1 00:00:09,133 --> 00:00:12,013 Speaker 1: You're listening to a podcast from News Talk zed B. 2 00:00:12,413 --> 00:00:17,093 Speaker 1: Follow this and our wide range of podcasts now on iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:16,733 --> 00:00:19,532 Speaker 2: Continuing our Great New Zealanders of Christmas series. Everyone Knows 4 00:00:19,573 --> 00:00:22,493 Speaker 2: Jude Dobson. She became a familiar television presence in the 5 00:00:22,613 --> 00:00:25,092 Speaker 2: nineteen nineties after Quiz Show Sale of the Century. She 6 00:00:25,133 --> 00:00:27,533 Speaker 2: went on Too How almost one thousand episodes of five 7 00:00:27,573 --> 00:00:30,132 Speaker 2: point thirty with Jude Wow and its follow up. For 8 00:00:30,173 --> 00:00:32,373 Speaker 2: the past six years she's been researching, writing, producing and 9 00:00:32,412 --> 00:00:35,293 Speaker 2: directing World War One and World War II content, and 10 00:00:35,373 --> 00:00:38,133 Speaker 2: this year she released a book, The Last Secret Agent. 11 00:00:38,253 --> 00:00:40,653 Speaker 2: My life is a Spy behind Nazi lines with the 12 00:00:40,732 --> 00:00:44,252 Speaker 2: last surviving World War II British spy. It's the real, 13 00:00:44,373 --> 00:00:47,613 Speaker 2: untold story of Pipolatour's time as a secret agent in 14 00:00:47,653 --> 00:00:49,892 Speaker 2: the deadly world of Nazi France. The book has been 15 00:00:49,933 --> 00:00:52,973 Speaker 2: a smash hit here in New Zealand, been reprinted four 16 00:00:53,013 --> 00:00:55,653 Speaker 2: times and in Australia, and has been released in the 17 00:00:55,773 --> 00:00:58,933 Speaker 2: UK and is coming out in the US A in 18 00:00:59,093 --> 00:01:02,493 Speaker 2: May next year. I believe, Jude, congratulations on your huge 19 00:01:02,533 --> 00:01:04,613 Speaker 2: success this year. Are you surprised at how well the 20 00:01:04,613 --> 00:01:06,093 Speaker 2: book was wenton was received? 21 00:01:06,133 --> 00:01:08,253 Speaker 3: I hadn't actually thought about how well it would go. 22 00:01:08,413 --> 00:01:11,093 Speaker 3: It was just such a birth. The pregnancy and birth 23 00:01:11,213 --> 00:01:15,012 Speaker 3: was quite painful. But Pippa's story is amazing, and I'm 24 00:01:15,053 --> 00:01:17,253 Speaker 3: so pleased for her. She's no longer with us, of course, 25 00:01:17,292 --> 00:01:18,853 Speaker 3: but I'm really pleased for her that I could help 26 00:01:18,893 --> 00:01:20,333 Speaker 3: her bring that to life. 27 00:01:20,493 --> 00:01:20,693 Speaker 1: Yeah. 28 00:01:21,773 --> 00:01:24,373 Speaker 3: Yeah, I I secretly thought it might go okay because 29 00:01:24,373 --> 00:01:26,493 Speaker 3: when I started talking to her olwer, Yeah, this is 30 00:01:26,533 --> 00:01:27,093 Speaker 3: quite amazing. 31 00:01:27,173 --> 00:01:29,372 Speaker 2: Yeah, because it was a story that you know, when 32 00:01:29,413 --> 00:01:31,733 Speaker 2: you came across her and first started talking to her, 33 00:01:31,773 --> 00:01:35,173 Speaker 2: It's quite amazing that the story exists and exists here 34 00:01:35,173 --> 00:01:37,533 Speaker 2: in New Zealand. So the fact that it actually exists 35 00:01:37,572 --> 00:01:40,613 Speaker 2: was amazing. And then the execution of her story about 36 00:01:40,613 --> 00:01:44,173 Speaker 2: you was fantastic, but fantastic that you found it. 37 00:01:44,373 --> 00:01:44,613 Speaker 1: Yeah. 38 00:01:44,773 --> 00:01:48,133 Speaker 3: I was researching some World War II aviators in twenty 39 00:01:48,213 --> 00:01:51,293 Speaker 3: nineteen and she was introduced to me, and I said, oh, 40 00:01:51,253 --> 00:01:52,933 Speaker 3: gosh'd be great if you told your story one day, 41 00:01:52,933 --> 00:01:54,853 Speaker 3: and she sort of gave me that look like that's 42 00:01:54,893 --> 00:01:59,853 Speaker 3: never happening. But she did tell her story with not 43 00:01:59,893 --> 00:02:01,933 Speaker 3: a lot of runway left at one hundred and one. Yeah, 44 00:02:02,253 --> 00:02:07,213 Speaker 3: and I secured a publishing deal for her. So I 45 00:02:07,293 --> 00:02:09,373 Speaker 3: just want to make that clear. Roties, I go my way, 46 00:02:09,373 --> 00:02:12,733 Speaker 3: they all go to Hipper or her estate. So and 47 00:02:12,773 --> 00:02:14,053 Speaker 3: she didn't have a lot to her name. 48 00:02:14,413 --> 00:02:16,733 Speaker 4: Yeah, and what was that first sit down with Piper? 49 00:02:16,972 --> 00:02:21,653 Speaker 3: Like, oh, well there before we got to that stage. Yeah, 50 00:02:21,653 --> 00:02:23,573 Speaker 3: the first sit down you mean when we sat down 51 00:02:23,573 --> 00:02:24,493 Speaker 3: to chat, you're no really good? 52 00:02:24,493 --> 00:02:25,132 Speaker 1: She was up for it. 53 00:02:25,252 --> 00:02:25,572 Speaker 2: Yeah. 54 00:02:25,693 --> 00:02:27,973 Speaker 3: Yeah, she had a task and she wanted to do it. 55 00:02:28,013 --> 00:02:31,293 Speaker 3: And it was a bit like once she'd decided, it 56 00:02:31,333 --> 00:02:32,133 Speaker 3: was all good. 57 00:02:32,173 --> 00:02:33,412 Speaker 1: I mean I had some rules. 58 00:02:33,173 --> 00:02:36,093 Speaker 3: Around rules of engagement, yes, you know, not more than 59 00:02:36,133 --> 00:02:37,933 Speaker 3: sort of nineteen minutes. She was one hundred and one 60 00:02:38,013 --> 00:02:40,333 Speaker 3: hundred and one then, and I had to go between 61 00:02:40,333 --> 00:02:44,132 Speaker 3: the dove feeding times and one day I was late, 62 00:02:44,173 --> 00:02:46,853 Speaker 3: and of course she doesn't have as No, there's no 63 00:02:47,133 --> 00:02:50,532 Speaker 3: data there. I mean your phone goes to SOS WiFi, 64 00:02:50,613 --> 00:02:53,693 Speaker 3: no data. So if I'm late, I couldn't run, couldn't text. 65 00:02:53,773 --> 00:02:57,132 Speaker 2: So for people that don't know the situation, she's she's 66 00:02:57,213 --> 00:03:00,373 Speaker 2: set up very remotely. 67 00:03:00,053 --> 00:03:06,572 Speaker 3: Yes, in Henderson Valley, Yeah, and very remote. Seventeen hectares no. 68 00:03:05,693 --> 00:03:08,453 Speaker 2: No no, no, no WiFi, no five. 69 00:03:08,773 --> 00:03:10,653 Speaker 3: No, none of that. Yeah, so it was quite it 70 00:03:10,693 --> 00:03:12,653 Speaker 3: was quite love and my phone would just sort of disappear. 71 00:03:12,693 --> 00:03:15,333 Speaker 3: And if I was if I got to travel a 72 00:03:15,373 --> 00:03:17,172 Speaker 3: couple of times last year with the World War One 73 00:03:17,293 --> 00:03:20,173 Speaker 3: museum I was working on in France, and so I 74 00:03:20,213 --> 00:03:23,013 Speaker 3: would the first time. Silly may I thought, oh, yes, 75 00:03:23,053 --> 00:03:24,572 Speaker 3: I'll show her all the videos and the photos. And 76 00:03:24,613 --> 00:03:27,412 Speaker 3: i'ment not It's all in the cloud. So before i'd visit, 77 00:03:27,493 --> 00:03:29,373 Speaker 3: I'd have to download everything to my laptop. And it 78 00:03:29,413 --> 00:03:31,733 Speaker 3: was so lovely to see her go, oh yep, no, 79 00:03:31,972 --> 00:03:34,733 Speaker 3: that's my village. Oh yeah, and I remember that it 80 00:03:34,813 --> 00:03:37,453 Speaker 3: was really visually it was beautiful for her, just to 81 00:03:37,493 --> 00:03:40,453 Speaker 3: watch her see it all and and remember and. 82 00:03:40,413 --> 00:03:44,693 Speaker 4: When did her family find out about her clandestine life? Early? 83 00:03:45,293 --> 00:03:47,653 Speaker 3: Yeah, about twenty years ago. Wow, and she was in 84 00:03:47,693 --> 00:03:51,413 Speaker 3: the acies then, so something, you know, people knew of her. 85 00:03:51,653 --> 00:03:55,253 Speaker 3: I mean, she's I found a wonderful researcher in the UK. 86 00:03:55,373 --> 00:03:58,373 Speaker 3: He knew all about her. They knew of her, but 87 00:03:58,453 --> 00:04:00,413 Speaker 3: she didn't tell her family. And there were certainly the 88 00:04:00,493 --> 00:04:04,333 Speaker 3: essays and defense knew here her here. The essays were marvelous. 89 00:04:04,373 --> 00:04:06,133 Speaker 3: They go out and clean up her house every couple 90 00:04:06,173 --> 00:04:09,933 Speaker 3: of twice a year. Yeah, but didn't know, she's pretty. 91 00:04:10,253 --> 00:04:12,173 Speaker 3: As she said, this is nobody's business but my own, 92 00:04:12,773 --> 00:04:15,133 Speaker 3: my war, my story. I don't need to tell it 93 00:04:15,853 --> 00:04:16,453 Speaker 3: until she did. 94 00:04:18,213 --> 00:04:21,013 Speaker 2: Yeah, because for us we find the whole thing interesting 95 00:04:21,013 --> 00:04:23,053 Speaker 2: and exciting. But for a long time, for her, you know, 96 00:04:23,093 --> 00:04:24,693 Speaker 2: that was something she did, and then she came back 97 00:04:24,733 --> 00:04:26,693 Speaker 2: and had other parts of her life and had children 98 00:04:26,933 --> 00:04:29,733 Speaker 2: and then sort of kind of I don't know. There's 99 00:04:29,733 --> 00:04:32,173 Speaker 2: some people that just will want to talk about it 100 00:04:32,213 --> 00:04:34,093 Speaker 2: the whole time over drinks, and there's some people that 101 00:04:34,213 --> 00:04:35,813 Speaker 2: just want to pine them for a while. 102 00:04:35,973 --> 00:04:37,453 Speaker 3: Correct, she was the latter. 103 00:04:37,893 --> 00:04:41,613 Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, thank goodness that you that you got to 104 00:04:41,693 --> 00:04:44,293 Speaker 2: talk to her, and so close to the end, as 105 00:04:44,293 --> 00:04:46,933 Speaker 2: you say, because yeah, lucky me. It's fantastic that the 106 00:04:46,973 --> 00:04:47,773 Speaker 2: story got out there. 107 00:04:47,853 --> 00:04:50,933 Speaker 3: Yeah. No, I feel extremely privileged, Matt. They have talked 108 00:04:50,933 --> 00:04:52,453 Speaker 3: to her. Pretty fortunate. 109 00:04:52,733 --> 00:04:56,413 Speaker 4: Just a little bit about the intro of Pippa parachuting 110 00:04:56,493 --> 00:05:00,333 Speaker 4: into the danger zone and obviously she put herself in 111 00:05:00,333 --> 00:05:02,733 Speaker 4: this immense danger and she was selected because she was 112 00:05:02,773 --> 00:05:05,693 Speaker 4: fluent in French and she had those coding skills. But 113 00:05:05,773 --> 00:05:08,333 Speaker 4: she had to come up with some pretty ingenious ways 114 00:05:08,613 --> 00:05:09,933 Speaker 4: to get the messages back to the Allies. 115 00:05:09,973 --> 00:05:12,733 Speaker 3: Didn't she. Are you talking about her coding? Yes, yeah, yeah, 116 00:05:12,733 --> 00:05:16,813 Speaker 3: well the way she her silk coat. She they're like 117 00:05:16,813 --> 00:05:19,053 Speaker 3: a size of a handkerchief really, and so she had 118 00:05:19,373 --> 00:05:22,893 Speaker 3: decided to put them into an old shoelace which was 119 00:05:23,053 --> 00:05:25,213 Speaker 3: flat in those days, and then stuffed them in with 120 00:05:25,293 --> 00:05:27,933 Speaker 3: a knitting needle and then use that as a hair 121 00:05:27,973 --> 00:05:29,933 Speaker 3: tie because of course, you know, you're not having pretty 122 00:05:29,973 --> 00:05:33,133 Speaker 3: ribbons back in the day, and she was her alias 123 00:05:33,173 --> 00:05:35,453 Speaker 3: was a schoolgirl, so it was quite normal to have 124 00:05:35,493 --> 00:05:39,253 Speaker 3: some knitting and you know that that is a hair tie. Yeah, 125 00:05:39,853 --> 00:05:43,693 Speaker 3: so that's how she had them. Yeah, surely only once 126 00:05:43,813 --> 00:05:47,893 Speaker 3: almost got them discovered when she got strip search, but 127 00:05:48,133 --> 00:05:49,173 Speaker 3: they didn't think to look at that. 128 00:05:49,253 --> 00:05:50,453 Speaker 4: But yeah, incredible. 129 00:05:50,493 --> 00:05:54,213 Speaker 2: The bravery of it is what blows me away. And 130 00:05:54,253 --> 00:05:56,893 Speaker 2: you you know, you wonder who has that bravery in them. 131 00:05:56,973 --> 00:05:59,013 Speaker 2: I know I wouldn't have that bravery in me. 132 00:05:59,773 --> 00:06:02,773 Speaker 3: A different time though, you know, although a world might 133 00:06:02,813 --> 00:06:07,653 Speaker 3: be changing, jets of it. I think I think we've 134 00:06:07,693 --> 00:06:10,133 Speaker 3: had a whole couple of generations. I mean, I look 135 00:06:10,173 --> 00:06:14,973 Speaker 3: at our children. You know, peace had peace for decades. 136 00:06:15,293 --> 00:06:17,373 Speaker 3: They haven't known Europe at war, have they? None of them? 137 00:06:17,733 --> 00:06:20,573 Speaker 3: So and that generation is just dying off that remember 138 00:06:20,573 --> 00:06:21,893 Speaker 3: it and. 139 00:06:21,773 --> 00:06:23,573 Speaker 4: What was it like for you when you went over 140 00:06:23,613 --> 00:06:26,373 Speaker 4: there last year? I believe to go visit these locations 141 00:06:26,413 --> 00:06:29,013 Speaker 4: and find more information about Purple. What was that like 142 00:06:29,053 --> 00:06:29,253 Speaker 4: for you? 143 00:06:29,573 --> 00:06:33,093 Speaker 3: Extraordinary? Our schoolgirl French was utter rubbish, but I took 144 00:06:33,173 --> 00:06:35,293 Speaker 3: photos of her and managed her in this little village. 145 00:06:35,333 --> 00:06:37,693 Speaker 3: They remembered her. And the piece of gold for me 146 00:06:37,933 --> 00:06:40,613 Speaker 3: was going to the village they sent me. The chaps 147 00:06:40,613 --> 00:06:45,013 Speaker 3: on the batonk Court sent me five kilometers, So met 148 00:06:45,093 --> 00:06:47,133 Speaker 3: what if it was five kilometers a golf you know? 149 00:06:47,213 --> 00:06:47,413 Speaker 4: Left. 150 00:06:47,853 --> 00:06:50,293 Speaker 3: I got to this little library and there was a 151 00:06:50,333 --> 00:06:55,373 Speaker 3: book there that the man who has her touched on 152 00:06:55,573 --> 00:06:58,373 Speaker 3: the ground his her safe house. He had written a 153 00:06:58,373 --> 00:07:01,893 Speaker 3: memoir and written all the dates of exactly what happened, 154 00:07:02,253 --> 00:07:05,053 Speaker 3: and her name was in it. And so I went, hey, Peppa, 155 00:07:05,093 --> 00:07:06,773 Speaker 3: you know those stories you tell me and you don't 156 00:07:06,773 --> 00:07:09,693 Speaker 3: know what time they are bingo, I have it all. 157 00:07:09,813 --> 00:07:13,853 Speaker 3: So that was just I mean, I don't believe in 158 00:07:14,253 --> 00:07:16,293 Speaker 3: another force, but there was something there that went, yeah, hey, 159 00:07:16,413 --> 00:07:17,173 Speaker 3: I can help you out. 160 00:07:17,293 --> 00:07:18,013 Speaker 4: That's incredible. 161 00:07:18,213 --> 00:07:20,973 Speaker 2: We're talking to Jude Dobson, author of This Secret Agent. 162 00:07:21,093 --> 00:07:24,413 Speaker 2: My Life is a Spy behind Nazi Lines, the story 163 00:07:24,493 --> 00:07:27,933 Speaker 2: of Papola Tours. We're now for the book, so it's 164 00:07:27,973 --> 00:07:31,213 Speaker 2: coming out in the US and may we got further 165 00:07:31,293 --> 00:07:31,933 Speaker 2: plans for it. 166 00:07:32,933 --> 00:07:38,613 Speaker 3: Well, I have secured the option on film because I 167 00:07:38,653 --> 00:07:40,613 Speaker 3: would like to have a go at that. And I'm 168 00:07:40,693 --> 00:07:43,333 Speaker 3: learning how to do a screenplay, which is a different discipline. 169 00:07:43,333 --> 00:07:45,053 Speaker 3: And hey, look, we've all got to scare ourselves and 170 00:07:45,133 --> 00:07:48,293 Speaker 3: learn new things. But I've already visualized what I like 171 00:07:48,413 --> 00:07:50,613 Speaker 3: in this film. So I need to find a big 172 00:07:51,253 --> 00:07:54,133 Speaker 3: film fish. Yeah, yes, who wants to talk to me? 173 00:07:55,053 --> 00:07:58,013 Speaker 3: And yeah, get on with doing that. I'd love to 174 00:07:58,053 --> 00:08:00,853 Speaker 3: make that film with somebody that knows more than me 175 00:08:00,893 --> 00:08:01,453 Speaker 3: about film. 176 00:08:01,493 --> 00:08:03,253 Speaker 2: It's interesting that you should say visualize that because I 177 00:08:03,253 --> 00:08:05,413 Speaker 2: was just listening to this podcast with Quentin Tarantino and 178 00:08:05,453 --> 00:08:09,613 Speaker 2: he said the difference between film executives and filmmakers is 179 00:08:09,653 --> 00:08:13,133 Speaker 2: that the film maker has already visualized the film. I sure, 180 00:08:13,413 --> 00:08:15,453 Speaker 2: so they can answer the questions because they've kind of 181 00:08:15,493 --> 00:08:16,133 Speaker 2: already seen it. 182 00:08:16,293 --> 00:08:20,173 Speaker 3: Yeah, I've already put a drone up, got the car 183 00:08:20,293 --> 00:08:22,773 Speaker 3: going through there, I've got the doves, I've got the 184 00:08:23,773 --> 00:08:26,013 Speaker 3: on the roof, I've got some things in my head. 185 00:08:26,213 --> 00:08:26,413 Speaker 1: Yeah. 186 00:08:26,653 --> 00:08:28,533 Speaker 2: Oh, brilliant news talk z B. 187 00:08:28,933 --> 00:08:31,013 Speaker 4: We are talking to Juke Dobson is part of our 188 00:08:31,013 --> 00:08:34,293 Speaker 4: great New Zealanders of Christmas series. Jude, thanks again Fever 189 00:08:34,333 --> 00:08:34,933 Speaker 4: in a chat with us. 190 00:08:34,973 --> 00:08:35,852 Speaker 3: Oh, thanks for having me. 191 00:08:35,973 --> 00:08:37,813 Speaker 4: So what does Christmas look like for you this year? 192 00:08:38,293 --> 00:08:40,772 Speaker 3: Well, our two big kids are flying back and from 193 00:08:40,813 --> 00:08:43,453 Speaker 3: the States, so that's my best present. I'm tracking them 194 00:08:43,492 --> 00:08:45,172 Speaker 3: on flat flight radar as we speak. 195 00:08:45,252 --> 00:08:47,693 Speaker 4: You are and what part of the will there? And 196 00:08:47,693 --> 00:08:50,893 Speaker 4: they're in the American in America? Yeah, yeah, fantastic. You're beautiful. 197 00:08:51,173 --> 00:08:53,573 Speaker 2: All right, this is a key question. Best Christmas song 198 00:08:53,612 --> 00:08:54,893 Speaker 2: and best Christmas movie? 199 00:08:55,892 --> 00:08:59,132 Speaker 3: Oh well, driving home for Christmas always makes me a 200 00:08:59,173 --> 00:09:00,053 Speaker 3: little bit teary. 201 00:09:00,252 --> 00:09:01,892 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so beautiful. 202 00:09:02,213 --> 00:09:04,613 Speaker 3: I like songs that are beautiful to listen to lyrically 203 00:09:04,693 --> 00:09:05,973 Speaker 3: and also have some meaning. Yeah. 204 00:09:06,053 --> 00:09:08,093 Speaker 2: Yeah, I was talking you about this yesterday. That piano 205 00:09:08,132 --> 00:09:09,933 Speaker 2: line than the chorus, so good. 206 00:09:12,653 --> 00:09:13,093 Speaker 3: To play it. 207 00:09:13,173 --> 00:09:15,053 Speaker 2: And that last line he looks over at the guy 208 00:09:15,492 --> 00:09:16,853 Speaker 2: he goes, He's just the same. 209 00:09:18,453 --> 00:09:19,852 Speaker 3: That's such a great life. 210 00:09:20,213 --> 00:09:22,893 Speaker 4: This might be a hard question, Jude, but the best 211 00:09:22,933 --> 00:09:25,173 Speaker 4: piece of advice you think you've had this year? 212 00:09:25,773 --> 00:09:30,132 Speaker 3: Oh, I keep it. I have my mother in my head. Actually, 213 00:09:30,173 --> 00:09:33,733 Speaker 3: because I've lost my mum and her advice always rings 214 00:09:33,732 --> 00:09:38,053 Speaker 3: true on anything. It's this, too shall pass, which can 215 00:09:38,053 --> 00:09:40,373 Speaker 3: be a little bit of a hackneyed expression, but you know, 216 00:09:40,413 --> 00:09:43,213 Speaker 3: people often think about that as oh, it's hard moments, 217 00:09:43,252 --> 00:09:44,892 Speaker 3: you know it's going to pass. And I remember when 218 00:09:44,933 --> 00:09:47,053 Speaker 3: our kids were little, she'd often say that to me. 219 00:09:47,093 --> 00:09:49,813 Speaker 3: But actually is the flip side of that, which is 220 00:09:49,813 --> 00:09:52,853 Speaker 3: when times are really good, they passed too. So just 221 00:09:52,973 --> 00:09:55,813 Speaker 3: trying to stay in the moment with what you're doing 222 00:09:56,213 --> 00:09:59,892 Speaker 3: and being in it because it doesn't last. Nothing lasts, 223 00:09:59,933 --> 00:10:02,132 Speaker 3: and the only constant and that's the only constant in 224 00:10:02,213 --> 00:10:03,933 Speaker 3: life has changed. And often say that to our young 225 00:10:03,973 --> 00:10:06,933 Speaker 3: adult children, you know, just at all of us. I mean, 226 00:10:06,973 --> 00:10:09,013 Speaker 3: I've got nothing like and up in the wave of 227 00:10:09,053 --> 00:10:11,293 Speaker 3: media next year, so I have to go, oh, that's right, 228 00:10:11,372 --> 00:10:13,652 Speaker 3: my own advice. Life constantly change. 229 00:10:13,693 --> 00:10:14,453 Speaker 4: It's really nice. 230 00:10:15,252 --> 00:10:16,093 Speaker 1: That's so true. 231 00:10:16,973 --> 00:10:18,732 Speaker 2: So true though. If you're going through a difficult time, 232 00:10:18,852 --> 00:10:21,013 Speaker 2: it will pass. But if you're going through a good time, 233 00:10:21,093 --> 00:10:22,733 Speaker 2: that'll pass, So enjoy that. 234 00:10:23,892 --> 00:10:26,293 Speaker 3: And I think our role as fellow human beings is 235 00:10:26,333 --> 00:10:29,093 Speaker 3: to be cognizant of that, and especially at this time 236 00:10:29,093 --> 00:10:31,453 Speaker 3: that you just reach out to people you know, it's 237 00:10:31,453 --> 00:10:34,413 Speaker 3: a bit but I get a bit over the think, oh, family, 238 00:10:34,413 --> 00:10:36,213 Speaker 3: friends have a lovely Christmas. A lot of people don't 239 00:10:36,213 --> 00:10:38,893 Speaker 3: have a lovely Christmas because they don't have family or friends. 240 00:10:38,892 --> 00:10:42,093 Speaker 3: So we often have We've often had waives and strays, 241 00:10:42,213 --> 00:10:47,372 Speaker 3: which are really fun Christmas. It's divorces whatever, you know, 242 00:10:47,653 --> 00:10:48,413 Speaker 3: people on their own. 243 00:10:49,333 --> 00:10:49,853 Speaker 4: It's lovely. 244 00:10:50,453 --> 00:10:52,693 Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's a huge thing. I was just watching 245 00:10:52,973 --> 00:10:55,813 Speaker 2: the Christmas Carol, you know that, and yeah, great, and 246 00:10:55,933 --> 00:10:57,533 Speaker 2: you know, one of the best moments of that book. 247 00:10:57,573 --> 00:10:59,533 Speaker 2: I love the book, but as when you know, when 248 00:10:59,573 --> 00:11:02,053 Speaker 2: Scrooge goes around to his nephew's house and there's that 249 00:11:02,132 --> 00:11:04,372 Speaker 2: moment whether they're going to accept it, and then they 250 00:11:04,453 --> 00:11:06,933 Speaker 2: just go, yeah, bring in because even though he's been 251 00:11:06,973 --> 00:11:09,333 Speaker 2: a deck, he's on his own. And then so they 252 00:11:09,333 --> 00:11:11,933 Speaker 2: welcome them into that house. There's a great moment. 253 00:11:12,173 --> 00:11:14,333 Speaker 3: Oh, I didn't say. My movie Polar Express and there's 254 00:11:14,333 --> 00:11:16,293 Speaker 3: little lots of little lovely moments in the you know, 255 00:11:16,333 --> 00:11:18,693 Speaker 3: like little Billy, the kid who's a bit shy, and 256 00:11:19,693 --> 00:11:21,213 Speaker 3: the other kids sort of bring them on board. 257 00:11:21,533 --> 00:11:28,733 Speaker 2: Also also a motion capture Christmas movie by the same 258 00:11:28,773 --> 00:11:30,453 Speaker 2: as the Christmas Carol movie. I was just talking about. 259 00:11:30,533 --> 00:11:34,093 Speaker 2: So yeah, there you go, Yeah, you're goe. And look, 260 00:11:34,132 --> 00:11:36,333 Speaker 2: here's a difficult, difficult question, isn't it. You've got a 261 00:11:36,333 --> 00:11:38,893 Speaker 2: message for New Zealand for twenty twenty five because everyone's 262 00:11:38,933 --> 00:11:40,813 Speaker 2: doing and survived to twenty twenty five. There's a lot 263 00:11:40,813 --> 00:11:43,533 Speaker 2: of grimness going around, but you've got a message for 264 00:11:43,653 --> 00:11:44,852 Speaker 2: us in twenty twenty five. 265 00:11:45,173 --> 00:11:46,453 Speaker 3: Well, I think it probably goes with the one I 266 00:11:46,492 --> 00:11:48,973 Speaker 3: was just saying about, you know, thinking about Christmas, because 267 00:11:49,012 --> 00:11:50,813 Speaker 3: Christmas is just one day. But I do think that 268 00:11:50,973 --> 00:11:56,932 Speaker 3: thing of well, actually, resilience is the thing. But in 269 00:11:57,053 --> 00:11:59,773 Speaker 3: looking out for your fellow man. I know it sounds 270 00:11:59,933 --> 00:12:01,652 Speaker 3: a bit ridiculous and a bit cheesy, you know, great 271 00:12:01,693 --> 00:12:04,693 Speaker 3: some cheese on top of that, But I learned this 272 00:12:04,732 --> 00:12:06,613 Speaker 3: from Pepper actually, and I've learnt it in some of 273 00:12:06,612 --> 00:12:09,573 Speaker 3: this child development stuff I've don Resilience is it also 274 00:12:09,573 --> 00:12:11,492 Speaker 3: a bit of a thing? People go, oh, that means 275 00:12:11,533 --> 00:12:14,412 Speaker 3: hard enough, get them out there, life's tough enough. Actually, 276 00:12:14,413 --> 00:12:17,333 Speaker 3: if you're resilient, that means you have people in your corner, 277 00:12:18,132 --> 00:12:20,372 Speaker 3: and actually that's what makes you resilient. You've got someone 278 00:12:20,612 --> 00:12:23,612 Speaker 3: that you can always talk to and say things are 279 00:12:23,612 --> 00:12:25,933 Speaker 3: a bit tough, and that actually gives you enough confidence 280 00:12:25,973 --> 00:12:30,493 Speaker 3: to give things a crack. So I'd say just think 281 00:12:30,533 --> 00:12:32,412 Speaker 3: about the people around you and what can you do? 282 00:12:32,773 --> 00:12:35,612 Speaker 3: Service is a funny, old fashioned expression, but what service 283 00:12:35,612 --> 00:12:37,053 Speaker 3: can you be to other people? 284 00:12:37,213 --> 00:12:37,372 Speaker 1: Yeah? 285 00:12:37,413 --> 00:12:39,612 Speaker 2: And when you think about your life and how hard 286 00:12:39,653 --> 00:12:42,333 Speaker 2: it may be, and for some people is very hard, 287 00:12:42,372 --> 00:12:44,333 Speaker 2: and others of us make it harder than it needs 288 00:12:44,372 --> 00:12:45,892 Speaker 2: to be. But you might want to think about Pippa 289 00:12:46,012 --> 00:12:50,653 Speaker 2: behind the behind enemy lines, are risking your life for 290 00:12:50,732 --> 00:12:53,133 Speaker 2: something that she believed in and needed to be done, 291 00:12:53,413 --> 00:12:55,813 Speaker 2: and not all of us have to do that. So 292 00:12:56,413 --> 00:12:58,293 Speaker 2: maybe we should do little bits of that if we can, 293 00:12:58,773 --> 00:13:01,253 Speaker 2: and whatever way it manifests in our lives, can I need. 294 00:13:01,093 --> 00:13:03,653 Speaker 4: A lot of that next year? Ye fantastic or Jude, 295 00:13:03,693 --> 00:13:05,693 Speaker 4: lovely chatting with you and thank you very much. Have 296 00:13:05,773 --> 00:13:07,853 Speaker 4: a great Christmas, you two, and we'll see again. 297 00:13:07,933 --> 00:13:11,773 Speaker 1: So for more from Newstalk st B, listen live on 298 00:13:11,852 --> 00:13:14,813 Speaker 1: air or online and keep our shows with you wherever 299 00:13:14,852 --> 00:13:17,453 Speaker 1: you go with our podcasts on iHeartRadio