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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Unknown podcast Fight. I'll be fifteenth of

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Speaker 1: November twenty twenty four. Today we have the notorious Pensman

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Speaker 1: Joel Harrison joining us. Thanks for having me.

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Speaker 2: It's a bloody pleasure as always, guys.

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Speaker 3: Cheese, you've livened up beer pants Man.

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Speaker 1: Guys, I'm bloody happy to be here. He's got a

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Speaker 1: lot of energy. The pants Man, what on earth was there?

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Speaker 3: We were just having a Chad off here and Pantsman's

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Speaker 3: coming hot there, he asked me.

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Speaker 2: He asked me outside. He's like, we need, we need

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Speaker 2: you to come and just pump some energy. Yeah, so

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Speaker 2: I'm I'm happy to be here. Pumps the enagery.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm feeling you pumped the energy. Pens Men and

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Speaker 1: Morgan pen joins us as well.

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Speaker 4: Hello, Pensman's got his knees on display.

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Speaker 1: Pensman, Yeah, got the shorts on today. Horrific decision. Why well,

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Speaker 1: I had to catch the training this morning and there's

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Speaker 1: a bit of walking involved and I didn't realize it

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Speaker 1: was raining when I got up this morning. And bad decision.

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Speaker 1: The leagues are wet.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, yeah, okay, it doesn't like moist sneeze.

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Speaker 2: Nah, okay, But not too bad, but yeah, that big legs,

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Speaker 2: Like you know, there's a lot of surface area with

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Speaker 2: the pants man because he's six for six more torso

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Speaker 2: than legs though, that's the thing. My legs are actually

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Speaker 2: that long. More of a long torso situation.

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Speaker 1: You know what they say about me and with long torsos?

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Speaker 1: What do they say?

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Speaker 3: So, man, she's here as well, you get mate?

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Speaker 1: How are you?

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Speaker 5: So?

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Speaker 3: What do they say about long torsos? I just feel

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Speaker 3: like we've stid away from that for no reason.

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Speaker 1: Well, you know, but you know what they you know

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Speaker 1: what they say. I don't need to know.

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Speaker 3: It's obvious what they say, more than in your experience

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Speaker 3: long torso. Does that kind of correlate to anything?

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Speaker 1: Okay, because it's a perspective trick, you know what I'm saying, Like,

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Speaker 1: if you've got short legs, then it looks longer. But

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Speaker 1: I don't have short have short legs, No, not comparatively

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Speaker 1: to normal people. Yes, it looks right, So you're friend

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Speaker 1: in it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, someone's really naive in this.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: No, it turns out Jerry's talking about it downstairs.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Wow, I go everything for me ten six. It's terrible.

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Speaker 3: That's why Matt Heath was running such a big cock,

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Speaker 3: doesn't it because his legs are so short.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's not that hard for the side of

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Speaker 1: the knees. Well, that's what I've mean. It's interesting with

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Speaker 1: Matt Heath because he if he's sitting in a car,

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Speaker 1: he looks normal, he looks quite tall because he's got

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Speaker 1: such a long body. But then obviously he gets out

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Speaker 1: of the car and you're like, I think, guy's what

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Speaker 1: five eight, five nine something like that, but inside of

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Speaker 1: a car looks six to three, whereas pants man looks

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Speaker 1: about six ten inside of a car. He's got such

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Speaker 1: a massive, too massive Tourso you used to drive a

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Speaker 1: Mesadmi than you? Nah? No, Corolla, Corolla? Yeah, you must

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Speaker 1: go through the roof of that thing.

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Speaker 2: The Corolla's got a bit more bit more room space

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Speaker 2: than the Vits or you know, Demia, But yeah, Corolla.

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Speaker 2: Anything smaller would be a bit of a struggle back

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Speaker 2: of the If you sit in the back of an

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Speaker 2: uber kid has to your neck has to crouch down

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Speaker 2: a bit as well.

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Speaker 1: And you do have a long nick. That's not like

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Speaker 1: you've got a short nick.

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Speaker 2: They say anything about people with long neck, a girthy

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Speaker 2: long Nick.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what that means, got a long, skinny neck.

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Speaker 1: You wouldn't have a tempted to drive a MESD one

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Speaker 1: to one fun top. No, I never heard of it. Actually,

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Speaker 1: what what is that? I'm getting one up for you,

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Speaker 1: I'm getting one up. Is this the guy that you

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Speaker 1: used to have that smelled a lot like boon water?

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Speaker 6: That was?

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Speaker 1: That was a Twitter camera one two one.

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Speaker 4: You couldn't shut them up.

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Speaker 1: Here we go, here's the here's the here's the mester

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Speaker 1: one photo for this audio media fantastic pensman. So this

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Speaker 1: was the fun top, the one to one fun top.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you could put your head out the top

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Speaker 1: of it. You could drive a lot.

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Speaker 2: Imagine people like because obviously I'm tall, I'm not freakishly

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Speaker 2: tall though arguably. But what about like a Steven Adams

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Speaker 2: or something, a professional basketball player.

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Speaker 1: Imagine them trying to get in a car. Yeah, say Scotch, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think they drive like those rich basketball players like

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Speaker 1: Suaman drive like g wagons and stuff, you know, with

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Speaker 1: plenty of heir clearance or a big check. Kid to

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Speaker 1: get a custom car made, didn't they? Oh I did it?

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Speaker 1: You got a famous I think it was a Mercedes.

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Speaker 3: You go, he went to the Mercedes store and they

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Speaker 3: had to kind of make them a car so we

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Speaker 3: could get everything in there and make.

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Speaker 1: Sure it had fail dead boy, it makes a lot

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Speaker 1: of sense. They're oh, boy, Morgan, I'm interested to know

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Speaker 1: from a female perspective, like the cars make do cars

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Speaker 1: make guys sexier? I mean, I know that there's probably

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Speaker 1: some cars that are a turn off for girls, but

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Speaker 1: like how much of a car, how much does a

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Speaker 1: car have to do with how six of your guy is?

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Speaker 4: Oh god? I mean I feel like it's gotten less

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Speaker 4: important as I've gotten older. Like I grew up in Nelson,

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Speaker 4: where they were like boy races and it was all

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Speaker 4: about the skylines and that if you didn't have an

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Speaker 4: evo or a skyline you were not hot. Okay, you

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Speaker 4: know if you're running like a Ford Laser oh with louvers,

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Speaker 4: absolutely not.

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Speaker 1: Oh Sadan, I don't know what's that? Well, you know,

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Speaker 1: Sudan's like a has a boot. Oh yeah, a hatchbag.

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Speaker 1: That's Ford Lazer hatchback or the Sedan hatchbag. Okay, because yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think the Ford Laser Sadan, like itt Sebaci treaty,

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Speaker 1: is not a sexy vehicle.

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Speaker 3: Because you've also got a theory, don't your jury that

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Speaker 3: you don't really respect anyone under the age of thirty

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Speaker 3: that drives an expensive car? Oh I don't. Yeah, So

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Speaker 3: how does that convert to relationships? Morman pen Maybe do

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Speaker 3: you think there's some kind of weight in this argument

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Speaker 3: of juries there?

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Speaker 4: Well, I guess there is some.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: It is an outward expression of yourself, right, So it

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Speaker 4: is like what you're showing the world or what you

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Speaker 4: want the world to think about you. So I think

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Speaker 4: you're kind of onto something there. If you're under thirty

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Speaker 4: and you've got a really flesh car, what are you

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Speaker 4: wanting people to think about you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I think so. I always thought that as well,

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Speaker 1: Like girls who drive flesh European cars. This is from

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Speaker 1: a male perspective, girls who drive flesh European cars at

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Speaker 1: a young age. I'm like, high maintenance, That's what I'm thinking.

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking high maintenance. And I'm thinking because that carshigh

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Speaker 1: maintenance and it costs a lot to keep that thing

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Speaker 1: on the road. I'm thinking whereas a female that drives

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Speaker 1: they say Twitter Corolla, yeah, you know, with reasonably low mileage,

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Speaker 1: And and I'm thinking practical. I'm thinking practical, solid, steady, steady. Yeah.

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Speaker 6: A real goer, Yeah, a real goer, peppy, probably quite

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Speaker 6: good in the sack. Oh okay, yeah, because another theory, Morgan,

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Speaker 6: is that you're driving and your ability in sack is linked.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, okay, I can see that myself.

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Speaker 3: No, well, I think, so how do you drive, Morgan?

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Speaker 4: But rough and rugged?

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Speaker 1: Okay? Fast?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: And does that correlate to your love making?

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Speaker 4: No? Actually not the fast but okay, no.

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Speaker 1: But you're prepared to chuck it around some corners and

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Speaker 1: see what see what the vehicle is capable of?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, sustained loss of tractions.

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Speaker 1: Pans and avidues. He likes to do some pedic drifts. Wow.

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Speaker 3: Does that correlate to love making it anyway?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's interesting. No, I don't.

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Speaker 2: I'd say my driving styles. I've got my learners restricted

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Speaker 2: and fall first time pretty you know by the book,

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Speaker 2: you know, not too many risks, meeting three vige kind

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I say, I look at the pantsman and I

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Speaker 1: thank good on the sack. Of course you do, because

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Speaker 1: that's my vibe for the pantsman is noses way around,

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Speaker 1: you know, not particularly, And I wouldn't call him like

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Speaker 1: naturally overly coordinated individual what not. You know, that's very

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Speaker 1: very very fair. You're a good sports person, but not like.

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Speaker 4: You know, i'd say, I get the safe vibes from him,

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Speaker 4: like I feel like he would care, he would ask questions,

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Speaker 4: he would chicken.

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Speaker 2: That's pretty spot on, to be honest. Yeah, I can

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Speaker 2: imagine that. I can imagine that too.

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Speaker 1: You're sweet, loving, kind, hungry, can really turn it on

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Speaker 1: when he needs to. Yes, yeah, you know he's prepared

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Speaker 1: to go to places that you'd be surprised.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I think that's yeah. We like to keep things novel.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's He also likes fantasy, a lot of fantasy

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Speaker 1: work in the bedroom as well. He's prepared to play

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Speaker 1: a role. Was it what I'm told? Oh wow, okay,

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Speaker 1: well that's what I I mentioned. Yeah, for you anyway,

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Speaker 1: you're prepared to take on like we're we're say, women's

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Speaker 1: clothes and things like that, and really trial some different

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Speaker 1: sort of roles. It's almost like you've got bloody cameras

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I celebrate this for you, pants man.

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Speaker 1: Do it inside? Do you have an inside inside scoop

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Speaker 1: for someone? I've got quite interesting. I just feel these

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you would look cute and fishing net stockings.

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Speaker 1: I really see that. You can imagine pantsman and drag.

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Speaker 1: I can you too much of a big unit? I

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Speaker 1: think for imagine them on some and some four inch

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Speaker 1: heels that's going to get in the car. I can

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Speaker 1: imagine giraffing your way around it. All right, let's take

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Speaker 1: a break and come back with more of working out

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Speaker 1: what the pants means like in bed and just a

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Speaker 1: moment and we're back. Yeah, so I'll just.

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Speaker 3: Fight off a text team to your your partner Joel,

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Speaker 3: and I just said, Hey, Grace, Hope, having a good morning.

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Speaker 3: We're just recording a podcast. Would you mind answering woul

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Speaker 3: Joel's love making correlate directly to his driving style. We're

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Speaker 3: just trying to get to the bottom of a theory

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Speaker 3: we have. So I'll keep everyone posted and hopefully by

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Speaker 3: the end of the podcast we can have some answers.

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Speaker 3: I understand she's a highly professional individuals she might not

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Speaker 3: keep back to us by the end of the pod.

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Speaker 1: But look, you have a number. Do you have a number? Oh?

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Speaker 3: I mean, like, you know, you accumulate these things over time.

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Speaker 1: You'll worry reply to be honest, she yeah, she's normally

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Speaker 1: good for a reply, So that's good. Fingers Christ The

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Speaker 1: opposite of you, isn't it. I've noticed that, you know,

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Speaker 1: a night out, you know how to kind of go

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Speaker 1: from a phone for depends.

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Speaker 2: I am pretty I'm pretty active on my phone. I

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Speaker 2: like to pride myself off replying, but sometimes sometimes there's

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Speaker 2: there can be windows of hours without picking up a phone.

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Speaker 1: Because you are.

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Speaker 3: I mean, We've just spent a weekend in Dunedin together

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Speaker 3: and I felt like your phone was flapped the entire time.

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Speaker 2: If you know, you sort of finish up, tell them

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Speaker 4: Exactly about the Red Sea that freaks you out?

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: No, he didn't want to, but she was really horned

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00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:12,720
Speaker 4: up at the time of month, but he didn't really

437
00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:15,560
Speaker 4: like doing it because he could feel this like get out.

438
00:20:16,440 --> 00:20:17,639
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know.

439
00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:21,160
Speaker 4: It's interesting. It's two different people having different body experiences.

440
00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:23,679
Speaker 3: When you have a situation like that and you hear

441
00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:26,960
Speaker 3: a better situation like that, how do you come up with,

442
00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:29,880
Speaker 3: you know, your thoughts on it, Because neither of those

443
00:20:30,160 --> 00:20:31,480
Speaker 3: people are particularly wrong.

444
00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:34,920
Speaker 4: No, I think it's really about doing what feels right.

445
00:20:35,119 --> 00:20:38,600
Speaker 4: It's okay, and I think it can change and sometimes

446
00:20:38,640 --> 00:20:40,600
Speaker 4: you can start, it can feel good, and then you

447
00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:43,200
Speaker 4: can stop as well. And I said to him, have

448
00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:45,440
Speaker 4: you actually told her this? And he said no, And

449
00:20:45,520 --> 00:20:47,840
Speaker 4: I said, well you should, Like I do believe that

450
00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:51,080
Speaker 4: communication is the success thing you can do sharing those

451
00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:53,439
Speaker 4: kind of bits. I fight a man that was pounding

452
00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:56,399
Speaker 4: me and could feel an energetic no from my body,

453
00:20:56,520 --> 00:20:58,760
Speaker 4: I would want to hear that. That's powerful, he's.

454
00:20:58,640 --> 00:20:59,639
Speaker 3: In tune, you know.

455
00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:04,919
Speaker 1: Yeah. Interesting though, that amazing that there's a conflict between

456
00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:10,479
Speaker 1: the energetic yes that one person's feeling and the energetic

457
00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:12,639
Speaker 1: know that this person feels from the vagina.

458
00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:14,879
Speaker 4: Mmmm. Well, I mean I would probably if he as

459
00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:18,040
Speaker 4: a client, I would go deeper about his internalized beliefs

460
00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:21,399
Speaker 4: because potentially there is a block there that's actually happening

461
00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:23,440
Speaker 4: for him and he might be picking up on something

462
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:25,840
Speaker 4: that's wrong. So that's why it's good for him. To

463
00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:27,560
Speaker 4: share with her, right, because then they can like pull

464
00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:28,720
Speaker 4: it apart and talk about it.

465
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:38,040
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, ovulation is that the next chapter? Yep, such

466
00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:40,480
Speaker 1: an interesting when and you get a little bit older,

467
00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:42,200
Speaker 1: and you know, you guys are a little bit young

468
00:21:42,280 --> 00:21:44,960
Speaker 1: to really kind of be totally zoned in on the

469
00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:49,480
Speaker 1: sort of part of a female's time yet because you're

470
00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:51,480
Speaker 1: a bit young, sort of just still it kind of

471
00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:55,439
Speaker 1: fair enough period slash non period time. That's probably how

472
00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:58,760
Speaker 1: you guys think about it. Yeah, we cannot. Yeah, it's

473
00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:02,000
Speaker 1: and I remember being a little bit like that too.

474
00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:03,840
Speaker 1: But I'll tell you what when you when you work

475
00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:06,520
Speaker 1: out the difference between the time when a female is ovulating,

476
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:09,639
Speaker 1: and you'll start as you get older, you start putting

477
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:11,600
Speaker 1: two and two together. I think Lauren she might have

478
00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:13,680
Speaker 1: taken a recommendation of yours off. Your six Stop Life

479
00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:14,320
Speaker 1: podcast is.

480
00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:16,240
Speaker 3: An app that she uses now that you know, tracks

481
00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:18,840
Speaker 3: kind of everything down from movulation to.

482
00:22:19,200 --> 00:22:22,320
Speaker 1: Periods and all that kind of stuff. And what you

483
00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:24,520
Speaker 1: were saying there, Jerry, it checks out.

484
00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:27,320
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you know when like it's quite a it's

485
00:22:27,400 --> 00:22:29,919
Speaker 3: really fascinating because you think that like you're saying as

486
00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:31,720
Speaker 3: his non period times and in these period times and

487
00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:33,680
Speaker 3: then assuming that when there's non period times, she's just

488
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:35,520
Speaker 3: ready to go in whys little better not there? And

489
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:38,480
Speaker 3: then you're like, oh, hang on, I now understand why. Yeah, yeah,

490
00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:40,399
Speaker 3: it's pretty amazing next level and.

491
00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:44,159
Speaker 1: Ovulation, you know, especially when people are in tune with

492
00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:46,600
Speaker 1: it and they work out. Oh man, like you realize

493
00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:51,000
Speaker 1: that I know as well, Tolsey. She is out and

494
00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:54,080
Speaker 1: ready to go out and get about. That's just that

495
00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:57,040
Speaker 1: drives That is driving you really really hard, because what

496
00:22:57,160 --> 00:22:59,640
Speaker 1: happens in a woman's body is really interesting around testosterone,

497
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:04,480
Speaker 1: that the way the cycle works, massive shift compared to

498
00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:07,040
Speaker 1: what's happens in a male, which is just testos trained.

499
00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:10,800
Speaker 4: And so for people that don't know, ovulation is when

500
00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 4: the egg is released, and so a woman is fertile,

501
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 4: so the primal part of her is really like given me,

502
00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 4: like impregnate me, let's pro create.

503
00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:20,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's my next question. What was that? So

504
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:23,480
Speaker 1: thank you very much? Yeah, yeah. And at that time,

505
00:23:24,720 --> 00:23:27,439
Speaker 1: what is interesting is that now with phones they've been

506
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:31,119
Speaker 1: able to do a whole lot of super interesting data

507
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:33,760
Speaker 1: which they could never do before, which is around how

508
00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 1: far women walk when they're ovulating, how they don't, So

509
00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:41,920
Speaker 1: they walk a lot further. They'll take more steps in

510
00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 1: any situation because that is you're going, there's more likelihood

511
00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:45,680
Speaker 1: of going out.

512
00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:46,760
Speaker 4: You're on the hunt.

513
00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:50,159
Speaker 1: You're on the hunt. You also far less likely to

514
00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:53,280
Speaker 1: speak to your father on the phone. I have heard that.

515
00:23:53,359 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 5: Wow, oh I must be ovulating all the time, right,

516
00:23:58,640 --> 00:24:01,720
Speaker 5: and so yeah, that's what the but what you're more

517
00:24:02,000 --> 00:24:04,000
Speaker 5: less likely to hang out with your family.

518
00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:06,560
Speaker 1: Wow, at that moment you get out, you just you

519
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,320
Speaker 1: move away from your family. Touching a good point though.

520
00:24:09,480 --> 00:24:11,679
Speaker 3: I think if you know, if those that have fathers

521
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 3: that you know went down to packet of cigarettes and

522
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 3: then didn't come back in the late eighties, I don't

523
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:18,239
Speaker 3: know if that's necessarily down to the ovulation situation. As

524
00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,280
Speaker 3: a Jerry, it's just more of a you know, people

525
00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 3: that have good relationships with your fathers.

526
00:24:22,280 --> 00:24:28,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, and also smoking smokingkedeen addiction, that's true. Yeah. Anyway,

527
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:29,840
Speaker 1: Apparently the vape's not good for the spam.

528
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:32,879
Speaker 4: I don't think the vape's good for anything. Definitely not

529
00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 4: six appeal.

530
00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:36,080
Speaker 1: No, it's not a six, not a sixty thing you

531
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:37,720
Speaker 1: know to turn on to people with vape.

532
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:41,240
Speaker 4: No, they're humiliators there like puff the Magic Dragon.

533
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,320
Speaker 3: As your generation that hates the vape, I've noticed that

534
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:47,280
Speaker 3: morgs like it's people kind of in your zone is

535
00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:48,680
Speaker 3: really anti vapes.

536
00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 1: People.

537
00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:51,720
Speaker 3: Oh, I mean anyone, anyone.

538
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 1: Else, Most people other than your generation's anti vapes.

539
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 3: That's a good point.

540
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm anti vapes. I'm anti vapes. Really, are you

541
00:24:57,920 --> 00:24:58,719
Speaker 1: millennial ormus?

542
00:24:59,000 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 4: I don't know what's that?

543
00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:02,919
Speaker 1: What's the yeah, you are?

544
00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 6: I am.

545
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 1: What is smoking hot to you?

546
00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 6: No?

547
00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,399
Speaker 4: Never, it's never been hot. Highlight cigars. I mean that

548
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:10,440
Speaker 4: smoked cigars are hot.

549
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 3: Okay, you have a one night stands if you're in

550
00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 3: gay Perry for a night and is in me, let

551
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:20,880
Speaker 3: me grank, break up some music.

552
00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:26,360
Speaker 1: Actually, if you're really set the scene, okay.

553
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 4: I'm getting Kingles.

554
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:29,119
Speaker 3: So you're staying in Paris for a night, h and

555
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 3: you met a man or something like that. Order what

556
00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:33,200
Speaker 3: have you're into at the time? Oh?

557
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 6: Thank you?

558
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 3: And you know, you go home, spend a lovely night together,

559
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:38,480
Speaker 3: you get room service, You wake up, You've had a

560
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 3: great night, it's just been amazing. And then the windows

561
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:43,840
Speaker 3: open and then the person next to you goes and

562
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:46,880
Speaker 3: has a cigarette in the window overlooking the Eiffel Tower

563
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 3: is post coital.

564
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:49,800
Speaker 1: Is it possible for that cigarette to be sixy?

565
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 4: I'm really angry at myself, but yes, yes.

566
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,320
Speaker 2: It was a really impressive picture that you have. It

567
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:01,920
Speaker 2: was sixy for me too, man, I was finny it hot. Yeah,

568
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 2: but what if you have to kiss them? I can

569
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:06,119
Speaker 2: imagine kissing someone that tastes like smoke. Well, yeah, kissing

570
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 2: someone that tastes smoke isn't a very nice thing.

571
00:26:08,440 --> 00:26:12,119
Speaker 4: What's interesting is actually I've had a partner that smoked before,

572
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:15,240
Speaker 4: and I liked it because it felt like I was

573
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 4: smooching up a bad boy. Yeah, really rough and rugged.

574
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:23,040
Speaker 2: If you really like the person, yeah you just go.

575
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,600
Speaker 2: I still like the person. But what if you if

576
00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:27,359
Speaker 2: you pash aroundom that tastes like.

577
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:31,960
Speaker 1: I mean, if they sucked any way to pash and

578
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 1: they smoke, then that is like yack yack, yack, yak yak,

579
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:38,520
Speaker 1: yeah yack. Have you guys been watching Love Island Australia?

580
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:43,440
Speaker 1: He lost those one. I'm watching them with the kids

581
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 1: at the moment, and it's there's a lot of lessons,

582
00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:48,600
Speaker 1: a lot of lessons to learn about what to do

583
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:50,119
Speaker 1: and what not to do for you?

584
00:26:50,400 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 4: Is it for you kids, Oh, what's your main takeaway?

585
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:58,639
Speaker 3: My main takeaway is it's going to be brush related.

586
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 1: No, as as different ones for the for Hugo my son,

587
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:09,639
Speaker 1: and different ones for Mishka and my daughter. But for

588
00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 1: Mishika it's don't don't be like these people and spend

589
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:17,159
Speaker 1: lots of time looking in the mirror and doing makeup

590
00:27:17,200 --> 00:27:19,600
Speaker 1: all the time. It is a waste. It is just

591
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 1: such a waste of energy. And look how silly this looks.

592
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 1: For Hugo my son, it is spray around. No, what

593
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:33,080
Speaker 1: is what have I said to him about it so far?

594
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:35,680
Speaker 1: When someone asks you what do you like about me?

595
00:27:35,880 --> 00:27:38,359
Speaker 1: Just on the way that I look, No, I don't

596
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:40,960
Speaker 1: don't just check your tongue in there straight away when

597
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:47,200
Speaker 1: you pesh, isn't there? These guys just come straight in

598
00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 1: with the tongue and it's like, what the helly that?

599
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 1: Nobody likes that? No, you're not, it's not a Komodo

600
00:27:53,359 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 1: dragon situation. Get out.

601
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 2: That is actually great advice for people who are about fourteen, fifteen,

602
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 2: sixteen getting their first case and what yeah twenty four

603
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:06,640
Speaker 2: and yeah, like the first I feel like the first

604
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 2: kiss just dives straight in.

605
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 1: But if you had these life lessons of Jeremy Wells

606
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 1: from Loveland. Yeah, you just want to touch lips. It's

607
00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:16,160
Speaker 1: just an ender. I mean, it can be a little

608
00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:19,520
Speaker 1: bit uncomfortable, but a tarngue straight away. The washing machine,

609
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:23,920
Speaker 1: what are the washing machine's? Peter's washing machine? Get out?

610
00:28:24,280 --> 00:28:30,960
Speaker 1: He told you my nickname Maars twenty fifteen. Yeah. No,

611
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:32,760
Speaker 1: it's good advice. It's good that you are watching these

612
00:28:32,760 --> 00:28:34,680
Speaker 1: shows your kids as well. I feel like it is

613
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 1: good to do that. It's like Douche Central, so like

614
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 1: there's a lot, there's a lot to judge, you know.

615
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 4: I think what freaks me out with shows like that

616
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 4: is all the women are trying to look the same

617
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:51,240
Speaker 4: with their cosmetic surgeris and injectables and lips, big puffy lips.

618
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 4: I was out at a restaurant the other night with

619
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:55,840
Speaker 4: my mum and she saw a woman who's had lots

620
00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 4: for on her lips. And Mom said, oh my god,

621
00:28:57,640 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 4: I think she's having an allergic reaction. There's a woman

622
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 4: over there there's puff right up. I said, O, Mum,

623
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:03,480
Speaker 4: it's lip filler.

624
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 1: I know, but there's some Apparently there were people out

625
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:10,200
Speaker 1: there who love the look. You know, these guys generation yeah,

626
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 1: and they're like really into this kind of it's a

627
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:14,600
Speaker 1: kind of a blow up dohle sort of a look.

628
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 1: It's quite I find it weird.

629
00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 4: Well, that's the reason why we wear lipstick is to

630
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:22,320
Speaker 4: like incite the feeling of the volver and the lips

631
00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:25,080
Speaker 4: down there. It's trying to make the mind connection.

632
00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 1: Wow.

633
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:28,040
Speaker 4: So that's the same thing with these puffed up lips

634
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 4: is meant to look like an engorged volver.

635
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 1: Wow.

636
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:34,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, make you think about six. So I'm like totally

637
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 4: against it, Like we don't need to over sexualize the face.

638
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 1: You know, no, no, yeah, Okay, this has been absolutely fascinating.

639
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:45,680
Speaker 1: This has been good. I've learned so much.

640
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 2: It feels like last time I remember a couple of

641
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 2: years ago, came on here and you kind of tried

642
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 2: to give Mesh and I a sort of a sexual education,

643
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:53,880
Speaker 2: a masterclass here.

644
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, with like sort of physical stuff.

645
00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 2: But it feels like it's a bit more authentic and

646
00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 2: validified with you and here Morgan.

647
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:03,800
Speaker 1: So it's it's really been good. Thank you.

648
00:30:04,040 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 4: Thanks for trusting me and your sharing.

649
00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 1: Morgan has been so good the last couple of days.

650
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 1: It's been so nice here on the show and the

651
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 1: podcasts and really bringing a I don't know, I like

652
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 1: a real class and and a real level of intellect

653
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:27,000
Speaker 1: to the show and the podcast. Yeah, it is an intellect,

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Speaker 1: isn't it?

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Speaker 4: Really know how to make a woman feel good?

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Speaker 1: Thank you, well, thank you, You're welcome.

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Speaker 2: Do you think you can delete the part where I

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Speaker 2: said I'm scared of the Red Sea? We unfortunately, we can't.

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Speaker 2: We can't delete anything. It's weird thing. It's this is

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Speaker 2: going out live onto damn it tape and it just

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Speaker 2: can't be a race. It's it's good. It's had a

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Speaker 2: little thing the little tab taken off the top of

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Speaker 2: the tape.

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Speaker 1: Nora Bloke from Grace either by the way, she's busy,

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Speaker 1: so we might have to compete with them on Monday.

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Speaker 1: That's right. Yeah, perfect, perfect, and correlates to you love,

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Speaker 1: making you sweet.

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Speaker 4: And acknowledgment's the first step. So you've done a lot

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Speaker 4: of work today.

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Speaker 1: Well I think it feels like, yeah, this has been great.

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Speaker 1: Thank you very much. Thanks for having me, guys, it's

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Speaker 1: been awesome.