1 00:00:09,093 --> 00:00:12,693 Speaker 1: You're listening to a podcast from News Talks'd be follow 2 00:00:12,773 --> 00:00:17,212 Speaker 1: this and our wide range of podcasts now on iHeartRadio three. 3 00:00:17,332 --> 00:00:17,813 Speaker 2: I think is it? 4 00:00:18,293 --> 00:00:19,053 Speaker 3: One five three? 5 00:00:19,933 --> 00:00:20,133 Speaker 4: Hello? 6 00:00:20,133 --> 00:00:21,493 Speaker 3: Are you great new Zellers And welcome to Matt and 7 00:00:21,533 --> 00:00:23,853 Speaker 3: Tyler Full Show Podcast number one five three for Thursday, 8 00:00:23,933 --> 00:00:26,213 Speaker 3: the twenty sixth of June twenty twenty five. What a 9 00:00:26,253 --> 00:00:31,173 Speaker 3: fantastic show it was today, terrifying Graham chat about nuclear war. Yeah, 10 00:00:31,453 --> 00:00:34,852 Speaker 3: but a surprising amount of people don't think that there 11 00:00:34,893 --> 00:00:38,053 Speaker 3: is a high risk of it, and that kind of 12 00:00:38,853 --> 00:00:41,732 Speaker 3: maybe that's a naive of them, I think so, but 13 00:00:41,812 --> 00:00:43,452 Speaker 3: the fact, but I'm willing to hang my hat on 14 00:00:43,452 --> 00:00:45,693 Speaker 3: that and say, sure, maybe they won't be. Yeah, but 15 00:00:46,412 --> 00:00:49,292 Speaker 3: if there is one in the Northern Hemisphere, by all accounts, 16 00:00:49,293 --> 00:00:49,693 Speaker 3: not great for. 17 00:00:49,772 --> 00:00:53,412 Speaker 2: US, no, but better than other countries. But soon. Yeah, 18 00:00:53,773 --> 00:00:57,093 Speaker 2: it's a year apart from the apart from the fact. 19 00:00:57,093 --> 00:00:58,533 Speaker 2: And you mentioned this during the era, and I'm not 20 00:00:58,533 --> 00:01:01,333 Speaker 2: going to give much away, but there was an element 21 00:01:01,373 --> 00:01:03,292 Speaker 2: you mentioned there that there's not too much we can 22 00:01:03,333 --> 00:01:06,853 Speaker 2: do do about if a nuclear war happens, We're in 23 00:01:06,893 --> 00:01:08,813 Speaker 2: for hell of a time. 24 00:01:09,013 --> 00:01:09,253 Speaker 5: Yeah. 25 00:01:09,773 --> 00:01:14,093 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I'm annoyed because the last chat of the 26 00:01:14,093 --> 00:01:16,253 Speaker 3: show was on hoarders, and there was so many good calls. 27 00:01:16,253 --> 00:01:17,893 Speaker 3: We could have done that for a lot longer. Maybe 28 00:01:17,893 --> 00:01:19,613 Speaker 3: we bring hoarders back at some point as a chat 29 00:01:19,613 --> 00:01:23,253 Speaker 3: because it's a serious issue, and you know, a lot 30 00:01:23,253 --> 00:01:26,293 Speaker 3: of people wanted to share their stories of members of 31 00:01:26,333 --> 00:01:30,493 Speaker 3: their family that are suffering from hoarding, both the hoarders 32 00:01:30,533 --> 00:01:33,613 Speaker 3: and the family members of the hoarders, and of course 33 00:01:33,652 --> 00:01:34,253 Speaker 3: ref abuse. 34 00:01:34,493 --> 00:01:36,053 Speaker 2: Yeah, that was a great chat, A lot of good 35 00:01:36,053 --> 00:01:36,693 Speaker 2: stories there. 36 00:01:36,813 --> 00:01:38,973 Speaker 3: I don't know why. I like people, wait five seconds, 37 00:01:39,013 --> 00:01:40,253 Speaker 3: we'll tell them what we're going to talk about. Well, 38 00:01:40,253 --> 00:01:41,613 Speaker 3: what we need to remember to do is tell people 39 00:01:41,613 --> 00:01:43,092 Speaker 3: what we didn't talk about, what. 40 00:01:43,093 --> 00:01:45,253 Speaker 2: Didn't we talk about. I think we put it all 41 00:01:45,253 --> 00:01:45,693 Speaker 2: on the line. 42 00:01:45,773 --> 00:01:50,413 Speaker 3: A tease, got a very unpopular text from someone, Yes, 43 00:01:50,613 --> 00:01:52,613 Speaker 3: and then I abused the texture and got some abuse 44 00:01:52,653 --> 00:01:54,293 Speaker 3: for abusing the texture. So I think that's something to 45 00:01:54,293 --> 00:01:55,653 Speaker 3: look forward to if you listen to the podcast. 46 00:01:55,733 --> 00:01:59,252 Speaker 2: Yeah, abuse inception right, download, subscribe, give us a review. 47 00:01:59,293 --> 00:02:02,333 Speaker 2: All that good stuff. You're just drinking your man shake there. 48 00:02:03,213 --> 00:02:04,893 Speaker 3: Yeah, it is a bit of man shake. Give the taste. 49 00:02:04,933 --> 00:02:10,053 Speaker 6: Keek love you, big stories, the issues, the big trends, 50 00:02:10,333 --> 00:02:14,493 Speaker 6: and everything in between Matt Heath and Taylor Adams afternoons 51 00:02:14,733 --> 00:02:17,533 Speaker 6: News Talk said, be very. 52 00:02:17,373 --> 00:02:20,653 Speaker 2: Good afternoon to you. Welcome into Thursday's show. Really really 53 00:02:20,653 --> 00:02:23,653 Speaker 2: good to have your company as always. Get a mets 54 00:02:24,653 --> 00:02:25,453 Speaker 2: yead a Tyler. 55 00:02:25,453 --> 00:02:27,733 Speaker 3: Good everyone, thanks for so much for tuning in today. Hey, 56 00:02:27,813 --> 00:02:30,053 Speaker 3: you before you were talking about whether you should let 57 00:02:30,173 --> 00:02:33,653 Speaker 3: a trade into your house, right, Yeah, well you're away, yes, 58 00:02:34,053 --> 00:02:37,653 Speaker 3: and look so many, so many people are tix in 59 00:02:37,853 --> 00:02:40,853 Speaker 3: saying God, I'm a trade just about to jump on 60 00:02:40,853 --> 00:02:42,613 Speaker 3: a roof. But I personally don't have a problem working 61 00:02:42,693 --> 00:02:46,053 Speaker 3: on customer sites when they are not around. I protect 62 00:02:46,093 --> 00:02:48,613 Speaker 3: myself by taking before and after photos of the work, 63 00:02:49,053 --> 00:02:50,933 Speaker 3: and I let them know when I arrive and leave. 64 00:02:51,013 --> 00:02:53,013 Speaker 3: So Tom, there you go. He's running a full target 65 00:02:53,093 --> 00:02:55,132 Speaker 3: operation on himself to make sure you kin't accuse him. 66 00:02:55,173 --> 00:02:57,373 Speaker 2: Yeah, you can trust that trading term, that's for sure. Yeah, 67 00:02:57,373 --> 00:02:59,653 Speaker 2: a lot of people going back to target. It ruins 68 00:02:59,733 --> 00:03:01,253 Speaker 2: the trust of trades as a. 69 00:03:01,252 --> 00:03:03,613 Speaker 3: PARTI it's better when you're not there. The job takes 70 00:03:03,613 --> 00:03:05,653 Speaker 3: longer when you want to talk to us or look 71 00:03:05,693 --> 00:03:08,613 Speaker 3: over our shoulder and see what we're doing. Yeah, it 72 00:03:08,733 --> 00:03:13,093 Speaker 3: was just one person, one person on target, and let's 73 00:03:13,173 --> 00:03:15,733 Speaker 3: admit you needed to do a target on target because 74 00:03:15,733 --> 00:03:17,732 Speaker 3: they were doing really weird things to catch people. 75 00:03:17,493 --> 00:03:18,692 Speaker 2: Out when they they certainly were. 76 00:03:19,093 --> 00:03:21,933 Speaker 3: I talked to someone who was done for they made 77 00:03:21,933 --> 00:03:25,893 Speaker 3: a slight altercation on a water heater that turned that 78 00:03:25,972 --> 00:03:27,653 Speaker 3: no one would never happen and no one would ever 79 00:03:27,653 --> 00:03:29,653 Speaker 3: see in the Slammers person, it. 80 00:03:29,653 --> 00:03:31,893 Speaker 2: Was a messive honey trap sometimes as well, let's be honest. 81 00:03:32,173 --> 00:03:37,213 Speaker 3: Wow, yeah, I mean obviously you don't want people sniffing 82 00:03:37,253 --> 00:03:38,853 Speaker 3: your your undergarments. 83 00:03:38,933 --> 00:03:41,813 Speaker 2: No, no, absolutely, we all remember that, fella and don't 84 00:03:41,853 --> 00:03:43,333 Speaker 2: don't don't do that as a tradio. I think we 85 00:03:43,373 --> 00:03:43,773 Speaker 2: all know that. 86 00:03:43,813 --> 00:03:45,533 Speaker 3: I mean, you can sniff mine if you want, tradies, 87 00:03:45,853 --> 00:03:47,853 Speaker 3: I mean, if the job gets done and the toilet 88 00:03:47,853 --> 00:03:50,333 Speaker 3: gets fixed, and to get that done and get you 89 00:03:50,373 --> 00:03:54,133 Speaker 3: through the door and out an expedient time, then I 90 00:03:54,173 --> 00:03:56,893 Speaker 3: say you go. You're welcome to my boxer shorts. 91 00:03:56,933 --> 00:03:59,733 Speaker 2: That's a hell of an offer. But before we go 92 00:03:59,813 --> 00:04:01,893 Speaker 2: on to our menu, was there something that you wanted 93 00:04:01,933 --> 00:04:04,573 Speaker 2: to to raise about what was going on in your household? 94 00:04:05,253 --> 00:04:07,333 Speaker 3: Look, no, no, I won't bother with that. 95 00:04:07,453 --> 00:04:09,493 Speaker 2: Okay, well that one we'll hold on to that one. 96 00:04:09,493 --> 00:04:10,693 Speaker 3: No, I don't want to talk about that. 97 00:04:10,893 --> 00:04:13,333 Speaker 2: No, No, that's a hell of a tease. 98 00:04:13,373 --> 00:04:15,493 Speaker 3: All ready to share everything in my life. Okay, well 99 00:04:15,533 --> 00:04:16,573 Speaker 3: that was just for you, Tyler. 100 00:04:16,613 --> 00:04:18,933 Speaker 2: We'll consider that one and maybe come back to it, 101 00:04:18,973 --> 00:04:21,493 Speaker 2: or maybe not to today's show. What a tease? After 102 00:04:21,533 --> 00:04:24,693 Speaker 2: three o'clock nineteen complaints were made in one year about 103 00:04:24,693 --> 00:04:27,093 Speaker 2: a home surrounded by hoarded goods before it caught fire 104 00:04:27,373 --> 00:04:31,133 Speaker 2: at the at the weekend. So neighbors to this particular home, 105 00:04:31,173 --> 00:04:33,893 Speaker 2: they say they've been hounding the council for years about 106 00:04:33,893 --> 00:04:36,773 Speaker 2: this particular hoarder, saying it was an accident waiting to happen. 107 00:04:36,813 --> 00:04:38,693 Speaker 2: But we want to take it wider than that. We 108 00:04:38,693 --> 00:04:40,973 Speaker 2: want to talk to you. If you're a hoard yourself. 109 00:04:40,613 --> 00:04:43,253 Speaker 3: Why, yeah, that's right. Do you know a hoarder? Are 110 00:04:43,293 --> 00:04:45,573 Speaker 3: you a hoarder? Were you a hoarder? And if so, 111 00:04:45,613 --> 00:04:47,773 Speaker 3: how did you stop or if you knew a hoarder 112 00:04:47,773 --> 00:04:49,333 Speaker 3: and they've stopped, how did you stop them? Because it 113 00:04:49,333 --> 00:04:53,573 Speaker 3: seems it's very very hard hoarders become almost that they 114 00:04:53,613 --> 00:04:57,133 Speaker 3: become emotionally connected to the objects, and you know, we've 115 00:04:57,133 --> 00:05:00,533 Speaker 3: watched those hoarder shows and it's just very hard. You 116 00:05:00,573 --> 00:05:03,253 Speaker 3: can have the whole family working, working to try and 117 00:05:03,293 --> 00:05:06,413 Speaker 3: help these people, and they just can't remove those newspapers. 118 00:05:06,453 --> 00:05:09,293 Speaker 3: They care about them. I think they of five things warders. 119 00:05:09,333 --> 00:05:11,573 Speaker 3: But I'd like to hear from hoarders and get your 120 00:05:11,613 --> 00:05:15,093 Speaker 3: emotional state and why you keep things when it's making 121 00:05:15,133 --> 00:05:18,173 Speaker 3: your life and your family's life so difficult. I mean, 122 00:05:18,893 --> 00:05:21,773 Speaker 3: you know, what damage have you seen from hoarder personalities 123 00:05:21,853 --> 00:05:26,733 Speaker 3: and for them personally and for their families. It does, 124 00:05:26,973 --> 00:05:31,613 Speaker 3: it can, It can be a terrible, terrible, unhealthy, stressful, 125 00:05:31,773 --> 00:05:35,693 Speaker 3: horrible thing. Hoarding absolutely yeah, and shameful. People get shamed 126 00:05:35,853 --> 00:05:38,133 Speaker 3: that it becomes shameful. And you know, if you've got 127 00:05:38,373 --> 00:05:41,573 Speaker 3: holding parents in a house, then the kids don't want 128 00:05:41,573 --> 00:05:43,733 Speaker 3: to bring their friends around. You know, people don't get 129 00:05:43,773 --> 00:05:46,573 Speaker 3: invited around because they're embarrassed about the state of the house. 130 00:05:47,253 --> 00:05:48,733 Speaker 2: There's a lot of layers to this. If you're a 131 00:05:48,773 --> 00:05:50,533 Speaker 2: hoarder or you've got a hoarder and your family love 132 00:05:50,573 --> 00:05:53,053 Speaker 2: to hear from you. After three o'clock. After two o'clock 133 00:05:53,093 --> 00:05:55,893 Speaker 2: hoar to Fennel a company. Rugby Union chief executive Corey 134 00:05:55,933 --> 00:05:57,733 Speaker 2: can It says he is drawing a line in the 135 00:05:57,733 --> 00:06:01,173 Speaker 2: sand by cannon All, Rugby matches this weekend after referee 136 00:06:01,413 --> 00:06:03,933 Speaker 2: was so seriously abused he had to be escorted to 137 00:06:04,013 --> 00:06:07,493 Speaker 2: his car over safety fairs. This particular rugby club has 138 00:06:07,493 --> 00:06:10,293 Speaker 2: been making a lot of always about referee abuse over 139 00:06:10,293 --> 00:06:12,533 Speaker 2: the past couple of months and this is the line 140 00:06:12,573 --> 00:06:15,453 Speaker 2: they've said, it's gone too far and this particular incident 141 00:06:16,453 --> 00:06:19,453 Speaker 2: was very serious and no more rugby this weekend because 142 00:06:19,453 --> 00:06:19,613 Speaker 2: of that. 143 00:06:19,933 --> 00:06:21,853 Speaker 3: Yeah, so have you seen ref abuses? They are more 144 00:06:21,893 --> 00:06:24,693 Speaker 3: refurbuse than they used to be. Do parents need to 145 00:06:24,693 --> 00:06:27,853 Speaker 3: step up and look if there's a reverse ref abuse? 146 00:06:28,173 --> 00:06:31,093 Speaker 3: Should this just be the standard that you know? It's 147 00:06:31,253 --> 00:06:33,973 Speaker 3: a blanket punishment. So is that the only way to 148 00:06:33,973 --> 00:06:38,773 Speaker 3: stop it? All the rugby stops and following weekend is 149 00:06:38,773 --> 00:06:39,493 Speaker 3: that what needs to. 150 00:06:39,453 --> 00:06:41,653 Speaker 2: Happen sends a message, that's for sure. That is after 151 00:06:41,653 --> 00:06:43,573 Speaker 2: two o'clock. But keen on your stories and what you 152 00:06:43,693 --> 00:06:46,733 Speaker 2: see on the sidelines of rugby fields and sport fields 153 00:06:46,773 --> 00:06:49,373 Speaker 2: across the country after two o'clock. But right now, let's 154 00:06:49,413 --> 00:06:51,613 Speaker 2: have a look at this report. So it looked at 155 00:06:51,853 --> 00:06:54,533 Speaker 2: how New Zealand would be impacted by five hundred nuclear 156 00:06:54,573 --> 00:06:58,253 Speaker 2: bombs being detonated in the Northern Hemisphere in twenty twenty five. 157 00:06:58,613 --> 00:07:01,733 Speaker 2: As you can imagine, the findings were pretty terrifying, so 158 00:07:01,773 --> 00:07:05,373 Speaker 2: there would be deaths, illnesses, issues with fuel, and many 159 00:07:05,413 --> 00:07:08,013 Speaker 2: other things. There are recommendations in the report about what 160 00:07:08,013 --> 00:07:10,493 Speaker 2: we can do to strengthen our resilience in a world 161 00:07:10,573 --> 00:07:14,413 Speaker 2: that does feel more predictable right now. But the question 162 00:07:14,453 --> 00:07:15,973 Speaker 2: we want to put to you right now was, if 163 00:07:16,013 --> 00:07:19,373 Speaker 2: you do think that that scenario is a real possibility, 164 00:07:19,493 --> 00:07:21,853 Speaker 2: do we need to be more to be do more 165 00:07:21,893 --> 00:07:23,413 Speaker 2: to be self sufficient in New Zealand? 166 00:07:23,693 --> 00:07:23,893 Speaker 5: Yeah? 167 00:07:24,053 --> 00:07:27,613 Speaker 3: So do you think that nuclear conflict is likely? Does 168 00:07:27,613 --> 00:07:31,893 Speaker 3: our government think that it's likely a nuclear conflict? If so, 169 00:07:32,173 --> 00:07:35,013 Speaker 3: should New Zealand, as you say, Tyler, be doing more 170 00:07:35,053 --> 00:07:37,173 Speaker 3: to prepare for one? Are we prepared at all? We 171 00:07:37,373 --> 00:07:39,493 Speaker 3: import so much? You know, what do you think of 172 00:07:39,533 --> 00:07:41,333 Speaker 3: the main risks for New Zealand? What do you think 173 00:07:41,373 --> 00:07:45,413 Speaker 3: that we should stockpile or sort out or strengthen to 174 00:07:45,813 --> 00:07:51,133 Speaker 3: face a Northern hemisphere nuclear apocalypse? Yeah, the want of 175 00:07:51,693 --> 00:07:55,693 Speaker 3: a better world that's unlikely to be missiles focused towards 176 00:07:55,773 --> 00:07:58,093 Speaker 3: US or targeting US. I don't think anyone would bother. 177 00:07:58,653 --> 00:08:02,173 Speaker 3: But that's not where the pain stops. And look, you 178 00:08:02,213 --> 00:08:04,373 Speaker 3: know people that grew up in the eighties and nineties 179 00:08:04,413 --> 00:08:07,733 Speaker 3: sort have seen those shows like The Day After Tomorrow, Yes, 180 00:08:08,413 --> 00:08:13,093 Speaker 3: red Cheepers and you know the talks of nuclear winters. 181 00:08:13,933 --> 00:08:16,853 Speaker 3: But is it a real possibility they have that doom 182 00:08:16,893 --> 00:08:19,693 Speaker 3: to stay clock that keeps moving closer and closer to midnight, 183 00:08:19,733 --> 00:08:22,333 Speaker 3: but they can't get in any closer. Really, they've sort 184 00:08:22,333 --> 00:08:24,213 Speaker 3: of got a ride from there and back by being 185 00:08:24,253 --> 00:08:26,533 Speaker 3: just sticking so close to midnight. Yeah. 186 00:08:26,613 --> 00:08:29,533 Speaker 2: Yeah, I eight hundred eighty ten eighty. Really keen to 187 00:08:29,533 --> 00:08:31,853 Speaker 2: get your thoughts on this. There's clear, it's clear we've 188 00:08:31,853 --> 00:08:34,693 Speaker 2: got some advantages here in New Zealand. But what should 189 00:08:34,773 --> 00:08:38,453 Speaker 2: we be looking at and making ourselves more resilient going forward? 190 00:08:38,493 --> 00:08:41,453 Speaker 2: I eight hundred eighty ten eighty. I mean there's plenty there. 191 00:08:41,693 --> 00:08:43,852 Speaker 3: Or do you think it's just hype and that that 192 00:08:43,892 --> 00:08:47,653 Speaker 3: we're less like a nuclear a nuclear conflict is just 193 00:08:47,693 --> 00:08:50,893 Speaker 3: not very likely at all and it's just news organizations 194 00:08:50,933 --> 00:08:54,653 Speaker 3: trying to scare you into clicking on their stories. 195 00:08:54,773 --> 00:08:57,253 Speaker 2: Yeah, I eight one hundred eighty ten eighty. Do you 196 00:08:57,293 --> 00:08:59,732 Speaker 2: think this is a possibility? Are you doing anything in 197 00:08:59,773 --> 00:09:02,532 Speaker 2: your life to make yourselves more resilient? And what you 198 00:09:02,612 --> 00:09:06,733 Speaker 2: want to do? Anything? And your life to make yourself 199 00:09:06,732 --> 00:09:10,693 Speaker 2: more resilient, and should our government and us where and 200 00:09:10,773 --> 00:09:12,933 Speaker 2: what areas should we be looking at to make ourselves 201 00:09:13,012 --> 00:09:14,653 Speaker 2: more resilient? Really keen to get your thoughts. 202 00:09:14,653 --> 00:09:16,652 Speaker 3: There will be a full nuclear strike on the z 203 00:09:16,813 --> 00:09:20,093 Speaker 3: BE studio if you keep saying anythink instead of anything. 204 00:09:20,252 --> 00:09:24,333 Speaker 2: The text machines just lit up, absolutely furious again, So apologies, 205 00:09:24,372 --> 00:09:26,492 Speaker 2: but it's going to keep happening in forty past one. 206 00:09:27,413 --> 00:09:30,813 Speaker 1: The big stories, the big issues, the big trends and 207 00:09:31,132 --> 00:09:35,693 Speaker 1: everything in between. Matt Heath and Tyler Adams afternoons used talks, it'd. 208 00:09:35,492 --> 00:09:39,053 Speaker 2: Be sixteen past one. So we're talking about a report 209 00:09:39,093 --> 00:09:41,373 Speaker 2: that looked at how New Zealand would be impacted by 210 00:09:41,413 --> 00:09:45,013 Speaker 2: five hundred nuclear bombs being denonated in the Northern Hemisphere 211 00:09:45,053 --> 00:09:47,252 Speaker 2: in twenty twenty five. As you can imagine, the findings 212 00:09:47,773 --> 00:09:50,333 Speaker 2: pretty grim, but there are recommendations in the report about 213 00:09:50,372 --> 00:09:52,213 Speaker 2: what we can do to strengthen our resilience in a 214 00:09:52,213 --> 00:09:55,532 Speaker 2: world that does feel more unpredictable right now. So the 215 00:09:55,612 --> 00:09:57,293 Speaker 2: questions we've got for you as do you think it 216 00:09:57,333 --> 00:09:59,213 Speaker 2: is a real possibility, and if yes, what do we 217 00:09:59,252 --> 00:10:01,373 Speaker 2: need to do to be more self sufficient? And what 218 00:10:01,413 --> 00:10:04,292 Speaker 2: are our main risks in your eyes? Our eight hundred 219 00:10:04,413 --> 00:10:07,693 Speaker 2: eighty ten eighty is the number to call now, I 220 00:10:07,732 --> 00:10:10,053 Speaker 2: just want to pull the text up. Where is it, Jake? 221 00:10:10,093 --> 00:10:12,933 Speaker 2: And now Tyler has to learn to say the word nuclear. 222 00:10:13,333 --> 00:10:14,252 Speaker 3: That is what I'm saying. 223 00:10:14,533 --> 00:10:18,612 Speaker 2: I'm not saying nuclear. I'm saying new clear nuclear. It's 224 00:10:18,612 --> 00:10:20,612 Speaker 2: like it's not a relation of drat killer. 225 00:10:20,773 --> 00:10:22,693 Speaker 3: No, I am not saying nuclear. 226 00:10:22,813 --> 00:10:25,413 Speaker 2: They always come through, I reckon, these are your family 227 00:10:25,413 --> 00:10:27,373 Speaker 2: members and your mates who are texting this through now, 228 00:10:27,413 --> 00:10:28,612 Speaker 2: just to give me a hard time. 229 00:10:30,653 --> 00:10:34,453 Speaker 3: Not setting my family new clear, new clear. 230 00:10:35,093 --> 00:10:38,973 Speaker 2: But we're getting some great tics coming through this. One 231 00:10:39,012 --> 00:10:41,773 Speaker 2: says guys. If there was a nuclear war in the 232 00:10:41,813 --> 00:10:44,892 Speaker 2: northern hemisphere, New Zealand should just turn off the lights 233 00:10:44,892 --> 00:10:48,213 Speaker 2: and pretend we all left defeat. 234 00:10:48,213 --> 00:10:51,412 Speaker 3: Defeata Throb, Well, that's one of the things to worry about, 235 00:10:51,453 --> 00:10:54,733 Speaker 3: and that you know, you may survive the nuclear war. 236 00:10:55,653 --> 00:10:57,973 Speaker 3: Maybe we stop pile enough, Maybe we work out a 237 00:10:58,012 --> 00:11:01,612 Speaker 3: way to run our you know, our energy supplies through 238 00:11:01,653 --> 00:11:03,573 Speaker 3: hydro it no, it doesn't sound very likely. Maybe we 239 00:11:03,573 --> 00:11:05,893 Speaker 3: could keep our agriculture going. But then what do we 240 00:11:05,973 --> 00:11:10,132 Speaker 3: do about the cruise ships full of refugees that turn up, 241 00:11:10,252 --> 00:11:15,372 Speaker 3: or you know, refugees from from different militaries just turning up. 242 00:11:15,732 --> 00:11:19,613 Speaker 3: You know, could we even defend ourselves? Say, if someone's 243 00:11:19,653 --> 00:11:22,813 Speaker 3: country has been completely smashed up by nuclear weapons and 244 00:11:22,852 --> 00:11:25,132 Speaker 3: they happen to be out at sea. 245 00:11:24,453 --> 00:11:26,973 Speaker 2: Ye hey, hey, ellen's a good spot. 246 00:11:27,012 --> 00:11:29,412 Speaker 3: Should should we all go to New Zealand and start again? 247 00:11:29,533 --> 00:11:30,933 Speaker 3: And then a very good point? And you get a 248 00:11:30,933 --> 00:11:33,573 Speaker 3: couple of different navies turning up on our shores, and 249 00:11:33,653 --> 00:11:34,373 Speaker 3: what do we do about that? 250 00:11:34,372 --> 00:11:36,453 Speaker 2: One hundred percent? Oh, one hundred and eighteen eighty is 251 00:11:36,453 --> 00:11:38,773 Speaker 2: the number to call James. You're skeptical that in nuclear 252 00:11:38,773 --> 00:11:39,533 Speaker 2: war would ever happen? 253 00:11:41,852 --> 00:11:46,573 Speaker 7: Yes, I am, Yes, I think that nuclear bombs have 254 00:11:46,653 --> 00:11:53,013 Speaker 7: always been as deterrent and I think, ye know, they'll 255 00:11:53,053 --> 00:12:02,013 Speaker 7: stay that way. The responsibility of the person who who 256 00:12:02,372 --> 00:12:07,573 Speaker 7: is tasked with pushing the button is just too huge. 257 00:12:08,173 --> 00:12:12,693 Speaker 7: I can't think anyone other than a complete madman would 258 00:12:13,012 --> 00:12:14,093 Speaker 7: seriously consider it. 259 00:12:14,293 --> 00:12:16,893 Speaker 3: What about I mean, but that's the thing. There could 260 00:12:16,933 --> 00:12:19,933 Speaker 3: be a complete mad person. What about people with extreme 261 00:12:20,213 --> 00:12:26,253 Speaker 3: religious beliefs, extreme religious doctrine, doctrines that believe that, say, 262 00:12:26,333 --> 00:12:29,372 Speaker 3: for example, for a profit to appear, I'm just making 263 00:12:29,372 --> 00:12:34,093 Speaker 3: this up, just spitballing you need to annihilate another country. 264 00:12:36,333 --> 00:12:41,533 Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, fair enough if he was the sole person responsible. 265 00:12:42,173 --> 00:12:46,732 Speaker 7: But surely these leaders, regardless of who they are, have 266 00:12:47,333 --> 00:12:51,413 Speaker 7: other people around them who they consult with and who 267 00:12:51,492 --> 00:12:55,973 Speaker 7: advise them. So that means that all of those people 268 00:12:56,053 --> 00:12:58,412 Speaker 7: who around them are also complete madmen. 269 00:12:58,973 --> 00:13:04,173 Speaker 3: So Russia has made veiled nuclear threats during the Ukraine War. 270 00:13:04,293 --> 00:13:07,693 Speaker 3: Do you think that that is just rattling sabers? You 271 00:13:07,693 --> 00:13:10,013 Speaker 3: don't think there's that they would ever? They would ever 272 00:13:10,132 --> 00:13:13,173 Speaker 3: if push came to the shove, you know, new parts 273 00:13:13,213 --> 00:13:14,453 Speaker 3: of Europe. 274 00:13:17,573 --> 00:13:20,733 Speaker 7: No, I don't think so. I think Putin is a 275 00:13:20,773 --> 00:13:23,053 Speaker 7: lot smarter than anyone gives them credit for. 276 00:13:25,012 --> 00:13:28,693 Speaker 8: And yeah, he he would he. 277 00:13:28,933 --> 00:13:31,613 Speaker 7: I think he probably loves Russia too much to do that, 278 00:13:31,732 --> 00:13:37,213 Speaker 7: because he would just unleash, you know, the inferno on 279 00:13:37,252 --> 00:13:38,613 Speaker 7: his own country by doing that. 280 00:13:39,213 --> 00:13:42,612 Speaker 2: So, putting your skepticism of that scenario aside, James, you 281 00:13:42,933 --> 00:13:46,093 Speaker 2: clearly must recognize that while we have in our advantages 282 00:13:46,132 --> 00:13:48,852 Speaker 2: in an unpredictable world where we fall down short on 283 00:13:49,213 --> 00:13:52,613 Speaker 2: some areas, is there you know something that we do 284 00:13:52,653 --> 00:13:55,093 Speaker 2: in New Zealand that we should be stockpiling or doing 285 00:13:55,173 --> 00:13:58,453 Speaker 2: better to protect ourselves in the event of of a 286 00:13:58,453 --> 00:13:59,253 Speaker 2: scenario like this. 287 00:14:00,293 --> 00:14:03,372 Speaker 7: No, I think the opposite. I think we spend too 288 00:14:03,413 --> 00:14:06,893 Speaker 7: much money on defense as it is, and Judith Collins 289 00:14:06,892 --> 00:14:08,293 Speaker 7: saying that we need to go up to two percent 290 00:14:08,372 --> 00:14:10,732 Speaker 7: into our GDP is just ridiculous. 291 00:14:12,333 --> 00:14:15,292 Speaker 3: So you think what percentage chants do you think? Do 292 00:14:15,372 --> 00:14:19,573 Speaker 3: you think there's absolutely no chance of a nuclear conflict 293 00:14:19,973 --> 00:14:22,333 Speaker 3: like has been described here with five hundred nuclear bombs 294 00:14:22,373 --> 00:14:25,933 Speaker 3: and a hypothetical twenty twenty five situation, you think you get. 295 00:14:25,853 --> 00:14:28,413 Speaker 7: The five hundred numbers from by the way, that's just bizarre. 296 00:14:28,693 --> 00:14:30,693 Speaker 3: Well, no, that's just that's this is this is the 297 00:14:30,773 --> 00:14:35,213 Speaker 3: example from the study. So so it's just an example, right. 298 00:14:35,213 --> 00:14:35,973 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a scenario. 299 00:14:36,053 --> 00:14:39,173 Speaker 3: It's Anario scenario that they've come up with. So yeah, 300 00:14:39,493 --> 00:14:42,253 Speaker 3: whatever it is. So and the and then they're from 301 00:14:42,333 --> 00:14:44,373 Speaker 3: five hundred nuclear bombs have worked out the effects on 302 00:14:44,533 --> 00:14:46,333 Speaker 3: on on New Zealand. So I guess they have to 303 00:14:46,373 --> 00:14:49,052 Speaker 3: have a number and they've got their calculation. But it's 304 00:14:49,173 --> 00:14:52,213 Speaker 3: it's a it's a higher than zero percented chants, would 305 00:14:52,253 --> 00:14:52,973 Speaker 3: you agree, James? 306 00:14:55,933 --> 00:14:58,973 Speaker 7: For New Zealand you mean or for Hesphere? 307 00:14:59,053 --> 00:15:01,093 Speaker 3: Well, this is a this is an example of five 308 00:15:01,213 --> 00:15:05,052 Speaker 3: hundred nuclear bombs in a northern hemisphere conflict, so you 309 00:15:05,133 --> 00:15:07,213 Speaker 3: know nothing, and the and the effect would have on 310 00:15:07,613 --> 00:15:10,173 Speaker 3: New Zealand in terms of our isolation in the world. 311 00:15:11,333 --> 00:15:15,213 Speaker 7: Historically, if you look at World War Two and then 312 00:15:15,293 --> 00:15:18,373 Speaker 7: nuclear bombs there, it stopped it too, didn't it. Obviously 313 00:15:18,493 --> 00:15:23,573 Speaker 7: there's a whole lot more now worldwide. But I think 314 00:15:24,333 --> 00:15:29,413 Speaker 7: when people see the effect of a nuclear a nuclear bomb, 315 00:15:29,533 --> 00:15:33,253 Speaker 7: especially the ones I have now, which would like x 316 00:15:33,373 --> 00:15:35,493 Speaker 7: to the power of one hundred times stronger than that 317 00:15:35,853 --> 00:15:38,973 Speaker 7: to be in World War Two, when people see the 318 00:15:39,013 --> 00:15:44,292 Speaker 7: effect that has of of that happening, you know that. 319 00:15:45,373 --> 00:15:48,813 Speaker 7: I think that that the chances of any more than 320 00:15:48,933 --> 00:15:53,373 Speaker 7: maybe one one way and one the other way, that'd 321 00:15:53,413 --> 00:15:53,813 Speaker 7: be about it. 322 00:15:54,253 --> 00:16:02,013 Speaker 3: Well, what about you know, mistakes, miscalculations, you know, accidents. 323 00:16:03,853 --> 00:16:06,093 Speaker 7: Yeah, well you can never discount that. 324 00:16:06,533 --> 00:16:08,172 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I mean that there's a there's a 325 00:16:08,413 --> 00:16:11,493 Speaker 3: chance that you just have an absolutely insane person who 326 00:16:11,573 --> 00:16:13,573 Speaker 3: doesn't know what's going on, that's working in a bunker, 327 00:16:13,653 --> 00:16:16,893 Speaker 3: fires one off, you know, before anyone can say that 328 00:16:17,013 --> 00:16:21,333 Speaker 3: that was just a mistake and apologize and then everything's 329 00:16:21,373 --> 00:16:26,213 Speaker 3: gone off. I mean, that seems like a possibility James. 330 00:16:26,813 --> 00:16:29,373 Speaker 7: There have to be safeguards in place. I mean, you know, 331 00:16:29,493 --> 00:16:33,413 Speaker 7: you have the what is it two levels of authentication 332 00:16:33,653 --> 00:16:35,973 Speaker 7: these days for just being able to get in your 333 00:16:35,973 --> 00:16:38,733 Speaker 7: own bank account. Now, I think they'd probably have a 334 00:16:38,853 --> 00:16:42,493 Speaker 7: few more levels than that for the finger on the 335 00:16:42,533 --> 00:16:43,013 Speaker 7: red button. 336 00:16:43,333 --> 00:16:45,292 Speaker 3: I think if you call James, yeah, I mean I 337 00:16:45,373 --> 00:16:48,733 Speaker 3: find it comforting. I mean I wish I could live 338 00:16:48,773 --> 00:16:51,093 Speaker 3: in a world that James lives and where you don't 339 00:16:51,173 --> 00:16:53,613 Speaker 3: think that's a serious concern. 340 00:16:53,893 --> 00:16:54,093 Speaker 2: Yeah. 341 00:16:54,213 --> 00:16:56,493 Speaker 3: I don't live in that world. I live in the 342 00:16:56,533 --> 00:16:59,013 Speaker 3: world where I look at what's happening between India and Pakistan, 343 00:16:59,653 --> 00:17:01,973 Speaker 3: and you've got two nuclear powers that are right beside 344 00:17:02,013 --> 00:17:04,653 Speaker 3: each other, that hate each other. You've got the China 345 00:17:04,853 --> 00:17:08,813 Speaker 3: Taiwan situation, you know, the whole NATO, the Russias situation 346 00:17:09,013 --> 00:17:12,013 Speaker 3: before you get into Iran in Israel. 347 00:17:12,173 --> 00:17:16,013 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a very very unpredictable world. And I envy 348 00:17:16,133 --> 00:17:19,453 Speaker 2: james skepticism. But when you talk about these black Swan events, 349 00:17:19,533 --> 00:17:24,133 Speaker 2: that the unpredictable events that carry significant impact, that feels 350 00:17:24,253 --> 00:17:26,173 Speaker 2: like that's the world we're in at the moment, that 351 00:17:27,213 --> 00:17:30,053 Speaker 2: you don't know who could get a hold of some 352 00:17:30,173 --> 00:17:33,093 Speaker 2: of these weapons. Sometimes what we've seen in Iran at 353 00:17:33,093 --> 00:17:36,613 Speaker 2: the moment, and that idea that it might not be 354 00:17:36,733 --> 00:17:39,893 Speaker 2: who you think it is that sets off these chain 355 00:17:39,973 --> 00:17:43,213 Speaker 2: of events. That's the Black Swan event. And to you know, 356 00:17:43,373 --> 00:17:45,973 Speaker 2: to prepare for something like that me is. 357 00:17:45,973 --> 00:17:48,533 Speaker 3: Not a silly idea, Yeah, exactly, because we need to 358 00:17:48,573 --> 00:17:50,493 Speaker 3: prepare for potential catastrophes. 359 00:17:50,973 --> 00:17:51,093 Speaker 7: Right. 360 00:17:51,213 --> 00:17:53,253 Speaker 3: Earthquakes seem to happen in New Zealand quite a lot, 361 00:17:53,453 --> 00:17:54,973 Speaker 3: so it makes sense to prepare for them. So I 362 00:17:55,053 --> 00:17:59,333 Speaker 3: guess it's a you're deciding what percentage of resources to 363 00:17:59,453 --> 00:18:03,293 Speaker 3: what likelihood of this catastrophe fee happening, and what actually 364 00:18:03,293 --> 00:18:05,453 Speaker 3: effects and damages that would do to New Zealand if 365 00:18:05,493 --> 00:18:08,733 Speaker 3: it did. You've got asteroids that can potentially hit the Earth, 366 00:18:08,973 --> 00:18:11,853 Speaker 3: you know, yep, that's something, but we think that's less likely, 367 00:18:11,933 --> 00:18:14,813 Speaker 3: so maybe we don't. Would I would personally think that 368 00:18:16,653 --> 00:18:22,013 Speaker 3: a five hundred bomb Northern Hemisphere nuclear conflict is more 369 00:18:22,133 --> 00:18:23,573 Speaker 3: likely than us getting hit by an astroid. 370 00:18:23,653 --> 00:18:25,693 Speaker 2: I would agree with that. Yeah, oh on one hundred 371 00:18:25,693 --> 00:18:28,173 Speaker 2: and eighty ten eighty. Love to get your thoughts though, what, 372 00:18:28,373 --> 00:18:31,053 Speaker 2: if anything, should we be doing better to make ourselves 373 00:18:31,093 --> 00:18:33,373 Speaker 2: more resilient in the event of one of these scenarios. 374 00:18:33,533 --> 00:18:34,773 Speaker 2: It is twenty five past. 375 00:18:34,573 --> 00:18:38,933 Speaker 1: One, putting the tough questions to the newspeakers. The mic 376 00:18:39,013 --> 00:18:40,093 Speaker 1: asking breakfast, So. 377 00:18:40,133 --> 00:18:40,693 Speaker 3: Here we go again. 378 00:18:40,773 --> 00:18:43,613 Speaker 9: The Finance Minister's written smalling another letter to the supermarket's 379 00:18:43,653 --> 00:18:45,733 Speaker 9: food stuffs has played guilty as I'm sure you're aware 380 00:18:45,773 --> 00:18:47,973 Speaker 9: of a couple of breaches of an accurate pricing wilverthsus 381 00:18:48,013 --> 00:18:50,173 Speaker 9: facing apparently similar charges Nicola Willis as. 382 00:18:50,133 --> 00:18:53,013 Speaker 3: Well as are you the Finance minister who cried wolf. 383 00:18:53,013 --> 00:18:56,532 Speaker 10: No, I have the same basic expectation that every key 384 00:18:56,733 --> 00:18:59,813 Speaker 10: shopper has, which is some pretty basic things you have 385 00:18:59,853 --> 00:19:01,733 Speaker 10: to do under the law as a retailer. One is 386 00:19:01,973 --> 00:19:04,053 Speaker 10: make sure that the prices that you say on the 387 00:19:04,093 --> 00:19:06,293 Speaker 10: shelf are the prices that pay at the till. And 388 00:19:06,373 --> 00:19:09,173 Speaker 10: the fact that they are pleading guilty are not meeting 389 00:19:09,293 --> 00:19:12,133 Speaker 10: there's pricing obligations. To me, just isn't good enough and 390 00:19:12,173 --> 00:19:13,213 Speaker 10: I shouldn't have to point it out. 391 00:19:13,293 --> 00:19:16,653 Speaker 9: Make back Monday from six am, the mic asking breakfast 392 00:19:16,813 --> 00:19:18,733 Speaker 9: with a Vida News talk za'd be. 393 00:19:19,933 --> 00:19:21,813 Speaker 2: Very good afternoon. So we're talking about a report that 394 00:19:22,013 --> 00:19:24,453 Speaker 2: looked into what would happen to New Zealand in the 395 00:19:24,573 --> 00:19:27,493 Speaker 2: event of five hundred nuclear bombs being detonated in the 396 00:19:27,533 --> 00:19:30,733 Speaker 2: northern hemisphere, so it painted a pretty grim picture. As 397 00:19:30,773 --> 00:19:33,052 Speaker 2: you can imagine. It was expected to cost the country 398 00:19:33,093 --> 00:19:35,933 Speaker 2: around one trillion dollars. There were many recommendations in this 399 00:19:36,093 --> 00:19:38,733 Speaker 2: report about what we can or could do to strengthen 400 00:19:38,813 --> 00:19:41,292 Speaker 2: our resilience in a world that does feel a lot 401 00:19:41,333 --> 00:19:43,973 Speaker 2: more unpredictable these days. But what are the main risks 402 00:19:44,013 --> 00:19:45,693 Speaker 2: for New Zealand in your eyes? Oh one hundred and 403 00:19:45,693 --> 00:19:48,173 Speaker 2: eighteen eighty duncan, welcome to show your thoughts. 404 00:19:50,493 --> 00:19:54,213 Speaker 11: With five hundred bombs going off, how far south will 405 00:19:54,213 --> 00:19:55,653 Speaker 11: the electromagnetic pulse reach? 406 00:19:56,733 --> 00:19:56,933 Speaker 7: Wow? 407 00:19:57,013 --> 00:19:57,453 Speaker 3: Yeah, miss. 408 00:19:58,053 --> 00:20:02,453 Speaker 11: This country is based on electronics Cviillian Great electronics are 409 00:20:02,493 --> 00:20:08,933 Speaker 11: particularly vulnerable to electromagnetic pulse. And once people and get food, 410 00:20:09,053 --> 00:20:11,293 Speaker 11: well want the machinery to bring the food. 411 00:20:11,093 --> 00:20:12,093 Speaker 12: To the people's. 412 00:20:13,893 --> 00:20:14,253 Speaker 7: Failed. 413 00:20:15,013 --> 00:20:19,853 Speaker 11: We're going to have mass starvation. We're going to lose 414 00:20:19,893 --> 00:20:23,013 Speaker 11: our water, We're going to lose our sewerage. Everything we 415 00:20:23,093 --> 00:20:29,013 Speaker 11: take for granted gone zero. Notice there's another thing. If 416 00:20:29,013 --> 00:20:33,453 Speaker 11: anyone's curious about electromagnetic pulse pulses and their effects, have 417 00:20:33,573 --> 00:20:37,573 Speaker 11: we looked at an author called force Chin. He's got 418 00:20:37,613 --> 00:20:43,093 Speaker 11: a book One second after one month later and one 419 00:20:43,173 --> 00:20:43,813 Speaker 11: year later. 420 00:20:44,493 --> 00:20:46,213 Speaker 3: You can you can just before, just before we go on, 421 00:20:46,293 --> 00:20:49,613 Speaker 3: can you explain what you mean by the electromagnetic pulse. 422 00:20:50,853 --> 00:20:55,053 Speaker 11: The electro magnetic pulse fries electronics and kill them dead. 423 00:20:55,973 --> 00:20:58,813 Speaker 11: So anything that's got an electronic controller in it, which 424 00:20:58,893 --> 00:21:00,773 Speaker 11: is practically everything these days. 425 00:21:01,373 --> 00:21:01,493 Speaker 10: Is that? 426 00:21:01,653 --> 00:21:03,453 Speaker 3: Is that why when you see in those you know, 427 00:21:03,573 --> 00:21:07,373 Speaker 3: and war movies, not you know, nuclear apocalyptic movies, people 428 00:21:07,453 --> 00:21:09,253 Speaker 3: jump in their car. In their car just won't go. 429 00:21:10,933 --> 00:21:15,933 Speaker 11: Yes, if you have a pacemaker and electromagnetic pulse hits 430 00:21:16,413 --> 00:21:21,693 Speaker 11: you drop dead. Your pacemaker regulates the electrical impulses in 431 00:21:21,733 --> 00:21:25,213 Speaker 11: your heart and your natural one has failed, so they 432 00:21:25,253 --> 00:21:27,813 Speaker 11: add an electronic one. The electronics are fried by the 433 00:21:27,813 --> 00:21:28,933 Speaker 11: electromagnetic pulse. 434 00:21:29,293 --> 00:21:30,013 Speaker 7: Bang, you're dead. 435 00:21:30,853 --> 00:21:34,893 Speaker 11: Your hearing aids same thing, so does. 436 00:21:34,813 --> 00:21:37,973 Speaker 3: That electric pulse. You know, so you've got five hundred 437 00:21:37,973 --> 00:21:41,133 Speaker 3: bombs they go off, they're all firing off. This electromagnetic pulse. 438 00:21:41,453 --> 00:21:44,413 Speaker 3: Does that rock through and might blow out a few things. 439 00:21:44,533 --> 00:21:47,493 Speaker 3: But then after it's gone through, can you you know, 440 00:21:47,653 --> 00:21:51,613 Speaker 3: if you can you fix your your your whatever electronics 441 00:21:51,653 --> 00:21:53,213 Speaker 3: you need to and get them back online. 442 00:21:54,293 --> 00:21:57,813 Speaker 11: No, if the electronics are alive when the electromagnetic pulse hits. 443 00:21:58,013 --> 00:21:58,533 Speaker 7: It's dead. 444 00:21:59,173 --> 00:21:59,493 Speaker 13: That's it. 445 00:21:59,813 --> 00:22:04,053 Speaker 11: You've got to replace it and as then sort of 446 00:22:04,293 --> 00:22:06,973 Speaker 11: recycle it, bury it, whatever. But it's no good to 447 00:22:07,013 --> 00:22:08,133 Speaker 11: you after it's been fried. 448 00:22:08,533 --> 00:22:11,013 Speaker 2: So how do you protect against that, Duncan? What do 449 00:22:11,093 --> 00:22:13,253 Speaker 2: you do to build resilience in that sort of network? 450 00:22:16,293 --> 00:22:19,253 Speaker 11: I'm not sure about. I've only a reason to discover that. 451 00:22:19,493 --> 00:22:21,493 Speaker 11: So I'm still beginning to look at things. 452 00:22:21,533 --> 00:22:23,773 Speaker 2: Well, I'll just reach out what they said in the 453 00:22:23,853 --> 00:22:26,293 Speaker 2: report on digital communications, So they said nearly all of 454 00:22:26,333 --> 00:22:29,773 Speaker 2: New Zealand's digital communications and transferring of data goes via 455 00:22:29,853 --> 00:22:33,573 Speaker 2: submarine fiber optic cables, and if these are severed, some 456 00:22:33,653 --> 00:22:36,493 Speaker 2: of the services they provide, like internet connectivity and cloud 457 00:22:36,533 --> 00:22:39,133 Speaker 2: computing services, a lot of that is controlled in the 458 00:22:39,333 --> 00:22:42,133 Speaker 2: US and therefore potentially more at risk. And they also 459 00:22:42,253 --> 00:22:44,653 Speaker 2: mentioned to your point, satellite networks might be harmed by 460 00:22:44,693 --> 00:22:49,573 Speaker 2: electromagnetic pulses, which would impact GPS and Internet services. So yeah, 461 00:22:49,613 --> 00:22:50,493 Speaker 2: that is a bit of a worry. 462 00:22:51,653 --> 00:22:51,853 Speaker 3: Yeah. 463 00:22:52,293 --> 00:22:56,373 Speaker 11: Next thing, if anybody goes out there and prepares this 464 00:22:56,573 --> 00:23:00,173 Speaker 11: guy force Chen made the point papers will think in 465 00:23:00,253 --> 00:23:04,013 Speaker 11: terms of weeks of a month. How many have asked 466 00:23:04,293 --> 00:23:05,733 Speaker 11: the question what happens next? 467 00:23:05,853 --> 00:23:06,053 Speaker 14: Year. 468 00:23:06,733 --> 00:23:11,453 Speaker 11: What happens in five years? Just about guarantee anybody who's 469 00:23:11,493 --> 00:23:14,453 Speaker 11: got a generator set to ensure they've got their own power, 470 00:23:15,333 --> 00:23:18,373 Speaker 11: there's enough fuel for a month, and have they got 471 00:23:18,413 --> 00:23:21,813 Speaker 11: a fuel for next year or the year after. I 472 00:23:21,853 --> 00:23:22,893 Speaker 11: don't think many people do. 473 00:23:23,773 --> 00:23:27,493 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, and I mean absolutely. And you know, 474 00:23:27,973 --> 00:23:30,812 Speaker 3: you talk about electronics, what about fuel? We import all 475 00:23:30,853 --> 00:23:34,413 Speaker 3: our fuel, We import all our aviation fuel, our diesel, 476 00:23:35,133 --> 00:23:38,693 Speaker 3: our petrol. So your electronics are down, and then you 477 00:23:38,933 --> 00:23:41,213 Speaker 3: pretty quickly won't run out of the very things you 478 00:23:41,333 --> 00:23:44,532 Speaker 3: need to keep food production going. So you know, how 479 00:23:44,613 --> 00:23:46,733 Speaker 3: much food have you stored will better be enough to 480 00:23:46,853 --> 00:23:49,773 Speaker 3: last all the nuclear window goes away, because pretty soon 481 00:23:49,813 --> 00:23:52,573 Speaker 3: we're not going to be able to, you know, bring 482 00:23:52,693 --> 00:23:55,853 Speaker 3: even fertilizer into the country. Duncan excuse me. 483 00:23:56,293 --> 00:23:59,293 Speaker 11: Next point is especially had what you just said is this, 484 00:24:00,133 --> 00:24:05,573 Speaker 11: every classic vehicle pre electronic suddenly becomes worth killing people 485 00:24:05,653 --> 00:24:08,613 Speaker 11: over all. Right, You're going to have a load of 486 00:24:08,613 --> 00:24:11,693 Speaker 11: trouble going on there as theeves try to get the 487 00:24:11,813 --> 00:24:17,013 Speaker 11: few remaining classic working vehicles and steal them for their uses, 488 00:24:17,853 --> 00:24:21,173 Speaker 11: or your people would be playing desperate and then then 489 00:24:21,213 --> 00:24:22,413 Speaker 11: they'll steal the vehicle. 490 00:24:22,533 --> 00:24:26,413 Speaker 3: Well that's the thing, society, civil order breaking down where 491 00:24:26,413 --> 00:24:28,333 Speaker 3: it's got to be a major thing because you go 492 00:24:28,413 --> 00:24:30,653 Speaker 3: back to the digital thoat of things as well, dunking 493 00:24:31,373 --> 00:24:35,813 Speaker 3: visa master card. That sounds pretty tried, but visa MasterCard, 494 00:24:36,653 --> 00:24:38,173 Speaker 3: all that stuff goes down. 495 00:24:38,493 --> 00:24:40,173 Speaker 7: Yeah, yep. 496 00:24:40,293 --> 00:24:43,173 Speaker 11: Well you I had a warning of it when Gabriel 497 00:24:43,253 --> 00:24:43,813 Speaker 11: hit Grisbane. 498 00:24:44,213 --> 00:24:46,933 Speaker 2: Yeah, and same after the youthquakes in christ You know 499 00:24:47,053 --> 00:24:49,493 Speaker 2: when all those systems went down and cash was king 500 00:24:49,533 --> 00:24:52,093 Speaker 2: and nobody had any cash. How quickly things started to 501 00:24:52,133 --> 00:24:54,053 Speaker 2: go a bit sideways and trying to get food, trying 502 00:24:54,093 --> 00:24:56,413 Speaker 2: to get goods. Yeah, happens very very quickly. 503 00:24:58,253 --> 00:25:01,893 Speaker 11: Yeah, because just there there won't be enough classic vehicles 504 00:25:01,893 --> 00:25:04,733 Speaker 11: around to get the food. Even if you're resurrected every 505 00:25:04,773 --> 00:25:08,253 Speaker 11: old truck next star truck, there's not enough practice to 506 00:25:08,333 --> 00:25:10,453 Speaker 11: who actually plant the food and harvest it. 507 00:25:10,973 --> 00:25:15,853 Speaker 3: Yeah, but beach beach holiday houses will be ransacked for 508 00:25:15,933 --> 00:25:18,693 Speaker 3: their cool old tractors exactly. 509 00:25:19,013 --> 00:25:21,373 Speaker 2: Duncan, thank you very much. You've done a very deep 510 00:25:21,453 --> 00:25:23,973 Speaker 2: dive into that, but really keen to get your thoughts on, oh, 511 00:25:24,013 --> 00:25:26,733 Speaker 2: one hundred and eighty ten eighty what parts of New 512 00:25:26,853 --> 00:25:30,293 Speaker 2: Zealand society are vulnerable that need to be strengthened in 513 00:25:30,373 --> 00:25:35,093 Speaker 2: the event of one of these unpredictable international events are 514 00:25:35,253 --> 00:25:37,013 Speaker 2: like the one this report has proposed. 515 00:25:37,093 --> 00:25:38,973 Speaker 3: The sex says, stop it. This is scare mongering and 516 00:25:39,093 --> 00:25:44,333 Speaker 3: crazy speculative assumptions. Yeah, but you have to look at risks. 517 00:25:44,573 --> 00:25:46,733 Speaker 3: That's what you have to do as a country and 518 00:25:46,773 --> 00:25:49,573 Speaker 3: a people, and go We're asking two questions. One, do 519 00:25:49,653 --> 00:25:52,533 Speaker 3: you think it's likely? Secondly, if you think it's likely, 520 00:25:53,293 --> 00:25:56,253 Speaker 3: what will be the effects on our country? And thirdly, 521 00:25:56,493 --> 00:25:59,052 Speaker 3: if you think it's likely, and you've listed the effects 522 00:25:59,093 --> 00:26:02,373 Speaker 3: that will have on our country, then should we be preparing? 523 00:26:03,053 --> 00:26:05,333 Speaker 3: Exactly nicely said, and I think it's a problem to 524 00:26:05,373 --> 00:26:07,053 Speaker 3: ask the question. I think it's probably a pretty good 525 00:26:07,093 --> 00:26:07,773 Speaker 3: question to be asking. 526 00:26:07,893 --> 00:26:09,613 Speaker 2: Bang on Oh one hundred and eighty ten eighty is 527 00:26:09,613 --> 00:26:10,973 Speaker 2: a number to call up to you your thoughts on this. 528 00:26:11,093 --> 00:26:12,213 Speaker 2: Twenty five to two. 529 00:26:12,093 --> 00:26:13,533 Speaker 5: To wow. 530 00:26:14,893 --> 00:26:16,773 Speaker 1: US talks at the headlines with. 531 00:26:16,893 --> 00:26:19,933 Speaker 15: Blue bubble taxis it's no trouble with a blue bubble. 532 00:26:20,453 --> 00:26:26,133 Speaker 15: Tapatu Mahdi says Tamaqui Makodo MP, Takutai tash Kemp, who 533 00:26:26,213 --> 00:26:29,733 Speaker 15: has died, was a daily loved sister who devoted every 534 00:26:29,853 --> 00:26:33,333 Speaker 15: breath to the Mahdi Liberation movement. The house will mark 535 00:26:33,413 --> 00:26:36,053 Speaker 15: her death at two o'clock and then adjourned for the day. 536 00:26:37,053 --> 00:26:39,493 Speaker 15: Police are asking for footage of an attack at Auckland's 537 00:26:39,533 --> 00:26:43,013 Speaker 15: Pakuranga night markets on Saturday that left two people in 538 00:26:43,093 --> 00:26:48,093 Speaker 15: a critical condition. The ipca's ruled an aggressive and intoxicated 539 00:26:48,173 --> 00:26:51,853 Speaker 15: man's death after he overbalanced and failed during an engagement 540 00:26:51,933 --> 00:26:55,773 Speaker 15: with an officer at Auckland City Mission last year was accidental. 541 00:26:56,733 --> 00:26:59,773 Speaker 15: The electricity authorities ending at support for the power Switch 542 00:26:59,813 --> 00:27:04,733 Speaker 15: website this year in favor of an AI service. 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Back to matt Ethan 550 00:27:30,293 --> 00:27:30,973 Speaker 15: Tyler Adams. 551 00:27:31,133 --> 00:27:33,133 Speaker 2: Thank you very much, Rayleen, and we're talking about this 552 00:27:33,413 --> 00:27:35,853 Speaker 2: report at paints a scenario or what would happen to 553 00:27:35,933 --> 00:27:38,493 Speaker 2: New Zealand in the event of five hundred nuclear bombs 554 00:27:38,533 --> 00:27:41,613 Speaker 2: being detonated in the northern hemisphere this year, and the 555 00:27:41,693 --> 00:27:44,373 Speaker 2: findings are pretty grim. A lot of recommendations in the 556 00:27:44,413 --> 00:27:46,733 Speaker 2: report about what we can or could do to strengthen 557 00:27:46,773 --> 00:27:48,733 Speaker 2: our resilience. But what do you think, oh, eight hundred 558 00:27:48,773 --> 00:27:50,453 Speaker 2: and eighty ten eighty, it looks. 559 00:27:50,253 --> 00:27:52,453 Speaker 3: Like an emp that we were talking about for might 560 00:27:52,613 --> 00:27:55,133 Speaker 3: not blast us too badly down here at twenty five 561 00:27:55,253 --> 00:28:00,413 Speaker 3: miles up. This analysis says the area of the Earth 562 00:28:00,413 --> 00:28:02,853 Speaker 3: service within the line of sight of the blast, and 563 00:28:02,933 --> 00:28:05,893 Speaker 3: I guess this depends on the strength of bas An 564 00:28:05,933 --> 00:28:08,093 Speaker 3: E one pulse would have a radius about four hundred 565 00:28:08,093 --> 00:28:13,333 Speaker 3: and forty miles. So, you know, this is five hundred nukes. 566 00:28:14,173 --> 00:28:17,373 Speaker 3: Always feels so grim to say yukes. It seems so flippant, 567 00:28:18,333 --> 00:28:22,213 Speaker 3: pretty depressing idea. But five hundred nukes going off then, 568 00:28:22,613 --> 00:28:26,653 Speaker 3: and even if they're you know, high altitude, then that 569 00:28:26,893 --> 00:28:29,293 Speaker 3: might not affect New Zealand. Yeah, I mean a long 570 00:28:29,333 --> 00:28:31,173 Speaker 3: way await, it will affect us and that all the 571 00:28:31,213 --> 00:28:34,933 Speaker 3: electronics that we connect with overseas will be knocked out. Yeah, 572 00:28:35,253 --> 00:28:37,253 Speaker 3: so it would be pretty hard to go on Amazon 573 00:28:37,293 --> 00:28:38,133 Speaker 3: and use your credit card. 574 00:28:38,333 --> 00:28:41,213 Speaker 2: H it certainly would do. Yeah, there's a great text 575 00:28:41,293 --> 00:28:43,973 Speaker 2: here after good afternoon, guys. I was born in nineteen 576 00:28:44,013 --> 00:28:46,053 Speaker 2: forty two, so I have lived under the threat of 577 00:28:46,213 --> 00:28:49,533 Speaker 2: nuclear disaster most of my life. Is nuclear winter still 578 00:28:49,533 --> 00:28:52,213 Speaker 2: a thing. I've just simply given up stressing about it. 579 00:28:52,293 --> 00:28:55,213 Speaker 2: If it happens, it happens. Our visitors coming, so brought 580 00:28:55,253 --> 00:28:56,493 Speaker 2: a pack of toilet rolls. 581 00:28:56,333 --> 00:28:56,813 Speaker 3: Just to make sure. 582 00:28:56,893 --> 00:28:57,453 Speaker 2: Does that count? 583 00:28:57,493 --> 00:28:59,453 Speaker 3: From Jenny, it sounds like that great movie, one of 584 00:28:59,493 --> 00:29:01,733 Speaker 3: the grass movies ever made, Doctor Strangelove, or How I 585 00:29:01,853 --> 00:29:04,933 Speaker 3: Learned to Stop worrying and love the bomb situation. Well, 586 00:29:04,973 --> 00:29:06,533 Speaker 3: they are saying that the nuclear winter here in the 587 00:29:06,573 --> 00:29:10,773 Speaker 3: studio would be a various thing. Said the temperatures were 588 00:29:10,853 --> 00:29:14,573 Speaker 3: dropped by four degrees and trigger and nuclear winter. So 589 00:29:14,773 --> 00:29:17,573 Speaker 3: this is interesting. So you know this is going to 590 00:29:17,613 --> 00:29:22,173 Speaker 3: sound pretty I don't know how Look I felt okay 591 00:29:22,253 --> 00:29:25,493 Speaker 3: with this. For New Zealand, twenty two thousand dead on, 592 00:29:25,573 --> 00:29:28,453 Speaker 3: one hundred and ninety five thousand injured or sick, twenty 593 00:29:28,533 --> 00:29:30,813 Speaker 3: five billion in asset losses, thirty one percent of land 594 00:29:30,893 --> 00:29:33,253 Speaker 3: ecosystems damage, two hundred and forty billion hit to a 595 00:29:33,333 --> 00:29:39,053 Speaker 3: GDP that's with five hundred five hundred bomb nuclear conflict 596 00:29:39,133 --> 00:29:43,133 Speaker 3: in the northern Hemisphere. Yeah, I'll take twenty two thousand dead. 597 00:29:43,813 --> 00:29:47,253 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's bad, but we can maybe recover from that 598 00:29:47,333 --> 00:29:49,173 Speaker 2: that a five million, Yeah, I. 599 00:29:49,213 --> 00:29:51,573 Speaker 3: Mean it means that. I mean I think it might 600 00:29:51,613 --> 00:29:55,133 Speaker 3: get worse over time, as our food infrastructure collapses and 601 00:29:55,253 --> 00:29:58,253 Speaker 3: society disintegrates, and we all turn on each other and 602 00:29:58,773 --> 00:30:01,733 Speaker 3: rusty boats from around the world of armed mutants turn up, 603 00:30:02,373 --> 00:30:06,253 Speaker 3: or the entire the entire navies of major companies go. Oh, 604 00:30:06,333 --> 00:30:07,733 Speaker 3: our country is not in a good shape. Let's go 605 00:30:07,733 --> 00:30:09,373 Speaker 3: down to New Zealand. Yeah, I mean, why that might 606 00:30:09,493 --> 00:30:11,493 Speaker 3: change things. I don't think I'm lasting to that point. 607 00:30:11,613 --> 00:30:13,653 Speaker 3: I'm long gone before that happens. Oh eight one hundred 608 00:30:13,853 --> 00:30:16,933 Speaker 3: the six is, Yes, EMP kills you your fuel injected car, 609 00:30:17,053 --> 00:30:19,253 Speaker 3: My old landrove will be fine. I'll have lots of 610 00:30:19,493 --> 00:30:22,333 Speaker 3: free gas to siphon out of your abandoned recks. Don't 611 00:30:22,413 --> 00:30:25,213 Speaker 3: need internet, reload my own AMMO live way up in 612 00:30:25,213 --> 00:30:27,733 Speaker 3: the hills, firewood to keep warm, and coock on horse 613 00:30:27,773 --> 00:30:30,453 Speaker 3: for transport. May issue was thousands of you city people 614 00:30:30,533 --> 00:30:33,213 Speaker 3: desperate and invading my space to steal and kill me 615 00:30:33,293 --> 00:30:33,813 Speaker 3: for my stuff. 616 00:30:33,973 --> 00:30:37,173 Speaker 2: This is it's yeah, well good Text. Tho O eight 617 00:30:37,173 --> 00:30:38,813 Speaker 2: one hundred eighty to eighty is the number to call. 618 00:30:38,853 --> 00:30:40,893 Speaker 2: We've got full lines. If you can't get through, keep trying. 619 00:30:40,933 --> 00:30:42,013 Speaker 2: It is eighteen to two. 620 00:30:42,093 --> 00:30:44,493 Speaker 3: I got to say, you know, good for you, Warret, Yeah, 621 00:30:44,653 --> 00:30:45,293 Speaker 3: good for you, Wret. 622 00:30:45,333 --> 00:30:46,173 Speaker 2: I'm coming to your place. 623 00:30:47,453 --> 00:30:50,813 Speaker 1: The big stories, the big issues, the big trends and 624 00:30:51,173 --> 00:30:55,253 Speaker 1: everything in between. Matt Heath and Tyler Adams afternoons used talks. 625 00:30:55,293 --> 00:30:57,453 Speaker 2: It'd be very good afternoon to you. It is a 626 00:30:57,613 --> 00:30:59,493 Speaker 2: quarter to two and we're talking about a report that 627 00:30:59,933 --> 00:31:03,253 Speaker 2: was presented recently that shows what would happen in the 628 00:31:03,573 --> 00:31:06,533 Speaker 2: event of five hundred nuclear weapons detonated in the Northern 629 00:31:06,573 --> 00:31:09,013 Speaker 2: Hemisphere and what we need to do here in New 630 00:31:09,133 --> 00:31:10,973 Speaker 2: Zealand to strengthen our resilience. 631 00:31:11,133 --> 00:31:13,133 Speaker 3: This Texas Theirs Again. A lot of people are saying 632 00:31:13,173 --> 00:31:16,973 Speaker 3: this Fowlers, stop this alarmist rubbish. This will never happen. Well, 633 00:31:17,093 --> 00:31:21,133 Speaker 3: the New Zealand Catastrophe Resilience Project in their study they 634 00:31:21,213 --> 00:31:23,133 Speaker 3: think it's it is a possibility, and they've done a 635 00:31:23,133 --> 00:31:25,453 Speaker 3: lot more research into it than you have, dear Text, 636 00:31:26,053 --> 00:31:28,773 Speaker 3: or we have, and they say that we should start 637 00:31:28,813 --> 00:31:31,893 Speaker 3: preparing because look, a fuel crisis because all our petrol, 638 00:31:31,973 --> 00:31:34,133 Speaker 3: diesel and jet fuel are imported. So if there's a 639 00:31:34,213 --> 00:31:37,213 Speaker 3: huge nuclear war over seas, then what are we going 640 00:31:37,253 --> 00:31:40,533 Speaker 3: to do about that? You know, renewable electricity output would 641 00:31:40,573 --> 00:31:44,693 Speaker 3: fall as sunlight and wind and rainfall decline. Road, rail, 642 00:31:44,853 --> 00:31:47,253 Speaker 3: sea and air transport would be crippled by fuel and 643 00:31:47,373 --> 00:31:51,013 Speaker 3: parts shortages. Coastal shipping fleets would fail. Food production could 644 00:31:51,013 --> 00:31:54,613 Speaker 3: fall by sixty one percent in New Zealand, yet inputs 645 00:31:54,613 --> 00:31:58,773 Speaker 3: such a seed, fertilizer and diesel are imported, risking shortages. 646 00:31:59,253 --> 00:32:02,133 Speaker 3: There's the submarine cables and satellite connection that we that 647 00:32:02,293 --> 00:32:04,693 Speaker 3: we that we operate with the rest of the world. 648 00:32:05,933 --> 00:32:07,693 Speaker 3: I think it's worth talking about, even if it's a 649 00:32:07,773 --> 00:32:08,773 Speaker 3: one percent charts. 650 00:32:08,853 --> 00:32:11,373 Speaker 2: Yeah, But the idea that we somehow buriate heids in 651 00:32:11,413 --> 00:32:14,453 Speaker 2: the sanders, that's never going to happen and we don't 652 00:32:14,493 --> 00:32:18,173 Speaker 2: need to do anything about it. Clearly, these are authors 653 00:32:18,293 --> 00:32:21,733 Speaker 2: who are highly esteemed academics and they've spent their careers 654 00:32:21,813 --> 00:32:24,773 Speaker 2: working on this stuff. In their report, they recommended a 655 00:32:24,893 --> 00:32:28,573 Speaker 2: recommended recommendation was for the government to prioritize the development 656 00:32:28,613 --> 00:32:31,693 Speaker 2: of the strategy to prepare for these global catastrophes, and. 657 00:32:31,773 --> 00:32:35,253 Speaker 3: I pushed back on the accusation that we're fear mongering 658 00:32:35,413 --> 00:32:37,613 Speaker 3: or exaggerating. I mean, look at this text here from 659 00:32:37,693 --> 00:32:40,213 Speaker 3: Nico kill all the dogs after a nuclear war. You 660 00:32:40,253 --> 00:32:43,853 Speaker 3: don't want zombie dogs, ravaging babies and cats. Wow. Yeah, 661 00:32:44,173 --> 00:32:46,853 Speaker 3: So I pushed back on the accusations that there's any 662 00:32:47,773 --> 00:32:49,813 Speaker 3: ever do that, Shane, Welcome to the show. 663 00:32:51,373 --> 00:32:51,493 Speaker 7: Hi. 664 00:32:52,093 --> 00:32:55,173 Speaker 16: Now, I read a really interesting book written by someone 665 00:32:55,253 --> 00:33:00,173 Speaker 16: hype in the American government about three or four months ago, 666 00:33:00,333 --> 00:33:05,293 Speaker 16: called nuclear war a scenario, and they basically say it 667 00:33:05,453 --> 00:33:08,693 Speaker 16: the most likely would be it starts in North Korea 668 00:33:08,853 --> 00:33:12,653 Speaker 16: because North Korea absolutely hates America, and so in this 669 00:33:12,813 --> 00:33:16,493 Speaker 16: particular scenario, they send over a couple of ICBMs, which 670 00:33:16,573 --> 00:33:19,773 Speaker 16: only take twenty minutes to get to the States. Now, 671 00:33:20,173 --> 00:33:22,093 Speaker 16: the States have a policy of so. 672 00:33:22,173 --> 00:33:25,333 Speaker 3: What was that was that intercontinental ballistic missiles? 673 00:33:25,653 --> 00:33:27,533 Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you go sow. 674 00:33:28,613 --> 00:33:32,053 Speaker 16: The States have very little power to shoot them down. 675 00:33:32,653 --> 00:33:37,293 Speaker 16: But it also said that America has a launch on 676 00:33:37,573 --> 00:33:42,173 Speaker 16: warning scenario where because the times are so short, you 677 00:33:42,333 --> 00:33:44,933 Speaker 16: have to launch your nukes now to get back to 678 00:33:45,453 --> 00:33:49,533 Speaker 16: North Korea, those nukes have to fly over over Russia. 679 00:33:50,093 --> 00:33:55,933 Speaker 16: And their radar systems are as sophisticated, and they get confused, 680 00:33:56,013 --> 00:33:59,133 Speaker 16: and then they launch an attack on the United States. 681 00:33:59,613 --> 00:34:05,693 Speaker 16: But there's which basically means total world distruction. But if 682 00:34:06,533 --> 00:34:10,933 Speaker 16: there's already evidence that the North Koreans have got a 683 00:34:11,013 --> 00:34:15,413 Speaker 16: satellite in space which is maneuverable that could launch an 684 00:34:15,453 --> 00:34:20,813 Speaker 16: EMP three hundred miles above North America, which would wipe 685 00:34:20,853 --> 00:34:25,973 Speaker 16: out their entire electricity grid, which would reduce America's population 686 00:34:26,213 --> 00:34:30,133 Speaker 16: by ninety percent within one month. Because there's five hundred 687 00:34:30,213 --> 00:34:33,733 Speaker 16: million guns and three hundred million people and they basically 688 00:34:33,813 --> 00:34:37,293 Speaker 16: are now fighting over scarce resources and killing each other. 689 00:34:38,413 --> 00:34:41,613 Speaker 16: Plus the fact that you don't have without the technology, 690 00:34:41,693 --> 00:34:44,853 Speaker 16: you've got no food or water or anything else. So 691 00:34:45,493 --> 00:34:51,093 Speaker 16: it just becomes an apocalypse social unrest, and so that 692 00:34:51,173 --> 00:34:52,613 Speaker 16: would affect the entire world. 693 00:34:52,773 --> 00:34:54,773 Speaker 3: Yeah, what do you think that effect would be on 694 00:34:55,293 --> 00:34:58,893 Speaker 3: New Zealand? Do you think we could isolate ourselves become 695 00:34:59,013 --> 00:34:59,813 Speaker 3: self sufficient? 696 00:35:00,413 --> 00:35:00,573 Speaker 7: You know? 697 00:35:00,893 --> 00:35:06,212 Speaker 16: And well, I already am like I'm off Gred. I've 698 00:35:06,333 --> 00:35:09,853 Speaker 16: been off Gred for twenty five years. I've got generator, 699 00:35:09,933 --> 00:35:13,293 Speaker 16: I've got We've got enough animals in the in the 700 00:35:13,453 --> 00:35:17,013 Speaker 16: planet or in New Zealand for us to survive food wise, 701 00:35:17,533 --> 00:35:21,973 Speaker 16: easy to get water. We could have vegetables and grara 702 00:35:22,133 --> 00:35:25,333 Speaker 16: own stuff. But there could be a nuclear winter, which 703 00:35:25,853 --> 00:35:29,333 Speaker 16: will basically make everything die because all the all the 704 00:35:29,813 --> 00:35:33,093 Speaker 16: plants die, then the animals starve, and then we've got 705 00:35:33,173 --> 00:35:37,373 Speaker 16: nothing to eat. So it's a we just have to 706 00:35:37,453 --> 00:35:41,373 Speaker 16: hope this never happens. But when you get lunatics like 707 00:35:42,413 --> 00:35:45,173 Speaker 16: the leader of North Korea, I won't mention any names. 708 00:35:47,013 --> 00:35:48,453 Speaker 16: They they're very unstable. 709 00:35:48,813 --> 00:35:51,973 Speaker 3: Yeah, Or I would argue religious fanatics that are in 710 00:35:52,093 --> 00:35:54,853 Speaker 3: charge of countries such as Iran. 711 00:35:56,133 --> 00:36:00,493 Speaker 16: Well that's true because if you're a martyr, if you 712 00:36:00,693 --> 00:36:04,453 Speaker 16: die in the you know, during the war, well then 713 00:36:04,773 --> 00:36:06,893 Speaker 16: you get rewarded exactly. 714 00:36:08,333 --> 00:36:11,253 Speaker 3: And it sounds like you've got some pretty you know, 715 00:36:11,293 --> 00:36:14,212 Speaker 3: you've got a decent situation where you are. So could 716 00:36:14,253 --> 00:36:17,093 Speaker 3: you just send me your GPS coordinates and I'll see 717 00:36:17,133 --> 00:36:19,893 Speaker 3: I think, if things go down, I'll see you. I'll 718 00:36:19,893 --> 00:36:21,733 Speaker 3: come up. I'll get some groceries and come and see you. 719 00:36:22,573 --> 00:36:26,093 Speaker 16: Yeah, you're invited, but but i'll eve them saying you 720 00:36:26,173 --> 00:36:28,093 Speaker 16: my PIN number, because it won't be any use. 721 00:36:29,493 --> 00:36:31,133 Speaker 2: It'll be a real pain in the r show. I'm 722 00:36:31,133 --> 00:36:32,573 Speaker 2: telling you, you don't know what you've done here. 723 00:36:33,493 --> 00:36:34,413 Speaker 3: Thank you you call shame. 724 00:36:34,813 --> 00:36:37,172 Speaker 2: It is nine to two back very shortly with more 725 00:36:37,213 --> 00:36:39,293 Speaker 2: of your calls. But one hundred and eighty ten eighty 726 00:36:39,373 --> 00:36:40,853 Speaker 2: is the number to call love to get your thoughts. 727 00:36:41,013 --> 00:36:44,053 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean this is you know, an important question 728 00:36:44,253 --> 00:36:45,973 Speaker 3: that we need to ask in New Zealand because of 729 00:36:46,013 --> 00:36:48,973 Speaker 3: our importing all our fuel situation, you know, and we 730 00:36:49,093 --> 00:36:52,493 Speaker 3: have to import process full now because we don't even 731 00:36:52,533 --> 00:36:55,413 Speaker 3: have the oil refinery anymore, but so we have to 732 00:36:55,453 --> 00:36:57,493 Speaker 3: have our fuel. So is this this Texas says asking 733 00:36:57,573 --> 00:37:00,093 Speaker 3: what his generator runs on, because that's you know, And 734 00:37:00,213 --> 00:37:03,133 Speaker 3: how many poster of Boclet movies does the main resource 735 00:37:03,173 --> 00:37:05,133 Speaker 3: everyone's finding for become oil? 736 00:37:05,293 --> 00:37:07,413 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a massive weakness of New Zealand, that's for sure. 737 00:37:07,573 --> 00:37:08,292 Speaker 2: Nine to two. 738 00:37:09,773 --> 00:37:13,333 Speaker 1: Matt Heath Tyler Adams taking your calls on eight hundred 739 00:37:13,333 --> 00:37:16,692 Speaker 1: and eighty ten eighty. It's mad Heathen Tyler Adams. Afternoons 740 00:37:16,893 --> 00:37:17,733 Speaker 1: news Dogs. 741 00:37:17,653 --> 00:37:21,893 Speaker 2: B news Dogs. There'd b six to two Andrew, how 742 00:37:21,933 --> 00:37:22,773 Speaker 2: are you this afternoon? 743 00:37:23,573 --> 00:37:24,333 Speaker 13: I'm very well. 744 00:37:24,413 --> 00:37:24,693 Speaker 7: Thank you. 745 00:37:24,813 --> 00:37:27,533 Speaker 17: I'll add to this cheery conversation, don't mind. 746 00:37:27,813 --> 00:37:29,733 Speaker 7: Thank you inspired me to go out and buy. 747 00:37:29,653 --> 00:37:32,973 Speaker 17: Some analog bicycles and because my late model, my late 748 00:37:33,253 --> 00:37:35,373 Speaker 17: late model Sabari might become a chicken coop. 749 00:37:36,173 --> 00:37:36,413 Speaker 15: Yeah. 750 00:37:36,813 --> 00:37:40,533 Speaker 17: But anyway, Hey, talking about close calls, the Cuban missile 751 00:37:40,613 --> 00:37:43,172 Speaker 17: crisis of nineteen sixty two was the world's closest call 752 00:37:43,333 --> 00:37:46,573 Speaker 17: during the Cold War, and you guys might know something 753 00:37:46,613 --> 00:37:49,373 Speaker 17: about that, but it's the story of the submarine that 754 00:37:49,533 --> 00:37:52,213 Speaker 17: got me was the fact that a one of the 755 00:37:52,293 --> 00:37:56,613 Speaker 17: officers on the submarine, Acupov, refused to launch their weapons 756 00:37:56,653 --> 00:37:59,493 Speaker 17: when they when they thought that the submarine was under 757 00:37:59,533 --> 00:38:02,653 Speaker 17: attack because the Americans were busy dropping depth charges on 758 00:38:02,773 --> 00:38:05,053 Speaker 17: it and they assumed that they that World War II 759 00:38:05,173 --> 00:38:08,853 Speaker 17: had broken out. So the officer, Akipov was his name, 760 00:38:08,933 --> 00:38:12,373 Speaker 17: refused to tune the key because the top three of them, 761 00:38:12,493 --> 00:38:16,853 Speaker 17: thank goodness, to watch the nuclear weapons. And he's was 762 00:38:17,133 --> 00:38:19,173 Speaker 17: credited as the man that saved the world during the 763 00:38:19,213 --> 00:38:21,413 Speaker 17: Cuban Missile crisis. So that's how close it can come. 764 00:38:21,973 --> 00:38:24,693 Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's the black Swan event that I was 765 00:38:24,733 --> 00:38:26,653 Speaker 2: talking about a little bit earlier, that those are the 766 00:38:27,173 --> 00:38:31,493 Speaker 2: unpredictable events that carry significant impact that right now might 767 00:38:31,573 --> 00:38:34,093 Speaker 2: be hard to predict. But that's the whole point on 768 00:38:34,213 --> 00:38:35,133 Speaker 2: that one event I. 769 00:38:35,133 --> 00:38:37,333 Speaker 3: Find it's so odd that so many people are texting 770 00:38:37,453 --> 00:38:40,253 Speaker 3: through and saying there's absolutely no chance of it happening. 771 00:38:40,293 --> 00:38:43,173 Speaker 3: We've got very very close before, and so all the 772 00:38:43,253 --> 00:38:45,772 Speaker 3: authors of the study are really saying is well, they're 773 00:38:45,773 --> 00:38:48,973 Speaker 3: asking for a Parliamentary Commissioner for Extreme Risks to look 774 00:38:49,013 --> 00:38:51,413 Speaker 3: into it, and maybe we do a little bit of 775 00:38:51,493 --> 00:38:54,493 Speaker 3: work and prep of how we might react under this 776 00:38:54,613 --> 00:38:57,533 Speaker 3: kind of situation, because you know, for me, one of 777 00:38:57,573 --> 00:38:59,732 Speaker 3: the big things is just all the boats that would 778 00:38:59,733 --> 00:39:02,933 Speaker 3: turn up from navies whose countries had gone down. I 779 00:39:02,973 --> 00:39:04,693 Speaker 3: don't even know if we could protect ourselves from a 780 00:39:04,733 --> 00:39:07,693 Speaker 3: cruise ship that was how it's I don't think so. 781 00:39:07,893 --> 00:39:09,813 Speaker 17: I think I think the amount of refugees that all 782 00:39:09,893 --> 00:39:12,493 Speaker 17: rock up here will just completely overwhelm it. Well must 783 00:39:12,533 --> 00:39:15,573 Speaker 17: and swamp us. Yeah, and that's a scary. That's scary. 784 00:39:15,693 --> 00:39:17,893 Speaker 2: Yep, certainly is. Andrew will let you say your sabara 785 00:39:17,973 --> 00:39:20,053 Speaker 2: and go buy some analog pikes. Thank you very much 786 00:39:20,093 --> 00:39:22,453 Speaker 2: for giving us a call. Plenty of texts coming through 787 00:39:22,613 --> 00:39:24,933 Speaker 2: on nine two nine two, but ken to have a 788 00:39:25,053 --> 00:39:27,093 Speaker 2: chat with you. Oh eight hundred and eighty ten eighty 789 00:39:27,333 --> 00:39:30,253 Speaker 2: is the number to call, News, sport and weather. Is 790 00:39:30,453 --> 00:39:32,893 Speaker 2: on its way. Really great to get your I have 791 00:39:33,013 --> 00:39:35,413 Speaker 2: your company this afternoon. You're listening to Matt and Tyler. 792 00:39:35,573 --> 00:39:37,093 Speaker 2: Very good afternoon to you. 793 00:39:44,453 --> 00:39:48,173 Speaker 1: Talking with you all afternoon it's Matt Heathen, Taylor Adams 794 00:39:48,293 --> 00:39:50,093 Speaker 1: Afternoons US Talks. 795 00:39:50,133 --> 00:39:54,493 Speaker 2: They'd be good afternoon to you. Welcome back into the 796 00:39:54,653 --> 00:39:56,973 Speaker 2: show now, this is going to be a great discussion. 797 00:39:57,253 --> 00:40:00,692 Speaker 2: Orda Fenawa Company Rugby Union chief executive Corey Kennedy says 798 00:40:00,733 --> 00:40:02,533 Speaker 2: he's drawing the line in the sand by cannon or 799 00:40:02,613 --> 00:40:06,773 Speaker 2: rugby matches this weekend after referee was so seriously abused 800 00:40:06,853 --> 00:40:09,333 Speaker 2: he had to be escorted to his car over safety fears. 801 00:40:09,693 --> 00:40:11,333 Speaker 2: We're going to play a little bit of what he 802 00:40:11,693 --> 00:40:15,573 Speaker 2: said to Darcy water Grave last night very shortly. But 803 00:40:15,733 --> 00:40:17,373 Speaker 2: that's what we want to have a chat about, is 804 00:40:17,533 --> 00:40:20,333 Speaker 2: abuse against referees up and down the country. It's got 805 00:40:20,453 --> 00:40:22,493 Speaker 2: so bad in this part of the country and for 806 00:40:22,573 --> 00:40:25,133 Speaker 2: this rugby club that they've said no to any rugby 807 00:40:25,293 --> 00:40:27,933 Speaker 2: this weekend. And they've been banging on about this for 808 00:40:27,973 --> 00:40:30,213 Speaker 2: the last couple of months. It has been quite significant 809 00:40:30,213 --> 00:40:30,933 Speaker 2: in Houta Fenawa. 810 00:40:31,453 --> 00:40:33,853 Speaker 3: Is there more abuse now, because that's the assumption that 811 00:40:33,893 --> 00:40:36,213 Speaker 3: there's more abuse of reefs around the country at the 812 00:40:36,213 --> 00:40:39,133 Speaker 3: moment of So why have you seen ref abuse? Do 813 00:40:39,293 --> 00:40:42,133 Speaker 3: parents need to step up? As you know, if there 814 00:40:42,213 --> 00:40:46,093 Speaker 3: is one parent abusing the ref sure that you know, 815 00:40:46,293 --> 00:40:50,333 Speaker 3: the rugby district can you shut things down? You know, 816 00:40:50,373 --> 00:40:52,573 Speaker 3: the rugby local rugby union can shut things down. But 817 00:40:53,533 --> 00:40:55,973 Speaker 3: are parents stepping up and raining in the people that 818 00:40:56,013 --> 00:40:57,093 Speaker 3: are abusing refs? 819 00:40:57,893 --> 00:40:58,093 Speaker 8: You know? 820 00:40:58,413 --> 00:41:03,093 Speaker 3: And look, should that just be the blanket situation? If 821 00:41:03,133 --> 00:41:07,853 Speaker 3: there is serious abuse and a referee who's volunteering their 822 00:41:07,933 --> 00:41:10,973 Speaker 3: time has to be led to a car or I'm 823 00:41:11,053 --> 00:41:13,653 Speaker 3: not sure what the threshold should be. Any kind of 824 00:41:13,653 --> 00:41:17,573 Speaker 3: threatening behavior might be the threshold. Then that just means 825 00:41:17,693 --> 00:41:20,373 Speaker 3: all the rugby union in that area just shuts down 826 00:41:21,013 --> 00:41:23,333 Speaker 3: all rugby for the next weekend. So it's just a 827 00:41:23,413 --> 00:41:26,373 Speaker 3: blanket sort of for a want of a better word. 828 00:41:26,453 --> 00:41:30,933 Speaker 3: Considering the last hours chat, it's the nuclear solution. Yeah, yeah, 829 00:41:31,173 --> 00:41:34,013 Speaker 3: you shut it all down and then and then there's 830 00:41:34,053 --> 00:41:39,213 Speaker 3: a huge surely social cost or for anyone that behaves 831 00:41:39,293 --> 00:41:41,652 Speaker 3: like that, because you are responsible for the whole next week, 832 00:41:42,133 --> 00:41:44,813 Speaker 3: every game, every junior rugby game, every game of every 833 00:41:44,893 --> 00:41:46,172 Speaker 3: level being shut down the next week. 834 00:41:46,453 --> 00:41:48,252 Speaker 2: But at this point I can't see any other option 835 00:41:48,413 --> 00:41:50,413 Speaker 2: then to having that sort of option, you know the 836 00:41:50,493 --> 00:41:52,373 Speaker 2: scenario where the reff has to make that call, and 837 00:41:52,453 --> 00:41:54,213 Speaker 2: that's tough for the ref to say. The abuse has 838 00:41:54,253 --> 00:41:56,453 Speaker 2: got so bad, I'm blind my whistle and the game 839 00:41:56,693 --> 00:41:58,333 Speaker 2: is all over. But what do you say, Oh, eight 840 00:41:58,453 --> 00:42:00,933 Speaker 2: hundred and eighty ten eighty, here's a little bit about 841 00:42:01,053 --> 00:42:04,493 Speaker 2: what a finnerwork company. Rugby Union chief executive Corey Kennet 842 00:42:04,533 --> 00:42:06,093 Speaker 2: said to Darcy Watergrave last night. 843 00:42:06,533 --> 00:42:10,933 Speaker 18: The abuse was from multi poor layers. We're talking about 844 00:42:11,733 --> 00:42:17,773 Speaker 18: people that are at games, spectators, players, team team management, 845 00:42:18,293 --> 00:42:20,773 Speaker 18: to the point that at the end of the game, 846 00:42:21,853 --> 00:42:27,413 Speaker 18: the referee, the end of the good individuals, good public individuals. 847 00:42:27,973 --> 00:42:31,173 Speaker 18: We're so concerned about the referee safety that he was 848 00:42:31,373 --> 00:42:35,933 Speaker 18: escorted to his car. This is a nationwide epidemic and 849 00:42:36,093 --> 00:42:38,613 Speaker 18: what we've had since we made our statement is is 850 00:42:39,413 --> 00:42:43,213 Speaker 18: innumerable amount of calls telling us, hey, this is happening 851 00:42:43,253 --> 00:42:46,693 Speaker 18: in our space, This is happening, that is happening. Some 852 00:42:46,933 --> 00:42:48,933 Speaker 18: people that go to the games have just lost their 853 00:42:49,533 --> 00:42:53,493 Speaker 18: their their standards, their respect, their you know, just their 854 00:42:53,573 --> 00:42:57,253 Speaker 18: humanity to what these people are trying to do, these individuals, 855 00:42:57,333 --> 00:43:00,213 Speaker 18: to these volunteers. The time they've given up, you know, 856 00:43:00,333 --> 00:43:02,653 Speaker 18: their service, just genuine service. 857 00:43:03,213 --> 00:43:06,373 Speaker 2: So is he right? He says this is a nationwide problem. 858 00:43:06,413 --> 00:43:08,853 Speaker 2: They've been having a particular problem in in a word, 859 00:43:08,933 --> 00:43:11,292 Speaker 2: but many people who have been down to sports games 860 00:43:11,333 --> 00:43:14,053 Speaker 2: at all levels would have seen the abuse on the sideline. 861 00:43:14,093 --> 00:43:18,533 Speaker 3: Who doesn't know that that's not something you can do. 862 00:43:19,693 --> 00:43:22,573 Speaker 3: Everyone knows that you're an absolute piece of crap if 863 00:43:22,613 --> 00:43:26,172 Speaker 3: you behave like that, absolute piece of crap. I mean, 864 00:43:26,333 --> 00:43:28,093 Speaker 3: what are there just a bunch of messed up people 865 00:43:28,173 --> 00:43:30,533 Speaker 3: turning up that are forgetting where they are, You're drunk, 866 00:43:30,693 --> 00:43:35,173 Speaker 3: you're on p What is it? Because surely every parent 867 00:43:35,413 --> 00:43:39,133 Speaker 3: and every coach knows that that for sport in New 868 00:43:39,213 --> 00:43:43,413 Speaker 3: Zealand to continue at the lower levels, grassroots levels, it 869 00:43:43,573 --> 00:43:45,373 Speaker 3: needs refs that volunteer to do it. 870 00:43:45,693 --> 00:43:47,173 Speaker 2: Where do you draw the line though, because there'd be 871 00:43:47,173 --> 00:43:49,653 Speaker 2: a lot of people on the sideline's parents, passionate pearance 872 00:43:49,693 --> 00:43:52,613 Speaker 2: and they might scream out, oh, come on, ref and 873 00:43:52,733 --> 00:43:55,653 Speaker 2: whether you're don't see that as abuse or not, but 874 00:43:55,813 --> 00:43:58,453 Speaker 2: then it starts to escalate, right and as you say, 875 00:43:58,493 --> 00:44:00,413 Speaker 2: the people on the sidelines who may be having a 876 00:44:00,453 --> 00:44:03,213 Speaker 2: few beers. I've certainly seen that down it's sports fields 877 00:44:03,213 --> 00:44:04,733 Speaker 2: where they do have a few beers and they get 878 00:44:04,773 --> 00:44:06,853 Speaker 2: in a bit rowdy, and that's when you starts to 879 00:44:06,973 --> 00:44:07,333 Speaker 2: rack up. 880 00:44:07,493 --> 00:44:09,293 Speaker 3: Nothing wrong with heavy a few beers, what you watch 881 00:44:09,373 --> 00:44:11,373 Speaker 3: the game. I'm not against that as long as you 882 00:44:11,453 --> 00:44:14,773 Speaker 3: don't then go crazy. But you know, anacdontally I've heard 883 00:44:14,813 --> 00:44:17,853 Speaker 3: there is there has been a few. There's some meth 884 00:44:17,893 --> 00:44:20,133 Speaker 3: issues going around in some of the more rural areas 885 00:44:20,173 --> 00:44:22,413 Speaker 3: when it comes to this kind of thing, or just 886 00:44:22,533 --> 00:44:24,973 Speaker 3: to throw the other side of this out, have people 887 00:44:25,093 --> 00:44:27,373 Speaker 3: just got too precious? And if it doesn't get physical, 888 00:44:27,453 --> 00:44:30,493 Speaker 3: does it really matter? Is it just words? And who cares? 889 00:44:30,533 --> 00:44:32,093 Speaker 3: As long as you know, as long as as long 890 00:44:32,173 --> 00:44:35,252 Speaker 3: as you know. Is there a line where it's okay 891 00:44:35,453 --> 00:44:38,093 Speaker 3: to yell your opinion at the reef if you think 892 00:44:38,173 --> 00:44:41,133 Speaker 3: that they're wrong or is it just no you just 893 00:44:41,253 --> 00:44:45,493 Speaker 3: accept what the ref says you You just you don't 894 00:44:45,533 --> 00:44:49,853 Speaker 3: even give any feedback, you know? Is that the line? 895 00:44:50,053 --> 00:44:52,493 Speaker 3: Or is the line a bit of yelling but no intimidation? 896 00:44:53,253 --> 00:44:55,453 Speaker 2: Yeah? Really keen on your views on oh, eight hundred 897 00:44:55,573 --> 00:44:58,493 Speaker 2: eighty ten eighty. What are you seeing down outside the 898 00:44:58,533 --> 00:45:00,573 Speaker 2: sports fields when it comes to yelling at the reef 899 00:45:00,653 --> 00:45:03,652 Speaker 2: and where is the line between giving some what might 900 00:45:03,733 --> 00:45:07,413 Speaker 2: be considered somewhat polite feedback versus no noise at all. Oh, 901 00:45:07,453 --> 00:45:09,733 Speaker 2: eight hundred and eighty ten is the number to call. 902 00:45:09,773 --> 00:45:10,973 Speaker 2: It is twelve past two. 903 00:45:14,373 --> 00:45:18,853 Speaker 1: Wow your home of afternoon talk, Mad Heathen Taylor Adams 904 00:45:19,013 --> 00:45:22,933 Speaker 1: Afternoons call eight hundred eighty ten eighty News Talk said, be. 905 00:45:25,333 --> 00:45:27,693 Speaker 2: It is a quarter past two, and we're talking about abuse, 906 00:45:27,933 --> 00:45:32,013 Speaker 2: abuse directed towards referees on the sports fields. Quarterfenewa company 907 00:45:32,093 --> 00:45:35,693 Speaker 2: rugby union, has decided to can all rugby matches this 908 00:45:35,813 --> 00:45:39,053 Speaker 2: weekend after a referee was so seriously abused they say 909 00:45:39,253 --> 00:45:41,613 Speaker 2: he had to be escorted to his car over safety fare. 910 00:45:41,693 --> 00:45:44,253 Speaker 2: So keen to get your experiences on the football fields. 911 00:45:44,333 --> 00:45:46,253 Speaker 3: I just said to Tyler in the break. It's interesting 912 00:45:46,333 --> 00:45:49,533 Speaker 3: because of cross most of society, people seem to be 913 00:45:50,173 --> 00:45:53,813 Speaker 3: getting more and more polite and more easily offended. Like 914 00:45:53,933 --> 00:45:56,933 Speaker 3: I couldn't just scream and abuse you, Tyler if you 915 00:45:56,973 --> 00:45:59,573 Speaker 3: did something wrong that I disagreed without that you going 916 00:45:59,613 --> 00:46:03,933 Speaker 3: to HR. Yeah. So in one area of the world, 917 00:46:04,013 --> 00:46:07,253 Speaker 3: the office and on site, people seem to be becoming 918 00:46:07,293 --> 00:46:09,453 Speaker 3: more chill. Yes, but it would appear that on the 919 00:46:09,533 --> 00:46:13,453 Speaker 3: sidelines of rugby and league games. People are getting more 920 00:46:13,533 --> 00:46:16,453 Speaker 3: and more agros. It's interesting the six is fellow hasn't 921 00:46:16,533 --> 00:46:19,373 Speaker 3: fellows hasn't p used increased significantly in the last year. 922 00:46:19,653 --> 00:46:22,053 Speaker 3: That might alone explain increased verbal abuse. 923 00:46:22,613 --> 00:46:25,653 Speaker 2: Yeah, good point, Matts. How are you this afternoon? 924 00:46:26,773 --> 00:46:32,053 Speaker 13: Yeah, good mate, not too bad. So firstly, I've sort 925 00:46:32,053 --> 00:46:36,213 Speaker 13: of refereed all grades except for Super Rugby upwards and 926 00:46:36,973 --> 00:46:39,773 Speaker 13: done it for a number of years now, and I 927 00:46:39,893 --> 00:46:44,373 Speaker 13: accept the level of magoosa. I would accept is basically 928 00:46:44,533 --> 00:46:46,933 Speaker 13: if they oh, come on, rare, if that's a sort 929 00:46:46,973 --> 00:46:49,613 Speaker 13: of stuff that was where's it's holding lines that sort 930 00:46:49,613 --> 00:46:52,813 Speaker 13: of stuff. But it's once it gets personal or starts 931 00:46:52,893 --> 00:46:57,212 Speaker 13: to get threatening as we draw the line. And I've 932 00:46:57,333 --> 00:46:59,373 Speaker 13: noticed in the last three or four years that's where 933 00:46:59,413 --> 00:47:01,813 Speaker 13: it's sort of going to now. But last year I 934 00:47:01,893 --> 00:47:04,172 Speaker 13: had one that was extremely bad where if I ordered 935 00:47:04,253 --> 00:47:08,573 Speaker 13: to try the team that got scored against two has 936 00:47:08,613 --> 00:47:11,613 Speaker 13: come over threatening to kill me, trying to charge me, 937 00:47:11,693 --> 00:47:13,933 Speaker 13: and they were getting tackled by their own teammates, and 938 00:47:14,133 --> 00:47:17,252 Speaker 13: their wives came on trying to stop them and trying 939 00:47:17,293 --> 00:47:19,613 Speaker 13: to get to me. And there's a couple of people 940 00:47:19,693 --> 00:47:24,533 Speaker 13: on the sideline there got my fatality. They're going to 941 00:47:24,573 --> 00:47:28,773 Speaker 13: put it on Facebook and they'll get me eventually, and 942 00:47:29,933 --> 00:47:32,333 Speaker 13: so I called the game off. I got esquartered off 943 00:47:32,373 --> 00:47:37,333 Speaker 13: the field and as I didn't even really get changed 944 00:47:37,333 --> 00:47:39,252 Speaker 13: to hop from my motorbike and we began, they pushed 945 00:47:39,293 --> 00:47:42,013 Speaker 13: me off my motorbike and try to follow me on 946 00:47:42,133 --> 00:47:48,893 Speaker 13: the road. So it went to judiciary and the union 947 00:47:49,013 --> 00:47:52,733 Speaker 13: involved didn't even turn up at the judiciary to support me. 948 00:47:53,613 --> 00:47:56,652 Speaker 13: And the guy had he had been carried pretty much 949 00:47:56,693 --> 00:48:00,093 Speaker 13: every year, got red card for violence and punching and 950 00:48:00,213 --> 00:48:04,013 Speaker 13: stuff like that. He got three weeks for that. So 951 00:48:04,173 --> 00:48:08,293 Speaker 13: as a consequence, I had no longer referee and pretty 952 00:48:08,453 --> 00:48:11,692 Speaker 13: much don't even follow rugby. Exit for my own boy, 953 00:48:12,573 --> 00:48:14,813 Speaker 13: I'll go and watch this game, but other than never, 954 00:48:14,893 --> 00:48:15,853 Speaker 13: don't even watch rugby. 955 00:48:15,893 --> 00:48:21,893 Speaker 3: Now that must feel That would make me extremely angry, Matt, 956 00:48:21,973 --> 00:48:24,813 Speaker 3: because you're doing something because you love the game. You're 957 00:48:24,813 --> 00:48:27,373 Speaker 3: giving back to the community, You're putting yourself out there. 958 00:48:27,413 --> 00:48:30,133 Speaker 3: You don't need to be there, You're putting yourself out there, 959 00:48:30,253 --> 00:48:33,253 Speaker 3: and that's the way you get treated, even if the 960 00:48:33,333 --> 00:48:37,933 Speaker 3: decision is wrong. You know you're doing your very best. 961 00:48:38,133 --> 00:48:40,733 Speaker 3: It seems absolutely insane that was only three week ban. 962 00:48:42,053 --> 00:48:44,373 Speaker 13: And the worst thing was it was caught on camera, 963 00:48:45,213 --> 00:48:47,493 Speaker 13: the whole because someone videod the whole game, so the 964 00:48:47,533 --> 00:48:49,853 Speaker 13: whole thing was caught on camera and sent to the union. 965 00:48:51,853 --> 00:48:56,733 Speaker 13: And yes, and abuse didn't just stop there, even in 966 00:48:56,813 --> 00:49:01,013 Speaker 13: the even in the judicial hearing. I was copying them 967 00:49:01,093 --> 00:49:05,493 Speaker 13: there from from the player and his club captain. 968 00:49:05,733 --> 00:49:06,693 Speaker 3: What a mum. 969 00:49:09,973 --> 00:49:10,692 Speaker 8: And all that sort of thing. 970 00:49:10,813 --> 00:49:15,933 Speaker 3: What an absolute loser that player is, What an absolute loser? 971 00:49:16,093 --> 00:49:18,373 Speaker 3: That just makes that makes me angry. What what level 972 00:49:18,493 --> 00:49:22,652 Speaker 3: was this at, Matt? This was senior level, senior level. 973 00:49:23,213 --> 00:49:25,453 Speaker 2: The wrong person left the game of rugby, Matt, We're 974 00:49:25,453 --> 00:49:26,773 Speaker 2: going to say, and we can all see that. But 975 00:49:26,893 --> 00:49:30,093 Speaker 2: the fact that the local association didn't turn up so 976 00:49:30,213 --> 00:49:34,093 Speaker 2: effectively is that part of the problem that sometimes these 977 00:49:34,133 --> 00:49:39,533 Speaker 2: associations are protecting these players when they've been absolute dirt baggs. 978 00:49:40,693 --> 00:49:44,573 Speaker 13: Yes, I think so. And that was the threat. Thereat 979 00:49:44,653 --> 00:49:48,053 Speaker 13: threat was one thing, but not getting a support from 980 00:49:48,093 --> 00:49:51,093 Speaker 13: my union and my fears was the worst part of it, 981 00:49:52,293 --> 00:49:57,013 Speaker 13: and which has made made my decision to quit. That 982 00:49:57,333 --> 00:50:01,253 Speaker 13: was the worst, the worst part of it. And because 983 00:50:01,253 --> 00:50:02,693 Speaker 13: at the start of the year they said they're going 984 00:50:02,733 --> 00:50:06,293 Speaker 13: to stemp down on sideline abuse and get rid of it. 985 00:50:08,453 --> 00:50:12,013 Speaker 13: And then that happened, and it was like it wasn't 986 00:50:12,053 --> 00:50:15,373 Speaker 13: the first occasion during the year that someone had been threatened, 987 00:50:16,173 --> 00:50:20,173 Speaker 13: and very similar circumstances are not quite as bad, but 988 00:50:20,733 --> 00:50:26,212 Speaker 13: nothing happened there. But yeah, and I do find two 989 00:50:26,413 --> 00:50:31,333 Speaker 13: also parents on the sideline at kids games probably amongst 990 00:50:31,373 --> 00:50:38,692 Speaker 13: the worst of the abuses towards referees. And I sort 991 00:50:38,733 --> 00:50:40,453 Speaker 13: of think we might need to go to where some 992 00:50:40,613 --> 00:50:43,172 Speaker 13: side basketball goes is where you're only allowed to clap, 993 00:50:43,933 --> 00:50:46,373 Speaker 13: you're not allowed to yell out because the kids are 994 00:50:46,413 --> 00:50:49,213 Speaker 13: trying to play a game. And you'll notice that if 995 00:50:49,453 --> 00:50:53,172 Speaker 13: the parents start yelling out, the kids start getting out 996 00:50:53,213 --> 00:50:55,652 Speaker 13: of control, and then it's harder for the referee there too. 997 00:50:55,893 --> 00:50:59,533 Speaker 3: But you're absolutely rubbish parent. I mean, part of the 998 00:50:59,573 --> 00:51:01,973 Speaker 3: reason why your kids are playing sport is to teach 999 00:51:02,053 --> 00:51:04,652 Speaker 3: them sportsmanship and teach them how to behave. I mean 1000 00:51:04,813 --> 00:51:08,853 Speaker 3: that's a big part of it, you know, teamwork and 1001 00:51:08,973 --> 00:51:11,732 Speaker 3: how you behave in the wild, society, fairness, all those 1002 00:51:11,853 --> 00:51:13,253 Speaker 3: kind of things. So if you're a parent and you're 1003 00:51:13,253 --> 00:51:15,133 Speaker 3: taking your kid along and you're acting like a complete 1004 00:51:15,173 --> 00:51:17,933 Speaker 3: dickhead like that, then you're just a rubbish parent. 1005 00:51:18,973 --> 00:51:21,093 Speaker 13: Yeah, well, yeah, that's right, and then taking the wins 1006 00:51:21,133 --> 00:51:24,773 Speaker 13: with the losses and also taking you know, like, yeah, 1007 00:51:25,493 --> 00:51:28,252 Speaker 13: from a referees point of view, you're out there, there's 1008 00:51:28,293 --> 00:51:30,813 Speaker 13: one person out there. If you haven't got as, you're 1009 00:51:30,853 --> 00:51:33,293 Speaker 13: out there by yourself. You've got thirty players on the field, 1010 00:51:33,733 --> 00:51:35,613 Speaker 13: and it just takes one person to run in front 1011 00:51:35,653 --> 00:51:36,653 Speaker 13: of you and you've missed a knock on. 1012 00:51:37,053 --> 00:51:38,413 Speaker 3: Yeah. And do you think do you think that might 1013 00:51:38,453 --> 00:51:41,133 Speaker 3: be part of it, Matt, that people watch sport at 1014 00:51:41,173 --> 00:51:44,693 Speaker 3: home and there's so much video officiating going on, and 1015 00:51:45,013 --> 00:51:47,173 Speaker 3: we go right down to the minutie that you that 1016 00:51:47,293 --> 00:51:50,693 Speaker 3: people think that that refs are able to get the 1017 00:51:50,813 --> 00:51:53,053 Speaker 3: exact answer. Do you think that might be part of 1018 00:51:53,093 --> 00:51:55,973 Speaker 3: it that people are bringing this this sort of unrealistic 1019 00:51:56,613 --> 00:51:59,013 Speaker 3: expectation on what a ref can do to the game. 1020 00:52:00,373 --> 00:52:03,293 Speaker 19: Yeah, absolutely they do. Here there because they see them 1021 00:52:03,373 --> 00:52:04,333 Speaker 19: going up to the TV. 1022 00:52:04,453 --> 00:52:06,772 Speaker 13: They see the TV official. 1023 00:52:06,493 --> 00:52:09,853 Speaker 19: Coming in and saying, no, this foil play behind We're 1024 00:52:10,813 --> 00:52:13,773 Speaker 19: in a club game. You may have referre as if 1025 00:52:13,773 --> 00:52:16,772 Speaker 19: you're lucky, but most often you don't and you can't 1026 00:52:16,773 --> 00:52:21,253 Speaker 19: see what's behind you. And also when they watch it, 1027 00:52:21,373 --> 00:52:26,373 Speaker 19: on TV too. Now, Unfortunately there's more and more. 1028 00:52:26,533 --> 00:52:27,893 Speaker 13: They want the game to flow for. 1029 00:52:28,013 --> 00:52:31,493 Speaker 19: TV audience, so there is stuff that is not picked 1030 00:52:31,573 --> 00:52:34,493 Speaker 19: up purposely so that the game can flow, and they're 1031 00:52:34,493 --> 00:52:35,652 Speaker 19: not blowing the whistle too often. 1032 00:52:36,973 --> 00:52:39,893 Speaker 3: Now, Matt as haven't been involved in TV games. 1033 00:52:39,933 --> 00:52:42,013 Speaker 13: I know that's a fact because we told that before 1034 00:52:42,013 --> 00:52:42,652 Speaker 13: we go out there. 1035 00:52:42,893 --> 00:52:45,333 Speaker 3: Now, Matt as a referee that's left the game because 1036 00:52:45,373 --> 00:52:48,253 Speaker 3: of this. Do you think that what Hirafenawa Capiti Rugby 1037 00:52:48,373 --> 00:52:51,853 Speaker 3: Unions has done canceling all matches on June twenty eighth 1038 00:52:51,933 --> 00:52:53,733 Speaker 3: due to the serious referee abuse? Do you do you 1039 00:52:53,813 --> 00:52:56,013 Speaker 3: support that? And do you think that that is the 1040 00:52:56,173 --> 00:52:58,293 Speaker 3: kind of thing that might stamp out this kind of behavior. 1041 00:53:00,413 --> 00:53:04,853 Speaker 13: I see what they're doing, but it's sort of you're 1042 00:53:04,933 --> 00:53:09,493 Speaker 13: punishing the majority for the minority. I would have been 1043 00:53:09,573 --> 00:53:12,453 Speaker 13: more inclined to think that the two teams involved, or 1044 00:53:12,653 --> 00:53:15,652 Speaker 13: if it was just one team involved, take them out 1045 00:53:15,653 --> 00:53:17,893 Speaker 13: of the competition for the season all of their teams. 1046 00:53:18,973 --> 00:53:21,533 Speaker 3: Thank you so much for your call, Matt and those insights. 1047 00:53:21,613 --> 00:53:22,652 Speaker 3: It makes my blood boil. 1048 00:53:22,773 --> 00:53:25,093 Speaker 2: Yeah, it does make you anger. Hearing Matt's story and 1049 00:53:25,133 --> 00:53:27,732 Speaker 2: the fact that he can't even watch rugby anymore because 1050 00:53:27,733 --> 00:53:29,733 Speaker 2: of how he is treated. Oh eight hundred eighty ten 1051 00:53:29,773 --> 00:53:32,053 Speaker 2: eighty is the number to call if you were reffing 1052 00:53:32,173 --> 00:53:34,772 Speaker 2: sports games? Did you have to leave as well because 1053 00:53:34,813 --> 00:53:36,973 Speaker 2: of the abuse that you've faced. Really keen to get 1054 00:53:37,013 --> 00:53:38,853 Speaker 2: your views. And if you're appearing on the sideline and 1055 00:53:38,933 --> 00:53:41,693 Speaker 2: you see some other idiot pear at screaming abuse, what 1056 00:53:41,813 --> 00:53:42,173 Speaker 2: do you do? 1057 00:53:42,533 --> 00:53:44,333 Speaker 3: Or if you're appearing on the sideline and you think 1058 00:53:44,413 --> 00:53:46,293 Speaker 3: it's a good idea to be screaming abuse at the 1059 00:53:46,413 --> 00:53:49,013 Speaker 3: reef yep, then I'd be interested to hear from you. 1060 00:53:49,213 --> 00:53:50,813 Speaker 2: Come on in I eight one hundred eighty ten eighty 1061 00:53:50,853 --> 00:53:52,493 Speaker 2: is the number to call twenty three past. 1062 00:53:52,333 --> 00:53:59,893 Speaker 1: Two Matt Heathen Tyler Adams afternoons call oh eight hundred 1063 00:53:59,973 --> 00:54:02,253 Speaker 1: eighty ten eighty on News Talk zby. 1064 00:54:02,293 --> 00:54:05,813 Speaker 2: Twenty six past two, and we're talking about referee abuse. 1065 00:54:05,893 --> 00:54:08,732 Speaker 2: This is on the back of horror Fenoa carpety rug union. 1066 00:54:08,773 --> 00:54:12,213 Speaker 2: I've canceled all rugby games this weekend after a referee 1067 00:54:12,333 --> 00:54:14,573 Speaker 2: was so seriously abused They say he had to be 1068 00:54:14,693 --> 00:54:17,613 Speaker 2: escorted to his car over safety fears. Really keen to 1069 00:54:17,733 --> 00:54:20,533 Speaker 2: hear your experiences on the sidelines. What are you seeing 1070 00:54:20,613 --> 00:54:23,373 Speaker 2: if you have been a referee, is the abuse getting worse? 1071 00:54:23,533 --> 00:54:23,613 Speaker 10: Oh? 1072 00:54:23,653 --> 00:54:25,173 Speaker 2: Eight hundred and eighty ten eighties the number to. 1073 00:54:25,213 --> 00:54:28,053 Speaker 3: Call Kate, Welcome to the show. You've been a ref 1074 00:54:28,173 --> 00:54:28,772 Speaker 3: for thirty years? 1075 00:54:29,813 --> 00:54:33,813 Speaker 8: Yes, yes, I have referee football women and men's and 1076 00:54:34,173 --> 00:54:36,533 Speaker 8: I don't believe it's got worse. I think it's always 1077 00:54:36,573 --> 00:54:40,093 Speaker 8: been there and what horror for ir have done. I 1078 00:54:40,293 --> 00:54:43,933 Speaker 8: frutly agree with people really really need to know that 1079 00:54:44,333 --> 00:54:47,013 Speaker 8: you have You've got to have a referee. You've got 1080 00:54:47,093 --> 00:54:49,373 Speaker 8: to have a referee because if you think it's bad 1081 00:54:49,573 --> 00:54:53,733 Speaker 8: they're tracking one individual because of decisions, try playing again 1082 00:54:54,093 --> 00:54:55,653 Speaker 8: without one exactly. 1083 00:54:56,693 --> 00:55:00,453 Speaker 3: Yeah, do you think that so that's your referee football? 1084 00:55:01,093 --> 00:55:05,613 Speaker 3: Do you think football fans and players or football parents 1085 00:55:05,693 --> 00:55:12,493 Speaker 3: and supporters he's better than the rugby or league? No, 1086 00:55:13,933 --> 00:55:14,293 Speaker 3: you don't know. 1087 00:55:14,413 --> 00:55:16,453 Speaker 8: I think they're I think they're all the stay right 1088 00:55:17,133 --> 00:55:17,493 Speaker 8: because I. 1089 00:55:17,493 --> 00:55:19,893 Speaker 3: Mean there's I mean there's less of a physical element 1090 00:55:20,013 --> 00:55:22,493 Speaker 3: to it, though you don't think that. Maybe people, I 1091 00:55:22,693 --> 00:55:26,293 Speaker 3: know more get up by the fact people are smashing 1092 00:55:26,333 --> 00:55:29,653 Speaker 3: people on field, that that that creates a more aggressive atmosphere. 1093 00:55:33,133 --> 00:55:35,453 Speaker 8: I've got friends who are rugby referees and you know, 1094 00:55:36,173 --> 00:55:39,213 Speaker 8: talked to them and you know I don't believe so 1095 00:55:40,413 --> 00:55:45,733 Speaker 8: obviously everybody's experience is different. Yeah, you know my experiences. 1096 00:55:45,973 --> 00:55:48,893 Speaker 8: You know, I've been threatened. I had a guy help 1097 00:55:48,973 --> 00:55:51,493 Speaker 8: me down with just you know, a few inches from 1098 00:55:51,533 --> 00:55:54,133 Speaker 8: my face and I said, I looked up at him 1099 00:55:54,293 --> 00:55:55,812 Speaker 8: and I said, you'll never play again. 1100 00:55:57,013 --> 00:55:57,893 Speaker 2: And what did he say to that? 1101 00:55:59,373 --> 00:56:01,613 Speaker 8: Well, I sent him off. I didn't care what he said. 1102 00:56:01,773 --> 00:56:03,013 Speaker 2: Did he play again? I hope not. 1103 00:56:04,173 --> 00:56:04,373 Speaker 12: Well. 1104 00:56:04,573 --> 00:56:08,093 Speaker 8: I think he was stayed for a while. He didn't 1105 00:56:08,093 --> 00:56:11,373 Speaker 8: actual physically hit me. But I told you what. There 1106 00:56:11,453 --> 00:56:15,053 Speaker 8: have been occasions since football where referee has been struck 1107 00:56:15,493 --> 00:56:17,252 Speaker 8: and they have been banned for life. 1108 00:56:17,293 --> 00:56:18,373 Speaker 16: Whoever did it good? 1109 00:56:18,693 --> 00:56:21,293 Speaker 2: But clearly an incident like that, Kate, that is not 1110 00:56:21,493 --> 00:56:24,253 Speaker 2: okay at any level. And the very fact that that 1111 00:56:24,413 --> 00:56:27,053 Speaker 2: can happen to someone like you, refereeing, going out of 1112 00:56:27,093 --> 00:56:29,573 Speaker 2: your way, volunteering for something that you love, and you're 1113 00:56:29,613 --> 00:56:32,773 Speaker 2: still doing it thirty years later, that to me is 1114 00:56:32,853 --> 00:56:33,893 Speaker 2: insentive anymore. 1115 00:56:34,333 --> 00:56:36,253 Speaker 8: I'm seventy five now I'm not doing it anymore. 1116 00:56:36,973 --> 00:56:40,933 Speaker 2: Well, yes, yes, sound forty cages, sound very chipper, But 1117 00:56:41,293 --> 00:56:43,773 Speaker 2: thank you. But you know, just just hearing you speaking 1118 00:56:43,853 --> 00:56:46,413 Speaker 2: and say, that's just the way it is and take 1119 00:56:46,453 --> 00:56:48,293 Speaker 2: my head off to you for the what you've given 1120 00:56:48,333 --> 00:56:50,413 Speaker 2: to your community. But it shouldn't be that's the way 1121 00:56:50,453 --> 00:56:50,653 Speaker 2: it is. 1122 00:56:51,613 --> 00:56:54,133 Speaker 8: Yeah, that's it. What does it take does it take 1123 00:56:54,213 --> 00:56:58,813 Speaker 8: for every sporting code have to shut down for a 1124 00:56:58,893 --> 00:57:00,893 Speaker 8: whole week so no one can play? 1125 00:57:02,813 --> 00:57:02,853 Speaker 7: What? 1126 00:57:03,133 --> 00:57:03,293 Speaker 14: You know? 1127 00:57:03,573 --> 00:57:05,093 Speaker 8: Would that bring it tone? Would it? 1128 00:57:05,413 --> 00:57:05,613 Speaker 1: Well? 1129 00:57:05,853 --> 00:57:09,013 Speaker 2: I agree with what Cordefenawa has done here by canceling 1130 00:57:09,133 --> 00:57:11,293 Speaker 2: or rugby. Whether that will make a stick a difference, 1131 00:57:11,373 --> 00:57:14,413 Speaker 2: that's a different question that that abuse may still happen 1132 00:57:14,453 --> 00:57:16,893 Speaker 2: out in the community. But what else do you do, Kate, 1133 00:57:17,013 --> 00:57:19,213 Speaker 2: to say this is not acceptable anymore? 1134 00:57:20,253 --> 00:57:20,413 Speaker 20: You know? 1135 00:57:20,533 --> 00:57:23,093 Speaker 2: Do we do you stop games in the middle and 1136 00:57:23,213 --> 00:57:25,933 Speaker 2: say it's all over? Or do you cancel the whole weekend? 1137 00:57:27,253 --> 00:57:30,373 Speaker 8: I've done that. One player spat in my ear, jeez. 1138 00:57:32,253 --> 00:57:34,333 Speaker 3: And what was the response was that a male or 1139 00:57:34,373 --> 00:57:35,733 Speaker 3: female player? Kate? 1140 00:57:35,973 --> 00:57:37,253 Speaker 8: That was a male player? 1141 00:57:37,373 --> 00:57:41,773 Speaker 3: What kind of male player spits in a female referees ear? 1142 00:57:42,133 --> 00:57:42,853 Speaker 3: I mean, or anyone? 1143 00:57:43,253 --> 00:57:43,413 Speaker 5: Yeah? 1144 00:57:44,133 --> 00:57:44,613 Speaker 3: Did you that? 1145 00:57:45,413 --> 00:57:49,213 Speaker 8: That was the indoor and the management stopped the whole 1146 00:57:49,333 --> 00:57:52,653 Speaker 8: cop everybody and he said to them, you need to 1147 00:57:52,773 --> 00:57:55,893 Speaker 8: understand that I can get players every day of the week. 1148 00:57:56,293 --> 00:57:57,613 Speaker 8: I can't get referees. 1149 00:57:57,813 --> 00:58:01,213 Speaker 3: Yeah, but it is with this the way they're doing it, 1150 00:58:01,333 --> 00:58:04,373 Speaker 3: with the horror Fenua compedy rugby union. It is a 1151 00:58:04,413 --> 00:58:07,093 Speaker 3: bit like I know this is probably an extreme example, 1152 00:58:07,213 --> 00:58:09,373 Speaker 3: but you know the pun of in the village because 1153 00:58:09,493 --> 00:58:12,573 Speaker 3: some rebels have blown up a bridge, you know, you 1154 00:58:12,653 --> 00:58:14,573 Speaker 3: know in a military situation where you go in and 1155 00:58:14,653 --> 00:58:16,813 Speaker 3: you just line up everyone against the wall and shoot them. 1156 00:58:17,453 --> 00:58:20,493 Speaker 3: Because there's this, I mean across this this rugby union. 1157 00:58:20,533 --> 00:58:23,453 Speaker 3: There's a whole lot of people have absolutely nothing to 1158 00:58:23,493 --> 00:58:27,213 Speaker 3: do with it, and you're going, okay, but I'm well behaved. 1159 00:58:27,253 --> 00:58:29,493 Speaker 3: Why am I getting punished? Because this is absolute loser 1160 00:58:29,533 --> 00:58:30,173 Speaker 3: at this other game? 1161 00:58:31,133 --> 00:58:34,133 Speaker 8: But if you compare rugby referees and football, if you 1162 00:58:34,253 --> 00:58:39,093 Speaker 8: watch football, the referee is often surrounded by players. They 1163 00:58:39,173 --> 00:58:41,933 Speaker 8: don't do that in rugby. So I think as a 1164 00:58:42,053 --> 00:58:45,853 Speaker 8: general rule of thumb, and I know people have played 1165 00:58:45,933 --> 00:58:48,333 Speaker 8: the game and they say, you just don't speak to 1166 00:58:48,413 --> 00:58:53,733 Speaker 8: the referee. And football, you know they still surround the 1167 00:58:53,813 --> 00:58:55,773 Speaker 8: referee and give them their opinion. 1168 00:58:56,813 --> 00:58:59,093 Speaker 3: How many how many times is how many times as 1169 00:58:59,693 --> 00:59:02,733 Speaker 3: a decision being overturned you run up scream in the 1170 00:59:02,773 --> 00:59:05,613 Speaker 3: referee space and he goes, oh yeah, okay, it's not 1171 00:59:05,653 --> 00:59:08,813 Speaker 3: a penalty, we'll reverse it, discuss. 1172 00:59:09,853 --> 00:59:12,013 Speaker 8: No no, no, no, that doesn't happen. They just run 1173 00:59:12,093 --> 00:59:12,973 Speaker 8: away with their head down. 1174 00:59:14,333 --> 00:59:17,853 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, exactly. But kay, I suppose that one of 1175 00:59:17,893 --> 00:59:20,933 Speaker 2: the reasons why I like what Horde Fenawa has done 1176 00:59:21,133 --> 00:59:24,253 Speaker 2: is because for people that have done no wrong and 1177 00:59:24,333 --> 00:59:26,333 Speaker 2: they don't get to play footy at the weekend. Now 1178 00:59:27,053 --> 00:59:30,973 Speaker 2: there hopefully their anger and discuss is directed towards the 1179 00:59:31,053 --> 00:59:33,893 Speaker 2: people that did this on this particular game, that abuse 1180 00:59:33,973 --> 00:59:36,413 Speaker 2: the ref to this level. So then as a community, 1181 00:59:36,493 --> 00:59:38,653 Speaker 2: as a rugby community in that part of the country, 1182 00:59:38,973 --> 00:59:41,813 Speaker 2: you wre all together as one to say I'm sick 1183 00:59:41,853 --> 00:59:45,613 Speaker 2: of these numdies who are threatening referees and they've stopped 1184 00:59:45,613 --> 00:59:48,653 Speaker 2: the whole week in rugby for everybody. So let's actually 1185 00:59:48,693 --> 00:59:50,493 Speaker 2: as a community come down on these numties. 1186 00:59:51,533 --> 00:59:56,053 Speaker 8: But it has to come from the top. It's not gone. 1187 00:59:56,213 --> 00:59:59,853 Speaker 8: But the community can't do it, it's too fragmented. It 1188 00:59:59,973 --> 01:00:02,293 Speaker 8: has to come from the top. So what Hurap and 1189 01:00:02,293 --> 01:00:05,453 Speaker 8: who are doing will bring it home loud and clear. 1190 01:00:06,013 --> 01:00:08,173 Speaker 3: Yeah, But when you say coming from the top, when 1191 01:00:08,173 --> 01:00:09,893 Speaker 3: it can so this situation, shouldn't it come from New 1192 01:00:09,933 --> 01:00:12,293 Speaker 3: Zealand Rugby that there's a break blanket roll across the 1193 01:00:12,493 --> 01:00:17,293 Speaker 3: entire country. And look what about this? What about I mean, 1194 01:00:17,493 --> 01:00:21,853 Speaker 3: you know, budgets are stretch, you know, but but does 1195 01:00:21,893 --> 01:00:23,773 Speaker 3: it need to get to the situation where there's security. 1196 01:00:23,773 --> 01:00:27,373 Speaker 3: There's security people there to protect the ref. If that's 1197 01:00:27,413 --> 01:00:29,053 Speaker 3: the case, then there just won't happen because you're not 1198 01:00:29,093 --> 01:00:31,173 Speaker 3: paying the ref. Odd when you're not paying the ref 1199 01:00:31,253 --> 01:00:33,213 Speaker 3: but you're paying the ref security, it would never work. 1200 01:00:33,333 --> 01:00:36,373 Speaker 8: Yeah, that's right. But I mean it is a really 1201 01:00:36,453 --> 01:00:40,733 Speaker 8: sticky situation. And I think, I know, I wish it 1202 01:00:40,813 --> 01:00:43,173 Speaker 8: was different, but I think it will all go on forever. 1203 01:00:43,333 --> 01:00:44,613 Speaker 3: Yeah, thanks to you call Kate. 1204 01:00:44,693 --> 01:00:48,333 Speaker 2: Yeah, very interesting. Give reefs tases, Yeah, that would go 1205 01:00:48,413 --> 01:00:50,373 Speaker 2: a long way. Actually, oh eight one hundred and eighty 1206 01:00:50,413 --> 01:00:52,173 Speaker 2: ten eighties the number to call love to hear your 1207 01:00:52,213 --> 01:00:56,013 Speaker 2: experiences as a reef or as appearent on the sidelines 1208 01:00:56,013 --> 01:00:58,173 Speaker 2: of sport fields up and down the country. It is 1209 01:00:58,413 --> 01:01:00,133 Speaker 2: twenty seven to three. 1210 01:01:02,973 --> 01:01:03,493 Speaker 3: US talks. 1211 01:01:03,533 --> 01:01:07,133 Speaker 15: There'd be headlines with blue bubble taxis. It's no trouble 1212 01:01:07,213 --> 01:01:10,413 Speaker 15: with a blue bubble. The House is adjourning early today 1213 01:01:10,653 --> 01:01:14,413 Speaker 15: after holding a special session where MPs are marking the 1214 01:01:14,533 --> 01:01:18,493 Speaker 15: death of the pat Maris Tokutai tash Camp overnight and 1215 01:01:18,613 --> 01:01:22,493 Speaker 15: flags will fly half masted at Parliament for coming days, 1216 01:01:23,533 --> 01:01:26,253 Speaker 15: a prediction it could take ten years for housing to 1217 01:01:26,373 --> 01:01:31,253 Speaker 15: intensify around Auckland's new CRL train stations, despite the government 1218 01:01:31,373 --> 01:01:35,333 Speaker 15: requiring apartments as high as ten or fifteen stories close 1219 01:01:35,413 --> 01:01:39,613 Speaker 15: to terminals. One person's in custody and christ Church after 1220 01:01:39,693 --> 01:01:42,173 Speaker 15: an armed police stand off that lasted more than four 1221 01:01:42,293 --> 01:01:46,613 Speaker 15: hours on Saint Martin's Wilson's Road, demands due and court 1222 01:01:46,693 --> 01:01:50,053 Speaker 15: accused of fleeing police in East Auckland this morning after 1223 01:01:50,093 --> 01:01:52,973 Speaker 15: a pursuit triggered by a barking dog alerting a person 1224 01:01:53,333 --> 01:01:57,893 Speaker 15: to suspicious activity about four am. Popular weight loss and 1225 01:01:57,973 --> 01:02:02,053 Speaker 15: diabetes drug we go V, also known as Ozempic, will 1226 01:02:02,093 --> 01:02:07,893 Speaker 15: reportedly be available in pharmacies next week. Oscar nominee Derneyville 1227 01:02:08,773 --> 01:02:11,653 Speaker 15: will direct the next James Bond film, the first in 1228 01:02:11,733 --> 01:02:16,613 Speaker 15: the franchise since Daniel Craig's final outing. Former Cabinet Minister 1229 01:02:16,733 --> 01:02:20,893 Speaker 15: Stuart Nash has a new job helping wealthy immigrants integrate 1230 01:02:21,013 --> 01:02:24,013 Speaker 15: into New Zealand society. You can see more at Enzit 1231 01:02:24,053 --> 01:02:27,173 Speaker 15: Herald Premium. Back to matt Ethan Tyler Adams. 1232 01:02:26,853 --> 01:02:29,053 Speaker 2: Thank you very much, Raylan, And we're talking about abuse 1233 01:02:29,133 --> 01:02:33,133 Speaker 2: directed towards referees of Fenowa Company Rugby Union. They have 1234 01:02:33,253 --> 01:02:36,493 Speaker 2: canceled all rugby games this weekend after quite a significant 1235 01:02:36,573 --> 01:02:39,533 Speaker 2: case of referee abuse to the point where he had 1236 01:02:39,533 --> 01:02:41,693 Speaker 2: to be escorted to his car over safety fares. 1237 01:02:41,853 --> 01:02:44,333 Speaker 3: Horo Fena have done the exactly the right things. This 1238 01:02:44,413 --> 01:02:46,533 Speaker 3: is text. The next time an idiot starts lamb besting 1239 01:02:46,613 --> 01:02:48,973 Speaker 3: the ref the spectators have a legitimate reason to tell 1240 01:02:49,053 --> 01:02:50,733 Speaker 3: him or her to shut the heck up, and they 1241 01:02:50,773 --> 01:02:53,653 Speaker 3: will do that. Cheers Pat. Yeah, I mean that would 1242 01:02:53,653 --> 01:02:55,613 Speaker 3: be the idea that there's a huge social cost to 1243 01:02:55,653 --> 01:02:58,493 Speaker 3: pay for it. If you start being an absolute dickhead 1244 01:02:58,573 --> 01:03:01,693 Speaker 3: like this person was, then you know everyone's going, well, 1245 01:03:01,733 --> 01:03:04,013 Speaker 3: you're going to take rugby away from everyone if you 1246 01:03:04,333 --> 01:03:06,253 Speaker 3: do this. That'd be the idea, Yeah, of it. It 1247 01:03:06,333 --> 01:03:08,253 Speaker 3: does feel a little bit like lining up the villages 1248 01:03:08,653 --> 01:03:12,133 Speaker 3: and shooting all of them because the rebels have blown 1249 01:03:12,213 --> 01:03:14,493 Speaker 3: up a tank, But yeah, I get your analogy. Yeah, 1250 01:03:14,773 --> 01:03:18,133 Speaker 3: Now you've got to say that generally, the the texts 1251 01:03:18,173 --> 01:03:22,053 Speaker 3: have been massively in support of horror Fenua Company Rugby 1252 01:03:22,133 --> 01:03:24,853 Speaker 3: Union and their decision, and also of reefs in general. 1253 01:03:24,933 --> 01:03:28,653 Speaker 3: But this text here which surprised me. If you are 1254 01:03:28,693 --> 01:03:31,253 Speaker 3: a crap ref, you get what you deserve. Do a 1255 01:03:31,293 --> 01:03:33,933 Speaker 3: good job, no problems. If you are too soft a 1256 01:03:34,053 --> 01:03:35,853 Speaker 3: ref and take a bit of abuse, don't do it. 1257 01:03:36,893 --> 01:03:40,533 Speaker 3: These reefs aren't heroes. They are just trying to move 1258 01:03:40,733 --> 01:03:44,853 Speaker 3: up to make get famous, to make to get famous, 1259 01:03:44,893 --> 01:03:48,053 Speaker 3: I guess, make get famous and make money doing international games. 1260 01:03:48,053 --> 01:03:51,213 Speaker 3: I guarantee that was a shit call that got that 1261 01:03:51,333 --> 01:03:51,973 Speaker 3: reef in trouble. 1262 01:03:52,253 --> 01:03:55,213 Speaker 2: Oh, cheapers, you'd love to be next to that fella 1263 01:03:55,213 --> 01:03:56,253 Speaker 2: at the sports heal, wouldn't you. 1264 01:03:57,013 --> 01:04:02,653 Speaker 3: Well, that isn't you idiots? Texter. Most refs in this 1265 01:04:02,773 --> 01:04:06,853 Speaker 3: country are not expecting to become an international ref. They 1266 01:04:07,053 --> 01:04:10,053 Speaker 3: just love the sport and think that and want to 1267 01:04:10,053 --> 01:04:13,013 Speaker 3: help out the community and going out and volunteering their 1268 01:04:13,053 --> 01:04:16,933 Speaker 3: own time so a game can happen. As Kate said before, 1269 01:04:17,293 --> 01:04:18,853 Speaker 3: no referee, no game. 1270 01:04:19,013 --> 01:04:21,773 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, exactly. If you're a referee, what do you 1271 01:04:21,853 --> 01:04:24,013 Speaker 2: say to a text like that, because clearly that's a 1272 01:04:24,093 --> 01:04:25,933 Speaker 2: mentality that is out there in the community. 1273 01:04:26,133 --> 01:04:28,933 Speaker 3: But how dumb are you, Texter? So you think that 1274 01:04:29,093 --> 01:04:30,893 Speaker 3: every ref is trying to become famous? 1275 01:04:31,973 --> 01:04:34,293 Speaker 2: Reefs are non heroes. Cheepause, that's a hell of a 1276 01:04:34,373 --> 01:04:35,853 Speaker 2: line for that text to throw out there. 1277 01:04:35,853 --> 01:04:37,813 Speaker 3: I'd like to know what that textter does in their 1278 01:04:37,893 --> 01:04:40,853 Speaker 3: life to help the community. What an incredible person they 1279 01:04:40,933 --> 01:04:44,413 Speaker 3: are that they can be saying things like that, Just amazing, 1280 01:04:44,653 --> 01:04:47,333 Speaker 3: amazing person doing amazing things every day for your community. 1281 01:04:47,693 --> 01:04:48,493 Speaker 3: Be you're a real hero. 1282 01:04:48,773 --> 01:04:50,773 Speaker 2: Yeah, if you want to respond to that text though, 1283 01:04:50,773 --> 01:04:52,133 Speaker 2: eight one hundred and eighty ten eighty. 1284 01:04:53,653 --> 01:04:55,373 Speaker 3: Paul, welcome to the show. 1285 01:04:56,653 --> 01:04:57,013 Speaker 7: There we go. 1286 01:04:57,373 --> 01:04:58,013 Speaker 3: Yeah, very good. 1287 01:04:58,053 --> 01:04:58,893 Speaker 2: I'll watch your view. 1288 01:05:00,413 --> 01:05:01,893 Speaker 13: By Actually. 1289 01:05:03,173 --> 01:05:05,933 Speaker 4: I didn't even start reffing until I was in my 1290 01:05:06,493 --> 01:05:10,493 Speaker 4: forty the ice think eleven years. 1291 01:05:12,213 --> 01:05:12,413 Speaker 8: Flat. 1292 01:05:12,493 --> 01:05:16,653 Speaker 7: For four hundred games, I had two really bad experiences 1293 01:05:16,693 --> 01:05:17,933 Speaker 7: and the rest of the pretty good. 1294 01:05:17,973 --> 01:05:18,173 Speaker 13: Really. 1295 01:05:18,293 --> 01:05:22,173 Speaker 4: I mean, you get the odd clown who probably the 1296 01:05:22,293 --> 01:05:25,213 Speaker 4: vocalizes what he should have kept in his head, but 1297 01:05:25,653 --> 01:05:26,573 Speaker 4: generally people. 1298 01:05:26,413 --> 01:05:27,893 Speaker 7: Are pretty good. So they have one. 1299 01:05:29,253 --> 01:05:30,413 Speaker 8: In a very. 1300 01:05:32,133 --> 01:05:36,693 Speaker 7: Rural area of the Union, and we've had a head 1301 01:05:36,733 --> 01:05:39,973 Speaker 7: high tackle. I was right above it. Blue. The whistle. 1302 01:05:41,253 --> 01:05:44,893 Speaker 4: Said leave us, leave us anyway. The boys with in 1303 01:05:44,893 --> 01:05:47,253 Speaker 4: all Russian, which was good, and that the guy who's 1304 01:05:47,293 --> 01:05:49,853 Speaker 4: been tackled gets up and needs the other boat right 1305 01:05:49,893 --> 01:05:53,893 Speaker 4: in the face. So there were only three minutes to go, 1306 01:05:54,133 --> 01:05:54,373 Speaker 4: and I. 1307 01:05:54,373 --> 01:05:56,693 Speaker 7: Said, I really want to have a red card here, 1308 01:05:56,773 --> 01:05:58,053 Speaker 7: and I thought, oh, Taylor. 1309 01:05:58,773 --> 01:06:01,373 Speaker 4: So I called out the guy who had made the tackles, 1310 01:06:01,893 --> 01:06:04,413 Speaker 4: I said, and I'd rest them for years, and I said, 1311 01:06:04,453 --> 01:06:07,693 Speaker 4: this is what happens when you do stupid crap like that. 1312 01:06:07,853 --> 01:06:11,013 Speaker 4: There was no need for him to do it, and 1313 01:06:11,813 --> 01:06:14,253 Speaker 4: I said, right, so pemp to head high tackle back 1314 01:06:14,293 --> 01:06:16,093 Speaker 4: pen He basically laughed at me because. 1315 01:06:15,853 --> 01:06:19,053 Speaker 7: He knew what was coming. Called the other guy up. 1316 01:06:19,133 --> 01:06:21,613 Speaker 7: He said, right, you were tackled high. You heard me, 1317 01:06:23,173 --> 01:06:25,893 Speaker 7: so leave it. I've got this. You're elective with our play. 1318 01:06:26,013 --> 01:06:28,053 Speaker 4: So you're going in the bin and the penalty has 1319 01:06:28,093 --> 01:06:32,853 Speaker 4: been reversed. And he just spared exist and he says, 1320 01:06:32,893 --> 01:06:34,493 Speaker 4: how would you like it if you got tackled? 1321 01:06:35,213 --> 01:06:36,053 Speaker 7: I would like it at all. 1322 01:06:36,133 --> 01:06:38,533 Speaker 4: But you have to trust me to arbitrate the game. 1323 01:06:38,613 --> 01:06:42,093 Speaker 4: It's not your job. And he had again sign here 1324 01:06:42,173 --> 01:06:44,053 Speaker 4: tattooed up his neck and other kind of lab we're 1325 01:06:44,053 --> 01:06:47,773 Speaker 4: talking about, and he was carrying on anyway. I said, 1326 01:06:47,813 --> 01:06:49,733 Speaker 4: so you're in the bin and he turned around and 1327 01:06:49,853 --> 01:06:52,493 Speaker 4: he said to me, you're dead after the game. 1328 01:06:52,613 --> 01:07:00,133 Speaker 7: Ballhead wo and he meant it and so I pushed 1329 01:07:00,133 --> 01:07:03,373 Speaker 7: the game straight away. The captain gave me a false 1330 01:07:03,493 --> 01:07:06,893 Speaker 7: name for him, and then the manager came on and 1331 01:07:07,053 --> 01:07:11,413 Speaker 7: he was brilliant and he said, look, they gave me 1332 01:07:11,493 --> 01:07:13,693 Speaker 7: all the details. Said that guy'll never pay the stub again. 1333 01:07:14,773 --> 01:07:18,173 Speaker 7: He said, please do your showering and out changing rooms. 1334 01:07:18,973 --> 01:07:20,453 Speaker 7: We want to on air. 1335 01:07:20,533 --> 01:07:23,013 Speaker 4: And so I went in, just went in there and 1336 01:07:23,093 --> 01:07:26,253 Speaker 4: they did the hacker and they were brought it and 1337 01:07:26,813 --> 01:07:28,773 Speaker 4: you know it wasn't the resting style. 1338 01:07:28,813 --> 01:07:30,373 Speaker 7: It was one guyline. 1339 01:07:31,693 --> 01:07:35,173 Speaker 4: And they anyway, I stilled in my car the other 1340 01:07:35,293 --> 01:07:38,693 Speaker 4: day and he got ten weeks, but they kicked him out. 1341 01:07:38,533 --> 01:07:38,893 Speaker 7: Of the club. 1342 01:07:39,693 --> 01:07:43,573 Speaker 4: And then the union also organized. We had a psychiatrist 1343 01:07:43,773 --> 01:07:47,933 Speaker 4: who was also referee, so they got him to do 1344 01:07:48,133 --> 01:07:51,653 Speaker 4: some me some calls just at the therapy and make 1345 01:07:51,693 --> 01:07:54,493 Speaker 4: sure I was okay, which was I really really appreciate it. 1346 01:07:55,373 --> 01:07:57,813 Speaker 4: The only real negative out of it was the very 1347 01:07:57,893 --> 01:07:59,293 Speaker 4: next week they appointed. 1348 01:07:58,933 --> 01:07:59,813 Speaker 7: Me to the same club. 1349 01:08:00,773 --> 01:08:05,013 Speaker 3: Oh there was that an It was that there must 1350 01:08:05,013 --> 01:08:09,053 Speaker 3: have been an Edmund mess up with it, you would. 1351 01:08:08,813 --> 01:08:13,733 Speaker 7: Assume that time. And then I had one other and 1352 01:08:13,813 --> 01:08:15,453 Speaker 7: so that was the scene game. I had one other 1353 01:08:15,533 --> 01:08:16,173 Speaker 7: in another. 1354 01:08:16,013 --> 01:08:19,133 Speaker 4: Twelve game that I did and I had the senior 1355 01:08:19,173 --> 01:08:20,973 Speaker 4: game straight after it. They just wanted to do a 1356 01:08:21,053 --> 01:08:24,412 Speaker 4: curtain raiser. Referees hate doing two games back to back 1357 01:08:24,492 --> 01:08:27,212 Speaker 4: because the game you need to be at your physical 1358 01:08:27,253 --> 01:08:29,452 Speaker 4: best and at the end of the game you're exhausted. 1359 01:08:29,853 --> 01:08:33,893 Speaker 7: Yes, but anyway this game. 1360 01:08:35,492 --> 01:08:37,293 Speaker 4: Are going to care for what I say. But basically 1361 01:08:38,173 --> 01:08:40,612 Speaker 4: all players have to have them out guard. They had 1362 01:08:40,652 --> 01:08:43,372 Speaker 4: about four. Luckily, I've been to a game in a 1363 01:08:43,532 --> 01:08:45,532 Speaker 4: very rural area before, and then you take a whole 1364 01:08:45,572 --> 01:08:48,932 Speaker 4: lot with there for them. One of them had about 1365 01:08:48,973 --> 01:08:51,013 Speaker 4: two studs of the boats and I said, look, I'll 1366 01:08:51,053 --> 01:08:52,412 Speaker 4: let it go to day, but he's got to have 1367 01:08:52,652 --> 01:08:53,692 Speaker 4: a full set next week. 1368 01:08:54,013 --> 01:08:56,492 Speaker 7: Another and he's calling me a little hitler. 1369 01:08:56,893 --> 01:09:02,492 Speaker 4: In our union, the coaches must stay in a in 1370 01:09:02,572 --> 01:09:05,772 Speaker 4: a technical area. They can't come out of it. And 1371 01:09:07,173 --> 01:09:08,253 Speaker 4: he was coming out. 1372 01:09:08,492 --> 01:09:10,532 Speaker 7: Into the game. He abused me. He was telling his 1373 01:09:10,612 --> 01:09:14,653 Speaker 7: players and head off. He was calling. 1374 01:09:15,812 --> 01:09:18,812 Speaker 4: He there was a player got was a twelve year 1375 01:09:18,853 --> 01:09:21,892 Speaker 4: old an injury at his knee, and I just ran 1376 01:09:21,973 --> 01:09:24,933 Speaker 4: over to him and said, I fell, you know, like, 1377 01:09:25,333 --> 01:09:27,612 Speaker 4: is it a contact intry or is it twisted? Done 1378 01:09:28,013 --> 01:09:30,452 Speaker 4: was just trying to get his vine talking rather than 1379 01:09:30,572 --> 01:09:35,333 Speaker 4: just crying and this guy ran into off and the 1380 01:09:35,412 --> 01:09:37,732 Speaker 4: other coach came over and said, hang out, walk up 1381 01:09:37,732 --> 01:09:38,293 Speaker 4: your hand you can. 1382 01:09:40,492 --> 01:09:42,932 Speaker 7: It was just out the gate. And after the game, 1383 01:09:42,973 --> 01:09:45,012 Speaker 7: I went to the changing rooms to change my jersey 1384 01:09:45,093 --> 01:09:46,692 Speaker 7: and a couple of the mothers came out to this 1385 01:09:46,732 --> 01:09:52,213 Speaker 7: sat day around there he's waiting with a bottle. You know, 1386 01:09:52,372 --> 01:09:55,293 Speaker 7: all it was solely on him. 1387 01:09:55,293 --> 01:09:59,492 Speaker 4: I've done nothing wrong, So I got a thing about 1388 01:09:59,532 --> 01:10:03,973 Speaker 4: that and the judiciary. That was the first time and 1389 01:10:04,093 --> 01:10:06,652 Speaker 4: only time I had to appear it su Normally with 1390 01:10:06,732 --> 01:10:07,692 Speaker 4: the red card, you ride a. 1391 01:10:07,732 --> 01:10:09,772 Speaker 7: Report and and be available by phones. 1392 01:10:11,093 --> 01:10:15,412 Speaker 4: I go to Judiciary and he's there, His managers, team 1393 01:10:15,452 --> 01:10:21,492 Speaker 4: manager and the president were there with him. The three 1394 01:10:21,612 --> 01:10:25,253 Speaker 4: judiciary panel members said they never said a word of 1395 01:10:25,372 --> 01:10:26,053 Speaker 4: support for him. 1396 01:10:26,333 --> 01:10:26,852 Speaker 7: For him. 1397 01:10:30,612 --> 01:10:33,652 Speaker 4: And he sort of gave his opinion of it, and 1398 01:10:33,772 --> 01:10:36,053 Speaker 4: then I gave Barton and their first words to me, 1399 01:10:36,213 --> 01:10:37,532 Speaker 4: don't let a pissant. 1400 01:10:37,293 --> 01:10:40,492 Speaker 7: Like that in your refereeing career. But I've had that. 1401 01:10:40,973 --> 01:10:42,213 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh fair enough. 1402 01:10:43,372 --> 01:10:49,412 Speaker 7: And then just as I was walking out, five guys 1403 01:10:49,492 --> 01:10:55,572 Speaker 7: from the club where I was resting that game, so 1404 01:10:55,772 --> 01:10:59,013 Speaker 7: they were the home team. They all came in to 1405 01:10:59,093 --> 01:11:01,532 Speaker 7: support me, which eight o'clock at night are all very time. 1406 01:11:01,612 --> 01:11:03,333 Speaker 7: I was pretty dan impressed for that. 1407 01:11:03,853 --> 01:11:06,852 Speaker 4: And the guy got game for twelve months from any 1408 01:11:06,893 --> 01:11:08,052 Speaker 4: rugby ground in New Zealand. 1409 01:11:09,572 --> 01:11:12,452 Speaker 7: Just appalling behavior and he had to have been on drugs. 1410 01:11:13,333 --> 01:11:15,812 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, thank you for sharing those stories, Paul. It 1411 01:11:16,093 --> 01:11:19,732 Speaker 3: sucks that that happened to you. But one question, when 1412 01:11:19,933 --> 01:11:21,452 Speaker 3: does it move to the point where it's not a 1413 01:11:21,532 --> 01:11:23,612 Speaker 3: judiciary and it's not within the world of rugby, but 1414 01:11:23,732 --> 01:11:26,852 Speaker 3: you just if someone's threatening to kill you, when do 1415 01:11:26,933 --> 01:11:29,013 Speaker 3: you just call one one one and say, look, this 1416 01:11:29,213 --> 01:11:33,093 Speaker 3: is this is basically this is a police issue. This 1417 01:11:33,293 --> 01:11:33,892 Speaker 3: is a death threat. 1418 01:11:35,013 --> 01:11:35,253 Speaker 7: Yep. 1419 01:11:37,973 --> 01:11:41,732 Speaker 4: I think people get their threats in that area pretty regularly. Yeah, 1420 01:11:42,213 --> 01:11:47,133 Speaker 4: but yeah, and you know you do it for nothing. 1421 01:11:47,173 --> 01:11:49,133 Speaker 7: You've got You've got it for the love of the game. 1422 01:11:50,133 --> 01:11:52,772 Speaker 7: And and as some wise coach. 1423 01:11:52,893 --> 01:11:57,333 Speaker 4: Said to me, yeah, the reason we do this is 1424 01:11:57,412 --> 01:12:00,612 Speaker 4: we're growing good young men and rugby is just a vehicle. 1425 01:12:01,213 --> 01:12:05,412 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, And that's the whole idea of sport exactly. 1426 01:12:05,652 --> 01:12:07,932 Speaker 2: And it's so sad that Paul is Paul Is now 1427 01:12:08,452 --> 01:12:10,692 Speaker 2: said I've had enough of riffing because I can't deal 1428 01:12:10,732 --> 01:12:12,213 Speaker 2: with that sort of Pavie and no one can blame 1429 01:12:12,293 --> 01:12:14,133 Speaker 2: him but cheaper. I mean, Paul was there for the 1430 01:12:14,173 --> 01:12:14,692 Speaker 2: passion and the. 1431 01:12:14,732 --> 01:12:16,053 Speaker 3: Good of the game. What would have been out with 1432 01:12:16,173 --> 01:12:16,972 Speaker 3: the first death thread? 1433 01:12:17,213 --> 01:12:20,372 Speaker 2: Yeah, me too, exactly thirteen to three back for you, surely. 1434 01:12:21,973 --> 01:12:25,572 Speaker 1: Matt Heath, Taylor Adams taking your calls on eight hundred 1435 01:12:25,572 --> 01:12:28,092 Speaker 1: and eighty ten eighty. It's Matt Heath and Taylor Adams 1436 01:12:28,253 --> 01:12:29,652 Speaker 1: Afternoons News Talks. 1437 01:12:30,333 --> 01:12:32,452 Speaker 2: Very good afternoon. She It is eleven to three, and 1438 01:12:32,492 --> 01:12:35,213 Speaker 2: we're geting a lot of correspondence from people who have 1439 01:12:35,492 --> 01:12:37,772 Speaker 2: reffed or got out of the reffing game because of 1440 01:12:37,812 --> 01:12:39,412 Speaker 2: the abuse of the faced of that you have to 1441 01:12:39,452 --> 01:12:42,772 Speaker 2: hear from you on our eight hundred and eighty ten eighty. Peter, 1442 01:12:43,213 --> 01:12:44,933 Speaker 2: you used to ref in the eighties. 1443 01:12:46,572 --> 01:12:50,772 Speaker 16: Yes through yes, and that time and. 1444 01:12:52,333 --> 01:12:52,492 Speaker 19: Right. 1445 01:12:52,853 --> 01:12:55,732 Speaker 14: What happened to me? The worst thing was that I 1446 01:12:55,893 --> 01:13:00,133 Speaker 14: had a senior game. But all this rubbish was even 1447 01:13:00,692 --> 01:13:04,612 Speaker 14: going on way back then. But I had two teams 1448 01:13:05,093 --> 01:13:10,133 Speaker 14: and I penalized one team, you know, the hangout free 1449 01:13:10,213 --> 01:13:15,532 Speaker 14: trip mixing one of the powers that were awarded the penalty. 1450 01:13:15,532 --> 01:13:18,932 Speaker 14: He said to me, look out too late, this big 1451 01:13:19,412 --> 01:13:23,333 Speaker 14: I won't give me nationality because it's still cool, righteous, 1452 01:13:24,133 --> 01:13:28,013 Speaker 14: But this fellow banged me one and it hit me 1453 01:13:28,133 --> 01:13:33,213 Speaker 14: in the neck, but it it decked me and starting 1454 01:13:33,213 --> 01:13:36,333 Speaker 14: to make a long story short. He came up on 1455 01:13:36,412 --> 01:13:41,412 Speaker 14: the Monday night at a judiciary and he got banned 1456 01:13:41,532 --> 01:13:44,532 Speaker 14: for life. But I understand he went back to the 1457 01:13:44,692 --> 01:13:46,333 Speaker 14: North Island and changed his name. 1458 01:13:46,933 --> 01:13:49,093 Speaker 16: But I also and the. 1459 01:13:49,133 --> 01:13:52,893 Speaker 14: Kenemy Rugby League did not like me doing it. But 1460 01:13:53,213 --> 01:13:59,852 Speaker 14: I put him on the charge of assault, yes, and 1461 01:14:00,093 --> 01:14:05,093 Speaker 14: he got fined. I think it's about fifteen hundred dollars. Yeah, 1462 01:14:05,133 --> 01:14:07,133 Speaker 14: fifteen hundred dollars, something pretty big. 1463 01:14:07,253 --> 01:14:10,532 Speaker 2: Anyway, Well that is good, I mean banned for life. 1464 01:14:10,612 --> 01:14:12,452 Speaker 2: That's exactly what you want. Thank you very much better. 1465 01:14:12,692 --> 01:14:15,572 Speaker 3: This Texas is our adult sun Reffs has teenage kids 1466 01:14:15,612 --> 01:14:19,372 Speaker 3: football matches and cops a bit of sideline abuse at times. 1467 01:14:19,452 --> 01:14:22,612 Speaker 3: I can assure you tech your Texter. He's not after 1468 01:14:22,652 --> 01:14:26,253 Speaker 3: international honors. He's being a good dad like thousands of 1469 01:14:26,333 --> 01:14:28,892 Speaker 3: others across New Zealand. That's from Joanne. 1470 01:14:28,973 --> 01:14:31,293 Speaker 2: Yeah, fantastic, All right, Oh eight one hundred and eighty 1471 01:14:31,372 --> 01:14:33,812 Speaker 2: ten eighty is the number to call. It is nine 1472 01:14:33,933 --> 01:14:37,013 Speaker 2: to three. Bag very shortly. You're listening to Matt and 1473 01:14:37,053 --> 01:14:37,973 Speaker 2: Tyler good afternoon't you. 1474 01:14:39,253 --> 01:14:41,612 Speaker 1: The issues that affect you and a bit of fun 1475 01:14:41,692 --> 01:14:46,492 Speaker 1: along the way. Matt Heath and Tyler Adams Afternoons News TALKSB. 1476 01:14:47,013 --> 01:14:48,652 Speaker 2: News Talks HEB. We're going to carry this on for 1477 01:14:48,692 --> 01:14:50,293 Speaker 2: a bit after three o'clock, so I'd love to hear 1478 01:14:50,372 --> 01:14:54,092 Speaker 2: your thoughts and experiences on the side of football fields 1479 01:14:54,173 --> 01:14:56,492 Speaker 2: or sports fields, but also as a referee and man 1480 01:14:56,572 --> 01:14:58,892 Speaker 2: oh man, we're getting a lot of text coming through. 1481 01:14:59,732 --> 01:15:01,333 Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel kind of bad about it because you 1482 01:15:01,333 --> 01:15:03,492 Speaker 3: don't want to put refs off. We need refs out there. 1483 01:15:04,253 --> 01:15:06,372 Speaker 3: What we need, you know, with the sport always cos 1484 01:15:06,412 --> 01:15:09,053 Speaker 3: better with billionaires, you know, you look at the We 1485 01:15:09,213 --> 01:15:11,933 Speaker 3: need some billionaire that just loves loves sport in New 1486 01:15:12,013 --> 01:15:14,532 Speaker 3: Zealand and goes I'm just going to blanket pay all 1487 01:15:14,572 --> 01:15:16,492 Speaker 3: the refs in the country and pay security for them. 1488 01:15:16,853 --> 01:15:19,812 Speaker 2: We need a Foley bell if you're listening, give us 1489 01:15:19,812 --> 01:15:21,892 Speaker 2: some of that sweet sweet cash for security at our 1490 01:15:22,173 --> 01:15:24,732 Speaker 2: rugby clubs. Eight hundred and eighty ten eighty is the 1491 01:15:24,933 --> 01:15:27,293 Speaker 2: number to call. This is a good text here that 1492 01:15:27,412 --> 01:15:30,852 Speaker 2: sees guys. I can't believe the stories I'm hearing. It's 1493 01:15:30,933 --> 01:15:33,532 Speaker 2: just total madness, no wonder people walk away and don't 1494 01:15:33,532 --> 01:15:35,293 Speaker 2: want to do it. Just crazy. I had no idea 1495 01:15:35,372 --> 01:15:37,612 Speaker 2: it was this bad. I don't blame the union for 1496 01:15:37,692 --> 01:15:39,772 Speaker 2: taking the action they have. That's from Phil. 1497 01:15:40,973 --> 01:15:43,892 Speaker 3: Guys. This has turned me off going to games as 1498 01:15:43,933 --> 01:15:46,333 Speaker 3: the buffied parents and supporters behavior ruined the game in 1499 01:15:46,452 --> 01:15:49,093 Speaker 3: overall enjoyment for the players. Yeah, I mean it does. 1500 01:15:49,293 --> 01:15:52,852 Speaker 3: And you know, when there's someone on your team that's 1501 01:15:53,293 --> 01:15:56,053 Speaker 3: yelling at the ref and yelling at players, it's so 1502 01:15:56,293 --> 01:15:59,333 Speaker 3: awkward and it makes us so fun for their kid, 1503 01:16:00,053 --> 01:16:03,372 Speaker 3: you the parent before it even gets to violence. Just 1504 01:16:03,532 --> 01:16:04,892 Speaker 3: some deckhead that won't shut up. 1505 01:16:05,013 --> 01:16:08,252 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's got to shame those people out of existence. 1506 01:16:09,492 --> 01:16:09,652 Speaker 20: Right. 1507 01:16:09,853 --> 01:16:12,612 Speaker 2: News is on its way, but really keen to get 1508 01:16:12,652 --> 01:16:14,173 Speaker 2: your views on this as we say, we're going to 1509 01:16:14,213 --> 01:16:16,932 Speaker 2: carry this on after three o'clock. If you can't get 1510 01:16:17,013 --> 01:16:20,132 Speaker 2: through on the phone lines, keep trying. Full boards bets 1511 01:16:20,293 --> 01:16:23,213 Speaker 2: the text number nine two for your stories as well. 1512 01:16:23,652 --> 01:16:25,933 Speaker 2: New Sport and Weather on its way. You're listening to 1513 01:16:26,093 --> 01:16:29,293 Speaker 2: matt and Tyler. Very good to have your company. As always, 1514 01:16:29,893 --> 01:16:31,213 Speaker 2: we'll see you on the other side. 1515 01:17:11,812 --> 01:17:16,132 Speaker 1: Your new home are insateful and entertaining talk. It's Mattie 1516 01:17:16,372 --> 01:17:20,293 Speaker 1: and Taylor Adams afternoons on news Talk Sebby. 1517 01:17:20,732 --> 01:17:23,132 Speaker 2: Good afternoon to you. Welcome back to the program. Seven 1518 01:17:23,213 --> 01:17:25,932 Speaker 2: past three, and we were having a great discussion about 1519 01:17:26,492 --> 01:17:30,012 Speaker 2: referee abuse. Hot Offenowa Company rugby union. They have canceled 1520 01:17:30,013 --> 01:17:33,612 Speaker 2: all rugby games this weekend after a particularly serious case 1521 01:17:33,652 --> 01:17:36,852 Speaker 2: of referee abuse. But we're hearing from a lot of 1522 01:17:36,973 --> 01:17:40,172 Speaker 2: people involved in sports around the country and referees themselves 1523 01:17:40,213 --> 01:17:42,013 Speaker 2: saying that they've had to deal with abuse for a 1524 01:17:42,053 --> 01:17:42,452 Speaker 2: long time. 1525 01:17:42,732 --> 01:17:44,772 Speaker 3: This text says, I challenged this huge dude and his 1526 01:17:44,893 --> 01:17:47,572 Speaker 3: wife who were abusing the poor ref at school rugby 1527 01:17:47,772 --> 01:17:50,812 Speaker 3: match in Parmi versus a hot Offenoit team. By the way, 1528 01:17:51,612 --> 01:17:54,052 Speaker 3: was told in no uncertain terms where he could stick 1529 01:17:54,133 --> 01:17:56,652 Speaker 3: my head after ripping it off. Where he would stick 1530 01:17:56,732 --> 01:17:59,692 Speaker 3: my head after ripping it off. Interesting, his wife was 1531 01:17:59,772 --> 01:18:03,173 Speaker 3: equally abusive. That's nice. I stood my ground and nothing happened. 1532 01:18:03,933 --> 01:18:06,772 Speaker 3: But afterwards, all the other parents from our team who 1533 01:18:06,853 --> 01:18:09,173 Speaker 3: had disappeared when I challenged the du sidled up to 1534 01:18:09,253 --> 01:18:11,892 Speaker 3: me and thank me. I was cracking myself while standing 1535 01:18:11,973 --> 01:18:15,133 Speaker 3: my ground. But there's no room for those types with 1536 01:18:15,253 --> 01:18:18,892 Speaker 3: their abuse. How about when the child registers, they get 1537 01:18:18,933 --> 01:18:21,732 Speaker 3: a code of contact which includes their parents. Abuse from 1538 01:18:21,812 --> 01:18:24,972 Speaker 3: either or on a rear or anyone else gets yellow 1539 01:18:25,013 --> 01:18:27,852 Speaker 3: carded and then the red card gets carried off. Yeah, 1540 01:18:27,893 --> 01:18:30,972 Speaker 3: carried on. It's a good idea red card the parents. 1541 01:18:31,093 --> 01:18:33,852 Speaker 2: Yeah, something needs to happen, that's for sure. 1542 01:18:34,732 --> 01:18:37,573 Speaker 3: Now we got this text before. That's scored some controversy 1543 01:18:37,893 --> 01:18:40,652 Speaker 3: some people, So can this TEXTA says, can you read 1544 01:18:40,692 --> 01:18:43,333 Speaker 3: out that text again and abuse that person? Some more 1545 01:18:43,532 --> 01:18:46,213 Speaker 3: enjoyed you abusing them? Yep, that was this text before 1546 01:18:46,293 --> 01:18:48,093 Speaker 3: read that out. Someone else says, Matt, you are telling 1547 01:18:48,133 --> 01:18:50,732 Speaker 3: people not to abuse people such as refs, and then 1548 01:18:50,772 --> 01:18:52,732 Speaker 3: you call a text or a dickhead and a muppet 1549 01:18:52,772 --> 01:18:55,213 Speaker 3: and not a hero. That is a pretty mixed message. 1550 01:18:55,452 --> 01:18:57,093 Speaker 3: I don't know. I think it's a bit different. It's 1551 01:18:57,093 --> 01:19:00,412 Speaker 3: a bit different. A radio host abusing a absolute dickhead. 1552 01:19:00,452 --> 01:19:03,412 Speaker 3: That texts in right, So this is the text in 1553 01:19:03,452 --> 01:19:04,372 Speaker 3: case you mix must it? 1554 01:19:05,612 --> 01:19:05,692 Speaker 20: Oh? 1555 01:19:05,812 --> 01:19:08,572 Speaker 3: This person said, actually this heads? Can you make that 1556 01:19:08,692 --> 01:19:10,852 Speaker 3: text a dickhead of the week. So there's mixed reports 1557 01:19:10,853 --> 01:19:12,532 Speaker 3: on my abuse of this person. But here's the text 1558 01:19:12,612 --> 01:19:15,093 Speaker 3: that came in on this on this issue. If you 1559 01:19:15,213 --> 01:19:17,333 Speaker 3: are a crap ref, you get what you deserve. Do 1560 01:19:17,452 --> 01:19:19,652 Speaker 3: a good job, no problems. If you are too soft 1561 01:19:19,692 --> 01:19:21,893 Speaker 3: to reft and take a bit of abuse, don't do it. 1562 01:19:22,213 --> 01:19:24,372 Speaker 3: These reefs aren't heroes. They are just trying to move 1563 01:19:24,492 --> 01:19:28,372 Speaker 3: up to make get famous and make money doing international games. 1564 01:19:28,412 --> 01:19:30,652 Speaker 3: I guarantee that was a shit call and the ref 1565 01:19:30,732 --> 01:19:34,012 Speaker 3: got that got the ref in trouble got what they deserved. 1566 01:19:34,893 --> 01:19:36,132 Speaker 3: You are a muppet, Yeah. 1567 01:19:36,013 --> 01:19:38,213 Speaker 2: You can absolutely call that person a dick and then 1568 01:19:38,293 --> 01:19:39,373 Speaker 2: abuse the abusers. 1569 01:19:39,572 --> 01:19:42,213 Speaker 3: You're a dickhead and a muppet texture and a knob. 1570 01:19:42,612 --> 01:19:44,732 Speaker 2: If you want to ring up and abuse this particular texture, 1571 01:19:44,732 --> 01:19:45,412 Speaker 2: you're more than welcome. 1572 01:19:45,532 --> 01:19:48,572 Speaker 3: Yeah. I think that's very different me pointing out the 1573 01:19:48,652 --> 01:19:50,213 Speaker 3: fact that that person that texts that and is a 1574 01:19:50,293 --> 01:19:53,572 Speaker 3: complete and utter spoon and an egg and a muppet 1575 01:19:54,293 --> 01:19:59,173 Speaker 3: and got their eyes for Christmas? Then is that the 1576 01:19:59,213 --> 01:20:02,213 Speaker 3: saying you say, it's very different from someone that someone 1577 01:20:02,253 --> 01:20:03,372 Speaker 3: abusing a ref exactly? 1578 01:20:03,412 --> 01:20:07,213 Speaker 2: I think absolutely you can abuse abusers, surely, But keen 1579 01:20:07,253 --> 01:20:08,972 Speaker 2: you get your views on this. One hundred and eighty 1580 01:20:09,013 --> 01:20:11,492 Speaker 2: ten eighty Haiti, how are you this afternoon? 1581 01:20:12,053 --> 01:20:12,213 Speaker 7: Yeah? 1582 01:20:12,293 --> 01:20:13,333 Speaker 21: Good things? How are you guys? 1583 01:20:13,772 --> 01:20:14,293 Speaker 3: Very good? 1584 01:20:14,692 --> 01:20:17,372 Speaker 2: Now? What's your thoughts about referee abuse? Now we know 1585 01:20:17,452 --> 01:20:19,652 Speaker 2: who you are, Haiti? You've been involved in sport in 1586 01:20:19,692 --> 01:20:20,692 Speaker 2: Canterbury for some time. 1587 01:20:21,853 --> 01:20:24,653 Speaker 21: Yeah, yeah, just yeah recently, I suppose. 1588 01:20:24,333 --> 01:20:27,732 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, yeah. So Hadi Stratford, for those listening right now, 1589 01:20:28,492 --> 01:20:31,132 Speaker 2: was the GM at the Tactics and has been involved 1590 01:20:31,173 --> 01:20:33,053 Speaker 2: in sport for a long time. So your kids both 1591 01:20:33,093 --> 01:20:37,133 Speaker 2: play rugby currently, Haiti, what's the level of abuse that 1592 01:20:37,293 --> 01:20:40,333 Speaker 2: you see on the sidelines of any Yeah, our. 1593 01:20:40,293 --> 01:20:43,293 Speaker 21: Kids are young, so we're still in that stage where 1594 01:20:43,732 --> 01:20:47,532 Speaker 21: every match one team does half and the other team 1595 01:20:47,612 --> 01:20:50,372 Speaker 21: does half. So to be honest, I and all the 1596 01:20:50,452 --> 01:20:53,053 Speaker 21: years I've been watching my kids play Rapier, I really 1597 01:20:53,093 --> 01:20:56,532 Speaker 21: actually haven't seen anything bad, which I suppose is a 1598 01:20:56,572 --> 01:20:59,213 Speaker 21: really great thing, and I do wonder if that's because 1599 01:20:59,293 --> 01:21:01,732 Speaker 21: sort of like you know, your your coach is doing 1600 01:21:01,772 --> 01:21:03,732 Speaker 21: one half and the other coaches doing one half, so 1601 01:21:03,812 --> 01:21:06,812 Speaker 21: there's a bit more sort of familiarity with it. But 1602 01:21:06,933 --> 01:21:09,012 Speaker 21: one thing I was going to say is that sort 1603 01:21:09,013 --> 01:21:10,972 Speaker 21: of one element that's been left out of the chat 1604 01:21:11,093 --> 01:21:13,093 Speaker 21: quite a lot that I've seen that works really really 1605 01:21:13,133 --> 01:21:16,572 Speaker 21: well was actually like needs to come from the coach 1606 01:21:16,652 --> 01:21:19,293 Speaker 21: in terms of setting the culture. So one of the 1607 01:21:19,412 --> 01:21:22,893 Speaker 21: things my oldest boys coach in his club used to 1608 01:21:23,013 --> 01:21:25,612 Speaker 21: do and it was brilliant, and before the start of 1609 01:21:25,652 --> 01:21:28,812 Speaker 21: every single game, especially the games that were sort of 1610 01:21:28,973 --> 01:21:30,852 Speaker 21: a bit tighter, he would come down the line to 1611 01:21:30,893 --> 01:21:33,612 Speaker 21: all the parents and in his like sort of gruff 1612 01:21:33,692 --> 01:21:35,732 Speaker 21: but kind of funny way, so I don't want to 1613 01:21:35,732 --> 01:21:37,852 Speaker 21: hear from any of you guys during the game. I 1614 01:21:37,893 --> 01:21:40,253 Speaker 21: don't want to hear your abuse. Ref and if I 1615 01:21:40,372 --> 01:21:42,612 Speaker 21: hear anything from you guys, as in our own parents, 1616 01:21:43,412 --> 01:21:44,892 Speaker 21: you'll be talking to me at the end of the game. 1617 01:21:45,173 --> 01:21:46,732 Speaker 21: And it was set in a way that was sort 1618 01:21:46,732 --> 01:21:50,532 Speaker 21: of like, I'm serious, was kind of joking, but actually like, 1619 01:21:50,933 --> 01:21:54,093 Speaker 21: you're on this team too, and so I suppose as 1620 01:21:54,133 --> 01:21:56,732 Speaker 21: a parent, I always thought, well, totally, you know, like 1621 01:21:56,853 --> 01:21:59,173 Speaker 21: if I'm not going to let him down, and I'm 1622 01:21:59,213 --> 01:22:01,173 Speaker 21: not going to let the team down because I'm part 1623 01:22:01,213 --> 01:22:04,852 Speaker 21: of the team. So I feel like coaches could, especially 1624 01:22:04,933 --> 01:22:07,012 Speaker 21: in a lot of the chat these referees are saying 1625 01:22:07,053 --> 01:22:10,492 Speaker 21: about the CTEAM, coaches could do a lot more to 1626 01:22:10,572 --> 01:22:13,972 Speaker 21: stop behavior, you know, like pool players off the field 1627 01:22:14,933 --> 01:22:17,452 Speaker 21: and talk to them, stand them down for again themselves. 1628 01:22:17,532 --> 01:22:20,772 Speaker 21: Why are they waiting until the union does something? Why 1629 01:22:20,853 --> 01:22:22,492 Speaker 21: not set the culture yourself? 1630 01:22:22,772 --> 01:22:26,692 Speaker 3: I wondered though, if some referee. Some coaches, you know, 1631 01:22:26,732 --> 01:22:30,532 Speaker 3: they're VOLTI volunteering their time as well. They aren't really 1632 01:22:30,612 --> 01:22:32,732 Speaker 3: an authority figure a lot of them, a lot of 1633 01:22:32,772 --> 01:22:35,333 Speaker 3: them might potentially be scared themselves. 1634 01:22:36,492 --> 01:22:38,372 Speaker 2: Do you think that it's not for the other team. 1635 01:22:38,412 --> 01:22:40,333 Speaker 21: I'm supposed you don't go and sort of speak to 1636 01:22:40,372 --> 01:22:42,652 Speaker 21: the other team. You're speaking to your own people. So 1637 01:22:42,812 --> 01:22:45,293 Speaker 21: there's sort of like a level of you know, t 1638 01:22:45,293 --> 01:22:46,933 Speaker 21: among guys. We're a team, we're all part of it. 1639 01:22:46,933 --> 01:22:49,053 Speaker 21: And I suppose getting a culture takes a while, doesn't it. 1640 01:22:49,412 --> 01:22:51,333 Speaker 21: You know, you build the trust up from your parents 1641 01:22:51,372 --> 01:22:54,213 Speaker 21: and all that kind of thing. I'm not saying it's 1642 01:22:54,293 --> 01:22:57,532 Speaker 21: the it's the golden nugget, but it's something that I've 1643 01:22:57,652 --> 01:23:01,093 Speaker 21: seen that works really really well, and I think it's 1644 01:23:01,173 --> 01:23:03,173 Speaker 21: something that teams could try if stuff seen. 1645 01:23:03,333 --> 01:23:05,933 Speaker 3: There's so many amazing coaches out there that you just 1646 01:23:06,013 --> 01:23:08,812 Speaker 3: feel so incredibly grateful when your kids are on teams 1647 01:23:08,853 --> 01:23:10,293 Speaker 3: with them, and that if they put it in the 1648 01:23:10,333 --> 01:23:12,812 Speaker 3: time they take out of their life and the example 1649 01:23:12,893 --> 01:23:16,333 Speaker 3: they set. I've just felt so incredibly lucky with that 1650 01:23:16,612 --> 01:23:18,372 Speaker 3: people would take that much time out of their life. 1651 01:23:18,492 --> 01:23:21,253 Speaker 3: I mean, I've coached teams, but I've got to say 1652 01:23:21,372 --> 01:23:24,532 Speaker 3: of pretty average coach and maybe a terrible role model. 1653 01:23:24,532 --> 01:23:28,772 Speaker 3: But I've just I felt so grateful for coaches that 1654 01:23:28,853 --> 01:23:30,492 Speaker 3: have stepped up and done that for my kids. You 1655 01:23:30,612 --> 01:23:33,412 Speaker 3: just can't believe that the difference they've made. 1656 01:23:34,133 --> 01:23:36,293 Speaker 21: Probably to that note, I think one thing we don't 1657 01:23:36,333 --> 01:23:38,772 Speaker 21: do very well in New Zealand is actually, like when 1658 01:23:38,772 --> 01:23:42,372 Speaker 21: you see an example of good referenging. Our kids were 1659 01:23:42,452 --> 01:23:44,772 Speaker 21: playing down in a Stevens tournament a couple of months ago, 1660 01:23:44,893 --> 01:23:47,213 Speaker 21: and this one way they had was just brilliant, Like 1661 01:23:47,293 --> 01:23:50,293 Speaker 21: he was communicated with the kids, he was just he 1662 01:23:50,452 --> 01:23:52,772 Speaker 21: was just fantastic. And so I went up to the 1663 01:23:52,853 --> 01:23:55,173 Speaker 21: end of the tournament just mate, like you're really good 1664 01:23:55,213 --> 01:23:57,932 Speaker 21: at refereeing. You should keep it up, like doing great jobs. 1665 01:23:58,253 --> 01:24:00,612 Speaker 21: And the smile on his face was just like awesome, 1666 01:24:00,652 --> 01:24:02,572 Speaker 21: and the organizer was beside him. So I think people 1667 01:24:02,652 --> 01:24:04,772 Speaker 21: don't do that enough as well, like when you see 1668 01:24:05,333 --> 01:24:07,572 Speaker 21: great stuff, like just actually acknowledge it. 1669 01:24:08,532 --> 01:24:09,692 Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely yeah. 1670 01:24:09,893 --> 01:24:12,452 Speaker 2: Haiti for the refs, And I know there's associations and 1671 01:24:12,492 --> 01:24:16,173 Speaker 2: local associations for volunteer refs, but do you think they 1672 01:24:16,333 --> 01:24:18,932 Speaker 2: need maybe a bit more power at the judiciary level 1673 01:24:18,933 --> 01:24:21,972 Speaker 2: when there is bad behavior when there's complaints made about 1674 01:24:22,173 --> 01:24:26,652 Speaker 2: threats that that association can come in with that support 1675 01:24:26,812 --> 01:24:31,372 Speaker 2: to potentially you know, have stronger bands or trying you know, 1676 01:24:31,612 --> 01:24:33,772 Speaker 2: a bit more teeth on this sort of behavior. 1677 01:24:34,492 --> 01:24:36,492 Speaker 21: Yeah, I think there's probably a few steps that that 1678 01:24:36,652 --> 01:24:40,013 Speaker 21: could happen before you get to sort of the severity 1679 01:24:40,053 --> 01:24:44,293 Speaker 21: of a judiciary. Like, for example, an idea of often 1680 01:24:44,372 --> 01:24:47,293 Speaker 21: thought about, like you know, in the age of technology 1681 01:24:47,372 --> 01:24:49,732 Speaker 21: these days, is there any way that unions could have 1682 01:24:49,812 --> 01:24:52,812 Speaker 21: an internal app with their referees where they rate the 1683 01:24:52,893 --> 01:24:56,652 Speaker 21: sportsmanship of a particular team week every team they referee 1684 01:24:56,692 --> 01:24:58,852 Speaker 21: week in and week out. And let's say it's one 1685 01:24:58,933 --> 01:25:03,293 Speaker 21: to five, a team gets and fives brilliant ones awful. 1686 01:25:03,492 --> 01:25:06,293 Speaker 21: Let's see a team gets two ones in a row. Well, 1687 01:25:06,372 --> 01:25:09,013 Speaker 21: then that then sort of sends an alert to the 1688 01:25:09,133 --> 01:25:10,893 Speaker 21: union to go, actually, we've got a problem with this 1689 01:25:11,053 --> 01:25:12,972 Speaker 21: team and we need to go and address it. Because 1690 01:25:12,973 --> 01:25:15,732 Speaker 21: one of the biggest problems for unions and all sports 1691 01:25:15,772 --> 01:25:18,932 Speaker 21: across the entire country is they don't have the staff 1692 01:25:19,013 --> 01:25:21,852 Speaker 21: to be dealing with these kinds of issues and they're 1693 01:25:21,893 --> 01:25:25,693 Speaker 21: already volunteer poor, right, So how can we use technology 1694 01:25:25,812 --> 01:25:28,053 Speaker 21: to kind of help us and give the reefs a 1695 01:25:28,093 --> 01:25:30,372 Speaker 21: little bit more power as well. So it wouldn't be 1696 01:25:30,492 --> 01:25:32,452 Speaker 21: something that was sort of open to the public because 1697 01:25:32,452 --> 01:25:36,053 Speaker 21: that would be an absolute nightmare, but something internal that 1698 01:25:36,173 --> 01:25:37,612 Speaker 21: could go to the union and sort of be like, 1699 01:25:37,652 --> 01:25:38,333 Speaker 21: we've actually. 1700 01:25:38,093 --> 01:25:38,932 Speaker 7: Got a problem with this team. 1701 01:25:39,053 --> 01:25:41,173 Speaker 21: Let's go and talk to them, sit down and have 1702 01:25:41,253 --> 01:25:43,812 Speaker 21: a beer maybe and kind of talk about the problems 1703 01:25:43,853 --> 01:25:46,452 Speaker 21: that we're seeing and let's try and fix it before 1704 01:25:46,492 --> 01:25:48,293 Speaker 21: we just go straight to the judiciary. 1705 01:25:49,013 --> 01:25:52,253 Speaker 2: Yeah, Haiti, great to chat with you. Thank you very 1706 01:25:52,333 --> 01:25:53,732 Speaker 2: much for giving us a bus. We're going to play 1707 01:25:53,732 --> 01:25:56,732 Speaker 2: some messages. It is quarter past three listening to Matt 1708 01:25:56,732 --> 01:25:57,532 Speaker 2: and Tyler. Good afternoon. 1709 01:25:57,612 --> 01:25:59,612 Speaker 3: Yet I'm getting a bit of abuse from my abuse 1710 01:25:59,692 --> 01:26:01,492 Speaker 3: of this text that I'd like to address when we 1711 01:26:01,612 --> 01:26:03,892 Speaker 3: come back, probably with some more abuse. With that extent, 1712 01:26:03,973 --> 01:26:04,732 Speaker 3: this is going to be good. 1713 01:26:07,013 --> 01:26:10,892 Speaker 2: Eighteen pass three. Now, before we went to the break, 1714 01:26:11,013 --> 01:26:14,253 Speaker 2: you mentioned that you've got some correspondence again on this 1715 01:26:14,692 --> 01:26:15,213 Speaker 2: one text. 1716 01:26:16,093 --> 01:26:17,492 Speaker 3: I mean, do we want to share the text again? 1717 01:26:18,692 --> 01:26:20,213 Speaker 2: You got to read it out. You got to read 1718 01:26:20,213 --> 01:26:20,492 Speaker 2: it out. 1719 01:26:21,333 --> 01:26:23,532 Speaker 3: If you are a crap reef, you get what you deserve, 1720 01:26:23,772 --> 01:26:25,772 Speaker 3: do a good job, no problems. If you are too 1721 01:26:25,853 --> 01:26:28,532 Speaker 3: soft to ref and take a bit of abuse. Don't 1722 01:26:28,612 --> 01:26:31,852 Speaker 3: do it. There are refs. These reefs aren't heroes. They 1723 01:26:31,893 --> 01:26:35,012 Speaker 3: are just trying to move up to make get famous. 1724 01:26:35,053 --> 01:26:37,812 Speaker 3: I've got every time I've read that out making get 1725 01:26:37,853 --> 01:26:41,772 Speaker 3: together and make money doing international games. I guarantee that 1726 01:26:42,093 --> 01:26:45,932 Speaker 3: was a shit call that got that reef and trouble. 1727 01:26:46,253 --> 01:26:48,732 Speaker 3: And I laid into that person saying that they were 1728 01:26:48,853 --> 01:26:52,133 Speaker 3: an idiot and a muppet and stupid and dumb and 1729 01:26:53,812 --> 01:26:57,812 Speaker 3: a massive example of what's wrong with thinking across the country. 1730 01:26:58,053 --> 01:26:59,932 Speaker 3: And that's helt fair when it came for that issue. 1731 01:27:01,213 --> 01:27:04,213 Speaker 3: And this business says, you can't just go abusing Texas 1732 01:27:04,333 --> 01:27:06,052 Speaker 3: met you don't know what is happening in their life. 1733 01:27:07,053 --> 01:27:09,173 Speaker 3: And this person is totally agree with those textings saying 1734 01:27:09,213 --> 01:27:11,732 Speaker 3: that you should be abusing a text while talking about 1735 01:27:11,772 --> 01:27:14,812 Speaker 3: people abusing refs. It's hypocritical. You need to grow up 1736 01:27:14,853 --> 01:27:17,013 Speaker 3: and stop abusing people, even if they are abusing you 1737 01:27:17,213 --> 01:27:19,572 Speaker 3: or refs. Well, I just want to say to all 1738 01:27:19,652 --> 01:27:22,053 Speaker 3: those texts, what you've just said is one of the 1739 01:27:22,093 --> 01:27:25,093 Speaker 3: most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard. At no 1740 01:27:25,253 --> 01:27:28,732 Speaker 3: point in your rambling incoherent text were you even close 1741 01:27:28,812 --> 01:27:32,052 Speaker 3: to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone 1742 01:27:32,173 --> 01:27:34,492 Speaker 3: listening to the show is now dumber for having listened 1743 01:27:34,492 --> 01:27:37,652 Speaker 3: to your text. Okay, and then I'll just leave it at. 1744 01:27:37,532 --> 01:27:39,532 Speaker 2: That, Okay, yeah, yeah, nicely said. That's a good place 1745 01:27:39,572 --> 01:27:41,013 Speaker 2: to leave it. Tanya, how are you? 1746 01:27:41,853 --> 01:27:42,053 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1747 01:27:42,133 --> 01:27:44,093 Speaker 22: You know, hey, look, I don't support that text that 1748 01:27:44,253 --> 01:27:47,213 Speaker 22: came in that you read out. I've been watching my 1749 01:27:47,372 --> 01:27:49,892 Speaker 22: son ref He started repping when he was fifteen up 1750 01:27:49,933 --> 01:27:52,452 Speaker 22: in Auckland, actually, you know, and he's been repping for 1751 01:27:52,572 --> 01:27:55,253 Speaker 22: twenty five years. He's still repping now, and we've got 1752 01:27:55,293 --> 01:27:58,372 Speaker 22: to look after these reefs. I've watched him get abuse, 1753 01:27:58,812 --> 01:28:03,093 Speaker 22: fat on, people swearing at him, but he's continued on 1754 01:28:03,213 --> 01:28:05,452 Speaker 22: for the love of the game. And I just take 1755 01:28:05,492 --> 01:28:07,333 Speaker 22: my hat off to her. I mean, we're in the 1756 01:28:07,372 --> 01:28:09,692 Speaker 22: Hawk Spain now, and he was reffing as a fifteen 1757 01:28:09,772 --> 01:28:12,293 Speaker 22: year old. He went to King's College up there there 1758 01:28:12,293 --> 01:28:14,892 Speaker 22: and they supported them reffing at that age. And he's 1759 01:28:14,933 --> 01:28:18,492 Speaker 22: come right through. He's done super rugby. Now he's forty. 1760 01:28:18,652 --> 01:28:21,972 Speaker 22: He's doing club rugby here in Hawks Bay. He's copped 1761 01:28:22,013 --> 01:28:24,173 Speaker 22: a lot over the years and I've watched it, and 1762 01:28:24,333 --> 01:28:27,013 Speaker 22: you know, I have to walk away sometimes because of 1763 01:28:27,053 --> 01:28:30,732 Speaker 22: the people on the side. Parents. I've watched them ref 1764 01:28:31,293 --> 01:28:35,452 Speaker 22: schoolboy rugby right up to Super rugby and they cop 1765 01:28:35,492 --> 01:28:37,772 Speaker 22: a lot these refs and without the rest there would 1766 01:28:37,812 --> 01:28:39,852 Speaker 22: be no game. So we've got to look after them. 1767 01:28:40,293 --> 01:28:40,812 Speaker 14: And I've just. 1768 01:28:40,893 --> 01:28:43,932 Speaker 22: Watched it year after year, and even now I've watched 1769 01:28:43,973 --> 01:28:48,093 Speaker 22: my son. He's a volunteer for the Hawks bay he 1770 01:28:48,253 --> 01:28:50,852 Speaker 22: drives down to danny Burt, which is two hours away. 1771 01:28:50,933 --> 01:28:54,372 Speaker 22: They don't get any support until the end of the year. 1772 01:28:54,732 --> 01:28:56,692 Speaker 22: I think they've been you know, they've given such a 1773 01:28:56,732 --> 01:28:59,293 Speaker 22: bit of petrol money, but that's it, you know, And 1774 01:29:00,013 --> 01:29:02,893 Speaker 22: I just take my head off to the referees, you know, 1775 01:29:03,093 --> 01:29:05,972 Speaker 22: of the day and just seeing the abuse sy cop 1776 01:29:06,053 --> 01:29:08,812 Speaker 22: and I think now someone said it on the caller 1777 01:29:08,893 --> 01:29:11,973 Speaker 22: said our unions have to step up support the referees. 1778 01:29:13,372 --> 01:29:17,532 Speaker 22: I like the idea of red carding those that play 1779 01:29:17,612 --> 01:29:21,532 Speaker 22: up on the side, but yeah, I think coaches, managers, 1780 01:29:21,772 --> 01:29:25,652 Speaker 22: rugby unions and you set it yourself. New Zealand Rugby 1781 01:29:25,732 --> 01:29:28,133 Speaker 22: Union have to step up otherwise there won't be a game. 1782 01:29:28,333 --> 01:29:31,013 Speaker 22: And good on hood of for Noa for doing what 1783 01:29:31,133 --> 01:29:33,772 Speaker 22: they're doing. And I think we'll be seeing a lot 1784 01:29:33,853 --> 01:29:35,932 Speaker 22: more of that around the country. Because I mean here 1785 01:29:35,973 --> 01:29:39,372 Speaker 22: in the Hawk's Bay we had a firearm incident at 1786 01:29:39,412 --> 01:29:43,372 Speaker 22: one of the games last year. I know we're you 1787 01:29:43,452 --> 01:29:47,293 Speaker 22: know their firearm views, and I mean that's just ridiculous. 1788 01:29:47,452 --> 01:29:48,972 Speaker 22: We can't let it get out of control. 1789 01:29:49,293 --> 01:29:52,093 Speaker 3: Well, what a great call to end this subject on again. 1790 01:29:52,213 --> 01:29:54,733 Speaker 3: I just say good on your son. That is phenomenal 1791 01:29:55,013 --> 01:29:58,333 Speaker 3: and what he's done has helped so many people over 1792 01:29:58,412 --> 01:30:02,013 Speaker 3: the years, and you know, helped young people grow up 1793 01:30:02,093 --> 01:30:04,013 Speaker 3: and learn sports and ship and all that kind of 1794 01:30:04,013 --> 01:30:06,372 Speaker 3: stuff and without refs that that stuff doesn't happen. So 1795 01:30:06,412 --> 01:30:09,532 Speaker 3: you should be very very proud and and our nation 1796 01:30:09,572 --> 01:30:11,492 Speaker 3: should be really really thankful to people like your son 1797 01:30:11,572 --> 01:30:13,612 Speaker 3: that step up and go out of their way and sack. 1798 01:30:13,492 --> 01:30:14,612 Speaker 13: Flow street time crowd. 1799 01:30:14,812 --> 01:30:15,012 Speaker 5: Yeah. 1800 01:30:15,093 --> 01:30:18,333 Speaker 3: Yeah, they're great New Zealanders. Your son's a great New Zealander. 1801 01:30:18,492 --> 01:30:19,412 Speaker 3: Thank you for calling. 1802 01:30:19,572 --> 01:30:23,213 Speaker 2: Thanks Daranya. A couple of texts to the break. What 1803 01:30:23,333 --> 01:30:25,333 Speaker 2: about a dobb and knob website where you can send 1804 01:30:25,372 --> 01:30:27,652 Speaker 2: any recording of abuse from the sidelines and they get 1805 01:30:27,732 --> 01:30:28,692 Speaker 2: recarded for the season. 1806 01:30:29,093 --> 01:30:31,612 Speaker 3: Dobbin Nobin, dobyin Noben, Yeah, Dobin Owen, I like it. 1807 01:30:31,692 --> 01:30:33,333 Speaker 3: It's got a good ring to it. Dave Dobbin nowen, 1808 01:30:34,412 --> 01:30:35,572 Speaker 3: Sir Dave Dobbin, nomen. 1809 01:30:37,213 --> 01:30:37,372 Speaker 19: Right. 1810 01:30:37,652 --> 01:30:40,213 Speaker 2: I think that's where we'll leave it, because coming up, 1811 01:30:40,452 --> 01:30:42,452 Speaker 2: we've been talking about this for a couple of days 1812 01:30:42,532 --> 01:30:45,093 Speaker 2: and we're really keen to chat about it. Hoarders. If 1813 01:30:45,133 --> 01:30:47,492 Speaker 2: you're a hoarder, you've got a hoarder in your family, why, 1814 01:30:48,053 --> 01:30:49,972 Speaker 2: why do you do it? And how did you deal 1815 01:30:50,013 --> 01:30:51,812 Speaker 2: with it? Really keen Teava chat with you on OH 1816 01:30:51,853 --> 01:30:53,973 Speaker 2: eight hundred eighty ten eighty. There's been a lot of 1817 01:30:54,013 --> 01:30:56,412 Speaker 2: tips come through on hoarders already. We'll get to some 1818 01:30:56,492 --> 01:30:58,732 Speaker 2: of those very shortly. Twenty three past three. 1819 01:31:02,812 --> 01:31:06,492 Speaker 1: Matt Heathen, Tyler Adams afternoons call OH eight hundred eighty 1820 01:31:06,572 --> 01:31:07,932 Speaker 1: ten eighty on news Talk. 1821 01:31:07,893 --> 01:31:10,253 Speaker 3: ZB twenty five past three. 1822 01:31:10,492 --> 01:31:13,293 Speaker 2: Thank you to everybody who called and and text us 1823 01:31:13,372 --> 01:31:16,293 Speaker 2: on the refrobuse discussion. Really enjoyed that. But this is 1824 01:31:16,372 --> 01:31:19,372 Speaker 2: going to be a great discussion hoarders. Nineteen complaints were 1825 01:31:19,372 --> 01:31:22,372 Speaker 2: made in one year about a house surrounded by hoarded 1826 01:31:22,412 --> 01:31:25,212 Speaker 2: goods before it caught fire at the weekend. So neighbors 1827 01:31:25,253 --> 01:31:28,853 Speaker 2: have been claiming sorry neighbors and locals have been complaining 1828 01:31:28,893 --> 01:31:32,532 Speaker 2: about this particular house and yard for the last few years, 1829 01:31:32,532 --> 01:31:35,213 Speaker 2: and they say that the council has done nothing to 1830 01:31:35,532 --> 01:31:39,093 Speaker 2: stop this particular person hoarding various things on their lawn 1831 01:31:39,572 --> 01:31:42,173 Speaker 2: and sadly it went up in fire. But we want 1832 01:31:42,213 --> 01:31:43,772 Speaker 2: to take it a bit wider than that and talk 1833 01:31:43,853 --> 01:31:46,412 Speaker 2: to you about hoarding yourself. If you are a hoarder, 1834 01:31:46,532 --> 01:31:49,372 Speaker 2: or you've got a hoarder in your family, why. 1835 01:31:50,013 --> 01:31:52,092 Speaker 3: Yeah, do you know a hoarder? Are you a hoarder? 1836 01:31:52,772 --> 01:31:54,612 Speaker 3: I'd like to talk to a hoarder, someone that will 1837 01:31:54,612 --> 01:31:57,173 Speaker 3: admit they are hoarder, or someone who was a hoarder, 1838 01:31:57,772 --> 01:31:59,892 Speaker 3: and if so, how do you stopped or how did 1839 01:32:00,013 --> 01:32:02,732 Speaker 3: you stop a friend or a family member, because hoarding 1840 01:32:02,812 --> 01:32:04,612 Speaker 3: does a lot of damage not just to the person 1841 01:32:04,812 --> 01:32:09,532 Speaker 3: that's hoarding, but to their family. If you've got parents 1842 01:32:09,612 --> 01:32:11,412 Speaker 3: that hoard and then the kids are embarrassed to bring 1843 01:32:11,452 --> 01:32:13,932 Speaker 3: people around to their house. I think hoarding isolates people 1844 01:32:13,933 --> 01:32:15,812 Speaker 3: as well. People to get embarrassed about their house. It's 1845 01:32:15,812 --> 01:32:17,692 Speaker 3: harder to get into their house, it's hard to find 1846 01:32:17,772 --> 01:32:20,452 Speaker 3: spaces about you. When you get to the point of 1847 01:32:20,772 --> 01:32:23,012 Speaker 3: really serious hoarding, like we've seen in those TV shows, 1848 01:32:23,053 --> 01:32:25,492 Speaker 3: you can't have friends around for dinner. Yeah, there's so 1849 01:32:25,652 --> 01:32:28,253 Speaker 3: much you can't do and then you know you might 1850 01:32:28,452 --> 01:32:30,732 Speaker 3: something might happen to you, and then you're your family 1851 01:32:30,812 --> 01:32:33,652 Speaker 3: and friends are expected to clean up the mess. Yeah, 1852 01:32:34,893 --> 01:32:36,892 Speaker 3: but what do you think people called tyler? 1853 01:32:37,333 --> 01:32:39,333 Speaker 2: What do you think it is even at the lower level. 1854 01:32:39,692 --> 01:32:44,213 Speaker 2: And I think sometimes I'm a borderline hoarder. But there's 1855 01:32:44,612 --> 01:32:47,572 Speaker 2: just some things that I can't bear to throw away 1856 01:32:47,652 --> 01:32:50,052 Speaker 2: because I think they will be useful in the future. 1857 01:32:50,213 --> 01:32:52,893 Speaker 2: Oh no, good, Yeah, we've got a hoarder here. So 1858 01:32:52,933 --> 01:32:54,812 Speaker 2: we've already talked about bits of wood, and you agree 1859 01:32:54,853 --> 01:32:56,293 Speaker 2: that bits of wood, you've got to have bits of word. 1860 01:32:56,333 --> 01:32:58,133 Speaker 2: You can't throw that away because that actually might come 1861 01:32:58,213 --> 01:33:00,772 Speaker 2: in handy. But just in the garage in general, if 1862 01:33:00,853 --> 01:33:04,572 Speaker 2: I've purchased something and I haven't used the rest of it, 1863 01:33:04,692 --> 01:33:09,012 Speaker 2: or there's little bits of plastin something. If I've purchased 1864 01:33:09,053 --> 01:33:11,652 Speaker 2: something and I haven't used the whole lot of it, 1865 01:33:11,732 --> 01:33:13,452 Speaker 2: then I'll keep it there. If there's little bits of 1866 01:33:13,492 --> 01:33:16,532 Speaker 2: plastic that have come and packaging cardboard boxes, I really 1867 01:33:16,572 --> 01:33:19,173 Speaker 2: want to keep ahold of those because they come and useful. 1868 01:33:19,333 --> 01:33:21,932 Speaker 2: I think eventually I've got about twenty boxes just sitting there. 1869 01:33:22,093 --> 01:33:23,852 Speaker 3: Well, we were talking about this earlier in the weekend, 1870 01:33:24,053 --> 01:33:26,652 Speaker 3: Carrie sent through that great video we should put it 1871 01:33:26,732 --> 01:33:30,933 Speaker 3: up on our Facebook page. So she sent through this 1872 01:33:31,053 --> 01:33:36,253 Speaker 3: video of just a father fight a son finally finds 1873 01:33:36,293 --> 01:33:38,133 Speaker 3: a need for something, a piece of wood that the 1874 01:33:38,173 --> 01:33:42,292 Speaker 3: father has hoarded for years. It's a great, absolute celebration 1875 01:33:42,412 --> 01:33:45,013 Speaker 3: about it. But you know, you've got to look as 1876 01:33:46,333 --> 01:33:49,853 Speaker 3: our friends the Buddhist steech. You know, if your positions 1877 01:33:50,093 --> 01:33:53,133 Speaker 3: own you. Yeah, your positions will start to own you. 1878 01:33:53,372 --> 01:33:55,893 Speaker 2: You're a minimalist, ye as they would say, mate, you 1879 01:33:56,013 --> 01:33:57,972 Speaker 2: love chucking things out clean? 1880 01:33:58,293 --> 01:34:00,093 Speaker 3: I love I will keep some bits of wood down 1881 01:34:00,133 --> 01:34:00,692 Speaker 3: the side of the house. 1882 01:34:00,692 --> 01:34:01,012 Speaker 5: I would. 1883 01:34:01,652 --> 01:34:03,532 Speaker 3: We can agree on that. From there. Everything I don't 1884 01:34:03,532 --> 01:34:05,253 Speaker 3: believe in keeping. I don't. 1885 01:34:05,293 --> 01:34:05,652 Speaker 7: You know, you. 1886 01:34:07,652 --> 01:34:10,772 Speaker 3: Put together a flat pack and then you know, some 1887 01:34:10,853 --> 01:34:13,812 Speaker 3: people keep the extra screws, the extra little bit. They'll 1888 01:34:13,893 --> 01:34:15,892 Speaker 3: keep the allen Keys. Yeah, I've got a full allo 1889 01:34:16,772 --> 01:34:19,572 Speaker 3: allen Key set. It just grows and grows and grows. 1890 01:34:19,612 --> 01:34:21,412 Speaker 3: You've just got to cut it off. You've got to 1891 01:34:21,532 --> 01:34:23,652 Speaker 3: cut the octopus's head off and throw it all out. 1892 01:34:24,013 --> 01:34:26,973 Speaker 2: The one thing that people think is quite weird is 1893 01:34:27,053 --> 01:34:29,253 Speaker 2: I haven't chucked out a pair of shoes for probably 1894 01:34:29,333 --> 01:34:31,652 Speaker 2: fifteen years. So they're just sitting there in a basket now. 1895 01:34:31,652 --> 01:34:33,213 Speaker 2: And I'll tell you why. It's almost like a Forest 1896 01:34:33,253 --> 01:34:36,612 Speaker 2: Gump situation. Is I like to think that those shoes 1897 01:34:36,732 --> 01:34:38,732 Speaker 2: they have been on journeys with me, and I just 1898 01:34:38,812 --> 01:34:41,852 Speaker 2: couldn't be that. They have stories to tell, those shoes 1899 01:34:41,933 --> 01:34:44,412 Speaker 2: and I couldn't bear to throw those shoes out. So 1900 01:34:44,412 --> 01:34:45,852 Speaker 2: I get a lot of stick about that, but I 1901 01:34:45,933 --> 01:34:47,893 Speaker 2: don't care. You know, They've been a part of my 1902 01:34:48,053 --> 01:34:50,213 Speaker 2: life for a long time. Each and every one of 1903 01:34:50,253 --> 01:34:51,092 Speaker 2: those pairs of shoes. 1904 01:34:51,213 --> 01:34:54,372 Speaker 3: They do not have personalities. They are not sentient, they 1905 01:34:54,412 --> 01:34:58,492 Speaker 3: don't mean anything. They are inanimate objects. You know, don't 1906 01:34:58,612 --> 01:35:01,412 Speaker 3: personify inanimate objects. They don't like it. 1907 01:35:01,933 --> 01:35:04,213 Speaker 2: But some of those shoes, man, they've got stories to tell. 1908 01:35:04,213 --> 01:35:06,253 Speaker 2: If they could speak, right, keen to hear from you 1909 01:35:06,372 --> 01:35:08,772 Speaker 2: on eight hundred and eighty ten eighty. If you're horder, 1910 01:35:08,812 --> 01:35:10,173 Speaker 2: why are you doing? And if you've got one in 1911 01:35:10,253 --> 01:35:11,852 Speaker 2: your family, what were they hoarding? 1912 01:35:11,973 --> 01:35:12,173 Speaker 7: Yeah? 1913 01:35:12,173 --> 01:35:14,812 Speaker 3: And this Texas is from our good friend Mars Matt 1914 01:35:14,893 --> 01:35:17,372 Speaker 3: Definer hoarder. I'm a trader and I buy tools I 1915 01:35:17,492 --> 01:35:19,852 Speaker 3: might not ever use, or I can't throw materials away 1916 01:35:19,853 --> 01:35:24,093 Speaker 3: because it's surprising when you might one day need them. Yeah, 1917 01:35:24,173 --> 01:35:26,692 Speaker 3: look that's a good point. We'll define a hoarder next. 1918 01:35:26,853 --> 01:35:28,133 Speaker 3: What we think what a hoarder has? I got to 1919 01:35:28,133 --> 01:35:28,972 Speaker 3: think about it exactly. 1920 01:35:29,372 --> 01:35:31,452 Speaker 2: Hit headlines with railing coming up, then we'll take your 1921 01:35:31,532 --> 01:35:33,132 Speaker 2: callse on O one hundred and eighty ten eighty. 1922 01:35:35,652 --> 01:35:39,293 Speaker 15: Us talk said the headlines with blue bubble taxis it's 1923 01:35:39,452 --> 01:35:43,092 Speaker 15: no trouble with a blue bubble. MPs are sharing grief, 1924 01:35:43,412 --> 01:35:47,412 Speaker 15: memories and praise in Parliament now over the sudden death 1925 01:35:47,452 --> 01:35:51,172 Speaker 15: of the part de Mardi MP Takutai tash Camp overnight. 1926 01:35:51,692 --> 01:35:54,812 Speaker 15: The House will then adjourn for the day. Kemp's death 1927 01:35:55,053 --> 01:35:59,892 Speaker 15: triggers a by election in her Thomachimikodo seat. Stone Homeway 1928 01:35:59,933 --> 01:36:03,133 Speaker 15: twenty two is closed at Kartaka, south of Auckland after 1929 01:36:03,173 --> 01:36:06,333 Speaker 15: a two car crash that's critically injured one person and 1930 01:36:06,532 --> 01:36:11,173 Speaker 15: trap two were commercial Southland fishes and a cellar have 1931 01:36:11,293 --> 01:36:14,492 Speaker 15: been fined just under thirty seven thousand dollars for illegally 1932 01:36:14,612 --> 01:36:19,173 Speaker 15: selling large amounts of kinner power and blue cod Navy 1933 01:36:19,293 --> 01:36:23,293 Speaker 15: divers have successfully neutralized five World War II mines found 1934 01:36:23,333 --> 01:36:26,333 Speaker 15: on the floor of the Hodarchy golf in mart by 1935 01:36:26,412 --> 01:36:30,173 Speaker 15: flooding them with seawater weight loss drug we Go V 1936 01:36:30,412 --> 01:36:33,213 Speaker 15: also known as a Zenpic, will be available for sale 1937 01:36:33,253 --> 01:36:38,333 Speaker 15: and Keiwek chemists next week. Fifty years after Jaws, Shark 1938 01:36:38,452 --> 01:36:41,572 Speaker 15: Signs is still surfacing. You can read more at ensid 1939 01:36:41,612 --> 01:36:44,412 Speaker 15: Herald Premium. Now back to Matteathan Tyler Adams. 1940 01:36:44,572 --> 01:36:47,692 Speaker 2: Thank you very much railing. An apology to you are Raylan, 1941 01:36:47,772 --> 01:36:49,692 Speaker 2: because I know you're ready to go as the traffic 1942 01:36:49,772 --> 01:36:52,772 Speaker 2: department that was out of action, So thank you very much. 1943 01:36:53,053 --> 01:36:56,052 Speaker 2: That is not a problem. We're always here to help Lucky. 1944 01:36:56,133 --> 01:36:56,492 Speaker 16: We have you. 1945 01:36:57,013 --> 01:36:58,412 Speaker 2: Right, we are talking about. 1946 01:36:58,293 --> 01:37:00,053 Speaker 3: I never said anything. I didn't blame you. That was 1947 01:37:00,093 --> 01:37:02,253 Speaker 3: Tyler that blamed you. I knew that you were in 1948 01:37:02,333 --> 01:37:02,692 Speaker 3: the right. 1949 01:37:02,973 --> 01:37:05,933 Speaker 2: Mid mea culpa. Thanks, Raylean, I love you. Right, we 1950 01:37:06,013 --> 01:37:09,412 Speaker 2: are talking about hoarders eighty ten eighties and umber to 1951 01:37:09,452 --> 01:37:10,092 Speaker 2: call four lines. 1952 01:37:10,173 --> 01:37:13,852 Speaker 3: And before the news I promised a definition of what 1953 01:37:13,973 --> 01:37:16,852 Speaker 3: we mean by hoarding, because it's not just keeping a 1954 01:37:16,893 --> 01:37:19,972 Speaker 3: few screws, you know, because you might need them later. 1955 01:37:20,173 --> 01:37:24,812 Speaker 3: Yeah different, It's not having multiple roles of saloitate that 1956 01:37:24,933 --> 01:37:25,692 Speaker 3: are half finished. 1957 01:37:25,973 --> 01:37:26,093 Speaker 8: You know. 1958 01:37:26,293 --> 01:37:29,372 Speaker 3: What it is is hoarding is might marked by an 1959 01:37:29,933 --> 01:37:33,412 Speaker 3: overwhelming desire to collect items and an inability to discard 1960 01:37:33,532 --> 01:37:36,013 Speaker 3: things that may seem useless to such a point that 1961 01:37:36,133 --> 01:37:39,253 Speaker 3: the collections call stress and start impacting a person's health, 1962 01:37:39,412 --> 01:37:43,092 Speaker 3: career or relationships there are. It all happens on a spectrum, 1963 01:37:43,133 --> 01:37:45,092 Speaker 3: you know, from Tyler who can't throw out his shoes, 1964 01:37:45,492 --> 01:37:46,693 Speaker 3: which is insane. 1965 01:37:46,933 --> 01:37:48,132 Speaker 2: That's close to that definition. 1966 01:37:48,293 --> 01:37:50,893 Speaker 3: But it's not quite damaging your life yet, is it? 1967 01:37:51,532 --> 01:37:51,572 Speaker 15: No? 1968 01:37:51,973 --> 01:37:52,333 Speaker 5: Not yet? 1969 01:37:52,532 --> 01:37:53,652 Speaker 2: Give it another fifteen years. 1970 01:37:54,933 --> 01:37:55,572 Speaker 3: Who you aren't. 1971 01:37:55,612 --> 01:37:58,972 Speaker 15: First of all, you're not even low lights gone talking, Megan, 1972 01:37:59,253 --> 01:38:00,452 Speaker 15: get your Bagia on. 1973 01:38:00,492 --> 01:38:03,572 Speaker 2: The But you're in your army now well Forest as 1974 01:38:03,652 --> 01:38:06,812 Speaker 2: far as Cump and his love of shoes, Hello, Matt, 1975 01:38:06,973 --> 01:38:07,692 Speaker 2: Welcome to the show. 1976 01:38:09,692 --> 01:38:09,892 Speaker 3: Matt. 1977 01:38:10,213 --> 01:38:11,652 Speaker 7: Yeah, ayday, guys, Yeah today. 1978 01:38:11,772 --> 01:38:12,933 Speaker 12: Hey, I've got a. 1979 01:38:12,973 --> 01:38:14,173 Speaker 13: Mother in law that's a hoarder. 1980 01:38:14,732 --> 01:38:17,012 Speaker 3: Oh how bad is it, Matt? 1981 01:38:18,973 --> 01:38:22,173 Speaker 12: I'd say she's a pretty bona fide hoarder. So lovely lady, 1982 01:38:22,253 --> 01:38:24,253 Speaker 12: of course, But she's been living on her own in 1983 01:38:24,293 --> 01:38:26,612 Speaker 12: a small house for the better part of forty years, 1984 01:38:26,732 --> 01:38:30,933 Speaker 12: and over the years she's accumulated all manner of magazines 1985 01:38:31,093 --> 01:38:34,772 Speaker 12: tell us sorry, newspapers, nick knacks, bits bobs, everything else 1986 01:38:34,812 --> 01:38:38,012 Speaker 12: that can sort of reach the ceiling. And my partner 1987 01:38:38,053 --> 01:38:40,612 Speaker 12: and I have spoken to her multiple times about letting 1988 01:38:40,692 --> 01:38:42,652 Speaker 12: us come in and help her clean a few things up. 1989 01:38:42,732 --> 01:38:45,772 Speaker 12: But we've come to the realization that all the stuff 1990 01:38:45,853 --> 01:38:48,253 Speaker 12: that to us appears to be just junk and rubbish 1991 01:38:48,253 --> 01:38:51,053 Speaker 12: actually gives her a great deal of comfort, and we 1992 01:38:51,173 --> 01:38:53,612 Speaker 12: sort of had to come to the just just sort 1993 01:38:53,612 --> 01:38:55,732 Speaker 12: of accept that. You know, if we were to take 1994 01:38:55,772 --> 01:38:58,372 Speaker 12: stuff away from her and remove it from her house, 1995 01:38:58,412 --> 01:39:00,772 Speaker 12: it would actually affect her mental health of it. And 1996 01:39:00,973 --> 01:39:03,452 Speaker 12: so she did allow us once to go in and 1997 01:39:03,492 --> 01:39:06,372 Speaker 12: clean up her kitchen, which was quite a quite an experience. 1998 01:39:07,053 --> 01:39:09,732 Speaker 12: There were all manner of things sort of expired up 1999 01:39:09,772 --> 01:39:12,612 Speaker 12: to about fifteen years, soy sauce and all sorts, so 2000 01:39:13,093 --> 01:39:14,892 Speaker 12: you don't even want to know about some of the smells. 2001 01:39:14,973 --> 01:39:18,692 Speaker 12: But everything else will just have to come and accept it, because, yeah, 2002 01:39:18,772 --> 01:39:21,532 Speaker 12: she just likes having this stuff there and she doesn't 2003 01:39:21,532 --> 01:39:23,173 Speaker 12: want it moved, and if it does get moved, she 2004 01:39:23,253 --> 01:39:24,052 Speaker 12: gets very upset. 2005 01:39:24,213 --> 01:39:26,253 Speaker 7: So I guess someone has different reasons. 2006 01:39:26,612 --> 01:39:31,452 Speaker 3: Is it affecting her life? Is it damaging her her life? 2007 01:39:32,652 --> 01:39:34,452 Speaker 12: It is a bit it's a double edged sword, mate, 2008 01:39:34,532 --> 01:39:37,412 Speaker 12: because as I said, she's been living by herself for 2009 01:39:37,412 --> 01:39:39,333 Speaker 12: a bitter part of forty years. I think she suffers 2010 01:39:39,372 --> 01:39:42,293 Speaker 12: from a bit of mild depression. But at the same time, 2011 01:39:42,333 --> 01:39:43,892 Speaker 12: because of all the stuff that she has in her house, 2012 01:39:43,933 --> 01:39:45,933 Speaker 12: she's reluctant to have people over, so it is a 2013 01:39:45,973 --> 01:39:49,692 Speaker 12: bit isolating. But again, when we've tried to approach her 2014 01:39:49,732 --> 01:39:54,692 Speaker 12: about helping her, she's absolutely staunchly against it. She just 2015 01:39:54,812 --> 01:39:57,772 Speaker 12: wants her things where they are and she doesn't want 2016 01:39:57,772 --> 01:39:59,253 Speaker 12: anyone to touch it. So it's a bit of an 2017 01:39:59,293 --> 01:39:59,892 Speaker 12: interesting one. 2018 01:40:00,133 --> 01:40:02,333 Speaker 3: Do you think if you just went in Matt and 2019 01:40:03,133 --> 01:40:06,333 Speaker 3: she was out or something, and you just cleared everything 2020 01:40:06,412 --> 01:40:10,492 Speaker 3: out so the house was nice, in pristine, all the 2021 01:40:10,532 --> 01:40:14,532 Speaker 3: smells were gone, she would have a breakdown, But you think, 2022 01:40:14,853 --> 01:40:17,013 Speaker 3: I don't know, would she come back? This is what 2023 01:40:17,133 --> 01:40:19,333 Speaker 3: I wonder. If you just did it, if they're there, 2024 01:40:19,412 --> 01:40:21,692 Speaker 3: it would hurt. But if you just did it, then 2025 01:40:21,853 --> 01:40:24,933 Speaker 3: once it's gone, she would rebuild her life in her 2026 01:40:24,973 --> 01:40:27,452 Speaker 3: life would be better. Maybe she'd be twenty four hours 2027 01:40:27,452 --> 01:40:30,293 Speaker 3: of pain, but you know, months and months and years. 2028 01:40:31,532 --> 01:40:31,812 Speaker 5: Mate. 2029 01:40:31,893 --> 01:40:34,933 Speaker 12: Look, we've talked about this, believe me, we certainly have, 2030 01:40:35,253 --> 01:40:37,293 Speaker 12: and we've been quite close to doing it a couple 2031 01:40:37,333 --> 01:40:40,492 Speaker 12: of times. But honestly, I think that she's just one 2032 01:40:40,532 --> 01:40:42,572 Speaker 12: of those people, and maybe a lot of other hoarders 2033 01:40:42,612 --> 01:40:45,173 Speaker 12: are that they just they're so accustomed to having all 2034 01:40:45,253 --> 01:40:47,652 Speaker 12: these things. Even though they might really add up to 2035 01:40:47,772 --> 01:40:50,053 Speaker 12: nothing and mean nothing, they mean something to her. And 2036 01:40:50,812 --> 01:40:53,812 Speaker 12: so we've decided against it because we think the fallout 2037 01:40:53,853 --> 01:40:56,812 Speaker 12: would be probably worse than what the benefit might be. 2038 01:40:57,772 --> 01:41:03,093 Speaker 3: Is it genetic as your wife exhibiting any hoarding tendencies. 2039 01:41:03,893 --> 01:41:06,052 Speaker 12: Minor tendencies which I'm trying to keep. 2040 01:41:05,933 --> 01:41:08,732 Speaker 3: In checks, get on top of it one, because I 2041 01:41:08,812 --> 01:41:10,972 Speaker 3: think you do have to live it in the bud 2042 01:41:11,133 --> 01:41:15,572 Speaker 3: because in my experience with hoarders, it becomes almost like 2043 01:41:15,772 --> 01:41:18,692 Speaker 3: the stuff. They personify it. As I was saying before, 2044 01:41:19,173 --> 01:41:21,612 Speaker 3: they feel they feel throwing it out. It's like throwing 2045 01:41:21,652 --> 01:41:22,933 Speaker 3: out It's like you know, when you're a kid and 2046 01:41:23,293 --> 01:41:25,053 Speaker 3: you think a teddy bear is real, and so if 2047 01:41:25,053 --> 01:41:27,412 Speaker 3: your parents took your parents took the teddy bear off 2048 01:41:27,452 --> 01:41:29,213 Speaker 3: you and throw it the rubbish, it would be like 2049 01:41:29,333 --> 01:41:33,372 Speaker 3: they were taking a real entity off you, a real person, 2050 01:41:33,452 --> 01:41:34,692 Speaker 3: if you will. And I think they do that with 2051 01:41:35,133 --> 01:41:37,972 Speaker 3: newspapers and even toilet rolls. 2052 01:41:38,572 --> 01:41:41,253 Speaker 12: Oh absolutely, Look, I mean yeah, without going into too 2053 01:41:41,333 --> 01:41:44,092 Speaker 12: much detail, you know, some of the really kind of pointless. 2054 01:41:44,213 --> 01:41:46,412 Speaker 12: You know, like items that you find for some reason, 2055 01:41:46,492 --> 01:41:48,213 Speaker 12: like I say, bring her a great deal of comfort 2056 01:41:48,372 --> 01:41:51,213 Speaker 12: knowing that they are there. So whether she's personified them 2057 01:41:51,532 --> 01:41:53,732 Speaker 12: or she puts extra value on them, not sure, but 2058 01:41:54,093 --> 01:41:56,133 Speaker 12: I think that's the root of why she does it. 2059 01:41:56,213 --> 01:41:57,772 Speaker 12: It just gives her comfort, you know. 2060 01:41:58,253 --> 01:41:58,492 Speaker 5: Yeah. 2061 01:41:59,093 --> 01:42:02,093 Speaker 3: Oh, well, good luck with that. I mean, it's the 2062 01:42:02,173 --> 01:42:04,092 Speaker 3: thing that you have to spend your time worrying about 2063 01:42:04,133 --> 01:42:07,333 Speaker 3: and what you should do about it is kind of 2064 01:42:07,372 --> 01:42:09,333 Speaker 3: even though it's not making a heavy toll on you, 2065 01:42:09,492 --> 01:42:12,452 Speaker 3: that does weigh on family members' minds. So there is 2066 01:42:12,812 --> 01:42:15,692 Speaker 3: Oh it does. Yeah, yeah, thank you so much for 2067 01:42:15,732 --> 01:42:16,812 Speaker 3: your call, Matt. Thanks for sharing. 2068 01:42:16,893 --> 01:42:18,932 Speaker 2: But it seems like Matt's picked the right balance there 2069 01:42:19,372 --> 01:42:23,052 Speaker 2: of if it brings her comfort and if they clean 2070 01:42:23,093 --> 01:42:25,652 Speaker 2: it all up and make the house smell beautiful and 2071 01:42:25,772 --> 01:42:28,772 Speaker 2: the mother in law has a breakdown, yeah, then the easiest, 2072 01:42:28,893 --> 01:42:31,173 Speaker 2: the path of least resistance is just let a hoard, 2073 01:42:31,452 --> 01:42:32,492 Speaker 2: Just let it keep the newspaper. 2074 01:42:32,572 --> 01:42:35,253 Speaker 3: But it can be unhealthy. It can be a fire risk, 2075 01:42:35,293 --> 01:42:37,692 Speaker 3: and it isolates people. People can't come around to the house. 2076 01:42:37,732 --> 01:42:39,932 Speaker 3: There is a serious risk of it. If there's bad smells, 2077 01:42:39,933 --> 01:42:43,093 Speaker 3: it can be stuff that's rotting there. You know, there 2078 01:42:43,133 --> 01:42:45,253 Speaker 3: can be a bad side to it. It's not just 2079 01:42:45,692 --> 01:42:50,412 Speaker 3: they love their stuff. Yeah, it shrinks their world. Speaking 2080 01:42:50,452 --> 01:42:52,492 Speaker 3: of which, shrinking the world, I'm annoyed at you, Tyler, 2081 01:42:52,492 --> 01:42:53,893 Speaker 3: because I made quite a good joke for and you 2082 01:42:53,933 --> 01:42:55,093 Speaker 3: didn't even notice it. Will laugh? 2083 01:42:55,612 --> 01:42:58,452 Speaker 2: Tell me again, I see it. This happens often, folks. 2084 01:42:58,772 --> 01:43:01,452 Speaker 2: This is my day and life. 2085 01:43:01,973 --> 01:43:06,293 Speaker 3: I'll share it next. Okay, I'm feeling emotionally under pressure 2086 01:43:06,333 --> 01:43:07,372 Speaker 3: for you're not laughing at my joke. 2087 01:43:07,372 --> 01:43:12,013 Speaker 1: It's twenty to four, your home of afternoon talk, Mad 2088 01:43:12,093 --> 01:43:15,852 Speaker 1: Heathen Taylor Adams afternoons call, Oh eight hundred eighty ten 2089 01:43:15,933 --> 01:43:17,372 Speaker 1: eighty news Talk said. 2090 01:43:17,213 --> 01:43:19,652 Speaker 2: Be seventeen to four. 2091 01:43:20,253 --> 01:43:23,772 Speaker 3: Okay, I'm sitting it's basically workplace of bullying. Bullying. You're 2092 01:43:23,772 --> 01:43:24,612 Speaker 3: not laughing at my jokes? 2093 01:43:24,612 --> 01:43:24,852 Speaker 16: Title? 2094 01:43:24,933 --> 01:43:26,412 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know you've put on a note with HR. 2095 01:43:26,452 --> 01:43:27,892 Speaker 2: So I've got a meeting after the show to talk 2096 01:43:27,893 --> 01:43:28,213 Speaker 2: about this. 2097 01:43:28,372 --> 01:43:31,492 Speaker 3: Okay, So I'll have to deliver my joke again. Yeah, right, 2098 01:43:31,532 --> 01:43:33,452 Speaker 3: here we go, and if you don't laughs time, then 2099 01:43:33,772 --> 01:43:34,732 Speaker 3: I'm taking it upstairs. 2100 01:43:34,812 --> 01:43:35,092 Speaker 2: Okay. 2101 01:43:35,173 --> 01:43:38,812 Speaker 3: Okay, you were talking about your shoes, yes, and I said, 2102 01:43:39,732 --> 01:43:43,213 Speaker 3: don't personify your shoes, Tyler. They don't like it. 2103 01:43:44,692 --> 01:43:46,532 Speaker 2: Well, see the reason I didn't laugh and it went 2104 01:43:46,572 --> 01:43:48,213 Speaker 2: over my head. That's quite a lad joke, you know. 2105 01:43:48,333 --> 01:43:51,333 Speaker 2: There's there's there's some elements to that joke, and it 2106 01:43:51,412 --> 01:43:51,972 Speaker 2: was quite clever. 2107 01:43:52,213 --> 01:43:55,133 Speaker 3: Yeah, because they don't like it means that I'm personifying 2108 01:43:55,893 --> 01:43:58,133 Speaker 3: it's a real crack up. Welcome to the show, Greg. 2109 01:43:59,452 --> 01:44:02,333 Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't know if you remember. I'm handing in 2110 01:44:02,372 --> 01:44:04,133 Speaker 7: a run around it. And I was employed one day 2111 01:44:04,253 --> 01:44:07,652 Speaker 7: by the children to go round to the months and 2112 01:44:07,692 --> 01:44:10,532 Speaker 7: the mum was about eighty to try and, in their words, 2113 01:44:10,612 --> 01:44:14,012 Speaker 7: clean some stuff out. And I went into this house 2114 01:44:14,412 --> 01:44:17,333 Speaker 7: and the foire was immaculate in the kitchen and the 2115 01:44:17,372 --> 01:44:19,013 Speaker 7: lounge was an accident. And I talked to him and 2116 01:44:19,093 --> 01:44:22,652 Speaker 7: she was really upset that the kids have employed me 2117 01:44:22,772 --> 01:44:25,293 Speaker 7: to sort of help clean some stuff out, you know, 2118 01:44:25,452 --> 01:44:29,372 Speaker 7: and she was it was obviously a massive problem in 2119 01:44:29,452 --> 01:44:31,532 Speaker 7: the family, you know, and she wouldn't talk to the 2120 01:44:31,612 --> 01:44:34,452 Speaker 7: kids anymore. But I sort of couldn't really understand what 2121 01:44:34,612 --> 01:44:36,452 Speaker 7: was going on. I said, okay, well let's let's have 2122 01:44:36,492 --> 01:44:38,692 Speaker 7: a quick look around the house and we'll start to 2123 01:44:38,732 --> 01:44:42,213 Speaker 7: want to clean some stuff out. And the first bedroom 2124 01:44:42,253 --> 01:44:45,532 Speaker 7: I couldn't open the door because it was piled to 2125 01:44:45,732 --> 01:44:49,492 Speaker 7: the ceiling of stuff that she's been collected. And then 2126 01:44:49,532 --> 01:44:52,732 Speaker 7: the next bedroom piled to the ceilings, a third bedroom. 2127 01:44:52,973 --> 01:44:55,173 Speaker 7: And this is a really nice house in Lower Heart 2128 01:44:57,013 --> 01:45:00,092 Speaker 7: I'm not going to say exactly where, but multimillion dollar house. 2129 01:45:02,173 --> 01:45:05,013 Speaker 7: She she there was obviously a serious musical problem. I 2130 01:45:05,053 --> 01:45:06,812 Speaker 7: felt so sorry for her, but it was it was 2131 01:45:06,893 --> 01:45:12,893 Speaker 7: a real fire hazard. The lounge under the lounge, the 2132 01:45:12,973 --> 01:45:15,412 Speaker 7: garret would have been about six meters like eight meters, 2133 01:45:15,612 --> 01:45:19,572 Speaker 7: so the burg almost a triple sized garage. And that 2134 01:45:19,893 --> 01:45:23,253 Speaker 7: was except for the little walkways around where you could walk, 2135 01:45:23,652 --> 01:45:26,452 Speaker 7: was full to the ceiling of stuff. I pulled out 2136 01:45:26,532 --> 01:45:29,212 Speaker 7: fifteen brand new toasters in their boxes. 2137 01:45:29,933 --> 01:45:30,572 Speaker 8: Woh, you know. 2138 01:45:31,812 --> 01:45:34,173 Speaker 7: You know there was a massive pile of soft toys 2139 01:45:34,213 --> 01:45:36,173 Speaker 7: that she was buying things with her brand kids, and 2140 01:45:36,253 --> 01:45:39,572 Speaker 7: all her grandkids were sort of fifteen to twenty five 2141 01:45:39,692 --> 01:45:42,053 Speaker 7: years old, I found from that, you know, but she's 2142 01:45:42,093 --> 01:45:43,293 Speaker 7: still buying soft toys to. 2143 01:45:43,333 --> 01:45:47,572 Speaker 3: The It was one, one, two toasters. Sure, how do 2144 01:45:47,652 --> 01:45:51,173 Speaker 3: you get up to fifteen toasters without around toaster? Seven? 2145 01:45:51,333 --> 01:45:51,572 Speaker 5: Going? 2146 01:45:51,732 --> 01:45:53,652 Speaker 3: We've already got another sex you know, you know what 2147 01:45:53,692 --> 01:45:54,093 Speaker 3: I'm saying. 2148 01:45:55,372 --> 01:45:57,532 Speaker 7: Almost All the stuff that I saw was brand new, 2149 01:45:57,853 --> 01:46:01,452 Speaker 7: you know, it was on special. Yeah, and so she'd 2150 01:46:01,492 --> 01:46:04,532 Speaker 7: see a bargain. Yeah, well that's a cheap closer. I'm 2151 01:46:04,572 --> 01:46:06,372 Speaker 7: buying that. And then she just put it on the 2152 01:46:06,452 --> 01:46:09,172 Speaker 7: pile somewhere and they were talk together, all just scattered 2153 01:46:09,213 --> 01:46:11,732 Speaker 7: all through this garret. There was a there was a 2154 01:46:11,812 --> 01:46:14,013 Speaker 7: brand new barbecue, and the and the guest one that 2155 01:46:14,173 --> 01:46:16,973 Speaker 7: had expired fifteen years before. But the barbieul had never 2156 01:46:17,093 --> 01:46:20,093 Speaker 7: been used. Wow, And I said, you can't. You can't 2157 01:46:20,173 --> 01:46:22,932 Speaker 7: keep this full guest bottom here. It's it's a bomb, 2158 01:46:23,532 --> 01:46:25,893 Speaker 7: you know, it's never been used. It's good. We'll sell it, 2159 01:46:25,973 --> 01:46:29,012 Speaker 7: will sell it, you know. And I did my best 2160 01:46:29,053 --> 01:46:31,492 Speaker 7: for about three or four hours when outside, had a 2161 01:46:31,572 --> 01:46:34,093 Speaker 7: quick cup of coffee in the van, and while I 2162 01:46:34,253 --> 01:46:36,013 Speaker 7: was so, I've been throwing stuff in a skip that 2163 01:46:36,093 --> 01:46:38,612 Speaker 7: the kids had organized. And when I went came back, 2164 01:46:38,812 --> 01:46:40,852 Speaker 7: she was in the skip throwing stuff back out into 2165 01:46:40,893 --> 01:46:41,412 Speaker 7: the garrete. 2166 01:46:41,452 --> 01:46:42,492 Speaker 3: Oh god, you know. 2167 01:46:43,053 --> 01:46:46,092 Speaker 7: Yeah it was and it was obviously a massive problem 2168 01:46:46,133 --> 01:46:50,892 Speaker 7: for the family. So I did the best I could. Yeah, 2169 01:46:51,013 --> 01:46:53,173 Speaker 7: this this and obviously something. 2170 01:46:53,612 --> 01:46:55,492 Speaker 3: And yeah, not quite right. 2171 01:46:55,612 --> 01:46:55,772 Speaker 1: You know. 2172 01:46:56,173 --> 01:46:58,372 Speaker 3: It's a sort of some kind of sort of almost 2173 01:46:58,372 --> 01:47:01,852 Speaker 3: suicidal empathy you have that you your empathy gets just 2174 01:47:01,933 --> 01:47:04,852 Speaker 3: spread around all these objects that you need to keep. 2175 01:47:05,412 --> 01:47:08,173 Speaker 3: So yeah, I think you and then your identity gets 2176 01:47:08,372 --> 01:47:09,013 Speaker 3: attached to them. 2177 01:47:09,053 --> 01:47:11,812 Speaker 2: It's it's a super MPF path almost, isn't it. 2178 01:47:11,933 --> 01:47:12,893 Speaker 7: But what do you do? 2179 01:47:13,013 --> 01:47:14,612 Speaker 3: I mean, I feel for But the weird thing is 2180 01:47:14,612 --> 01:47:17,812 Speaker 3: that often so your your love of these objects and 2181 01:47:17,853 --> 01:47:20,253 Speaker 3: you need to keep these objects pushes your family away, 2182 01:47:20,333 --> 01:47:25,173 Speaker 3: the real people. It's crazy. Yeah, crazy situation. I had this, 2183 01:47:25,333 --> 01:47:27,692 Speaker 3: you know. The sale thing's an interesting one. I had 2184 01:47:27,692 --> 01:47:32,293 Speaker 3: someone in my life who turned up with a toilet 2185 01:47:32,652 --> 01:47:35,293 Speaker 3: that that was they bought for one dollar and it 2186 01:47:35,412 --> 01:47:37,893 Speaker 3: was just on our deck and there's a toilet and 2187 01:47:38,532 --> 01:47:40,652 Speaker 3: I was like, there was I got it? Why because 2188 01:47:40,652 --> 01:47:42,452 Speaker 3: it's a dollar? And I was like, but we don't 2189 01:47:42,452 --> 01:47:44,772 Speaker 3: need a toilet. That is a good toilet, and it's 2190 01:47:44,812 --> 01:47:46,492 Speaker 3: a good deal. But if you don't need a toilet, 2191 01:47:46,532 --> 01:47:47,772 Speaker 3: then it's not a good deal because now you've got 2192 01:47:47,812 --> 01:47:49,372 Speaker 3: a toilet sitting here on your deck that you didn't need. 2193 01:47:49,412 --> 01:47:50,812 Speaker 2: If you know what I'm saying, I'd buy a toilet 2194 01:47:50,853 --> 01:47:52,972 Speaker 2: for a dollar. Go on, how often do you see 2195 01:47:52,973 --> 01:47:55,133 Speaker 2: a toilet for a dollar? Maybe this is more about 2196 01:47:55,173 --> 01:47:58,093 Speaker 2: me right, Oh, eight hundred and eighty ten eighty is 2197 01:47:58,133 --> 01:47:59,572 Speaker 2: the number to call if you ought to say to 2198 01:47:59,612 --> 01:48:01,452 Speaker 2: teach you more than welcome. Nine to nine two are 2199 01:48:01,572 --> 01:48:03,333 Speaker 2: you a hoarder? Or do you have a hoarder and 2200 01:48:03,452 --> 01:48:04,812 Speaker 2: your family love to hear from you? 2201 01:48:04,933 --> 01:48:05,812 Speaker 3: It is thirteen to four. 2202 01:48:07,133 --> 01:48:10,293 Speaker 1: The big stories are big issues, to the big trends 2203 01:48:10,492 --> 01:48:14,173 Speaker 1: and everything in between. Matt Heath and Tyler Adams afternoons 2204 01:48:14,492 --> 01:48:16,733 Speaker 1: used Talk zed B News. 2205 01:48:16,572 --> 01:48:19,133 Speaker 2: Talk zed B. We are talking about hoarders now. Just 2206 01:48:19,572 --> 01:48:21,532 Speaker 2: before we carry on with some more phone calls. You 2207 01:48:21,572 --> 01:48:23,612 Speaker 2: mentioned before the joke that I Missmat and it was 2208 01:48:23,772 --> 01:48:26,572 Speaker 2: very layered joke and very clever, but a text that 2209 01:48:26,812 --> 01:48:29,492 Speaker 2: just came through, and oh we've had so many, but 2210 01:48:29,532 --> 01:48:30,053 Speaker 2: I've just lost it. 2211 01:48:30,133 --> 01:48:30,452 Speaker 7: Here it is. 2212 01:48:31,492 --> 01:48:34,692 Speaker 2: It's Tracy Tyler. I know you're paying if you If 2213 01:48:34,732 --> 01:48:37,412 Speaker 2: I don't laugh for acknowledge knowledge Matt's shit jokes, he 2214 01:48:37,492 --> 01:48:40,173 Speaker 2: throws a tanty and that is from none other than 2215 01:48:40,213 --> 01:48:41,612 Speaker 2: your Tracy, Matt my partner. 2216 01:48:41,732 --> 01:48:46,692 Speaker 3: Yeah, she texted you that. Yeah, that's the betrayal. That's 2217 01:48:46,692 --> 01:48:49,772 Speaker 3: also not true. All my jokes are absolute crack up. 2218 01:48:49,772 --> 01:48:51,852 Speaker 3: But there's never a situation where people aren't laughing at them. 2219 01:48:52,333 --> 01:48:55,293 Speaker 3: This Texas says, my mother and UK won't throw anything away. 2220 01:48:56,293 --> 01:48:58,812 Speaker 3: Her garden she had was full, so she got another one. 2221 01:48:59,053 --> 01:49:02,653 Speaker 3: She now has nine chids. We've told her to start downsizing, 2222 01:49:02,732 --> 01:49:04,532 Speaker 3: but she laughs and says it will be our problem. 2223 01:49:06,492 --> 01:49:07,213 Speaker 2: I like his style. 2224 01:49:07,372 --> 01:49:10,053 Speaker 3: She's not only hoarding stuff, she's hoarding stuff to put 2225 01:49:10,093 --> 01:49:10,532 Speaker 3: the stuff in. 2226 01:49:11,452 --> 01:49:14,293 Speaker 2: At his next level day, Dave. 2227 01:49:15,772 --> 01:49:16,412 Speaker 20: Hello there. 2228 01:49:16,492 --> 01:49:19,492 Speaker 23: Yes, my mum's a hoarder. We had to move her 2229 01:49:19,532 --> 01:49:22,893 Speaker 23: out of a family home and bring us to a 2230 01:49:23,133 --> 01:49:26,093 Speaker 23: retirement place. But for example, you know the hearing aid 2231 01:49:26,133 --> 01:49:28,852 Speaker 23: batches that you have in your hearing aids. We found 2232 01:49:29,772 --> 01:49:32,452 Speaker 23: probably too jugsful of over I don't know how many 2233 01:49:32,492 --> 01:49:35,692 Speaker 23: years you've been keeping them. You know, the cable tires 2234 01:49:35,732 --> 01:49:37,612 Speaker 23: and the twist you have any bread and all that 2235 01:49:37,652 --> 01:49:40,213 Speaker 23: sort of thing. Donuts, I found over a bucket and 2236 01:49:40,213 --> 01:49:44,973 Speaker 23: a half. Wow, check books that go back to in 2237 01:49:45,053 --> 01:49:49,213 Speaker 23: the sixties. I found twenty five passports. You know, it's 2238 01:49:49,253 --> 01:49:51,372 Speaker 23: just sort of yeah, she just just doesn't get rid 2239 01:49:51,372 --> 01:49:54,293 Speaker 23: of anything. So cost a lot of money get it 2240 01:49:54,293 --> 01:49:56,532 Speaker 23: atle sorted out in the end. But yeah, we got 2241 01:49:56,572 --> 01:49:58,852 Speaker 23: to We've got a company and called Elderly As Sisters 2242 01:49:58,893 --> 01:50:01,173 Speaker 23: that where they called him awkor yeah, but they came in, 2243 01:50:01,253 --> 01:50:02,893 Speaker 23: but they did a lot of stuff. It was like 2244 01:50:03,093 --> 01:50:05,572 Speaker 23: it was just here was like forty thousand there, but 2245 01:50:05,732 --> 01:50:07,412 Speaker 23: that included a lot of stuff outside, Like there was 2246 01:50:07,732 --> 01:50:11,253 Speaker 23: seven there were seven vanloads of stuff outside that had 2247 01:50:11,253 --> 01:50:11,772 Speaker 23: to be removed. 2248 01:50:11,772 --> 01:50:14,732 Speaker 2: You know, did you know this about your mother before 2249 01:50:14,973 --> 01:50:17,093 Speaker 2: you had to sort of clean that stuff up or 2250 01:50:17,173 --> 01:50:18,093 Speaker 2: you had no idea? 2251 01:50:18,253 --> 01:50:21,093 Speaker 23: Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, she's she's a widow. So 2252 01:50:21,933 --> 01:50:24,572 Speaker 23: you know there were magazine poles that everywhere. You couldn't 2253 01:50:24,572 --> 01:50:27,812 Speaker 23: get anywhere, you know. So we've been saying it for 2254 01:50:27,893 --> 01:50:30,372 Speaker 23: some time. You know, you've got to downsize, man, You've 2255 01:50:30,372 --> 01:50:33,053 Speaker 23: got to downsize. Then she has had a week and 2256 01:50:33,053 --> 01:50:34,692 Speaker 23: we've then brought things forward to either hand to go 2257 01:50:34,772 --> 01:50:38,772 Speaker 23: up there and speed things up. So but yeah, just 2258 01:50:39,452 --> 01:50:41,293 Speaker 23: and of course, you know, anything she wants to go 2259 01:50:41,333 --> 01:50:43,253 Speaker 23: to a market or a second hand shop, she comes 2260 01:50:43,293 --> 01:50:45,852 Speaker 23: back with a bag full of stuff. You know, can't 2261 01:50:45,853 --> 01:50:46,333 Speaker 23: help herself. 2262 01:50:46,612 --> 01:50:51,932 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it's it seems to be see now nearly 2263 01:50:51,973 --> 01:50:55,812 Speaker 3: everyone that's that we've heard this hoarding has been older woman, 2264 01:50:55,893 --> 01:50:58,892 Speaker 3: hasn't it? But is that because the men that are 2265 01:50:58,933 --> 01:51:01,732 Speaker 3: hoarding think that they're just holding useful stuff like wood 2266 01:51:01,812 --> 01:51:03,772 Speaker 3: and corrugated and nailed. 2267 01:51:04,133 --> 01:51:06,612 Speaker 2: That's exactly what's happened. But how do you I mean, 2268 01:51:06,772 --> 01:51:08,892 Speaker 2: I can see the difficulty in shedding to your parents 2269 01:51:08,973 --> 01:51:12,652 Speaker 2: or your mother about having a hoarding problem. I wouldn't 2270 01:51:12,652 --> 01:51:14,333 Speaker 2: know where to start with that conversation. It would be 2271 01:51:14,412 --> 01:51:17,812 Speaker 2: incredibly difficult. And as a previous caller Matt said with 2272 01:51:17,893 --> 01:51:20,333 Speaker 2: his mother in law, sometimes the path of least resistance, 2273 01:51:20,372 --> 01:51:21,733 Speaker 2: if it gives them comfort. 2274 01:51:21,933 --> 01:51:26,053 Speaker 3: That can be you know, a decision, but it can 2275 01:51:26,133 --> 01:51:29,492 Speaker 3: be a health risk. Fire risk, can isolate them from people. 2276 01:51:29,572 --> 01:51:31,253 Speaker 3: They get a shamed to bring people around the house. 2277 01:51:31,293 --> 01:51:33,492 Speaker 3: So it does have a result. I think you need 2278 01:51:33,612 --> 01:51:36,053 Speaker 3: to tyler as a potential hoarder. You do the five 2279 01:51:36,133 --> 01:51:39,852 Speaker 3: second test regularly. You pick things up and you go. 2280 01:51:39,933 --> 01:51:41,812 Speaker 3: If you can't justify having it in five seconds, you 2281 01:51:41,893 --> 01:51:42,452 Speaker 3: have to throw it out. 2282 01:51:42,893 --> 01:51:44,572 Speaker 2: Well, my shoes are easy. They've all got a story. 2283 01:51:44,612 --> 01:51:48,333 Speaker 2: And I've told you that we got time for one 2284 01:51:48,372 --> 01:51:50,692 Speaker 2: more caller. Yeah, Phil, you reckon. You're a bit of 2285 01:51:50,772 --> 01:51:51,812 Speaker 2: a hoarder yourself. 2286 01:51:53,333 --> 01:51:54,732 Speaker 13: Sure sure, just got it. 2287 01:51:56,173 --> 01:51:59,572 Speaker 20: Yes, sorry, Matt. That Joe kind of went over my 2288 01:51:59,732 --> 01:52:01,852 Speaker 20: head as well. I'm not the smartest man in the world. 2289 01:52:01,933 --> 01:52:04,932 Speaker 2: So sorry, I don't know what that says about me. Well, 2290 01:52:04,973 --> 01:52:05,972 Speaker 2: but anyway, carry. 2291 01:52:05,732 --> 01:52:10,133 Speaker 20: Home mate, But yeah, yeah, yeah, I'd have to say 2292 01:52:10,173 --> 01:52:14,852 Speaker 20: I'm a bit of a hoarder, and for for me, 2293 01:52:15,732 --> 01:52:20,013 Speaker 20: it's some of it to do with I'm big on recycling, 2294 01:52:20,053 --> 01:52:23,492 Speaker 20: and I just hate the idea of just throwing something 2295 01:52:23,572 --> 01:52:26,812 Speaker 20: in the landfall with rather than trying to recycle it 2296 01:52:26,973 --> 01:52:30,492 Speaker 20: or you know, get it broken down and like electronics 2297 01:52:30,572 --> 01:52:33,772 Speaker 20: and get the parts recycled and just everything. Like even 2298 01:52:33,933 --> 01:52:36,772 Speaker 20: just so I'll hang on to a lot of rubbish 2299 01:52:36,853 --> 01:52:38,652 Speaker 20: because I keep thinking I'm going try and find a 2300 01:52:38,692 --> 01:52:40,652 Speaker 20: way to recycle it. But then of course it starts 2301 01:52:40,692 --> 01:52:42,772 Speaker 20: building up with a big pile and that sort of thing, 2302 01:52:42,853 --> 01:52:43,013 Speaker 20: you know. 2303 01:52:43,452 --> 01:52:44,213 Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's a. 2304 01:52:44,213 --> 01:52:46,492 Speaker 3: Slippery soap there. Film, Yes, so run out of time. 2305 01:52:46,532 --> 01:52:48,253 Speaker 3: We could talk about hoarding for ages. There's so many 2306 01:52:48,293 --> 01:52:50,732 Speaker 3: calls coming through in phones, so sorry to film. 2307 01:52:50,893 --> 01:52:53,253 Speaker 2: Yeah, we might have to bring that back because we've 2308 01:52:53,293 --> 01:52:56,012 Speaker 2: had thousands of text and the phone lines you couldn't 2309 01:52:56,013 --> 01:52:56,372 Speaker 2: get through. 2310 01:52:57,013 --> 01:52:59,293 Speaker 3: But that and also the thing is, Tyler, you can't 2311 01:52:59,333 --> 01:53:01,492 Speaker 3: throw out shoes because shoes have soles. 2312 01:53:03,372 --> 01:53:03,532 Speaker 14: There. 2313 01:53:03,612 --> 01:53:04,492 Speaker 2: I laughed at that one. 2314 01:53:04,692 --> 01:53:06,812 Speaker 3: Yeah, anyway, I saw that one of a text, Hey, 2315 01:53:06,973 --> 01:53:08,652 Speaker 3: I thank you so much all your great us for 2316 01:53:08,692 --> 01:53:10,412 Speaker 3: listening to the show. Thanks so much for all your 2317 01:53:10,452 --> 01:53:12,093 Speaker 3: calls and texts. We've had a great time chatting. I 2318 01:53:12,133 --> 01:53:14,173 Speaker 3: hope you have too. The metin Tile Afternoons podcast will 2319 01:53:14,173 --> 01:53:16,052 Speaker 3: be out in about an hour. So if you missed 2320 01:53:16,093 --> 01:53:18,053 Speaker 3: our chats on whether New Zealander is doing enough to 2321 01:53:18,093 --> 01:53:22,012 Speaker 3: prepare for a northern hemisphere and nuclear war, ref abuse 2322 01:53:22,133 --> 01:53:24,932 Speaker 3: or hoarders, then check out our podcast where you get 2323 01:53:24,933 --> 01:53:27,812 Speaker 3: your podcasts here, The Dupeles the Ellen is up next. 2324 01:53:27,853 --> 01:53:30,372 Speaker 3: But right now, Tyler, why am I playing this song 2325 01:53:30,612 --> 01:53:31,213 Speaker 3: from Dave. 2326 01:53:31,133 --> 01:53:34,212 Speaker 2: Dobbin Dave Dobbin Oh, because we were talking about abusive 2327 01:53:34,253 --> 01:53:40,533 Speaker 2: referees and someone said dobb a dobbin hobbin dobbin nicely. 2328 01:53:41,732 --> 01:53:43,973 Speaker 3: Until tomorrow afternoon, Where have you are? What have you doing? 2329 01:53:44,053 --> 01:53:45,612 Speaker 3: Give a taste of Kei We from us, Love. 2330 01:53:45,492 --> 01:54:25,293 Speaker 5: Yours, Madam Tyler Tyler 2331 01:54:28,093 --> 01:54:30,652 Speaker 1: For more from News Talks at b listen live on 2332 01:54:30,812 --> 01:54:33,733 Speaker 1: air or online, and keep our shows with you wherever 2333 01:54:33,812 --> 01:54:36,373 Speaker 1: you go with our podcasts on iHeartRadio