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Speaker 1: From the Zidium Podcast Network. It's Fleechborn and Hayley's a

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Speaker 1: little bit of Pod.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to a little bit of Pod.

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Speaker 1: The Big Pod will be back on Tuesday, the twenty

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Speaker 1: eighth of October. We're just taking it extended long weekend

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Speaker 1: break with the Labor weekend and a reminder.

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Speaker 2: As well a Christmas cocktail special.

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Speaker 1: We're recording those soon for the Christmas break, so if

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Speaker 1: you want your shout outs to be you know.

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Speaker 2: Part of the usual cocktail specials.

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Speaker 1: There's a link on our instagram if the h M

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Speaker 1: on Instagram and zidim online as well. Now today our

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Speaker 1: little bit of pod just between us.

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Speaker 3: What did you find on your partner's phone? When you

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Speaker 3: have a little snoopy? Snoop?

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Speaker 2: Love this it's all it's in us a to snoop.

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Speaker 3: We know it's wrong on a snoop.

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Speaker 1: Well, you notice your partner's behaviors change. You with someone

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Speaker 1: for so long and then they start like hiding their phone.

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Speaker 1: You're always on the always on their phone. It's not

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Speaker 1: hard to notice something's changed exactly, something's okay.

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Speaker 3: So find on your partner's fine? When is with my

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Speaker 3: ex husband? I snooped through his phone? I found a

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Speaker 3: bunch of gay porn.

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Speaker 1: I would be like, is that the guy that message

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Speaker 1: on the other day for just between us?

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Speaker 2: Like the finger in the the bot Yeah, a gay way.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, Okay. When I was snooping on my partner's fine,

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Speaker 3: I found his.

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Speaker 4: Fit life profile, which is finish social media. Okay xxx heartbreak.

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Speaker 1: I mean that's just like having a dating side, isn't

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Speaker 1: it is it?

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Speaker 5: Is? It like a Finnish community And there's like forums.

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Speaker 5: So I heard from a friend there's like forums for

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Speaker 5: what you're into and you can connect with people a message. Right,

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Speaker 5: events will be posted there, like the UNDI parties.

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Speaker 2: And right, what sort of stuff would you?

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Speaker 3: What sort of are they?

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Speaker 2: Categories? Photos? There's anything from mild to life.

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Speaker 3: This is all from a friend.

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Speaker 1: You imagine it, you imagine it vaughn and it's probably

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Speaker 1: on there.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I want someone to peel or bringes over me as somebody.

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Speaker 6: Else where's a nappy, puts a nappy on me, yeah,

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Speaker 6: and hangs you from the ceiling with hyphen auckland. That's

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Speaker 6: a that's a forum, okay, ah, Yes, I found he

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Speaker 6: was posting me to porn sites full.

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Speaker 3: That's wildly illegal. Wildly illegal. I found this is far

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Speaker 3: more wholesome. I found engagement rings in his Google search history.

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Speaker 5: Oh sweetest, it was a nice cleanser of the pellow.

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Speaker 1: There was a sniff of the coffee between perfumes and

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Speaker 1: clean the old factory senses. I had messages and told

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Speaker 1: her we're broken up and was paying a lot on

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Speaker 1: only fans. Now we are broken up, so we can

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Speaker 1: message you the truth this time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, have air wow nuts anonymous on my ex boyfriend'shene,

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Speaker 3: I found nerds of his friend's girlfriend and is of girls.

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Speaker 1: I g stories screenshots, screenshot the girl's ig stories and

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Speaker 1: he's getting.

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Speaker 3: Nerds from it.

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Speaker 2: Just had a little bank of.

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Speaker 3: They call it a wank.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I didn't want to say that.

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Speaker 3: Bag of wink wink wing.

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Speaker 2: That's good wank.

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Speaker 3: Of New Zealand, Yeah, really good.

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Speaker 2: The National.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah wank yeah.

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Speaker 1: T spe Turner save his wank to s w savings

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Speaker 1: wank Southland building wank.

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Speaker 3: Yes, that's a good one.

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Speaker 2: That's a good run. And we out of banks.

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Speaker 3: I think we'll you're getting into co ops and now

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Speaker 3: tyra wanks.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, out of wanks.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we did really well there. It's more

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Speaker 2: Elizabeth Wanks.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, right, Okay. I found when I went snipping

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Speaker 3: on my partners phone six a six feedback report for

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Speaker 3: an escort he'd hired. I was like an eBay review.

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Speaker 2: What the hell?

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Speaker 3: He's an ex for a reason?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, got feedback? Yeah on that?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: How wild? Okay.

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Speaker 5: I guess you want to know how you was a

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Speaker 5: gentleman because it feels like a profile and you can

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Speaker 5: you know, like, I sleep with this person and they

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Speaker 5: were very lovely.

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Speaker 1: Mentioned if you were an escort and you had like

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Speaker 1: two stars, oh shame, shame to.

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Speaker 2: Be at least a four be it'd be it'd be humbling,

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Speaker 2: I'd say.

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Speaker 3: I'd probably ask, can't through, how are we looking.

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Speaker 2: Like an uber driver? Please give me five years? The right?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? What I'm doing now is that sort of a

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Speaker 3: five star?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I actually just fell out the form for you could

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Speaker 2: just click five.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I found it. I was having an affair with

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Speaker 3: one of his employers.

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Speaker 2: On the phone. Wow.

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Speaker 3: I found my partner's phone messages to rugby players telling

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Speaker 3: them they had a good game.

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Speaker 2: Did you just reach again the wholesome the baser?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Great, so good?

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Speaker 3: What do you think it's a male that went into

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Speaker 3: a female's phone and found her messaging rugby players at

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Speaker 3: a more local level, saying great game today.

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Speaker 1: No, Shannon's saying no, okay, okay, that's not that's actually

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Speaker 1: wholesome to end.

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Speaker 4: Yeah classic, I frowned. I found no no, no, no no,

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Speaker 4: because there's some goodies.

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Speaker 2: Wait, there's juice, I promise you juice classistic.

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Speaker 3: I found I found fresh explicit videos made with him

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Speaker 3: and his ex fiance while we were dating.

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Speaker 5: I don't want to see that either.

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Speaker 2: Why didn't people just break up?

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Speaker 3: Just killt weird? And finally, for today's what did you

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Speaker 3: find in your partner's just between us? Just just between us,

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Speaker 3: some slut telling him he needs to get his dick wet? Girl,

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Speaker 3: I know where you live, I know where you live. Well,

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Speaker 3: that was just between us for another day. Tomorrow we

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Speaker 3: are asking you, just between us, what's a childhood habit

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Speaker 3: that you still have?

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Speaker 6: Oh