1 00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:03,400 Speaker 1: There are more ways to wealth with chairs ease, save 2 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:06,280 Speaker 1: with a great rate, ensure your car with no worries, 3 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:09,560 Speaker 1: or join a key. We see this scheme with real choice. 4 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 1: It's your wealth, your way. Do more with charees ease. 5 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:17,279 Speaker 2: The month was February, the year was twenty twenty. You 6 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:20,799 Speaker 2: may remember it. And I got the wide envelope, the 7 00:00:20,840 --> 00:00:23,200 Speaker 2: wide envelope of doom that you always hear about, but 8 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 2: and it actually is a real thing. Yeah, I like 9 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 2: to give things a crack. I think that's actually in 10 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 2: my nature. The meaning of wealth probably constantly evolves. The 11 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:43,560 Speaker 2: older you get, the less it actually becomes about money. 12 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:48,199 Speaker 3: Cura Koto. I'm Garth Bray, and we're doing things a 13 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 3: little differently on shared lunch for the next few weeks. 14 00:00:50,920 --> 00:00:54,160 Speaker 3: More than money is about exploring the wealth choices that 15 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 3: change us. Let's open up the conversation about what wealth 16 00:00:57,520 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 3: really means beyond investing or hear from some familiar folks 17 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 3: and chat about the choices they've made on their wealth journey. 18 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 3: And today I'm heading to the home of broadcaster, podcaster 19 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 3: and human hashtag Brody Kaine. But first, some important information 20 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 3: you always need to consider. 21 00:01:13,520 --> 00:01:16,040 Speaker 4: The experience is shared in this episode are not advice 22 00:01:16,160 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 4: or a recommendation or opinion by guests to invest or 23 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:21,040 Speaker 4: act in the manner they have. An appearance on the 24 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:23,240 Speaker 4: series is not an endorsement by Shares is of the 25 00:01:23,319 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 4: views of the presenters or guests. They're not financial experts 26 00:01:26,560 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 4: and their views of their own. 27 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 3: Brody Kane, the human Hashtag. You are the one who 28 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:36,200 Speaker 3: shares your entire life with us, So thank you for 29 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:40,320 Speaker 3: sharing a little bit about I suppose what wealth might mean. 30 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:42,600 Speaker 3: Is this a question you ask yourself now and then 31 00:01:42,640 --> 00:01:43,279 Speaker 3: what is wealth? 32 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:46,399 Speaker 2: Well, first of all, thank you that I've never been 33 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 2: called the human hashtag, so I will be adding that 34 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:52,120 Speaker 2: to the CV. Thank you very much, isn't it. I 35 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 2: feel like the meaning of wealth probably constantly evolves, but 36 00:01:57,400 --> 00:02:00,160 Speaker 2: I feel like the older you get, the less it 37 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 2: actually becomes about money, you know. So, and I think 38 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 2: that probably for myself and I dare say a lot 39 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:10,520 Speaker 2: of people probably here in alt It but also around 40 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 2: the world. There was some real home truths to that 41 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:17,560 Speaker 2: when the pandemic happened, and you actually everyone was sort 42 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 2: of given this forced wake up call in terms of 43 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 2: like what is actually important. 44 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 3: So you've had quite a journey this year. If I 45 00:02:24,760 --> 00:02:27,799 Speaker 3: can recap for people who haven't been paying attention, I mean, 46 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 3: you're back on TV at a time where a lot 47 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:33,359 Speaker 3: of people are off TV, and you've you've bought a house, 48 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 3: so you've stepped up the property ladder. You are you 49 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 3: really make a go of it this year, aren't you? 50 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:41,919 Speaker 2: Yeah? I think it's funny, isn't it. I mean I've 51 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 2: been self employed now for four and a half years, 52 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 2: and this is the first year that I have felt 53 00:02:48,040 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 2: like a sense of feeling settled in a space, which 54 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 2: has meant that, you know, the previous three years have 55 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 2: been quite challenging in many ways, but sometimes I think 56 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:05,080 Speaker 2: things land nicely for you, and you've worked for that 57 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 2: to happen, and so I actually think this year that 58 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:11,160 Speaker 2: has that has actually happened. Yeah, my mum and I 59 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:16,440 Speaker 2: bought a house. We moved here in January, and I 60 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:19,639 Speaker 2: wrote a book around a couple of marathons, I hosted 61 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 2: a TV show, and so yeah, it has been It 62 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 2: has been a cool year of you know, you work 63 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:30,799 Speaker 2: and work hard, and there's so much that you do 64 00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 2: that is like boring and admin and grafting and hustling 65 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:38,800 Speaker 2: that it is nice to see it all sort of 66 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 2: come together, because usually when it goes tits up that 67 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 2: you know, it all unravels at the same time too, 68 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 2: So it's nice if the good things pile up together 69 00:03:47,640 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 2: at the same time as well. 70 00:03:48,560 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 3: You know, least just hope that momentum continues right into 71 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 3: twenty twenty five. Though, So if I can try and 72 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 3: understand how you got to the place where you were 73 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 3: able to do that and do all of those things, 74 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 3: I mean, can you talk a bit about a really 75 00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 3: great financial decision that you have made that's been on 76 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 3: that journey. 77 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 2: The thing that I'm really grateful for, And it didn't 78 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 2: come like just out of like smart planning. When my 79 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 2: parents split up, my mum and I bought a house 80 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:20,919 Speaker 2: together and went halves in a house and that was 81 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:24,040 Speaker 2: in Waikoku Beach, North Canterbury, where I grew up, and 82 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:28,600 Speaker 2: so I was able to use kiwisaver and our deposits 83 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:34,280 Speaker 2: combined got the house in Waikoku Beach, so that even 84 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 2: though it had come through circumstances, like you know, it 85 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:39,800 Speaker 2: really did suck that my parents had broken up, but 86 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 2: that was actually really a cool thing for us to 87 00:04:42,000 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 2: be able to do it. 88 00:04:43,040 --> 00:04:46,040 Speaker 3: Sounds like you've had a setback and then you've bounced 89 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 3: right out of that and gone even further ahead. That's 90 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:50,039 Speaker 3: pretty remarkable. 91 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I think, yeah, at the time, you certainly 92 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,119 Speaker 2: don't look at it that way, but I actually think, 93 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:57,160 Speaker 2: I don't think you'd want to make a habit of 94 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:02,039 Speaker 2: capitalizing post bad things happening, but if you're able to 95 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 2: do it, sure. And then I moved back down to 96 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 2: christ Church, and so I took a job in christ 97 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:10,599 Speaker 2: Church on the radio, and was able to use the 98 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:14,719 Speaker 2: equity from the Wakucku house to buy a house in 99 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:18,479 Speaker 2: christ Church. And so then I had did I owned 100 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 2: two houses. I was like a mogul, you know, and 101 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:26,279 Speaker 2: had this great job in radio and had like a 102 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 2: like a seven hundred thousand dollars mortgage. But that was 103 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 2: all good. And then I March February. The month was February, 104 00:05:34,400 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 2: the year was twenty twenty, you may remember it. And 105 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 2: I got the white envelope, the wide envelope of doom 106 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 2: that you always hear about but and it actually is 107 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:45,239 Speaker 2: a real thing. So I got made redundant right before COVID. 108 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 2: And then you go from a good salary to nothing. 109 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:54,040 Speaker 2: I decided that it was going to be the time 110 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 2: that I'd give a crack to becoming self employed and like, 111 00:05:57,520 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 2: I guess be the architect of my own success. But 112 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:04,599 Speaker 2: you know that's hard, and so I definitely could not 113 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 2: afford to have a seven hundred thousand dollars mortgage while 114 00:06:08,080 --> 00:06:11,480 Speaker 2: I was trying to figure out what if anything, was 115 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 2: gonna happen as a self employed girly. And then so 116 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:18,280 Speaker 2: I put tenants in the house in christ Church so 117 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:20,719 Speaker 2: that that could cover that side of the mortgage, moved 118 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 2: out to Waikoku with Mum lived there and that was awesome. 119 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 2: Then I realized we're fast forwarded to like ended twenty 120 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:32,039 Speaker 2: twenty one, started twenty twenty two. I was like, I 121 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 2: need to be back up in Auckland. That's where all 122 00:06:34,200 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 2: the opportunities are, That's where the networking is, That's where 123 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:39,600 Speaker 2: I need to immerse myself in the hustle. And then 124 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 2: it was like, right, well, I'm gonna I'm gonna sell 125 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 2: my christ Church pad with the aim of buying like 126 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 2: a little apartment up here. And then Mum and I 127 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 2: again things either happened from bad things and then often 128 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 2: other smart decisions happen out of a joke. She was like, 129 00:06:57,480 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I'm gonna buy a little apartment 130 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:01,040 Speaker 2: and stuff, and she was like, oh, I could move 131 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:04,440 Speaker 2: to Auckland, I could move to the big Smoke. Well 132 00:07:04,760 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 2: fast forward about eighteen months and here we are, and 133 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 2: she just decided that actually because neither of her kids 134 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 2: were in christ Church. My brother's in Marsden. No if 135 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 2: it's to Marsiden, but it's a little bit in land, 136 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:19,520 Speaker 2: and she's a real beach lady. So yeah, she came 137 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:21,640 Speaker 2: up here. We bought a house, so we sold two 138 00:07:21,680 --> 00:07:24,320 Speaker 2: houses to be able to scrape together for one and 139 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 2: Pamuki Bakodo And I'm really like, I'm very grateful, and 140 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 2: really I feel really lucky that I can do that 141 00:07:32,960 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 2: with her. And so it's also made me real passionate 142 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 2: about the benefits of co ownership, which I think we're 143 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:43,920 Speaker 2: seeing a lot more Kiwis do because how else he's 144 00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:44,880 Speaker 2: supposed to do otherwise. 145 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 3: That was the theme of the TV show that you've 146 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:49,360 Speaker 3: just done right on the latter, and so you would 147 00:07:49,360 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 3: have met a lot of people in those circumstances, I'm 148 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:55,320 Speaker 3: sure stepped into their lives like broadcasters and TV people do. 149 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 3: Did you get a sense about how comfy people are 150 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:01,720 Speaker 3: taking that step and why they're doing it. What wealth 151 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 3: means to them. 152 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:05,119 Speaker 2: Well, that is that is the cool thing, right because 153 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 2: I think, you know, wealth, I think to more people 154 00:08:09,000 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 2: than not means something means nothing really superficial, right, it's 155 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 2: you know, for me, it's the health and it's kind 156 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 2: of cliche, but it's actually legitimately true. If your nearest 157 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:23,679 Speaker 2: and dearest are okay and safe and happy and healthy, 158 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 2: and your friends are what actually you know? Like, yes, Garth, 159 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 2: I would love a house on the beach. I love it, 160 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:34,400 Speaker 2: But does my life? Will my life be okay without it? Yes? 161 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 2: I do get annoyed though when you see all those 162 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:38,559 Speaker 2: beach houses and the curtains are pulled half the year. 163 00:08:38,679 --> 00:08:42,240 Speaker 2: I don't think people should be allowed those anyway. That's around. Yeah, 164 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:44,720 Speaker 2: give it to me, but no, Like so you're so, 165 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:50,560 Speaker 2: you're what's important to you is all the people in 166 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:54,079 Speaker 2: your world and actually your own health because you need 167 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 2: to be firing on all cylinders to be able to 168 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:58,280 Speaker 2: offer the best to your nearest and dearest as well. 169 00:08:58,760 --> 00:09:01,080 Speaker 2: So what I love to see but watching on that 170 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 2: show is that you've got these amazing people that are 171 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:08,640 Speaker 2: just trying to think about ways to secure their future. 172 00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 2: And I think that's probably another thing that we're all 173 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 2: kind of thinking about, like what does that look like? 174 00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 2: What is what is secure in your future mean? And 175 00:09:16,600 --> 00:09:18,960 Speaker 2: it's just I guess, you know, if something happened to 176 00:09:19,440 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 2: if something happened to me, I'd want to know that 177 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:24,560 Speaker 2: my parents and my brother and his family and the 178 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:28,319 Speaker 2: wiafana faro are okay. And I'd like to think that 179 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 2: that was reciprocal. So that's I guess that's what means 180 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 2: a lot, is that you're sort of taking some steps 181 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 2: to secure the future and whatever happens that way. So 182 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 2: it was cool to see that with these friends and 183 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 2: families that were doing on the show as well. 184 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 3: Property still seems to be such a way that New 185 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 3: Zealanders do that, like it's a thing that they understand 186 00:09:47,320 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 3: a house you need to live somewhere as a house. 187 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 3: But I guess it does. It's not the only way 188 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 3: you can do things, right. What do you think puts 189 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 3: people off looking at other options? 190 00:09:57,360 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 2: It's funny, isn't it? Because I mean I feel like 191 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 2: only probably up until recently, like I'm talking sort of 192 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:08,240 Speaker 2: five ten years, everyone looked at like other forms of 193 00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 2: investing is like you know, you just saw like wall streets, 194 00:10:12,080 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 2: men in suits, stock market crashes, you know, all of 195 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:20,719 Speaker 2: that stuff, and it just looked inaccessible and hard to understand. 196 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:26,280 Speaker 2: So I so, you know, that's kind of another viable 197 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 2: way to do it. But it's only just more recently 198 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:31,720 Speaker 2: that there's more education around the merits of doing that. 199 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 2: Because I'm thirty eight, single woman, and so I am 200 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 2: I have to be in charge of making sure that 201 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 2: I can secure a future for myself if I'm going 202 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 2: to be doing it on my own. And that's not 203 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:47,679 Speaker 2: a cue to get the violin out either, like I'm 204 00:10:48,520 --> 00:10:51,440 Speaker 2: stoked to be an independent woman, but you do you 205 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 2: have to take all these steps to make sure that 206 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:56,200 Speaker 2: you've crossed your t's, dotted your eyes and so that 207 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:58,520 Speaker 2: I can go and be one of those fabulous ladies 208 00:10:58,880 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 2: you know, with a gin at midday at Ryman and 209 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:05,200 Speaker 2: be like Ladida, you know, tennis at two and crochet 210 00:11:05,240 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 2: it for and then you know, then go at seven and. 211 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 3: Sounds like a good life. I'm picturing it now. You know, 212 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:15,760 Speaker 3: you can practice that a lot of people talk about 213 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 3: what they like to do. From what I can see, 214 00:11:18,160 --> 00:11:20,800 Speaker 3: you actually get out and do it. What's the difference. 215 00:11:20,920 --> 00:11:23,400 Speaker 3: How do you make things happen? 216 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 2: Yeah? I like to give things a crack. I think 217 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:31,559 Speaker 2: that's actually in my nature. And I don't think like people. 218 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 2: You know, when you get that cliche question like do 219 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 2: you have any regrets, I'm like, I don't think so, 220 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 2: because I'm not scared of when something goes wrong. I'm 221 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 2: not scared of. I don't mind the word failure either, 222 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:47,439 Speaker 2: like a co ownership, let's say co ownership. I think 223 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:48,960 Speaker 2: a lot of people when they think about buying a 224 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:51,560 Speaker 2: property are like life sentence, you know what I mean. 225 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 2: They're like, oh my god, I've got a mortgage. Life 226 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:56,360 Speaker 2: is over. That's not it's actually not. It is still 227 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 2: really stressful when something doesn't quite go to plan. And 228 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 2: buying house is a massive deal and it's huge and 229 00:12:02,080 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 2: it's a massive financial undertaking, but it's not a life sentence. 230 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:08,559 Speaker 2: You know, it will be okay. If you have to say, 231 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:10,800 Speaker 2: you know, shit hits the fan, excuse me if the 232 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:14,200 Speaker 2: proverbial hits the fan. You know, there are ways to 233 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:16,160 Speaker 2: work through things. Well. 234 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 3: You can lock in the idea that you're not good 235 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 3: at something, or you won't give it a go, And 236 00:12:20,559 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 3: I guess that's the other habit you could develop. Anyone 237 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 3: could of just turning things down and saying no and 238 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:28,320 Speaker 3: staying cautious, and that then becomes a habit, right, But 239 00:12:28,360 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 3: it's a habit that's probably gonna limit you. 240 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you plate of your strengths, own your weaknesses, 241 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:37,520 Speaker 2: but also dabble in the middle too as well. Like 242 00:12:37,559 --> 00:12:40,600 Speaker 2: I think, I think every adult should have something that 243 00:12:41,559 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 2: pushes them out of their comfort zone. It's not necessarily 244 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:48,440 Speaker 2: a space you want to sit all the time, but 245 00:12:48,520 --> 00:12:51,640 Speaker 2: I feel like if you have something and I'm not like, yes, 246 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 2: called mine's marathons and ultra marathons and stuff, but if 247 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:58,080 Speaker 2: every adult has something that just challenges them every once 248 00:12:58,120 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 2: in a while, it actually makes makes you a better 249 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:03,080 Speaker 2: person to be able to handle the other things in 250 00:13:03,120 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 2: your life. So that's another good way to sort of 251 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:09,120 Speaker 2: figure out and navigate yourself. Because yes, we do like 252 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:10,600 Speaker 2: to do the things that we're good at and that 253 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:13,600 Speaker 2: we want to make life as easy as possible for ourselves, 254 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 2: but it is good to have things that challenge you 255 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:20,360 Speaker 2: and hurt and sort of like play with you mentally 256 00:13:20,760 --> 00:13:22,520 Speaker 2: so that you can tackle all the other things. So 257 00:13:22,559 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 2: that that's a huge part for me is doing that long, stupidly. 258 00:13:27,000 --> 00:13:31,439 Speaker 3: Long, running, amazing answer twenty twenty five. It's the year 259 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 3: ahead of us at this point, and people are sitting 260 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 3: there in summer time thinking what am I going to 261 00:13:36,080 --> 00:13:41,120 Speaker 3: do differently? Now? Do you have a New Year's resolutions person? 262 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 3: Do you sort of set yourself a little targets this 263 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 3: time of the year and go, I'm going to have 264 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 3: a crack at that. 265 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 2: I don't necessarily know that if I think that they're 266 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:54,800 Speaker 2: New Year's resolutions as such, but more things that I'd 267 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 2: like to do better. So this time last year, I 268 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:01,600 Speaker 2: was so deep in the bowl of burnout. It was 269 00:14:01,640 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 2: an awful, awful feeling. I had a couple of minor 270 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:10,480 Speaker 2: health scares, which thankfully just remain those scares, and so 271 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:14,679 Speaker 2: that sort of taught me that I had been burning 272 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 2: the candle at both ends. And so a couple of 273 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:22,280 Speaker 2: my ones from this year were you need to learn 274 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 2: to say no more, You need to be protecting and 275 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 2: valuing your time and stop and smell the roses. Do 276 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 2: you know what, I'll probably use the Christmas time like 277 00:14:32,200 --> 00:14:35,400 Speaker 2: to use a couple of like decent solid days lying 278 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:37,880 Speaker 2: on the beach workshopping with your mates, you know, like 279 00:14:37,920 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 2: sitting around. You got a chicken sandwich, You've got a 280 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:43,480 Speaker 2: couple of siders or beers, and you're just you've had 281 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 2: a couple of days enough to like decompress, and then 282 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:49,520 Speaker 2: you start sort of brainstorming with your mates. I think 283 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:53,800 Speaker 2: you should also reflect on what you've achieved the year before, 284 00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 2: so I would like to actually do a little bit 285 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:58,160 Speaker 2: of that before I worry about that. The other thing 286 00:14:58,200 --> 00:15:01,840 Speaker 2: that's I'm still being used to being self employed is 287 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 2: I actually don't really know what's on. I've got a 288 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 2: couple of gigs locked in already, but you know, at 289 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:08,240 Speaker 2: the start of this year, I didn't I knew that 290 00:15:08,280 --> 00:15:10,440 Speaker 2: I would be a published author, but I didn't know 291 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 2: that I was going to host a TV show. I 292 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:14,320 Speaker 2: didn't know that I was going to sign a commercial 293 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:17,200 Speaker 2: partnership with the podcasts. There's lots of Most of the 294 00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:19,400 Speaker 2: things I did, I didn't know exactly that i'd be. 295 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 3: Doing, you know, makes it hard to plan. 296 00:15:21,840 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's kind of fun and it's a little bit terrifying, 297 00:15:24,680 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 2: but you just got to sort of back yourself. 298 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:29,640 Speaker 3: Or imagine I'm one of those mates there maybe I've 299 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 3: got the chicken sandwich or the cider. Imagine I'm one 300 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:34,200 Speaker 3: of those mates there with you. What are you going 301 00:15:34,200 --> 00:15:36,200 Speaker 3: to set me a challenge? A You're you going to say, gaff, 302 00:15:36,200 --> 00:15:37,920 Speaker 3: be better at this. Try have a crack at that, mate, 303 00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:38,360 Speaker 3: give this a go. 304 00:15:38,800 --> 00:15:41,320 Speaker 2: Okay, well, I would actually challenge people my ones from 305 00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:45,880 Speaker 2: last year, which are be protective of your time. Remind 306 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:51,920 Speaker 2: yourself that most people put everyone else before them, and 307 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 2: you can do that to a degree, But if you 308 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 2: have not focused on your own health and getting yourself 309 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 2: into a sort of a good head space, you actually 310 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 2: aren't that much help help to the other people, and 311 00:16:03,840 --> 00:16:06,640 Speaker 2: stop and smile the roses. We just we go day 312 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 2: to day. We're here, there, we're everywhere where. We've got 313 00:16:09,440 --> 00:16:10,920 Speaker 2: to go to the next appointment. We've got to pick 314 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 2: the kids up, we've got to drop we've got to 315 00:16:12,320 --> 00:16:15,480 Speaker 2: do that. We've got to do that that stop. Have 316 00:16:15,600 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 2: a moment and everyone should take Everyone should put something 317 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:23,160 Speaker 2: in their diary that is them time only them. They 318 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:24,960 Speaker 2: put it in the diary, like actually put it in 319 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 2: the calendar, Like all my things like running and walking 320 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:31,880 Speaker 2: or the beach or anything, they are in the calendar. 321 00:16:32,120 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 2: So they're not negotiable. So when someone rings and says, 322 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 2: am I available for that, I'm like no, sorry, I'm 323 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 2: not protective of your time and saying no. That's about 324 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:43,320 Speaker 2: ten things. But they're nice little ones. They're achievable. They're 325 00:16:43,360 --> 00:16:44,119 Speaker 2: all achievable. 326 00:16:44,800 --> 00:16:48,440 Speaker 3: Brody Kane, thank you for saying yes to talking to us. 327 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:49,920 Speaker 2: Oh there was a classic one. I was like, oh, 328 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 2: it's Garth. I can't say no to Gath. He's an 329 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:52,600 Speaker 2: old mate. 330 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:55,280 Speaker 3: And thanks to all of you as well for watching 331 00:16:55,400 --> 00:16:57,480 Speaker 3: and for listening. 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