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Speaker 2: Haley's mid Winter Christmas Cocktail Special. Welcome to the Midwinter

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Speaker 2: Christmas Cocktail Special. Our big pot is back Monday, July fifteen,

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Speaker 2: but in the meantime we continue with our shout outs,

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Speaker 2: your shout outs that you've submitted online.

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Speaker 3: Do what we could do shout outs. Do you want

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Speaker 3: to shout out someone warn.

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Speaker 1: No things?

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Speaker 4: Okay, No, I'm good, Flitch, no shout outs, I'm good.

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Speaker 3: Okay, it's going to shout out to the mid Day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I actually I also have to a shout out

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Speaker 1: to charit's MIDI.

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Speaker 5: Okay, oh, shout out the MIDI.

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Speaker 1: Then sure, you want to get a board for a

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Speaker 1: minute shadow?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah it does.

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Speaker 5: You're in the good box now, yeah, points doesn't it.

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Speaker 6: Kate as the first Kate Mede who lives in Auckland,

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Speaker 6: New Zealand.

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Speaker 1: Medi immediately read this out.

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Speaker 2: Of Fox like Dad, Okay, is that as bad as

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Speaker 2: what Vaughn said to the four policemen today at the airport?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, here she is officers.

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Speaker 2: As I was walking one of them one what were

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Speaker 1: To the faith that she got pulled over at the

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Speaker 2: Cops was like, oh, like given audible growners have to say,

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Speaker 5: That before, sir.

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Speaker 1: Here she is.

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Speaker 6: Kate says, I love to give a shout out to

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Speaker 6: my first husband, Casey, I love your gutties. Now I

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Speaker 6: occasionally will say that this.

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Speaker 1: Is my first wife.

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Speaker 6: Oh yep, that's because it's nice. But the more you

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, then later on you can say that to

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Speaker 3: Do you know, sometimes when I think, I stop and

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Speaker 4: A flint with and a couple of years ago.

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Speaker 4: I was like, wow, I also thank God for these women.

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Speaker 3: They're very physical, and you guys are not. A couple

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Speaker 5: This dream woman?

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Speaker 3: Sometimes I think about her. I'm like, where is she?

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Speaker 5: Women don't forget.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you had a dream and you just caught

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Speaker 4: You woke up and you're like, oh, where is she?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm still married?

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Speaker 1: Him, I don't know, but I remember saying They're like,

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Speaker 5: We love, we love, but now don't take your don't

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Speaker 2: They don't let you take your Dilley's.

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Speaker 4: Got to go manual, even some of your prescription meds.

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Speaker 1: I also think of your.

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Speaker 1: Prisons? Is it some of those you can't take?

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Speaker 5: You just got a Barleida, have a nice time.

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Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure like people have been in trouble before

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Speaker 4: Hang on, hang on.

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Speaker 1: Put who's been to Barley? Put your hand being to Bali?

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Speaker 5: And who was just us?

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Speaker 1: Who's had anel and Balley? Had just one of us?

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Speaker 7: Put don't put the thing on? And lain anonymous you've

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Speaker 7: That's what it's doing. That was good.

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Speaker 5: Anyway, we're the voice it needs to make the show.

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Speaker 6: Yip Sarah is the next Serrah Wiseman who listens to

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Speaker 1: Who would you like to shout out? Shout out to

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Speaker 1: myself rocking the solo Mum to one year old triplet.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, and using the podcast room my noise

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Speaker 6: canceling hairphones when it needs some peace.

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Speaker 1: Love you guys, Oh my god.

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Speaker 5: Love you.

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Speaker 6: Holy mo holy Moley mool.

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Speaker 3: Nice like done that way if you had triplets. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that's a one shot, one shot.

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Speaker 2: So I just googled the Barley meds thing. I don't okay,

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Speaker 7: Voice. There's so much lower the born.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: The voice disguise is the best.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, Cass.

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Speaker 6: It was another Melbourne listener, freich Wanet hated long terim

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Speaker 6: list the first time Christmas shout out, you're doang on

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Speaker 1: There.

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Speaker 5: Welcome, Welcome, welcome.

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Speaker 1: I've been a listener for ten years.

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Speaker 6: I result in Melbourne now and your podcast is keeping

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, you're welcome for the fun and last.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, there we go.

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Speaker 6: I wish you in the team. Nothing but happening happiness

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Speaker 6: from cast up the wat. What's the most juicy thing

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Speaker 6: My close friend had an affear that ended her marriage

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Speaker 6: Six children house already, and she's already pregnant with her I.

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Speaker 2: Love when stuff like this happens to other people.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, to other people, yes, so much fan when it

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Speaker 4: He had an a fear.

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Speaker 2: Yes, wow, life, it's just like a soap opera.

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Speaker 1: It really is. Yeah, Oh my god, really is goodness?

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Speaker 6: How do you know when it's the right time for

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Speaker 5: Aren't they they are? I don't know.

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Speaker 6: There was a stat if you get offered a job

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Speaker 6: You're feeling out, go and go on a hunter a

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Speaker 1: You should check out a new brown noise poker.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, so brand new head podcast.

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Speaker 5: So really now and then we do whales.

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Speaker 1: Maybe the boy this guy's would help?

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Speaker 8: Okay, okay, you do day.

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Speaker 6: What's what's the most exciting thing that having to do

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Speaker 2: Don't stream right, despite what I just said about babies.

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Speaker 6: You decent gap between the babies. What do you need

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Speaker 6: advice on? Oh, how do you deal with opinionated in laws?

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Speaker 5: Opinionated? Do you have any experience in this opinion?

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Speaker 1: It's not opinions? Yeah, just dependency.

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Speaker 6: Dependency, I would say, I don't know about I've been

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Speaker 6: times have changed, and maybe just.

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Speaker 1: Give her her space.

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Speaker 5: She's been coming her own.

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Speaker 2: You can't give a baby whiskey before beard anymore.

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Speaker 3: Mom.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I wouldn't second the children.

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Speaker 4: Fine, we don't not so speak too much.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, well all cats.

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Speaker 5: Jeezuz, I just spec I just cat.

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Speaker 1: I don't feel like the break between the last well.

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Speaker 4: Your pussy to stop tearing the place apart.

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Speaker 1: It's a home wrecker, possy