1 00:00:09,093 --> 00:00:11,972 Speaker 1: You're listening to a podcast from News Talk zed B. 2 00:00:12,373 --> 00:00:16,133 Speaker 1: Follow this and our Wide Ranger podcasts now on iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:16,692 --> 00:00:18,533 Speaker 2: Hello you great New Zealanders, and welcome to Matt and 4 00:00:18,613 --> 00:00:23,093 Speaker 2: Tyler Afternoons podcast. The full show number eighty five for Wednesday, 5 00:00:23,133 --> 00:00:25,653 Speaker 2: the twelfth of March in the Year of Our Lord, 6 00:00:26,052 --> 00:00:31,732 Speaker 2: twenty twenty five. Stinky, old, slimy old media old show today. 7 00:00:31,853 --> 00:00:34,812 Speaker 3: Yeah. Absolutely, and you've got a decision to make when 8 00:00:34,853 --> 00:00:38,253 Speaker 3: you get home about your dirty, slimy meat box. 9 00:00:38,493 --> 00:00:43,092 Speaker 2: It's an absolutely delicious meat box from Holy Cow and Cambridge. 10 00:00:43,092 --> 00:00:45,333 Speaker 2: That's just the couriers screwed up and didn't deliver in time. 11 00:00:45,333 --> 00:00:46,653 Speaker 2: But I'm going to eat it out of respect for 12 00:00:46,693 --> 00:00:48,893 Speaker 2: the animals. We go some great advice from some great 13 00:00:48,933 --> 00:00:53,093 Speaker 2: New Zealanders out there coming around smelling meat. Also on 14 00:00:53,173 --> 00:00:57,173 Speaker 2: the show, a really really interesting chat about. 15 00:00:57,453 --> 00:00:59,892 Speaker 3: Should men pay on the first day and tell you what. 16 00:00:59,893 --> 00:01:02,453 Speaker 2: Wait to me here, Jennifer accused Tyler of being a 17 00:01:02,493 --> 00:01:03,533 Speaker 2: male chauveness pick. 18 00:01:03,453 --> 00:01:06,493 Speaker 3: Matt got ripped apart. It was glorious. She had a 19 00:01:06,533 --> 00:01:09,093 Speaker 3: great accent, she was from South Africa and she gave 20 00:01:09,093 --> 00:01:09,493 Speaker 3: it heaps. 21 00:01:09,653 --> 00:01:11,373 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, that was There was a good chat and 22 00:01:11,853 --> 00:01:13,253 Speaker 2: procurement Chat before that. 23 00:01:13,453 --> 00:01:14,213 Speaker 3: Yeah, good show. 24 00:01:14,292 --> 00:01:16,613 Speaker 2: And look you might hear you might think procurement chat 25 00:01:16,652 --> 00:01:17,292 Speaker 2: not that exciting. 26 00:01:17,493 --> 00:01:19,732 Speaker 3: You'd be wrong, wrong, Yeah, you'd be right. 27 00:01:20,013 --> 00:01:27,413 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, subscribe, sit to download, follow and share, and 28 00:01:27,813 --> 00:01:28,932 Speaker 2: thank you so much for listening. 29 00:01:28,932 --> 00:01:29,373 Speaker 3: Love you all. 30 00:01:29,453 --> 00:01:30,493 Speaker 2: Give me taste KII. 31 00:01:31,093 --> 00:01:34,573 Speaker 4: The big stories, the big issues, the big trends and 32 00:01:34,813 --> 00:01:35,893 Speaker 4: everything in between. 33 00:01:36,133 --> 00:01:38,053 Speaker 5: Matt and Tayler afternoons with the. 34 00:01:38,093 --> 00:01:41,533 Speaker 1: Volvo X ninety attention to detail and a commitment to 35 00:01:41,572 --> 00:01:42,572 Speaker 1: comfort news talks. 36 00:01:42,572 --> 00:01:42,893 Speaker 5: They'd be. 37 00:01:51,613 --> 00:01:54,493 Speaker 3: Well, how do you do you? Welcome into the program 38 00:01:54,613 --> 00:01:57,213 Speaker 3: Wednesday afternoon, seven past one, Kid a. 39 00:01:57,213 --> 00:01:59,453 Speaker 2: Mats, get a Tyler, get everyone. 40 00:01:59,493 --> 00:02:02,093 Speaker 3: A big show today. Because it's Thursday. It's part about 41 00:02:02,173 --> 00:02:07,493 Speaker 3: us the Experts series. Gareth Abdenor is our employment law expert. 42 00:02:07,533 --> 00:02:10,613 Speaker 3: He will be joining us at three thirty taking your 43 00:02:10,693 --> 00:02:13,013 Speaker 3: calls and questions on anything to do. 44 00:02:13,373 --> 00:02:15,173 Speaker 2: I just pull you up on something. Oh yes, please 45 00:02:15,773 --> 00:02:18,333 Speaker 2: you hear some fake news there? Oh yeah, I'm here 46 00:02:18,373 --> 00:02:20,373 Speaker 2: to remove all fake news from the show. It's Wednesday. 47 00:02:20,493 --> 00:02:22,013 Speaker 3: Yeap, Oh what did I say? Thursday? 48 00:02:22,293 --> 00:02:22,453 Speaker 6: Oh? 49 00:02:22,573 --> 00:02:24,773 Speaker 3: Far out. It's been one of those weeks, man, one 50 00:02:24,773 --> 00:02:27,893 Speaker 3: of those weeks. Thank you because the abuse is going 51 00:02:27,933 --> 00:02:30,293 Speaker 3: to come through thick and fast. You'll abuse me and 52 00:02:30,413 --> 00:02:31,053 Speaker 3: I'm here for it. 53 00:02:31,093 --> 00:02:31,293 Speaker 7: You know. 54 00:02:31,933 --> 00:02:34,333 Speaker 3: That's what happens when you clock up on news talks. 55 00:02:34,333 --> 00:02:36,973 Speaker 3: Heb Tyler, you're close. You're only one day out. Thank 56 00:02:37,013 --> 00:02:39,213 Speaker 3: you mate, thank you. I really need to bear that. 57 00:02:39,453 --> 00:02:43,293 Speaker 3: Thank you. So Happy Wednesday afternoon. Hope you're doing well. 58 00:02:43,293 --> 00:02:46,613 Speaker 3: Welcome into the show, Gareth Hebton Nora after three point 59 00:02:46,613 --> 00:02:49,972 Speaker 3: thirty and as always it's a really popular segment, so 60 00:02:50,133 --> 00:02:53,373 Speaker 3: get in early. Teach your questions through nine two ninety 61 00:02:53,373 --> 00:02:55,293 Speaker 3: two and if you want to give Andrew a buzz on, oh, 62 00:02:55,293 --> 00:02:57,373 Speaker 3: eight hundred and eighty ten eighty will get you in 63 00:02:57,413 --> 00:02:57,853 Speaker 3: the queue. 64 00:02:58,013 --> 00:03:00,653 Speaker 2: Yeah, you've got a problem in your workplace, he might 65 00:03:00,693 --> 00:03:01,692 Speaker 2: be able to help you out with it. 66 00:03:01,773 --> 00:03:05,893 Speaker 3: Yep, he's fantastic. So that's after three thirty. After three o'clock. 67 00:03:06,093 --> 00:03:09,453 Speaker 3: How long can you leave meat out of the fridge? 68 00:03:09,453 --> 00:03:12,213 Speaker 3: This is a personal story for you, Matt. You were 69 00:03:12,252 --> 00:03:12,972 Speaker 3: to meat delivery. 70 00:03:13,133 --> 00:03:14,933 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right. We wanted to do this yesterday. We 71 00:03:14,972 --> 00:03:16,733 Speaker 2: went out of time because the other topics was so 72 00:03:16,933 --> 00:03:20,733 Speaker 2: popular that we couldn't get onto this one. But yeah, 73 00:03:20,773 --> 00:03:25,453 Speaker 2: so meat was delivered and one day courier a career 74 00:03:25,933 --> 00:03:27,532 Speaker 2: delivered it three days later. 75 00:03:27,773 --> 00:03:27,972 Speaker 6: Yep. 76 00:03:29,013 --> 00:03:33,493 Speaker 2: Delicious steaks, sausages and lamb. 77 00:03:33,693 --> 00:03:33,973 Speaker 3: Yep. 78 00:03:34,133 --> 00:03:34,733 Speaker 2: Can I eat it? 79 00:03:35,173 --> 00:03:39,053 Speaker 3: Yes, definitely. There was beautiful meat, the saucs on, but 80 00:03:39,133 --> 00:03:39,893 Speaker 3: the rest of the meat. 81 00:03:40,293 --> 00:03:41,853 Speaker 2: So I mean, I think we've got to push these 82 00:03:41,853 --> 00:03:43,853 Speaker 2: things out. I think you always got to be questioning 83 00:03:43,853 --> 00:03:46,413 Speaker 2: everything I say, and I think that includes best by dates. 84 00:03:46,973 --> 00:03:50,773 Speaker 2: I think, question them, trust your sense of smell, and 85 00:03:50,973 --> 00:03:52,573 Speaker 2: just roll the dice. What's the worst that could happen? 86 00:03:52,653 --> 00:03:52,813 Speaker 8: Yeah? 87 00:03:52,853 --> 00:03:55,733 Speaker 3: Love it? That is after three o'clock, after two o'clock. 88 00:03:55,773 --> 00:03:57,493 Speaker 3: It's a story in the Herald, A Man's Guide to 89 00:03:57,613 --> 00:04:01,133 Speaker 3: Midlife Dating. He offers a bunch of advice for trying 90 00:04:01,173 --> 00:04:04,413 Speaker 3: to date in later life, shall we say, But one 91 00:04:04,493 --> 00:04:07,013 Speaker 3: of the pieces of advice that we picked up on 92 00:04:07,413 --> 00:04:11,413 Speaker 3: was whether a man should be paying for the food 93 00:04:11,453 --> 00:04:13,533 Speaker 3: if you go out for dinner on a date. And 94 00:04:13,573 --> 00:04:18,013 Speaker 3: he mentioned his advices the three to one rule, as in, 95 00:04:18,813 --> 00:04:23,253 Speaker 3: the man should pay for three or sorry, two out 96 00:04:23,253 --> 00:04:25,813 Speaker 3: of every three dates. But it had me thinking, is 97 00:04:25,893 --> 00:04:29,373 Speaker 3: that still the right thing to do? You go out 98 00:04:29,413 --> 00:04:34,053 Speaker 3: for a date and the man always pays, even if 99 00:04:34,173 --> 00:04:37,853 Speaker 3: the other person on the other side of the table says, no, 100 00:04:37,933 --> 00:04:38,733 Speaker 3: I want to go, halves. 101 00:04:39,053 --> 00:04:41,053 Speaker 2: You gotta pay. If if you're a man, you got 102 00:04:41,093 --> 00:04:42,453 Speaker 2: to pay. If it's a date and you turn up 103 00:04:42,493 --> 00:04:46,093 Speaker 2: and you don't pay, then and you like this particular person, 104 00:04:46,613 --> 00:04:51,013 Speaker 2: then your chances of securing them as a partner greatly 105 00:04:51,053 --> 00:04:53,452 Speaker 2: decrease if you don't pay, no matter what they say, 106 00:04:53,733 --> 00:04:56,333 Speaker 2: pay before they even know you've paid, you just you 107 00:04:56,373 --> 00:04:57,773 Speaker 2: just say, look, I gotta go up to the bathroom, 108 00:04:57,813 --> 00:04:59,333 Speaker 2: and you come back, and then when they're leaving, they. 109 00:04:59,333 --> 00:05:01,373 Speaker 3: Go, oh, what about the bill? You go, I paid there, 110 00:05:01,413 --> 00:05:03,613 Speaker 3: he goes, that's what you did. Smooth, very smooth. 111 00:05:03,653 --> 00:05:05,853 Speaker 2: Don't even don't even enter into a conversation about of 112 00:05:05,853 --> 00:05:08,213 Speaker 2: course you pay. That's ridiculous and you should always pay 113 00:05:08,453 --> 00:05:08,853 Speaker 2: for the men. 114 00:05:09,053 --> 00:05:11,213 Speaker 3: Right, well, this is going to be a good conversation 115 00:05:11,253 --> 00:05:13,133 Speaker 3: after two o'clock. And I love to hear from you 116 00:05:13,173 --> 00:05:14,853 Speaker 3: if you think that is true. 117 00:05:14,933 --> 00:05:17,173 Speaker 2: How weak it's weak not to pay? 118 00:05:17,373 --> 00:05:20,053 Speaker 3: Always pay, always pay. That is after two o'clock. But 119 00:05:20,133 --> 00:05:22,653 Speaker 3: right now, let's have a chat about proposed changes to 120 00:05:22,733 --> 00:05:26,893 Speaker 3: government procurement. So this, the government says, will make things 121 00:05:26,933 --> 00:05:30,053 Speaker 3: easier for New Zealand businesses to win government contracts, and 122 00:05:30,133 --> 00:05:32,973 Speaker 3: most of the changes you've got to argue makes some 123 00:05:33,653 --> 00:05:35,573 Speaker 3: sense when it comes to making it easier for New 124 00:05:35,653 --> 00:05:39,013 Speaker 3: Zealand businesses to get on the table at least or 125 00:05:39,053 --> 00:05:41,133 Speaker 3: part of the conversation when it comes to the tender. 126 00:05:41,653 --> 00:05:44,693 Speaker 3: So some of those rules quickly that are being pushed 127 00:05:44,773 --> 00:05:47,773 Speaker 3: aside or proposed to push aside. Making sure that those 128 00:05:47,813 --> 00:05:51,253 Speaker 3: companies purchase battery electric or hybrid electric vehicles, come on, yeah, 129 00:05:51,293 --> 00:05:54,453 Speaker 3: that makes sense, get out. Yeah, purchase office supplies that 130 00:05:54,493 --> 00:05:59,453 Speaker 3: produce low amounts of waste and or are recyclable. No, yeah, stupid. 131 00:06:00,933 --> 00:06:03,493 Speaker 3: And pay the living wage in contracts for cleaning, catering 132 00:06:03,533 --> 00:06:04,653 Speaker 3: and security guard services. 133 00:06:04,733 --> 00:06:06,533 Speaker 2: Well, it's better that the contract comes to New Zealand 134 00:06:06,573 --> 00:06:09,293 Speaker 2: and you're paying some wages than the trek goes overseas 135 00:06:09,333 --> 00:06:13,773 Speaker 2: because you're being hamstrying by certain you know, things like 136 00:06:13,973 --> 00:06:16,653 Speaker 2: the living wage. Yeah, you know what if you're hiring 137 00:06:16,693 --> 00:06:19,093 Speaker 2: someone super young to do the job, you know that 138 00:06:19,173 --> 00:06:21,973 Speaker 2: has to be living wage. My eighteen year old son 139 00:06:21,973 --> 00:06:23,173 Speaker 2: doesn't deserve the living wage. 140 00:06:24,533 --> 00:06:28,253 Speaker 3: You're like this one, Matt build new non residential government 141 00:06:28,253 --> 00:06:31,333 Speaker 3: buildings to a five star rating standards that to get 142 00:06:31,413 --> 00:06:31,653 Speaker 3: rid of it. 143 00:06:31,653 --> 00:06:33,453 Speaker 2: We were talking about this a month ago when I 144 00:06:33,493 --> 00:06:35,933 Speaker 2: was saying, as a country, as we're rebuilding and we're 145 00:06:35,973 --> 00:06:38,213 Speaker 2: moving forward and realizing we don't have that much cash, 146 00:06:38,373 --> 00:06:41,213 Speaker 2: we have to stop going five star on everything. We 147 00:06:41,253 --> 00:06:43,493 Speaker 2: need to realize that we're not five star at the moment. 148 00:06:43,573 --> 00:06:45,773 Speaker 2: Maybe we can find our fight our way back to 149 00:06:45,893 --> 00:06:48,613 Speaker 2: be an economically five star country, but right now we 150 00:06:48,653 --> 00:06:51,493 Speaker 2: need to build some three stars. Yep, you know, that's 151 00:06:51,653 --> 00:06:53,413 Speaker 2: that's that's what we've got to do, you know, across 152 00:06:53,453 --> 00:06:56,173 Speaker 2: the board, just lower what everything is a little bit 153 00:06:56,213 --> 00:07:00,293 Speaker 2: in terms of how fancy and fantastic and a monument 154 00:07:00,333 --> 00:07:02,893 Speaker 2: to yourself. That's something that you build is. 155 00:07:03,013 --> 00:07:06,173 Speaker 3: Some nice motels rather than the Ritz Culton. Yeah, you 156 00:07:06,373 --> 00:07:07,653 Speaker 3: have the swimming pool but no gym. 157 00:07:07,613 --> 00:07:09,693 Speaker 2: So that's pretty harsh the five star standard. 158 00:07:09,773 --> 00:07:12,933 Speaker 3: Yeah, but in the past there has been some very 159 00:07:12,973 --> 00:07:16,533 Speaker 3: expensive projects that have gone to overseas outfits. Yeah. 160 00:07:16,573 --> 00:07:19,493 Speaker 2: Famously, in twenty twenty one, the IT sector was shocked 161 00:07:19,533 --> 00:07:22,453 Speaker 2: by decision to award a thirty eight million dollar contract 162 00:07:22,533 --> 00:07:26,573 Speaker 2: for online COVID nineteen vaccination systems to a consortium of 163 00:07:26,653 --> 00:07:33,133 Speaker 2: multi billionaire global giants including Salesforce and Amazon. And when 164 00:07:33,253 --> 00:07:36,653 Speaker 2: the New Zealand IT sector was completely and utterly capable 165 00:07:36,733 --> 00:07:38,653 Speaker 2: of doing that, but never ever got a chance to 166 00:07:38,693 --> 00:07:39,453 Speaker 2: even look in on it. 167 00:07:39,573 --> 00:07:43,973 Speaker 3: Yeah. Another one was walker called TAHI, the New Zealand 168 00:07:44,333 --> 00:07:47,853 Speaker 3: Transport Agency. So they announced two big tenders, one for 169 00:07:47,893 --> 00:07:51,133 Speaker 3: a one point four billion dollar nationwide integrated public transport 170 00:07:51,173 --> 00:07:54,333 Speaker 3: ticketing platform you'd remember this from two years ago, and 171 00:07:54,333 --> 00:07:56,773 Speaker 3: one for a toll road management program. Both went to 172 00:07:56,853 --> 00:08:00,933 Speaker 3: overseas companies. One point four billion dollar tender. Both of 173 00:08:00,933 --> 00:08:02,813 Speaker 3: those went to overseas companies. 174 00:08:03,213 --> 00:08:05,653 Speaker 2: So the advantage for New Zealand is if the government 175 00:08:05,693 --> 00:08:08,093 Speaker 2: spends here, you boost in New Zealand employment, you increase 176 00:08:08,333 --> 00:08:11,773 Speaker 2: local expertise, and in the perfect situation, you build up 177 00:08:11,773 --> 00:08:14,893 Speaker 2: industries to the point where we're exporting and we are 178 00:08:15,013 --> 00:08:19,333 Speaker 2: getting contracts overseas and the money stays here. Surely, what 179 00:08:19,573 --> 00:08:22,853 Speaker 2: is wrong with this eight hundred eighty ten eighty nine 180 00:08:22,933 --> 00:08:27,173 Speaker 2: two nine two What is wrong with the government skewing 181 00:08:27,253 --> 00:08:31,613 Speaker 2: things towards you know, skewing things towards going with New Zealand. 182 00:08:31,653 --> 00:08:33,853 Speaker 3: YAT love to hear from you, and if you have 183 00:08:34,333 --> 00:08:36,892 Speaker 3: picked up a contract by the government, love to hear 184 00:08:37,013 --> 00:08:41,012 Speaker 3: from you as well. Oh, eight hundred eighty ten eighty. 185 00:08:41,132 --> 00:08:45,373 Speaker 2: So here's Nicholas Willison Hosking breakfast this morning. 186 00:08:45,533 --> 00:08:48,412 Speaker 9: Are there bigger firms in Australasia and in Asia? Sure 187 00:08:48,573 --> 00:08:51,093 Speaker 9: there are. But how do you become a bigger firm? 188 00:08:51,132 --> 00:08:53,373 Speaker 9: You actually get a few big contracts. You build up 189 00:08:53,413 --> 00:08:56,333 Speaker 9: your skill and your expertise over time. And that is 190 00:08:56,372 --> 00:08:58,732 Speaker 9: the case similar in the construction area or in many 191 00:08:58,732 --> 00:09:02,573 Speaker 9: other areas. It's actually getting the big government contracts sometimes 192 00:09:02,693 --> 00:09:05,653 Speaker 9: that allows a firm to get to an export size. Literally, 193 00:09:05,653 --> 00:09:08,853 Speaker 9: what we're doing is requiring every gauge agency that's using 194 00:09:08,892 --> 00:09:12,532 Speaker 9: public money that it must require that their suppliers, when 195 00:09:12,533 --> 00:09:16,573 Speaker 9: they're tendering for projects, must demonstrate how they will deliver 196 00:09:16,813 --> 00:09:20,933 Speaker 9: economic benefits to New Zealand. And agencies are required to 197 00:09:20,933 --> 00:09:23,412 Speaker 9: wait that as at least ten percent of how they 198 00:09:23,413 --> 00:09:27,373 Speaker 9: decide on the contract, and they must consider opportunities like 199 00:09:27,453 --> 00:09:31,453 Speaker 9: providing skills and training, employing workers here, paying taxes here, 200 00:09:31,813 --> 00:09:36,012 Speaker 9: developing New Zealand industry capabilities. And agencies need to demonstrate 201 00:09:36,012 --> 00:09:39,973 Speaker 9: when they've picked those contracts how they measured those things. 202 00:09:40,973 --> 00:09:41,573 Speaker 3: So there you go. 203 00:09:42,653 --> 00:09:45,492 Speaker 2: Yet the Finance Minister so immediately texts coming through on 204 00:09:45,612 --> 00:09:47,973 Speaker 2: nine two nine two. You want keys to do this work. 205 00:09:48,053 --> 00:09:50,853 Speaker 2: My goodness, they'll be here forever. They are so slow 206 00:09:51,492 --> 00:09:53,453 Speaker 2: and this text here in nine two ninety two, but 207 00:09:53,533 --> 00:09:58,173 Speaker 2: keiwis are useless, are well, Well, we're never going to 208 00:09:58,173 --> 00:10:00,412 Speaker 2: get better unless we invest in the industries that we have. 209 00:10:00,533 --> 00:10:02,573 Speaker 2: I mean, we're pretty good at it. Yeah, that was 210 00:10:02,612 --> 00:10:04,813 Speaker 2: an example. We could have done that, and then you 211 00:10:04,813 --> 00:10:07,373 Speaker 2: can build up, build up the industry, so then we 212 00:10:07,453 --> 00:10:09,732 Speaker 2: can scale up to be these companies that can keep 213 00:10:09,773 --> 00:10:12,372 Speaker 2: doing it. But if we keep just sending our money 214 00:10:12,372 --> 00:10:17,973 Speaker 2: overseas and not supporting our own industries, then they won't grow. 215 00:10:17,973 --> 00:10:19,493 Speaker 2: How will they grow? How will they grow if we 216 00:10:19,533 --> 00:10:20,213 Speaker 2: don't support them? 217 00:10:20,293 --> 00:10:22,933 Speaker 3: Yep, it's a great point. Oh, one hundred and eighty 218 00:10:23,012 --> 00:10:25,293 Speaker 3: ten eighty is the number to call. Nine two ninety 219 00:10:25,333 --> 00:10:27,933 Speaker 3: two is the text number. It's quarter past one, Beggary 220 00:10:27,973 --> 00:10:29,373 Speaker 3: shortly here on News Talks EDB. 221 00:10:30,892 --> 00:10:34,333 Speaker 4: The big stories, the big issues, the big trends, and 222 00:10:34,653 --> 00:10:35,693 Speaker 4: everything in between. 223 00:10:35,933 --> 00:10:39,772 Speaker 1: Matt and Tayler Afternoons with the Volvo XC ninety attention 224 00:10:39,892 --> 00:10:41,732 Speaker 1: to detail and a commitment to comfort. 225 00:10:41,852 --> 00:10:47,053 Speaker 3: News Talks dead B, News Talks THEREB. It is eighteen 226 00:10:47,093 --> 00:10:51,493 Speaker 3: past one. We're talking about proposed changes to government procurement processes. 227 00:10:51,653 --> 00:10:55,773 Speaker 3: Arguably well, certainly too make it easier for New Zealand 228 00:10:55,852 --> 00:10:58,693 Speaker 3: firms too put a bit in for the tenders up 229 00:10:58,693 --> 00:11:01,293 Speaker 3: to fifty billion dollars of works that the government do. 230 00:11:01,612 --> 00:11:04,532 Speaker 2: It's currently very very arduous to put in one of 231 00:11:04,573 --> 00:11:09,053 Speaker 2: these tenders. I was reading somewhere, you know, could be 232 00:11:09,413 --> 00:11:12,933 Speaker 2: three weeks, twenty people working for three weeks on your 233 00:11:12,973 --> 00:11:16,173 Speaker 2: tender and potentially one hundred thousand dollars just to get 234 00:11:16,173 --> 00:11:18,652 Speaker 2: in there, to be in the conversation to get it. Currently, 235 00:11:18,693 --> 00:11:22,693 Speaker 2: there's seventy one rules that agencies must follow when tender contracts, 236 00:11:23,333 --> 00:11:26,053 Speaker 2: and the government's looking to reduce those to forty seven. 237 00:11:26,892 --> 00:11:28,732 Speaker 2: So have you ever been involved in that, Have you 238 00:11:28,773 --> 00:11:30,973 Speaker 2: ever involved in tending the government? And how did it go? 239 00:11:31,132 --> 00:11:32,813 Speaker 3: Did you get it, did you not get it? 240 00:11:33,173 --> 00:11:34,933 Speaker 2: And what of these ones? Do you not agree with 241 00:11:34,973 --> 00:11:37,973 Speaker 2: the government's proposing to dispense with these requirements. If you're 242 00:11:37,973 --> 00:11:39,892 Speaker 2: looking at those seventy one requirements, these are some of 243 00:11:39,892 --> 00:11:43,093 Speaker 2: the ones the government's trying to get rid of. Build 244 00:11:43,132 --> 00:11:45,813 Speaker 2: new non residential government buildings to a five star rating 245 00:11:45,813 --> 00:11:50,453 Speaker 2: standard include questions and their tender documentation about the skills, 246 00:11:50,492 --> 00:11:54,333 Speaker 2: development and training practices of the supplier and their subcontractors 247 00:11:54,693 --> 00:11:58,333 Speaker 2: purchase battery electrical hybrid vehicles. That's interesting that one. Now 248 00:11:58,333 --> 00:12:02,413 Speaker 2: that people are on the left, haight elon Musk has 249 00:12:02,453 --> 00:12:06,492 Speaker 2: everyone turned against dvs now? So yeah, I get yeah, 250 00:12:07,132 --> 00:12:10,333 Speaker 2: some people seem to be turning them violently. Purchase office 251 00:12:10,333 --> 00:12:13,413 Speaker 2: supplies that produce low amounts of waste and or recyclable 252 00:12:13,492 --> 00:12:15,333 Speaker 2: and this just seems like a bunch of stuff you're 253 00:12:15,372 --> 00:12:19,412 Speaker 2: layering onto. People pay the living wage and contracts for cleaning, 254 00:12:19,453 --> 00:12:23,093 Speaker 2: catering and security guard services. Do you disagree with removing 255 00:12:23,132 --> 00:12:27,613 Speaker 2: any of those from the procurement requirements when tendering for 256 00:12:27,653 --> 00:12:28,412 Speaker 2: government contracts? 257 00:12:28,453 --> 00:12:28,612 Speaker 8: Yeah? 258 00:12:28,653 --> 00:12:30,293 Speaker 3: Oh, eight hundred and eighty ten eighty is the number 259 00:12:30,333 --> 00:12:31,893 Speaker 3: to call. Nine two nine two. And if you've been 260 00:12:31,933 --> 00:12:35,612 Speaker 3: involved in the government tender, love to hear from you. MOI, 261 00:12:36,173 --> 00:12:37,173 Speaker 3: how are you this afternoon? 262 00:12:37,973 --> 00:12:41,612 Speaker 10: I'm good, Thank you, I'm good. My texts are totally 263 00:12:41,653 --> 00:12:46,293 Speaker 10: off the side. Comment about the five stund but yeah, 264 00:12:46,372 --> 00:12:46,693 Speaker 10: oh you. 265 00:12:46,653 --> 00:12:49,973 Speaker 3: Went on a tour of the CRRL tunnel yesterday, Is 266 00:12:49,973 --> 00:12:50,292 Speaker 3: that right? 267 00:12:51,293 --> 00:12:51,533 Speaker 11: Yeah? 268 00:12:51,813 --> 00:12:55,213 Speaker 10: I did, I did so. I was very fortunate to 269 00:12:55,213 --> 00:12:57,413 Speaker 10: be invited to have a tour of the tunnel. It 270 00:12:57,492 --> 00:13:01,093 Speaker 10: was only from Beastford station to met Cree Lane. But 271 00:13:01,173 --> 00:13:07,933 Speaker 10: nonetheless it was a fantastic tour. But omg, the products 272 00:13:07,933 --> 00:13:12,053 Speaker 10: are you who is absolutely I'm thinking, how can we 273 00:13:12,173 --> 00:13:16,372 Speaker 10: possibly afford this? Just even the walls that line it 274 00:13:16,453 --> 00:13:21,693 Speaker 10: is just this beautiful sandstone concrete material and I'd hate 275 00:13:21,732 --> 00:13:25,733 Speaker 10: to think how much they cost. They were there was 276 00:13:25,813 --> 00:13:29,853 Speaker 10: tons of it, and just even like timbers on the 277 00:13:29,852 --> 00:13:32,813 Speaker 10: ceilings and everything. They look like timbers. They were made 278 00:13:32,852 --> 00:13:37,413 Speaker 10: of aluminium and they looked like timber Dick, they went't timber, 279 00:13:37,852 --> 00:13:40,653 Speaker 10: And I was thinking, how can we afford all of this? 280 00:13:40,653 --> 00:13:43,493 Speaker 10: This is this is absolutely nuts and it's only two 281 00:13:43,732 --> 00:13:46,852 Speaker 10: train stations that are visited, and I'm thinking how much 282 00:13:47,252 --> 00:13:50,973 Speaker 10: I'm just thinking it doesn't surprise me. Were we are 283 00:13:51,012 --> 00:13:55,213 Speaker 10: so over budget and yes, very delayed. 284 00:13:55,653 --> 00:13:58,253 Speaker 2: That's interesting. So you went on a tour of the 285 00:13:58,293 --> 00:14:01,012 Speaker 2: Sea rail Link in Auckland and you were you were 286 00:14:01,053 --> 00:14:03,453 Speaker 2: so impressed with what they've done that you were unimpressed 287 00:14:03,453 --> 00:14:04,493 Speaker 2: with how much it's spent on it. 288 00:14:04,492 --> 00:14:08,893 Speaker 10: Basically essentially essentially, I mean, if we're fill and money 289 00:14:08,933 --> 00:14:12,372 Speaker 10: youth and we can afford it absolutely, but we're in debt, 290 00:14:12,533 --> 00:14:16,093 Speaker 10: We're in bill dollars through of and its like this 291 00:14:16,252 --> 00:14:20,893 Speaker 10: is absolutely nuts. So yeah, I just I mean, if 292 00:14:20,933 --> 00:14:23,333 Speaker 10: you put it into perspective, I went Bejing at the 293 00:14:23,493 --> 00:14:27,573 Speaker 10: end of last year for Christmas and their tunnels is 294 00:14:28,053 --> 00:14:31,693 Speaker 10: absolutely amazing. You have thirty lines. It looks like Spaghuty junction, 295 00:14:32,373 --> 00:14:36,453 Speaker 10: but that it is so efficient, nothing fancy, just tiles. 296 00:14:36,613 --> 00:14:41,053 Speaker 10: Everything was so clean, just simple products, you know, doesn't 297 00:14:41,053 --> 00:14:44,333 Speaker 10: cost the earth and they do things really quickly and 298 00:14:44,373 --> 00:14:46,532 Speaker 10: really efficiently and just amazing. 299 00:14:46,773 --> 00:14:46,973 Speaker 6: Yeah. 300 00:14:47,893 --> 00:14:50,173 Speaker 3: It's a fair point. Boy. So do you think for 301 00:14:50,293 --> 00:14:53,292 Speaker 3: some of these big projects that perhaps it's not wise 302 00:14:53,413 --> 00:14:57,493 Speaker 3: to go to New Zealand firms because sometimes they don't 303 00:14:57,493 --> 00:15:00,693 Speaker 3: have the expertise or the manpower or the ability to 304 00:15:00,733 --> 00:15:04,013 Speaker 3: be able to do those contracts at the cost and 305 00:15:04,093 --> 00:15:07,173 Speaker 3: ability and time frame of some of those international firms. 306 00:15:07,733 --> 00:15:11,253 Speaker 10: Yeah, we could easily do if they scale down the 307 00:15:11,293 --> 00:15:16,533 Speaker 10: project project, we could hire New Zealand fans to do that. 308 00:15:16,613 --> 00:15:20,653 Speaker 10: We don't need over the top products, you know, we 309 00:15:20,733 --> 00:15:24,453 Speaker 10: just need something simple. I mean, New Zealand is more 310 00:15:24,493 --> 00:15:28,933 Speaker 10: than capable of doing that. But they just overthink things 311 00:15:28,933 --> 00:15:35,133 Speaker 10: sometimes and that's where we get into trouble. There's supposedly 312 00:15:35,173 --> 00:15:38,133 Speaker 10: a story behind all the sandstone, you know, to do 313 00:15:38,293 --> 00:15:42,613 Speaker 10: with our milding heritage and all of that. But sometimes 314 00:15:42,653 --> 00:15:47,133 Speaker 10: simple is just better and we need that for our economy. 315 00:15:47,173 --> 00:15:50,052 Speaker 10: We can't be always over brageic, and we can't be 316 00:15:50,253 --> 00:15:56,292 Speaker 10: over delayed, constantly delayed in all our projects. Yeah, keep 317 00:15:56,333 --> 00:15:56,933 Speaker 10: it simple, I. 318 00:15:56,893 --> 00:15:58,013 Speaker 3: Say, yeah, I agree. 319 00:15:58,053 --> 00:16:00,613 Speaker 2: It should just be functional rather than a monument to 320 00:16:00,653 --> 00:16:04,412 Speaker 2: people's egos so they can say I've built this amazing, beautiful. Absolutely, 321 00:16:04,693 --> 00:16:06,253 Speaker 2: it's like toys. It's like we all want to have 322 00:16:06,333 --> 00:16:08,693 Speaker 2: the best. We want to you know, like as if 323 00:16:08,693 --> 00:16:10,573 Speaker 2: you're doing your kitchen in your house or your bathroom. 324 00:16:10,613 --> 00:16:14,373 Speaker 2: You know, you can spend fifty thousand dollars on the 325 00:16:14,413 --> 00:16:17,133 Speaker 2: tiles on the on the on the wall of the bathroom, 326 00:16:17,693 --> 00:16:21,373 Speaker 2: but it doesn't work any better. It just looks better, correct. 327 00:16:21,533 --> 00:16:24,052 Speaker 10: And the thing is you're walking through the tunnel. You're 328 00:16:24,053 --> 00:16:28,213 Speaker 10: not even sitting there to appreciate the one minute want 329 00:16:28,293 --> 00:16:32,333 Speaker 10: to get through onto the train, you know. So yeah, 330 00:16:32,933 --> 00:16:34,053 Speaker 10: you're absolutely right. 331 00:16:35,693 --> 00:16:37,733 Speaker 3: Moy, great to chat with you. Thank you very much 332 00:16:37,773 --> 00:16:39,773 Speaker 3: for giving us a buzz. So what do you think 333 00:16:39,813 --> 00:16:42,413 Speaker 3: about Moy's idea. I mean, it is what you were saying, 334 00:16:42,453 --> 00:16:44,853 Speaker 3: that we go five star when we don't have the money. 335 00:16:44,933 --> 00:16:47,013 Speaker 3: We should be going as moy said, maybe three point 336 00:16:47,093 --> 00:16:49,573 Speaker 3: five star. Nothing wrong with three point five star. But 337 00:16:49,573 --> 00:16:52,053 Speaker 3: when you talk about legacy projects, I hate that word 338 00:16:52,133 --> 00:16:55,413 Speaker 3: legacy in there, because you're right. It is just a 339 00:16:55,493 --> 00:16:58,013 Speaker 3: legacy for someone to leave behind and that's not how 340 00:16:58,053 --> 00:16:58,733 Speaker 3: we should be thinking. 341 00:16:58,813 --> 00:17:01,093 Speaker 2: Well, i'll tell you what the City rail Link as 342 00:17:01,133 --> 00:17:03,733 Speaker 2: three point four to five kilometers. It's costing five point 343 00:17:03,773 --> 00:17:07,453 Speaker 2: five billion and around two hundred and twenty million per 344 00:17:07,533 --> 00:17:11,453 Speaker 2: year to operate and maintain. So you'd hope it's very 345 00:17:12,333 --> 00:17:13,893 Speaker 2: very very flash. 346 00:17:14,053 --> 00:17:16,053 Speaker 3: It better be very very flash. 347 00:17:16,093 --> 00:17:18,573 Speaker 2: But I'm pretty sure they could have made a stripped 348 00:17:18,573 --> 00:17:20,773 Speaker 2: back three point five star version that would have been 349 00:17:20,773 --> 00:17:24,373 Speaker 2: just as good. But yeah, I mean that that has 350 00:17:24,413 --> 00:17:27,053 Speaker 2: been built by the Link Alliance, which includes six New 351 00:17:27,133 --> 00:17:31,413 Speaker 2: Zealand and international companies building it, so it's all over 352 00:17:31,453 --> 00:17:31,773 Speaker 2: the world. 353 00:17:31,773 --> 00:17:34,373 Speaker 3: That one yeah, oh, one hundred eighty ten eighty is 354 00:17:34,413 --> 00:17:36,293 Speaker 3: the number of cour plenty of texts coming through about 355 00:17:36,333 --> 00:17:39,733 Speaker 3: the changes to government procurement. If you've been involved, love 356 00:17:39,813 --> 00:17:41,853 Speaker 3: to hear from you. Is this going to make any 357 00:17:41,893 --> 00:17:45,052 Speaker 3: difference to try and get some more New Zealand firms 358 00:17:45,173 --> 00:17:47,493 Speaker 3: to the top of that list? Nine to nine tools 359 00:17:47,533 --> 00:17:51,093 Speaker 3: the text number it is twenty five past one. 360 00:17:51,133 --> 00:17:54,893 Speaker 1: Digging into the issues that affect you the My Hosking Breakfast. 361 00:17:54,933 --> 00:17:56,893 Speaker 12: I thought it might be fun to talk about school 362 00:17:56,933 --> 00:17:59,093 Speaker 12: lunches because the media has ignored the subject for far 363 00:17:59,173 --> 00:18:01,773 Speaker 12: too long. Of course, if you went and hired mister Cheepos, 364 00:18:02,293 --> 00:18:04,613 Speaker 12: who you knew was a problem, and that problems come 365 00:18:04,613 --> 00:18:06,013 Speaker 12: back to bite you in the bum, that's on you, 366 00:18:06,133 --> 00:18:09,093 Speaker 12: isn't it if. 367 00:18:09,053 --> 00:18:12,933 Speaker 13: It actually it hasn't. What we've done is overcome problems 368 00:18:12,933 --> 00:18:13,733 Speaker 13: as they've arisen. 369 00:18:13,733 --> 00:18:13,973 Speaker 5: When the. 370 00:18:16,853 --> 00:18:20,533 Speaker 12: Problems because you went with the cheapest person in town 371 00:18:20,533 --> 00:18:22,293 Speaker 12: who was always going to cause you problems, because that's 372 00:18:22,293 --> 00:18:25,053 Speaker 12: what chief people do. Back tomorrow at six am, the 373 00:18:25,093 --> 00:18:28,773 Speaker 12: mic asking breakfast with Mayley's real Estate Newstalk ZB. 374 00:18:30,373 --> 00:18:34,893 Speaker 3: Good afternoon. We're talking about changes to government procurement, proposed 375 00:18:34,973 --> 00:18:37,213 Speaker 3: changes to make it easier for New Zealand firms to 376 00:18:37,333 --> 00:18:39,693 Speaker 3: get tenders and contracts. Love to hear from you on 377 00:18:39,693 --> 00:18:42,453 Speaker 3: OL eight hundred eighty ten eighty if you've been involved 378 00:18:42,453 --> 00:18:45,453 Speaker 3: in that process. Sounds very arduous, So love to hear 379 00:18:45,493 --> 00:18:47,613 Speaker 3: how you got on with that. Nine to nine toil 380 00:18:47,653 --> 00:18:48,373 Speaker 3: is the text number. 381 00:18:48,973 --> 00:18:53,053 Speaker 2: So back to why things like we're talking about the 382 00:18:53,053 --> 00:18:55,213 Speaker 2: city rail Link, and Weir rang up and said she'd 383 00:18:55,293 --> 00:18:57,373 Speaker 2: just been walking through it. She said it was incredibly 384 00:18:57,373 --> 00:19:00,253 Speaker 2: flash very impressed by it, but also thinking, this is 385 00:19:00,293 --> 00:19:02,813 Speaker 2: why this thing costs five point five billion dollars. Yes, 386 00:19:03,773 --> 00:19:06,253 Speaker 2: so Sylvia says, it's because it's government money that people 387 00:19:06,293 --> 00:19:09,333 Speaker 2: think that they can go overboard and have it has 388 00:19:09,413 --> 00:19:12,373 Speaker 2: even everywhere and completely unnecessary. 389 00:19:12,613 --> 00:19:14,853 Speaker 3: Yep, thank you very much for that. Anne. How are 390 00:19:14,853 --> 00:19:15,573 Speaker 3: you this afternoon? 391 00:19:16,173 --> 00:19:16,373 Speaker 6: Oh? 392 00:19:16,413 --> 00:19:16,613 Speaker 14: Good? 393 00:19:16,653 --> 00:19:17,773 Speaker 15: Thanks? How you guys? 394 00:19:17,813 --> 00:19:18,053 Speaker 5: Good? 395 00:19:18,133 --> 00:19:21,773 Speaker 3: Now you've got an example of some good spending. 396 00:19:21,813 --> 00:19:28,093 Speaker 15: Priority, it's some sensible spending. Erica Stanford Education. She's getting 397 00:19:28,133 --> 00:19:32,093 Speaker 15: rid of all this bespoke architecture that we had for 398 00:19:32,173 --> 00:19:35,853 Speaker 15: six years. And one of the high schools in Wellington 399 00:19:35,933 --> 00:19:41,053 Speaker 15: they've had two two bedroom, two classroom blocks built and 400 00:19:41,213 --> 00:19:42,133 Speaker 15: two months each. 401 00:19:43,813 --> 00:19:47,293 Speaker 2: Wow, now that is that is impressive. And it was. 402 00:19:47,253 --> 00:19:49,933 Speaker 15: On the radio the other day, and it's because they 403 00:19:49,973 --> 00:19:54,653 Speaker 15: are just basic, ordinary classrooms. The other thing I'd say 404 00:19:54,853 --> 00:19:58,133 Speaker 15: is with submitting tenders, a lot of the time we 405 00:19:58,213 --> 00:20:01,173 Speaker 15: don't actually have companies that are big enough or experienced 406 00:20:01,293 --> 00:20:04,053 Speaker 15: enough for some of the jobs. The smaller jobs, yes, 407 00:20:04,093 --> 00:20:07,333 Speaker 15: but not the big ones. And I personally would not 408 00:20:07,533 --> 00:20:10,053 Speaker 15: like to be driver on a road that New Zealanders 409 00:20:10,093 --> 00:20:13,893 Speaker 15: have up their expertise on. I want an expert to 410 00:20:13,893 --> 00:20:14,973 Speaker 15: build it in the beginning. 411 00:20:15,933 --> 00:20:18,653 Speaker 2: Yeah, but what about let's say if you go the 412 00:20:18,693 --> 00:20:20,413 Speaker 2: whole the whole contract. 413 00:20:20,493 --> 00:20:22,613 Speaker 7: You know what if we have. 414 00:20:22,653 --> 00:20:26,533 Speaker 15: A joint international New Zealand contract. 415 00:20:26,053 --> 00:20:28,773 Speaker 3: Partnership, and that's something I don't. 416 00:20:28,613 --> 00:20:32,213 Speaker 15: Mean ta, I mean people that actually know what they're doing. 417 00:20:33,133 --> 00:20:34,453 Speaker 2: Yeah, but if you go yeah, so if you go 418 00:20:34,493 --> 00:20:37,773 Speaker 2: back to that twenty twenty two New Zealand Transport Agency, 419 00:20:37,813 --> 00:20:41,533 Speaker 2: there's two big tenders for one point four billion dollars nationwide. 420 00:20:41,653 --> 00:20:45,093 Speaker 2: It all both went overseas. It does seem crazy that 421 00:20:45,093 --> 00:20:48,293 Speaker 2: they couldn't find at least used some New Zealand companies 422 00:20:48,293 --> 00:20:50,653 Speaker 2: in the solution, you know, and rather. 423 00:20:50,453 --> 00:20:52,933 Speaker 3: Than awarding them to all of it. 424 00:20:53,293 --> 00:20:55,693 Speaker 2: You know, so even if we and you know, you 425 00:20:55,773 --> 00:20:58,053 Speaker 2: might have to upscill maybe there's there's the big companies 426 00:20:58,053 --> 00:21:00,013 Speaker 2: whatever that they have to do the line's hare of something. 427 00:21:00,413 --> 00:21:01,613 Speaker 2: But surely you should. 428 00:21:01,413 --> 00:21:02,693 Speaker 7: Be looking to get at school. 429 00:21:02,733 --> 00:21:04,693 Speaker 15: You're talking about people learning on the job. 430 00:21:05,333 --> 00:21:06,773 Speaker 2: Yeah, well that's the best way up school. 431 00:21:08,453 --> 00:21:10,453 Speaker 15: And then you want to drive on that road or 432 00:21:10,493 --> 00:21:13,293 Speaker 15: walk into that building with someone that's been upskilling how 433 00:21:13,333 --> 00:21:15,533 Speaker 15: to do a three storied concrete block building. 434 00:21:15,613 --> 00:21:20,133 Speaker 2: Well, they get inspected, imagine and also by the council. 435 00:21:20,933 --> 00:21:22,253 Speaker 15: We won't go down that tree. 436 00:21:22,373 --> 00:21:25,253 Speaker 2: Well I think you can. I mean roads, yeah, roads 437 00:21:25,253 --> 00:21:28,693 Speaker 2: aren't rocket science. The science around roads I'm sure. I'm 438 00:21:28,733 --> 00:21:31,853 Speaker 2: sure we can upskill companies to build roads in New Zealand. 439 00:21:31,853 --> 00:21:33,173 Speaker 2: I mean there's lots of New Zealand companies that can 440 00:21:33,173 --> 00:21:33,653 Speaker 2: build roads. 441 00:21:33,773 --> 00:21:37,693 Speaker 3: Yeah. And coming to Pritch just quickly coming from christ Chuche, 442 00:21:37,693 --> 00:21:41,213 Speaker 3: I've seen international companies cock up some of those infrastructure 443 00:21:41,253 --> 00:21:44,653 Speaker 3: projects right royally. It's not just New Zealand firms, you know, 444 00:21:44,933 --> 00:21:45,973 Speaker 3: figuring it out on the job. 445 00:21:46,013 --> 00:21:48,333 Speaker 2: A lot of we want New Zealand firms cocking it up, 446 00:21:48,373 --> 00:21:49,453 Speaker 2: not international firms. 447 00:21:49,493 --> 00:21:50,773 Speaker 3: Yeah, as long as they get the money. 448 00:21:51,133 --> 00:21:54,333 Speaker 15: Dyllan firms clcking it up twice the plumbers and guests 449 00:21:54,413 --> 00:21:57,253 Speaker 15: that is board have had to have another firm remove 450 00:21:57,333 --> 00:22:00,453 Speaker 15: a guest fire from houses are owned because they were 451 00:22:00,453 --> 00:22:05,133 Speaker 15: not put in safely. I've had a builder that was 452 00:22:05,173 --> 00:22:11,373 Speaker 15: penalized because not installing double glazing correctly. He gave me 453 00:22:11,413 --> 00:22:12,253 Speaker 15: a leaky home. 454 00:22:13,213 --> 00:22:16,133 Speaker 3: Well, you have been stung by that, and no doubt. 455 00:22:16,013 --> 00:22:18,573 Speaker 15: No, I'm one of the few people that actually go 456 00:22:18,693 --> 00:22:21,213 Speaker 15: to the board and make a formal complaint. Have I 457 00:22:21,253 --> 00:22:23,253 Speaker 15: lived in Australia for a couple of years and they 458 00:22:23,293 --> 00:22:25,493 Speaker 15: do it well, twenty years they do it over there. 459 00:22:25,853 --> 00:22:28,893 Speaker 15: New Zealanders have a different attitude. I mentioned to someone 460 00:22:28,933 --> 00:22:32,133 Speaker 15: at workers making a complaint and their reaction was, oh, 461 00:22:32,173 --> 00:22:33,893 Speaker 15: and he won't like you. 462 00:22:35,413 --> 00:22:37,493 Speaker 3: Well and thank you very much, And you've sparked up 463 00:22:37,533 --> 00:22:40,013 Speaker 3: the text machine. I like you, Anne, Yeah, yeah, you 464 00:22:40,133 --> 00:22:42,293 Speaker 3: say it how it is. Thank you very much. Right 465 00:22:42,333 --> 00:22:43,893 Speaker 3: coming up, we're going to take more of your phone 466 00:22:43,893 --> 00:22:45,413 Speaker 3: calls and love to hear from you on eight hundred 467 00:22:45,413 --> 00:22:46,813 Speaker 3: and eighty ten eighty. But we're going to have a 468 00:22:46,853 --> 00:22:49,893 Speaker 3: chat to Catherine Bead she is the director of Advocacy 469 00:22:50,053 --> 00:22:53,613 Speaker 3: at Business in Z and break down this procurement, a 470 00:22:53,693 --> 00:22:57,253 Speaker 3: situation and challenges. 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On 493 00:24:23,213 --> 00:24:25,893 Speaker 3: the phone right now is Catherine Beach he's the director 494 00:24:25,933 --> 00:24:29,853 Speaker 3: of Advocacy at Business end Z. Very good afternoon to you, Catherine. 495 00:24:30,333 --> 00:24:32,253 Speaker 7: Good afternoon, Catherine. 496 00:24:32,293 --> 00:24:34,532 Speaker 2: How hard is it for a New Zealand company to 497 00:24:34,773 --> 00:24:36,293 Speaker 2: win a government contract? 498 00:24:37,933 --> 00:24:41,093 Speaker 11: Look, it can be very challenging, particularly for small to 499 00:24:41,133 --> 00:24:42,453 Speaker 11: medium sized businesses. 500 00:24:42,733 --> 00:24:44,533 Speaker 7: And I couldn't tell you. 501 00:24:44,533 --> 00:24:48,613 Speaker 11: How many explorers I've spoken to that I have success 502 00:24:48,693 --> 00:24:52,052 Speaker 11: internationally in selling their goods or services, but they can't 503 00:24:52,293 --> 00:24:56,453 Speaker 11: actually sell here to our government at home. So yeah, 504 00:24:56,813 --> 00:25:00,173 Speaker 11: this is a hugely important move and we're big advocates 505 00:25:00,213 --> 00:25:01,573 Speaker 11: for it. 506 00:25:01,613 --> 00:25:04,453 Speaker 2: Is that because you know, the hoops you've got to 507 00:25:04,493 --> 00:25:09,093 Speaker 2: go through to get one of these contracts is so expensive, 508 00:25:09,133 --> 00:25:12,173 Speaker 2: take so many people and so long, and only really 509 00:25:12,253 --> 00:25:15,893 Speaker 2: really giant companies have the bandwidth to do that. 510 00:25:17,893 --> 00:25:22,333 Speaker 11: Look, that's definitely part of the challenge. It's expensive to 511 00:25:22,973 --> 00:25:26,693 Speaker 11: enter into tenders and typically if there's just one that's 512 00:25:26,773 --> 00:25:29,333 Speaker 11: going to take the price, then all the others have 513 00:25:29,373 --> 00:25:33,413 Speaker 11: put a lot of time and energy into sunk costs 514 00:25:33,493 --> 00:25:37,013 Speaker 11: really that they can't recover. So that's definitely one of 515 00:25:37,013 --> 00:25:41,413 Speaker 11: the issues. But I think also, you know, we've had 516 00:25:41,413 --> 00:25:45,013 Speaker 11: a bit of a least cost mentality in government procurement, 517 00:25:45,253 --> 00:25:48,293 Speaker 11: so you just buy the cheap buy on the cheapest price, 518 00:25:49,293 --> 00:25:52,373 Speaker 11: and that doesn't take into account quality. 519 00:25:52,133 --> 00:25:53,813 Speaker 7: Or local support and servicing. 520 00:25:54,013 --> 00:25:57,133 Speaker 11: So we've advocated, you know, they should be looking at 521 00:25:57,133 --> 00:25:59,013 Speaker 11: the whole life value of what they're buying. 522 00:25:59,453 --> 00:26:01,853 Speaker 3: Clearly is a step in the right direction, as you say, Catherine, 523 00:26:01,893 --> 00:26:04,573 Speaker 3: But going from seventy one rules to forty seven rules, 524 00:26:04,613 --> 00:26:07,813 Speaker 3: forty seven rules still sounds like a very big number. 525 00:26:07,853 --> 00:26:09,293 Speaker 3: Is there still more work to do here? 526 00:26:09,333 --> 00:26:12,573 Speaker 11: Do you think it does sound like a big number, 527 00:26:12,613 --> 00:26:13,532 Speaker 11: doesn't it? 528 00:26:13,173 --> 00:26:16,133 Speaker 7: And I think the difficulty with the rules, to. 529 00:26:16,093 --> 00:26:19,173 Speaker 11: Be frank is you can have a bunch of rules 530 00:26:19,173 --> 00:26:22,333 Speaker 11: that say things that we think sound good, but how 531 00:26:22,333 --> 00:26:25,093 Speaker 11: do you actually get procurement managers at the cold face 532 00:26:25,213 --> 00:26:29,693 Speaker 11: to interpret those rules and you know, do the right 533 00:26:29,773 --> 00:26:33,853 Speaker 11: thing by key businesses. So I think the approach that 534 00:26:33,853 --> 00:26:37,933 Speaker 11: they're outlining looks a lot better to me that a 535 00:26:37,973 --> 00:26:41,733 Speaker 11: procurement manager would be required to do the economic benefit test, 536 00:26:41,893 --> 00:26:44,293 Speaker 11: and I think that'll just put it to the front 537 00:26:44,333 --> 00:26:47,333 Speaker 11: of their mind, you know, what jobs could be created, 538 00:26:47,413 --> 00:26:50,333 Speaker 11: how much tax will this company pay, and sort of 539 00:26:50,373 --> 00:26:52,253 Speaker 11: factor that into their decision making. 540 00:26:52,613 --> 00:26:55,853 Speaker 2: Do they need any rules at all? 541 00:26:56,333 --> 00:26:58,812 Speaker 11: Look, I think you do need some rules and some 542 00:26:58,933 --> 00:27:02,373 Speaker 11: of the rules are about just good hygien factors, you know, 543 00:27:02,573 --> 00:27:08,373 Speaker 11: so how to be fair and transparent with procurement and 544 00:27:08,373 --> 00:27:09,893 Speaker 11: and you know, I don't think any of this is 545 00:27:09,933 --> 00:27:13,253 Speaker 11: intended to shut out international participants in our. 546 00:27:13,093 --> 00:27:15,253 Speaker 7: Supply chains, because we need them. 547 00:27:15,093 --> 00:27:18,253 Speaker 11: As well, but it might encourage them to team up 548 00:27:18,333 --> 00:27:22,733 Speaker 11: with local businesses for that tier two or Tier three 549 00:27:22,813 --> 00:27:23,613 Speaker 11: level supplier. 550 00:27:24,413 --> 00:27:27,173 Speaker 3: Do you know how we compare to other comparable countries 551 00:27:27,213 --> 00:27:30,373 Speaker 3: in terms of those government tenders. Do we make it 552 00:27:30,413 --> 00:27:33,733 Speaker 3: a lot harder than other countries to support our own businesses? 553 00:27:34,853 --> 00:27:36,373 Speaker 7: I think absolutely we do. 554 00:27:36,533 --> 00:27:39,812 Speaker 11: So the team Business New Zealand had a look at 555 00:27:39,853 --> 00:27:43,013 Speaker 11: some other countries and how they approach it. We looked 556 00:27:43,013 --> 00:27:46,173 Speaker 11: to Australia, we looked at Canada and the United Kingdom, 557 00:27:46,253 --> 00:27:50,853 Speaker 11: and they all have much more proactive ways of ensuring 558 00:27:50,933 --> 00:27:55,293 Speaker 11: that their local businesses get a fair you know, a 559 00:27:55,413 --> 00:27:57,333 Speaker 11: fair go at winning some of that business. 560 00:27:57,453 --> 00:27:58,853 Speaker 7: They're much more proactive. 561 00:27:59,293 --> 00:28:02,333 Speaker 11: I think New Zealand's always you know. 562 00:28:03,453 --> 00:28:06,373 Speaker 7: Probably tilted to the other directions. I think this will 563 00:28:06,413 --> 00:28:08,133 Speaker 7: be a good change. 564 00:28:08,693 --> 00:28:13,493 Speaker 2: Of waiting the cost towards New Zealand companies when you 565 00:28:13,573 --> 00:28:16,373 Speaker 2: take into account, you know, the ability to bub you know, 566 00:28:16,933 --> 00:28:19,533 Speaker 2: build companies in New Zealand and you know the tax 567 00:28:19,613 --> 00:28:21,373 Speaker 2: advantages and all that kind of stuff. How much do 568 00:28:21,373 --> 00:28:22,893 Speaker 2: you think it should be weighted in the cost? 569 00:28:22,973 --> 00:28:23,333 Speaker 3: Is it ten? 570 00:28:26,413 --> 00:28:30,453 Speaker 11: Look, I think that's a be interesting. The submissions are open, 571 00:28:30,493 --> 00:28:33,493 Speaker 11: and I hope that a lot of businesses put submissions in. 572 00:28:33,613 --> 00:28:37,293 Speaker 11: We certainly will be I think, you know, maybe ten 573 00:28:37,413 --> 00:28:40,373 Speaker 11: or twenty I think, you know, you have to be 574 00:28:40,493 --> 00:28:44,933 Speaker 11: fair to the buying agency and to the taking care 575 00:28:44,973 --> 00:28:46,853 Speaker 11: of tax payer money, that there has to be a 576 00:28:46,893 --> 00:28:50,613 Speaker 11: good process that they go through. But I think, you know, 577 00:28:50,693 --> 00:28:53,613 Speaker 11: giving a ten or twenty percent waiting to the local 578 00:28:53,653 --> 00:28:57,133 Speaker 11: business will just bring it to the procurement manager's attention. 579 00:28:57,373 --> 00:28:59,493 Speaker 11: It means that they kind of have to evaluate it. 580 00:28:59,533 --> 00:29:03,053 Speaker 11: So I think just it's getting getting the business the 581 00:29:03,053 --> 00:29:07,013 Speaker 11: local businesses on those people's radars. They still have to 582 00:29:07,053 --> 00:29:11,333 Speaker 11: compete with every on the other eighty points or ninety points, 583 00:29:11,373 --> 00:29:13,293 Speaker 11: so I think that keeps it. 584 00:29:13,213 --> 00:29:13,773 Speaker 7: All on us. 585 00:29:13,813 --> 00:29:17,533 Speaker 11: But I think it'll just really mean procurement managers have 586 00:29:17,613 --> 00:29:20,493 Speaker 11: to look at local and at least give them good consideration. 587 00:29:20,973 --> 00:29:22,573 Speaker 2: As a sort of a chicken and egg thing, we 588 00:29:22,613 --> 00:29:26,053 Speaker 2: don't support local businesses so they don't have the scale 589 00:29:26,213 --> 00:29:28,253 Speaker 2: so then we don't use them. 590 00:29:29,373 --> 00:29:30,093 Speaker 7: Absolutely. 591 00:29:30,493 --> 00:29:35,573 Speaker 11: Look, it's fifty one billion dollars spend. I've long argued 592 00:29:35,773 --> 00:29:38,533 Speaker 11: that how do we grow bigger companies in New Zealand 593 00:29:38,853 --> 00:29:44,013 Speaker 11: on the five million population, that's super difficult. We need 594 00:29:44,053 --> 00:29:47,853 Speaker 11: our businesses to get into bigger projects, to have the 595 00:29:47,933 --> 00:29:51,693 Speaker 11: confidence to invest in people, in plant and equipment. How 596 00:29:51,693 --> 00:29:54,453 Speaker 11: do you do that? You get them involved in bigger projects. 597 00:29:54,533 --> 00:29:56,973 Speaker 11: Who does bigger projects? That's central government? 598 00:29:57,693 --> 00:30:00,173 Speaker 3: Catherine, Thank you very much for your time this afternoon. 599 00:30:00,173 --> 00:30:00,973 Speaker 3: Really appreciate it. 600 00:30:02,093 --> 00:30:02,453 Speaker 7: Thank you. 601 00:30:02,653 --> 00:30:05,893 Speaker 3: That is Catherine be a director of advocacy a business 602 00:30:05,933 --> 00:30:08,533 Speaker 3: in z Clearly a lot of support from business and 603 00:30:08,653 --> 00:30:10,613 Speaker 3: Z's on these proposed changes. 604 00:30:10,893 --> 00:30:13,133 Speaker 2: I mean, the thing is cheapest, the best value? Are 605 00:30:13,133 --> 00:30:15,373 Speaker 2: they the same thing as cheapest and best value the 606 00:30:15,413 --> 00:30:15,813 Speaker 2: same thing? 607 00:30:16,053 --> 00:30:16,413 Speaker 3: They're not. 608 00:30:16,573 --> 00:30:20,813 Speaker 2: No, And so you're seeing, you know, governments are procuring 609 00:30:20,853 --> 00:30:24,333 Speaker 2: the cheapest. But that's that's only a very small part 610 00:30:24,333 --> 00:30:27,333 Speaker 2: of it, especially if you know with what can looking 611 00:30:27,373 --> 00:30:30,053 Speaker 2: at the whole of the New Zealand economy and the 612 00:30:30,133 --> 00:30:30,653 Speaker 2: idea that. 613 00:30:30,613 --> 00:30:31,333 Speaker 3: We need to grow. 614 00:30:32,093 --> 00:30:35,893 Speaker 2: So you know, maybe the cheapest on a line, but 615 00:30:36,133 --> 00:30:38,773 Speaker 2: not the best value overall for the country. 616 00:30:38,813 --> 00:30:41,013 Speaker 3: But on that last point, on that last question you asked, 617 00:30:41,173 --> 00:30:42,733 Speaker 3: that's it in a nutshout right. If we want the 618 00:30:42,773 --> 00:30:46,133 Speaker 3: capability and expertise and the ability to grow our firms 619 00:30:46,173 --> 00:30:48,853 Speaker 3: here and compete on the international stage, we're going to 620 00:30:48,853 --> 00:30:51,013 Speaker 3: be supporting them with some of this fifty one billion dollars. 621 00:30:51,053 --> 00:30:53,893 Speaker 3: It's our money. Yeah, we should give it to our people. Exactly. Oh, 622 00:30:53,933 --> 00:30:56,293 Speaker 3: one hundred eighty ten eighty is the number to call. 623 00:30:56,373 --> 00:30:57,693 Speaker 3: It is seventeen to two to two. 624 00:30:58,733 --> 00:31:01,173 Speaker 1: The issues that affect you, and a bit of fun 625 00:31:01,213 --> 00:31:04,453 Speaker 1: along the way. Matt and Taylor afternoons with the Volvo 626 00:31:04,813 --> 00:31:09,173 Speaker 1: XC eighty Innovation, style and design, have it all talk said. 627 00:31:10,013 --> 00:31:13,373 Speaker 3: Good afternoon. We're talking about changes proposed changes to government 628 00:31:13,413 --> 00:31:16,613 Speaker 3: procurement rules making it easier for New Zealand firms to 629 00:31:16,693 --> 00:31:18,133 Speaker 3: bid for government tenders. 630 00:31:18,613 --> 00:31:20,533 Speaker 2: This text from Harry says Matt and Tyler, it's far 631 00:31:20,733 --> 00:31:23,733 Speaker 2: better bang for your bucks supporting local businesses who will 632 00:31:23,773 --> 00:31:26,493 Speaker 2: employ local staff and reduce the doll line. This coalition 633 00:31:26,573 --> 00:31:29,973 Speaker 2: of clowns is filled with public servants, builders and all 634 00:31:30,013 --> 00:31:35,293 Speaker 2: trades by stopping home building. Thank you for your text, Harry. Hey, guys, 635 00:31:35,453 --> 00:31:37,773 Speaker 2: it won't make any difference to procurement because all the 636 00:31:37,773 --> 00:31:40,053 Speaker 2: international companies do is set up a New Zealand company, 637 00:31:40,133 --> 00:31:43,293 Speaker 2: they still win the tenders because they are the biggest. 638 00:31:44,333 --> 00:31:46,133 Speaker 2: And this is talking about the city rail and Go 639 00:31:46,173 --> 00:31:49,453 Speaker 2: and Google the subway system in Russia. It's always easy 640 00:31:49,533 --> 00:31:51,533 Speaker 2: to spend other people's money. 641 00:31:51,773 --> 00:31:52,773 Speaker 3: Boy, the subway system. 642 00:31:52,773 --> 00:31:54,853 Speaker 2: I've seen some shots of some parts of the subway 643 00:31:54,893 --> 00:31:57,213 Speaker 2: system Russia, and I'm pretty sure this is a standard. 644 00:31:57,733 --> 00:32:02,053 Speaker 2: But I've seen some shots with chandeliers. Oh really some 645 00:32:02,093 --> 00:32:04,973 Speaker 2: pretty boogie stuff over there. But that might just be 646 00:32:05,013 --> 00:32:08,013 Speaker 2: the ones we see. Just look at how on budget 647 00:32:08,053 --> 00:32:10,573 Speaker 2: and on rogan projects in New Zealand are Christich Stadium 648 00:32:10,613 --> 00:32:13,573 Speaker 2: to Needn Dental School? Why carry prison? All spring to 649 00:32:13,613 --> 00:32:17,013 Speaker 2: mind Australian builders who have hit our pockets hard by 650 00:32:17,013 --> 00:32:19,773 Speaker 2: playing hardball on the game. 651 00:32:19,933 --> 00:32:22,573 Speaker 3: Yeah that's thank you for your text there, very good text. 652 00:32:22,693 --> 00:32:25,053 Speaker 3: Keep those coming through on nine two, nine to two, Cam, 653 00:32:25,093 --> 00:32:26,133 Speaker 3: How are you this afternoon? 654 00:32:27,493 --> 00:32:27,733 Speaker 17: Yeah? 655 00:32:27,773 --> 00:32:27,933 Speaker 18: Good? 656 00:32:28,533 --> 00:32:29,813 Speaker 3: Now you want to have a chat about the health 657 00:32:29,813 --> 00:32:33,293 Speaker 3: and safety aspects of government tendering. 658 00:32:34,853 --> 00:32:38,813 Speaker 14: Yeah, well, like I've worked in the petro chemical industry 659 00:32:38,853 --> 00:32:43,053 Speaker 14: for twenty years now and you know, have have worked 660 00:32:43,053 --> 00:32:45,653 Speaker 14: pretty closely with help and safety. Like I think petric 661 00:32:45,693 --> 00:32:48,653 Speaker 14: Chemical's probably been ahead of the game in terms of 662 00:32:48,853 --> 00:32:52,093 Speaker 14: you know, working within the Act and all the regulations 663 00:32:52,093 --> 00:32:54,613 Speaker 14: and stuff that come along with it. Now, whether you 664 00:32:54,733 --> 00:32:56,733 Speaker 14: agree with how it works or not, it's kind of 665 00:32:56,733 --> 00:33:00,493 Speaker 14: a relevant. The actors the Act and a lot of 666 00:33:00,533 --> 00:33:05,133 Speaker 14: the governments and those bigger corporations that would normally hire 667 00:33:05,173 --> 00:33:10,053 Speaker 14: people have obligations under the under the Act, you know, 668 00:33:10,133 --> 00:33:12,493 Speaker 14: to protect workers and all the rest of it. And 669 00:33:12,573 --> 00:33:16,293 Speaker 14: so you know, those small to medium businesses if they 670 00:33:16,293 --> 00:33:18,453 Speaker 14: don't have an understanding of the Act and how to 671 00:33:18,733 --> 00:33:21,533 Speaker 14: comply with the regulations, which is really hard, Like we 672 00:33:21,613 --> 00:33:24,653 Speaker 14: have whole departments dedicated to it at the place that 673 00:33:24,693 --> 00:33:28,173 Speaker 14: I work moment, you just you're not going to be 674 00:33:28,173 --> 00:33:31,333 Speaker 14: able to fulfill your obligations and so you can't actually 675 00:33:32,093 --> 00:33:34,853 Speaker 14: you know, meet the requirements that the government might have 676 00:33:35,333 --> 00:33:36,733 Speaker 14: under those Act regulations. 677 00:33:37,213 --> 00:33:40,933 Speaker 2: Right, so you just sort of the reporting and the 678 00:33:41,533 --> 00:33:44,533 Speaker 2: running of the whole thing the governmental admin around the 679 00:33:44,653 --> 00:33:45,693 Speaker 2: project once you get it. 680 00:33:47,093 --> 00:33:49,053 Speaker 14: Yeah, yeah, it's not even that like when you when 681 00:33:49,093 --> 00:33:52,893 Speaker 14: you put your tender on, like I would imagine, like 682 00:33:52,933 --> 00:33:56,293 Speaker 14: I know that you know, for the petrochemical companies, there's 683 00:33:56,293 --> 00:33:58,693 Speaker 14: a there's a section and the tender which sort of 684 00:33:58,693 --> 00:34:01,373 Speaker 14: describes how you're going to operate in a safe manner 685 00:34:01,413 --> 00:34:05,333 Speaker 14: while you're working at at at the petrochemical plant. The 686 00:34:05,373 --> 00:34:09,053 Speaker 14: government's are the same, and you know, are only doing 687 00:34:09,093 --> 00:34:11,732 Speaker 14: that because they're liable if something goes wrong for a 688 00:34:11,733 --> 00:34:14,093 Speaker 14: lot of stuff, like if you can't prove the person 689 00:34:14,133 --> 00:34:16,213 Speaker 14: that you hired was going to do the job safely, 690 00:34:16,773 --> 00:34:19,853 Speaker 14: you're liable if they may have an accident, neither hurt 691 00:34:19,853 --> 00:34:22,853 Speaker 14: themselves or someone else or anything like that. So you know, 692 00:34:23,533 --> 00:34:26,053 Speaker 14: they have to protect themselves. But it's not something you 693 00:34:26,053 --> 00:34:28,133 Speaker 14: can just go, oh, well, we shouldn't do that. You know, 694 00:34:28,493 --> 00:34:30,893 Speaker 14: it's a requirement. They have to do it to protect 695 00:34:30,893 --> 00:34:34,973 Speaker 14: themselves financially and also, you know, so they don't hurt someone. 696 00:34:35,493 --> 00:34:38,133 Speaker 14: Which makes it really really hard for a small business 697 00:34:38,133 --> 00:34:41,493 Speaker 14: person who's just getting into it because I never had 698 00:34:41,573 --> 00:34:43,853 Speaker 14: much to do with the Act, but like, there's a 699 00:34:43,893 --> 00:34:47,093 Speaker 14: lot of stuff in there. It's very long, very cumbersome, 700 00:34:47,173 --> 00:34:50,733 Speaker 14: and to understand it is you know, years of doing 701 00:34:50,813 --> 00:34:52,773 Speaker 14: various courses and learning and all the rest of it. 702 00:34:52,933 --> 00:34:55,893 Speaker 14: So those small business guys just can't compete with the 703 00:34:55,893 --> 00:34:58,933 Speaker 14: bigger companies that already have all of that stuff in place, 704 00:34:59,733 --> 00:35:02,732 Speaker 14: because once you've got it too. It's not too bad 705 00:35:02,773 --> 00:35:04,413 Speaker 14: to sort of put it all together for a job 706 00:35:04,493 --> 00:35:06,733 Speaker 14: or whatever. But if you don't know anything about it, 707 00:35:06,813 --> 00:35:09,613 Speaker 14: you've sent thousands of dollars just trying to figure out 708 00:35:09,653 --> 00:35:14,373 Speaker 14: what has an ID form looks like or something like that. Yeah, yeah, 709 00:35:14,373 --> 00:35:16,613 Speaker 14: it makes it makes for the small guy to compete there. 710 00:35:17,173 --> 00:35:19,333 Speaker 2: Well, one of the one of the governments, one of 711 00:35:19,413 --> 00:35:22,133 Speaker 2: the rules they're posing proposing to dispense with and the 712 00:35:22,173 --> 00:35:25,493 Speaker 2: tenuing process is that you have to include questions in 713 00:35:25,533 --> 00:35:28,573 Speaker 2: the tender documentation about the skills development and training practices 714 00:35:28,853 --> 00:35:33,093 Speaker 2: of the supplier and their subcontractors. Is that is that 715 00:35:33,213 --> 00:35:34,933 Speaker 2: kind of what you're talking about? So you then you 716 00:35:34,973 --> 00:35:37,293 Speaker 2: then have to vouch for everyone that you are going 717 00:35:37,333 --> 00:35:41,453 Speaker 2: to hire to work with you on the on the project. 718 00:35:42,933 --> 00:35:45,093 Speaker 14: Yeah, yeah, I didn't realize that was one of the 719 00:35:45,173 --> 00:35:48,533 Speaker 14: rules are dispensing was Like, again, whether you agree with 720 00:35:48,533 --> 00:35:50,533 Speaker 14: it or not, I think that opens them up to 721 00:35:50,573 --> 00:35:53,733 Speaker 14: a febital liability under the Act. Like there's there's a 722 00:35:53,813 --> 00:35:57,453 Speaker 14: part where you know, the person who has secured the 723 00:35:57,493 --> 00:36:00,853 Speaker 14: contract is responsible for making sure that the people who 724 00:36:00,893 --> 00:36:03,293 Speaker 14: are doing it know how to do it safely. How 725 00:36:03,333 --> 00:36:07,772 Speaker 14: do you do that without proving their qualifications. 726 00:36:07,853 --> 00:36:10,373 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I go to work, Yeah, and I get 727 00:36:10,413 --> 00:36:12,333 Speaker 3: your point. Cam. You know, those big guys have the 728 00:36:12,333 --> 00:36:15,453 Speaker 3: in house health and safety division, and some of those 729 00:36:15,493 --> 00:36:18,413 Speaker 3: people are on two hundred thousand plus a year. A 730 00:36:18,493 --> 00:36:20,973 Speaker 3: small guys just can't employ someone like that, you know, 731 00:36:21,013 --> 00:36:23,693 Speaker 3: if you've got if you're running a team of say fifteen, 732 00:36:24,173 --> 00:36:26,693 Speaker 3: that's just too small to be able to spend that 733 00:36:26,773 --> 00:36:28,692 Speaker 3: sort of Yeah, but no, it's a fair point. 734 00:36:30,293 --> 00:36:33,413 Speaker 14: It's even worse than that as well, because if you 735 00:36:33,493 --> 00:36:35,533 Speaker 14: understand the act and how long it takes to get 736 00:36:35,533 --> 00:36:38,333 Speaker 14: things done, Like yo, you put a tender in and 737 00:36:38,333 --> 00:36:40,573 Speaker 14: you say, oh, this job will take twenty hours, but 738 00:36:40,613 --> 00:36:42,692 Speaker 14: you haven't allowed for the ten hours of stand down 739 00:36:43,093 --> 00:36:45,373 Speaker 14: like waiting for permits, or waiting for someone to sign 740 00:36:45,453 --> 00:36:49,333 Speaker 14: off a excavation permit, or waiting for someone to sign 741 00:36:49,333 --> 00:36:53,013 Speaker 14: off hasard reallocation form. You know, like there's all these 742 00:36:53,053 --> 00:36:56,253 Speaker 14: little minus that you just wouldn't understand. So then you 743 00:36:56,293 --> 00:36:58,172 Speaker 14: put your tender into your twenty hours, you get paid 744 00:36:58,173 --> 00:36:59,853 Speaker 14: for twenty hours, but you were there for forty so 745 00:36:59,893 --> 00:37:03,053 Speaker 14: then they lose money Anyway's yeah, it's a bit of 746 00:37:03,053 --> 00:37:05,493 Speaker 14: a minefield, and I think that has a huge impact 747 00:37:05,533 --> 00:37:07,453 Speaker 14: on how smaller guys could. 748 00:37:07,253 --> 00:37:09,253 Speaker 3: Actually get in for that sort of I think if 749 00:37:09,333 --> 00:37:12,253 Speaker 3: you call cam, yeah, great call, and it makes a 750 00:37:12,453 --> 00:37:15,533 Speaker 3: very fair point, isn't It's complex. Clearly changes need to happen, 751 00:37:15,533 --> 00:37:17,693 Speaker 3: and that's what the government are proposing. But when it 752 00:37:17,733 --> 00:37:20,773 Speaker 3: comes to the likes of proving that you your guys 753 00:37:21,093 --> 00:37:23,333 Speaker 3: are going to abide by health and safety legislation, of 754 00:37:23,333 --> 00:37:24,133 Speaker 3: course you can say that. 755 00:37:24,173 --> 00:37:28,973 Speaker 2: But safety sift, safety, safety obsessed society. Yeah, just getting 756 00:37:28,973 --> 00:37:30,573 Speaker 2: safer and safer and safer and safer and safe and 757 00:37:30,613 --> 00:37:32,733 Speaker 2: safe from safe safe. Have it to the point where 758 00:37:32,733 --> 00:37:35,652 Speaker 2: we reach absolute zero and nothing moves at all? 759 00:37:35,813 --> 00:37:38,413 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, exactly right. Oh, one hundred and eighty ten 760 00:37:38,453 --> 00:37:39,933 Speaker 3: eighty is the number to call. Nine two nine two 761 00:37:39,973 --> 00:37:41,692 Speaker 3: is the TIXS number. It is eight two to two. 762 00:37:43,253 --> 00:37:46,812 Speaker 1: Matt Heath Taylor Adams taking your calls on eight hundred 763 00:37:46,853 --> 00:37:49,453 Speaker 1: and eighty ten eighty Matt and Taylor Afternoon with the 764 00:37:49,573 --> 00:37:53,973 Speaker 1: Volvo XC ninety Tick every box a seamless experience awaits 765 00:37:54,093 --> 00:37:54,773 Speaker 1: News Talk. 766 00:37:54,653 --> 00:38:00,453 Speaker 3: ZB news talk Z be Good afternoon. Some great ticks 767 00:38:00,493 --> 00:38:04,053 Speaker 3: have come through on the proposed changes to government procurement. 768 00:38:04,373 --> 00:38:06,973 Speaker 3: Guys studying a company and getting it up and running 769 00:38:07,013 --> 00:38:10,013 Speaker 3: in New Zealand is getting more more challenging with extra 770 00:38:10,093 --> 00:38:14,493 Speaker 3: rules and regulations reporting not to mention our tank system 771 00:38:14,493 --> 00:38:17,812 Speaker 3: around provisional tanks on money you haven't even earned yet. 772 00:38:17,853 --> 00:38:19,693 Speaker 3: And then there's the health and safety as can mentioned, 773 00:38:20,133 --> 00:38:22,652 Speaker 3: that's an ever evolving beast. And to top it all off, 774 00:38:22,973 --> 00:38:26,652 Speaker 3: the banks might not lend you the money depending on 775 00:38:26,693 --> 00:38:31,013 Speaker 3: your sector like mining or farming. Everything fee feels like 776 00:38:31,053 --> 00:38:35,013 Speaker 3: a minefield these days. Any changes to government procurement and 777 00:38:35,173 --> 00:38:38,253 Speaker 3: accessing some of that fifty one billion dollar infrastructure spend 778 00:38:38,333 --> 00:38:44,413 Speaker 3: is a good thing, good text, guys. Government needs to 779 00:38:44,533 --> 00:38:51,973 Speaker 3: remove the requirement of having the just miss it there, 780 00:38:52,213 --> 00:38:55,493 Speaker 3: having the battery electric and hybrid electric vehicles will good news, 781 00:38:55,493 --> 00:38:57,453 Speaker 3: dear text, because they are getting rid of that and 782 00:38:57,493 --> 00:38:59,613 Speaker 3: that doesn't make a hell of a lot of sense. 783 00:38:59,653 --> 00:39:00,493 Speaker 3: I don't think it ever did. 784 00:39:00,573 --> 00:39:03,093 Speaker 2: Right, Well, that's what they're proposing. So they're proposing get 785 00:39:03,173 --> 00:39:05,973 Speaker 2: rid of building you and non residual government buildings at 786 00:39:06,013 --> 00:39:09,893 Speaker 2: a five star rating, which is battery electric or hybrid 787 00:39:09,933 --> 00:39:12,453 Speaker 2: electric vehicles. That's a crazy one purchase off of supplies 788 00:39:12,453 --> 00:39:15,013 Speaker 2: that produce low amounts of waste and pay the living 789 00:39:15,013 --> 00:39:17,493 Speaker 2: wage and contracts for cleaning, catering and security GID services. 790 00:39:17,493 --> 00:39:20,413 Speaker 2: So they're looking at removing those five rules at least, 791 00:39:20,413 --> 00:39:21,933 Speaker 2: but they're looking I think they're going to move. There's 792 00:39:21,973 --> 00:39:24,813 Speaker 2: currently seventy something. They're to drop it down to forty one. 793 00:39:24,933 --> 00:39:27,093 Speaker 3: Still seems like a lot of rules. This text is 794 00:39:27,093 --> 00:39:29,613 Speaker 3: a good one, guys. We supply New Zealand made wool 795 00:39:29,653 --> 00:39:31,933 Speaker 3: fabrics to the office fit out market. There are three 796 00:39:32,053 --> 00:39:35,013 Speaker 3: one hundred kiwis employed in the various factories processing the 797 00:39:35,053 --> 00:39:37,773 Speaker 3: wall from the farm gate. Great for the economy, awesome 798 00:39:37,813 --> 00:39:40,373 Speaker 3: for the environment. Yet we have found these benefits are 799 00:39:40,373 --> 00:39:42,613 Speaker 3: not factored into the decision making when it comes to 800 00:39:42,653 --> 00:39:45,732 Speaker 3: government tenders. These changes are a great step forward. That's 801 00:39:45,773 --> 00:39:48,133 Speaker 3: from Maxwell Rodgers Fabrics. Yeah, that's right. 802 00:39:48,133 --> 00:39:50,413 Speaker 2: Every time you spend here, you boost New Zealand appointment, 803 00:39:50,773 --> 00:39:54,453 Speaker 2: increase local expertise, and you potentially spark export businesses. So 804 00:39:55,053 --> 00:39:58,013 Speaker 2: it seems like something we should be trying to move 805 00:39:58,053 --> 00:39:59,013 Speaker 2: the dial towards. 806 00:39:59,093 --> 00:39:59,293 Speaker 6: Yep. 807 00:39:59,373 --> 00:40:01,172 Speaker 3: Absolutely, If you want to make a submission on that, 808 00:40:01,213 --> 00:40:05,173 Speaker 3: submissions close on April the eighth. Good discussion. After two o'clock, 809 00:40:05,213 --> 00:40:07,533 Speaker 3: let's have a chat about who pays for dinner on 810 00:40:07,573 --> 00:40:12,133 Speaker 3: the first date. The man is a worse Yeah, you're 811 00:40:12,133 --> 00:40:14,773 Speaker 3: pretty adamant on that. Nineteen ninety two is the text number. Oh, 812 00:40:14,813 --> 00:40:17,333 Speaker 3: eight hundred eighty ten eighty is the number to call 813 00:40:17,413 --> 00:40:19,093 Speaker 3: Newsport and whether or it's way you're listening to Matt and. 814 00:40:19,133 --> 00:40:24,573 Speaker 5: Tyler talking with you all afternoon. 815 00:40:24,773 --> 00:40:28,133 Speaker 1: It's Matt Heath and Taylor Adams Afternoons with the Volvo 816 00:40:28,413 --> 00:40:30,013 Speaker 1: XC nineteen news Dogs'd be. 817 00:40:31,533 --> 00:40:33,813 Speaker 3: Good afternoon, Welcome back into the show. Great to have 818 00:40:33,893 --> 00:40:36,533 Speaker 3: your company as always, right, this is going to be 819 00:40:36,533 --> 00:40:38,373 Speaker 3: a good discussion. This is on the back of the 820 00:40:38,453 --> 00:40:41,213 Speaker 3: story in the Herald and it's titled A Man's Guide 821 00:40:41,253 --> 00:40:44,173 Speaker 3: to midlife Dating from a divorced aad and expert. He 822 00:40:44,253 --> 00:40:46,653 Speaker 3: reckons who's learnt the hard way. Say, he's given a 823 00:40:46,653 --> 00:40:50,533 Speaker 3: whole bunch of advice to any man who is back 824 00:40:50,573 --> 00:40:53,093 Speaker 3: on the dating game in later life. Shall we say, 825 00:40:53,133 --> 00:40:55,573 Speaker 3: but one part of his advice we just want to 826 00:40:55,573 --> 00:40:58,973 Speaker 3: pick up on, and it's who should pay for dinner 827 00:40:58,973 --> 00:41:01,453 Speaker 3: when going out on a date. And his title should 828 00:41:01,453 --> 00:41:02,212 Speaker 3: the man always pay? 829 00:41:02,333 --> 00:41:04,013 Speaker 2: Yeah, the man should always pay? 830 00:41:04,133 --> 00:41:06,173 Speaker 3: Right, let me tell you what he says. You're going 831 00:41:06,213 --> 00:41:06,373 Speaker 3: to be. 832 00:41:06,373 --> 00:41:07,933 Speaker 2: Outraged, Okay, sure, I'd be quiet from it. 833 00:41:08,093 --> 00:41:08,293 Speaker 7: Right. 834 00:41:08,373 --> 00:41:11,533 Speaker 3: When it comes to paying, I think one in three 835 00:41:11,653 --> 00:41:14,333 Speaker 3: ratio works well as and she pays once for every 836 00:41:14,733 --> 00:41:17,413 Speaker 3: three times you cover. It's an act of grace and chivalry. 837 00:41:17,493 --> 00:41:19,693 Speaker 3: Say allow me to pay. It would be my pleasure, 838 00:41:19,813 --> 00:41:22,853 Speaker 3: rather than insisting for reasons of masculinity, which might be 839 00:41:22,893 --> 00:41:26,293 Speaker 3: a red flag to her that you're not listening and 840 00:41:26,373 --> 00:41:27,573 Speaker 3: potentially bullying. 841 00:41:27,933 --> 00:41:29,453 Speaker 2: I think there's a single woman in the world that 842 00:41:29,493 --> 00:41:31,573 Speaker 2: would thought would think that that was a red flag 843 00:41:31,813 --> 00:41:34,293 Speaker 2: that you were paying. I think they'd think that's a 844 00:41:34,333 --> 00:41:38,573 Speaker 2: demonstration that you know, you're you're a provider, you've got 845 00:41:38,573 --> 00:41:40,893 Speaker 2: some where withthor you know, and you respect that person 846 00:41:40,893 --> 00:41:43,653 Speaker 2: and you want to make a good impression. Look okay 847 00:41:43,773 --> 00:41:46,652 Speaker 2: on the first date, right, that would be you would 848 00:41:46,693 --> 00:41:49,973 Speaker 2: be an insane person, definitely on the especially if you 849 00:41:50,053 --> 00:41:52,733 Speaker 2: organize the day. If you organize the day and you 850 00:41:52,773 --> 00:41:58,773 Speaker 2: invite a lady out for dinner and then you don't pay, then. 851 00:41:59,093 --> 00:42:00,172 Speaker 3: You get out, that. 852 00:42:02,413 --> 00:42:05,133 Speaker 2: Would have every right to hold up the l loser 853 00:42:05,173 --> 00:42:06,933 Speaker 2: sign at the end of the date and say I 854 00:42:07,013 --> 00:42:07,772 Speaker 2: never want to see you again. 855 00:42:07,853 --> 00:42:10,093 Speaker 3: Yeah, apparently it's pretty hard to get to that stage 856 00:42:10,093 --> 00:42:12,733 Speaker 3: these days with the dating apps. You know, all the swiping, 857 00:42:12,853 --> 00:42:15,013 Speaker 3: swiping ride or swiping lift and trying to get to 858 00:42:15,053 --> 00:42:17,253 Speaker 3: the stage where you get to a restaurant for the 859 00:42:17,253 --> 00:42:21,453 Speaker 3: first date. Don't cock it up at that stage. 860 00:42:20,573 --> 00:42:27,093 Speaker 2: Especially you are tyler with your height problems. I'm sex one. 861 00:42:27,253 --> 00:42:31,893 Speaker 19: You are not sex one six, sex and six and 862 00:42:32,733 --> 00:42:37,173 Speaker 19: maybe sex flat. And even then I'm dubious. I'm pretty 863 00:42:37,173 --> 00:42:38,053 Speaker 19: heavy with my five. 864 00:42:38,333 --> 00:42:40,093 Speaker 2: Well, what my actual height is and what it says 865 00:42:40,133 --> 00:42:42,813 Speaker 2: on my dating profile, you. 866 00:42:42,733 --> 00:42:44,373 Speaker 3: Can tweak it up a little bit. Sex five. 867 00:42:46,453 --> 00:42:47,773 Speaker 2: Not that I have a dating profile. 868 00:42:47,813 --> 00:42:50,533 Speaker 3: Okay, I've got a partner, yeah, yeah, yeah, but times 869 00:42:50,573 --> 00:42:53,453 Speaker 3: have changed. Secret one on the side, I actually agree 870 00:42:53,493 --> 00:42:57,173 Speaker 3: with you that the man should be fronting up first 871 00:42:57,293 --> 00:42:59,373 Speaker 3: to say I've got this cover, don't worry about it. 872 00:42:59,373 --> 00:43:01,333 Speaker 3: This is my treat I've asked you out here, or 873 00:43:01,413 --> 00:43:03,053 Speaker 3: this is the first date, or the second date or 874 00:43:03,053 --> 00:43:08,013 Speaker 3: the third date. But I reckon there's going to be 875 00:43:08,053 --> 00:43:10,812 Speaker 3: a lot of female callers coming through saying nah, that's 876 00:43:10,893 --> 00:43:13,773 Speaker 3: old school thinking. I prefer to go halves. If the 877 00:43:13,813 --> 00:43:17,093 Speaker 3: guy tries to force buying it, then that for me 878 00:43:17,173 --> 00:43:17,813 Speaker 3: is a red flag. 879 00:43:17,893 --> 00:43:20,933 Speaker 2: They might say that, they might say that, but I 880 00:43:20,973 --> 00:43:23,133 Speaker 2: guarantee that they'd be they'd be em played if you 881 00:43:23,173 --> 00:43:26,493 Speaker 2: take them out for a very expensive meal with anything 882 00:43:26,533 --> 00:43:30,333 Speaker 2: they want, no problems at all, and then you just 883 00:43:30,413 --> 00:43:32,173 Speaker 2: go off and pay. You say, you go into the 884 00:43:32,173 --> 00:43:34,013 Speaker 2: bathroom or something, and then you pay the bill. And 885 00:43:34,013 --> 00:43:35,613 Speaker 2: then when you're leaving, they go, what about the bill? 886 00:43:35,653 --> 00:43:38,733 Speaker 2: And I've covered that, no way. Then they're going to 887 00:43:38,733 --> 00:43:39,333 Speaker 2: be impressed by that. 888 00:43:39,373 --> 00:43:40,013 Speaker 3: It's pretty small. 889 00:43:40,293 --> 00:43:43,252 Speaker 2: Whatever they think about, maybe we should have gone halves 890 00:43:43,253 --> 00:43:45,493 Speaker 2: and I would like to whatever. Whatever they say, what 891 00:43:45,533 --> 00:43:47,133 Speaker 2: do they say that that there's some kind of old 892 00:43:47,173 --> 00:43:49,813 Speaker 2: school thinking. They're still like that was a four hundred 893 00:43:49,813 --> 00:43:51,333 Speaker 2: dollars meal and I got it for free. 894 00:43:51,413 --> 00:43:53,213 Speaker 3: All right, let's get into it. Oh eight one hundred 895 00:43:53,333 --> 00:43:55,613 Speaker 3: eighty ten eighty is a number to call. The texs 896 00:43:55,613 --> 00:43:59,212 Speaker 3: machine has lit up as well. It is ten past two. 897 00:43:59,453 --> 00:44:01,773 Speaker 2: This is the kind of guy that can provide for me. 898 00:44:04,573 --> 00:44:08,333 Speaker 1: Your new home of Afternoon Talk Matt and Taylor Afternoon 899 00:44:08,653 --> 00:44:12,613 Speaker 1: with the Volvo XC ninety, turn every journey into something special. 900 00:44:12,693 --> 00:44:15,493 Speaker 1: Call eight News Talk. 901 00:44:15,333 --> 00:44:15,693 Speaker 5: Said, be. 902 00:44:17,213 --> 00:44:21,293 Speaker 3: Good afternoon, thirteen past two. Should the man always pay 903 00:44:21,373 --> 00:44:24,093 Speaker 3: when it comes to a date or the restaurant? 904 00:44:24,453 --> 00:44:26,613 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, Tyler, good buddy, we've been doing the 905 00:44:26,613 --> 00:44:29,453 Speaker 2: show to get it for eighty five eighty five. 906 00:44:29,293 --> 00:44:32,053 Speaker 3: Shows, eighty five glorious shows. I think it's eighty five shows. 907 00:44:32,133 --> 00:44:35,053 Speaker 2: And I think we've got the smartest text that I 908 00:44:35,053 --> 00:44:38,453 Speaker 2: respect the most the whole time. It's thousands, tens of 909 00:44:38,453 --> 00:44:40,213 Speaker 2: thousands of texts we've received from the time we've been 910 00:44:40,213 --> 00:44:44,252 Speaker 2: doing this right and this one is so insightful. From Jeremy, Matt, 911 00:44:44,333 --> 00:44:44,973 Speaker 2: you are smart. 912 00:44:46,653 --> 00:44:49,053 Speaker 3: That just Jeremy, you must be a first time listening. 913 00:44:49,093 --> 00:44:50,933 Speaker 2: That just cuts through all the bs, doesn't it? 914 00:44:51,453 --> 00:44:55,652 Speaker 3: That one? Matt, You're smart? From Jeremy, Jeremy, welcome into 915 00:44:55,693 --> 00:44:58,613 Speaker 3: the show mate. You'll get used to that. Nadia, how 916 00:44:58,613 --> 00:44:59,533 Speaker 3: are you this afternoon? 917 00:45:00,493 --> 00:45:01,013 Speaker 20: I'm good? 918 00:45:01,053 --> 00:45:02,853 Speaker 21: Thank you? How are you going good? 919 00:45:03,173 --> 00:45:05,253 Speaker 3: And what's your view on who should pay on the 920 00:45:05,293 --> 00:45:06,652 Speaker 3: first or second or third date? 921 00:45:07,973 --> 00:45:12,212 Speaker 21: Wo Well, I think as a single woman, I think 922 00:45:12,333 --> 00:45:17,013 Speaker 21: single since October and I probably averaged about a day 923 00:45:17,093 --> 00:45:21,493 Speaker 21: to week. I finsly dated pretty much half of telling. 924 00:45:22,453 --> 00:45:25,533 Speaker 21: But I think there's a couple of questions to ask 925 00:45:25,573 --> 00:45:29,773 Speaker 21: here what you mentioned before, who's invited, who's for dinner? 926 00:45:30,533 --> 00:45:33,453 Speaker 21: And is just the first date? Because I think if 927 00:45:33,493 --> 00:45:36,493 Speaker 21: it's the first date and you're going out to dinner 928 00:45:36,493 --> 00:45:38,573 Speaker 21: and you're first kind of decided and you haven't met 929 00:45:38,613 --> 00:45:41,692 Speaker 21: each other, then I think it's very enough to kind 930 00:45:41,693 --> 00:45:44,773 Speaker 21: of go fifty fifty because you don't really know how 931 00:45:44,853 --> 00:45:47,613 Speaker 21: much value you're going to get from the state. But 932 00:45:47,773 --> 00:45:51,893 Speaker 21: if the guy's kind of outrightly asked the woman, oh, 933 00:45:52,133 --> 00:45:55,053 Speaker 21: let's meet for the first time, let's go to dinner 934 00:45:55,213 --> 00:45:59,093 Speaker 21: at I don't know deaddy, and he invited to you 935 00:45:59,733 --> 00:46:02,893 Speaker 21: and you go to dinner, I think it is his 936 00:46:03,053 --> 00:46:07,453 Speaker 21: responsibility to pay because he's giving you that invitation, Where 937 00:46:07,573 --> 00:46:10,613 Speaker 21: if it was the other way around, if I invited 938 00:46:10,653 --> 00:46:13,613 Speaker 21: a man out for dinner, I would kind of expect 939 00:46:13,613 --> 00:46:16,773 Speaker 21: to pay myself, or at least just for myself. 940 00:46:16,973 --> 00:46:18,813 Speaker 2: Well, naddie, I've got a question for you there though, 941 00:46:18,933 --> 00:46:22,973 Speaker 2: So you might expect it, but you've got to say 942 00:46:23,013 --> 00:46:25,213 Speaker 2: surely that you'll be impressed even though you invited him 943 00:46:25,213 --> 00:46:27,293 Speaker 2: out on the date if he goes, I've got this one. 944 00:46:27,573 --> 00:46:30,333 Speaker 2: But you know, as a show of goodwill. 945 00:46:31,853 --> 00:46:35,013 Speaker 21: Absolutely, if I invited him out on a day and 946 00:46:35,093 --> 00:46:37,933 Speaker 21: he goes, no, no, no, I've got this, then I 947 00:46:38,293 --> 00:46:40,813 Speaker 21: you know, I'd be like, yep, that's that's certainly the 948 00:46:40,893 --> 00:46:44,133 Speaker 21: kind of man I want to hang out with. But 949 00:46:44,213 --> 00:46:49,653 Speaker 21: I think also like let's say let's say he invites 950 00:46:49,693 --> 00:46:51,333 Speaker 21: you out for dinner. It's the first day, and the 951 00:46:51,373 --> 00:46:54,533 Speaker 21: woman doesn't bring much to the date. It like what 952 00:46:54,613 --> 00:46:58,213 Speaker 21: if she's not interacting or she's not storytelling or anything 953 00:46:58,333 --> 00:47:01,493 Speaker 21: like that, it's very dull, you know. As a man, 954 00:47:01,733 --> 00:47:04,093 Speaker 21: I would think, well, what have I got from this? 955 00:47:06,133 --> 00:47:09,973 Speaker 21: She's fairly fluted with me. She really looked at me, 956 00:47:10,093 --> 00:47:13,172 Speaker 21: made I contact with me, and we've just had like 957 00:47:13,213 --> 00:47:15,813 Speaker 21: a one hundred dollars meal between the two of us, 958 00:47:15,973 --> 00:47:20,573 Speaker 21: and it's like, well, you know, why should I pay 959 00:47:20,573 --> 00:47:23,933 Speaker 21: for this? I you know, I would hope to think that, 960 00:47:24,093 --> 00:47:26,373 Speaker 21: like a man would be like, oh, let's go half 961 00:47:26,493 --> 00:47:26,813 Speaker 21: on this. 962 00:47:27,333 --> 00:47:27,573 Speaker 3: Yeah. 963 00:47:27,773 --> 00:47:31,253 Speaker 21: Usually usually like if a woman asks a man out 964 00:47:31,293 --> 00:47:33,973 Speaker 21: on a date for dinner, like especially on the APPS 965 00:47:34,053 --> 00:47:37,093 Speaker 21: sees days, because I don't think the kind of feedback 966 00:47:37,133 --> 00:47:39,813 Speaker 21: I get from other men is that women aren't the 967 00:47:39,853 --> 00:47:43,973 Speaker 21: one to initiate. So if a woman initiates, they get 968 00:47:44,093 --> 00:47:47,172 Speaker 21: really excited by the whole thing. And I think that 969 00:47:47,373 --> 00:47:49,293 Speaker 21: in hand would be like, yeah, yeah, let me pay, 970 00:47:49,333 --> 00:47:52,013 Speaker 21: because I hardly get to go out on dates with women. 971 00:47:52,653 --> 00:47:55,093 Speaker 2: If you do go out on a date, naddie, Like say, 972 00:47:55,133 --> 00:47:59,093 Speaker 2: from a male perspective, and you really like the person, 973 00:47:59,173 --> 00:48:02,573 Speaker 2: so not the example you're giving where they haven't talked much, 974 00:48:02,613 --> 00:48:05,413 Speaker 2: they haven't offered much, but you actually like the person, 975 00:48:05,533 --> 00:48:08,333 Speaker 2: you want another date. I think it would be suicide 976 00:48:08,493 --> 00:48:10,453 Speaker 2: not to pay for it at that point. I think, 977 00:48:10,853 --> 00:48:13,413 Speaker 2: I think that's that if you really like the person, 978 00:48:13,853 --> 00:48:16,573 Speaker 2: then as a man, that is a really good way 979 00:48:17,133 --> 00:48:20,573 Speaker 2: to you know, I guess get some texts in your 980 00:48:20,573 --> 00:48:23,813 Speaker 2: in your box going forward. You know, it's a way 981 00:48:23,853 --> 00:48:28,293 Speaker 2: to say, look, I'm serious about you. But also also 982 00:48:28,373 --> 00:48:30,453 Speaker 2: if you really on the flip side, if you really 983 00:48:30,533 --> 00:48:33,493 Speaker 2: like someone on a date and then and then you 984 00:48:33,493 --> 00:48:36,893 Speaker 2: went at the end, will go halves, I think that's risky. 985 00:48:38,373 --> 00:48:41,453 Speaker 21: Yeah, you're absolutely correct. As a man. If I was 986 00:48:41,493 --> 00:48:46,133 Speaker 21: a man and I really like women, and you know 987 00:48:46,253 --> 00:48:48,893 Speaker 21: I wanted to impress her, I would definitely pay for it. 988 00:48:49,173 --> 00:48:51,933 Speaker 21: And then like as a woman receiving that, it's kind 989 00:48:51,933 --> 00:48:54,853 Speaker 21: of like this kind of oh, he's paid for me, 990 00:48:55,333 --> 00:48:59,293 Speaker 21: he really likes me. But then like sometimes as a woman, 991 00:48:59,733 --> 00:49:02,813 Speaker 21: I think as a younger woman dating you kind of think, oh, 992 00:49:02,853 --> 00:49:04,773 Speaker 21: he's paid for it, So there might be this like 993 00:49:04,893 --> 00:49:09,093 Speaker 21: weird expectation day, key the second day, or where he's 994 00:49:09,213 --> 00:49:14,692 Speaker 21: like guaranteed some sort of intimacy. But I quite like, yeah, 995 00:49:14,773 --> 00:49:17,652 Speaker 21: I quite like the author's ratio the one to three things. 996 00:49:17,733 --> 00:49:19,493 Speaker 21: And this is something I do quite often in my 997 00:49:19,573 --> 00:49:22,213 Speaker 21: dating life. Like let's say we go out to dinner 998 00:49:22,253 --> 00:49:25,053 Speaker 21: and the man pays for it, and then we're enjoying 999 00:49:25,093 --> 00:49:27,573 Speaker 21: ourselves and we think, oh, let's go somewhere else for 1000 00:49:27,613 --> 00:49:30,133 Speaker 21: a drink, and then I'll be like, okay, drinks for 1001 00:49:30,253 --> 00:49:32,653 Speaker 21: on me, or let's go somewhere else for a dessert 1002 00:49:32,733 --> 00:49:36,053 Speaker 21: and to dirt on me. And I think like women, 1003 00:49:36,413 --> 00:49:40,413 Speaker 21: women can actually offer a lot outside of the dinner 1004 00:49:40,533 --> 00:49:46,693 Speaker 21: dating scene and other kind of dating things. Like let's 1005 00:49:46,693 --> 00:49:49,893 Speaker 21: say the man pays dinner and you want a second date, 1006 00:49:49,933 --> 00:49:52,133 Speaker 21: So the woman could invite the men over for dinner 1007 00:49:52,133 --> 00:49:53,813 Speaker 21: and be like, I'm going to put to you dinner 1008 00:49:53,933 --> 00:49:56,613 Speaker 21: or movies together. 1009 00:49:58,213 --> 00:50:01,252 Speaker 2: Yourself at that point and inviting them around for dinner, 1010 00:50:01,293 --> 00:50:04,373 Speaker 2: that's that's an escalation. Well, that's definitely from from the 1011 00:50:04,373 --> 00:50:06,693 Speaker 2: woman's perspective. If you invite the men around for dinner, 1012 00:50:07,093 --> 00:50:09,733 Speaker 2: then you're really saying you like them, right. 1013 00:50:10,733 --> 00:50:14,373 Speaker 21: Yeah, absolutely, absolutely, so, Yeah, I think you guys are 1014 00:50:14,453 --> 00:50:17,773 Speaker 21: right if if the man really likes a girl and 1015 00:50:17,853 --> 00:50:21,093 Speaker 21: he wants a chance in there, then he's going to pay. 1016 00:50:21,253 --> 00:50:25,373 Speaker 21: But you know, if it's a fruf date, yeah, I 1017 00:50:25,413 --> 00:50:26,973 Speaker 21: don't think it's fair. But I have been on a 1018 00:50:27,053 --> 00:50:31,813 Speaker 21: second date for dinner and he was like, oh, yeah, 1019 00:50:31,853 --> 00:50:33,453 Speaker 21: let's go out for dinner. On the second date, I 1020 00:50:33,493 --> 00:50:35,173 Speaker 21: was like, great. We had a second dinner. 1021 00:50:35,373 --> 00:50:36,013 Speaker 22: It was quite a. 1022 00:50:36,013 --> 00:50:39,093 Speaker 21: Noisy restaurant and it was really hard to communicate, and 1023 00:50:39,213 --> 00:50:40,933 Speaker 21: we got to the tell and he goes, should we 1024 00:50:40,933 --> 00:50:44,333 Speaker 21: go half? And I was like, okay, So from that 1025 00:50:44,413 --> 00:50:46,573 Speaker 21: point onwards, he's going to the friends group. 1026 00:50:49,013 --> 00:50:51,973 Speaker 3: That's exactly what I'm saying. It's exactly what I'm saying. 1027 00:50:54,533 --> 00:50:56,693 Speaker 21: He's I think he's also happy to be in the 1028 00:50:56,693 --> 00:50:59,133 Speaker 21: spring group as well. So perhaps it was something I 1029 00:50:59,133 --> 00:51:01,453 Speaker 21: did on that dinner date that he was like, Oh, 1030 00:51:01,533 --> 00:51:05,493 Speaker 21: I don't like Nadi anymore, but let's just go half. 1031 00:51:05,853 --> 00:51:09,093 Speaker 2: Well, thank you so much for call Nadia, and good 1032 00:51:09,173 --> 00:51:11,813 Speaker 2: luck with that you've been to You've been on the 1033 00:51:11,893 --> 00:51:14,293 Speaker 2: dating Circle since October, so that's as long as me 1034 00:51:14,333 --> 00:51:15,813 Speaker 2: and Tyler have been together on the show. 1035 00:51:15,973 --> 00:51:21,253 Speaker 3: Yeah, so lifetime and I still pay Nadia, I think 1036 00:51:21,373 --> 00:51:21,772 Speaker 3: so much. 1037 00:51:21,773 --> 00:51:22,373 Speaker 2: Thanks for your call. 1038 00:51:22,613 --> 00:51:25,053 Speaker 3: She was great. I mean when she was talking about 1039 00:51:25,133 --> 00:51:27,812 Speaker 3: the torpedio, a torpedo and the date. From a man's 1040 00:51:27,853 --> 00:51:29,213 Speaker 3: point of view, I can get that that. If you 1041 00:51:29,693 --> 00:51:31,333 Speaker 3: take a date to I don't know, what's a nice 1042 00:51:31,373 --> 00:51:33,853 Speaker 3: restaurant in Auckland on slow and you pay a lot 1043 00:51:33,853 --> 00:51:36,293 Speaker 3: of money and you've got a dud date, at that 1044 00:51:36,413 --> 00:51:39,252 Speaker 3: point you would say, hey, this is go halves because 1045 00:51:39,253 --> 00:51:40,293 Speaker 3: this ain't going to happen again. 1046 00:51:40,493 --> 00:51:42,893 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, I'd probably still pay, But that's not 1047 00:51:42,933 --> 00:51:45,013 Speaker 2: really the point I'm making. The point I'm making is 1048 00:51:45,013 --> 00:51:46,933 Speaker 2: if you want to make a good impression as a 1049 00:51:46,973 --> 00:51:49,213 Speaker 2: man on a date, you better pay for the dinner. 1050 00:51:50,053 --> 00:51:53,973 Speaker 2: Otherwise you were rolling the dice of life. Newton says, 1051 00:51:54,173 --> 00:51:56,133 Speaker 2: you can't win as a man, or you can, or 1052 00:51:56,173 --> 00:51:58,053 Speaker 2: you're can increase your chances. 1053 00:51:57,693 --> 00:52:02,733 Speaker 3: By ten eighties. The number to call it is twenty 1054 00:52:02,773 --> 00:52:03,653 Speaker 3: one past two. 1055 00:52:07,773 --> 00:52:12,493 Speaker 1: Mad heat Tyler Adams afternoons call oh eight on news 1056 00:52:12,573 --> 00:52:13,413 Speaker 1: talk ZB. 1057 00:52:13,573 --> 00:52:16,133 Speaker 3: Good Afternoon, having a great discussion about should the man 1058 00:52:16,173 --> 00:52:20,573 Speaker 3: always pay when it comes to dating, particularly later in life. 1059 00:52:21,293 --> 00:52:22,533 Speaker 3: There's some great texts coming. 1060 00:52:22,333 --> 00:52:25,093 Speaker 2: Through the sextasys man should always pay? With all the 1061 00:52:25,133 --> 00:52:27,253 Speaker 2: weird changes going on, in the last twenty years, it's 1062 00:52:27,253 --> 00:52:30,253 Speaker 2: still nice to keep some traditional values alive. 1063 00:52:30,893 --> 00:52:34,613 Speaker 3: Yes, and a lot of love Fernadia, our first caller. 1064 00:52:34,773 --> 00:52:37,973 Speaker 3: Love her perspective and attitude. Guys wants her number. I'd 1065 00:52:38,013 --> 00:52:41,053 Speaker 3: love to go on a date with Nadia. Where there 1066 00:52:41,053 --> 00:52:41,253 Speaker 3: you go. 1067 00:52:41,453 --> 00:52:43,373 Speaker 2: I have two daughters that I've raised to never trust 1068 00:52:43,413 --> 00:52:45,253 Speaker 2: a man in a white suit and never trust a 1069 00:52:45,293 --> 00:52:48,293 Speaker 2: man that doesn't pay for dinner. What about another thing 1070 00:52:48,413 --> 00:52:51,373 Speaker 2: is never trust a man in the suit. And the weekend? 1071 00:52:51,653 --> 00:52:53,533 Speaker 3: Oh really? Yeah? 1072 00:52:53,693 --> 00:52:56,212 Speaker 2: What indicating people wearing suits on the weekend of people 1073 00:52:56,253 --> 00:52:56,973 Speaker 2: trying to sell your stuff? 1074 00:52:57,013 --> 00:52:58,772 Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree with the white suit. I mean that's 1075 00:52:58,773 --> 00:53:00,453 Speaker 3: a it's a bold choice to go a white suit. 1076 00:53:00,573 --> 00:53:02,293 Speaker 3: That's very Miami vice. 1077 00:53:02,533 --> 00:53:03,733 Speaker 2: I often wear a white suit. 1078 00:53:03,813 --> 00:53:07,813 Speaker 3: Yeah, but yeah, that's true. Actually proves it proves the point. 1079 00:53:11,733 --> 00:53:14,693 Speaker 23: Yeah, guys, Look, if you're a man, you've asked a 1080 00:53:14,733 --> 00:53:21,533 Speaker 23: woman out on a date, you're paying, right, No, if 1081 00:53:21,533 --> 00:53:24,253 Speaker 23: you have asked her out your pain. If she's asked 1082 00:53:24,293 --> 00:53:29,573 Speaker 23: you out, yeah, you and she implies that she's paying, 1083 00:53:29,653 --> 00:53:32,613 Speaker 23: you always pay for yourself. Even if she implies that 1084 00:53:32,693 --> 00:53:33,893 Speaker 23: you still pay for yourself. 1085 00:53:34,933 --> 00:53:38,493 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you'll up your chances of impressing her though, 1086 00:53:38,533 --> 00:53:41,172 Speaker 2: being even if she's invited you out the date, if 1087 00:53:41,213 --> 00:53:43,292 Speaker 2: you and you know, even if it's been talked about, 1088 00:53:43,413 --> 00:53:45,813 Speaker 2: you know, going halves or whatever, if you just sneak 1089 00:53:45,853 --> 00:53:47,573 Speaker 2: off at one point and go and pay the bill, 1090 00:53:48,013 --> 00:53:50,333 Speaker 2: then I think, I think that's a that's a classy 1091 00:53:50,413 --> 00:53:53,093 Speaker 2: move that will definitely help your chances. 1092 00:53:53,813 --> 00:53:56,373 Speaker 23: Well, I've been happily married for the last three years, 1093 00:53:56,493 --> 00:53:59,533 Speaker 23: been with my wife, you know, for five years, a 1094 00:53:59,533 --> 00:54:02,413 Speaker 23: couple of years before we got married. We now we 1095 00:54:02,493 --> 00:54:05,213 Speaker 23: go out to dinner most fridays. We earn about the 1096 00:54:05,213 --> 00:54:08,173 Speaker 23: same amount of money, and we keep our money separate, 1097 00:54:09,213 --> 00:54:13,253 Speaker 23: so separate from our relationship, how the bills and everything. 1098 00:54:13,493 --> 00:54:15,413 Speaker 23: And when we go up for dinner, I pay for 1099 00:54:15,493 --> 00:54:17,253 Speaker 23: myself and she pays for herself. 1100 00:54:17,733 --> 00:54:20,893 Speaker 2: Okay, that's that's that's interesting. Did you notice the moment 1101 00:54:20,893 --> 00:54:23,093 Speaker 2: it swapped over, like did you pay on the first day? 1102 00:54:23,133 --> 00:54:24,613 Speaker 2: And then it slowly creaked her half? 1103 00:54:25,733 --> 00:54:28,212 Speaker 23: I think I paid for the first three and then 1104 00:54:28,373 --> 00:54:31,212 Speaker 23: after that, you know, we just split it. I don't 1105 00:54:31,253 --> 00:54:34,213 Speaker 23: think she's ever paid for me. Yeah, but that's cool. 1106 00:54:34,813 --> 00:54:37,613 Speaker 23: I'm happy with that. But it's also a good thing 1107 00:54:37,653 --> 00:54:39,293 Speaker 23: because when we do go in out out and eat. 1108 00:54:39,493 --> 00:54:41,093 Speaker 23: I can be a bit stingy and I'll get the 1109 00:54:41,173 --> 00:54:43,253 Speaker 23: cheapest thing off the me and you, and she's always 1110 00:54:43,613 --> 00:54:46,133 Speaker 23: she's always the eye fillip. So you know that's about 1111 00:54:46,133 --> 00:54:46,893 Speaker 23: fifty bucks. 1112 00:54:47,093 --> 00:54:48,773 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, good strategy. 1113 00:54:49,093 --> 00:54:51,973 Speaker 2: So Ben, like, so you've been married for three years? 1114 00:54:51,973 --> 00:54:53,613 Speaker 2: Did you say, yeah? 1115 00:54:53,853 --> 00:54:54,013 Speaker 8: Yeah? 1116 00:54:54,053 --> 00:54:56,133 Speaker 2: Are you gonna this? This could be an interesting thing 1117 00:54:56,253 --> 00:54:59,613 Speaker 2: going forward. Normally, at some point in a marriage, the 1118 00:54:59,733 --> 00:55:03,573 Speaker 2: accounts get linked and you have a shared sort of 1119 00:55:03,613 --> 00:55:07,613 Speaker 2: financial situation. If you're playing with if you're paying with 1120 00:55:07,733 --> 00:55:11,733 Speaker 2: one car, then I guess that you know, then she 1121 00:55:11,813 --> 00:55:14,333 Speaker 2: could go up and pay. But yeah, I mean, would 1122 00:55:14,293 --> 00:55:16,453 Speaker 2: you would you link the Are you ever looking to 1123 00:55:16,533 --> 00:55:18,573 Speaker 2: link your finances? I guess what I'm saying. 1124 00:55:19,533 --> 00:55:22,693 Speaker 23: Our bills are mortgage, everything I'm linked. But we have 1125 00:55:22,813 --> 00:55:26,293 Speaker 23: our wages going into separate bank accounts, and we transfer 1126 00:55:26,333 --> 00:55:28,893 Speaker 23: over what we need to cover the bills, and then 1127 00:55:28,933 --> 00:55:31,333 Speaker 23: whatever we've got left in our bank our own bank 1128 00:55:31,333 --> 00:55:34,053 Speaker 23: accounts is ours to do what we want. Ye the 1129 00:55:34,093 --> 00:55:37,173 Speaker 23: same pretty well with our arguments and everything. 1130 00:55:37,453 --> 00:55:39,213 Speaker 3: Yeap, No, No, I'm with you, Ben, Me and my 1131 00:55:39,293 --> 00:55:41,373 Speaker 3: partner do the same. We've been together for some time. 1132 00:55:42,893 --> 00:55:46,173 Speaker 3: Just it just works well. When I say it works 1133 00:55:46,213 --> 00:55:49,533 Speaker 3: all right there. You know, there are some instances where 1134 00:55:50,573 --> 00:55:54,293 Speaker 3: my partner would say, hey, we need to be combining 1135 00:55:54,373 --> 00:55:58,133 Speaker 3: all of our money together because effectively, your spending money 1136 00:55:58,173 --> 00:55:59,973 Speaker 3: is a lot more than my spending money, which is fair. 1137 00:56:01,053 --> 00:56:03,053 Speaker 2: Well, because you're more than her, Well. 1138 00:56:02,973 --> 00:56:04,573 Speaker 3: There's more that goes into my bank account. 1139 00:56:04,773 --> 00:56:08,333 Speaker 2: Well, that's that's what earning more than her is. I think, Tyler, 1140 00:56:08,333 --> 00:56:09,853 Speaker 2: you're cheating on your partner and you don't want to 1141 00:56:09,893 --> 00:56:11,293 Speaker 2: see where you're spending the money. 1142 00:56:11,973 --> 00:56:13,853 Speaker 3: It's an open book. Do you want to see by accounts? 1143 00:56:15,413 --> 00:56:18,533 Speaker 2: Thank you so much for your call, Ben, and congratulations 1144 00:56:18,533 --> 00:56:20,773 Speaker 2: on your happy three year marriage. And I hope it continues. 1145 00:56:22,533 --> 00:56:24,493 Speaker 2: Cheers been sure, Well that was weird say that that 1146 00:56:24,573 --> 00:56:26,453 Speaker 2: came off weird. I hope it continues, like there was 1147 00:56:26,453 --> 00:56:27,573 Speaker 2: some suggesting it might not. 1148 00:56:27,853 --> 00:56:29,773 Speaker 3: Think it will all the best, Ben, Yeah, we've got 1149 00:56:29,813 --> 00:56:30,493 Speaker 3: our fingers crossed. 1150 00:56:32,213 --> 00:56:36,252 Speaker 2: She sounds like a classy woman that always orders the steak. 1151 00:56:36,413 --> 00:56:36,613 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1152 00:56:36,813 --> 00:56:39,212 Speaker 3: Absolutely. I'll say the difference between me and Ben though, 1153 00:56:39,253 --> 00:56:43,093 Speaker 3: with the accounts that are not together, that I always 1154 00:56:43,093 --> 00:56:44,853 Speaker 3: pay for dinner, always pay for dinner. 1155 00:56:45,333 --> 00:56:48,493 Speaker 2: Wow, Yeah, this nexus his first date should always be 1156 00:56:48,533 --> 00:56:51,172 Speaker 2: fifty to fifty split wat shout dinner to a dud, 1157 00:56:51,693 --> 00:56:52,413 Speaker 2: terrible idea. 1158 00:56:53,253 --> 00:56:54,893 Speaker 3: Yeah, what if it's not a dud? 1159 00:56:55,853 --> 00:56:57,853 Speaker 2: Yeah, you'd hope that one of your dates that you 1160 00:56:57,973 --> 00:56:59,733 Speaker 2: go on turns out not to be a dud? Or 1161 00:56:59,853 --> 00:57:02,453 Speaker 2: is you going to spend your life lonely? 1162 00:57:02,733 --> 00:57:05,213 Speaker 3: Yeah? Oh a hundred. I just like the way that 1163 00:57:05,253 --> 00:57:07,733 Speaker 3: they said terrible return on investments. I mean it is. 1164 00:57:08,333 --> 00:57:10,013 Speaker 3: It's like spending a bit of money on the stock market. 1165 00:57:10,053 --> 00:57:12,533 Speaker 3: You know, some things work out, sometimes they don't. 1166 00:57:13,373 --> 00:57:14,893 Speaker 2: I didn't read that but out because I couldn't work 1167 00:57:14,893 --> 00:57:17,613 Speaker 2: out what ROI means. But now I feel stupid. 1168 00:57:17,693 --> 00:57:20,613 Speaker 3: Yeah, very good. I keep those things coming through on 1169 00:57:20,693 --> 00:57:22,773 Speaker 3: nine two nine two, and love to hear from you. 1170 00:57:22,773 --> 00:57:24,773 Speaker 3: I eight one hundred and eighty ten eighty. If you're 1171 00:57:24,813 --> 00:57:27,773 Speaker 3: currently dating, what is the situation now? Is it a 1172 00:57:27,813 --> 00:57:29,413 Speaker 3: little bit harder than it used to be that it's 1173 00:57:29,453 --> 00:57:32,253 Speaker 3: not just the man that always pays for the dinner? 1174 00:57:32,453 --> 00:57:34,293 Speaker 3: Have you ever got into a bit of an argument 1175 00:57:34,333 --> 00:57:35,573 Speaker 3: with your date about who pays? 1176 00:57:36,293 --> 00:57:38,293 Speaker 2: Even really a man if you don't pay for the dinner? 1177 00:57:38,413 --> 00:57:40,413 Speaker 3: Yeah, you can't answer that one too. I wait one 1178 00:57:40,493 --> 00:57:41,973 Speaker 3: hundred and eighty two, and I know. 1179 00:57:41,853 --> 00:57:44,813 Speaker 2: We've got full lines, but keep trying because we'll try 1180 00:57:44,853 --> 00:57:46,653 Speaker 2: and get to everyone. And the text number is a 1181 00:57:46,773 --> 00:57:49,613 Speaker 2: nine two nine two. But also the secondary questioning I'm 1182 00:57:49,653 --> 00:57:52,613 Speaker 2: the throwing the max even though everything's so busy, as 1183 00:57:53,253 --> 00:57:56,413 Speaker 2: should you combine your bank accounts? 1184 00:57:56,493 --> 00:57:56,693 Speaker 6: Yeah? 1185 00:57:56,813 --> 00:57:57,413 Speaker 3: Great question? 1186 00:57:57,573 --> 00:57:59,973 Speaker 2: And when you're when you're in a relationship, and why 1187 00:58:00,013 --> 00:58:01,773 Speaker 2: doesn't Tyler want to what is he trying to hire 1188 00:58:01,813 --> 00:58:02,453 Speaker 2: from his partner? 1189 00:58:02,693 --> 00:58:04,653 Speaker 3: Headlines Raylen coming up? 1190 00:58:07,173 --> 00:58:11,413 Speaker 16: You talk sides with blue bubble taxis it's no trouble 1191 00:58:11,493 --> 00:58:14,973 Speaker 16: with a blue bubble. 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Back to Matt Ethan Tyler Adams. 1209 00:59:21,493 --> 00:59:23,173 Speaker 3: Thank you very much, ray Lean, and we've asked the 1210 00:59:23,253 --> 00:59:26,493 Speaker 3: question should a man always pay when it comes to dating. 1211 00:59:26,613 --> 00:59:28,333 Speaker 3: Matt says absolutely yes. 1212 00:59:28,653 --> 00:59:30,933 Speaker 2: Well yeah, no, I say that that if you pay, 1213 00:59:31,213 --> 00:59:35,453 Speaker 2: then it and it's a it's risky if you like 1214 00:59:35,533 --> 00:59:39,573 Speaker 2: the person not to pay, because they could you know, 1215 00:59:40,053 --> 00:59:42,253 Speaker 2: they could think that you're not a great guy. Or 1216 00:59:42,533 --> 00:59:44,853 Speaker 2: it's just it's just it's a norm that you're breaking. 1217 00:59:44,893 --> 00:59:46,453 Speaker 2: I think if you like someone and you want to 1218 00:59:46,453 --> 00:59:48,933 Speaker 2: show that you want to move things forward, the best 1219 00:59:48,973 --> 00:59:51,173 Speaker 2: way as a dude is to pay for the date. 1220 00:59:51,533 --> 00:59:53,733 Speaker 2: But I also believe that men should pay all the time. Yeah, 1221 00:59:53,853 --> 00:59:56,613 Speaker 2: but also just specific in that situation. But I actually 1222 00:59:56,893 --> 00:59:58,453 Speaker 2: have a lot of sympathy for this text here on 1223 00:59:58,533 --> 01:00:00,653 Speaker 2: nine two known two. I'm female, and I always prefer 1224 01:00:00,773 --> 01:00:03,773 Speaker 2: fifty to fifty, less pressure, no expectations. See that's a 1225 01:00:03,773 --> 01:00:06,533 Speaker 2: good point because also as a man paying, you can't 1226 01:00:06,573 --> 01:00:10,613 Speaker 2: think that the paying for that dinner means that you're 1227 01:00:10,693 --> 01:00:11,693 Speaker 2: owed anything for it. 1228 01:00:11,893 --> 01:00:13,013 Speaker 3: No, that's not chivalry. 1229 01:00:13,133 --> 01:00:15,213 Speaker 2: No paying for something and thinking you're going to get 1230 01:00:15,253 --> 01:00:18,533 Speaker 2: something back, that's not It's just it's just a gesture 1231 01:00:19,013 --> 01:00:21,853 Speaker 2: of goodwill and a show that you that you think 1232 01:00:21,893 --> 01:00:25,013 Speaker 2: that this person is worth paying for. Yeah, certainly can't 1233 01:00:25,053 --> 01:00:27,853 Speaker 2: ask for anything in return. No, it's a negotiation technique 1234 01:00:27,893 --> 01:00:31,613 Speaker 2: going forward. It's just saying I, you know I've got 1235 01:00:31,613 --> 01:00:35,053 Speaker 2: the money to pay this dinner, and and you know 1236 01:00:35,693 --> 01:00:37,253 Speaker 2: I'm the kind of person that might be able to 1237 01:00:37,253 --> 01:00:37,693 Speaker 2: provide for you. 1238 01:00:37,893 --> 01:00:39,733 Speaker 3: I agree. But if I had any pushback, because I'd 1239 01:00:39,733 --> 01:00:41,613 Speaker 3: always say this is my treat, love this date, I'm 1240 01:00:41,613 --> 01:00:43,373 Speaker 3: going to pay for this, and we should do it 1241 01:00:43,413 --> 01:00:46,933 Speaker 3: again sometime hopefully. But if they pushed back and said no, no, 1242 01:00:47,053 --> 01:00:49,373 Speaker 3: we're going fifty to fifty, I think I'd fold pretty 1243 01:00:49,413 --> 01:00:51,733 Speaker 3: quick and say, okay, we'll go fifty to fifty. 1244 01:00:52,733 --> 01:00:58,973 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not surprised Jennifer, your thoughts on this, I. 1245 01:00:59,053 --> 01:01:01,853 Speaker 17: Must share you. When I first start in, I thought 1246 01:01:01,893 --> 01:01:05,253 Speaker 17: you were being facetious. No, I cannot just shif we 1247 01:01:05,333 --> 01:01:09,373 Speaker 17: are having this conversation in twenty twenty five, So you 1248 01:01:09,533 --> 01:01:14,413 Speaker 17: honestly believe that you're going to be the provider by 1249 01:01:14,533 --> 01:01:15,613 Speaker 17: paying for a dinner. 1250 01:01:16,133 --> 01:01:18,093 Speaker 13: I actually can't believe what I'm listening to. 1251 01:01:19,493 --> 01:01:23,053 Speaker 17: We are two people enjoying a meal together. 1252 01:01:24,493 --> 01:01:25,093 Speaker 23: It should be. 1253 01:01:25,093 --> 01:01:27,813 Speaker 17: Based on nothing more than that who has the means 1254 01:01:27,853 --> 01:01:31,493 Speaker 17: to pay, who invited? Who genders should just not even 1255 01:01:31,693 --> 01:01:34,613 Speaker 17: enter the equation. And the fact that it does I 1256 01:01:34,773 --> 01:01:39,173 Speaker 17: actually find quite depressing. I can't believe we're having this discussion. 1257 01:01:39,293 --> 01:01:40,933 Speaker 2: So, Jennifer, if you went on a first date with 1258 01:01:40,973 --> 01:01:44,653 Speaker 2: someone and then and they sat down, and then he goes, 1259 01:01:46,333 --> 01:01:47,413 Speaker 2: can you can you get this? 1260 01:01:47,933 --> 01:01:49,733 Speaker 3: Can you could you? Could you? Could you get this? 1261 01:01:49,813 --> 01:01:52,893 Speaker 2: I don't have any I don't actually have I can't pay. 1262 01:01:53,293 --> 01:01:56,773 Speaker 2: How would you feel about that? That's the extreme, in 1263 01:01:56,853 --> 01:01:57,493 Speaker 2: the extreme. 1264 01:01:57,613 --> 01:02:00,933 Speaker 17: My first response would be, I'm really sorry to hear 1265 01:02:01,453 --> 01:02:04,453 Speaker 17: that you're not able to pay. Perhaps we should have 1266 01:02:04,453 --> 01:02:08,293 Speaker 17: had a discussion around which would have been an appropriate. 1267 01:02:07,773 --> 01:02:08,973 Speaker 3: Restaurant that would hurt that? 1268 01:02:09,053 --> 01:02:12,933 Speaker 17: Do you guys, actually, I feel like you've been I 1269 01:02:12,933 --> 01:02:16,133 Speaker 17: don't know, are you followers of Andrew Taate or something? 1270 01:02:16,173 --> 01:02:17,333 Speaker 17: Because this is ludicrous. 1271 01:02:20,373 --> 01:02:24,613 Speaker 2: That's a huge le Jennifer from saying that if you 1272 01:02:24,653 --> 01:02:27,013 Speaker 2: want to increase your chances of getting a second date 1273 01:02:27,613 --> 01:02:31,253 Speaker 2: when you take someone out, that you you pay for 1274 01:02:31,293 --> 01:02:33,653 Speaker 2: the for the meal's I mean that's. 1275 01:02:33,493 --> 01:02:38,053 Speaker 17: Not I'm very I'm very happy married and are paid 1276 01:02:38,133 --> 01:02:40,973 Speaker 17: for for half of my engagement drink because I've got 1277 01:02:41,093 --> 01:02:46,013 Speaker 17: very expensive taste and I love this engagement ring. And 1278 01:02:46,213 --> 01:02:49,053 Speaker 17: I said, partner, I don't want to put you under pressure, 1279 01:02:49,413 --> 01:02:53,053 Speaker 17: but I don't want to compromise on what I really like. 1280 01:02:53,533 --> 01:02:55,853 Speaker 17: Can we have a discussion around me paying for half 1281 01:02:55,893 --> 01:02:58,093 Speaker 17: this engagement ring? How do you feel about that? 1282 01:02:58,213 --> 01:02:58,293 Speaker 24: So? 1283 01:02:58,573 --> 01:03:01,013 Speaker 2: Did he come did he come at you with the 1284 01:03:01,013 --> 01:03:04,253 Speaker 2: sort of a standard engagement ring and you said, look, 1285 01:03:04,293 --> 01:03:05,573 Speaker 2: I actually want to upgrade this. 1286 01:03:07,093 --> 01:03:09,493 Speaker 17: No, no, no, no, we have a discussion. He said, 1287 01:03:10,213 --> 01:03:12,373 Speaker 17: you know, what are we doing in the relationship? 1288 01:03:12,653 --> 01:03:13,893 Speaker 21: How do we take it forward? 1289 01:03:14,013 --> 01:03:17,773 Speaker 17: Should we consider getting engaged exac Well, that sounds lovely. 1290 01:03:18,013 --> 01:03:22,093 Speaker 17: Why don't we go engagement ring shopping together? Black partners 1291 01:03:22,133 --> 01:03:27,093 Speaker 17: do do the. 1292 01:03:27,133 --> 01:03:29,093 Speaker 2: Offer to pay the whole thing when you said, let's 1293 01:03:29,173 --> 01:03:31,813 Speaker 2: go I want to go halves because I want to 1294 01:03:31,813 --> 01:03:34,533 Speaker 2: spectacular one. Did he go, Look, I'll like, you know, 1295 01:03:34,773 --> 01:03:36,773 Speaker 2: I want to get you the right one, So let's 1296 01:03:36,773 --> 01:03:39,133 Speaker 2: not go halves. I'll pay for all of it. Did 1297 01:03:39,133 --> 01:03:39,613 Speaker 2: he say that? 1298 01:03:40,653 --> 01:03:42,613 Speaker 17: No, No he didn't, And if. 1299 01:03:42,453 --> 01:03:44,213 Speaker 2: He did, if he did, you would have said, oh, 1300 01:03:44,293 --> 01:03:46,813 Speaker 2: let's go half again, get an even better one. 1301 01:03:48,373 --> 01:03:51,693 Speaker 17: I really, but can I give you a you know 1302 01:03:51,733 --> 01:03:55,413 Speaker 17: what the thing is? In my very humble opinion, because 1303 01:03:55,413 --> 01:03:59,093 Speaker 17: I feel so strongly about this, this this concept of 1304 01:03:59,413 --> 01:04:03,293 Speaker 17: buying a better chance, I found it horrific. 1305 01:04:03,693 --> 01:04:04,133 Speaker 3: No, you're not. 1306 01:04:04,253 --> 01:04:06,373 Speaker 2: That's not what that's that's that's a that's a cruel 1307 01:04:06,373 --> 01:04:07,413 Speaker 2: way to put it. 1308 01:04:07,413 --> 01:04:09,213 Speaker 3: It's not really that. 1309 01:04:09,493 --> 01:04:10,333 Speaker 2: Isn't it more. 1310 01:04:11,333 --> 01:04:14,653 Speaker 3: More being nicely, Jennifer? Isn't it more kindness? 1311 01:04:14,693 --> 01:04:15,053 Speaker 18: You know that? 1312 01:04:15,173 --> 01:04:16,653 Speaker 3: And I'll put it this way. Whether you want to 1313 01:04:16,653 --> 01:04:18,733 Speaker 3: call it chivalry or not, that's that's up to you. 1314 01:04:18,853 --> 01:04:21,133 Speaker 3: And I actually think there is, you know, a nice 1315 01:04:21,133 --> 01:04:24,973 Speaker 3: part of chivalry. But for example, Jennifer, if I held 1316 01:04:25,013 --> 01:04:27,533 Speaker 3: the door open for you, or took or took your coat, 1317 01:04:27,773 --> 01:04:30,613 Speaker 3: or pulled out your seat for you, you'd be offended 1318 01:04:30,613 --> 01:04:30,893 Speaker 3: by that. 1319 01:04:33,253 --> 01:04:36,053 Speaker 17: And I wouldn't be offended, but drunk onise, I hope 1320 01:04:36,093 --> 01:04:37,213 Speaker 17: that you wouldn't be offended. 1321 01:04:38,013 --> 01:04:40,693 Speaker 3: No, certainly not no, no, speak to you to pull 1322 01:04:40,733 --> 01:04:41,333 Speaker 3: my seat. 1323 01:04:42,613 --> 01:04:45,133 Speaker 17: Well, so why is it any difference that you're going 1324 01:04:45,213 --> 01:04:50,413 Speaker 17: to increase your chances. Let's not rewrite history now, gentlemen, 1325 01:04:50,493 --> 01:04:55,453 Speaker 17: I'm just recorded revisionists. 1326 01:04:55,493 --> 01:04:58,933 Speaker 3: Yeah, we're just going to shut down demands. 1327 01:04:58,973 --> 01:05:03,573 Speaker 17: Increase your chances because you pay, or the corollary of that, 1328 01:05:04,213 --> 01:05:08,133 Speaker 17: you are not going to decrease your chances if you don't. 1329 01:05:08,333 --> 01:05:11,213 Speaker 17: Okay this, I mean, I am absolutely smacks. 1330 01:05:11,853 --> 01:05:13,253 Speaker 2: So then what do you say, Jennifer, What do you 1331 01:05:13,253 --> 01:05:15,333 Speaker 2: say to Jennifer? What do you say to Nadia who 1332 01:05:15,413 --> 01:05:18,973 Speaker 2: rang before and she said she agreed? And when increasing 1333 01:05:19,013 --> 01:05:21,093 Speaker 2: your chances, don't really think because as I said before, 1334 01:05:21,133 --> 01:05:25,013 Speaker 2: you absolutely can't expect anything at all. But it's a 1335 01:05:25,013 --> 01:05:28,253 Speaker 2: way to show that you think that this date went well. 1336 01:05:28,253 --> 01:05:30,213 Speaker 2: It's a way to demonstrate that you think that this 1337 01:05:30,253 --> 01:05:33,253 Speaker 2: went really really well, and you you want to see 1338 01:05:33,293 --> 01:05:36,533 Speaker 2: them again. So if you're going on a date, if 1339 01:05:36,533 --> 01:05:38,093 Speaker 2: you're going on a date, you do want to increase 1340 01:05:38,093 --> 01:05:39,773 Speaker 2: your chances. If you like someone, of course you want 1341 01:05:39,813 --> 01:05:41,733 Speaker 2: to increase your chances. Of having another date. 1342 01:05:41,573 --> 01:05:45,853 Speaker 17: With on how to increase your chances without taking our 1343 01:05:46,053 --> 01:05:49,213 Speaker 17: credit card, because I'm gonna say that is just so, 1344 01:05:49,253 --> 01:05:52,853 Speaker 17: it's so brutish. It is just so brutish. All right, 1345 01:05:52,973 --> 01:05:57,853 Speaker 17: give you a how about asking questions, listening to the answers. 1346 01:05:59,293 --> 01:06:04,293 Speaker 17: How somebody feels about having a meal sponsored? What is 1347 01:06:04,373 --> 01:06:05,333 Speaker 17: their view on that? 1348 01:06:06,173 --> 01:06:07,973 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's fair enough. 1349 01:06:08,533 --> 01:06:09,013 Speaker 6: We just lost. 1350 01:06:10,293 --> 01:06:15,813 Speaker 2: Then I'm loving to share with Jennifer, and she's she keeps. 1351 01:06:15,853 --> 01:06:19,573 Speaker 3: Yeah, if we're cutting out, Jennifer, you're still there. 1352 01:06:20,613 --> 01:06:25,653 Speaker 17: Yeah, how about I've had a wonderful evening, scintillating conversation. 1353 01:06:26,013 --> 01:06:28,413 Speaker 17: I would love to have another date with you, as 1354 01:06:28,413 --> 01:06:32,813 Speaker 17: opposed to somebody trying to read into or I've played 1355 01:06:32,813 --> 01:06:33,133 Speaker 17: the ball. 1356 01:06:33,253 --> 01:06:34,853 Speaker 7: So I quite like you. 1357 01:06:35,253 --> 01:06:38,533 Speaker 17: Oh my word, grug, let's just bring out the accent 1358 01:06:38,653 --> 01:06:39,693 Speaker 17: and be done with it. 1359 01:06:40,093 --> 01:06:43,493 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm not a great conversationalist, Jennifer, and I. 1360 01:06:43,413 --> 01:06:46,933 Speaker 17: Don't really to be dating anyway, So I suppose it's 1361 01:06:46,933 --> 01:06:47,213 Speaker 17: a mood. 1362 01:06:47,653 --> 01:06:49,453 Speaker 3: He hates listening as well, So you know, that's a 1363 01:06:49,453 --> 01:06:50,533 Speaker 3: lot of that's a lot of work from that. 1364 01:06:50,693 --> 01:06:53,053 Speaker 2: No, No, I do see I do see your point, Jennifer. 1365 01:06:53,053 --> 01:06:55,413 Speaker 2: That is, I do see your point Jennifer that it 1366 01:06:55,533 --> 01:07:00,533 Speaker 2: is a you know, it does sound kind of I guess, 1367 01:07:01,413 --> 01:07:04,933 Speaker 2: uh dodgy to say that you pay for the dinner 1368 01:07:04,973 --> 01:07:08,533 Speaker 2: to increase your chances. Uh, and and so like, Oh, 1369 01:07:08,693 --> 01:07:10,253 Speaker 2: I do want to walk that back a little bit 1370 01:07:10,293 --> 01:07:13,493 Speaker 2: and just hide behind you doing it because you want 1371 01:07:13,533 --> 01:07:15,813 Speaker 2: to just demonstrate how much you like them and how 1372 01:07:15,893 --> 01:07:18,373 Speaker 2: much you want another day, which is probably just a 1373 01:07:18,373 --> 01:07:19,893 Speaker 2: wayser words to say the same thing. 1374 01:07:19,973 --> 01:07:25,453 Speaker 17: But I'll tell you, I would really hope that if 1375 01:07:25,533 --> 01:07:29,613 Speaker 17: anybody listening to this conversation takes anything out of it, 1376 01:07:29,613 --> 01:07:34,133 Speaker 17: it's to actually converse, as opposed to showing. Oh I've 1377 01:07:34,133 --> 01:07:37,013 Speaker 17: had people show me their car keys in an attempt 1378 01:07:37,053 --> 01:07:44,373 Speaker 17: to a bit of one upmanship. Let's I've had people 1379 01:07:44,453 --> 01:07:50,173 Speaker 17: show me the color of their credit card. I've had 1380 01:07:50,253 --> 01:07:53,373 Speaker 17: people in a boardroom assume that I was there to 1381 01:07:53,493 --> 01:07:57,173 Speaker 17: pull the te when I was, in fact the chairperson. 1382 01:07:58,333 --> 01:08:01,413 Speaker 17: I've been there and done that. I must tell you, 1383 01:08:01,493 --> 01:08:03,613 Speaker 17: the best thing you can do is have an open, 1384 01:08:03,733 --> 01:08:08,213 Speaker 17: honest conversation where people respect people. What if it's to 1385 01:08:08,413 --> 01:08:10,493 Speaker 17: women having a date or two men having a. 1386 01:08:10,493 --> 01:08:14,293 Speaker 16: Date, Yep, yeah, would have a conversation. 1387 01:08:15,333 --> 01:08:19,452 Speaker 17: How do you feel is this type of restaurant. Are 1388 01:08:19,452 --> 01:08:20,692 Speaker 17: you comfortable with it? 1389 01:08:20,733 --> 01:08:20,973 Speaker 5: Is it? 1390 01:08:21,093 --> 01:08:24,012 Speaker 17: Is it in your range? I don't know much about you, 1391 01:08:24,053 --> 01:08:27,253 Speaker 17: so forgive me, but i'm a McDonald's person, or I'm 1392 01:08:27,372 --> 01:08:32,772 Speaker 17: a dog a station person or whatever. You have those conversations, Well. 1393 01:08:32,612 --> 01:08:34,652 Speaker 2: Thank you so much, Jennifer. I think you make some 1394 01:08:34,692 --> 01:08:35,333 Speaker 2: good points there. 1395 01:08:35,412 --> 01:08:36,852 Speaker 3: Yeah, I wouldjoin that conversation. 1396 01:08:36,933 --> 01:08:39,692 Speaker 2: I just will say that if you're with Jennifer and 1397 01:08:39,853 --> 01:08:42,932 Speaker 2: you go halves on the thing, then it all works out. 1398 01:08:43,013 --> 01:08:44,412 Speaker 3: Yeah, you might get a second date. 1399 01:08:44,253 --> 01:08:46,492 Speaker 2: But not everyone's Jennifer. Well, I'm just saying. I still 1400 01:08:46,492 --> 01:08:47,372 Speaker 2: say it's risky. 1401 01:08:47,412 --> 01:08:48,892 Speaker 3: And of course if you go to a date, Yeah, 1402 01:08:48,893 --> 01:08:50,692 Speaker 3: talking is a good idea. Don't just turn up and 1403 01:08:50,732 --> 01:08:52,213 Speaker 3: chuck money on their face and say I've got this. 1404 01:08:52,293 --> 01:08:54,333 Speaker 3: Yeah you want to you want to actually talk and 1405 01:08:54,372 --> 01:08:55,133 Speaker 3: have conversations. 1406 01:08:55,133 --> 01:08:56,892 Speaker 2: Turn up, you put your car keys so they can 1407 01:08:56,893 --> 01:08:58,972 Speaker 2: see what kind of car are you driving, and then 1408 01:08:59,013 --> 01:09:00,972 Speaker 2: you say, get it whatever you want unloaded, I'll pay 1409 01:09:00,973 --> 01:09:02,772 Speaker 2: for it, and then it's. 1410 01:09:04,133 --> 01:09:07,652 Speaker 3: All right anyway, all right, Oh, one hundred eighty ten eighty. 1411 01:09:07,732 --> 01:09:11,412 Speaker 3: Jennifer kicked off the text machine, which is great. Nine. 1412 01:09:11,452 --> 01:09:13,293 Speaker 3: So if you want to send a text message, it 1413 01:09:13,372 --> 01:09:14,333 Speaker 3: is eighteen. 1414 01:09:14,013 --> 01:09:18,932 Speaker 1: To three, Mattie Tyler Adams with you as your afternoon 1415 01:09:19,013 --> 01:09:22,772 Speaker 1: rolls on Matt and Taylor Afternoons with the Volvo XC 1416 01:09:22,893 --> 01:09:26,372 Speaker 1: ninety attention to detail and a commitment to comfort news talk. 1417 01:09:26,452 --> 01:09:30,093 Speaker 3: Sa'd be good afternoon. It is a quarter to three, 1418 01:09:30,093 --> 01:09:34,652 Speaker 3: and having a great discussion about should the man always pay? Jennifer, 1419 01:09:34,692 --> 01:09:38,972 Speaker 3: who called before, has certainly kicked off the text coming through. 1420 01:09:39,013 --> 01:09:41,333 Speaker 2: Hey guys, not all women are like Jennifer. Wind me, 1421 01:09:41,612 --> 01:09:46,133 Speaker 2: dine me, and pay for me please. That's from a lady. See, 1422 01:09:46,173 --> 01:09:48,293 Speaker 2: that's well, that's all I'm saying. I'm saying that. Sure, 1423 01:09:48,492 --> 01:09:51,973 Speaker 2: maybe you've got a Jennifer that thinks that my scintillating 1424 01:09:51,973 --> 01:09:52,932 Speaker 2: conversation is enough. 1425 01:09:54,173 --> 01:09:54,972 Speaker 3: She clearly did on. 1426 01:09:54,933 --> 01:09:55,412 Speaker 2: That phone call. 1427 01:09:55,492 --> 01:09:56,932 Speaker 3: Yeah, you turned her around in the end. 1428 01:09:57,133 --> 01:10:00,892 Speaker 2: But you know, I'm gonna I'm gonna buy that meal, 1429 01:10:01,973 --> 01:10:06,293 Speaker 2: and I'm just as a gesture of goodwill and a 1430 01:10:06,293 --> 01:10:09,173 Speaker 2: suggestion that I'm keen on a second day, no other 1431 01:10:10,452 --> 01:10:12,972 Speaker 2: you know, there's no obligation attached to that. Yeah, you know, 1432 01:10:13,133 --> 01:10:15,692 Speaker 2: there's no obligation for the second date. There's no obligation 1433 01:10:15,812 --> 01:10:19,732 Speaker 2: for anything at all. But it is just a way 1434 01:10:19,973 --> 01:10:24,133 Speaker 2: to say, you know, a gesture of I am key. 1435 01:10:24,372 --> 01:10:26,372 Speaker 3: Yeah. Well, this is why it's such a mine field, 1436 01:10:26,372 --> 01:10:28,093 Speaker 3: because you're damned if you do and damned if you don't. 1437 01:10:28,293 --> 01:10:30,452 Speaker 3: Here's one for you though. So you mentioned the very 1438 01:10:30,452 --> 01:10:32,492 Speaker 3: smooth act of saying I've just got to shoot to 1439 01:10:32,532 --> 01:10:35,492 Speaker 3: the loo. Then you go straight up to the to 1440 01:10:35,532 --> 01:10:37,692 Speaker 3: the bar and pay for the meal before she even knows. 1441 01:10:37,732 --> 01:10:39,412 Speaker 3: Then you go back and she says, oh, should we 1442 01:10:39,412 --> 01:10:41,933 Speaker 3: split it? And don't worry. We go, I've paid for it. 1443 01:10:42,093 --> 01:10:43,532 Speaker 2: Here you go, I've just got to take it. 1444 01:10:43,732 --> 01:10:47,773 Speaker 3: Yeah, I've got terrible guards, very romantic. There's no conversations 1445 01:10:48,333 --> 01:10:50,652 Speaker 3: talked about it. I've just got to go. I've really 1446 01:10:50,692 --> 01:10:52,253 Speaker 3: got to go. And then you off and pay the bill. 1447 01:10:52,333 --> 01:10:52,492 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1448 01:10:52,532 --> 01:10:54,372 Speaker 3: But you come back and you say, don't worry, I've 1449 01:10:54,412 --> 01:10:57,612 Speaker 3: sort of it all out. But then she says, how 1450 01:10:57,692 --> 01:11:00,053 Speaker 3: dare you? What's your account number? I want to pay 1451 01:11:00,053 --> 01:11:01,093 Speaker 3: your half? What do you say? 1452 01:11:01,133 --> 01:11:01,293 Speaker 23: Then? 1453 01:11:01,812 --> 01:11:05,173 Speaker 3: I say, no, I don't have a bank account. I 1454 01:11:05,213 --> 01:11:06,253 Speaker 3: paid with it with crypto. 1455 01:11:07,372 --> 01:11:10,333 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd rather die than let you pay half of this. 1456 01:11:10,772 --> 01:11:13,372 Speaker 3: One hundred and eighty ten eighty CE number to call Pete? 1457 01:11:13,452 --> 01:11:16,412 Speaker 3: How are you your thoughts that entirely you treat it. 1458 01:11:16,452 --> 01:11:18,133 Speaker 25: Like a business deal. You know, you look into the 1459 01:11:18,173 --> 01:11:20,732 Speaker 25: business day. What you do is you got up a coffee, 1460 01:11:20,893 --> 01:11:23,932 Speaker 25: you meet the business to think that trays a bit different, 1461 01:11:24,133 --> 01:11:26,452 Speaker 25: but it's like first to watch. If you meet the 1462 01:11:26,532 --> 01:11:29,253 Speaker 25: McDonald's or KF inspect, you expect to pay for that. 1463 01:11:29,612 --> 01:11:31,973 Speaker 25: But if there's all depends on the situation. How you 1464 01:11:32,053 --> 01:11:35,452 Speaker 25: meet your middle lady on Tinder or whatever. I expect 1465 01:11:35,452 --> 01:11:37,692 Speaker 25: if you go to a restaurant it's a nice place 1466 01:11:37,732 --> 01:11:40,492 Speaker 25: and that you know, you try to match up. You're 1467 01:11:40,492 --> 01:11:42,133 Speaker 25: looking for a relationship. Hope it's going to be a 1468 01:11:42,173 --> 01:11:44,892 Speaker 25: long term situation. Is to what you do is I 1469 01:11:44,893 --> 01:11:47,253 Speaker 25: think it's only a gentleman agreement and a ladies gentlemen 1470 01:11:47,333 --> 01:11:50,492 Speaker 25: as to go halves. You know, but you'll soon suss it. 1471 01:11:50,572 --> 01:11:52,412 Speaker 25: He gave by the vis you know it does. So 1472 01:11:52,532 --> 01:11:55,053 Speaker 25: what you do is you susser around and you think, well, 1473 01:11:55,293 --> 01:11:57,253 Speaker 25: you go make the business deal. I think I really 1474 01:11:57,333 --> 01:11:59,812 Speaker 25: like this lady. I might invest a bit more in 1475 01:11:59,853 --> 01:12:03,053 Speaker 25: this in this business. It's like a business. But what 1476 01:12:03,093 --> 01:12:04,732 Speaker 25: you do, maybe you pay, but you think you're not 1477 01:12:04,853 --> 01:12:06,932 Speaker 25: going the right way. I think you can't. You kind 1478 01:12:06,933 --> 01:12:08,932 Speaker 25: of right off there they muck around a few still 1479 01:12:08,933 --> 01:12:11,133 Speaker 25: go and just call it and go your way, and 1480 01:12:11,572 --> 01:12:13,053 Speaker 25: otherwise you're going to be the suck to the next 1481 01:12:13,173 --> 01:12:14,772 Speaker 25: victim of here. It's going to do the next factor 1482 01:12:15,173 --> 01:12:16,253 Speaker 25: going to pay for a free meal? 1483 01:12:16,732 --> 01:12:18,572 Speaker 2: I go, it'll be interesting to treat it fully like 1484 01:12:18,572 --> 01:12:20,772 Speaker 2: a business steal. You go, well, you know what this was? Okay, 1485 01:12:20,853 --> 01:12:22,532 Speaker 2: so I'm going to pay seventy five percent? 1486 01:12:23,652 --> 01:12:26,133 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, my original quote. I'm just going to take 1487 01:12:26,173 --> 01:12:28,213 Speaker 3: that down a little bit more because it wasn't quite 1488 01:12:28,253 --> 01:12:34,812 Speaker 3: what I expected. Pete, what's that? Thank you? Very He 1489 01:12:35,093 --> 01:12:37,493 Speaker 3: treat it like a business steel Yeah, controversial. 1490 01:12:37,612 --> 01:12:39,692 Speaker 2: Yeah, you make investments for the future. 1491 01:12:40,973 --> 01:12:41,932 Speaker 3: George, how are you? 1492 01:12:43,612 --> 01:12:45,972 Speaker 26: I'm not too bad Fellas. Hey, gee, you're opening yourself 1493 01:12:46,053 --> 01:12:49,173 Speaker 26: up there against against Jennifer. I think she had you 1494 01:12:49,173 --> 01:12:50,092 Speaker 26: well and truly covered. 1495 01:12:51,412 --> 01:12:53,252 Speaker 7: She was PI Jennifer. 1496 01:12:53,893 --> 01:12:57,652 Speaker 26: Jennifer for crying out loud discussing your engagement and going 1497 01:12:58,053 --> 01:12:59,452 Speaker 26: engagement shopping together? 1498 01:12:59,492 --> 01:12:59,892 Speaker 5: Where's that? 1499 01:12:59,973 --> 01:13:03,333 Speaker 26: Where's the romance? And that Jennifer, your man proposed to you, 1500 01:13:03,492 --> 01:13:05,213 Speaker 26: even if even if it is with a two dollars 1501 01:13:05,253 --> 01:13:08,253 Speaker 26: shop ring that will soon be exchanged for one new 1502 01:13:08,452 --> 01:13:10,932 Speaker 26: prefer and that you get yourself swept off your feet, 1503 01:13:10,973 --> 01:13:13,972 Speaker 26: and that I think I think she rules the roost 1504 01:13:13,973 --> 01:13:16,133 Speaker 26: on the home front, does Jennifer. 1505 01:13:16,293 --> 01:13:18,732 Speaker 2: Yeah, so if her partner had gone off and look 1506 01:13:18,812 --> 01:13:21,133 Speaker 2: had a great conversation with Jennifers. This is all hypothetical, 1507 01:13:21,133 --> 01:13:22,692 Speaker 2: But if her partner had gone off and just got 1508 01:13:22,692 --> 01:13:25,133 Speaker 2: the engagement ring that he wanted to seeing as she 1509 01:13:25,173 --> 01:13:26,772 Speaker 2: wanted to go half to get twice as good as 1510 01:13:26,812 --> 01:13:29,093 Speaker 2: one would she have turned a nose up at the 1511 01:13:29,093 --> 01:13:31,812 Speaker 2: engagement ring that he brought back. Yeah, that's the question. 1512 01:13:32,213 --> 01:13:35,412 Speaker 2: And then you ask, you ask what is an engagement ring? 1513 01:13:35,492 --> 01:13:35,692 Speaker 3: Is it? 1514 01:13:35,812 --> 01:13:38,492 Speaker 2: Is it a financial outlay or is it just a 1515 01:13:38,532 --> 01:13:41,173 Speaker 2: symbol of love that can be any any amount of money. 1516 01:13:42,452 --> 01:13:44,293 Speaker 26: Yeah, I think you've got to sweep people off your 1517 01:13:44,293 --> 01:13:46,732 Speaker 26: feet with an engagement But be that as it may. 1518 01:13:47,853 --> 01:13:49,933 Speaker 26: Maybe maybe you're off one hundred percent, And if you 1519 01:13:49,933 --> 01:13:53,333 Speaker 26: get a response that would be one like Jennifer's, that 1520 01:13:53,452 --> 01:13:56,012 Speaker 26: it may or may not impact your decision on pursuing 1521 01:13:56,293 --> 01:14:00,293 Speaker 26: a second date. But just on the account structure, I'm 1522 01:14:00,333 --> 01:14:04,092 Speaker 26: like you, man, I'm questionable of Tyler's intensions keeping it Sep. 1523 01:14:05,173 --> 01:14:06,492 Speaker 13: We've got the dream set up. 1524 01:14:06,572 --> 01:14:10,452 Speaker 26: It all goes into one get siphoned off, mortgage gets paid, 1525 01:14:11,053 --> 01:14:13,173 Speaker 26: but you have a fun money account. So Chris Key 1526 01:14:13,652 --> 01:14:16,013 Speaker 26: talks about this on his radio show. There's probably the 1527 01:14:16,013 --> 01:14:18,253 Speaker 26: only thing I believe that comes out of Chris Keys now. 1528 01:14:18,492 --> 01:14:20,932 Speaker 21: But it's fun money, and. 1529 01:14:21,333 --> 01:14:23,932 Speaker 26: It's two hundred each. You can spend it as you will. 1530 01:14:24,013 --> 01:14:26,093 Speaker 26: You know, I can live off two minute noodles from 1531 01:14:26,093 --> 01:14:28,492 Speaker 26: Monday through Friday and blow it in the weekend. Yeah, 1532 01:14:28,532 --> 01:14:30,772 Speaker 26: I can save it up for my wife, can save 1533 01:14:30,772 --> 01:14:33,173 Speaker 26: it up for a parent jeans she likes the next week. 1534 01:14:33,213 --> 01:14:37,052 Speaker 26: But there's no judgment about where that where that fun 1535 01:14:37,093 --> 01:14:40,132 Speaker 26: money goes. It's yours to do with what you please. 1536 01:14:40,532 --> 01:14:41,973 Speaker 26: And you don't have to get the back match at 1537 01:14:41,973 --> 01:14:44,412 Speaker 26: home when you when you come home with a new 1538 01:14:44,452 --> 01:14:46,492 Speaker 26: with a new phone or a new driver. 1539 01:14:47,173 --> 01:14:48,532 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you see. 1540 01:14:48,532 --> 01:14:51,173 Speaker 2: So George agrees with me that your partner maybe should 1541 01:14:51,173 --> 01:14:53,333 Speaker 2: be concerned that you're keeping a separate bank account because 1542 01:14:53,333 --> 01:14:55,452 Speaker 2: it seems to me and George that you might be 1543 01:14:55,492 --> 01:14:57,732 Speaker 2: cheating on her. And you don't want to see different 1544 01:14:57,732 --> 01:14:58,532 Speaker 2: dinners being brought. 1545 01:14:58,572 --> 01:15:01,253 Speaker 3: But George and Matt, so you guys seem to think 1546 01:15:01,253 --> 01:15:03,732 Speaker 3: that I'm getting the better deal here when I can 1547 01:15:03,772 --> 01:15:06,892 Speaker 3: tell you that spending money, I pay for all the 1548 01:15:06,933 --> 01:15:09,253 Speaker 3: spending money for both me and May. So I'm the 1549 01:15:09,333 --> 01:15:11,173 Speaker 3: run one getting the raw deal here. If we go 1550 01:15:11,253 --> 01:15:13,732 Speaker 3: out to they say we went to the polo the ponies. 1551 01:15:14,853 --> 01:15:18,772 Speaker 3: Who's the one paying for all the drinks there? Me? 1552 01:15:18,772 --> 01:15:18,852 Speaker 20: Me? 1553 01:15:19,652 --> 01:15:22,653 Speaker 3: So she's getting the better deal with here, mate, Sorry, Georgie. 1554 01:15:22,372 --> 01:15:22,492 Speaker 17: You go. 1555 01:15:22,612 --> 01:15:25,732 Speaker 26: Tyler, you you you were, you were flexing your muscles 1556 01:15:25,732 --> 01:15:28,213 Speaker 26: in about how more goes into your bank account than 1557 01:15:28,253 --> 01:15:28,892 Speaker 26: it does your wife. 1558 01:15:28,933 --> 01:15:29,612 Speaker 22: So don't try and. 1559 01:15:32,412 --> 01:15:36,412 Speaker 26: Better better deal my friend. You know you share the 1560 01:15:36,532 --> 01:15:40,333 Speaker 26: love Tyler big enough to put all your money into 1561 01:15:40,333 --> 01:15:40,892 Speaker 26: one account? 1562 01:15:40,973 --> 01:15:43,852 Speaker 3: Yeah, well, can I just can't off a bit of 1563 01:15:43,853 --> 01:15:47,772 Speaker 3: fun money? So you've had a rowback, Matt, Can I 1564 01:15:47,812 --> 01:15:49,612 Speaker 3: just have a rowback as well? As I shouldn't have 1565 01:15:49,612 --> 01:15:51,013 Speaker 3: said that that. We know how to take that back. 1566 01:15:51,053 --> 01:15:54,253 Speaker 3: We'll just scratch that from the record recorded. I've already 1567 01:15:54,293 --> 01:15:55,132 Speaker 3: sent it to your partner. 1568 01:15:55,692 --> 01:15:57,333 Speaker 2: All right, Hey, thank you so much, George. 1569 01:15:58,372 --> 01:16:00,652 Speaker 3: Yeah. Oh, eight hundred AC ten and eighty is the 1570 01:16:00,812 --> 01:16:02,892 Speaker 3: number to call this great. 1571 01:16:02,772 --> 01:16:05,013 Speaker 2: Text coming through this Texas says it's attractive when men 1572 01:16:05,053 --> 01:16:07,012 Speaker 2: take the lead and pay on the first date. Traditional 1573 01:16:07,013 --> 01:16:12,852 Speaker 2: messk and man code. If he asks her he should pay, Yeah, yeah, right. 1574 01:16:12,772 --> 01:16:13,812 Speaker 3: That kind of sums it up. 1575 01:16:14,173 --> 01:16:16,652 Speaker 2: Uh loly Junifer text. 1576 01:16:16,812 --> 01:16:19,213 Speaker 3: We just got to censor a few of them, so 1577 01:16:19,412 --> 01:16:21,452 Speaker 3: we'll do that over the break and wead some more 1578 01:16:21,532 --> 01:16:24,372 Speaker 3: Jennifer texts. Very shortly, it is eight to three. 1579 01:16:25,173 --> 01:16:27,612 Speaker 1: The issues that affect you and a bit of fun 1580 01:16:27,652 --> 01:16:30,932 Speaker 1: along the way, Matt and Taylor Afternoons with the Volvo 1581 01:16:31,213 --> 01:16:35,213 Speaker 1: XCN eighty Innovation, Style and Design, have it all news talks? 1582 01:16:35,213 --> 01:16:39,333 Speaker 3: He'd be new whose talks? He'd be five to three. 1583 01:16:39,933 --> 01:16:42,652 Speaker 3: Some great tickes have come through on nine two ninety two, hey. 1584 01:16:42,612 --> 01:16:44,812 Speaker 2: Land's Great Show made of Mine? When on a second 1585 01:16:44,893 --> 01:16:46,492 Speaker 2: date and took a ring with him to put on 1586 01:16:46,532 --> 01:16:49,853 Speaker 2: her finger, she went to the bathroom and never returned. 1587 01:16:49,973 --> 01:16:52,573 Speaker 2: Cheers Cam. Oh, oh that's a heartbreaker. 1588 01:16:52,692 --> 01:16:56,532 Speaker 3: That is a heartbreaker. Second date, So you're sitting at 1589 01:16:56,532 --> 01:16:59,133 Speaker 3: the table. Yeah, I mean, to be fair, he's really 1590 01:16:59,133 --> 01:17:00,612 Speaker 3: he proposes on the second date. 1591 01:17:00,732 --> 01:17:02,652 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, yeah, that's true. I mean there's there's 1592 01:17:02,652 --> 01:17:04,173 Speaker 2: an error there. I mean he needed to put in 1593 01:17:04,173 --> 01:17:04,612 Speaker 2: some more work. 1594 01:17:04,692 --> 01:17:04,852 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1595 01:17:04,893 --> 01:17:06,333 Speaker 3: I wonder if he paid for the dinner on the 1596 01:17:06,333 --> 01:17:07,572 Speaker 3: first date. Maybe not. 1597 01:17:07,772 --> 01:17:09,412 Speaker 2: I wonder for the dinner on the one s where 1598 01:17:09,412 --> 01:17:12,732 Speaker 2: she gapped up before she got the ring. But Yeah, 1599 01:17:12,732 --> 01:17:14,572 Speaker 2: that's a sad story. I just mentioned I'm sitting there 1600 01:17:14,572 --> 01:17:15,972 Speaker 2: at the table waiting for her to come back from 1601 01:17:15,973 --> 01:17:16,932 Speaker 2: the bathroom with his ring. 1602 01:17:17,173 --> 01:17:19,333 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I didn't need to visualize that. That is 1603 01:17:19,372 --> 01:17:23,812 Speaker 3: a very sad story. It's been a great first day. Yeah, guys, Yes, 1604 01:17:23,853 --> 01:17:26,052 Speaker 3: why can't you use your charm? You pay for dinner 1605 01:17:26,173 --> 01:17:28,013 Speaker 3: and if she wants to split it, just indicate that 1606 01:17:28,053 --> 01:17:29,572 Speaker 3: she can pay the next state. But you sneak off 1607 01:17:29,612 --> 01:17:30,572 Speaker 3: and pay for that one too. 1608 01:17:30,732 --> 01:17:33,133 Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's a winning strategy. 1609 01:17:33,492 --> 01:17:35,892 Speaker 3: I'm a thirty eight year old female. Bring back chivalry. 1610 01:17:36,053 --> 01:17:38,452 Speaker 2: The female human is designed to seek out a secure 1611 01:17:38,452 --> 01:17:39,692 Speaker 2: partner for security and protection. 1612 01:17:39,732 --> 01:17:40,532 Speaker 3: It's human nature. 1613 01:17:40,853 --> 01:17:43,093 Speaker 2: The whole woman can do anything and be equal and 1614 01:17:43,173 --> 01:17:46,532 Speaker 2: everything is the biggest disaster of our generation. Only woman 1615 01:17:46,572 --> 01:17:48,333 Speaker 2: whoever womb and can create life. 1616 01:17:48,492 --> 01:17:48,812 Speaker 3: Fact. 1617 01:17:49,133 --> 01:17:51,133 Speaker 2: So yes, a man should do everything he can to 1618 01:17:51,173 --> 01:17:54,133 Speaker 2: prove he can provide safety and security to the woman 1619 01:17:54,133 --> 01:17:56,173 Speaker 2: for the rest of her life. That is what dating 1620 01:17:56,213 --> 01:17:58,492 Speaker 2: is about for a woman. Keep it simple. A woman 1621 01:17:58,612 --> 01:18:01,652 Speaker 2: like me is a magical, powerful creature that all men 1622 01:18:01,692 --> 01:18:04,492 Speaker 2: should treat us like that and work hard to prove 1623 01:18:04,572 --> 01:18:05,532 Speaker 2: they are worthy of us. 1624 01:18:06,053 --> 01:18:06,572 Speaker 3: Good text. 1625 01:18:07,572 --> 01:18:11,133 Speaker 2: That sounded like a from a from my Lord of 1626 01:18:11,133 --> 01:18:12,052 Speaker 2: the Rings or something. 1627 01:18:11,893 --> 01:18:13,932 Speaker 3: Very well written. Yeah, I think that's a good place 1628 01:18:13,933 --> 01:18:16,173 Speaker 3: to leave that discussion. Actually, there's one. 1629 01:18:16,173 --> 01:18:20,293 Speaker 2: I only buy my my dates Chinese meals because they're cheap. 1630 01:18:20,372 --> 01:18:23,452 Speaker 3: That kind of ruins, that doesn't it. Yeah, but that's 1631 01:18:23,492 --> 01:18:25,133 Speaker 3: going to be a red flag as well. Yeah, I'm 1632 01:18:25,133 --> 01:18:27,492 Speaker 3: not knocking Chinese food, good food, but on a first date, 1633 01:18:27,853 --> 01:18:32,573 Speaker 3: I don't know. Well this what's a fancy Chinese restaurants Tyler? Yeah, 1634 01:18:33,452 --> 01:18:36,452 Speaker 3: eighties and able to call. Hey, coming up after three o'clock. 1635 01:18:36,492 --> 01:18:38,732 Speaker 3: We want to have a chat about how long is 1636 01:18:38,812 --> 01:18:41,692 Speaker 3: too long to leave meat out of the refrigerator? This 1637 01:18:41,812 --> 01:18:42,812 Speaker 3: is a crucial topic. 1638 01:18:42,973 --> 01:18:45,772 Speaker 2: Yeah, hap to Matt, I've got I've got a whole 1639 01:18:45,853 --> 01:18:47,572 Speaker 2: box of meat. I wonder if I can eat it. 1640 01:18:48,293 --> 01:18:51,093 Speaker 3: Nineteen nineties a deex News, Sport and Weather on its 1641 01:18:51,133 --> 01:18:53,172 Speaker 3: way your. 1642 01:18:53,133 --> 01:18:56,092 Speaker 5: New home for insightful and entertaining talk. 1643 01:18:56,253 --> 01:19:00,412 Speaker 1: It's Mattia and Taylor Adams Afternoons with the Volvo X 1644 01:19:00,732 --> 01:19:02,293 Speaker 1: eighty on News Talk SEV. 1645 01:19:03,253 --> 01:19:06,492 Speaker 3: Good afternoon, it is seven past three, so this is 1646 01:19:06,612 --> 01:19:09,052 Speaker 3: quite a serious topic. We're about to go in to. Now, 1647 01:19:09,213 --> 01:19:13,612 Speaker 3: how long should you can you leave meat out of 1648 01:19:13,612 --> 01:19:16,692 Speaker 3: the refrigerator before consuming. This is something that you were 1649 01:19:16,692 --> 01:19:17,452 Speaker 3: facing right now. 1650 01:19:17,492 --> 01:19:20,652 Speaker 2: Man, that's right. I think the best buy is just 1651 01:19:20,853 --> 01:19:23,852 Speaker 2: a vague suggestion that you maybe like glance over. But 1652 01:19:23,933 --> 01:19:25,812 Speaker 2: I think you trust your nose. That's that's my opinion. 1653 01:19:25,853 --> 01:19:27,293 Speaker 2: Don't know if you look it up anywhere or you 1654 01:19:27,293 --> 01:19:30,732 Speaker 2: talk to any experits, they're scared, so they go for 1655 01:19:30,772 --> 01:19:31,892 Speaker 2: the safety approach. 1656 01:19:31,973 --> 01:19:33,932 Speaker 3: And you know, every time anyone I've tried to talk. 1657 01:19:33,812 --> 01:19:39,612 Speaker 2: About this again, what happened was this great New Zealand 1658 01:19:39,652 --> 01:19:43,013 Speaker 2: as a Holy Cow butchery and Cambridge you might know 1659 01:19:43,093 --> 01:19:46,492 Speaker 2: it that they're an artisan butchery and they they're the 1660 01:19:46,532 --> 01:19:49,053 Speaker 2: whole system kind of butchery. They care and inspect for 1661 01:19:49,093 --> 01:19:54,253 Speaker 2: the land, the animals and the community. They're fantastic butchery 1662 01:19:55,372 --> 01:19:58,093 Speaker 2: and it's the whole whole system kind of thing. You know, 1663 01:19:58,133 --> 01:20:03,012 Speaker 2: a local circular, closed loop regenitaive system would describe the math. Yeah, 1664 01:20:03,173 --> 01:20:03,812 Speaker 2: Holy Cow. 1665 01:20:03,732 --> 01:20:05,452 Speaker 3: Good place and they sound like good people. So what 1666 01:20:05,532 --> 01:20:07,173 Speaker 3: did they send you the meat? Is that because you've 1667 01:20:07,173 --> 01:20:08,772 Speaker 3: been you've been a friend of the farmer's lately. 1668 01:20:08,652 --> 01:20:10,093 Speaker 2: Well, I am a friend of a farmer's. I am 1669 01:20:10,093 --> 01:20:11,892 Speaker 2: a friend of the farmer's. Yeah, I talk them up 1670 01:20:11,933 --> 01:20:14,572 Speaker 2: and I'm a friend of the of the Holy Cow Butchery. 1671 01:20:14,772 --> 01:20:16,812 Speaker 2: But that's the point they said that I'm not friendly 1672 01:20:17,093 --> 01:20:18,892 Speaker 2: with the couriers that they were used to send the 1673 01:20:18,893 --> 01:20:21,652 Speaker 2: meat up because they send it in a same day courier, right. 1674 01:20:22,013 --> 01:20:23,732 Speaker 2: And so it was in a in a box and 1675 01:20:23,772 --> 01:20:27,293 Speaker 2: it was a calling calling box. It looked like it 1676 01:20:27,372 --> 01:20:29,452 Speaker 2: was going to have the head from the end of 1677 01:20:29,492 --> 01:20:31,173 Speaker 2: seven with Brad Pitt. 1678 01:20:30,933 --> 01:20:33,412 Speaker 3: Going what's in the books? But it wasn't. 1679 01:20:33,452 --> 01:20:37,053 Speaker 2: It was some beautiful sausages, there was some steak. 1680 01:20:37,293 --> 01:20:40,772 Speaker 3: There was some lamb in their lamb grenade. 1681 01:20:40,893 --> 01:20:43,532 Speaker 2: Yeah, And I was I was like, well, this is 1682 01:20:43,612 --> 01:20:46,812 Speaker 2: terrible because you know, as we say, the circular nature, 1683 01:20:47,053 --> 01:20:50,333 Speaker 2: you know, every part of the system has been involved 1684 01:20:50,772 --> 01:20:54,133 Speaker 2: and making this this meat. You know, the farmer has 1685 01:20:54,133 --> 01:20:55,852 Speaker 2: put the work in, the butcher's put the work in, 1686 01:20:56,253 --> 01:20:58,093 Speaker 2: the the animals have put the work in. 1687 01:20:58,372 --> 01:21:00,492 Speaker 3: They cently have the animals absolutely put the work. 1688 01:21:00,532 --> 01:21:02,372 Speaker 2: The only person that's not put the work in properly 1689 01:21:02,492 --> 01:21:04,452 Speaker 2: is the courier that's was supposed to deliver it on 1690 01:21:04,452 --> 01:21:06,013 Speaker 2: one day carrier on Friday, and I didn't get it 1691 01:21:06,013 --> 01:21:06,813 Speaker 2: till Monday. 1692 01:21:06,933 --> 01:21:10,372 Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, very stressed about it when it came in 1693 01:21:10,412 --> 01:21:12,213 Speaker 3: here and you're like, oh, no, how long has this 1694 01:21:12,293 --> 01:21:14,692 Speaker 3: been sitting around for? Then you tried to ring the 1695 01:21:14,732 --> 01:21:16,492 Speaker 3: courier to find out when they dropped it off. You 1696 01:21:16,532 --> 01:21:18,972 Speaker 3: tried to contact the butchery to say, hey, when did 1697 01:21:18,973 --> 01:21:20,253 Speaker 3: you guys send this stress. 1698 01:21:20,492 --> 01:21:22,013 Speaker 2: I did contact the bookshore. I know when they sent it, 1699 01:21:22,013 --> 01:21:24,412 Speaker 2: and they did absolutely nothing wrong obviously because they were 1700 01:21:24,412 --> 01:21:26,173 Speaker 2: giving it to me, So good on them. But I'm 1701 01:21:26,173 --> 01:21:28,572 Speaker 2: going to eat that meat. I'm going to eat that meat, 1702 01:21:29,133 --> 01:21:32,053 Speaker 2: even the sausage, out of respect, out of respect for 1703 01:21:32,093 --> 01:21:34,892 Speaker 2: the whole process. I'm going to eat it. And I 1704 01:21:34,933 --> 01:21:36,492 Speaker 2: just want to know what's going to happen to me. I mean, 1705 01:21:36,492 --> 01:21:39,092 Speaker 2: it's high quality stuff, and it was in the box 1706 01:21:39,133 --> 01:21:42,812 Speaker 2: so it would have been frozen for a while. So 1707 01:21:42,893 --> 01:21:45,452 Speaker 2: what I did and look nine two nine two, one 1708 01:21:45,532 --> 01:21:50,532 Speaker 2: hundred eighty three eight sorry a one hundred eighty ten 1709 01:21:50,692 --> 01:21:51,973 Speaker 2: eighty it's the number ten? 1710 01:21:52,452 --> 01:21:52,852 Speaker 3: The number? 1711 01:21:52,893 --> 01:21:53,973 Speaker 2: Do I need to write it down for you? 1712 01:21:54,013 --> 01:21:54,333 Speaker 6: Please? 1713 01:21:56,692 --> 01:21:58,013 Speaker 2: What's going to happen to me when I eat this? 1714 01:21:58,492 --> 01:22:02,173 Speaker 2: So I've got it. It's been fresh, beautiful, fantastic, just 1715 01:22:02,213 --> 01:22:09,692 Speaker 2: the absolute nature's best from our beautiful countryautiful Cambridge. It's 1716 01:22:09,973 --> 01:22:12,972 Speaker 2: come here, but it's been in a box for probably three. 1717 01:22:12,893 --> 01:22:15,293 Speaker 3: Days, right to meat out in it. But immediately when 1718 01:22:15,293 --> 01:22:17,892 Speaker 3: I got home, I frozen. Is that a wise thing 1719 01:22:17,933 --> 01:22:20,133 Speaker 3: to do? I don't know. That might be kind of 1720 01:22:20,173 --> 01:22:22,372 Speaker 3: inturitive to what you're trying to do there, but love 1721 01:22:22,372 --> 01:22:24,412 Speaker 3: to hear from you. O eight hundred and eighty ten eighty. 1722 01:22:24,732 --> 01:22:29,053 Speaker 3: Should Matt eat this meat? And if he does, is 1723 01:22:29,053 --> 01:22:31,133 Speaker 3: he going to get a little bit sick? Yeah? And 1724 01:22:31,612 --> 01:22:34,173 Speaker 3: do we need a little bit of food poisoning, you know, 1725 01:22:34,293 --> 01:22:36,652 Speaker 3: just to make us hard in this country? I one 1726 01:22:36,692 --> 01:22:39,053 Speaker 3: hundred eighty ten eighty. But genuinely I think we are 1727 01:22:39,093 --> 01:22:41,333 Speaker 3: too silly when it comes to food safety, no doubt 1728 01:22:41,333 --> 01:22:43,213 Speaker 3: about it. You got it it. Don't be an idiot 1729 01:22:43,213 --> 01:22:44,053 Speaker 3: about it, but. 1730 01:22:44,293 --> 01:22:45,213 Speaker 2: Be an idiot about it. 1731 01:22:45,213 --> 01:22:47,492 Speaker 3: But if it's if it's meat that's been sitting out 1732 01:22:47,532 --> 01:22:50,412 Speaker 3: for two, three, four days and it passes the sniff test, 1733 01:22:50,732 --> 01:22:53,133 Speaker 3: cook it up, have a nibble, let it sit for 1734 01:22:53,173 --> 01:22:55,732 Speaker 3: half an hour. If you're right, I at least give 1735 01:22:55,772 --> 01:22:58,093 Speaker 3: it to the dog. Yeah, least. I had one hundred 1736 01:22:58,133 --> 01:22:59,932 Speaker 3: eighty ten eighties. And I'm going to call eleven past 1737 01:22:59,933 --> 01:23:04,093 Speaker 3: three good afternoon. It is thirteen past three now, Just 1738 01:23:04,093 --> 01:23:06,173 Speaker 3: to remind it. In about fifteen minutes. We do have 1739 01:23:06,253 --> 01:23:10,053 Speaker 3: Gareth Abden or in studio employment law expert, taking all 1740 01:23:10,053 --> 01:23:12,972 Speaker 3: your questions and calls on anything to do with what's 1741 01:23:13,013 --> 01:23:15,133 Speaker 3: going on in your workplace and if you're an employee, 1742 01:23:15,452 --> 01:23:17,532 Speaker 3: anything that's going on with your employee. So that is 1743 01:23:17,572 --> 01:23:19,812 Speaker 3: coming up, and it pays to get in early. We've 1744 01:23:19,812 --> 01:23:22,532 Speaker 3: already had a bunch of text questions for them. But 1745 01:23:22,652 --> 01:23:24,892 Speaker 3: nine two ninety two in O eight hundred and eighty 1746 01:23:24,933 --> 01:23:26,813 Speaker 3: ten eighty. If you want to get in early. 1747 01:23:26,652 --> 01:23:28,133 Speaker 27: I'm going to bring up how you touch my arm 1748 01:23:28,173 --> 01:23:32,013 Speaker 27: before he'll say it's okay, that's fine, right, But back 1749 01:23:32,053 --> 01:23:34,852 Speaker 27: to the topic we're discussing now, do we get a 1750 01:23:34,853 --> 01:23:36,892 Speaker 27: bit silly when it comes to food safety? 1751 01:23:36,933 --> 01:23:38,492 Speaker 3: Matt, You're in a bit of a predicament at the 1752 01:23:38,532 --> 01:23:40,093 Speaker 3: moment that you've got meat that's been out of the 1753 01:23:40,093 --> 01:23:42,932 Speaker 3: fridge for at least two maybe three maybe four days. 1754 01:23:43,093 --> 01:23:44,972 Speaker 2: Yeah nah, yeah, so I think it's in on Friday, 1755 01:23:44,973 --> 01:23:47,253 Speaker 2: but I didn't get it till Monday morning. Red meat 1756 01:23:47,333 --> 01:23:49,972 Speaker 2: is fine. I've had venison in an outdoor meat safe 1757 01:23:49,973 --> 01:23:52,452 Speaker 2: for three days now, no problem at all. Your nose 1758 01:23:52,492 --> 01:23:54,572 Speaker 2: will let you know. See that's what I look That's 1759 01:23:54,692 --> 01:23:57,333 Speaker 2: that's what I think as well. Guys, I've worked in 1760 01:23:57,893 --> 01:24:02,172 Speaker 2: food retail and the guidelines for the retailer. Most goods 1761 01:24:02,412 --> 01:24:03,972 Speaker 2: are good beyond the date on the product. 1762 01:24:04,013 --> 01:24:04,253 Speaker 3: Craig. 1763 01:24:04,532 --> 01:24:06,133 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean some of those things are just so 1764 01:24:06,253 --> 01:24:08,572 Speaker 2: you throw it out and buy more. Yeah, you know 1765 01:24:08,612 --> 01:24:11,053 Speaker 2: I could keep it going through the system, you know, I. 1766 01:24:11,053 --> 01:24:12,652 Speaker 3: Wouldn't got to pass some Is that right or is 1767 01:24:12,652 --> 01:24:16,012 Speaker 3: that yeah, that's a theory and your thoughts. 1768 01:24:16,253 --> 01:24:16,452 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1769 01:24:16,492 --> 01:24:20,173 Speaker 15: Look, I worked for years ago. I had a job, 1770 01:24:20,253 --> 01:24:23,572 Speaker 15: second job as in a restaurant and the owner was 1771 01:24:23,652 --> 01:24:26,173 Speaker 15: Dutch and he said, leave you meet. He said in 1772 01:24:26,213 --> 01:24:28,772 Speaker 15: New Zealand disease, it far too soon. It's really tough. 1773 01:24:29,492 --> 01:24:32,372 Speaker 15: He used to leave his hanging. Admittedly it wasn't the fridge, 1774 01:24:32,412 --> 01:24:35,492 Speaker 15: but it was not a super cold fridge. You'd walk 1775 01:24:35,532 --> 01:24:37,293 Speaker 15: in and out all the time, and he'd leave it 1776 01:24:37,333 --> 01:24:39,932 Speaker 15: hanging for a couple of weeks at least. It would 1777 01:24:39,933 --> 01:24:42,812 Speaker 15: go from that red color to that dark color. 1778 01:24:43,173 --> 01:24:43,572 Speaker 2: Yeah. 1779 01:24:43,652 --> 01:24:45,053 Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's. 1780 01:24:44,772 --> 01:24:49,572 Speaker 15: The most beautiful, softest steaks. I always leave my steak. Now. 1781 01:24:50,173 --> 01:24:52,852 Speaker 15: The other thing is, if you're that worried, do the 1782 01:24:52,933 --> 01:24:56,053 Speaker 15: sniff test. If it's slimy, throw it out. 1783 01:24:56,412 --> 01:24:59,732 Speaker 2: Oh, what do you mean slimy smelling? Well, now, if 1784 01:24:59,772 --> 01:25:02,652 Speaker 2: it feels sl so you do the snuff test and 1785 01:25:02,732 --> 01:25:03,532 Speaker 2: the slime test. 1786 01:25:04,333 --> 01:25:07,133 Speaker 15: Yeah, and neither of those are off. 1787 01:25:07,253 --> 01:25:07,932 Speaker 10: I'd eat it. 1788 01:25:08,452 --> 01:25:11,372 Speaker 3: Sometimes I even push through the old slime tearstand, you know, 1789 01:25:11,492 --> 01:25:13,133 Speaker 3: like a good leg of ham. If it gets a 1790 01:25:13,173 --> 01:25:15,492 Speaker 3: little bit slimy, I'll still push through. That's good for 1791 01:25:15,532 --> 01:25:16,932 Speaker 3: another couple of days at least. 1792 01:25:17,572 --> 01:25:20,053 Speaker 15: Yes, I know, I know it's all about turnover. 1793 01:25:20,452 --> 01:25:23,173 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Thank you so much for your call. 1794 01:25:23,293 --> 01:25:26,372 Speaker 2: And it is an interesting one day because if you 1795 01:25:26,412 --> 01:25:28,933 Speaker 2: went back in time and told people how sensitive we 1796 01:25:28,973 --> 01:25:32,052 Speaker 2: are about meat now, you know, you know the people 1797 01:25:32,093 --> 01:25:38,452 Speaker 2: on the boats, you people, if you were really hungry. 1798 01:25:38,492 --> 01:25:40,133 Speaker 2: You know, we've just got an abundance of food in 1799 01:25:40,173 --> 01:25:43,892 Speaker 2: this country, so we we nickel and diamond if it's 1800 01:25:43,893 --> 01:25:46,372 Speaker 2: a bit anything, it even's moving. But you know, if 1801 01:25:46,412 --> 01:25:48,293 Speaker 2: you're really hungry, you'd eat any of this stuff. 1802 01:25:48,093 --> 01:25:50,532 Speaker 3: Right, absolutely, Yeah, even with checken, I've got to say 1803 01:25:50,612 --> 01:25:52,213 Speaker 3: check and I'd be a bit more careful with but 1804 01:25:52,492 --> 01:25:54,253 Speaker 3: even if it's a couple of days past the use 1805 01:25:54,293 --> 01:25:55,532 Speaker 3: by date, I'll. 1806 01:25:55,173 --> 01:25:55,732 Speaker 6: Give it a crack. 1807 01:25:56,532 --> 01:25:59,652 Speaker 2: Steve, your thoughts on meat. 1808 01:26:00,893 --> 01:26:05,253 Speaker 13: Yeah, look, I've eaten it to room temperature, that's fine. 1809 01:26:05,253 --> 01:26:06,813 Speaker 13: But sitting the way it's sat. 1810 01:26:06,652 --> 01:26:09,372 Speaker 3: For four days, no chill. 1811 01:26:10,013 --> 01:26:13,052 Speaker 13: And you've got sausages, especially with spicing mixes and stuff 1812 01:26:13,093 --> 01:26:15,012 Speaker 13: like that. I wouldn't go on that track. 1813 01:26:15,013 --> 01:26:15,772 Speaker 2: You wouldn't go down there. 1814 01:26:15,812 --> 01:26:17,932 Speaker 13: Yes, you know you can get No, I wouldn't eat it. 1815 01:26:18,133 --> 01:26:20,093 Speaker 13: You can get the good meats and stuff like that 1816 01:26:20,093 --> 01:26:23,732 Speaker 13: which you can which age and and and your fat 1817 01:26:23,812 --> 01:26:26,092 Speaker 13: side down and fridges for you know, two and three months. 1818 01:26:26,133 --> 01:26:28,732 Speaker 13: That's a bit different. And yes, when you open it 1819 01:26:28,732 --> 01:26:30,532 Speaker 13: it smells, but there was a you can wash it 1820 01:26:30,532 --> 01:26:33,812 Speaker 13: down in a mild vinegar solution. That's proper age meat. 1821 01:26:34,133 --> 01:26:37,213 Speaker 13: But what he's got there in the warmth, no, you 1822 01:26:37,333 --> 01:26:38,572 Speaker 13: end up gettingself quite sick. 1823 01:26:38,612 --> 01:26:38,852 Speaker 5: Mate. 1824 01:26:39,013 --> 01:26:41,173 Speaker 2: So so when you were in a I've always meant 1825 01:26:41,173 --> 01:26:43,333 Speaker 2: to ask us actually, so it's great to talk to you, Steve. 1826 01:26:43,412 --> 01:26:45,532 Speaker 2: But how long you know when you hear that you've 1827 01:26:45,532 --> 01:26:49,293 Speaker 2: got a twelve day aged steak or whatever, you know 1828 01:26:49,293 --> 01:26:51,692 Speaker 2: when it says that on a menu, is that is 1829 01:26:51,692 --> 01:26:53,492 Speaker 2: that what they mean by age? Because I just sort 1830 01:26:53,492 --> 01:26:55,053 Speaker 2: of figured that they left it on the bench. But 1831 01:26:55,133 --> 01:26:56,652 Speaker 2: is that when you say it's aged? 1832 01:26:56,772 --> 01:26:56,973 Speaker 8: Is it? 1833 01:26:57,093 --> 01:26:59,412 Speaker 2: Is it hanging in a in a freezer, I mean 1834 01:26:59,452 --> 01:27:00,412 Speaker 2: a fridge. 1835 01:27:00,133 --> 01:27:02,452 Speaker 13: So some some of it is and otherwise you can 1836 01:27:02,492 --> 01:27:04,612 Speaker 13: get the vackpack stuff which we used to do, but 1837 01:27:04,692 --> 01:27:08,612 Speaker 13: age it for a couple of months, skin facing but 1838 01:27:08,652 --> 01:27:10,612 Speaker 13: still back and packed. So yeah, look it should be 1839 01:27:10,692 --> 01:27:14,213 Speaker 13: aged in the chiller, not aged at room temperature. Yeah, 1840 01:27:14,893 --> 01:27:18,412 Speaker 13: that's just my base experience on shipping for years. And 1841 01:27:18,933 --> 01:27:20,492 Speaker 13: I wouldn't go down that track of eating it. I 1842 01:27:20,492 --> 01:27:22,013 Speaker 13: wouldn't even give it to your dog. You might even 1843 01:27:22,053 --> 01:27:22,412 Speaker 13: make your. 1844 01:27:22,293 --> 01:27:24,812 Speaker 3: Dog sick, right, yeah, better as serious. 1845 01:27:25,213 --> 01:27:29,253 Speaker 2: My dog's a terrible food snob, mate. Yes, he's just 1846 01:27:29,412 --> 01:27:31,253 Speaker 2: likely to eat something that's a bit older than I am. 1847 01:27:31,732 --> 01:27:33,892 Speaker 2: I've seen him his nose up and a lot of 1848 01:27:33,893 --> 01:27:35,772 Speaker 2: good food. Hey, thank you so much for you call, Steve. 1849 01:27:35,812 --> 01:27:36,492 Speaker 2: Appreciate it. 1850 01:27:36,812 --> 01:27:40,652 Speaker 3: Some great teas coming through, guys. I have done exports 1851 01:27:40,652 --> 01:27:43,852 Speaker 3: seafood christ Jutes to Brisbane, Sydney, Melbourne for thirty years. 1852 01:27:43,893 --> 01:27:48,293 Speaker 3: If it stays in the chill chain, all goods, even 1853 01:27:48,333 --> 01:27:49,133 Speaker 3: for a day or two. 1854 01:27:49,372 --> 01:27:51,933 Speaker 2: All right, So I was staying in the chill, the 1855 01:27:53,093 --> 01:27:55,732 Speaker 2: chill chain, sitting in a box for two days down 1856 01:27:55,772 --> 01:27:58,612 Speaker 2: in the ins in me mail room. 1857 01:27:58,732 --> 01:28:03,412 Speaker 3: That's where I draw the line though read meat okay, chicken, yeah, seafood? 1858 01:28:03,732 --> 01:28:04,892 Speaker 3: Oh man, I don't know. 1859 01:28:05,372 --> 01:28:09,492 Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, okay, Karleen, how are. 1860 01:28:09,412 --> 01:28:11,572 Speaker 20: You very good? 1861 01:28:11,612 --> 01:28:12,493 Speaker 10: Thank you? 1862 01:28:12,492 --> 01:28:13,772 Speaker 2: You're a fan of home kill. 1863 01:28:15,532 --> 01:28:15,972 Speaker 21: Very much. 1864 01:28:16,213 --> 01:28:19,252 Speaker 18: Fans of homekill. We've been We lived on a lifestyle 1865 01:28:19,612 --> 01:28:23,173 Speaker 18: property for about twenty years. Just moved to Cambridge, so 1866 01:28:23,772 --> 01:28:27,693 Speaker 18: Holy Cow is a favorite. But still do the hometells 1867 01:28:28,572 --> 01:28:32,372 Speaker 18: and any of the large. If i'd sort of under 1868 01:28:33,053 --> 01:28:38,972 Speaker 18: overestimated what I needed in sizes for roasts, I've always 1869 01:28:39,133 --> 01:28:41,372 Speaker 18: just defrosted it, cut it up into what I needed, 1870 01:28:42,412 --> 01:28:44,053 Speaker 18: chucked it back in the freezer and said that to 1871 01:28:44,133 --> 01:28:47,132 Speaker 18: my kids. With beef, I haven't tried it with lamb, 1872 01:28:47,333 --> 01:28:49,852 Speaker 18: but I've done that for the last twenty years and 1873 01:28:49,893 --> 01:28:52,133 Speaker 18: none of us have ever been sick from it. So 1874 01:28:52,253 --> 01:28:54,253 Speaker 18: I sort of really trust the whole beef. I don't 1875 01:28:54,293 --> 01:28:57,012 Speaker 18: know about leaving it out for days, but I think 1876 01:28:57,053 --> 01:29:00,532 Speaker 18: if it was cool enough that I would trust it, 1877 01:29:00,572 --> 01:29:04,933 Speaker 18: I would trust for beef and probably reasonably lamb. But 1878 01:29:05,013 --> 01:29:07,932 Speaker 18: yeah what and said trust your nose. 1879 01:29:08,532 --> 01:29:11,173 Speaker 2: Yeah, the mail room that entered me across the weekends 1880 01:29:11,213 --> 01:29:13,372 Speaker 2: probably reasonedly cool with air conditioning. 1881 01:29:13,372 --> 01:29:16,412 Speaker 5: Bulls. Yeah yeah, yeah, Well. 1882 01:29:16,293 --> 01:29:18,452 Speaker 18: I mean I was I always. I always think of 1883 01:29:18,532 --> 01:29:21,012 Speaker 18: two back in the day, we were just talking about 1884 01:29:21,013 --> 01:29:24,852 Speaker 18: this that you know, meat was hung like in a 1885 01:29:25,293 --> 01:29:27,972 Speaker 18: you know, a cool room or a ladder or something 1886 01:29:28,013 --> 01:29:31,092 Speaker 18: like that. Yeah, I didn't have I didn't have bridges 1887 01:29:31,133 --> 01:29:32,293 Speaker 18: one hundred years ago or whatever. 1888 01:29:32,732 --> 01:29:32,932 Speaker 7: Yeah. 1889 01:29:32,973 --> 01:29:34,572 Speaker 2: I was painting my house recently and I found this 1890 01:29:34,652 --> 01:29:37,892 Speaker 2: bit that was sticking out near the kitchen and looked 1891 01:29:37,893 --> 01:29:39,652 Speaker 2: into it, and that was and that you know, my 1892 01:29:39,933 --> 01:29:42,172 Speaker 2: father and law told me that was like a meat locker. 1893 01:29:42,612 --> 01:29:44,213 Speaker 2: He used to just hang out from the kitchen. Yeah, 1894 01:29:44,692 --> 01:29:46,292 Speaker 2: sort of hanging out semi outside. 1895 01:29:46,452 --> 01:29:46,972 Speaker 3: That's cool. 1896 01:29:47,253 --> 01:29:51,052 Speaker 18: Yeah, true, true, true, Yeah, age beef is much nicer, 1897 01:29:51,133 --> 01:29:51,692 Speaker 18: that's for sure. 1898 01:29:51,812 --> 01:29:53,252 Speaker 2: Are you doing the home killing yourself? 1899 01:29:54,732 --> 01:29:58,932 Speaker 18: Oh no, we get Wally Smith here. We've been using 1900 01:29:59,372 --> 01:30:02,972 Speaker 18: Wally Smith. Obviously, Wally has passed a number of years ago, 1901 01:30:03,053 --> 01:30:07,652 Speaker 18: but it's his it's his son that carries on that now. 1902 01:30:08,772 --> 01:30:09,532 Speaker 22: Along with others. 1903 01:30:09,652 --> 01:30:17,772 Speaker 18: But yeah, and our daughters. She's procuring the sewet and 1904 01:30:17,812 --> 01:30:20,133 Speaker 18: that sort of thing for her tellow. 1905 01:30:19,772 --> 01:30:20,692 Speaker 21: Which is pretty awesome. 1906 01:30:20,933 --> 01:30:21,173 Speaker 3: Ah. 1907 01:30:21,492 --> 01:30:22,452 Speaker 2: What does she do with the tello? 1908 01:30:24,213 --> 01:30:29,372 Speaker 18: She's making it into. She makes beautiful product. Cause can 1909 01:30:29,452 --> 01:30:30,333 Speaker 18: I say what it is? 1910 01:30:31,933 --> 01:30:32,173 Speaker 20: Yeah? 1911 01:30:32,213 --> 01:30:36,253 Speaker 18: Sure, A little plug it's Nourish by Nina and it's 1912 01:30:36,293 --> 01:30:39,732 Speaker 18: on Instagram, and she's got a little boy. He's just 1913 01:30:39,893 --> 01:30:45,572 Speaker 18: turned one and had fairly bad exma and so tried 1914 01:30:45,612 --> 01:30:48,372 Speaker 18: lots of variety of different things and has now come 1915 01:30:48,412 --> 01:30:54,372 Speaker 18: to a really amazing mixture of products like manukah karanuka 1916 01:30:55,013 --> 01:30:59,572 Speaker 18: and our Kawa kawa, few other ingredients as well, but 1917 01:30:59,652 --> 01:31:03,372 Speaker 18: all nice and natural things, and that has been amazing 1918 01:31:04,093 --> 01:31:06,892 Speaker 18: for the recovery side of his skin. 1919 01:31:08,412 --> 01:31:10,692 Speaker 2: I'm hearing a lot of people that are rubbing beef 1920 01:31:10,732 --> 01:31:13,972 Speaker 2: tellow on them on on their faces and stuff. It's 1921 01:31:14,372 --> 01:31:14,972 Speaker 2: very good skin. 1922 01:31:15,133 --> 01:31:21,452 Speaker 18: It is an very amazing moisturizer and and it's gone 1923 01:31:21,492 --> 01:31:24,572 Speaker 18: through a lot of processes to render it. And I 1924 01:31:24,612 --> 01:31:26,973 Speaker 18: think it's sort of like an old school product that 1925 01:31:27,053 --> 01:31:29,892 Speaker 18: everybody probably made, well a lot of people did, but 1926 01:31:29,973 --> 01:31:33,293 Speaker 18: it's coming back to be very very popular because people 1927 01:31:33,333 --> 01:31:34,412 Speaker 18: realize how good it is. 1928 01:31:34,853 --> 01:31:36,772 Speaker 2: Brilliant. All right, thank you had one more? One more 1929 01:31:36,853 --> 01:31:38,812 Speaker 2: quick plug for what it's The product's called. 1930 01:31:40,013 --> 01:31:44,572 Speaker 18: It's called Nourish by Nina n O r I s 1931 01:31:44,933 --> 01:31:47,093 Speaker 18: H by n I n A. 1932 01:31:47,612 --> 01:31:50,213 Speaker 3: Lovely, lovely and a very beautiful website of rubb that 1933 01:31:50,293 --> 01:31:52,253 Speaker 3: beef tellow all over yourself. It is hard to find 1934 01:31:52,253 --> 01:31:53,052 Speaker 3: good beef tellow. 1935 01:31:53,973 --> 01:31:57,293 Speaker 2: Yes, apparently apparently cooking and beef tallow is very very 1936 01:31:57,293 --> 01:31:57,972 Speaker 2: healthy as well. 1937 01:31:58,013 --> 01:32:01,173 Speaker 3: Be tasty as well. Yeah, yeah, oh eight eighty ten eighty. 1938 01:32:01,213 --> 01:32:06,532 Speaker 3: So number to call it is twenty two past three. 1939 01:32:07,692 --> 01:32:10,452 Speaker 5: That heathen Tyler Adams afternoons call. 1940 01:32:11,973 --> 01:32:15,013 Speaker 3: On news talk, z'd be good afternoon. How long is 1941 01:32:15,053 --> 01:32:17,293 Speaker 3: too long to leave meat out of the fridge? Mets 1942 01:32:17,333 --> 01:32:19,253 Speaker 3: found himself in a bit of a predicament. 1943 01:32:19,772 --> 01:32:23,652 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right, thoroughly, Nancy says. I thoroughly rinsed slimy 1944 01:32:23,772 --> 01:32:27,372 Speaker 2: meat past best before date, like chicken breasts, and cook 1945 01:32:27,412 --> 01:32:29,412 Speaker 2: them no problem, Nancy, as he goes give it a 1946 01:32:29,412 --> 01:32:29,852 Speaker 2: wee bath. 1947 01:32:29,973 --> 01:32:30,213 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1948 01:32:30,333 --> 01:32:33,532 Speaker 2: I mean, I'm I'm reticent to really push the boundaries 1949 01:32:33,532 --> 01:32:36,933 Speaker 2: on chicken. I've just been so much salmonella propaganda in 1950 01:32:36,973 --> 01:32:40,253 Speaker 2: my life. Yeah, yeah, I'm really scared of chicken. 1951 01:32:40,333 --> 01:32:41,572 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm with you. I don't want to roll the 1952 01:32:41,572 --> 01:32:42,772 Speaker 3: dice on chicken too much. 1953 01:32:43,013 --> 01:32:45,293 Speaker 2: My kids will tell me off if I you chopped 1954 01:32:45,333 --> 01:32:47,852 Speaker 2: chicken and then chop onions on the same board or anything. 1955 01:32:48,133 --> 01:32:50,253 Speaker 2: They're militant. Yeah, someone's got. 1956 01:32:50,133 --> 01:32:51,852 Speaker 3: To the I'm with you, boys. If I've got a 1957 01:32:51,893 --> 01:32:55,333 Speaker 3: chopped chicken. The amount of hand washing and spraying with 1958 01:32:55,412 --> 01:32:57,693 Speaker 3: the old cleaner I've got to do is ridiculous. 1959 01:32:58,053 --> 01:33:00,412 Speaker 2: Tom, You've been a farmer for forty seven years, so 1960 01:33:00,452 --> 01:33:01,293 Speaker 2: you know a bit about this. 1961 01:33:02,173 --> 01:33:05,612 Speaker 28: Yeah, yeah, a little bit. Yeah, I reckon my grandmother 1962 01:33:05,732 --> 01:33:10,093 Speaker 28: God rest. You used to say that, Yeah, if it's 1963 01:33:10,133 --> 01:33:14,173 Speaker 28: if it's been frozen and it's stored, definitely do not 1964 01:33:14,253 --> 01:33:16,412 Speaker 28: refreeze it. Refreeze it. But yeah, that was good you 1965 01:33:16,412 --> 01:33:20,772 Speaker 28: were saying about letting it. Yeah, that the sort of 1966 01:33:21,372 --> 01:33:25,252 Speaker 28: well smell tist you can and also a bit slimy. 1967 01:33:25,333 --> 01:33:28,333 Speaker 28: You probably can still cook it. But I just want 1968 01:33:28,372 --> 01:33:31,173 Speaker 28: to say, yeah, the other guy was second and last call. 1969 01:33:31,452 --> 01:33:33,492 Speaker 28: He said, you know, I wouldn't have vieded to the dogs. 1970 01:33:33,492 --> 01:33:37,292 Speaker 28: That's absolute, that's wrong. Dogs have got a huge tolerance 1971 01:33:37,853 --> 01:33:41,012 Speaker 28: well for for you know, meat that's gone off and 1972 01:33:41,093 --> 01:33:44,492 Speaker 28: even you know, just won't hurt him. And certainly you'd 1973 01:33:44,492 --> 01:33:46,253 Speaker 28: be wasting it to throw it away if you were 1974 01:33:46,253 --> 01:33:47,532 Speaker 28: going to throw it away, and certainly give it to 1975 01:33:47,572 --> 01:33:50,053 Speaker 28: my dogs. 1976 01:33:50,452 --> 01:33:53,253 Speaker 2: You've seen a lot of the absolutely disgusting stuff dogs 1977 01:33:53,293 --> 01:33:53,652 Speaker 2: will eat. 1978 01:33:53,772 --> 01:33:58,812 Speaker 28: Yeah, oh yeah, yeah, well yeah, well that's right. Yeah, 1979 01:33:59,253 --> 01:34:01,772 Speaker 28: you know I just say, if you did decided to 1980 01:34:02,173 --> 01:34:05,293 Speaker 28: throw it away, I would certainly give it to the dogs. 1981 01:34:05,293 --> 01:34:08,013 Speaker 28: You have no problem, and if you did, I'll give 1982 01:34:08,013 --> 01:34:10,372 Speaker 28: you there. And I was cash, you know, like I 1983 01:34:10,452 --> 01:34:11,253 Speaker 28: guarantee it that much. 1984 01:34:11,253 --> 01:34:12,013 Speaker 26: It wouldn't hurt him. 1985 01:34:12,133 --> 01:34:14,972 Speaker 2: Yeah, right, all right, thank you so much for your call. Tim, 1986 01:34:15,013 --> 01:34:15,692 Speaker 2: appreciate that. 1987 01:34:15,772 --> 01:34:18,053 Speaker 3: Yeah, Michael, how are you? 1988 01:34:19,412 --> 01:34:22,772 Speaker 22: You're not too bad. So just to give a bit 1989 01:34:22,812 --> 01:34:27,333 Speaker 22: of a heads up, I lived in the semi bush, 1990 01:34:27,572 --> 01:34:37,333 Speaker 22: off the gridge, no electricity, no fridge, only half insulated shed. 1991 01:34:38,412 --> 01:34:41,173 Speaker 22: And in the last twenty five years, I've brought up 1992 01:34:41,253 --> 01:34:45,133 Speaker 22: five children up here, right, And as far as the 1993 01:34:45,173 --> 01:34:48,612 Speaker 22: meat goes, in the summer, if you put it under 1994 01:34:48,612 --> 01:34:53,853 Speaker 22: a cabbage leaf, your last easy three or four days, 1995 01:34:54,253 --> 01:34:58,133 Speaker 22: and in the winter probably eight or nine. And that's 1996 01:34:58,173 --> 01:35:01,133 Speaker 22: not from the freezer but from the either probably from 1997 01:35:01,133 --> 01:35:04,572 Speaker 22: a botch or the supermarket. And the kids have never 1998 01:35:04,612 --> 01:35:05,093 Speaker 22: got sick. 1999 01:35:05,492 --> 01:35:07,053 Speaker 2: So you put it under a cabage leaf in a 2000 01:35:07,093 --> 01:35:08,492 Speaker 2: cupboard kind of situation. 2001 01:35:09,372 --> 01:35:12,772 Speaker 22: Yeah, and as low as possible, because it's the call apart. 2002 01:35:14,652 --> 01:35:17,052 Speaker 22: It's only a concrete floor, so I've got no carpet 2003 01:35:17,173 --> 01:35:21,612 Speaker 22: or anything. So the lowest cupboard is basically out of 2004 01:35:21,652 --> 01:35:24,572 Speaker 22: the sun and on the concrete floor. 2005 01:35:25,293 --> 01:35:26,372 Speaker 2: But you do have a phone. 2006 01:35:28,013 --> 01:35:31,292 Speaker 22: I do, and I charge it up for my car. 2007 01:35:31,933 --> 01:35:35,333 Speaker 3: Oh wow, fascinating. So if you tried the you know 2008 01:35:35,372 --> 01:35:37,652 Speaker 3: how they used to do it back in the day 2009 01:35:37,692 --> 01:35:40,532 Speaker 3: where electricity was hard to come by, we would you'd 2010 01:35:40,572 --> 01:35:43,053 Speaker 3: effectively dig into the ground a little bit. Have you 2011 01:35:43,093 --> 01:35:47,053 Speaker 3: tried that operations as a bit of a fridge. 2012 01:35:47,973 --> 01:35:49,772 Speaker 22: Yeah no, not really, Like I did try and put 2013 01:35:49,772 --> 01:35:51,572 Speaker 22: it in because I've got a river on the on 2014 01:35:51,652 --> 01:35:54,372 Speaker 22: the property, and I did put it in a bag 2015 01:35:54,812 --> 01:35:58,333 Speaker 22: in the river, but it actually didn't last so long. 2016 01:36:00,412 --> 01:36:03,412 Speaker 22: It was beast under the cabin blief on the concrete 2017 01:36:03,452 --> 01:36:05,812 Speaker 22: floor in a cupboard, out of the sun. 2018 01:36:06,173 --> 01:36:07,892 Speaker 3: Wow. Well, thank you so much for you call Michael 2019 01:36:07,933 --> 01:36:08,812 Speaker 3: living off the grid. 2020 01:36:08,973 --> 01:36:14,812 Speaker 2: Yeah, old school, old school cabbage in the cupboard, sweet ass. 2021 01:36:14,853 --> 01:36:16,612 Speaker 3: I think that's sorted out. Well, I know there was 2022 01:36:16,652 --> 01:36:19,173 Speaker 3: no cabbage leaves in the in the parcel. Were there 2023 01:36:19,412 --> 01:36:21,213 Speaker 3: or house, we would have been sorted their magic. 2024 01:36:21,893 --> 01:36:23,692 Speaker 2: My uncle was in the navy and when the meat 2025 01:36:23,692 --> 01:36:26,133 Speaker 2: turned green, they'd white with vinegar, and he said it 2026 01:36:26,173 --> 01:36:28,253 Speaker 2: was the most tender and delicious meat your liver eat 2027 01:36:28,812 --> 01:36:29,852 Speaker 2: you wait for it to go green. 2028 01:36:29,933 --> 01:36:35,253 Speaker 3: Then yeah, good guys, rulers don't see anything over a weekend. 2029 01:36:35,372 --> 01:36:37,092 Speaker 3: Was it frozen or just chilled? 2030 01:36:37,133 --> 01:36:42,772 Speaker 2: Yeah, lynd So and holy cow, butchery's defense and not. 2031 01:36:42,772 --> 01:36:45,612 Speaker 2: The Great New Zealander is doing an absolutely fantastic job 2032 01:36:45,652 --> 01:36:47,612 Speaker 2: down there in Cambridge. But they sent it in a 2033 01:36:47,652 --> 01:36:51,092 Speaker 2: one day curR correer. It said, urgent one day courier 2034 01:36:51,253 --> 01:36:54,213 Speaker 2: absolutely has to be in one day. But then the 2035 01:36:54,253 --> 01:36:58,293 Speaker 2: courier didn't make good on that one day delivery, let 2036 01:36:58,333 --> 01:37:00,812 Speaker 2: the team down. It just sort of happened to I 2037 01:37:00,812 --> 01:37:02,772 Speaker 2: got it on Monday. But I'm gonna eat it. I'm 2038 01:37:02,772 --> 01:37:05,213 Speaker 2: gonna eat it. I'm gonna put a cabbage leaf, i'n 2039 01:37:05,293 --> 01:37:07,532 Speaker 2: rub it in vinegar. I'm not gonna let those animals 2040 01:37:07,532 --> 01:37:10,213 Speaker 2: and the hard work of the farmers and the butchers 2041 01:37:10,572 --> 01:37:13,572 Speaker 2: and everyone in the system and nature go to waste, 2042 01:37:13,652 --> 01:37:15,692 Speaker 2: even if it gives me a bit of a tummy ache. 2043 01:37:16,053 --> 01:37:19,173 Speaker 3: Good on you, Good on you. Right, coming up very shortly, 2044 01:37:19,213 --> 01:37:21,133 Speaker 3: we're going to have a chat to Gareth Abden or 2045 01:37:21,253 --> 01:37:24,293 Speaker 3: you know him well. He's our employment law expert and 2046 01:37:24,333 --> 01:37:27,053 Speaker 3: he will be taking all your questions and queries and 2047 01:37:27,133 --> 01:37:30,172 Speaker 3: concerns about anything going on in your workplace. He's brilliant. 2048 01:37:30,293 --> 01:37:32,293 Speaker 3: He's the man to chat to. But nine two ninety 2049 01:37:32,293 --> 01:37:34,692 Speaker 3: two is the text number, and if you want to 2050 01:37:34,732 --> 01:37:36,612 Speaker 3: chat to them direct, the number is Ozer eight hundred 2051 01:37:36,652 --> 01:37:40,053 Speaker 3: and eighty ten eighty. It is bang on up past three. 2052 01:37:43,053 --> 01:37:45,492 Speaker 5: You talks the headlines. 2053 01:37:44,973 --> 01:37:48,173 Speaker 16: With blue bubble taxes, it's no trouble with a blue bubble. 2054 01:37:48,612 --> 01:37:51,892 Speaker 16: The IMF is again urging New Zealand to have a 2055 01:37:51,893 --> 01:37:56,772 Speaker 16: capital gains tax to incentivize other economic growth, and also 2056 01:37:56,933 --> 01:38:01,372 Speaker 16: suggesting lowering corporate tax. The government is tweaking the Foreign 2057 01:38:01,492 --> 01:38:05,052 Speaker 16: Investment Fund, hoping to attract more talent to New Zealand 2058 01:38:05,253 --> 01:38:10,333 Speaker 16: by changing rules on taxing migrants. The Independent Police Conduct 2059 01:38:10,412 --> 01:38:14,932 Speaker 16: Authority is investigating a man's death at allday Point during 2060 01:38:15,013 --> 01:38:18,852 Speaker 16: his arrest after a pursuit which included a taser, pepper 2061 01:38:18,893 --> 01:38:23,612 Speaker 16: spray and manual restraint. Auckland Police have identified a man 2062 01:38:23,692 --> 01:38:26,972 Speaker 16: accused of inappropriately touching a high schooler on a bus 2063 01:38:27,013 --> 01:38:31,772 Speaker 16: this morning, Barter asking any witnesses to contact them. Education 2064 01:38:31,973 --> 01:38:36,213 Speaker 16: Minister Ericus Stanford has finally sat down with Associate David 2065 01:38:36,253 --> 01:38:40,252 Speaker 16: Seymour to discuss the Billie at School lunch program, offering 2066 01:38:40,372 --> 01:38:43,932 Speaker 16: him her full support. A child got second degree burns 2067 01:38:43,933 --> 01:38:47,213 Speaker 16: from an overheated lunch last week. This week a major 2068 01:38:47,253 --> 01:38:51,932 Speaker 16: provider went into liquidation. The challenge Liam Lawson is facing 2069 01:38:51,973 --> 01:38:55,253 Speaker 16: as twenty twenty five F one season begins. Read the 2070 01:38:55,253 --> 01:38:58,013 Speaker 16: full column Aty and said Herald Premium. Now back to 2071 01:38:58,053 --> 01:38:59,492 Speaker 16: matt Ethan Tyler Adams. 2072 01:38:59,572 --> 01:39:02,492 Speaker 3: Thank you very much, Rayleen. While Gareth Abdenaor is an 2073 01:39:02,492 --> 01:39:07,372 Speaker 3: employment workplace in information expert and director of Abdenor Employment Law, 2074 01:39:07,452 --> 01:39:10,012 Speaker 3: he joins us once month on our asked the Experts 2075 01:39:10,053 --> 01:39:12,932 Speaker 3: series to answer listeners questions, and he's back with us 2076 01:39:12,933 --> 01:39:17,572 Speaker 3: this afternoon. Gareth, Hello, hey guys, how you doing very good? 2077 01:39:17,612 --> 01:39:19,092 Speaker 3: How was christ you this afternoon? 2078 01:39:19,853 --> 01:39:22,333 Speaker 6: Yes, it's a bit windy and rainy, so it's a 2079 01:39:22,333 --> 01:39:23,213 Speaker 6: good inside day. 2080 01:39:23,452 --> 01:39:24,652 Speaker 3: Yeah, not very nice. 2081 01:39:24,973 --> 01:39:30,053 Speaker 2: It is absolutely beautiful here, blue skies and an absolutely. 2082 01:39:29,652 --> 01:39:31,932 Speaker 3: Amazing anytime you want a holiday up here, Garret, you 2083 01:39:31,933 --> 01:39:32,612 Speaker 3: just give us a bus. 2084 01:39:33,013 --> 01:39:35,853 Speaker 2: It's actually I don't believe it for it's actually. 2085 01:39:35,652 --> 01:39:36,173 Speaker 3: Raining up here. 2086 01:39:36,213 --> 01:39:39,093 Speaker 2: And I've got my nephew visiting from from Dunedin, and 2087 01:39:39,133 --> 01:39:41,732 Speaker 2: whenever one of my family members visit from Dunedin it's 2088 01:39:41,732 --> 01:39:44,372 Speaker 2: always bad weather. My dad will come for the only 2089 01:39:44,412 --> 01:39:46,293 Speaker 2: frost of the year, and he got it's not so 2090 01:39:46,333 --> 01:39:46,892 Speaker 2: great up here? 2091 01:39:46,973 --> 01:39:47,932 Speaker 3: Is it Murphy's law? 2092 01:39:48,133 --> 01:39:50,372 Speaker 2: Then Felix is going to go back saying it rains 2093 01:39:50,412 --> 01:39:50,892 Speaker 2: here every day. 2094 01:39:51,973 --> 01:39:53,692 Speaker 6: That's what happens when you leave the mainland. 2095 01:39:53,893 --> 01:39:57,173 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. Now, oh eight hundred and eighty ten eighty 2096 01:39:57,333 --> 01:39:58,933 Speaker 3: is the number to call if you want to have 2097 01:39:58,973 --> 01:40:01,293 Speaker 3: a chat to Gareth. He's brilliant and it pays to 2098 01:40:01,293 --> 01:40:03,612 Speaker 3: get it in early because it's always a popular segment. 2099 01:40:03,612 --> 01:40:06,093 Speaker 3: If you prefer to text more than welcome to nine two. 2100 01:40:06,213 --> 01:40:09,132 Speaker 3: Nine two is the text number. And we've got plenty 2101 01:40:09,213 --> 01:40:11,652 Speaker 3: of great questions coming through Gareth, but we'll just go 2102 01:40:11,772 --> 01:40:15,012 Speaker 3: straight to the phones because Steven's on stand by Gidda. 2103 01:40:15,053 --> 01:40:19,213 Speaker 8: Stephen, Well, Hi, I tell you I just got a 2104 01:40:19,293 --> 01:40:24,053 Speaker 8: question about the public holidays. You know. My understanding is 2105 01:40:24,253 --> 01:40:27,093 Speaker 8: that if you're required to work on your normal roster day, 2106 01:40:27,372 --> 01:40:29,492 Speaker 8: if it falls out of the holiday, you're entitled to 2107 01:40:29,532 --> 01:40:32,693 Speaker 8: a time and a half pay and also an alternative 2108 01:40:32,772 --> 01:40:38,493 Speaker 8: day off in compensation. But my question is the definition 2109 01:40:38,572 --> 01:40:41,253 Speaker 8: of a normal roster to day because currently I work 2110 01:40:41,293 --> 01:40:45,252 Speaker 8: in a cafe and i'll roster changes on a weekly basis, 2111 01:40:45,772 --> 01:40:48,572 Speaker 8: and then I think I just since because it has 2112 01:40:48,612 --> 01:40:51,093 Speaker 8: happened the two or three times already this year. My 2113 01:40:51,253 --> 01:40:53,213 Speaker 8: sense is that's where the boss is going, and they're 2114 01:40:53,253 --> 01:40:57,692 Speaker 8: trying to purposely ross you off on a public holiday. 2115 01:40:57,893 --> 01:41:01,133 Speaker 8: And then because the bosses understand is that unless you 2116 01:41:01,173 --> 01:41:04,212 Speaker 8: are roster to work on a particular day, let's say Monday, 2117 01:41:05,253 --> 01:41:08,612 Speaker 8: for three weeks consecutively, otherwise it doesn't classify as a 2118 01:41:08,652 --> 01:41:10,812 Speaker 8: normal roster's day. Is that correct? 2119 01:41:10,933 --> 01:41:11,973 Speaker 13: Or why are they able to do that? 2120 01:41:13,093 --> 01:41:16,532 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's a great question, Stephen. And this is one 2121 01:41:16,572 --> 01:41:20,692 Speaker 6: of those strange provisions in the Holidays Act that keeps 2122 01:41:20,732 --> 01:41:27,692 Speaker 6: people calling. It's not a straightforward question. If you have 2123 01:41:28,213 --> 01:41:32,612 Speaker 6: varied days of work, like you work on a roster, 2124 01:41:36,173 --> 01:41:38,772 Speaker 6: if there is an argument over whether it's a normal 2125 01:41:38,893 --> 01:41:44,012 Speaker 6: day or not. I have seen cases where people have 2126 01:41:44,133 --> 01:41:49,293 Speaker 6: looked at the previous six months of work and seeing 2127 01:41:49,333 --> 01:41:53,012 Speaker 6: if that is regularly a day that you work. I'm 2128 01:41:53,053 --> 01:41:56,053 Speaker 6: not sure if looking at the past three weeks is 2129 01:41:56,093 --> 01:41:59,452 Speaker 6: going to be enough. It's certainly an argument, but this 2130 01:41:59,572 --> 01:42:03,812 Speaker 6: is not a straightforward yes or no question, unfortunately, and 2131 01:42:03,893 --> 01:42:05,412 Speaker 6: that's the draw of the Holidays Act. 2132 01:42:06,812 --> 01:42:10,652 Speaker 8: Okay, so they can actually prevousely off and then the 2133 01:42:10,692 --> 01:42:13,772 Speaker 8: next week, like you worked the five weeks in between 2134 01:42:13,853 --> 01:42:16,372 Speaker 8: the two public holidays and he happened to be off 2135 01:42:16,412 --> 01:42:18,213 Speaker 8: for those holidays. 2136 01:42:18,853 --> 01:42:21,052 Speaker 6: Yeah, I definitely think that's worth an argument. 2137 01:42:22,013 --> 01:42:24,812 Speaker 8: Yeah, okay, all right, okay, thank you very much. 2138 01:42:24,853 --> 01:42:27,053 Speaker 3: All the best, Stephen, thank you very much. Just on 2139 01:42:27,133 --> 01:42:30,173 Speaker 3: the Holidays Act at South Garethon. I know that's the 2140 01:42:30,173 --> 01:42:33,572 Speaker 3: bane of your life. But is there some movement? There 2141 01:42:33,692 --> 01:42:37,852 Speaker 3: was some talk earlier on from from the Coalition government 2142 01:42:37,853 --> 01:42:40,813 Speaker 3: that they were looking to change some of that legislation. 2143 01:42:41,053 --> 01:42:41,812 Speaker 3: Is that still the case. 2144 01:42:42,293 --> 01:42:46,572 Speaker 6: Yeah, there have been several attempts at it already, where 2145 01:42:46,973 --> 01:42:49,772 Speaker 6: various working groups have been put together to try and 2146 01:42:49,853 --> 01:42:54,812 Speaker 6: simplify it. It's incredibly incredibly difficult to do though, and 2147 01:42:56,013 --> 01:42:58,293 Speaker 6: my duck feeling is that it would be much better 2148 01:42:58,452 --> 01:43:01,972 Speaker 6: just to completely rewrite it from scratch. Of course, that's 2149 01:43:02,053 --> 01:43:05,572 Speaker 6: a that's a huge piece of work, and it keeps 2150 01:43:05,612 --> 01:43:07,133 Speaker 6: falling down the list of priorities. 2151 01:43:07,333 --> 01:43:10,412 Speaker 3: Yeah. Absolutely, some great teachs coming through on nine to 2152 01:43:10,452 --> 01:43:12,892 Speaker 3: two nine two after that. 2153 01:43:13,013 --> 01:43:15,333 Speaker 2: This is an interesting one actually, and kind of complicated, 2154 01:43:15,372 --> 01:43:19,133 Speaker 2: I imagine after the whole Andrew Bailey thing. I don't 2155 01:43:19,173 --> 01:43:21,972 Speaker 2: know how to behave at work? Can I hug people. 2156 01:43:22,093 --> 01:43:24,412 Speaker 2: I used to hug everyone in the morning. Is it 2157 01:43:24,452 --> 01:43:27,972 Speaker 2: only touching an anger that's the problem. What about friendly touching? 2158 01:43:27,973 --> 01:43:29,692 Speaker 2: I can see a official kure. I don't think they 2159 01:43:29,692 --> 01:43:31,612 Speaker 2: mean it to sound exactly like that. Yeah, but you 2160 01:43:31,652 --> 01:43:32,372 Speaker 2: get what I mean. 2161 01:43:32,652 --> 01:43:33,973 Speaker 6: I thought you were asking. 2162 01:43:35,492 --> 01:43:37,213 Speaker 3: He's not allowed to touch anyone there. 2163 01:43:37,372 --> 01:43:39,293 Speaker 6: Well, I'm happy to give you a hug. 2164 01:43:40,253 --> 01:43:42,812 Speaker 2: Well, it's an interesting the word friendly touching. I think 2165 01:43:42,853 --> 01:43:45,013 Speaker 2: I know what they mean. Yeah, you know, like, is 2166 01:43:45,013 --> 01:43:47,692 Speaker 2: it like jovial rather than mean yeah? 2167 01:43:47,853 --> 01:43:49,892 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah. 2168 01:43:50,452 --> 01:43:53,412 Speaker 6: In this day and age, my legal advice would be 2169 01:43:53,652 --> 01:43:57,012 Speaker 6: best not to touch anyone you work with, no matter 2170 01:43:57,053 --> 01:44:00,173 Speaker 6: what you intend by it. Of course, in reality, some 2171 01:44:00,213 --> 01:44:04,652 Speaker 6: people are huggy people. Yeah, but if there's any doubt, don't. 2172 01:44:05,173 --> 01:44:08,452 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a that's kind of a funny concept than 2173 01:44:08,532 --> 01:44:10,492 Speaker 2: it because you they're coming Because I'm not really a 2174 01:44:10,572 --> 01:44:12,812 Speaker 2: huggy person, but I'm not going to deny a hug 2175 01:44:12,853 --> 01:44:17,732 Speaker 2: from someone. So if someone's coming in for the sort of. 2176 01:44:17,692 --> 01:44:24,412 Speaker 3: A sting, and I'm sure Gareth, you know, if someone 2177 01:44:24,452 --> 01:44:27,453 Speaker 3: wanted to take it further, was a handshake, for example, 2178 01:44:27,732 --> 01:44:30,772 Speaker 3: that would be easier to argue rather than than a hug. 2179 01:44:31,093 --> 01:44:32,732 Speaker 2: Yeah, surely we're not in the world where you can't 2180 01:44:32,732 --> 01:44:33,412 Speaker 2: have a handshake. 2181 01:44:35,612 --> 01:44:36,173 Speaker 6: I hope not. 2182 01:44:37,452 --> 01:44:39,012 Speaker 3: Cindy, how are you this afternoon? 2183 01:44:39,732 --> 01:44:39,932 Speaker 25: Yeah? 2184 01:44:39,973 --> 01:44:40,612 Speaker 5: Good things. 2185 01:44:41,093 --> 01:44:42,173 Speaker 3: Gareth is standing by. 2186 01:44:43,293 --> 01:44:46,333 Speaker 20: Hi, Gareth, thanks for taking my call. I'm just wanting 2187 01:44:46,372 --> 01:44:49,572 Speaker 20: can you please explain the ten days sick leave and 2188 01:44:49,652 --> 01:44:53,253 Speaker 20: carrying over to the next year to make twenty. How 2189 01:44:53,253 --> 01:44:53,932 Speaker 20: does it work? 2190 01:44:54,853 --> 01:44:58,932 Speaker 6: Yeah, So, basically, there's a cap that you can't have 2191 01:44:59,053 --> 01:45:03,253 Speaker 6: more than twenty days, and because you get ten new 2192 01:45:03,293 --> 01:45:07,812 Speaker 6: ones each year, if you if you haven't used any 2193 01:45:07,853 --> 01:45:11,213 Speaker 6: of them and you've got twenty and you get another ten, 2194 01:45:11,492 --> 01:45:15,133 Speaker 6: you don't end up with thirty. The ten oldest ones 2195 01:45:15,173 --> 01:45:19,213 Speaker 6: fall away and you've still got twenty. Of course, these 2196 01:45:19,293 --> 01:45:22,652 Speaker 6: days it seems pretty rare that people don't use their 2197 01:45:22,732 --> 01:45:25,213 Speaker 6: sick leaves, so it's unusual for someone to have their 2198 01:45:25,213 --> 01:45:27,692 Speaker 6: maximum and then get another ten. 2199 01:45:29,732 --> 01:45:34,093 Speaker 20: Okay, yeah, no, I'm just speaking as from the point 2200 01:45:34,093 --> 01:45:38,012 Speaker 20: of an employer with someone who hasn't taken this sick leave. 2201 01:45:38,093 --> 01:45:41,173 Speaker 20: We've only taken a couple of days and they now 2202 01:45:41,213 --> 01:45:44,492 Speaker 20: on leave due to an injury, and I've given them 2203 01:45:44,532 --> 01:45:48,452 Speaker 20: ten days sickly, but they've still got some lift goes 2204 01:45:48,492 --> 01:45:50,572 Speaker 20: from the previous years, So do I carry that over? 2205 01:45:52,293 --> 01:45:52,452 Speaker 8: Yeah? 2206 01:45:52,532 --> 01:45:56,133 Speaker 6: I mean, now we're starting to get into quite a 2207 01:45:56,173 --> 01:46:00,372 Speaker 6: technical thing which I can't give you a view worth 2208 01:46:00,412 --> 01:46:03,732 Speaker 6: having all of the facts. But there's a maximum of 2209 01:46:03,772 --> 01:46:08,053 Speaker 6: twenty and my understanding from the logistics is that you 2210 01:46:08,053 --> 01:46:12,652 Speaker 6: would be using the oldest ones first, So if they're 2211 01:46:12,652 --> 01:46:15,213 Speaker 6: ones that haven't been used, then they will carry over 2212 01:46:15,253 --> 01:46:17,452 Speaker 6: to the next year, as long as it doesn't go 2213 01:46:17,732 --> 01:46:23,173 Speaker 6: with that maximum. Okay, of course, just to complicate things further, 2214 01:46:23,572 --> 01:46:32,093 Speaker 6: some organizations have additional benefits over and above the statutory minimums, 2215 01:46:32,853 --> 01:46:37,053 Speaker 6: and for some of those organizations, well, employees can have 2216 01:46:37,372 --> 01:46:41,812 Speaker 6: an awful lot of sickly built up. But it doesn't 2217 01:46:41,853 --> 01:46:44,573 Speaker 6: sound like that's the case for you. 2218 01:46:44,652 --> 01:46:46,532 Speaker 20: No, okay, all. 2219 01:46:46,532 --> 01:46:49,412 Speaker 3: Right, all the best, thanks, yeah, good luck. If you've 2220 01:46:49,452 --> 01:46:51,892 Speaker 3: got a question for Gareth, now is your opportunity, Oh, 2221 01:46:51,933 --> 01:46:54,572 Speaker 3: eight hundred and eighty ten eighties the number to call, 2222 01:46:54,812 --> 01:46:56,492 Speaker 3: and we've got some great teachs coming through on nine 2223 01:46:56,492 --> 01:46:58,372 Speaker 3: to two ninety two. I've just got a question. 2224 01:46:58,532 --> 01:47:01,333 Speaker 2: Do sick days sit as a liability on a company 2225 01:47:01,412 --> 01:47:04,093 Speaker 2: like Untaken Holidays do? 2226 01:47:07,013 --> 01:47:09,333 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's a that's a good Christian. I'm not sure 2227 01:47:09,492 --> 01:47:12,772 Speaker 6: that's that's more of an accounting question than a employment 2228 01:47:12,772 --> 01:47:18,333 Speaker 6: more question. But I imagine it would sit there because 2229 01:47:18,372 --> 01:47:22,052 Speaker 6: they can use it. Of course, it doesn't get paid 2230 01:47:22,053 --> 01:47:26,652 Speaker 6: out if the employee leaves, yeah, unlike annual leave. 2231 01:47:26,812 --> 01:47:29,572 Speaker 3: Yeah, which makes sense to them. Alright, all right, okay, 2232 01:47:29,612 --> 01:47:31,532 Speaker 3: we're going to take a quick break, but when we 2233 01:47:31,612 --> 01:47:34,972 Speaker 3: come back, plenty more questions for Gareth. If you want 2234 01:47:34,973 --> 01:47:37,372 Speaker 3: to get in, you're more than welcome. Oh one hundred 2235 01:47:37,452 --> 01:47:40,692 Speaker 3: eighty ten eighty full lines at the moment, but keep trying. 2236 01:47:40,732 --> 01:47:41,812 Speaker 3: It is eighteen to four. 2237 01:47:42,772 --> 01:47:45,372 Speaker 1: Have a chat with the lads on eight hundred eighty 2238 01:47:45,412 --> 01:47:48,932 Speaker 1: ten eighty Matt and Taylor afternoons with the Volvo XC 2239 01:47:49,093 --> 01:47:53,253 Speaker 1: ninety tick every box, a seamless experience, awaits news talks. 2240 01:47:53,293 --> 01:47:56,932 Speaker 3: They'd be good afternoon, And we have on the line 2241 01:47:56,973 --> 01:48:01,532 Speaker 3: Gareth Abdenor from abdenaor Employment Law. He's an employment law 2242 01:48:01,732 --> 01:48:05,093 Speaker 3: expert and he's here to answer your questions on our 2243 01:48:05,133 --> 01:48:07,572 Speaker 3: eight hundred eighty ten eighty and if you want to 2244 01:48:07,612 --> 01:48:11,293 Speaker 3: check out his business abdenal Law dot Nz. But Gareth, 2245 01:48:11,333 --> 01:48:15,213 Speaker 3: we've got plenty of callers on the line, so let's 2246 01:48:15,213 --> 01:48:16,052 Speaker 3: go to Jenny. 2247 01:48:16,133 --> 01:48:18,452 Speaker 7: How are you good afternoon? 2248 01:48:18,532 --> 01:48:18,772 Speaker 29: Fine? 2249 01:48:18,812 --> 01:48:19,173 Speaker 10: Thank you? 2250 01:48:20,053 --> 01:48:23,333 Speaker 29: I just wanted to make an inquiry about retirement. I've 2251 01:48:23,372 --> 01:48:27,612 Speaker 29: got long service leaves which is due, and I've got 2252 01:48:27,692 --> 01:48:30,093 Speaker 29: annually which will be paid out. But my employee is 2253 01:48:30,093 --> 01:48:35,093 Speaker 29: saying that they won't pay out long service leaves at retirement, 2254 01:48:35,173 --> 01:48:37,053 Speaker 29: that it has to be used up prior to that. 2255 01:48:37,333 --> 01:48:38,052 Speaker 29: Is that correct? 2256 01:48:41,612 --> 01:48:44,293 Speaker 3: Or might have just Oh, sorry, yep you go, Gareth. 2257 01:48:44,133 --> 01:48:44,812 Speaker 6: Am I back on? 2258 01:48:44,933 --> 01:48:45,692 Speaker 3: Yep, you're back on. 2259 01:48:45,692 --> 01:48:49,572 Speaker 6: Now, I'm back on, all right, great question, Jenny. Long 2260 01:48:49,612 --> 01:48:54,532 Speaker 6: service leave is something that is negotiated between the parties 2261 01:48:54,572 --> 01:48:57,293 Speaker 6: and should be recorded in a policy or in your 2262 01:48:57,333 --> 01:49:01,612 Speaker 6: employment agreement. It wouldn't surprise me if one of the 2263 01:49:01,692 --> 01:49:05,213 Speaker 6: conditions is that you need to take the leave and 2264 01:49:05,253 --> 01:49:10,093 Speaker 6: it's not paid out to you. It would be unusual 2265 01:49:10,532 --> 01:49:13,532 Speaker 6: for an employer to agree to pay that out to 2266 01:49:13,612 --> 01:49:14,572 Speaker 6: you when you leave. 2267 01:49:15,853 --> 01:49:17,572 Speaker 29: Right, Okay, I'll go back to the contract. 2268 01:49:17,652 --> 01:49:20,293 Speaker 3: Thank you for that, Thank thank you very much. Jinny. 2269 01:49:20,372 --> 01:49:22,372 Speaker 2: This is an interesting one. On nine two nine two. 2270 01:49:22,412 --> 01:49:24,612 Speaker 2: I'm working for a company as an in house painter. 2271 01:49:25,133 --> 01:49:27,172 Speaker 2: Want to start my own company? Can I use pictures 2272 01:49:27,213 --> 01:49:29,532 Speaker 2: of my work on a website? If it's not obvious 2273 01:49:29,572 --> 01:49:32,212 Speaker 2: it's from the current employer. Crop pictures and such. 2274 01:49:35,452 --> 01:49:40,452 Speaker 6: I see a lot of red flags andus it's obviously 2275 01:49:40,492 --> 01:49:45,533 Speaker 6: this person has some doubts about whether this would be appropriate. Yeah, 2276 01:49:45,572 --> 01:49:47,732 Speaker 6: and I would agree with that, you know what I say, 2277 01:49:47,893 --> 01:49:50,852 Speaker 6: if if in doubt, don't. I think this is one 2278 01:49:50,853 --> 01:49:55,052 Speaker 6: of those cases because if your employer finds out, it's 2279 01:49:55,133 --> 01:49:56,092 Speaker 6: likely to be a problem. 2280 01:49:56,253 --> 01:49:57,692 Speaker 3: Yeah, very dangerous. 2281 01:49:57,853 --> 01:50:00,133 Speaker 2: Which it's clear that they know it's wrong because they're 2282 01:50:00,173 --> 01:50:02,612 Speaker 2: cropping them. So really you're asking, can I get away 2283 01:50:02,652 --> 01:50:04,333 Speaker 2: with this thing that I know I'm not allowed to do? 2284 01:50:04,492 --> 01:50:04,692 Speaker 3: Yeah? 2285 01:50:04,732 --> 01:50:07,213 Speaker 6: If my friend wants to post these pictures? 2286 01:50:07,253 --> 01:50:09,812 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, spot on. This is good takes as well, 2287 01:50:09,853 --> 01:50:14,132 Speaker 3: Gareth High. Should staff be advised that a security camera 2288 01:50:14,333 --> 01:50:17,652 Speaker 3: in our lunch room records video and audio during work hours? 2289 01:50:17,812 --> 01:50:20,293 Speaker 3: Is that an invasion of privacy? Can I do anything 2290 01:50:20,333 --> 01:50:20,652 Speaker 3: about that? 2291 01:50:21,333 --> 01:50:25,572 Speaker 6: Oh? This is fantastic. It really depends on why the 2292 01:50:25,612 --> 01:50:31,012 Speaker 6: camera has been installed. If it's to if there've been 2293 01:50:31,173 --> 01:50:33,652 Speaker 6: a number of thefts and they are trying to catch 2294 01:50:33,692 --> 01:50:36,612 Speaker 6: the thief, then it would really defeat the purpose to 2295 01:50:36,692 --> 01:50:39,932 Speaker 6: tell everybody that they've installed a camera. Of course, if 2296 01:50:39,973 --> 01:50:45,253 Speaker 6: it's just a general health and safety camera, then there 2297 01:50:45,333 --> 01:50:49,293 Speaker 6: should be notices and the staff should be told about it. 2298 01:50:49,293 --> 01:50:53,653 Speaker 6: It's also pretty unusual for a camera in those circumstances 2299 01:50:53,692 --> 01:50:58,333 Speaker 6: to record audio, and that's something that Yeah, I think 2300 01:50:58,372 --> 01:51:02,452 Speaker 6: this person could definitely raise with the employer because that 2301 01:51:02,652 --> 01:51:05,213 Speaker 6: is getting to the point where arguably it is a 2302 01:51:05,253 --> 01:51:06,092 Speaker 6: breach of privacy. 2303 01:51:06,293 --> 01:51:11,412 Speaker 2: Yeah, audio scenes too much, right, because that seems like 2304 01:51:11,452 --> 01:51:12,972 Speaker 2: you're trying to listen to what people are saying. 2305 01:51:13,133 --> 01:51:14,572 Speaker 6: Yeah, why are you recording that? 2306 01:51:14,612 --> 01:51:16,932 Speaker 3: Why do you need to Yeah, just super quick, Gareth, 2307 01:51:16,973 --> 01:51:19,612 Speaker 3: are you allowed to see that video? If you know 2308 01:51:19,652 --> 01:51:21,692 Speaker 3: it's been recorded and you say, hey, I just want 2309 01:51:21,692 --> 01:51:23,333 Speaker 3: to see some of that footage? Have you got a 2310 01:51:23,412 --> 01:51:23,892 Speaker 3: right to do that? 2311 01:51:24,933 --> 01:51:28,572 Speaker 6: And it depends if the footage is just of you, 2312 01:51:29,532 --> 01:51:33,052 Speaker 6: I think you've got a very good case to ask 2313 01:51:33,173 --> 01:51:36,333 Speaker 6: for access to it. Of course, if if it's you 2314 01:51:36,612 --> 01:51:40,213 Speaker 6: and a bunch of other people, you know, you could 2315 01:51:40,253 --> 01:51:43,293 Speaker 6: be breaching their privacy. I guess it depends. If it's 2316 01:51:43,293 --> 01:51:46,372 Speaker 6: in a lunch room, is there an expectation of privacy? 2317 01:51:46,572 --> 01:51:49,812 Speaker 6: Most probably not. If it's a changing room, very different story. 2318 01:51:49,933 --> 01:51:51,133 Speaker 3: Yeah, very good. I'll tell it. 2319 01:51:51,133 --> 01:51:53,372 Speaker 2: Where I work, These cameras and mix just right in 2320 01:51:53,412 --> 01:51:53,772 Speaker 2: my face. 2321 01:51:53,772 --> 01:51:54,372 Speaker 3: It's blazing. 2322 01:51:54,452 --> 01:51:56,173 Speaker 6: That's outroageous. 2323 01:51:57,412 --> 01:51:58,093 Speaker 3: Dave, how are. 2324 01:51:58,013 --> 01:52:01,852 Speaker 21: You yeah, good things tell you boys, Yeah. 2325 01:52:01,732 --> 01:52:04,333 Speaker 3: Very good. We've got Gareth standing by ready for your question. 2326 01:52:05,572 --> 01:52:09,492 Speaker 13: Okay, I'm a contractor, been for for four years at 2327 01:52:09,492 --> 01:52:10,492 Speaker 13: one place. 2328 01:52:12,053 --> 01:52:14,093 Speaker 6: The top of you right there, Dave. You can't be 2329 01:52:14,133 --> 01:52:18,812 Speaker 6: a contractor and be employed. You're either a contractor and 2330 01:52:18,973 --> 01:52:22,973 Speaker 6: you are contracted, or you're an employee and you're employed. 2331 01:52:23,853 --> 01:52:26,333 Speaker 13: Okay, I'm a contractor and I'm contracted to the same 2332 01:52:26,372 --> 01:52:27,853 Speaker 13: place for four years. 2333 01:52:28,093 --> 01:52:28,333 Speaker 6: Yep. 2334 01:52:28,492 --> 01:52:30,053 Speaker 7: So is there a little bit. 2335 01:52:32,173 --> 01:52:33,012 Speaker 16: By law. 2336 01:52:34,652 --> 01:52:37,652 Speaker 13: That is that the maximum you can work at a 2337 01:52:37,692 --> 01:52:40,452 Speaker 13: place before you get deemed as a permanent employee. 2338 01:52:41,013 --> 01:52:44,253 Speaker 6: No, no, there isn't. It really comes down to whether 2339 01:52:44,293 --> 01:52:48,333 Speaker 6: you're actually a contractor or not, and that depends on 2340 01:52:49,692 --> 01:52:53,333 Speaker 6: things different to how long you've been there. Of course, 2341 01:52:53,572 --> 01:52:57,132 Speaker 6: if you've been there for four years, you may well 2342 01:52:57,213 --> 01:53:02,333 Speaker 6: have been incorporated into the company, integrated into the business, 2343 01:53:02,812 --> 01:53:05,213 Speaker 6: and that is one of the factors that may point 2344 01:53:05,253 --> 01:53:08,732 Speaker 6: towards you being an employee. The courts look at it 2345 01:53:08,812 --> 01:53:11,812 Speaker 6: and they say, are you truly in business on your 2346 01:53:11,812 --> 01:53:17,732 Speaker 6: own account? And a lot of people who have a 2347 01:53:17,812 --> 01:53:21,372 Speaker 6: contracting agreement rather than an employment agreement and get paid 2348 01:53:21,452 --> 01:53:24,532 Speaker 6: like a contractor aren't actually running their own business. 2349 01:53:26,933 --> 01:53:29,933 Speaker 3: Right, okay, all right, all the best. He thank you 2350 01:53:30,053 --> 01:53:32,253 Speaker 3: very much. Right, we've got to play some messages, but 2351 01:53:32,253 --> 01:53:34,812 Speaker 3: we'll come back with some more questions very shortly. It 2352 01:53:34,893 --> 01:53:35,892 Speaker 3: is nine to four. 2353 01:53:37,412 --> 01:53:40,892 Speaker 4: The big stories, the big issues, the big trends and 2354 01:53:41,133 --> 01:53:42,212 Speaker 4: everything in between. 2355 01:53:42,412 --> 01:53:46,293 Speaker 1: Matt and Taylor Afternoons with the Volvo XC ninety attention 2356 01:53:46,372 --> 01:53:48,253 Speaker 1: to detail and a commitment to comfort. 2357 01:53:48,333 --> 01:53:51,572 Speaker 5: News Dogs EDB on News Dogs EDB. 2358 01:53:52,173 --> 01:53:53,972 Speaker 3: Good afternoon. It is six to four. 2359 01:53:54,372 --> 01:53:58,412 Speaker 2: So Gareth Ebnore is an employment, workplace and information expert 2360 01:53:58,452 --> 01:54:03,732 Speaker 2: and director of abbot Nor Abbot Nor Employment Law. Sorry, 2361 01:54:04,333 --> 01:54:06,972 Speaker 2: but we've had so many calls and so many texts 2362 01:54:06,973 --> 01:54:08,973 Speaker 2: now full lines and we have be able to get 2363 01:54:08,973 --> 01:54:11,772 Speaker 2: to all of them, so big apologies to everyone. Next 2364 01:54:11,772 --> 01:54:13,213 Speaker 2: time we have you on, Gareth, we're gonna have to 2365 01:54:13,293 --> 01:54:16,253 Speaker 2: have you on for an hour. All good if you've 2366 01:54:16,293 --> 01:54:18,293 Speaker 2: got the time, because I feel bad how all these 2367 01:54:18,293 --> 01:54:19,053 Speaker 2: people we haven't got to. 2368 01:54:19,173 --> 01:54:21,892 Speaker 3: Yeah, so much feedback, but Gareth, thank you very much 2369 01:54:21,973 --> 01:54:24,173 Speaker 3: as always, really appreciate it, and we'll catch you again 2370 01:54:24,213 --> 01:54:24,612 Speaker 3: in a month. 2371 01:54:25,173 --> 01:54:26,333 Speaker 6: Sounds good, thanks guys. 2372 01:54:26,372 --> 01:54:29,732 Speaker 3: That is Gareth Abdenall from Abdenall Employment Law. If you 2373 01:54:29,732 --> 01:54:32,493 Speaker 3: want to check out his website. Abdenorlaw dot en zed 2374 01:54:32,693 --> 01:54:34,493 Speaker 3: and I've got to do this part. The content of 2375 01:54:34,533 --> 01:54:37,772 Speaker 3: the segment is general in nature and is not legal advice. 2376 01:54:37,812 --> 01:54:40,733 Speaker 3: Any information discussed is not intended to be a substitute 2377 01:54:40,812 --> 01:54:44,932 Speaker 3: for obtaining specific professional advice, and should not be relied 2378 01:54:45,013 --> 01:54:49,053 Speaker 3: upon as such. And that is ask for today. What 2379 01:54:49,213 --> 01:54:50,333 Speaker 3: a fantastic show. 2380 01:54:50,573 --> 01:54:53,013 Speaker 2: Yeah, well until tomorrow. If it smells okay, eat it 2381 01:54:53,093 --> 01:54:55,693 Speaker 2: and if it's slimy, wash it and then need it. 2382 01:54:55,772 --> 01:54:57,453 Speaker 3: Yeah, good advice. What are you going to start with? 2383 01:54:57,733 --> 01:55:01,293 Speaker 3: Surely the lamb grenade? Yeah, definitely check it all on 2384 01:55:01,333 --> 01:55:03,613 Speaker 3: the barbie at once. I read the tomahawk. Yeah yeah, 2385 01:55:03,733 --> 01:55:05,772 Speaker 3: check it all on the barbie. No sniff test, get 2386 01:55:05,853 --> 01:55:06,493 Speaker 3: into it. 2387 01:55:07,453 --> 01:55:10,892 Speaker 2: Roll the dice, Alie exactly exactly wors that could happen. 2388 01:55:11,013 --> 01:55:13,932 Speaker 3: And thank you very much for everybody who phoned and 2389 01:55:14,093 --> 01:55:17,613 Speaker 3: called today and also all your text and as we mentioned, 2390 01:55:17,772 --> 01:55:20,613 Speaker 3: we're sorry we couldn't get all of your questions to Gareth. 2391 01:55:20,653 --> 01:55:23,012 Speaker 3: Hopefully we'll get him in for an hour next time 2392 01:55:23,093 --> 01:55:26,413 Speaker 3: he is here, but plenty of questions that we'll put 2393 01:55:26,453 --> 01:55:28,733 Speaker 3: on the bank for next time. So thank you very 2394 01:55:28,812 --> 01:55:32,173 Speaker 3: much for today, and we will do it all again tomorrow. 2395 01:55:33,653 --> 01:55:35,253 Speaker 2: Give a tastic care from our sake. 2396 01:55:35,413 --> 01:55:44,733 Speaker 24: Can see the samis it's all done, Jeline, you can 2397 01:55:44,853 --> 01:55:48,613 Speaker 24: see it's all. 2398 01:55:49,253 --> 01:55:50,573 Speaker 6: I can't really. 2399 01:55:51,853 --> 01:55:52,533 Speaker 26: Disperation. 2400 01:55:53,853 --> 01:55:54,613 Speaker 24: I kid the. 2401 01:55:56,173 --> 01:56:02,172 Speaker 30: Our own decision and I've got this. Anyone stop going 2402 01:56:05,413 --> 01:56:07,092 Speaker 30: and knows. 2403 01:56:07,133 --> 01:56:16,253 Speaker 31: So that excellent do for your drinking yours. And yes 2404 01:56:16,413 --> 01:56:20,253 Speaker 31: I know I'm nothing to aid. I'm a coffee pot 2405 01:56:20,373 --> 01:56:26,533 Speaker 31: for your last touching up for your nice thinking me 2406 01:56:27,173 --> 01:56:32,252 Speaker 31: in my holes persway, I leco so you can please real. 2407 01:56:32,772 --> 01:56:34,133 Speaker 24: Lest the pieces. 2408 01:56:35,493 --> 01:56:38,053 Speaker 1: For more from News Talks, it'd be listen live on 2409 01:56:38,173 --> 01:56:41,132 Speaker 1: air or online and keep our shows with you wherever 2410 01:56:41,213 --> 01:56:43,733 Speaker 1: you go with our podcasts on iHeartRadio