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Speaker 1: The Hits Drive with Maddy and Pja thanks to chimis

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Speaker 1: Wee House the Real House of Fragrances.

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Speaker 2: On that Hello and welcome to.

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Speaker 1: The podcast for a Tuesday night. I think we're going

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Speaker 1: to spice things up. How can we make the podcast

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Speaker 1: more exciting?

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Speaker 3: Well, we are doing our ask me anything, and I

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Speaker 3: feel like if people would come up to the table

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Speaker 3: with some spicy amas.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, it's going to be a Christmas special, that's right.

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Speaker 1: But that's right. We can drink ignog and I think

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Speaker 1: we do a little Christmas edition podcast Ama style.

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Speaker 2: What else is going on in your life?

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Speaker 3: Busy, real busy. Yeah, just trying to cram and like

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Speaker 3: seeing people before the end of the year.

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Speaker 1: I hate that pressure of getting to do it all

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Speaker 1: at once, but you know, it's a beautiful.

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Speaker 2: Time of the year. When are you going to get

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Speaker 2: your Christmas tree up?

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Speaker 3: I'll wait until December first, or when's the week? Like

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Speaker 3: I feel like Sunday nights are a great night to

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Speaker 3: put on upper Christmas tree. What's the calendar, like, Sunday

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Speaker 3: the first? Ye, Sunday the first, so that might be

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Speaker 3: us actually have a Sunday. I might make a nice

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Speaker 3: dinner we'll put on.

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Speaker 2: Like a tree, fake tree, bake tree.

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Speaker 3: We do a fake tree. It's a good fake tree, though,

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Speaker 3: it's so make it pretty.

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Speaker 2: Do you do the pine spreak?

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Speaker 3: No, that's a good idea.

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Speaker 2: I just I love a real one because I love

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Speaker 2: the smell of it.

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Speaker 1: But we get quite like it gets quite hot up

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Speaker 1: at our place of a Christmas and the tree dies

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Speaker 1: so quick you gotta keep giving it lots of water.

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Speaker 3: I might put on a Christmas movie. What is your

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Speaker 3: top like, what's top tier Christmas movies for you?

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Speaker 2: Basic bitch dot com? Actually, and the Holiday?

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Speaker 3: The Holiday there is such a good one.

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Speaker 2: I love the Holiday because who does not love your laar?

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Speaker 3: Who doesn't love all of them?

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Speaker 1: To be fear Kate Wens, Cameron Diez. Yeah, they're all

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Speaker 1: iconic in it.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, jud Laws, especially in that film, specially.

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Speaker 2: Fuck oh my God.

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Speaker 1: And then like because he's widowed and he's got these

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Speaker 1: then you got.

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Speaker 2: Mister napkin head, mister napkin Day. What else do I like?

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Speaker 3: Um see, I just hark back to my childhood and

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Speaker 3: I think, like home alone, I.

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Speaker 2: Think I need to watch Home Alone again.

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Speaker 3: I think the Santa Claus with Tim Allen. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 3: like Miracle on thirty fourth Street?

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Speaker 4: I love?

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Speaker 2: Oh is that the one with Chris Christos? No kidding?

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Speaker 2: Was that Miracle on what.

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Speaker 3: Thirty fourth Street? It's got Maral Wilson. You know Mary Wilson.

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Speaker 3: She was in like Matilda, like little girl that was

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Speaker 3: in Matilda and Missus Doubt Fire.

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Speaker 1: And Okay, I've gone to the nineteen forty seven, not

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Speaker 1: that one, and it's got like all of these idea

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, has it got Matilda as she's young?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Grown up?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah right. I saw a fight of her

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Speaker 2: the other day or grown up and it freaked me out.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, have you seen it?

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Speaker 2: You've seen her?

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Speaker 1: Like, isn't it all? It's so terriffy when someone you

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Speaker 3: It's just I read an amazing story when they were

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Speaker 3: filming Matilda. Her mom, her mum got really sick and

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Speaker 3: going to make it to see the film. So Danny DeVito,

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Speaker 3: Wilson's mom could watch Matilda. Isn't that beautiful?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Miss Honey, Miss Honey, what honey makes

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Speaker 2: It's so beautiful.

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Speaker 3: We all wanted like, in fact, I feel like your

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Speaker 3: Like a teacher, yes, such a nurturing teacher.

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Speaker 2: I think mine was missus Best who we meet in Wellington. Yes,

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Speaker 3: I had a couple of great teachers. One was a

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, sorry, that's no just receipt to mister Pentecost.

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Speaker 2: But no, that's not It's just lovely.

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Speaker 3: That's not the one that I was talking about, though.

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Speaker 3: That was the teacher. Mister Pentecost was always the Mister

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Speaker 3: Pinocost was my primary school teacher, and he just made

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Speaker 1: That was the same as mister Hanson at high school.

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Speaker 1: He called me man child, which it was not derogatory.

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Speaker 2: It was fun.

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Speaker 1: We're still like we still chair, like I'm saying about

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Speaker 2: He's so funny.

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Speaker 3: Did BJ speaking of teachers? Did be j end up

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Speaker 3: going to the fiftieth fiftieth?

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Speaker 2: He did?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and everything that we're getting apart from the fishing, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: had a great night.

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Speaker 2: I think he's in a band anyway. Coming up the.

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Speaker 1: Podcast, we talk about what did you try and get

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Speaker 1: your partner into that didn't fly? We have a group

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Speaker 1: therapy and your crazy coincidence stories.

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Speaker 2: All of that and more coming up. Enjoy the podcast.

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Speaker 1: I think yesterday was the most exciting day of your

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Speaker 1: adult life.

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Speaker 2: No comedie, you're going to ask me to say.

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, Screw the weddings, screwed starting this new job, Screw

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Speaker 3: wedding trees of Island. Last night he had to.

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Speaker 2: Chudge to Chuck and celebrity treasure.

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Speaker 3: I had to last night. I went to the Wicked

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Speaker 3: movie premiere. I said to you, I think this is

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Speaker 3: so that means I was going in with very very

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Speaker 2: It's risky.

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Speaker 1: I always just try and knock down my expectations alert

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Speaker 1: Like even if I'm really excited, I'll just try and

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't do that. So here's the thing I love. Like,

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Speaker 3: to be a very very special movie for me, and

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Speaker 3: I went along with my husband Ryan, and this movie

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Speaker 1: The fact that it even mats for expectations speaks volumes

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Speaker 3: But there's something that happens. And I don't know if

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Speaker 3: seen you know, you've never seen the movie. You've never

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Speaker 3: seen bring it on before, You've never seen Miscongeniality. And

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Speaker 1: Just don't go to the don't go into toilet now,

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Speaker 1: trust me, you're not gonna work what a mess the

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Speaker 3: Put your phone down because this is important. This is

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Speaker 1: I can't describe how soul destroying it is sol destroying

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Speaker 2: Like you just want them to get it, and they don't.

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Speaker 3: They don't get it, and it is it's so hard

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Speaker 3: It's not always the case.

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Speaker 1: Let's roll with this this afternoon, as this happened to you,

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Speaker 1: What did you try and get your partner into and

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Speaker 1: it just didn't It did not fly, It did not

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Speaker 3: What was it?

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Speaker 1: What was that thing that you try to keep your

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Speaker 1: partner to equally love as much as you. You can

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Speaker 1: give us a call right now. Oh wait, hundred the

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Speaker 1: hits or text full flights.

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Speaker 8: Maddy and PJ. Mady and PJ the.

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Speaker 1: Podcast and Natty was very are key to have an

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Speaker 1: exclusive invite last night to go along to the Wicked

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Speaker 1: premiere which comes out in cinemas on Thursday, and actually

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Speaker 1: to celebrate that, we want to send you on the

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Speaker 1: wickedest trip ever to the Gold Coast. So that cuticle

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Speaker 2: But it didn't go quite to plan.

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Speaker 7: Hi, Marcia, Hello, how are you?

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Speaker 9: Hell?

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Speaker 3: What a blessed life you're leading at the moment, page

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Speaker 2: I don't like where this is going. It sounds like

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Speaker 3: And I'm not like a grumpy You're not at all.

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Speaker 2: But when I'm fiery, I can fire.

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Speaker 3: I've discovered well, bless you, but but bless you for

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Speaker 2: It's healthy.

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Speaker 3: You've got to acknowledge it.

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Speaker 2: And I acknowledge it's not me. It's not me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this could get dangerous, and it could get long.

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Speaker 1: It could really it could end up going for a while.

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Speaker 2: Madie.

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Speaker 3: I'm giving you a minute, a minute of pj's pregnancy

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Speaker 2: I'm sure yep, okay, yep, okay.

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Speaker 1: Okay, when you're clearly in a hurry, but the person

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Speaker 1: the year twenty twenty four, how is technology working better?

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Speaker 2: Not working better? In cars?

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Speaker 1: When they play budget covers of really good songs and

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Speaker 1: When you get sent a package and the packaging well

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Speaker 3: You the things that are on your mind? Now you

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Speaker 2: I hate it when people won't really slow in front

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Speaker 2: That was really therapeutic that you so much.

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Speaker 1: May you feel so much better, because you know, I

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Speaker 1: the show, and I felt like kyl Is. You know,

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Speaker 1: sometimes you just have to artaiculate, verbalize, get it off

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Speaker 3: Anything else. If anyone else out there wants to add

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Speaker 3: through to four even Serious Theory once a week segment.

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Speaker 1: Maybe we should. Maybe other people can get involved to her.

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Speaker 1: You text through four for its even. What would you

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Speaker 4: Mady J Many and PJ the podcast The Heads Many

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Speaker 4: and PJS Group Therapy.

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Speaker 1: Al Right, we do this on show every week. Your

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Speaker 1: time to get in touch with us. Tell us something

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Speaker 1: that's going on in your life you need help with,

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Speaker 1: and we'll do our best to dissect and shout advice.

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Speaker 1: We don't always give the best advice, but we get

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Speaker 3: Do always great advice, great advice. This week's submission says, hey,

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Speaker 3: Madi Mpjane. I work in a pretty demanding job where

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm going to come out the gates with my

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Speaker 2: It just feels a bit anarchy to me. If it's not.

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Speaker 2: Bit, I hear you.

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Speaker 1: But also times bloody tough and people need, you know,

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Speaker 2: But if not for gold, I reckon, that's okay.

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Speaker 3: Well, and the trigues machine.

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Speaker 2: People need to get creative.

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Speaker 1: So okay, what are your thoughts on this week's group therapy?

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Speaker 1: Is it okay to do another side hustle while you're

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Speaker 3: Long term? Potentially?

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Speaker 1: Oh, eight hundred of hats to weigh in with your

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Speaker 8: Maddy ANDPJ.

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Speaker 2: We haven't had a divided one like this and quite

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Speaker 1: I love it when people get quite haters or at

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Speaker 3: Someone said, I work in a pretty demanding job where

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Speaker 3: I found out that one of my co workers is

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Speaker 3: running a side hustle during office time, sneaking and work

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Speaker 3: for their online business, answering emails, updating social media, even

451
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Speaker 3: taking calls while we're supposed to be on the clock.

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Speaker 3: Here's the catch. They're really good at their job and

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Speaker 3: always meet their deadline, so their work doesn't seem to suffer,

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Speaker 3: but it does feel unfear So I'm torn. Do I

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Speaker 3: report this to my manager or should I mind my

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Speaker 3: own business? Since it's not affecting their performance.

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Speaker 1: I said, I think if it's not impacting their main job,

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Speaker 1: then that's not your place to knak.

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Speaker 2: And if it does.

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Speaker 1: Impact the work long term, then they're probably going to

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Speaker 1: self employe themselves and out themselves.

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Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean?

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Speaker 1: If that's your place to come in and dob and.

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Speaker 2: You know a fellow college.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, although I said, they are taking the pistol a

466
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Speaker 3: little bit because it's company time, it's company resources, and yeah,

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Speaker 3: you're you're being paid to be there to do a job.

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Speaker 1: All right, Let's see what Michelle has to say. One hundreds.

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Speaker 2: I Michelle, Oh here, very well, what are you? What

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Speaker 2: do you reckon about the situation?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, I'm with me. J Yeah, I mean, she can't

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Speaker 11: if she hasn't done anything like going on Facebook or

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Speaker 11: check the bend account or anything like that on time.

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Speaker 11: It would be very surprised. I go past the deils

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Speaker 11: a week sometimes, what are you looking at it? You know,

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Speaker 11: I'm just trying to find a prison, right.

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Speaker 3: Even the bosses online sometimes, So you're saying none of us,

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Speaker 3: none of us are totally guilt free.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, exactly, So i'd let it right. And you know,

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Speaker 11: if they're doing it for hours on me, no, probably

481
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Speaker 11: a different story. But if it's only taking them five minutes, yeah,

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Speaker 11: I don't think it's an issue.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, good point. Then, Michelle, thank you so much

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Speaker 2: for wang and let's go to Zarana. What are your thoughts?

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Speaker 5: Hello, I definitely would feel guilty, And can I just say, Michelle,

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Speaker 5: you wouldn't work for me? No, I just feel like

487
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Speaker 5: you're getting paid to do that one job.

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Speaker 10: And I would just feel like guilty.

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Speaker 11: I don't know, I just yeah, But do you know, like.

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Speaker 1: These side hustles are coming more and more common because

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Speaker 1: for you know, households to make ends made.

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Speaker 2: Having to go above and beyond.

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Speaker 1: So yes, if it's not impacting their main crust, I

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Speaker 1: don't know if that's an issue.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think you can only you can only

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Speaker 3: take a side hustle on if you have the extra

497
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Speaker 3: time to be able to do it. That is the

498
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Speaker 3: whole point and purpose of a side hustle is it's

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Speaker 3: meant to be on the side of the job that

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Speaker 3: you do day and day out.

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Speaker 1: But then I agree with Michelle's point though, like we

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Speaker 1: all was waste time at work in some capacity, whether

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Speaker 1: it is Facebook or shopping or whatever. So if you know,

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Speaker 1: like what's the difference, and if it's not impacting the

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Speaker 1: quality of your work, then I think go for goals.

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Speaker 3: A lot of texts, a lot of texts coming in.

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Speaker 3: Someone said, don't be that person. It will label you

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Speaker 3: as an ARC regardless of what happens, and that reputation

509
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Speaker 3: will stick with you for as long as you work there.

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Speaker 1: Oh, someone said, my question would be are they using

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Speaker 1: company property, laptop or self and if so, then that

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Speaker 1: changes the scenario.

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Speaker 2: Cheers Team Chris.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, someone said, I think, so long as it doesn't

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Speaker 3: affect your work output or quality, then go for gold.

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Speaker 3: It's my view that a company pays you for the

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Speaker 3: work that you do, so as long as you're getting

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Speaker 3: what they pay for, why not. So maybe there's generally

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Speaker 3: where we land today. Page. I think a lot some

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Speaker 3: people are saying, yeah, sure they're taking their purse a

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Speaker 3: little bit, but in some ways, don't we all, you know,

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Speaker 3: a little bit bit?

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's a good resolution, I reckon for we meet

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Speaker 1: somewhere in the middle of this week. Have you've got

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Speaker 1: any text or any sorry dilemmas that you want us

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Speaker 1: to tackle next week? Text them through four full eight

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Speaker 1: seven and we could be technically a next week Tuesday,

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Speaker 1: next Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: Next Tuesday.

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Speaker 4: Don't even know the day the podcast.

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Speaker 3: I fear. I fear that I'm getting a little old

532
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Speaker 3: for a number of reasons, but today specifically, it's to

533
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Speaker 3: do with the fact that I think I'm becoming a

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Speaker 3: neighborhood busybody.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, are you a busybody in every facess

536
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Speaker 1: of your life?

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Speaker 3: Yes? But Ryan caught me doing something the other day,

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Speaker 3: which is that I heard noises outside on the street

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Speaker 3: at nighttime, and he came into our room, and because

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Speaker 3: our bedroom overlooks the road, yes, and I was doing

541
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Speaker 3: that old lady thing where you pulled the blinds apart

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Speaker 3: and steer out through the blinds.

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Speaker 2: A little peeping maddy.

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Speaker 3: A little peeping maddy on the street. What's going on? Oh,

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Speaker 3: caoll noise complain, I'll call cool noise control. But today

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Speaker 3: Ryan and I have realized that we have like a

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Speaker 3: green bin. That's that all of our like lawn clippings

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Speaker 3: and hedge leaves and stuff. We put them in there

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Speaker 3: and then once a month the truck comes and collects it. Well,

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Speaker 3: they came and collected it last week. Lo and behold

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Speaker 3: the bin has gone missing.

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Speaker 2: Who on earth would take your bit?

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Speaker 3: And someone on our street I think has stolen our

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Speaker 3: green bin.

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Speaker 2: And is that what you think the noise was the

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Speaker 2: other night?

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Speaker 3: No, I don't think it was. This is these are

558
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Speaker 3: two separate incidents. All of this is, all of this

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Speaker 3: is starting to make me feel like I'm people becoming

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Speaker 3: a busybody, because now I feel like I'm going to

561
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Speaker 3: have to be one of these people that goes door

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Speaker 3: to door trying to find the culprit of the bin stealer.

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Speaker 1: Surely you're active on the local Facebook community.

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Speaker 3: Why don't you do? Oh, I am a chention, but

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Speaker 3: an anonymous post going. I will call the authorities if required.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're right, you're definitely getting older.

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Speaker 1: The podcast, as Wow mentioned the council a stolen rubbish

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Speaker 1: bin and people are fired up on the text machine

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Speaker 1: with a whole lot of advice for you. Mady, howter

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Speaker 1: you said that your green bin has gone a walkabouts.

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Speaker 3: It just disappeared. It got picked up last week and

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Speaker 3: you know they emptied it and then the bin's gone.

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Speaker 3: I don't know where it is. Someone said I had

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Speaker 3: a green bin service that went missing one day. It

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Speaker 3: was the company that took it because the service was

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Speaker 3: ending and they didn't tell us. Check with them, so

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Speaker 3: I will. I'll give them a call.

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Speaker 1: Have you done anything to enrage your immediate neighbors? Is

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Speaker 1: there any reason for them to begin a war with you?

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Speaker 3: Unlikely? Unlikely the Hen's party the other way. No, we're

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Speaker 3: low level neighbors.

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Speaker 1: Someone else also said, Maddy, just call you countsl and

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Speaker 1: get a replacement. My foot scrapspin was stolen and it

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Speaker 1: took day for delivery.

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Speaker 3: So the okay, So stop complaining on the radio and

586
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Speaker 3: just do something about it. It takes action, mate, takes

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Speaker 3: some action.

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Speaker 8: May the podcast.

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Speaker 3: That I love a crazy coincidence? You know those stories

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Speaker 3: where you just go, what are the chances that this

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Speaker 3: has happened?

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Speaker 2: I love it.

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Speaker 3: I heard a great story about an American woman called

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Speaker 3: Mackenzie van Iike. Now when she was in the fourth grade,

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Speaker 3: so I'm guessing that it's like maybe year five, year five,

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Speaker 3: So when she was maybe eight years old or something

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Speaker 3: like that, she was at primary school and her teacher said,

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Speaker 3: what we're going to do is do a message in

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Speaker 3: a bottle. So you were going to write a letter

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Speaker 3: from yourself. We'll put it in a bottle and we're

601
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Speaker 3: going to chuck it into the water. The bottles into

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Speaker 3: the water, and so the class did it right. That

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Speaker 3: was in nineteen ninety eight. Twenty six years later, the

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Speaker 3: bottle washed ashore and someone found it and thought, you

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Speaker 3: know what I'm going to do. I'm going to give

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Speaker 3: it to a teacher friend of mine so that the

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Speaker 3: teacher can read it out to the class. Is a

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Speaker 3: little bit of like a time capsule, like a this

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Speaker 3: is what was This is what life was like in

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Speaker 3: nineteen ninety eight. This is someone that was your age

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Speaker 3: and what they were going through at that time. So

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Speaker 3: the teacher read it to their fourth grade class, including

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Speaker 3: one particular girl. Have listened to this.

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Speaker 2: My teacher just.

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Speaker 1: Read the whole note.

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Speaker 4: At the very end.

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Speaker 3: She said, the name and whose name was it? It

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Speaker 3: was her mom's. What are the odds that the note

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Speaker 3: written by Mackenzie when she was a fourth grader would

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Speaker 3: all these years later end up being read to her

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Speaker 3: daughter in the fourth grade.

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Speaker 13: It seems pretty unbelievable, honestly.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's such a classic cheesy American voicing. Yeah yeah,

624
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Speaker 3: but isn't that crazy? So McKenzie put the note into

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Speaker 3: a bottle twenty six years ago, it washed ashore, handed

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Speaker 3: to a teacher. The teacher read it out to her

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Speaker 3: fourth grade class, and Mackenzie's daughter happened to be in

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Speaker 3: that fourth grade class.

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Speaker 2: You wouldn't believe it.

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Speaker 3: What are the chances? What are the changes?

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Speaker 1: That just took me back to how we we did

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Speaker 1: little time capsules at primary school. I vividly remember doing

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Speaker 1: it a christ Church and I so wonder where we

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Speaker 1: dug them into the ground.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, whatever happened to them?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: Does anyone know what happened to the sell in house

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Speaker 1: school catuals that we buried like the late nineties, Please

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Speaker 1: en life to me if they've ever come above anyway,

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Speaker 1: crazy coincidence stories like this, Have you got one of

641
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Speaker 1: your own? Maybe it was something kind of similar, totally different.

642
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:58,920
Speaker 1: But what was that coincidental thing that you wouldn't believe

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Speaker 1: actually happened. I'll wait one hundred the hits so you

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Speaker 1: can text through four four eight seven.

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Speaker 8: Maddy and PJ. Mady and PJ the podcast The Heads.

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Speaker 1: Do you have a crazy coincidence story? Maddy's just been

647
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Speaker 1: talking about a woman who wrote in a bottle when

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Speaker 1: she was grade four in the States, and somehow that

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Speaker 1: bottle ended up getting back to her daughter.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna tell the story way better.

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00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:32,600
Speaker 3: Twenty six years later, the woman threw the bottle in

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Speaker 3: the water, it got washed ashore this year and handed

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Speaker 3: to a teacher who read it out to their fourth

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Speaker 3: grade class, and the woman's daughter happened to be in

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Speaker 3: that exact same class. What are the chances?

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Speaker 2: What are the chances?

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Speaker 1: So we want to know your Amazingkwinkie dinks. Do you

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Speaker 1: have a CoInc I've been so cruinge with.

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Speaker 3: My wording it's okay, it's okay, instead of.

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Speaker 2: Me it's okay.

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Speaker 3: We're going to let it slow. We're going over with me.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, a hundred of the heads.

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Speaker 1: What was your coincidence story? Anna is joining us.

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Speaker 2: Hianna try why what happened?

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Speaker 7: You know?

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Speaker 13: So this is back when I was in the dating

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Speaker 13: pool and on fit the dating apps, and I met

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Speaker 13: this guy. We you know, really headed off and we went.

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Speaker 9: On a few dates and it got to the third

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Speaker 9: date and I noticed he had this thing on his

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Speaker 9: arm and what it was was like a diabetic sensor.

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Speaker 9: And it hit me because I'm also a type one

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Speaker 9: diabetic and our.

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Speaker 10: Whole life I've been actively avoiding other Type one is

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Speaker 10: only about twenty thousands of us in New Zealand, right,

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Speaker 10: And yeah, so he happened to also be a type

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Speaker 10: one diabetic, which we discovered on our third date, and

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Speaker 10: pretty much, yeah, we we decided that we were going

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Speaker 10: to stick it out, and we're now married and we

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Speaker 10: have a house together.

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Speaker 2: Hey happy ending.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, we've got both others of immune diseases actually

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Speaker 9: between two of us, so real fun.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh well, look, it's going to say good for you,

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Speaker 3: but it just that feels wrong just saying.

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Speaker 10: But also, yeah, yeah, it's very very stucky.

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Speaker 2: Actually many of your fas.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, it's it's fine. It's just really a coincidence. Well,

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Speaker 3: you meet someone else who has diabetes, I give it

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Speaker 3: it's fine, it's fine. Yeah, yeah, we'll take We'll take it.

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Speaker 3: We'll take it. We'll take it.

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Speaker 2: Well, Bradjet, what about you?

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Speaker 1: What was your amazing coincidence story?

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Speaker 6: A few years ago? I had a really bad dream

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Speaker 6: about a horse having an accident. Yes, I'm quite worried

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Speaker 6: because I ride horses myself and I had a competition

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Speaker 6: that weekend. Anyway, I went all good, but two days

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Speaker 6: later we went out to the Cambridge Trots for evening

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Speaker 6: out and this horse just fell over in the sulky Right,

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Speaker 6: I'll turn my friend about this dream beforehand. She comes

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Speaker 6: running out to me. She's like, you're not going to

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Speaker 6: believe the name of that horse. What was it the name?

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Speaker 6: She said, the scary dream.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that is good. I'll take that. I was like,

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Speaker 3: Wisdys going going. I'm not I'm not huge on the

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Speaker 3: woo woo, but I will take that.

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Speaker 1: Wow, Bridget, was that a one off prophetic dream where

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Speaker 1: if you had a few cents.

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Speaker 6: Sally had a hue? Okay, liked stuff, So okay, we're

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Speaker 6: not good.

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Speaker 3: Okay, well, Cable, let us know if you ever have

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Speaker 3: a dream about one of us. Tokay, Bridget, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: keep us in the loaf for right.

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Speaker 6: Had any of the years. So I think I'm good now.

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Speaker 4: Maddy and PJ, Medi and PJ the podcast. That's the

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Speaker 4: People's Poll, the.

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Speaker 3: People's Poll, everybody comes together.

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Speaker 8: It's the People's pole.

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Speaker 1: Yet it with Meddi and PJ for Tuesday night and

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Speaker 1: every day on the show. We have a People's Poll

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Speaker 1: which we put up on our Instagram page.

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Speaker 2: That's Drive with Meddi and PJ. You can go way

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Speaker 2: in there. We have already put it up.

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Speaker 1: Today is a question about road trips and certain protocols

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Speaker 1: during road trips.

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Speaker 2: The specific question.

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Speaker 1: Is is it okay to sleep on the road trip

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Speaker 1: when you are the only passenger in the car or

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Speaker 1: is it your duty to help keep the driver awake?

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Speaker 3: Did you do this recently? Is this coming from personal experience?

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Speaker 1: Well, yes, we were on a road trip over the

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Speaker 1: weekend and it just made me realize my husband won't

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Speaker 1: meet missleep when he's driving, or even if I drive.

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Speaker 2: Meditator, who got well, you always do this. He talked

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Speaker 2: to me, talk to me and he just wants to chat.

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Speaker 3: Does he actually does he actually want to chat? Or

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Speaker 3: does he then end up just sitting there in long

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Speaker 3: bouts of silence.

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Speaker 2: I mean, there are definitely long bouts of silence, but

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Speaker 2: I just don't think he likes to sleep.

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Speaker 1: And then I you know, on the other hand, I'll

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Speaker 1: be driving with mom and she'll be in the passenger

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Speaker 1: seat and I'll be like, Mommy, can go to sleep.

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Speaker 2: She goes, no, no, no, no, no, Paddy, I've got to

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Speaker 2: stay awake because I've got to keep you awake. Someone

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Speaker 2: has to keep you awake.

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Speaker 1: So my question is, are you allowed to have a

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Speaker 1: little snooze on the roady if you are the only

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Speaker 1: passenger in the car.

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Speaker 3: That's fine. I've done that producers here and I were

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Speaker 3: driving back from when we did the Hall Ball and

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Speaker 3: I fell asleep.

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Speaker 2: Oh and it was I was very lonely. I wanted

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Speaker 2: to wake you up.

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Speaker 3: Sleep let me sleep, Okay.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So this is this is the question. It's a

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Speaker 2: simple one.

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Speaker 1: Do you think it is okay to sleep when you're

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Speaker 1: the only passenger on a road trip. I'm glad to

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Speaker 1: have some backing from both of you. I didn't think

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Speaker 1: that would.

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Speaker 2: Be the way.

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Speaker 1: But what do you do at home? If you're listening

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Speaker 1: right now, do you sleep on the road trip or not?

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Speaker 1: Is it road do you have a role to play?

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Speaker 2: Maddy and PJ.

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Speaker 4: Mady and PJ, the podcast, the heads, the People's Poll, the.

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Speaker 3: People's Poll, everybody comes together.

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Speaker 8: It's the People's Pole.

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Speaker 1: A bit of a niche roady question this evening for

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Speaker 1: our people's pot. We want to know is it okay

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Speaker 1: to sleep when you're the only passenger on a road trip?

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Speaker 1: Inspired by the fact that my husband, if I start

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Speaker 1: to nod off.

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Speaker 2: He'll just prod me. He'll go, wake up, wake up.

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Speaker 2: I want to talk. We need to get to talk.

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Speaker 2: You need to keep you awake.

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Speaker 3: I say, it's fine. You're allowed to do whatever you

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Speaker 3: want to do. You you for my husband, like, he

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Speaker 3: loves to drive, so I forget. If he's happy doing that,

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Speaker 3: then I should be able to do whatever I want

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Speaker 3: to do.

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Speaker 1: In the passenger see a couple of texts coming through.

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Speaker 1: Someone said, I reckon if it's late at night, you

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Speaker 1: need to stay away to keep the driver alert.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: No, one said, yeah, I reckon at night. Maybe there

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Speaker 2: is more of duty.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe, maybe, he says, after he fell asleep.

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Speaker 3: I did fall asleep in the car. Produce here. I

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Speaker 3: didn't even mean to. It was a complete eccident.

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Speaker 2: Actually had done it twice. You did it after the

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Speaker 2: note to do a marathon as well?

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Speaker 3: Did I mean to be twenty one?

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Speaker 1: There's a special breed that just falls asleep like that,

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Speaker 1: like when you get on the plane, you're out to it.

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Speaker 3: I can say it's completely split down the middle. Is

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Speaker 3: that on the On the Instagram, forty eight percent said

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Speaker 3: it's fine if you're tired, go to sleep, and fifty

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Speaker 3: two percent said no, you've got to stay awake to

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Speaker 3: keep the driver happy and testing.

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Speaker 1: I think towards the end of the day may maybe

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Speaker 1: it's more of a duty. But someone did ticks in

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Speaker 1: saying the driver will be okay on their own. You know,

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Speaker 1: like people drive by the just covers all the time,

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Speaker 1: so why are you expected to keep them?

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Speaker 8: Many and PJ the podcast that's