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Speaker 2: Midwinter Christmas Cocktail Special. Welcome to a little bit of.

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Speaker 3: My name.

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Speaker 2: My name is Bridge.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to a little bit of Bob.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let me break it can flitch.

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Speaker 3: Set Bobby?

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Speaker 2: Bobby doesn't your break and flitches Bobby? How did we

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Speaker 2: do it? Was that good Spanish? No?

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Speaker 4: The Argentinian sleeping Argentinians like no.

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Speaker 3: No, Hello, please buy, okay.

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Speaker 2: Stop star.

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Speaker 5: Welcome to the Midwinter Christmas Cocktail Special, our big pot

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Speaker 5: back your life third.

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Speaker 2: Please me mister Argentinian arg How do you say? I

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Speaker 2: know his name, but I'm giving you anonymous? Sorry? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: How do you say Merry Christmas? Police?

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Speaker 5: Police?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? How do you say midwinter Christmas? He doesn't even

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Speaker 2: know the concept.

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Speaker 3: Christmas?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just a thing.

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Speaker 5: It's like a jokey thing, midwinter in June. What would

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Speaker 5: you say midwinter Christmas?

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Speaker 2: They don't do it.

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Speaker 1: Sure, there you go.

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Speaker 5: Now we do have a new cocktail and we do

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Speaker 5: have only a few podcast shout outs. Lived Hotty has

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Speaker 5: made us I believe a hot Toddy. Well.

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Speaker 4: I thought it was appropriate because the last Cocktail podcast

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Speaker 4: that was when you Vaughn changed my name in the

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Speaker 4: group Chan.

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Speaker 2: And I was just like, yeah, we did things.

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Speaker 3: We all did things that night.

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Speaker 6: The most.

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Speaker 4: We also like Toddy is like serving us, but he's

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Speaker 4: drinking alongside.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, now you've made it so hot, Toddy, and I

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Speaker 5: believe there's star auses and.

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Speaker 2: Star Sorry sorry, what's the bass?

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Speaker 1: Jamerson?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? What do you think, Haley?

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Speaker 7: Not?

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Speaker 2: If not a fan, I love because I love mulled wine.

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Speaker 5: Mild it's like a mulda.

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Speaker 2: I don't think it's fruity and sweet for this fairy.

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Speaker 1: I don't think it's this very puppy.

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Speaker 2: Fruit and sugar and.

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Speaker 1: Where.

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Speaker 4: But we go out for cocktails, we'll always go spicy

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Speaker 4: or whiskey based, like round based.

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Speaker 1: It's got to be.

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Speaker 3: It's got to be. It's got to have a hard

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Speaker 3: but otherwise, look and it's gone to go.

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Speaker 4: What's the pinkest, fluffiest, sweetest, passion fruitiest thing that you.

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Speaker 2: I've tried to keep a balance today, God.

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Speaker 5: Hot Toddy on the drinks today. You've done so well.

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Speaker 3: Thank you do well?

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Speaker 2: Now should we get some more? Six spis.

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Speaker 3: No one's asked me what twist.

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Speaker 2: Spanish come back.

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Speaker 3: Said all that time, you motherfuckers.

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Speaker 2: Mister.

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Speaker 3: No one asked me why I was said, I want

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Speaker 3: to guess what.

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Speaker 2: He loves the sixty Spanish.

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Speaker 3: So you doubt there's a six Italian is on? Like Italians?

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Speaker 2: No, I think Spanish right into the what's.

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Speaker 4: The sixiest thing you could say to someone who you're

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Speaker 4: like trying to pick up?

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Speaker 1: Mute?

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Speaker 2: Oh horny, yeah he was before. You're like wide on

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Speaker 2: right now, right.

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Speaker 3: Shop, you are being naughty. Drink some water stream bottle.

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Speaker 3: That's so inappropriate. We have to maintain a professional work place.

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Speaker 2: Sorry.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Also, I would like to say that flitch you've.

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Speaker 2: Been doing due lingo for two years? No Spanish? Do

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Speaker 2: you even five years? Come and shame on you, actually,

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Speaker 2: shame on you. Slip like he doesn't like.

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Speaker 3: Us, jewelingus like caption as jewelingus while you're down there.

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Speaker 3: Hit both holes, that's.

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Speaker 5: What it is.

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Speaker 2: And you have been Okay, wait.

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Speaker 1: Wait what what?

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Speaker 2: What did what you said?

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Speaker 1: What does it mean?

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Speaker 2: What what you said to Haley?

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Speaker 6: What is it?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 2: I don't know what he said. What did you say

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Speaker 2: to Haley before?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just before that, she's really pretty and she wants

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Speaker 3: to have a drink with me.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, it's beautiful legs where it's like drink said something?

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Speaker 6: I want to whisk your way and take your away

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Speaker 6: for a weekend of ultimate pleasure that you'll never forget.

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Speaker 3: Because that's gonna and.

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Speaker 4: Like that like that.

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Speaker 2: Can you say, I want to whisk your way.

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Speaker 3: For a weekend of ultimate pleasure that you'll never forget?

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Speaker 2: And hot air ballooning?

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Speaker 3: That's a dangerous would you have a week here? It

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Speaker 3: was on when it comes to just dangerous illnesses?

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Speaker 4: Can you please say, Julian, I want to whisk your

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Speaker 4: way for.

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Speaker 3: A long and romantic weekend of ultimate pleasure that you'll

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Speaker 3: never forget.

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Speaker 2: It's a girl in the house now.

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Speaker 5: Can we get an HR rolling on us? And we're

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Speaker 5: allowed to be this morning at work? James if it happens,

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Speaker 5: thank you.

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Speaker 1: What are you having?

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Speaker 2: What's in that you've lived in?

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Speaker 5: Because you're just visiting back from Australia, but you've lived

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Speaker 5: in New Zealand. Who's hot Australians or New Zealanders.

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Speaker 3: As Yeah, you.

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Speaker 2: Pour was way too long? Okay, I thought you were.

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Speaker 2: Now we kind of wish you were.

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Speaker 5: Now we're got a couple more shout outs, so one more.

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Speaker 2: I think we're at the end, aren't we nearly? Nearly?

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Speaker 3: What's the most exciting thing that happened to you this. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: this is anonymous. Another anonymous.

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Speaker 6: Okay, so I do apologize if you said these and

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Speaker 6: think can we give you a shout out?

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Speaker 3: But you'll know deep down this is about you and

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Speaker 3: I became an I.

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Speaker 5: Will say we didn't have enough time to get to everybody.

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Speaker 2: So if we didn't, we'll do another one.

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Speaker 3: I believe an episode when I said.

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Speaker 4: Suck it, you did at the end of At the

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Speaker 4: end of the year, you have to text us saying

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Speaker 4: I got sucked and I sucked it.

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Speaker 2: We're going to have a box tacked the box.

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Speaker 4: I sacked it and now I want to be hurt

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Speaker 4: and now I want to be heart Stop silencing me.

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Speaker 2: I sucked it, so now I listen to me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all right, this is where they're nymous. Okay, what's

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Speaker 3: the juiciest thing that's happened to you this year? Okay,

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Speaker 3: I'm in my late thirties and I slept with a

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Speaker 3: girl for the first time.

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Speaker 5: Hot on now, big hearted James, who is a gold

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Speaker 5: star gay j know, before you arrived there was talk

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Speaker 5: of a platinum but then.

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Speaker 2: Out of the vagina, So you're yeah, I know you're.

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Speaker 1: Right, platinum.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you have touched a giant Gentina. You are a

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Speaker 5: gold star gay or platinum gay? Have you been with

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Speaker 5: a girl before?

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Speaker 1: Did you come at your mom?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Talking to with any.

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Speaker 3: Woman now if you wanted it was like, what do

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Speaker 3: you mean?

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Speaker 7: Have you been?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 2: Will you be in a couple of hours?

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Speaker 3: All right, Okay, I'm the girl life changing.

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Speaker 6: I wish I'd done it years ago, the sweet thod

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Speaker 6: this is all about experience. Problem is no one else knows.

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Speaker 6: I'm far too introbuted and nervous to tell anyone. So

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Speaker 6: feel like I have to live alone for the rest

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Speaker 6: of my life realizing don't announce that maybe I just

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Speaker 6: couldn't find mister right because he doesn't exist for me.

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Speaker 2: What No, don't please take produce a can't one. I'm

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Speaker 2: going to pass my mic to her.

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Speaker 3: Fleet you give your mic to Haley.

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Speaker 2: Why can't I speak? Well?

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Speaker 1: Not because I don't know if my mich will reach

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Speaker 1: But you're not a woman. Wow.

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Speaker 3: But actually, as some of the woman experience.

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Speaker 1: Listen, listen, Haley, and I know that's what you need.

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Speaker 4: You know, Yeah, you're just honestly, I still also like

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Speaker 4: the idea and I've never had.

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Speaker 2: To come out to my parents before.

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Speaker 4: But I think the whole idea of like sexuality is

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Speaker 4: so much more fluid now.

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Speaker 2: You almost need to bother. Yeah, don't turn up a

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Speaker 2: Christmas girl. And I'm saying this is Stacy.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and you better have a fucking present for Stacey,

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Speaker 5: because it's if you.

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Speaker 1: Don't, if you don't, barbecue kt is what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: More faith in your family that they will understand that,

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Speaker 4: like you just love who you love.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, good work, Yeah, yeah, yeah, lifety short. Life's too

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Speaker 2: short to live under that.

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Speaker 4: We're literally if we hark back fourteen episodes ago, we

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Speaker 4: had some person who said that their biggest regret in

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Speaker 4: life was not telling their mum that they were gay

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Speaker 4: before she died.

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Speaker 2: Don't be that person. They're not going to judge you.

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Speaker 2: They love you for who you are. Who you love

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Speaker 2: is the least interesting thing about you.

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Speaker 1: They just want to know you're happy. Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 2: If that person makes you happy, it doesn't matter who

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Speaker 2: they are.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: No, And then.

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Speaker 2: The head have you ever regretted? Have you ever met

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Speaker 2: anyone that regretted coming out to their family?

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Speaker 7: Never?

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Speaker 2: Never, in my life?

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Speaker 5: And maybe the old person's parents didn't take it well

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Speaker 5: but they didn't it right because they didn't regret it from.

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Speaker 2: And you find a found family exactly. Yeah, this sounds

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Speaker 2: like a big gay gender. The show has always had

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Speaker 2: big gay agender. We love our good listeners.

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Speaker 5: Okay, well, I believe we've got another podcast special.

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Speaker 2: To go from the chefters were going back around.

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Speaker 3: You give yours back to Fletch and you take yours

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Speaker 3: back off carwhen I've.

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Speaker 2: Got too much?

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Speaker 3: Can say, what a pleasure that wasn't here? What a

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Speaker 3: pleasure was that you speak from the hut?

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Speaker 2: I know we don't out louder, we.

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Speaker 3: Don't we feel out harder?

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Speaker 2: We love, we feel out? Can we just hear from

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Speaker 2: gay James about that? From the eight chatter?

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Speaker 3: Is that okay to say we feel out harder? Look

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Speaker 3: at sleep with the right intense?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no real, no red and warning there. Yeah I will.

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Speaker 3: I will say.

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Speaker 6: If your parents choose whatever preconceived notion they have over

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Speaker 6: their children that they should love without condition, fuck them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was Gonnam.

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Speaker 1: Deserve more than that.

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Speaker 3: The same Anison wishes to say.

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Speaker 4: I almost sometimes I get sad that my parents have

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Speaker 4: gayer kids, because.

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Speaker 2: My parents are so liberal and so left leading, and so.

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Speaker 3: They would always lean into some gay case what have Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Now I've got a fiance and male fiance, and my

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Speaker 2: I'm always like they deserved the game.

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Speaker 3: I think my sisters new partner has Moldy Ant's history.

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Speaker 3: There was enough of a stretch for my parents.

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Speaker 1: We don't.

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Speaker 6: When they said to my grandmother, who's still live, God

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Speaker 6: Moldy ancestry. Yeah, he's got the tattoos.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and tongue.

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Speaker 6: My granddad wearing a woman's a couple of generations. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 6: I was going to ask you tell me if I'm

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Speaker 4: Leave the charge with my family and the conversation about

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Speaker 2: That she was around. Yeah, so her parents spoke at

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Speaker 3: And she grew up up.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's crazy that like you know, there be because

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Speaker 5: So she was.

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Speaker 3: She had her own cane let's school the name on it.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god. One final piece of information for anonymous

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Speaker 6: Thought, way is that unexpensive to show those around you

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Speaker 6: did you care and appreciate them without being cheesy?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god? Lasagnia? What anal?

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Speaker 5: Lasagna and anal? Let's talk about those two vastly different things.

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Speaker 3: Fantastic conventions and.

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Speaker 5: The Italians have been anal, yes, I'm not sure, romance anal, aqueducts, Yes, aqueducts,

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Speaker 5: the Greek and anal, the Greek anals canals.

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Speaker 2: For so many.

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Speaker 3: I don't think you need to do anything expensive for

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Speaker 4: No, spend time with the yeah, be interested in what

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Speaker 6: And it's gotta have carven and past, but mens and

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Speaker 3: Look, get the vegebles right the out of it, because

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Speaker 4: Also, women are very good at affirmations like, oh no,

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Speaker 4: I don't have time to give people, but I will

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Speaker 4: text my female friends saying, hey, queen, I just want

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Speaker 4: to let you know I'm thinking of you and how

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Speaker 3: That's about you.

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Speaker 2: Have seen any of that to know you fucking hate that.

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Speaker 1: All the time.

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Speaker 3: I'll assume you've spoken to my doctor and you don't

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Speaker 3: my terminal diagnosis.

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Speaker 5: And say are you dying?

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Speaker 3: You're okay, come over.

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Speaker 6: Money should never have been an issue when you're looking

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Speaker 6: No money, yeah, words, time and love,