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Speaker 1: With the John and Ben Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Cheers to Dilma making the World a better teeth yesterday.

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Speaker 3: And the VMA's the video awards going on for.

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Speaker 2: These are the fun ones. These are the ones that

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Speaker 2: my Ley got a like tongue out and the big

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Speaker 2: pointy finger. That's the Cargne storming the stage one.

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Speaker 4: MTV ones, Right, what is video? If you could just

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Speaker 4: explain the video? You make video versions of the songs.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but you know Taylor Swift was there, obviously, you

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Speaker 5: would saying the camera never left her.

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Speaker 4: For the whole time.

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Speaker 3: It was like, it is Katy Perry's sorry, here's Tails

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Speaker 3: SWAT's reaction to Katy Pierry. Here's a reaction to eminem

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Speaker 3: You know, it was like a camera was locked on

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Speaker 3: and she had a great types.

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Speaker 4: She had great reactions to everyone.

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Speaker 2: But that's why, because she has great reactions.

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Speaker 3: But it's like, let the at least film for a

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Speaker 3: little bit and then film someone else.

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Speaker 5: I imagine she's smiling the whole time. I imagine cheeks, yeah.

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Speaker 4: Doing stuff.

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Speaker 3: She looked like she had a great time. And can

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Speaker 3: I just say this is I heard this audio yesterday

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Speaker 3: because I'm again she's never been into the relationship that

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Speaker 3: I'm into Trevis Kelsey.

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Speaker 4: Taylor Swift, and she.

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Speaker 3: Gave a wonderful shout out to her boyfriend Trevis Kelsey

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Speaker 3: yesterday when she won the Big Award with post Malone

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Speaker 6: I would always just hear like someone like like cheering

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Speaker 4: Oooh, like like from across from across the studio where.

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Speaker 6: We were shooting it, and that that one person was

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Speaker 6: my boyfriend Travis. Everything this man touches turns to happiness

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Speaker 6: and fun and magic. So I want to thank him

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Speaker 6: for adding that to our shoot.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, beautiful, God tell us your real thoughts and feelings.

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Speaker 2: I just was like perfectly timed.

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Speaker 5: After that contract, Yeah, there was rumors that there was

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Speaker 5: a contract Showman's They called her that they both signed

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Speaker 5: a contract to promote Super Bowl and NFL and.

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Speaker 4: She's the crowded just deployed screaming.

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Speaker 2: Cut down the after she sees Travis, the screaming whittle

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Speaker 2: of the age cut it down.

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Speaker 4: Well. Katie Perry was one of the other big winners,

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Speaker 4: so she.

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Speaker 2: Won the Video Vanguard Award that means she does. She

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Speaker 2: did like a big ten minute medley of all her songs,

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Speaker 2: which was amazing, but then she got up there and

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Speaker 2: she got to do a big speech Orlando her husband, partner.

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Speaker 3: Relationship thing that's done for Sheba's purpose, because of course

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Speaker 3: they are both famous people in their own rights.

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Speaker 2: It's you would to thropple with Travis and Taylor.

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Speaker 4: Jeez, guys, don't care about you. Don't worry, don't worry.

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Speaker 5: I love it that you're very both passionate about their relationship.

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Speaker 4: But it's not offending them in anyway.

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Speaker 2: Katie except the award from Orlando her partner, which I'm

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Speaker 2: fine with. But she started it by saying this. Don't

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Speaker 2: you said that all on my first day of my period?

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Speaker 2: Can you believe it? Correct?

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Speaker 4: Katie period. It was a good performance, it was.

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Speaker 2: A great performance. And then you remember how many hits

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Speaker 2: she's got over Yeah, wow, I don't ever think she

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Speaker 2: did them all in that time.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, she's well mid thirties. I imagine Katy Pierre.

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Speaker 2: And you're like, like, she's thirty nine, it's about to

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Speaker 4: Yeah, just time goes quick.

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Speaker 5: Then you look back at the back catalog, I reckon

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Speaker 2: Yeah easy, Well, there we go.

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Speaker 3: That's all the action from the MTV Video Music Award.

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Speaker 1: Taking the hits that johonaan Ben podcast colds.

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Speaker 3: Particularly down south. This morning snow forecast around the Targo,

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Speaker 3: Southland and Canterbury regions are very very cold, Megan, I

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Speaker 3: know you're on the countdowns.

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Speaker 2: Two weeks for Sunday till daylight.

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Speaker 3: Saving got a polar blast here right now now, Dave

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Speaker 3: Grohl from The Food Fighters made well made news and

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Speaker 3: then the debates kind of took over a little bit,

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Speaker 3: but it's still circulating around the news.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he announced he is going to have a baby

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Speaker 5: outside of his marriage. And you were saying this is

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Speaker 5: the perfect pr rollout time wise, Well.

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Speaker 3: It's actually a boss Matt was saying it. I haven't

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Speaker 2: But yeah, he dropped the news. Was it the day

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Speaker 4: The day of Yeah, so.

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Speaker 2: And started talking about that instead of this, I.

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Speaker 3: Mean long we say there's the nice guy of rock

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Speaker 3: and roll, Dave Girl. So I guess this is what

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Speaker 4: This doesn't make him a bad person. People make mistakes.

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Speaker 3: Exactly, we all make mistakes. No, no one here is perfect.

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Speaker 3: We definitely aren't saying we're perfect as well, and you

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Speaker 3: do feel for him his wife obviously, most mostly in

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Speaker 3: the family, you know, to go through that.

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Speaker 2: So I've been through a divorce and I always after

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Speaker 2: that because it was really it's really fun, it's really difficult,

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Speaker 2: and I was like, from here on, I'm not going

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Speaker 2: to judge people's relationships because everyone comes in and thinks

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Speaker 4: Kelse and Swift.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, but I see there. Fine, if they're happy,

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Speaker 2: I'm fine with it.

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Speaker 4: It's so defensive of their relationships, so against it is who.

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Speaker 3: Anyone's life.

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Speaker 4: They don't give what you think. What you think. But you, guys,

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Speaker 4: this is coming between you two. There's two celebrities you're

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Speaker 4: never going to meet. They don't even know the relationship.

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Speaker 2: He's still rigging. He's going to meet them.

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Speaker 3: He's going to be the wedding party.

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Speaker 2: But the thing is, you're right, like he's we've met him.

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Speaker 2: He's a really nice guy, and he's made mistakes and

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Speaker 2: it sounds like he's made a few mistakes and a

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Speaker 2: lot of relationships. But you know, we're all human at

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Speaker 2: the end of the day, and the only person he

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Speaker 2: has to apologize to is his partner partners.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and you you do, that's who you really do

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Speaker 4: feel sorry for.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the people I'm saying it was a good thing

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Speaker 5: It's a it's a doozy of a mistake, that's for sure.

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Speaker 5: But then you do really feel sorry for his wife, Jordan,

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Speaker 5: their three children as well. They're all afected by someone

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Speaker 5: else's actions such a public platform as.

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Speaker 2: Well, which is hard being you know, like his kids

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Speaker 2: and now the whole internet is like your.

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Speaker 4: Dad, douge. Well, yeah, I know, wife Jim was like

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Speaker 4: he was, he was my favorite. No disappointed, but hey,

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Speaker 4: people screw up. That's life, that's what we do.

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Speaker 3: But can you come back from that in a relationship,

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Speaker 3: you know when it comes to that, Because imagine there'

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Speaker 3: people listening right now that this may have happened to

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Speaker 3: and the relationships he ended, and maybe relationships haven't ended because.

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Speaker 4: Of this, And I'm really disappointed.

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Speaker 5: Out of all of the professions you would hope to

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Speaker 2: It never happened before, truly upstairs, When would he get

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Speaker 2: the opportunity to step out of his marriage?

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Speaker 4: Brock stars and rappers?

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Speaker 3: I would there goes my hero is one of the

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Speaker 3: things that's been bandied about.

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Speaker 5: So he's still gonna sing that I've got a time

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Speaker 5: of cheap big boys.

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Speaker 4: Comes up with this cheap dad gags.

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Speaker 5: He's been defending Travis and Taylor comes with low brow

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Speaker 5: song gags.

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Speaker 2: What it was the one? He's got something else to confect?

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Speaker 4: I know? Yeah, oh you mean this one here? Sorry,

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Speaker 4: you've got another confession. So yeah, we want to know.

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Speaker 3: We're going to talk, actually talk to a relationship expert

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Speaker 3: because we want to know CAM relationships get through this

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Speaker 3: and how do you get through this? Maybe it has

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Speaker 3: happened to you and you've got some advice. On four

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Speaker 3: four eight seven, Beyonce gave.

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Speaker 1: Jay Z's that jonaan Ben podcast.

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Speaker 3: I wanted to know, you know, in the case of

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Speaker 3: Dave Grohl and obviously what's happened in his relationship.

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Speaker 4: We said, a baby out of wedlock.

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Speaker 3: CAM relationships can they survive when someone cheats? And we've

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Speaker 3: got a relationship a coach and New Zealand's leading certified

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Speaker 3: divorced separation coach on with us right now, Bridget Jackson,

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Speaker 3: good morning, Hello, Well.

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Speaker 7: We got Meghan with us.

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Speaker 4: Now to Bridget, we have even spoken to you with

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Speaker 4: Meghan high Bridge.

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Speaker 8: No, Hi, Megan, you just so.

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Speaker 5: You know, Meghan, we have an introduction for Oh yeah,

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Speaker 5: we do. I forgot about that Bridget. For Bridget Jackson.

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Speaker 4: Never want to get.

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Speaker 5: Divorced, but if I do, we all Bridget we always enjoy,

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Speaker 5: We always enjoy catching up with you.

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Speaker 3: Well, just thought the scenario that happened obviously to someone

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Speaker 3: But Dave Grohl, the situation where he's gone out and

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Speaker 3: he's had an affair and got a baby? Can relationships

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Speaker 3: get back together after this? Can they survive?

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Speaker 1: That?

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Speaker 8: They can? They absolutely can, remembering that rebuilding the trust

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Speaker 8: is going to be absolutely power amount. Physical infidelity doesn't

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Speaker 8: require emotional or romantic feelingsits, but emotional cheating does so.

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Speaker 8: Initially when the affair comes out to play, triggers really

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Speaker 8: powerful emotions for both. You know, there's anger, betrayal, shaane, depression,

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Speaker 8: guilt and remorse, etcetera. And it's usually really difficult in

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Speaker 8: the first instance to make long term decisions. What I

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Speaker 8: recommend my guidance would be that you've got to take

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Speaker 8: time apart because emotions are really hard to manage. When

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Speaker 8: the truth truth surfaces and don't make rash decisions. Big

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Speaker 8: one is steer clear of social media because high emotions

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Speaker 8: and the social don't mix, and both have to really

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Speaker 8: reassess what's important, what are your priorities in life and really,

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Speaker 8: in this case, considering their three children and what role

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Speaker 8: the other mother will play in their lives, because you know,

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Speaker 8: mending and recovering from an a fear it really is

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Speaker 8: one of the most challenging chapters in someone's life, and

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Speaker 8: I see them by practice every day.

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Speaker 2: I've been through a divorce and I always vowed that

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Speaker 2: I would never judge people in their relationships again. But

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Speaker 2: do you think that he's shown a passion of behavior.

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Speaker 2: It's come out that he's done this before with his

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Speaker 2: other partners. Do you still think he can change? There's

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Speaker 2: the old does a leopard change of spots?

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Speaker 8: Well, you know, there's been a huge amount, hasn't there

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Speaker 8: of public scrutiny, And it's really less about what they say.

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Speaker 8: It's about the actions and the steps that they're willing

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Speaker 8: to take and learn and own their mistakes. You know,

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Speaker 8: show up and he has done that, and it's coming

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Speaker 8: back to you willing to do this therapy as a

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Speaker 8: couple and on their own, which actually is a really

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Speaker 8: it's a green it's a green flag or positive step.

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Speaker 8: But as disheartening as cheating can be, past cheating, the

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Speaker 8: relationship isn't necessarily.

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Speaker 5: Doing just can't cast judgment, can you, because no one's

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Speaker 5: in that sits We're not in the eye of the

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Speaker 5: storm there, and you never know what you do if

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Speaker 5: you're in someone's shoes.

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Speaker 8: We aren't living lives. We don't know what's happening behind

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Speaker 5: They're just going to emerge one day like a dead

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Speaker 4: The coming days? Have we done?

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Speaker 8: And oh no, you only go before I had it.

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Speaker 5: twitching like the angers almost it just wants to burst out,

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Speaker 5: but he was containing it. It was like the equivalent

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Speaker 5: of knocking over a three thousand piece jigsaw puzzle.

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Speaker 3: I don't know where the oscars are, but me and

447
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Speaker 3: I think we could be front runner.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, how was our pantomime in the end?

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Speaker 5: John? Actually fantastic. I was like it was deep inside

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Speaker 5: there was beautiful. So they would go, that's just winding

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Speaker 5: up our boss. Do we filmed it too?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: But I'll go up at some stage today. You can

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Speaker 3: see it on the hat spread Facebook, at Instagram.

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Speaker 1: The hits that johnaan Ben podcast.

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Speaker 3: Into the weekend Saturday nights is going to be huge.

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Speaker 3: A fight nights going on at the Vitact event Center

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Speaker 3: which is headlined by David Nika boxer and he joins

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Speaker 3: us in the studio right now.

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Speaker 4: How you doing. Hello, lovely to see you mate.

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Speaker 7: I'm good to see you guys. This is awesome.

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Speaker 3: Nice to have you he Yeah, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 3: So a couple of days out from a big fight

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Speaker 3: this weekend Saturday night. Yes, the last one you had

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Speaker 3: in New Zealand was twenty three seconds.

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Speaker 4: It lasted for.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, including the count, including the count to ten for

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Speaker 10: the guy that was on the ground.

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Speaker 3: So that's a thirteen second fight for you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: I'm hoping this guy brings brings a little.

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Speaker 4: Bit more as a professional box So obviously you're training

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Speaker 4: for months leading into this. Do you want it to

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Speaker 4: go longer than thirteen seconds? Are you happy with that result? Yeah?

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Speaker 10: We don't get paid overtime, but obviously I need to

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Speaker 10: develop a need. I need to get into these into

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Speaker 10: the later rounds. I'm going to be fighting for world

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Speaker 10: titles in the near future. So I'd love to go

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Speaker 10: past like six, seven and eight rounds just to kind

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Speaker 10: of get that experience under my belt.

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Speaker 5: So there's no actual like personal development for you when

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Speaker 5: you knock someone out in five second.

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Speaker 10: Really not really when you get to throw, like I

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Speaker 10: think that was four punches threw in that fight.

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Speaker 2: How many punches did he land?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, thirteen seconds. I don't think you landed.

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Speaker 2: For me, I measured.

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Speaker 3: This is gonna sound like a dumb question, but imagine

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Speaker 3: getting punched in the face hurts, and that's part.

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Speaker 4: Of your job. You know that's going to happen. Even

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Speaker 4: when you went fight.

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Speaker 3: It's maybe not this one that lasted not long, but

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Speaker 3: you know it does actually happen, right.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I've been doing this for I've just sticked over

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Speaker 10: half my life. I've been boxing four now. So at

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Speaker 10: fourteen I started. I told her getting punched in the face.

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Speaker 7: You can get used to it, but that's a real danger.

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Speaker 7: You're not getting.

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Speaker 4: So inspiring. You're obviously sparring people you know, respect friends.

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Speaker 4: You have to go in there and you're like, I

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Speaker 4: want to represent off. Yeah, how's that transition mentally?

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Speaker 10: Oh, it's much nicer when you're sparring with like guys

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Speaker 10: you like and that you're When it comes to fights,

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Speaker 10: I find it a little bit awkward.

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Speaker 7: If I'm completely.

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Speaker 10: Honest, I'm really bad with confrontation, which is hilarious. I

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Speaker 10: get the wrong coffee on it and I'm like, I'm

508
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Speaker 10: just gonna drink it.

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Speaker 4: It want to make I'm terrible the pre the pre

510
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Speaker 4: fight banter, the press conferences. You're not comfortable. I suck.

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Speaker 7: I'm just like I'm sitting there giving them more the compliments.

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Speaker 4: More.

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Speaker 7: My My ring name is the nice guy.

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Speaker 4: That's good.

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Speaker 7: I think it's fitting as well.

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Speaker 10: I'm actually like not a douche bag, and I'm actually

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Speaker 10: quite confident saying that.

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Speaker 2: Speaking of that, I saw recently Israel at a sign

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Speaker 2: you got approached by someone in the street, absolute d

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Speaker 2: bag wanting to have a fight with him in the street.

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Speaker 2: Has it ever happened to you someone approaching you and

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Speaker 2: be like, all right, tough guy.

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Speaker 10: Funnily enough, never, I've never been in the street fight.

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Speaker 10: I've like, I'm like I said, I'm the first person

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Speaker 10: to like similar things down and I give I've never

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Speaker 10: given anyone a reason to want to have a go exactly. Yeah,

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Speaker 10: and like, I hope that doesn't like stir anyone up.

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Speaker 4: I thought it was very brave having a crack at Israel.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so I've sparred Israel quite a lot.

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Speaker 10: I was just I was his main spiring partner when

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Speaker 10: he fought and some silver, and I remember like working

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Speaker 10: with him and kind of I realized very quickly when

533
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Speaker 10: I like backed him into a corner through like a

534
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Speaker 10: double jab right hand, and he slipped out of the

535
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Speaker 10: way and then pulled my head into a knee and

536
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Speaker 10: it was like my life flash before.

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Speaker 7: He has that much control.

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Speaker 10: But like I realized and I stood up and I

539
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Speaker 10: was like, like I've seen a ghost. I was like,

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Speaker 10: this guy has six other limbs that I don't know.

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Speaker 10: I'm really good with these boys. He's an absolute monster

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Speaker 10: and like his his control. He would be an absolute

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Speaker 10: monster in a street fight, and like I've never been

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Speaker 10: in a street.

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Speaker 7: Fight, would be pretty good, yeah myself, but yeah, he's

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Speaker 7: the last guy i'd pick on, you know.

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Speaker 4: Pretty brain.

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Speaker 3: This took Saturday night because obviously, as in Auckland, people

549
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Speaker 3: can watch as well on his own.

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Speaker 10: So it's the This is the first time that design

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Speaker 10: has come to New Zealand.

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Speaker 7: So it is a really really big deal.

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Speaker 4: It's daz In.

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Speaker 10: That's the global streaming platform for boxing today. That's the

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Speaker 10: biggest the home of boxing now, which is incredible and

556
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Speaker 10: to be spear hitting that is really really cool.

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Speaker 3: And the fight, the fighter that you're going to fight

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Speaker 3: against was just found pretty recently because the first guy

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Speaker 3: sort of failed a drug test, right, they found someone

560
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Speaker 3: in like twenty four forty eight hours.

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Speaker 10: No, he failed the drug tests about six weeks ago,

562
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Speaker 10: and we were we were doing everything we could to

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Speaker 10: kind of sweep it under the rug.

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Speaker 7: We were trying to.

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Speaker 4: Help them drink water. Yeah, here's my year on. So

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Speaker 4: what is taking steroids?

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Speaker 5: Obviously, Yeah, what advantage does it give the other fight?

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Speaker 10: I don't know, But this was it was exogynists test osteron.

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Speaker 10: So testosterone from an external source, and that basically helps

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Speaker 10: you recover faster, helps you build muscle. It's like it's

571
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Speaker 10: like the young man's hormone.

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Speaker 4: So you can just train harder.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, exactly exactly. I was very confident that I could

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Speaker 10: beat him, juicing or not. But we've got another guy

575
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Speaker 10: from the States. His name is Tommy Carpenty. He's he's

576
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Speaker 10: got a similar record. He's beaten formal world champions.

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Speaker 7: He's tough, he's decent.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, he's decent, and it would look really good if

579
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Speaker 10: I could just steamroll them.

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Speaker 5: You're a true gentleman, and like we say, we can

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Speaker 5: never imagine you're hurting people in the ring.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you're so lovely. But you do a good job

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Speaker 4: of it. Thanks man.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and I'll keep doing it. I'll keep doing it.

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Speaker 7: We'll bring some world titles back to music.

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Speaker 1: The hits that jonaan Ben podcast.

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Speaker 3: Episode three of the podcast and there with my daughter

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Speaker 3: Siena as out today Lucy Lawless as the guest, which

589
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Speaker 3: is pretty incredible. I was very surprised when I'm the

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Speaker 3: celebrity booker the podcast, how are you?

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Speaker 4: How are you harassing these people? Are you going through

592
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Speaker 4: social media?

593
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Speaker 5: Social media, sometimes emails and sometimes tracking people down?

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Speaker 2: And yeah it's a great GISs. Yeah, well we could

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Speaker 2: have really done with the show.

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Speaker 3: I'm amazed as some of the people that have said yes,

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Speaker 3: as I said before, every week seeing her and myself

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Speaker 3: talked to an inspirational woman who you know, has done

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Speaker 3: some amazing things in their life and get some advice

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Speaker 3: for young people. It's a great thing to listen to

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Speaker 3: with your kids. Yeah, Lucy Lawless, Dame Melissa Carrington, Karen

602
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Speaker 3: Walker as well, it's pretty incredible listen.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you've become a full time celebrity stalker, I have.

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Speaker 4: Is stalking quite a commitment?

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Speaker 3: It as a real commitment. Yeah, it definitely is a

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Speaker 3: real commitment. But Lucy Lewis has seen a obviously iconic show.

607
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Speaker 3: You're thinking about it actually when we're talking to her,

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Speaker 3: you know, it really led the way for a lot

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Speaker 3: of productions in New Zealand, you know, Yeah, it was

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Speaker 3: kind of the first show that was made here that

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Speaker 3: went sort of international, and the first show she was

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Speaker 3: saying with two female leads way back in the day too.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, very very unique.

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Speaker 3: But we asked there, as we do every guest on

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Speaker 3: the show, what that would they tell themselves? You know,

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Speaker 3: at seeing his age thirteen fourteen years old, what would.

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Speaker 7: You tell your thirteen year old or fourteen year old self.

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Speaker 11: I think we all adults would go back into a

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Speaker 11: fitting yourself.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be okay.

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Speaker 11: You know, you're gonna figure it's gonna feel tough, and

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Speaker 11: it's gonna feel scary. It's gonna be okay because as

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Speaker 11: the obstacles as you meet them, your skills and you're

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Speaker 11: understanding the world is going to help you surmount them.

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Speaker 11: So chill, bro, it's gonna be okay.

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Speaker 3: You know you're way too good for this podcast, right,

627
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Speaker 3: you know that, But again, you're being so nice and lovely.

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Speaker 3: That's Lucy Lorless. You can get your episode three of

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Speaker 3: When I Grow Up podcast out? Now, what would you

630
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Speaker 3: tell yourself at thirteen to fourteen year olds?

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Speaker 2: Don't obsess over Mike Roberts. He doesn't like you and

632
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Speaker 2: you're not going to end up with them.

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Speaker 4: You're in love with Michael Roberts.

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Speaker 2: Mike Roberts Roberts, that's.

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Speaker 4: An unusual question for a thirteen year old. It's like, well,

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Speaker 4: he's definitely not gonna go out if it's on the news.

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Speaker 4: That is troublesome for Mike Roberte year olds chasing him.

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Speaker 2: No, I agree with Lucy, like everything feels like all

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Speaker 2: encompassing when you're that age, and high school as hard,

640
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Speaker 2: but you come out the other side of it and

641
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Speaker 2: then you suddenly have a lot of freedom and you

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Speaker 2: you come into yourself and.

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Speaker 3: It's easier now or harder now because growing up, are

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Speaker 3: you harder growing up and mastered and that was that

645
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Speaker 3: was your world, was mastering.

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Speaker 4: But now you what a world? What a world?

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Speaker 2: Media?

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Speaker 5: But there you got such your world as the world.

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Speaker 5: You know, if it's harder or easier to know.

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Speaker 2: I'm so thankful I didn't grow up with social media

651
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Speaker 2: because we I grew up when texting came in and

652
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Speaker 2: that was enough. Like the people were bullying over texting,

653
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Speaker 2: so like they will always find a way, but you're

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Speaker 2: just giving them more tools. So I mean, like, I

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Speaker 2: think everyone kind of got bullied in some form. But

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Speaker 2: the bullies they go away.

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Speaker 5: But it was good old fashioned bullying to wasn't It

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Speaker 5: was kind of like, well just after school, but punch

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Speaker 5: you in the face.

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Speaker 4: And move on with the day.

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Speaker 3: You know, right, you you're going to publicly state that

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Speaker 3: you're a fan of bullying, any form of bullying.

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Speaker 5: You know, I'm going to pick bullying that just takes

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Speaker 5: place in a certain time frame between the nine.

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Speaker 4: And three and it follows your home.

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Speaker 3: ours to night.

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Speaker 4: What did you tell yourself that ain't for You're not

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Speaker 4: up on that dream pretty quick, and give up on

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Speaker 4: your dream of heavy hair for your entire life.

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Speaker 5: wonderful bult for many years,