he just playing 1063 00:46:26,933 --> 00:46:28,933 Speaker 5: golf for fun with his mates and it turned out 1064 00:46:28,973 --> 00:46:29,692 Speaker 5: that he was very good? 1065 00:46:30,973 --> 00:46:35,373 Speaker 31: No, he actually loved golf since school and then he 1066 00:46:35,573 --> 00:46:38,133 Speaker 31: just decided, oh maybe I should just play golf for it. Yeah, 1067 00:46:38,213 --> 00:46:40,853 Speaker 31: and it became his job and he yeah, it just 1068 00:46:41,453 --> 00:46:44,253 Speaker 31: you probably had a mind or a plan with it, 1069 00:46:44,253 --> 00:46:46,973 Speaker 31: because he did study through the PGA, and he did 1070 00:46:47,013 --> 00:46:49,413 Speaker 31: do a marketing degree as well, and I think that's 1071 00:46:49,413 --> 00:46:52,573 Speaker 31: why he ended up with Titlis. So that's awesome for him. 1072 00:46:52,813 --> 00:46:53,733 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's working. 1073 00:46:53,773 --> 00:46:54,813 Speaker 3: That's the dream, isn't it. 1074 00:46:54,853 --> 00:46:57,413 Speaker 5: Well it sounds like he was following a passion. So 1075 00:46:57,533 --> 00:47:00,613 Speaker 5: a gap year before you lock yourself in, as you say, 1076 00:47:01,133 --> 00:47:03,253 Speaker 5: with what you're going to do right through your forties, 1077 00:47:03,933 --> 00:47:06,373 Speaker 5: and you've got a passion, that's that's the time to 1078 00:47:06,453 --> 00:47:08,973 Speaker 5: follow your passion. When you've got all that energy and 1079 00:47:09,373 --> 00:47:11,813 Speaker 5: to be honest, not a lot of responsibility, when you're 1080 00:47:11,853 --> 00:47:14,133 Speaker 5: in your late teens early twenties, that's the time to 1081 00:47:14,413 --> 00:47:16,133 Speaker 5: really lean into a passion. 1082 00:47:18,413 --> 00:47:20,173 Speaker 31: And I think he's you like to say, he's just 1083 00:47:20,213 --> 00:47:20,853 Speaker 31: living the dream. 1084 00:47:21,373 --> 00:47:22,293 Speaker 6: Congratulations to her. 1085 00:47:22,973 --> 00:47:23,773 Speaker 3: What's his handicap? 1086 00:47:25,413 --> 00:47:26,053 Speaker 31: Oh, I don't know. 1087 00:47:26,133 --> 00:47:26,853 Speaker 32: Mine is something. 1088 00:47:26,893 --> 00:47:28,453 Speaker 31: I'm not sure. I don't even know if he's got 1089 00:47:28,493 --> 00:47:29,493 Speaker 31: a handicap anymore. 1090 00:47:29,653 --> 00:47:31,493 Speaker 3: Yeah, do you play a better golf yourself? 1091 00:47:32,493 --> 00:47:32,652 Speaker 12: Oh? 1092 00:47:32,733 --> 00:47:34,772 Speaker 31: I tried, but then I got angry on the course 1093 00:47:34,813 --> 00:47:38,573 Speaker 31: and I was on the on the yeah, the golf course, 1094 00:47:38,613 --> 00:47:40,293 Speaker 31: and then he said, no, you go off now, and 1095 00:47:40,293 --> 00:47:41,212 Speaker 31: then I need to play golf. 1096 00:47:41,413 --> 00:47:43,813 Speaker 3: Anger is a part of golf. With don't let anyone 1097 00:47:43,853 --> 00:47:46,133 Speaker 3: tell you otherwise. The most frustrating sport on the world 1098 00:47:46,133 --> 00:47:49,013 Speaker 3: of fear. Not very good luck. I am Brett. How 1099 00:47:49,053 --> 00:47:49,733 Speaker 3: are you mate? 1100 00:47:50,253 --> 00:47:50,652 Speaker 33: I'm good. 1101 00:47:50,653 --> 00:47:50,973 Speaker 20: How are you? 1102 00:47:51,133 --> 00:47:54,653 Speaker 28: Yeah good, I'm good normal. 1103 00:47:54,493 --> 00:47:58,293 Speaker 33: And four or more four golf gap years. I've got 1104 00:47:58,293 --> 00:47:59,933 Speaker 33: two kids. My daughter your golf years. 1105 00:47:59,933 --> 00:48:00,453 Speaker 11: I wish I could. 1106 00:48:02,213 --> 00:48:02,293 Speaker 34: So. 1107 00:48:02,413 --> 00:48:04,213 Speaker 33: My daughter left school knew what she wanted to do. 1108 00:48:04,293 --> 00:48:06,293 Speaker 33: She knew whether that from fourteen, went straight out and 1109 00:48:06,333 --> 00:48:08,893 Speaker 33: got a degree and got a career. My son, on 1110 00:48:08,933 --> 00:48:12,733 Speaker 33: the other hand, who was very, very clever, you know, 1111 00:48:12,773 --> 00:48:15,973 Speaker 33: he was clever at sciences and maths and things like that, 1112 00:48:16,013 --> 00:48:17,533 Speaker 33: and there was all this pressure, you need to go 1113 00:48:17,573 --> 00:48:20,693 Speaker 33: and do engineering, go and do engineering, and so we 1114 00:48:20,773 --> 00:48:22,333 Speaker 33: tried to convince him to take a gap year, and 1115 00:48:22,333 --> 00:48:24,053 Speaker 33: he wouldn't. And he went and did engineering and he 1116 00:48:24,093 --> 00:48:26,413 Speaker 33: went from straight a's and year one to straight season 1117 00:48:26,493 --> 00:48:31,053 Speaker 33: year halfway through year through it too, and we said 1118 00:48:31,093 --> 00:48:33,813 Speaker 33: to him, mate, just give it up, go and take 1119 00:48:33,853 --> 00:48:36,093 Speaker 33: a gap and go and do something else. So he 1120 00:48:36,133 --> 00:48:40,013 Speaker 33: went overseas and while he is away, he figured out 1121 00:48:40,013 --> 00:48:40,773 Speaker 33: what he actually. 1122 00:48:40,533 --> 00:48:41,013 Speaker 11: Wanted to do. 1123 00:48:41,133 --> 00:48:44,093 Speaker 33: And he's actually in China when he figured out what 1124 00:48:44,093 --> 00:48:46,252 Speaker 33: he wanted to do, came back to the four year degree, 1125 00:48:46,373 --> 00:48:49,413 Speaker 33: got a first class honors degree and he's laughing. But 1126 00:48:50,053 --> 00:48:52,093 Speaker 33: there was so much pressure on in the high schools, 1127 00:48:52,173 --> 00:48:54,733 Speaker 33: and there was so much pressure put on him, you know, 1128 00:48:55,173 --> 00:48:57,173 Speaker 33: because you know, he was doing unie papers when he 1129 00:48:57,213 --> 00:48:59,533 Speaker 33: was still at high school and calculus and things like that, 1130 00:49:00,373 --> 00:49:02,212 Speaker 33: you need to go and do this, and they put 1131 00:49:02,333 --> 00:49:05,053 Speaker 33: so much pressure on And as the last caller said, 1132 00:49:05,133 --> 00:49:06,853 Speaker 33: how can an eighteen year old know what they want 1133 00:49:06,893 --> 00:49:09,213 Speaker 33: to be and doing? And when they're forty and so, 1134 00:49:09,333 --> 00:49:12,252 Speaker 33: I honestly, and anyone says to me, what do you think, 1135 00:49:12,293 --> 00:49:13,733 Speaker 33: I said, it's one year. 1136 00:49:13,653 --> 00:49:14,813 Speaker 10: Out of their life. 1137 00:49:15,013 --> 00:49:16,813 Speaker 33: You know, they're working for the rest of their lives. 1138 00:49:16,893 --> 00:49:19,333 Speaker 33: Take some time off to consider what you actually want 1139 00:49:19,373 --> 00:49:21,533 Speaker 33: to do. Because you're a long time working you can 1140 00:49:21,573 --> 00:49:23,093 Speaker 33: be a hell of a long time unhappy too. 1141 00:49:23,253 --> 00:49:23,493 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1142 00:49:23,613 --> 00:49:27,053 Speaker 5: So, Brett, did your son have an interest in engineering? 1143 00:49:27,173 --> 00:49:28,893 Speaker 5: Was that just because he was a smart kid that 1144 00:49:28,973 --> 00:49:31,293 Speaker 5: seemed like the logical thing to do at the time 1145 00:49:31,333 --> 00:49:32,213 Speaker 5: when he chose to do it. 1146 00:49:32,853 --> 00:49:34,853 Speaker 33: Yep, because he's a maths and science and that sort 1147 00:49:34,893 --> 00:49:36,733 Speaker 33: of thing, you should be an engineer. And it was 1148 00:49:36,733 --> 00:49:39,813 Speaker 33: really funny. So when overseas with a friend and wandered 1149 00:49:39,933 --> 00:49:43,733 Speaker 33: into a museum and Gwang and Shanghai. That was about 1150 00:49:43,853 --> 00:49:46,973 Speaker 33: how she Shanghai has been planned in the city. I've 1151 00:49:46,973 --> 00:49:48,973 Speaker 33: actually been to her. It's quite amazing. It's about three 1152 00:49:48,973 --> 00:49:51,652 Speaker 33: stories this building. And he walked out, came home and said, 1153 00:49:51,653 --> 00:49:52,693 Speaker 33: I'm going to be a town planner. 1154 00:49:52,773 --> 00:49:54,253 Speaker 3: Wow, I love that. 1155 00:49:55,373 --> 00:49:58,653 Speaker 33: And as I say, you know, first class honors degree, 1156 00:49:58,693 --> 00:50:02,133 Speaker 33: so you know, pretty clever. But he was just wasted 1157 00:50:02,213 --> 00:50:03,693 Speaker 33: what he is doing and was. 1158 00:50:04,133 --> 00:50:05,933 Speaker 5: And is enjoyed being a town planner. 1159 00:50:06,493 --> 00:50:07,053 Speaker 33: He loves it. 1160 00:50:07,693 --> 00:50:10,293 Speaker 5: See that's a brilliant story. So if he just battled 1161 00:50:10,333 --> 00:50:13,973 Speaker 5: on and the engineering that he didn't like, thenpy Man, 1162 00:50:14,173 --> 00:50:16,093 Speaker 5: he would never have found that true passion. 1163 00:50:16,333 --> 00:50:17,453 Speaker 10: Yeah, that's right. 1164 00:50:18,133 --> 00:50:20,813 Speaker 33: So you know, I just when people say, oh, you've 1165 00:50:20,813 --> 00:50:22,212 Speaker 33: got to go and get a degree, I just say 1166 00:50:22,253 --> 00:50:25,293 Speaker 33: to forget about it. It's you know, I got a 1167 00:50:25,333 --> 00:50:28,573 Speaker 33: degree when I was in the mid thirties, so it 1168 00:50:28,613 --> 00:50:31,213 Speaker 33: didn't stop me. And I just think kids got to 1169 00:50:31,253 --> 00:50:32,893 Speaker 33: find find their place in the world. 1170 00:50:33,213 --> 00:50:34,853 Speaker 5: Yeah, and I think a lot of for a lot 1171 00:50:34,893 --> 00:50:38,213 Speaker 5: of kids, going into tertiary education is kind of like 1172 00:50:38,453 --> 00:50:40,373 Speaker 5: not making a decision in a way because you're not 1173 00:50:40,453 --> 00:50:43,692 Speaker 5: ready to leave the institutions. You've been at school, it's 1174 00:50:43,733 --> 00:50:45,813 Speaker 5: quite terrifying to just go out into the world, so 1175 00:50:45,853 --> 00:50:48,493 Speaker 5: you might end up getting a degree essentially, so you're 1176 00:50:48,533 --> 00:50:51,813 Speaker 5: staying at school and keeping those guardrails going. When I 1177 00:50:52,173 --> 00:50:54,573 Speaker 5: believe that at that young age, that's when you do 1178 00:50:54,613 --> 00:50:58,533 Speaker 5: the take the risks and follow the dreams. 1179 00:50:58,253 --> 00:51:00,093 Speaker 3: Because it does get harder, doesn't it. The older that 1180 00:51:00,133 --> 00:51:03,013 Speaker 3: you get and you get more roots, you get tied down, well, 1181 00:51:03,053 --> 00:51:04,573 Speaker 3: tied down is not the right word, but you know, 1182 00:51:04,613 --> 00:51:07,373 Speaker 3: you get responsibilities in life and then you start maybe 1183 00:51:07,493 --> 00:51:10,213 Speaker 3: having a family of children gets harder and harder and 1184 00:51:10,253 --> 00:51:12,812 Speaker 3: harder to go and do those things. And when you're 1185 00:51:12,853 --> 00:51:15,212 Speaker 3: young and you can absorb all that stuff, that's the time. 1186 00:51:15,293 --> 00:51:17,413 Speaker 5: Eh yeah, I miss You're me Tyler and you follow 1187 00:51:17,413 --> 00:51:19,333 Speaker 5: your dream of moving up to news talks. 1188 00:51:19,173 --> 00:51:22,093 Speaker 3: Edby and here you are, look at you now, Oh 1189 00:51:22,173 --> 00:51:24,613 Speaker 3: eight hundred and eighty ten eighty gap years? Are you 1190 00:51:24,733 --> 00:51:26,933 Speaker 3: encouraging your children to take a bit of a gap 1191 00:51:27,013 --> 00:51:29,133 Speaker 3: year before they may go into a trade or two? 1192 00:51:29,293 --> 00:51:31,973 Speaker 3: Re education? And did you do one yourself? Love to 1193 00:51:31,973 --> 00:51:34,133 Speaker 3: hear from you. Nine two ninety two was the text number. 1194 00:51:34,413 --> 00:51:38,973 Speaker 3: It's twenty past two. 1195 00:51:40,093 --> 00:51:42,292 Speaker 8: Matt Heath and Tyler Adams afternoons. 1196 00:51:42,413 --> 00:51:45,173 Speaker 1: Call oh eight hundred and eighty ten eighty on News Talks, 1197 00:51:45,253 --> 00:51:46,893 Speaker 1: edby Good Afternoon. 1198 00:51:46,893 --> 00:51:49,293 Speaker 3: It's twenty two past two and we're talking about gap years. 1199 00:51:49,413 --> 00:51:52,373 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's right, because your thirteen. It's the finishing school 1200 00:51:52,813 --> 00:51:56,773 Speaker 5: this week. Mine finished on Tuesday. Got exams to do, 1201 00:51:57,453 --> 00:51:59,813 Speaker 5: but he's chosen to take a gap year. Getting a 1202 00:51:59,813 --> 00:52:03,533 Speaker 5: lot of support from gap years on the on the phones. Yeah, 1203 00:52:03,533 --> 00:52:05,453 Speaker 5: and you've got a text here from Lucy. I went 1204 00:52:05,493 --> 00:52:07,652 Speaker 5: for a gap year, sort of joined the Navy until 1205 00:52:07,653 --> 00:52:10,093 Speaker 5: I decided well to do twenty seven years later, I 1206 00:52:10,173 --> 00:52:12,573 Speaker 5: left the Navy in our work and search and rescue. 1207 00:52:12,693 --> 00:52:17,333 Speaker 5: So the gap year became an exciting, adventurous life for Lucy. 1208 00:52:17,493 --> 00:52:19,252 Speaker 3: Fantastic Thor. How are you doing? 1209 00:52:20,253 --> 00:52:21,893 Speaker 10: Hey, guys, have things good? 1210 00:52:21,973 --> 00:52:22,973 Speaker 3: Love the name Thor. 1211 00:52:25,973 --> 00:52:27,733 Speaker 4: I just kind of want to put my two cents 1212 00:52:27,733 --> 00:52:30,973 Speaker 4: in hand to say I didn't take a gap year 1213 00:52:31,693 --> 00:52:33,653 Speaker 4: straight out of high school. But I went to university 1214 00:52:34,213 --> 00:52:37,093 Speaker 4: and finished my degree, and you know, got a job 1215 00:52:37,133 --> 00:52:39,652 Speaker 4: at an office and sort of realized that wasn't for me, 1216 00:52:40,293 --> 00:52:44,893 Speaker 4: and then I got my trade, so after three years, 1217 00:52:45,093 --> 00:52:49,733 Speaker 4: became a registered electrician. But you know, we're getting a 1218 00:52:49,773 --> 00:52:53,333 Speaker 4: little bit older, So people us me to talk to 1219 00:52:53,373 --> 00:52:56,053 Speaker 4: the young kids, saying, you know, can we give them 1220 00:52:56,093 --> 00:52:59,413 Speaker 4: some advice? But I'm leaning heavily towards just taking a 1221 00:52:59,413 --> 00:53:02,293 Speaker 4: gap year, you know, figuring it out, maybe go to 1222 00:53:02,373 --> 00:53:04,732 Speaker 4: hospitality work and stuff like that. 1223 00:53:04,813 --> 00:53:06,493 Speaker 6: Yeah, good on you, that's. 1224 00:53:06,373 --> 00:53:08,813 Speaker 5: Got I like the idea of an electrician beer being 1225 00:53:08,813 --> 00:53:10,493 Speaker 5: the god of thunder though that kind of works a 1226 00:53:10,533 --> 00:53:11,533 Speaker 5: going of funder him later. 1227 00:53:14,293 --> 00:53:16,773 Speaker 3: And was that was that a hard thing to convince 1228 00:53:16,813 --> 00:53:19,013 Speaker 3: your appearance that that's the best thing for you? Did 1229 00:53:19,053 --> 00:53:21,853 Speaker 3: you get any pressure to stick with, you know, the 1230 00:53:21,933 --> 00:53:25,013 Speaker 3: idea of the trade or were they quite encouraging that. 1231 00:53:25,093 --> 00:53:26,533 Speaker 3: And it's actually a good thing to go and do 1232 00:53:26,573 --> 00:53:28,692 Speaker 3: a gap here and just figure out the world a bit. 1233 00:53:29,573 --> 00:53:29,812 Speaker 8: Yeah. 1234 00:53:29,893 --> 00:53:33,453 Speaker 34: I feel like, you know, an eighteen year old doesn't 1235 00:53:33,493 --> 00:53:36,013 Speaker 34: necessarily know exactly what he wants to do. 1236 00:53:36,093 --> 00:53:38,013 Speaker 5: So year old doesn't know anything. 1237 00:53:39,093 --> 00:53:45,933 Speaker 34: Yeah, yeah, I generally didn't, but yeah, yeah, but I 1238 00:53:46,293 --> 00:53:49,373 Speaker 34: just think give some real world experience under your belt 1239 00:53:49,453 --> 00:53:52,853 Speaker 34: and you know, nine to five with whatever it may 1240 00:53:52,893 --> 00:53:56,213 Speaker 34: be in an office or an hospitality or it just 1241 00:53:56,053 --> 00:53:58,613 Speaker 34: it just opens up your horizons and moving out and 1242 00:53:58,653 --> 00:54:02,533 Speaker 34: paying bills and you know that gapia doesn't necessarily mean 1243 00:54:02,613 --> 00:54:05,253 Speaker 34: traveling as such, but you know, just taking on the 1244 00:54:05,293 --> 00:54:06,573 Speaker 34: real world straight out of school. 1245 00:54:06,933 --> 00:54:07,133 Speaker 11: Yeah. 1246 00:54:07,173 --> 00:54:09,652 Speaker 5: You may follow your paw and find what that is, 1247 00:54:09,773 --> 00:54:12,413 Speaker 5: or you might find something incredible, but you might also 1248 00:54:12,573 --> 00:54:16,013 Speaker 5: find exactly what you don't want to do. And you know, 1249 00:54:16,253 --> 00:54:17,933 Speaker 5: for example, I was talking before about a nephew that 1250 00:54:18,013 --> 00:54:20,333 Speaker 5: was in a supermarket. He discovered that he didn't want 1251 00:54:20,373 --> 00:54:22,053 Speaker 5: to work in the fruit and produce section of a 1252 00:54:22,093 --> 00:54:25,293 Speaker 5: supermarket and he wanted to get back, and when he 1253 00:54:25,333 --> 00:54:28,733 Speaker 5: went to university he was very, very very focused on 1254 00:54:29,293 --> 00:54:32,213 Speaker 5: creating the career wanted. So there is something in seeing 1255 00:54:32,373 --> 00:54:35,013 Speaker 5: the real world as well for exactly. 1256 00:54:35,173 --> 00:54:38,413 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, absolutely great stuff. Thanks very much for giving 1257 00:54:38,493 --> 00:54:40,573 Speaker 3: us a buzz. Oh eight hundred and eighty ten eighty 1258 00:54:40,613 --> 00:54:43,013 Speaker 3: is the number to call, Sandy. How are you? 1259 00:54:43,973 --> 00:54:48,493 Speaker 35: Oh, I'm just thank you good my experience as a 1260 00:54:48,533 --> 00:54:52,133 Speaker 35: mother at our eighteen year old had been accepted for 1261 00:54:52,293 --> 00:54:55,692 Speaker 35: a course in the July of the following year, so 1262 00:54:55,733 --> 00:54:59,733 Speaker 35: he left school seventh form and was going to start 1263 00:54:59,733 --> 00:55:02,373 Speaker 35: the course in the July, but he wanted to put 1264 00:55:02,413 --> 00:55:05,493 Speaker 35: it off until the following January. He wanted to take 1265 00:55:05,533 --> 00:55:08,933 Speaker 35: a gap year. He was in the end see a 1266 00:55:09,613 --> 00:55:12,933 Speaker 35: guinea pig year they called it, and the very first 1267 00:55:13,013 --> 00:55:15,573 Speaker 35: year lots of work, lots of study, all that sort 1268 00:55:15,613 --> 00:55:17,773 Speaker 35: of thing. So when he said to me that he 1269 00:55:17,893 --> 00:55:21,453 Speaker 35: wanted to put the course off until the following year, 1270 00:55:22,293 --> 00:55:23,893 Speaker 35: I said to him, why don't you just get on 1271 00:55:23,973 --> 00:55:27,213 Speaker 35: and do it. And he said, Mum, he said, I 1272 00:55:27,293 --> 00:55:29,893 Speaker 35: want a year off, and I said. 1273 00:55:29,813 --> 00:55:30,493 Speaker 24: Fair comment. 1274 00:55:30,893 --> 00:55:31,773 Speaker 35: What can you say? 1275 00:55:31,973 --> 00:55:32,213 Speaker 24: You know? 1276 00:55:32,493 --> 00:55:38,453 Speaker 35: So he got a job doing the helping out with 1277 00:55:38,533 --> 00:55:42,453 Speaker 35: the grape season, and when he finished that, he didn't 1278 00:55:42,453 --> 00:55:45,373 Speaker 35: have a job. So that wasn't about the April and 1279 00:55:45,533 --> 00:55:47,533 Speaker 35: I was coming home from work and he was sitting 1280 00:55:47,573 --> 00:55:50,293 Speaker 35: on the computer and he had enough money saved for 1281 00:55:50,413 --> 00:55:53,732 Speaker 35: his petrol and his takeaways, and Mum and Dad would 1282 00:55:53,733 --> 00:55:54,573 Speaker 35: look after him, of. 1283 00:55:54,533 --> 00:55:57,213 Speaker 15: Course, and so got a bit tired of this. 1284 00:55:57,493 --> 00:55:59,253 Speaker 35: So in the end I said to him, and we 1285 00:55:59,333 --> 00:56:02,733 Speaker 35: said to him, okay, we need some board from you. 1286 00:56:03,413 --> 00:56:05,773 Speaker 35: It's going to cost us to keep you. You're in 1287 00:56:05,893 --> 00:56:08,973 Speaker 35: the house all day doing nothing. So well, he was 1288 00:56:08,973 --> 00:56:11,053 Speaker 35: off that year. Down to the supermarket. 1289 00:56:11,173 --> 00:56:12,333 Speaker 24: He found a job. 1290 00:56:13,573 --> 00:56:15,973 Speaker 35: And he worked as that off for the rest of 1291 00:56:16,013 --> 00:56:18,853 Speaker 35: the year. Got so sich of getting four or five 1292 00:56:18,933 --> 00:56:23,093 Speaker 35: hundred dollars a week when he knew how much he 1293 00:56:23,133 --> 00:56:26,213 Speaker 35: would be getting going forward when he qualified for the 1294 00:56:26,333 --> 00:56:29,692 Speaker 35: job that he was going to study in, and so 1295 00:56:29,773 --> 00:56:35,013 Speaker 35: it's fantastic. I'd tell people go for it. However, there 1296 00:56:35,093 --> 00:56:37,853 Speaker 35: is the other side, and people said to me, oh, 1297 00:56:37,933 --> 00:56:40,253 Speaker 35: what say he gets you to that supermarket job and 1298 00:56:40,253 --> 00:56:43,213 Speaker 35: he doesn't want to look for anything else. But that 1299 00:56:43,493 --> 00:56:47,292 Speaker 35: year that made him even more determined. So it wasn't 1300 00:56:47,293 --> 00:56:47,933 Speaker 35: what he wanted. 1301 00:56:48,333 --> 00:56:51,373 Speaker 5: Because that's the concern, isn't it, Sandy, that you could 1302 00:56:51,613 --> 00:56:55,493 Speaker 5: end up on a gap decade and then you're looking 1303 00:56:55,533 --> 00:56:58,493 Speaker 5: back and going I never did that, and now I 1304 00:56:58,533 --> 00:57:00,453 Speaker 5: can't because I've got too many responsibilities. 1305 00:57:00,573 --> 00:57:03,133 Speaker 35: What we did with that board money, we said to 1306 00:57:03,213 --> 00:57:05,533 Speaker 35: him and we presented it with him before he went 1307 00:57:05,573 --> 00:57:08,973 Speaker 35: off to do his study, this nice check and he said, 1308 00:57:09,013 --> 00:57:11,093 Speaker 35: what's this four? And I said that the money that 1309 00:57:11,173 --> 00:57:14,293 Speaker 35: you gave us for board, we didn't need it, but 1310 00:57:14,413 --> 00:57:18,093 Speaker 35: you needed to be made responsible for yeah, for living 1311 00:57:18,093 --> 00:57:21,013 Speaker 35: in the house here it is. So we actually put 1312 00:57:21,013 --> 00:57:23,653 Speaker 35: it away and bonus formed for him and gave that 1313 00:57:23,813 --> 00:57:25,093 Speaker 35: to him before he went away. 1314 00:57:25,213 --> 00:57:27,733 Speaker 3: What a great mum you are, Andy, Yeah, great, looks 1315 00:57:27,773 --> 00:57:28,853 Speaker 3: like you crack the code there. 1316 00:57:29,013 --> 00:57:31,813 Speaker 5: So we're going to continue the gap year chat afterwards. 1317 00:57:31,813 --> 00:57:33,693 Speaker 5: I'm a big supporter of it. My son's doing it. 1318 00:57:33,733 --> 00:57:36,973 Speaker 5: But after in just a few minutes, I've got a 1319 00:57:37,053 --> 00:57:42,013 Speaker 5: question for you. What are the top five Halloween costumes 1320 00:57:43,213 --> 00:57:45,493 Speaker 5: in the United States this year? 1321 00:57:45,653 --> 00:57:47,373 Speaker 3: Join me to have a crack at it. I'll give 1322 00:57:47,413 --> 00:57:53,613 Speaker 3: it a top top two. Okay, oh this year eighty. 1323 00:57:53,973 --> 00:57:55,373 Speaker 3: I'll have a thing about it, and I'll come back 1324 00:57:55,413 --> 00:57:56,053 Speaker 3: to you very shortly. 1325 00:57:56,533 --> 00:57:57,333 Speaker 6: I feel the list here. 1326 00:57:57,413 --> 00:57:59,213 Speaker 3: It is twenty eight past two. 1327 00:58:01,373 --> 00:58:01,933 Speaker 8: US talks. 1328 00:58:01,933 --> 00:58:05,653 Speaker 22: There'd be headlines with blue bubble taxis. It is no 1329 00:58:05,813 --> 00:58:10,133 Speaker 22: trouble with a blue bubble. The Transport Accident Investigation interim 1330 00:58:10,213 --> 00:58:14,613 Speaker 22: report confirms Cookstraight Ferry Ariti ran aground off Picton in 1331 00:58:14,693 --> 00:58:18,093 Speaker 22: June after crew turned on the new autopilot too late 1332 00:58:18,253 --> 00:58:21,053 Speaker 22: in a turn and didn't know how to redirect it. 1333 00:58:22,093 --> 00:58:25,813 Speaker 22: Labor MP Jenny Anderson is criticizing mental health advocate Mike 1334 00:58:25,893 --> 00:58:29,813 Speaker 22: King supporting alcohol use, which she says is our most 1335 00:58:29,853 --> 00:58:34,173 Speaker 22: harmful drug. Hawk's Bay police are investigating a flurry of 1336 00:58:34,173 --> 00:58:37,413 Speaker 22: incidents in the past twenty four hours. Shots were fired 1337 00:58:37,413 --> 00:58:40,733 Speaker 22: at three houses in Flaxmere and Camataea, and a fight 1338 00:58:40,813 --> 00:58:44,493 Speaker 22: broke art in Artideri between two groups armed with baseball 1339 00:58:44,573 --> 00:58:48,533 Speaker 22: bats and other weapons. Farmax put up a proposal to 1340 00:58:48,613 --> 00:58:53,933 Speaker 22: fund a medicine to strengthen bones denosamub. The free breastscreening 1341 00:58:54,013 --> 00:58:57,733 Speaker 22: age has risen to seventy four for women in Nelson Mulborough. 1342 00:58:57,933 --> 00:59:00,773 Speaker 22: It's ahead of a national rollout late next year for 1343 00:59:00,813 --> 00:59:05,253 Speaker 22: about sixty thousand more women. Why artificial intelligence is the 1344 00:59:05,293 --> 00:59:08,413 Speaker 22: new vehicle for economic growth? See the full column that 1345 00:59:08,533 --> 00:59:10,933 Speaker 22: n said here will premium Back to Matt Eath and 1346 00:59:10,973 --> 00:59:11,813 Speaker 22: Tyler Adams. 1347 00:59:11,813 --> 00:59:13,973 Speaker 3: Thank you very much, Rayleian. Just before we get to 1348 00:59:14,333 --> 00:59:17,333 Speaker 3: the discussion about gap years, you mentioned do we tease 1349 00:59:17,493 --> 00:59:18,333 Speaker 3: before the headlines? 1350 00:59:18,413 --> 00:59:19,213 Speaker 6: I certainly did. 1351 00:59:19,253 --> 00:59:22,973 Speaker 5: It was the top five. 1352 00:59:22,333 --> 00:59:24,573 Speaker 6: Halloween costumes in America this year, and I. 1353 00:59:24,493 --> 00:59:25,853 Speaker 3: Said I was going to have a crack. I'll just 1354 00:59:25,973 --> 00:59:27,813 Speaker 3: have a crack at one in the top five. I 1355 00:59:27,893 --> 00:59:31,973 Speaker 3: reckon must be this is in America, raygun the Australian Breakdancer. 1356 00:59:32,133 --> 00:59:33,813 Speaker 5: Surely that should. 1357 00:59:33,613 --> 00:59:34,093 Speaker 6: Be in there. 1358 00:59:34,173 --> 00:59:36,093 Speaker 5: Yeah, it should be in there, And I'm sure it 1359 00:59:36,173 --> 00:59:38,773 Speaker 5: is in Australia. And it was a horror show what 1360 00:59:38,853 --> 00:59:41,613 Speaker 5: she performed at the Olympics. But it isn't in the 1361 00:59:41,653 --> 00:59:42,813 Speaker 5: top five in the United States. 1362 00:59:42,893 --> 00:59:46,973 Speaker 3: All right, Well, Craig reckons. He knows Craig I reckon 1363 00:59:47,013 --> 00:59:48,653 Speaker 3: number one. 1364 00:59:52,253 --> 00:59:55,453 Speaker 5: Well in America, maybe in New Zealand, although she does 1365 00:59:55,533 --> 00:59:58,093 Speaker 5: have a high profile in the United States. You got 1366 00:59:58,093 --> 00:59:59,293 Speaker 5: another guess. 1367 01:00:00,693 --> 01:00:04,453 Speaker 3: What are the latest cultural trends over the last year? Oh, Beetlejuice. 1368 01:00:04,933 --> 01:00:06,253 Speaker 3: Beetle Juice movie just came out. 1369 01:00:06,373 --> 01:00:09,693 Speaker 5: You would think that, all right, Okay, no, no, no, no, 1370 01:00:09,693 --> 01:00:12,853 Speaker 5: no no. According to stats taken from Google searchers and 1371 01:00:12,933 --> 01:00:16,373 Speaker 5: sales figures, this week in the United States, the number 1372 01:00:16,493 --> 01:00:22,653 Speaker 5: five the number five Halloween costumes most in America. 1373 01:00:23,773 --> 01:00:24,413 Speaker 6: Taylor Swift. 1374 01:00:25,533 --> 01:00:28,373 Speaker 3: Yeah, she's not scary, though I. 1375 01:00:28,293 --> 01:00:29,613 Speaker 6: Find her a little bit scary. 1376 01:00:30,573 --> 01:00:33,333 Speaker 5: Jessica Rabbit. That's an old one from She's coming back. 1377 01:00:33,333 --> 01:00:36,133 Speaker 5: Well for the kids, that's an adult Yeah. 1378 01:00:36,173 --> 01:00:37,293 Speaker 6: Well, I mean this isn't for kids. 1379 01:00:38,693 --> 01:00:40,573 Speaker 5: I mean this is everyone, so a lot of people, 1380 01:00:40,573 --> 01:00:43,013 Speaker 5: and you know, Halloween parties are huge in the United States, 1381 01:00:43,013 --> 01:00:44,853 Speaker 5: so people go there as a sexy Jessica Rabbit. 1382 01:00:44,893 --> 01:00:45,333 Speaker 3: Fair enough. 1383 01:00:45,733 --> 01:00:46,213 Speaker 6: I like it. 1384 01:00:46,813 --> 01:00:48,973 Speaker 5: Inflatable check it isn't inflatable. 1385 01:00:49,053 --> 01:00:50,053 Speaker 3: Checken is back. 1386 01:00:51,413 --> 01:00:54,373 Speaker 5: Inflatable. Chicken's doing very well. I didn't pick that one 1387 01:00:54,413 --> 01:00:57,333 Speaker 5: about time time. I don't know what's happening over there 1388 01:00:57,373 --> 01:01:00,213 Speaker 5: that inflatable chickens are so popular. And then number two 1389 01:01:00,213 --> 01:01:02,573 Speaker 5: and number one Wolverine and Deadpool. 1390 01:01:02,813 --> 01:01:04,373 Speaker 3: Oh nice, because that. 1391 01:01:04,333 --> 01:01:06,653 Speaker 5: Movie was the hugest movie this year, wasn't it. Wolverine 1392 01:01:06,693 --> 01:01:08,893 Speaker 5: and dead Pool, Ryan Reynolds and Hugh Jack to the Ego, 1393 01:01:09,013 --> 01:01:11,893 Speaker 5: Tator Swift, Jessica Rabbit inflatable check and Wolverine and dead 1394 01:01:11,933 --> 01:01:12,733 Speaker 5: Pull at number one. 1395 01:01:12,893 --> 01:01:15,293 Speaker 3: Love it all right, We're going to have Halloween chatting 1396 01:01:15,653 --> 01:01:17,933 Speaker 3: about half an hour's time. But we have been talking 1397 01:01:17,973 --> 01:01:21,213 Speaker 3: about gap years, a big increase in the UK and 1398 01:01:21,253 --> 01:01:23,813 Speaker 3: the US and the number of students leaving school and 1399 01:01:23,853 --> 01:01:26,413 Speaker 3: then going on the gap year fifty percent increase over 1400 01:01:26,413 --> 01:01:30,093 Speaker 3: the past ten years in the UK, They're huge, Vaughan, 1401 01:01:30,373 --> 01:01:31,813 Speaker 3: did you take a gap year yourself? 1402 01:01:32,893 --> 01:01:35,693 Speaker 13: No, no, but we're backing a versity in my forties 1403 01:01:37,573 --> 01:01:40,053 Speaker 13: and my great point which went up twenty points twenty years. 1404 01:01:40,093 --> 01:01:40,693 Speaker 11: It was great, but. 1405 01:01:42,133 --> 01:01:45,373 Speaker 13: It was a really niceable note the first year students, 1406 01:01:45,413 --> 01:01:51,613 Speaker 13: they were extremely naive, very mature. I was serving in 1407 01:01:51,693 --> 01:01:53,653 Speaker 13: one class one day at the back and with some 1408 01:01:53,733 --> 01:01:55,213 Speaker 13: of the third years that I was startying what we're 1409 01:01:55,213 --> 01:01:59,613 Speaker 13: doing a first year class and serdly the whole right, boys, 1410 01:01:59,613 --> 01:02:02,373 Speaker 13: in front of it just turned to the right. What's 1411 01:02:02,413 --> 01:02:05,293 Speaker 13: going on? So look over and the girl below them 1412 01:02:05,453 --> 01:02:08,853 Speaker 13: was a look shoving for a new bikini. So there 1413 01:02:08,893 --> 01:02:11,893 Speaker 13: was also quite nice. But when you're when you're in class, 1414 01:02:11,973 --> 01:02:14,373 Speaker 13: how many the kids are actally on Facebook. They weren't 1415 01:02:14,413 --> 01:02:18,653 Speaker 13: really in the class, so they were very naive. The 1416 01:02:18,773 --> 01:02:22,053 Speaker 13: guy as I started with that when the early twenties 1417 01:02:22,493 --> 01:02:26,413 Speaker 13: three twenty fourths off had been out working. They were 1418 01:02:26,493 --> 01:02:29,893 Speaker 13: really sharp. They liked way up. There's the Friday night. 1419 01:02:31,093 --> 01:02:34,773 Speaker 13: They were not scared to ask questions. They were they 1420 01:02:34,853 --> 01:02:36,333 Speaker 13: knew the way of the world. I didn't have to 1421 01:02:36,333 --> 01:02:39,893 Speaker 13: hold each other's hands. Then it's quite nice. I live 1422 01:02:39,893 --> 01:02:43,733 Speaker 13: in wealth without Lincoln. But at the start of the year, 1423 01:02:43,773 --> 01:02:45,773 Speaker 13: when all the guns ride, you see all these kids 1424 01:02:45,773 --> 01:02:48,453 Speaker 13: in the through or fourth breasts like you were dead school. 1425 01:02:48,813 --> 01:02:50,533 Speaker 13: As you said earlier on Tyre, you know, it's almost 1426 01:02:50,573 --> 01:02:53,493 Speaker 13: like an extension of school. Too scared to leave, and 1427 01:02:53,733 --> 01:02:55,813 Speaker 13: they all walk around to the supermarket and all this, 1428 01:02:56,133 --> 01:02:57,973 Speaker 13: and they're all walking in a line as a group 1429 01:02:58,373 --> 01:03:00,653 Speaker 13: about half a two the year, having to become individuals. 1430 01:03:00,733 --> 01:03:02,293 Speaker 13: And I think that's the big thing you get out 1431 01:03:02,293 --> 01:03:04,293 Speaker 13: of a gap years. You learned how to be about 1432 01:03:04,333 --> 01:03:06,213 Speaker 13: you and not necessarily about the crowd. 1433 01:03:07,013 --> 01:03:08,133 Speaker 11: And you like. 1434 01:03:08,093 --> 01:03:10,653 Speaker 13: Some of the callers, I said, you look at what 1435 01:03:10,733 --> 01:03:12,493 Speaker 13: makes you teck and what you really want to do. 1436 01:03:12,693 --> 01:03:14,893 Speaker 13: A number of people I know that were at union 1437 01:03:15,013 --> 01:03:17,413 Speaker 13: with me that started off on one course and swapched another. 1438 01:03:18,493 --> 01:03:20,533 Speaker 13: My list daughter would be a classic. She started doing 1439 01:03:20,533 --> 01:03:24,173 Speaker 13: a s. Sgreend and then switched a Commis degree towards 1440 01:03:24,173 --> 01:03:25,973 Speaker 13: an end And what's been great because she's now a 1441 01:03:26,053 --> 01:03:30,373 Speaker 13: rural banker. So well, yeah, it's funny your own way 1442 01:03:30,413 --> 01:03:30,813 Speaker 13: in the world. 1443 01:03:31,093 --> 01:03:35,013 Speaker 5: So well, it's absolutely true Vaughan that when you're that age, 1444 01:03:35,133 --> 01:03:37,413 Speaker 5: you've been in school for thirteen years and there's rules. 1445 01:03:37,453 --> 01:03:38,973 Speaker 5: You've got to go to assemblies, you've got to be 1446 01:03:39,013 --> 01:03:40,813 Speaker 5: there in time, you know when your classes are. And 1447 01:03:40,853 --> 01:03:43,773 Speaker 5: then you go to university and it's much freer. You 1448 01:03:43,853 --> 01:03:47,213 Speaker 5: have to motivate yourself. And I was an absolute idiot 1449 01:03:47,213 --> 01:03:49,493 Speaker 5: when I started going to the university. And I'd listen 1450 01:03:49,533 --> 01:03:51,453 Speaker 5: to the adult students in class and they seem to 1451 01:03:51,493 --> 01:03:53,053 Speaker 5: be so onto it that asked the right questions. 1452 01:03:53,093 --> 01:03:54,373 Speaker 6: I wouldn't even know what was going on. 1453 01:03:55,133 --> 01:03:58,133 Speaker 5: I remember I went flatting really early on, and me 1454 01:03:58,173 --> 01:04:01,973 Speaker 5: and my mate were trying to make pasta spagetti bolog knaze, 1455 01:04:02,053 --> 01:04:04,013 Speaker 5: and we put the pastor and roasted it, and we 1456 01:04:04,053 --> 01:04:06,493 Speaker 5: was trying to work out why why it was an 1457 01:04:06,573 --> 01:04:09,213 Speaker 5: orbandie like it was when Mum made it. And so 1458 01:04:09,333 --> 01:04:11,013 Speaker 5: that person trying to decide what they're going to do 1459 01:04:11,093 --> 01:04:13,493 Speaker 5: for the rest of their life, let alone concentrate, and 1460 01:04:13,613 --> 01:04:15,773 Speaker 5: the lecture was never ever going to happen. 1461 01:04:16,933 --> 01:04:20,413 Speaker 3: That's nice one, Vaughan. Thank you very much mate. Oh 1462 01:04:20,453 --> 01:04:22,733 Speaker 3: eight hundred and eighty ten eighty is the number to 1463 01:04:22,733 --> 01:04:25,413 Speaker 3: call quick text of the break yaday, guys. I'm twenty one. 1464 01:04:25,533 --> 01:04:27,893 Speaker 3: Love listening to your show. I left school at sixteen. 1465 01:04:28,253 --> 01:04:31,893 Speaker 3: I'm now a national business development manager for a very 1466 01:04:31,893 --> 01:04:34,853 Speaker 3: successful company. Well, I didn't go to university. I believe 1467 01:04:34,933 --> 01:04:37,813 Speaker 3: that if you have the motivation to go somewhere, a 1468 01:04:37,813 --> 01:04:40,533 Speaker 3: bit of paper doesn't always require you to get there. 1469 01:04:40,653 --> 01:04:44,133 Speaker 5: Look at that twenty one a national business development manager. 1470 01:04:44,293 --> 01:04:45,773 Speaker 6: Wonder can Yeah, that's what you call that. 1471 01:04:45,893 --> 01:04:48,333 Speaker 3: Wonder can keep those techs coming through on nine two 1472 01:04:48,453 --> 01:04:50,493 Speaker 3: nine two. It's twenty two minutes. 1473 01:04:50,213 --> 01:04:50,773 Speaker 6: To three. 1474 01:04:52,813 --> 01:04:53,293 Speaker 8: Matteeth. 1475 01:04:53,493 --> 01:04:56,213 Speaker 1: Tyler Adams taking your calls on oh eight hundred and 1476 01:04:56,253 --> 01:05:00,173 Speaker 1: eighty ten eighty Matteth and Tyler Adams afternoons news talks. 1477 01:05:00,173 --> 01:05:03,893 Speaker 3: They'd be very good. Afternoon twenty to three, we're. 1478 01:05:03,733 --> 01:05:06,293 Speaker 5: Talking about gap years, Dylan, you're a gap year doubter. 1479 01:05:08,373 --> 01:05:12,853 Speaker 36: Yeah, yeah, I mean I don't really a good idea 1480 01:05:12,973 --> 01:05:16,813 Speaker 36: if you're not necessarily too sure what you want to do. 1481 01:05:16,973 --> 01:05:20,613 Speaker 36: But I don't. I don't really think that going straight 1482 01:05:20,653 --> 01:05:26,573 Speaker 36: into university is necessarily the best idea, just because most 1483 01:05:26,613 --> 01:05:28,613 Speaker 36: people end up just wasting a whole bunch of money. 1484 01:05:28,613 --> 01:05:31,533 Speaker 36: They go to study what they think they want to do, 1485 01:05:33,013 --> 01:05:35,733 Speaker 36: and then chances are they don't actually end up wanting 1486 01:05:35,773 --> 01:05:37,613 Speaker 36: to do that by the end of it, and they 1487 01:05:38,053 --> 01:05:42,253 Speaker 36: end up with a big debt. I ended up just 1488 01:05:42,293 --> 01:05:45,653 Speaker 36: going straight in to work straight after well during school, 1489 01:05:45,693 --> 01:05:50,653 Speaker 36: but I ended up finding while I was working, finding 1490 01:05:50,653 --> 01:05:52,613 Speaker 36: that I wanted to be an electrician, so I studied 1491 01:05:52,653 --> 01:05:57,293 Speaker 36: at the same time. But yeah, yeah, I don't. I 1492 01:05:57,293 --> 01:06:00,013 Speaker 36: don't necessarily think that it's the greatest idea to go 1493 01:06:00,173 --> 01:06:04,453 Speaker 36: traveling or anything like that. I think it's better just 1494 01:06:04,533 --> 01:06:07,653 Speaker 36: to go straight in to work. The other issue with 1495 01:06:08,373 --> 01:06:12,493 Speaker 36: I'm straight into studying is you don't have any experience, 1496 01:06:12,533 --> 01:06:15,933 Speaker 36: so you come out with a degree. But most workplaces 1497 01:06:15,973 --> 01:06:21,453 Speaker 36: want some kind of experience, so it's hard to find 1498 01:06:21,453 --> 01:06:23,413 Speaker 36: a job even when you have a degree because you 1499 01:06:23,453 --> 01:06:25,693 Speaker 36: don't have any any work experience. 1500 01:06:25,773 --> 01:06:29,973 Speaker 5: But yeah, so Dylan, you you went in and eventually 1501 01:06:30,013 --> 01:06:32,573 Speaker 5: win a study become an electrician, and you're still an 1502 01:06:32,613 --> 01:06:35,413 Speaker 5: electrician and you're enjoying that. That's that's the career that 1503 01:06:35,453 --> 01:06:36,853 Speaker 5: you're glad you ended up in that spot. 1504 01:06:37,893 --> 01:06:39,373 Speaker 11: Christ delplp. Yeah. 1505 01:06:39,413 --> 01:06:40,213 Speaker 3: And how old are you now? 1506 01:06:40,293 --> 01:06:40,573 Speaker 5: Dylan? 1507 01:06:44,013 --> 01:06:46,373 Speaker 3: Still a young man, so you're right, you're right now? 1508 01:06:46,933 --> 01:06:52,253 Speaker 3: And where are you at in your electrical trader? You qualified? Now? 1509 01:06:52,493 --> 01:06:55,373 Speaker 3: Oh what time did you start that? So you left 1510 01:06:55,373 --> 01:06:57,653 Speaker 3: school bang on seventeen and got straight into it? And 1511 01:06:57,773 --> 01:06:58,413 Speaker 3: is it four years? 1512 01:06:58,413 --> 01:06:58,773 Speaker 11: I take it? 1513 01:06:59,453 --> 01:06:59,533 Speaker 14: Ye? 1514 01:07:00,613 --> 01:07:01,333 Speaker 10: Over three years. 1515 01:07:02,053 --> 01:07:05,853 Speaker 36: I actually did the course. It was my first three 1516 01:07:05,933 --> 01:07:09,693 Speaker 36: year and banged off a year and a half of 1517 01:07:09,693 --> 01:07:10,453 Speaker 36: your apprenticeship. 1518 01:07:12,333 --> 01:07:14,093 Speaker 5: Tell you what, Dylan, you're in a good spot. You're 1519 01:07:14,093 --> 01:07:16,413 Speaker 5: twenty one, You're a fully qualified electrician. 1520 01:07:16,613 --> 01:07:17,693 Speaker 6: I've got a question for you. 1521 01:07:17,773 --> 01:07:19,693 Speaker 5: Are electricians the smartest trades? 1522 01:07:22,213 --> 01:07:23,813 Speaker 36: I wouldn't say yes. I wouldn't say no. 1523 01:07:26,453 --> 01:07:26,653 Speaker 26: Yes. 1524 01:07:26,693 --> 01:07:28,213 Speaker 6: Would you say who's the dumbert trades? 1525 01:07:30,133 --> 01:07:30,293 Speaker 12: Uh? 1526 01:07:31,413 --> 01:07:32,093 Speaker 36: Probably the later? 1527 01:07:32,333 --> 01:07:32,573 Speaker 26: Theah? 1528 01:07:33,693 --> 01:07:36,413 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, do you get on with the jib stoppers. 1529 01:07:37,973 --> 01:07:40,213 Speaker 36: When they don't cover your jib when you when they 1530 01:07:40,213 --> 01:07:41,653 Speaker 36: don't cover your box. 1531 01:07:41,733 --> 01:07:41,933 Speaker 14: Yeah. 1532 01:07:42,133 --> 01:07:43,213 Speaker 10: Other than that, yep, yep. 1533 01:07:43,693 --> 01:07:46,693 Speaker 5: What about? What do you say to allegations that electricians 1534 01:07:46,733 --> 01:07:49,493 Speaker 5: are elitists? They come and they leave all their bits around. 1535 01:07:49,653 --> 01:07:52,173 Speaker 5: There's there's wires left everywhere, and they just rock out 1536 01:07:52,173 --> 01:07:52,453 Speaker 5: of there. 1537 01:07:53,693 --> 01:07:56,373 Speaker 36: I think that used to be a big thing back 1538 01:07:56,413 --> 01:07:59,493 Speaker 36: in the day, but I think since everybody gives so 1539 01:07:59,613 --> 01:08:04,773 Speaker 36: much shit to electricians, that doesn't necessarily happen anymore. Usually 1540 01:08:04,773 --> 01:08:09,133 Speaker 36: websites are putty onto it too. They Yeah, see wire 1541 01:08:09,413 --> 01:08:13,973 Speaker 36: laying around, go straight up to the until mess up exactly. 1542 01:08:14,053 --> 01:08:14,933 Speaker 3: Dylan, you're a good man. 1543 01:08:15,093 --> 01:08:16,452 Speaker 6: Thanks so much for you called Dylan. 1544 01:08:17,532 --> 01:08:19,173 Speaker 3: Have we got time for carry? Yes? We do. Hey 1545 01:08:19,173 --> 01:08:22,692 Speaker 3: you Carrie, Hi, how are you good? What's your take 1546 01:08:22,733 --> 01:08:23,333 Speaker 3: on the gap year? 1547 01:08:24,772 --> 01:08:28,412 Speaker 20: I think it is absolutely great because not all children 1548 01:08:28,572 --> 01:08:31,972 Speaker 20: at that age know what they want to do. So 1549 01:08:32,333 --> 01:08:37,013 Speaker 20: my own personal sensory, I have two children currently at university. 1550 01:08:38,452 --> 01:08:41,613 Speaker 20: Both of them have gone straight from school to university. 1551 01:08:42,973 --> 01:08:45,012 Speaker 20: They have had sort of, in some ways a little 1552 01:08:45,053 --> 01:08:49,612 Speaker 20: bit of an interesting journey, especially my youngest, who gipped 1553 01:08:49,652 --> 01:08:53,053 Speaker 20: the year then in her final year thought she was 1554 01:08:53,213 --> 01:08:57,772 Speaker 20: smart and didn't quite get enough for nca Level three, 1555 01:08:58,692 --> 01:09:01,213 Speaker 20: at which point I then sat her down and had 1556 01:09:01,253 --> 01:09:05,692 Speaker 20: a conversation with her and laid out her options of 1557 01:09:05,893 --> 01:09:10,213 Speaker 20: where to now. She made the decision to go and 1558 01:09:10,253 --> 01:09:14,972 Speaker 20: do the CUP course, which is the Certificate University Preperdness course. 1559 01:09:15,372 --> 01:09:18,333 Speaker 20: It was a six month course. She went and did that, 1560 01:09:19,253 --> 01:09:22,812 Speaker 20: walked away with that from it with a bursary because 1561 01:09:22,893 --> 01:09:25,652 Speaker 20: your agrees were good enough. She've got a bursary and 1562 01:09:25,692 --> 01:09:28,572 Speaker 20: then she's gone straight into her degree. But I did 1563 01:09:28,572 --> 01:09:31,333 Speaker 20: also suggest her a bit of a gap. Yes, you know, 1564 01:09:31,452 --> 01:09:34,173 Speaker 20: go back to school, do six months at school, get 1565 01:09:34,173 --> 01:09:37,133 Speaker 20: the rest of the NCAA credits, and then been six 1566 01:09:37,173 --> 01:09:41,253 Speaker 20: months working, living life, et cetera. But she wanted to 1567 01:09:41,293 --> 01:09:46,052 Speaker 20: do that, and she's at university now and absolutely excel 1568 01:09:46,053 --> 01:09:51,293 Speaker 20: at this can He failed NCAA level three is getting a's, 1569 01:09:51,973 --> 01:09:57,772 Speaker 20: B plus's those type marks doing fantastic, and so was 1570 01:09:57,812 --> 01:10:01,013 Speaker 20: the oldest. So they it was the right choice for 1571 01:10:01,053 --> 01:10:03,532 Speaker 20: the end. The oldest knew exactly what she wanted to do. 1572 01:10:03,652 --> 01:10:07,932 Speaker 20: The youngest was for several years adamant what she wanted 1573 01:10:07,973 --> 01:10:12,372 Speaker 20: to do. And going straight into university it's a different 1574 01:10:12,452 --> 01:10:17,933 Speaker 20: environment to school, and I've seen my children absolutely. 1575 01:10:17,372 --> 01:10:20,772 Speaker 3: Thrive fantastic And Kerry, I mean, as you mentioned they 1576 01:10:20,933 --> 01:10:24,412 Speaker 3: your daughter or both daughters knew what they wanted to do. 1577 01:10:24,492 --> 01:10:26,692 Speaker 3: Did that give you the confidence to say, you know 1578 01:10:26,732 --> 01:10:28,452 Speaker 3: what you need to do and you go out there 1579 01:10:28,452 --> 01:10:29,932 Speaker 3: and do it in an old back you Yes. 1580 01:10:30,213 --> 01:10:32,412 Speaker 20: And I was also very supportive, and more so with 1581 01:10:32,492 --> 01:10:35,772 Speaker 20: the youngest because she was I did wonder if she 1582 01:10:35,853 --> 01:10:39,173 Speaker 20: needed a bit more time, and I was actually trying 1583 01:10:39,213 --> 01:10:41,452 Speaker 20: to be very supportive of her. But if you wanted 1584 01:10:41,492 --> 01:10:43,892 Speaker 20: to take gap year, that's fine, if you want to 1585 01:10:43,933 --> 01:10:47,732 Speaker 20: do that. They had a cousin who did two year, 1586 01:10:47,853 --> 01:10:50,492 Speaker 20: yet gap year, wasn't one hundred percent sure what she 1587 01:10:50,572 --> 01:10:53,012 Speaker 20: wanted to do. She took a two year gap year 1588 01:10:53,333 --> 01:10:57,772 Speaker 20: and then went and studied down in Wellington. Yep, my 1589 01:10:57,893 --> 01:11:02,933 Speaker 20: oldest daughter, her best friend from school who wanted to 1590 01:11:02,933 --> 01:11:05,932 Speaker 20: be a teacher, has taken gap year, which ends up 1591 01:11:06,532 --> 01:11:12,572 Speaker 20: into a two year gap year out there living life. 1592 01:11:12,853 --> 01:11:15,053 Speaker 20: Has gone and worked in Austronia for a bit as 1593 01:11:15,093 --> 01:11:19,452 Speaker 20: a manny and is absolutely just loving living life right now. 1594 01:11:19,812 --> 01:11:22,412 Speaker 3: You're great, Carrie. I love those stories. Did you take 1595 01:11:22,412 --> 01:11:23,892 Speaker 3: a game yourself? Sorry? 1596 01:11:24,013 --> 01:11:26,852 Speaker 20: Sorry to jump down I never got I never went 1597 01:11:26,893 --> 01:11:29,893 Speaker 20: to university. I went straight to work before at the 1598 01:11:29,933 --> 01:11:34,532 Speaker 20: age seventeen, I was working. You know, I think a 1599 01:11:34,572 --> 01:11:37,772 Speaker 20: lot of it depends on the child, it really does. 1600 01:11:38,013 --> 01:11:40,372 Speaker 20: I mean, my best friend right now is battling with 1601 01:11:40,492 --> 01:11:44,812 Speaker 20: her boy who's just finishing up year twelve, hasn't got 1602 01:11:44,812 --> 01:11:47,893 Speaker 20: the grades really that he needs be for even year thirteen, 1603 01:11:48,133 --> 01:11:50,812 Speaker 20: and he's kind of going, I have no idea what 1604 01:11:50,853 --> 01:11:55,372 Speaker 20: I want to do. He has absolutely no idea what 1605 01:11:55,412 --> 01:11:56,333 Speaker 20: he wants to do. 1606 01:11:56,732 --> 01:11:58,812 Speaker 3: It's a lot of pressure for kids who don't know 1607 01:11:59,173 --> 01:12:01,652 Speaker 3: what they want to do after leaving school. And you 1608 01:12:01,692 --> 01:12:04,692 Speaker 3: know clearly that pressure is still there, Carrie, for kids 1609 01:12:04,692 --> 01:12:07,612 Speaker 3: that think they have to go to university or dutiury. 1610 01:12:07,893 --> 01:12:09,852 Speaker 3: But so glad to hear your daughters knew what they 1611 01:12:09,853 --> 01:12:11,972 Speaker 3: wanted to do, took that gap here and now they're thriving. 1612 01:12:12,053 --> 01:12:15,092 Speaker 3: Thank you so much. Uh, Nick, how you doing. 1613 01:12:16,452 --> 01:12:16,572 Speaker 12: There? 1614 01:12:16,612 --> 01:12:17,772 Speaker 3: You go very good? 1615 01:12:17,772 --> 01:12:22,092 Speaker 15: On this Thursday, mate, I'm just popping over to Cambridge 1616 01:12:22,093 --> 01:12:25,173 Speaker 15: from Hamilton for my vocal lessons, so it was an 1617 01:12:25,173 --> 01:12:27,173 Speaker 15: interesting topic. I thought i'd give you guys a call 1618 01:12:28,213 --> 01:12:28,532 Speaker 15: the vocal. 1619 01:12:29,293 --> 01:12:32,053 Speaker 5: You're a singer, Nick, Oh, I'm I'm in. 1620 01:12:31,973 --> 01:12:36,253 Speaker 15: A local band in Hamilton, and it's sometimes I think 1621 01:12:36,253 --> 01:12:38,692 Speaker 15: it's worth seven of your vocal lessons just to get 1622 01:12:38,732 --> 01:12:40,812 Speaker 15: myself on on track, keep myself sharp. 1623 01:12:40,933 --> 01:12:43,532 Speaker 6: So you're playing originals or covers? Nick? 1624 01:12:43,893 --> 01:12:47,253 Speaker 15: Oh, it's mainly covers. Yeah, I've written a few originals, 1625 01:12:47,253 --> 01:12:47,732 Speaker 15: but they're. 1626 01:12:47,612 --> 01:12:49,932 Speaker 6: A bit what's the what's the band's name. 1627 01:12:49,893 --> 01:12:53,492 Speaker 15: Nick, it's called the Unfold Scene. 1628 01:12:53,572 --> 01:12:56,293 Speaker 3: Good name? And what's music? What sort of covers do 1629 01:12:56,293 --> 01:12:56,492 Speaker 3: you do? 1630 01:12:57,053 --> 01:12:57,253 Speaker 10: Oh? 1631 01:12:57,492 --> 01:12:58,652 Speaker 15: Look at everything? 1632 01:12:58,772 --> 01:12:59,333 Speaker 25: So a little bit. 1633 01:12:59,372 --> 01:13:02,052 Speaker 15: It's even teeth rock. I don't really like the eighties 1634 01:13:03,372 --> 01:13:06,612 Speaker 15: glam rock stuff. I'm throw more of a kid Kennedy. 1635 01:13:06,893 --> 01:13:10,492 Speaker 3: A bit of punk or yeah, what about a bit 1636 01:13:10,532 --> 01:13:11,452 Speaker 3: a c cr. 1637 01:13:12,253 --> 01:13:15,213 Speaker 15: Oh's funny you say that, because I've actually just been 1638 01:13:16,093 --> 01:13:17,973 Speaker 15: learning the Courts of Green River today, which is a 1639 01:13:17,973 --> 01:13:18,652 Speaker 15: great trait. 1640 01:13:18,572 --> 01:13:21,293 Speaker 3: To John Foggery. That's a hard person to replicate in 1641 01:13:21,372 --> 01:13:22,333 Speaker 3: terms of a singing voice. 1642 01:13:23,372 --> 01:13:25,812 Speaker 15: It is, so you don't try and replicating. You've just 1643 01:13:25,853 --> 01:13:28,213 Speaker 15: got to make sure if you're in the same range 1644 01:13:28,452 --> 01:13:29,612 Speaker 15: and and just do. 1645 01:13:29,732 --> 01:13:32,372 Speaker 6: Your thing is not easy to do either. 1646 01:13:33,732 --> 01:13:36,452 Speaker 25: No holiday in Gamebo. 1647 01:13:38,372 --> 01:13:43,572 Speaker 5: In California, OBErs great songs. What sort of places do 1648 01:13:43,612 --> 01:13:45,772 Speaker 5: you play? We've gone off topic here because it's interested 1649 01:13:45,812 --> 01:13:46,333 Speaker 5: about your bear. 1650 01:13:47,412 --> 01:13:51,492 Speaker 15: Yeah, so playing it's a local Irish pub Hamilton called 1651 01:13:51,492 --> 01:13:55,293 Speaker 15: Biddy Mulligan. So we played here and and we're actually 1652 01:13:55,293 --> 01:13:58,133 Speaker 15: playing Saturday night, playing at a bar called the Patron's Bar, 1653 01:13:58,333 --> 01:14:01,093 Speaker 15: which is t You got a really neck caage set 1654 01:14:01,173 --> 01:14:05,372 Speaker 15: up as well for a little bit, a little bit 1655 01:14:06,093 --> 01:14:08,053 Speaker 15: moments with crowds and people not for. 1656 01:14:08,532 --> 01:14:15,133 Speaker 5: Well, well, get get along and support get along. 1657 01:14:15,812 --> 01:14:18,612 Speaker 15: Yeah, he look, I was just I was interested in 1658 01:14:18,973 --> 01:14:22,612 Speaker 15: the topic. So so I'm actually geo technical engineer sort 1659 01:14:22,652 --> 01:14:24,692 Speaker 15: of work in Hamilton. I'm I'm actually doing a post 1660 01:14:24,732 --> 01:14:26,692 Speaker 15: grade the Plumber of psychology at the moment too, because 1661 01:14:26,692 --> 01:14:29,093 Speaker 15: I've sort of become a little bit more interested in 1662 01:14:29,372 --> 01:14:33,412 Speaker 15: people in behavior other than than things, and which is 1663 01:14:33,452 --> 01:14:37,213 Speaker 15: sort of an interesting concept. But but I I sort 1664 01:14:37,213 --> 01:14:39,692 Speaker 15: of grew So my old group and teams are in 1665 01:14:39,772 --> 01:14:42,692 Speaker 15: the Coromandel where and my old man was actually needs 1666 01:14:42,812 --> 01:14:46,412 Speaker 15: ex French fore allegiant combat soldier and he wasn't a 1667 01:14:46,452 --> 01:14:49,572 Speaker 15: key we so I grew up pretty tough and he 1668 01:14:49,973 --> 01:14:54,612 Speaker 15: was pretty pretty rugged, to be honest, and so I 1669 01:14:54,732 --> 01:14:56,452 Speaker 15: had a bit of a hat. I got knocked around 1670 01:14:56,492 --> 01:14:58,333 Speaker 15: a bit, and there was other things sort of browing 1671 01:14:58,412 --> 01:15:01,253 Speaker 15: up in the eighties and teams. It was a hard town, 1672 01:15:01,732 --> 01:15:05,612 Speaker 15: you know as well. I was very academic, but I 1673 01:15:05,812 --> 01:15:09,852 Speaker 15: just had a of conduct, sort of antisocial. 1674 01:15:09,333 --> 01:15:09,933 Speaker 10: Stuff going on. 1675 01:15:10,772 --> 01:15:13,892 Speaker 15: By the time I've passed my book was system certificate 1676 01:15:14,013 --> 01:15:17,133 Speaker 15: at the time, quite happily, but I, you know, I 1677 01:15:17,293 --> 01:15:19,492 Speaker 15: was just scrapping all the time, and I ended up 1678 01:15:19,532 --> 01:15:20,572 Speaker 15: having to leave school. 1679 01:15:20,652 --> 01:15:21,492 Speaker 12: I just had to. 1680 01:15:23,093 --> 01:15:24,652 Speaker 15: So left for a couple of years, went back and 1681 01:15:24,732 --> 01:15:28,133 Speaker 15: then did sort of did sixth and sixth form and 1682 01:15:29,372 --> 01:15:32,612 Speaker 15: seven form as well. I didn't sort of really get 1683 01:15:32,772 --> 01:15:36,253 Speaker 15: Universe entrance. It's just on the cusp of of get 1684 01:15:36,452 --> 01:15:39,133 Speaker 15: the whole yea thing, and I sort of quite I've 1685 01:15:39,133 --> 01:15:41,532 Speaker 15: sort of forgot what happened, but I ended up I 1686 01:15:41,652 --> 01:15:44,973 Speaker 15: was sort of had quite a few emotional issues. I 1687 01:15:45,093 --> 01:15:46,973 Speaker 15: got best and I was sort of working in the 1688 01:15:47,053 --> 01:15:50,333 Speaker 15: local meatworks and one of the young guys the sort 1689 01:15:50,372 --> 01:15:52,892 Speaker 15: of said to me, well, you're a pretty smart guy 1690 01:15:53,053 --> 01:15:55,013 Speaker 15: the way you talk and so forth, and you had 1691 01:15:55,053 --> 01:15:57,093 Speaker 15: to hit yourself off the yearni. I was actually on 1692 01:15:57,253 --> 01:16:01,532 Speaker 15: probation at the time, and I sort of for you know, 1693 01:16:01,812 --> 01:16:04,253 Speaker 15: some silly stuff, and as soon as my probation finished, 1694 01:16:04,253 --> 01:16:08,093 Speaker 15: I just picked my bags up and just said said 1695 01:16:08,372 --> 01:16:11,612 Speaker 15: sorry to mum. Leaving Bloody went straight off to Hamilton 1696 01:16:11,692 --> 01:16:15,572 Speaker 15: and enrolled at ko Yeunie and I basically had to 1697 01:16:15,692 --> 01:16:18,492 Speaker 15: plead with the the the square of study because I 1698 01:16:18,492 --> 01:16:22,652 Speaker 15: didn't actually you know, the qualitation go to union at 1699 01:16:22,692 --> 01:16:25,973 Speaker 15: that time. And you know, you've just just bleed my 1700 01:16:26,013 --> 01:16:27,452 Speaker 15: heart and said, look, you've got to You've got to 1701 01:16:27,492 --> 01:16:30,772 Speaker 15: let me in, you know, I just and I ended 1702 01:16:30,853 --> 01:16:33,852 Speaker 15: up rolling and I sort of got accepted and enrolled 1703 01:16:33,853 --> 01:16:37,013 Speaker 15: in a faculty of their sciences. So I started a 1704 01:16:37,213 --> 01:16:40,452 Speaker 15: scientists and engineering. But you know, at that time I 1705 01:16:40,692 --> 01:16:43,333 Speaker 15: was sort of that twenty two twenty three. Then I 1706 01:16:43,412 --> 01:16:46,412 Speaker 15: sort of remember my first, my very first lecture in 1707 01:16:46,692 --> 01:16:50,412 Speaker 15: engineering one O one, and I just felt this relief, 1708 01:16:50,612 --> 01:16:53,572 Speaker 15: this weight lifted off my shoulders that this is where 1709 01:16:53,652 --> 01:16:54,612 Speaker 15: I'm supposed. 1710 01:16:54,253 --> 01:16:56,652 Speaker 5: To be, so so that that that gap was the 1711 01:16:56,812 --> 01:16:58,732 Speaker 5: perfect for you and you found it out. Sorry, we've 1712 01:16:58,772 --> 01:17:00,372 Speaker 5: just got got to move on because we're running out 1713 01:17:00,372 --> 01:17:00,652 Speaker 5: of time. 1714 01:17:00,692 --> 01:17:01,852 Speaker 3: How much life you've lived there. 1715 01:17:01,933 --> 01:17:03,852 Speaker 5: But before you go, nick name of the band and 1716 01:17:03,853 --> 01:17:05,253 Speaker 5: when you're play where you're playing on Saturday. 1717 01:17:06,293 --> 01:17:10,173 Speaker 15: Oh so it's the Unforeseene. It's called spelt sc and 1718 01:17:10,253 --> 01:17:13,732 Speaker 15: e we're playing at the Patrons by Hamilton at seven 1719 01:17:13,853 --> 01:17:15,173 Speaker 15: thirty on Saturday night. 1720 01:17:15,293 --> 01:17:17,692 Speaker 3: Brill, good long, love it, Thank you very much. Nick. 1721 01:17:17,772 --> 01:17:19,253 Speaker 3: It is seven minutes to three. 1722 01:17:20,853 --> 01:17:23,213 Speaker 8: The issues that affect you and a bit of fun 1723 01:17:23,293 --> 01:17:23,892 Speaker 8: along the way. 1724 01:17:24,133 --> 01:17:27,612 Speaker 1: Matt Heath and Tyler Adams Afternoons you for twenty twenty 1725 01:17:27,692 --> 01:17:29,173 Speaker 1: four you talk SEDB. 1726 01:17:30,692 --> 01:17:31,653 Speaker 5: News TALKSB. 1727 01:17:31,812 --> 01:17:35,013 Speaker 3: It's five to three. Man, it's very exciting because the 1728 01:17:35,133 --> 01:17:37,293 Speaker 3: dog go at the baseball. Like just before you give 1729 01:17:37,333 --> 01:17:39,612 Speaker 3: an update, we'll get heavy and get a hemmy, we've 1730 01:17:39,612 --> 01:17:41,212 Speaker 3: got about sixty seconds, my friend. 1731 01:17:42,173 --> 01:17:46,852 Speaker 11: Here, buddy, Yeah, on fortually, I didn't do a JAP year, 1732 01:17:47,612 --> 01:17:50,372 Speaker 11: But I didn't think I did a DIEP year because 1733 01:17:50,412 --> 01:17:56,692 Speaker 11: I I went to work at fourteen and I didn't 1734 01:17:56,732 --> 01:17:59,213 Speaker 11: go to school yep, for a whole year. And I 1735 01:17:59,293 --> 01:18:03,372 Speaker 11: worked because my parents both worked. But we had I 1736 01:18:03,452 --> 01:18:06,012 Speaker 11: had five brothers and two sisters and a grandfather staying 1737 01:18:06,013 --> 01:18:08,932 Speaker 11: their name. Yeah, and I watched them straight back. 1738 01:18:08,772 --> 01:18:09,173 Speaker 10: In the day. 1739 01:18:10,612 --> 01:18:12,173 Speaker 3: Well, yeah, you did what you needed to do that 1740 01:18:12,253 --> 01:18:14,013 Speaker 3: at that point. Here me, but your daughters asked to 1741 01:18:14,053 --> 01:18:16,253 Speaker 3: do a gap year. Are you happy for. 1742 01:18:16,293 --> 01:18:16,772 Speaker 25: Her to do that? 1743 01:18:18,253 --> 01:18:21,452 Speaker 11: And then when growing up she I have my daughter 1744 01:18:21,692 --> 01:18:25,572 Speaker 11: and she did she did good that at school. Then 1745 01:18:26,412 --> 01:18:28,973 Speaker 11: she asked me, well, gap year and most yeap, what 1746 01:18:29,133 --> 01:18:32,053 Speaker 11: you going to do? And she said, oh I name 1747 01:18:32,053 --> 01:18:34,772 Speaker 11: you said, you're not going to stay home. I'll get 1748 01:18:34,772 --> 01:18:36,972 Speaker 11: you a job with me because I work at Frontier. 1749 01:18:37,253 --> 01:18:37,452 Speaker 12: Yep. 1750 01:18:37,612 --> 01:18:38,452 Speaker 3: And she's going to do that. 1751 01:18:40,093 --> 01:18:42,532 Speaker 11: Oh, she did that for the whole year. The first 1752 01:18:42,572 --> 01:18:44,932 Speaker 11: place she got. She goes, hey, look. 1753 01:18:44,772 --> 01:18:48,372 Speaker 3: At this, and she was shot how much money she had? 1754 01:18:48,452 --> 01:18:50,572 Speaker 3: Good times, hear me. I wish we had longer, but 1755 01:18:50,732 --> 01:18:54,293 Speaker 3: the news is hot on our tale. After three o'clock 1756 01:18:54,293 --> 01:18:56,133 Speaker 3: we're going to be talking Halloween. 1757 01:18:56,853 --> 01:18:57,412 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's right. 1758 01:18:57,452 --> 01:18:59,852 Speaker 5: I'm excited. I love Halloween. Do you do you celebrate it? 1759 01:19:01,652 --> 01:19:04,812 Speaker 1: Talking with you all afternoon, It's Matt Heath and Tyler 1760 01:19:04,853 --> 01:19:07,652 Speaker 1: Adams afternoons you for twenty twenty four. 1761 01:19:09,933 --> 01:19:13,093 Speaker 3: Good afternoon to you. Saw a lot of excitement in 1762 01:19:13,173 --> 01:19:15,732 Speaker 3: the studio over the past fifteen minutes, and it is 1763 01:19:15,772 --> 01:19:16,692 Speaker 3: related to baseball. 1764 01:19:16,812 --> 01:19:21,052 Speaker 5: How dare you, Tyler? I'm watching, I'm watching the text machine, 1765 01:19:21,173 --> 01:19:23,412 Speaker 5: the phones and you, and I'm very concentrated on the 1766 01:19:23,452 --> 01:19:26,293 Speaker 5: show and I don't have any interest in this incredibly 1767 01:19:26,372 --> 01:19:31,092 Speaker 5: exciting game happening at Yankee Stadium, Dodgers. My beloved Dodgers 1768 01:19:31,412 --> 01:19:34,532 Speaker 5: in the World Series, up three to one. They were 1769 01:19:34,612 --> 01:19:36,372 Speaker 5: down up three to one in the series, they were 1770 01:19:36,412 --> 01:19:39,493 Speaker 5: down five nothing in the game, and then an incredible 1771 01:19:40,053 --> 01:19:42,293 Speaker 5: rally on an era by Cole. I'm going to say 1772 01:19:42,293 --> 01:19:43,932 Speaker 5: the picture didn't run over Anyoay, let's not get into 1773 01:19:43,933 --> 01:19:46,812 Speaker 5: the technical details. Yeah, yeah, that is an incredibly exciting game. 1774 01:19:47,173 --> 01:19:50,612 Speaker 5: It's now five to five. And look, if the Dodgers 1775 01:19:50,652 --> 01:19:53,733 Speaker 5: win this game, we're at the where at the top 1776 01:19:53,772 --> 01:19:55,093 Speaker 5: of the fifth Now, if the Dodgers win this game, 1777 01:19:55,093 --> 01:19:55,972 Speaker 5: they win the World Series. 1778 01:19:56,213 --> 01:19:57,772 Speaker 6: It couldn't be more exciting right now. 1779 01:19:57,812 --> 01:20:00,052 Speaker 3: But you were saying before you hope they lose, because 1780 01:20:00,133 --> 01:20:02,692 Speaker 3: then they've got a away day. Then they've got the 1781 01:20:02,772 --> 01:20:05,173 Speaker 3: final game back in LA and that's a Saturday, and 1782 01:20:05,293 --> 01:20:06,213 Speaker 3: you can be on your count. 1783 01:20:06,293 --> 01:20:08,133 Speaker 5: Well, when I said I hope they lose, I don't 1784 01:20:08,133 --> 01:20:09,852 Speaker 5: want to say that I would love them to win now, 1785 01:20:10,053 --> 01:20:12,532 Speaker 5: but I was trying to It was sort of happiness insurance. 1786 01:20:12,612 --> 01:20:14,932 Speaker 5: I was saying, if they don't win today, at least 1787 01:20:14,933 --> 01:20:16,452 Speaker 5: I'll get to watch it live because I won't be 1788 01:20:16,532 --> 01:20:18,732 Speaker 5: on the radio. I'll be at home with a bunch 1789 01:20:18,772 --> 01:20:20,973 Speaker 5: of mates watching it on the couch and it'll be 1790 01:20:21,093 --> 01:20:22,093 Speaker 5: a win in LA. 1791 01:20:22,572 --> 01:20:23,052 Speaker 6: Hopefully. 1792 01:20:23,333 --> 01:20:25,013 Speaker 5: I sound like I'm jinxing the whole thing if you 1793 01:20:25,093 --> 01:20:28,213 Speaker 5: can jinx it from ten thousand kilometers away, bit, but 1794 01:20:29,093 --> 01:20:30,612 Speaker 5: it would be It would be quite something to win 1795 01:20:30,612 --> 01:20:32,812 Speaker 5: the World Sorry Series at home in La because the 1796 01:20:32,893 --> 01:20:36,053 Speaker 5: Dodgers are beloved in La. Their rival the Lakers for 1797 01:20:36,133 --> 01:20:37,333 Speaker 5: the most important team in La. 1798 01:20:37,492 --> 01:20:40,293 Speaker 3: I love happiness insurance. Great phrase. Now, just before we 1799 01:20:40,333 --> 01:20:42,053 Speaker 3: get on too Halloween, I just wanted to read out 1800 01:20:42,053 --> 01:20:44,652 Speaker 3: the sticks that came through on the Gap year Kidday. Guys. 1801 01:20:44,732 --> 01:20:47,372 Speaker 3: I had to pull over, as this is a brilliant topic, 1802 01:20:47,492 --> 01:20:50,053 Speaker 3: gap year. I have a seventeen year old son. This 1803 01:20:50,213 --> 01:20:52,093 Speaker 3: is his last year and we were all set for 1804 01:20:52,173 --> 01:20:53,852 Speaker 3: him to go to UNI next year. But now have 1805 01:20:54,013 --> 01:20:57,732 Speaker 3: asked us parents to have a gap year. He asked 1806 01:20:57,732 --> 01:21:00,692 Speaker 3: with such motivation that I'm so proud of them. He said, 1807 01:21:00,732 --> 01:21:02,293 Speaker 3: I want to find my way in this world, as 1808 01:21:02,333 --> 01:21:04,093 Speaker 3: I don't know what I want to do yet. It 1809 01:21:04,253 --> 01:21:07,532 Speaker 3: was always set that his past passion was flying, so 1810 01:21:07,692 --> 01:21:10,173 Speaker 3: aviation messy was set. Now he wants to see what 1811 01:21:10,293 --> 01:21:12,372 Speaker 3: else is out there for him, so we said, yes, 1812 01:21:12,532 --> 01:21:15,053 Speaker 3: he can have a gap year. Love listening to you guys, 1813 01:21:15,133 --> 01:21:15,932 Speaker 3: what a great tech sir. 1814 01:21:16,333 --> 01:21:16,492 Speaker 30: Yeah. 1815 01:21:16,612 --> 01:21:19,572 Speaker 5: Wow. So if your kid comes to you and passionately 1816 01:21:19,612 --> 01:21:23,293 Speaker 5: says that with such reason and conviction that they want 1817 01:21:23,293 --> 01:21:25,092 Speaker 5: to have a gap year for those reasons, then. 1818 01:21:24,973 --> 01:21:26,093 Speaker 6: You would be proud, wouldn't you. 1819 01:21:26,293 --> 01:21:29,452 Speaker 5: Yeah, because they know what they're doing. That's wise beyond 1820 01:21:29,492 --> 01:21:31,852 Speaker 5: your years. So my son's on the same thing. He 1821 01:21:31,933 --> 01:21:33,812 Speaker 5: said he wants to have a gap year this year 1822 01:21:33,812 --> 01:21:35,053 Speaker 5: because he's not sure what to do. He was on 1823 01:21:35,133 --> 01:21:40,412 Speaker 5: a path to quite a heavy career and heavy degree, 1824 01:21:40,652 --> 01:21:42,452 Speaker 5: and he said, no, I need to take a gap 1825 01:21:42,532 --> 01:21:43,972 Speaker 5: year because I'm not sure if I feel the same 1826 01:21:44,013 --> 01:21:45,812 Speaker 5: way as I did when I was fifteen about what 1827 01:21:45,893 --> 01:21:49,093 Speaker 5: I want to do with my life. And I felt 1828 01:21:49,133 --> 01:21:51,492 Speaker 5: proud as well. But if he sits on the couch, 1829 01:21:51,532 --> 01:21:53,772 Speaker 5: then I won't feel proud. He's he's got to get 1830 01:21:53,812 --> 01:21:55,772 Speaker 5: out there and use that gap year to follow a 1831 01:21:55,812 --> 01:21:58,652 Speaker 5: passion or find out what the real world's like. 1832 01:21:58,812 --> 01:22:00,892 Speaker 3: Yeah, great discussion, But we are going to chat about 1833 01:22:00,893 --> 01:22:03,892 Speaker 3: Halloween because it is Halloween today in New Zealand. 1834 01:22:04,013 --> 01:22:08,093 Speaker 37: How terrifying, how terrifying, spooky. Look at it out there 1835 01:22:08,333 --> 01:22:09,972 Speaker 37: and it is, Well, it's one of those things. It's 1836 01:22:09,973 --> 01:22:11,852 Speaker 37: one of those holidays that was a slow burn in 1837 01:22:11,893 --> 01:22:15,853 Speaker 37: New Zealand culture, but now we have embraced it wholeheartedly. 1838 01:22:16,053 --> 01:22:20,412 Speaker 3: Most how Hallow holiday, Yeah, I'd love to have Hallow. 1839 01:22:20,532 --> 01:22:22,092 Speaker 3: So they have Halloween off in America. 1840 01:22:22,173 --> 01:22:25,852 Speaker 6: No, it's a celebration as opposed to holiday. 1841 01:22:25,893 --> 01:22:28,572 Speaker 3: But yeah, but I have been surprised by the wrap 1842 01:22:28,652 --> 01:22:32,133 Speaker 3: it up take in New Zealanders getting behind Halloween. So 1843 01:22:32,213 --> 01:22:34,293 Speaker 3: they get the costumes. It's a good day for Kmart 1844 01:22:34,293 --> 01:22:36,772 Speaker 3: in the warehouse. They of Halloween because they sell a 1845 01:22:36,853 --> 01:22:37,653 Speaker 3: lot of stuff. 1846 01:22:37,452 --> 01:22:38,892 Speaker 5: And look sharp and look sharp. 1847 01:22:38,933 --> 01:22:41,732 Speaker 3: But they get into the costumes and they put the candy, 1848 01:22:41,812 --> 01:22:43,892 Speaker 3: the lollies out. Candy is a very American term, put 1849 01:22:43,893 --> 01:22:47,173 Speaker 3: the lollies out for the kids. And I don't know 1850 01:22:47,173 --> 01:22:49,253 Speaker 3: if I was a hallw Halloween grinch. I just didn't 1851 01:22:49,253 --> 01:22:51,572 Speaker 3: really get into it. We don't have kids ourselves yet, 1852 01:22:52,213 --> 01:22:54,532 Speaker 3: and I didn't really feel the vibe. And I thought 1853 01:22:54,572 --> 01:22:56,533 Speaker 3: the trick of treaders were just a bunch of hooligans 1854 01:22:56,572 --> 01:22:58,692 Speaker 3: on the street, you know, getting into trouble. I've changed 1855 01:22:58,732 --> 01:23:00,932 Speaker 3: my mind, and tonight when I get home, we'll put 1856 01:23:00,973 --> 01:23:03,652 Speaker 3: out a wee bowl of some sort of lolly candy 1857 01:23:03,812 --> 01:23:06,293 Speaker 3: whatever it is. But I'm not going to answer the door. 1858 01:23:06,333 --> 01:23:08,972 Speaker 3: They going to put a bowl on the door. Yeah, 1859 01:23:09,452 --> 01:23:12,133 Speaker 3: and help yourself. That's what you don't enough. 1860 01:23:13,333 --> 01:23:15,213 Speaker 6: The first kids that turn up are can help themselves 1861 01:23:15,213 --> 01:23:16,012 Speaker 6: to the entire bowl. 1862 01:23:16,173 --> 01:23:17,652 Speaker 3: So be it so bad. 1863 01:23:19,013 --> 01:23:20,652 Speaker 5: Like you're feeding a dog. Just put it out in 1864 01:23:20,732 --> 01:23:21,652 Speaker 5: a bowl out the front. 1865 01:23:21,853 --> 01:23:26,933 Speaker 3: Well, I'll scatter it on the driveway. Is but you 1866 01:23:27,492 --> 01:23:28,412 Speaker 3: you do love Halloween. 1867 01:23:28,572 --> 01:23:30,852 Speaker 5: I love Halloween. I love the creativity about it. I 1868 01:23:30,893 --> 01:23:32,933 Speaker 5: don't believe that that thing where people say it's just 1869 01:23:32,973 --> 01:23:34,972 Speaker 5: an American tradition, it's not. I mean, it's it's comes 1870 01:23:35,133 --> 01:23:37,612 Speaker 5: a long way from before America. It came to America, 1871 01:23:37,652 --> 01:23:39,692 Speaker 5: it came to New Zealand. It's it's a fun thing. 1872 01:23:39,732 --> 01:23:42,572 Speaker 5: Who kids where it comes from? Anyway, I like kids 1873 01:23:42,853 --> 01:23:46,652 Speaker 5: dressing up. I like horror movies. When I was a kid, 1874 01:23:46,692 --> 01:23:48,772 Speaker 5: I went out. I was nearly adopted back in Dunedin 1875 01:23:48,893 --> 01:23:51,652 Speaker 5: of going out and trying to trickle treat back before 1876 01:23:51,732 --> 01:23:53,492 Speaker 5: no one knew what the hell was going on. How 1877 01:23:53,532 --> 01:23:54,732 Speaker 5: old were you I reckon? 1878 01:23:54,812 --> 01:23:55,293 Speaker 3: I was eight. 1879 01:23:55,732 --> 01:23:58,173 Speaker 5: I went out onto the streets of Malorti Hill and 1880 01:23:58,612 --> 01:24:00,293 Speaker 5: the first house we went to, knocked on the door, 1881 01:24:00,372 --> 01:24:04,173 Speaker 5: got taken inside by a World War two veteran who 1882 01:24:04,293 --> 01:24:07,133 Speaker 5: gave us a one hour lecture on begging. He didn't 1883 01:24:07,173 --> 01:24:09,852 Speaker 5: understand what Halloween was at all. He just thought that 1884 01:24:09,893 --> 01:24:13,012 Speaker 5: we were knocked on his door and threatened him, threatened 1885 01:24:13,093 --> 01:24:15,293 Speaker 5: him with a trek if he didn't give us lolly 1886 01:24:15,372 --> 01:24:18,012 Speaker 5: so threatened. Event he basically locked us in and lectured 1887 01:24:18,093 --> 01:24:23,412 Speaker 5: us about what degenerates we were. But since then, my 1888 01:24:23,532 --> 01:24:26,572 Speaker 5: kid's gone out trickle treating. I love the costumes. I've 1889 01:24:26,612 --> 01:24:30,492 Speaker 5: gone to Halloween parties, but nowadays, primarily what I do 1890 01:24:30,652 --> 01:24:32,652 Speaker 5: for Halloween is watch a movie. I watch a horror 1891 01:24:32,732 --> 01:24:34,852 Speaker 5: film every year. We watched one last night, but well 1892 01:24:35,372 --> 01:24:37,652 Speaker 5: we'll I'll force the kids to watch horror films with 1893 01:24:37,772 --> 01:24:40,013 Speaker 5: me and and I think that's a great way to 1894 01:24:40,093 --> 01:24:43,093 Speaker 5: celebrate Halloween. It's good getting scared. I love getting scared. 1895 01:24:43,133 --> 01:24:45,293 Speaker 3: You're gonna have another watch party tonight. 1896 01:24:45,452 --> 01:24:46,532 Speaker 6: Yeah, one hundred. 1897 01:24:46,812 --> 01:24:47,692 Speaker 3: Do you know what you're gonna watch it? 1898 01:24:48,372 --> 01:24:50,892 Speaker 5: Well, look, I've been thinking about that, and maybe at 1899 01:24:50,933 --> 01:24:53,053 Speaker 5: the end of the hour, I was thinking about going 1900 01:24:53,133 --> 01:24:56,092 Speaker 5: through some horror films of recent years, because he obviously 1901 01:24:56,173 --> 01:24:57,812 Speaker 5: is the classics, and I'd love to hear people on 1902 01:24:57,893 --> 01:24:58,812 Speaker 5: our eight hundred Hodechi. 1903 01:24:59,893 --> 01:25:02,452 Speaker 6: I did it for the first time there. It is funny. 1904 01:25:02,652 --> 01:25:09,412 Speaker 5: At some point I'd say, Waite hundred hodew eight, I'm going. 1905 01:25:09,372 --> 01:25:10,013 Speaker 3: To be happy with you. 1906 01:25:10,372 --> 01:25:12,732 Speaker 5: Eight hundred eighty ten eighty is the number. 1907 01:25:12,893 --> 01:25:16,572 Speaker 6: Well, I believe that took my fourth week before I said. 1908 01:25:16,532 --> 01:25:19,333 Speaker 5: The cameras remember from my last job, welcome to the 1909 01:25:19,372 --> 01:25:23,133 Speaker 5: first floor, mat Yeah, suggestions for horror movies and what 1910 01:25:23,253 --> 01:25:24,572 Speaker 5: are the greatest horror movies of all time? 1911 01:25:24,692 --> 01:25:26,093 Speaker 6: Like to talk about that? And how do you sell 1912 01:25:26,093 --> 01:25:27,732 Speaker 6: about Halloween? And are you for it? 1913 01:25:27,893 --> 01:25:28,572 Speaker 5: Or are you again it? 1914 01:25:28,692 --> 01:25:30,213 Speaker 3: Are you going to put lollies out for the kids? 1915 01:25:31,053 --> 01:25:33,452 Speaker 5: Well, I kind of live in an interesting situation now 1916 01:25:33,572 --> 01:25:38,053 Speaker 5: since my life changed. Back in the old house was 1917 01:25:38,173 --> 01:25:39,772 Speaker 5: it was easy to do because you know, we're in 1918 01:25:39,812 --> 01:25:41,532 Speaker 5: a villet, we're on a street and put it out. 1919 01:25:41,572 --> 01:25:43,772 Speaker 5: I'm sort of living an apartment building situation now, so 1920 01:25:43,812 --> 01:25:47,053 Speaker 5: it's a bit a bit more more difficult. But you know, 1921 01:25:47,173 --> 01:25:48,652 Speaker 5: if you want kids to come to your door, you 1922 01:25:48,973 --> 01:25:51,532 Speaker 5: put a few few fake cob webs on the door. 1923 01:25:51,572 --> 01:25:54,173 Speaker 5: You signal to people that people don't just go and 1924 01:25:54,253 --> 01:25:55,812 Speaker 5: knock on every door. They knock on the doors that 1925 01:25:55,893 --> 01:25:57,172 Speaker 5: signal that they want to be involved. 1926 01:25:57,333 --> 01:25:57,732 Speaker 8: Is that right? 1927 01:25:57,933 --> 01:25:59,213 Speaker 6: Yeah? That's right. 1928 01:25:59,293 --> 01:26:01,812 Speaker 5: Yeah, you put it as I feel like, I feel 1929 01:26:01,812 --> 01:26:05,852 Speaker 5: like Auckland is way more into Halloween than any other city, definitely. 1930 01:26:06,093 --> 01:26:08,253 Speaker 3: I mean down in christ the kid's just knocked on 1931 01:26:08,333 --> 01:26:10,053 Speaker 3: any door. I mean, if the gate was open, they'd 1932 01:26:10,093 --> 01:26:12,213 Speaker 3: come on through and say, you know, we're polite about it, 1933 01:26:12,333 --> 01:26:15,172 Speaker 3: Happy Halloween. And if we didn't have any canteen, we didn't, 1934 01:26:15,492 --> 01:26:17,133 Speaker 3: And I felt like a real scrooge is that we 1935 01:26:17,253 --> 01:26:19,973 Speaker 3: just didn't answer the door, close the curtain, send off 1936 01:26:19,973 --> 01:26:21,053 Speaker 3: the lights, we're not home kids. 1937 01:26:21,253 --> 01:26:23,933 Speaker 5: Well, in Auckland, it's definitely a new signal that you 1938 01:26:24,133 --> 01:26:27,053 Speaker 5: are involved. And some people go to full full lengths 1939 01:26:27,093 --> 01:26:28,732 Speaker 5: on it. There's some streets in Auckland that are very, 1940 01:26:28,973 --> 01:26:31,452 Speaker 5: very into it. There's there's a guy that's not too 1941 01:26:31,492 --> 01:26:33,932 Speaker 5: far from me that will fire up a fake chainsaw 1942 01:26:33,973 --> 01:26:36,372 Speaker 5: who takes the chain off and he'll chase kids out 1943 01:26:36,372 --> 01:26:38,932 Speaker 5: of the front yard and they do a whole plava 1944 01:26:39,013 --> 01:26:39,372 Speaker 5: around it. 1945 01:26:39,452 --> 01:26:42,692 Speaker 6: And it's fantastic. But you have to signal. 1946 01:26:43,133 --> 01:26:46,532 Speaker 5: You buy the fake cob web, you put a you 1947 01:26:46,612 --> 01:26:48,932 Speaker 5: put a fake grave in there, you run a run 1948 01:26:49,013 --> 01:26:51,532 Speaker 5: a graveyard in your front yard and people know that's 1949 01:26:51,612 --> 01:26:53,213 Speaker 5: that's a house that's given out the lollies. 1950 01:26:53,293 --> 01:26:55,372 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh, one hundred and eighty ten eighty is the 1951 01:26:55,492 --> 01:26:57,612 Speaker 3: number to call of you into Halloween. Love to hear 1952 01:26:57,652 --> 01:27:00,093 Speaker 3: from you. Nine two ninety two is the text number 1953 01:27:00,133 --> 01:27:02,732 Speaker 3: of text is more your thing. Let's go Dodges, Let's 1954 01:27:02,812 --> 01:27:07,652 Speaker 3: go touches. Quarter past three. News Talks there, b we're 1955 01:27:07,652 --> 01:27:10,892 Speaker 3: talking about the right of Halloween, the New Zealan rise 1956 01:27:11,053 --> 01:27:15,052 Speaker 3: of Allowen. John, You're torn on the issue. 1957 01:27:16,612 --> 01:27:19,253 Speaker 9: Absolutely, you f that a little bit inspired a cool 1958 01:27:19,333 --> 01:27:22,732 Speaker 9: because I'm in the car listening to news talks. They'd 1959 01:27:22,772 --> 01:27:25,612 Speaker 9: be on a Thursday afternoon and welcome to your new 1960 01:27:25,692 --> 01:27:30,652 Speaker 9: time slot and brand fellas here the radio during Yeah, 1961 01:27:30,973 --> 01:27:32,692 Speaker 9: I don't often hear the radio during the day, but 1962 01:27:33,452 --> 01:27:36,933 Speaker 9: I have just quickly absolutely torn. I've got eleven and 1963 01:27:37,013 --> 01:27:40,532 Speaker 9: twelve year old that the southnoon, very excited and about 1964 01:27:40,532 --> 01:27:44,173 Speaker 9: the head out and dress up. Now I am torn 1965 01:27:44,253 --> 01:27:47,972 Speaker 9: because essentially, as lots of other parents, we're talking about 1966 01:27:48,013 --> 01:27:50,772 Speaker 9: a situation with Halloween where we're actually encouraging our kids 1967 01:27:50,812 --> 01:27:53,132 Speaker 9: to wander around the street and that's strangers for candy, 1968 01:27:53,692 --> 01:27:56,053 Speaker 9: and I just think that's Britain. 1969 01:27:56,253 --> 01:27:57,492 Speaker 15: You know, not that cool. 1970 01:27:57,893 --> 01:28:00,172 Speaker 9: But then the other side of it is they're really excited, 1971 01:28:00,293 --> 01:28:02,812 Speaker 9: they dress up, they're out with their mates. But I 1972 01:28:03,213 --> 01:28:05,372 Speaker 9: don't Just a bit of happened to do a bit 1973 01:28:05,412 --> 01:28:08,053 Speaker 9: of a drive by in a particular suburban christ Church 1974 01:28:08,133 --> 01:28:13,012 Speaker 9: that previous years has supported Halloween. There's lots of houses 1975 01:28:13,093 --> 01:28:15,293 Speaker 9: dressed up, so you know that that's where people go. 1976 01:28:16,093 --> 01:28:18,333 Speaker 9: I'm driven down the street that I'm will not name, 1977 01:28:19,053 --> 01:28:21,732 Speaker 9: and I could only see two houses out of the 1978 01:28:22,333 --> 01:28:24,973 Speaker 9: bundle of houses that look like they're ready could be 1979 01:28:25,133 --> 01:28:26,172 Speaker 9: invaded by children. 1980 01:28:27,612 --> 01:28:29,852 Speaker 3: Give us a suburb, John, give us a suburb. 1981 01:28:29,933 --> 01:28:31,812 Speaker 10: No, I won't. 1982 01:28:32,053 --> 01:28:37,092 Speaker 9: Well, it's it's near Cashmere, sort of off Columbo Street, 1983 01:28:37,173 --> 01:28:38,213 Speaker 9: heading towards the hills. 1984 01:28:38,372 --> 01:28:40,053 Speaker 3: Right, Okay, I know where you're right now. Yeah, I'm 1985 01:28:40,093 --> 01:28:41,333 Speaker 3: not going to name it, but I know where we're 1986 01:28:41,333 --> 01:28:41,692 Speaker 3: at yet. 1987 01:28:41,933 --> 01:28:45,372 Speaker 9: Yeah, and a particular street that has has been pretty supportive. 1988 01:28:45,492 --> 01:28:48,732 Speaker 9: But as I said, quick drive by, I don't think 1989 01:28:48,772 --> 01:28:51,253 Speaker 9: there was into it this year as they have been, 1990 01:28:51,333 --> 01:28:52,732 Speaker 9: and that could be for a number of reasons. But 1991 01:28:52,812 --> 01:28:55,133 Speaker 9: I guess the point I want to make is I'm 1992 01:28:55,173 --> 01:28:57,652 Speaker 9: from a generation I suppose where Halloween was just not 1993 01:28:57,732 --> 01:29:00,652 Speaker 9: a thing. Now I've got young kids that it is, 1994 01:29:01,013 --> 01:29:03,492 Speaker 9: and I enjoy the fact that they want to hang 1995 01:29:03,532 --> 01:29:05,372 Speaker 9: out with their kids, and they dress up and stuff. 1996 01:29:05,572 --> 01:29:08,012 Speaker 9: What I don't like is we're about to send kids 1997 01:29:08,013 --> 01:29:11,572 Speaker 9: one on the streets and packed pretty much begging for Kendy. 1998 01:29:12,973 --> 01:29:16,093 Speaker 5: What I would saying that, John, I don't know what 1999 01:29:16,133 --> 01:29:17,532 Speaker 5: it's like in the rest of the country. And as 2000 01:29:17,532 --> 01:29:18,852 Speaker 5: I said, I grew up in Dneda and when I 2001 01:29:18,893 --> 01:29:21,213 Speaker 5: went out, it wasn't a thing, and you basically did 2002 01:29:21,253 --> 01:29:25,852 Speaker 5: get dragon into houses and lectured about begging. But when 2003 01:29:25,893 --> 01:29:28,133 Speaker 5: you say wandering around, I mean when my kids will little, 2004 01:29:28,133 --> 01:29:31,092 Speaker 5: I'd wander around behind them. I'd be like three hundred 2005 01:29:31,133 --> 01:29:33,772 Speaker 5: meters behind them, keeping an eye on them. Also, there 2006 01:29:33,812 --> 01:29:37,012 Speaker 5: are streets and suburbs where it's encouraged, and you see 2007 01:29:37,013 --> 01:29:39,372 Speaker 5: the houses that will have the decorations out to say 2008 01:29:39,412 --> 01:29:42,213 Speaker 5: that you can go in there. So as long as 2009 01:29:42,253 --> 01:29:43,772 Speaker 5: they make an effort. What I don't like as a 2010 01:29:43,853 --> 01:29:46,412 Speaker 5: kid just turning up in no uniform at all, no 2011 01:29:47,133 --> 01:29:49,372 Speaker 5: costume at all, and just begging. You've got to put 2012 01:29:49,412 --> 01:29:51,213 Speaker 5: an effid in and they should be rewarded for the 2013 01:29:51,253 --> 01:29:52,932 Speaker 5: amount of iff it they've put into the costume. 2014 01:29:53,692 --> 01:29:57,933 Speaker 6: But I mean, if it was any day of the year, generally. 2015 01:29:57,652 --> 01:30:00,412 Speaker 5: Speaking, going around knocking on doors begging for Lolly's is 2016 01:30:00,492 --> 01:30:02,772 Speaker 5: not a good idea as long as it's drilled into 2017 01:30:02,772 --> 01:30:05,333 Speaker 5: the kids that this is an October thirty first thing. 2018 01:30:05,893 --> 01:30:06,253 Speaker 6: That's it. 2019 01:30:06,412 --> 01:30:07,692 Speaker 5: You've got to put the effort in it, and you 2020 01:30:07,812 --> 01:30:10,452 Speaker 5: only go in of the houses that are marked that 2021 01:30:10,572 --> 01:30:11,173 Speaker 5: they want to be. 2022 01:30:11,692 --> 01:30:12,652 Speaker 11: Yeah, they want to be. 2023 01:30:12,652 --> 01:30:16,612 Speaker 9: Involved time team because you have probably wanting tool. But 2024 01:30:17,732 --> 01:30:20,253 Speaker 9: I'm going to head home now and potentially be laying 2025 01:30:20,293 --> 01:30:22,972 Speaker 9: a sea with my kids going. I don't think where 2026 01:30:22,973 --> 01:30:26,133 Speaker 9: they're going tonight is into it as they have been 2027 01:30:26,173 --> 01:30:29,612 Speaker 9: in the past. Plus what you've said, we've got two 2028 01:30:29,652 --> 01:30:31,973 Speaker 9: of us tonight, one of my my partner's going to 2029 01:30:32,013 --> 01:30:35,973 Speaker 9: base yourself at a basically spot the very close and 2030 01:30:36,133 --> 01:30:39,452 Speaker 9: I'm going to follow my younger one without here knowing 2031 01:30:39,532 --> 01:30:45,372 Speaker 9: I'm following. They're very they're out with their mates and 2032 01:30:45,452 --> 01:30:48,052 Speaker 9: don't come with us, so that it's like I'm torn 2033 01:30:48,133 --> 01:30:51,812 Speaker 9: on the issue. I think it's cool that they dress up, 2034 01:30:52,253 --> 01:30:54,333 Speaker 9: not so cool it's candy. I mean, if it was me, 2035 01:30:54,812 --> 01:30:56,492 Speaker 9: we're our long driveway so no one comes to see, 2036 01:30:56,893 --> 01:30:59,652 Speaker 9: I'd be giving them fruit, well. 2037 01:31:00,933 --> 01:31:03,253 Speaker 5: Brussels sprouts or something covered in chocolate. 2038 01:31:05,333 --> 01:31:07,173 Speaker 9: Anyway, we'll be interested to see what the rest of 2039 01:31:07,253 --> 01:31:09,892 Speaker 9: your listeners happen on a subject. But this particular stub 2040 01:31:09,933 --> 01:31:12,692 Speaker 9: over in christ you're just uf known, not sure, not 2041 01:31:14,293 --> 01:31:16,652 Speaker 9: as they have been in the past, disappoint your kids. 2042 01:31:16,933 --> 01:31:18,812 Speaker 5: Thank you so much, John, thanks for you calling, thanks 2043 01:31:18,893 --> 01:31:21,572 Speaker 5: for tuning. And it is an interesting thing though, the 2044 01:31:21,652 --> 01:31:24,173 Speaker 5: kids going out on their own. I read this fantastic book. 2045 01:31:24,173 --> 01:31:25,852 Speaker 5: He's got a new one out by Jonathan Hyde called 2046 01:31:25,853 --> 01:31:28,732 Speaker 5: The Coddling of America, and his main point is that 2047 01:31:28,772 --> 01:31:31,092 Speaker 5: the dangers out there aren't what they have been hyped 2048 01:31:31,173 --> 01:31:34,772 Speaker 5: up to be. And we with the helicopter parenting, we're 2049 01:31:34,812 --> 01:31:38,452 Speaker 5: actually not teaching kids to be able to do things 2050 01:31:38,492 --> 01:31:41,492 Speaker 5: on their own. So sending your kids out with a 2051 01:31:41,532 --> 01:31:44,452 Speaker 5: group of five or six or ten friends to actually 2052 01:31:44,492 --> 01:31:47,132 Speaker 5: go door for doors actually teaching them competence. 2053 01:31:47,133 --> 01:31:48,933 Speaker 6: It's actually really, really really good for. 2054 01:31:49,053 --> 01:31:51,732 Speaker 5: Kids that generally these days are sitting on the on 2055 01:31:51,812 --> 01:31:55,412 Speaker 5: the couch, you know, playing video games or on social media. 2056 01:31:55,812 --> 01:31:58,572 Speaker 5: It's actually actually really really really good for them anytime 2057 01:31:58,933 --> 01:32:00,732 Speaker 5: they can go out. And I used to send my 2058 01:32:00,812 --> 01:32:03,133 Speaker 5: kids down to the dairy because I was I was 2059 01:32:03,893 --> 01:32:05,372 Speaker 5: in my eyes. If they could go and do that, 2060 01:32:05,492 --> 01:32:06,652 Speaker 5: they have to talk to an adult. They have to 2061 01:32:06,652 --> 01:32:07,932 Speaker 5: find their way there and they have to go back. 2062 01:32:08,133 --> 01:32:10,173 Speaker 5: But first time I ever did that, when they were 2063 01:32:10,173 --> 01:32:12,492 Speaker 5: really little, I followed them down the street, hiding behind 2064 01:32:12,532 --> 01:32:13,532 Speaker 5: trees and watching them. 2065 01:32:15,372 --> 01:32:16,572 Speaker 6: Well, I thought I got away with it. 2066 01:32:16,612 --> 01:32:19,333 Speaker 5: When they got back they said, and I say, oh, wow, 2067 01:32:19,372 --> 01:32:20,972 Speaker 5: you wento the deary for the first time. Your kids 2068 01:32:21,013 --> 01:32:23,692 Speaker 5: are amazing. And then my oldest son said, what were 2069 01:32:23,692 --> 01:32:24,732 Speaker 5: you doing behind the tree? 2070 01:32:25,612 --> 01:32:26,852 Speaker 3: We saw you in the bushes. 2071 01:32:27,253 --> 01:32:27,452 Speaker 10: Yeah. 2072 01:32:27,492 --> 01:32:29,333 Speaker 5: But I really wanted them to be independent and get 2073 01:32:29,372 --> 01:32:31,053 Speaker 5: out there, and I think that is a positive part 2074 01:32:31,093 --> 01:32:34,492 Speaker 5: of Halloween. You're going out, you're talking to adults, you're 2075 01:32:34,532 --> 01:32:37,772 Speaker 5: knocking on doors, you're experiencing a little bit of stuff, 2076 01:32:37,853 --> 01:32:41,532 Speaker 5: free range unless you've got a five o'clock shadow, a 2077 01:32:41,572 --> 01:32:43,532 Speaker 5: deep voice, and you're just wearing a T shirt like 2078 01:32:43,612 --> 01:32:44,452 Speaker 5: I've seen in the past. 2079 01:32:44,532 --> 01:32:46,772 Speaker 3: If you're over eighteen, stay at home. 2080 01:32:46,853 --> 01:32:48,013 Speaker 6: No trick or tree you and. 2081 01:32:48,093 --> 01:32:52,772 Speaker 5: No, absolutely no lollies for people without a costume. If 2082 01:32:52,772 --> 01:32:54,572 Speaker 5: there's ten kids and want of them to have a costume, 2083 01:32:54,893 --> 01:32:56,612 Speaker 5: give it to the nine and get out of here. 2084 01:32:57,492 --> 01:32:58,333 Speaker 5: Get out of here. 2085 01:32:58,572 --> 01:33:00,452 Speaker 3: Oh eight one hundred and eighty ten eighty is the 2086 01:33:00,532 --> 01:33:02,692 Speaker 3: number of coool it's twenty three past three. 2087 01:33:08,333 --> 01:33:11,692 Speaker 1: Ethan Tyler Adams afternoons call oh eight hundred and eighty 2088 01:33:11,772 --> 01:33:13,653 Speaker 1: ten eighty on news Talk ZIB. 2089 01:33:13,732 --> 01:33:14,732 Speaker 3: Twenty five past three. 2090 01:33:14,973 --> 01:33:17,293 Speaker 5: Welcome to show, Debra. I love Halloween. You don't? 2091 01:33:18,933 --> 01:33:19,173 Speaker 15: Hello? 2092 01:33:19,333 --> 01:33:19,892 Speaker 32: Is that Tyler? 2093 01:33:20,293 --> 01:33:23,692 Speaker 3: That was Matt's This is Tyler, Hello Debra, Hello, Hello. 2094 01:33:24,133 --> 01:33:27,932 Speaker 32: Hy Tyler. So I really don't like Halloween. I don't 2095 01:33:28,093 --> 01:33:30,652 Speaker 32: like seeing children walking past. There's lots of children in 2096 01:33:30,732 --> 01:33:34,692 Speaker 32: my suburb. I don't like seeing children walking past looking 2097 01:33:34,893 --> 01:33:40,933 Speaker 32: ugly looking and having sort of gassy, sharp faces, ugly faces, 2098 01:33:41,532 --> 01:33:45,293 Speaker 32: sharp clothing. I think it's really really awful. New Zealand 2099 01:33:45,372 --> 01:33:48,133 Speaker 32: didn't need to receive it. I lived in America when 2100 01:33:48,173 --> 01:33:50,732 Speaker 32: I was a child for a year and I did it. 2101 01:33:51,093 --> 01:33:53,652 Speaker 32: I don't think it's great and it's it does there 2102 01:33:53,732 --> 01:33:56,253 Speaker 32: are realms of negativity, which I'm not going to talk 2103 01:33:56,293 --> 01:34:00,173 Speaker 32: about over the radio. I just think it's a sad thing. 2104 01:34:00,213 --> 01:34:02,572 Speaker 32: And you, guys, I can see why, Matt, I know 2105 01:34:02,732 --> 01:34:05,053 Speaker 32: why you like it. I can see why you like it. 2106 01:34:05,093 --> 01:34:07,692 Speaker 32: But I also Matt loved the fact that you followed 2107 01:34:07,732 --> 01:34:09,652 Speaker 32: your children because I think that's a good thing. I 2108 01:34:09,692 --> 01:34:12,852 Speaker 32: think it's a really good thing, and there's so many 2109 01:34:12,853 --> 01:34:15,692 Speaker 32: people who do like Halloween, but I just think it's 2110 01:34:15,732 --> 01:34:18,812 Speaker 32: a horrible thing and the source of Halloween is completely ghastly. 2111 01:34:20,013 --> 01:34:22,933 Speaker 5: Yeah, Debra. Yeah, So just to go back to that, 2112 01:34:23,013 --> 01:34:25,213 Speaker 5: Jonathan Heights's latest book is called The Anxious Generation. 2113 01:34:25,333 --> 01:34:27,253 Speaker 6: It's brilliant. That's what I was talking about before. 2114 01:34:27,253 --> 01:34:29,612 Speaker 5: That's a texta that's in that through and that thing 2115 01:34:29,692 --> 01:34:31,852 Speaker 5: with kids walking out and putting on costumes and going 2116 01:34:31,853 --> 01:34:34,412 Speaker 5: around from househouse. It is great though, in a time 2117 01:34:34,452 --> 01:34:37,412 Speaker 5: when kids are being coddled and being helicopter parented and 2118 01:34:37,532 --> 01:34:38,932 Speaker 5: not being competent in the world. 2119 01:34:39,532 --> 01:34:40,372 Speaker 6: Don't you think there's. 2120 01:34:40,173 --> 01:34:42,093 Speaker 5: Something good in at Deborah when they get out and 2121 01:34:42,692 --> 01:34:45,412 Speaker 5: they roam by themselves, they put on a costume and 2122 01:34:45,452 --> 01:34:48,532 Speaker 5: they talk to adults and they are, you know, the 2123 01:34:48,612 --> 01:34:52,013 Speaker 5: master of their own destiny for a while, for an afternoon. 2124 01:34:53,652 --> 01:34:56,333 Speaker 32: To a degree, Matt. But I think the thing is sadly. 2125 01:34:56,933 --> 01:34:59,973 Speaker 32: I mean, look what you guys are talking about. I 2126 01:35:00,053 --> 01:35:02,772 Speaker 32: think in the first are you know people who punch 2127 01:35:02,853 --> 01:35:05,652 Speaker 32: people on buses or something, and would anyone stand up 2128 01:35:05,652 --> 01:35:05,892 Speaker 32: for them? 2129 01:35:06,013 --> 01:35:06,892 Speaker 15: It's really sad. 2130 01:35:07,492 --> 01:35:11,333 Speaker 32: But in New Zealand there's too many defunk people who 2131 01:35:11,452 --> 01:35:15,133 Speaker 32: don't seem to have respect for others. And oh gosh, 2132 01:35:15,213 --> 01:35:17,053 Speaker 32: I thought of you know your children. That's why Matt 2133 01:35:17,133 --> 01:35:18,452 Speaker 32: get up there and follow your children? 2134 01:35:18,893 --> 01:35:20,732 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I think if you are going to follow 2135 01:35:20,772 --> 01:35:22,532 Speaker 5: your children, though, I think it's quite good to follow 2136 01:35:22,572 --> 01:35:24,532 Speaker 5: them and then them not know to a certain extent, 2137 01:35:24,973 --> 01:35:26,692 Speaker 5: so they are making their own decisions. And I think 2138 01:35:26,732 --> 01:35:29,173 Speaker 5: that makes kids stronger and more independent, and the more 2139 01:35:29,213 --> 01:35:31,892 Speaker 5: independent they can be, the better. And Jonathan Hyde talks 2140 01:35:31,893 --> 01:35:34,053 Speaker 5: about leave them at home as much as you can 2141 01:35:34,213 --> 01:35:37,972 Speaker 5: as well, you know, like, don't be they're worried once 2142 01:35:38,013 --> 01:35:40,412 Speaker 5: that you know, I know, there's you've got to keep 2143 01:35:41,093 --> 01:35:43,173 Speaker 5: your eye over them. You've got to know that they're safe. 2144 01:35:43,293 --> 01:35:45,532 Speaker 5: But the more time they can be independent, the sooner 2145 01:35:45,572 --> 01:35:47,692 Speaker 5: that they're they're at home and looking after themselves and 2146 01:35:47,732 --> 01:35:51,012 Speaker 5: making decisions for themselves, the better. And it's really hard 2147 01:35:51,093 --> 01:35:53,852 Speaker 5: for parents now to allow our kids to be independent 2148 01:35:53,893 --> 01:35:56,133 Speaker 5: because we worry about them more than that my parents. 2149 01:35:56,452 --> 01:35:58,253 Speaker 3: I like the idea of meeting the neighbors. I think 2150 01:35:58,293 --> 01:36:00,253 Speaker 3: that has been lost in New Zealand. And look, I 2151 01:36:00,412 --> 01:36:02,492 Speaker 3: put my hand up. I don't know our new neighbors 2152 01:36:02,572 --> 01:36:04,732 Speaker 3: that well. Didn't really know our neighbors that well. In 2153 01:36:04,853 --> 01:36:07,612 Speaker 3: christ Church knew them a little bit. We did Christmas gifts, 2154 01:36:07,652 --> 01:36:09,293 Speaker 3: so I suppose it's more than a lot of people. 2155 01:36:09,612 --> 01:36:11,852 Speaker 3: But getting to know your neighbors, you know that. 2156 01:36:12,133 --> 01:36:14,213 Speaker 5: Look at this text Tyler nineteen nine two came through. 2157 01:36:14,333 --> 01:36:17,973 Speaker 5: I call it Hello Ween. Great way to grow community. 2158 01:36:18,093 --> 01:36:20,572 Speaker 5: To know your neighbors' kids and their parents. That stand 2159 01:36:20,652 --> 01:36:23,053 Speaker 5: back abit safe communities when you know your neighbors. That's 2160 01:36:23,053 --> 01:36:23,572 Speaker 5: from Simon. 2161 01:36:23,692 --> 01:36:25,532 Speaker 3: There you go, that's exactly what I was getting at. 2162 01:36:25,772 --> 01:36:28,972 Speaker 5: Hello Weeen beautiful Simon. 2163 01:36:29,133 --> 01:36:31,372 Speaker 3: Now we're going to carry this on after the headlines, 2164 01:36:31,372 --> 01:36:34,093 Speaker 3: but we also want to talk about horror movies because 2165 01:36:34,093 --> 01:36:36,013 Speaker 3: you're a massive horror movie fan. It's something you do 2166 01:36:36,093 --> 01:36:36,972 Speaker 3: with the kids on Halloween. 2167 01:36:37,173 --> 01:36:37,772 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's right. 2168 01:36:37,812 --> 01:36:40,892 Speaker 5: I wrote an article about it on my substackmanhet substack 2169 01:36:40,933 --> 01:36:44,973 Speaker 5: dot com. It was about how watching scary movies with 2170 01:36:45,053 --> 01:36:47,532 Speaker 5: your kids is actually a good thing because there's a 2171 01:36:47,612 --> 01:36:50,812 Speaker 5: buzz you get from being scared, and there's there's a 2172 01:36:51,173 --> 01:36:53,652 Speaker 5: endorphin that you get after being scared, and I think 2173 01:36:53,692 --> 01:36:55,812 Speaker 5: it kind of makes it again and making your kids 2174 01:36:55,893 --> 01:36:58,333 Speaker 5: more more robust, and that's the point. You want to 2175 01:36:58,372 --> 01:37:01,732 Speaker 5: make kids that are competent and strong and can live 2176 01:37:01,772 --> 01:37:03,692 Speaker 5: in the world on their own, and scaring them is 2177 01:37:03,732 --> 01:37:05,652 Speaker 5: a great great way to do that because they get 2178 01:37:05,772 --> 01:37:07,652 Speaker 5: used to fear and how to deal with it. So 2179 01:37:07,933 --> 01:37:11,253 Speaker 5: every Halloween, I make sure I watch a really scary 2180 01:37:11,492 --> 01:37:13,492 Speaker 5: movie with my kids, and I have done it for 2181 01:37:13,572 --> 01:37:16,692 Speaker 5: a very long time, probably movies that were way too 2182 01:37:16,732 --> 01:37:17,652 Speaker 5: scary for their age. 2183 01:37:18,133 --> 01:37:20,532 Speaker 3: What are you talking about here? Like Saw? No, I 2184 01:37:20,692 --> 01:37:22,333 Speaker 3: hate those movies. That's too much. 2185 01:37:22,412 --> 01:37:24,572 Speaker 6: I hate those torture movies. That's not a horror. 2186 01:37:24,612 --> 01:37:29,053 Speaker 5: I want a psychological horror. I want I want, you know, 2187 01:37:29,812 --> 01:37:32,572 Speaker 5: the Exorcist type situation. Actually the Exorsus is too full 2188 01:37:32,612 --> 01:37:34,852 Speaker 5: of the kids. Yeah, but I just I will never 2189 01:37:35,093 --> 01:37:37,372 Speaker 5: I hate those films like Saw. I hate the ones 2190 01:37:37,412 --> 01:37:41,812 Speaker 5: that are just pure violence and indulging in that side 2191 01:37:41,853 --> 01:37:43,692 Speaker 5: of it. But later on, I don't. I don't want 2192 01:37:43,692 --> 01:37:45,973 Speaker 5: to ruin this discussion by saying my. 2193 01:37:46,013 --> 01:37:47,052 Speaker 6: Favorite horror films. 2194 01:37:47,093 --> 01:37:49,213 Speaker 5: I'd like to hear what other people's favorite horror films are. 2195 01:37:49,532 --> 01:37:50,452 Speaker 6: Oh, eight hundred. 2196 01:37:51,013 --> 01:37:56,452 Speaker 5: Eighty ten eighty I really said at nine two want 2197 01:37:56,452 --> 01:37:58,173 Speaker 5: to I want to know what your favorite horror films are. 2198 01:37:58,213 --> 01:38:00,093 Speaker 5: And at the end, I've got a list of the 2199 01:38:00,293 --> 01:38:03,852 Speaker 5: five best horror films I believe of the century, of 2200 01:38:03,893 --> 01:38:05,092 Speaker 5: the last twenty four years. 2201 01:38:05,093 --> 01:38:07,333 Speaker 3: Looking forward to that, it's bango and hop ass three. 2202 01:38:08,492 --> 01:38:13,812 Speaker 1: Woduce Talk said the headlines with Blue Bubble taxis it's 2203 01:38:13,933 --> 01:38:15,372 Speaker 1: no trouble with a blue bubble. 2204 01:38:15,812 --> 01:38:19,892 Speaker 22: An interim report schon Light on Cookstraight Ferry Artitedi's grounding 2205 01:38:20,013 --> 01:38:24,333 Speaker 22: in June and notes crew significantly mitigated its effects. It 2206 01:38:24,452 --> 01:38:28,213 Speaker 22: details how the new autopilot was engaged too late and 2207 01:38:28,372 --> 01:38:31,293 Speaker 22: crew didn't know how to reset it, meaning a crucial 2208 01:38:31,372 --> 01:38:35,492 Speaker 22: two minutes lack of control. The Minister of Market Studies 2209 01:38:35,612 --> 01:38:38,732 Speaker 22: is saying no to a Consumer and z request for 2210 01:38:38,933 --> 01:38:41,973 Speaker 22: a probe of competition and aviation in light of a 2211 01:38:42,053 --> 01:38:45,132 Speaker 22: New Zealand's eighty six percent share of the domestic market. 2212 01:38:46,213 --> 01:38:48,612 Speaker 22: A person has died in a crash in the Ruta 2213 01:38:48,652 --> 01:38:52,293 Speaker 22: Duur's or Fata after fleeing police. The driver died at 2214 01:38:52,333 --> 01:38:55,572 Speaker 22: the scene and the passenger suffered minor injuries. Two others 2215 01:38:55,612 --> 01:38:59,933 Speaker 22: in a second vehicle suffered moderate injuries. Labour says the 2216 01:39:00,013 --> 01:39:04,412 Speaker 22: government should review its support for Mike King's charity Gunboot Friday, 2217 01:39:04,933 --> 01:39:08,092 Speaker 22: after he said alcohol could be a solution to mental 2218 01:39:08,093 --> 01:39:12,293 Speaker 22: health changes to tie it to the migrant exploitation protection 2219 01:39:12,452 --> 01:39:16,293 Speaker 22: work VISA kick in today, including harving their period to 2220 01:39:16,412 --> 01:39:21,812 Speaker 22: six months and raising the eligibility threshold. Jeff Bezos elon 2221 01:39:21,933 --> 01:39:25,612 Speaker 22: Musk and the billions of ways to influence an election 2222 01:39:26,013 --> 01:39:28,852 Speaker 22: influence I should say you can read more at Inzaid 2223 01:39:28,893 --> 01:39:31,812 Speaker 22: Herald Premium. Now back to matt Ethan Tyler Adams. 2224 01:39:31,893 --> 01:39:34,093 Speaker 3: Thank you, Rayleen. It's twenty six to four. 2225 01:39:34,213 --> 01:39:35,812 Speaker 5: I just want to point out something good for people 2226 01:39:35,853 --> 01:39:39,612 Speaker 5: that are interested in halloweena and Auckland and outside Eden 2227 01:39:39,692 --> 01:39:42,133 Speaker 5: Park on Cricket af which is the east end of 2228 01:39:42,452 --> 01:39:44,612 Speaker 5: Eden Park. They've got the fortress that they built, which 2229 01:39:44,652 --> 01:39:46,932 Speaker 5: is a kid's playground based on the idea that Eden 2230 01:39:46,973 --> 01:39:50,013 Speaker 5: Park is a fortress. But they've done that up beautifully 2231 01:39:50,093 --> 01:39:52,372 Speaker 5: for Halloween. Lit up the tunnel. It's got a whole 2232 01:39:52,372 --> 01:39:54,732 Speaker 5: lot of slides on it and stuff the Haunted Fortress. 2233 01:39:55,173 --> 01:39:57,732 Speaker 5: And between four thirty and six thirty today you can 2234 01:39:57,812 --> 01:40:01,052 Speaker 5: go along and the CEO of In Park, Nick Shawtan 2235 01:40:01,133 --> 01:40:02,812 Speaker 5: is going to be handing out lotas there so Cricket. 2236 01:40:03,253 --> 01:40:04,412 Speaker 3: He's a good man, nixt Aughtner. 2237 01:40:04,492 --> 01:40:06,253 Speaker 5: So if you're around that area and there's a bit 2238 01:40:06,253 --> 01:40:08,692 Speaker 5: of Halloween in the Mount Eden area, it's a good 2239 01:40:08,692 --> 01:40:11,293 Speaker 5: spot to past if you're in the area. 2240 01:40:11,492 --> 01:40:14,253 Speaker 3: Fantastic, Simon. We're talking horror movies. You're a fan. 2241 01:40:15,612 --> 01:40:18,652 Speaker 10: Oh, I'm not a huge fan, but I've seen a 2242 01:40:18,772 --> 01:40:21,732 Speaker 10: couple that have just absolutely changed my life. You know, 2243 01:40:22,412 --> 01:40:25,652 Speaker 10: I've only just started going outside recently. Again, you know, 2244 01:40:27,853 --> 01:40:32,213 Speaker 10: not a proud thing for growing. Man. I did see 2245 01:40:32,333 --> 01:40:38,372 Speaker 10: one years ago Mel Gibson and Yokwan Phoenix called Signs. 2246 01:40:38,893 --> 01:40:40,372 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, Signs, Yeah yeah. 2247 01:40:41,612 --> 01:40:47,012 Speaker 10: Blood and go one but bloody hell, and it scared 2248 01:40:47,013 --> 01:40:47,973 Speaker 10: the Bejesus out of me. 2249 01:40:48,333 --> 01:40:50,133 Speaker 6: I'm a huge m Night Cemlin fan. 2250 01:40:50,732 --> 01:40:52,973 Speaker 3: Obviously, Sixteens. 2251 01:40:53,173 --> 01:40:55,732 Speaker 6: Sixteens is phenomenal. I love the village. I love them. 2252 01:40:55,732 --> 01:40:58,053 Speaker 6: I mean they're they're up and down. 2253 01:40:58,133 --> 01:41:00,013 Speaker 5: I like knock on the on, the knock on the 2254 01:41:00,093 --> 01:41:02,133 Speaker 5: Kevin door whatever. It was the most recent one. But 2255 01:41:02,213 --> 01:41:04,333 Speaker 5: Signs is interesting, isn't it? Because that's a horror movie. 2256 01:41:04,372 --> 01:41:08,932 Speaker 5: But it's about aliens, and in the nineteen fifties, aliens 2257 01:41:08,973 --> 01:41:10,052 Speaker 5: are really scary for people. 2258 01:41:10,973 --> 01:41:13,133 Speaker 10: It's not said in the nineteen fifty No no, no, no, 2259 01:41:13,293 --> 01:41:13,412 Speaker 10: no no. 2260 01:41:13,612 --> 01:41:16,133 Speaker 5: What I'm saying is that in the nineteen fifties, lots 2261 01:41:16,173 --> 01:41:18,412 Speaker 5: of horror movies about aliens and The m Knight Shamala 2262 01:41:18,452 --> 01:41:20,572 Speaker 5: and brought that back with signs being scared. 2263 01:41:22,213 --> 01:41:24,772 Speaker 10: The suspense you don't see the aliens too well in 2264 01:41:24,893 --> 01:41:27,973 Speaker 10: the movie The Noises in the Cornfield and when that 2265 01:41:28,173 --> 01:41:31,333 Speaker 10: dog goes running out of it and then it goes silent. Yeah, 2266 01:41:32,692 --> 01:41:36,053 Speaker 10: and it just brings it all back. I've actually said 2267 01:41:36,093 --> 01:41:37,812 Speaker 10: to my kids, never watch this movie. 2268 01:41:37,893 --> 01:41:40,372 Speaker 3: It is terrifying. Yeah, great twist at the end, as 2269 01:41:40,492 --> 01:41:41,612 Speaker 3: a lot of his movies do have. 2270 01:41:41,772 --> 01:41:43,692 Speaker 5: Well, I'll give a bit of a dodging twist. But 2271 01:41:44,053 --> 01:41:46,652 Speaker 5: but the thing is cornfields. Corn there's something terrifying and 2272 01:41:46,692 --> 01:41:48,532 Speaker 5: they come up a lot in American horror films, just 2273 01:41:48,893 --> 01:41:51,253 Speaker 5: been chased through corn fields, getting lost in corn fields, 2274 01:41:51,333 --> 01:41:52,613 Speaker 5: things coming out of the cornfields? 2275 01:41:54,412 --> 01:41:54,973 Speaker 12: Are you going to have? 2276 01:41:55,372 --> 01:41:56,452 Speaker 6: And what's the other one, Simon? 2277 01:41:57,572 --> 01:41:59,612 Speaker 10: Hostile that's a little bit of a bloody gore, but 2278 01:41:59,692 --> 01:42:03,013 Speaker 10: the youth to suspense, Well, it's not all about the 2279 01:42:03,093 --> 01:42:05,692 Speaker 10: blood and gore, but it's bloody scary. 2280 01:42:05,853 --> 01:42:08,012 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, absolutely, Thank you so much for your call, Simon. 2281 01:42:08,093 --> 01:42:10,372 Speaker 3: But in two movies, as you mentioned, you don't want 2282 01:42:10,372 --> 01:42:12,053 Speaker 3: to end up in a corn field at nighttime that 2283 01:42:12,213 --> 01:42:14,213 Speaker 3: you know, nothing good can happen from that. And same 2284 01:42:14,253 --> 01:42:16,333 Speaker 3: with hostile. You just don't want to go to East 2285 01:42:16,652 --> 01:42:22,293 Speaker 3: East Europe at any time of year. Eighty Matthew, how 2286 01:42:22,333 --> 01:42:22,492 Speaker 3: are you? 2287 01:42:23,372 --> 01:42:26,173 Speaker 10: Oh good guys, Maddie again, how are you good? 2288 01:42:26,253 --> 01:42:26,692 Speaker 6: To talk to you? 2289 01:42:28,973 --> 01:42:30,092 Speaker 10: A few life changes. 2290 01:42:30,173 --> 01:42:32,092 Speaker 5: The Omen, Oh god. 2291 01:42:32,053 --> 01:42:34,692 Speaker 3: Yep, Damien, Damien was the kid. 2292 01:42:36,772 --> 01:42:39,892 Speaker 10: Damien and then she jumps off. 2293 01:42:39,973 --> 01:42:41,372 Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, the candy Man. 2294 01:42:41,853 --> 01:42:43,333 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's that's a terrifying movie. 2295 01:42:43,772 --> 01:42:46,933 Speaker 16: Yeah, that's a terrifying movie. That's a terrifying movie. And 2296 01:42:47,652 --> 01:42:49,293 Speaker 16: Children of the Corn that's another one. 2297 01:42:49,452 --> 01:42:52,052 Speaker 3: You go, that's the that's the corn of creepy kids 2298 01:42:52,253 --> 01:42:54,893 Speaker 3: and the movies you're watching, Yeah, yeah, yeah, no. 2299 01:42:55,013 --> 01:42:58,173 Speaker 16: But the Omen that really impacted me. And Salem's Lot 2300 01:42:58,253 --> 01:43:00,012 Speaker 16: Stephen King, Yeah, yeah. 2301 01:42:59,893 --> 01:43:00,732 Speaker 3: You haven't seen that one. 2302 01:43:00,812 --> 01:43:03,213 Speaker 5: So so the first Dimend movie was terrifying. They've re 2303 01:43:03,333 --> 01:43:06,293 Speaker 5: made it recently that that is a truly terrifying movie. 2304 01:43:08,013 --> 01:43:10,812 Speaker 5: As actually came to Barana, but but you always think 2305 01:43:10,853 --> 01:43:12,412 Speaker 5: it as I used to work in a record store 2306 01:43:12,412 --> 01:43:14,372 Speaker 5: and whenever the Omend played on TV, people would come 2307 01:43:14,412 --> 01:43:16,732 Speaker 5: in and try and buy Marina Barana. But it was 2308 01:43:16,812 --> 01:43:19,293 Speaker 5: not not not the same. But then of course you 2309 01:43:19,412 --> 01:43:21,812 Speaker 5: Zealand Sam Neil was in the in the in the 2310 01:43:21,893 --> 01:43:23,053 Speaker 5: third Imen movie, wasn't he? 2311 01:43:23,213 --> 01:43:23,452 Speaker 18: Yeah? 2312 01:43:24,013 --> 01:43:25,532 Speaker 10: Yes, so no terrifying. 2313 01:43:25,652 --> 01:43:27,852 Speaker 6: Yeah, that is a truly terrifying movie. 2314 01:43:27,893 --> 01:43:30,372 Speaker 3: The first dimond one one that I saw, I actually 2315 01:43:30,372 --> 01:43:33,253 Speaker 3: will go to Jet and first kid a Jettam Hey 2316 01:43:33,333 --> 01:43:36,012 Speaker 3: how are you? Yeah, goods, what's your Halloween movie? 2317 01:43:37,213 --> 01:43:40,412 Speaker 30: So we recently wotched Alien and I know it's mortal 2318 01:43:40,452 --> 01:43:43,253 Speaker 30: for sci fi but also has that total part to attach. 2319 01:43:43,013 --> 01:43:43,492 Speaker 12: To that as well. 2320 01:43:43,973 --> 01:43:44,333 Speaker 3: Tearfully. 2321 01:43:44,812 --> 01:43:47,133 Speaker 30: It's one of those pretty pretty old ones as well, 2322 01:43:47,173 --> 01:43:50,293 Speaker 30: and I think ahead of their times. But I think 2323 01:43:50,572 --> 01:43:53,212 Speaker 30: the other thing I just wanted touch basis about the neighborhood, 2324 01:43:53,213 --> 01:43:55,412 Speaker 30: which we're talking about as well. I think this movie 2325 01:43:55,492 --> 01:43:58,213 Speaker 30: actually watched all three Neighbors next Door at one of 2326 01:43:58,253 --> 01:44:00,933 Speaker 30: the neighbors places, back to back board the movies and 2327 01:44:01,732 --> 01:44:04,812 Speaker 30: the it's good to know that you've got the good 2328 01:44:04,853 --> 01:44:07,852 Speaker 30: neighborhood and just keeping an eye and being vigilant just 2329 01:44:07,933 --> 01:44:10,253 Speaker 30: in case someone to wait for Christmas break or long 2330 01:44:10,293 --> 01:44:13,612 Speaker 30: weekends as well, so you've you've got and cover yourself 2331 01:44:13,652 --> 01:44:16,252 Speaker 30: as well. So yeah, definitely you need your good neighborhead 2332 01:44:16,253 --> 01:44:18,053 Speaker 30: and you just need to being alone as well. 2333 01:44:18,293 --> 01:44:20,892 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean anytime you can get out of your fence, 2334 01:44:20,893 --> 01:44:22,692 Speaker 5: because a lot of New Zealanders we go to work, 2335 01:44:22,732 --> 01:44:25,012 Speaker 5: we come home, we shut the door, and we stay 2336 01:44:25,013 --> 01:44:26,933 Speaker 5: inside our fence. And so many people don't know their 2337 01:44:26,973 --> 01:44:29,932 Speaker 5: neighbors either side. So what if you think about Halloween, 2338 01:44:30,333 --> 01:44:32,293 Speaker 5: if the kids in the neighborhoods and they go out 2339 01:44:32,333 --> 01:44:34,893 Speaker 5: and do something together, whether it's playing sport together or 2340 01:44:35,093 --> 01:44:40,732 Speaker 5: whatever it is. I don't know, singing carols maybe unerstanding 2341 01:44:41,093 --> 01:44:45,452 Speaker 5: what happened, But I think Halloween sits in that same 2342 01:44:46,173 --> 01:44:49,333 Speaker 5: same category of kids getting out and meeting their neighbors. 2343 01:44:49,933 --> 01:44:52,652 Speaker 5: And it's so cool if you know that the neighborhood's kids, 2344 01:44:52,652 --> 01:44:52,812 Speaker 5: you know. 2345 01:44:53,013 --> 01:44:56,293 Speaker 3: Yep, No, I agree, Jeton, Thank you very much. Now, 2346 01:44:56,293 --> 01:44:59,293 Speaker 3: I've just remembered our horror movie that actually traumatized me 2347 01:44:59,333 --> 01:45:02,492 Speaker 3: as a kid, and it's not a hugely popular one. 2348 01:45:02,812 --> 01:45:06,412 Speaker 3: Tommy Knockers. Oh Tommy Knockers, Stephen King, Oh yeah, and 2349 01:45:06,492 --> 01:45:08,652 Speaker 3: I'll tell you why. I would have been not years 2350 01:45:08,692 --> 01:45:10,652 Speaker 3: old at my friend's place. And you know how the 2351 01:45:10,772 --> 01:45:13,052 Speaker 3: videos used to have trailers at the start, the old VCRs. 2352 01:45:13,333 --> 01:45:15,013 Speaker 3: And I can't even remember what movie we've got out, 2353 01:45:15,053 --> 01:45:16,772 Speaker 3: but there was a trailer for the Tommy Knockers and 2354 01:45:17,053 --> 01:45:20,093 Speaker 3: it was terrifying. It was just a slow zoom in 2355 01:45:20,372 --> 01:45:22,532 Speaker 3: to the back of someone's head. Then they turn around 2356 01:45:22,572 --> 01:45:24,972 Speaker 3: and it's this grotesque face, and then it was sort 2357 01:45:24,973 --> 01:45:28,333 Speaker 3: of my mate disappears, Jonathan, where you gone? And he 2358 01:45:28,452 --> 01:45:31,692 Speaker 3: comes running out with a stocking over his head, yelling 2359 01:45:31,933 --> 01:45:34,732 Speaker 3: in my face. And I've never forgotten that still even 2360 01:45:34,772 --> 01:45:36,093 Speaker 3: watched the movie. I don't know what it's about. I'm 2361 01:45:36,133 --> 01:45:36,452 Speaker 3: too scared. 2362 01:45:36,492 --> 01:45:37,772 Speaker 5: Yeah, when I was a kid, me and my mate 2363 01:45:37,812 --> 01:45:39,652 Speaker 5: Jacob Cooper, we used to He's had quite a big 2364 01:45:39,732 --> 01:45:41,532 Speaker 5: house and we'd set up in front of the TV, 2365 01:45:41,772 --> 01:45:44,532 Speaker 5: just on two stools, turn the lights out so there's 2366 01:45:44,532 --> 01:45:47,052 Speaker 5: a huge amount of distance behind us, and watch movies. 2367 01:45:47,093 --> 01:45:50,492 Speaker 5: We watched The Shining together like that, and his mum 2368 01:45:50,572 --> 01:45:52,973 Speaker 5: came home and opened the door just quite politely, and 2369 01:45:53,492 --> 01:45:55,852 Speaker 5: I screamed and screamed and screamed and fell off the 2370 01:45:55,933 --> 01:45:58,532 Speaker 5: chair and ran across the room and ran into the door. 2371 01:45:59,173 --> 01:46:02,532 Speaker 3: Love it the most horror fying horror movie You've seen, 2372 01:46:02,612 --> 01:46:05,133 Speaker 3: the scariest horror or your favorite? Love to hear from you. Oh, 2373 01:46:05,213 --> 01:46:07,612 Speaker 3: eight hundred at ten eighty is the number to call 2374 01:46:07,652 --> 01:46:09,213 Speaker 3: nine two nine. It was the text number. 2375 01:46:09,333 --> 01:46:14,813 Speaker 29: It is nineteen to four, your new home of afternoon 2376 01:46:14,933 --> 01:46:17,893 Speaker 29: tourth Tyler Adams Afternoon. 2377 01:46:17,692 --> 01:46:20,293 Speaker 8: Call, Oh eight hundred and eighty gen eighty News Talk 2378 01:46:20,412 --> 01:46:20,732 Speaker 8: said be. 2379 01:46:21,492 --> 01:46:23,852 Speaker 3: Good afternoon to you at seventeen minutes to four. 2380 01:46:24,412 --> 01:46:25,973 Speaker 5: Hey, guys, this is the tipt we got through on 2381 01:46:26,053 --> 01:46:28,452 Speaker 5: nineteen nine two Loving you Together on the air. 2382 01:46:28,612 --> 01:46:29,652 Speaker 6: Thank you so much. 2383 01:46:29,772 --> 01:46:31,093 Speaker 5: So I didn't actually mean to read that, but at 2384 01:46:31,293 --> 01:46:36,093 Speaker 5: earlier Matt mentioned a Halloween movie he watched on Netflix. 2385 01:46:36,492 --> 01:46:40,852 Speaker 5: The movie is Late Night with the Devil when I 2386 01:46:40,933 --> 01:46:44,293 Speaker 5: watched last night, great movie to be as good as 2387 01:46:44,333 --> 01:46:47,732 Speaker 5: it is. It's set in nineteen seventy seven and it's 2388 01:46:47,853 --> 01:46:49,892 Speaker 5: just set in a late night talk show and they 2389 01:46:50,013 --> 01:46:53,092 Speaker 5: bring onto the late night talk show a possessed child 2390 01:46:53,572 --> 01:46:55,333 Speaker 5: and things spiral out of control. 2391 01:46:55,572 --> 01:46:58,293 Speaker 3: Yes, Soham, how are you? 2392 01:46:59,532 --> 01:47:00,053 Speaker 32: Oh good? 2393 01:47:00,093 --> 01:47:00,372 Speaker 9: Thank you? 2394 01:47:00,973 --> 01:47:03,412 Speaker 3: What is there's good? What's your favorite horror? 2395 01:47:04,572 --> 01:47:07,372 Speaker 10: So the scariest one I seen and the one I 2396 01:47:07,612 --> 01:47:11,892 Speaker 10: like just gave me a real cack was probably talk 2397 01:47:11,933 --> 01:47:12,133 Speaker 10: to me. 2398 01:47:12,612 --> 01:47:14,852 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I couldn't finish that. 2399 01:47:15,093 --> 01:47:16,173 Speaker 6: That is a terrifying film. 2400 01:47:16,492 --> 01:47:18,652 Speaker 3: I generally could it, and I always I love horror 2401 01:47:18,732 --> 01:47:20,812 Speaker 3: movies and I usually watched at the end, but that 2402 01:47:20,973 --> 01:47:25,133 Speaker 3: one just it did something and I couldn't finish it. Yeah, 2403 01:47:25,732 --> 01:47:26,492 Speaker 3: how old are you so? 2404 01:47:28,213 --> 01:47:28,652 Speaker 32: Fourteen? 2405 01:47:29,053 --> 01:47:32,852 Speaker 5: Oh wow, you're a brave fourteen year old, because there 2406 01:47:32,933 --> 01:47:34,692 Speaker 5: was fourteen year olds in that movie. For people that 2407 01:47:34,772 --> 01:47:37,532 Speaker 5: haven't seen it, it's an Australian movie and it's about 2408 01:47:37,572 --> 01:47:40,412 Speaker 5: a group of kids and they start it's made by 2409 01:47:40,452 --> 01:47:44,252 Speaker 5: two Australian brothers actually, and they start, there's his hand. 2410 01:47:44,053 --> 01:47:46,293 Speaker 6: And when you hold onto it, you see a dead person. 2411 01:47:47,973 --> 01:47:51,013 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean they were that. The lead actress saw him. 2412 01:47:51,093 --> 01:47:52,253 Speaker 3: She was very good, wasn't she. 2413 01:47:53,412 --> 01:47:53,612 Speaker 4: Yeah? 2414 01:47:53,612 --> 01:47:54,253 Speaker 5: I think she was. 2415 01:47:54,372 --> 01:47:54,572 Speaker 14: Yeah. 2416 01:47:54,692 --> 01:47:54,892 Speaker 11: Yeah. 2417 01:47:55,013 --> 01:47:57,532 Speaker 5: And did you find it more terrifying because there were 2418 01:47:57,652 --> 01:47:59,372 Speaker 5: kids in the movie that were your age? 2419 01:48:00,692 --> 01:48:00,892 Speaker 14: Yeah? 2420 01:48:00,933 --> 01:48:02,333 Speaker 36: I was traumatized for that. 2421 01:48:04,293 --> 01:48:05,013 Speaker 3: I'm worth you there. 2422 01:48:05,053 --> 01:48:07,692 Speaker 5: So that is a truly scary movie. It's only a 2423 01:48:07,732 --> 01:48:10,013 Speaker 5: couple of years old, and it is really good. If 2424 01:48:10,053 --> 01:48:12,452 Speaker 5: you talk to me, boy, oh boy, that one really 2425 01:48:12,532 --> 01:48:14,333 Speaker 5: hit me. And it's based on the idea these two 2426 01:48:14,372 --> 01:48:16,892 Speaker 5: Australian brothers that made it that they saw a kid 2427 01:48:16,973 --> 01:48:19,133 Speaker 5: having a convulsion at a party and everyone, all the 2428 01:48:19,173 --> 01:48:21,532 Speaker 5: other kids just stood around and filmed the kid instead 2429 01:48:21,572 --> 01:48:24,213 Speaker 5: of helping, and so they thought they was horrible and 2430 01:48:24,213 --> 01:48:27,293 Speaker 5: they made a movie about people filming instead of helping 2431 01:48:27,412 --> 01:48:29,372 Speaker 5: out in a paranormal situation. 2432 01:48:29,532 --> 01:48:31,532 Speaker 3: Yeah, great movie. Just before we let you go, Sohm, 2433 01:48:31,612 --> 01:48:35,532 Speaker 3: are you going to go trick or treating tonight, Levy? 2434 01:48:35,812 --> 01:48:35,972 Speaker 4: Yeah? 2435 01:48:36,053 --> 01:48:36,372 Speaker 23: Probably? 2436 01:48:36,612 --> 01:48:38,572 Speaker 5: All right, all right, good man, thanks so much for calling, 2437 01:48:38,612 --> 01:48:39,333 Speaker 5: and thanks for listening. 2438 01:48:40,412 --> 01:48:41,333 Speaker 3: Craig, how you doing. 2439 01:48:42,572 --> 01:48:45,412 Speaker 26: Good day there, boys, good show. We're hearing now, Thank 2440 01:48:45,412 --> 01:48:48,932 Speaker 26: you mate. A few years ago, well, it was quite 2441 01:48:48,933 --> 01:48:50,612 Speaker 26: a few years ago. When I was about nine or ten, 2442 01:48:50,692 --> 01:48:53,372 Speaker 26: my parents took me to a movie, and me and 2443 01:48:53,412 --> 01:48:55,572 Speaker 26: my brother to a movie and dropped us off and 2444 01:48:55,692 --> 01:48:59,372 Speaker 26: it happened to be Stephen King's Kujo Oh, And my 2445 01:48:59,532 --> 01:49:03,412 Speaker 26: mother said, let's take the kids to a lovely doggy movie. 2446 01:49:06,973 --> 01:49:08,093 Speaker 26: I hated horror movies. 2447 01:49:08,372 --> 01:49:08,812 Speaker 10: Everson. 2448 01:49:09,053 --> 01:49:10,692 Speaker 5: So how old a lovely dog? 2449 01:49:11,333 --> 01:49:13,333 Speaker 32: How old were you en? 2450 01:49:13,492 --> 01:49:13,692 Speaker 12: Yeah? 2451 01:49:14,053 --> 01:49:17,173 Speaker 5: Boys, So mamma had no idea you'd be sitting there 2452 01:49:17,173 --> 01:49:19,572 Speaker 5: with your brother and suddenly realizing this is terrifying. 2453 01:49:21,412 --> 01:49:22,172 Speaker 13: It was awful. 2454 01:49:23,013 --> 01:49:24,812 Speaker 3: What did your mom say? I mean, I haven't seen 2455 01:49:24,893 --> 01:49:26,812 Speaker 3: ko Joe, but I I was at some sort of 2456 01:49:26,853 --> 01:49:27,412 Speaker 3: demon dog? 2457 01:49:27,572 --> 01:49:31,412 Speaker 10: Is it? It's a dog that gets written by a bat. 2458 01:49:31,812 --> 01:49:35,852 Speaker 26: Yeah, kids, rabies and then goes out to people that 2459 01:49:36,013 --> 01:49:37,132 Speaker 26: is so close to home. 2460 01:49:38,973 --> 01:49:40,652 Speaker 6: And are you more scared of dogs or bats? 2461 01:49:40,692 --> 01:49:47,652 Speaker 5: Now crag both it's bitten by bats? Wise man, Greg, Hey, 2462 01:49:47,692 --> 01:49:51,492 Speaker 5: that hasn't really interesting text. Hey guys, great show question. 2463 01:49:51,652 --> 01:49:54,532 Speaker 5: What was that substack called again? It's Matt Heath got 2464 01:49:54,612 --> 01:49:56,892 Speaker 5: substack dot com and I've got an article on there 2465 01:49:56,973 --> 01:50:00,133 Speaker 5: called forcing kids to watch horror films the Benefits. But 2466 01:50:00,213 --> 01:50:03,652 Speaker 5: that's a little bit back. Today's the most recent one 2467 01:50:04,093 --> 01:50:06,452 Speaker 5: is American sport pink cocaine. 2468 01:50:06,532 --> 01:50:09,852 Speaker 3: Anyway, Yeah, this tex is good. Kujo is basically a 2469 01:50:10,253 --> 01:50:17,532 Speaker 3: rabbit Beethoven. I, John, there you going horror movies? What 2470 01:50:17,612 --> 01:50:18,012 Speaker 3: are you reacking? 2471 01:50:19,532 --> 01:50:22,132 Speaker 25: But you had a caller on saying about the Omen earlier, 2472 01:50:22,253 --> 01:50:24,013 Speaker 25: and I just wanted to give you a story in 2473 01:50:24,093 --> 01:50:27,012 Speaker 25: relation to it. So that the church that they use 2474 01:50:27,093 --> 01:50:29,053 Speaker 25: and the Omen is in the grounds of an army 2475 01:50:29,133 --> 01:50:33,572 Speaker 25: camp in Britain, right, And when whenever I was in 2476 01:50:33,652 --> 01:50:35,412 Speaker 25: the Army and you would arrived at this camp to 2477 01:50:35,492 --> 01:50:38,452 Speaker 25: do guardship, they used to have the Omen playing in 2478 01:50:38,572 --> 01:50:43,452 Speaker 25: the guardroom and they wouldn't tell you the church was 2479 01:50:43,492 --> 01:50:46,732 Speaker 25: on your route. So you'd arrived then and you'd watch 2480 01:50:46,812 --> 01:50:49,173 Speaker 25: the Omen, and then they send you out and you 2481 01:50:49,333 --> 01:50:53,612 Speaker 25: ended up walking through the grounds of that church used 2482 01:50:53,612 --> 01:50:56,173 Speaker 25: to win and hide stuff and get noises and things. 2483 01:50:57,452 --> 01:51:01,933 Speaker 3: That's terrifying. That's the one scene I remember, John specifically 2484 01:51:02,013 --> 01:51:04,772 Speaker 3: from the Omen is the spire scene and we all 2485 01:51:04,853 --> 01:51:07,572 Speaker 3: know it, but right outside the church and the pastor 2486 01:51:07,732 --> 01:51:09,852 Speaker 3: is him what he needs to be doing, and then 2487 01:51:09,893 --> 01:51:12,772 Speaker 3: it was sudden the spiral falls down and we know 2488 01:51:12,853 --> 01:51:13,372 Speaker 3: it open there. 2489 01:51:14,973 --> 01:51:16,852 Speaker 25: Yeah. Well, it was all good fun until one of 2490 01:51:16,893 --> 01:51:19,933 Speaker 25: these breaked out and discharged his firearm stopped after that? 2491 01:51:22,293 --> 01:51:24,412 Speaker 5: Wow, So did he dis judged it at someone or 2492 01:51:24,572 --> 01:51:26,772 Speaker 5: just in the air? Did you charge it? Did judge 2493 01:51:26,812 --> 01:51:28,772 Speaker 5: it in rage or in just by accident? 2494 01:51:30,093 --> 01:51:35,812 Speaker 25: End of the bushes he freaked out and things that 2495 01:51:35,893 --> 01:51:37,892 Speaker 25: when you would walk past, they would hide and filled 2496 01:51:37,933 --> 01:51:41,852 Speaker 25: the ropes and make everything shaken, and he freaked. 2497 01:51:43,812 --> 01:51:46,852 Speaker 5: Well, it seems understandable. So that theme to the Omen. 2498 01:51:46,893 --> 01:51:49,532 Speaker 5: People think it's Kamena barana, but it's not. It's ave 2499 01:51:49,692 --> 01:51:54,133 Speaker 5: Sentani right, Avei from the ninety six seventy sixth film 2500 01:51:54,173 --> 01:51:56,732 Speaker 5: The omens Cerifying, composed by Jerry Goldsmith. 2501 01:51:56,732 --> 01:51:57,492 Speaker 6: You'll know it if you hear it. 2502 01:51:57,572 --> 01:52:00,772 Speaker 3: Yeah, John, fantastic story. Thank you very much, Chris. How 2503 01:52:00,812 --> 01:52:01,173 Speaker 3: you doing. 2504 01:52:02,372 --> 01:52:03,973 Speaker 38: There's a lot of recent ones you think of a 2505 01:52:04,093 --> 01:52:05,213 Speaker 38: conjuring one and two. 2506 01:52:05,452 --> 01:52:09,093 Speaker 12: Oh yes, it follows small all all those. 2507 01:52:09,452 --> 01:52:12,932 Speaker 38: But the best horror sci fi horror is the great 2508 01:52:13,093 --> 01:52:15,372 Speaker 38: Kurt Russell and John Carpenter is the thing. 2509 01:52:17,333 --> 01:52:18,772 Speaker 6: Tyler was mentioned this before. 2510 01:52:19,013 --> 01:52:21,612 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's my favorite. Chriss. That is such a good movie. 2511 01:52:21,812 --> 01:52:24,772 Speaker 3: Terrifying but so good. The atmosphere, oh man. 2512 01:52:25,812 --> 01:52:29,253 Speaker 38: And the best the best Spielboog film was Jaws. Not 2513 01:52:29,412 --> 01:52:31,293 Speaker 38: too horrible, but you know that made ever run not 2514 01:52:31,333 --> 01:52:34,893 Speaker 38: want to go to the beach. And then the reality 2515 01:52:34,973 --> 01:52:38,532 Speaker 38: ones these days, like even the original o g. The 2516 01:52:38,652 --> 01:52:42,772 Speaker 38: Blear Witch Project fantastic, that is actually quite freaky. 2517 01:52:43,293 --> 01:52:45,333 Speaker 5: I just watched I just watched The Blue Witch Project 2518 01:52:45,333 --> 01:52:47,652 Speaker 5: the other day, actually again because I was trying to 2519 01:52:47,692 --> 01:52:49,772 Speaker 5: work out what happened at the end. I watched that 2520 01:52:50,053 --> 01:52:52,652 Speaker 5: and then then then the sequel, because it was two sequels. 2521 01:52:52,732 --> 01:52:54,612 Speaker 5: The one quite a few years later was just called 2522 01:52:54,612 --> 01:52:56,852 Speaker 5: the Blair Witch Project. Again, that was okay, but the 2523 01:52:56,933 --> 01:53:02,133 Speaker 5: original is terrifying. Not a lot happens, arguably, apart from 2524 01:53:02,213 --> 01:53:04,052 Speaker 5: some stones being piled up in front of some tense 2525 01:53:04,133 --> 01:53:07,572 Speaker 5: people getting lost in some weird wooden things hanging from trees. 2526 01:53:07,692 --> 01:53:10,052 Speaker 5: But it is terrifying, Thank you, very. 2527 01:53:10,053 --> 01:53:12,213 Speaker 3: Much, Chris. The thing about The Blair Witch when it 2528 01:53:12,452 --> 01:53:15,812 Speaker 3: first came to movie theaters is the viral marketing around 2529 01:53:15,853 --> 01:53:19,932 Speaker 3: it was so clever. People thought it was a snuff 2530 01:53:20,333 --> 01:53:22,013 Speaker 3: Well there was a documentary on Tell You about the 2531 01:53:22,053 --> 01:53:25,493 Speaker 3: Blair Witch, and everybody thought it was an actual documentary, 2532 01:53:25,532 --> 01:53:26,412 Speaker 3: which was terrifying. 2533 01:53:26,692 --> 01:53:26,852 Speaker 8: Les. 2534 01:53:27,093 --> 01:53:27,412 Speaker 3: How are you? 2535 01:53:28,572 --> 01:53:29,732 Speaker 39: Yeah, thank you guys. 2536 01:53:29,893 --> 01:53:30,053 Speaker 12: Yep. 2537 01:53:30,652 --> 01:53:34,732 Speaker 39: This was another oots that didn't involve me. My husband 2538 01:53:34,853 --> 01:53:37,612 Speaker 39: was quite a young man in the early eighties. Meet 2539 01:53:37,652 --> 01:53:41,253 Speaker 39: a girl he liked, nice Christian girl. It sort of 2540 01:53:41,412 --> 01:53:46,333 Speaker 39: take her to a nice Christian new movie that Exodus. 2541 01:53:46,853 --> 01:53:50,773 Speaker 5: Yep, the Exodus, but it wasn't It wasn't exod. 2542 01:53:54,093 --> 01:53:54,652 Speaker 6: Oh my god. 2543 01:53:54,772 --> 01:53:56,532 Speaker 3: Yeah, what that would about? I mean it had a lovely, 2544 01:53:56,612 --> 01:53:58,013 Speaker 3: you know, too lovely past, isn't it? 2545 01:53:58,452 --> 01:53:58,972 Speaker 5: Or priests? 2546 01:53:59,412 --> 01:54:01,612 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, well we can go wrong. 2547 01:54:01,772 --> 01:54:04,133 Speaker 20: I think they had to leave. 2548 01:54:04,612 --> 01:54:07,772 Speaker 15: Yeah, basically, I mean too much. 2549 01:54:07,893 --> 01:54:11,213 Speaker 5: This different some challenging. There's some definitely some challenging stuff 2550 01:54:11,372 --> 01:54:14,133 Speaker 5: in that movie. But the exociusse When did that came out? 2551 01:54:14,173 --> 01:54:16,333 Speaker 5: That probably would have come out about nineteen seventy three, 2552 01:54:16,372 --> 01:54:19,372 Speaker 5: I believe. But it's still the scariest movie to this day. 2553 01:54:20,812 --> 01:54:22,853 Speaker 5: It is a truly chilling. 2554 01:54:22,692 --> 01:54:27,492 Speaker 20: Movie called the Exodus, or not that they got to 2555 01:54:27,532 --> 01:54:28,652 Speaker 20: see that, I'm not sure. 2556 01:54:28,933 --> 01:54:32,133 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's great, thank you very much. Whether it's 2557 01:54:32,133 --> 01:54:34,413 Speaker 3: a myth or not. But there was some pretty nasty 2558 01:54:34,453 --> 01:54:36,493 Speaker 3: stuff that happened on that film. Seit wasn't it. There 2559 01:54:36,533 --> 01:54:38,253 Speaker 3: was a there was a person that died, there was 2560 01:54:38,293 --> 01:54:39,093 Speaker 3: some spooed. 2561 01:54:40,613 --> 01:54:42,093 Speaker 6: Market. There's been some stuff since there. 2562 01:54:42,133 --> 01:54:45,253 Speaker 5: But William Friedkin, who directed it, he did things like 2563 01:54:45,333 --> 01:54:47,533 Speaker 5: freezing the sets so when they were shooting those scenes, 2564 01:54:47,693 --> 01:54:51,453 Speaker 5: it was actually basically in a bear fridge genius, so 2565 01:54:51,653 --> 01:54:53,293 Speaker 5: people were cold. There was that you know when you 2566 01:54:53,333 --> 01:54:55,213 Speaker 5: can see the breath. It was really that cold there. 2567 01:54:55,573 --> 01:54:57,613 Speaker 5: They did a lot of stuff, but they set the 2568 01:54:59,053 --> 01:55:01,092 Speaker 5: whole rooms they were shooting in so they shaked around, 2569 01:55:01,213 --> 01:55:04,053 Speaker 5: so you know, I think it was Yeah, it was 2570 01:55:04,173 --> 01:55:08,053 Speaker 5: Linda Bleir. She was a kid and absolutely terrified when 2571 01:55:08,093 --> 01:55:11,133 Speaker 5: she it so slightly dodgy, but fantastic movie. 2572 01:55:11,253 --> 01:55:13,133 Speaker 3: It is eight minutes to four. We'll get to more 2573 01:55:13,133 --> 01:55:14,533 Speaker 3: of your phone calls very shortly. 2574 01:55:15,933 --> 01:55:19,293 Speaker 1: The big stories, the big issues, the big trends, and 2575 01:55:19,653 --> 01:55:23,333 Speaker 1: everything in between. Matt Heath and Taylor Adams Afternoons You 2576 01:55:23,533 --> 01:55:26,133 Speaker 1: for twenty twenty four used talk said b zaid b. 2577 01:55:26,733 --> 01:55:29,093 Speaker 3: Hey you Ashley, watch your go to horror movie. 2578 01:55:30,333 --> 01:55:31,053 Speaker 24: Yeah, how are you doing? 2579 01:55:31,133 --> 01:55:31,293 Speaker 12: Boy? 2580 01:55:31,413 --> 01:55:33,693 Speaker 3: Yeah, we're very good, excellent. 2581 01:55:34,133 --> 01:55:37,173 Speaker 24: I've got a bit of a yarn. So when I 2582 01:55:37,573 --> 01:55:40,533 Speaker 24: was a kid, which was like fifty years ago, because 2583 01:55:40,573 --> 01:55:43,852 Speaker 24: I'm really old, when I grew up in a place 2584 01:55:43,933 --> 01:55:47,892 Speaker 24: called Too Danny, and we used to have movies every 2585 01:55:47,933 --> 01:55:50,892 Speaker 24: now and then in the local Scout Deans. Now, you've 2586 01:55:50,933 --> 01:55:53,893 Speaker 24: got to realize that back in the day, the scariest 2587 01:55:53,933 --> 01:55:56,293 Speaker 24: thing we ever saw was on the television. It was 2588 01:55:56,373 --> 01:55:59,213 Speaker 24: probably Enid Sharples with their heads Scout. 2589 01:56:01,253 --> 01:56:01,373 Speaker 5: Now. 2590 01:56:01,453 --> 01:56:03,173 Speaker 3: Now I hate to rush you, Ashley, but we've got 2591 01:56:03,173 --> 01:56:04,293 Speaker 3: about thirty seconds. 2592 01:56:04,812 --> 01:56:05,493 Speaker 14: Oh good, we'll this. 2593 01:56:05,533 --> 01:56:07,493 Speaker 24: Will be really fast. So anyway, the name of the 2594 01:56:07,573 --> 01:56:10,453 Speaker 24: movie was called Lohr, Bobby and Rose and it was 2595 01:56:10,533 --> 01:56:12,693 Speaker 24: the first time in my life I saw someone get 2596 01:56:12,812 --> 01:56:15,293 Speaker 24: shot and I had to run to the toilet. She 2597 01:56:15,533 --> 01:56:19,892 Speaker 24: haunted me till this day. I had the saut I know, right, 2598 01:56:20,493 --> 01:56:23,213 Speaker 24: like even your old kid. And I even googled it, 2599 01:56:23,373 --> 01:56:25,733 Speaker 24: like last year. I got brave enough last year to 2600 01:56:25,772 --> 01:56:27,733 Speaker 24: google it, and this was fifty years ago to see 2601 01:56:27,733 --> 01:56:28,373 Speaker 24: if it was real. 2602 01:56:28,893 --> 01:56:29,693 Speaker 13: And it was real. 2603 01:56:30,173 --> 01:56:31,693 Speaker 6: Oh, happy Halloween. 2604 01:56:32,093 --> 01:56:35,852 Speaker 3: That's fantastic. Actually, thank you right quickly. Your top three, okay, 2605 01:56:35,973 --> 01:56:36,453 Speaker 3: my top three. 2606 01:56:36,493 --> 01:56:38,453 Speaker 5: I'm going to my top six because the satanic number 2607 01:56:38,493 --> 01:56:41,253 Speaker 5: Talk to Me twenty twenty two, The Cabin and the 2608 01:56:41,293 --> 01:56:44,533 Speaker 5: Woods twenty eleven, Late Night with the Devil twenty twenty three, 2609 01:56:44,573 --> 01:56:47,733 Speaker 5: Paranormal Activity twenty eight days later, Hereditary give a Taste 2610 01:56:47,733 --> 01:56:48,892 Speaker 5: of Kiwi, Happy Halloween. 2611 01:56:49,573 --> 01:56:50,973 Speaker 8: For more from News Talks, the'd Be. 2612 01:56:51,253 --> 01:56:54,493 Speaker 1: Listen live on air or online, and keep our shows 2613 01:56:54,533 --> 01:56:57,853 Speaker 1: with you wherever you go with our podcast on iHeartRadio