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Speaker 1: From the Zidim podcast network.

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Speaker 2: This is for the police Big Pond thanks to animates

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Speaker 2: making happy happened for pets.

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Speaker 3: Good morning. We're only a couple of days away from October.

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Speaker 3: Just think about that for a second.

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Speaker 4: I'm excited because it's my birthday next week.

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Speaker 5: And man, the fuss, Oh, the that's.

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Speaker 4: Going to be made about.

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Speaker 5: I didn't even think we've had a meeting about well,

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Speaker 5: after the meeting today or Haley, you know, I'll.

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Speaker 3: Go, I'll go, oh man, and we'll go to none.

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Speaker 3: I'm wrong, you behind after the meeting to that. The

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Speaker 3: problem is the money's run out this time of year.

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Speaker 5: You know me, I don't need goods, you know, I

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Speaker 5: get my own goods.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, well let us think about that. We've got

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Speaker 3: a week or so, don't we.

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Speaker 5: Oh the money all went on whom and the German

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Speaker 5: that's not my bloody present.

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Speaker 3: There was a gift to the nation that was spearheaded

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Speaker 3: that though, that's that's an early birthday present. Now, how

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Speaker 3: are we feeling after Daylight Savings? Because I'm I'm shattered.

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Speaker 4: No, but I woke up. I did the wrong thing.

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Speaker 4: Rather than sleeping.

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Speaker 5: In me too, I woke up earlier, the whole weekend.

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Speaker 3: I went to bed earlier last night, neglected all of

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Speaker 3: my work, and then this morning when I woke up

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Speaker 3: a three and because it sleep, I got up and

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Speaker 3: did work at this before work. I got up at three,

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Speaker 3: but they were just getting up at normal. No, getting

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Speaker 3: the other way. It's the other way because right now, No,

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to use that joke to me, so yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'm going to do it now right. Yeah, it's going

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Speaker 3: to be everybody's day to day is daylight savings banter?

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Speaker 4: How much it throws you at.

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Speaker 5: It's like how when you go to Australia your jet

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Speaker 5: legs really bad.

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Speaker 4: We can go to Europe and it's kind of fine.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, this is like one to two hour

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Speaker 3: throw out that it messes you up. Coming up on

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Speaker 3: the show The Top six morn today. Yeah, the chops

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Speaker 3: Ways to stay safe in the winds, Yes, it's wind

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Speaker 3: horning or when warning Cannbury. Okay, good my god.

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Speaker 5: So yesterday my flight home from Dunedin to Auckland got canceled,

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Speaker 5: so we dined and chrish Church crash at Auckland.

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Speaker 3: Such a joy. Do you have a hairy landing?

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Speaker 4: Oh my god?

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Speaker 3: Christ Church because we're on a little plane. Yep, it was.

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Speaker 3: I was like, I guess we die now. It was

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Speaker 3: harrowing those is it the north Wister's Well, yeah, the

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Speaker 3: wind warning was over at one am this morning, so

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Speaker 3: I don't know if there's top sex is out a date.

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Speaker 3: It's out a date. We're going to cancel the wind warning.

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Speaker 3: The Christch wind warning was five hours from eight o'clock

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Speaker 3: last night to one am, so it's fine. Now there's

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Speaker 3: no other wind warnings. Well, I could just change the

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Speaker 3: tents to the top six ways people stayed safe in

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Speaker 3: the wind warning. Perfect, he's nailed. I am now casting

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Speaker 3: open the net of suggestion. Nine sex, nine sex, like

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Speaker 3: today's top six to be Oh my god. I literally

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Speaker 3: gave you a million options. I don't like any of them,

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Speaker 3: but they were all ship. I listened to them too,

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Speaker 3: and they were pretty crapy. That's why you don't. They

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Speaker 3: were awful and okay, sure, no, I'm open to suggest Okay,

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Speaker 3: well that, well, you've got to fill the top six soon,

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Speaker 3: so work on that. Next on the show.

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Speaker 5: Cat owners, I've got great news. We are better than

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Speaker 5: everyone else.

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Speaker 3: I think we kind of knew that anyway. That's but

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Speaker 3: I actually have a refutable proof.

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Speaker 6: Okay, good play, z Fleashborne and Haley.

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Speaker 3: Well, cat owners, it turns out, as you mentioned, Haley

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Speaker 3: are the bitter people. Yeah, we knew this, We knew this.

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Speaker 3: Maybe you traverse you've got a dog, you've got a

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Speaker 3: foot in the camp, but you'd go you're a dog

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Speaker 3: man over a catboy. Ah yeah yeah yeah outside off

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Speaker 3: the deck dog. Well, somebody for some reason analyzed eight

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Speaker 3: hundred million donation records. Wow, and in a nutshell, basically,

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Speaker 3: cat owners donate fourteen times over ten years, compared with

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Speaker 3: eleven times for non ped owners, Wow, making them the

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Speaker 3: most frequent givers to charities, and that over non pit

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Speaker 5: You know what the psychological reasoners behind that, you know, like.

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Speaker 3: We're more generous and affectionate fiction. Yeah, we love little

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Speaker 3: flufy cuddles. Yeah yeah, yeah yeah. What are they donating too? Though?

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Speaker 3: Charity in general, just charity in general, charity more about

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Speaker 3: the breakdown of what kind of charities?

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Speaker 5: Well, you want to break down eight hundred million donations, yes,

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Speaker 5: by charity.

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Speaker 3: By charity, by what you owners a pit? Is it

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Speaker 3: like to help animals or is it to help humans or.

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Speaker 5: Because do you know what, I realized that I am

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Speaker 5: still donating to the World Wildlife Foundation for the koalas

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Speaker 5: are you from when they bushfires and they all got

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Speaker 5: all The forests have grown back though, and they're fine now,

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Speaker 5: I mean in the very endangered still, but you dead fool,

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Speaker 5: the forests have grown back.

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Speaker 3: There's just no way the trees could grow back the quickly.

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Speaker 4: They're so lustious and the UK all the trees are.

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Speaker 3: Growing back A yeahs yeah, but I forgot.

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Speaker 5: And then I've I've actually been going through our accounts

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Speaker 3: How do you not notice because you've entered a recession

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Speaker 3: and you've got to work out white Yeah, working more jobs.

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Speaker 5: Than ever ten, yet it's not enough. But and then

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Speaker 5: I saw it and I was like, what is it?

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Speaker 5: And I was like, man, there's been years. I'll keep

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Speaker 5: doing that because I love the Kualis, Like they bring

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Speaker 5: me so.

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Speaker 3: Much, Haley, how much you've got to rain this?

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Speaker 7: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: It's not much at all. It's not much at all.

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Speaker 5: In fact, I could up it.

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Speaker 3: Okay, but yeah, I don't know. To charity on the read, well,

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Speaker 3: I guess Koala's cats.

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Speaker 4: Cuddly like Koala's are gray. My cat's gray.

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Speaker 3: Again, You're just a bit of person.

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Speaker 4: I am just a bit of person.

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Speaker 5: Step it up, dog owners play that ms Fledgeborn and Haley.

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Speaker 4: If we sniffed catnip, would we be affected by it?

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Speaker 3: I've tried.

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Speaker 4: You guys are ready to go on a desperate night out?

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Speaker 3: Got some somewhere? Okay?

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Speaker 4: Why are we more attracted to.

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Speaker 3: People in relationships because we can't have them? It's forbidden?

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Speaker 3: And also, can I say I'm hot property with the

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: You are hot property with the gays and I appreciate it.

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Speaker 3: Have you had comments they want me because they can't?

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Speaker 3: They can't? So many reasons wek I've had some lovely

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Speaker 5: Some deep positive thoughts? Yeah, some of their mostly dips

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Speaker 5: actually okay, stumbled across? Okay, yeah, okay, So I get this.

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Speaker 5: I understand there is something about you see a guy

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Speaker 5: I think it is something about them, You know that

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Speaker 5: looks nice. You can kind of picture them in a

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Speaker 5: relationship because they are in one. But apparently this is

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Speaker 5: actually this is It's not just like a sort of

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Speaker 5: societal thing. This is a psychological thing called mate choice copying.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, back down to our animal days when we

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Speaker 5: used to be crawling around around, I was crawling around.

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Speaker 5: What is mate choice copying? It is the likelihood of

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Speaker 5: choosing a mate. The likelihood of choosing a mate increases

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Speaker 5: if others have already chosen them. It is an act

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Speaker 5: of social proof that being chosen by someone else signals desirability.

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Speaker 5: So we're going like, you're more desirable because someone already

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Speaker 5: desired you and got Yes, many species do this, humans, birds, fish.

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Speaker 5: That's all, okay, Yes, It's basically you are signaling that

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Speaker 5: you would be a good partner because you already are

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Speaker 5: to someone else. You signal traits like loyalty, commitment, and

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Speaker 5: capability capability.

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Speaker 8: So.

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Speaker 3: Just being able to do the base sick like totally.

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Speaker 3: When you see a man like put air in a tire,

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Speaker 3: for you, isn't there.

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Speaker 4: Capability is so hot.

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Speaker 3: Flip an omelet, yeah, flip me, hang a hang a

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Speaker 3: photo frame. Yeah, hang a frame. Yeah my head. It's

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Speaker 3: literally a nail on the wall, isn't it. I know,

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Speaker 3: but some people can't. People have no idea.

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Speaker 4: So if you can't hear it already, women are more susceptible.

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Speaker 3: To this, yeah, okay, yeah.

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Speaker 5: Due to the evolutionary reasons of what it is, a

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Speaker 5: higher maternal investment. So we're looking at you being like, man,

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Speaker 5: you hang a pitcher, you could probably rear children with

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Speaker 5: me quite well, Okay, not the first thought that comes

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Speaker 5: to my head, I'll be honest. Tend to look for

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Speaker 5: suitable cues for long term partner suitability. So just seeing

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Speaker 5: them in a relationship makes us go like, when you can,

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Speaker 5: they must it for me. Yeah, whereas men they don't,

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Speaker 5: then they're not affected by this as much.

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Speaker 3: M It's sometimes you see a guy with.

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Speaker 5: A a woman, Yeah, a missus should call her as

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Speaker 5: amy and be like, what's he got going on?

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Speaker 3: He must have a killer personality, And then you talk

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Speaker 3: to him and you're like, well, it's not the killer personality.

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Is that a monster a monster bank balance or it

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Speaker 3: could be a great personality. Yeah.

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Speaker 5: It's funny how we questioned it, like because on the

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Speaker 5: other side. If you see a capable, handsome man and

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Speaker 5: then he's not single and you see them on the

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Speaker 5: dating app, so much of his lap if he is single.

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Speaker 4: Sorry, he is single.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're like what why are you saying? Yeah, but

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Speaker 3: he could flip a normal and hang a frame. Yeah yeah,

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Speaker 3: but he's not taking found missus right, you don't want him?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, but because I'm like, there's got to

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Speaker 5: be something wrong with you. You've got this far looking

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Speaker 5: on that, there's got to be.

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Speaker 1: Something play ms fletchforn and daily.

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Speaker 3: The starter comes from wests Data Data. This data data

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Speaker 3: from west Cape. New Zealander is spending almost four hundred

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Speaker 3: dollars a year on TV service subscriptions. The banks is customers.

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Speaker 3: It's customers are paying TV subscriptions on average thirty three

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Speaker 3: dollars a month, and that's up twenty percent with competed

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Speaker 3: with last year. But that's because haven't they all put them?

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Speaker 3: All of them have gone up, right, Like Netflix, It's

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Speaker 3: alone is almost four hundred a year. I know. And

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Speaker 3: it's got though.

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Speaker 5: Because Netflix is like is it twenty seven at now

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Speaker 5: or twenty eight bucks or something?

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Speaker 3: It depends if you're on the cheap plan.

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Speaker 5: There's all different, so I'm not I'm on the bigger

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Speaker 5: I'm on the fatty. So I think it minds like

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Speaker 5: twenty eight times twelve is three hundred and thirty six bucks.

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Speaker 3: So that's Netflix a lot. That's Netflix alone. So whether

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Speaker 3: people are doing a cheaper Netflix and there may be

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Speaker 3: one more on average, one more service, I've got them all.

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Speaker 3: You've got that. I've got them all. See And I've

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Speaker 3: spoken about this before. You do you do one on

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Speaker 3: No one, We'll just someone dying for that you made

435
00:21:46,720 --> 00:21:50,280
Speaker 3: me said, your humor has failed, and it's the rest

436
00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:50,960
Speaker 3: is the rest.

437
00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:52,600
Speaker 4: It's too to gamble.

438
00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:57,560
Speaker 1: Plays its fleshed one and Hailey.

439
00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:17,520
Speaker 3: It is so silly, silly, silly to day's silly little

440
00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 3: pol Wow, we're dividing the nation. Which island has been

441
00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:25,840
Speaker 3: a North or South? Okay? This is I went? I

442
00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 3: mean I live on the North. I was born on

443
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,439
Speaker 3: the North too. We need to do next, we need

444
00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:32,720
Speaker 3: to do sorry, carry on, well, I was if we

445
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:37,159
Speaker 3: said which is the prettiest? South? Which is which is

446
00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:37,640
Speaker 3: the most?

447
00:22:37,760 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 8: Like?

448
00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 3: Got the most entertainment and more going on South?

449
00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:42,119
Speaker 1: No North?

450
00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:50,359
Speaker 3: What's the entertainment though, South? Gardening or the outdoors? I

451
00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:50,639
Speaker 3: don't know.

452
00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:54,400
Speaker 4: We got rainbows into the north, you know, I don't.

453
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:58,399
Speaker 3: See roller coaster fixed to the ground anywhere in the

454
00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:01,640
Speaker 3: South Island. He's got a went. I mean someone's built

455
00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:02,400
Speaker 3: a backyard one.

456
00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 5: I kind of love that we've made it so subjective

457
00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:08,159
Speaker 5: just by saying better, Yeah, because you bet at a holiday,

458
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:08,760
Speaker 5: bet at a living.

459
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:12,040
Speaker 3: I mean we live in the most beautiful country in

460
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:12,360
Speaker 3: the world.

461
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 4: I thought you said the most beautiful city.

462
00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 3: I was like, no, we don't. Definitely not, There's no

463
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:17,920
Speaker 3: doubt about it. This is what the hell of a

464
00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 3: country put that in gratitude journal.

465
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:22,280
Speaker 4: Actually live in New Zealand.

466
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:25,800
Speaker 5: That's a triumph It's I'm a triumphant tragedy. She's doing

467
00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:26,800
Speaker 5: the gratitude.

468
00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:30,320
Speaker 3: Gratitude if you just joined us. Vaughn and Haley are

469
00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:40,200
Speaker 3: both journaling. Yeah, someon Spiral. Spiral's not upwards. Which island

470
00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:46,399
Speaker 3: has been in North of South fifty four percent voted

471
00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 3: for the South South? Yeah, just purper north north forty

472
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:57,800
Speaker 3: six South fifty four. Sheldon said, you haven't got Auckland

473
00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:00,480
Speaker 3: or Hamilton in the South Island. Now, I'm sure which

474
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:02,960
Speaker 3: way they voted, and that statement could literally be taken

475
00:24:03,000 --> 00:24:05,000
Speaker 3: either goold like, I don't know which way they mean.

476
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:09,480
Speaker 3: They have Aukland in the South Island. No, famously, Yeah,

477
00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:16,880
Speaker 3: it's not what's to do great eateries, Francesca said, Queenstown

478
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 3: eyes made of harm? Yeah, I mean it's just beautiful,

479
00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:25,120
Speaker 3: isn't it. Or when I'm controversial Wan Toro over Queenstown. Yeah,

480
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 3: I'm going to want to consume, but there's list to do,

481
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 3: and there's no McDonald's, and they didn't want to. You know,

482
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:35,240
Speaker 3: I love my six pack of nuts, just squint sour sauce,

483
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:41,360
Speaker 3: sometimes fries. Oh man, now every time for us. Earl

484
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:43,639
Speaker 3: said that was probably the hardest seller, Little Polly, You've done.

485
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:46,360
Speaker 3: I picked North just because of the amazing summers in Northland.

486
00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:48,919
Speaker 3: There's a point. You've got the Bay of Islands, You've

487
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:52,120
Speaker 3: got the curramandel. This is a problem, that's a hard

488
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:54,640
Speaker 3: question to ask. Can I say summer in the North,

489
00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 3: But then can I say every other every other season

490
00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 3: in the South? Spring? South? So you're in central Otago

491
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:09,240
Speaker 3: and we're not too hot to dry, too hot to dry?

492
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 3: Too hot? What are your forest tend to drive?

493
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:15,879
Speaker 4: Winter does suck in the North?

494
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:18,760
Speaker 3: Winters in the North was wet and cold, not that

495
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:22,000
Speaker 3: nice South Island dry cold. Yeah, that's true, a lot

496
00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 3: more blue skies.

497
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:25,920
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, okay, we're turning gm seed South.

498
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 3: I live in Hamilton, Okay, okay, well I don't think

499
00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 3: you need to drag Hamilton into this.

500
00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 6: Yeah.

501
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:34,800
Speaker 3: My instinct is a jeffer Us to say North. But

502
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:38,200
Speaker 3: my absolute favorite place in the whole world is Topol,

503
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,359
Speaker 3: but I always recommend South Island Roady for foreigners visiting.

504
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:45,159
Speaker 3: Did it sound to you like Emma thought that the

505
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 3: South Island.

506
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:51,119
Speaker 5: No, no, she just loves and my favorite place Okay,

507
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:54,200
Speaker 5: my favorite place is Topal, a beautiful spot.

508
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:58,000
Speaker 3: Incently, some tourists were only in the North Island. We

509
00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:01,119
Speaker 3: had the Lovely listeners come in. Oh yeah, you were

510
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:04,840
Speaker 3: a wave. Ay. I organized that, but they were seeing

511
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:07,720
Speaker 3: like friends of some family members in the North and

512
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:09,879
Speaker 3: they weren't going to the South. And I was like, no,

513
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 3: you need to do south. You need to do South.

514
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:14,640
Speaker 3: When you drive the North on a great day, you're

515
00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 3: like around the hills. Yeah, so great Central Plano. I mean, yeah,

516
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:24,200
Speaker 3: Mason says, and this is an interesting nor the Mason jar. Yes,

517
00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:28,399
Speaker 3: so dumb. Sorry, so you should be. I met some

518
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:30,080
Speaker 3: of the ones that runs a home with so or

519
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:31,200
Speaker 3: really love that joke.

520
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:32,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, and that was just for them.

521
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:40,879
Speaker 5: Mason b oh yeah, Mason Erie. Yeah, why do we

522
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:43,120
Speaker 5: call the Mason jars? Is it a brand or masonry?

523
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:43,919
Speaker 5: Is my favorite position?

524
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:52,639
Speaker 3: That was really good. Actually, I don't think you're going

525
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:55,119
Speaker 3: to be funnier this week. I don't think peaked on

526
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 3: a Monday.

527
00:26:55,720 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 5: Yeah as God, as God is twist and.

528
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:09,640
Speaker 3: Wait for it to pop anyway for it. So Mason

529
00:27:10,359 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 3: near your position said, I've lived in both, and as

530
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 3: much as the South is beautiful, as exhausting to get

531
00:27:15,040 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 3: anywhere spread, I've lived in the South Island as well.

532
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:21,960
Speaker 3: It's spread and it's a lot. Did you live in

533
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 3: Nelson and Central Otago, um Julie said, last time I checked,

534
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:31,880
Speaker 3: there isn't it in Congolan in the North Island. Can't

535
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:33,159
Speaker 3: be the best when you don't have the goat and

536
00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:37,400
Speaker 3: the roster. That sounds like a real one eyed sound

537
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:42,080
Speaker 3: a Southlander. I will advocate for thecargo's properties. Beautiful properties.

538
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 3: Loves a bloody reno. You want to do another reno? Yeah,

539
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:53,359
Speaker 3: you had such fun on the last one, and you

540
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 3: want to do it in some of the most unappealing

541
00:27:55,520 --> 00:27:59,400
Speaker 3: climate New Zealand offer. Yeah, yeah, wonderful, Wanica, says Kate

542
00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 3: Lake Mountains wine skiing. That's she is that wrong?

543
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 9: Galax lovely pen Jerry, Yeah, very very rags.

544
00:28:15,359 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 3: People island. They're getting the white dialect and.

545
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:30,920
Speaker 5: Telling their vowels aren't away.

546
00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:39,080
Speaker 3: The sometimes Mars South Island more space less people. Now,

547
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 3: that's actually great thinking, good good cause video, and Eden

548
00:28:43,120 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 3: said Northland carries most of the weight for the North Island.

549
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 3: To be honest, it's a truly phenomenal both culturally, oh

550
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 3: she gratificably and geographic. You're not wrong, unique for the

551
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,920
Speaker 3: North Island. That's well thought out. Aiden. This was a

552
00:28:57,080 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 3: top sill of Little Pole.

553
00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:00,520
Speaker 5: Does remind you that we do live in the most

554
00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 5: beautiful country in the world. Were good way.

555
00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 3: Sell Little pul today? Which island is better? There's South

556
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 3: Island pips it at fifty four percent.

557
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 1: Play z ms Fletchborn and Hale.

558
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 5: There is a TikTok trend sweeping the app and it's

559
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 5: all about being the cool auntie as more and more

560
00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 5: women like myself, I guess kind of is celebrate choosing

561
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 5: a more unconventional life or you know, bucking tradition of becoming.

562
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:36,400
Speaker 3: Married homowning.

563
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 5: You can't call them that anymore, No, you've got to

564
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 5: run it quite quickly a hormona hormon harmona.

565
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 3: Yeah.

566
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:49,640
Speaker 5: So typically, yeah, welcome to the world of being a homeowner.

567
00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:58,400
Speaker 5: Sorry sorry what yeah, we're all homowners here anyway. So

568
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 5: the video is typically got this they go plan a

569
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 5: married by twenty five, home, homeowner by twenty seven, kids

570
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 5: by thirty, and then it switches to them like now

571
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,720
Speaker 5: drinking wine. Yeah, like plan B cool.

572
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:12,280
Speaker 4: Auntie instead is the whole thing.

573
00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:17,040
Speaker 5: And in Europe, yeah, in Europe, child free on a bow,

574
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 5: on a day, doing whatever, celebrating a different zest for life,

575
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 5: more financial freedom. You don't have to have nieces or nephews,

576
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:29,760
Speaker 5: by the way, to jump on the cool aren't okay,

577
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 5: You just can be to an auntie. It's basically just

578
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:37,720
Speaker 5: celebrating not following traditional female roles.

579
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:39,480
Speaker 3: Which so many people are men and women.

580
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 5: Well, you know, my whole show, The Baroness this year

581
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:45,920
Speaker 5: was kind of about this. And it's interesting because at

582
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:47,560
Speaker 5: the top I talk about it a lot and ask

583
00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:49,440
Speaker 5: like who has kids and who doesn't and whatnot. And

584
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:52,120
Speaker 5: afterwards they have so many chats with women who were

585
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 5: just like, oh my god, Yeah, I just just maybe

586
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 5: like thought I was going to go that way and

587
00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:02,360
Speaker 5: then realized that actually there's just other things I guess

588
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 5: to put your time and money towards.

589
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:07,440
Speaker 3: I ever wanted it, ever, Yeah, you're like holidays and

590
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 3: Chucky's and like blazers.

591
00:31:09,240 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 5: And hamdbags, the new iPhone, the new iPhone seventeen on

592
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 5: its way right now?

593
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 3: What are you doing?

594
00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:15,960
Speaker 8: I just.

595
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 3: I've got children and I can't speak ill of them. Yeah,

596
00:31:20,560 --> 00:31:21,280
Speaker 3: they're not listening.

597
00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:28,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, but you've always wanted to be a dead and

598
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 5: then you became a dead and you love being a

599
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:33,720
Speaker 5: dead love whereas you know, for me, I did pay

600
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 5: on a stick last week, you know, And I will say,

601
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:39,240
Speaker 5: I will I was terrified, and I will.

602
00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 3: Say, you're right, you are right. You've got the new iPhone,

603
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:44,080
Speaker 3: You've ordered the new iPhone. I don't have the new iPhone.

604
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 3: I'm on a twelve. Yeah, and then all the money

605
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 3: that would be going to the new iPhone has to

606
00:31:51,240 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 3: go to like skull bags.

607
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 9: Scho school.

608
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:02,120
Speaker 5: Some friends of mine literally just sold their house so

609
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:04,720
Speaker 5: that they didn't want to move out of, so that

610
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:06,720
Speaker 5: they could go and move in a bit of school

611
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:07,680
Speaker 5: zone school.

612
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:13,280
Speaker 3: God, noice, I live where it's nas you know, want

613
00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 3: to live? I just went this suburb looks NAS High

614
00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 3: School nearby. This is lovely, lovely trees to it, darling.

615
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:26,800
Speaker 5: I mean, anyway, this is the If you are someone

616
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:30,920
Speaker 5: like this that celebrates the child free life, you're gonna

617
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 5: jump on the TikTok.

618
00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 2: Cool aren't trend plays ITAMS Fletchborn and Haley plays it.

619
00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 1: Ms Fletchborn and Haley.

620
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 3: We want to know right now were you betrayed by

621
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:46,040
Speaker 3: a friend and what happened? I love these stories, So

622
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 3: how how did you come across this article?

623
00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 5: There's a great site called Mamma Maya that's an Australian

624
00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 5: kind of like so it's it's basically like a lifestyle

625
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 5: website using interne and stuff, and I always go on it.

626
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:03,920
Speaker 5: And it was ten women sharing stories of when they

627
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 5: were betrayed by friends. One of them like it starts

628
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 5: from two girls matching with the same guy on Tinder

629
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:13,320
Speaker 5: and they were best friends for twenty years.

630
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 3: Somebody else. The minute of sentence starts two girls. Your

631
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 3: brain goes one half. I know it's tough, how bad

632
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 3: that was. And if you've never seen it, don't see it. No, no, no,

633
00:33:23,120 --> 00:33:24,040
Speaker 3: but that's where my brain.

634
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 8: No.

635
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:27,360
Speaker 3: But when you think about it, like you think about

636
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:29,320
Speaker 3: events of the last couple of weeks, that was actually

637
00:33:29,440 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 3: quite in the scheme of things mild do I would

638
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:36,239
Speaker 3: give what I would give for the most disruptive thing

639
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:37,960
Speaker 3: of my year to be two girls, one cup. Yeah,

640
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:41,400
Speaker 3: I know, not seeing a man get shot in the neck. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

641
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:43,560
Speaker 3: when you didn't ask to see it. I know.

642
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 5: So they both matched with this guy on Tinder, realized

643
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:49,680
Speaker 5: as they were sharing as best friends do, like this

644
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:51,760
Speaker 5: is who I'm chatting with. Realize it was the same person,

645
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:53,520
Speaker 5: went Okay, well we'll both just back away, but one

646
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 5: of them didn't, and so they ended that on the date,

647
00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 5: so that split.

648
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:58,560
Speaker 4: The friendship ended up splitting out.

649
00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 3: It's not worth a twenty friendship.

650
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:01,200
Speaker 6: I know.

651
00:34:03,440 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 5: Another friend was used at a wedding, so she provided

652
00:34:10,080 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 5: you know, cake and service and all this kind of stuff,

653
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 5: and then the friend never paid her.

654
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:22,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, a friend was a thirty five year old.

655
00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 5: Friendship fizzled after one of them had a baby and

656
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:26,880
Speaker 5: the other one was like, you're boring now and then

657
00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:28,000
Speaker 5: the when the But.

658
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:33,560
Speaker 3: But that's also good that that happens, because when you

659
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:34,960
Speaker 3: have a baby, they need to be looked after. And

660
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 3: if you're a party person, you just keep putting a

661
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:37,839
Speaker 3: party person, you're a piece of shit.

662
00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:40,759
Speaker 4: And also it's just a sign that they were never

663
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:41,919
Speaker 4: a true friend in the first place.

664
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:44,320
Speaker 5: But then, so this person had a baby, the person

665
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 5: never came and visited, not once, like didn't even text

666
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:49,520
Speaker 5: or anything. And then the new mum broke her leg

667
00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:51,319
Speaker 5: and was like I need help. And then the friend

668
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 5: was like, I'm not really interested anymore. Anyway, We want

669
00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 5: to know when you were betrayed by a friend. Maybe

670
00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:01,239
Speaker 5: they took your mands time, like.

671
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:05,000
Speaker 3: You know, like lied to you. Yeah, like I don't know.

672
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 3: Someone cheats, the best friend cheats, not with the hospital

673
00:35:07,840 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 3: or something. How did that.

674
00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 5: Happen the best friend? You're like, you've got kidding me.

675
00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:16,400
Speaker 5: Or they stole maybe they just stole your stole some

676
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:19,840
Speaker 5: money from you. Maybe they stole your identity online and.

677
00:35:19,880 --> 00:35:21,719
Speaker 3: Then got a low. Maybe you were going to a

678
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 3: potluck and they got first choice. You were like, I

679
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 3: wanted to do.

680
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:27,440
Speaker 4: That's bigger.

681
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:30,120
Speaker 3: I think we want to hear bigger stories.

682
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:31,000
Speaker 1: Ding.

683
00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:32,600
Speaker 5: What if it was Mac and che Yeah, what if

684
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:34,960
Speaker 5: they said to you like, oh my god, let's both

685
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:36,600
Speaker 5: shave our heads three two.

686
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 3: One, and then one of them to rank? Yeah, yeah, yeah,

687
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:44,839
Speaker 3: now you're born. Okay, dances and we'd love to take

688
00:35:44,840 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 3: your calls. Now you can take through nine six nine sex.

689
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 3: When were you betrayed by a friend?

690
00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 5: We would like to know right now, when were you

691
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:57,439
Speaker 5: betrayed by a friend because people have just been sharing

692
00:35:57,480 --> 00:35:58,960
Speaker 5: their stories online and I thought that was so great.

693
00:35:59,000 --> 00:36:00,320
Speaker 3: I wanted to hear from our lovely you know what.

694
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:02,400
Speaker 3: I don't even know your real friend. Then is it?

695
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:05,120
Speaker 5: Then?

696
00:36:05,160 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 3: When it it happened fifteen or ten or twenty years

697
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:10,279
Speaker 3: down the track and something like this happens, you're like,

698
00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:11,080
Speaker 3: how could you?

699
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:12,040
Speaker 5: But it does.

700
00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:12,759
Speaker 3: And this is the thing.

701
00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:15,240
Speaker 5: I'll be best friends of my best friend for thirty years.

702
00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 5: And you're like, imagine if she ever betrayed me.

703
00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:20,319
Speaker 3: No, it's too long. No, she wouldn't. She would, I'd

704
00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 3: murder her. Anonymous joins us and Jessica betrayed me anonymous

705
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:30,240
Speaker 3: joins us anonymous. When were you betrayed by a friend?

706
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:35,839
Speaker 10: I had surgery last year on my dominant hand. I'm

707
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:40,440
Speaker 10: right handed, and I couldn't do anything for myself. And

708
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:44,320
Speaker 10: I was at home and she'd come visit me, and

709
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 10: she'd bring over coffees for just herself or not awesome to.

710
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:49,240
Speaker 3: Get me one, oh gosh.

711
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 10: And then we were also sitting were just sitting in

712
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 10: my lounge, and then all of a sudden there was

713
00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 10: knock on the door and she'd ordered herself over eights

714
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:00,840
Speaker 10: to my house.

715
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 3: That's that's not even I do that. That's just weird though,

716
00:37:05,000 --> 00:37:06,560
Speaker 3: that's not even that's weird.

717
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:09,799
Speaker 8: And I had not like said that she was ordering

718
00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 8: food or anything like that. And then yeah, so I

719
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 8: just ordered myself for a bridge?

720
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:18,720
Speaker 3: What a what weird behavior? How long were you friends

721
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:19,400
Speaker 3: with this person?

722
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:22,359
Speaker 6: Oh like maybe three four years.

723
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:25,680
Speaker 5: It's such an odd thing to do. You always say,

724
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:30,480
Speaker 5: do you know I'm starving? Order some food before you go.

725
00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:32,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's everything.

726
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:34,000
Speaker 11: I would have offered to pay for.

727
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:37,799
Speaker 3: It, like, you know, yeah, to pay you back if

728
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:39,320
Speaker 3: you're ordering, and I'll pay you put some money in

729
00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 3: your kid.

730
00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 6: Yeah.

731
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 3: And so were you just like this, is that the

732
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:42,719
Speaker 3: friendship's over?

733
00:37:43,280 --> 00:37:44,239
Speaker 8: Oh? Yeah, yeah, I.

734
00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:46,600
Speaker 10: Ended that friendship. There was a few other weird things

735
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 10: that happened too that The nail in the coffin for

736
00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 10: that one.

737
00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:51,959
Speaker 3: Was another one of the weird things.

738
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:57,399
Speaker 8: Oh gosh, it's fine.

739
00:37:57,480 --> 00:37:59,320
Speaker 3: Did you tell her it was over or did you

740
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:00,160
Speaker 3: just go to her?

741
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 5: No?

742
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:03,320
Speaker 3: I told her, Okay, how did you? How do you

743
00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 3: break that? I don't want to be friends with you anymore.

744
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:07,760
Speaker 8: It was like a breakup message.

745
00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:11,080
Speaker 5: Oh hey, this has been really fun, but I feel

746
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:12,799
Speaker 5: our lives are moving in different directions.

747
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, over, it's over. Next time, bring me coffee hashtag

748
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 3: anonymous thank you for sharing our Let's go to another

749
00:38:21,160 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 3: anonymous caller. When were you betrayed by a friend?

750
00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 6: Hi, I was betrayed. Me and my best friend at

751
00:38:30,680 --> 00:38:33,640
Speaker 6: the time both worked at a shopping mall. She was

752
00:38:33,719 --> 00:38:36,800
Speaker 6: in a clothing store and I was in another clothing store. Okay,

753
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:40,479
Speaker 6: one day she got caught on a when I wasn't

754
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 6: there on a week in shoplifting from the same mall.

755
00:38:45,719 --> 00:38:51,800
Speaker 3: You don't shop where you eat it, yeah, don't shoplift

756
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 3: in it. Yeah.

757
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:53,359
Speaker 8: Yeah.

758
00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 6: So the screeny guy told her, well, your banned from

759
00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:59,399
Speaker 6: the mall for two years. She said, I work here,

760
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:01,200
Speaker 6: and he's like, well, you have to tell your boss

761
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:03,919
Speaker 6: because you can't come here for two years. She kept

762
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 6: asking to get transferred instead of telling her boss that

763
00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 6: she got trespassed, and the boss wouldn't transfer her. So

764
00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:14,520
Speaker 6: she told her boss that I was shotlisting and she

765
00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 6: was just with me and that she hasn't places as well.

766
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 6: So her boss went and spoke to my boss and said,

767
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:27,480
Speaker 6: by the way, she has been caught shotlisting and as

768
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:30,920
Speaker 6: trespassed for them from them all lucky. My boss went

769
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:33,440
Speaker 6: to security and got the security footage and they both

770
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 6: sat down and watched it together to see that I

771
00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:38,719
Speaker 6: wasn't even there. She accused me of shotlisting to try

772
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:39,360
Speaker 6: and save.

773
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:39,799
Speaker 8: Her own butt.

774
00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:42,880
Speaker 3: That is so rue. How long had you been friends

775
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:43,760
Speaker 3: for at that stage?

776
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 6: About seven years? Being friends in sacre bowl all the time.

777
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:53,200
Speaker 3: What, oh my god, somebody just smacked down and did

778
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 3: they never got a bloody smack as a kid. Did

779
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 3: you like end it with her? Or like, how did

780
00:39:59,200 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 3: that end?

781
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:00,320
Speaker 8: That was it?

782
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 3: That was it?

783
00:40:01,520 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 6: I was like, you just tried to get me fired.

784
00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:10,280
Speaker 3: Good indicating by the way I think you always indicated

785
00:40:11,120 --> 00:40:13,000
Speaker 3: people don't couple of seconds.

786
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:13,759
Speaker 6: Got you on hands free.

787
00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:17,400
Speaker 3: I'm not We're not judging. You're not judging here. I

788
00:40:17,520 --> 00:40:19,759
Speaker 3: just like to hear an indicator. And I believe she

789
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:23,239
Speaker 3: told us that you were shoplifting. That's outraged that the

790
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:27,359
Speaker 3: betrayal after seven years Anonymous, Thank you Brooke. We need

791
00:40:27,400 --> 00:40:28,239
Speaker 3: a frame betray you.

792
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 6: Oh guys, abouts and a half years ago, so I

793
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:37,280
Speaker 6: was farming.

794
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:43,160
Speaker 8: I gave up farming for about six months and my

795
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 8: wife been at the time. She was like my opes here.

796
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 8: We ended up moving down to Talpo to her dad's

797
00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 8: house building all the tendency stuff, which is great. And

798
00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:02,440
Speaker 8: in about three months into it, I get a message

799
00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:05,320
Speaker 8: from him asking why I hadn't paid any rents for

800
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:06,360
Speaker 8: the last three months.

801
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 3: No.

802
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 8: I was sitting there and I was like, hang on

803
00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 8: a minute, I have and I'm going through my bank

804
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:18,799
Speaker 8: statements and I was like, okay, I've paid every week.

805
00:41:19,960 --> 00:41:22,160
Speaker 8: And I sat there and I said to my friend,

806
00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:24,000
Speaker 8: and I've just had a message from your dad asking

807
00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:29,440
Speaker 8: why I haven't paid rents in the last three months. Anyway,

808
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:33,240
Speaker 8: third night, not a go through everything. And I looked

809
00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:35,160
Speaker 8: and I was like, hang on a minute, this isn't

810
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:38,440
Speaker 8: the same bank account on dependence agreement.

811
00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 4: She's laundering money from you.

812
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:43,640
Speaker 7: Yeah.

813
00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:45,680
Speaker 8: It turned out it was her bank account and she

814
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:48,400
Speaker 8: was keeping it and not even paying anything. And just

815
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:51,560
Speaker 8: sat there quiet as they like, oh, I don't know

816
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:52,360
Speaker 8: what's going on.

817
00:41:52,719 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 3: Oh, And so was that over?

818
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 8: And then the friendship so maybe being the person I am,

819
00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:04,799
Speaker 8: I forgave her. Then a year later she ended up

820
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:05,600
Speaker 8: passing away.

821
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 3: Oh my god, what sort of tale.

822
00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:13,560
Speaker 8: So but he's like she her father took me to

823
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 8: tenancy and everything, and I was like, what the hell

824
00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 8: you know I've got good, good thing with you know,

825
00:42:18,640 --> 00:42:23,200
Speaker 8: all my my old rentals and stuff. What the hell's

826
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 8: going on?

827
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:25,759
Speaker 3: And did you have to pay the money back?

828
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 8: No, because I had proof that paying it going into

829
00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:36,080
Speaker 8: her account. He ended up taking her to tendancy and

830
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:38,439
Speaker 8: getting all the money from her his own daughter.

831
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:49,719
Speaker 3: His own daughter. Okay, wow, what one lands? Thank you

832
00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 3: broke some messages and when have you been betrayed by

833
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:55,280
Speaker 3: a friend? And there's no shortage? My exprest friends decided

834
00:42:55,320 --> 00:42:58,440
Speaker 3: I was a sorry exprest friend. Singular decided I was

835
00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:00,600
Speaker 3: a baby killer because I was in charge of giving

836
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:04,840
Speaker 3: childhood vaccines. Oh, needless to say that didn't well and

837
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 3: I don't miss her. Ah, my friend and who partner

838
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:09,320
Speaker 3: borrowed my vehicle. I later had a call from the

839
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 3: police at a vehicle reachis and my name had been

840
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:14,319
Speaker 3: used for in a hidden run. What turns of their

841
00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:16,680
Speaker 3: partner tapped somebody and kept driving. No one was No

842
00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:18,480
Speaker 3: one was severely hurt, But they were never going to

843
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:22,760
Speaker 3: tell me tapped with a car is worse than tapped

844
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:23,280
Speaker 3: on the shoulder.

845
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:26,719
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, And the spectrum of taps yep, it's up

846
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 5: there with hot tap. One of my favorite taps tap

847
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:35,600
Speaker 5: dancing another great tap that's down there, Yeah, number, that's

848
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 5: my number one tap tap tap and GAP's a great

849
00:43:40,080 --> 00:43:42,320
Speaker 5: tap morning guys. I was married for six years and

850
00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:45,480
Speaker 5: together for thirteen years with two children, me and my

851
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:48,239
Speaker 5: partner having a bit of an a shoe. My best

852
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:50,920
Speaker 5: mate at the time was homeless and jobless, so I

853
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:53,920
Speaker 5: let him stay and he ended up sleeping with my wife.

854
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 4: Thirty seven times.

855
00:43:55,160 --> 00:43:57,400
Speaker 3: Wow, thirty seven Wait did they keep a guy? I

856
00:43:57,600 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 3: was nice for a guy with no job and no home.

857
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:03,279
Speaker 5: Swoops than I'm happier now then, more than ever with

858
00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:05,200
Speaker 5: the woman of my dreams are now buying a house.

859
00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 5: Would never have you know if it didn't happen, Ye,

860
00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:11,400
Speaker 5: shag my wife thirty seven times.

861
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 3: Well that's what you've got. No job, I guess you've

862
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 3: just got time to burn and shags to shag thirty

863
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 3: seven of them. No, thirty seven, thirty seven and prime number.

864
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 4: Feels like best visible by anything but itsself and one.

865
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:28,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, flitch didn't know what a prime I don't know

866
00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:30,920
Speaker 3: because I went to a desole one primary school such

867
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:34,759
Speaker 3: as one. Now that's a prime number. Not my story.

868
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:38,719
Speaker 3: Who was wanting to propose to this girl was being

869
00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:40,839
Speaker 3: kept in the dark by his own friends that she'd

870
00:44:40,880 --> 00:44:43,560
Speaker 3: been cheating on him with her with her best friend's husband.

871
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:46,520
Speaker 3: With her best friend's husband. The penny dropped when the

872
00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:48,480
Speaker 3: best friend has been going through cancer treatment while she

873
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:49,520
Speaker 3: was sleeping with her husband.

874
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:51,920
Speaker 4: Oh my god, double backstab.

875
00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 3: Judas. How could you even feel like good about yourself?

876
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 3: You like that's the lowest of the lot.

877
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:04,320
Speaker 5: We always say on these things, we don't charge. But

878
00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:07,759
Speaker 5: because this person isn't the missing, yeah, I'm judging on you.

879
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:10,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, dar you Thirty five years ago, I was at

880
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:13,400
Speaker 3: university and my dad was dying from cancer. I was

881
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 3: in a group for a union assignment and some friends

882
00:45:15,280 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 3: and I hadn't done with some friends and I hadn't

883
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:19,560
Speaker 3: done my part as I was busy doing stuff for

884
00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 3: my dad. I went to a group meeting and they

885
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:22,959
Speaker 3: told me they didn't believe that my dad was sick

886
00:45:23,160 --> 00:45:26,239
Speaker 3: and they wanted me out of the group. One I

887
00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:29,640
Speaker 3: got hercked in his coffin well. A week later, my

888
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 3: dad died and I dragged his body and showed the way.

889
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:35,560
Speaker 3: Later my dad died. Though I've got friends for about

890
00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:43,759
Speaker 3: ten years. It's terrible. It is horrendous Judas judas, judas brutus. Um,

891
00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:46,280
Speaker 3: my best friend was in charge of our flat account

892
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 3: while flating with another friend. Long story short, she was

893
00:45:48,160 --> 00:45:51,640
Speaker 3: siphoning you hear oh, you hear this all the time,

894
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:53,719
Speaker 3: that's happened to my friends and making us pay her back.

895
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:55,200
Speaker 3: And it turned out she had stolen seven and a

896
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:58,879
Speaker 3: half thousand, so we made her pay us back, kicked

897
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 3: her out in till of all of her friends that

898
00:46:01,719 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 3: she was a walked through town ding dong.

899
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:10,399
Speaker 5: Yeah, shame, shame, shame, shame guys, can you not don't

900
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:14,040
Speaker 5: betray mea Also, yeah, number one isn't a prime number.

901
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 4: It's abatable because it's divisible by one in its south,

902
00:46:17,040 --> 00:46:17,239
Speaker 4: but it.

903
00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:19,520
Speaker 3: Is, but it is one. Yeah, two is a prime number.

904
00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:22,759
Speaker 3: Eleven is probably my favorite. Again, I don't know what

905
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:26,239
Speaker 3: you're talking about. Seven's gorge Seven is gorgeous. If a

906
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:28,840
Speaker 3: number can't be divided by anything, one.

907
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 1: Plays it. MS Fletchforhn and Haley.

908
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:37,200
Speaker 5: Congratulations goes out to Selena Gomis and Bennie Blanco, who

909
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:38,839
Speaker 5: over the weekend married.

910
00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 3: And boy, oh boy, they look cute.

911
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:43,319
Speaker 5: She wore like a beautiful sort of wholes and neck

912
00:46:43,400 --> 00:46:46,000
Speaker 5: white dress and he just wore a classic black tux.

913
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:46,600
Speaker 3: Yeah.

914
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:48,759
Speaker 5: She shared some photos on her Instagram just with the

915
00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:50,440
Speaker 5: date got married on the twenty seventh.

916
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:55,080
Speaker 3: That was satdy there our our Sunday. Yeah, this is.

917
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:58,759
Speaker 5: Fresh where only bring the freshest news here born and

918
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 5: a lot of cellibs, heaps of celebs, including Martin Short and.

919
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:10,120
Speaker 3: Martin Martin Short and who's the other guy, Yeah, well

920
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:13,520
Speaker 3: Steve Martin. I was like Martin and Martin's only murders

921
00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 3: in the building.

922
00:47:14,120 --> 00:47:16,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, only murders in the building. And then they were

923
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:18,279
Speaker 5: sharing stuff because in one of the episodes of Only

924
00:47:18,320 --> 00:47:19,759
Speaker 5: Murders in the Building, she's in a wedding dress and

925
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:22,200
Speaker 5: they're in tuxedos and it was all very cute and

926
00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 5: also attending and what in honor it would be bff tasteworft.

927
00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:30,640
Speaker 3: On a very busy week, very busy wee picking off

928
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:33,920
Speaker 3: a big week for her, so she you know, she's

929
00:47:34,000 --> 00:47:37,200
Speaker 3: she said, screw you, mother nature private jetted in to

930
00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:40,359
Speaker 3: like a car and ready to bite.

931
00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:44,440
Speaker 5: She jetted into the wedding and then immediately afterwards jetted

932
00:47:44,480 --> 00:47:44,919
Speaker 5: back off.

933
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:45,560
Speaker 3: Because she's busy.

934
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:45,839
Speaker 10: Man.

935
00:47:46,000 --> 00:47:48,520
Speaker 12: You know what I found so interesting is that every

936
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:51,359
Speaker 12: all the guests, like it was full of celebrities. Paris

937
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:54,239
Speaker 12: Hilton was there, like everyone was there. They all were

938
00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:58,400
Speaker 12: taken like they stayed in their hotels whatever, and all

939
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:00,719
Speaker 12: got onto little shuttle buses and were taken to the venue.

940
00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 3: So no one knew what the venue was except for Taylor.

941
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:05,600
Speaker 4: She was told so she could get herself there.

942
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:11,440
Speaker 3: Oh okay. Also, can you imagine shuttling celebrities and shuttle bus.

943
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:14,400
Speaker 4: In the back round? Remember us on the bus after

944
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:15,479
Speaker 4: Michael Matt's wedding.

945
00:48:15,520 --> 00:48:18,640
Speaker 5: You know, anyone's Lucy Goose, it's got a bloody can

946
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 5: in their hands and stuff. Yeah, yeah, I mean I

947
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:23,319
Speaker 5: know Taylor's security is a lot heightened at the moment

948
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:25,200
Speaker 5: because her stalk is missing and they're a bit worried.

949
00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, but yeah, everyone was in these little shuttle buses.

950
00:48:29,080 --> 00:48:33,520
Speaker 3: How cute Shearon? Yeah, Paul Rudd I saw photos of

951
00:48:35,719 --> 00:48:35,960
Speaker 3: as well.

952
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:39,400
Speaker 12: Meryl couldn't make it. Meryl Street wasn't there, She's filming,

953
00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 12: never was prouda. Did you see side step.

954
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:49,280
Speaker 5: Meryl in character as Miranda Priestley adult Changerbanna's Runway show.

955
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:51,640
Speaker 12: And everyone was like and she did like a little

956
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:55,919
Speaker 12: Vogue shoot with and a win tour. But yeah, they're winning.

957
00:48:55,960 --> 00:48:57,000
Speaker 3: Looks so cute like that.

958
00:48:57,160 --> 00:49:00,160
Speaker 5: She just like she looks bloody happy, doesn't She just

959
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:01,680
Speaker 5: nice because she's had a bit of a rough run.

960
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:07,080
Speaker 5: Our our girl Selena and Bennye Blanco, I mean, congrats.

961
00:49:06,960 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 3: They're now mister and missus Levin.

962
00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:10,080
Speaker 12: Yeah, that's his last name, Levin.

963
00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:17,480
Speaker 3: You're going to say Blanco. He's a very funny individual.

964
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:17,920
Speaker 8: He is.

965
00:49:18,239 --> 00:49:20,960
Speaker 3: He was on Little Dickie Show Dave and they called

966
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:22,759
Speaker 3: each other chuck and it was I think it might be.

967
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:25,880
Speaker 3: There was a segment before the opening titles, and I

968
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:28,320
Speaker 3: just thought it might have been the best opening to

969
00:49:28,360 --> 00:49:29,440
Speaker 3: a comedy show I've ever seen.

970
00:49:29,480 --> 00:49:32,319
Speaker 5: It's quite googly. So this is a busy week as

971
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 5: well for the t the Ta Gays because it's album drop.

972
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:43,480
Speaker 4: It is Friday.

973
00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:46,840
Speaker 3: I got we've got our mousepad to celebrate.

974
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 4: Did you guys see that.

975
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:50,400
Speaker 3: We've got a life of a show girl mousepad and

976
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 3: the producers but mouse I don't think we were doing

977
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:56,319
Speaker 3: mouse pads anymore. We need to. It's a yucky desk.

978
00:49:56,640 --> 00:49:59,440
Speaker 3: Oh okay, I thought they all had lasers in them.

979
00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:01,000
Speaker 4: Now you're literally have a mouse pa.

980
00:50:01,840 --> 00:50:08,399
Speaker 3: You've got a mountain. You've got to gel wrists needs

981
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:10,719
Speaker 3: a gel rest support for him rest because he's a

982
00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:13,520
Speaker 3: DJ with he's a DJ. Yeah, and I just turned

983
00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:15,640
Speaker 3: it around to the side because I don't use rest.

984
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:19,920
Speaker 3: He's got very strong I've got extremely strong res. Rittle bones.

985
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:24,279
Speaker 3: I've heard this brittle bones. So he needs the gel

986
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:27,479
Speaker 3: wrist pad. Constantly drinking milk.

987
00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:30,279
Speaker 5: That's just that he drinks more milk, O clunch, But

988
00:50:30,920 --> 00:50:32,439
Speaker 5: I'm constantly seeing him drink milk.

989
00:50:33,320 --> 00:50:35,759
Speaker 3: Just loves milk. Also, I just come in the way

990
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:38,080
Speaker 3: that I come into the mouse. Say that that looks right,

991
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:43,440
Speaker 3: doesn't it. It's gorgeous, gorgeous technique technique, it's phenomenal, phenomenal. Actually,

992
00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:47,360
Speaker 3: you're playing the mouse like it's a piano. Thank you.

993
00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 12: Everyone's tuned out that way because that's that was a

994
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 12: super boring Wait.

995
00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:56,279
Speaker 3: Sorry of the show. So we go back to Yes,

996
00:50:56,360 --> 00:50:59,160
Speaker 3: you're right, we need to spin at least ten more

997
00:50:59,200 --> 00:51:02,280
Speaker 3: minutes on mouse, mouse pads and mouse and Clint.

998
00:51:03,800 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 4: Would it be mouse pad or mice pads?

999
00:51:08,440 --> 00:51:10,759
Speaker 3: What is where? How stationary? Say? When you go to

1000
00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:18,560
Speaker 3: but is it mouse pads? The mass should be mice pads.

1001
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 1: Play fleshborn and play ms Fletchborne and Hailey.

1002
00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:29,480
Speaker 5: Here's someone who shared a story of when they were

1003
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:33,360
Speaker 5: in high school and they said they've given code names.

1004
00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:37,879
Speaker 4: Billy was his name the code name?

1005
00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:42,160
Speaker 3: Because all that such a juicy story. Yeah, it's got

1006
00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:43,719
Speaker 3: to be anonymous, anonymous.

1007
00:51:44,400 --> 00:51:47,160
Speaker 5: Uh So they were sharing this that this is long

1008
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:51,719
Speaker 5: before Normal People was written and turned into a TV show,

1009
00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:53,000
Speaker 5: which was a great show.

1010
00:51:53,280 --> 00:51:54,759
Speaker 3: There was about five or six years a guy.

1011
00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:57,320
Speaker 4: I feel like, like the breakout.

1012
00:51:57,600 --> 00:52:02,080
Speaker 3: How normal were these people? Very normal? Very normal? And

1013
00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:02,960
Speaker 3: what was the gist of it?

1014
00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:05,439
Speaker 4: He was the popular boy in school, she was the nerd.

1015
00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:07,480
Speaker 5: They fell in love and throughout the years as they

1016
00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:09,600
Speaker 5: became adults, they kind of came in and out of

1017
00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:13,399
Speaker 5: each other's lives. Yes, it was beautiful, very beautiful show.

1018
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:16,920
Speaker 5: She said she was with the popular boy at school.

1019
00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:20,840
Speaker 5: They started hooking up and everything, and then afterwards he

1020
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:24,120
Speaker 5: said something to her that said, like, it just doesn't

1021
00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:26,719
Speaker 5: make sense for us to be together, but I still

1022
00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:27,600
Speaker 5: want to keep hanging out.

1023
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:29,440
Speaker 3: It's just at school. Can you not mention it?

1024
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:33,080
Speaker 4: And for the rest of their.

1025
00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:38,640
Speaker 5: Late high school years they kept this up between sixteen

1026
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:41,200
Speaker 5: and eighteen, and he would like never said anything and

1027
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:41,520
Speaker 5: it was.

1028
00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 4: Just like it was basically embarrassed.

1029
00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:46,040
Speaker 3: Embarrassed by her. Yeah, okay, yeah, I mean that's probably

1030
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:48,399
Speaker 3: a big red flag, giant red flag, you would say.

1031
00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:48,759
Speaker 8: Yeah.

1032
00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:53,319
Speaker 3: So this girl at school, she was like not very

1033
00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:54,160
Speaker 3: popular at all.

1034
00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:56,640
Speaker 5: She was the funny girl, so she was like, no

1035
00:52:56,719 --> 00:52:58,360
Speaker 5: one ever fancied me, but I was really good at

1036
00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:01,480
Speaker 5: making people laugh, right, And then one day the slight

1037
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:02,960
Speaker 5: popular guy kind of like.

1038
00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:04,320
Speaker 3: Was let's have a go.

1039
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:07,400
Speaker 5: But I mean, like, I would be so insulted if

1040
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:09,759
Speaker 5: someone get me a secret, because that means they're not

1041
00:53:09,840 --> 00:53:10,960
Speaker 5: proud of how you look.

1042
00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 4: And how ful you are.

1043
00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:16,040
Speaker 3: It can be. There's lots of reasons people have a

1044
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:20,160
Speaker 3: secret to say that religion or like a different sexuality,

1045
00:53:20,800 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 3: like they don't want to come out, or they don't

1046
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:24,080
Speaker 3: want to be you know, people to know, so they

1047
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:26,200
Speaker 3: have a secret relationship with a guy or a girl.

1048
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:27,680
Speaker 3: This is what I want to know right now.

1049
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:29,840
Speaker 5: Have you been in a secret relationship, whether it was

1050
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:33,880
Speaker 5: secret workplace because it was embarrassing, Yeah, there were other reasons.

1051
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:36,000
Speaker 3: Workplaces have those rules. We're not allowed to be in

1052
00:53:36,040 --> 00:53:38,200
Speaker 3: a relationship with something. Yeah, yeah, that's why we had

1053
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:40,080
Speaker 3: to stop ours. Yeah, stop.

1054
00:53:41,920 --> 00:53:43,120
Speaker 5: When even the three of us are hanging out, there

1055
00:53:43,200 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 5: was like, I need to come with you, and I'm

1056
00:53:46,200 --> 00:53:47,040
Speaker 5: sitting there waiting and.

1057
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:53,239
Speaker 3: Shiny and swear. We still find each other quite irresistible.

1058
00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:59,680
Speaker 3: All these years later off each other. It's been a

1059
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:05,080
Speaker 3: long times. It's the Google rumor. Guys again. Yeah, I

1060
00:54:05,120 --> 00:54:05,640
Speaker 3: had kids.

1061
00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:11,200
Speaker 5: So for whatever reason, maybe if you're hiding it from

1062
00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:14,360
Speaker 5: your parents, like a religious thing or a cultural.

1063
00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:18,000
Speaker 3: Thing, sexuality thing, or you're hiding it from your friends.

1064
00:54:18,680 --> 00:54:21,160
Speaker 3: I knew people that had a relationship. It was a

1065
00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 3: guy and a girl and she started dating the brother's

1066
00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:27,239
Speaker 3: best friend. Oh yeah, and so that was going to

1067
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:29,440
Speaker 3: be awkward for a while. Yeah, and then it was

1068
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:31,320
Speaker 3: all good. I've read lots of books with it's the

1069
00:54:31,360 --> 00:54:32,200
Speaker 3: storyline that.

1070
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:35,759
Speaker 5: Is a real smuts, that's a true brother's best friend

1071
00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:38,080
Speaker 5: and the brother's like, do you touch my little sister

1072
00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:39,319
Speaker 5: and she's like please, dare.

1073
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:45,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I read books too, do you Okay? I

1074
00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:47,520
Speaker 3: went hundred times and him thanks to that that actually

1075
00:54:47,560 --> 00:54:50,839
Speaker 3: gave nothing. That did nothing actually take away from the brain.

1076
00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:57,680
Speaker 3: You did not break the brain. You're like an inert gas.

1077
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:02,880
Speaker 3: It's all I even want. Oh, eight hundred dollars it in.

1078
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:05,680
Speaker 3: Give us a call now textro nine six nine six.

1079
00:55:05,840 --> 00:55:08,800
Speaker 5: Have you had a secret relationship? We want to know

1080
00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:12,680
Speaker 5: right now have you been in a secret relationship? Are

1081
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:16,360
Speaker 5: you aloe currently? Because a journalist she had online that

1082
00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:18,880
Speaker 5: when she was at high school, she was sleeping with

1083
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:20,640
Speaker 5: the popular guy and he wanted her to keep it

1084
00:55:20,719 --> 00:55:22,640
Speaker 5: secret because she was the nerdy, funny.

1085
00:55:22,440 --> 00:55:26,000
Speaker 3: Girl, which is a giant red flag, right, Like, this

1086
00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:29,560
Speaker 3: is someone embarrassed to be outlaming red flag. They don't

1087
00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:31,440
Speaker 3: even want to be seen in public or at school.

1088
00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:33,880
Speaker 5: I think the person you're with, even if it's casually,

1089
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:35,400
Speaker 5: should be proud to be with you.

1090
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:38,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, And if they're not, then find someone that is.

1091
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:38,879
Speaker 8: Yeah.

1092
00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:40,640
Speaker 5: I think maybe I was trying to think if I

1093
00:55:40,760 --> 00:55:43,680
Speaker 5: had a secret relationship, because definitely one of the people

1094
00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:46,520
Speaker 5: that I was with just before my twenty first was

1095
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:49,279
Speaker 5: quite ooh you know what I mean, like in every

1096
00:55:49,400 --> 00:55:50,319
Speaker 5: sense of the word, this.

1097
00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:50,960
Speaker 3: Is the DJ.

1098
00:55:51,280 --> 00:55:54,239
Speaker 5: Remember a story of the DJ And I remember when

1099
00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:56,239
Speaker 5: it was my twenty first and he was like, my

1100
00:55:56,360 --> 00:55:58,200
Speaker 5: parents are going to come over early and just hanging

1101
00:55:58,200 --> 00:55:58,960
Speaker 5: out with me and my best friend.

1102
00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:00,279
Speaker 3: He was like, well, I'll come over and I was

1103
00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:01,480
Speaker 3: like no, and I did.

1104
00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:03,000
Speaker 5: Because I didn't want to tell my parents about it

1105
00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:06,000
Speaker 5: because he was like, oh and embarrassing. Yeah, so kind

1106
00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:07,640
Speaker 5: of I've had a secregation chip.

1107
00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:11,239
Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, well he was oh and yeah, and why

1108
00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:13,200
Speaker 3: why were you okay if he was oh, why were

1109
00:56:13,239 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 3: you were we with him? Because he is a DJ.

1110
00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:18,360
Speaker 5: Desperad or who knows? Yeah, because he was a DJ.

1111
00:56:18,640 --> 00:56:20,000
Speaker 5: I don't know head tattoos, you know.

1112
00:56:20,040 --> 00:56:23,600
Speaker 3: That gets me. Yeah, But then you said he's I'm

1113
00:56:23,640 --> 00:56:29,640
Speaker 3: so confused. When I was a young warthog, essentially when

1114
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:30,920
Speaker 3: I was a young lady, but in my mind, I

1115
00:56:31,000 --> 00:56:35,920
Speaker 3: was like, when I was a younger lady, I was

1116
00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:38,239
Speaker 3: in the closet and my lesbian football coach and I

1117
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:40,800
Speaker 3: got close and started seeing each other secretly, as obviously

1118
00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:43,839
Speaker 3: multiple reasons why it wasn't appropriate. Player of the Year

1119
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:49,600
Speaker 3: at price given that year. After I left school, I

1120
00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:51,720
Speaker 3: went back and worked at the school of support staff,

1121
00:56:52,120 --> 00:56:54,239
Speaker 3: and while I was there, I started to date a teacher. Now,

1122
00:56:54,360 --> 00:56:56,600
Speaker 3: nothing happened between us when I was a student, but

1123
00:56:56,680 --> 00:56:58,520
Speaker 3: there was always a fear of that perception, so he

1124
00:56:58,600 --> 00:57:00,680
Speaker 3: kept it super quiet and must say it was pretty

1125
00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:04,520
Speaker 3: hart sneaking into her office during the day when she

1126
00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:06,319
Speaker 3: was the only one there for a chick. It sounds

1127
00:57:06,360 --> 00:57:10,040
Speaker 3: like one of your books doesn't happen books. Yeah, I

1128
00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:13,160
Speaker 3: also read books. You're and you look at Haley, but

1129
00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:15,440
Speaker 3: you know I read books. You don't read those books.

1130
00:57:16,480 --> 00:57:21,080
Speaker 3: I can read though that you guys are doubt in

1131
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:23,480
Speaker 3: my ability to read. No one's read a sheet right,

1132
00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:29,080
Speaker 3: read something. He's struggling. He's really struggling.

1133
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:38,840
Speaker 5: Worry house anyway, Anonymous, Please, I've been exclusive with a

1134
00:57:38,880 --> 00:57:41,080
Speaker 5: guy for twelve years and only.

1135
00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:44,960
Speaker 3: A couple of people know what. We have five kids

1136
00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:49,760
Speaker 3: between us, and they don't know. The kids don't know

1137
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:50,880
Speaker 3: our INX has.

1138
00:57:50,880 --> 00:57:53,240
Speaker 5: Got together and coupled up, So it would have been

1139
00:57:53,320 --> 00:57:57,360
Speaker 5: super shitty for our kids being given uh crap from

1140
00:57:57,400 --> 00:57:58,600
Speaker 5: their schoolmates.

1141
00:57:58,080 --> 00:57:59,920
Speaker 3: That was all to get us. We've kept it a secret.

1142
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:03,160
Speaker 5: Okay, now the kids have all moved out of home

1143
00:58:03,320 --> 00:58:04,400
Speaker 5: and we're going to come out soon.

1144
00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:05,320
Speaker 4: We're so excited.

1145
00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:07,600
Speaker 3: Oh wow, wow wow.

1146
00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:10,320
Speaker 5: So their X has got together. And then these two

1147
00:58:10,360 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 5: wixes were like, well, we're together now, but we don't

1148
00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:13,720
Speaker 5: want to make it look like we've just partners.

1149
00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:16,200
Speaker 3: Wall How do they not know though, like they must

1150
00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:19,680
Speaker 3: know with all the kids in different houses. Anonymous joins

1151
00:58:19,760 --> 00:58:25,080
Speaker 3: us anonymous. Did you have a secret relationship? Yeah?

1152
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:25,520
Speaker 7: I did.

1153
00:58:25,760 --> 00:58:27,320
Speaker 6: It's been going on for three years.

1154
00:58:27,760 --> 00:58:29,760
Speaker 3: It's still so it's at the moment, it's current.

1155
00:58:30,840 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's very current. Still.

1156
00:58:33,040 --> 00:58:35,000
Speaker 3: Are you both keeping it a secret or are you

1157
00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:37,520
Speaker 3: just like the secret or are they the secret?

1158
00:58:38,920 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 6: We both keep a secret because we actually work together

1159
00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:42,600
Speaker 6: as well.

1160
00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:46,720
Speaker 3: Oh so that's the main reason you're keeping it secret.

1161
00:58:48,600 --> 00:58:48,840
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1162
00:58:49,160 --> 00:58:52,640
Speaker 7: I think at the start we went into it like

1163
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:56,200
Speaker 7: we'ld keep it at s low just because we knew

1164
00:58:56,240 --> 00:58:58,680
Speaker 7: too many people each other. Yeah, and then now did

1165
00:58:58,760 --> 00:59:02,560
Speaker 7: we work together, It gets a bit complicated because we

1166
00:59:02,600 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 7: actually work for a rugby team to be there. Okay, yeah,

1167
00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:11,080
Speaker 7: so like none of the players know and none of

1168
00:59:11,120 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 7: the coaches. No, but it's quite inside.

1169
00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:17,600
Speaker 6: Jokes go down quite a bit with us and yeah,

1170
00:59:17,680 --> 00:59:18,720
Speaker 6: oh that's brilliant.

1171
00:59:18,760 --> 00:59:21,280
Speaker 3: Okay, I love it. And how long has it been.

1172
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:23,320
Speaker 5: Going on for three years?

1173
00:59:24,600 --> 00:59:26,480
Speaker 3: Do you have plans on a launch?

1174
00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:30,480
Speaker 5: No? No?

1175
00:59:30,840 --> 00:59:32,560
Speaker 3: Wow, So do you think it's just going to fade

1176
00:59:32,560 --> 00:59:34,320
Speaker 3: away or it's just going to be forever secret?

1177
00:59:36,560 --> 00:59:38,840
Speaker 11: Like it's definitely been on and off, Like we keep

1178
00:59:38,920 --> 00:59:41,400
Speaker 11: going like, oh this is a bad idea, and then

1179
00:59:42,600 --> 00:59:44,840
Speaker 11: like one of us will be drinking with the rugby

1180
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:47,040
Speaker 11: boys and chicks will be seen.

1181
00:59:46,880 --> 00:59:50,800
Speaker 3: To Yea, that's just like my books that I'm going

1182
00:59:50,880 --> 00:59:55,560
Speaker 3: to say, guys, I can read books. It's just like

1183
00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:56,480
Speaker 3: Haley's books.

1184
00:59:58,480 --> 01:00:00,520
Speaker 6: That is very much like, hey, this book.

1185
01:00:00,880 --> 01:00:03,200
Speaker 7: And we definitely talk about that sort of.

1186
01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:09,720
Speaker 3: Stuff like, yeah, it's hot, does it? Does it tune

1187
01:00:09,760 --> 01:00:11,840
Speaker 3: you on a bit? Yeah?

1188
01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:16,440
Speaker 7: And work for rugby. We were like kid sits when

1189
01:00:16,520 --> 01:00:20,160
Speaker 7: the boys are training and stuff, and then we have

1190
01:00:20,400 --> 01:00:22,240
Speaker 7: like a radio frequency.

1191
01:00:21,880 --> 01:00:26,160
Speaker 3: That will, oh you switch channel cool, some naughty channel.

1192
01:00:26,240 --> 01:00:31,720
Speaker 3: Your booty looks nice today. I loved us. I loved us.

1193
01:00:31,920 --> 01:00:35,120
Speaker 3: It's naughty. Almost sounds like when it's not a secret,

1194
01:00:35,160 --> 01:00:36,520
Speaker 3: it's not going to be as hot and you won't

1195
01:00:36,640 --> 01:00:37,200
Speaker 3: like it as much.

1196
01:00:37,600 --> 01:00:39,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's kind of what we said. We're like, oh,

1197
01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:42,120
Speaker 6: it's probably just if we do keep it a secret.

1198
01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:43,840
Speaker 6: Otherwise this is going to be really boring.

1199
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:47,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, boring. I love it.

1200
01:00:47,800 --> 01:00:48,120
Speaker 8: Boring.

1201
01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:50,560
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I love this is not so brilliant Anonymous.

1202
01:00:51,000 --> 01:00:53,200
Speaker 7: Yes, I also first time cooler.

1203
01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:54,960
Speaker 3: We'll take it.

1204
01:00:56,240 --> 01:00:56,600
Speaker 10: We love that.

1205
01:00:56,760 --> 01:00:58,960
Speaker 3: Thank you so much, Anonymous. It's great story.

1206
01:00:59,360 --> 01:01:02,600
Speaker 5: Be a stranger some messages in I was dating my

1207
01:01:02,720 --> 01:01:06,000
Speaker 5: brother in law's brother in secret for a while because

1208
01:01:06,000 --> 01:01:07,360
Speaker 5: we didn't want the family to know until we.

1209
01:01:07,360 --> 01:01:09,520
Speaker 3: Were sure it would work. And then we told them, Oh, okay,

1210
01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:13,040
Speaker 3: so brother in law's brother keeping Christmas. Yeah, Christmas is tight.

1211
01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:17,040
Speaker 3: I'm a male farmer hooking up with my boss's supervisor

1212
01:01:17,080 --> 01:01:22,440
Speaker 3: and he's hot. Kidy farmers got some gay farmer gay farmers?

1213
01:01:23,560 --> 01:01:27,280
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it wouldn't be many of those. It is

1214
01:01:28,000 --> 01:01:30,920
Speaker 3: not out about Are you a gay Farmer? Are you

1215
01:01:31,000 --> 01:01:33,800
Speaker 3: gay Farmer? I'm still We could do a new segment

1216
01:01:33,840 --> 01:01:36,840
Speaker 3: on the show Gay Farmer? Are you a gay? Are

1217
01:01:36,880 --> 01:01:39,080
Speaker 3: you a gay Farmer? I don't know what we'd do

1218
01:01:39,200 --> 01:01:41,080
Speaker 3: with the segment, but probably once a year we could

1219
01:01:41,120 --> 01:01:41,320
Speaker 3: do that.

1220
01:01:42,680 --> 01:01:45,800
Speaker 5: It's this daily markin in the calendar on the twenty

1221
01:01:45,880 --> 01:01:49,000
Speaker 5: ninth of September yeap or the closest weekday we can

1222
01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:50,600
Speaker 5: get because I am not working weekends.

1223
01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:53,720
Speaker 3: We do are you a Gay Farmer? One year from

1224
01:01:53,800 --> 01:01:55,000
Speaker 3: today to celebrate.

1225
01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:59,160
Speaker 5: Yes, ye see your September twenty ninth. Okay great, Someone said,

1226
01:01:59,200 --> 01:02:01,840
Speaker 5: I'm still anou sick relationship. My partner and I worked together,

1227
01:02:01,920 --> 01:02:03,520
Speaker 5: so we kept it on the download with our colleagues.

1228
01:02:03,560 --> 01:02:05,280
Speaker 5: But that was two years ago. I don't work there anymore,

1229
01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:07,280
Speaker 5: but he still does and hasn't seen anything. We're planning

1230
01:02:07,280 --> 01:02:09,000
Speaker 5: on moving in together. We're getting married next year.

1231
01:02:10,480 --> 01:02:13,560
Speaker 3: I was in a secret relate gay farmers. I was

1232
01:02:13,560 --> 01:02:15,760
Speaker 3: in a secret relationship with my now husband for eight years.

1233
01:02:15,760 --> 01:02:18,720
Speaker 3: He's Indian and he had an arranged marriage for him

1234
01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:22,640
Speaker 3: back in India. Is arranged marriage at restaurant. Oh my god,

1235
01:02:22,720 --> 01:02:25,720
Speaker 3: you plumb a shout out the best Indian restaurant in

1236
01:02:26,000 --> 01:02:32,280
Speaker 3: New Zealand. Well say that, yes, yeah, because my plased Yeah,

1237
01:02:32,280 --> 01:02:34,200
Speaker 3: I'm net to see a better one. But anyway, we

1238
01:02:34,320 --> 01:02:36,400
Speaker 3: had a child, happy in you though. We're now happily married.

1239
01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:38,400
Speaker 3: But his family didn't know about me for eight years.

1240
01:02:38,840 --> 01:02:41,000
Speaker 3: Eight and I found out a few weeks before the wedding.

1241
01:02:41,240 --> 01:02:44,120
Speaker 3: Oh I know a gay farmer. He farms ostriches, the

1242
01:02:44,200 --> 01:02:47,000
Speaker 3: most camp of all the birds. Yes, the gayest bird

1243
01:02:47,200 --> 01:02:49,360
Speaker 3: it is because it's all like the show girls. It's

1244
01:02:49,400 --> 01:02:51,320
Speaker 3: the show girls for you and get a bit bit

1245
01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:53,840
Speaker 3: she and go like yeah, peki peak peep.

1246
01:02:54,520 --> 01:02:57,920
Speaker 5: And all ostriches are called Matt because a lady in

1247
01:02:58,120 --> 01:03:00,360
Speaker 5: Masterton called gay Armor.

1248
01:03:00,560 --> 01:03:05,680
Speaker 3: Honestly, her name is amazing. We're not asking is your

1249
01:03:05,760 --> 01:03:08,040
Speaker 3: name gay farmer. We're asking in your soul are you

1250
01:03:08,080 --> 01:03:08,360
Speaker 3: are gay?

1251
01:03:08,400 --> 01:03:08,560
Speaker 5: Farm?

1252
01:03:08,680 --> 01:03:14,560
Speaker 3: You are a gay farmer? Actively? And what do you farm? No?

1253
01:03:14,680 --> 01:03:19,560
Speaker 3: Not right now? Your farm tops tops they locked them

1254
01:03:19,640 --> 01:03:22,960
Speaker 3: up them for their farm, the tops and bottom of

1255
01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:28,120
Speaker 3: the bottom of the Carrocter. Have we exhausted them done?

1256
01:03:28,440 --> 01:03:28,640
Speaker 8: Yeah?

1257
01:03:28,760 --> 01:03:30,480
Speaker 5: Oh, someone just said I'm dating a judge and I

1258
01:03:30,560 --> 01:03:33,680
Speaker 5: have been convicted in the past, So keep that.

1259
01:03:34,160 --> 01:03:37,000
Speaker 3: That's brilliant. I love this was just one of me books.

1260
01:03:37,600 --> 01:03:40,320
Speaker 3: It does sound also read books prove it.

1261
01:03:40,960 --> 01:03:43,880
Speaker 5: Next on the show, I'm a gay farmer, Dearie Farmer. Okay,

1262
01:03:44,440 --> 01:03:46,280
Speaker 5: I think we're having the first actual episode of.

1263
01:03:47,840 --> 01:03:53,760
Speaker 3: Bluetop milk bottom yet. Next on the show, it's back

1264
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:55,120
Speaker 3: to the day. What's the theme this week?

1265
01:03:55,200 --> 01:04:00,800
Speaker 2: Born the Brain plays Flinched, Vaorn and Haley Infect of

1266
01:04:00,960 --> 01:04:02,200
Speaker 2: the Day, Day.

1267
01:04:02,360 --> 01:04:03,680
Speaker 7: Day, day day.

1268
01:04:05,160 --> 01:04:18,840
Speaker 3: Ye do it's brain week infect of the Day? Yeah? Good,

1269
01:04:19,000 --> 01:04:21,480
Speaker 3: We've all got them. It's the most important organ in

1270
01:04:21,520 --> 01:04:22,240
Speaker 3: our body, isn't it.

1271
01:04:23,120 --> 01:04:28,280
Speaker 5: It makes organ would look pretty stupid, I dear, I say,

1272
01:04:28,400 --> 01:04:29,240
Speaker 5: I think it would be cold.

1273
01:04:29,800 --> 01:04:32,919
Speaker 3: I think it would be loose and everything would flop out. Yeah, yeah,

1274
01:04:33,120 --> 01:04:37,560
Speaker 3: it would all look like Robbie Williams and the Rock. Yeah,

1275
01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:40,919
Speaker 3: but I know the brain and brain health. Yeah, brain,

1276
01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:42,800
Speaker 3: howth I know we are going to talk about brain

1277
01:04:42,840 --> 01:04:44,320
Speaker 3: house later in the week. One of them is about

1278
01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:52,440
Speaker 3: you're gonna go a slain. Don't drink alcohol that rich

1279
01:04:52,520 --> 01:04:55,400
Speaker 3: coming from you. You were slamming those those pink drinks.

1280
01:04:55,720 --> 01:04:57,320
Speaker 3: Tell you what that's at the end of the All

1281
01:04:57,360 --> 01:04:59,120
Speaker 3: Blacks game. The only thing left to eat in part

1282
01:04:59,160 --> 01:05:04,959
Speaker 3: with those pink and yeah, you stin like a yuk.

1283
01:05:05,360 --> 01:05:06,720
Speaker 3: This guy had all the choice in the world and

1284
01:05:06,720 --> 01:05:09,560
Speaker 3: he was learning out for those pink drinks. I'm shocked,

1285
01:05:09,760 --> 01:05:13,840
Speaker 3: not at all that he went for us. Yeah, playing drink.

1286
01:05:15,200 --> 01:05:18,040
Speaker 3: There was fifty I drink too. God, we should open

1287
01:05:18,120 --> 01:05:22,400
Speaker 3: up a stadium. There's money to be made. Stand.

1288
01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:24,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's always money in the banana stands.

1289
01:05:24,600 --> 01:05:28,160
Speaker 3: Open up stadium. So it's about the brain all this week.

1290
01:05:28,200 --> 01:05:30,000
Speaker 3: I have that kind of attitude. You're not You're not

1291
01:05:30,080 --> 01:05:32,520
Speaker 3: invited to my stadium. I'll tell you right now. Even

1292
01:05:32,560 --> 01:05:37,400
Speaker 3: if there's a big concert all your favorite artists, all

1293
01:05:37,440 --> 01:05:43,760
Speaker 3: my favorite artists and one spot niall Horan there, I'm there.

1294
01:05:44,160 --> 01:05:47,880
Speaker 3: The first name I could think of, I'm there required.

1295
01:05:50,040 --> 01:05:53,480
Speaker 3: But as long as he's playing satisfaction okay, and then

1296
01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:58,200
Speaker 3: just touched me like I can get my There's such

1297
01:05:58,200 --> 01:06:01,200
Speaker 3: an interesting energy in studio today. Running on reserves. I

1298
01:06:01,320 --> 01:06:03,880
Speaker 3: feel like I've been on a low battery of poor sleeve.

1299
01:06:03,920 --> 01:06:05,440
Speaker 3: And you know what, it's not good for the brain.

1300
01:06:05,960 --> 01:06:08,200
Speaker 3: It's not good. He's a professional. Back to the brain.

1301
01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:25,800
Speaker 3: Let's learn today about Christina Sandhouse, a lady, No Christena Sandhouse,

1302
01:06:25,880 --> 01:06:31,080
Speaker 3: not Christina agu Lear. She is a woman who underwent

1303
01:06:31,240 --> 01:06:36,920
Speaker 3: a hemisphereictomy, hemisphere ectomy, so they took out that is

1304
01:06:36,960 --> 01:06:40,520
Speaker 3: the hemisphere, her dome, that is the surgical removal of

1305
01:06:40,800 --> 01:06:44,720
Speaker 3: half of her brain because of cancer. Or she was

1306
01:06:44,760 --> 01:06:47,960
Speaker 3: done to treat something called Rasmussen's something something.

1307
01:06:48,800 --> 01:06:51,280
Speaker 4: Ras Mussins make your brangle.

1308
01:06:52,320 --> 01:06:55,560
Speaker 3: That's a renular neurological disease that causes severe chronic seizures

1309
01:06:55,600 --> 01:06:58,200
Speaker 3: and gradual deterioration of brain tissues. So at age eight

1310
01:06:58,880 --> 01:07:02,160
Speaker 3: she went under eight. I know eight. They suppose your

1311
01:07:02,200 --> 01:07:04,400
Speaker 3: brain hasn't fully falled. They said it wouldn't work. It

1312
01:07:04,400 --> 01:07:06,600
Speaker 3: wouldn't have worked for people older, because she had still

1313
01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:09,959
Speaker 3: had time to recover and grow, and she was still

1314
01:07:10,040 --> 01:07:12,240
Speaker 3: like her brain was forming. So she went out and

1315
01:07:12,440 --> 01:07:17,400
Speaker 3: underwent an anatomic hemispherictomy, which in the entire right hemisphere

1316
01:07:17,480 --> 01:07:19,360
Speaker 3: of her brain was removed. It took eight it took

1317
01:07:19,440 --> 01:07:23,200
Speaker 3: fourteen hours, and her survival was low, but the rest

1318
01:07:23,280 --> 01:07:25,920
Speaker 3: muslins would have killed her anyway. So after the operation,

1319
01:07:26,040 --> 01:07:28,240
Speaker 3: she lost motor and sensory function on the left side

1320
01:07:28,280 --> 01:07:30,640
Speaker 3: because of the old right side left side seat yeah yeah, yeah,

1321
01:07:31,120 --> 01:07:35,160
Speaker 3: and partial loss of some vision. She went through extensive rehabilitation,

1322
01:07:35,360 --> 01:07:38,960
Speaker 3: learned how to walk, balance, obviously everything again because one

1323
01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:41,600
Speaker 3: half of her brain has gone. Here's what she's achieved

1324
01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:44,400
Speaker 3: in half. Oh no, I don't like this because it'll

1325
01:07:44,440 --> 01:07:46,200
Speaker 3: be way more than I've done. Yeah, and I've got

1326
01:07:46,200 --> 01:07:49,880
Speaker 3: a fully Yeah. At the age at age seventeen, she

1327
01:07:49,960 --> 01:07:52,800
Speaker 3: got a driver's license, despite everybody saying she would never

1328
01:07:52,880 --> 01:07:56,960
Speaker 3: be able to do that. She is seventeen, Like, got

1329
01:07:57,040 --> 01:07:59,680
Speaker 3: to seventeen with half a brain. Yeah, she's competed in

1330
01:08:00,400 --> 01:08:02,640
Speaker 3: She was on the high school bowling team and has

1331
01:08:02,680 --> 01:08:05,200
Speaker 3: maintained active pursuits. As the doctor said, it is crucial

1332
01:08:07,120 --> 01:08:09,680
Speaker 3: the ramp and the gathers.

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01:08:09,880 --> 01:08:12,880
Speaker 5: She earned a bachelor's degree and a master's degree in

1334
01:08:12,960 --> 01:08:17,000
Speaker 5: speech pathology in only five years. Holy she became a

1335
01:08:17,080 --> 01:08:20,000
Speaker 5: speech in language pathologist, helping children and others with communication

1336
01:08:20,120 --> 01:08:21,839
Speaker 5: challenges as she had faced them herself.

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01:08:22,840 --> 01:08:26,479
Speaker 3: She bought her own house. She was married hormonner. I'm

1338
01:08:26,560 --> 01:08:31,040
Speaker 3: her homey owner. She married in twenty fourteen and became

1339
01:08:31,080 --> 01:08:33,600
Speaker 3: a mother to two daughters. Despite the difficulties posted with

1340
01:08:33,680 --> 01:08:38,000
Speaker 3: the physical limitations, whaty're out and she's adopted, and she said,

1341
01:08:38,160 --> 01:08:41,720
Speaker 3: the hardest approach. Everything else she could work through. But

1342
01:08:42,000 --> 01:08:46,120
Speaker 3: there hadn't been rehab for things or training for things

1343
01:08:46,680 --> 01:08:49,000
Speaker 3: in motherhood. For example, she said she had to learn

1344
01:08:49,080 --> 01:08:52,519
Speaker 3: and adapt herself to putting kids into car seats, changing

1345
01:08:52,600 --> 01:08:56,599
Speaker 3: diapers because of her limitations. So she she's worked around

1346
01:08:56,640 --> 01:08:57,000
Speaker 3: at all, so.

1347
01:08:57,200 --> 01:08:59,880
Speaker 4: She didn't see them as limitations, No, just challenges to overcome.

1348
01:09:00,040 --> 01:09:04,120
Speaker 3: Binger put that in your gratitude. Gratitude. It's not a

1349
01:09:04,200 --> 01:09:06,759
Speaker 3: triumph for me, But I can't put everybody else's trumps

1350
01:09:06,800 --> 01:09:08,240
Speaker 3: in my trumps and tragedies.

1351
01:09:07,840 --> 01:09:09,760
Speaker 4: Journal not triumphs of humankind.

1352
01:09:10,560 --> 01:09:14,040
Speaker 3: What an incredible story. It seems like a good boom. Yeah, yeah,

1353
01:09:14,080 --> 01:09:18,320
Speaker 3: that is an incredible humans colon the triumphant. Yeah, we

1354
01:09:18,400 --> 01:09:21,160
Speaker 3: don't put bad things in there. So today's fact of

1355
01:09:21,200 --> 01:09:23,920
Speaker 3: the day is there is a woman out there, Christina Sandhouse,

1356
01:09:35,880 --> 01:09:38,160
Speaker 3: I mean I'm having fun. I'm having fun today, fun

1357
01:09:38,200 --> 01:09:40,160
Speaker 3: with my best friends. Yeah. I love you guys, I

1358
01:09:40,240 --> 01:09:44,160
Speaker 3: love you. I love you, Feah, I love you, Flitch,

1359
01:09:44,240 --> 01:09:46,760
Speaker 3: I love you. You just say it, Willie Nelly. We

1360
01:09:46,800 --> 01:09:49,000
Speaker 3: should be saying it, Willy Nelly, we should say it often.

1361
01:09:49,320 --> 01:09:54,560
Speaker 3: I want to put this in my triumphs. I love you.

1362
01:09:56,920 --> 01:09:59,360
Speaker 5: So today's back to the day is Christina Sandhouse at

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01:09:59,439 --> 01:10:01,479
Speaker 5: half of the removed when she was an eight year old,

1364
01:10:01,479 --> 01:10:02,800
Speaker 5: and she's accomplished more than most of you.

1365
01:10:04,000 --> 01:10:07,799
Speaker 3: In fact of the day day day day day.

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01:10:10,000 --> 01:10:10,439
Speaker 8: Do do.

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01:10:17,479 --> 01:10:22,160
Speaker 1: De playd ems Fletch Vaughn and Haley.

1368
01:10:23,880 --> 01:10:25,920
Speaker 3: Plays ms Fletched one and Hailey.

1369
01:10:26,120 --> 01:10:28,280
Speaker 5: Well, thank you to everyone who came to see my

1370
01:10:28,360 --> 01:10:32,000
Speaker 5: show The Baroness and didn't need it on the weekend.

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01:10:32,200 --> 01:10:33,360
Speaker 4: It was so much fun.

1372
01:10:33,439 --> 01:10:39,080
Speaker 3: Great crowd, great vibes, great show, great comedian. She's modest

1373
01:10:39,200 --> 01:10:40,599
Speaker 3: and that's what we like about her.

1374
01:10:41,080 --> 01:10:43,320
Speaker 5: And I do apologize because so many of our lovely

1375
01:10:43,360 --> 01:10:45,519
Speaker 5: listeners afterwards were like, come have a drink with us

1376
01:10:45,560 --> 01:10:47,519
Speaker 5: in the octagon, and I was like, oh, I was

1377
01:10:47,640 --> 01:10:49,720
Speaker 5: so tired this weekend and I needed to take a

1378
01:10:49,760 --> 01:10:50,719
Speaker 5: bit of care of myself.

1379
01:10:50,800 --> 01:10:53,679
Speaker 4: So I know I BEG department both nights.

1380
01:10:53,600 --> 01:10:56,120
Speaker 3: Really impressed and last night you intervieed early and you

1381
01:10:56,200 --> 01:10:58,920
Speaker 3: had a weekend of chill. Yeah, I need it because

1382
01:10:58,920 --> 01:11:00,240
Speaker 3: you've been a MELTI can handle.

1383
01:11:00,360 --> 01:11:02,400
Speaker 5: I have been a MOUTI candle like my candle is

1384
01:11:02,400 --> 01:11:04,240
Speaker 5: more of an oil burner at the Yeah.

1385
01:11:05,840 --> 01:11:06,679
Speaker 3: But I have some thought.

1386
01:11:07,000 --> 01:11:10,040
Speaker 5: I have a few reflections on Donedan, not Dunedan. Also

1387
01:11:10,080 --> 01:11:13,559
Speaker 5: the accommodation that I was in one. Do you guys

1388
01:11:13,680 --> 01:11:18,559
Speaker 5: know that the pedestrian tics in Dunedin have a funky beat?

1389
01:11:19,080 --> 01:11:19,120
Speaker 8: No?

1390
01:11:21,520 --> 01:11:24,800
Speaker 3: Did you record it? That would have been good a yeah,

1391
01:11:24,880 --> 01:11:28,599
Speaker 3: just because you know audio. Someone is inded in right

1392
01:11:28,680 --> 01:11:31,519
Speaker 3: now because it wasn't just like our social media is

1393
01:11:31,880 --> 01:11:35,120
Speaker 3: would just call us. Yeah, that's a good idea. Yeah,

1394
01:11:37,360 --> 01:11:41,560
Speaker 3: beside a pedestrian crossing with a funky beats, which specifically

1395
01:11:41,560 --> 01:11:42,919
Speaker 3: it might be a specific installation.

1396
01:11:43,240 --> 01:11:47,439
Speaker 5: It was one to the right of the octagon if

1397
01:11:47,479 --> 01:11:50,040
Speaker 5: you were facing out the collection, if you're facing up

1398
01:11:50,080 --> 01:11:50,400
Speaker 5: the hill.

1399
01:11:51,400 --> 01:11:52,599
Speaker 3: It was just to the side.

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01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:54,240
Speaker 4: It was on the main street, heading towards all the

1401
01:11:54,320 --> 01:11:55,520
Speaker 4: shops and stuff.

1402
01:11:55,320 --> 01:11:55,920
Speaker 3: On the corner of the.

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01:11:57,400 --> 01:12:00,960
Speaker 5: Going up towards the Cassie no things. The way other

1404
01:12:01,000 --> 01:12:05,360
Speaker 5: way down the hill street towards the church is what

1405
01:12:05,439 --> 01:12:07,160
Speaker 5: I mean to the right. If you're facing up towards

1406
01:12:07,240 --> 01:12:07,599
Speaker 5: the church.

1407
01:12:08,400 --> 01:12:08,760
Speaker 10: But then you.

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01:12:11,400 --> 01:12:13,160
Speaker 3: The main street. That's not the main street. The main

1409
01:12:13,200 --> 01:12:15,880
Speaker 3: street in particular, it's close to the main street. The

1410
01:12:15,880 --> 01:12:16,320
Speaker 3: main street.

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01:12:16,360 --> 01:12:19,439
Speaker 5: Okay, well, I feel personally attacked. But I've heard I

1412
01:12:19,520 --> 01:12:21,519
Speaker 5: heard it a couple of them. I think it's Dunedin white.

1413
01:12:22,400 --> 01:12:25,080
Speaker 5: It was like you know in Wellington, ukl Weir Ofver's just.

1414
01:12:28,600 --> 01:12:33,120
Speaker 3: Bug. The floodlines are. Nobody is getting out of their car.

1415
01:12:33,760 --> 01:12:37,640
Speaker 3: They love universally loved. They couldn't care. People will do

1416
01:12:37,720 --> 01:12:38,240
Speaker 3: anything for us.

1417
01:12:38,439 --> 01:12:41,160
Speaker 5: My other reviewer is I stayed at I stayed at

1418
01:12:41,200 --> 01:12:43,600
Speaker 5: like an apartment like and it was an unmanned, you know,

1419
01:12:43,800 --> 01:12:44,479
Speaker 5: lock box.

1420
01:12:44,400 --> 01:12:44,760
Speaker 3: Kind of thing.

1421
01:12:44,800 --> 01:12:46,560
Speaker 4: And I stayed at the service.

1422
01:12:46,800 --> 01:12:48,920
Speaker 3: No not so it wasn't. Yeah, I mean they cleaned

1423
01:12:48,920 --> 01:12:50,640
Speaker 3: it at the inn. Wait, so you've got only got

1424
01:12:50,680 --> 01:12:52,960
Speaker 3: the talents that they give you for that weekend yea, yeah, yeah,

1425
01:12:53,160 --> 01:12:54,679
Speaker 3: we've got to tell here, We've got to tell heavy

1426
01:12:54,720 --> 01:12:58,120
Speaker 3: us over here. I have on a new towel in

1427
01:12:58,200 --> 01:13:00,400
Speaker 3: a hotel. I don't care. I had two hours and

1428
01:13:00,479 --> 01:13:02,280
Speaker 3: that was plentiful for the three showers they had while

1429
01:13:02,280 --> 01:13:06,000
Speaker 3: I was there. Yeah, that was fine. So when did

1430
01:13:06,040 --> 01:13:09,640
Speaker 3: you get there? Friday night, Friday night, Saturday morning, Saturday night.

1431
01:13:09,640 --> 01:13:11,320
Speaker 3: I didn't have one. I didn't have one Friday night.

1432
01:13:11,720 --> 01:13:14,040
Speaker 3: So you traveled. Yeah, you traveled.

1433
01:13:14,960 --> 01:13:16,400
Speaker 5: And then I got home and I fell right asleep

1434
01:13:16,439 --> 01:13:18,720
Speaker 5: on the couch. I fell asleep on the couch at

1435
01:13:18,720 --> 01:13:19,639
Speaker 5: the weekend, too nice.

1436
01:13:20,280 --> 01:13:21,320
Speaker 3: I did not know what was happening.

1437
01:13:21,439 --> 01:13:23,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was very confusing. And I was in this

1438
01:13:23,160 --> 01:13:26,560
Speaker 5: apartment that I barely knew. But the apartment that I

1439
01:13:26,680 --> 01:13:32,400
Speaker 5: stayed at, everything was backwards. So the lights you were

1440
01:13:32,520 --> 01:13:35,519
Speaker 5: like pointed out and you flicked them the other way

1441
01:13:35,560 --> 01:13:38,120
Speaker 5: for the lights to go on. The tap in order

1442
01:13:38,200 --> 01:13:41,439
Speaker 5: to turn it on, you pushed it forward rather than

1443
01:13:41,520 --> 01:13:45,599
Speaker 5: pulled it out. The hot water was on the wrong side,

1444
01:13:45,640 --> 01:13:47,040
Speaker 5: do you know what I mean? Like everything had been

1445
01:13:47,120 --> 01:13:48,800
Speaker 5: kind of installed wrong.

1446
01:13:49,479 --> 01:13:51,800
Speaker 3: It was very like an upside down house.

1447
01:13:51,880 --> 01:13:53,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I was like, how do you turn the

1448
01:13:53,120 --> 01:13:55,000
Speaker 5: tap on? And then I said to kind of leaver

1449
01:13:55,120 --> 01:13:57,479
Speaker 5: it forward? And then I put it towards hot and

1450
01:13:57,560 --> 01:13:58,880
Speaker 5: it went cold, and I put it towards cold and

1451
01:13:58,920 --> 01:13:59,400
Speaker 5: it went hot.

1452
01:13:59,560 --> 01:14:03,559
Speaker 3: Literally everything was do you think someone was staying there

1453
01:14:03,600 --> 01:14:05,720
Speaker 3: in the bird enough to be funny, do you know

1454
01:14:05,760 --> 01:14:07,880
Speaker 3: what I mean? But someone could have been staying there

1455
01:14:07,920 --> 01:14:11,840
Speaker 3: like a group of mates who realized and electricians and

1456
01:14:12,760 --> 01:14:16,160
Speaker 3: would be funny. Wearing the whole thing is mixing everything over.

1457
01:14:16,360 --> 01:14:18,760
Speaker 3: It was very confusing, Okay, And then I do have

1458
01:14:18,840 --> 01:14:21,200
Speaker 3: to apologize. I'm not the appartment was lovely. I have

1459
01:14:21,320 --> 01:14:26,320
Speaker 3: to apologize. I got buttered chicken everywhere. Wait is this

1460
01:14:26,520 --> 01:14:27,360
Speaker 3: on Friday night?

1461
01:14:27,640 --> 01:14:28,479
Speaker 4: Friday Night show?

1462
01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:30,160
Speaker 3: Friday Night afterwards?

1463
01:14:30,720 --> 01:14:33,800
Speaker 5: Wait, stinky, you've been upsets four in the morning. Yeah,

1464
01:14:33,840 --> 01:14:36,360
Speaker 5: you've been on a plane. You're covering a buttered chicken show?

1465
01:14:36,560 --> 01:14:37,400
Speaker 5: Straight to bed for me?

1466
01:14:38,040 --> 01:14:38,240
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1467
01:14:40,240 --> 01:14:43,280
Speaker 5: So I don't know how, but I got a butt

1468
01:14:43,320 --> 01:14:45,240
Speaker 5: of chicken from like next door, and I was like, oh,

1469
01:14:45,320 --> 01:14:47,000
Speaker 5: I'm so excited to sit down and watch TV with

1470
01:14:47,080 --> 01:14:47,599
Speaker 5: this curry.

1471
01:14:48,160 --> 01:14:49,360
Speaker 3: And then I did that thing.

1472
01:14:49,479 --> 01:14:51,120
Speaker 5: I peeled off the lid and it kind of went

1473
01:14:51,280 --> 01:14:53,880
Speaker 5: black over the splashback.

1474
01:14:53,320 --> 01:14:54,600
Speaker 4: In the kitchen, and I was like, that's all right,

1475
01:14:54,600 --> 01:14:55,360
Speaker 4: I'll wipe that up.

1476
01:14:55,880 --> 01:14:58,000
Speaker 5: So then I wiped that up and I enjoyed my curry,

1477
01:14:58,040 --> 01:15:00,559
Speaker 5: fell asleep on the couch, went to be woke up

1478
01:15:00,560 --> 01:15:03,160
Speaker 5: in the morning. I was like, and there was a curtain,

1479
01:15:03,560 --> 01:15:07,160
Speaker 5: like a sheer curtain, separating the bedroom from the living area,

1480
01:15:07,680 --> 01:15:10,160
Speaker 5: and it had like three splits of curry on it,

1481
01:15:10,200 --> 01:15:14,759
Speaker 5: and it was miles away from the catcher. You already

1482
01:15:14,800 --> 01:15:16,519
Speaker 5: walked a bit to wipe your mouth along the way

1483
01:15:16,560 --> 01:15:19,400
Speaker 5: past because it's such a feral. Then I went to

1484
01:15:19,479 --> 01:15:22,360
Speaker 5: the bathroom and there was a splat on the wall,

1485
01:15:22,479 --> 01:15:23,760
Speaker 5: and then I was like, what the hell? And then

1486
01:15:23,960 --> 01:15:26,799
Speaker 5: yesterday when I checked out, I always pulled the covers

1487
01:15:26,840 --> 01:15:28,280
Speaker 5: up on my bed just to make it look not

1488
01:15:28,400 --> 01:15:30,000
Speaker 5: like a bloody helstorm.

1489
01:15:30,120 --> 01:15:36,360
Speaker 3: There's a little bit in the bed were coming out

1490
01:15:36,360 --> 01:15:37,040
Speaker 3: of a white sheet.

1491
01:15:39,120 --> 01:15:42,320
Speaker 5: There was curry on the white walls, the sheer oatmeal curtain,

1492
01:15:42,479 --> 01:15:46,760
Speaker 5: and and I do apologize, but anyway, well that's what

1493
01:15:46,880 --> 01:15:48,479
Speaker 5: you get having a back to front apartment.

1494
01:15:48,560 --> 01:15:52,920
Speaker 1: It was all very old play z ms Fletchborne and Hailey.

1495
01:15:53,200 --> 01:15:56,880
Speaker 3: Now vohen you found a kind of what a deal

1496
01:15:56,960 --> 01:15:59,120
Speaker 3: breaker or a great kind of test on a first date.

1497
01:15:59,479 --> 01:16:02,439
Speaker 3: Lauren Hill has written an article for the Everygirl dot

1498
01:16:02,520 --> 01:16:05,760
Speaker 3: com saying, this first date idea reveals compatibility and in

1499
01:16:05,880 --> 01:16:09,920
Speaker 3: an hour, an hour, an hour, because you take over

1500
01:16:10,000 --> 01:16:13,240
Speaker 3: an hour, they say sorry, you've failed the escape room.

1501
01:16:13,760 --> 01:16:17,760
Speaker 3: Oh god. That actually is a great compatibility test for me,

1502
01:16:17,800 --> 01:16:20,080
Speaker 3: because if someone suggested that, I'd be like, I've never

1503
01:16:20,160 --> 01:16:23,800
Speaker 3: seen you escape room. I hate that.

1504
01:16:25,240 --> 01:16:26,880
Speaker 5: I would lose my shit, you know what I mean.

1505
01:16:26,920 --> 01:16:28,920
Speaker 5: I've actually never done one. But I think I would

1506
01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:31,439
Speaker 5: get too competitive and overworked, and then my like funny

1507
01:16:31,600 --> 01:16:33,920
Speaker 5: comedian persona would come off and I would realize that

1508
01:16:33,960 --> 01:16:36,720
Speaker 5: I'm actually super highly strung and not that fun. I

1509
01:16:36,760 --> 01:16:39,360
Speaker 5: reckon Hall, you would lock in, you'd locking and nobody

1510
01:16:39,520 --> 01:16:42,560
Speaker 5: in a fun way, not a fun way. I'd be

1511
01:16:42,640 --> 01:16:45,040
Speaker 5: like to cut it out, you know, I get all snippy. Yeah,

1512
01:16:45,160 --> 01:16:47,040
Speaker 5: Funhiley has left the room. It happens every now and then,

1513
01:16:47,040 --> 01:16:47,400
Speaker 5: doesn't it.

1514
01:16:47,520 --> 01:16:50,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're trying to find a pattern in something and yeah,

1515
01:16:50,439 --> 01:16:52,120
Speaker 3: you're like, I think this is something and you're like, no,

1516
01:16:52,200 --> 01:16:56,800
Speaker 3: they told us we would already yank. That opens, and

1517
01:16:56,840 --> 01:16:59,040
Speaker 3: then the wardrobe, the back of the someone solves a

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01:16:59,080 --> 01:17:02,240
Speaker 3: puzzle in the back of the water opens. There's another room.

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01:17:02,760 --> 01:17:05,519
Speaker 3: I love escape I hate them yet to know from me,

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01:17:07,280 --> 01:17:08,920
Speaker 3: But yeah, She goes on to say, it's it's like

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01:17:08,960 --> 01:17:12,160
Speaker 3: a natural icebreaker. It shows how they handle pressure, which

1522
01:17:12,200 --> 01:17:14,920
Speaker 3: Hayley's just said she would turn into a four lambster.

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01:17:16,000 --> 01:17:18,320
Speaker 5: I saw a guy rear end a car in front

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01:17:18,320 --> 01:17:20,599
Speaker 5: of me, like boom, and I cried and I panicked.

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01:17:20,800 --> 01:17:22,280
Speaker 5: I mean, it's just I'm not even in the crash,

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01:17:22,520 --> 01:17:23,080
Speaker 5: you know what I mean?

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01:17:25,160 --> 01:17:27,160
Speaker 3: Cry, I bursted. I said, what do we do?

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01:17:27,240 --> 01:17:27,600
Speaker 8: What do we do?

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01:17:27,680 --> 01:17:28,040
Speaker 10: What do we do?

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01:17:28,439 --> 01:17:30,760
Speaker 3: Yeah? I was, I just got you. Just take down

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01:17:30,800 --> 01:17:32,439
Speaker 3: his number plate in case you got a fright. I

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01:17:32,439 --> 01:17:36,360
Speaker 3: don't know. Okay, maybe you're not great. In an escape room,

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01:17:37,520 --> 01:17:39,320
Speaker 3: you get a good idea of if you can and

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01:17:39,439 --> 01:17:42,160
Speaker 3: how you will work together. You also get a glimpse

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01:17:42,200 --> 01:17:45,439
Speaker 3: at your truest self. Yeah, because the stress and like

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01:17:45,560 --> 01:17:48,679
Speaker 3: you say, it comes out my pressure stress times ticking.

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01:17:49,120 --> 01:17:50,960
Speaker 3: You get to see whether or not they will value

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01:17:51,000 --> 01:17:53,120
Speaker 3: your ideas because.

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01:17:52,840 --> 01:17:56,559
Speaker 5: It's actually really smart and you have a shared experience

1540
01:17:56,680 --> 01:17:57,240
Speaker 5: right off the bat.

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01:17:57,360 --> 01:17:59,240
Speaker 3: And do they listen to They listen to you like

1542
01:17:59,320 --> 01:18:02,280
Speaker 3: you're saying this code and you're just like, there is

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01:18:02,439 --> 01:18:04,560
Speaker 3: nothing more frustrating than being in an escape room with

1544
01:18:04,640 --> 01:18:10,000
Speaker 3: a dumb dumb shut up and get ready to what

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01:18:10,120 --> 01:18:10,280
Speaker 3: to do?

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01:18:10,520 --> 01:18:11,439
Speaker 4: Imagine saying that on.

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01:18:11,439 --> 01:18:16,200
Speaker 3: A first day, she's like, oh, maybe the lot seven

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01:18:16,360 --> 01:18:17,360
Speaker 3: seven seven.

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01:18:18,240 --> 01:18:22,320
Speaker 5: Numbers maybe your parents dropped you as a kid trying

1550
01:18:23,640 --> 01:18:26,200
Speaker 5: to solve a cowboy mystery riddled.

1551
01:18:26,400 --> 01:18:27,679
Speaker 3: Maybe this is a great test.

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01:18:28,720 --> 01:18:30,479
Speaker 5: Yeah, will you break it down? You're like, yeah, that

1553
01:18:30,560 --> 01:18:32,760
Speaker 5: would be a great if you If you're someone who's

1554
01:18:32,800 --> 01:18:34,120
Speaker 5: just like cut to the chase. I just want to

1555
01:18:34,160 --> 01:18:35,200
Speaker 5: go straight away.

1556
01:18:35,600 --> 01:18:37,560
Speaker 3: And know how you worked here that Georgia, you just

1557
01:18:37,640 --> 01:18:40,280
Speaker 3: got married. Would this have worked on a first date

1558
01:18:40,320 --> 01:18:40,880
Speaker 3: with him? No?

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01:18:41,040 --> 01:18:41,640
Speaker 4: Absolutely not.

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01:18:41,920 --> 01:18:43,880
Speaker 5: Also, it's hot in there, guys, and when you got

1561
01:18:44,000 --> 01:18:49,280
Speaker 5: heat and pressure on time, it's always hot. No's And

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01:18:49,360 --> 01:18:51,000
Speaker 5: the next minute one minute.

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01:18:50,880 --> 01:18:53,479
Speaker 4: Nick minute, Sorry, we don't.

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01:18:53,560 --> 01:18:56,960
Speaker 3: We don't say you're in there, it's hot, you're in there.

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01:18:57,080 --> 01:18:57,639
Speaker 3: Neck minute.

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01:18:57,760 --> 01:19:01,360
Speaker 4: It just clos it's just solid. See it does everything it.

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01:19:01,439 --> 01:19:04,840
Speaker 3: Needs to do. Actually, oh no, you've got some songs

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01:19:04,880 --> 01:19:06,400
Speaker 3: to play today, Georgia. How many have you got?

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01:19:07,240 --> 01:19:09,520
Speaker 4: I reckon it'd be about hundreds hundred.

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01:19:11,040 --> 01:19:12,479
Speaker 3: Hundreds of tuo And we've had a Bird of the

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01:19:12,520 --> 01:19:17,599
Speaker 3: Year announcement the Kadaia and falcon. I love that. It's

1572
01:19:17,600 --> 01:19:21,160
Speaker 3: a beautiful bird. I met when earlier this year, stoked

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01:19:21,200 --> 01:19:23,320
Speaker 3: down there at wingspan just out of which I.

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01:19:23,360 --> 01:19:26,920
Speaker 5: Can rat, I said, stoked, there'll be bloody Stokes and

1575
01:19:27,040 --> 01:19:27,559
Speaker 5: that's the problem.

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01:19:29,200 --> 01:19:30,680
Speaker 3: I ran over a possum on the way to work.

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01:19:31,240 --> 01:19:32,720
Speaker 3: I went across onto the other side of the road

1578
01:19:32,760 --> 01:19:42,479
Speaker 3: and got it. You wanted to tell us a race, not.

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01:19:46,840 --> 01:19:47,040
Speaker 8: Well.

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01:19:47,160 --> 01:19:49,800
Speaker 3: Congratulations to you podcast. Let's sen you've reached the end.

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01:19:50,120 --> 01:19:52,559
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01:19:52,600 --> 01:19:56,920
Speaker 3: you're either asleep and which case, or you enjoyed it.

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