1 00:00:09,093 --> 00:00:11,972 Speaker 1: You're listening to a podcast from News Talk zed B. 2 00:00:12,373 --> 00:00:16,133 Speaker 1: Follow this and our Wide Ranger podcasts now on iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:17,053 --> 00:00:19,893 Speaker 2: All right, yeah, good, okay, good? Hell? 4 00:00:19,933 --> 00:00:22,332 Speaker 3: Are you great, New Zealanders? And welcome to Matt and 5 00:00:22,372 --> 00:00:26,413 Speaker 3: Tyler Afternoons Full Show Podcast number sixty four for Tuesday, 6 00:00:26,493 --> 00:00:29,133 Speaker 3: the eleventh of February. Thanks for tuning in. You can 7 00:00:29,173 --> 00:00:32,293 Speaker 3: hear this. I'm using Hoskin's vacuum cleaner. 8 00:00:32,333 --> 00:00:36,452 Speaker 2: You made an absolute mess again, but I'm sick. 9 00:00:36,293 --> 00:00:39,933 Speaker 3: Of being called the pig of ZB so I'm cleaning 10 00:00:39,933 --> 00:00:42,092 Speaker 3: it up. And I've got to say this Dison is 11 00:00:42,492 --> 00:00:43,293 Speaker 3: really powerful. 12 00:00:43,333 --> 00:00:46,212 Speaker 2: It's way better than the museum piece that you used 13 00:00:46,293 --> 00:00:47,452 Speaker 2: last time. Mate, I've got to say. 14 00:00:47,333 --> 00:00:49,172 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I've got to I mean, I must have 15 00:00:49,293 --> 00:00:51,653 Speaker 3: like a really rubbish Dyson because mine doesn't suck like this. 16 00:00:52,013 --> 00:00:56,572 Speaker 3: Mind sucks. I beg, yeah, mind sucks. It doesn't suck anyway. 17 00:00:56,893 --> 00:00:59,053 Speaker 3: Great chat today. We get to the topic we missed 18 00:00:59,093 --> 00:01:02,613 Speaker 3: yesterday around lying and relationships, and we went deep into 19 00:01:02,653 --> 00:01:04,652 Speaker 3: cocaine abuse. It was a really good chat and had 20 00:01:04,653 --> 00:01:09,453 Speaker 3: some fantastic calls. And we all also talked about poles, 21 00:01:09,453 --> 00:01:11,093 Speaker 3: Do you believe them? Do you follow them? And I 22 00:01:11,133 --> 00:01:12,333 Speaker 3: don't know why to say this, because we'll tell you 23 00:01:12,333 --> 00:01:14,853 Speaker 3: about that in a second. But thanks for tuning in 24 00:01:15,253 --> 00:01:19,053 Speaker 3: and sit to download, follow and subscribe and love you 25 00:01:19,133 --> 00:01:19,733 Speaker 3: and give me a taste. 26 00:01:19,813 --> 00:01:26,292 Speaker 1: Kiwi your new home for insightful and entertaining talk. It's 27 00:01:26,333 --> 00:01:30,733 Speaker 1: Mattie and Taylor Adams afternoons with the Volvo x eighty 28 00:01:30,853 --> 00:01:31,652 Speaker 1: on Youth Talk. 29 00:01:31,773 --> 00:01:35,173 Speaker 2: Send me for gooday to you, Welcome into the show 30 00:01:35,253 --> 00:01:37,133 Speaker 2: on this Tuesday afternoon. 31 00:01:37,212 --> 00:01:39,693 Speaker 3: Get a manet, Tyler, great to be here, got a 32 00:01:39,693 --> 00:01:43,212 Speaker 3: good show for you today after three pm? What level 33 00:01:43,253 --> 00:01:45,173 Speaker 3: of secret is okay to keep from your partner? 34 00:01:45,453 --> 00:01:48,213 Speaker 2: Yep, this was on the back of you sending a 35 00:01:48,213 --> 00:01:50,653 Speaker 2: photo of you eating your little Mecca's fries. 36 00:01:50,533 --> 00:01:54,493 Speaker 3: Hid hiding in my car and eating my my burgers 37 00:01:54,493 --> 00:01:56,493 Speaker 3: and fries out from my partner. 38 00:01:56,533 --> 00:01:57,493 Speaker 2: We've all got them. 39 00:01:57,333 --> 00:02:00,853 Speaker 3: Because I'm supposed to be eating healthy, so you know 40 00:02:00,973 --> 00:02:02,413 Speaker 3: it's I'm still on the diet as long as she 41 00:02:02,413 --> 00:02:04,893 Speaker 3: doesn't see it. So what little secrets do you keep 42 00:02:04,893 --> 00:02:07,693 Speaker 3: from your partner? And is that okay? After two pm? Tyler? 43 00:02:08,013 --> 00:02:11,653 Speaker 2: Yeah, so cocaine. This is on the back of Colombian President. 44 00:02:11,733 --> 00:02:14,653 Speaker 2: He says cocaine is no worse than whiskey, and he 45 00:02:15,013 --> 00:02:18,493 Speaker 2: believes scientists have analyzed it. But the wide question you're 46 00:02:18,493 --> 00:02:22,333 Speaker 2: going to put to you is one on the rise 47 00:02:22,373 --> 00:02:26,573 Speaker 2: of cocaine consumption in New Zealand, but also is there 48 00:02:26,693 --> 00:02:29,613 Speaker 2: an argument to be made for looking at our drug laws? 49 00:02:29,933 --> 00:02:30,132 Speaker 4: Yeah? 50 00:02:30,173 --> 00:02:32,532 Speaker 3: Well, the thing is that no one's denying that cocaine 51 00:02:32,532 --> 00:02:35,973 Speaker 3: is addictive substance and it causes harm. But is the 52 00:02:36,013 --> 00:02:38,813 Speaker 3: prohibition of it causing more harm than it would if 53 00:02:38,813 --> 00:02:41,853 Speaker 3: it was sold like booze as the Columbian President said, 54 00:02:41,972 --> 00:02:44,613 Speaker 3: And look he's a dodgy guy, so we're not taking 55 00:02:44,613 --> 00:02:48,613 Speaker 3: this site on this. But is it if it was 56 00:02:48,653 --> 00:02:51,972 Speaker 3: sold as wine, would it be would there be less 57 00:02:52,013 --> 00:02:54,773 Speaker 3: damage than the situation we're in now where boy, the 58 00:02:54,853 --> 00:02:57,653 Speaker 3: numbers of the cocaine consumption in New Zealand is going 59 00:02:57,693 --> 00:03:01,493 Speaker 3: through the roof, so before prohibition doesn't seem to be 60 00:03:01,493 --> 00:03:03,053 Speaker 3: stopping it as a growth product. 61 00:03:03,213 --> 00:03:05,693 Speaker 2: Yep, that's going to be an interesting chad after two o'clock. 62 00:03:05,733 --> 00:03:08,093 Speaker 2: But right now, let's have a chet about poles. This 63 00:03:08,173 --> 00:03:12,653 Speaker 2: is on the back of three consecutive polls show support 64 00:03:12,693 --> 00:03:16,053 Speaker 2: for the government has dropped, with the Opposition having more 65 00:03:16,133 --> 00:03:18,933 Speaker 2: support than the coalition. The latest one or is the 66 00:03:18,933 --> 00:03:22,732 Speaker 2: one used variant pole yesterday which showed the sender Left 67 00:03:22,773 --> 00:03:25,293 Speaker 2: could form a government labor jump four points to thirty 68 00:03:25,293 --> 00:03:28,893 Speaker 2: three percent. Well, National felt three points to thirty four percent. 69 00:03:28,893 --> 00:03:30,893 Speaker 3: Ya, of course, So they're doing the polls so they 70 00:03:31,013 --> 00:03:33,933 Speaker 3: can advertise it, put it on the show, and you know, 71 00:03:34,013 --> 00:03:36,253 Speaker 3: seal avertising around it. So it's a commercial venture doing 72 00:03:36,293 --> 00:03:40,173 Speaker 3: that pole. But you know it's eighteen months out for election, 73 00:03:40,293 --> 00:03:43,173 Speaker 3: so really what does it say? But does it affect 74 00:03:43,213 --> 00:03:46,693 Speaker 3: how things go? So if you start to hear that 75 00:03:46,813 --> 00:03:50,053 Speaker 3: a party slipping, do you start to change your opinion 76 00:03:50,093 --> 00:03:53,053 Speaker 3: on it? Does it change your opinion of the government 77 00:03:53,093 --> 00:03:55,413 Speaker 3: to see that they're slightly slipping in these poles? Do 78 00:03:55,453 --> 00:03:58,933 Speaker 3: you even believe the polls? It's another question as well. 79 00:03:59,133 --> 00:04:02,013 Speaker 3: I would never answer a pole. I'd also like to 80 00:04:02,013 --> 00:04:06,333 Speaker 3: hear people eight hundred and eighty eighty ten a who 81 00:04:06,453 --> 00:04:07,533 Speaker 3: did the pizzut number? Again? 82 00:04:09,133 --> 00:04:09,733 Speaker 2: It's lunched on. 83 00:04:11,493 --> 00:04:14,813 Speaker 3: It's a Freudian slip. Now eight one hundred eighteen eighty 84 00:04:14,853 --> 00:04:16,813 Speaker 3: people that have been rung up by a pole. Because 85 00:04:16,813 --> 00:04:19,693 Speaker 3: if someone rang up to poll me, I'd say go away, 86 00:04:19,733 --> 00:04:21,933 Speaker 3: I'm not wasting my time talking to you. Just so 87 00:04:22,013 --> 00:04:24,892 Speaker 3: you can sell some ads on your whatever agenda you're running. 88 00:04:25,013 --> 00:04:26,373 Speaker 2: I've never done a political pole. 89 00:04:26,373 --> 00:04:28,813 Speaker 3: I'd assume first, I'd assume was a scam. First of all, 90 00:04:28,853 --> 00:04:30,533 Speaker 3: I wouldn't answer it because I didn't have the number 91 00:04:30,533 --> 00:04:34,053 Speaker 3: of my phone number. Answer out of some incredible piece 92 00:04:34,093 --> 00:04:36,373 Speaker 3: of bad luck, I've excellently answered it. Maybe I thought 93 00:04:36,493 --> 00:04:38,613 Speaker 3: one of my kids was ringing to be picked up 94 00:04:38,693 --> 00:04:40,373 Speaker 3: or something. Yeah, and I've picked it up, and I've 95 00:04:40,453 --> 00:04:42,413 Speaker 3: ended up with someone trying to run a pole on me. 96 00:04:42,453 --> 00:04:44,533 Speaker 3: There's no way to continue answering it. 97 00:04:44,973 --> 00:04:47,613 Speaker 2: Yeah, And they always ring at tea time, usually about 98 00:04:47,653 --> 00:04:50,493 Speaker 2: six six thirty. I mean, where's the strategy in that? 99 00:04:50,693 --> 00:04:53,653 Speaker 2: So someone's just making tea, they're getting the kids ready. Hey, 100 00:04:53,733 --> 00:04:57,213 Speaker 2: can we ask you a few questions about you are political allegiance? 101 00:04:57,413 --> 00:04:58,693 Speaker 3: No? 102 00:04:58,573 --> 00:04:58,613 Speaker 5: No? 103 00:04:59,093 --> 00:05:00,973 Speaker 3: Also, do you tell that people that also don't necessarily 104 00:05:00,973 --> 00:05:02,893 Speaker 3: tell the truth to the poll stuff if they know 105 00:05:03,013 --> 00:05:05,053 Speaker 3: which way the polls go, and they tend to say 106 00:05:05,093 --> 00:05:07,493 Speaker 3: what they think the person wants to hear. Also the 107 00:05:07,573 --> 00:05:10,813 Speaker 3: questions and mis misleading, and we all know how that works. 108 00:05:10,853 --> 00:05:13,413 Speaker 3: But does it change your opinion? With all that in mind, 109 00:05:14,253 --> 00:05:16,533 Speaker 3: does it change your opinion if you see a politician 110 00:05:16,653 --> 00:05:18,853 Speaker 3: start to get less popular, do you feel like they're 111 00:05:18,853 --> 00:05:20,973 Speaker 3: not doing their job and they get sort of the 112 00:05:21,013 --> 00:05:24,133 Speaker 3: stench of loser around them? Because you know, humans, we 113 00:05:24,173 --> 00:05:26,653 Speaker 3: hate losers. We certainly do. We love winners and we 114 00:05:26,693 --> 00:05:29,013 Speaker 3: follow winners. We hate people that are losing. 115 00:05:29,093 --> 00:05:31,053 Speaker 2: You don't want to back a loser. I think for 116 00:05:31,133 --> 00:05:34,413 Speaker 2: the bigger parties, whether it makes much of a difference, 117 00:05:34,493 --> 00:05:35,893 Speaker 2: I don't know, and we'd love to hear from you 118 00:05:35,933 --> 00:05:37,253 Speaker 2: on oh e one hundred and eighteen eighty. But for 119 00:05:37,293 --> 00:05:39,573 Speaker 2: the smaller guys, the ones that may or may not 120 00:05:39,893 --> 00:05:42,293 Speaker 2: breach that five percent, I think it makes a world 121 00:05:42,293 --> 00:05:46,093 Speaker 2: of difference. Like the Opportunities Party, for example, Consistently before 122 00:05:46,093 --> 00:05:48,853 Speaker 2: the last election, they were polling around one percent two percent. 123 00:05:49,173 --> 00:05:51,773 Speaker 2: If you are a maybe with the Opportunities Party and 124 00:05:51,773 --> 00:05:54,413 Speaker 2: you saw that, you'd be like, it's just a wasted vote. 125 00:05:56,293 --> 00:05:58,973 Speaker 2: Some great texts coming through on nine two ninety two. 126 00:06:00,253 --> 00:06:02,573 Speaker 2: But love to get your thoughts the polls. Do they 127 00:06:02,693 --> 00:06:06,253 Speaker 2: influence your decision at all? And eighteen months out from 128 00:06:06,493 --> 00:06:08,853 Speaker 2: an election, what is the point? Oh one hundred and 129 00:06:08,893 --> 00:06:10,853 Speaker 2: eighty ten eighty is the number to call? Nine two 130 00:06:10,973 --> 00:06:17,213 Speaker 2: ninety two is the text number? It is eleven past one. 131 00:06:17,093 --> 00:06:20,573 Speaker 1: The big stories, the big issues, the big trends, and 132 00:06:20,813 --> 00:06:24,413 Speaker 1: everything in between. Matt and Taylor Afternoons with the Volvo 133 00:06:24,733 --> 00:06:27,893 Speaker 1: XC ninety attention to detail and a commitment to comfort. 134 00:06:28,013 --> 00:06:28,853 Speaker 3: News Talks dead B. 135 00:06:30,813 --> 00:06:33,773 Speaker 2: NEWSB fourteen bars one. Now, I don't know if it's 136 00:06:33,773 --> 00:06:35,293 Speaker 2: going to pack up on the hypes or not, but 137 00:06:35,333 --> 00:06:37,893 Speaker 2: where if you hear some beaning going on, there is 138 00:06:37,933 --> 00:06:40,293 Speaker 2: a bit of a celebration for the lunar and New 139 00:06:40,373 --> 00:06:43,133 Speaker 2: Year going on directly under the under our floor. 140 00:06:43,253 --> 00:06:46,373 Speaker 3: Yeah, we've been punished by parties lately, haven't We used 141 00:06:46,373 --> 00:06:49,373 Speaker 3: to say the Super Bowl party was happening right below 142 00:06:49,453 --> 00:06:53,333 Speaker 3: the Mic Costing Memorial Studio and this thing today, So 143 00:06:53,573 --> 00:06:53,853 Speaker 3: you know. 144 00:06:54,013 --> 00:06:55,573 Speaker 2: We'reright in the middle of the day, you know. Don't 145 00:06:55,573 --> 00:06:57,533 Speaker 2: they know we're on here at the moment? People are 146 00:06:57,533 --> 00:06:59,493 Speaker 2: eating boobs out there, don't they know? 147 00:06:59,613 --> 00:07:01,613 Speaker 3: We love to party and we hate to miss out. 148 00:07:01,853 --> 00:07:05,053 Speaker 2: Yeah for next time, people. But we are talking about 149 00:07:05,093 --> 00:07:06,613 Speaker 2: the pole. So this is on the back of course 150 00:07:06,613 --> 00:07:09,733 Speaker 2: of three consecutive poles showing the support for the government 151 00:07:09,893 --> 00:07:12,973 Speaker 2: is dropping and a support for the opposition looks to 152 00:07:13,093 --> 00:07:17,133 Speaker 2: be slowly increasing. The one News variant pole yesterday the 153 00:07:17,653 --> 00:07:21,933 Speaker 2: taxpayer Union Curier poll was also yesterday our Prime Minister 154 00:07:21,973 --> 00:07:24,893 Speaker 2: Christopher Luxen. He says he's not worried at this point, 155 00:07:24,893 --> 00:07:27,613 Speaker 2: but our wider question is do these influence you at all? 156 00:07:27,653 --> 00:07:29,493 Speaker 3: Do you care? Does that change your opinion on your 157 00:07:29,493 --> 00:07:31,133 Speaker 3: party if you see that they might be dipping in 158 00:07:31,173 --> 00:07:33,853 Speaker 3: these poles. That's an interesting point as well. I want 159 00:07:33,853 --> 00:07:36,333 Speaker 3: to dalve into Hello, guys, I take known as the poles. 160 00:07:36,373 --> 00:07:38,573 Speaker 3: I'm in my early seventies and I have never been asked. 161 00:07:38,613 --> 00:07:40,653 Speaker 3: I also know someone who was asked and said he 162 00:07:40,693 --> 00:07:43,773 Speaker 3: deliberately lied, which to me sounds a bit of mature, 163 00:07:43,813 --> 00:07:45,893 Speaker 3: but that was his choice. It's true. I mean, how 164 00:07:45,893 --> 00:07:47,653 Speaker 3: do you enough people are telling the truth or not. 165 00:07:48,133 --> 00:07:51,493 Speaker 3: But also I've never I think I've been on the 166 00:07:51,493 --> 00:07:53,413 Speaker 3: line when someone's tried to turn it into a poll. 167 00:07:53,453 --> 00:07:54,973 Speaker 3: But I'm not going to waste my Why would I 168 00:07:54,973 --> 00:07:55,773 Speaker 3: waste my time with that? 169 00:07:56,053 --> 00:07:58,413 Speaker 2: Yeah, if you've done one of these polls, we'd love 170 00:07:58,453 --> 00:07:58,973 Speaker 2: to hear from them. 171 00:07:58,973 --> 00:08:04,333 Speaker 3: Amount like a wite hundred at ten at have you 172 00:08:04,493 --> 00:08:10,253 Speaker 3: ever have you now that have you ever been rung 173 00:08:10,293 --> 00:08:12,613 Speaker 3: up for one of these poles? And how do they 174 00:08:12,613 --> 00:08:13,013 Speaker 3: go down? 175 00:08:13,173 --> 00:08:15,853 Speaker 2: Yeah? Matthew Good afternoon to you. 176 00:08:16,773 --> 00:08:18,053 Speaker 6: Good afternoon, gentlemen. 177 00:08:18,453 --> 00:08:20,613 Speaker 2: Now, the polls to you, they mean nothing. 178 00:08:21,733 --> 00:08:24,613 Speaker 6: I hate them, can't stand them, and I get sick 179 00:08:24,653 --> 00:08:28,133 Speaker 6: of New Zealand gets who gets stuck into polls. I 180 00:08:28,173 --> 00:08:32,373 Speaker 6: mean the general policies that pop up. Some of the 181 00:08:32,413 --> 00:08:35,653 Speaker 6: policies are for long term. They may take two, three, 182 00:08:35,813 --> 00:08:38,173 Speaker 6: five years to see any benefit. But if the average 183 00:08:38,213 --> 00:08:40,173 Speaker 6: New Zealand has not been seen a benefit to them 184 00:08:40,253 --> 00:08:44,213 Speaker 6: right there and then they seem to change allegiances. So 185 00:08:44,252 --> 00:08:46,252 Speaker 6: what I hate about politics. There are so many policies 186 00:08:46,293 --> 00:08:49,732 Speaker 6: implemented that are going to take time to show any results. 187 00:08:50,093 --> 00:08:52,933 Speaker 6: But people want it here and now, and if they're 188 00:08:52,973 --> 00:08:55,253 Speaker 6: not getting what they want or they perceive that is 189 00:08:55,293 --> 00:08:58,732 Speaker 6: not going their way, then yeah, no, I can't stand 190 00:08:58,732 --> 00:09:03,732 Speaker 6: polls and can't stand the flip flopping of parties. 191 00:09:03,933 --> 00:09:07,813 Speaker 3: Now, Matthew, So if you see someone that you're following, 192 00:09:08,012 --> 00:09:11,573 Speaker 3: say like a say like a political candidate, and they're 193 00:09:11,573 --> 00:09:14,293 Speaker 3: dipping in the polls, does that do you have no 194 00:09:14,413 --> 00:09:16,492 Speaker 3: emotional reaction to that at all? 195 00:09:17,333 --> 00:09:19,093 Speaker 6: No, not at all, not at all. I look at 196 00:09:19,132 --> 00:09:22,973 Speaker 6: the policies, and any intelligence who put in person should 197 00:09:23,012 --> 00:09:25,733 Speaker 6: look at the policies. Say, okay, I can see the 198 00:09:25,773 --> 00:09:28,893 Speaker 6: long what is the long term effect for the nation 199 00:09:30,053 --> 00:09:31,933 Speaker 6: over a period of time. If it's going to take 200 00:09:32,012 --> 00:09:36,933 Speaker 6: more than the average three years for voting, then how 201 00:09:36,973 --> 00:09:38,933 Speaker 6: can we make a judgment if it's if you know, 202 00:09:39,973 --> 00:09:42,333 Speaker 6: it's not working within six months? Oh my goodness, how 203 00:09:42,333 --> 00:09:44,773 Speaker 6: many policies work within six months? 204 00:09:45,173 --> 00:09:45,852 Speaker 5: Why ends up? 205 00:09:46,252 --> 00:09:49,453 Speaker 3: It's a pretty that more people aren't like you because 206 00:09:49,653 --> 00:09:52,653 Speaker 3: I think, you know, poles are massively hyped up. You know, 207 00:09:52,933 --> 00:09:55,893 Speaker 3: when it's on the TV one news last night, it's 208 00:09:55,892 --> 00:09:59,053 Speaker 3: massively hyped up and presented as truth and presented as 209 00:09:59,093 --> 00:10:00,213 Speaker 3: where the government is. 210 00:10:00,732 --> 00:10:04,252 Speaker 6: But you know what, it reminds me of what America. 211 00:10:05,333 --> 00:10:07,973 Speaker 6: Let's let's let's get the most popular person on TV 212 00:10:08,333 --> 00:10:11,132 Speaker 6: promote them, and and it's all it's all about who's 213 00:10:11,333 --> 00:10:13,693 Speaker 6: who's the most popular, and not about what what the 214 00:10:13,732 --> 00:10:15,132 Speaker 6: long term goals for the country are. 215 00:10:15,293 --> 00:10:18,973 Speaker 3: But I guess and the and the end democracy it 216 00:10:19,012 --> 00:10:20,732 Speaker 3: is a popularity contest though. 217 00:10:20,732 --> 00:10:23,013 Speaker 6: Well, I know that's what annoys me. I'm not tied 218 00:10:23,012 --> 00:10:26,172 Speaker 6: to any particular party. I will support any party that 219 00:10:26,252 --> 00:10:29,293 Speaker 6: has the benefits of the country long term, even I 220 00:10:29,333 --> 00:10:31,973 Speaker 6: mean national and National may have a policy which is great, 221 00:10:32,252 --> 00:10:35,652 Speaker 6: labor may have a policy for a different reason. That's great, 222 00:10:35,892 --> 00:10:37,852 Speaker 6: but also the part of the part doesn't even want 223 00:10:37,852 --> 00:10:40,172 Speaker 6: to work together for something that's beneficial. They just want 224 00:10:40,213 --> 00:10:41,453 Speaker 6: to antagonize each other all the time. 225 00:10:41,612 --> 00:10:43,533 Speaker 3: Matthew, where do you get your opinions? Where do you 226 00:10:43,533 --> 00:10:46,732 Speaker 3: get your information on the policies from? 227 00:10:47,653 --> 00:10:47,813 Speaker 7: Oh? 228 00:10:48,093 --> 00:10:55,693 Speaker 6: Yeah, lots of places government with sites, statistics. Oh my goodness, 229 00:10:55,693 --> 00:10:56,852 Speaker 6: you're putting me on the spots, run and think of 230 00:10:56,892 --> 00:11:01,093 Speaker 6: all these places, news, everything like that. There's so much information, 231 00:11:01,173 --> 00:11:02,453 Speaker 6: But you have to be careful because you've got to 232 00:11:02,453 --> 00:11:05,412 Speaker 6: falter through the information through Well, you can't just accept 233 00:11:05,773 --> 00:11:09,973 Speaker 6: one view on a website that sees this because they 234 00:11:10,012 --> 00:11:11,892 Speaker 6: could be biased one way or the other. You've actually 235 00:11:11,973 --> 00:11:13,292 Speaker 6: got to do some but you know, it's like going 236 00:11:13,333 --> 00:11:15,652 Speaker 6: to university. But a critical thinking you've. 237 00:11:15,453 --> 00:11:18,133 Speaker 3: Got them though, Man, for most people probably might not 238 00:11:18,213 --> 00:11:20,773 Speaker 3: have the time or the inclination to be as diligent 239 00:11:20,933 --> 00:11:24,013 Speaker 3: as you are. So they see a poll on TV 240 00:11:24,293 --> 00:11:27,813 Speaker 3: and they go, well, that proves that what the government's 241 00:11:27,852 --> 00:11:31,933 Speaker 3: doing is not working, which is actually not what it does. 242 00:11:32,573 --> 00:11:35,172 Speaker 6: That just proves that right now the government's done something 243 00:11:35,213 --> 00:11:40,852 Speaker 6: that doesn't benefit than what the perception is that it's 244 00:11:40,892 --> 00:11:43,653 Speaker 6: not benefiting, but we don't know. We don't know if 245 00:11:43,653 --> 00:11:45,372 Speaker 6: it's not going to benefit harm, especially if it's a 246 00:11:45,413 --> 00:11:46,053 Speaker 6: long term goal. 247 00:11:46,732 --> 00:11:49,733 Speaker 2: Do you think it's the pole that affects that Matthew 248 00:11:50,012 --> 00:11:53,052 Speaker 2: Or as the Prime Minister said, we're still feeling the 249 00:11:53,813 --> 00:11:56,813 Speaker 2: pinch of the last few years, you know, that economic pain. 250 00:11:57,012 --> 00:12:00,133 Speaker 2: That is why the poles are showing the way they're showing, 251 00:12:00,453 --> 00:12:03,373 Speaker 2: and he is expecting in a year's time before the 252 00:12:03,413 --> 00:12:05,693 Speaker 2: election that things will turn around. What they are doing 253 00:12:05,813 --> 00:12:09,213 Speaker 2: now is they're going to start to show themselves in 254 00:12:09,252 --> 00:12:11,372 Speaker 2: twelve months time and at that point the polls will 255 00:12:11,372 --> 00:12:11,853 Speaker 2: turn around. 256 00:12:12,813 --> 00:12:14,333 Speaker 5: Oh quite possibly. 257 00:12:14,413 --> 00:12:16,973 Speaker 6: I think there are many people like me who who 258 00:12:17,093 --> 00:12:21,293 Speaker 6: don't buy into the whole pole situation, and it's like 259 00:12:21,333 --> 00:12:23,373 Speaker 6: a varying sliding scale. There's going to be some that 260 00:12:23,413 --> 00:12:27,253 Speaker 6: are influenced greatly by the poles, and there's going to 261 00:12:27,252 --> 00:12:30,453 Speaker 6: be some that absolutely don't because they're like me and 262 00:12:31,093 --> 00:12:33,373 Speaker 6: like to be informed, And there's going to be varying 263 00:12:33,413 --> 00:12:35,533 Speaker 6: degrees in the middle, which is also why poles are useless, 264 00:12:35,533 --> 00:12:39,373 Speaker 6: because it's never going to capture the whole scale of 265 00:12:39,693 --> 00:12:42,453 Speaker 6: the different types of people and how they react and think, 266 00:12:42,732 --> 00:12:42,933 Speaker 6: what do. 267 00:12:42,933 --> 00:12:45,813 Speaker 3: You think of this text, Matthew, that's coming at you. 268 00:12:45,973 --> 00:12:48,093 Speaker 3: This bloke is no understanding of the electoral cycle and 269 00:12:48,132 --> 00:12:51,773 Speaker 3: how the electric messages the government. Polls between elections solely 270 00:12:51,773 --> 00:12:53,693 Speaker 3: tell the government whether they're taking the country in the 271 00:12:53,732 --> 00:12:56,213 Speaker 3: right direction or not. This pole gals that they're not. 272 00:12:58,933 --> 00:13:03,172 Speaker 6: In the short term is the polls show that people 273 00:13:03,173 --> 00:13:05,933 Speaker 6: are not liking where the government's going right now within 274 00:13:06,053 --> 00:13:08,132 Speaker 6: six twelve months. How they've been in a couple of 275 00:13:08,213 --> 00:13:10,013 Speaker 6: year is now or you know, a year and a half? 276 00:13:10,012 --> 00:13:13,132 Speaker 6: What year it is showing that they're not. It's not 277 00:13:13,173 --> 00:13:16,173 Speaker 6: moving in the direction right right now. But we don't 278 00:13:16,213 --> 00:13:19,373 Speaker 6: know what's going to happen once the policies, if they're 279 00:13:19,372 --> 00:13:22,213 Speaker 6: good policies, I'm not saying they are, but if they're 280 00:13:22,252 --> 00:13:26,813 Speaker 6: good policies and they start showing results two, three, four 281 00:13:26,892 --> 00:13:32,372 Speaker 6: years down the track, we're making assumptions based on now 282 00:13:32,852 --> 00:13:35,493 Speaker 6: or six months ago, twelve months ago leading up to now, 283 00:13:35,813 --> 00:13:37,612 Speaker 6: and people aren't liking it. So the poles they're getting 284 00:13:37,612 --> 00:13:40,773 Speaker 6: it through a different pole results. Wait, the polls could 285 00:13:40,773 --> 00:13:43,213 Speaker 6: be completely different in twelve months. 286 00:13:43,372 --> 00:13:45,773 Speaker 3: But I suppose Matthew, even though they're not going to 287 00:13:45,852 --> 00:13:48,533 Speaker 3: change that, maybe they're not. They're very The government might 288 00:13:48,573 --> 00:13:51,573 Speaker 3: be happy with their policies, happy where they're going, but 289 00:13:51,693 --> 00:13:54,293 Speaker 3: the pole might suggest to them that they're messaging on 290 00:13:54,453 --> 00:13:57,813 Speaker 3: what they're doing isn't resonating with the public. So a 291 00:13:57,852 --> 00:14:00,012 Speaker 3: government might not change on the polls, but it might 292 00:14:00,093 --> 00:14:03,172 Speaker 3: just change how it's selling its particular policies. 293 00:14:03,933 --> 00:14:07,373 Speaker 6: Oh, quite quite possibly, and well absolutely one hundred percent, 294 00:14:07,453 --> 00:14:10,053 Speaker 6: because if if they're not polling, government goes, oh, what 295 00:14:10,093 --> 00:14:12,173 Speaker 6: are we going to do? Change the change change this. 296 00:14:12,573 --> 00:14:12,732 Speaker 8: No. 297 00:14:12,732 --> 00:14:12,852 Speaker 3: No. 298 00:14:12,933 --> 00:14:14,413 Speaker 6: Instead of saying, hey, we're going to stick to our 299 00:14:14,453 --> 00:14:17,213 Speaker 6: guns because we believe that the result is going to 300 00:14:17,252 --> 00:14:19,493 Speaker 6: be better four years down the track, they go, oh, no, 301 00:14:20,213 --> 00:14:21,453 Speaker 6: if we don't do this, we're not going to be 302 00:14:21,533 --> 00:14:24,173 Speaker 6: very popular and we're going to be voted out. It's 303 00:14:24,213 --> 00:14:27,173 Speaker 6: a contundrum that they have to that they have to balance. 304 00:14:27,213 --> 00:14:29,412 Speaker 6: They want to stay in power to see through their 305 00:14:29,413 --> 00:14:33,733 Speaker 6: policies versus do we keep the unpopular policy because we 306 00:14:33,853 --> 00:14:36,973 Speaker 6: know or we're pretty sure it's going to be beneficial 307 00:14:37,013 --> 00:14:39,133 Speaker 6: and five years time, even though we may not be 308 00:14:39,213 --> 00:14:44,413 Speaker 6: in government. It's a it's a he here, there's no 309 00:14:44,573 --> 00:14:45,773 Speaker 6: there's no perfect answer. 310 00:14:45,933 --> 00:14:48,493 Speaker 3: Well, there's no doubt, Matthew. The democracies work a lot better, 311 00:14:48,693 --> 00:14:51,613 Speaker 3: more people like you. Yeah, and we're putting that and 312 00:14:51,653 --> 00:14:54,573 Speaker 3: we're concentrating and making these sober decisions on what's going on. 313 00:14:54,613 --> 00:14:56,213 Speaker 3: Thank you so much for your call. 314 00:14:56,253 --> 00:14:58,773 Speaker 2: Thanks guys, cheers, cheers. Matthew Oh. Eight hundred and eighty 315 00:14:58,853 --> 00:15:01,173 Speaker 2: ten eighty is the number to call. Do you take 316 00:15:01,253 --> 00:15:06,653 Speaker 2: any interest or do you accept what the polls say? 317 00:15:07,573 --> 00:15:09,853 Speaker 2: This is on the back three consecutive poles. Support for 318 00:15:09,893 --> 00:15:12,133 Speaker 2: the government has dropped, with the opposition having more support 319 00:15:12,213 --> 00:15:15,373 Speaker 2: than the coalition. Do they influence you at all? Eight 320 00:15:15,493 --> 00:15:17,973 Speaker 2: hundred and eighty ten eighty is the number to call. 321 00:15:18,253 --> 00:15:20,093 Speaker 2: And if you hear some drums in the background, there 322 00:15:20,173 --> 00:15:25,253 Speaker 2: is a lunar a celebration happening just below us. Nineteen 323 00:15:25,333 --> 00:15:27,693 Speaker 2: ninety two is the teach number. It's twenty three past one. 324 00:15:29,413 --> 00:15:32,773 Speaker 1: Putting the tough questions to the newspeakers the mic asking 325 00:15:32,853 --> 00:15:33,453 Speaker 1: breakfast the. 326 00:15:33,413 --> 00:15:35,853 Speaker 3: Play Minister Christopher Luxan is with us. I suggested to 327 00:15:35,893 --> 00:15:37,733 Speaker 3: you last week you might be running down a runway. 328 00:15:37,773 --> 00:15:39,773 Speaker 3: We had Rod Duke of Briscoe's on the program the 329 00:15:39,813 --> 00:15:40,893 Speaker 3: other day. Here's what he said. 330 00:15:41,053 --> 00:15:44,373 Speaker 6: And I think they will be marked seriously if we 331 00:15:44,493 --> 00:15:46,893 Speaker 6: don't see some serious initiatives. 332 00:15:46,693 --> 00:15:47,013 Speaker 5: Is you right? 333 00:15:47,173 --> 00:15:47,693 Speaker 3: He's bang on. 334 00:15:47,773 --> 00:15:50,013 Speaker 9: We need to get this economy moving. We've had some 335 00:15:50,093 --> 00:15:53,052 Speaker 9: long standing problems for thirty years about economic productivity, and 336 00:15:53,093 --> 00:15:55,053 Speaker 9: that's what you're saying. We've got to invest summit coming up, 337 00:15:55,213 --> 00:15:57,933 Speaker 9: fast track hit last Friday. We've got trade deals, investment 338 00:15:57,973 --> 00:15:59,813 Speaker 9: treaty deals that we just did in the UAE. We've 339 00:15:59,813 --> 00:16:02,733 Speaker 9: got a rolling funder of constant announcements to remove Bard 340 00:16:03,093 --> 00:16:03,853 Speaker 9: roll show up. 341 00:16:04,733 --> 00:16:09,893 Speaker 3: We've got a rolling funder back tomorrow at six am 342 00:16:10,013 --> 00:16:13,213 Speaker 3: the Mike Hosking Breakfast with Mayley's Real Estate News Talk 343 00:16:13,333 --> 00:16:16,413 Speaker 3: ZB News Talk ZB oh one hundred and eighty ten eighty. 344 00:16:16,413 --> 00:16:18,653 Speaker 3: We're talking about polls. Do they change the way you 345 00:16:18,733 --> 00:16:21,933 Speaker 3: feel about a part of your supporting or not? Got 346 00:16:21,973 --> 00:16:24,053 Speaker 3: a couple of texts here, Yes, guys, I was rung 347 00:16:24,373 --> 00:16:26,893 Speaker 3: on our landline in January for the first pole of 348 00:16:26,933 --> 00:16:29,933 Speaker 3: the year. I was thrilled, never been rung before. I 349 00:16:30,053 --> 00:16:32,093 Speaker 3: was delighted to say I am a labor voter and 350 00:16:32,173 --> 00:16:36,013 Speaker 3: placed Seymour last. My reason is this divisiveness and this 351 00:16:36,133 --> 00:16:38,013 Speaker 3: text is the exact opposite. I've got a poll call. 352 00:16:38,053 --> 00:16:40,093 Speaker 3: It felt good to show my support for ACT. I 353 00:16:40,133 --> 00:16:42,773 Speaker 3: feel like with the media we only get pro labor 354 00:16:42,893 --> 00:16:46,773 Speaker 3: Greens TPM and all negative on Seymour. The amount you 355 00:16:46,813 --> 00:16:49,173 Speaker 3: guys have been beating up on the Man today, for example, 356 00:16:49,253 --> 00:16:51,253 Speaker 3: it felt good to push back, even just a little bit. 357 00:16:51,573 --> 00:16:52,613 Speaker 3: Love the show by the way. 358 00:16:52,573 --> 00:16:56,213 Speaker 2: Yeah, great texts coming through. And again, if you've been polled, 359 00:16:56,453 --> 00:16:58,493 Speaker 2: I'd love to hear from you. Oh, eight hundred eighty 360 00:16:58,613 --> 00:17:01,213 Speaker 2: ten eighty. What sort of questions did they ask? Did 361 00:17:01,213 --> 00:17:03,573 Speaker 2: they lump it in between? As I've heard the myth 362 00:17:03,653 --> 00:17:05,612 Speaker 2: that quite often the ring up and say can we 363 00:17:05,613 --> 00:17:08,093 Speaker 2: talk to you about your supermarket habits? So I'll start 364 00:17:08,133 --> 00:17:10,613 Speaker 2: asking you what supermarkets do you go to? How often 365 00:17:10,613 --> 00:17:12,813 Speaker 2: do you shop per week? And then in the middle 366 00:17:12,893 --> 00:17:15,053 Speaker 2: then they say, so what party did you vote for 367 00:17:15,093 --> 00:17:16,813 Speaker 2: last leek? Sure, so hang on a minute. I thought 368 00:17:16,813 --> 00:17:19,213 Speaker 2: we were talking about supermarkets. They kind of just lump it. 369 00:17:19,213 --> 00:17:21,453 Speaker 3: Together, dirty stinking bastard. 370 00:17:21,613 --> 00:17:24,733 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I agree, I agree. I mean that's what 371 00:17:24,773 --> 00:17:26,413 Speaker 2: I've heard. Is that true? I've never been wrung up 372 00:17:26,413 --> 00:17:29,613 Speaker 2: by them, but no better than a cold call on 373 00:17:29,773 --> 00:17:32,093 Speaker 2: undred eighty ten eighty Greg, how are you mate? 374 00:17:33,253 --> 00:17:33,453 Speaker 8: Yeah? 375 00:17:33,493 --> 00:17:37,613 Speaker 10: Good guys. Yeah, I've been wrung up once about the 376 00:17:37,653 --> 00:17:41,533 Speaker 10: political situation. They asked me what ethnicity was one age. 377 00:17:41,533 --> 00:17:44,893 Speaker 10: I said, a middle age European terior of mixed Irish 378 00:17:44,893 --> 00:17:46,773 Speaker 10: the scene and they said, oh, you don't sit our 379 00:17:46,773 --> 00:17:49,013 Speaker 10: criteria and hang out. And I tried to engage them 380 00:17:49,053 --> 00:17:50,813 Speaker 10: and they didn't want to bar but we. 381 00:17:51,053 --> 00:17:51,653 Speaker 5: Didn't want to know. 382 00:17:51,813 --> 00:17:53,653 Speaker 2: They didn't like mixed Irish heritage. 383 00:17:55,213 --> 00:17:57,013 Speaker 10: They had miss well in fact, I was a middle 384 00:17:57,053 --> 00:18:00,213 Speaker 10: aged European of mixed Irish heritage and they said, no, 385 00:18:00,333 --> 00:18:03,133 Speaker 10: you don't fit our agenda or our criteria. And I said, 386 00:18:03,133 --> 00:18:05,493 Speaker 10: well what's that then, and tried to engage them and 387 00:18:05,493 --> 00:18:10,933 Speaker 10: they hang up, didn't want to know me against this government. 388 00:18:11,533 --> 00:18:13,613 Speaker 10: I mean, you only need to see the reporters like 389 00:18:14,133 --> 00:18:18,253 Speaker 10: Mikey Sherman and what's the name Lynch from TV three 390 00:18:19,093 --> 00:18:22,373 Speaker 10: the same biased. I mean, it's just unbelievable. 391 00:18:22,573 --> 00:18:24,413 Speaker 3: Oh, there's no doubt. There's no doubt that the media 392 00:18:24,453 --> 00:18:26,893 Speaker 3: in New Zealand is running a left wing bias. I 393 00:18:26,933 --> 00:18:30,373 Speaker 3: don't think anyone would argue with that. Perhaps perhaps so 394 00:18:30,413 --> 00:18:33,013 Speaker 3: we're bringing up, though, to poll on a different issue 395 00:18:33,013 --> 00:18:35,093 Speaker 3: that didn't relate to you, if you know what I mean, 396 00:18:35,093 --> 00:18:38,213 Speaker 3: that might not have been across the board, questions that 397 00:18:38,213 --> 00:18:40,413 Speaker 3: it might have been on a very specific thing, because 398 00:18:40,453 --> 00:18:43,253 Speaker 3: they poll all kinds of things. Greg. 399 00:18:44,733 --> 00:18:47,013 Speaker 10: Yeah, but if you're going to poll people your pole 400 00:18:47,093 --> 00:18:50,413 Speaker 10: middle age, you poll young, your pole professional, your poll 401 00:18:51,293 --> 00:18:54,853 Speaker 10: very non professional people. That's actually our society is. 402 00:18:54,933 --> 00:18:57,293 Speaker 2: But just playing devil's advocate, Greg, if that if that 403 00:18:57,533 --> 00:18:59,973 Speaker 2: rung fifty people before you and they are all kind 404 00:19:00,093 --> 00:19:03,293 Speaker 2: of you know, men in their fifties, then probably fair 405 00:19:03,413 --> 00:19:05,413 Speaker 2: enough that they needed to have a bit more variety 406 00:19:05,493 --> 00:19:09,013 Speaker 2: to show the balance of New Zealand. 407 00:19:10,613 --> 00:19:13,573 Speaker 10: Well maybe you courage for to organizer because she doesn't 408 00:19:13,693 --> 00:19:14,573 Speaker 10: like old age. 409 00:19:14,613 --> 00:19:19,693 Speaker 3: White doesn't seem to know that's a cool grek. Yeah, yeah, 410 00:19:19,733 --> 00:19:21,293 Speaker 3: I mean that's what they do. They've got it, They've 411 00:19:21,293 --> 00:19:24,493 Speaker 3: they got you know, to defend poles. They have to 412 00:19:24,853 --> 00:19:27,293 Speaker 3: try and find a cross section of New Zealand society 413 00:19:27,293 --> 00:19:29,053 Speaker 3: because everyone goes you just ring a thousand people, that 414 00:19:29,053 --> 00:19:31,533 Speaker 3: should be easy. And why the poles cost so much 415 00:19:31,533 --> 00:19:34,293 Speaker 3: money and takes so long. It's quite complicated and they 416 00:19:34,333 --> 00:19:37,453 Speaker 3: have to put in try and account for some things, 417 00:19:37,533 --> 00:19:39,973 Speaker 3: move it around, and they make all these decisions about it, 418 00:19:40,333 --> 00:19:42,893 Speaker 3: and sometimes they get it terribly wrong, like they did 419 00:19:42,933 --> 00:19:43,813 Speaker 3: in the American election. 420 00:19:44,133 --> 00:19:47,573 Speaker 2: But they have to have a specific methodology, don't they yeah, yeah, 421 00:19:47,613 --> 00:19:51,213 Speaker 2: it's quite specific. So they try and get as close poles. 422 00:19:51,293 --> 00:19:54,173 Speaker 3: How do they get around the fact that only, I 423 00:19:54,213 --> 00:19:56,413 Speaker 3: mean a very few people would ever just answer a 424 00:19:56,453 --> 00:19:59,053 Speaker 3: call that wasn't from someone they know. Now, so most 425 00:19:59,093 --> 00:20:01,293 Speaker 3: people don't have landlines. So if you're ringing up on 426 00:20:01,293 --> 00:20:04,493 Speaker 3: a cell phone, I'm not going to answer that. No, No, 427 00:20:04,573 --> 00:20:06,293 Speaker 3: I'm going to assume it's the idea and not answer. 428 00:20:06,493 --> 00:20:09,013 Speaker 2: And even if it's a number that pops up and 429 00:20:09,053 --> 00:20:11,653 Speaker 2: O nine as soon as they say, hey, it's such 430 00:20:11,653 --> 00:20:14,133 Speaker 2: and such from courier here, what are you going to 431 00:20:14,213 --> 00:20:16,933 Speaker 2: do at that point? So sorry, I'm busy cooking tea. 432 00:20:16,973 --> 00:20:19,173 Speaker 2: See you later, Oh eight hundred and eighty ten eighties 433 00:20:19,213 --> 00:20:23,733 Speaker 2: then number to call quick, couple of techs here, guys. 434 00:20:23,813 --> 00:20:25,453 Speaker 2: They have a quota of who they poll so they 435 00:20:25,453 --> 00:20:27,813 Speaker 2: can get across section. Most of the landlines are the 436 00:20:27,853 --> 00:20:30,253 Speaker 2: same demographic, but they started using more most. 437 00:20:30,293 --> 00:20:31,853 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what we're trying to say to Greg. 438 00:20:31,933 --> 00:20:34,773 Speaker 2: Yeah, yep, headlines with railing coming up, then will take 439 00:20:34,813 --> 00:20:37,373 Speaker 2: more of your calls that has been on help us one. 440 00:20:39,453 --> 00:20:42,013 Speaker 11: You talk said the headlines with blue. 441 00:20:41,773 --> 00:20:45,893 Speaker 12: Bubble taxing, it's no trouble with a blue bubble contradictory 442 00:20:45,973 --> 00:20:48,973 Speaker 12: statements from the US President, who says there will be 443 00:20:49,013 --> 00:20:52,013 Speaker 12: no exceptions to new twenty five percent tariffs for all 444 00:20:52,133 --> 00:20:56,973 Speaker 12: steel and aluminium imports, but seems open to treating Australia differently. 445 00:20:58,013 --> 00:21:01,413 Speaker 12: China's foreign ministries confirm plans to strengthen ties with the 446 00:21:01,453 --> 00:21:05,813 Speaker 12: Cook Islands and progress bilateral relations. Our government has been 447 00:21:05,853 --> 00:21:09,293 Speaker 12: concerned by lack of any consultation with New Zealand before 448 00:21:09,293 --> 00:21:13,173 Speaker 12: the Cook Islands PM flew to China for talks. The 449 00:21:13,213 --> 00:21:17,293 Speaker 12: Police Conduct Authority is released a summary of investigations into 450 00:21:17,293 --> 00:21:22,893 Speaker 12: a senior Canterbury Police officer after complaints from colleagues, including bullying. 451 00:21:23,893 --> 00:21:26,693 Speaker 12: A man's been charged with assaulted a West Auckland train 452 00:21:26,853 --> 00:21:29,333 Speaker 12: station after a woman claimed a man tried to pull 453 00:21:29,373 --> 00:21:32,773 Speaker 12: her daughter into his vehicle. Police are looking into reports 454 00:21:32,773 --> 00:21:37,653 Speaker 12: across Western suburbs. Level one water restrictions now apply to 455 00:21:37,693 --> 00:21:41,173 Speaker 12: Hamilton and Wypa, with sprinklers only allowed between six and 456 00:21:41,253 --> 00:21:46,333 Speaker 12: eight Morning and night Sport TV War's heat Up. SkyTV 457 00:21:46,493 --> 00:21:50,013 Speaker 12: now has to share ESPN with Disney Plus. You can 458 00:21:50,053 --> 00:21:52,493 Speaker 12: find out more at Ens and Herald Premium now back 459 00:21:52,493 --> 00:21:54,493 Speaker 12: to Matt Heath and Tyler Adams. 460 00:21:54,053 --> 00:21:56,573 Speaker 2: Thank you very much, Roylean. And we're talking about poles. 461 00:21:56,613 --> 00:21:59,693 Speaker 2: Do you take any notice of poles, particularly eighteen months 462 00:21:59,733 --> 00:22:01,813 Speaker 2: out on the back of course of three consecutive poles 463 00:22:01,813 --> 00:22:04,253 Speaker 2: showing a bit of a dip for the current governments 464 00:22:04,333 --> 00:22:06,613 Speaker 2: and a bit of a boost for the opposition. Ohight 465 00:22:06,693 --> 00:22:09,213 Speaker 2: hundred eighty ten eighty is the number. 466 00:22:08,933 --> 00:22:11,773 Speaker 3: To call the Texas says guys. I always call it ID. 467 00:22:12,613 --> 00:22:15,093 Speaker 3: Whenever I get a caller ID, I always answer that 468 00:22:15,093 --> 00:22:18,773 Speaker 3: it's done this blood everywhere or New Zealand Defense Force 469 00:22:18,973 --> 00:22:20,053 Speaker 3: want to fight? Then hang up? 470 00:22:21,173 --> 00:22:22,373 Speaker 2: I love that. It's great. 471 00:22:22,453 --> 00:22:24,533 Speaker 3: I used to get when I got scam calls back 472 00:22:24,533 --> 00:22:26,773 Speaker 3: in the day, or calls that are cold calls. I'd 473 00:22:26,813 --> 00:22:29,973 Speaker 3: always put my two year old son on and he'd 474 00:22:29,973 --> 00:22:31,693 Speaker 3: go hanging and just talk to them and tell them 475 00:22:31,693 --> 00:22:33,973 Speaker 3: about movies and stuff. Is a real talker. And then 476 00:22:34,013 --> 00:22:35,653 Speaker 3: they go they want to talk to your dad, and 477 00:22:35,693 --> 00:22:37,093 Speaker 3: I say, no, you go, and they just you just 478 00:22:37,213 --> 00:22:40,373 Speaker 3: leave that kid punishing the caller for us. And you know, 479 00:22:40,693 --> 00:22:42,333 Speaker 3: a two and a half year old kid can punish 480 00:22:42,333 --> 00:22:43,613 Speaker 3: a cold caller for a long time. 481 00:22:43,693 --> 00:22:45,573 Speaker 2: And how long did the cold caller go? They keep 482 00:22:45,613 --> 00:22:47,493 Speaker 2: just trying and put your dad on No, no, you're 483 00:22:47,493 --> 00:22:48,453 Speaker 2: talking to me, Dad. 484 00:22:48,573 --> 00:22:50,052 Speaker 3: They want to talk to you. No, no, I tell 485 00:22:50,093 --> 00:22:55,773 Speaker 3: them about finding Nemo fashion the big water in the. 486 00:22:56,133 --> 00:22:59,293 Speaker 2: Those poor cold callers. Man, Mary, how are you? 487 00:23:00,373 --> 00:23:04,373 Speaker 13: I'm good, thank you, I just wanted you're talking about polls. 488 00:23:04,453 --> 00:23:06,052 Speaker 13: They do go up and down all the time, they 489 00:23:06,093 --> 00:23:11,893 Speaker 13: completely change. My biggest disappointment is that how quickly the 490 00:23:11,933 --> 00:23:15,853 Speaker 13: New Zealanders seem to forget that labor got us in 491 00:23:15,973 --> 00:23:21,653 Speaker 13: this whole and nationally trying to do their best to 492 00:23:21,693 --> 00:23:24,133 Speaker 13: get out of it. And it's not going to happen 493 00:23:24,133 --> 00:23:26,453 Speaker 13: in five minutes. So all of a sudden they turn 494 00:23:26,533 --> 00:23:29,173 Speaker 13: on them, and you know, the Poles they go down 495 00:23:29,213 --> 00:23:31,733 Speaker 13: in the polls, and it's disappointing because you know, Rome 496 00:23:31,853 --> 00:23:35,813 Speaker 13: wasn't built in a day, and it would be disappointing 497 00:23:35,853 --> 00:23:38,013 Speaker 13: to see them not be able to continue on with 498 00:23:38,133 --> 00:23:41,693 Speaker 13: this path because I do believe it will provide fruit, 499 00:23:42,373 --> 00:23:44,933 Speaker 13: but you know it's going to take a long time. 500 00:23:45,053 --> 00:23:47,173 Speaker 3: But Maria, do you think that it becomes a self 501 00:23:47,213 --> 00:23:51,133 Speaker 3: fulfilling prophecy, So the Poles influence more bad polls and 502 00:23:51,213 --> 00:23:56,853 Speaker 3: influence more content about the government, Yeah. 503 00:23:56,533 --> 00:24:02,173 Speaker 13: May well do yes, discontent will breed more discontent. I agree, 504 00:24:02,613 --> 00:24:04,373 Speaker 13: and I just hope that they will be able to 505 00:24:04,413 --> 00:24:06,733 Speaker 13: show the New Zealand public that they are on the 506 00:24:06,813 --> 00:24:10,493 Speaker 13: right path and to bear with them, because what's your alternative? 507 00:24:10,733 --> 00:24:11,493 Speaker 13: Look where we got? 508 00:24:11,933 --> 00:24:13,453 Speaker 3: If you think they're on the right path. Do you 509 00:24:13,493 --> 00:24:17,573 Speaker 3: think their messaging is wrong how they're presenting it to 510 00:24:17,613 --> 00:24:18,013 Speaker 3: the people? 511 00:24:18,053 --> 00:24:18,253 Speaker 14: Lord? 512 00:24:18,253 --> 00:24:20,253 Speaker 3: Do you think that people, no matter what the messaging 513 00:24:20,333 --> 00:24:22,213 Speaker 3: is and no matter who's sending it, if they're currently 514 00:24:22,213 --> 00:24:26,413 Speaker 3: going through difficult times as we rebuild, they're just going 515 00:24:26,493 --> 00:24:30,173 Speaker 3: to feel angry about things, and whoever rings up, they'll go. 516 00:24:30,213 --> 00:24:31,253 Speaker 3: I don't like the current government. 517 00:24:32,413 --> 00:24:35,973 Speaker 13: I think there's a certain amount of treating softly softly, 518 00:24:36,813 --> 00:24:41,253 Speaker 13: and I don't really necessarily think that that is the 519 00:24:41,333 --> 00:24:43,973 Speaker 13: right way to go. I think we need to, you know, 520 00:24:44,573 --> 00:24:48,773 Speaker 13: put our foot to the floor and you know, don't 521 00:24:48,773 --> 00:24:52,733 Speaker 13: apologize for it. What has to be done. And maybe 522 00:24:52,733 --> 00:24:55,773 Speaker 13: they should, you know, espouse that better to the public. 523 00:24:56,573 --> 00:24:58,053 Speaker 2: To a lot of people, Mary, and I hear what 524 00:24:58,093 --> 00:25:01,453 Speaker 2: you're saying, and you know, that is a conundrum that 525 00:25:01,573 --> 00:25:03,973 Speaker 2: New Zealand has long had. And you can have that 526 00:25:04,253 --> 00:25:07,173 Speaker 2: arguments about longer terms and government where you stretch that 527 00:25:07,253 --> 00:25:10,052 Speaker 2: out to four years, but for a lot of people, Mary, 528 00:25:10,493 --> 00:25:13,533 Speaker 2: one to three years is a lot of time. That's 529 00:25:13,573 --> 00:25:16,053 Speaker 2: a lot of patience to see their life start to 530 00:25:16,093 --> 00:25:19,053 Speaker 2: get a little bit better or things turn around. And 531 00:25:19,893 --> 00:25:23,213 Speaker 2: to be frank, national has had what eighteen months, and 532 00:25:23,253 --> 00:25:25,373 Speaker 2: people are still feeling that pain, as the Prime Minister 533 00:25:25,533 --> 00:25:27,973 Speaker 2: has said, So they got to get moving. They got 534 00:25:27,973 --> 00:25:28,533 Speaker 2: to get moving. 535 00:25:29,253 --> 00:25:32,532 Speaker 13: Yeah they do, and they need to go hard and 536 00:25:32,613 --> 00:25:35,413 Speaker 13: not sort of, you know, try and soften the blow. 537 00:25:36,253 --> 00:25:38,493 Speaker 3: So if you were the current government or the current 538 00:25:38,533 --> 00:25:42,333 Speaker 3: coalition or any members of it, would you just ignore 539 00:25:42,333 --> 00:25:44,853 Speaker 3: the poles? You just keep doing what you're doing, focus 540 00:25:44,853 --> 00:25:46,973 Speaker 3: on what you're going And I mean when St. Peter's 541 00:25:47,013 --> 00:25:49,013 Speaker 3: always famously says he doesn't read the polls, he doesn't 542 00:25:49,013 --> 00:25:51,093 Speaker 3: believe it. There's only one poll that counts, and this 543 00:25:51,173 --> 00:25:54,573 Speaker 3: is the election day. But would you just go go hard, 544 00:25:54,653 --> 00:25:56,653 Speaker 3: go what you're doing, don't waste any time, don't answer 545 00:25:56,653 --> 00:25:59,532 Speaker 3: any questions about it, just go on the path that 546 00:25:59,613 --> 00:26:02,052 Speaker 3: you think is right for the country. And poles are 547 00:26:02,093 --> 00:26:02,693 Speaker 3: just a distraction. 548 00:26:04,133 --> 00:26:06,292 Speaker 13: I think it's wise to have a near to the ground, 549 00:26:06,573 --> 00:26:09,413 Speaker 13: but I still think that they should still go hard. 550 00:26:10,493 --> 00:26:15,093 Speaker 13: And I think that's what maybe that's the reason what 551 00:26:15,453 --> 00:26:18,093 Speaker 13: It is the reason why the polls are slipped for 552 00:26:18,213 --> 00:26:20,733 Speaker 13: them because people don't think they've gone hard enough, quick. 553 00:26:20,613 --> 00:26:24,293 Speaker 3: Enough, go hard. So you say, that's your message. So 554 00:26:24,333 --> 00:26:28,373 Speaker 3: if this was if if Christopher Luxon's listening, the message 555 00:26:28,373 --> 00:26:29,573 Speaker 3: from Mary is. 556 00:26:29,533 --> 00:26:32,293 Speaker 13: Go hard, go hard to go home. 557 00:26:32,573 --> 00:26:35,133 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a great slogan. Love your style, Mary, Thank 558 00:26:35,173 --> 00:26:38,253 Speaker 2: you very much, go hard or go home. Your call, Oh, eight, 559 00:26:38,253 --> 00:26:40,733 Speaker 2: one hundred and eighty ten eighty is the number to call. 560 00:26:40,893 --> 00:26:43,693 Speaker 2: It is twenty two to two. Beg very shortly. You're 561 00:26:43,693 --> 00:26:44,893 Speaker 2: listening to Matt and Tyler. 562 00:26:46,173 --> 00:26:48,613 Speaker 11: The issues that affect you and a bit of fun 563 00:26:48,653 --> 00:26:49,253 Speaker 11: along the way. 564 00:26:49,493 --> 00:26:53,453 Speaker 1: Matt and Taylor Afternoons with the Volvo xc N eighty Innovation, 565 00:26:53,653 --> 00:26:54,693 Speaker 1: Style and design. 566 00:26:54,813 --> 00:26:56,693 Speaker 11: Have it all youth talk said. 567 00:26:56,493 --> 00:26:59,453 Speaker 2: Be very good afternoon to you. It is nineteen to 568 00:26:59,493 --> 00:27:01,693 Speaker 2: two and we're talking about the polls. Do you care 569 00:27:01,773 --> 00:27:04,533 Speaker 2: one iota what they say? Eighteen months out from an election? 570 00:27:04,733 --> 00:27:06,933 Speaker 3: This text on nineteen nine two. Hi, guys, it's pretty simple. 571 00:27:07,053 --> 00:27:09,573 Speaker 3: People are feeling poorer and losing their jobs currently, so 572 00:27:09,613 --> 00:27:11,493 Speaker 3: they are going to vote for change. If the economy 573 00:27:11,533 --> 00:27:14,093 Speaker 3: is doing better by the election time, the government will 574 00:27:14,133 --> 00:27:17,493 Speaker 3: get back in If it isn't they are out? Thanks? Yeah, 575 00:27:17,533 --> 00:27:19,293 Speaker 3: I mean you know you hear that all the time, 576 00:27:19,293 --> 00:27:21,693 Speaker 3: don't you. It's the economy stupid. Yeah, I mean it 577 00:27:21,693 --> 00:27:24,493 Speaker 3: always is the case. If you ring someone up and 578 00:27:25,533 --> 00:27:28,333 Speaker 3: they can't afford their bills, then they're probably not going 579 00:27:28,373 --> 00:27:31,853 Speaker 3: to answer the call on a very you know, well, 580 00:27:32,253 --> 00:27:35,173 Speaker 3: we don't really have not don't ask what the country 581 00:27:35,173 --> 00:27:36,613 Speaker 3: can do for you, ask what you can do for 582 00:27:36,653 --> 00:27:39,413 Speaker 3: the country. Kind of attitude dewey anymore. We're easy to 583 00:27:39,413 --> 00:27:42,413 Speaker 3: blame the government if you say, if someone said we 584 00:27:42,453 --> 00:27:44,213 Speaker 3: all need to grind this out for the good of 585 00:27:44,253 --> 00:27:47,293 Speaker 3: the company, we've ended the company, good of the country. 586 00:27:47,973 --> 00:27:50,453 Speaker 3: We've ended up in a tough spot. We need to 587 00:27:50,533 --> 00:27:52,813 Speaker 3: just go hard together and we're all going to feel 588 00:27:52,893 --> 00:27:55,253 Speaker 3: a bit of pain. You ring that person up and 589 00:27:55,253 --> 00:27:59,053 Speaker 3: they'll say, I'm voting for the other guys exactly. 590 00:27:59,413 --> 00:28:01,493 Speaker 2: Unfortunately it's Scott. How are you mate? 591 00:28:03,373 --> 00:28:04,133 Speaker 5: Good? How are you guys? 592 00:28:04,293 --> 00:28:07,093 Speaker 2: Ye're good? So first up, do you take any notice 593 00:28:07,133 --> 00:28:12,773 Speaker 2: of polls at the stage of the electoral cycle, to 594 00:28:12,813 --> 00:28:14,573 Speaker 2: be honest, not not particularly. 595 00:28:15,293 --> 00:28:17,292 Speaker 4: We're quite a way is out and the you know, 596 00:28:17,533 --> 00:28:19,453 Speaker 4: the old thing is a week in politics, because a 597 00:28:19,533 --> 00:28:21,693 Speaker 4: year in a lifetime sort of thing. So I think 598 00:28:21,733 --> 00:28:25,333 Speaker 4: it's a bit too soon to start being too excited 599 00:28:25,333 --> 00:28:27,773 Speaker 4: about polling at this stage, maybe until next year or 600 00:28:27,773 --> 00:28:31,053 Speaker 4: maybe after the local local elections to see what there's 601 00:28:31,053 --> 00:28:31,813 Speaker 4: any change there. 602 00:28:32,653 --> 00:28:36,973 Speaker 3: Yeah, So do you think currently that well, this is 603 00:28:37,013 --> 00:28:39,053 Speaker 3: just the polls at the moment is a reflection of 604 00:28:39,133 --> 00:28:42,773 Speaker 3: how people are feeling this month? Is really what you're saying, 605 00:28:42,813 --> 00:28:43,173 Speaker 3: isn't it? 606 00:28:45,533 --> 00:28:48,733 Speaker 4: I would say so, And I think give the perspective 607 00:28:48,773 --> 00:28:52,453 Speaker 4: I suppose earlier from someone said that, you know, this 608 00:28:52,573 --> 00:28:54,933 Speaker 4: is the second time the Nationals coming off the back 609 00:28:54,973 --> 00:28:57,653 Speaker 4: of not the best economic outlook. I mean, you saw 610 00:28:57,693 --> 00:29:01,293 Speaker 4: chron key into back in two thousand, late twenty ten's 611 00:29:01,333 --> 00:29:04,493 Speaker 4: there from something that wasn't too bad, but they managed 612 00:29:04,533 --> 00:29:08,413 Speaker 4: to swing to an economy quite around quite quickly, and 613 00:29:08,853 --> 00:29:10,213 Speaker 4: there was a bit of a recovery there, and I 614 00:29:10,293 --> 00:29:14,493 Speaker 4: think this time around maybe the coalition sort of got 615 00:29:14,493 --> 00:29:16,853 Speaker 4: a bit of a shock from how the books were, 616 00:29:16,933 --> 00:29:20,453 Speaker 4: the sort of plan and place wasn't particularly put forward 617 00:29:20,493 --> 00:29:22,373 Speaker 4: that well, and they've had to change, and I think 618 00:29:22,733 --> 00:29:24,453 Speaker 4: they've had to change their step would have been sort 619 00:29:24,493 --> 00:29:26,053 Speaker 4: of make up as they're going, and it's sort of 620 00:29:26,053 --> 00:29:28,173 Speaker 4: giving off maybe a little bit lack of confidence, and 621 00:29:28,213 --> 00:29:30,173 Speaker 4: I think they're hoping to turn around a bit of 622 00:29:30,253 --> 00:29:34,133 Speaker 4: the conditions for the country sooner than I hoped. But 623 00:29:34,773 --> 00:29:36,253 Speaker 4: as you guys said, at the moment, it's sort of 624 00:29:36,293 --> 00:29:38,533 Speaker 4: gotten worse before it gets better, and whether it gets 625 00:29:38,573 --> 00:29:40,573 Speaker 4: better or not up to people to believe. 626 00:29:41,133 --> 00:29:43,373 Speaker 3: Do you think people that are called up on a phone, Scott, 627 00:29:44,733 --> 00:29:46,813 Speaker 3: you kind of talk about mood and how they're feeling 628 00:29:46,893 --> 00:29:49,693 Speaker 3: at a certain point, see people go, well, it's only 629 00:29:49,733 --> 00:29:53,053 Speaker 3: been eighteen months, so do they really expect that it 630 00:29:53,053 --> 00:29:57,093 Speaker 3: could have been turned around that quickly? And if that's 631 00:29:57,133 --> 00:29:59,693 Speaker 3: the case, do they then go all the other Because 632 00:29:59,733 --> 00:30:01,973 Speaker 3: really what they're saying is your eighteen months, you haven't 633 00:30:01,973 --> 00:30:05,413 Speaker 3: turned it around, so we'll go back to the other guys. 634 00:30:05,533 --> 00:30:08,053 Speaker 3: Is really what you're saying. If the left block is 635 00:30:08,093 --> 00:30:10,893 Speaker 3: now the right block? Do you think people think about 636 00:30:10,893 --> 00:30:13,453 Speaker 3: it that much they analyze it or you've just rung 637 00:30:13,533 --> 00:30:17,493 Speaker 3: up on the phone and you go, yah, things aren't 638 00:30:17,493 --> 00:30:20,013 Speaker 3: great to the guys that are in at the moment. 639 00:30:21,773 --> 00:30:21,973 Speaker 5: Yeah. 640 00:30:22,013 --> 00:30:24,533 Speaker 4: I think it's a bit of a Debbie Dana approach 641 00:30:24,573 --> 00:30:27,093 Speaker 4: in the country. I think of the stage a people. 642 00:30:27,813 --> 00:30:30,173 Speaker 4: I guess people need to maybe do a bit more 643 00:30:30,173 --> 00:30:32,453 Speaker 4: critical thinking. I suppose a sort of what you guys 644 00:30:32,453 --> 00:30:34,813 Speaker 4: did before, maybe how much you can contribute to the 645 00:30:34,813 --> 00:30:37,413 Speaker 4: country as well. I mean, people have to be pragmatic. 646 00:30:37,493 --> 00:30:39,653 Speaker 4: It's not easy for most people, and you sort of 647 00:30:39,693 --> 00:30:44,413 Speaker 4: have to push through that, I guess. I mean there 648 00:30:44,413 --> 00:30:46,933 Speaker 4: are two neervers going back. But I mean, to be honest, 649 00:30:47,533 --> 00:30:51,333 Speaker 4: labor wasn't even much better than what national was doing now, 650 00:30:51,373 --> 00:30:53,613 Speaker 4: so you sort of have to stick it out. I mean, 651 00:30:53,653 --> 00:30:55,413 Speaker 4: three years is not a long time when you compare 652 00:30:55,413 --> 00:30:57,253 Speaker 4: it to other countries around the world, But I guess 653 00:30:57,293 --> 00:30:58,573 Speaker 4: they just have to crack on and do it. 654 00:30:59,093 --> 00:31:01,733 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh me, he's Scott. There are some elements to 655 00:31:01,893 --> 00:31:05,053 Speaker 2: the cost living crisis and that economic pain that, yes, 656 00:31:05,053 --> 00:31:07,733 Speaker 2: it's in control of the government. Those things can take 657 00:31:07,733 --> 00:31:10,333 Speaker 2: time to turn around, right. So for example, the interest 658 00:31:10,413 --> 00:31:14,653 Speaker 2: rate the Reserve Bank has primarily you know, ownership or 659 00:31:15,013 --> 00:31:17,613 Speaker 2: they control where that interest rate goes far more than 660 00:31:17,653 --> 00:31:20,813 Speaker 2: the government does. Think if inflation goes down, then they 661 00:31:20,853 --> 00:31:23,533 Speaker 2: can start to bring that inflation rate. Are that interest 662 00:31:23,613 --> 00:31:25,573 Speaker 2: rate down the same with the cost of food? Right, 663 00:31:25,933 --> 00:31:29,173 Speaker 2: So just because inflation has gone back to about four 664 00:31:29,213 --> 00:31:32,093 Speaker 2: percent or three percent, doesn't mean that all of a sudden. 665 00:31:32,133 --> 00:31:33,533 Speaker 2: Now groceries are going to get a heck of a 666 00:31:33,533 --> 00:31:35,653 Speaker 2: lot cheaper, So those things all take a bit of 667 00:31:35,693 --> 00:31:37,213 Speaker 2: time to start to feed through. 668 00:31:39,413 --> 00:31:41,013 Speaker 4: That's right, and I think people need to remember that 669 00:31:41,093 --> 00:31:43,853 Speaker 4: as well. The economic decisions take much longer than a 670 00:31:43,893 --> 00:31:47,093 Speaker 4: lot of other areas and government departments that take effect, 671 00:31:47,573 --> 00:31:50,413 Speaker 4: and people need to let that the dusted. I suppose 672 00:31:50,453 --> 00:31:54,573 Speaker 4: from the aftermath of COVID and any policy reversals, because 673 00:31:54,573 --> 00:31:56,413 Speaker 4: there's there's been quite a bit of change from the 674 00:31:56,413 --> 00:32:00,013 Speaker 4: coalition from what Labor has done, and I guess that 675 00:32:00,093 --> 00:32:02,213 Speaker 4: sort of feeds into what you said earlier about maybe 676 00:32:02,213 --> 00:32:04,733 Speaker 4: we should do it extend the two moments before where 677 00:32:04,733 --> 00:32:08,933 Speaker 4: there's a bit more of a policy change setting, so 678 00:32:09,013 --> 00:32:09,773 Speaker 4: people have more. 679 00:32:09,693 --> 00:32:11,813 Speaker 15: Confidence than I agree. 680 00:32:13,213 --> 00:32:14,813 Speaker 3: That's so true, Scott. I mean, the idea that you 681 00:32:16,333 --> 00:32:20,133 Speaker 3: implement your policy in three years is it's insane to 682 00:32:20,173 --> 00:32:23,213 Speaker 3: me because for a start, the first year you're just 683 00:32:23,213 --> 00:32:27,253 Speaker 3: getting settled into to your portfolios and your jobs and stuff. 684 00:32:27,253 --> 00:32:29,053 Speaker 3: You've got about a year to do something, and then 685 00:32:29,093 --> 00:32:32,893 Speaker 3: the final year is just campaigning again to be re elected. 686 00:32:33,693 --> 00:32:39,093 Speaker 3: Got to extend the terms absolutely, because if people vote 687 00:32:39,093 --> 00:32:41,693 Speaker 3: in a government because they don't like what's the way 688 00:32:41,733 --> 00:32:43,733 Speaker 3: it's going. You've got to at least give them a 689 00:32:43,813 --> 00:32:47,853 Speaker 3: chance to implement what they believe in whichever way it's going, right. 690 00:32:48,653 --> 00:32:50,853 Speaker 3: I find it insane that we have three year terms. 691 00:32:50,853 --> 00:32:54,013 Speaker 3: Three is so such a short time to change anything. 692 00:32:54,253 --> 00:32:55,653 Speaker 3: They thank you so much we call Scott. 693 00:32:55,813 --> 00:32:57,613 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd agree with that. I mean, what would you do? 694 00:32:57,773 --> 00:33:00,333 Speaker 2: Four years to me sounds like a good amount of time. 695 00:33:00,613 --> 00:33:02,773 Speaker 2: Five years I think would be too much because then 696 00:33:02,813 --> 00:33:05,373 Speaker 2: people would argue there was a lot of anger towards 697 00:33:05,373 --> 00:33:07,973 Speaker 2: the last government, labor government, and having them in for 698 00:33:08,013 --> 00:33:11,813 Speaker 2: another two years could have been very, very problematic for 699 00:33:11,853 --> 00:33:12,333 Speaker 2: the country. 700 00:33:12,453 --> 00:33:16,013 Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean, is Auckland ever going to be able 701 00:33:16,053 --> 00:33:18,933 Speaker 3: to forgive them for that final lockdown? Yeah? I don't 702 00:33:18,933 --> 00:33:21,253 Speaker 3: know what I saw it to people are around me 703 00:33:21,653 --> 00:33:26,133 Speaker 3: in children and how recklessly that was imposed upon Auckland. 704 00:33:26,613 --> 00:33:27,813 Speaker 3: You know, I don't know. It will take me a 705 00:33:27,853 --> 00:33:29,133 Speaker 3: while to forgive them for that. Yeah. 706 00:33:29,213 --> 00:33:31,373 Speaker 2: Oh, eight hundred eighty ten eighty is the number to call. 707 00:33:31,413 --> 00:33:33,813 Speaker 2: It is twelve to two. You're listening to Matt and Tyler. 708 00:33:33,853 --> 00:33:39,213 Speaker 1: Good afternoon, Matt Heath Taylor Adams taking your calls on 709 00:33:39,493 --> 00:33:42,453 Speaker 1: eight hundred and eighty ten eighty Matten Taylor Afternoons with 710 00:33:42,573 --> 00:33:46,693 Speaker 1: the Volvo XC ninety tick every box a seamless experience 711 00:33:46,693 --> 00:33:48,173 Speaker 1: awaits News Talks. 712 00:33:48,013 --> 00:33:51,213 Speaker 2: B News Talks the B ten to two. 713 00:33:51,573 --> 00:33:53,773 Speaker 3: This textans interesting nineteen nine two. I think the issue 714 00:33:53,813 --> 00:33:57,413 Speaker 3: is that this government campaigned on economic improvement. Therefore lack 715 00:33:57,413 --> 00:34:00,693 Speaker 3: of big ideas and progresses biting into their credibility ends 716 00:34:00,773 --> 00:34:03,413 Speaker 3: up as an emperors has new closed situation from terry. 717 00:34:03,653 --> 00:34:05,773 Speaker 3: I mean that is the problem with campaigning and then 718 00:34:05,773 --> 00:34:08,252 Speaker 3: getting in right, so you say, these guys are up, 719 00:34:08,813 --> 00:34:12,013 Speaker 3: we can fix it. It's simple. We just have to 720 00:34:12,053 --> 00:34:14,812 Speaker 3: do this, this and this, and then you get in 721 00:34:15,013 --> 00:34:16,853 Speaker 3: and you go, oh, it was way harder than that. 722 00:34:17,253 --> 00:34:20,053 Speaker 3: And then you say to people, oh, yeah, it wasn't 723 00:34:20,053 --> 00:34:22,813 Speaker 3: exactly what we thought was going to happen, and the 724 00:34:22,813 --> 00:34:25,613 Speaker 3: books are way worse. But that on the campaign to win, 725 00:34:25,773 --> 00:34:28,172 Speaker 3: you have to say it's easy, we can fix it, 726 00:34:28,373 --> 00:34:31,893 Speaker 3: let's go, and so then to pivot to saying we 727 00:34:31,973 --> 00:34:34,373 Speaker 3: need a lot of time. This is really hard. Yeah, 728 00:34:34,733 --> 00:34:36,613 Speaker 3: kind of there's kind of a disconnect there. 729 00:34:37,053 --> 00:34:40,653 Speaker 2: But that happens each political cycle. Right, maybe you're. 730 00:34:40,493 --> 00:34:43,733 Speaker 3: Probably not going to get elected if you go Jesus 731 00:34:43,733 --> 00:34:46,413 Speaker 3: hard I don't know. We'll give it a good old key. 732 00:34:46,453 --> 00:34:48,573 Speaker 2: We try. It's going to take some time. Just bear 733 00:34:48,693 --> 00:34:51,013 Speaker 2: with us. We will get there, but give us at 734 00:34:51,093 --> 00:34:52,252 Speaker 2: least three terms to get it done. 735 00:34:52,373 --> 00:34:55,212 Speaker 3: Hopefully we've got the answers. Yeah, two terms at least 736 00:34:55,213 --> 00:34:57,373 Speaker 3: for this one bill. 737 00:34:57,413 --> 00:34:59,053 Speaker 2: How are you mate? 738 00:34:59,213 --> 00:35:03,453 Speaker 16: Good boys? They yet forty thousand public servants. It's they 739 00:35:03,533 --> 00:35:05,853 Speaker 16: all voted for national so they won't be too happy. 740 00:35:05,933 --> 00:35:08,652 Speaker 16: Everyone who works for a covenant department is under thread 741 00:35:08,653 --> 00:35:12,133 Speaker 16: at the moment. Then you've got the health budget blowout 742 00:35:12,173 --> 00:35:14,533 Speaker 16: calls by the nurse's back pay that had already been 743 00:35:14,573 --> 00:35:17,093 Speaker 16: agreed upon. Then you've got the hospital that's not going 744 00:35:17,133 --> 00:35:19,253 Speaker 16: to be built now well it's going to be headed 745 00:35:19,253 --> 00:35:22,493 Speaker 16: onto apparently, and what all these other things. And then 746 00:35:22,533 --> 00:35:25,493 Speaker 16: you've got this odd little guy who brings up thirteen 747 00:35:25,533 --> 00:35:27,133 Speaker 16: year olds in the middle of the night without the 748 00:35:27,133 --> 00:35:31,733 Speaker 16: appearance knowing and he texted them, so he apparently was 749 00:35:31,773 --> 00:35:32,333 Speaker 16: texting them. 750 00:35:34,293 --> 00:35:37,212 Speaker 2: You're going to have to go there, yeah, hope, let's 751 00:35:37,213 --> 00:35:43,172 Speaker 2: say have a chat to Shane get mates apparently. Yeah, 752 00:35:43,293 --> 00:35:45,613 Speaker 2: and what are you reckon the poles? What are you reckon? 753 00:35:46,973 --> 00:35:50,013 Speaker 17: Well, if you go back even a couple of weeks 754 00:35:50,013 --> 00:35:54,253 Speaker 17: before the polls had lux and his leadership still declining. 755 00:35:54,373 --> 00:35:57,973 Speaker 17: And that's been kind of a line that's been happening, right, 756 00:35:58,013 --> 00:35:59,692 Speaker 17: that's a trend that's been going, so we know that. 757 00:36:00,133 --> 00:36:02,733 Speaker 17: But it also had the coalition still in command of 758 00:36:02,773 --> 00:36:06,453 Speaker 17: the House. And was there a public outcry or an 759 00:36:06,453 --> 00:36:10,573 Speaker 17: outreach in the farm media. There was only that one 760 00:36:10,773 --> 00:36:13,853 Speaker 17: outsnippet that I can recall going on the news or 761 00:36:13,893 --> 00:36:17,293 Speaker 17: in another media outlets, Facebook or what have you. But 762 00:36:17,453 --> 00:36:19,333 Speaker 17: all of a sudden, you have two poles that come 763 00:36:19,373 --> 00:36:22,173 Speaker 17: out neck to neck and they depict a different story 764 00:36:22,613 --> 00:36:26,893 Speaker 17: and it's like big news. It's like, oh, it's collapsing, 765 00:36:27,533 --> 00:36:31,133 Speaker 17: but it's it's kind of like this. I used to 766 00:36:31,133 --> 00:36:33,093 Speaker 17: think Poling's had a bit of a standard to what 767 00:36:33,533 --> 00:36:35,853 Speaker 17: kind of enabled kiwriis to kind of think of ahead 768 00:36:35,853 --> 00:36:38,733 Speaker 17: of it. But you know, we're a country now, we're 769 00:36:38,813 --> 00:36:41,573 Speaker 17: quite We're still the number one, number eight y country. 770 00:36:41,773 --> 00:36:43,813 Speaker 17: We're a lot of kiwis now. There is a bit 771 00:36:43,813 --> 00:36:46,213 Speaker 17: of a distrust with media. And I'm not saying you guys, 772 00:36:47,213 --> 00:36:48,853 Speaker 17: but there is a bit of a trust. This trust 773 00:36:48,893 --> 00:36:53,093 Speaker 17: out there. So keywis go and search for in other platforms, 774 00:36:53,173 --> 00:36:56,933 Speaker 17: other notions of what the content is about. And I 775 00:36:56,933 --> 00:36:59,453 Speaker 17: think we're a country now that are beginning to realize 776 00:36:59,453 --> 00:37:01,293 Speaker 17: the rhetoric that's out there now. And I'm not going 777 00:37:01,333 --> 00:37:05,573 Speaker 17: to go and blaying other opposition parties and whatever, but 778 00:37:05,693 --> 00:37:07,613 Speaker 17: if you look at the narrative of where our country 779 00:37:07,653 --> 00:37:11,613 Speaker 17: sits today, it's not too bad considering it was a 780 00:37:11,613 --> 00:37:14,373 Speaker 17: big ship turning into an iceberg that has to be 781 00:37:14,453 --> 00:37:17,253 Speaker 17: turned around. And yes, I believe your argument is right. 782 00:37:17,333 --> 00:37:20,653 Speaker 17: Three years is never long enough to try and sustain 783 00:37:20,733 --> 00:37:27,133 Speaker 17: sustainability within any working government of this calenber. But you 784 00:37:27,253 --> 00:37:30,173 Speaker 17: need to make sure that the New Zealanders are becoming 785 00:37:30,213 --> 00:37:33,813 Speaker 17: a lot more devoted to common sense. And that's kind 786 00:37:33,813 --> 00:37:36,733 Speaker 17: of a narrative I'm hearing right throughout the Golotcha moment 787 00:37:36,853 --> 00:37:39,813 Speaker 17: and MEDIAIR and the news. I think people are getting 788 00:37:39,853 --> 00:37:42,053 Speaker 17: tisome of that because it's kind of like, oh, here 789 00:37:42,093 --> 00:37:45,413 Speaker 17: we go again. And I think key reason enough in 790 00:37:45,493 --> 00:37:47,573 Speaker 17: another twenty months or what have you, for the next 791 00:37:47,573 --> 00:37:52,053 Speaker 17: election will either note a notable change. And you know 792 00:37:52,213 --> 00:37:54,573 Speaker 17: what about this, guys. So the US election, and I 793 00:37:54,573 --> 00:37:57,813 Speaker 17: don't say we are like the US depicted a net 794 00:37:57,813 --> 00:38:01,893 Speaker 17: to net race right through and that's what it read 795 00:38:01,973 --> 00:38:04,453 Speaker 17: even up to the date of the election, and look 796 00:38:04,493 --> 00:38:09,693 Speaker 17: what happened. So these platforms that give you out certain 797 00:38:09,773 --> 00:38:13,253 Speaker 17: narratives or certain ballot points of what's happening in that 798 00:38:13,333 --> 00:38:16,893 Speaker 17: snapshot doesn't necessarily mean that's the outcome coming into an election. 799 00:38:16,973 --> 00:38:19,333 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, because these news outlets have to make money 800 00:38:19,373 --> 00:38:21,853 Speaker 3: from the situation. So you know, if you're looking at 801 00:38:21,893 --> 00:38:25,733 Speaker 3: the electoral race in the States, they didn't look like 802 00:38:25,773 --> 00:38:28,013 Speaker 3: a path for Karmela for quite a long time. That 803 00:38:28,093 --> 00:38:30,172 Speaker 3: seemed to be shut down and some people were saying that, 804 00:38:30,213 --> 00:38:32,773 Speaker 3: But that doesn't really play out very well, does it. 805 00:38:33,093 --> 00:38:34,413 Speaker 3: When you just say no. 806 00:38:34,133 --> 00:38:37,053 Speaker 17: No, it doesn't. It just showed you that the populace 807 00:38:37,253 --> 00:38:39,253 Speaker 17: of the people whom they thought were going to go 808 00:38:39,293 --> 00:38:42,213 Speaker 17: for the minority to a different group didn't happen. And 809 00:38:42,293 --> 00:38:44,493 Speaker 17: I think that's going to be the same. Well, I 810 00:38:44,573 --> 00:38:47,293 Speaker 17: feel personally that New Zealanders, you know, we'll wake up, 811 00:38:47,333 --> 00:38:47,853 Speaker 17: we'll wake up. 812 00:38:47,933 --> 00:38:48,413 Speaker 8: And there's the. 813 00:38:48,373 --> 00:38:51,413 Speaker 17: Smoke screens of all political parties that kind of try 814 00:38:51,493 --> 00:38:54,493 Speaker 17: to entice you to follow their flag and their tail. 815 00:38:54,933 --> 00:38:56,773 Speaker 17: But I think when you look at it now, we 816 00:38:56,853 --> 00:39:00,173 Speaker 17: see more poverty, we see crime, we see higher rates 817 00:39:00,213 --> 00:39:02,812 Speaker 17: of people living on the streets, we're kind of looking 818 00:39:02,853 --> 00:39:05,573 Speaker 17: back at something and decades ago used to see across 819 00:39:05,653 --> 00:39:08,493 Speaker 17: foreign worlds and go, it'll never happen in our country. 820 00:39:08,693 --> 00:39:09,253 Speaker 11: But it is. 821 00:39:10,053 --> 00:39:13,093 Speaker 17: And I think New Zealand is intelligent enough now to 822 00:39:13,173 --> 00:39:16,493 Speaker 17: kind of go, well, hold on, this is a big 823 00:39:16,533 --> 00:39:18,493 Speaker 17: ship that we're turning here. We need to see change. 824 00:39:18,573 --> 00:39:23,253 Speaker 17: And when it's like something that the Deputy Prime minister 825 00:39:23,573 --> 00:39:25,413 Speaker 17: over in them you said to someone who asked her 826 00:39:25,413 --> 00:39:28,933 Speaker 17: about price of food, right, and I think you guys 827 00:39:28,933 --> 00:39:30,853 Speaker 17: have said, on a bit of a differently, go, you know, 828 00:39:30,973 --> 00:39:34,093 Speaker 17: the cost of living, particularly save food, will never change 829 00:39:34,413 --> 00:39:36,813 Speaker 17: until we can have our own fuel resources so that 830 00:39:36,853 --> 00:39:40,293 Speaker 17: those trucking companies that can buy fuel at a cheaper 831 00:39:40,373 --> 00:39:43,973 Speaker 17: rate don't charge another higher rate. So therefore the recipie 832 00:39:44,133 --> 00:39:46,573 Speaker 17: to the people is cheaper. It's not about here's the 833 00:39:46,613 --> 00:39:49,093 Speaker 17: economy change and everything's cheap over night. It doesn't work 834 00:39:49,133 --> 00:39:49,413 Speaker 17: that way. 835 00:39:49,573 --> 00:39:53,613 Speaker 2: Yeah, Shane, thank you very much. Right, good discussion. That 836 00:39:53,813 --> 00:39:56,652 Speaker 2: is where we'll leave it, because after two o'clock we 837 00:39:56,693 --> 00:39:58,973 Speaker 2: want to have a we chat about cocaine. 838 00:39:59,693 --> 00:40:03,733 Speaker 3: Yeah, so the Columbian president has said cocaine should be 839 00:40:03,773 --> 00:40:06,253 Speaker 3: treated like wine, and then we wouldn't have had it 840 00:40:06,293 --> 00:40:08,173 Speaker 3: wouldn't have nearly as many problems as we do. 841 00:40:08,613 --> 00:40:10,813 Speaker 2: Yeah, this is going to be a great discussion, and 842 00:40:10,853 --> 00:40:13,893 Speaker 2: we're also going to have a chant to the executive 843 00:40:13,893 --> 00:40:17,253 Speaker 2: director of the New Zealand Drug Foundation, Sarah Helm about 844 00:40:17,253 --> 00:40:19,373 Speaker 2: our increased cocaine use that's coming up. 845 00:40:20,653 --> 00:40:24,853 Speaker 1: Talking with you all afternoon. It's Matt Heath and Taylor Adams. 846 00:40:24,373 --> 00:40:27,853 Speaker 11: Afternoons with the Volvo XC nineteen News Talks be. 847 00:40:29,333 --> 00:40:34,133 Speaker 2: Today. Welcome back into the show. So this next hour 848 00:40:34,253 --> 00:40:36,533 Speaker 2: or so is going to be an absolute doozy of 849 00:40:36,573 --> 00:40:37,173 Speaker 2: a debates. 850 00:40:37,333 --> 00:40:41,453 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's right. So the Colombian President Gustavo Petro has 851 00:40:41,533 --> 00:40:45,333 Speaker 3: said cocaine is no worse than whiskey. In a live broadcast, 852 00:40:45,613 --> 00:40:48,933 Speaker 3: he says scientists have analyzed this, cocaine is no worse 853 00:40:49,013 --> 00:40:52,013 Speaker 3: than whiskey. If you want peace, you have toss dismantle 854 00:40:52,053 --> 00:40:55,293 Speaker 3: the business of drug trafficking. It could easily be dismantled 855 00:40:55,333 --> 00:40:58,013 Speaker 3: if they legalized cocaine in the world. It should be 856 00:40:58,093 --> 00:41:02,893 Speaker 3: sold like wine. So there is no doubt that cocaine 857 00:41:03,093 --> 00:41:08,453 Speaker 3: causes problems. It's extremely addictive drug, But are the problem 858 00:41:08,853 --> 00:41:13,173 Speaker 3: it causes worse than the problems that its prohibition causes. 859 00:41:13,213 --> 00:41:15,893 Speaker 3: In terms of the money going to bad people, the 860 00:41:16,013 --> 00:41:19,413 Speaker 3: river of blood that flows into it, the propping up 861 00:41:19,573 --> 00:41:23,613 Speaker 3: of gangs. Is that worse? What's what's worse at the moment. 862 00:41:23,653 --> 00:41:26,493 Speaker 3: And if you look at the stats on cocaine, it's 863 00:41:26,533 --> 00:41:28,772 Speaker 3: doubling the usage in New Zealand. So what if we're 864 00:41:28,773 --> 00:41:33,413 Speaker 3: doing now it's a very successful product that is going 865 00:41:33,533 --> 00:41:35,093 Speaker 3: very well out there in the world. 866 00:41:35,133 --> 00:41:37,813 Speaker 2: It's an interesting point. I mean when you look at 867 00:41:38,093 --> 00:41:41,093 Speaker 2: the likes of Colombia, clearly a lot of blood is 868 00:41:41,133 --> 00:41:43,373 Speaker 2: spilt over this particular drug. But then you look at 869 00:41:43,373 --> 00:41:45,973 Speaker 2: the problems of Mexico and the US border, some huge 870 00:41:46,013 --> 00:41:48,973 Speaker 2: issues there that are still underway right now. And he 871 00:41:49,013 --> 00:41:50,692 Speaker 2: made it. He makes a fear point. I know, he's 872 00:41:50,693 --> 00:41:52,373 Speaker 2: got his problems. The Columbian president. 873 00:41:52,573 --> 00:41:56,693 Speaker 3: I mean, any any Colombian Colombian president talking about cocaine 874 00:41:56,813 --> 00:41:59,813 Speaker 3: is going to be corrupted. You always wondering what's going 875 00:41:59,853 --> 00:42:02,133 Speaker 3: on around there. And he has tried to reach out 876 00:42:02,173 --> 00:42:05,013 Speaker 3: to the different drug traffickers and cartails and stuff to 877 00:42:05,013 --> 00:42:06,693 Speaker 3: try and bring some peace to the situation. 878 00:42:07,093 --> 00:42:08,333 Speaker 2: Good luck to him, But I don't know. 879 00:42:08,453 --> 00:42:10,093 Speaker 3: I mean, one thing is for sure, the drug cartails 880 00:42:10,093 --> 00:42:11,933 Speaker 3: don't want it to be legal. No, they don't want 881 00:42:11,973 --> 00:42:15,013 Speaker 3: it just to be a Colombian crop that's sold like 882 00:42:15,053 --> 00:42:15,413 Speaker 3: any other. 883 00:42:15,613 --> 00:42:17,773 Speaker 2: Yeah, they're making they'll make an egg of a lot 884 00:42:17,773 --> 00:42:20,013 Speaker 2: of cash by controlling that with violence. 885 00:42:20,533 --> 00:42:20,772 Speaker 5: Clear. 886 00:42:20,813 --> 00:42:23,813 Speaker 3: The other thing is New Zealand pays a lot more 887 00:42:24,333 --> 00:42:26,413 Speaker 3: for cocaine than a lot of other countries in the world, 888 00:42:26,453 --> 00:42:29,973 Speaker 3: so it gets targeted specifically for the outsized profits you 889 00:42:30,013 --> 00:42:32,773 Speaker 3: can make selling cocaine in New Zealand. Yeah, so if 890 00:42:32,853 --> 00:42:36,293 Speaker 3: you legalized it, not legalized it, but if you restricted 891 00:42:36,293 --> 00:42:40,013 Speaker 3: it, it made it available in the same way that alcohol 892 00:42:40,093 --> 00:42:44,973 Speaker 3: is available whiskey, as he points out, or wine. Would 893 00:42:45,013 --> 00:42:48,413 Speaker 3: that be more damage or less damage than we're currently got? 894 00:42:48,413 --> 00:42:48,533 Speaker 18: Now? 895 00:42:48,693 --> 00:42:51,692 Speaker 2: Oh, eight hundred eighty ten eighty is the number? Too cool? 896 00:42:51,933 --> 00:42:54,613 Speaker 2: Nine two nine tools the text number. I will say, 897 00:42:54,973 --> 00:42:57,693 Speaker 2: I think it is fairly rampant in New Zealand. Clearly 898 00:42:57,933 --> 00:43:00,773 Speaker 2: it is increasing, judging by the wastewater testing in New 899 00:43:00,853 --> 00:43:04,693 Speaker 2: Zealand showed the kiwi's cocaine consumption was at an all 900 00:43:05,533 --> 00:43:08,813 Speaker 2: all time high rather with the latest quarter consumption almost 901 00:43:08,893 --> 00:43:12,253 Speaker 2: twice as high as a previous year's average, so double 902 00:43:12,293 --> 00:43:15,373 Speaker 2: the amount of cocaine usage in a year's time. 903 00:43:15,493 --> 00:43:18,933 Speaker 3: I mean, well, we all know how dublin goes exponential exactly, 904 00:43:19,053 --> 00:43:21,013 Speaker 3: but within five days you'll all be on it. 905 00:43:22,533 --> 00:43:24,893 Speaker 2: But I one hundred eighty ten eighty. If you are 906 00:43:25,173 --> 00:43:30,493 Speaker 2: in a social circle that regularly consumes cocaine, we'd love 907 00:43:30,533 --> 00:43:32,413 Speaker 2: to hear from you. There's no judgment here, but I 908 00:43:32,533 --> 00:43:36,893 Speaker 2: think a lot of listeners would be surprised how popular 909 00:43:37,093 --> 00:43:39,732 Speaker 2: it is, particularly in the big cities. I one hundred 910 00:43:39,813 --> 00:43:42,053 Speaker 2: eighty ten eighty. The phone lines have already let up 911 00:43:42,133 --> 00:43:44,893 Speaker 2: nine two nine tools the text number it is ten 912 00:43:44,973 --> 00:43:47,212 Speaker 2: past two. Back pretty shortly here on news Talks edb. 913 00:43:48,573 --> 00:43:52,893 Speaker 1: Wow, your new home of afternoon Talk Matt and Taylor 914 00:43:53,013 --> 00:43:56,692 Speaker 1: Afternoon with the Volvo XC ninety, turn every journey into 915 00:43:56,933 --> 00:44:00,333 Speaker 1: something special. Call Oh, eight hundred eighty ten eighty News. 916 00:44:00,133 --> 00:44:04,373 Speaker 2: Talk s'b Well, the phone lines have led up I 917 00:44:04,493 --> 00:44:07,013 Speaker 2: eight hundred and eighty ten to eighty. And it is 918 00:44:07,053 --> 00:44:11,093 Speaker 2: on the back of Colombian President of course Stavo Petro 919 00:44:11,253 --> 00:44:14,693 Speaker 2: saying that cocaine is no worse than whiskey and is 920 00:44:14,773 --> 00:44:17,453 Speaker 2: calling for the legalization of that particular drug. 921 00:44:17,653 --> 00:44:19,373 Speaker 3: Here's a text on nine two two boys. I went 922 00:44:19,413 --> 00:44:21,053 Speaker 3: to a wedding on the weekend and I was surprised 923 00:44:21,053 --> 00:44:23,733 Speaker 3: how rampant drugs were, including the wedding party. On the 924 00:44:23,773 --> 00:44:26,053 Speaker 3: day of the wedding. I couldn't believe how open they 925 00:44:26,053 --> 00:44:30,213 Speaker 3: were at offering to everyone at the wedding. Yeah. So 926 00:44:30,333 --> 00:44:34,533 Speaker 3: whatever our process of dealing with drugs in New Zealand, 927 00:44:35,013 --> 00:44:38,413 Speaker 3: it doesn't seem like the usage is going down if 928 00:44:38,413 --> 00:44:41,493 Speaker 3: that is the goal of what we're doing. So do 929 00:44:41,533 --> 00:44:43,733 Speaker 3: we agree? And it sounds like a weird thing to say, 930 00:44:43,773 --> 00:44:47,093 Speaker 3: but do you agree with the Colombian President Gustavo Petro 931 00:44:47,213 --> 00:44:50,573 Speaker 3: who says cocaine is no worse than whiskey and it 932 00:44:50,653 --> 00:44:54,613 Speaker 3: should be sold like wine. Let's go to the phones, Willie, 933 00:44:54,693 --> 00:44:55,533 Speaker 3: Welcome to the show. 934 00:44:56,573 --> 00:45:00,213 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, good eh, Yes, I'll be about the sedictive 935 00:45:00,773 --> 00:45:04,453 Speaker 8: qualities of cocaine. I disagree with that. I was in 936 00:45:04,693 --> 00:45:06,413 Speaker 8: Peru about forty years ago. 937 00:45:06,973 --> 00:45:07,373 Speaker 19: And. 938 00:45:08,773 --> 00:45:10,893 Speaker 8: I would have had it on a daily basis for 939 00:45:11,013 --> 00:45:13,933 Speaker 8: about I suppose four weeks, the last four or five 940 00:45:13,973 --> 00:45:16,933 Speaker 8: weeks I was there, and I left the country and 941 00:45:16,973 --> 00:45:19,493 Speaker 8: that was it, no addiction at all. 942 00:45:19,653 --> 00:45:21,733 Speaker 3: So you came back to New Zealand. 943 00:45:21,413 --> 00:45:25,013 Speaker 14: And you didn't the places, but I went to. 944 00:45:24,933 --> 00:45:28,093 Speaker 8: Other places but I didn't. Yeah, I didn't have any 945 00:45:28,133 --> 00:45:29,253 Speaker 8: more cocaine. 946 00:45:28,973 --> 00:45:31,573 Speaker 3: And you've never you've never had cocaine again after that, 947 00:45:31,573 --> 00:45:33,573 Speaker 3: that sort of flirtation with it in Peru. 948 00:45:33,693 --> 00:45:35,652 Speaker 8: Yeah, that was pretty Yeah, I haven't. I've had it since, 949 00:45:35,693 --> 00:45:38,293 Speaker 8: but hardly any not much at all. 950 00:45:38,693 --> 00:45:40,573 Speaker 3: How was how was your experience? So how long did 951 00:45:40,613 --> 00:45:42,973 Speaker 3: you say that you were taking cocaine and Peru. 952 00:45:42,733 --> 00:45:46,613 Speaker 8: For oh for about five or six weeks. 953 00:45:46,533 --> 00:45:47,573 Speaker 3: Right, and every day? 954 00:45:48,933 --> 00:45:49,172 Speaker 5: Yep? 955 00:45:49,973 --> 00:45:52,053 Speaker 3: And And how was how was your time over there? 956 00:45:52,133 --> 00:45:53,453 Speaker 3: How was that five or six weeks? 957 00:45:53,453 --> 00:45:53,733 Speaker 5: It was? 958 00:45:54,293 --> 00:45:55,653 Speaker 8: Yeah, it was good, fantastic. 959 00:45:55,653 --> 00:45:59,493 Speaker 2: I get lots of sleep, Yeah, just normal. 960 00:45:59,973 --> 00:46:02,253 Speaker 8: Well, I wasn't hugging out on it. I was just 961 00:46:02,773 --> 00:46:05,813 Speaker 8: having it sort of yeah, once a day, I suppose 962 00:46:05,813 --> 00:46:06,293 Speaker 8: in the evening. 963 00:46:06,613 --> 00:46:11,732 Speaker 3: And what were you doing over there at the time, surfing? 964 00:46:11,813 --> 00:46:13,333 Speaker 3: So you so you're on a holiday kind of thing. 965 00:46:14,573 --> 00:46:17,133 Speaker 8: Yeah, and the surfers over there all have it before 966 00:46:17,173 --> 00:46:20,613 Speaker 8: they go out, okay ya they call it because they 967 00:46:20,693 --> 00:46:23,933 Speaker 8: use their keys to get their keys into a bag. Yeah, 968 00:46:24,733 --> 00:46:25,933 Speaker 8: snip it up their nose here. 969 00:46:26,053 --> 00:46:29,213 Speaker 3: Yeah, I understand. It's very different from the cocaine that 970 00:46:29,253 --> 00:46:32,933 Speaker 3: we get in New Zealand because you know, in yeah, 971 00:46:33,253 --> 00:46:35,533 Speaker 3: it's more Yeah, So I mean there's a lot of 972 00:46:35,613 --> 00:46:38,173 Speaker 3: dangerous stuff that exists in the cocaine that's sold in 973 00:46:38,213 --> 00:46:38,653 Speaker 3: New Zealand. 974 00:46:39,093 --> 00:46:41,853 Speaker 8: I've had it here and it's it's rubbish. Really, it's 975 00:46:42,213 --> 00:46:43,493 Speaker 8: sort of speedy here. 976 00:46:44,053 --> 00:46:45,853 Speaker 3: So the cocaine when you were taking it in Peru, 977 00:46:46,133 --> 00:46:50,453 Speaker 3: was it more of a half hour high and then move. 978 00:46:50,293 --> 00:46:58,373 Speaker 8: On and no longer longer than that an hour an 979 00:46:58,413 --> 00:46:58,933 Speaker 8: hour and a half. 980 00:46:59,053 --> 00:47:01,053 Speaker 3: Yeah, did you find yourself talking a lot of crap? 981 00:47:03,813 --> 00:47:05,413 Speaker 8: The people who are listening to me. 982 00:47:07,093 --> 00:47:09,013 Speaker 3: Well, if they're taking cocaine as well, they're probably talking 983 00:47:09,093 --> 00:47:12,773 Speaker 3: their own. 984 00:47:14,013 --> 00:47:15,933 Speaker 8: You talk of it. Yeah, it's not too bad. 985 00:47:16,773 --> 00:47:19,813 Speaker 2: And in terms of, you know, the social aspect of 986 00:47:19,853 --> 00:47:23,253 Speaker 2: it in Peru, is it pretty normal? Pretty normal to normal. 987 00:47:23,373 --> 00:47:29,613 Speaker 8: Normal Here you go to a medium market, app market 988 00:47:30,573 --> 00:47:33,853 Speaker 8: establishment and you're going to the toilet and your your 989 00:47:33,893 --> 00:47:40,253 Speaker 8: here is sniffing, not not get flushes or anything like that, sniffing. 990 00:47:39,493 --> 00:47:42,453 Speaker 3: And as it over there, I mean a while back 991 00:47:42,493 --> 00:47:44,533 Speaker 3: that you're talking about, was that scene as a huge 992 00:47:44,533 --> 00:47:49,293 Speaker 3: social harm over there? That cocaine was causing problems obviously 993 00:47:49,453 --> 00:47:51,173 Speaker 3: cause problems with the cartails and the selling it and 994 00:47:51,173 --> 00:47:52,172 Speaker 3: then smuggling it, But. 995 00:47:52,933 --> 00:47:55,813 Speaker 8: Any of that, I didn't see any of that. I 996 00:47:55,853 --> 00:47:57,212 Speaker 8: think yeah. 997 00:47:58,293 --> 00:48:03,013 Speaker 2: So so when it comes to that, yeah, no, great 998 00:48:03,013 --> 00:48:04,533 Speaker 2: to chat to you, Willie. So when it comes to 999 00:48:04,573 --> 00:48:07,172 Speaker 2: what the Colombian president has has said, and we've got 1000 00:48:07,213 --> 00:48:08,693 Speaker 2: to take it with a little bit of grain assault 1001 00:48:08,733 --> 00:48:11,813 Speaker 2: because it does become legal, they make yeah, they make 1002 00:48:11,853 --> 00:48:14,373 Speaker 2: a lot of money. But do you do you see 1003 00:48:14,413 --> 00:48:17,893 Speaker 2: some rational behind the idea of looking at those drug 1004 00:48:18,053 --> 00:48:20,573 Speaker 2: laws when it comes at like of likes of cocaine, 1005 00:48:21,293 --> 00:48:21,693 Speaker 2: a lot. 1006 00:48:21,533 --> 00:48:23,173 Speaker 8: Of I do I do? 1007 00:48:25,333 --> 00:48:25,732 Speaker 2: All right? 1008 00:48:25,773 --> 00:48:28,973 Speaker 8: Because they said this about marijuana, Remember that they sit 1009 00:48:29,053 --> 00:48:31,453 Speaker 8: there highly addictive of ours and all vessel of things, 1010 00:48:32,013 --> 00:48:34,253 Speaker 8: and it turns out it's not addictive at all. 1011 00:48:36,213 --> 00:48:38,093 Speaker 3: Is there is it in your experience? Well, there's so 1012 00:48:38,173 --> 00:48:39,413 Speaker 3: much of a cocaine scene down in. 1013 00:48:39,373 --> 00:48:43,453 Speaker 1: Dunedin, I would never clue you're. 1014 00:48:43,293 --> 00:48:45,173 Speaker 3: Outside of that. Hey, thank you so much for your call, Willie. 1015 00:48:45,453 --> 00:48:49,493 Speaker 2: Very interesting one hundred eighty eight. I mean, that's fascinating. 1016 00:48:49,533 --> 00:48:53,413 Speaker 3: Imagined he was checking his pockets and his luggage a 1017 00:48:53,453 --> 00:48:54,812 Speaker 3: lot before he flew out of Peru. 1018 00:48:54,933 --> 00:48:57,333 Speaker 2: Yeah, you want to put the suitcase through the washing machine, 1019 00:48:57,333 --> 00:48:59,333 Speaker 2: don't you before you jump on the on board the flight. 1020 00:48:59,693 --> 00:49:01,253 Speaker 2: Uh quick, a couple of teas and we'll take more 1021 00:49:01,293 --> 00:49:04,853 Speaker 2: of your calls get a boys, if you've been to 1022 00:49:04,933 --> 00:49:09,373 Speaker 2: any sports team changing rooms recently in the UK, you'd 1023 00:49:09,373 --> 00:49:12,293 Speaker 2: be surprised the lines are racking up as soon as 1024 00:49:12,293 --> 00:49:15,453 Speaker 2: the final whistle blows. It's massively overrated, as a dragon 1025 00:49:15,493 --> 00:49:18,693 Speaker 2: wears off after thirty minutes, and it's not that addictive, 1026 00:49:18,813 --> 00:49:21,053 Speaker 2: but massive in UK circles. 1027 00:49:21,533 --> 00:49:24,533 Speaker 3: Yeah, this is an interesting question, guys. What measurement of 1028 00:49:24,613 --> 00:49:28,013 Speaker 3: whiskey is no worse? A Columbian president said, a bottle, 1029 00:49:28,053 --> 00:49:30,813 Speaker 3: a shot, a drum. 1030 00:49:31,933 --> 00:49:32,693 Speaker 2: It's a fair point. 1031 00:49:32,813 --> 00:49:35,253 Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, I mean when that's the thing, I mean, 1032 00:49:36,173 --> 00:49:39,493 Speaker 3: when you think about harm of anything, a one one 1033 00:49:39,493 --> 00:49:43,212 Speaker 3: two five of gin can do. There's not many things 1034 00:49:43,213 --> 00:49:44,533 Speaker 3: in the world that can do more harm than a 1035 00:49:44,693 --> 00:49:47,333 Speaker 3: one one two five of gin and an eighteen year 1036 00:49:47,333 --> 00:49:48,853 Speaker 3: old can work. And I'm not saying they shouldn't be 1037 00:49:48,893 --> 00:49:51,933 Speaker 3: able to do, but you know we I believe you 1038 00:49:51,933 --> 00:49:55,533 Speaker 3: could take responsibility for yourself, but an eighteen year old 1039 00:49:55,533 --> 00:49:57,293 Speaker 3: can walk into a bottle store and walk out with 1040 00:49:57,333 --> 00:49:59,493 Speaker 3: ten one one two fives of gin. Yeah, and that 1041 00:50:00,053 --> 00:50:01,292 Speaker 3: serious damage to your life. 1042 00:50:01,453 --> 00:50:03,853 Speaker 2: Definitely. Oh eight one hundred and eighty ten eighty is 1043 00:50:03,893 --> 00:50:05,933 Speaker 2: the number. Call nine two nine two is the text number. 1044 00:50:05,973 --> 00:50:06,973 Speaker 2: It's eighteen past two. 1045 00:50:07,133 --> 00:50:11,453 Speaker 3: Bag very shortly, So, Tiles, I hear you've been thinking 1046 00:50:11,493 --> 00:50:13,453 Speaker 3: about a new Volvo suv. 1047 00:50:13,453 --> 00:50:15,732 Speaker 2: You bed, and a lot of you will say that's 1048 00:50:15,733 --> 00:50:18,453 Speaker 2: a bold choice in a crowded suv market. 1049 00:50:18,453 --> 00:50:22,093 Speaker 3: But bear with us, So, Tiles, why wouldn't you choose 1050 00:50:22,133 --> 00:50:23,733 Speaker 3: the Volvo XC ninety. 1051 00:50:23,973 --> 00:50:27,053 Speaker 2: Well, Maddie, one look will tell you she's a spacious peace. Mate, 1052 00:50:27,133 --> 00:50:30,133 Speaker 2: was seating to get this up to seven people, truckloads 1053 00:50:30,173 --> 00:50:32,093 Speaker 2: of room for your luggage as well, mate. 1054 00:50:31,893 --> 00:50:34,613 Speaker 3: Well, of course, Tiles, being Volvo, the XC ninety is 1055 00:50:34,693 --> 00:50:38,333 Speaker 3: packed with Swedish nohow and quality and comes fully loaded 1056 00:50:38,373 --> 00:50:39,253 Speaker 3: with the latest tech. 1057 00:50:39,373 --> 00:50:43,053 Speaker 2: While the Swedes know this stuff, don't they In Google Maps, 1058 00:50:43,093 --> 00:50:44,453 Speaker 2: Google Assistant, Google. 1059 00:50:44,213 --> 00:50:46,652 Speaker 3: Play, what's not to love? I don't know, Tiles. The 1060 00:50:46,813 --> 00:50:50,493 Speaker 3: XC ninety's got a panoramic roof, advanced air purifier and 1061 00:50:50,533 --> 00:50:53,533 Speaker 3: a head up display that changes to suit light conditions. 1062 00:50:53,573 --> 00:50:57,053 Speaker 2: So basically, this bad boy, the Volvo XC ninety is 1063 00:50:57,213 --> 00:50:59,773 Speaker 2: blemen smooth, you know it, Tiles, especially with the air 1064 00:50:59,813 --> 00:51:02,733 Speaker 2: suspension system that constantly adjusts. 1065 00:51:02,373 --> 00:51:04,413 Speaker 3: The ride height and shock absorbers. 1066 00:51:04,533 --> 00:51:07,213 Speaker 2: So I reckon you need to visit Volvo cars and 1067 00:51:07,213 --> 00:51:11,253 Speaker 2: see why the VOLV ninety is the suv for you 1068 00:51:11,453 --> 00:51:12,093 Speaker 2: right now? 1069 00:51:12,213 --> 00:51:20,253 Speaker 1: Oh, will Matt Heathan Tyler Adams afternoons call OH eight 1070 00:51:20,373 --> 00:51:23,172 Speaker 1: hundred eighty ten eighty on used talk zb OH had. 1071 00:51:23,133 --> 00:51:25,893 Speaker 2: One hundred eighty ten eighty listening to Matton Tiles and 1072 00:51:25,893 --> 00:51:30,413 Speaker 2: we're talking about cocaine. This is on the back of 1073 00:51:30,493 --> 00:51:33,013 Speaker 2: the President of Columbia. Funny he would say this of 1074 00:51:33,013 --> 00:51:36,013 Speaker 2: all people, the President of Columbia saying that it's no 1075 00:51:36,133 --> 00:51:38,933 Speaker 2: worse than whiskey, and we should look to make it 1076 00:51:39,013 --> 00:51:40,813 Speaker 2: legal around the world. Of course that would be a 1077 00:51:40,853 --> 00:51:42,093 Speaker 2: good thing for Colombia. 1078 00:51:42,333 --> 00:51:44,093 Speaker 3: As textas says, I don't know if it would be 1079 00:51:44,093 --> 00:51:44,453 Speaker 3: a good thing. 1080 00:51:44,493 --> 00:51:44,773 Speaker 5: It might be. 1081 00:51:44,853 --> 00:51:46,212 Speaker 3: I think it'd be a good thing for the nation 1082 00:51:46,333 --> 00:51:50,013 Speaker 3: of Colombia. Yeh, Columbia. But I think there has been 1083 00:51:50,013 --> 00:51:51,893 Speaker 3: a lot of pushback from the cartels because you're making 1084 00:51:51,933 --> 00:51:54,813 Speaker 3: a hell of a lot of money selling it. Hey, guys, 1085 00:51:54,813 --> 00:51:57,653 Speaker 3: not really into taking cocaine myself. But here are a 1086 00:51:57,693 --> 00:52:02,533 Speaker 3: few few bits I found online that were one second, 1087 00:52:02,573 --> 00:52:04,853 Speaker 3: about four hundred texts came through and now one disappeared. 1088 00:52:06,173 --> 00:52:08,813 Speaker 3: Here we go, I'm back. I found that would make 1089 00:52:08,853 --> 00:52:12,413 Speaker 3: you think I would prefer to drink whiskey damage to 1090 00:52:12,413 --> 00:52:15,653 Speaker 3: the nasal tissues. Cocaine is corrosive and can cause significant 1091 00:52:15,693 --> 00:52:18,813 Speaker 3: damage to the delicate tissues inside the nasal passages. Who 1092 00:52:18,893 --> 00:52:23,613 Speaker 3: was that famous someone famously burnt out their septum snorting 1093 00:52:23,653 --> 00:52:25,013 Speaker 3: so much cocaine or speech? 1094 00:52:25,253 --> 00:52:28,173 Speaker 2: That was that Stevie Nicks burnt out septum from. 1095 00:52:28,133 --> 00:52:33,133 Speaker 3: Cocaine or so. Frequent use may lead to inflammation ulces, 1096 00:52:33,293 --> 00:52:35,453 Speaker 3: an erosion of the nasal septum. That's sort of saying 1097 00:52:35,453 --> 00:52:38,493 Speaker 3: the cartilage that separates the nostrils and oral lesions. Cocaine 1098 00:52:38,573 --> 00:52:41,613 Speaker 3: users may develop oral lesions such as a painful saws 1099 00:52:41,693 --> 00:52:44,693 Speaker 3: or blisters as a result of the drug's corrosive properties. 1100 00:52:45,013 --> 00:52:48,692 Speaker 3: These lesions can make eating and speaking uncomfortable and can 1101 00:52:48,773 --> 00:52:52,453 Speaker 3: lead to more severe oral health issues if cocaine use persists. 1102 00:52:52,653 --> 00:52:55,453 Speaker 3: Cocaine in both powder and crack form can cause brain 1103 00:52:55,533 --> 00:52:59,133 Speaker 3: damage over long term. Long term use can cause alterations 1104 00:52:59,133 --> 00:53:01,252 Speaker 3: and brain structures that make it very hard to quit, 1105 00:53:01,613 --> 00:53:06,013 Speaker 3: or may cause someone to relapse after long periods of sobriety. 1106 00:53:06,133 --> 00:53:08,333 Speaker 3: Sounds like someone's used some kind of AI. 1107 00:53:08,733 --> 00:53:12,813 Speaker 2: That sounds terrifying. Yeah, and Google says it's Danniella westbrook 1108 00:53:12,853 --> 00:53:13,613 Speaker 2: Off east Enders. 1109 00:53:13,693 --> 00:53:18,013 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so you're definitely taking too much cocaine if 1110 00:53:18,053 --> 00:53:19,853 Speaker 3: the middle of your nose rots out and you've just 1111 00:53:19,893 --> 00:53:21,453 Speaker 3: got one hose pipe up the middle. 1112 00:53:21,573 --> 00:53:23,493 Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's east Inders money, isn't it. You can 1113 00:53:23,573 --> 00:53:25,173 Speaker 2: afford to have a lot of cocaine when you're on 1114 00:53:25,253 --> 00:53:27,733 Speaker 2: east Enders, someone said, Kate most Moss. 1115 00:53:27,973 --> 00:53:30,172 Speaker 3: I also thought it. Stevie Nax's at one point lost 1116 00:53:30,173 --> 00:53:32,013 Speaker 3: them the septing of a nose. But these might all 1117 00:53:32,013 --> 00:53:32,493 Speaker 3: be rumors. 1118 00:53:32,573 --> 00:53:34,813 Speaker 2: Yeah, there was some good pr about cocaine in Hollywood, 1119 00:53:34,853 --> 00:53:37,253 Speaker 2: wasn't there. Michael, how are you? 1120 00:53:37,333 --> 00:53:39,212 Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, good things, Tyles, how are you doing? 1121 00:53:40,253 --> 00:53:40,453 Speaker 3: God? 1122 00:53:40,453 --> 00:53:43,652 Speaker 2: That's kind of stick, isn't it. 1123 00:53:44,933 --> 00:53:45,172 Speaker 20: Hey. 1124 00:53:46,453 --> 00:53:48,893 Speaker 5: The one thing I've sort of heard people say around 1125 00:53:48,933 --> 00:53:53,213 Speaker 5: the prohibition doesn't work. But I look at the three 1126 00:53:53,693 --> 00:53:58,133 Speaker 5: non prohibited drugs. There's a cafeine, tobacco, and alcohol, and 1127 00:53:58,173 --> 00:54:00,893 Speaker 5: they seem to be the three most popular ones. It 1128 00:54:00,973 --> 00:54:04,252 Speaker 5: seems to me that the ones that are prohibited. Yeah, 1129 00:54:04,453 --> 00:54:08,933 Speaker 5: it buzz things worked to reduce the usage. So yeah, look, 1130 00:54:09,413 --> 00:54:11,292 Speaker 5: I know the issue is whether or not the harm 1131 00:54:11,333 --> 00:54:13,693 Speaker 5: caused by the drug is greater than the harm caused 1132 00:54:13,733 --> 00:54:18,813 Speaker 5: by the gangs. And you know, it's hard to know, 1133 00:54:18,853 --> 00:54:24,013 Speaker 5: because if that's if that's legalized, are the games going 1134 00:54:24,093 --> 00:54:26,053 Speaker 5: to stop, to cease to exist, ory they're going to 1135 00:54:26,053 --> 00:54:29,613 Speaker 5: sell something else, you know, Like I don't think they're 1136 00:54:29,613 --> 00:54:31,093 Speaker 5: going to say, all right, well it's legal now, is 1137 00:54:31,133 --> 00:54:33,493 Speaker 5: to shut down our operations and go away and start 1138 00:54:33,533 --> 00:54:36,652 Speaker 5: being nice people, you know, like I just find something 1139 00:54:36,693 --> 00:54:37,252 Speaker 5: else to sell. 1140 00:54:37,533 --> 00:54:39,733 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I mean, I guess, I guess. I guess, Michael. 1141 00:54:39,773 --> 00:54:42,212 Speaker 3: You could argue that with the other type of Coca cola. 1142 00:54:42,253 --> 00:54:43,893 Speaker 3: You could say, like a few ban Coca Cola for 1143 00:54:44,053 --> 00:54:46,893 Speaker 3: selling coca cola. They could sell another product. But it 1144 00:54:46,933 --> 00:54:49,493 Speaker 3: is a very successful product that they've got on their box. 1145 00:54:50,253 --> 00:54:53,013 Speaker 5: Oh it is. But I mean, I don't And you know, 1146 00:54:53,413 --> 00:54:56,293 Speaker 5: obviously that's you know, there is going to be a 1147 00:54:56,333 --> 00:55:03,013 Speaker 5: demand that's trust for coke cocaine. But there's also we've 1148 00:55:03,013 --> 00:55:05,613 Speaker 5: seen that some of the techniques that the games used 1149 00:55:05,653 --> 00:55:09,093 Speaker 5: to there's plevia product illicit products out there that the 1150 00:55:09,213 --> 00:55:12,373 Speaker 5: same sort of approach could be used with, you know, 1151 00:55:12,533 --> 00:55:16,453 Speaker 5: And and so I'm not sure that what the question 1152 00:55:16,613 --> 00:55:20,453 Speaker 5: is not prohibition or no probiss The question is really 1153 00:55:20,733 --> 00:55:23,893 Speaker 5: is the you know, is it going to actually be 1154 00:55:23,933 --> 00:55:27,373 Speaker 5: any change of harm from gangs. If we prohibit cocaine 1155 00:55:27,453 --> 00:55:29,933 Speaker 5: or if we stop probitting cocaine okain, you know, I'm 1156 00:55:29,973 --> 00:55:32,893 Speaker 5: not sure that it will actually see a difference in 1157 00:55:32,933 --> 00:55:36,253 Speaker 5: the activity, And so all we're doing is making something 1158 00:55:36,293 --> 00:55:38,493 Speaker 5: that is harmful more popular. 1159 00:55:39,133 --> 00:55:42,893 Speaker 3: Yes, it's an interesting one, isn't it, Because you can 1160 00:55:42,933 --> 00:55:46,573 Speaker 3: also have sort of unforeseen circumstances because we'd probably all 1161 00:55:46,613 --> 00:55:50,493 Speaker 3: agree that meth is worse than cocaine. Yeah, so you 1162 00:55:50,533 --> 00:55:52,773 Speaker 3: know they're going to find sometimes the product they find 1163 00:55:52,773 --> 00:55:55,693 Speaker 3: to sell as worse than the product that you're currently 1164 00:55:55,893 --> 00:55:58,253 Speaker 3: you're currently selling. But I would say one of the 1165 00:55:58,293 --> 00:56:01,093 Speaker 3: things about those topic those you know, alcohol, it has 1166 00:56:01,093 --> 00:56:04,053 Speaker 3: a huge amount of marketing behind it, doesn't it. So 1167 00:56:04,333 --> 00:56:06,773 Speaker 3: if you we wouldn't want to say, I can't imagine 1168 00:56:06,773 --> 00:56:10,652 Speaker 3: many people supporting a situation where cocaine is then advertised 1169 00:56:10,693 --> 00:56:15,293 Speaker 3: on billboards and me and Tyler read out a advert 1170 00:56:16,373 --> 00:56:19,333 Speaker 3: you know, when Tyles read out never about cocaine. We 1171 00:56:19,333 --> 00:56:21,173 Speaker 3: wouldn't That would not be a good outcome. 1172 00:56:21,173 --> 00:56:24,172 Speaker 5: I don't think no, But it could be a little 1173 00:56:24,173 --> 00:56:29,453 Speaker 5: bit like there's the there's an online betting agency that's 1174 00:56:29,493 --> 00:56:32,453 Speaker 5: been banned in India, So what they have now is 1175 00:56:32,453 --> 00:56:34,973 Speaker 5: a news channel that uses exactly the same name as 1176 00:56:34,973 --> 00:56:37,253 Speaker 5: that betting agency that sponds as a whole in a 1177 00:56:37,253 --> 00:56:41,333 Speaker 5: cricket event, you know, And and there's ways around it. 1178 00:56:41,853 --> 00:56:45,253 Speaker 5: There is ways around any sort of band. But you know, 1179 00:56:45,333 --> 00:56:47,493 Speaker 5: I guess all we have to one who is just 1180 00:56:47,573 --> 00:56:50,813 Speaker 5: finding that balance of is making it harder and actually 1181 00:56:50,813 --> 00:56:53,613 Speaker 5: making it happen less. And at the moment it seems 1182 00:56:53,653 --> 00:56:56,093 Speaker 5: to be. But it seems like maybe we're losing that battle. 1183 00:56:56,533 --> 00:56:57,933 Speaker 5: So we have to think about how do we do 1184 00:56:57,973 --> 00:57:02,293 Speaker 5: it smarter rather than stop doing it. Let's be smarter 1185 00:57:02,333 --> 00:57:02,732 Speaker 5: about it. 1186 00:57:02,933 --> 00:57:04,732 Speaker 3: Yeah, Michael, You've got to say though, out of from 1187 00:57:04,853 --> 00:57:07,732 Speaker 3: Columbia's perspective, and that's where we started this conversation. From 1188 00:57:07,773 --> 00:57:12,533 Speaker 3: the prison of Columbia. They have murder on a phenomenal scale. 1189 00:57:12,573 --> 00:57:14,973 Speaker 3: It's just a river of blood around the cocaine trade, 1190 00:57:15,413 --> 00:57:19,373 Speaker 3: primarily into America and Europe. And you know what's happening 1191 00:57:19,453 --> 00:57:22,053 Speaker 3: with Mexico and the power that's given to go cartels. 1192 00:57:22,253 --> 00:57:25,333 Speaker 3: So over there, it's kind of a different different argument 1193 00:57:25,373 --> 00:57:27,453 Speaker 3: than it is here, isn't it Because we're talking is 1194 00:57:27,493 --> 00:57:28,493 Speaker 3: it going to edit it? 1195 00:57:28,853 --> 00:57:31,973 Speaker 5: And but for them, if they were to decriminalize it, 1196 00:57:32,973 --> 00:57:37,693 Speaker 5: the impacts would be negligible because who's going to be 1197 00:57:37,693 --> 00:57:40,453 Speaker 5: buying It's not It's not the Colombians for the buying it. 1198 00:57:40,533 --> 00:57:44,773 Speaker 3: No, really what they're saying. They're saying is called America 1199 00:57:45,053 --> 00:57:50,453 Speaker 3: and and Europe can legalize it for them in Canada. Yeah, 1200 00:57:50,493 --> 00:57:51,253 Speaker 3: that's really what there are. 1201 00:57:52,133 --> 00:57:53,693 Speaker 5: Please please make our lives easier. 1202 00:57:56,893 --> 00:58:00,613 Speaker 2: Michael, thank you very much, great to chat every good afternoon, 1203 00:58:01,493 --> 00:58:04,253 Speaker 2: severe points. I mean, look, very shortly we're going to 1204 00:58:04,293 --> 00:58:06,413 Speaker 2: have a chat to the executive director of the New 1205 00:58:06,493 --> 00:58:09,373 Speaker 2: Zealand Drug Foundation, Sarah Holm, so we'll put some questions 1206 00:58:09,413 --> 00:58:11,493 Speaker 2: to her. But on the back of the increase in 1207 00:58:11,533 --> 00:58:14,773 Speaker 2: our cocaine use in New Zealand over the past twelve months, 1208 00:58:15,253 --> 00:58:18,213 Speaker 2: that there was a bump, no pun intended, in the 1209 00:58:18,213 --> 00:58:21,853 Speaker 2: amount of cocaine we were having. I wonder that what 1210 00:58:21,973 --> 00:58:25,573 Speaker 2: that part was. I line that up. I lined that up. 1211 00:58:25,973 --> 00:58:27,093 Speaker 3: Did you line that one up as well? 1212 00:58:27,133 --> 00:58:27,413 Speaker 8: Bone? 1213 00:58:27,413 --> 00:58:30,533 Speaker 2: Bone, hair, all day? Come here all day? Right, coming 1214 00:58:30,653 --> 00:58:32,453 Speaker 2: up before. 1215 00:58:32,253 --> 00:58:34,613 Speaker 3: We go, just after the break, I wanted just a 1216 00:58:34,653 --> 00:58:38,373 Speaker 3: little question for you, how how many people in New 1217 00:58:38,493 --> 00:58:42,733 Speaker 3: Zealand do you think used cocaine in the twenty two 1218 00:58:42,853 --> 00:58:46,813 Speaker 3: to twenty three year twenty twenty two to twenty twenty three. 1219 00:58:46,853 --> 00:58:49,613 Speaker 3: Just a number? How many? How many people in New Zealand? Wow? 1220 00:58:49,733 --> 00:58:50,413 Speaker 2: So a number? 1221 00:58:51,493 --> 00:58:53,853 Speaker 3: Oh mane two have a guess. 1222 00:58:54,053 --> 00:58:56,493 Speaker 2: Okay, I'll give you an answer very shortly. It is 1223 00:58:56,813 --> 00:59:00,013 Speaker 2: bang on hupas to bag very shortly. Here on NEWSTALKSB. 1224 00:59:02,293 --> 00:59:06,173 Speaker 12: News talks the headlines with blue bubble tanks. It's no 1225 00:59:06,333 --> 00:59:09,933 Speaker 12: trouble with a blue bubble At Seymour's apologize to the 1226 00:59:09,973 --> 00:59:14,013 Speaker 12: Speaker after driving a vehicle up Parliament's steps. Speaker Jerry 1227 00:59:14,053 --> 00:59:17,653 Speaker 12: Brownley's praised the security guard who told Seymour off and 1228 00:59:17,773 --> 00:59:21,853 Speaker 12: expressed his displeasure in the act Leader's actions whether he 1229 00:59:21,893 --> 00:59:26,653 Speaker 12: says any question of prosecution is a matter for police. 1230 00:59:26,693 --> 00:59:30,413 Speaker 12: Inflammatory words from Donald Trump saying Israel should cancel at 1231 00:59:30,453 --> 00:59:35,333 Speaker 12: ceasefire and Gaza if all Hamas hostages aren't released this weekend. 1232 00:59:35,773 --> 00:59:39,133 Speaker 12: The US presidents also impose twenty five percent tariffs for 1233 00:59:39,213 --> 00:59:43,053 Speaker 12: all steel and aluminium imports, saying there'll be no exceptions, 1234 00:59:43,333 --> 00:59:47,853 Speaker 12: but also signaling Australia's trade surplus will play in its favor. 1235 00:59:48,813 --> 00:59:51,333 Speaker 12: A thirty four year old man's been charged with murder 1236 00:59:51,533 --> 00:59:54,853 Speaker 12: over the death of a woman in Aruwahia just after Christmas. 1237 00:59:55,173 --> 00:59:59,613 Speaker 12: Police aren't ruling out further arrests. The government is assigning 1238 00:59:59,653 --> 01:00:03,253 Speaker 12: new agency invest New Zealand the role of tearing down 1239 01:00:03,373 --> 01:00:07,093 Speaker 12: red tape for foreign investors, alongside a summit in March 1240 01:00:07,133 --> 01:00:12,453 Speaker 12: to entice overseas funding fake key, we fruit crackdown zesprey 1241 01:00:12,533 --> 01:00:16,093 Speaker 12: impostors in China get jail time. You can see more 1242 01:00:16,133 --> 01:00:19,453 Speaker 12: at insaid Herald Premium. Now back to Matt Heathan Tyler Adams. 1243 01:00:20,213 --> 01:00:23,733 Speaker 2: Lock him up, Lock him up. 1244 01:00:24,733 --> 01:00:27,773 Speaker 3: So my question before the break was what how many 1245 01:00:27,813 --> 01:00:31,373 Speaker 3: people in New Zealand's use cocaine in the twenty twenty 1246 01:00:31,373 --> 01:00:34,733 Speaker 3: two to twenty twenty three year. It was a ninety 1247 01:00:34,733 --> 01:00:38,253 Speaker 3: three percent increase on the previous three years average. All right, 1248 01:00:38,333 --> 01:00:42,413 Speaker 3: we've got a guess here. Six hundred and seventy five thousand. 1249 01:00:42,773 --> 01:00:46,373 Speaker 3: Kevin says half a million. Who Jesse says two hundred 1250 01:00:46,373 --> 01:00:50,893 Speaker 3: and fifty thousand. Wow, you're all wrong. According to executive 1251 01:00:50,893 --> 01:00:54,733 Speaker 3: director Sarah Halm of the Drug Foundation, fifty six thousand 1252 01:00:55,573 --> 01:00:58,053 Speaker 3: people one point three percent of the population use cocaine 1253 01:00:58,053 --> 01:00:59,693 Speaker 3: in that year, which was a ninety three percent increase 1254 01:00:59,733 --> 01:01:00,973 Speaker 3: of the previous year's average. 1255 01:01:01,133 --> 01:01:02,213 Speaker 2: It feels a little bit light. 1256 01:01:02,373 --> 01:01:03,293 Speaker 3: Fifty six thousand. 1257 01:01:03,373 --> 01:01:05,693 Speaker 2: Yeah, one point three percent of the population. I thought 1258 01:01:05,733 --> 01:01:07,453 Speaker 2: it was more rampant than that. 1259 01:01:07,613 --> 01:01:11,413 Speaker 3: You operating me year circles. Though famous upper echelon. 1260 01:01:12,293 --> 01:01:13,333 Speaker 2: Certainly was eighties. 1261 01:01:13,373 --> 01:01:17,773 Speaker 3: It's basically still the eighties in christ Chitch before you left. Yeah, 1262 01:01:17,773 --> 01:01:19,413 Speaker 3: some that does seem there's a lot less than everyone 1263 01:01:19,413 --> 01:01:22,693 Speaker 3: everyone guessed, wasn't it. But as a bunch of texts 1264 01:01:22,693 --> 01:01:24,653 Speaker 3: are saying, how does it work with the wastewater because 1265 01:01:24,693 --> 01:01:27,533 Speaker 3: this person is saying when he parties, he goes outside, 1266 01:01:27,733 --> 01:01:29,373 Speaker 3: so it never goes through the wastewater system. 1267 01:01:29,773 --> 01:01:32,053 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean when you use the old the old 1268 01:01:32,133 --> 01:01:34,413 Speaker 2: duney water as a test for drugs, it's not going 1269 01:01:34,493 --> 01:01:35,693 Speaker 2: to be that accurate, is it. 1270 01:01:35,813 --> 01:01:38,933 Speaker 3: Some of those some of those drug takers aren't the 1271 01:01:38,973 --> 01:01:41,773 Speaker 3: types that you use the bathroom. A cocaine is way 1272 01:01:41,773 --> 01:01:43,493 Speaker 3: better for you than coca colas. Is this text of 1273 01:01:43,533 --> 01:01:45,493 Speaker 3: four days ago. I shared a Gram with a friend 1274 01:01:45,533 --> 01:01:48,733 Speaker 3: while working on my bike, and it has its place. Oh, 1275 01:01:48,813 --> 01:01:51,493 Speaker 3: I see, I thought it was Instagram. I thought, how 1276 01:01:51,533 --> 01:01:55,533 Speaker 3: in a cinema shared an Instagram message with a friend? 1277 01:01:55,533 --> 01:01:56,373 Speaker 3: I was like, what did you share? 1278 01:01:56,533 --> 01:01:57,533 Speaker 2: Call you need Flanders? 1279 01:01:59,373 --> 01:02:01,693 Speaker 3: I shared a gram of cocaine with a friend while 1280 01:02:01,693 --> 01:02:04,973 Speaker 3: working on my bike. It has its place there you go, there, 1281 01:02:04,973 --> 01:02:08,933 Speaker 3: you go. Wow. So leave's life as it would pull 1282 01:02:09,013 --> 01:02:12,253 Speaker 3: the pin on cartails, therefore less deaths, et cetera. I 1283 01:02:12,333 --> 01:02:15,093 Speaker 3: love it. It's a shame it's so expensive. Legalizing it 1284 01:02:15,133 --> 01:02:17,653 Speaker 3: would make it more available and you drink much much 1285 01:02:17,733 --> 01:02:19,613 Speaker 3: less alco and coke, so it's got to be good 1286 01:02:19,613 --> 01:02:21,133 Speaker 3: for you the ego Dean. Thanks for your text. 1287 01:02:21,373 --> 01:02:23,253 Speaker 2: Keep those teas coming through on nine to two please, 1288 01:02:23,333 --> 01:02:26,013 Speaker 2: I use your real name, nine two Nat. How are 1289 01:02:26,013 --> 01:02:26,813 Speaker 2: you this afternoon? 1290 01:02:27,693 --> 01:02:27,933 Speaker 5: Yeah? 1291 01:02:27,933 --> 01:02:33,053 Speaker 15: Good, good, good, Yeah, just my two cents. I look 1292 01:02:33,053 --> 01:02:36,973 Speaker 15: why I've lived in Australia. I've traveled exceed spleep through 1293 01:02:36,973 --> 01:02:40,493 Speaker 15: South America and I've you know, like I left a 1294 01:02:40,533 --> 01:02:43,493 Speaker 15: decade away out of New Zealand. Then before I left 1295 01:02:43,533 --> 01:02:46,373 Speaker 15: New Zeland, you'd sort of match sort of stuff. It's 1296 01:02:46,373 --> 01:02:48,213 Speaker 15: the kind of sort of thing you don't see other 1297 01:02:48,253 --> 01:02:51,333 Speaker 15: movies and you come back and it's definitely a lot 1298 01:02:51,373 --> 01:02:57,013 Speaker 15: more prevalent in social circles. But it's just quite a 1299 01:02:57,053 --> 01:03:01,053 Speaker 15: funny way about looking at things because you travel through 1300 01:03:01,053 --> 01:03:05,053 Speaker 15: South America and it's you do see the destruction that 1301 01:03:05,813 --> 01:03:10,413 Speaker 15: the the criminal Act heavity behind it, and you can 1302 01:03:10,533 --> 01:03:15,693 Speaker 15: see sort of the argument from the side of things 1303 01:03:15,693 --> 01:03:18,213 Speaker 15: about if if it were to be legalized at least 1304 01:03:18,253 --> 01:03:24,613 Speaker 15: in Columbia. You know, like like to say that the 1305 01:03:24,373 --> 01:03:29,093 Speaker 15: the the bloodshed that it leaves behind is pretty bad. 1306 01:03:29,173 --> 01:03:33,293 Speaker 15: And and like in my honest opinion having worked overseas 1307 01:03:33,333 --> 01:03:36,173 Speaker 15: and when I was in Australia, I worked in the 1308 01:03:36,253 --> 01:03:40,093 Speaker 15: letter industry, and you've got to see the destruction that 1309 01:03:40,293 --> 01:03:42,853 Speaker 15: the that that I mean, I know, one goes, oh, 1310 01:03:42,893 --> 01:03:44,933 Speaker 15: you know, look it's not bad. It's go talk to 1311 01:03:44,973 --> 01:03:49,133 Speaker 15: any anyone that works midnight, the night shift on a 1312 01:03:49,173 --> 01:03:51,213 Speaker 15: Saturday or Friday night and now in the hospitals, and 1313 01:03:51,253 --> 01:03:55,133 Speaker 15: I'll tell you differently. It's you know, the the amount 1314 01:03:55,173 --> 01:03:58,213 Speaker 15: of ways on our health system on the destruction of 1315 01:03:58,213 --> 01:04:02,493 Speaker 15: Alcoholand like I played by drink and in my time 1316 01:04:02,533 --> 01:04:05,373 Speaker 15: I've done any more. But in my time I've I've debbled, 1317 01:04:06,493 --> 01:04:10,293 Speaker 15: and I'm on the on the onion that's to be honest, 1318 01:04:10,413 --> 01:04:17,493 Speaker 15: anything and excess is as bad, you know, alcohol, cocaine. 1319 01:04:17,653 --> 01:04:21,373 Speaker 15: I mean, I mean probably to an extent. I've never 1320 01:04:21,413 --> 01:04:23,973 Speaker 15: done this before, but probably even met them fam and 1321 01:04:24,013 --> 01:04:28,933 Speaker 15: I'm sure there's probably various social users who aren't but 1322 01:04:29,013 --> 01:04:31,613 Speaker 15: everyone paints a picture of you know, someone with gummy 1323 01:04:31,853 --> 01:04:34,773 Speaker 15: or gummy mouse who's already doing the stuff every single day. 1324 01:04:34,893 --> 01:04:38,213 Speaker 15: So not that I am. I'm very much on the 1325 01:04:38,213 --> 01:04:41,853 Speaker 15: fence about the legalization here, but you know, at the 1326 01:04:41,933 --> 01:04:43,893 Speaker 15: end of the day, people are going to do it, 1327 01:04:43,973 --> 01:04:47,133 Speaker 15: and whether you legalize it, whether that's going to attract 1328 01:04:47,133 --> 01:04:51,173 Speaker 15: a whole lot more users, I don't know. I mean, 1329 01:04:51,253 --> 01:04:53,573 Speaker 15: look at the way that they've shifted towards marijuana. Now 1330 01:04:53,573 --> 01:04:59,093 Speaker 15: they've got control on it and and yeah like that, 1331 01:04:59,373 --> 01:05:02,693 Speaker 15: you know, they can then prescribe it and it's the 1332 01:05:02,733 --> 01:05:03,453 Speaker 15: cleaner product. 1333 01:05:03,573 --> 01:05:05,053 Speaker 5: So interesting. 1334 01:05:05,093 --> 01:05:06,813 Speaker 15: One form goes now. 1335 01:05:06,813 --> 01:05:08,693 Speaker 3: That just if I put you on this spot in 1336 01:05:08,693 --> 01:05:11,613 Speaker 3: your gut feeling, would you think that if you could 1337 01:05:11,653 --> 01:05:13,893 Speaker 3: have one or the other? So the choice was, and 1338 01:05:13,933 --> 01:05:17,693 Speaker 3: this is just an imaginary decision to be made that 1339 01:05:18,213 --> 01:05:22,133 Speaker 3: all alcohol was illegal but cocaine was legal, or vice 1340 01:05:22,213 --> 01:05:24,293 Speaker 3: versa versa. Which one do you think would do more 1341 01:05:24,373 --> 01:05:25,533 Speaker 3: damage to a society. 1342 01:05:29,293 --> 01:05:32,013 Speaker 15: Well, it depends portionally. You're probably going to have proportionally 1343 01:05:32,173 --> 01:05:35,253 Speaker 15: higher users of alcohol than you are a cocaine. But 1344 01:05:36,333 --> 01:05:39,053 Speaker 15: it's hard to tell. I mean, it's just I don't 1345 01:05:39,093 --> 01:05:41,013 Speaker 15: think you could really even answer that I mean that 1346 01:05:41,013 --> 01:05:44,853 Speaker 15: would just be my perception, and I don't know that 1347 01:05:44,893 --> 01:05:47,413 Speaker 15: said pretty hard because you've got people who abuse alcohol. 1348 01:05:47,413 --> 01:05:49,213 Speaker 15: You've only got to got people who go to AA 1349 01:05:49,293 --> 01:05:51,013 Speaker 15: because they abused alcohol. It's just like you're going to 1350 01:05:51,053 --> 01:05:52,773 Speaker 15: have people who abused cocaine. 1351 01:05:53,213 --> 01:05:56,773 Speaker 3: Well. And also, yeah, sorry, there's a difference between legalized 1352 01:05:56,773 --> 01:05:59,413 Speaker 3: and decriminalized. So if you totally legalize to the point 1353 01:05:59,453 --> 01:06:04,053 Speaker 3: where people that companies could advertise cocaine, then. 1354 01:06:06,053 --> 01:06:11,053 Speaker 15: I would be one for decriminalization of all drugs. But 1355 01:06:12,613 --> 01:06:15,733 Speaker 15: legalization is the one where you've got to go. Once 1356 01:06:15,813 --> 01:06:18,013 Speaker 15: you kind of go there, do you go back? So 1357 01:06:18,093 --> 01:06:20,893 Speaker 15: I do see the arguments on both sides, but you 1358 01:06:20,973 --> 01:06:23,373 Speaker 15: do got to realize, I mean, this is going up. 1359 01:06:23,373 --> 01:06:25,213 Speaker 15: People are going to do it anyway what it can 1360 01:06:25,253 --> 01:06:27,613 Speaker 15: get cut down with. So do you get on board 1361 01:06:27,853 --> 01:06:30,893 Speaker 15: or do you just try and find a never ending, 1362 01:06:31,053 --> 01:06:34,453 Speaker 15: a neverring battle. So I mean, look, he goes South America. 1363 01:06:35,613 --> 01:06:38,493 Speaker 15: I traveled there, you know, like it's funny because you know, 1364 01:06:38,693 --> 01:06:41,093 Speaker 15: it's legal and a lot of places here to chew 1365 01:06:41,133 --> 01:06:42,973 Speaker 15: the coca leaves, and I choose them over there, you know, 1366 01:06:43,053 --> 01:06:45,573 Speaker 15: I tew them when I did some I did some 1367 01:06:46,453 --> 01:06:49,533 Speaker 15: some mountain mountaineering over there, and they chew it. They 1368 01:06:49,613 --> 01:06:51,893 Speaker 15: use it as they use it as a high level 1369 01:06:51,893 --> 01:06:56,013 Speaker 15: attitude for like altitudes of missing at a clumalization, and 1370 01:06:56,093 --> 01:06:58,893 Speaker 15: that derived from cocaine. That's where it comes. So it's 1371 01:06:58,933 --> 01:07:02,293 Speaker 15: just you know, just not down in the in the 1372 01:07:02,333 --> 01:07:03,373 Speaker 15: form of cocaine. 1373 01:07:03,773 --> 01:07:06,293 Speaker 2: So I had some friends who went over to work 1374 01:07:06,373 --> 01:07:08,973 Speaker 2: in dairy farms over there, and you're right, neck, that 1375 01:07:09,093 --> 01:07:10,973 Speaker 2: was a commonplace that they just chew on the cocoa 1376 01:07:11,013 --> 01:07:12,973 Speaker 2: leaves and it was just like having a cup of 1377 01:07:12,973 --> 01:07:13,333 Speaker 2: tea in the. 1378 01:07:13,333 --> 01:07:17,013 Speaker 15: Morning, pretty much, just like having a very strong cover 1379 01:07:17,013 --> 01:07:18,933 Speaker 15: of coffee. And I mean it tastes like crap, but 1380 01:07:21,653 --> 01:07:23,813 Speaker 15: but you know, everyone does it. I mean, I think 1381 01:07:23,813 --> 01:07:25,493 Speaker 15: the worst thing about it is you just see bloody 1382 01:07:25,533 --> 01:07:30,173 Speaker 15: playing bags everywhere. But you know, but yeah, interesting one. 1383 01:07:31,693 --> 01:07:35,253 Speaker 15: I can definitely see it from the Colombian side. My 1384 01:07:35,333 --> 01:07:40,533 Speaker 15: wife is actually Colombian, so but she hates the stuff. 1385 01:07:40,653 --> 01:07:43,813 Speaker 15: But yeah, like you see, so she's got a strong 1386 01:07:43,853 --> 01:07:47,453 Speaker 15: opinion on it too, because the destruction of her own people, 1387 01:07:47,533 --> 01:07:48,333 Speaker 15: it's pretty bad. 1388 01:07:48,693 --> 01:07:51,133 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, well, thank you so much to be cool 1389 01:07:51,133 --> 01:07:54,013 Speaker 3: and I appreciate your thoughts. One of the business is 1390 01:07:54,773 --> 01:07:57,213 Speaker 3: coke is destructive. My partner was addicted and it nearly 1391 01:07:57,253 --> 01:07:59,573 Speaker 3: destroyed our marriage and family. It's been two years of 1392 01:07:59,733 --> 01:08:03,453 Speaker 3: absolute how the rationale behind there thinking well on it 1393 01:08:03,533 --> 01:08:06,053 Speaker 3: is just not there. They can't they can justify everything 1394 01:08:06,333 --> 01:08:08,613 Speaker 3: well on it. There's no hangover as such. You can 1395 01:08:08,653 --> 01:08:12,733 Speaker 3: do it anytime. When reality starts a hit, you snort 1396 01:08:12,773 --> 01:08:15,253 Speaker 3: more to justify your actions. Again, probably much the same 1397 01:08:15,293 --> 01:08:19,572 Speaker 3: as alcohol, but their visible effects are very different in 1398 01:08:19,613 --> 01:08:22,213 Speaker 3: the moment. Yeah, I mean, that's the thing. You know, 1399 01:08:22,253 --> 01:08:25,213 Speaker 3: if someone's drunk all the time, then you know they're 1400 01:08:25,253 --> 01:08:25,892 Speaker 3: drunk all the time. 1401 01:08:25,973 --> 01:08:26,173 Speaker 8: Yeah. 1402 01:08:26,173 --> 01:08:28,133 Speaker 3: I mean, if I was coming to work drunk all 1403 01:08:28,133 --> 01:08:30,812 Speaker 3: the time right at tiles rather than just most of 1404 01:08:30,853 --> 01:08:32,133 Speaker 3: the time, then you start to notice. 1405 01:08:32,253 --> 01:08:37,333 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, certainly what just on the decriminalizeation of it. 1406 01:08:37,412 --> 01:08:40,372 Speaker 2: I can see the arguments, particularly here in New Zealand, 1407 01:08:40,412 --> 01:08:43,732 Speaker 2: where you do have drugs that are acquired by an 1408 01:08:43,812 --> 01:08:46,652 Speaker 2: increasing number of people with the New Zealand and you 1409 01:08:46,732 --> 01:08:49,333 Speaker 2: don't know what's in that drug, right, It's quite often 1410 01:08:49,372 --> 01:08:52,972 Speaker 2: heavily cut with substances, and we're hearing more and more 1411 01:08:52,973 --> 01:08:57,692 Speaker 2: about fentanyl being cut into cocaine burgushue in the States. 1412 01:08:58,133 --> 01:09:01,892 Speaker 2: So when you decriminalize it. Do you lower the risk 1413 01:09:02,013 --> 01:09:05,813 Speaker 2: of this drug being cut with incredibly dangerous substances? 1414 01:09:05,893 --> 01:09:07,932 Speaker 3: Yeah, because that's the thing about these drug dealers, very 1415 01:09:07,933 --> 01:09:11,892 Speaker 3: design funny that you can't trust anything they say. 1416 01:09:12,013 --> 01:09:13,452 Speaker 2: Where are your morals? 1417 01:09:13,572 --> 01:09:16,612 Speaker 3: There's a higher than zero chance that what they're selling 1418 01:09:16,692 --> 01:09:18,253 Speaker 3: you isn't what they say they're selling you. 1419 01:09:18,652 --> 01:09:20,652 Speaker 2: O eight one hundred and eighty ten eighty is the 1420 01:09:20,812 --> 01:09:22,532 Speaker 2: number to call. It's eighteen to three. 1421 01:09:22,572 --> 01:09:27,492 Speaker 1: Beg for you, surely, Mattie Taylor Adams with you as 1422 01:09:27,532 --> 01:09:30,973 Speaker 1: your afternoon rolls on matt and Taylor Afternoon with the 1423 01:09:31,093 --> 01:09:34,532 Speaker 1: Volvo XC ninety attention to detail and a commitment to 1424 01:09:34,612 --> 01:09:35,732 Speaker 1: comfort news talks. 1425 01:09:35,732 --> 01:09:40,492 Speaker 2: They'd be Derek, good afternoon to you. 1426 01:09:39,452 --> 01:09:42,612 Speaker 18: Your good afternoon, chests. Okay, I'm cleaning sober now after 1427 01:09:42,652 --> 01:09:47,173 Speaker 18: forty two years of alcohol abuse and ABC classes of drugs. 1428 01:09:47,412 --> 01:09:50,372 Speaker 18: Now I've got two points. I wonder how many millions 1429 01:09:50,412 --> 01:09:55,133 Speaker 18: of dollars of cash are being rocking around in New 1430 01:09:55,213 --> 01:09:57,972 Speaker 18: Zealand in a year, be it be it in someone's 1431 01:09:58,013 --> 01:10:01,612 Speaker 18: house or if it's laundered or buying assets. I often 1432 01:10:01,692 --> 01:10:04,053 Speaker 18: wonder what a cashless society would do to the whole 1433 01:10:04,173 --> 01:10:09,852 Speaker 18: drug trade in New Zealand. Point, the banks will start noticing, well, 1434 01:10:09,893 --> 01:10:12,692 Speaker 18: you know, and then people say, oh, we could use 1435 01:10:12,732 --> 01:10:15,372 Speaker 18: crypto coins. Well you know Gary from Glenn and this 1436 01:10:15,452 --> 01:10:17,372 Speaker 18: doesn't know how to do that, you know sort of thing. 1437 01:10:17,452 --> 01:10:20,253 Speaker 18: So you know, I reckon it was absolutely stuff. And 1438 01:10:20,372 --> 01:10:23,852 Speaker 18: the second point is, mate, if I wanted to spend 1439 01:10:23,893 --> 01:10:27,492 Speaker 18: time around someone who's just spent say, eighty dollars on 1440 01:10:27,652 --> 01:10:32,692 Speaker 18: cocaine mes or heroin, or someone who's just drunken eighty 1441 01:10:32,732 --> 01:10:36,172 Speaker 18: dollars of alcohol, I know which person I'd rather be around. 1442 01:10:37,213 --> 01:10:40,133 Speaker 3: Yeah, but what about someone that's taken myth every day 1443 01:10:40,732 --> 01:10:43,213 Speaker 3: for two Yeah. 1444 01:10:42,692 --> 01:10:45,852 Speaker 18: I'm in an organization that helped an Auckland here, that 1445 01:10:45,933 --> 01:10:48,933 Speaker 18: helps men and women get off myth. And I've just 1446 01:10:48,973 --> 01:10:50,852 Speaker 18: been at a barbecue where there was sixty men and 1447 01:10:50,893 --> 01:10:53,412 Speaker 18: most of them have got breathlets on, and they're all 1448 01:10:53,412 --> 01:10:54,452 Speaker 18: trying to sort out their lives. 1449 01:10:54,652 --> 01:10:56,013 Speaker 5: Some will get it and. 1450 01:10:56,013 --> 01:10:56,572 Speaker 8: A lot won't. 1451 01:10:56,612 --> 01:10:58,532 Speaker 18: They'll they'll talk the talk, but won't walk the walk, 1452 01:10:58,572 --> 01:11:01,173 Speaker 18: and they'll end up relaxing and going back to jail. 1453 01:11:01,612 --> 01:11:04,732 Speaker 18: And you're right, mess is a huge problem in this country. 1454 01:11:05,213 --> 01:11:08,293 Speaker 18: But the one thing about the cake the Columbian present, 1455 01:11:08,572 --> 01:11:12,213 Speaker 18: I mean, if it was tax that money could be 1456 01:11:12,333 --> 01:11:16,452 Speaker 18: used to help the suffering. I mean, and every society 1457 01:11:16,452 --> 01:11:19,213 Speaker 18: there's always going to be addictions that go way over 1458 01:11:19,213 --> 01:11:21,612 Speaker 18: the top. And there's always going to be that student 1459 01:11:21,692 --> 01:11:23,412 Speaker 18: that just wants to have it head on a Friday 1460 01:11:23,452 --> 01:11:25,492 Speaker 18: or Saday night at a nightclub and that's all they do. 1461 01:11:25,652 --> 01:11:28,692 Speaker 18: I understand that. But like anything, it's like food. One day. 1462 01:11:29,053 --> 01:11:31,532 Speaker 18: One day at a burger bar, someone will have to say, sorry, 1463 01:11:31,572 --> 01:11:33,932 Speaker 18: I can't serve you three burgers and two milkshakes because 1464 01:11:33,933 --> 01:11:34,812 Speaker 18: you're just too fat. 1465 01:11:34,853 --> 01:11:37,492 Speaker 3: And you know, well that might be a thing that 1466 01:11:37,532 --> 01:11:41,133 Speaker 3: we need to look into. Yeah, nation, do you think 1467 01:11:41,133 --> 01:11:45,093 Speaker 3: that there's people that are just have addictive natures and 1468 01:11:45,652 --> 01:11:47,933 Speaker 3: really yeah, so they'll find something addicted to. 1469 01:11:48,933 --> 01:11:50,572 Speaker 18: Yeah, and a lot of us do some sort of 1470 01:11:50,572 --> 01:11:53,692 Speaker 18: trauma in their life, mate, I mean, you know, and 1471 01:11:53,692 --> 01:11:55,972 Speaker 18: you know, no pain, no pain, no brain, no brain, 1472 01:11:56,053 --> 01:11:58,812 Speaker 18: no pain is a big thing with addicts, mate, you know, 1473 01:11:59,213 --> 01:12:01,412 Speaker 18: and it's just a mark. I mean, I did forty 1474 01:12:01,412 --> 01:12:04,972 Speaker 18: two years to you know, to avoid facing the trauma 1475 01:12:05,013 --> 01:12:06,812 Speaker 18: and dealing with it. And it took me a lot 1476 01:12:06,812 --> 01:12:08,892 Speaker 18: of years to deal with it. But you know, I 1477 01:12:08,933 --> 01:12:11,412 Speaker 18: love my life now with having to use alcohol A 1478 01:12:11,532 --> 01:12:13,933 Speaker 18: drugs are crutch to get through each day, and you 1479 01:12:13,973 --> 01:12:17,772 Speaker 18: know it's it's a hard road, but you know it's 1480 01:12:17,812 --> 01:12:19,253 Speaker 18: worth it at the end. 1481 01:12:19,293 --> 01:12:21,333 Speaker 3: On you, Derek, and congratulations for sorting that out out. 1482 01:12:21,372 --> 01:12:23,732 Speaker 3: A lot of people don't after that long, so good 1483 01:12:23,732 --> 01:12:25,492 Speaker 3: on you and all the best for the future. Mate, 1484 01:12:25,612 --> 01:12:27,893 Speaker 3: appreciate your call. 1485 01:12:27,893 --> 01:12:31,173 Speaker 2: Thanks Derek. Right coming up very shortly, we're gonna have 1486 01:12:31,173 --> 01:12:33,652 Speaker 2: a chat to Sarah Helm. She's the executive director of 1487 01:12:33,692 --> 01:12:37,012 Speaker 2: the New Zealand Drug Foundation. They've got some strong opinions 1488 01:12:37,013 --> 01:12:40,612 Speaker 2: when it comes to drug legislation, so we'll have a 1489 01:12:40,692 --> 01:12:43,532 Speaker 2: chat to her very very shortly. It is twelve minutes 1490 01:12:43,572 --> 01:12:45,692 Speaker 2: to three. You're listening to Matt and Tyler. Good afternoon, 1491 01:12:47,452 --> 01:12:49,892 Speaker 2: the issues that affect you and a bit of fun 1492 01:12:49,933 --> 01:12:50,532 Speaker 2: along the way. 1493 01:12:50,772 --> 01:12:54,692 Speaker 1: Matt and Taylor Afternoons with the Volvo XC, Naty Innovation, 1494 01:12:54,893 --> 01:12:57,772 Speaker 1: Style and Design, have it All News Talk, z B 1495 01:12:59,093 --> 01:12:59,732 Speaker 1: News Talks. 1496 01:12:59,772 --> 01:13:02,892 Speaker 2: There be good discussion and to ty this in a 1497 01:13:02,893 --> 01:13:07,612 Speaker 2: bow is New Zealand Drug Foundation Executive director Sarah Helm. Sarah, 1498 01:13:07,692 --> 01:13:09,412 Speaker 2: very good to chat with you this afternoon. 1499 01:13:10,612 --> 01:13:11,572 Speaker 7: How you doing good? 1500 01:13:11,612 --> 01:13:14,012 Speaker 3: Thanks? What do you think of the Colombian president's claims 1501 01:13:14,013 --> 01:13:16,492 Speaker 3: that cocaine is no worse than whiskey. 1502 01:13:17,213 --> 01:13:17,452 Speaker 5: Yeah. 1503 01:13:17,572 --> 01:13:19,812 Speaker 7: Look, I don't know about you, but whiskey has never 1504 01:13:19,893 --> 01:13:25,253 Speaker 7: done me any favors. I think, Look, Sisley, Columbia has 1505 01:13:25,293 --> 01:13:29,692 Speaker 7: a totally different context from us. They have you know, 1506 01:13:29,772 --> 01:13:32,973 Speaker 7: some figures put it over half a million people have 1507 01:13:33,213 --> 01:13:37,372 Speaker 7: died from the war on cocaine and drugs there, and 1508 01:13:37,853 --> 01:13:41,973 Speaker 7: you know, applants coca that a lot of their indigenous 1509 01:13:41,973 --> 01:13:45,532 Speaker 7: people had considered sacred mid the snow. US been banned 1510 01:13:46,013 --> 01:13:49,452 Speaker 7: from the war on drugs and they're desperately trying in 1511 01:13:49,612 --> 01:13:53,093 Speaker 7: that war on drugs in Colombia. So I think that's 1512 01:13:53,133 --> 01:13:56,213 Speaker 7: in a very different context that he's making those comments. 1513 01:13:56,772 --> 01:14:01,653 Speaker 7: And certainly history would tell us that there have been economic, political, 1514 01:14:01,732 --> 01:14:04,852 Speaker 7: and cultural reasons as to how various substances have been 1515 01:14:04,893 --> 01:14:09,852 Speaker 7: treated by legislation and laws that don't necessarily stack up 1516 01:14:09,893 --> 01:14:13,372 Speaker 7: to the level of harm or help us address harm. 1517 01:14:13,532 --> 01:14:17,052 Speaker 7: So yeah, I think there is some truth, but also 1518 01:14:17,093 --> 01:14:20,372 Speaker 7: important context and what he's saying, Yeah, I'm. 1519 01:14:20,213 --> 01:14:22,452 Speaker 3: Saying, but Sarah, what if we did bring it back 1520 01:14:22,492 --> 01:14:25,293 Speaker 3: home to New Zealand. What do you think about decriminalization 1521 01:14:25,572 --> 01:14:27,852 Speaker 3: of cocaine and New Zealand? On balance? Do you think 1522 01:14:27,893 --> 01:14:31,053 Speaker 3: that would be more harm or less harm than the 1523 01:14:31,093 --> 01:14:32,253 Speaker 3: situation we've got. 1524 01:14:32,053 --> 01:14:35,972 Speaker 7: Now, Oh yeah, I think it all depends on how 1525 01:14:36,013 --> 01:14:42,452 Speaker 7: these things are done. So legislation, say, take alcohol, for example, 1526 01:14:42,532 --> 01:14:47,372 Speaker 7: our legislative framework is so permissive that we've got you know, 1527 01:14:47,492 --> 01:14:50,253 Speaker 7: kind of too much alcohol and society causing quite a 1528 01:14:50,293 --> 01:14:54,293 Speaker 7: lot of harm. So in our context, it's absolutely undeniable 1529 01:14:54,772 --> 01:14:58,092 Speaker 7: that alcohol causes the most harm in New Zealand overall, 1530 01:14:58,173 --> 01:15:01,932 Speaker 7: and partly because it's just really available, but also because 1531 01:15:01,933 --> 01:15:05,093 Speaker 7: it's got so many you know, a range of harm. 1532 01:15:05,173 --> 01:15:07,612 Speaker 7: So if you think about it, things like harm to 1533 01:15:07,652 --> 01:15:12,012 Speaker 7: yourself over a period of time, cancer, heart disease, going 1534 01:15:12,013 --> 01:15:16,492 Speaker 7: on waite, then harmed to other people, violent offending, car 1535 01:15:16,572 --> 01:15:19,052 Speaker 7: accidents and family violence and all that kind of stuff. 1536 01:15:19,133 --> 01:15:23,572 Speaker 7: So there's a lot in alcohol, but they're both substances 1537 01:15:23,652 --> 01:15:27,532 Speaker 7: that can be addictive and canon do cause harm. So 1538 01:15:27,812 --> 01:15:29,732 Speaker 7: really important point. 1539 01:15:30,293 --> 01:15:33,492 Speaker 3: So, Sarah, we're talking to Sea Helman from the New 1540 01:15:33,572 --> 01:15:36,973 Speaker 3: Zealand Drug Foundation. Do you what do you what do 1541 01:15:36,973 --> 01:15:39,892 Speaker 3: you think cocaine use because the stats say that's it's doubling. 1542 01:15:41,572 --> 01:15:44,333 Speaker 3: What do you think cocaine use is increasing so much 1543 01:15:44,452 --> 01:15:45,212 Speaker 3: in New Zealand? 1544 01:15:46,173 --> 01:15:50,492 Speaker 7: Yeah, looks I mean historically we've barely had any cocaine 1545 01:15:50,532 --> 01:15:53,732 Speaker 7: which most people will be aware of. It's been limited 1546 01:15:53,772 --> 01:15:56,492 Speaker 7: to a very small group of auckland is primarily getting 1547 01:15:56,492 --> 01:16:00,293 Speaker 7: their hands on it, and therefore it's got a bit 1548 01:16:00,333 --> 01:16:04,972 Speaker 7: of a glamorous reputation. But actually there are some harms 1549 01:16:04,973 --> 01:16:10,013 Speaker 7: with that, and the increase in supply is basically internationally 1550 01:16:10,213 --> 01:16:13,773 Speaker 7: the product producers of cocaine have become much more efficient 1551 01:16:14,333 --> 01:16:17,173 Speaker 7: at producing cocaine, so the production levels have gone up. 1552 01:16:17,213 --> 01:16:20,253 Speaker 7: I think it was like thirty percent in one year alone, 1553 01:16:21,253 --> 01:16:24,293 Speaker 7: So we've seen a glut of it and therefore it 1554 01:16:24,412 --> 01:16:27,492 Speaker 7: been pushed into markets where it hasn't really been before. 1555 01:16:28,213 --> 01:16:31,012 Speaker 3: Is it true that New Zealand has targeted for cocaine 1556 01:16:31,093 --> 01:16:35,172 Speaker 3: sales because it's so profitable selling it here, because it's 1557 01:16:35,213 --> 01:16:38,652 Speaker 3: you know, it's more expensive to buy it here, you 1558 01:16:39,133 --> 01:16:39,852 Speaker 3: can charge more. 1559 01:16:42,133 --> 01:16:44,492 Speaker 7: Yeah, probably yes, San No, I think the price has 1560 01:16:44,572 --> 01:16:48,372 Speaker 7: come down. I think it's actually competitive or even cheaper them. 1561 01:16:48,412 --> 01:16:50,772 Speaker 7: We've been better man from memory at the moment, so 1562 01:16:51,572 --> 01:16:54,812 Speaker 7: the price has actually come down. But definitely some of 1563 01:16:54,893 --> 01:16:58,412 Speaker 7: the substances have included attracts a higher price here and 1564 01:16:58,452 --> 01:17:01,772 Speaker 7: as one of the reasons there are some specific arms 1565 01:17:01,772 --> 01:17:03,412 Speaker 7: with cocaine that people should be aware. 1566 01:17:03,692 --> 01:17:06,093 Speaker 2: I know you've done some surveys. The Drug Foundation is 1567 01:17:06,133 --> 01:17:08,572 Speaker 2: done survey on cocaine usage within the country tree in 1568 01:17:08,612 --> 01:17:11,652 Speaker 2: the wastewater testing. But is it far more prevalent than 1569 01:17:11,692 --> 01:17:13,013 Speaker 2: most people would realize. 1570 01:17:14,612 --> 01:17:17,972 Speaker 7: No, it's still only a small percentage of people, So, 1571 01:17:19,093 --> 01:17:24,052 Speaker 7: you know, drug use overall, Almost every New Zealanders tried alcohol. 1572 01:17:24,372 --> 01:17:28,932 Speaker 7: Many most New Zealanders continue to use alcohol regularly. Most 1573 01:17:28,973 --> 01:17:33,293 Speaker 7: New Zealanders have tried cannabis. A smaller percentage go want 1574 01:17:33,293 --> 01:17:38,252 Speaker 7: and use it regularly, and with the sort of MDMA cocaine, 1575 01:17:38,253 --> 01:17:41,933 Speaker 7: which that's quite different from MDMA in some ways, but 1576 01:17:42,053 --> 01:17:45,452 Speaker 7: that's a smaller group. So it's only a few percent 1577 01:17:45,973 --> 01:17:49,293 Speaker 7: that use that in any one year, but a bigger 1578 01:17:49,293 --> 01:17:53,013 Speaker 7: percentage have actually tried it, so it's not completely unusual to. 1579 01:17:53,492 --> 01:17:56,253 Speaker 3: Use it either. 1580 01:17:56,293 --> 01:17:56,532 Speaker 14: People. 1581 01:17:56,692 --> 01:17:58,812 Speaker 3: Yes, So cocaine use in terms of the things that 1582 01:17:59,372 --> 01:18:02,093 Speaker 3: the drug use New Zealanders worry about or need to 1583 01:18:02,133 --> 01:18:04,493 Speaker 3: worry about as near the bottom of the pile. 1584 01:18:05,853 --> 01:18:08,452 Speaker 7: Sort of, I do. I mean, we are witnesses. It's 1585 01:18:08,692 --> 01:18:13,652 Speaker 7: quite a significant growth in our cocaine consumption, and I 1586 01:18:13,692 --> 01:18:16,852 Speaker 7: think we can't ignore that. I don't I think that 1587 01:18:16,973 --> 01:18:21,053 Speaker 7: trend we're expecting to continue unless we do something about it. 1588 01:18:21,213 --> 01:18:25,012 Speaker 7: So it does have some harms with it. For example, 1589 01:18:25,013 --> 01:18:27,572 Speaker 7: one then people might not be aware of is that 1590 01:18:27,652 --> 01:18:30,973 Speaker 7: it has a very specific compulsive readosing effects. So you know, 1591 01:18:31,013 --> 01:18:33,093 Speaker 7: when you finish a drink, you can't want another one 1592 01:18:33,093 --> 01:18:36,692 Speaker 7: because your glass is empty with cocaine they've tested on 1593 01:18:36,772 --> 01:18:39,412 Speaker 7: wrapped and they just keep wanting to take it because 1594 01:18:39,452 --> 01:18:43,372 Speaker 7: there's actually this additional phenomenon in your body where you 1595 01:18:43,452 --> 01:18:44,412 Speaker 7: just really want more. 1596 01:18:44,692 --> 01:18:47,972 Speaker 2: Yeah, fascinating stuff. Sarah. We're out of time, but thank 1597 01:18:48,013 --> 01:18:50,213 Speaker 2: you very much for joining us on the program to 1598 01:18:50,253 --> 01:18:53,772 Speaker 2: have a chet interesting discussion. It certainly was right coming 1599 01:18:53,853 --> 01:18:58,253 Speaker 2: up after three o'clock. Little secrets you've got in your relationship, 1600 01:18:58,293 --> 01:19:03,012 Speaker 2: Matt's certainly got one that you mentioned earlier this show. 1601 01:19:03,293 --> 01:19:05,772 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm harboring a terrible secret relationship that I'm about 1602 01:19:05,812 --> 01:19:07,173 Speaker 3: to share your. 1603 01:19:07,213 --> 01:19:10,133 Speaker 11: New home for a full and it's a teating talk. 1604 01:19:10,293 --> 01:19:14,452 Speaker 1: It's Maddie and Taylor Adams Afternoons with the Volvo X 1605 01:19:14,772 --> 01:19:15,972 Speaker 1: night on News Talk. 1606 01:19:17,213 --> 01:19:21,733 Speaker 2: Good afternoon, welcome back into the program. Interesting chat this afternoon, 1607 01:19:21,812 --> 01:19:23,572 Speaker 2: and it's not going to stop, it's going to carry on. 1608 01:19:23,732 --> 01:19:27,892 Speaker 3: Yeah, let's put the cocaine away. Ye, put that behind us, 1609 01:19:28,893 --> 01:19:30,253 Speaker 3: back in to the case. It's probably not the way 1610 01:19:30,253 --> 01:19:31,732 Speaker 3: to say it. Let's put it away. No, we didn't 1611 01:19:31,732 --> 01:19:34,732 Speaker 3: have any out, but let's put that away. A cocaine. 1612 01:19:34,893 --> 01:19:38,013 Speaker 3: It's one side the table and move on to this 1613 01:19:38,053 --> 01:19:40,852 Speaker 3: topic here, which is lying and levels of lying in 1614 01:19:40,893 --> 01:19:43,933 Speaker 3: a relationship. And this was just a little picture that 1615 01:19:43,973 --> 01:19:46,173 Speaker 3: I sent Tyler on the weekend. And it was me 1616 01:19:46,732 --> 01:19:49,012 Speaker 3: because we've been we've been talking a little bit about 1617 01:19:50,053 --> 01:19:53,412 Speaker 3: you know, weight and health and we and we tried 1618 01:19:53,412 --> 01:19:55,013 Speaker 3: to lose weight over the break and I did, but 1619 01:19:55,053 --> 01:19:58,812 Speaker 3: Tyler didn't. And so I was just sending him a 1620 01:19:58,853 --> 01:20:00,772 Speaker 3: picture of a little cheek that I was doing. I 1621 01:20:00,812 --> 01:20:02,612 Speaker 3: was cheating on my partner and I seen him a 1622 01:20:02,612 --> 01:20:03,133 Speaker 3: little picture. 1623 01:20:03,253 --> 01:20:05,412 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you look like you were having a great time. 1624 01:20:05,572 --> 01:20:09,773 Speaker 3: Yeah. And the way I was cheating on my partners, 1625 01:20:09,452 --> 01:20:13,013 Speaker 3: and I might have suggested good to clarify, was by 1626 01:20:13,133 --> 01:20:17,293 Speaker 3: slamming some some fries in a burger and a side 1627 01:20:17,333 --> 01:20:19,732 Speaker 3: burger and some nuggets in the car. 1628 01:20:19,893 --> 01:20:23,133 Speaker 2: And it wasn't a bougie burger. This was dirdy oh McDonald's. 1629 01:20:23,213 --> 01:20:23,452 Speaker 11: Yep. 1630 01:20:23,692 --> 01:20:25,772 Speaker 3: So yeah, I mean, we don't need to but look like, 1631 01:20:25,893 --> 01:20:27,772 Speaker 3: if you want to see the picture centum, I put 1632 01:20:27,812 --> 01:20:29,852 Speaker 3: it up on Matt heathan z on my Instagram page, 1633 01:20:29,853 --> 01:20:31,572 Speaker 3: put it up on my story if you want to 1634 01:20:31,612 --> 01:20:34,333 Speaker 3: go there and have a look at how happy I 1635 01:20:34,372 --> 01:20:36,652 Speaker 3: am out there. But what I'm being doing there is deceitful. 1636 01:20:37,053 --> 01:20:39,693 Speaker 3: So we're just thinking about what's okay in a relationship 1637 01:20:39,732 --> 01:20:44,253 Speaker 3: in terms of being honest or not, because so I'm 1638 01:20:44,293 --> 01:20:46,452 Speaker 3: supposed to be eating healthy at the moment. It's sort 1639 01:20:46,452 --> 01:20:49,612 Speaker 3: of a discussion we've had and we've got a program 1640 01:20:49,732 --> 01:20:53,093 Speaker 3: on So because I wanted to eatmcdonald's, I ate it 1641 01:20:53,093 --> 01:20:54,612 Speaker 3: in the car in the front of the house, and 1642 01:20:54,652 --> 01:20:56,532 Speaker 3: then I went in and ate my dinner as well. 1643 01:20:57,173 --> 01:20:59,612 Speaker 3: So that is that a level of dishonesty that you're 1644 01:20:59,652 --> 01:21:03,012 Speaker 3: allowed to run in a relationship. Not my relationship with Tyler, 1645 01:21:03,293 --> 01:21:07,293 Speaker 3: my relationship with Tracy. Because I was very honest to 1646 01:21:07,333 --> 01:21:11,532 Speaker 3: you about about slamming this burger, very honest. You're very 1647 01:21:11,572 --> 01:21:13,492 Speaker 3: proud in fact I sent you a picture of it. 1648 01:21:13,572 --> 01:21:14,492 Speaker 2: You did you. 1649 01:21:15,213 --> 01:21:17,133 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's deceitful in doing it. 1650 01:21:17,532 --> 01:21:20,972 Speaker 2: But is it deceitful if Tracy didn't ask you when 1651 01:21:20,973 --> 01:21:23,732 Speaker 2: you walk through the door, Hello, Matt, how was your day? 1652 01:21:23,772 --> 01:21:26,173 Speaker 2: I've got this nice dinner. It looks beautiful, Tracy, thank 1653 01:21:26,213 --> 01:21:28,692 Speaker 2: you, you sat down, you ate it, and nothing was said 1654 01:21:28,732 --> 01:21:31,052 Speaker 2: about Hey, by the way, did you stop at Mecha's 1655 01:21:31,053 --> 01:21:31,692 Speaker 2: on the way home. 1656 01:21:31,933 --> 01:21:34,333 Speaker 3: Why aren't you so hungry for your salad? 1657 01:21:34,452 --> 01:21:35,293 Speaker 5: Yeah? So you? 1658 01:21:35,333 --> 01:21:37,093 Speaker 3: Why ain't you raving us for the salad in front 1659 01:21:37,093 --> 01:21:37,213 Speaker 3: of you? 1660 01:21:37,372 --> 01:21:39,532 Speaker 2: So if no questions are asked, I don't know if 1661 01:21:39,572 --> 01:21:41,412 Speaker 2: it's that deceitful, is it? I mean? 1662 01:21:41,732 --> 01:21:44,772 Speaker 3: Should should relationships be one hundred percent honest all the time? 1663 01:21:44,812 --> 01:21:47,692 Speaker 3: Should you tell everything? Or is it okay to keep 1664 01:21:47,893 --> 01:21:50,892 Speaker 3: because it's a lie by a mission, isn't it? Because 1665 01:21:51,293 --> 01:21:55,372 Speaker 3: because she hasn't specifically asked me to my face, are 1666 01:21:55,532 --> 01:21:58,372 Speaker 3: you slamming burgers in the car before you came up? 1667 01:21:59,173 --> 01:21:59,372 Speaker 2: Yeah? 1668 01:21:59,372 --> 01:22:01,933 Speaker 3: You know, And then under that circumstance, I'd probably have 1669 01:22:01,973 --> 01:22:04,652 Speaker 3: to say yes I was, because that would be a 1670 01:22:04,732 --> 01:22:08,892 Speaker 3: direct lie. But what about slamming the burgers, then cleaning 1671 01:22:08,973 --> 01:22:10,692 Speaker 3: up the mess, and then hiding and make sure there's 1672 01:22:10,692 --> 01:22:12,732 Speaker 3: no chips on the floor of the car, and then 1673 01:22:12,772 --> 01:22:13,972 Speaker 3: getting rid of all the events. 1674 01:22:13,973 --> 01:22:17,372 Speaker 2: It's a step above, and you go and just hide 1675 01:22:17,412 --> 01:22:19,612 Speaker 2: it right down the bottom there there's a step above. 1676 01:22:20,013 --> 01:22:22,933 Speaker 3: Oh, that's a good point. Doesn't really sound dishonest if 1677 01:22:22,933 --> 01:22:24,652 Speaker 3: you post it online. Not really a secret anymore. I 1678 01:22:24,692 --> 01:22:29,133 Speaker 3: got to take that down. Yah, she doesn't know when 1679 01:22:29,133 --> 01:22:30,892 Speaker 3: it was. And if she's listening to the show. 1680 01:22:31,213 --> 01:22:32,253 Speaker 2: I've got another one for you. 1681 01:22:32,333 --> 01:22:34,253 Speaker 3: I think that's a very good point. I think about that. 1682 01:22:34,293 --> 01:22:36,852 Speaker 2: I've got another one for you. So quite often and 1683 01:22:36,973 --> 01:22:40,012 Speaker 2: me and may will watch a series together, right, TV series, 1684 01:22:40,253 --> 01:22:42,972 Speaker 2: And we try to watch one episode a night, maybe 1685 01:22:43,053 --> 01:22:46,293 Speaker 2: every couple of nights. But sometimes, if I'm really loving 1686 01:22:46,333 --> 01:22:49,692 Speaker 2: the series, when she goes to Beard, I'll watch another 1687 01:22:49,732 --> 01:22:52,812 Speaker 2: episode by myself. And then when it comes time to 1688 01:22:52,893 --> 01:22:55,653 Speaker 2: rewatch that episode, I won't tell her I've watched it. 1689 01:22:55,093 --> 01:22:57,892 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'll watch it again and old pretend like 1690 01:22:57,973 --> 01:23:01,092 Speaker 2: your first time I'm watching it. Has that been deceeend? 1691 01:23:01,093 --> 01:23:02,973 Speaker 3: Well, that's a huge problem in a lot of relationships, 1692 01:23:03,053 --> 01:23:04,973 Speaker 3: isn't it. They trying to keep in sync with the 1693 01:23:05,013 --> 01:23:06,173 Speaker 3: watching the TV series. 1694 01:23:06,333 --> 01:23:10,173 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm only punishing myself at that scenario, aren't 1695 01:23:10,213 --> 01:23:13,612 Speaker 2: I Because I'm watching that episode twice. Mayve doesn't need 1696 01:23:13,652 --> 01:23:15,253 Speaker 2: to know. I mean she knows now because I've just 1697 01:23:15,253 --> 01:23:17,732 Speaker 2: said it on radio. Yeah, but she doesn't need to 1698 01:23:17,732 --> 01:23:19,772 Speaker 2: know that I've been a bit cheeky and watched it 1699 01:23:19,772 --> 01:23:20,412 Speaker 2: ahead of time. 1700 01:23:20,532 --> 01:23:23,133 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I read this book called Lying both a 1701 01:23:23,173 --> 01:23:27,012 Speaker 3: neuroscientist called Sam Harris, and he argued, and I wrote 1702 01:23:27,013 --> 01:23:29,772 Speaker 3: about my own book that any kind of lying is bad, 1703 01:23:29,933 --> 01:23:32,173 Speaker 3: any lying at all, and there should be no lying 1704 01:23:32,253 --> 01:23:35,533 Speaker 3: in your life. You should aim to be completely truthful 1705 01:23:35,732 --> 01:23:38,892 Speaker 3: all the time. So having the burger in the car, 1706 01:23:39,053 --> 01:23:41,293 Speaker 3: someone says, Matt, you only let yourself down by aiding 1707 01:23:41,293 --> 01:23:44,732 Speaker 3: that that might be true. Yeah, but there is a 1708 01:23:44,812 --> 01:23:47,012 Speaker 3: level of dishonesty for it. And what I have to say, 1709 01:23:47,213 --> 01:23:50,093 Speaker 3: as I enjoy the level of dishonesty, it made the 1710 01:23:50,093 --> 01:23:51,973 Speaker 3: burger taste all the better because I know I was 1711 01:23:52,013 --> 01:23:54,253 Speaker 3: been naughty and eating it outside when I wasn't supposed to. 1712 01:23:54,293 --> 01:23:55,972 Speaker 3: It made me feel like a little kid again. 1713 01:23:55,812 --> 01:23:58,093 Speaker 2: That little COVID COVID element of it. 1714 01:23:58,213 --> 01:24:00,372 Speaker 3: But as that just a slippery slopes to having a 1715 01:24:00,492 --> 01:24:02,732 Speaker 3: whole other family in Hamilton. Yeah, with the level of 1716 01:24:02,732 --> 01:24:04,652 Speaker 3: disonesty that you start bringing into your life, this. 1717 01:24:04,652 --> 01:24:06,013 Speaker 2: Is going to be good. I eight one hundred and 1718 01:24:06,053 --> 01:24:09,213 Speaker 2: eighty ten eighty. Where is the life when it comes 1719 01:24:09,253 --> 01:24:14,013 Speaker 2: to lime? Was what Matt did? Dishonest and deceitful or 1720 01:24:14,053 --> 01:24:15,812 Speaker 2: do we all have these little things that we do 1721 01:24:15,893 --> 01:24:17,812 Speaker 2: that it's not quite lime, but it feels a little bit. 1722 01:24:17,933 --> 01:24:19,812 Speaker 3: Yeah, like this text here in nineteen nine two, I 1723 01:24:19,812 --> 01:24:22,293 Speaker 3: had a job canceled and playing nine holes and instead 1724 01:24:22,372 --> 01:24:23,372 Speaker 3: partner thought I was at. 1725 01:24:23,213 --> 01:24:26,372 Speaker 2: Work like a style, like his style. Right, let's get 1726 01:24:26,372 --> 01:24:28,173 Speaker 2: into this. Nine two nine two is the text number 1727 01:24:28,173 --> 01:24:33,892 Speaker 2: twelve past three is Matt Heath a dirty little lie? Well, look, 1728 01:24:33,893 --> 01:24:35,612 Speaker 2: I would have gone away with this life and done 1729 01:24:35,652 --> 01:24:37,052 Speaker 2: two things. I've just been rumbled. 1730 01:24:37,093 --> 01:24:37,293 Speaker 5: One. 1731 01:24:37,372 --> 01:24:40,173 Speaker 3: The first mistake I had about my slamming burger and 1732 01:24:40,213 --> 01:24:43,012 Speaker 3: fries in the car was bringing it up by posting 1733 01:24:43,053 --> 01:24:44,692 Speaker 3: it on social media so you could see the picture 1734 01:24:44,732 --> 01:24:47,652 Speaker 3: of it on my Instagram account Matt eating zid. The 1735 01:24:47,692 --> 01:24:50,772 Speaker 3: second was bringing up on Newstalk zeb was ver I've 1736 01:24:50,812 --> 01:24:54,133 Speaker 3: rumbled myself stupidly, a load amateur, And I just got 1737 01:24:54,133 --> 01:24:57,492 Speaker 3: a text from my lovely partner Tracy saying I always. 1738 01:24:57,173 --> 01:24:58,093 Speaker 2: Know, there you go. 1739 01:24:58,452 --> 01:25:00,692 Speaker 3: Yeah, but she didn't know. She says, I always know, 1740 01:25:01,173 --> 01:25:03,133 Speaker 3: but she didn't say anything until I posted on social 1741 01:25:03,133 --> 01:25:05,133 Speaker 3: media and talked about it on the biggest radio station 1742 01:25:05,173 --> 01:25:08,572 Speaker 3: in the country. Anyway, we're asking what level of a 1743 01:25:08,652 --> 01:25:13,253 Speaker 3: deceitful madness is allowed in a relationship. This Texas says, 1744 01:25:13,333 --> 01:25:15,053 Speaker 3: wife thinks I haven't had a can of v in 1745 01:25:15,133 --> 01:25:17,732 Speaker 3: introdrink for four years. I have one every day. 1746 01:25:18,173 --> 01:25:21,492 Speaker 2: She doesn't need to know. It's just a harmless, little 1747 01:25:21,612 --> 01:25:25,652 Speaker 2: little lie. This one said, Guys, I had a partner 1748 01:25:25,652 --> 01:25:28,812 Speaker 2: who lied about absolutely everything to me and all my friends. 1749 01:25:29,013 --> 01:25:32,052 Speaker 2: Didn't take long for us to realize. But he denied, denied, denied, 1750 01:25:32,173 --> 01:25:35,173 Speaker 2: even though we all knew. He couldn't understand why I 1751 01:25:35,213 --> 01:25:38,253 Speaker 2: didn't want him, even though I told him when we 1752 01:25:38,253 --> 01:25:40,812 Speaker 2: first meet. I can't stand being lied to. Truth and 1753 01:25:40,893 --> 01:25:42,653 Speaker 2: trust is everything in a relationship. 1754 01:25:43,372 --> 01:25:45,692 Speaker 3: Like is it just a slippery like? Yes, I say, 1755 01:25:45,772 --> 01:25:47,692 Speaker 3: first you're just sneaking a little burger in the car, 1756 01:25:47,732 --> 01:25:50,133 Speaker 3: and the next thing you know, you're stealing money from 1757 01:25:50,173 --> 01:25:50,732 Speaker 3: their person. 1758 01:25:51,853 --> 01:25:54,613 Speaker 2: I don't know how these things go. Matthew, How are you. 1759 01:25:56,213 --> 01:25:56,412 Speaker 8: Good? 1760 01:25:56,452 --> 01:25:57,692 Speaker 21: Thanks? 1761 01:25:57,692 --> 01:25:58,213 Speaker 14: How are you? 1762 01:25:58,293 --> 01:25:58,492 Speaker 8: Yeah? 1763 01:25:58,812 --> 01:26:03,452 Speaker 5: Very good? Matthew Tyler, What am I gonna ask you? 1764 01:26:03,732 --> 01:26:06,732 Speaker 21: How does may not know you've watched something? Because Netflix 1765 01:26:06,772 --> 01:26:10,133 Speaker 21: always says there's that little line under or whatever, you know, 1766 01:26:10,293 --> 01:26:11,492 Speaker 21: episode's already watched. 1767 01:26:11,612 --> 01:26:16,412 Speaker 2: Good point, good point. And sometimes she does, Matthew because 1768 01:26:17,253 --> 01:26:19,173 Speaker 2: She'll be watching and she'll be riveted and I'll be 1769 01:26:19,213 --> 01:26:21,492 Speaker 2: on my phone and she said, why aren't you You're 1770 01:26:21,532 --> 01:26:24,333 Speaker 2: not You're missing the storyline here. And then at that 1771 01:26:24,412 --> 01:26:28,052 Speaker 2: point I have to admit and said, well, I kind 1772 01:26:28,053 --> 01:26:30,813 Speaker 2: of watched most of this when you went to beards 1773 01:26:31,133 --> 01:26:33,452 Speaker 2: last night. And then she'd flip out a little bit 1774 01:26:33,452 --> 01:26:35,812 Speaker 2: and say, now, how dare you? You know this was 1775 01:26:35,853 --> 01:26:38,173 Speaker 2: something that we were meant to watch together. So I 1776 01:26:38,213 --> 01:26:40,012 Speaker 2: own up to that. But you're quite right. I mean, 1777 01:26:40,692 --> 01:26:42,772 Speaker 2: the point there is that if she calls me out 1778 01:26:42,812 --> 01:26:45,492 Speaker 2: on my little deceitfulness, I'll own up to it straight away. 1779 01:26:45,652 --> 01:26:46,612 Speaker 2: I don't carry on the light. 1780 01:26:46,692 --> 01:26:52,133 Speaker 3: Ye, sorry for a second, Mathew, but you will sit 1781 01:26:52,173 --> 01:26:54,053 Speaker 3: through if she doesn't call you out on it. You 1782 01:26:54,053 --> 01:26:56,652 Speaker 3: will sit through an entire episode of a show that 1783 01:26:56,692 --> 01:26:59,092 Speaker 3: you've already watched, just to keep the peace. 1784 01:26:59,173 --> 01:27:01,412 Speaker 2: Yeah, there's no need to start something unless you know 1785 01:27:01,572 --> 01:27:02,932 Speaker 2: then she finds out this though. 1786 01:27:02,933 --> 01:27:04,932 Speaker 3: It's like an hour of your life. You'll never get bad. 1787 01:27:06,772 --> 01:27:09,173 Speaker 2: She's texting now, not happy. 1788 01:27:09,412 --> 01:27:11,132 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I've just got a text from my partner 1789 01:27:11,133 --> 01:27:14,213 Speaker 3: saying you're only cheating yourself. Matt. It is true because 1790 01:27:14,412 --> 01:27:16,892 Speaker 3: but I'm also but also it's deceitful her because she goes, well, 1791 01:27:16,893 --> 01:27:19,013 Speaker 3: why isn't this diet we're on working, Why is matt 1792 01:27:19,053 --> 01:27:20,452 Speaker 3: continue to get fatter and fatter? 1793 01:27:21,893 --> 01:27:22,732 Speaker 2: Where am I going wrong? 1794 01:27:22,772 --> 01:27:24,932 Speaker 3: And we're having such good foods? But Matthew, you wanted 1795 01:27:24,933 --> 01:27:26,333 Speaker 3: to pick a hole in my story as well. 1796 01:27:27,652 --> 01:27:29,812 Speaker 5: Why are you having macas outside the house? 1797 01:27:31,253 --> 01:27:33,652 Speaker 3: Well, because we've sort of talked about trying to have 1798 01:27:33,692 --> 01:27:35,532 Speaker 3: a good diet, and then sometimes I go on these 1799 01:27:35,572 --> 01:27:37,892 Speaker 3: extreme things, or I go on a carnival diet or whatever, 1800 01:27:38,173 --> 01:27:40,173 Speaker 3: and then I suddenly want to have the McDonald's because, 1801 01:27:40,213 --> 01:27:42,012 Speaker 3: let's be honest, I had a few drinks night before 1802 01:27:42,053 --> 01:27:47,293 Speaker 3: and suddenly I'm very very excited about Yeah, so why not? 1803 01:27:48,572 --> 01:27:51,452 Speaker 21: Or in the car parks and then the evidence at. 1804 01:27:53,093 --> 01:27:57,253 Speaker 3: So you're saying you're not questioning my cheating, questing the 1805 01:27:57,973 --> 01:28:02,852 Speaker 3: execution of the cheating. Yeah, yeah, but I think we 1806 01:28:02,973 --> 01:28:05,813 Speaker 3: worse if you get caught just sitting at the McDonald's 1807 01:28:05,853 --> 01:28:09,093 Speaker 3: restaurant by yourself. I don't know. I mean, is that 1808 01:28:09,213 --> 01:28:11,012 Speaker 3: any letter less pathetic than sitting out in the front 1809 01:28:11,013 --> 01:28:13,732 Speaker 3: of the house in the car. I don't know, No, No, 1810 01:28:14,173 --> 01:28:15,012 Speaker 3: all of it's pathetic. 1811 01:28:15,692 --> 01:28:18,333 Speaker 2: I've certainly done that myself outside Kentucky fried Chicken, just 1812 01:28:18,333 --> 01:28:20,452 Speaker 2: sitting in the weak car park having my chicken, thinking 1813 01:28:20,732 --> 01:28:25,372 Speaker 2: what have I become? What's happened to my life? Man? 1814 01:28:25,652 --> 01:28:28,852 Speaker 2: Thank you very much? Make Oh eight hundred eighty eighty 1815 01:28:29,013 --> 01:28:31,812 Speaker 2: is the number to call this Texas here is don't 1816 01:28:31,853 --> 01:28:34,892 Speaker 2: ask me no questions and I won't tell you no lies, 1817 01:28:35,053 --> 01:28:36,652 Speaker 2: A nice lyric from Lyonard Skinnard. 1818 01:28:36,853 --> 01:28:40,333 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, George Costanzo and Seinfeld said, it's not lying 1819 01:28:40,412 --> 01:28:43,492 Speaker 3: a lie if you believe it. It's from beven And 1820 01:28:43,532 --> 01:28:45,412 Speaker 3: that's what he believe because he was pretending to be 1821 01:28:45,492 --> 01:28:47,892 Speaker 3: Art Vandalay and importer exporter, wasn't he for? And then 1822 01:28:47,893 --> 01:28:50,052 Speaker 3: he was pretending to marine biologist. And at some point 1823 01:28:50,053 --> 01:28:52,173 Speaker 3: he said thing, as long as I've been pretending to 1824 01:28:52,173 --> 01:28:54,412 Speaker 3: be this guy so long, I think I can afford 1825 01:28:54,452 --> 01:28:58,053 Speaker 3: myself a pretend house in the Hamptons. And then he 1826 01:28:58,133 --> 01:29:01,253 Speaker 3: had to take his parents, his parents in law, all 1827 01:29:01,253 --> 01:29:03,492 Speaker 3: the way out and lied all the way about having 1828 01:29:03,532 --> 01:29:05,173 Speaker 3: this house all the way out in the drive to it. 1829 01:29:05,772 --> 01:29:09,293 Speaker 2: Do you want to take life lessons from George Costanza? Though, Oh, 1830 01:29:09,293 --> 01:29:12,372 Speaker 2: eight one hundred eighty ten eighty Where is a line 1831 01:29:12,412 --> 01:29:14,812 Speaker 2: when it comes to those little lies that might not 1832 01:29:15,893 --> 01:29:21,372 Speaker 2: hurt anybody specifically, but may cause a few problems in relationship. 1833 01:29:21,973 --> 01:29:24,532 Speaker 2: Oh eight hundred eighty ten eighties of great tecks coming 1834 01:29:24,532 --> 01:29:26,732 Speaker 2: through on nineteen ninety two, nineteen past three. 1835 01:29:26,732 --> 01:29:33,973 Speaker 1: Back in a month, Matt Heath and Tyler Adams afternoons 1836 01:29:33,973 --> 01:29:37,212 Speaker 1: call oh eight hundred eighty ten eighty on Youth Talk ZB. 1837 01:29:37,532 --> 01:29:39,812 Speaker 2: Good afternoon, twenty two past three. 1838 01:29:39,853 --> 01:29:41,652 Speaker 3: We're talking about little lies in the relationship. Are they 1839 01:29:41,652 --> 01:29:42,372 Speaker 3: okay or not? 1840 01:29:42,452 --> 01:29:42,612 Speaker 8: Either? 1841 01:29:42,652 --> 01:29:45,013 Speaker 3: A simply slope this Texas says on nine two nine two. 1842 01:29:45,053 --> 01:29:46,772 Speaker 3: Sometimes I would wait at the end of the road 1843 01:29:46,853 --> 01:29:49,492 Speaker 3: until hob he got home first one home Cooxtenner. I'd 1844 01:29:49,492 --> 01:29:52,452 Speaker 3: eat my Pixie caramel and stroll on my scroll on 1845 01:29:52,492 --> 01:29:55,452 Speaker 3: my phone until he pulled them the drive. We both 1846 01:29:55,492 --> 01:29:56,733 Speaker 3: pretended he doesn't. 1847 01:29:56,412 --> 01:30:00,532 Speaker 2: Know genius David, how are you this afternoon? 1848 01:30:01,452 --> 01:30:06,213 Speaker 14: Yeah? Hello, Matt and Tyler. Got some sorts. But number one, Matte, 1849 01:30:06,213 --> 01:30:09,933 Speaker 14: you're one brave Jude. Your show goes out to I 1850 01:30:09,933 --> 01:30:13,133 Speaker 14: don't know how many hundreds of thousands of people on 1851 01:30:13,253 --> 01:30:15,732 Speaker 14: the law is. There's probably a thousand people in this 1852 01:30:15,853 --> 01:30:20,932 Speaker 14: country that know your young lady Tracy. Tracy Heath and 1853 01:30:21,293 --> 01:30:24,532 Speaker 14: you've stolen from my thunder. But I can imagine she'd 1854 01:30:24,532 --> 01:30:27,732 Speaker 14: be getting hundreds of not sounds of people call. 1855 01:30:29,492 --> 01:30:31,492 Speaker 3: She texted within about thirty seconds of me saying it, 1856 01:30:31,532 --> 01:30:33,652 Speaker 3: so it was a full of player. So in a way, 1857 01:30:33,652 --> 01:30:35,012 Speaker 3: I've been honest, you know, yeah. 1858 01:30:36,093 --> 01:30:40,053 Speaker 14: Yeah, Well that's fine for last more than I more 1859 01:30:40,093 --> 01:30:43,772 Speaker 14: than I frowned. I've had several relationships which I've been 1860 01:30:44,293 --> 01:30:50,372 Speaker 14: more than fifty percent responsible for destroying. And because of 1861 01:30:50,412 --> 01:30:54,333 Speaker 14: the fact that one little secret becomes one little lie, 1862 01:30:54,452 --> 01:30:57,412 Speaker 14: one little lie becomes a bigger lie, and the bigger 1863 01:30:57,492 --> 01:31:01,372 Speaker 14: secret before you know it, the trust is not so 1864 01:31:01,492 --> 01:31:06,213 Speaker 14: much the trust of your partner has dissolved. It's trust 1865 01:31:06,253 --> 01:31:09,492 Speaker 14: in yourself. And that I'm not being critical everyone, just 1866 01:31:09,532 --> 01:31:12,133 Speaker 14: taking it as one example. If you could answer me, 1867 01:31:12,452 --> 01:31:16,853 Speaker 14: if you're in mind, why did you think it necessary 1868 01:31:16,933 --> 01:31:21,013 Speaker 14: not to tell Tracy that you'd have a couple of murgers. 1869 01:31:21,372 --> 01:31:23,732 Speaker 14: Were you scared of were you scared of what she 1870 01:31:23,853 --> 01:31:28,293 Speaker 14: might say or what them? 1871 01:31:29,173 --> 01:31:32,333 Speaker 3: Well, I'll tell you. I'll tell you the full story, David. 1872 01:31:32,572 --> 01:31:34,532 Speaker 3: I've asked her to fat shame me and to hassle 1873 01:31:34,612 --> 01:31:37,173 Speaker 3: me into eating properly, because she's very good with her diet, 1874 01:31:37,173 --> 01:31:39,652 Speaker 3: and she thinks about these things, and and she hassles 1875 01:31:39,652 --> 01:31:42,492 Speaker 3: me to go to the gym on my request. You know, 1876 01:31:42,652 --> 01:31:46,372 Speaker 3: I've kind of put her in charge of of sorting 1877 01:31:46,412 --> 01:31:48,852 Speaker 3: me out in that regard, which is which is a 1878 01:31:48,933 --> 01:31:51,973 Speaker 3: job she takes quite seriously, and and I really, I 1879 01:31:52,013 --> 01:31:56,932 Speaker 3: really appreciate her efforts. So I guess it just felt 1880 01:31:57,013 --> 01:32:00,732 Speaker 3: like I really wanted to have the food, but I 1881 01:32:00,732 --> 01:32:03,532 Speaker 3: also didn't want I also wanted to keep her hassling me. 1882 01:32:03,933 --> 01:32:05,852 Speaker 3: So as soon as I've done something like that, she'd 1883 01:32:05,893 --> 01:32:07,652 Speaker 3: be like, well, what's the point anyway. You just go 1884 01:32:07,692 --> 01:32:09,812 Speaker 3: off and have burger in your car anyway, so we're 1885 01:32:09,812 --> 01:32:11,892 Speaker 3: never going to make any difference. I guess that's probably why. 1886 01:32:12,093 --> 01:32:15,932 Speaker 14: You know, if I were to accomplish, a cynical man 1887 01:32:16,053 --> 01:32:20,253 Speaker 14: might say, well, Matt's loves McDonald's is great, and the 1888 01:32:20,293 --> 01:32:20,772 Speaker 14: love of. 1889 01:32:20,692 --> 01:32:29,452 Speaker 3: His wife, Well maybe for that, maybe at that one point, 1890 01:32:30,692 --> 01:32:36,013 Speaker 3: briefly thirty seconds, thirty seconds of weakness, Yeah. 1891 01:32:35,572 --> 01:32:39,132 Speaker 14: Well, just one of it from my own side, just quickly, 1892 01:32:39,173 --> 01:32:42,612 Speaker 14: and lastly, I am the last relationship I had which 1893 01:32:42,652 --> 01:32:46,293 Speaker 14: I did value, which is no longer. One little thing 1894 01:32:46,372 --> 01:32:50,572 Speaker 14: I promised that I'll get up smoking, and I couldn't, 1895 01:32:50,572 --> 01:32:52,612 Speaker 14: so I didn't. So I'd sinking up the back of 1896 01:32:52,652 --> 01:32:56,572 Speaker 14: the house and paf away and absorb some mouth washed 1897 01:32:57,692 --> 01:33:01,572 Speaker 14: seen knew and you seen you, And it's just it's 1898 01:33:01,652 --> 01:33:06,732 Speaker 14: the loss of trust, yeah, isn't it? And your brave 1899 01:33:06,812 --> 01:33:10,852 Speaker 14: boy man too, And how soul of nation that you've 1900 01:33:10,853 --> 01:33:15,652 Speaker 14: scott those burgers And she must be a beautiful human being. 1901 01:33:17,253 --> 01:33:19,133 Speaker 3: Well she's give me a bit, agree from the text 1902 01:33:19,173 --> 01:33:22,173 Speaker 3: machine on my phone right now. Hey, thank you so 1903 01:33:22,253 --> 01:33:25,213 Speaker 3: much for you call. David. Appreciate it. He said. My 1904 01:33:25,213 --> 01:33:28,333 Speaker 3: boyfriend lied to me about him coloring is here? I 1905 01:33:28,333 --> 01:33:30,532 Speaker 3: can tell he dies? Is here? Do I call him 1906 01:33:30,532 --> 01:33:34,213 Speaker 3: out or say the truth? M yeah? I mean I 1907 01:33:34,213 --> 01:33:34,572 Speaker 3: don't know. 1908 01:33:35,372 --> 01:33:36,532 Speaker 2: Is it going to hurt his feelings? 1909 01:33:36,572 --> 01:33:36,772 Speaker 5: Though? 1910 01:33:36,973 --> 01:33:39,372 Speaker 3: Yeah? This Texas says, I just got caught cheating on 1911 01:33:39,412 --> 01:33:42,692 Speaker 3: my diet with the machas. I was doing the hard 1912 01:33:42,772 --> 01:33:44,732 Speaker 3: seventy five with my son, trying to get him to 1913 01:33:44,853 --> 01:33:49,132 Speaker 3: move and read lasted thirty seven days. He read two books, 1914 01:33:49,173 --> 01:33:52,333 Speaker 3: A Lifeless Punishing and the a SEC Sports Almanac, The Game, 1915 01:33:52,572 --> 01:33:56,652 Speaker 3: and he was disappointed with me. We had even signed 1916 01:33:56,692 --> 01:33:59,253 Speaker 3: a bit and said he couldn't go on a drink 1917 01:33:59,253 --> 01:34:02,452 Speaker 3: at Auckland City home games cost me one hundred dollars. 1918 01:34:03,093 --> 01:34:04,012 Speaker 2: It's a good text. 1919 01:34:04,053 --> 01:34:04,732 Speaker 3: It was it worth it. 1920 01:34:05,612 --> 01:34:08,213 Speaker 2: This is a good text, afternoon, lads. We lie out 1921 01:34:08,412 --> 01:34:11,652 Speaker 2: politeness every day. When someone says, hi, how are you, 1922 01:34:11,812 --> 01:34:14,372 Speaker 2: we say yeah, good, because we know they don't want 1923 01:34:14,372 --> 01:34:17,732 Speaker 2: to hear about all of our crap. Happens to all 1924 01:34:17,772 --> 01:34:19,812 Speaker 2: of us every single day from goal. So that's a 1925 01:34:19,812 --> 01:34:22,852 Speaker 2: good point. I don't know if you were not telling 1926 01:34:23,013 --> 01:34:25,333 Speaker 2: Tracy about the Meccas out of politeness, but that's what 1927 01:34:25,372 --> 01:34:29,012 Speaker 2: we do every week, at least, maybe sometimes every day. 1928 01:34:29,173 --> 01:34:32,612 Speaker 2: In a relationship or with people around us. We lie 1929 01:34:32,732 --> 01:34:35,612 Speaker 2: to protect feelings. Yeah, it is that okay to do 1930 01:34:35,692 --> 01:34:38,452 Speaker 2: in a relationship because that's not a lie to be 1931 01:34:38,532 --> 01:34:42,093 Speaker 2: deceitful and hurt someone. It's actually to save them from 1932 01:34:42,093 --> 01:34:42,612 Speaker 2: being hurt. 1933 01:34:43,093 --> 01:34:46,692 Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess so. But I think that you can 1934 01:34:46,772 --> 01:34:50,253 Speaker 3: end up having unforeseen circumstances. When I was a kid, 1935 01:34:50,293 --> 01:34:51,972 Speaker 3: there was a mansion that was just down the road 1936 01:34:52,013 --> 01:34:55,052 Speaker 3: from our house on the farm that there's really flash place, 1937 01:34:55,492 --> 01:34:57,852 Speaker 3: And when I was being dropped off by a friend's mum, 1938 01:34:58,253 --> 01:35:00,692 Speaker 3: I said, they said, where's your house, And I said, 1939 01:35:00,732 --> 01:35:02,852 Speaker 3: that's my house. Because I always thought the house was cool. Yeah, 1940 01:35:02,893 --> 01:35:04,932 Speaker 3: it was way bigger and flash in than our house. 1941 01:35:05,253 --> 01:35:07,532 Speaker 3: So I said, ah, that's my house. So they dropped 1942 01:35:07,532 --> 01:35:09,732 Speaker 3: me off there, and then a couple of weeks later 1943 01:35:09,772 --> 01:35:11,612 Speaker 3: they were dropping my friend off to play with me 1944 01:35:11,652 --> 01:35:14,492 Speaker 3: and drop them off at that house. He knocked on 1945 01:35:14,532 --> 01:35:17,892 Speaker 3: the door and then there was no one knew what 1946 01:35:17,973 --> 01:35:20,492 Speaker 3: was going on, so he walked off, didn't know where 1947 01:35:20,532 --> 01:35:22,333 Speaker 3: to go. Then this phone calls them were out in 1948 01:35:22,333 --> 01:35:23,973 Speaker 3: the street looking for him. So I don't know how. 1949 01:35:24,013 --> 01:35:25,572 Speaker 3: You've got to be careful. I mean, I was eight 1950 01:35:25,572 --> 01:35:27,213 Speaker 3: at the time, so it can't be too hard on me. 1951 01:35:27,652 --> 01:35:29,173 Speaker 3: And it was a very cool house to pretend that 1952 01:35:29,213 --> 01:35:33,412 Speaker 3: you lived in. But there's unforeseen circumstances about your dishonesty. 1953 01:35:33,933 --> 01:35:35,133 Speaker 2: Who could have foreseen that? 1954 01:35:35,173 --> 01:35:35,372 Speaker 5: Though? 1955 01:35:35,452 --> 01:35:39,093 Speaker 2: That takes the cake. Oh, eight hundred and eighty ten 1956 01:35:39,213 --> 01:35:42,652 Speaker 2: eighty little lies in relationships? Are they okay? Or never okay? 1957 01:35:42,732 --> 01:35:44,932 Speaker 2: Love to hear from you. It is twenty eight PRS 1958 01:35:45,013 --> 01:35:47,012 Speaker 2: three headlines with Raylene coming. 1959 01:35:46,893 --> 01:35:53,093 Speaker 12: Up H's talk said the headlines with blue Bubble taxis 1960 01:35:53,133 --> 01:35:56,772 Speaker 12: it's no trouble with a blue bubble. Kyanga Ouros taking 1961 01:35:56,812 --> 01:36:00,093 Speaker 12: a firmer approach to tenants behind on their rent to 1962 01:36:00,133 --> 01:36:04,412 Speaker 12: allow termination when tenants don't meet obligations, skip rent or 1963 01:36:04,492 --> 01:36:07,532 Speaker 12: refuse to work with the housing provider. It'll continue to 1964 01:36:07,572 --> 01:36:10,932 Speaker 12: support househ making genuine attempts to get back on track 1965 01:36:10,973 --> 01:36:15,133 Speaker 12: with their rent. David Seymour's apologized in writing to the 1966 01:36:15,173 --> 01:36:19,372 Speaker 12: Speaker over a charity stunt driving a vehicle up Parliament steps. 1967 01:36:19,933 --> 01:36:22,932 Speaker 12: Jerry Brownley has commended the Security Guard for his actions 1968 01:36:23,293 --> 01:36:27,372 Speaker 12: and says any prosecution would be up to police. New 1969 01:36:27,492 --> 01:36:30,492 Speaker 12: Zealand First has introduced a members bill that would require 1970 01:36:30,572 --> 01:36:35,053 Speaker 12: local authorities to hold a referendum on water fluoridation. A 1971 01:36:35,093 --> 01:36:38,492 Speaker 12: whit targeted councilor says patrols will step up at West 1972 01:36:38,532 --> 01:36:42,812 Speaker 12: Auckland train stations after a spate of creepy incidents. A 1973 01:36:42,893 --> 01:36:45,812 Speaker 12: man's been charged with assault at the Sturgis Road station. 1974 01:36:47,053 --> 01:36:51,172 Speaker 12: An Auckland University researcher says new Instagram teen accounts launching 1975 01:36:51,213 --> 01:36:55,213 Speaker 12: today make it safer, but it's still not safe. So 1976 01:36:55,372 --> 01:36:58,533 Speaker 12: are not of free past to let parents give kids access. 1977 01:36:59,612 --> 01:37:03,693 Speaker 12: People think their feelings are so real now. A celebrity 1978 01:37:03,772 --> 01:37:07,412 Speaker 12: therapist on the reality of mental health today you can 1979 01:37:07,452 --> 01:37:10,133 Speaker 12: see the full story and said herold Premium no back 1980 01:37:10,133 --> 01:37:11,612 Speaker 12: to Matt Eathan Tyler Adams. 1981 01:37:11,652 --> 01:37:14,012 Speaker 2: Thank you very much, Raylan. And we're talking about little 1982 01:37:14,053 --> 01:37:17,333 Speaker 2: lies and relationships, are they okay or not? Okay? 1983 01:37:17,492 --> 01:37:20,293 Speaker 3: No, I I reckon zero tolerance for any kind of lies. 1984 01:37:20,333 --> 01:37:21,133 Speaker 3: It's a slippery soap. 1985 01:37:21,213 --> 01:37:24,452 Speaker 2: Well you've been called out now for your little little deceitfulness. 1986 01:37:24,933 --> 01:37:25,133 Speaker 8: Yeah. 1987 01:37:25,253 --> 01:37:27,492 Speaker 3: No, But then I just texted about that one and 1988 01:37:27,532 --> 01:37:29,612 Speaker 3: I said, it's just content for the radio. 1989 01:37:30,293 --> 01:37:33,133 Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, what did she say to that? We're still 1990 01:37:34,133 --> 01:37:34,532 Speaker 2: a reply. 1991 01:37:34,692 --> 01:37:38,253 Speaker 3: She hasn't come back on that. But yeah. So if 1992 01:37:38,293 --> 01:37:40,972 Speaker 3: you've got examples of catching out someone lying, I one 1993 01:37:41,013 --> 01:37:43,213 Speaker 3: hundred and eighty ten eighty nine two nine two's the 1994 01:37:43,253 --> 01:37:46,492 Speaker 3: text number. Or if there's a little lie you tell 1995 01:37:46,532 --> 01:37:48,812 Speaker 3: that you thinks okay, is lying just a little bit 1996 01:37:48,853 --> 01:37:52,572 Speaker 3: of a line relationship. Last Christmas, I spent money on 1997 01:37:52,572 --> 01:37:54,932 Speaker 3: my mum's gift then I did on my I spent 1998 01:37:55,572 --> 01:37:57,213 Speaker 3: more money on my mum's gift than I did on 1999 01:37:57,213 --> 01:38:00,293 Speaker 3: my wife's because I paid in cash and destroy the receipts. 2000 01:38:00,492 --> 01:38:02,933 Speaker 3: She'll never know. My wife doesn't understand how much my 2001 01:38:03,013 --> 01:38:06,013 Speaker 3: mother sacrifice for me and my sisters. Many times she 2002 01:38:06,093 --> 01:38:09,173 Speaker 3: went without food so we could eat. So I won't 2003 01:38:09,213 --> 01:38:12,692 Speaker 3: feel guilty. All right, there you gain. So so he 2004 01:38:12,772 --> 01:38:15,692 Speaker 3: feels he owes his mum more than he O's as partner, 2005 01:38:15,933 --> 01:38:18,173 Speaker 3: so he spends more on the Christmas gift, but then 2006 01:38:18,253 --> 01:38:19,532 Speaker 3: rips up the receipts. 2007 01:38:20,333 --> 01:38:24,213 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's but if you ever get found out in 2008 01:38:24,213 --> 01:38:26,852 Speaker 2: that situation, I mean, for one, you shouldn't get into 2009 01:38:26,853 --> 01:38:28,173 Speaker 2: that situation. 2010 01:38:28,013 --> 01:38:28,652 Speaker 11: To begin with. 2011 01:38:29,013 --> 01:38:31,532 Speaker 2: But they are questions you just don't want to answer, 2012 01:38:31,692 --> 01:38:33,012 Speaker 2: I mean, because then it's going. 2013 01:38:32,933 --> 01:38:35,932 Speaker 3: To cause hurt, right, Yeah, if you lie in your 2014 01:38:35,933 --> 01:38:38,732 Speaker 3: relationships with the sexty, you are actually lying to yourself. 2015 01:38:38,772 --> 01:38:40,772 Speaker 3: What if someone asks you how they lock in a 2016 01:38:40,772 --> 01:38:44,253 Speaker 3: particular outfit? Do you say the honest truth or do 2017 01:38:44,293 --> 01:38:45,852 Speaker 3: you just say what you need to say to get 2018 01:38:45,853 --> 01:38:47,253 Speaker 3: out the door and go where you're trying to go. 2019 01:38:48,053 --> 01:38:52,293 Speaker 2: It's a very good question, I'll be honest. I actually 2020 01:38:52,812 --> 01:38:56,852 Speaker 2: would save a person's feelings. I mean, if it was 2021 01:38:56,893 --> 01:38:59,452 Speaker 2: someone I really cared about and they asked me, hey, 2022 01:39:00,412 --> 01:39:04,013 Speaker 2: do I look good in this particular dress or do 2023 01:39:04,093 --> 01:39:08,093 Speaker 2: you still find me attractive? Of course I'd say absolutely absolutely, 2024 01:39:08,333 --> 01:39:10,812 Speaker 2: because that saves their feeling. Clearly they're in a moment 2025 01:39:10,933 --> 01:39:15,532 Speaker 2: of vulnerability, and I think that is an honorable thing 2026 01:39:15,572 --> 01:39:15,772 Speaker 2: to do. 2027 01:39:15,893 --> 01:39:18,973 Speaker 3: Okay, but what about when princess breakfasts went to that 2028 01:39:19,013 --> 01:39:20,972 Speaker 3: we're all wedding with that toilet seat on her head. 2029 01:39:21,612 --> 01:39:23,372 Speaker 3: It was just a whole lot of use people saying 2030 01:39:23,372 --> 01:39:26,053 Speaker 3: that looks you look great, and then she was out 2031 01:39:26,093 --> 01:39:27,412 Speaker 3: and then the whole world was laughing at it. 2032 01:39:28,053 --> 01:39:30,532 Speaker 2: Good question, George, How are you this afternoon? 2033 01:39:31,532 --> 01:39:35,692 Speaker 19: My question is politicians and their relationship with the public. 2034 01:39:37,213 --> 01:39:41,852 Speaker 19: Now is weasel talk acceptable? Now? I want to explain it. 2035 01:39:43,053 --> 01:39:45,772 Speaker 19: In the eighties I was involved with the Post Office 2036 01:39:45,853 --> 01:39:50,892 Speaker 19: Union as an official. We had a major, a major 2037 01:39:51,093 --> 01:39:55,652 Speaker 19: concern and we ended up with meeting with politicians and 2038 01:39:55,692 --> 01:39:58,933 Speaker 19: we actually met in a pub quarry to discuss this. 2039 01:39:59,973 --> 01:40:02,412 Speaker 19: And one of the conversations we had over a beer 2040 01:40:03,093 --> 01:40:06,532 Speaker 19: after the discussions was all over, was at what point 2041 01:40:06,652 --> 01:40:09,412 Speaker 19: do you know something? And he said, well, if you 2042 01:40:09,492 --> 01:40:14,892 Speaker 19: tell me in the pub something privately about something that 2043 01:40:14,933 --> 01:40:18,732 Speaker 19: you can send about is one thing. But officially I 2044 01:40:18,812 --> 01:40:22,572 Speaker 19: don't know it until someone writes to me officially as 2045 01:40:22,572 --> 01:40:26,172 Speaker 19: an MP and then informs me. So I can officially 2046 01:40:26,173 --> 01:40:28,572 Speaker 19: stand up and say no, I have not been told 2047 01:40:28,612 --> 01:40:31,732 Speaker 19: about something, and you describe that as weasel talk. Now, 2048 01:40:31,772 --> 01:40:33,972 Speaker 19: you guys have been involved with the news in parliament 2049 01:40:34,452 --> 01:40:37,452 Speaker 19: and you will know about this. So how acceptable is 2050 01:40:37,532 --> 01:40:40,452 Speaker 19: weasel talk in parliamentary news media? 2051 01:40:41,253 --> 01:40:44,572 Speaker 3: So what exactly do you mean by weasele talk? 2052 01:40:44,772 --> 01:40:45,932 Speaker 19: So that's why you don't know. 2053 01:40:46,372 --> 01:40:47,052 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't. 2054 01:40:47,053 --> 01:40:50,852 Speaker 19: Know with you. If I sit in the pub with 2055 01:40:50,933 --> 01:40:55,333 Speaker 19: you and tell you that as a as a, as 2056 01:40:55,492 --> 01:40:57,572 Speaker 19: the owner of Shell New Zealand, that we're going to 2057 01:40:57,572 --> 01:41:03,013 Speaker 19: be putting the petrol up next week, that when you 2058 01:41:03,093 --> 01:41:05,692 Speaker 19: go back, because you're in a politician and someone says 2059 01:41:05,732 --> 01:41:08,973 Speaker 19: to you in the news media is pful going up 2060 01:41:09,013 --> 01:41:14,412 Speaker 19: next week, You're going to reply, we have not been informed, right, Well. 2061 01:41:14,253 --> 01:41:18,572 Speaker 2: That, yeah, in that scenario, you're a bit of a mug, 2062 01:41:18,732 --> 01:41:20,492 Speaker 2: if you know, because if you get caught out, and 2063 01:41:20,532 --> 01:41:23,293 Speaker 2: there's been many a politician that's been caught out in 2064 01:41:23,333 --> 01:41:26,173 Speaker 2: a lie like that, and that's the end of your career. 2065 01:41:26,572 --> 01:41:29,572 Speaker 2: And if you sort of extend that, well sometimes if 2066 01:41:29,612 --> 01:41:33,612 Speaker 2: you extend that to a relationship, you know, and you 2067 01:41:33,652 --> 01:41:38,732 Speaker 2: get caught out in being deceitful, then that you lose trust, right, 2068 01:41:38,772 --> 01:41:39,972 Speaker 2: And that's a similar situation. 2069 01:41:40,532 --> 01:41:43,652 Speaker 19: Well, I remember a news news article when you guys 2070 01:41:43,692 --> 01:41:47,452 Speaker 19: were in the newsroom at Parliament and you accused one 2071 01:41:47,452 --> 01:41:49,173 Speaker 19: of the MP's of weasel cork. 2072 01:41:50,812 --> 01:41:53,012 Speaker 3: I've never been in the newsroom in Parliament. 2073 01:41:53,053 --> 01:41:54,052 Speaker 2: I can't remember that. 2074 01:41:55,013 --> 01:41:56,812 Speaker 19: No, but one of you guys said, because we watched 2075 01:41:56,812 --> 01:41:59,173 Speaker 19: the news media on TV when the guy did it, 2076 01:41:59,213 --> 01:42:00,812 Speaker 19: I don't know who it was, but it was one 2077 01:42:00,853 --> 01:42:07,253 Speaker 19: news media person. No, it's not you, but media. 2078 01:42:08,532 --> 01:42:09,972 Speaker 3: I wouldn't say that as part of the news media. 2079 01:42:10,013 --> 01:42:13,133 Speaker 3: But you continue, Okay. 2080 01:42:12,933 --> 01:42:16,173 Speaker 19: You can hide out what would used to talking. 2081 01:42:17,532 --> 01:42:20,412 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but you know, you know we're not journalists, George, 2082 01:42:20,492 --> 01:42:22,772 Speaker 2: you know, yeah, but. 2083 01:42:22,692 --> 01:42:25,532 Speaker 19: The journalists need to ask your questions the right way. 2084 01:42:25,732 --> 01:42:28,093 Speaker 19: I'll give you an example. About two thousand and twelve, 2085 01:42:28,173 --> 01:42:31,892 Speaker 19: John t was in Parliament and asked does the government 2086 01:42:32,133 --> 01:42:36,612 Speaker 19: monitor the Internet? And he said no, because the question 2087 01:42:36,732 --> 01:42:39,692 Speaker 19: should have been do you have access to everybody's Internet? 2088 01:42:40,253 --> 01:42:41,532 Speaker 19: And the answer would have been yes. 2089 01:42:42,333 --> 01:42:44,013 Speaker 3: Right, I see what it's saying. So there's a way 2090 01:42:44,013 --> 01:42:45,732 Speaker 3: to get round it. I was thinking about that today. 2091 01:42:45,732 --> 01:42:49,213 Speaker 3: So David Seymour was driving the you know, the up 2092 01:42:49,253 --> 01:42:51,772 Speaker 3: the steps of Parliament, right, and he's apologized ye for 2093 01:42:51,853 --> 01:42:54,532 Speaker 3: doing that? Ye that, like you know he I don't 2094 01:42:54,532 --> 01:42:56,053 Speaker 3: think he had anything to apologize for. I thought it 2095 01:42:56,053 --> 01:42:58,013 Speaker 3: was cool. That he drove the you know, drove up 2096 01:42:58,053 --> 01:43:01,452 Speaker 3: the steps. But so his apology for that is because 2097 01:43:01,492 --> 01:43:03,772 Speaker 3: he has to he has to apologize to sort of 2098 01:43:03,772 --> 01:43:05,973 Speaker 3: move forward. But in his heart, he's like, I'm not 2099 01:43:05,973 --> 01:43:08,652 Speaker 3: sorry I did that. Why would it be sorry? 2100 01:43:08,732 --> 01:43:13,852 Speaker 19: What would Because it's politically better for him to quell 2101 01:43:13,893 --> 01:43:16,572 Speaker 19: the problem than it is to let it fester and grow. 2102 01:43:16,692 --> 01:43:20,692 Speaker 3: Yea, So his apology is a everyone knows that he 2103 01:43:20,772 --> 01:43:23,213 Speaker 3: doesn't feel sorry about it, including so it's not really 2104 01:43:23,253 --> 01:43:25,133 Speaker 3: a lie in a way because. 2105 01:43:25,213 --> 01:43:26,772 Speaker 5: Because it's a token, because. 2106 01:43:26,612 --> 01:43:30,012 Speaker 3: The speaker knows that he doesn't really he's not really sorry, 2107 01:43:30,253 --> 01:43:34,412 Speaker 3: but he has to say sorry, yeah, to acknowledge that 2108 01:43:34,452 --> 01:43:36,412 Speaker 3: some people are pretending it's a problem and they just 2109 01:43:36,412 --> 01:43:38,013 Speaker 3: want to move on, you know. Yeah. 2110 01:43:38,013 --> 01:43:40,652 Speaker 19: It's like when you watch parliament and you hear a 2111 01:43:40,772 --> 01:43:45,053 Speaker 19: tarrade of abuse to some MP and then the speaker says, 2112 01:43:45,053 --> 01:43:48,532 Speaker 19: you shouldn't say that, apologize. I'm sorry, sir, I'm. 2113 01:43:48,333 --> 01:43:52,093 Speaker 2: Sorry that you got offender. George much. 2114 01:43:52,173 --> 01:43:55,293 Speaker 3: I think it's called double speakers. This Texas has came 2115 01:43:55,333 --> 01:43:57,173 Speaker 3: through right now on it. Yeah, I mean that's an 2116 01:43:57,173 --> 01:43:58,093 Speaker 3: interesting one, isn't it. 2117 01:43:58,933 --> 01:43:59,253 Speaker 15: Yeah? 2118 01:43:59,412 --> 01:44:04,253 Speaker 2: I mean the politician public relationship very different to you 2119 01:44:04,372 --> 01:44:06,972 Speaker 2: and your partner relationship. But I argue where you're coming from. 2120 01:44:07,053 --> 01:44:11,333 Speaker 3: George didn't have sexual relations with that girl. 2121 01:44:11,572 --> 01:44:13,612 Speaker 2: Yeah, how did that work go for it? Oh e 2122 01:44:13,652 --> 01:44:16,093 Speaker 2: one hundred eighty ten eighty is the number to call. 2123 01:44:16,213 --> 01:44:18,053 Speaker 2: It is twenty wonder four. 2124 01:44:19,532 --> 01:44:22,173 Speaker 1: Have a chat with the lads on eight hundred eighty 2125 01:44:22,213 --> 01:44:25,812 Speaker 1: ten eighty Matt and Taylor afternoons with the Volvo XC 2126 01:44:25,893 --> 01:44:30,052 Speaker 1: ninety tick every box a seamless experience awaits news talks. 2127 01:44:30,053 --> 01:44:33,013 Speaker 3: They'd be We're talking about little lies and relationship and 2128 01:44:33,053 --> 01:44:35,692 Speaker 3: little untruths in life, and whether honesty is always the 2129 01:44:35,812 --> 01:44:39,013 Speaker 3: absolute best policy. I believe it probably is, even though 2130 01:44:39,013 --> 01:44:41,732 Speaker 3: I fall short on it quite a lot. This this 2131 01:44:41,893 --> 01:44:45,253 Speaker 3: text actually made me feel a little bit sad. On 2132 01:44:45,333 --> 01:44:47,692 Speaker 3: nineteen nine two. Hey, guys, most days I tell my 2133 01:44:47,772 --> 01:44:50,972 Speaker 3: wife I'm fine, when the reality is I'm not. It's 2134 01:44:51,013 --> 01:44:54,293 Speaker 3: just life. Yeah, I mean sometimes if someone says the 2135 01:44:54,333 --> 01:44:56,932 Speaker 3: UK and you say fine, is that really a liar? 2136 01:44:57,013 --> 01:44:58,973 Speaker 3: Is It's more you don't want to go on to 2137 01:44:59,053 --> 01:45:02,293 Speaker 3: describing exactly the complexities of how you're feeling. You may 2138 01:45:02,333 --> 01:45:05,133 Speaker 3: not feel like you're justified to be feeling down. So 2139 01:45:05,253 --> 01:45:09,012 Speaker 3: sometimes I'm fine, I'm fine just means I'm dealing with it. 2140 01:45:09,013 --> 01:45:12,213 Speaker 3: It's nothing you can help me worth I'm fine, I'll 2141 01:45:12,253 --> 01:45:14,852 Speaker 3: be I'll be okay. But if you said I'll be okay, 2142 01:45:15,293 --> 01:45:16,652 Speaker 3: then I'll be like, how can I help? 2143 01:45:17,253 --> 01:45:17,333 Speaker 5: So? 2144 01:45:17,652 --> 01:45:19,732 Speaker 3: But again, you're brown. Is that a lie to say 2145 01:45:19,732 --> 01:45:21,133 Speaker 3: that I'm fine when you're not. 2146 01:45:21,333 --> 01:45:23,452 Speaker 2: It is a lie. But you're protecting the other person. 2147 01:45:23,893 --> 01:45:25,852 Speaker 2: And I know, I mean a lot of people have asked, 2148 01:45:25,893 --> 01:45:27,972 Speaker 2: you know, we've had this problem with the rental being 2149 01:45:28,013 --> 01:45:31,133 Speaker 2: too hot upstairs, And I know now I'm just punishing 2150 01:45:31,173 --> 01:45:34,093 Speaker 2: people by being honest when they say how's the how's 2151 01:45:34,093 --> 01:45:36,612 Speaker 2: the rental going in Auckland? And before I tell the 2152 01:45:36,612 --> 01:45:38,253 Speaker 2: truth and say, oh, you know, we've we've got some 2153 01:45:38,293 --> 01:45:40,772 Speaker 2: issues with upstairs, and I could just see their eyes 2154 01:45:40,812 --> 01:45:44,012 Speaker 2: gloss over, just like, ah, he's telling me his problems. 2155 01:45:44,013 --> 01:45:45,652 Speaker 2: What am I going to say here? So now I 2156 01:45:45,772 --> 01:45:47,853 Speaker 2: just say it's good, we love it, it's fantastic. 2157 01:45:48,173 --> 01:45:53,092 Speaker 3: Oh you dirty, dirty liar, Jock? 2158 01:45:53,333 --> 01:45:54,452 Speaker 2: How are you have? I said that? 2159 01:45:54,532 --> 01:45:54,732 Speaker 8: Right? 2160 01:45:55,253 --> 01:45:57,492 Speaker 14: Oh? 2161 01:45:57,612 --> 01:45:59,372 Speaker 22: Here there you go? Are you Jim? 2162 01:45:59,572 --> 01:45:59,772 Speaker 2: Yeah? 2163 01:45:59,772 --> 01:46:02,013 Speaker 5: How are you fantastic? 2164 01:46:02,053 --> 01:46:02,572 Speaker 22: Thank you? 2165 01:46:02,572 --> 01:46:02,612 Speaker 5: No? 2166 01:46:02,853 --> 01:46:04,692 Speaker 22: Are you guys are spot on? I think we're all 2167 01:46:04,732 --> 01:46:08,892 Speaker 22: sort of we all say we're okay, Well, tell a 2168 01:46:08,933 --> 01:46:11,293 Speaker 22: lie without knowing it. I personally preferred dealing with the 2169 01:46:11,372 --> 01:46:14,093 Speaker 22: truth because then you know what to deal with. I'll 2170 01:46:14,293 --> 01:46:16,892 Speaker 22: quickly share something with you guys, just as a laugh. 2171 01:46:17,812 --> 01:46:20,492 Speaker 22: Just before we came over about you know, over eight 2172 01:46:20,572 --> 01:46:23,692 Speaker 22: years ago to New Zealand. We obviously had to get 2173 01:46:23,772 --> 01:46:25,812 Speaker 22: rid of animals and you don't want to hurt the 2174 01:46:25,893 --> 01:46:32,133 Speaker 22: kid's feelings. And we had a tortoise and the missus said, no, 2175 01:46:32,293 --> 01:46:35,013 Speaker 22: the torto has been missing while we went looking for 2176 01:46:35,372 --> 01:46:38,173 Speaker 22: this tort is, not knowing that she actually gave it 2177 01:46:38,253 --> 01:46:40,532 Speaker 22: a wait to somebody. But we also had a dog 2178 01:46:40,612 --> 01:46:43,412 Speaker 22: that we picked up. The beautiful little dog in this 2179 01:46:43,532 --> 01:46:46,852 Speaker 22: thing's name was Charlie, and he crawled into her heart. 2180 01:46:47,013 --> 01:46:51,013 Speaker 22: And then obviously time came to immigrate, and she said, no, no, 2181 01:46:51,133 --> 01:46:55,772 Speaker 22: she found the real owner and his real name is Rambow, 2182 01:46:55,933 --> 01:46:58,053 Speaker 22: you know. And I believed it. She only told me 2183 01:46:58,053 --> 01:46:58,732 Speaker 22: the other day. 2184 01:46:58,572 --> 01:46:59,372 Speaker 5: It was a lie. 2185 01:47:00,452 --> 01:47:02,572 Speaker 2: What'd she do with the what happened to Charlie? 2186 01:47:03,572 --> 01:47:08,452 Speaker 22: No, she actually found a breeder and yeah, so on 2187 01:47:08,532 --> 01:47:09,293 Speaker 22: pedigree dog. 2188 01:47:10,893 --> 01:47:14,452 Speaker 3: Has that affected your Has that affected your I don't 2189 01:47:14,452 --> 01:47:18,293 Speaker 3: know belief what she sees across a number of other things. 2190 01:47:19,532 --> 01:47:22,572 Speaker 22: No, I trust her with my life, but I think 2191 01:47:23,053 --> 01:47:25,532 Speaker 22: these things I've been victim as well. And it I'm 2192 01:47:25,612 --> 01:47:28,132 Speaker 22: very passionate about the truth and only the truth, because 2193 01:47:28,612 --> 01:47:31,532 Speaker 22: when I was younger, I was accused of something I 2194 01:47:31,572 --> 01:47:33,772 Speaker 22: didn't do and I actually had to get a fighting 2195 01:47:34,213 --> 01:47:37,692 Speaker 22: those days with a cane and there was blood sedting 2196 01:47:37,692 --> 01:47:40,732 Speaker 22: out of my backside, and it was something I was 2197 01:47:40,732 --> 01:47:42,732 Speaker 22: accused of doing which I didn't do, you know, so, 2198 01:47:43,492 --> 01:47:45,772 Speaker 22: and you know those things that get worse when you 2199 01:47:45,812 --> 01:47:48,932 Speaker 22: as you get older, people get accused of doing things. 2200 01:47:48,933 --> 01:47:51,452 Speaker 22: But I think in a way, we get taught these 2201 01:47:51,452 --> 01:47:53,812 Speaker 22: things when we're young. You know, you get taught about 2202 01:47:53,812 --> 01:47:58,732 Speaker 22: the true theory and center tall, you know that, all 2203 01:47:58,812 --> 01:48:00,972 Speaker 22: those sort of things. But it's yeah, I think it's 2204 01:48:00,973 --> 01:48:04,212 Speaker 22: a fine line. But I think in cases to protect 2205 01:48:04,492 --> 01:48:08,133 Speaker 22: family and kids innocently, you you sort of do tell 2206 01:48:08,492 --> 01:48:10,692 Speaker 22: so innocent laws something like that. 2207 01:48:10,933 --> 01:48:13,652 Speaker 2: Well on the kid question, yeah, on the kid question, Jock, 2208 01:48:13,732 --> 01:48:18,973 Speaker 2: and you mentioned, you know, animals, I can understand if 2209 01:48:19,013 --> 01:48:21,892 Speaker 2: a child is too young, say a child is five 2210 01:48:21,973 --> 01:48:25,133 Speaker 2: or sex and the dog has coming to the end 2211 01:48:25,133 --> 01:48:28,333 Speaker 2: of its life, is that the appropriate time to say, 2212 01:48:28,532 --> 01:48:31,093 Speaker 2: you know, Charlie's got a bit sick and we've got 2213 01:48:31,093 --> 01:48:32,412 Speaker 2: to do the right thing. And I know this is 2214 01:48:32,412 --> 01:48:34,372 Speaker 2: hard to understand and try and explain it to a 2215 01:48:34,412 --> 01:48:36,972 Speaker 2: five year old. Or do you say, Charlie has gone 2216 01:48:37,053 --> 01:48:38,932 Speaker 2: to live on a farm and he's having the time 2217 01:48:38,973 --> 01:48:39,572 Speaker 2: of his life. 2218 01:48:39,732 --> 01:48:41,972 Speaker 3: And yeah, but the problem is at one point then 2219 01:48:42,213 --> 01:48:44,133 Speaker 3: a parent's going to die or someone close to them 2220 01:48:44,213 --> 01:48:47,452 Speaker 3: is going to die. And these pet deaths are a 2221 01:48:47,492 --> 01:48:52,973 Speaker 3: way to introduce the concept of death to kids in 2222 01:48:53,013 --> 01:48:55,892 Speaker 3: an easier way, because there's going to be deaths that 2223 01:48:55,933 --> 01:48:58,333 Speaker 3: come that they there's that you can't cover up. 2224 01:48:58,412 --> 01:48:59,253 Speaker 2: You don't understand that. 2225 01:48:59,452 --> 01:49:03,652 Speaker 22: Yeah, so I think, yep, sorry, you carry up. No, no, 2226 01:49:03,692 --> 01:49:06,532 Speaker 22: you go no, I'm just going to say it's a 2227 01:49:06,572 --> 01:49:10,652 Speaker 22: good point, and it's I think it's you know what 2228 01:49:10,732 --> 01:49:13,012 Speaker 22: the answer is depending on who's in front of you. 2229 01:49:13,013 --> 01:49:15,333 Speaker 22: You know, you've got you can have. We've got three girls, 2230 01:49:15,372 --> 01:49:18,412 Speaker 22: and you you sort of share different things with them 2231 01:49:18,452 --> 01:49:21,732 Speaker 22: because they deal with things differently. Like one of our daughters, 2232 01:49:21,812 --> 01:49:24,452 Speaker 22: I might have to actually say no, it's got out 2233 01:49:24,452 --> 01:49:27,173 Speaker 22: to a farm, whereas the young is one older, say 2234 01:49:27,213 --> 01:49:29,572 Speaker 22: you know, this has happened, and she'll deal with it. 2235 01:49:29,652 --> 01:49:32,652 Speaker 22: And that way it sort of makes her b stronger, 2236 01:49:33,372 --> 01:49:36,572 Speaker 22: but yeah, I don't think it's it's not an eaty 2237 01:49:36,652 --> 01:49:37,772 Speaker 22: one Chi. 2238 01:49:37,933 --> 01:49:40,412 Speaker 3: Thank you so much for your call. This is another 2239 01:49:41,133 --> 01:49:42,812 Speaker 3: very sort of touching text that we got through a 2240 01:49:42,893 --> 01:49:44,532 Speaker 3: nine two nine two. My wife and I are both 2241 01:49:44,652 --> 01:49:47,053 Speaker 3: very ill and often say no, I'm okay when she 2242 01:49:47,173 --> 01:49:49,852 Speaker 3: asks how I'm feeling when I'm actually in a lot 2243 01:49:49,853 --> 01:49:52,093 Speaker 3: of pain, and I know she does the same as 2244 01:49:52,133 --> 01:49:55,612 Speaker 3: we do not want each other worrying too much. That's 2245 01:49:55,652 --> 01:49:59,133 Speaker 3: from from Henry, and I've known people before that have 2246 01:49:59,173 --> 01:50:02,492 Speaker 3: been had cancer diagnosis and not wanted to tell people 2247 01:50:02,572 --> 01:50:05,093 Speaker 3: just because they didn't want to. They just wanted to 2248 01:50:05,093 --> 01:50:07,452 Speaker 3: deal with it and they didn't want to make the 2249 01:50:07,492 --> 01:50:11,372 Speaker 3: other person sad, so they don't share that information and 2250 01:50:11,372 --> 01:50:14,892 Speaker 3: then they're other person in this situation person got very upset, Yeah, 2251 01:50:14,893 --> 01:50:15,892 Speaker 3: because they hadn't been told. 2252 01:50:16,333 --> 01:50:20,012 Speaker 2: But that's tough, what a heavy burden for that person 2253 01:50:20,053 --> 01:50:22,133 Speaker 2: to carry. But I can understand that they wanted to 2254 01:50:22,133 --> 01:50:26,612 Speaker 2: protect their loved ones from information that would cause them 2255 01:50:26,692 --> 01:50:28,012 Speaker 2: a lot of pain, like this text. 2256 01:50:28,053 --> 01:50:30,213 Speaker 3: I lie on a daily I have a chronic health 2257 01:50:30,213 --> 01:50:32,612 Speaker 3: condition and usually have some kind of symptom or pain. 2258 01:50:32,692 --> 01:50:35,013 Speaker 3: But after so many years, people don't want to hear 2259 01:50:35,013 --> 01:50:37,013 Speaker 3: about anymore. It sucks. I'd like to be able to 2260 01:50:37,053 --> 01:50:38,973 Speaker 3: talk to people about it as that it helps me 2261 01:50:39,093 --> 01:50:42,052 Speaker 3: deal with it. But alas, no matter how close the person, 2262 01:50:42,253 --> 01:50:44,372 Speaker 3: they don't really want to hear. Ten years of this 2263 01:50:44,452 --> 01:50:49,293 Speaker 3: kind of thing, you get used to it. Yeah, I mean, yeah, this. 2264 01:50:49,652 --> 01:50:52,973 Speaker 2: Has gone into a tough territory now, Josh. 2265 01:50:53,013 --> 01:50:56,293 Speaker 21: You man, Yeah, hey, boys, how are you doing? 2266 01:50:56,692 --> 01:50:57,412 Speaker 8: You could be honest? 2267 01:50:57,652 --> 01:50:59,892 Speaker 3: Amazing, God, I'm good everything. 2268 01:51:00,013 --> 01:51:06,773 Speaker 2: I'm a little bit hungry if I'm being honest, Josh. 2269 01:51:04,692 --> 01:51:06,772 Speaker 21: I know you're not trying to me. 2270 01:51:07,093 --> 01:51:07,293 Speaker 11: Yeah. 2271 01:51:07,372 --> 01:51:10,572 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm full of crippling the spear actually, and I'm 2272 01:51:10,572 --> 01:51:11,893 Speaker 3: not sure how I'm going to make it through the 2273 01:51:11,933 --> 01:51:12,412 Speaker 3: phone call. 2274 01:51:12,612 --> 01:51:14,293 Speaker 2: He needs something beat you guys. 2275 01:51:14,893 --> 01:51:17,732 Speaker 21: What I what I find funny is see, I'm sort 2276 01:51:17,772 --> 01:51:20,452 Speaker 21: of new back to the dating scene, and you know 2277 01:51:20,492 --> 01:51:23,932 Speaker 21: you've got to evaluate this, like especially you know, if 2278 01:51:23,933 --> 01:51:26,973 Speaker 21: you're in a long term relationship and you've you know, 2279 01:51:27,053 --> 01:51:31,773 Speaker 21: your partner tends to have an attachment style and depending 2280 01:51:31,812 --> 01:51:35,733 Speaker 21: on you know, like she's going to have a relative 2281 01:51:35,853 --> 01:51:40,293 Speaker 21: zone of truth whatever the heck that is, right. See, 2282 01:51:40,293 --> 01:51:42,572 Speaker 21: I live in a world where it's a need to 2283 01:51:42,652 --> 01:51:49,452 Speaker 21: know basis say and disclosure is important. It's like, what 2284 01:51:49,452 --> 01:51:51,973 Speaker 21: are you supposed to do. If someone's asking you a 2285 01:51:52,053 --> 01:51:55,372 Speaker 21: direct question, you can do your best to answer it, 2286 01:51:56,013 --> 01:52:00,253 Speaker 21: but you're not going to come home and shout out, hey, 2287 01:52:00,772 --> 01:52:04,492 Speaker 21: I don't know a bunch of real stuff happened today whatever, 2288 01:52:05,293 --> 01:52:05,972 Speaker 21: You know what I mean. 2289 01:52:06,253 --> 01:52:08,173 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not necessarily lying. 2290 01:52:08,173 --> 01:52:11,852 Speaker 3: You list everything that happened in the day. You know, 2291 01:52:11,973 --> 01:52:13,772 Speaker 3: you could just exactly you. 2292 01:52:13,732 --> 01:52:16,253 Speaker 21: Don't have to tell her. My work mate rolled me 2293 01:52:16,412 --> 01:52:19,173 Speaker 21: up and I am a bit annoyed, and you know, 2294 01:52:19,213 --> 01:52:21,093 Speaker 21: it's like, what does she need to know that for? 2295 01:52:21,213 --> 01:52:24,293 Speaker 21: But and I was thinking too, like you got to 2296 01:52:24,293 --> 01:52:29,012 Speaker 21: see these videos online about body count They asked that question. Yeah, 2297 01:52:29,053 --> 01:52:32,572 Speaker 21: that's a bit of a speed dating question, and I'm like, 2298 01:52:32,933 --> 01:52:36,532 Speaker 21: is that appropriate, like if you like spishally in your 2299 01:52:36,532 --> 01:52:39,253 Speaker 21: beginning to date, Like, is that something you really want 2300 01:52:39,293 --> 01:52:41,133 Speaker 21: to know the answer to that? 2301 01:52:41,692 --> 01:52:43,933 Speaker 3: Are some of the worst kind of entertainment though, on that, 2302 01:52:44,053 --> 01:52:46,492 Speaker 3: YouTubers and tech talkers that just go up to people 2303 01:52:46,492 --> 01:52:49,053 Speaker 3: on the street and ask them questions. And I don't 2304 01:52:49,053 --> 01:52:51,253 Speaker 3: know why anyone would go and talk to them. Lazy, 2305 01:52:51,333 --> 01:52:53,372 Speaker 3: isn't it, But especially when you get people that they 2306 01:52:53,412 --> 01:52:54,973 Speaker 3: go up and hassle people that are drunk coming out 2307 01:52:55,013 --> 01:52:57,293 Speaker 3: of bars, couples and they start talking and then they. 2308 01:52:57,372 --> 01:53:00,613 Speaker 21: So many what's your body what's your body county? 2309 01:53:01,812 --> 01:53:07,692 Speaker 3: That's unfortunately none. I'm yet too, I'm hopeful. So the 2310 01:53:07,853 --> 01:53:09,253 Speaker 3: thing so the thing is. 2311 01:53:09,293 --> 01:53:11,572 Speaker 21: Was like if she really hits up and she's like, 2312 01:53:11,933 --> 01:53:13,492 Speaker 21: you got to tell me how many women are you 2313 01:53:13,532 --> 01:53:14,013 Speaker 21: being with her? 2314 01:53:14,053 --> 01:53:14,372 Speaker 5: Whatever? 2315 01:53:15,093 --> 01:53:18,932 Speaker 21: And and like if you see, oh, jeez, I don't know. Jeez, 2316 01:53:19,093 --> 01:53:19,852 Speaker 21: there's that pad. 2317 01:53:20,692 --> 01:53:22,893 Speaker 2: Yeah, you've got to build THETT though, don't you. 2318 01:53:23,053 --> 01:53:26,053 Speaker 3: That's like, but you gotta ask yourself why if you're 2319 01:53:26,173 --> 01:53:29,293 Speaker 3: in a relationship, why are you asking that question? And 2320 01:53:29,853 --> 01:53:31,732 Speaker 3: maybe you shouldn't ask questions you don't want to know 2321 01:53:31,812 --> 01:53:32,333 Speaker 3: the answer to. 2322 01:53:32,973 --> 01:53:35,213 Speaker 21: If you know what I mean, I'm like, I know 2323 01:53:35,253 --> 01:53:38,333 Speaker 21: you used to work for Kinask magazine. I don't need 2324 01:53:38,333 --> 01:53:42,253 Speaker 21: to know anymore. I don't need to detail. 2325 01:53:43,612 --> 01:53:46,732 Speaker 2: Josh, Thank you very much, mate, Josh, all right, but 2326 01:53:46,812 --> 01:53:48,532 Speaker 2: what do you need to know that as well? You know, 2327 01:53:48,572 --> 01:53:50,532 Speaker 2: what does it matter? What is the body I mean 2328 01:53:50,532 --> 01:53:52,013 Speaker 2: body count such a crest way to put it. 2329 01:53:52,053 --> 01:53:55,932 Speaker 3: But well, I guess there's there's some people that it's 2330 01:53:55,933 --> 01:53:58,812 Speaker 3: a problem for some some dudes. I guess they I 2331 01:53:58,853 --> 01:53:59,173 Speaker 3: don't know. 2332 01:53:59,692 --> 01:54:03,412 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm glad I don't have to date. In today's 2333 01:54:03,412 --> 01:54:05,412 Speaker 2: well the openly question on a on a tender date 2334 01:54:05,532 --> 01:54:06,333 Speaker 2: was your body count? 2335 01:54:06,652 --> 01:54:10,293 Speaker 3: Geez, I think that I think that you're out. You're 2336 01:54:10,333 --> 01:54:11,213 Speaker 3: out the door at that point. 2337 01:54:11,253 --> 01:54:13,173 Speaker 2: All right, Oh, one hundred and eighty ten eighty C. 2338 01:54:13,492 --> 01:54:16,173 Speaker 2: Number to call it is eight to four. You listening 2339 01:54:16,173 --> 01:54:17,173 Speaker 2: to Matton Tyler. 2340 01:54:18,213 --> 01:54:21,692 Speaker 1: The big stories, the big issues, the big trends and 2341 01:54:21,933 --> 01:54:25,532 Speaker 1: everything in between. Matt and Taylor Afternoons with the Volvo 2342 01:54:25,853 --> 01:54:29,052 Speaker 1: XC ninety attention to detail and a commitment to comfort 2343 01:54:29,133 --> 01:54:32,293 Speaker 1: Newstalks ed B News Talks EDB. 2344 01:54:32,973 --> 01:54:35,772 Speaker 3: We've been talking about levels of honesty in your life. 2345 01:54:36,053 --> 01:54:38,333 Speaker 3: Here's text on nineteen nine two. Hey guys, I've just 2346 01:54:38,413 --> 01:54:40,373 Speaker 3: done the coast to coast this weekend, and there was 2347 01:54:40,453 --> 01:54:42,453 Speaker 3: no way I told my wife what the event and 2348 01:54:42,533 --> 01:54:45,253 Speaker 3: gear cost. I just told her I spray painted one 2349 01:54:45,253 --> 01:54:48,373 Speaker 3: of my bikes when she asked if I had bought another. 2350 01:54:48,772 --> 01:54:51,852 Speaker 3: It's not a lie. It's a side step, cheers Nigel. 2351 01:54:51,933 --> 01:54:56,453 Speaker 3: That's a lie, that's all, so, she says. I told 2352 01:54:56,493 --> 01:54:58,373 Speaker 3: her I spray painted one of my bikes, but I'd 2353 01:54:58,373 --> 01:55:00,533 Speaker 3: bought another one. I think that's a straight. 2354 01:55:00,373 --> 01:55:02,812 Speaker 2: Up lie that's going to bite you in the barb Nigel, 2355 01:55:02,893 --> 01:55:05,133 Speaker 2: You're you're a good man, but that's going to come 2356 01:55:05,133 --> 01:55:05,812 Speaker 2: back to haunt you. 2357 01:55:06,253 --> 01:55:08,173 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's a lot of dudes tixting through saying that 2358 01:55:08,173 --> 01:55:09,613 Speaker 3: they do have a problem with body count. 2359 01:55:10,013 --> 01:55:10,253 Speaker 14: Yeah. 2360 01:55:10,333 --> 01:55:15,533 Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, it's a been a fantastic chat, Cameron says Matt. 2361 01:55:15,573 --> 01:55:17,133 Speaker 3: I'm more upset with you that you didn't get me 2362 01:55:17,173 --> 01:55:20,012 Speaker 3: anything from Meccas, some nuggets or a Sunday never. 2363 01:55:19,853 --> 01:55:22,373 Speaker 2: Got a real crime. That's what Tracy should have been 2364 01:55:22,453 --> 01:55:22,972 Speaker 2: upset about. 2365 01:55:23,053 --> 01:55:25,253 Speaker 3: It ought to be fair, Cameron. Yeah, I don't know. 2366 01:55:25,293 --> 01:55:27,213 Speaker 3: You would have been a lot. 2367 01:55:27,533 --> 01:55:29,533 Speaker 2: That was an emotional forty five minutes. That was a 2368 01:55:29,533 --> 01:55:33,013 Speaker 2: good chat. But yeah, So to wrap it all up, 2369 01:55:33,093 --> 01:55:35,453 Speaker 2: I mean, should you have lied about the Meccas or not? 2370 01:55:35,933 --> 01:55:38,573 Speaker 3: Yeah, face up to it, don't lie about it. Just 2371 01:55:38,653 --> 01:55:41,052 Speaker 3: eat the Meccas in the house, or if you're gonna 2372 01:55:41,253 --> 01:55:44,533 Speaker 3: have a diet then just stick to it or admit 2373 01:55:44,573 --> 01:55:47,133 Speaker 3: that you've failed so that they have the full information 2374 01:55:47,253 --> 01:55:49,333 Speaker 3: around what you're doing. So I think honesty is the 2375 01:55:49,333 --> 01:55:52,133 Speaker 3: best policy. Come on, Kiwis, give them a taste of 2376 01:55:52,213 --> 01:55:53,773 Speaker 3: the cold, hard truths. 2377 01:55:53,973 --> 01:56:27,213 Speaker 23: The same you can. 2378 01:56:29,693 --> 01:56:45,253 Speaker 20: Ring No Way. 2379 01:56:54,573 --> 01:56:57,173 Speaker 1: For more from News Talks at b listen live on 2380 01:56:57,333 --> 01:57:00,253 Speaker 1: air or online, and keep our shows with you wherever 2381 01:57:00,333 --> 01:57:02,893 Speaker 1: you go with our podcasts on iHeartRadio