1 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 1: Welcome along to the podcast. Friday, the fourteenth of November, 2 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:18,920 Speaker 1: twenty five year old. 3 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:21,079 Speaker 2: What the your j dog? 4 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:23,800 Speaker 3: I'm just sniffing my own farts here. I'm watching the 5 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 3: video of me rolling the towels from yesterday. I'm reading 6 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 3: the comments underneath. This is in the conclave the Hodock 7 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 3: Your Breakfast Facebook page. It's a safe space to share 8 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:37,560 Speaker 3: any opinions that you have on the show, discuss things 9 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 3: that are or are not. 10 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 2: To deal with the show, radio show or podcast or 11 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 2: both either wherever you're familiar with us. Someone said, hang on, wait, Bed, 12 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:50,960 Speaker 2: Bath and Beyond has a radio show. 13 00:00:55,080 --> 00:00:59,440 Speaker 1: That's good. I unrolled the roll the towel for my 14 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 1: fifteen year dirty yesterday show How to Do It. Yeah, 15 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 1: it's the first time I genuinely she looked at me 16 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 1: like you're not a bad dad, The first time she 17 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:11,400 Speaker 1: ever looked at me with any kind of pride. She's 18 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 1: never done it before, and she's like, oh, actually this 19 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:16,160 Speaker 1: bastard can do something. 20 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 3: So when some seventy year old woman comes over and 21 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 3: badges you for a photo in public, that doesn't do 22 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 3: anything for her. 23 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:26,560 Speaker 1: NA that's she's She's like, what why would she want 24 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 1: to do that? 25 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:30,440 Speaker 3: This is what's so good about the about the towel 26 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:34,040 Speaker 3: rolling things like, it's a it's practical, you can actually 27 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:38,400 Speaker 3: do something with it, prompts you into my missus last 28 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:40,280 Speaker 3: night was like, well, this is great. I'll never fold 29 00:01:40,319 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 3: a towel again. I was like, no, I will fold 30 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 3: every towel for the rest of it. This is someone's 31 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 3: lift the dirty towel out in the office. I just 32 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 3: about rolled that, but then I saw it had stains 33 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 3: on it. I was like, I don't want to touch it. 34 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 1: I you know I've took to you before about our 35 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:56,760 Speaker 1: extensive tower collection at home. Yeah, we've collected them over 36 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:58,400 Speaker 1: the years because we've got a poll. So people come 37 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 1: over with their towels and just leave them, and I 38 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 1: can't remember whose towers ho and I can't be bother 39 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 1: the common people up and saying can pick up your towel, 40 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 1: because who buys a towel anyway, anyone. I've never bought 41 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 1: a towel. 42 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 2: We just bought towels. 43 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:11,799 Speaker 3: Remember, this is why those toils are in the office, 44 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:14,080 Speaker 3: because remember I tore two towels in half of them 45 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 3: a week and. 46 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:17,919 Speaker 2: Then we're like, let's get some new tails. 47 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:20,160 Speaker 3: And that was the first time we've ever bought towels again, 48 00:02:20,240 --> 00:02:22,400 Speaker 3: Like you say, I have no idea where tales have 49 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:25,520 Speaker 3: ever come from before. They just appear. It's like cutlery. 50 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:28,160 Speaker 3: I have no conscious memory of buying cutlery. 51 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 1: I'n't ever bought cutlorie either. Same as a lighter. You 52 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: just used to procure a lighthole. No, have you bought 53 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:37,799 Speaker 1: some liners? Oh? 54 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 2: Have I bought some? 55 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 3: I just cleaned up my bedside table and I reckon 56 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:44,800 Speaker 3: genuinely twenty lighters. Oh, you're a lighter buyer, a lighter hooarder, 57 00:02:44,880 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 3: And this is what it is. I can I know 58 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:49,639 Speaker 3: exactly why as well. It's because I convinced myself that 59 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:52,360 Speaker 3: I'm not a smoker, right, so I go out on 60 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 3: the past intending not to smoke, and then I'll be like, 61 00:02:56,880 --> 00:02:59,640 Speaker 3: get a pack. But of course, because I'm lying to 62 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 3: myself about it, I don't have a lighter on me. 63 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 3: So I'm buying a lighter every single time. Then I 64 00:03:03,680 --> 00:03:05,360 Speaker 3: then I that goes on the bedside table. 65 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 2: Forget about it. 66 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 1: Oh it's good that you keep them, at least, because 67 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 1: I thought what happens is people buy the lighters and 68 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:13,400 Speaker 1: then someone steals them. Well, it's it's you borrow it 69 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:15,360 Speaker 1: to light it. But at that sage, you probably had 70 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 1: a couple of drinks. Yeah, you just forget about what's 71 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 1: going on in your pocket. Ye, I'm a I'm a 72 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 1: lighter procurer, but not a buyer. 73 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:26,080 Speaker 4: Friend of mine bought cutlery once because he was in 74 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:28,000 Speaker 4: a marriage, and then his marriage broke up. 75 00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 2: She kept all. 76 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 4: The knives and forks and spoons and fucking basically just 77 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:33,880 Speaker 4: about everything. 78 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 2: She fucking kept. Actually, yeah, chopsticks. 79 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 4: Maybe he was a pussy and he just let her 80 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 4: keeped the stuff. So then he went to Brisco's and 81 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 4: he did a real good shop of a few pots 82 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 4: and pans. 83 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 3: I think if I think, if my long suffering, suffering 84 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:48,320 Speaker 3: partner called it all off, which has been threatened into 85 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 3: the already, I feel like I chicken have everything sot 86 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 3: for the PlayStation to be there. 87 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 2: Reckon. Oh, I don't really really attest to material things 88 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:56,640 Speaker 2: like that. 89 00:03:56,960 --> 00:04:04,119 Speaker 1: Right at a house, the house, well, when he broke 90 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 1: up with his partner here when you can take the 91 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 1: house down. 92 00:04:06,360 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, i'd never Yeah, I didn't really want to buy 93 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 2: that house anyway you have it. 94 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:13,480 Speaker 4: I'm not attached to material things but I'll take the PlayStation. 95 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 3: Why shouldn't want that, you know what I mean? She 96 00:04:15,560 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 3: can have the cat. I'll take my guitars. 97 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:20,159 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, sentimental. 98 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 2: She can't play those anyway. 99 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 3: So that's been the thing in our house ever since 100 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:28,880 Speaker 3: our recent engagement. Thank you uh as. Every time we 101 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 3: have just the minor little scuffles are called off, called. 102 00:04:31,800 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 1: Off, it's gonna be good. That's that's going to last 103 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 1: for if you're in my situation forever. Yeah, fifteen years 104 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 1: of engagement. She goes, you can rip that one out 105 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:42,280 Speaker 1: three times a week for fifteen years. 106 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 4: She has. 107 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:47,120 Speaker 2: We finished in the last night, she no chocolate in 108 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:48,840 Speaker 2: the house. I was like, yeah, She. 109 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:51,520 Speaker 3: Goes, do you get when you walk down the deary? 110 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:55,040 Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I already shout. I can't really 111 00:04:55,080 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 3: be bother leaving the house against are called off and 112 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 3: then she's in the French. Oh while you're in there, 113 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:04,200 Speaker 3: could you check me a drink out of the French? 114 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:07,160 Speaker 2: You got cool enough? 115 00:05:08,720 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 1: It seems to be a lot of asking each other 116 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 1: to do. 117 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I don't ask much of it. 118 00:05:16,080 --> 00:05:17,920 Speaker 1: Just Keller to grab a beer out. 119 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 3: Of she's already in the fucking fridge. Oh you know 120 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:22,040 Speaker 3: what I mean. That's what I said to her. You're 121 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 3: already in the fucking fridge. 122 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 2: Said that out loud. 123 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:29,880 Speaker 3: Another comment underneath the towel rolling video. I love the podcast, guys. 124 00:05:29,880 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 3: Have you ever thought about turning it into something more 125 00:05:31,760 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 3: long form, like an if M radio show? 126 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:35,559 Speaker 2: I think it'd be a great fit for the drivetime slot. 127 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 1: That's an idea. 128 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:40,280 Speaker 4: Is there a free slot in drive time on Radio 129 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 4: Head at the moment? 130 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 2: No, but we could go on another station. 131 00:05:47,480 --> 00:05:49,719 Speaker 4: What's how do you pronounce that guy's last name? Ollie 132 00:05:51,760 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 4: wap it w y but real good p y c H. 133 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:01,599 Speaker 4: George George is snipping around for the towels, by the way. 134 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 4: I don't know if Zoe's listening, but George Field wants 135 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:05,039 Speaker 4: the towels. 136 00:06:05,080 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 1: Oh, we're going to give them to them, and we're 137 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 1: going to give them to them folded. Yeah, the good 138 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 1: towels those. Would you rather have a towel that's one 139 00:06:11,320 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 1: of those new ones which I used the other day. 140 00:06:13,160 --> 00:06:17,279 Speaker 1: It's bloody, annoying that hasn't been washed enough so it 141 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:20,159 Speaker 1: doesn't absorb anything. It's all soft, nah, but doesn't absorb. 142 00:06:20,240 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 1: Or would you rather have one of those ones that's 143 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 1: as dry as fuck. 144 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. 145 00:06:23,640 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 3: We we discussed this at the time when I bought 146 00:06:26,360 --> 00:06:28,599 Speaker 3: those new towels. But you know, when you get one 147 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:31,719 Speaker 3: of those dry, crunchy crispy bitches that will dray the 148 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:35,360 Speaker 3: fuck out, the problem with it is it doesn't dry itself, 149 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:36,839 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. So you get a cycle 150 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 3: through those quite quickly, I find. Yeah, you know, you 151 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 3: chuck it back on the towel rail. Even if it's heated, 152 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 3: it often won't quite dry itself out, so you're gonna 153 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:46,200 Speaker 3: get through them quite quickly. 154 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:47,560 Speaker 2: But fuck did they dry yet? 155 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:50,920 Speaker 1: While we're on towels, another question for the panel, how 156 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 1: often do you change your towel that you have in 157 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:56,719 Speaker 1: your like, you know, on sweet bathroom whatever. 158 00:06:57,520 --> 00:06:58,960 Speaker 2: I reckon once a. 159 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:01,039 Speaker 4: Week, yeah, we're once a week, once a week. 160 00:07:01,080 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, although every now and then once every two weeks. 161 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 3: Do you know when I know is our fucking handtawel? 162 00:07:06,920 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 3: The handtawel starts thinking, and you wash your hands and 163 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 3: then you dry them and then you go mm get. 164 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 4: It of that. 165 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 1: Yeah. I've started changing mind more often now I used to. 166 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:19,960 Speaker 1: I mean sometimes I reckon I would have gone months 167 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 1: back in the day. 168 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 2: With the tower. 169 00:07:22,520 --> 00:07:24,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, your heated tow rails a game changer in this 170 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 4: and this game. 171 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: Who doesn't ever heat a tower rail nowadays? 172 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 2: Wow, if you never heated tower rail, fuck you. 173 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 4: We got two brod but we don't use them because 174 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 4: I'm a cheap Well. 175 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 1: You don't turn off for good. 176 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 4: You're not going to notice that once once because we 177 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 4: really need to dry the kids' uniforms because they were dirty. 178 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:49,840 Speaker 4: And then they had to win and blah blah blah. 179 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 4: The next day and someone left the fucking heated tow 180 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 4: RAI along and I lost my. 181 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 1: Like, do you know what you are doing here? You 182 00:07:58,080 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 1: are setting your kids up because they I will say, 183 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:04,640 Speaker 1: our dad, our dad was a real Nazi around the 184 00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 1: heater tower anyway, and they're going to have an issue. 185 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: You know they're going to shoe. 186 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:11,880 Speaker 3: Trust me, I'm living with the product of that exact environment. 187 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 3: My missus turns everything off of the wall and it 188 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 3: drives me fucking insane. Do you go to turn something 189 00:08:16,640 --> 00:08:17,160 Speaker 3: on it's. 190 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 2: Break up with it, then to call it off? Call 191 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 2: it off? 192 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:25,240 Speaker 4: Fucking good value, Jeff, because I look at it him 193 00:08:25,280 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 4: like in so many ways, so if I. 194 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 3: So, For example, it was the toaster the other day 195 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 3: and we had to put the toaster in and where 196 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:34,600 Speaker 3: the plug is is it a fucking annoying spot? 197 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 2: And I got to reach back there and I was like, 198 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 2: turn it off. Okay, well she's. 199 00:08:38,360 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 3: Cleaning the beach. And then she's just like, I'm just 200 00:08:40,280 --> 00:08:43,960 Speaker 3: going to turn it off all and cleaning anyway. The 201 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:46,720 Speaker 3: other one is the fucking phone charge. Your phone charge 202 00:08:46,760 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 3: is plugged in at the wall, and but then it's 203 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:49,280 Speaker 3: turned off. You wake up the next. 204 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:51,880 Speaker 2: Morning your phone and it's like, how much money am 205 00:08:51,920 --> 00:08:54,120 Speaker 2: I going to save? How much money am I going 206 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:55,439 Speaker 2: to say? Even if that was turned on for a 207 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:58,440 Speaker 2: whole year. I mean, let's say that, let's say. 208 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:02,680 Speaker 3: On the hiring estimate for a phone charger or a 209 00:09:02,679 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 3: toast to be plugged in at the wall an entire 210 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:06,360 Speaker 3: year and turned on. Would that cost twenty bucks over 211 00:09:06,360 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 3: a year? Probably not, but let's say twenty is a 212 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:12,760 Speaker 3: high estimate. Would I pay twenty dollars to never experience 213 00:09:12,800 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 3: the fucking fury and rage I felt when I pushed 214 00:09:15,640 --> 00:09:17,240 Speaker 3: the toaster thing down and it didn't go? 215 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, would you pay twenty bucks? Every course of 216 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 1: a year? Is how much a day? Oh? Half per cent? 217 00:09:23,320 --> 00:09:24,680 Speaker 1: Would you pay half percent a day. 218 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:27,880 Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, I would pay that. I'd happily pay 219 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:29,080 Speaker 3: that to never have to deal with that shit. 220 00:09:29,120 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 2: Again. 221 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:31,840 Speaker 3: That's the same thing with the I know people who 222 00:09:31,880 --> 00:09:34,320 Speaker 3: are like, I'll never pay Way because it charges you 223 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:35,200 Speaker 3: two percent. 224 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:39,079 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm like, I'm like, that is me. 225 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 3: So again, what would that cost you over the course 226 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 3: of a year. Let's say high estimate, maybe like one 227 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:44,360 Speaker 3: hundred bucks would it? 228 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:48,000 Speaker 4: But you know why I feel the strongly year it's 229 00:09:48,040 --> 00:09:51,319 Speaker 4: one to two percent of all your purchases. Okay, one 230 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 4: to two percent of all your purchase. 231 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 2: Out at a retail shop or bar. 232 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 3: So let's say that over the course of a year, 233 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:59,160 Speaker 3: you spend what one thousand dollars one percent of that's 234 00:09:59,200 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 3: what ten dollars. So let's say you just spent ten 235 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 3: I'm so bad at math one ten bucks. Yeah, So 236 00:10:05,760 --> 00:10:09,120 Speaker 3: if you spent ten thousand dollars on payWave across the year, 237 00:10:09,160 --> 00:10:11,800 Speaker 3: which is an enormous amount of money, that would be what. 238 00:10:11,800 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 2: One hundred dollars? Would you pay one hundred dollars and 239 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 2: never have to put your fucking per number? And again 240 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:16,440 Speaker 2: I would do. 241 00:10:16,440 --> 00:10:18,720 Speaker 4: You know what annoys me though a heartbeat? What annoys 242 00:10:18,760 --> 00:10:21,280 Speaker 4: me about it, Mania is I'm just one man. I 243 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 4: am just one man, right, and if I am donating 244 00:10:25,559 --> 00:10:30,040 Speaker 4: let's say, basically one percent of my income to either 245 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 4: the fact that I'm having to pay extra for whatever 246 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 4: it is, or the fact that these poor fucking dairies 247 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 4: and the fucking warehouse and fucking Briscoes are having to 248 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:42,559 Speaker 4: pay the man at WISPAC and being z and a 249 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:46,040 Speaker 4: zid and they're having to pay them. Yeah, there's bullshit, bro, 250 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:48,200 Speaker 4: And that's why no stand up. 251 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 2: Why is because you're cheap about yourself. 252 00:10:52,640 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 4: I'm standing up for the corner shop. 253 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:57,560 Speaker 2: You are, Jerry, You're a pharaoh. 254 00:10:57,800 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 1: I'm paying the payWave, I'm paying the pay one. 255 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 4: You're paying the banks' pah. 256 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:07,319 Speaker 1: I know. I'm all about a strong New Zealand banking system. 257 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:08,840 Speaker 3: And you know what, of course, and they're taking those 258 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:13,320 Speaker 3: profits off. Sure, but I I would rather pay for 259 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 3: a service that means I don't have to put another 260 00:11:16,679 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 3: because that's all the pin number is and that gets 261 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:19,560 Speaker 3: leaked anyway. 262 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:22,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I would. I'd happily pay for that. 263 00:11:23,080 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 1: No. 264 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 3: I think it's bullshit that they charge it to us. 265 00:11:25,280 --> 00:11:27,679 Speaker 3: I think that should be scrapped and I think national are. 266 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:31,080 Speaker 1: I would go, though, I would go shoving my card 267 00:11:31,280 --> 00:11:36,560 Speaker 1: into some punishing if pulse system over not having dry 268 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 1: toils on my headed tower, I can't abide that. Okay, 269 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 1: otherwise why have one? 270 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 2: Yeah? 271 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:45,440 Speaker 4: Also, if you're not going to use it, well, we 272 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:47,599 Speaker 4: didn't install them. We bought the house with them. And 273 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:50,719 Speaker 4: take them out, take it out. Well, I'm going to 274 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 4: pargain in the house. Take them out, just put it. 275 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:54,679 Speaker 2: Take them out and put take them out and put 276 00:11:54,720 --> 00:11:57,000 Speaker 2: non heated tower. How much? 277 00:11:57,320 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 4: How much, then smarty pants is yep? How much does 278 00:12:00,920 --> 00:12:03,360 Speaker 4: it cost to use a heated towel rail in New 279 00:12:03,400 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 4: Zealand each month? 280 00:12:04,880 --> 00:12:05,480 Speaker 2: Each month? 281 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:09,080 Speaker 4: One heat and beer in mind, I've got two. 282 00:12:09,200 --> 00:12:10,079 Speaker 1: I think quite a bit. 283 00:12:11,559 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 4: Tucks fifteen to thirty. 284 00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 2: So let's just say, okay, fifteen bucks to have dry tails. 285 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:19,760 Speaker 4: So I would say, well, let's say twenty, because it's 286 00:12:20,320 --> 00:12:23,560 Speaker 4: fifteen thirty four hundred a year, four hundred bucks a year. 287 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 2: That means a lot to my. 288 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:27,000 Speaker 1: Four hundred bucks a year, four hundred bucks a year. 289 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:29,760 Speaker 4: That's but a trip to Wellington in the car or 290 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:31,839 Speaker 4: or or who wants to. 291 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:34,080 Speaker 1: Take a trip to Wellington in the cake? If you 292 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:37,400 Speaker 1: don't have to do that. That's good. I'd love to 293 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:39,079 Speaker 1: take up North. 294 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 4: Oh that's good. 295 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:41,400 Speaker 1: Wellington. 296 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:42,920 Speaker 4: My sister and new family live there. 297 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:44,680 Speaker 1: Okay, I'll get them to come up north too. About 298 00:12:44,679 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 1: you are your sister. 299 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:49,480 Speaker 4: The other thing is big of break actually, because we 300 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:51,480 Speaker 4: can't talk that thing about my sister. We can't talk 301 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:53,000 Speaker 4: about that in the podcast. 302 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:09,719 Speaker 3: Because you could just forego that trip to Wellington and 303 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:12,360 Speaker 3: supply your family with warm, dry toils for an entire year. 304 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:16,239 Speaker 4: Well, we've got fairly dry towels. Maybe they're not warm. 305 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:17,680 Speaker 4: Maybe they're warm once a week. 306 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:19,960 Speaker 1: Maybe you need to wash them less. If you've warmed 307 00:13:19,960 --> 00:13:22,319 Speaker 1: them up all the time, then you're saving money on 308 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:25,480 Speaker 1: the Washington expecterias and a moist and a wet towel. 309 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 4: Mine would be heaps because I stink and my kids. 310 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, this is the thing. You have to wash them 311 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:35,840 Speaker 1: more if you don't use them on the head of tower. 312 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:37,520 Speaker 1: So you actually save money, because I tell you a 313 00:13:37,559 --> 00:13:39,680 Speaker 1: good way to waste money, and that's to wash saving 314 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 1: is to wash clothes. It's expensive, yeah, but I don't know, 315 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:47,000 Speaker 1: but I'm happy to do it. Yes, So I'm sort 316 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 1: of like, what is the point of money is to live? 317 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:52,640 Speaker 3: It's just something you can use to make your life better, 318 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 3: and washing your clothes is one of the best ways 319 00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:55,800 Speaker 3: to make your. 320 00:13:55,760 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 2: Life a bit better. 321 00:13:56,480 --> 00:13:58,680 Speaker 3: And try not washing them for a few months there ago, 322 00:13:59,320 --> 00:14:01,359 Speaker 3: so I feel like there's nothing I'd rather spend. 323 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:02,840 Speaker 1: Money on them. There. No, I'm with you. 324 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:04,959 Speaker 2: I'll go you one further. 325 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:06,840 Speaker 3: And I think, I don't know if you're here when 326 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:09,959 Speaker 3: we're talking about this, but I'll chuck every single item 327 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 3: of clothing and the dryer too. 328 00:14:11,880 --> 00:14:13,720 Speaker 2: And I know what you're thinking, Oh, but won't shrink it. 329 00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:18,360 Speaker 3: If your garment can't stand up to a brutal spell 330 00:14:18,480 --> 00:14:20,840 Speaker 3: in the dryer, that doesn't make it into my wardrobe. 331 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:24,040 Speaker 1: Okay, I just run everything through. That's the Here's the 332 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:28,880 Speaker 1: issue there is that if you're running wool, if you're 333 00:14:28,960 --> 00:14:33,800 Speaker 1: running linen and cotton, the natural fibers, they don't like the. 334 00:14:33,840 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 2: Dry no, so then they don't make it into. 335 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:36,760 Speaker 1: My wardrobe now. And I don't want to wein non 336 00:14:36,840 --> 00:14:40,400 Speaker 1: natural fibers. When you get to forty eight, you got 337 00:14:40,400 --> 00:14:46,160 Speaker 1: to wear stuff that breeds, breeds breeding breed and breeds deuterior. 338 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:49,760 Speaker 2: What could you wear that breeds? Is there anything you 339 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 2: could wear them? 340 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:53,640 Speaker 1: Your towels probably start breeding, especially when they're staying them 341 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 1: when they're damp and. 342 00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 4: Some here that's a real drive. 343 00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 1: How often do you clean your sheets? Do you do that? 344 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:03,080 Speaker 1: Not often? To save some money? 345 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:07,000 Speaker 4: Well, once a week in summer, once a week in summer. 346 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:10,280 Speaker 4: Wants a fortnight in winter because I sweat much less 347 00:15:10,320 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 4: in winter. Can I say this Christ as well? Sending 348 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:15,080 Speaker 4: a shout out to sending a shout out to missus 349 00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:17,640 Speaker 4: Rodas she does the washing, she. 350 00:15:17,560 --> 00:15:20,040 Speaker 1: Does God's work. Living with you is what she does, 351 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 1: God's fucking work. There's no reply to that. You know 352 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:30,160 Speaker 1: it's true. 353 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:33,120 Speaker 2: Summer it's going to be a sweaty God's. 354 00:15:32,840 --> 00:15:36,400 Speaker 1: Work putting out with you and your fucking typefusted ship. 355 00:15:37,040 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 1: Jesus Christ. 356 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:40,600 Speaker 2: Woman, So she's sleeping in this fucking she's got to 357 00:15:40,640 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 2: sleep with you as well. Yeah, so she's got damp towels, 358 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 2: she gets to do it a damp bed because she's 359 00:15:44,240 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 2: sleeping in. They have to sleep. She gets to well, 360 00:15:48,080 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 2: and many would kill up law is bitch. 361 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 4: She does not have to. 362 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 2: She wants to. So then she's sleeping in this damp 363 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:57,240 Speaker 2: bed because she's got a sweaty, greasy pag next to 364 00:15:57,280 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 2: her in summer and he won't let her in the 365 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:02,200 Speaker 2: towel because it's bloody, going to cost too much to dry. 366 00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 2: The bastards again, I'll tell you what we we We've 367 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:09,920 Speaker 2: got an shoe. We've got an issue where because I 368 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:14,000 Speaker 2: make the bed, I'm the bid maker and I'm the 369 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 2: bid winner. 370 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:19,760 Speaker 3: But she strips the bed yep, and it's causing issues. 371 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 3: Where is there anything worse than trying to go to 372 00:16:22,320 --> 00:16:24,960 Speaker 3: bed and the beds stripped and you're like, now I'm 373 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:26,640 Speaker 3: going to make the whole bed before I get into it. 374 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:27,440 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? 375 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:29,520 Speaker 1: How many sheets sets of sheets are you running? 376 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:32,720 Speaker 2: We have a sheet? Yeah, we got three? 377 00:16:32,920 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, man, if you're stripping, you're you're putting it on. 378 00:16:35,920 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 2: If we're stripping, we're ripping. 379 00:16:37,640 --> 00:16:40,520 Speaker 1: But were's better two people making the bed, by the way. 380 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:42,840 Speaker 2: No, I disagree. I'm the one man. Get out of 381 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 2: the room. Let me do my let me do my shirt, 382 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:46,640 Speaker 2: let me do my money, Let me cook. 383 00:16:46,800 --> 00:16:48,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, cook the man some bed sheets. 384 00:16:48,760 --> 00:16:50,720 Speaker 2: Just let me cook and I will make the most 385 00:16:50,760 --> 00:16:52,360 Speaker 2: delightful bed. I'm excellent. 386 00:16:52,680 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 3: It's actually an excellent part of referrey from her because 387 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:59,000 Speaker 3: she's convinced me that I'm an excellent bid maker. 388 00:16:59,160 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 2: Yes, floated onto me. 389 00:17:01,280 --> 00:17:04,119 Speaker 1: But that's a good relationship, man, I reckon. A good 390 00:17:04,160 --> 00:17:08,280 Speaker 1: relationship is when you find your roles, your roles inside 391 00:17:08,280 --> 00:17:10,159 Speaker 1: of the partnership and you don't double handle shit all 392 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:12,560 Speaker 1: the time, and then you accept that that other person 393 00:17:12,600 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 1: does stuff that you don't like doing. Like, for example, 394 00:17:14,800 --> 00:17:17,400 Speaker 1: Tolsi loves filling out forms. 395 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:18,200 Speaker 2: Great. 396 00:17:18,760 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 1: I hate filling out form. She hates filling out forms 397 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:23,560 Speaker 1: so but she hates at less than me. So she's 398 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:26,120 Speaker 1: taken that thing out of my life. And I've think 399 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:27,840 Speaker 1: him the other days. I haven't filled out a form 400 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:29,520 Speaker 1: for ages, and I'm like, why am I so happy 401 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:31,439 Speaker 1: at the moment. It's because I haven't filled out a 402 00:17:31,520 --> 00:17:35,280 Speaker 1: form one. I just want that stupid thing that you 403 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:37,400 Speaker 1: put on your rest and like, I want to chip 404 00:17:37,400 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 1: at my rest or something, so I can you know, 405 00:17:40,440 --> 00:17:42,280 Speaker 1: you just go, yep, have you got enough money in 406 00:17:42,320 --> 00:17:44,240 Speaker 1: your bank to pay for that? Yeah, okay, there's your chip. 407 00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:47,360 Speaker 2: I consider putting my a number and is filling a format. 408 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:48,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a bit like that. 409 00:17:48,480 --> 00:17:49,399 Speaker 2: I just tried to log. 410 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:53,120 Speaker 1: Into Facebook on the the nightmare the time, but I think, see, 411 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:56,359 Speaker 1: I don't mind shopping for them. I quite enjoy doing 412 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,919 Speaker 1: the shopping groceries. Yeah, and I reckon, I'm better at 413 00:17:58,960 --> 00:17:59,880 Speaker 1: it than TOSSI I'm good. 414 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:04,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I hate it. I'm really and I don't. 415 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:06,359 Speaker 3: I will go with her. We've we've found a happy 416 00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:09,200 Speaker 3: medium now. But for you know, when COVID happened and 417 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:11,679 Speaker 3: you weren't allowed to both go where just she just 418 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:13,560 Speaker 3: went because she writes a list and she goes in 419 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:16,920 Speaker 3: and she but she's a forager, so she will read 420 00:18:16,960 --> 00:18:19,200 Speaker 3: the back of things, and so I'm like, forager, Yeah, 421 00:18:19,240 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 3: but she also wants me to come, So I'm like, 422 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:23,320 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna sit there and watch she read the 423 00:18:23,359 --> 00:18:23,680 Speaker 3: back of it? 424 00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:28,520 Speaker 1: Should give her three things that she's allowed to forage for, 425 00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:32,480 Speaker 1: you know, on the information she's foraging information she is, Yeah, 426 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:34,679 Speaker 1: she's allowed to forage information on three items and that. 427 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:37,280 Speaker 3: So yeah, because she wisely, she'll pull something off the 428 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 3: shelf and be like, oh, this looks cool and then 429 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:40,800 Speaker 3: put it straight back on the shelf and walk off. 430 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 2: She was never going to buy it. And then that 431 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:44,679 Speaker 2: makes me blood red mad because I'm also out in 432 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 2: public with people taking up the whole aisle and just 433 00:18:47,640 --> 00:18:48,360 Speaker 2: doing dumb shit. 434 00:18:48,480 --> 00:18:51,080 Speaker 3: But anyway, what I've figured out is I just put 435 00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 3: my head down, fuck her out with my fantasy teams. 436 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:56,479 Speaker 3: I'm on the tear be or whatever I'm doing, you know, 437 00:18:56,560 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 3: and then she'll be like, oh, I forgot a limit. 438 00:18:58,359 --> 00:18:59,440 Speaker 2: Can you go get a limit? Then I go and 439 00:18:59,440 --> 00:19:01,399 Speaker 2: get a limit. I come back, you know, I like 440 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:04,639 Speaker 2: I'm physically there, which is what she wants mentally. 441 00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:07,399 Speaker 1: Anywhere else, you're like, wellly happyada in a supermarket, you 442 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:09,480 Speaker 1: just go off for a mission, then come back again. 443 00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:10,840 Speaker 2: With no regard for my own safety. 444 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:12,280 Speaker 1: Kill some people back you come. 445 00:19:12,320 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 2: I killed a guy in the fresh produce just on Wednesday? 446 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:16,200 Speaker 4: Would it kills someone to give you a Victoria Cross? 447 00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:21,159 Speaker 2: And bar from my services to household shopping. 448 00:19:23,160 --> 00:19:27,000 Speaker 4: Unfortunately used shopping expedition to punish my family a few 449 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 4: weeks ago because I felt like no one fucking appreciated 450 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:30,879 Speaker 4: the fact. 451 00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:32,680 Speaker 1: Here you go, the. 452 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:36,440 Speaker 4: Old mate's the one that always goes to the supermarket, 453 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:40,280 Speaker 4: always goes, always finding the bargains at the supermarket, at 454 00:19:40,280 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 4: the packing save always because I met the peg and 455 00:19:42,160 --> 00:19:45,280 Speaker 4: day having to pack my own fucking you're also saving. 456 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:47,679 Speaker 1: Look, there's no one was finding the bargains and shopping 457 00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:51,800 Speaker 1: on specially, but I mean I punished my kids worth 458 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:54,200 Speaker 1: pulling out receipts when we're on holiday. I love to 459 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:56,600 Speaker 1: look at a supermarket seat on holiday and compare prices 460 00:19:56,600 --> 00:19:58,720 Speaker 1: to New Zealand particular. 461 00:19:58,800 --> 00:19:59,400 Speaker 2: You're overseas. 462 00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:01,440 Speaker 1: I love that. I love that in Australia and so 463 00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:03,680 Speaker 1: talking about the cost of living crossis. 464 00:20:03,280 --> 00:20:08,200 Speaker 2: But butter's cheaper, but other stuff? Did you see that? Kids? 465 00:20:08,200 --> 00:20:09,440 Speaker 2: And they're like, I couldn't give a fuck. 466 00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, they don't. 467 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:12,359 Speaker 3: That's the funny thing because my sister said to my 468 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:16,880 Speaker 3: dad the other day she would be thirteen twelve. She's 469 00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:18,520 Speaker 3: just like, Dad, why are you so worried about how 470 00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:19,479 Speaker 3: much everything costs? 471 00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:21,199 Speaker 2: And he's like, because the way everything? 472 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:24,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, the kids are just like kids what it costs. 473 00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:26,800 Speaker 1: That's probably your situation. Ruder. Yeah, I think I want 474 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:28,680 Speaker 1: I'm I'm the main bread winner here. I want to 475 00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:29,359 Speaker 1: be appreciated. 476 00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 2: Didn't used to be didn't used to be the main 477 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:33,600 Speaker 2: It used to be the bread bread. 478 00:20:33,359 --> 00:20:37,080 Speaker 4: Winner and this year the weird brinner. Yeah that's interesting. 479 00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:37,639 Speaker 4: It's different. 480 00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:39,520 Speaker 1: It's different being the main read winner. 481 00:20:39,600 --> 00:20:42,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's slightly different, dynamic, but no. 482 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:45,679 Speaker 2: Nah, you hold it just poor. I just I just know. 483 00:20:45,760 --> 00:20:47,639 Speaker 3: I find that if you hold it over them, they 484 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 3: like that. They like having it held over them. Have 485 00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 3: you just bring it up every now and then you 486 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:52,520 Speaker 3: know what I mean? 487 00:20:52,760 --> 00:20:54,879 Speaker 1: Tell you what I found. A woman loves more than 488 00:20:54,960 --> 00:20:58,800 Speaker 1: anything as a being, as a woman who's the main 489 00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:03,439 Speaker 1: bread winner. Yeah, and she also is the main nurture 490 00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:06,360 Speaker 1: and cure of Yah. Yeah, that runs the household, and 491 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:08,120 Speaker 1: she does most of the cleaning. 492 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:11,439 Speaker 4: Yeah, takes the mental load up, takes the mental load. 493 00:21:11,640 --> 00:21:15,720 Speaker 1: This is my experience of crave it. And then you 494 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:20,000 Speaker 1: mainly play golf with your friends, like huge amount of 495 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:21,360 Speaker 1: respect from man who's like that. 496 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:23,000 Speaker 2: No, And here's a tipically as well. 497 00:21:23,040 --> 00:21:25,800 Speaker 3: If it's raining or your mates pull out of the golf, 498 00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 3: just get on the PlayStation and it'll do. 499 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:29,359 Speaker 2: It'll trigger that same part of her brain. 500 00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:33,240 Speaker 4: I know a guy that dominated his relationship. He had 501 00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:35,600 Speaker 4: all of those things ticked off, and then at the 502 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:37,159 Speaker 4: end of the day he would say to her, do 503 00:21:37,160 --> 00:21:39,639 Speaker 4: you want to jump on my d Yeah? 504 00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:40,879 Speaker 2: They love that that. 505 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 4: Well, this particular person really loved it. The woman in 506 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:47,000 Speaker 4: the relationship, she thought it. 507 00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:49,040 Speaker 2: Was so cool. Yeah, this is so hot. 508 00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:56,480 Speaker 4: Literally everything I think he's with someone else now lucky. 509 00:21:56,280 --> 00:21:59,280 Speaker 2: Then, well yeah, lucky that Wow, they get to live 510 00:21:59,280 --> 00:21:59,640 Speaker 2: that life. 511 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 4: Woman man uh, a new woman, much younger. 512 00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, what Rice? Should we knock the thing on 513 00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:07,880 Speaker 2: the head? 514 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:08,800 Speaker 4: All right? 515 00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 2: Have they stop? God, girl, don't you stop? Keep going 516 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:20,840 Speaker 2: into your head to stop shop.