1 00:00:09,093 --> 00:00:11,972 Speaker 1: You're listening to a podcast from News Talk zed B. 2 00:00:12,373 --> 00:00:16,133 Speaker 1: Follow this and our wide range of podcasts now on iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:17,053 --> 00:00:18,732 Speaker 2: Hello, your great New Zealanders, and welcome to Matt and 4 00:00:18,813 --> 00:00:23,893 Speaker 2: Tyla podcast for the twenty first of January, in the 5 00:00:23,973 --> 00:00:26,093 Speaker 2: Year of Our Lord twenty twenty five. Thank you so 6 00:00:26,213 --> 00:00:27,773 Speaker 2: much for tuning in. Great show today. 7 00:00:27,773 --> 00:00:31,013 Speaker 3: Tyler certainly edge something for everyone, if I'm being honest 8 00:00:31,013 --> 00:00:31,693 Speaker 3: about it, The. 9 00:00:31,693 --> 00:00:34,693 Speaker 2: Trump chat was really interesting. We asked the question, and 10 00:00:34,773 --> 00:00:36,373 Speaker 2: I don't really know why I'd tell you this because 11 00:00:36,412 --> 00:00:39,092 Speaker 2: you'll see what happens because we're the very first thing 12 00:00:39,133 --> 00:00:40,812 Speaker 2: you hear as us saying what we're. 13 00:00:40,653 --> 00:00:41,973 Speaker 3: Going to talk about, right Yeah, and you don't want 14 00:00:41,973 --> 00:00:42,373 Speaker 3: to miss. 15 00:00:42,253 --> 00:00:44,693 Speaker 2: It, yeah, because we do that at one o'clock, right, Yeah, we. 16 00:00:44,653 --> 00:00:46,893 Speaker 3: Certainly do it. Yeah, we're going to first thing after 17 00:00:46,933 --> 00:00:47,493 Speaker 3: this we intro. 18 00:00:47,653 --> 00:00:48,973 Speaker 2: So it must be que annoying for me to listen 19 00:00:49,013 --> 00:00:50,732 Speaker 2: to this podcast when we say what we're going to 20 00:00:50,732 --> 00:00:52,092 Speaker 2: talk about, and then what we're talking about. What we 21 00:00:52,132 --> 00:00:53,853 Speaker 2: should say in this podcast intro is what we don't 22 00:00:53,853 --> 00:00:56,533 Speaker 2: talk about because yesterday we didn't. We tease that we're 23 00:00:56,533 --> 00:01:00,453 Speaker 2: going to talk about driving, teaching kids to drive. Yeah, 24 00:01:01,013 --> 00:01:03,013 Speaker 2: and then we didn't talk about it, and did we 25 00:01:03,013 --> 00:01:03,893 Speaker 2: to talk about it today? 26 00:01:03,933 --> 00:01:05,893 Speaker 3: We did it some stage, but you're going to have 27 00:01:05,933 --> 00:01:06,533 Speaker 3: to listen. 28 00:01:06,733 --> 00:01:09,333 Speaker 2: So yesterday yesterday, if you listen to the podcast and 29 00:01:09,373 --> 00:01:11,333 Speaker 2: you were waiting with Beta Brief to hear us talk 30 00:01:11,373 --> 00:01:13,053 Speaker 2: about teaching a kid to drive, because I'm teaching my 31 00:01:13,133 --> 00:01:15,773 Speaker 2: kids drive it the moment. We never got to it yesterday. Yeah, sorry, 32 00:01:15,813 --> 00:01:17,253 Speaker 2: but we get it to get to it today. 33 00:01:17,292 --> 00:01:20,212 Speaker 3: But you still enjoyed yesterday's podcast. That was a good point, Dad, And. 34 00:01:20,572 --> 00:01:22,572 Speaker 2: Things got heated with a caller at one point later 35 00:01:22,613 --> 00:01:25,053 Speaker 2: on who told me not to make jokes about something. 36 00:01:25,173 --> 00:01:26,253 Speaker 3: Oh that's right, Pore. 37 00:01:26,533 --> 00:01:28,253 Speaker 2: Yeah, so look out for Paul. 38 00:01:28,733 --> 00:01:30,933 Speaker 3: He's going to be waiting for you after we record this. 39 00:01:31,053 --> 00:01:34,212 Speaker 2: Actually yeah yeah, So thanks, get a little bit heated, 40 00:01:34,253 --> 00:01:35,613 Speaker 2: but we had a great time. So I hope you 41 00:01:35,652 --> 00:01:39,732 Speaker 2: enjoyed the podcast, sit the download. Sheer like, subscribe to 42 00:01:39,813 --> 00:01:42,613 Speaker 2: all those things that help get this podcast out there, 43 00:01:42,652 --> 00:01:47,213 Speaker 2: because we really really appreciate it when you do. All right, 44 00:01:47,493 --> 00:01:50,293 Speaker 2: love you give me a taste a Kiwi your. 45 00:01:50,253 --> 00:01:54,493 Speaker 1: New home for insightful and entertaining talk. It's Maddie and 46 00:01:54,613 --> 00:01:58,773 Speaker 1: Taylor Adams Afternoons with the Volvo XC nighty on Youth 47 00:01:58,813 --> 00:01:59,773 Speaker 1: Talk SEV. 48 00:02:01,493 --> 00:02:05,133 Speaker 3: Good afternoon to you, Welcome into the show, six past one, 49 00:02:05,293 --> 00:02:07,413 Speaker 3: feeling good on a Tuesday, Get him men. 50 00:02:07,573 --> 00:02:09,933 Speaker 2: Hey, before we left on the break, Tyler, we did 51 00:02:09,973 --> 00:02:12,693 Speaker 2: away in because we were talking about this, that we 52 00:02:12,693 --> 00:02:15,893 Speaker 2: were going to try and lose weight over the holiday break. 53 00:02:15,973 --> 00:02:16,253 Speaker 4: Yeah. 54 00:02:16,333 --> 00:02:19,533 Speaker 2: I failed at that, I know I did, But also 55 00:02:19,653 --> 00:02:21,333 Speaker 2: have we promised to do away and when we got 56 00:02:21,333 --> 00:02:24,173 Speaker 2: back and we were in it and we're buying for time, 57 00:02:24,252 --> 00:02:26,333 Speaker 2: I think to see because I did, I'm definitely in 58 00:02:26,333 --> 00:02:27,933 Speaker 2: the positives and I'm just trying to get that more 59 00:02:27,933 --> 00:02:28,972 Speaker 2: to neutral territory. 60 00:02:28,972 --> 00:02:29,653 Speaker 3: But we've got to do it. 61 00:02:29,733 --> 00:02:31,413 Speaker 2: The thing is, I was thinking about doing it, and 62 00:02:31,453 --> 00:02:34,813 Speaker 2: then on Christmas Day I thought, nah, I'm not not 63 00:02:34,853 --> 00:02:36,693 Speaker 2: gonna be a peg. I'm not going to not be 64 00:02:36,733 --> 00:02:38,572 Speaker 2: a peg. Yeah, I'm going to be a peg. Yeah. 65 00:02:38,693 --> 00:02:40,813 Speaker 2: Well you text me just just for some kind of 66 00:02:41,013 --> 00:02:43,773 Speaker 2: stupid kind of competition with you. 67 00:02:43,933 --> 00:02:45,853 Speaker 3: I was so glad to get your ticks. When you 68 00:02:45,893 --> 00:02:48,453 Speaker 3: see it, I've just made an absolute peak of myself. 69 00:02:48,453 --> 00:02:50,893 Speaker 3: While I'm getting my fourth helping of ham, I'm like, 70 00:02:50,972 --> 00:02:52,653 Speaker 3: this is good, this is good. We're both on the 71 00:02:52,693 --> 00:02:55,012 Speaker 3: same page here, Bug it away in but we're still 72 00:02:55,013 --> 00:02:56,493 Speaker 3: going to do it, and I reckon I can get 73 00:02:56,493 --> 00:02:57,573 Speaker 3: down to neutral. 74 00:02:57,773 --> 00:02:59,893 Speaker 2: Right yeah, okay, well I've got to remember to bring 75 00:02:59,972 --> 00:03:01,933 Speaker 2: the scales and it's the main problem. 76 00:03:01,933 --> 00:03:04,053 Speaker 3: All right, all right, we'll make a promise right now. 77 00:03:04,093 --> 00:03:05,573 Speaker 3: We will do it at the end of the week. 78 00:03:05,972 --> 00:03:08,933 Speaker 2: What you do, what you do for a way. And 79 00:03:08,933 --> 00:03:11,292 Speaker 2: I used to help people get ready for, you know, 80 00:03:11,373 --> 00:03:17,173 Speaker 2: bodybuilding competitions, and they'd be on the dark chocolate and 81 00:03:17,213 --> 00:03:19,012 Speaker 2: the red wine the night before. 82 00:03:25,373 --> 00:03:26,373 Speaker 3: Chocolate and red wine. 83 00:03:26,532 --> 00:03:27,413 Speaker 2: I mean, that's cheating. 84 00:03:28,933 --> 00:03:31,133 Speaker 3: Right on to the show today after three o'clock. This 85 00:03:31,173 --> 00:03:32,573 Speaker 3: is going to be a doozy. We didn't get to 86 00:03:32,613 --> 00:03:33,333 Speaker 3: it yesterday. 87 00:03:33,972 --> 00:03:38,053 Speaker 2: Yeah today, Yeah, that's right. Yesterday our chat on student 88 00:03:38,133 --> 00:03:41,853 Speaker 2: exchange programs went off, So we missed my exciting chat 89 00:03:41,933 --> 00:03:45,133 Speaker 2: on driving teaching your kids to drive cars, because I'm 90 00:03:45,133 --> 00:03:47,733 Speaker 2: teaching my son at the moment, and I've put out 91 00:03:47,813 --> 00:03:49,693 Speaker 2: that I believe that I am one of the best 92 00:03:50,053 --> 00:03:53,133 Speaker 2: parental driving instructors of all time, and I think it's generational. 93 00:03:53,533 --> 00:03:56,733 Speaker 2: I learned from the mistakes my father made, and I 94 00:03:56,853 --> 00:03:59,733 Speaker 2: learned and I've learned from the stakes that I've seen 95 00:03:59,813 --> 00:04:02,813 Speaker 2: my friends make, and I just I think I've got 96 00:04:02,973 --> 00:04:06,813 Speaker 2: a fantastic program for teaching kids to drive, and it 97 00:04:06,893 --> 00:04:09,773 Speaker 2: involves just getting them out on the motorway straight away. 98 00:04:09,893 --> 00:04:12,413 Speaker 2: It's the fear and awe, it's the shock and awe 99 00:04:13,133 --> 00:04:15,093 Speaker 2: way of getting them to learn to drive. 100 00:04:15,253 --> 00:04:19,332 Speaker 3: Can anyone download this program or specifically it's trademark. 101 00:04:19,413 --> 00:04:22,093 Speaker 2: I might write a book about it, but I think 102 00:04:22,853 --> 00:04:26,093 Speaker 2: everyone it's a rite of passage, as I said yesterday, 103 00:04:26,813 --> 00:04:29,893 Speaker 2: for kids learning to drive. But it's also that moment 104 00:04:30,013 --> 00:04:31,933 Speaker 2: as a parent where you teach your kids to drive. 105 00:04:32,213 --> 00:04:36,253 Speaker 2: It's an important part of life. And I felt the 106 00:04:36,293 --> 00:04:38,573 Speaker 2: weight of the moment when I was teaching them drive. 107 00:04:38,653 --> 00:04:40,133 Speaker 2: This is important. It's one of those things you're going 108 00:04:40,133 --> 00:04:41,813 Speaker 2: with stand up as a dad. I'm going to do 109 00:04:41,853 --> 00:04:44,173 Speaker 2: a good job of this. I'm not going to get stressed. 110 00:04:44,733 --> 00:04:47,053 Speaker 2: I'm going to say all the right things to make 111 00:04:47,093 --> 00:04:49,853 Speaker 2: them a safe driver. And I think I did a 112 00:04:49,893 --> 00:04:53,733 Speaker 2: really good job. But you know I would think that 113 00:04:53,853 --> 00:04:56,893 Speaker 2: so tight hundred and eighty ten eighty nine nine two. 114 00:04:56,933 --> 00:04:59,892 Speaker 2: We want to talk about, you know, techniques for learning 115 00:04:59,933 --> 00:05:03,133 Speaker 2: to drive, how your driving lessons went, how to do 116 00:05:03,213 --> 00:05:06,293 Speaker 2: it wrong. We've all got horror stories. My son won't 117 00:05:06,293 --> 00:05:08,293 Speaker 2: have a horror story. But we've all got horror stories 118 00:05:08,373 --> 00:05:09,533 Speaker 2: from learning to drive over. 119 00:05:09,413 --> 00:05:10,853 Speaker 3: Their parents and. 120 00:05:12,573 --> 00:05:13,573 Speaker 2: Parents teaching your kids. 121 00:05:13,613 --> 00:05:15,613 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. My old man taught me. He was a 122 00:05:15,613 --> 00:05:18,853 Speaker 3: tough instructor, but I pretty quick. Let's after three o'clock. 123 00:05:18,893 --> 00:05:21,373 Speaker 3: After two o'clock an article about a wife who caught 124 00:05:21,373 --> 00:05:24,253 Speaker 3: her husband using a dating app. He said he was 125 00:05:24,293 --> 00:05:25,773 Speaker 3: going through a bit of a low moment at the 126 00:05:25,773 --> 00:05:28,693 Speaker 3: time and it was just a harmless ego boost as 127 00:05:28,693 --> 00:05:31,253 Speaker 3: he's wiping through and gets a few likes on his way. 128 00:05:32,253 --> 00:05:36,173 Speaker 3: Is that cheating? And you know, you made the analogy 129 00:05:36,213 --> 00:05:38,253 Speaker 3: a little bit earlier on in the show about just 130 00:05:38,253 --> 00:05:40,613 Speaker 3: walking down the streets. Some men, not you, Matt and 131 00:05:40,693 --> 00:05:43,053 Speaker 3: certainly not me, might have a wee sort of wandering 132 00:05:43,133 --> 00:05:45,413 Speaker 3: eye as they walk down the street. Is that effectively 133 00:05:45,453 --> 00:05:46,693 Speaker 3: the same, just in digital mode. 134 00:05:46,973 --> 00:05:48,093 Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean, I think it's going to be a 135 00:05:48,093 --> 00:05:49,933 Speaker 2: hard one, as I said before, to get across the 136 00:05:49,933 --> 00:05:53,533 Speaker 2: line with his wife. But I mean, has he really 137 00:05:53,533 --> 00:05:55,333 Speaker 2: done anything wrong. He's just on a dating app. He 138 00:05:55,373 --> 00:05:58,613 Speaker 2: isn't organizing any dates. He's just flicking through. I guess 139 00:05:58,653 --> 00:06:02,053 Speaker 2: he's wasting time of the woman that match him, you know. 140 00:06:02,253 --> 00:06:04,773 Speaker 2: So there's that part of it. I mean, and I 141 00:06:04,813 --> 00:06:07,453 Speaker 2: could see as partner having a problem with it, But 142 00:06:07,493 --> 00:06:09,613 Speaker 2: in the end, I can also see his logic. He's 143 00:06:09,653 --> 00:06:11,413 Speaker 2: just flicking through. He's having a locky, you know, he's 144 00:06:11,413 --> 00:06:13,453 Speaker 2: a bit down. He wants to have some attention from 145 00:06:13,653 --> 00:06:16,013 Speaker 2: other woman. He's got no intention of cheating on his partner, 146 00:06:16,133 --> 00:06:17,933 Speaker 2: but he just wants a little bit of attention. And 147 00:06:17,973 --> 00:06:20,613 Speaker 2: maybe that's something that a lot of people, if their honors, 148 00:06:20,653 --> 00:06:23,053 Speaker 2: do want in life. And I mean, is any worse 149 00:06:23,053 --> 00:06:26,133 Speaker 2: than flicking through Instagram and looking at pictures of other people? 150 00:06:26,133 --> 00:06:28,293 Speaker 3: I don't know, love relationship pokeies. You just want to 151 00:06:28,293 --> 00:06:30,013 Speaker 3: hear a few things and that gives you a boost 152 00:06:30,013 --> 00:06:31,893 Speaker 3: and then you move on. But is that cheating nets? 153 00:06:32,053 --> 00:06:34,093 Speaker 2: But as I say, he's definitely going to lose the 154 00:06:34,173 --> 00:06:36,213 Speaker 2: argument with his partner. Yeah, but I think I think 155 00:06:36,213 --> 00:06:37,933 Speaker 2: we might be able to. I think we might be 156 00:06:37,933 --> 00:06:40,653 Speaker 2: able to put together an argument and put his case. 157 00:06:40,813 --> 00:06:43,173 Speaker 3: Yep, that's going to be a good chat after two o'clock, 158 00:06:43,213 --> 00:06:43,933 Speaker 3: but right now. 159 00:06:49,533 --> 00:06:54,853 Speaker 2: So, Snoop Dogg performed at Donald Trump's inauguration, despite a 160 00:06:54,893 --> 00:06:58,733 Speaker 2: few years ago coming out heavily against Trump and people 161 00:06:58,813 --> 00:07:02,773 Speaker 2: that would ever perform is for Trump. But Snoop Dogg 162 00:07:02,853 --> 00:07:06,933 Speaker 2: has performed, as have the Village people performed at Trump's 163 00:07:07,213 --> 00:07:12,013 Speaker 2: victory rally on Sunday night, and Nally performed there as well. 164 00:07:12,053 --> 00:07:15,653 Speaker 2: You've got UFC fighters and NFL players doing the Trump Dance. 165 00:07:16,533 --> 00:07:19,013 Speaker 2: You've got more and more people coming out and support 166 00:07:19,013 --> 00:07:21,373 Speaker 2: of film. Joe Rogan came out and supported film, of course, 167 00:07:21,413 --> 00:07:24,133 Speaker 2: and Joe Rogan had supported Bernie Sanders a few years 168 00:07:24,173 --> 00:07:27,733 Speaker 2: but before that. So the question is, and you know, 169 00:07:27,813 --> 00:07:30,813 Speaker 2: from a New Zealand perspective as well, is it more 170 00:07:30,853 --> 00:07:33,413 Speaker 2: socially acceptable now to be a Trump supporter than it 171 00:07:33,493 --> 00:07:36,573 Speaker 2: was before? Because I think there was an sort of 172 00:07:36,613 --> 00:07:40,773 Speaker 2: an underground level of Trump support, but people were quite silent, 173 00:07:40,813 --> 00:07:42,933 Speaker 2: and they've talked about this in the polls. People if 174 00:07:42,933 --> 00:07:44,853 Speaker 2: they're asked, will say they're not, but then they are. 175 00:07:45,053 --> 00:07:46,733 Speaker 2: And this happens in a lot of voting. And that's 176 00:07:46,733 --> 00:07:51,413 Speaker 2: what's confused people in twenty sixteen, the posters and in 177 00:07:51,413 --> 00:07:55,133 Speaker 2: two and twenty four in America because it used to 178 00:07:55,173 --> 00:08:03,173 Speaker 2: be quite socially unacceptable. Almost canceiable, can cancelable, almost cancelable. 179 00:08:03,933 --> 00:08:07,573 Speaker 2: That's kind of an odd word, isn't it? Cancelable? Almost 180 00:08:07,653 --> 00:08:10,533 Speaker 2: cancellable to say you support Trump. But I feel like 181 00:08:10,733 --> 00:08:12,893 Speaker 2: now more and more people are coming out of the 182 00:08:13,533 --> 00:08:15,413 Speaker 2: you know, coming out as Trump supporters. So we want 183 00:08:15,413 --> 00:08:17,093 Speaker 2: to ask the question, Oh, e one hundred and eighty 184 00:08:17,093 --> 00:08:19,813 Speaker 2: ten eighty nine two nine two is the text number. 185 00:08:20,533 --> 00:08:23,013 Speaker 2: Do you feel it's more socially okay to be a 186 00:08:23,053 --> 00:08:25,493 Speaker 2: Trump supporter or do you think it's an absolute pariah 187 00:08:25,573 --> 00:08:27,613 Speaker 2: and any artist that has anything to do with them, 188 00:08:27,653 --> 00:08:30,493 Speaker 2: you will no longer have anything to do with their work, 189 00:08:30,813 --> 00:08:33,053 Speaker 2: or any person that comes out you'll have nothing to 190 00:08:33,053 --> 00:08:35,253 Speaker 2: do with it. Or you know, you may not be 191 00:08:35,293 --> 00:08:37,773 Speaker 2: as Trump supporter now, but you're less angry at Trump 192 00:08:37,813 --> 00:08:39,852 Speaker 2: supporters than you were. And I guess that's part of 193 00:08:39,933 --> 00:08:41,693 Speaker 2: the moving of the Overton window, isn't it. 194 00:08:41,732 --> 00:08:43,573 Speaker 3: Do you think it a barbecue, will say round at 195 00:08:43,612 --> 00:08:45,693 Speaker 3: dinner table, or you go to a friend's place, would 196 00:08:45,732 --> 00:08:49,173 Speaker 3: you feel more comfortable raising the idea of Donald Trump 197 00:08:49,213 --> 00:08:51,693 Speaker 3: and hopefully kind of keeping it in that middle ground, 198 00:08:52,132 --> 00:08:54,693 Speaker 3: not necessarily saying hey, I'm a massive Trump supporter or 199 00:08:54,732 --> 00:08:57,053 Speaker 3: I'm a massive supporter on the other side of the spectrum, 200 00:08:57,093 --> 00:09:00,173 Speaker 3: but more that let's have a genuine conversation about some 201 00:09:00,213 --> 00:09:03,333 Speaker 3: of the policies and why he won, rather than it 202 00:09:03,413 --> 00:09:06,132 Speaker 3: just turning into a yeah scrap or. 203 00:09:06,053 --> 00:09:09,453 Speaker 2: Even just sticking up for him when he been wrongly 204 00:09:09,492 --> 00:09:12,093 Speaker 2: accused of something. Because the media for years has been 205 00:09:12,132 --> 00:09:15,573 Speaker 2: throwing out these little sort of moments, clickbaity moments that 206 00:09:15,612 --> 00:09:18,493 Speaker 2: have been later proven to not be true. And so 207 00:09:18,773 --> 00:09:21,413 Speaker 2: you know, maybe there's serious things that you've got, problems 208 00:09:21,413 --> 00:09:23,333 Speaker 2: have gone, but there's a lot of what's been out 209 00:09:23,372 --> 00:09:27,892 Speaker 2: there hasn't been true. So would you I think previously 210 00:09:27,892 --> 00:09:29,973 Speaker 2: people wouldn't even stick up for Trump at all in 211 00:09:30,012 --> 00:09:32,732 Speaker 2: a barbecue because they would think it would be be 212 00:09:32,732 --> 00:09:35,213 Speaker 2: cause just all kinds of conniptions. 213 00:09:35,293 --> 00:09:35,533 Speaker 3: Yeah. 214 00:09:35,612 --> 00:09:39,292 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I personally think that the Overton windows changed, 215 00:09:39,732 --> 00:09:42,013 Speaker 2: and you know, and I go out and there's people 216 00:09:42,252 --> 00:09:44,053 Speaker 2: all the time talking about Trump. 217 00:09:44,693 --> 00:09:46,852 Speaker 3: Oh eight, one hundred eighty ten eighty, the text are 218 00:09:46,852 --> 00:09:48,013 Speaker 3: coming through thick and fast. 219 00:09:48,213 --> 00:09:48,372 Speaker 5: Yeah. 220 00:09:48,453 --> 00:09:49,973 Speaker 3: From my point of view, I would say, look, a 221 00:09:50,093 --> 00:09:52,253 Speaker 3: year ago, I wouldn't have raised it at a barbecue 222 00:09:52,333 --> 00:09:54,693 Speaker 3: or certainly in my own house. But now, whether or 223 00:09:54,773 --> 00:09:58,252 Speaker 3: not I wholeheartedly agree with Donald Trump, I will defend 224 00:09:58,293 --> 00:10:00,132 Speaker 3: some of the things that I think are run fair 225 00:10:00,533 --> 00:10:02,573 Speaker 3: on both sides. But like you said, most of the 226 00:10:02,653 --> 00:10:06,252 Speaker 3: unfair headlines and situations came to Donald Trump, And you're 227 00:10:06,293 --> 00:10:08,532 Speaker 3: quite right when he first ran for the press and 228 00:10:08,653 --> 00:10:11,173 Speaker 3: see what eight years ago, he was treated as a 229 00:10:11,252 --> 00:10:14,933 Speaker 3: joke for so long. Yeah, and there's still that parcel 230 00:10:15,012 --> 00:10:18,453 Speaker 3: who still look at that guy as the your fired 231 00:10:18,612 --> 00:10:22,613 Speaker 3: reality TV show guy. This guy's got no no right 232 00:10:22,653 --> 00:10:23,413 Speaker 3: to be the president. 233 00:10:23,612 --> 00:10:25,492 Speaker 2: But that people thought he had no right to be 234 00:10:25,573 --> 00:10:29,333 Speaker 2: a president, and obviously media buying large thought that to 235 00:10:29,372 --> 00:10:32,013 Speaker 2: the point where they thought anything they said was okay 236 00:10:32,012 --> 00:10:33,893 Speaker 2: to stop him being it. You know, they thought this 237 00:10:33,973 --> 00:10:35,813 Speaker 2: is outrageous and we've got it. We've got to stop it. 238 00:10:36,413 --> 00:10:38,933 Speaker 2: But then a lot of that stuff backfired, as this 239 00:10:39,053 --> 00:10:41,533 Speaker 2: Texas through says through here on nine two nine two, 240 00:10:41,573 --> 00:10:43,852 Speaker 2: I think the media made me a Trump supporter. 241 00:10:44,012 --> 00:10:46,133 Speaker 3: There you go. Yeah, keep those hitt coming through on 242 00:10:46,213 --> 00:10:48,213 Speaker 3: nine two nine two. The phones had let up. 243 00:10:53,293 --> 00:10:55,132 Speaker 2: He would have thought the village people would appear on 244 00:10:55,173 --> 00:10:57,532 Speaker 2: stage with Trump. Trump's in the background dancing. 245 00:10:58,933 --> 00:11:01,053 Speaker 3: It's been a great shuffle that man, doesn't he I 246 00:11:01,173 --> 00:11:05,813 Speaker 3: love watching him move. Yeah, we'll liveing at and a 247 00:11:06,173 --> 00:11:09,652 Speaker 3: weird willed at the moment eighty it's a quarter past one. 248 00:11:09,653 --> 00:11:10,453 Speaker 3: Beckon of Mow. 249 00:11:12,012 --> 00:11:15,213 Speaker 1: The big stories, the big issues, to the big trends 250 00:11:15,333 --> 00:11:18,853 Speaker 1: and everything in between. Matt and Taylor afternoons with the 251 00:11:18,973 --> 00:11:22,413 Speaker 1: Volvo X ninety attention to detail and a commitment to 252 00:11:22,453 --> 00:11:23,652 Speaker 1: comfort news talks there. 253 00:11:23,693 --> 00:11:27,132 Speaker 2: Be off the table. Now, Yeah, I think I think 254 00:11:27,173 --> 00:11:30,293 Speaker 2: we can say that very dumb. It doesn't doesn't furt anymore. 255 00:11:30,372 --> 00:11:35,412 Speaker 3: No, exactly, Peter, you're calling from Queensland's nice to chet. 256 00:11:35,453 --> 00:11:37,933 Speaker 6: How are you Ye're not to man? 257 00:11:37,973 --> 00:11:38,213 Speaker 4: Mate? 258 00:11:38,413 --> 00:11:41,453 Speaker 7: Yeah, look, just very Oh I must say to you, Matte. 259 00:11:41,492 --> 00:11:43,933 Speaker 7: You did say at the end of the year, the 260 00:11:44,053 --> 00:11:47,293 Speaker 7: largest military in the world, the United States. 261 00:11:47,372 --> 00:11:47,892 Speaker 4: Look it up. 262 00:11:48,293 --> 00:11:54,733 Speaker 7: It's not the United States anymore, mate, it's not anyway, did. 263 00:11:54,612 --> 00:11:56,973 Speaker 2: I say did I say, did I say largest or 264 00:11:57,533 --> 00:12:00,173 Speaker 2: most powerful? Because they're still definitely the most powerful? 265 00:12:01,132 --> 00:12:04,693 Speaker 7: Well a better boy, because because. 266 00:12:03,973 --> 00:12:06,333 Speaker 2: They're not not wanting to go onto a topic from 267 00:12:06,372 --> 00:12:10,453 Speaker 2: last year. But boots, pure boots not really that important. 268 00:12:11,533 --> 00:12:13,973 Speaker 7: Yeah, I'll just get on because I'll tell you what 269 00:12:14,093 --> 00:12:16,492 Speaker 7: that that is a power that Donald's. 270 00:12:16,132 --> 00:12:17,412 Speaker 4: Really really worried about. 271 00:12:17,413 --> 00:12:19,093 Speaker 7: But anyway, the first time that he got and I 272 00:12:19,453 --> 00:12:21,373 Speaker 7: was in a cafeterian, I was looking at the TV 273 00:12:22,453 --> 00:12:24,132 Speaker 7: and I was look up there and I said, oh, 274 00:12:24,213 --> 00:12:26,773 Speaker 7: that's the boy that's going to be the next president 275 00:12:26,813 --> 00:12:27,772 Speaker 7: of the United States. 276 00:12:27,773 --> 00:12:30,813 Speaker 4: And all these guys go, oh, you goop the tu 277 00:12:31,372 --> 00:12:32,453 Speaker 4: you don't know what you talk. 278 00:12:32,693 --> 00:12:35,892 Speaker 7: Anybody got in and then I got into the cafeteria 279 00:12:35,933 --> 00:12:36,492 Speaker 7: when he's in there. 280 00:12:36,693 --> 00:12:39,533 Speaker 4: Hey boys, Hey boys, what happened? 281 00:12:40,372 --> 00:12:44,093 Speaker 7: And honestly, mate, I've for years and years and years, 282 00:12:44,132 --> 00:12:47,453 Speaker 7: I've always said, you know how they say the right 283 00:12:47,533 --> 00:12:52,773 Speaker 7: to bear arms and in America, well I kind of 284 00:12:52,813 --> 00:12:55,173 Speaker 7: turned the change a bit because if you got past 285 00:12:55,213 --> 00:12:58,533 Speaker 7: the American Army in the United States, if if you 286 00:12:58,573 --> 00:13:01,693 Speaker 7: were silly enough to invade them, you wouldn't get back. 287 00:13:01,773 --> 00:13:05,892 Speaker 7: You wouldn't get past the public. So maybe maybe they should, 288 00:13:06,252 --> 00:13:09,653 Speaker 7: you know, like arm a few places like dere I 289 00:13:09,732 --> 00:13:12,133 Speaker 7: say it, open supermarkets like that. 290 00:13:12,012 --> 00:13:14,013 Speaker 4: For a new Zalmer. That might help them out. 291 00:13:16,213 --> 00:13:19,453 Speaker 7: And that's what Donald Trump is really worried about, because 292 00:13:20,533 --> 00:13:24,532 Speaker 7: we dig up millions and tons of coal and iron 293 00:13:24,573 --> 00:13:28,292 Speaker 7: all here and it all goes to China, and you know, 294 00:13:28,413 --> 00:13:32,213 Speaker 7: they just turn around and say, stuff, we're making electricity, 295 00:13:32,732 --> 00:13:36,893 Speaker 7: we're making steel over here. And that's what Donald Trump 296 00:13:36,973 --> 00:13:41,053 Speaker 7: doesn't like, because he's not going to follow what the 297 00:13:41,093 --> 00:13:41,532 Speaker 7: rest of. 298 00:13:41,492 --> 00:13:44,733 Speaker 4: The world is doing. By trying to save the world. 299 00:13:45,813 --> 00:13:49,132 Speaker 2: But I mean it's definitely, I mean, that's this whole thing, 300 00:13:49,372 --> 00:13:50,932 Speaker 2: as he used to saying in then Augrades Beach is 301 00:13:50,973 --> 00:13:55,372 Speaker 2: one hundred percent America First, which not necessarily great for 302 00:13:55,933 --> 00:13:59,492 Speaker 2: everyone else. But you know, you say in twenty sixteen 303 00:13:59,533 --> 00:14:02,292 Speaker 2: when you said he was going to win, I at 304 00:14:02,293 --> 00:14:04,413 Speaker 2: that point, I mean, I just did not think he 305 00:14:04,453 --> 00:14:06,213 Speaker 2: was going to win when he was coming down that escalated. 306 00:14:06,852 --> 00:14:08,613 Speaker 2: In fact, I didn't even think at that point that 307 00:14:08,653 --> 00:14:12,133 Speaker 2: he was serious about trying to win. And you know 308 00:14:12,413 --> 00:14:14,453 Speaker 2: I was wrong about that. But when he came down 309 00:14:14,492 --> 00:14:15,932 Speaker 2: that escalator announced, I thought it was sort of a 310 00:14:15,973 --> 00:14:18,373 Speaker 2: publicity thinking I only really knew him from appearing in 311 00:14:18,612 --> 00:14:21,093 Speaker 2: Home Alone Too, will be famous for them being the 312 00:14:21,093 --> 00:14:23,893 Speaker 2: most the richest guy he was. He was the quintessential 313 00:14:23,973 --> 00:14:25,973 Speaker 2: rich guy from New York. That's why he was in 314 00:14:26,013 --> 00:14:29,933 Speaker 2: Home Alone Too the Apprentice. So you can you can 315 00:14:30,013 --> 00:14:33,093 Speaker 2: understand why people at that point didn't take it seriously. 316 00:14:34,293 --> 00:14:37,053 Speaker 7: Can I ask you why you think that Donald Trump 317 00:14:37,093 --> 00:14:40,213 Speaker 7: got in this time, because I'll tell you why. It's 318 00:14:40,253 --> 00:14:43,893 Speaker 7: because the public in the United States of America are hurting. 319 00:14:44,293 --> 00:14:47,853 Speaker 7: They're getting nowhere, how prices are going up through the 320 00:14:47,933 --> 00:14:49,013 Speaker 7: roofs over there as well. 321 00:14:49,053 --> 00:14:51,053 Speaker 4: Their cost of living is going up through. 322 00:14:50,893 --> 00:14:53,773 Speaker 7: The roofs over there, and Donald Trump said enough of it. 323 00:14:54,573 --> 00:14:55,613 Speaker 4: And I can. 324 00:14:55,533 --> 00:14:58,693 Speaker 7: See why, because everybody wants to save the planet, but 325 00:14:59,053 --> 00:15:01,413 Speaker 7: nobody else wants to save their own backyard. 326 00:15:01,813 --> 00:15:03,933 Speaker 2: Well, and I think the reason, I think one of 327 00:15:03,933 --> 00:15:06,373 Speaker 2: the reasons why he won is that the Democratic Party 328 00:15:06,373 --> 00:15:09,453 Speaker 2: has lost the working class Americans or the workers of America. 329 00:15:09,453 --> 00:15:12,853 Speaker 2: They've lost lost their support and that support's gone to 330 00:15:12,933 --> 00:15:15,613 Speaker 2: Donald Trump. So I think that's one of the big reasons. 331 00:15:15,613 --> 00:15:17,613 Speaker 2: And if the Democratic Party ever wants to win again, 332 00:15:17,653 --> 00:15:20,133 Speaker 2: it's going to have to work out why working class 333 00:15:20,133 --> 00:15:21,172 Speaker 2: Americans don't like them. 334 00:15:21,253 --> 00:15:24,093 Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's a danger for left parties around the world, right, 335 00:15:24,173 --> 00:15:26,733 Speaker 3: not just the Democrats, but right here at home, labor 336 00:15:27,173 --> 00:15:29,133 Speaker 3: would be facing the same sort of danger. You'd have 337 00:15:29,173 --> 00:15:30,973 Speaker 3: to say, Peter, thank you very much. O. A hundred 338 00:15:31,053 --> 00:15:33,412 Speaker 3: eighty ten eighty is the number to call back in 339 00:15:33,453 --> 00:15:34,893 Speaker 3: the MO It's twenty three past one. 340 00:15:35,613 --> 00:15:36,093 Speaker 6: Get there. 341 00:15:36,413 --> 00:15:39,733 Speaker 1: Ryan Bridge on the Mike hosting Breakfast Back tomorrow at 342 00:15:39,773 --> 00:15:43,853 Speaker 1: six am with a Vita Retirement, Communities on News Talks, dB. 343 00:15:44,093 --> 00:15:46,813 Speaker 2: Snoop Dogg performed at as inauguration. The Village people appeared 344 00:15:46,853 --> 00:15:49,253 Speaker 2: on stage with them at a rally on Sunday night, 345 00:15:49,413 --> 00:15:53,533 Speaker 2: as did Nowly you've got UFC fighters and NFL players 346 00:15:53,573 --> 00:15:57,133 Speaker 2: doing the Trump dance, as Trump more socially acceptable than ever, 347 00:15:57,453 --> 00:16:00,253 Speaker 2: and as that can over here in New Zealand, two 348 00:16:00,773 --> 00:16:05,613 Speaker 2: text machine exploding the lines fall on eight hundred and 349 00:16:05,613 --> 00:16:07,333 Speaker 2: eighty ten eighty. But give us a ring. We'll try 350 00:16:07,373 --> 00:16:10,733 Speaker 2: and find room for you. We've got two things too, 351 00:16:10,773 --> 00:16:13,613 Speaker 2: opposing texts here. I wish I could call, but I'm 352 00:16:13,613 --> 00:16:17,973 Speaker 2: at work. I'm completely I can't respect anyone that supports Trump. 353 00:16:18,093 --> 00:16:19,853 Speaker 2: I'm glad I'm not a woman living in a miracle 354 00:16:19,933 --> 00:16:25,253 Speaker 2: or raising daughters there. His ideas are repulsive. And another 355 00:16:25,293 --> 00:16:27,013 Speaker 2: text here, about an hour ago in the Hot Valley, 356 00:16:27,013 --> 00:16:29,613 Speaker 2: a man was shouting and yahooing that Trump was now 357 00:16:29,653 --> 00:16:31,973 Speaker 2: president and it was the best thing that ever happened 358 00:16:31,973 --> 00:16:34,693 Speaker 2: in the world. So there's a guy in the Hut 359 00:16:34,733 --> 00:16:38,373 Speaker 2: Valley that definitely thinks it's socially acceptable to be supporting Trump. 360 00:16:38,373 --> 00:16:41,253 Speaker 3: God, I love the Hut Valley. Trevor, how are you mate? 361 00:16:42,093 --> 00:16:42,653 Speaker 4: How you guys? 362 00:16:42,773 --> 00:16:43,333 Speaker 8: Right? Yeah? 363 00:16:43,373 --> 00:16:43,573 Speaker 2: Good? 364 00:16:44,133 --> 00:16:46,533 Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah good. Got off at four thirty this morning 365 00:16:46,653 --> 00:16:48,853 Speaker 9: and first watching At ten o'clock, we're going and do 366 00:16:48,933 --> 00:16:51,933 Speaker 9: some work. But I mean, just the first texture read 367 00:16:51,973 --> 00:16:55,253 Speaker 9: out from that lady that you know, the lady just 368 00:16:55,453 --> 00:16:58,973 Speaker 9: his look should hate to be a woman in America 369 00:16:59,013 --> 00:17:01,733 Speaker 9: with his views, probably on abortion. But does she realize 370 00:17:01,773 --> 00:17:04,493 Speaker 9: that record numbers a woman voted for him after you 371 00:17:04,573 --> 00:17:07,092 Speaker 9: said that, And it's like the first kind of the 372 00:17:07,133 --> 00:17:10,773 Speaker 9: first texture read out. You know, it's apparently seventy eight 373 00:17:11,013 --> 00:17:15,013 Speaker 9: million Americans are coming stupid. I don't think so, not 374 00:17:15,133 --> 00:17:18,773 Speaker 9: seventy eight male of them. And I think the key 375 00:17:18,813 --> 00:17:22,253 Speaker 9: thing about Trump is is he's not really a politician. 376 00:17:22,293 --> 00:17:25,333 Speaker 9: And I look upon this as being a real kick 377 00:17:25,413 --> 00:17:27,413 Speaker 9: up the arse for wokeness that people were starting to 378 00:17:27,413 --> 00:17:29,693 Speaker 9: get sick of. I mean, you know, Trump comes out 379 00:17:29,733 --> 00:17:31,453 Speaker 9: and says what they think. You know, he said it 380 00:17:31,493 --> 00:17:34,813 Speaker 9: again today, as far as he's concerned, there's only two genders, 381 00:17:34,813 --> 00:17:37,333 Speaker 9: male and female, and a lot of people think that, 382 00:17:37,773 --> 00:17:40,053 Speaker 9: you know, he said, you know, his views a little 383 00:17:40,053 --> 00:17:44,053 Speaker 9: bady abortion and like that lady said, you know, Michelle Obama, 384 00:17:44,133 --> 00:17:46,773 Speaker 9: oh what woman miracle ever vote for Donald Trump? 385 00:17:46,813 --> 00:17:46,933 Speaker 10: Now? 386 00:17:46,973 --> 00:17:48,533 Speaker 9: When you're telling them what to do with their bodies. 387 00:17:49,013 --> 00:17:52,413 Speaker 9: Record numbers are females voted for them. You know, he 388 00:17:52,493 --> 00:17:55,293 Speaker 9: says no more transdomen or people who think they're woman 389 00:17:55,453 --> 00:18:00,173 Speaker 9: are female in female biological female sport. I mean, what's 390 00:18:00,173 --> 00:18:00,933 Speaker 9: wrong with that. 391 00:18:01,413 --> 00:18:04,253 Speaker 2: Now, Trevor. So, you know, you support a lot of 392 00:18:04,253 --> 00:18:09,853 Speaker 2: what he says and believes in, and they as policies. 393 00:18:10,293 --> 00:18:12,453 Speaker 2: What do you think of him as a person, Because 394 00:18:12,813 --> 00:18:15,133 Speaker 2: a lot of people like I've got this text here 395 00:18:15,213 --> 00:18:17,933 Speaker 2: nine too, I can't stand Trump, but he makes a 396 00:18:17,933 --> 00:18:20,573 Speaker 2: lot of sense in the things he says. And a 397 00:18:20,573 --> 00:18:23,733 Speaker 2: lot of what people's visceral reaction to Trump is that 398 00:18:23,973 --> 00:18:27,293 Speaker 2: they just don't like what he stands for. They think 399 00:18:27,413 --> 00:18:30,933 Speaker 2: that he is, you know, that he's rude and brash 400 00:18:30,973 --> 00:18:34,532 Speaker 2: and unbecoming of a president. Do you see anything in that? 401 00:18:36,173 --> 00:18:38,213 Speaker 9: Well, I think people should learn. I mean, you know, 402 00:18:38,333 --> 00:18:41,253 Speaker 9: they see somebody nice and respectable, like Tamala Harris. But 403 00:18:41,293 --> 00:18:43,253 Speaker 9: I mean, if you listen to Kamala Harris, she's a 404 00:18:43,293 --> 00:18:45,533 Speaker 9: greenie on steroids. And you know, you've just got to 405 00:18:45,613 --> 00:18:47,853 Speaker 9: vote for people who you think are going to do 406 00:18:48,373 --> 00:18:50,453 Speaker 9: the best thing, I mean, the best thing for your country. 407 00:18:50,493 --> 00:18:53,253 Speaker 9: I mean, I noticed on the Trump's charges were like 408 00:18:53,533 --> 00:18:56,933 Speaker 9: paying a porno queen some money to keep quiet that 409 00:18:57,013 --> 00:18:59,413 Speaker 9: he had sex with her. I mean really, there's a 410 00:18:59,413 --> 00:19:01,333 Speaker 9: lot of people in zild would just laughing and say 411 00:19:01,613 --> 00:19:04,532 Speaker 9: so what, But some people get so offended by it, 412 00:19:04,573 --> 00:19:06,933 Speaker 9: and it's discussing and horrible. I just think the way 413 00:19:06,973 --> 00:19:11,733 Speaker 9: Trump won record numbers people voted him for, you know, 414 00:19:11,853 --> 00:19:17,853 Speaker 9: every ethnicity and record numbers, and you know, just ring 415 00:19:17,933 --> 00:19:20,413 Speaker 9: up and say that people that voted from a dumb 416 00:19:20,453 --> 00:19:23,253 Speaker 9: and stupid those people have no argument at all. And 417 00:19:23,293 --> 00:19:25,533 Speaker 9: I'll tell you what. On the world scale, I think 418 00:19:25,533 --> 00:19:27,653 Speaker 9: the world is a safer place and people can decide 419 00:19:27,653 --> 00:19:30,973 Speaker 9: what they like about the piece of gremin in isral. 420 00:19:31,253 --> 00:19:34,813 Speaker 9: It started one day before Trump come to power, a 421 00:19:34,853 --> 00:19:37,653 Speaker 9: week and a half after he said it. The way 422 00:19:37,693 --> 00:19:41,813 Speaker 9: he does things that if the hostages aren't released by 423 00:19:41,853 --> 00:19:46,333 Speaker 9: the time I come into power, there will behold a play. 424 00:19:47,133 --> 00:19:49,653 Speaker 2: Because obviously Biden was president at the time. So you 425 00:19:49,693 --> 00:19:52,613 Speaker 2: don't think that Biden's administration had anything to do it. 426 00:19:52,653 --> 00:19:55,093 Speaker 2: You think it was that Trump trump threat, Trump's threat 427 00:19:55,373 --> 00:19:56,293 Speaker 2: just push things forward. 428 00:19:57,133 --> 00:19:59,373 Speaker 9: Well, I think it's Trump's threat And I feel sorry 429 00:19:59,373 --> 00:20:01,413 Speaker 9: for the people that were called four months ago because 430 00:20:01,413 --> 00:20:03,213 Speaker 9: if Trump had to come out and see that, because 431 00:20:03,253 --> 00:20:06,413 Speaker 9: that was the exact same way that he said to 432 00:20:06,493 --> 00:20:08,773 Speaker 9: the little rocket Man. You know, people said, oh, you 433 00:20:08,813 --> 00:20:11,173 Speaker 9: can't call him a little rockerman. You know, you can't 434 00:20:11,173 --> 00:20:13,333 Speaker 9: go and visit him. But Drump done it his way 435 00:20:13,413 --> 00:20:17,213 Speaker 9: and it was streets like he gave him us. And 436 00:20:17,293 --> 00:20:20,613 Speaker 9: that is that the same tool where you fear and 437 00:20:20,693 --> 00:20:23,773 Speaker 9: scare people into doing things when you think what those 438 00:20:23,813 --> 00:20:26,653 Speaker 9: people are doing is wrong. And I've got no doubts 439 00:20:26,693 --> 00:20:30,053 Speaker 9: he definitely hurried up that decision, and if he had 440 00:20:30,053 --> 00:20:32,973 Speaker 9: that two months ago, thousands of lives would have been saved. 441 00:20:33,293 --> 00:20:36,253 Speaker 2: Now, Triva, is there anything you don't like about the man? 442 00:20:36,293 --> 00:20:39,333 Speaker 2: Any policies you don't support, anything about his behavior you 443 00:20:39,373 --> 00:20:39,853 Speaker 2: don't like? 444 00:20:41,533 --> 00:20:43,813 Speaker 9: Uh, well, look you put me on the spot then 445 00:20:46,693 --> 00:20:48,653 Speaker 9: that I distasted about him. I mean, you know what 446 00:20:48,733 --> 00:20:50,173 Speaker 9: I'd like to do that I think you wouldn't bet. 447 00:20:50,333 --> 00:20:52,293 Speaker 9: I'd love to go to one of his golf clubs 448 00:20:52,533 --> 00:20:53,773 Speaker 9: on Whole nineteen. 449 00:20:53,413 --> 00:20:56,093 Speaker 11: In the clubroom and have a few years with Trump. 450 00:20:56,373 --> 00:20:57,413 Speaker 10: He would be a laugh. 451 00:20:57,773 --> 00:21:00,333 Speaker 9: He would tell a good old muddy joke and have 452 00:21:00,453 --> 00:21:01,213 Speaker 9: a laugh about this. 453 00:21:01,493 --> 00:21:02,733 Speaker 12: He would be a great guy. 454 00:21:02,853 --> 00:21:05,493 Speaker 9: I reckon to socially mixed with. Some people don't like 455 00:21:05,533 --> 00:21:07,933 Speaker 9: the way he acts, but that's the sort of person 456 00:21:08,413 --> 00:21:10,973 Speaker 9: I want to go out and have a socially endurable 457 00:21:11,213 --> 00:21:11,773 Speaker 9: good laugh. 458 00:21:12,053 --> 00:21:13,813 Speaker 3: I reckon Trump, Well, well, I'll tell you what. 459 00:21:13,853 --> 00:21:16,213 Speaker 2: Trevor Trump would have a diet coke. Of course he 460 00:21:16,453 --> 00:21:19,493 Speaker 2: doesn't drink it all, just so you could have the beers, 461 00:21:19,493 --> 00:21:20,933 Speaker 2: you'd have the dit coke, and I'm sure you'd have 462 00:21:20,933 --> 00:21:21,453 Speaker 2: a great cat. 463 00:21:21,573 --> 00:21:23,293 Speaker 3: Hey, thanks so much of you call Trevor. Oh, eight 464 00:21:23,373 --> 00:21:26,413 Speaker 3: hundred eighty ten eighty is the number to call. Headlines 465 00:21:26,413 --> 00:21:28,733 Speaker 3: coming up just on what Trevor was saying about the 466 00:21:28,773 --> 00:21:30,773 Speaker 3: war in Israel and some of those other aspects. Do 467 00:21:30,813 --> 00:21:33,493 Speaker 3: you think most Americans who voted for Trump that's what 468 00:21:33,493 --> 00:21:35,933 Speaker 3: they really cared about or was it more going back 469 00:21:35,973 --> 00:21:38,773 Speaker 3: to it's the economy stupid. They are going backwards, They're 470 00:21:38,773 --> 00:21:40,933 Speaker 3: losing their jobs, they are struggling to put food on 471 00:21:40,973 --> 00:21:43,693 Speaker 3: the table. It just goes back to what is going 472 00:21:43,733 --> 00:21:45,533 Speaker 3: to be best for me and my family. How can 473 00:21:45,573 --> 00:21:47,572 Speaker 3: I make sure that I support that family rather than 474 00:21:47,573 --> 00:21:48,133 Speaker 3: what's going on. 475 00:21:48,333 --> 00:21:50,093 Speaker 2: I think I think there's a certain amount of people 476 00:21:50,173 --> 00:21:53,933 Speaker 2: that voted for Trump just because he well, they feel 477 00:21:53,933 --> 00:21:56,053 Speaker 2: like the Democrats. You know, the Democrats were is the 478 00:21:56,053 --> 00:21:58,293 Speaker 2: party of the working class? And as I was saying before, 479 00:21:58,333 --> 00:22:00,893 Speaker 2: I think a lot of people feel like the Democrats 480 00:22:00,933 --> 00:22:04,053 Speaker 2: abandoned the working class, and Trump says the right things 481 00:22:04,133 --> 00:22:08,133 Speaker 2: around the working class. I mean, whoever thought that Donald 482 00:22:08,173 --> 00:22:11,893 Speaker 2: trum would be the working class candidate. That's what's happened. 483 00:22:12,213 --> 00:22:14,853 Speaker 3: Oh, one hundred eighty ten eighty is the number to call. 484 00:22:14,893 --> 00:22:16,293 Speaker 3: It is twenty eight to two. 485 00:22:16,413 --> 00:22:22,213 Speaker 13: Back in the month, news Talk said the headlines with 486 00:22:22,333 --> 00:22:25,373 Speaker 13: blue bubble taxis it's no trouble with a blue bubble. 487 00:22:25,893 --> 00:22:29,613 Speaker 13: Donald Trump's told supporters he's off to pardon a lot 488 00:22:29,613 --> 00:22:32,813 Speaker 13: of people, keeping a promise to rioters convicted over the 489 00:22:32,893 --> 00:22:36,292 Speaker 13: capital attacks four years ago. He's been sworn in as 490 00:22:36,333 --> 00:22:40,253 Speaker 13: the forty seventh US president today, immediately promising to come 491 00:22:40,293 --> 00:22:44,853 Speaker 13: down hard on immigration, abolishing diversity programs, and drilling for 492 00:22:44,933 --> 00:22:49,453 Speaker 13: more oil and gas. Wild weather is lashing the Coromandel 493 00:22:49,613 --> 00:22:52,573 Speaker 13: as it moves south down the North Island. Heavy rain 494 00:22:52,653 --> 00:22:55,493 Speaker 13: and wind warnings and watchers have been issued for Coramandel, 495 00:22:55,613 --> 00:22:58,933 Speaker 13: Northland and Auckland. A heavy rain warning applies to tight 496 00:22:59,013 --> 00:23:04,053 Speaker 13: affity after four pm concerns. No alternative will be offered 497 00:23:04,333 --> 00:23:08,293 Speaker 13: as the Housing and Urban Development Ministry phases art emergency housing, 498 00:23:08,493 --> 00:23:12,813 Speaker 13: motels du by the end of the year. Stat s 499 00:23:12,893 --> 00:23:16,493 Speaker 13: nd Z figures show Kiwi's shopping just as frequently but 500 00:23:16,613 --> 00:23:20,173 Speaker 13: spending lease each time, with total card spending last month 501 00:23:20,293 --> 00:23:23,973 Speaker 13: down one percent annually. Overall spending last year was down 502 00:23:24,133 --> 00:23:28,853 Speaker 13: two point two percent. Port pricing the remedy for alarming 503 00:23:28,893 --> 00:23:32,973 Speaker 13: decline and sectors returns on capital. A new report says 504 00:23:33,173 --> 00:23:35,493 Speaker 13: you can find out more at z at Herald Premium. 505 00:23:35,813 --> 00:23:37,613 Speaker 13: Now back to Matt Heathan Tyler Adams. 506 00:23:38,373 --> 00:23:42,213 Speaker 3: Thank you very much, Raylean. It is twenty four to two. 507 00:23:42,533 --> 00:23:44,213 Speaker 3: We're talking about Trump. 508 00:23:44,293 --> 00:23:47,693 Speaker 2: His inauguration has been We've just been watching that this morning. 509 00:23:48,053 --> 00:23:51,013 Speaker 2: Snoop Dog played at it, and the Village People played 510 00:23:51,493 --> 00:23:55,173 Speaker 2: at his victory rally last night. Addison Nelly. We just 511 00:23:55,213 --> 00:23:58,613 Speaker 2: asked the question, is more socially acceptable now to say 512 00:23:58,733 --> 00:24:02,133 Speaker 2: that you support Trump in New Zealand than it was beforehand? 513 00:24:02,213 --> 00:24:04,573 Speaker 2: I mean, obviously those example of big artists overseas, but 514 00:24:04,573 --> 00:24:06,933 Speaker 2: it just feels like you were finished if you had 515 00:24:06,973 --> 00:24:09,773 Speaker 2: any association with Trump just a few years ago. But 516 00:24:09,853 --> 00:24:13,493 Speaker 2: now for me, it seems like the window, the Overton 517 00:24:13,533 --> 00:24:16,733 Speaker 2: window has shifted and people are more and more people 518 00:24:16,813 --> 00:24:18,173 Speaker 2: are saying that they support Trump. 519 00:24:18,213 --> 00:24:18,493 Speaker 4: Yeah. 520 00:24:18,533 --> 00:24:20,493 Speaker 3: Well, like when you said earlier, when you get the 521 00:24:20,573 --> 00:24:23,533 Speaker 3: village people saying, hey, you know, we just want people 522 00:24:23,573 --> 00:24:25,813 Speaker 3: to support our music, no matter whether you're a Republican 523 00:24:25,893 --> 00:24:29,213 Speaker 3: or Democrat. The tide certainly turned, when previously it was 524 00:24:29,253 --> 00:24:33,773 Speaker 3: just Holt Hogan and kid Rock that Donald could get. 525 00:24:34,053 --> 00:24:34,293 Speaker 4: Yeah. 526 00:24:34,413 --> 00:24:37,253 Speaker 2: So yeah, this is the statement from the village people. 527 00:24:37,333 --> 00:24:39,853 Speaker 2: And who ever thought they'd see Trump dancing on stage 528 00:24:39,853 --> 00:24:42,373 Speaker 2: with the village people, if you if that popped up 529 00:24:42,493 --> 00:24:46,013 Speaker 2: in a movie, it would it would It would be 530 00:24:46,093 --> 00:24:49,453 Speaker 2: a joke in a movie ten years ago. So the 531 00:24:49,533 --> 00:24:52,373 Speaker 2: village people said, we know this won't make some people happy. 532 00:24:52,453 --> 00:24:55,013 Speaker 2: Have we believe that music is to be performed without 533 00:24:55,173 --> 00:24:58,413 Speaker 2: without regard for politics, and that may seem seem like 534 00:24:58,613 --> 00:25:00,413 Speaker 2: quite a sort of middle road thing, but to be 535 00:25:00,613 --> 00:25:04,013 Speaker 2: on stage with Trump would have been impossible for most 536 00:25:04,133 --> 00:25:07,813 Speaker 2: artists a while ago. Here's a text here from Barrie. Hey, guys, 537 00:25:08,013 --> 00:25:10,453 Speaker 2: I was the conference of Core Christmas and Colleagues based 538 00:25:10,453 --> 00:25:13,373 Speaker 2: in the US, presented how well America was doing under 539 00:25:13,373 --> 00:25:15,613 Speaker 2: Trump when he was last in showed economic trends that 540 00:25:15,693 --> 00:25:18,933 Speaker 2: all declined under Biden, tariff's went up under Biden. They 541 00:25:18,933 --> 00:25:22,733 Speaker 2: said Trump is extremely popular with Middle USA. They blamed 542 00:25:22,773 --> 00:25:25,533 Speaker 2: some of the media for the way his performance has reported. 543 00:25:25,773 --> 00:25:28,053 Speaker 2: They weren't fans of Trump as a person, but said 544 00:25:28,173 --> 00:25:31,773 Speaker 2: he will be a very good president for their country. 545 00:25:32,413 --> 00:25:35,133 Speaker 2: So you're getting that a lot coming through. People might 546 00:25:35,173 --> 00:25:37,853 Speaker 2: not necessarily love him as a person. This text here 547 00:25:37,853 --> 00:25:40,613 Speaker 2: is interesting as well. Hi, guys, just look at Elon 548 00:25:40,693 --> 00:25:44,093 Speaker 2: Musk's speech. He's strange, awkward with his hand movements. And 549 00:25:44,133 --> 00:25:46,373 Speaker 2: at the speech he thanked the people and put his 550 00:25:46,453 --> 00:25:49,453 Speaker 2: hand to his heart and as if to throw it 551 00:25:49,533 --> 00:25:52,173 Speaker 2: all at them. He made a weird gesture. But now 552 00:25:52,173 --> 00:25:56,413 Speaker 2: on every media outlet, Headlong says, Elon Musk does a 553 00:25:56,493 --> 00:25:59,093 Speaker 2: Nazi salute. I think this is why we're all sick 554 00:25:59,133 --> 00:26:02,853 Speaker 2: of the clickbait media. Yeah, I mean, immediately people got 555 00:26:03,013 --> 00:26:05,653 Speaker 2: a shot of Elon Muskin said it was a Nazi salute, 556 00:26:05,693 --> 00:26:10,253 Speaker 2: when clearly it isn't. But that's that's the kind of 557 00:26:10,253 --> 00:26:12,933 Speaker 2: stuff that turns people, isn't it, Because they see that, 558 00:26:13,053 --> 00:26:15,453 Speaker 2: and then then it's easy to make the narrative that 559 00:26:15,533 --> 00:26:16,773 Speaker 2: one side is being set upon. 560 00:26:16,893 --> 00:26:19,253 Speaker 3: Yeah, you're right, and trust is a massive issue in 561 00:26:19,293 --> 00:26:22,213 Speaker 3: mainstream media at the moment, well, media across the board, 562 00:26:22,773 --> 00:26:26,333 Speaker 3: and when you're unfair or you use those headlines as 563 00:26:26,333 --> 00:26:28,453 Speaker 3: some sort of click bait. That is dangerous. Morris, how 564 00:26:28,453 --> 00:26:29,613 Speaker 3: are you? 565 00:26:29,653 --> 00:26:29,853 Speaker 9: Oh? 566 00:26:30,013 --> 00:26:30,653 Speaker 4: Very good boys? 567 00:26:30,773 --> 00:26:33,173 Speaker 3: Anyway, welcome back, Thank you, nice to be back. 568 00:26:34,213 --> 00:26:38,333 Speaker 14: My views Trump as a male, sexist pig. And when 569 00:26:38,373 --> 00:26:40,253 Speaker 14: he was accused of raping that woman, he said, well, 570 00:26:40,253 --> 00:26:41,013 Speaker 14: I wouldn't to rape here. 571 00:26:41,053 --> 00:26:41,533 Speaker 15: She was ugly. 572 00:26:42,613 --> 00:26:46,173 Speaker 14: That's who the man is. But he's not PC and 573 00:26:46,173 --> 00:26:47,093 Speaker 14: that's what the world wants. 574 00:26:47,093 --> 00:26:50,813 Speaker 4: We're over this nonsense. We're over to Cinda Adern and all. 575 00:26:50,733 --> 00:26:53,133 Speaker 14: Those hug each other or all you know, that's all 576 00:26:53,133 --> 00:26:56,013 Speaker 14: just nonsense. And it's like I said, the economy in 577 00:26:56,053 --> 00:26:58,532 Speaker 14: New Zealand will boom. And I saw some Americans who 578 00:26:58,573 --> 00:27:01,573 Speaker 14: were staunch Democrats having a coffee down the local coffee shop, 579 00:27:02,293 --> 00:27:03,493 Speaker 14: and I said, who did you vote for? 580 00:27:03,533 --> 00:27:05,052 Speaker 4: And the off come malayale. 581 00:27:05,053 --> 00:27:07,893 Speaker 14: I said, why he couldn't tell me why I voted 582 00:27:07,933 --> 00:27:08,093 Speaker 14: for her? 583 00:27:08,653 --> 00:27:09,653 Speaker 9: Was just because he's a Democrat. 584 00:27:11,333 --> 00:27:13,413 Speaker 14: They couldn't explain why they voted for And if you 585 00:27:13,453 --> 00:27:16,613 Speaker 14: look at this, this is how overwhelming it was. He 586 00:27:16,653 --> 00:27:20,293 Speaker 14: won every state that you had to show ID, every 587 00:27:20,333 --> 00:27:23,213 Speaker 14: single stake, every single thing we had to show ID 588 00:27:23,493 --> 00:27:25,973 Speaker 14: to vote. He won the only one she won is 589 00:27:26,013 --> 00:27:28,893 Speaker 14: we didn't need ID and that says at all, and 590 00:27:28,893 --> 00:27:30,013 Speaker 14: that's what's wrong with America. 591 00:27:31,453 --> 00:27:33,613 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, well think thank you if you call Morris, 592 00:27:33,653 --> 00:27:36,973 Speaker 2: appreciate it. This textas sees, my opinion on Trump changed 593 00:27:37,013 --> 00:27:41,373 Speaker 2: from loathing to slight admiration. I'm watching live how he 594 00:27:41,453 --> 00:27:45,133 Speaker 2: acted to being shot showed to me he can think 595 00:27:45,173 --> 00:27:49,853 Speaker 2: on his feet and react. That was amazing. How quickly 596 00:27:50,533 --> 00:27:53,013 Speaker 2: that shooting disappeared from the media, though. 597 00:27:53,093 --> 00:27:55,533 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, And that is the world we live in 598 00:27:55,573 --> 00:27:57,933 Speaker 3: at the moment, though, wasn't it. That is the attempted 599 00:27:57,933 --> 00:28:00,573 Speaker 3: assassination of a US president, And within a week we'd 600 00:28:00,573 --> 00:28:01,133 Speaker 3: forgot about it. 601 00:28:01,133 --> 00:28:03,453 Speaker 2: I barely cared about it two weeks later, you know. 602 00:28:03,493 --> 00:28:06,333 Speaker 2: It was just we tuned through things so fast, now, 603 00:28:06,333 --> 00:28:06,653 Speaker 2: don't we. 604 00:28:06,733 --> 00:28:06,893 Speaker 4: Yeah. 605 00:28:06,973 --> 00:28:09,573 Speaker 3: Oh, eight hundred and eighty ten is the number to call. 606 00:28:09,773 --> 00:28:12,532 Speaker 3: Is it socially acceptable now to say that you support 607 00:28:12,573 --> 00:28:16,013 Speaker 3: Donald Trump? Paul, how are you this afternoon? 608 00:28:17,093 --> 00:28:17,693 Speaker 4: Oh? Really good? 609 00:28:17,693 --> 00:28:23,373 Speaker 16: Thank you, Matt and silent Tyler, and I think it's 610 00:28:23,853 --> 00:28:29,333 Speaker 16: more socially acceptable to say you support Trump now all 611 00:28:29,413 --> 00:28:31,973 Speaker 16: I wouldn't And I agree with the first comments of 612 00:28:32,013 --> 00:28:34,133 Speaker 16: your last Paul saying he's what did he refer to 613 00:28:34,173 --> 00:28:35,333 Speaker 16: her as a pick? 614 00:28:35,733 --> 00:28:38,853 Speaker 2: M M, A sexist pick, that's what That's what Trevor said. 615 00:28:38,853 --> 00:28:41,853 Speaker 2: But Trevor was a big scored Marris. 616 00:28:41,893 --> 00:28:42,093 Speaker 4: Sorry. 617 00:28:43,333 --> 00:28:43,893 Speaker 15: Yeah, so. 618 00:28:45,333 --> 00:28:47,373 Speaker 17: I'm interested in the fact that this is the hot 619 00:28:47,413 --> 00:28:48,213 Speaker 17: topic of the day. 620 00:28:48,453 --> 00:28:50,253 Speaker 4: What the Zeland does you think about? 621 00:28:50,853 --> 00:28:54,493 Speaker 16: I can support Trump and bag to your introduction. I'm 622 00:28:54,533 --> 00:28:57,613 Speaker 16: not sure who was talking about how good Milanie was 623 00:28:57,653 --> 00:28:59,973 Speaker 16: looking and much is and I don't know what the 624 00:29:00,013 --> 00:29:00,813 Speaker 16: point of that was. 625 00:29:01,653 --> 00:29:03,533 Speaker 2: Just because it was vaguely interesting. I'm a huge fan 626 00:29:03,693 --> 00:29:06,453 Speaker 2: of the Jim Carrey movie The Mask, and I thought 627 00:29:06,453 --> 00:29:08,253 Speaker 2: it was vaguely interesting that she was wearing a he 628 00:29:08,613 --> 00:29:10,933 Speaker 2: in a fashion that reminded me of The Mask. So 629 00:29:11,093 --> 00:29:12,613 Speaker 2: that's why I brought it up. I thought it was 630 00:29:12,813 --> 00:29:13,773 Speaker 2: funny and interesting. 631 00:29:14,533 --> 00:29:16,773 Speaker 16: Give us some more details about what she's doing and 632 00:29:16,813 --> 00:29:17,973 Speaker 16: how you thought she looked. 633 00:29:18,613 --> 00:29:20,373 Speaker 2: I can if you want. I thought she looked great. 634 00:29:20,453 --> 00:29:21,413 Speaker 3: It's a bit of entertainment. 635 00:29:21,653 --> 00:29:25,293 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know, she'd obviously she'd obviously spent she'd 636 00:29:25,333 --> 00:29:27,893 Speaker 2: obviously spend quite a time getting ready, Paul, and she 637 00:29:27,933 --> 00:29:33,173 Speaker 2: popped up on the screen because her hat look she 638 00:29:33,213 --> 00:29:35,453 Speaker 2: wore it like it looked like Jim Carrey in The Mask, 639 00:29:35,533 --> 00:29:36,453 Speaker 2: one of my favorite movies. 640 00:29:38,093 --> 00:29:38,333 Speaker 12: Point. 641 00:29:38,533 --> 00:29:41,093 Speaker 2: No, I don't. I don't get your point. I don't think. 642 00:29:41,173 --> 00:29:42,613 Speaker 2: I think we live in a world where you can 643 00:29:42,613 --> 00:29:44,693 Speaker 2: see something and comment on it and make a reference 644 00:29:44,733 --> 00:29:47,653 Speaker 2: between it and something else and it's not some huge 645 00:29:47,693 --> 00:29:54,813 Speaker 2: conspiracy you know women, Mate, dude, come on you, So 646 00:29:54,933 --> 00:29:57,213 Speaker 2: you're saying that people don't comment on Trump's here, They 647 00:29:57,253 --> 00:29:59,733 Speaker 2: don't say comment on what on Trump's weight or the 648 00:29:59,733 --> 00:30:02,373 Speaker 2: way he looks. Come on, people comment on what's in 649 00:30:02,373 --> 00:30:04,253 Speaker 2: front of them looks. 650 00:30:04,813 --> 00:30:05,013 Speaker 4: Well. 651 00:30:05,093 --> 00:30:08,213 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you can say. You can say I'm not 652 00:30:08,333 --> 00:30:09,733 Speaker 2: you're supposed to, but I'm gonna. 653 00:30:10,253 --> 00:30:11,573 Speaker 4: You guys raise the standards. 654 00:30:11,973 --> 00:30:12,733 Speaker 2: Nah, I don't. 655 00:30:12,973 --> 00:30:15,413 Speaker 3: But that's always happening. You know, there's always you look 656 00:30:15,453 --> 00:30:18,773 Speaker 3: at any talk show or satire show or comedy, there's 657 00:30:18,853 --> 00:30:21,773 Speaker 3: always a bit of fun being poked at various people. 658 00:30:22,813 --> 00:30:25,453 Speaker 2: You have to be a seriously, Paul, are you saying 659 00:30:25,453 --> 00:30:27,773 Speaker 2: that if you see someone walk out in an outfit 660 00:30:27,813 --> 00:30:31,013 Speaker 2: that looks slightly like the outfit from from the Mask? 661 00:30:34,253 --> 00:30:35,173 Speaker 18: You can think what you want. 662 00:30:35,333 --> 00:30:36,293 Speaker 4: You don't bize it. 663 00:30:36,413 --> 00:30:38,613 Speaker 2: Yeah, I do. I ver belize nearly everything. I think. 664 00:30:38,693 --> 00:30:39,413 Speaker 2: That's why I'm on the. 665 00:30:39,453 --> 00:30:41,893 Speaker 4: Radio in front of your daughters. 666 00:30:41,493 --> 00:30:44,853 Speaker 2: Say if my daughter came out and she was wearing 667 00:30:44,893 --> 00:30:46,853 Speaker 2: a hat, if I had a daughter and it looked 668 00:30:46,893 --> 00:30:49,973 Speaker 2: like Jim Carrey in the mask, I'd say, hey, you 669 00:30:49,973 --> 00:30:53,373 Speaker 2: look like Jim Carrey in the mask. That's what i'd say. 670 00:30:53,893 --> 00:30:56,613 Speaker 16: You know, I think you'd be very careful about anyway. 671 00:30:56,653 --> 00:30:57,333 Speaker 4: So that's my point. 672 00:30:57,733 --> 00:30:58,773 Speaker 3: Well, thank you a corporal. 673 00:30:59,493 --> 00:31:03,813 Speaker 16: The relevant topic today, Well. 674 00:31:03,693 --> 00:31:05,413 Speaker 2: It was relevant to do about anything. I mean, you 675 00:31:05,413 --> 00:31:07,733 Speaker 2: can always you can always have the argument that anything 676 00:31:07,773 --> 00:31:12,013 Speaker 2: anyone's talking about isn't relevant. It's very relevant, Paul, PAULA. 677 00:31:13,333 --> 00:31:16,773 Speaker 2: It's relevant to me because I found it interesting and 678 00:31:16,933 --> 00:31:18,733 Speaker 2: I thought it was an interesting topic to talk about, 679 00:31:18,733 --> 00:31:21,493 Speaker 2: and the fact that there's thousands of texts coming through 680 00:31:21,493 --> 00:31:23,973 Speaker 2: in full lines of callers that will go to so 681 00:31:24,093 --> 00:31:26,373 Speaker 2: you said, other people find it interesting, but if you don't, 682 00:31:26,413 --> 00:31:28,373 Speaker 2: then I appreciate that as well. So you have a 683 00:31:28,413 --> 00:31:30,853 Speaker 2: great day, Paul, Thanks for calling there. 684 00:31:30,893 --> 00:31:31,333 Speaker 4: Thanks Matte. 685 00:31:31,333 --> 00:31:33,893 Speaker 3: All right, Oh eight hundred and eight. 686 00:31:34,813 --> 00:31:36,333 Speaker 2: Look a lot like Jim Carrey and the mask. 687 00:31:37,693 --> 00:31:39,653 Speaker 3: Honestly, google it and you'll have a bit of a laugh. 688 00:31:39,693 --> 00:31:41,333 Speaker 3: And it doesn't need to be offensive to anybody. 689 00:31:41,413 --> 00:31:43,253 Speaker 2: And I'll tell you what she's got great check bunch. 690 00:31:43,293 --> 00:31:46,773 Speaker 3: She certainly does. Ninety two is the text number. It 691 00:31:46,893 --> 00:31:48,133 Speaker 3: is sixteen to two. 692 00:31:49,213 --> 00:31:51,293 Speaker 6: They have it all New Talk said. 693 00:31:51,173 --> 00:31:55,173 Speaker 3: Be good after noon, thirteen to two. Some great texts 694 00:31:55,173 --> 00:31:55,653 Speaker 3: going through me. 695 00:31:55,733 --> 00:31:58,573 Speaker 2: Yeah, we're talking about if Trump is more socially acceptable 696 00:31:59,373 --> 00:32:01,413 Speaker 2: now and if people are willing to say that they 697 00:32:01,453 --> 00:32:04,213 Speaker 2: support them at barbecues and such. Here's an interesting text 698 00:32:04,413 --> 00:32:06,933 Speaker 2: on nineteen nine two. Hey guys, I'm an American having 699 00:32:06,933 --> 00:32:08,813 Speaker 2: lived in New Zealand for the past seven years. I 700 00:32:08,893 --> 00:32:12,493 Speaker 2: hold conservative positions politically, and Trump was my hold your 701 00:32:12,533 --> 00:32:15,653 Speaker 2: nose and vote option in twenty sixteen and twenty twenty. 702 00:32:15,893 --> 00:32:17,933 Speaker 2: I found myself less put off by him in this 703 00:32:18,053 --> 00:32:21,213 Speaker 2: last election cycle and more excited he had won than 704 00:32:21,213 --> 00:32:24,173 Speaker 2: in twenty sixteen. He's far from my favorite person, but 705 00:32:24,213 --> 00:32:26,493 Speaker 2: I'm glad he won. And to hear your callers in 706 00:32:26,533 --> 00:32:30,053 Speaker 2: Texas speaking somewhat positive about him is something I never 707 00:32:30,093 --> 00:32:31,573 Speaker 2: thought i'd hear in New Zealand. 708 00:32:32,293 --> 00:32:33,933 Speaker 3: Great text, Great text. 709 00:32:34,213 --> 00:32:38,613 Speaker 2: Seriously, in twenty sixteen, the numbers of people talking positively 710 00:32:38,613 --> 00:32:40,573 Speaker 2: about Trump. This is just my point. Yeah, you know, 711 00:32:40,653 --> 00:32:43,093 Speaker 2: this is my point. I'm trying to make that basically, 712 00:32:43,173 --> 00:32:45,853 Speaker 2: it is more socially acceptable. So I'm asking the question, 713 00:32:45,893 --> 00:32:46,653 Speaker 2: but I know the answer. 714 00:32:48,293 --> 00:32:50,573 Speaker 3: Rich it you reckon, people are finally waking up. 715 00:32:51,933 --> 00:32:54,173 Speaker 12: Yeah, and in what way? 716 00:32:54,533 --> 00:32:55,093 Speaker 3: In what way? 717 00:32:55,893 --> 00:32:59,093 Speaker 12: Well, I think that the left wing media, particularly in 718 00:32:59,093 --> 00:33:03,813 Speaker 12: the US, is just so powerful and so many issues, 719 00:33:03,853 --> 00:33:07,733 Speaker 12: such a powerful lobby, and you know, pretty hard to 720 00:33:07,733 --> 00:33:11,853 Speaker 12: fight your a from underneath that lot, and it's coming through. 721 00:33:12,053 --> 00:33:14,973 Speaker 12: I mean most I'm in business, and I would say 722 00:33:15,093 --> 00:33:17,493 Speaker 12: ninety percent of the business people that I would call 723 00:33:18,093 --> 00:33:21,173 Speaker 12: relatively smart people that survive on there would say all 724 00:33:21,453 --> 00:33:24,373 Speaker 12: with Trump from right from the start. It's just a 725 00:33:24,413 --> 00:33:26,693 Speaker 12: lot of people who have ten minutes look at news, 726 00:33:26,733 --> 00:33:29,373 Speaker 12: they say, oh, this guy's a lunatic. They hear all 727 00:33:29,413 --> 00:33:32,613 Speaker 12: this stuff and they find one negative thing or whatever 728 00:33:32,733 --> 00:33:35,693 Speaker 12: and it just comes across. So he's been mate, I'll 729 00:33:35,693 --> 00:33:38,373 Speaker 12: tell you what what a leader. I mean to come 730 00:33:38,413 --> 00:33:41,933 Speaker 12: through all of that, I think he's amazing. I say, 731 00:33:42,053 --> 00:33:44,893 Speaker 12: I think he's a highly intelligent man. I'm not I'm 732 00:33:44,893 --> 00:33:47,613 Speaker 12: not going to comment on his morals. That's irrelevant. Everyone's 733 00:33:47,653 --> 00:33:52,093 Speaker 12: got morals. But he's a highly intelligent man. And I 734 00:33:52,213 --> 00:33:55,893 Speaker 12: mean to fight to come through the New York real 735 00:33:56,013 --> 00:33:59,173 Speaker 12: estate scene, all those years fighting with it, with ma 736 00:33:59,413 --> 00:34:03,053 Speaker 12: Fia with all sorts of Really, that's the hardest place 737 00:34:03,093 --> 00:34:05,333 Speaker 12: in the world to work, and he comes through it 738 00:34:05,373 --> 00:34:06,453 Speaker 12: all an amazing guy. 739 00:34:06,733 --> 00:34:10,373 Speaker 2: I'll tell you what, Richard, what you think of Trump's politics, 740 00:34:10,413 --> 00:34:12,413 Speaker 2: The fact that the amount of pressure that guy has 741 00:34:12,413 --> 00:34:14,773 Speaker 2: been under for the amount of time he has, with 742 00:34:15,133 --> 00:34:18,973 Speaker 2: the court cases and the and you know, the media 743 00:34:19,413 --> 00:34:22,853 Speaker 2: coming for him, and you know, being shot and such. 744 00:34:23,573 --> 00:34:26,093 Speaker 2: The guy there's something in the guy's system. I don't 745 00:34:26,133 --> 00:34:26,973 Speaker 2: know what fuels him. 746 00:34:27,053 --> 00:34:28,573 Speaker 3: He doesn't give up, does he? 747 00:34:29,093 --> 00:34:29,453 Speaker 4: The guy? 748 00:34:30,133 --> 00:34:32,373 Speaker 2: And that must have been frustrating for the Democrats because 749 00:34:32,373 --> 00:34:34,933 Speaker 2: they thought he was down and out, but he just 750 00:34:35,413 --> 00:34:37,533 Speaker 2: he just keeps coming like the terminator. He's just. 751 00:34:41,133 --> 00:34:43,293 Speaker 12: Then you can stand there and talk for various long 752 00:34:43,373 --> 00:34:46,333 Speaker 12: as you want to listen to him without already teleprompter. 753 00:34:46,493 --> 00:34:51,013 Speaker 12: He's he's so passionate. Joe's those other guys couldn't speak 754 00:34:51,053 --> 00:34:55,413 Speaker 12: without it, without without notes, I mean, different, different, different 755 00:34:55,493 --> 00:34:58,853 Speaker 12: cult quality of given being really as a politician. Anyway, 756 00:34:59,453 --> 00:35:01,613 Speaker 12: such a great day for America, a great day for 757 00:35:01,653 --> 00:35:02,053 Speaker 12: the world. 758 00:35:02,133 --> 00:35:04,133 Speaker 3: Good on your watchet, thanks for giving us a buzz. 759 00:35:04,253 --> 00:35:08,773 Speaker 3: Have a good afternoon, Nate. All right, Well, oh, one 760 00:35:08,853 --> 00:35:11,253 Speaker 3: hundred and eighteen eighty is the number of call. It 761 00:35:11,493 --> 00:35:13,813 Speaker 3: is ten to two beg very shortly. You're listening to 762 00:35:13,813 --> 00:35:15,653 Speaker 3: Mett and Tyler Good Afternoon. 763 00:35:17,173 --> 00:35:20,733 Speaker 1: Maddie's Tyler Adams taking your calls on oh, eight hundred 764 00:35:20,733 --> 00:35:23,373 Speaker 1: and eighty ten eighty Matt and Tyler Afternoon with the 765 00:35:23,493 --> 00:35:28,333 Speaker 1: Volvo XC ninety tick in every box, A seamless experience awaits. 766 00:35:28,013 --> 00:35:32,133 Speaker 3: News TALKSB, news TALKSZB. We're talking about Donald Trump. Is 767 00:35:32,173 --> 00:35:34,613 Speaker 3: at more socially acceptable to say you're a big supporter 768 00:35:34,653 --> 00:35:35,693 Speaker 3: of his Tony good. 769 00:35:35,493 --> 00:35:37,933 Speaker 19: Afternoon, Good afternoon. 770 00:35:38,013 --> 00:35:43,333 Speaker 20: I would say I'm ambivalent towards Trump to the bar 771 00:35:43,013 --> 00:35:48,053 Speaker 20: I was, I'm now fascinated and quite proud of his 772 00:35:48,173 --> 00:35:53,653 Speaker 20: achievements for him. I've been following American presidential elections since 773 00:35:53,813 --> 00:35:56,453 Speaker 20: John Kennedy when I was about I must have been 774 00:35:56,493 --> 00:36:00,053 Speaker 20: about eleven or twelve at the time. And you know, 775 00:36:00,173 --> 00:36:03,293 Speaker 20: they talk about Trump's morals, I'd say, this is the 776 00:36:03,533 --> 00:36:07,773 Speaker 20: lock up your daughter's wives and mistresses brigade because Kennedy 777 00:36:08,533 --> 00:36:12,813 Speaker 20: later Clinton and the Moles. I mean, what on earth 778 00:36:12,893 --> 00:36:17,933 Speaker 20: are the Democrats crowing about? I mean that no one's 779 00:36:17,973 --> 00:36:22,693 Speaker 20: been able to get a photo or of convincing evidence 780 00:36:23,293 --> 00:36:26,693 Speaker 20: that he was screwing it into Trump's been screwed into into. 781 00:36:26,533 --> 00:36:27,413 Speaker 4: The Oval office. 782 00:36:27,733 --> 00:36:29,053 Speaker 20: Am like Clinton. 783 00:36:31,573 --> 00:36:34,613 Speaker 4: Nor the Kennedy brothers. 784 00:36:34,653 --> 00:36:36,413 Speaker 20: All of them were as bad. They were doing the 785 00:36:36,493 --> 00:36:38,093 Speaker 20: rounds of the Hollywood ladies. 786 00:36:37,853 --> 00:36:41,732 Speaker 2: Root and I think I think that's why I wasn't 787 00:36:41,773 --> 00:36:45,573 Speaker 2: a very strong It has been an unsuccessful attack from 788 00:36:45,653 --> 00:36:50,253 Speaker 2: the Democrats. I saw Tim Kaine, who ran with Hillary 789 00:36:50,253 --> 00:36:55,413 Speaker 2: Clinton back in twenty sixteen, really having a go at 790 00:36:55,453 --> 00:37:00,732 Speaker 2: a congressional hearing about morals and and and you were going, well, 791 00:37:00,853 --> 00:37:03,413 Speaker 2: you didn't have that problem with Bill Clinton. 792 00:37:03,813 --> 00:37:09,053 Speaker 3: Yeah, tiny, thank you very much. All right, never, good afternoon. 793 00:37:09,333 --> 00:37:11,773 Speaker 3: A couple of good texts to wrap this one up. 794 00:37:11,933 --> 00:37:14,212 Speaker 2: Yeah, this text on nine two nine two. Trump could 795 00:37:14,253 --> 00:37:17,413 Speaker 2: never ever be socially acceptable to be brought up anywhere 796 00:37:17,413 --> 00:37:19,373 Speaker 2: on the building site. He would have been referred to 797 00:37:19,413 --> 00:37:22,333 Speaker 2: a sandwich sort of a picnic, says this text. And 798 00:37:22,373 --> 00:37:25,093 Speaker 2: on the other side, this texture on nine two nine 799 00:37:25,173 --> 00:37:29,733 Speaker 2: two suggests it's not socially acceptable to support Trump in business. 800 00:37:29,973 --> 00:37:32,573 Speaker 2: As an accountant, I strongly support my man Trump, my 801 00:37:32,693 --> 00:37:34,933 Speaker 2: man Trump, that is STROMP if he's your man, but 802 00:37:35,133 --> 00:37:37,733 Speaker 2: never openly shared for fear of losing clients and damaging 803 00:37:37,733 --> 00:37:39,732 Speaker 2: my business. Even today, a client was saying the world 804 00:37:39,813 --> 00:37:42,773 Speaker 2: is doomed due to Trump. I couldn't argue strongly as 805 00:37:42,773 --> 00:37:45,933 Speaker 2: I know they would. They would find another accountant. 806 00:37:45,973 --> 00:37:46,133 Speaker 4: Yeah. 807 00:37:46,173 --> 00:37:49,413 Speaker 2: I mean, you've got to choose in any political direction 808 00:37:49,453 --> 00:37:51,253 Speaker 2: you're on, You've got to choose when you're gonna when 809 00:37:51,293 --> 00:37:53,973 Speaker 2: you're going to fight your corner and maybe if they're 810 00:37:53,973 --> 00:37:55,773 Speaker 2: paying you to your account and that's not the time 811 00:37:55,933 --> 00:37:56,893 Speaker 2: to really lay into the. 812 00:37:57,493 --> 00:37:58,653 Speaker 3: Do you think that's going to carry on? 813 00:37:58,693 --> 00:37:58,813 Speaker 9: Though? 814 00:37:58,813 --> 00:38:00,253 Speaker 3: Because that's the world we are at the moment. It 815 00:38:00,293 --> 00:38:01,733 Speaker 3: never used to be like that. If you said you're 816 00:38:01,773 --> 00:38:04,652 Speaker 3: a Republican or a Democrat or labor or national wasn't 817 00:38:04,733 --> 00:38:06,733 Speaker 3: quite to that same extent and say, how dare you? 818 00:38:06,733 --> 00:38:08,533 Speaker 3: I'm not going to do business with you. But that's 819 00:38:08,533 --> 00:38:10,773 Speaker 3: where we're at at the moment. I'm hoping and as 820 00:38:10,773 --> 00:38:12,213 Speaker 3: we talked about in the air break, this is a 821 00:38:12,253 --> 00:38:14,693 Speaker 3: calmer Trump than we saw in twenty sixteen, because it 822 00:38:14,733 --> 00:38:16,933 Speaker 3: probably doesn't need to be the Trump who he was 823 00:38:16,933 --> 00:38:19,453 Speaker 3: when he started it, and he's way more knowledgeable. But 824 00:38:19,533 --> 00:38:22,053 Speaker 3: I generally, and maybe I'm being a bit Pollyanna here, 825 00:38:22,093 --> 00:38:25,493 Speaker 3: generally hoping that we get the tribal nature of politics 826 00:38:25,493 --> 00:38:27,212 Speaker 3: can just calm down a little bit. 827 00:38:27,293 --> 00:38:29,853 Speaker 2: Yeah, well you've got it. You've got to be aware, though, Tyler, 828 00:38:29,893 --> 00:38:33,333 Speaker 2: that that's not necessarily out everyone is thinking. It's how 829 00:38:33,413 --> 00:38:36,172 Speaker 2: social media makes it seem, and media and genera makes 830 00:38:36,213 --> 00:38:38,533 Speaker 2: it theme that people are just running around screaming and 831 00:38:38,813 --> 00:38:43,053 Speaker 2: angry to each other and incredibly politically partisan. But you know, 832 00:38:44,013 --> 00:38:46,173 Speaker 2: if I run into someone that doesn't agree with me politically, 833 00:38:46,213 --> 00:38:50,933 Speaker 2: I don't make screaming at them. I'll have a beer 834 00:38:50,933 --> 00:38:55,133 Speaker 2: with anyone. I don't think within reason, But you know 835 00:38:55,173 --> 00:38:57,812 Speaker 2: what I mean, I don't know. Sometimes sometimes I wonder 836 00:38:57,853 --> 00:39:01,853 Speaker 2: if we're as socially polarized as we're led to believe. 837 00:39:01,893 --> 00:39:03,293 Speaker 2: But you know, I could be wrong. Maybe I'm being 838 00:39:03,773 --> 00:39:06,653 Speaker 2: Pollyanna in that, right? Is that what that means a Pollyanna? 839 00:39:06,813 --> 00:39:09,773 Speaker 3: I think Pollyanna just means that what rainbows and candy? 840 00:39:09,813 --> 00:39:10,533 Speaker 3: Your look? Is that right? 841 00:39:10,773 --> 00:39:12,133 Speaker 2: I'm thinking of a Nancy Sue. 842 00:39:12,173 --> 00:39:20,893 Speaker 3: What's that anyway? Nancy Sue's and our Pollyanna's. After two o'clock, 843 00:39:20,893 --> 00:39:24,573 Speaker 3: we want to chat about looking at dating apps as 844 00:39:24,613 --> 00:39:27,373 Speaker 3: a husband or a partner or someone you've just started dating. 845 00:39:27,453 --> 00:39:30,573 Speaker 3: Is that effectively cheating great article in the Herald about 846 00:39:30,573 --> 00:39:32,893 Speaker 3: a wife who caught her husband doing just that. We'll 847 00:39:32,893 --> 00:39:38,613 Speaker 3: tell you more very shortly. Welcome back into the show 848 00:39:38,853 --> 00:39:41,373 Speaker 3: and great discussion last hour. But we are moving on 849 00:39:41,453 --> 00:39:44,413 Speaker 3: to another topic. We want to talk about an article 850 00:39:44,413 --> 00:39:47,453 Speaker 3: that was in the New Zealand Herald. It was written internationally, 851 00:39:47,453 --> 00:39:50,053 Speaker 3: but the headline is I caught my husband using a 852 00:39:50,133 --> 00:39:53,813 Speaker 3: dating app. He claimed it was harmless ego boost was 853 00:39:54,093 --> 00:39:56,533 Speaker 3: that cheating? So to give you a bit more about 854 00:39:56,533 --> 00:40:00,173 Speaker 3: this particular story, So the husband fell asleep using his 855 00:40:00,293 --> 00:40:04,733 Speaker 3: phone and the wife glanced at the glowing screen. She says, 856 00:40:05,173 --> 00:40:07,013 Speaker 3: I was surprised to see a close up of a 857 00:40:07,053 --> 00:40:09,732 Speaker 3: pretty woman's face, but I want to spy. I told 858 00:40:09,773 --> 00:40:11,653 Speaker 3: myself it was just an image from the article he 859 00:40:11,693 --> 00:40:13,973 Speaker 3: had been reading and turned the phone off. I was 860 00:40:14,093 --> 00:40:17,213 Speaker 3: so naive. We were married before dating apps were normalized 861 00:40:17,373 --> 00:40:21,133 Speaker 3: and I'd never used one. They live in a small 862 00:40:21,213 --> 00:40:24,053 Speaker 3: village in the Cotswolds. Beautiful place in the UK. Actually, 863 00:40:24,133 --> 00:40:25,533 Speaker 3: isn't that where Jimmy Clarkson lives? 864 00:40:25,573 --> 00:40:29,493 Speaker 2: Oh the cotswoldzy and there Oxford. I visited there last year. Yeah. 865 00:40:29,573 --> 00:40:32,093 Speaker 3: Well, she goes on to say, where everyone knows each other. 866 00:40:32,173 --> 00:40:33,853 Speaker 3: So when I saw an envelope lying on the mat 867 00:40:33,933 --> 00:40:36,533 Speaker 3: after Tim had gone to work, her husband, I assumed 868 00:40:36,533 --> 00:40:39,013 Speaker 3: it was some missive about a pub quiz, and when 869 00:40:39,053 --> 00:40:41,973 Speaker 3: I opened it I laughed in shock. It said Kate, 870 00:40:42,413 --> 00:40:44,773 Speaker 3: check tin day. Your husband is on there, and I 871 00:40:44,813 --> 00:40:48,413 Speaker 3: think you should know. Her first reaction, she said, is 872 00:40:48,453 --> 00:40:50,573 Speaker 3: that it was a stupid joke. Had one of the 873 00:40:50,613 --> 00:40:52,853 Speaker 3: kids thought it might be funny question mark, but none 874 00:40:52,853 --> 00:40:54,413 Speaker 3: of them would have done this. Part of me thought 875 00:40:54,453 --> 00:40:56,693 Speaker 3: I should phone to him or simply ignore it, but 876 00:40:56,733 --> 00:40:59,053 Speaker 3: I also knew if I warned him, he'd have time 877 00:40:59,093 --> 00:41:02,293 Speaker 3: to delete that account. So she went on to say 878 00:41:02,333 --> 00:41:04,933 Speaker 3: she confronted her husband Tim as he came home from work, 879 00:41:05,173 --> 00:41:09,533 Speaker 3: and he immediately admitted it. He had no choice to deny, deny, 880 00:41:09,853 --> 00:41:12,173 Speaker 3: I feel it. Wow, well his profile was still lumpy, 881 00:41:12,373 --> 00:41:14,933 Speaker 3: So don't deny. You know you admit that to him. 882 00:41:15,173 --> 00:41:17,213 Speaker 2: I just said a mate that always said deny, I deny. 883 00:41:17,253 --> 00:41:19,613 Speaker 2: That was his rule for everything. He denied. 884 00:41:19,813 --> 00:41:22,973 Speaker 3: I don't know what's easy to remember that. So the 885 00:41:23,093 --> 00:41:27,133 Speaker 3: husband came back and he said, after apologizing, he simply 886 00:41:27,173 --> 00:41:30,293 Speaker 3: said he'd been feeling on the scrap heap and it 887 00:41:30,333 --> 00:41:33,172 Speaker 3: had been away to make himself feel better, like when 888 00:41:33,213 --> 00:41:35,853 Speaker 3: you get your hair done. It's a little ego boost, 889 00:41:36,573 --> 00:41:38,213 Speaker 3: which is a hicck of a line from the husband, 890 00:41:38,253 --> 00:41:39,493 Speaker 3: like when you get your hair done. 891 00:41:39,733 --> 00:41:39,973 Speaker 6: Yeah. 892 00:41:40,093 --> 00:41:42,293 Speaker 2: I mean there's a couple of issues here. For a start, 893 00:41:42,813 --> 00:41:45,813 Speaker 2: he hasn't cheated on here, has he? No so, and 894 00:41:45,813 --> 00:41:49,093 Speaker 2: he hasn't organized any dates. So he's just looking at 895 00:41:49,133 --> 00:41:52,893 Speaker 2: other women and it's sad empathetic on his Behart. You've 896 00:41:52,893 --> 00:41:55,853 Speaker 2: got to say, but there's nothing. Sometimes we all have 897 00:41:55,933 --> 00:41:58,333 Speaker 2: times in our life where we're sad and pathetic. But 898 00:41:58,453 --> 00:42:00,693 Speaker 2: he just wanted someone to match with him so he 899 00:42:00,733 --> 00:42:03,333 Speaker 2: felt good. He wanted that buzz right, and it's probably 900 00:42:03,533 --> 00:42:07,253 Speaker 2: probably not healthy. No, but has he really done anything 901 00:42:07,333 --> 00:42:09,413 Speaker 2: wrong except for waste the time of the woman that 902 00:42:09,573 --> 00:42:10,373 Speaker 2: have matched with them. 903 00:42:10,413 --> 00:42:13,053 Speaker 3: I wouldn't call it cheating, it's dishonest. But is it 904 00:42:13,173 --> 00:42:17,293 Speaker 3: that much different to a guy buying a convertible in 905 00:42:17,333 --> 00:42:19,813 Speaker 3: his late fifties, for example, you know, going through a 906 00:42:19,813 --> 00:42:21,893 Speaker 3: bit of that crisis. He wants to buy a nice, 907 00:42:21,973 --> 00:42:23,692 Speaker 3: nice car. Why does he want to buy a nice 908 00:42:23,733 --> 00:42:25,172 Speaker 3: car to make good woman? 909 00:42:25,333 --> 00:42:25,573 Speaker 2: Yeah? 910 00:42:25,733 --> 00:42:28,133 Speaker 3: Arguably for a woman to look at him driving. 911 00:42:27,933 --> 00:42:30,133 Speaker 2: A bit of a woman actually impressed by Nice car. 912 00:42:30,213 --> 00:42:32,613 Speaker 3: Well, good question, nineteen ninety two. Let us know eight 913 00:42:32,693 --> 00:42:33,613 Speaker 3: hundred eighty ten eighty. 914 00:42:33,773 --> 00:42:36,933 Speaker 2: So, so your question is because because I would like 915 00:42:36,973 --> 00:42:40,212 Speaker 2: to know eight hundred and eighty ten eighty whether what 916 00:42:40,293 --> 00:42:43,253 Speaker 2: people think is cheating digitally in a relationship? 917 00:42:43,333 --> 00:42:43,493 Speaker 4: Right? 918 00:42:43,813 --> 00:42:48,053 Speaker 2: So, what about looking at just scrolling through Instagram looking 919 00:42:48,093 --> 00:42:52,253 Speaker 2: at pictures of a beautiful woman? Is that is that 920 00:42:52,413 --> 00:42:56,093 Speaker 2: considered morally wrong in a relationship? Should in a relationship 921 00:42:56,133 --> 00:42:58,613 Speaker 2: she'd only have eyes for the person that you're with, 922 00:42:58,893 --> 00:43:02,973 Speaker 2: because that seems like an incredibly high standard. And what 923 00:43:03,093 --> 00:43:05,933 Speaker 2: about appreciating the beauty of someone in a non creepy 924 00:43:05,973 --> 00:43:08,253 Speaker 2: way that's walking down the street towards you and they 925 00:43:08,413 --> 00:43:11,013 Speaker 2: just happened to be in your eyesight? I mean, is 926 00:43:11,013 --> 00:43:12,692 Speaker 2: that something that your partner should be annoyed at? 927 00:43:12,773 --> 00:43:16,413 Speaker 3: It's a great question. See with a dating app, I 928 00:43:16,493 --> 00:43:21,333 Speaker 3: think that is more egregious because you have to take 929 00:43:21,413 --> 00:43:24,413 Speaker 3: the effort to download a dating app. You probably know 930 00:43:24,493 --> 00:43:26,933 Speaker 3: as a husband or a partner, long term partner, that 931 00:43:26,933 --> 00:43:29,133 Speaker 3: that's the wrong thing to do, even if you just 932 00:43:29,173 --> 00:43:31,453 Speaker 3: want that we ego boost. Whereas if you're just going 933 00:43:31,453 --> 00:43:34,573 Speaker 3: through Instagram or TikTok, if it's still up at the moment. 934 00:43:35,133 --> 00:43:37,733 Speaker 3: Then it's the algorithm's fault. It's not your fault. If 935 00:43:37,773 --> 00:43:40,453 Speaker 3: they're serving you up pictures of nice looking ladies, that's 936 00:43:40,493 --> 00:43:41,213 Speaker 3: not your fault. 937 00:43:41,613 --> 00:43:43,133 Speaker 2: I reckon, it's sweet ass. I reckon. He should go 938 00:43:43,173 --> 00:43:44,652 Speaker 2: for his life and she should be cool with it, 939 00:43:44,693 --> 00:43:47,613 Speaker 2: because it's no different Like I play video games, but 940 00:43:47,653 --> 00:43:50,213 Speaker 2: I don't go and I don't go to war. But 941 00:43:50,293 --> 00:43:51,973 Speaker 2: if I suddenly got a gun and started running around 942 00:43:51,973 --> 00:43:55,053 Speaker 2: shooting people like I do in Fortnite, then that would 943 00:43:55,053 --> 00:43:57,373 Speaker 2: be a problem. But there's obviously some part of me 944 00:43:57,493 --> 00:43:59,413 Speaker 2: that wants to get that out of my system, so 945 00:43:59,493 --> 00:44:02,253 Speaker 2: I do it like that. So it seems and you know, 946 00:44:02,293 --> 00:44:05,093 Speaker 2: and I'm running around with other people, you know, like 947 00:44:05,213 --> 00:44:07,933 Speaker 2: strangers off and online if I'm playing a video game. 948 00:44:08,813 --> 00:44:12,973 Speaker 2: So what's the difference between that and he's just he's 949 00:44:13,373 --> 00:44:16,733 Speaker 2: just in a completely safe way, sitting on the couch 950 00:44:16,853 --> 00:44:19,533 Speaker 2: and he fell asleep. That was stupid of him with 951 00:44:20,293 --> 00:44:25,773 Speaker 2: his app open. He fell asleep, But it's a completely 952 00:44:25,973 --> 00:44:30,893 Speaker 2: So he's so he's having this slight dipping his toe 953 00:44:31,053 --> 00:44:34,333 Speaker 2: in the water of being part of that dating world 954 00:44:34,373 --> 00:44:36,733 Speaker 2: without actually hurting his partner. 955 00:44:36,853 --> 00:44:40,493 Speaker 3: Yeah, I actually think he's been genuine when he says 956 00:44:40,533 --> 00:44:42,853 Speaker 3: it's a wee ego boost. He's clearly going through a 957 00:44:42,893 --> 00:44:45,373 Speaker 3: bit of a sad time in his life for whatever reason. 958 00:44:45,413 --> 00:44:47,493 Speaker 3: And I'm not defending the guy through going through there. 959 00:44:47,533 --> 00:44:49,172 Speaker 3: That's probably not the way to deal with that. But 960 00:44:49,213 --> 00:44:51,733 Speaker 3: I think genuinely in this instance, he wanted that ego 961 00:44:51,733 --> 00:44:54,333 Speaker 3: boost that was like a midlife crisis moment for him, 962 00:44:54,573 --> 00:44:57,013 Speaker 3: rather than any attempt to cheat on his wife or 963 00:44:57,013 --> 00:44:57,732 Speaker 3: find something better. 964 00:44:58,373 --> 00:45:01,213 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think go for your life. I think 965 00:45:01,733 --> 00:45:03,613 Speaker 2: I'd like to hear one undred and eighty ten eighty. 966 00:45:03,613 --> 00:45:05,652 Speaker 2: I'd like to hear from from a woman in this 967 00:45:05,693 --> 00:45:09,533 Speaker 2: situation for some reason, or are a man either ruin 968 00:45:09,573 --> 00:45:14,333 Speaker 2: prox I just sapt entirely from my perspective, but how 969 00:45:14,333 --> 00:45:16,213 Speaker 2: they would feel if their husband was doing that or 970 00:45:16,213 --> 00:45:17,733 Speaker 2: their partner was doing that, that they found them on 971 00:45:17,773 --> 00:45:20,773 Speaker 2: a dating app but they weren't actually acting. I mean, 972 00:45:20,773 --> 00:45:23,493 Speaker 2: if they're on a dating app and they're out meeting people, 973 00:45:24,013 --> 00:45:28,252 Speaker 2: then of course that's not clearly that's a breaching. They're 974 00:45:28,333 --> 00:45:32,453 Speaker 2: running some kind of open relationship. And you know, God, 975 00:45:32,453 --> 00:45:34,252 Speaker 2: I've got thoughts on open relationships. I don't think they're 976 00:45:34,253 --> 00:45:34,692 Speaker 2: a real thing. 977 00:45:35,253 --> 00:45:37,253 Speaker 3: Well, if you're in our open relationship, I wait, under 978 00:45:37,253 --> 00:45:39,573 Speaker 3: an eighty ten eight love to chat with you? Genuinely, 979 00:45:39,813 --> 00:45:41,013 Speaker 3: I'd say that, well, can. 980 00:45:40,853 --> 00:45:42,853 Speaker 2: You be in a digital open relationship? So, I mean 981 00:45:42,853 --> 00:45:45,213 Speaker 2: that's the other thing. What about people, because there's lots 982 00:45:45,253 --> 00:45:46,893 Speaker 2: of back in the day, people just get addicted to 983 00:45:46,933 --> 00:45:49,533 Speaker 2: those nine hundred ads and then people will find a 984 00:45:49,533 --> 00:45:51,173 Speaker 2: bill and you found out that your husband had just 985 00:45:51,213 --> 00:45:55,053 Speaker 2: been ringing these and having this whole basic relationship with 986 00:45:55,133 --> 00:45:57,053 Speaker 2: some at the end of the line that they're paying 987 00:45:57,053 --> 00:45:59,173 Speaker 2: to talk to in a sexual manner. 988 00:45:59,213 --> 00:46:01,172 Speaker 3: Did you ever jump in those party lines? I never 989 00:46:01,253 --> 00:46:03,373 Speaker 3: understood those party lines? What do you do? Oh nine 990 00:46:03,453 --> 00:46:05,973 Speaker 3: hundred party line? And what was the party on the phone? 991 00:46:05,973 --> 00:46:09,053 Speaker 3: What did you do so that digital cheers? 992 00:46:08,773 --> 00:46:13,013 Speaker 2: You mean eight hundred join the party? That's won't find 993 00:46:13,013 --> 00:46:16,493 Speaker 2: that ad? I never actually I never understood those either, oh. 994 00:46:16,373 --> 00:46:18,973 Speaker 3: Eight one hundred eighty eight. So when it comes to 995 00:46:19,533 --> 00:46:21,773 Speaker 3: a long term partner or a husband or a wife 996 00:46:21,773 --> 00:46:24,493 Speaker 3: been on a dating app for some sort of ego boost? 997 00:46:24,773 --> 00:46:26,453 Speaker 3: Is that cheating? Love to hear from you? Nine two 998 00:46:26,533 --> 00:46:29,133 Speaker 3: ninety two is the text number. It is thirteen. 999 00:46:28,773 --> 00:46:34,573 Speaker 1: Past two your new home of afternoon talk. Matt and 1000 00:46:34,693 --> 00:46:38,653 Speaker 1: Taylor afternoons with the Volvo XC ninety turn every journey 1001 00:46:38,693 --> 00:46:39,893 Speaker 1: into something special. 1002 00:46:39,973 --> 00:46:42,973 Speaker 6: Call eight hundred eighty eight News Talk said, be. 1003 00:46:44,053 --> 00:46:47,213 Speaker 2: Matt, is it her fault for letting herself go and 1004 00:46:47,253 --> 00:46:49,853 Speaker 2: she needs to sharper, shape up, go to the gym, 1005 00:46:49,933 --> 00:46:53,293 Speaker 2: by sexy underwar, cooked dinner every night and pleasure him regularly. 1006 00:46:53,893 --> 00:46:55,733 Speaker 2: Say that is that what you're saying? Did you say that? 1007 00:46:56,013 --> 00:46:59,133 Speaker 2: But that's not what I'm saying. What I'm saying, I 1008 00:46:59,253 --> 00:47:01,693 Speaker 2: was saying that this guy who's gone on dating apps 1009 00:47:01,733 --> 00:47:04,333 Speaker 2: and this flicking through woman that he's not going to 1010 00:47:04,413 --> 00:47:06,812 Speaker 2: date is sad and I feel a little bit sorry 1011 00:47:06,853 --> 00:47:08,333 Speaker 2: for him. But I'm not sure if he's done anything 1012 00:47:08,453 --> 00:47:10,493 Speaker 2: wrong except for wasting the time of the poor woman 1013 00:47:10,493 --> 00:47:12,813 Speaker 2: that think they might be getting a match. And there's 1014 00:47:12,853 --> 00:47:14,652 Speaker 2: a little bit of dishonesty in there, but I don't 1015 00:47:14,653 --> 00:47:17,453 Speaker 2: think he's actually cheated on his partner. That's really the question. 1016 00:47:17,693 --> 00:47:19,693 Speaker 2: Does it count as cheating on a partner? 1017 00:47:19,733 --> 00:47:21,493 Speaker 3: And this is why it's a good discussion, because you 1018 00:47:21,533 --> 00:47:23,573 Speaker 3: made the analogy, and I think it's a fair analogy 1019 00:47:23,653 --> 00:47:26,133 Speaker 3: that going through the likes of Instagram and you are 1020 00:47:26,133 --> 00:47:28,933 Speaker 3: presented with scantily clad women or men on the other 1021 00:47:29,013 --> 00:47:31,692 Speaker 3: side of things, or you walk down the street and 1022 00:47:31,733 --> 00:47:33,493 Speaker 3: you have a wandering knife for someone that you think 1023 00:47:33,573 --> 00:47:35,333 Speaker 3: is kind of attractive, but you're not going to do 1024 00:47:35,373 --> 00:47:38,893 Speaker 3: anything somewhat akin to doing that, right it is? 1025 00:47:39,093 --> 00:47:42,773 Speaker 2: It is digital window and think I think it's somewhat 1026 00:47:42,813 --> 00:47:46,293 Speaker 2: akin to me playing call of duty. I'm not actually escapism, 1027 00:47:46,413 --> 00:47:49,053 Speaker 2: I'm not actually killing people. At some part of me 1028 00:47:49,093 --> 00:47:51,533 Speaker 2: wants to, hey, guys, you are so naive. The next 1029 00:47:51,533 --> 00:47:53,813 Speaker 2: part of the ego boosters meeting up. I know people 1030 00:47:53,813 --> 00:47:57,333 Speaker 2: in open relationships, and that's how it starts. That's a 1031 00:47:57,333 --> 00:47:59,172 Speaker 2: whole other topic. I said before. I don't believe there's 1032 00:47:59,173 --> 00:48:00,693 Speaker 2: anything thing is an open relationship. 1033 00:48:00,933 --> 00:48:02,853 Speaker 3: If you're in one, As I said before, give us 1034 00:48:02,893 --> 00:48:03,973 Speaker 3: a call proof wrong. 1035 00:48:04,093 --> 00:48:05,893 Speaker 2: I think that's just people that want someone else and 1036 00:48:06,653 --> 00:48:09,212 Speaker 2: they're on a stepping you know that they're taking leaving 1037 00:48:09,213 --> 00:48:10,853 Speaker 2: someone down easy. Anyway, let's not talk about that. 1038 00:48:11,293 --> 00:48:12,813 Speaker 3: Evelyn, how are you this afternoon? 1039 00:48:13,413 --> 00:48:13,853 Speaker 15: I'm good? 1040 00:48:13,853 --> 00:48:14,333 Speaker 5: How are you? 1041 00:48:14,533 --> 00:48:14,772 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1042 00:48:14,773 --> 00:48:15,053 Speaker 2: Good? 1043 00:48:15,133 --> 00:48:17,853 Speaker 3: What's your take on what this particular husband has done. 1044 00:48:18,493 --> 00:48:22,133 Speaker 5: I'd be just interested to know if the husband is 1045 00:48:22,173 --> 00:48:25,252 Speaker 5: an agreement with so his wife doing the scene. 1046 00:48:25,613 --> 00:48:26,692 Speaker 2: Oh, that's a very good point. 1047 00:48:26,773 --> 00:48:26,973 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1048 00:48:27,013 --> 00:48:32,053 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a very very good point because because. 1049 00:48:32,293 --> 00:48:34,573 Speaker 3: Of the wife who wrote this article was doing the 1050 00:48:34,613 --> 00:48:37,253 Speaker 3: same thing for an ego boost, would Tim feel that 1051 00:48:37,453 --> 00:48:41,293 Speaker 3: comfortable with it? You have to argue, No, he probably 1052 00:48:41,293 --> 00:48:41,693 Speaker 3: wouldn't be. 1053 00:48:41,773 --> 00:48:43,533 Speaker 2: And that's interesting to bring that up because in my 1054 00:48:43,893 --> 00:48:46,692 Speaker 2: going through the scenario in my head, I have only 1055 00:48:46,693 --> 00:48:49,453 Speaker 2: put it from my point of view, and I was like, oh, 1056 00:48:49,453 --> 00:48:51,333 Speaker 2: it's all right, I didn't mean any harm. Yeah, but 1057 00:48:51,413 --> 00:48:53,893 Speaker 2: I think I'd feel very differently if I was on 1058 00:48:53,933 --> 00:48:56,373 Speaker 2: the other side of it. But I'd definitely asking. 1059 00:48:57,573 --> 00:48:59,813 Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you, thank you, Evelyn. Look it is I mean, 1060 00:48:59,933 --> 00:49:02,093 Speaker 3: it's a gutsy move to go on something like Tinder 1061 00:49:02,093 --> 00:49:05,253 Speaker 3: as a husband because, as what happened in this instance, 1062 00:49:05,293 --> 00:49:08,293 Speaker 3: they're in a small community, and when you put your 1063 00:49:08,413 --> 00:49:11,173 Speaker 3: photo on a digital platform where other members of the 1064 00:49:11,213 --> 00:49:14,373 Speaker 3: community are going through trying to find a partner or 1065 00:49:14,413 --> 00:49:17,853 Speaker 3: a lover, clearly you kind of get found out, is 1066 00:49:17,893 --> 00:49:19,853 Speaker 3: what happened in this scenario. So a bit of a 1067 00:49:19,853 --> 00:49:20,453 Speaker 3: cry for help. 1068 00:49:20,573 --> 00:49:22,333 Speaker 2: Yeah, brought at this text here, Matt and Tyler. It 1069 00:49:22,333 --> 00:49:24,413 Speaker 2: doesn't matter where you get your appetite, as long as 1070 00:49:24,453 --> 00:49:25,613 Speaker 2: you go home to eat. 1071 00:49:28,413 --> 00:49:32,493 Speaker 3: A hell of a philosophy, some great techs coming through 1072 00:49:32,573 --> 00:49:35,693 Speaker 3: on nine two nine two. Going on Tinder when you 1073 00:49:35,773 --> 00:49:39,213 Speaker 3: were married or in a relationship is absolutely cheating, one 1074 00:49:39,293 --> 00:49:42,373 Speaker 3: hundred percent. He has been disloyal and opening himself up 1075 00:49:42,493 --> 00:49:45,652 Speaker 3: to more. He's also playing a game with genuine people 1076 00:49:45,693 --> 00:49:49,533 Speaker 3: wanting a relationship, so he's a player either way. From Sandra, Yeah. 1077 00:49:49,373 --> 00:49:51,933 Speaker 2: I agree with that from Sandra, that he's that he's missing. 1078 00:49:52,053 --> 00:49:56,013 Speaker 2: He's at least very basically being dishonest and missing with 1079 00:49:56,373 --> 00:49:58,653 Speaker 2: the woman. But I'm just not sure if he's cheating 1080 00:49:58,693 --> 00:49:59,333 Speaker 2: on his partner. 1081 00:49:59,413 --> 00:50:02,293 Speaker 3: Yeah, Josh, how are you this afternoon? 1082 00:50:02,973 --> 00:50:03,172 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1083 00:50:03,213 --> 00:50:05,053 Speaker 17: Hey boys, Hey, goody arms again? 1084 00:50:05,493 --> 00:50:05,933 Speaker 4: Jeez? 1085 00:50:06,973 --> 00:50:11,333 Speaker 17: You know guy, Yeah, he's caught red hands man, Like, 1086 00:50:11,413 --> 00:50:15,172 Speaker 17: there's no way, there's no way he wouldn't follow through 1087 00:50:15,293 --> 00:50:20,173 Speaker 17: if he got some good connections there. And who's to 1088 00:50:20,213 --> 00:50:22,133 Speaker 17: say if he's got per app whether or not he's 1089 00:50:22,173 --> 00:50:23,333 Speaker 17: been chatting to some. 1090 00:50:23,293 --> 00:50:24,013 Speaker 4: Of these birds. 1091 00:50:25,853 --> 00:50:29,373 Speaker 17: Yeah, I think he's Yeah, he's busted. Man. You know, 1092 00:50:29,533 --> 00:50:31,692 Speaker 17: you know what he should He should either love his 1093 00:50:31,733 --> 00:50:36,453 Speaker 17: wife to the full extent possible or if he's had enough, 1094 00:50:36,653 --> 00:50:40,413 Speaker 17: get out, but don't stand in the in between acting 1095 00:50:40,533 --> 00:50:45,333 Speaker 17: like or wouldn't How old was he anyways, you guys know, Yeah. 1096 00:50:45,133 --> 00:50:45,853 Speaker 2: That's a good question. 1097 00:50:46,653 --> 00:50:49,652 Speaker 3: Well she was fifty three, so you're assume and I'm 1098 00:50:49,653 --> 00:50:50,733 Speaker 3: making big assumptions you. 1099 00:50:51,413 --> 00:50:52,733 Speaker 17: Yeah, so I'm going to say. 1100 00:50:52,893 --> 00:50:53,413 Speaker 4: I'm going to. 1101 00:50:53,373 --> 00:50:57,053 Speaker 17: Say that if he's mid fifties, if any hot chick 1102 00:50:57,173 --> 00:51:01,613 Speaker 17: between ages of twenty eight and god knows contacted him, 1103 00:51:01,733 --> 00:51:04,893 Speaker 17: there's no way he wouldn't chat and follow it up. 1104 00:51:05,013 --> 00:51:09,253 Speaker 17: There no way, Like, so yeah, she I know what 1105 00:51:09,293 --> 00:51:10,133 Speaker 17: this woman should do. 1106 00:51:10,213 --> 00:51:14,453 Speaker 2: But yeah, no, Josh, you have you have you ever 1107 00:51:14,493 --> 00:51:15,853 Speaker 2: had a wondering eye at all? 1108 00:51:15,973 --> 00:51:16,573 Speaker 11: You know? 1109 00:51:16,773 --> 00:51:16,973 Speaker 5: Oh? 1110 00:51:17,093 --> 00:51:17,613 Speaker 4: Yeah, mate? 1111 00:51:17,693 --> 00:51:22,333 Speaker 17: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm actually successfully and what do you 1112 00:51:22,413 --> 00:51:26,172 Speaker 17: call it? I'm single at the moment, surprised. 1113 00:51:25,773 --> 00:51:28,053 Speaker 2: All right, well yeah for your life on the appsente. 1114 00:51:28,813 --> 00:51:30,853 Speaker 17: But I'll tell you what, Yeah, no wondering why it's 1115 00:51:30,853 --> 00:51:34,893 Speaker 17: the problem for me because like I just I don't know, 1116 00:51:35,133 --> 00:51:36,933 Speaker 17: I got no fricking self control. 1117 00:51:37,013 --> 00:51:37,293 Speaker 4: Really. 1118 00:51:37,613 --> 00:51:39,533 Speaker 17: I think as you get older you get a bit 1119 00:51:39,613 --> 00:51:40,293 Speaker 17: smarter with it. 1120 00:51:40,373 --> 00:51:46,013 Speaker 2: But yeah, I can tell you for sure, dwindle as well. 1121 00:51:46,093 --> 00:51:49,893 Speaker 17: I could tell you for sure that year and I 1122 00:51:49,973 --> 00:51:53,133 Speaker 17: got a couple of you know, love taps, like hey, 1123 00:51:53,173 --> 00:51:53,933 Speaker 17: what are you looking at? 1124 00:51:54,173 --> 00:51:54,453 Speaker 4: Crack? 1125 00:51:55,933 --> 00:51:56,853 Speaker 21: Stop looking at that? 1126 00:51:57,533 --> 00:51:59,853 Speaker 17: I'm like ship man, she's having a shower on a 1127 00:51:59,973 --> 00:52:03,773 Speaker 17: bikini at the beach and you're just trying not to 1128 00:52:04,613 --> 00:52:05,692 Speaker 17: you know, look at it. 1129 00:52:05,933 --> 00:52:09,733 Speaker 2: Hey you're single, Josh. You say you're single at the moment. 1130 00:52:09,773 --> 00:52:09,933 Speaker 3: Are you? 1131 00:52:10,053 --> 00:52:12,493 Speaker 2: Are you looking for love? And if you are, are 1132 00:52:12,493 --> 00:52:13,613 Speaker 2: you doing it on the apps? 1133 00:52:15,213 --> 00:52:19,853 Speaker 17: I'm not looking for love. No, I'm Jacob open. I'm 1134 00:52:19,933 --> 00:52:22,133 Speaker 17: open to the idea. But hey, look I'm not going 1135 00:52:22,213 --> 00:52:25,813 Speaker 17: to stress about it. I'm actually just having fun. And 1136 00:52:25,813 --> 00:52:28,333 Speaker 17: and you know, twenty years ago I decided I wasn't 1137 00:52:28,333 --> 00:52:30,333 Speaker 17: going to get married, and then I got sort of 1138 00:52:30,373 --> 00:52:34,493 Speaker 17: cond into it. So I'm like saying that, I don't know. 1139 00:52:34,693 --> 00:52:37,573 Speaker 17: Would I be open to long term stuff again? 1140 00:52:37,733 --> 00:52:38,133 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1141 00:52:38,213 --> 00:52:40,893 Speaker 17: Maybe, but she'd have to be gold. 1142 00:52:41,373 --> 00:52:43,253 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know she's got to. 1143 00:52:43,573 --> 00:52:46,653 Speaker 17: There's too many boxes. It's like, do you like sports? 1144 00:52:46,853 --> 00:52:47,173 Speaker 10: Yes? 1145 00:52:47,333 --> 00:52:47,573 Speaker 21: No? 1146 00:52:48,293 --> 00:52:50,453 Speaker 17: Do you mind if I watch four games a league 1147 00:52:50,493 --> 00:52:51,133 Speaker 17: every weekend? 1148 00:52:51,253 --> 00:52:51,453 Speaker 8: Yes? 1149 00:52:52,533 --> 00:52:55,333 Speaker 17: Do you mind if I watch the see for six 1150 00:52:55,413 --> 00:52:56,893 Speaker 17: hours every odd Sunday? 1151 00:52:58,293 --> 00:52:58,973 Speaker 2: A perfect woman? 1152 00:52:59,653 --> 00:53:01,213 Speaker 17: Oh Jesus, tough. 1153 00:53:01,773 --> 00:53:02,413 Speaker 4: Good luck, guys. 1154 00:53:02,453 --> 00:53:05,413 Speaker 17: I reckon this guy's he's caught red handed. There's no 1155 00:53:05,493 --> 00:53:07,013 Speaker 17: way you wouldn't have followed through. 1156 00:53:07,933 --> 00:53:10,333 Speaker 2: Nowhere shares for you? Cool, Josh, Thank you so much. 1157 00:53:10,493 --> 00:53:12,373 Speaker 2: Do you know what I think is the saddest thing 1158 00:53:12,493 --> 00:53:14,533 Speaker 2: in relationships. And I've seen this with people that I've 1159 00:53:14,653 --> 00:53:17,652 Speaker 2: known the whole time they're in a relationship. They think 1160 00:53:17,693 --> 00:53:19,533 Speaker 2: that they're missing out a whole lot of people. They 1161 00:53:19,573 --> 00:53:22,093 Speaker 2: have this fantasy idea of all the people they're missing 1162 00:53:22,093 --> 00:53:25,093 Speaker 2: out of, and so they don't, you know, they almost 1163 00:53:25,173 --> 00:53:27,373 Speaker 2: resent their partner because there's all these people out there 1164 00:53:27,373 --> 00:53:28,813 Speaker 2: that they see and they think they can be with 1165 00:53:28,853 --> 00:53:30,853 Speaker 2: all of them. And then they break up with their 1166 00:53:30,893 --> 00:53:33,373 Speaker 2: partner and they get single and they realize, actually, that 1167 00:53:33,493 --> 00:53:36,493 Speaker 2: was the only person that wanted you make exactly that 1168 00:53:37,173 --> 00:53:40,013 Speaker 2: that was your imagination that this person was competing with. 1169 00:53:40,093 --> 00:53:42,293 Speaker 3: I've seen it happened so many times, oh eight, one 1170 00:53:42,333 --> 00:53:45,653 Speaker 3: hundred eighty, ten eighty. In this particular scenario of the 1171 00:53:45,773 --> 00:53:48,893 Speaker 3: husband on the date dating app, he wasn't doing anything 1172 00:53:49,013 --> 00:53:50,573 Speaker 3: more than just getting an ego boost. 1173 00:53:50,573 --> 00:53:50,933 Speaker 4: He shairs. 1174 00:53:51,413 --> 00:53:52,493 Speaker 3: Is that cheating this? 1175 00:53:52,613 --> 00:53:54,493 Speaker 2: Texas says that man may be on a diet, but 1176 00:53:54,533 --> 00:53:55,493 Speaker 2: he was looking at the menu. 1177 00:53:57,253 --> 00:53:59,613 Speaker 3: Niney two is the text number. It's twenty four plus 1178 00:53:59,613 --> 00:54:01,772 Speaker 3: too like to share with us? 1179 00:54:02,893 --> 00:54:04,813 Speaker 5: I do I have. 1180 00:54:05,533 --> 00:54:08,973 Speaker 22: I had a husband and we met on a dating 1181 00:54:09,293 --> 00:54:12,573 Speaker 22: site and I found out a couple of weeks into 1182 00:54:12,613 --> 00:54:14,573 Speaker 22: our marriage that he still had an account to be 1183 00:54:14,733 --> 00:54:19,172 Speaker 22: claims for the whole I was just feeling sad and disconnected, 1184 00:54:19,253 --> 00:54:21,373 Speaker 22: so I was just doing it for a bit of attention. 1185 00:54:23,533 --> 00:54:27,652 Speaker 22: I just think he had multiple families. I didn't stick 1186 00:54:27,693 --> 00:54:29,493 Speaker 22: around long enough to find out that he was one 1187 00:54:29,573 --> 00:54:34,053 Speaker 22: hundred percent there, But I didn't necessarily call it part 1188 00:54:34,093 --> 00:54:35,853 Speaker 22: of the story. How you can hear a crying baby 1189 00:54:35,893 --> 00:54:39,293 Speaker 22: in the background. It's the product of a very short marriage. 1190 00:54:40,013 --> 00:54:44,813 Speaker 22: But yeah, I think a lot of people focused on how, 1191 00:54:44,933 --> 00:54:48,212 Speaker 22: you know, you could easily feel empathy for someone who 1192 00:54:48,373 --> 00:54:50,813 Speaker 22: feels like they've got to be unmit needs like I 1193 00:54:50,893 --> 00:54:52,772 Speaker 22: need a little bit of a burst or a little 1194 00:54:52,773 --> 00:54:54,813 Speaker 22: bit of attention, and kind of relate to that, and so, 1195 00:54:54,973 --> 00:54:58,253 Speaker 22: you know what, We've all felt like that sometimes. But 1196 00:54:58,333 --> 00:55:01,293 Speaker 22: it's actually about what you satisfied. It's not necessarily what 1197 00:55:01,373 --> 00:55:03,853 Speaker 22: you expect from each other, but what you use what 1198 00:55:03,893 --> 00:55:06,172 Speaker 22: you don't do as well. You expect from the other 1199 00:55:06,213 --> 00:55:09,613 Speaker 22: person that they will make the sacrific, but when they 1200 00:55:09,613 --> 00:55:12,533 Speaker 22: have urges and temptations that they avoid them. 1201 00:55:13,053 --> 00:55:14,813 Speaker 2: So fear. When you found out that he was on 1202 00:55:14,933 --> 00:55:17,573 Speaker 2: the app, so you met on an app, and when 1203 00:55:17,573 --> 00:55:20,732 Speaker 2: you found out he was on the app? How much 1204 00:55:20,733 --> 00:55:22,013 Speaker 2: longer did the relationship last? 1205 00:55:24,213 --> 00:55:25,373 Speaker 15: He said, the whole. 1206 00:55:27,973 --> 00:55:30,133 Speaker 22: Kind of say do it again. But a lot of 1207 00:55:30,173 --> 00:55:33,253 Speaker 22: other very more serious problems came up almost immediately. 1208 00:55:33,373 --> 00:55:35,373 Speaker 6: So yeah, one for you. 1209 00:55:35,533 --> 00:55:38,013 Speaker 3: We're loving this chat. But do you want to look 1210 00:55:38,053 --> 00:55:42,973 Speaker 3: after your beautiful bub in the background here? And we 1211 00:55:43,413 --> 00:55:45,213 Speaker 3: might Yeah, you're a good mum. We might try and 1212 00:55:45,213 --> 00:55:46,893 Speaker 3: come back to you after the headlines. Does it sound 1213 00:55:46,893 --> 00:55:47,172 Speaker 3: all right? 1214 00:55:47,533 --> 00:55:49,533 Speaker 2: We've all been sure? Okay, we've all been there. 1215 00:55:49,653 --> 00:55:53,493 Speaker 3: Yep, thank you very much. I had one hundred eighty 1216 00:55:53,573 --> 00:55:55,692 Speaker 3: ten eighty. Hopefully we'll go back to thea after she's 1217 00:55:55,733 --> 00:55:59,133 Speaker 3: looked after a beautiful bub there, headlines coming up. Text 1218 00:55:59,173 --> 00:56:00,693 Speaker 3: of you are the text number if you want to 1219 00:56:00,693 --> 00:56:03,652 Speaker 3: send through a Texas nine to ninety two, quick one 1220 00:56:03,693 --> 00:56:06,293 Speaker 3: to the headline. Guys, you were so naive. The next 1221 00:56:06,293 --> 00:56:08,013 Speaker 3: part of the ego Boosters meeting up. 1222 00:56:08,133 --> 00:56:10,013 Speaker 2: I already read that text Tyler. Oh that's right. 1223 00:56:10,013 --> 00:56:12,613 Speaker 3: It's about the open relationships again, and maybe you're right. 1224 00:56:12,853 --> 00:56:14,893 Speaker 3: No one in an open relationship is called through a 1225 00:56:14,933 --> 00:56:17,133 Speaker 3: text through If you are in an open relationship, this 1226 00:56:17,293 --> 00:56:19,133 Speaker 3: is a safe space. I want to hear from you, 1227 00:56:19,173 --> 00:56:21,533 Speaker 3: and I want to prove Matt wrong that there are 1228 00:56:21,693 --> 00:56:24,253 Speaker 3: genuine open relationships in New Zealand and this world. 1229 00:56:24,333 --> 00:56:26,053 Speaker 2: Well, this text says sounds like you two are looking 1230 00:56:26,053 --> 00:56:28,733 Speaker 2: for approval to cheat on your partners, seeking out different 1231 00:56:28,853 --> 00:56:30,773 Speaker 2: random meetings. That's a huge accusation. 1232 00:56:31,653 --> 00:56:35,653 Speaker 3: That's a accusation. Is twenty nine past two headlines coming. 1233 00:56:35,533 --> 00:56:41,973 Speaker 13: Up Jew's talk said be headlines with blue bubble taxis. 1234 00:56:42,013 --> 00:56:44,812 Speaker 13: It's no trouble with the blue bubble. The new US 1235 00:56:44,933 --> 00:56:49,373 Speaker 13: president has been signing pardons for convicted capital rioters and 1236 00:56:49,453 --> 00:56:53,373 Speaker 13: has already revoked seventy eight of Joe Biden's presidential actions. 1237 00:56:53,853 --> 00:56:57,893 Speaker 13: Donald Trump's other early actions include leaving the Paris Climate Accords, 1238 00:56:58,373 --> 00:57:02,253 Speaker 13: freezing federal hiring, and directing all branches of government to 1239 00:57:02,333 --> 00:57:06,253 Speaker 13: address the cost of living crisis. The town of Russell 1240 00:57:06,453 --> 00:57:10,213 Speaker 13: has lost part of each hundred and fifty properties. Wild 1241 00:57:10,293 --> 00:57:12,813 Speaker 13: weathers battering the North Island and will be worse in 1242 00:57:12,933 --> 00:57:17,373 Speaker 13: Auckland at Russia between three and six pm. Power outages 1243 00:57:17,413 --> 00:57:21,013 Speaker 13: across Northland and Coromandel are being progressively fixed, but whether 1244 00:57:21,093 --> 00:57:25,173 Speaker 13: watchers and warnings apply today for Corimandel, Northland, Auckland and Gisbon. 1245 00:57:26,173 --> 00:57:29,693 Speaker 13: The Prime Minister says in his new portfolios Minister Shane 1246 00:57:29,733 --> 00:57:33,133 Speaker 13: that Ettie will look into government funding for science, technology 1247 00:57:33,173 --> 00:57:37,733 Speaker 13: and innovation with an eye to making money. Wellington's homegrown 1248 00:57:37,813 --> 00:57:41,373 Speaker 13: festival director is very grateful to the City Council, but 1249 00:57:41,453 --> 00:57:43,893 Speaker 13: the event will quit the Capitol next year to find 1250 00:57:43,973 --> 00:57:47,853 Speaker 13: a more expansive site. What will Chris Luxon say in 1251 00:57:47,893 --> 00:57:50,813 Speaker 13: his State of the Nation's speech this week? You can 1252 00:57:50,853 --> 00:57:53,773 Speaker 13: see Simon Wilson's full column at end said Herald Premium. 1253 00:57:54,013 --> 00:57:55,893 Speaker 13: Now back to Matt Heath and Tyler Adams. 1254 00:57:56,133 --> 00:57:58,253 Speaker 3: Thank you very much, Raylean. We are talking about an 1255 00:57:58,333 --> 00:58:00,373 Speaker 3: article in the Herald today and the headline as I 1256 00:58:00,413 --> 00:58:02,613 Speaker 3: caught my husband using a dating nappy claimed it was 1257 00:58:02,653 --> 00:58:06,733 Speaker 3: a harmless ego boost. Was that cheating? Certainly a lot 1258 00:58:06,733 --> 00:58:09,293 Speaker 3: of tias coming through on nine two nine too. I'd 1259 00:58:09,333 --> 00:58:12,813 Speaker 3: say seventy percent would say it absolutely is cheating. 1260 00:58:12,853 --> 00:58:16,373 Speaker 2: Met definitely cheating. If you're doing something you wouldn't discuss 1261 00:58:16,453 --> 00:58:18,493 Speaker 2: or tell your partner about, or you're doing it behind 1262 00:58:18,533 --> 00:58:23,373 Speaker 2: the back, it is cheating, pure and simple. Okay, someone 1263 00:58:23,493 --> 00:58:27,013 Speaker 2: our says or blah blah blah blah. Oh hey fellers. 1264 00:58:27,133 --> 00:58:30,093 Speaker 2: To make it more controversial, read the Bible Matthew five 1265 00:58:30,213 --> 00:58:34,453 Speaker 2: twenty eight. Is that the one anyone who locks at 1266 00:58:34,493 --> 00:58:38,893 Speaker 2: a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with the And 1267 00:58:38,933 --> 00:58:40,533 Speaker 2: as hard as that that one, I think, Yeah, that 1268 00:58:40,613 --> 00:58:41,133 Speaker 2: rings a bell. 1269 00:58:41,173 --> 00:58:42,573 Speaker 3: You're well done on your Bible. 1270 00:58:42,653 --> 00:58:44,373 Speaker 2: So that's that's a tough one, though, isn't it? So 1271 00:58:44,493 --> 00:58:47,453 Speaker 2: anyone that looks at a woman lustfully. But what if 1272 00:58:47,453 --> 00:58:50,453 Speaker 2: it's not your fault? You can you can just be 1273 00:58:50,573 --> 00:58:56,453 Speaker 2: walking walking along and suddenly before your prefrontal cortex is 1274 00:58:56,493 --> 00:58:59,373 Speaker 2: even kicked in, you're the reptilian part of your brain. 1275 00:58:59,453 --> 00:59:02,933 Speaker 2: You're a migdala has already looked at someone lustfully for you. 1276 00:59:03,093 --> 00:59:04,653 Speaker 3: Doesn't make any difference, so fast. 1277 00:59:04,653 --> 00:59:06,453 Speaker 2: It's what you do with that. It's what you do 1278 00:59:06,533 --> 00:59:09,453 Speaker 2: with those primal instincts. That is what morality is. 1279 00:59:09,533 --> 00:59:09,693 Speaker 9: Right. 1280 00:59:09,973 --> 00:59:13,773 Speaker 3: But say famous actors, you know, Magic Mike for example, 1281 00:59:13,893 --> 00:59:18,813 Speaker 3: very famous movie, very successful Movieatum getting his kid off. 1282 00:59:19,013 --> 00:59:21,373 Speaker 3: The ladies loved it. Is that because that's a make 1283 00:59:21,413 --> 00:59:23,693 Speaker 3: believe character. And if you're a guy to do that with, 1284 00:59:24,053 --> 00:59:28,053 Speaker 3: say Jennifer Lawrence for example, that they's somewhat more okay 1285 00:59:28,133 --> 00:59:30,813 Speaker 3: for doing that because it's kind of make believe. Whereas 1286 00:59:31,013 --> 00:59:33,733 Speaker 3: in this scenario, the dating app, it's real life. 1287 00:59:33,813 --> 00:59:37,053 Speaker 2: Well they're real people, right, yeah, but yeah, I mean 1288 00:59:37,093 --> 00:59:40,853 Speaker 2: the Bible wasn't you know when Matthew was writing that, 1289 00:59:40,933 --> 00:59:44,613 Speaker 2: but he hadn't seen magic, Mike, no Aton for that matter. 1290 00:59:45,693 --> 00:59:48,053 Speaker 2: The only entertainment was the people walking around. 1291 00:59:49,253 --> 00:59:52,653 Speaker 3: Eighty and eighty is the number to call. GeTe Todd, 1292 00:59:53,253 --> 00:59:54,693 Speaker 3: go God. What's your take on this? 1293 00:59:56,733 --> 01:00:00,253 Speaker 11: Honestly, I think most men are basically as faithful as 1294 01:00:00,333 --> 01:00:05,773 Speaker 11: options they have. Yeah, right, So I think when you're 1295 01:00:05,773 --> 01:00:09,653 Speaker 11: getting married, it's all love and all good, and then 1296 01:00:09,773 --> 01:00:12,213 Speaker 11: typically men we're all away from our wives and then 1297 01:00:12,213 --> 01:00:14,573 Speaker 11: it just takes that one decision to go, well, I 1298 01:00:14,733 --> 01:00:17,133 Speaker 11: just I just download the app, I'll just have a look, 1299 01:00:17,253 --> 01:00:20,693 Speaker 11: you know, and it's one decision that's starting the slippery slope. 1300 01:00:21,133 --> 01:00:23,693 Speaker 11: And then that just looking turned into one match, and 1301 01:00:23,693 --> 01:00:26,813 Speaker 11: then it's oh, well, maybe just one conversation, and then 1302 01:00:26,853 --> 01:00:34,493 Speaker 11: it's just one even meaningful conversation. Yeah, and then it's 1303 01:00:34,853 --> 01:00:37,653 Speaker 11: I think it's all cheating rights from that first decision, 1304 01:00:37,693 --> 01:00:41,893 Speaker 11: you know, I think making the decision to commit to 1305 01:00:41,933 --> 01:00:44,293 Speaker 11: your wife, and if it's boring with your wife or 1306 01:00:44,333 --> 01:00:47,213 Speaker 11: your partner, then make it a bit spicy sender a 1307 01:00:47,213 --> 01:00:49,293 Speaker 11: couple of texts that you'd send someone on Tinder a 1308 01:00:49,373 --> 01:00:52,693 Speaker 11: text you know your wife involved in it. It's much 1309 01:00:52,773 --> 01:00:55,133 Speaker 11: healthier and costs a hell of a lot less. 1310 01:00:55,733 --> 01:00:58,413 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, there was definitely there's definitely a want 1311 01:00:58,413 --> 01:01:02,733 Speaker 2: there that he's suggesting, isn't it, Because he's definitely at 1312 01:01:02,773 --> 01:01:05,213 Speaker 2: the very least, whether he's cheating or not. And as 1313 01:01:05,213 --> 01:01:07,053 Speaker 2: you say, it's it's on the path to cheating. It's 1314 01:01:07,053 --> 01:01:09,213 Speaker 2: definitely within the ball park of cheating. 1315 01:01:09,813 --> 01:01:13,573 Speaker 11: But I think if you if you said to your mother, hey, 1316 01:01:13,693 --> 01:01:15,813 Speaker 11: I'm going to download Tinder and chat to a whole 1317 01:01:15,813 --> 01:01:17,693 Speaker 11: lot of other girls because I'm a bit bored in 1318 01:01:17,733 --> 01:01:20,573 Speaker 11: my marriage, what's your mother going to say? You know, 1319 01:01:20,853 --> 01:01:22,693 Speaker 11: I think that's a pretty good gauge on whether it's 1320 01:01:22,733 --> 01:01:23,493 Speaker 11: cheating or not. 1321 01:01:23,933 --> 01:01:27,373 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, I mean, clearly in this this this scenario, Todd, 1322 01:01:27,373 --> 01:01:29,693 Speaker 3: this husband, that's a it's a fragile ego, isn't it. 1323 01:01:29,733 --> 01:01:31,813 Speaker 3: Where he says, Hey, I wonder if I've still got it. 1324 01:01:31,853 --> 01:01:33,693 Speaker 3: I wonder if I can get a few likes from 1325 01:01:33,693 --> 01:01:35,973 Speaker 3: maybe women who are a bit younger than me. Clearly, 1326 01:01:36,053 --> 01:01:39,013 Speaker 3: that's a guy who's quite fragile and needs some need 1327 01:01:39,053 --> 01:01:41,373 Speaker 3: some proper help. But I agree that if you go 1328 01:01:41,453 --> 01:01:44,933 Speaker 3: down that scenario it's quite weak. And also if that's 1329 01:01:44,973 --> 01:01:46,613 Speaker 3: how you're dealing with with being in a bit of 1330 01:01:46,613 --> 01:01:48,533 Speaker 3: a low point, that's probably not the way to deal 1331 01:01:48,573 --> 01:01:48,813 Speaker 3: with it. 1332 01:01:50,173 --> 01:01:52,253 Speaker 11: Talk to your missus and say, hey, I need a 1333 01:01:52,253 --> 01:01:54,053 Speaker 11: bit of reassurance. You know, I don't want to go 1334 01:01:54,133 --> 01:01:56,973 Speaker 11: outside this relationship, but maybe I need a little bit 1335 01:01:56,973 --> 01:01:59,773 Speaker 11: more of something. You know, It's all about communication in 1336 01:01:59,773 --> 01:02:02,773 Speaker 11: my opinion, And I mean, hey, I'm I'm over the 1337 01:02:02,813 --> 01:02:05,053 Speaker 11: hill a bit now, but you know, it's it's all 1338 01:02:05,093 --> 01:02:07,053 Speaker 11: about telling the wife what you need as well. And 1339 01:02:07,853 --> 01:02:09,813 Speaker 11: are in the same boat. They need a bit of attention. 1340 01:02:09,893 --> 01:02:11,733 Speaker 11: And I think men are the same. We're just probably 1341 01:02:11,773 --> 01:02:15,093 Speaker 11: a bit weak here and saying even if it is 1342 01:02:15,133 --> 01:02:17,333 Speaker 11: your wife saying, hey, I need a bit of help, 1343 01:02:17,333 --> 01:02:20,053 Speaker 11: I need a bit of ego boost. I need to 1344 01:02:20,133 --> 01:02:21,813 Speaker 11: kind of feel like a man. I need to be 1345 01:02:21,933 --> 01:02:23,093 Speaker 11: sort of chased a little bit. 1346 01:02:23,293 --> 01:02:23,573 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1347 01:02:23,653 --> 01:02:26,693 Speaker 11: And I don't think a woman that's in love with. 1348 01:02:29,093 --> 01:02:32,533 Speaker 2: You can, you know, yeah, And and they and they 1349 01:02:32,613 --> 01:02:35,173 Speaker 2: may want to do that but not feel like they 1350 01:02:35,173 --> 01:02:38,173 Speaker 2: can or whatever. If you say, look, I just I 1351 01:02:38,213 --> 01:02:40,173 Speaker 2: just want a bit more attention thing, Yeah, I just 1352 01:02:40,173 --> 01:02:41,853 Speaker 2: want a bit more attention. I know this sounds weird, 1353 01:02:41,893 --> 01:02:44,533 Speaker 2: but I want a bit more attention because I'm not 1354 01:02:44,573 --> 01:02:48,293 Speaker 2: feeling great about myself. Is a hard thing for a 1355 01:02:48,333 --> 01:02:50,293 Speaker 2: man to say, but it might be something that a 1356 01:02:50,333 --> 01:02:51,973 Speaker 2: woman's happy to hear, you know. 1357 01:02:52,853 --> 01:02:54,533 Speaker 11: But I think I think if you asked that man 1358 01:02:54,573 --> 01:02:57,013 Speaker 11: that got caught when the last time he came home 1359 01:02:57,053 --> 01:02:59,613 Speaker 11: with a bunch of flowers for his wife or yeah, 1360 01:02:59,773 --> 01:03:01,773 Speaker 11: or got home and walked in and said, Hey, honey, 1361 01:03:01,773 --> 01:03:03,973 Speaker 11: we're going out for dinner. Let's go chuck some shoes on. 1362 01:03:04,053 --> 01:03:04,453 Speaker 4: We're out. 1363 01:03:04,853 --> 01:03:08,773 Speaker 11: You know where are they trying to set up a 1364 01:03:08,813 --> 01:03:11,293 Speaker 11: coffee date with their partner, let alone a stranger? 1365 01:03:11,533 --> 01:03:14,253 Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean and in the in in the end, 1366 01:03:14,293 --> 01:03:17,813 Speaker 2: it's the unhappy version of the Peina Kolata song, isn't it. 1367 01:03:19,773 --> 01:03:21,773 Speaker 2: I was tired of my lady. We've been together too long, 1368 01:03:21,933 --> 01:03:24,253 Speaker 2: like a worn out recording of my favorite song. They 1369 01:03:24,573 --> 01:03:26,893 Speaker 2: they both put heads in the paper and they met 1370 01:03:26,933 --> 01:03:27,253 Speaker 2: each other. 1371 01:03:27,253 --> 01:03:31,133 Speaker 3: Happy Indians very much mate. 1372 01:03:31,413 --> 01:03:34,453 Speaker 2: Although see thanks for your call. I always think with 1373 01:03:34,533 --> 01:03:36,973 Speaker 2: that one, it was so specific that it had to 1374 01:03:37,013 --> 01:03:39,453 Speaker 2: be like do you make like like making making love 1375 01:03:39,453 --> 01:03:42,133 Speaker 2: on the dunes of the Cape that's very, very specific. 1376 01:03:42,373 --> 01:03:45,573 Speaker 3: Who doesn't like making love on the dunes at the cape? 1377 01:03:45,613 --> 01:03:46,213 Speaker 2: What Cape? 1378 01:03:46,333 --> 01:03:49,093 Speaker 3: Well, you know, if your lovely partner sea, we make 1379 01:03:49,173 --> 01:03:51,453 Speaker 3: love on the dunes in the cape, I'm sure you'd say, yeah, 1380 01:03:51,453 --> 01:03:52,293 Speaker 3: this sounds a great idea. 1381 01:03:52,373 --> 01:03:54,093 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's been one of your top three. Let's 1382 01:03:54,093 --> 01:03:57,093 Speaker 2: not let's not really good at relitigate. The Rupert Holmes 1383 01:03:57,173 --> 01:04:06,173 Speaker 2: glossic curve was my own. Yeah, that's right. 1384 01:04:06,453 --> 01:04:08,173 Speaker 3: And one hundred and eighty ten eighty is the number 1385 01:04:08,213 --> 01:04:11,613 Speaker 3: of call? Is it cheating? And this scenario, the husband 1386 01:04:11,693 --> 01:04:13,773 Speaker 3: was caught on a dating a dating app. He says 1387 01:04:13,813 --> 01:04:16,573 Speaker 3: he wasn't doing anything apart from getting what he called 1388 01:04:16,613 --> 01:04:19,013 Speaker 3: a harmless ego boost. How do you feel about that? 1389 01:04:19,133 --> 01:04:21,613 Speaker 3: Nine two nine two is the text number? It is 1390 01:04:21,653 --> 01:04:22,493 Speaker 3: twenty one to three. 1391 01:04:23,773 --> 01:04:26,493 Speaker 6: Else had a commitment to count this news talks, they'd be. 1392 01:04:27,213 --> 01:04:29,253 Speaker 2: I'm just calling to question the whole penoclada song. It's 1393 01:04:29,293 --> 01:04:31,653 Speaker 2: too specific. If you like pinacoladas and getting caught in 1394 01:04:31,653 --> 01:04:33,413 Speaker 2: the rain, if you're not into yoga, if you have 1395 01:04:33,453 --> 01:04:36,613 Speaker 2: half a brain, if you like making love and midnight 1396 01:04:36,973 --> 01:04:39,333 Speaker 2: and the dunes of the cape, what cape? If it's 1397 01:04:39,333 --> 01:04:41,853 Speaker 2: Cape felwynd On the West coast of New Zealand. I 1398 01:04:41,893 --> 01:04:43,533 Speaker 2: don't like making love and Cape fel One, and. 1399 01:04:43,493 --> 01:04:45,093 Speaker 3: That would be a bad time. I mean, it sounds 1400 01:04:45,093 --> 01:04:46,893 Speaker 3: all right, but I can know that's. 1401 01:04:46,773 --> 01:04:48,493 Speaker 2: So bad, so you can match with that person right 1402 01:04:48,573 --> 01:04:50,253 Speaker 2: up at that point. It's like some capes, not all 1403 01:04:50,253 --> 01:04:53,613 Speaker 2: of them, not Cape fel One anyway, that's a totally 1404 01:04:53,773 --> 01:04:57,413 Speaker 2: different issue, and uncontrolled downstairs always ends up being really expensive, 1405 01:04:57,413 --> 01:05:00,213 Speaker 2: says this texture on nine two nine two yep nicely 1406 01:05:00,213 --> 01:05:04,013 Speaker 2: said he was set sacred. Hi, guys, great show. I'm 1407 01:05:04,013 --> 01:05:07,053 Speaker 2: a mid forties single woman and reconnected with my first 1408 01:05:07,093 --> 01:05:11,013 Speaker 2: true love year. He lives in another country. Married, he's 1409 01:05:11,093 --> 01:05:14,173 Speaker 2: unhappy in his marriage. It took it to his marriage 1410 01:05:14,173 --> 01:05:16,773 Speaker 2: and he can't be himself. We've known each other for 1411 01:05:16,813 --> 01:05:19,493 Speaker 2: thirty years. We made plans to be together, even met 1412 01:05:19,533 --> 01:05:23,133 Speaker 2: midyear when I flew home. Don't judge, it's not just lust. 1413 01:05:23,413 --> 01:05:26,133 Speaker 2: We do love each other. Long story short. He's committing 1414 01:05:26,133 --> 01:05:28,653 Speaker 2: to moving here, but I pushed him and I got 1415 01:05:28,693 --> 01:05:30,893 Speaker 2: cold feet, kept preshing him to make a decision. He 1416 01:05:31,013 --> 01:05:33,173 Speaker 2: wanted to leave the correct way so there'd be no 1417 01:05:33,293 --> 01:05:36,053 Speaker 2: hating each other, his wife and him. I've been up 1418 01:05:36,133 --> 01:05:38,133 Speaker 2: and down with him for two months until he was 1419 01:05:38,173 --> 01:05:40,333 Speaker 2: flying home from a job and I've not heard from 1420 01:05:40,413 --> 01:05:43,573 Speaker 2: him for ten days. He responded with two emojis, two 1421 01:05:43,653 --> 01:05:47,013 Speaker 2: messages I sent and that's all. I even got him 1422 01:05:47,053 --> 01:05:50,733 Speaker 2: a job here, but now nothing. Wow, that's quite it. 1423 01:05:50,773 --> 01:05:52,373 Speaker 3: Well, thank you for your honesty. 1424 01:05:52,413 --> 01:05:54,093 Speaker 2: That's a whole novel there, that's a whole story that 1425 01:05:54,173 --> 01:05:57,333 Speaker 2: I want, an emotional roller coaster reading. Roller coaster ride 1426 01:05:57,373 --> 01:05:59,573 Speaker 2: reading that. I mean, there's always the other side of 1427 01:05:59,573 --> 01:06:00,973 Speaker 2: that story if you read it from the point of 1428 01:06:01,053 --> 01:06:03,893 Speaker 2: view of the man's wife. But anyway, thank you for sharing. 1429 01:06:03,973 --> 01:06:06,773 Speaker 3: Good luck. Hope it works out for everyone involved. I'm 1430 01:06:06,813 --> 01:06:08,533 Speaker 3: sure it won't. Someone's going to lose out it. That's 1431 01:06:08,573 --> 01:06:13,373 Speaker 3: an Areo genesis. How are you all right, Bud? Now, 1432 01:06:13,373 --> 01:06:16,733 Speaker 3: what's your take on on in this case? The dating app? 1433 01:06:16,733 --> 01:06:18,613 Speaker 3: The husband's got the dating app. He said he wasn't 1434 01:06:18,613 --> 01:06:21,813 Speaker 3: messaging anyone, he wasn't meeting up with anyone. As that cheating. 1435 01:06:23,533 --> 01:06:29,053 Speaker 23: Wow, Going back to the Bible thing, My my outlook 1436 01:06:29,173 --> 01:06:32,813 Speaker 23: is it's all right to look at the menu. It's 1437 01:06:32,853 --> 01:06:35,333 Speaker 23: when you place the order that's when the trouble starts. 1438 01:06:39,133 --> 01:06:41,933 Speaker 2: Agreed, So, but how much time should be spending looking 1439 01:06:41,973 --> 01:06:44,653 Speaker 2: at the menu. You just you know, if everyone else 1440 01:06:44,773 --> 01:06:48,813 Speaker 2: is I don't know if I'm trying to work this metaphor, so. 1441 01:06:48,853 --> 01:06:51,733 Speaker 3: If you're specifically to see the menu, well, if you're 1442 01:06:51,893 --> 01:06:53,773 Speaker 3: in front of your wife, no, what I'm saying is 1443 01:06:53,773 --> 01:06:56,173 Speaker 3: if your wife is trying to sit down to have 1444 01:06:56,213 --> 01:06:58,893 Speaker 3: a meal with you and you're constantly looking at another menu, 1445 01:06:59,773 --> 01:07:02,533 Speaker 3: that's a problem, isn't it to me? 1446 01:07:02,653 --> 01:07:10,933 Speaker 23: That's that's going a bit overboard. Walking down the street 1447 01:07:11,053 --> 01:07:16,853 Speaker 23: seeing a pretty girl, you're looking at the menu, your 1448 01:07:16,853 --> 01:07:20,813 Speaker 23: son asking me if we're a phone number, and you're facing 1449 01:07:20,893 --> 01:07:21,333 Speaker 23: in order. 1450 01:07:21,613 --> 01:07:23,973 Speaker 3: But what if, Genesis, you were you were at the 1451 01:07:23,973 --> 01:07:26,293 Speaker 3: restaurant by yourself, and you're meant to meet up with 1452 01:07:26,333 --> 01:07:28,173 Speaker 3: your wife and you just entered the there and you're 1453 01:07:28,173 --> 01:07:29,773 Speaker 3: looking at the menu, and she walks along and say, 1454 01:07:29,813 --> 01:07:31,413 Speaker 3: hang on a minute, what are you doing here and 1455 01:07:31,493 --> 01:07:32,293 Speaker 3: looking at that menu? 1456 01:07:35,253 --> 01:07:38,533 Speaker 2: You could get a little bit of trouble if she says, like, 1457 01:07:38,573 --> 01:07:42,053 Speaker 2: the menu is right here, you know, look at me, Yeah, we've. 1458 01:07:41,853 --> 01:07:44,253 Speaker 3: Got we've got the menu back home. Genesis is why 1459 01:07:44,333 --> 01:07:45,893 Speaker 3: what are you doing at the restaurant looking at the 1460 01:07:45,893 --> 01:07:47,133 Speaker 3: menu that you shouldn't be looking at? 1461 01:07:48,333 --> 01:07:49,453 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1462 01:07:49,533 --> 01:07:54,853 Speaker 2: Yeah, you just we're having we're eating at home tonight. 1463 01:07:55,453 --> 01:07:58,133 Speaker 3: We ripped open that analogy that very much. 1464 01:07:58,413 --> 01:07:59,853 Speaker 2: Is it torturing and analogy? 1465 01:08:02,253 --> 01:08:06,453 Speaker 3: We will everything metaphor? Marie, how are you this afternoon? 1466 01:08:06,893 --> 01:08:07,133 Speaker 8: Oh? 1467 01:08:07,613 --> 01:08:11,413 Speaker 15: You two are just loving this project, don't you. You 1468 01:08:11,453 --> 01:08:13,893 Speaker 15: are just loving it. I can hear it in your 1469 01:08:13,973 --> 01:08:16,412 Speaker 15: voices before I go any further. 1470 01:08:16,412 --> 01:08:21,093 Speaker 9: Though, Happy new Year. 1471 01:08:21,213 --> 01:08:23,372 Speaker 15: From someone that's been on their own for quite a while. 1472 01:08:23,973 --> 01:08:27,492 Speaker 15: My idea was instigated by me, but that's a long 1473 01:08:27,933 --> 01:08:30,692 Speaker 15: long time ago. But deero, do you? You two are 1474 01:08:30,772 --> 01:08:36,652 Speaker 15: just loving it? Absolutely these loving it? Yeah, to hear those, 1475 01:08:38,652 --> 01:08:40,652 Speaker 15: Oh yes, you're a jubidile, but ninety. 1476 01:08:42,812 --> 01:08:43,333 Speaker 3: Exactly. 1477 01:08:44,853 --> 01:08:47,612 Speaker 15: But it's fun though, that's the thing. You've got to 1478 01:08:47,652 --> 01:08:49,212 Speaker 15: see it from the funny side. 1479 01:08:49,652 --> 01:08:50,333 Speaker 17: You really do. 1480 01:08:50,933 --> 01:08:53,692 Speaker 15: And I think you too sort of. That's exactly what 1481 01:08:53,732 --> 01:08:58,772 Speaker 15: you're doing. It's I don't know. I think all these 1482 01:08:58,812 --> 01:09:01,652 Speaker 15: apps and that you can get these days. I have 1483 01:09:01,772 --> 01:09:05,213 Speaker 15: my phone for ringing in texting, that's a bongo. I 1484 01:09:05,213 --> 01:09:07,972 Speaker 15: don't plan, I don't don't do anything, and just usual 1485 01:09:08,013 --> 01:09:10,893 Speaker 15: particuar sing and ringing, not on the air. That no, 1486 01:09:11,173 --> 01:09:12,732 Speaker 15: absolutely never. 1487 01:09:12,893 --> 01:09:14,972 Speaker 3: You've never been tempted, Marie, just a week. 1488 01:09:15,412 --> 01:09:18,333 Speaker 15: Never, No, never either. 1489 01:09:18,532 --> 01:09:21,412 Speaker 2: You're not on the social media either, no. 1490 01:09:20,973 --> 01:09:21,892 Speaker 6: No, no, no need. 1491 01:09:22,253 --> 01:09:25,053 Speaker 15: I've got the odd. I've got relatives in Australia which 1492 01:09:25,053 --> 01:09:28,412 Speaker 15: I'm won the odd Facebook, but I'm not on anything 1493 01:09:28,452 --> 01:09:31,652 Speaker 15: now and I've got I've never been tempted and watched 1494 01:09:31,692 --> 01:09:35,732 Speaker 15: turn me right off? Is my forty three year old daughter. 1495 01:09:37,093 --> 01:09:37,372 Speaker 6: Does it? 1496 01:09:37,652 --> 01:09:38,653 Speaker 15: Stupid Pokemon? 1497 01:09:39,532 --> 01:09:42,213 Speaker 2: Oh my, she's still on the Pokemon Go. 1498 01:09:43,492 --> 01:09:46,173 Speaker 15: Oh she does it. I don't know what, whether she 1499 01:09:46,293 --> 01:09:46,973 Speaker 15: bets her or. 1500 01:09:46,933 --> 01:09:49,532 Speaker 2: What she's chasing around trying to catch Pokemon. 1501 01:09:49,772 --> 01:09:55,852 Speaker 3: That's the one years ago the Pokemon Go surprised three. 1502 01:09:56,293 --> 01:09:59,572 Speaker 15: She did forty three at the beginning of January. 1503 01:09:59,692 --> 01:10:01,053 Speaker 2: I feel like I spent a bit of time that 1504 01:10:01,173 --> 01:10:03,652 Speaker 2: in twenty sixteen, but I've moved on growing up. 1505 01:10:03,692 --> 01:10:04,732 Speaker 3: It was a good game at the time. 1506 01:10:06,013 --> 01:10:10,133 Speaker 15: But that's the thing, is that that's the the phone now, 1507 01:10:10,133 --> 01:10:11,172 Speaker 15: it's not just a phone. 1508 01:10:11,532 --> 01:10:12,532 Speaker 6: Yeah, it's a game. 1509 01:10:12,812 --> 01:10:15,452 Speaker 15: It's a game. Where's everything? Yeah, I have a lot 1510 01:10:15,492 --> 01:10:16,092 Speaker 15: of things. 1511 01:10:16,253 --> 01:10:19,452 Speaker 2: But well, thank you so much for your call and 1512 01:10:19,652 --> 01:10:21,452 Speaker 2: happy New Year and thanks thanks we're calling. Good to 1513 01:10:21,452 --> 01:10:25,172 Speaker 2: speak to you again. Waste of time just to torture 1514 01:10:25,173 --> 01:10:28,812 Speaker 2: this metaphor more because Texas comes through a nineteen. Waste 1515 01:10:28,812 --> 01:10:30,652 Speaker 2: of time looking at the menu when you can't afford it. 1516 01:10:31,053 --> 01:10:33,333 Speaker 2: That's a good point. You know, you're off in there, 1517 01:10:33,372 --> 01:10:37,892 Speaker 2: you're looking at the fifty eight dollars steak and. 1518 01:10:37,853 --> 01:10:39,932 Speaker 3: Then it looks nice, but you know, and then. 1519 01:10:39,812 --> 01:10:41,732 Speaker 2: You're just just to play the chips. 1520 01:10:44,612 --> 01:10:46,213 Speaker 3: John, Hell you this afternoon. 1521 01:10:47,253 --> 01:10:47,732 Speaker 4: I'm good. 1522 01:10:47,772 --> 01:10:48,133 Speaker 10: I'm good. 1523 01:10:48,173 --> 01:10:49,133 Speaker 4: How are you good? 1524 01:10:49,253 --> 01:10:50,932 Speaker 3: What's your take on the scenario? 1525 01:10:52,692 --> 01:10:55,972 Speaker 10: Well, personally, I don't think it's cheating, but I think 1526 01:10:56,053 --> 01:11:01,412 Speaker 10: it's a very very close call to being cheating. I mean, 1527 01:11:01,412 --> 01:11:04,972 Speaker 10: you're you're just one half step away from cheating. Really, 1528 01:11:06,412 --> 01:11:11,132 Speaker 10: if my wife has been on tender, i'd be human. 1529 01:11:12,492 --> 01:11:15,013 Speaker 10: I think i'd be kicking her out the door, to 1530 01:11:15,013 --> 01:11:15,732 Speaker 10: be honest, I. 1531 01:11:15,652 --> 01:11:18,093 Speaker 2: Really think that would be. It's not quite cheating, but 1532 01:11:18,253 --> 01:11:22,972 Speaker 2: it's bad enough. Diffinitely, definitely definitely sort of signify as 1533 01:11:22,973 --> 01:11:26,492 Speaker 2: some kind of rotten the relationship, doesn't it. There's unhappiness, 1534 01:11:26,173 --> 01:11:27,053 Speaker 2: the dishonesty. 1535 01:11:27,253 --> 01:11:29,932 Speaker 10: Oh yeah, there's something's definitely not not right. 1536 01:11:31,732 --> 01:11:32,452 Speaker 4: So, I mean, there was. 1537 01:11:32,452 --> 01:11:34,652 Speaker 10: A caller a few calls ago. He was he was 1538 01:11:34,652 --> 01:11:36,973 Speaker 10: on the money, you know, get the the spark in 1539 01:11:37,013 --> 01:11:39,812 Speaker 10: your relationship going again, take coffee. I think, yeah, he's 1540 01:11:40,412 --> 01:11:41,293 Speaker 10: that's what you need to be done. 1541 01:11:41,452 --> 01:11:43,133 Speaker 17: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 1542 01:11:42,853 --> 01:11:46,333 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, No, I think. 1543 01:11:46,213 --> 01:11:49,372 Speaker 2: Men's often struggle to you know, like I've talked about 1544 01:11:49,372 --> 01:11:51,293 Speaker 2: this before on the show. As well as that idea, 1545 01:11:51,893 --> 01:11:53,772 Speaker 2: there's two people right about it that I like had, 1546 01:11:53,772 --> 01:11:57,972 Speaker 2: the philosopher Ellen de Bhuton and Olive Berkman. And men 1547 01:11:58,173 --> 01:12:02,532 Speaker 2: often live in this fantasy world where we can imagine 1548 01:12:02,572 --> 01:12:05,093 Speaker 2: this amazing life and I'm not sure I'm sure women 1549 01:12:05,133 --> 01:12:07,492 Speaker 2: do it as well, and no one's ever good enough 1550 01:12:07,612 --> 01:12:11,772 Speaker 2: for you because they're competing with with your fantasy situation. 1551 01:12:11,933 --> 01:12:14,013 Speaker 2: Whereas this Josh is saying is you know, you're with 1552 01:12:14,093 --> 01:12:15,932 Speaker 2: your partner, you're with them one hundred percent, and maybe 1553 01:12:16,173 --> 01:12:18,013 Speaker 2: talk to them about it and maybe say how you're 1554 01:12:18,013 --> 01:12:20,612 Speaker 2: feeling and maybe say, you know, I would like a 1555 01:12:20,612 --> 01:12:22,532 Speaker 2: couple more cattles and I would like a bit more 1556 01:12:22,532 --> 01:12:24,812 Speaker 2: attention if you've got any to speer, you know, and 1557 01:12:24,853 --> 01:12:26,372 Speaker 2: they probably they probably wire the same thing. 1558 01:12:26,492 --> 01:12:30,652 Speaker 24: Yeah, finless handled gramunication is key, Yeah yeah, just making 1559 01:12:30,692 --> 01:12:34,652 Speaker 24: those those conversations happen, saying those things that you're maybe 1560 01:12:34,732 --> 01:12:37,093 Speaker 24: a little bit nervous or too anxious to actually say. 1561 01:12:37,173 --> 01:12:40,612 Speaker 10: You know, listen, let's do this, Yeah, do that, you know, 1562 01:12:40,812 --> 01:12:42,853 Speaker 10: just you know, reignite the relationship. 1563 01:12:42,973 --> 01:12:44,892 Speaker 2: It seems a lot healthier than this guy falling asleep 1564 01:12:44,933 --> 01:12:47,972 Speaker 2: on the couch flicking through Tinder getting rumbled. 1565 01:12:50,333 --> 01:12:53,532 Speaker 10: Yeah, no, it's not all man, it'sazy. 1566 01:12:53,893 --> 01:12:57,412 Speaker 3: I'm not doing You're a good man, nicely said, have 1567 01:12:57,492 --> 01:13:02,412 Speaker 3: great afternoon. Thank you, see you guys, cheers mate. All right, 1568 01:13:02,452 --> 01:13:04,812 Speaker 3: we'll wrap this up very very soon. Now. I've got 1569 01:13:04,853 --> 01:13:06,812 Speaker 3: to say I waited fifteen minutes to say this, but 1570 01:13:07,053 --> 01:13:10,572 Speaker 3: if if may I caught mayvaon on going through tender 1571 01:13:10,612 --> 01:13:13,612 Speaker 3: for an ego boost, yeah, I'd be absolutely distraught. And 1572 01:13:13,652 --> 01:13:16,093 Speaker 3: I've got to say there's no way in how I 1573 01:13:16,133 --> 01:13:18,492 Speaker 3: would do that. I wouldn't even cross my mind and 1574 01:13:18,532 --> 01:13:20,572 Speaker 3: downloading one of these dating naps, and just wouldn't because 1575 01:13:20,612 --> 01:13:21,812 Speaker 3: I would see that as dishonest. 1576 01:13:21,853 --> 01:13:24,612 Speaker 2: The sticks is directed at you, Tyler. Well, I'm assuming 1577 01:13:24,652 --> 01:13:29,213 Speaker 2: it's you describing woman as food and men picking from 1578 01:13:29,253 --> 01:13:30,692 Speaker 2: the menu as gross and disgusting. 1579 01:13:30,732 --> 01:13:31,052 Speaker 4: Tyler. 1580 01:13:33,253 --> 01:13:36,372 Speaker 2: I wish you too. I mean I wished Tyler and 1581 01:13:36,452 --> 01:13:38,173 Speaker 2: I lived like a woman for a week and see 1582 01:13:38,173 --> 01:13:39,852 Speaker 2: what it would be like to put you got Ooh 1583 01:13:39,973 --> 01:13:42,852 Speaker 2: you guys are yack. We never said it, We never 1584 01:13:42,933 --> 01:13:44,972 Speaker 2: we never We never said it was man or woman. 1585 01:13:45,532 --> 01:13:47,612 Speaker 2: The woman could easily be. 1586 01:13:47,812 --> 01:13:49,852 Speaker 3: The menu, yep, could have been looking the stake as well. 1587 01:13:49,893 --> 01:13:53,012 Speaker 2: The woman could have been looking at whatever. 1588 01:13:53,333 --> 01:13:53,532 Speaker 7: You know. 1589 01:13:53,612 --> 01:13:57,253 Speaker 2: That wasn't the point. We didn't say that particularly sexualize 1590 01:13:57,253 --> 01:14:01,013 Speaker 2: it or genderize it or whatever. Yeah, but to be 1591 01:14:01,053 --> 01:14:02,892 Speaker 2: more on us, we did. But we shouldn't have. 1592 01:14:03,013 --> 01:14:06,173 Speaker 3: No, we shouldn't. We were wrong and we probably will 1593 01:14:06,213 --> 01:14:06,572 Speaker 3: do it again. 1594 01:14:06,772 --> 01:14:08,293 Speaker 2: I was wrong, and here he wants to. 1595 01:14:10,013 --> 01:14:10,932 Speaker 3: Eighty is another to call. 1596 01:14:11,013 --> 01:14:15,173 Speaker 1: It is eight to three, the issues that affect you, 1597 01:14:15,412 --> 01:14:17,532 Speaker 1: and a bit of fun along the way. Matt and 1598 01:14:17,612 --> 01:14:22,293 Speaker 1: Taylor Afternoons with the Volvo X eighty Innovation, Style and Design, 1599 01:14:22,452 --> 01:14:23,052 Speaker 1: Have it All. 1600 01:14:23,173 --> 01:14:24,173 Speaker 6: News Talks ed B. 1601 01:14:25,452 --> 01:14:28,532 Speaker 3: News Talks, ed B. It is six minutes to three 1602 01:14:28,652 --> 01:14:30,893 Speaker 3: right where we'll wrap this one up very shortly. A 1603 01:14:30,933 --> 01:14:36,293 Speaker 3: couple of teaks to finish up. Guys, The woman the 1604 01:14:36,333 --> 01:14:38,932 Speaker 3: guy was viewing on Tinder can't be up to much. 1605 01:14:39,013 --> 01:14:41,012 Speaker 3: They caused him to fall asleep from Jake. 1606 01:14:44,372 --> 01:14:46,772 Speaker 2: Hi, boys, welcome back. My wife is much better at 1607 01:14:46,893 --> 01:14:50,452 Speaker 2: spotting talent than me, and lets me know if I'm 1608 01:14:50,452 --> 01:14:53,293 Speaker 2: missing out. We're to lock especially at the beach. We 1609 01:14:53,372 --> 01:14:56,053 Speaker 2: both know it's harmless, but neither has been close to 1610 01:14:56,133 --> 01:14:58,452 Speaker 2: cheating on each other. So you go that works for Greg. 1611 01:14:58,652 --> 01:15:00,492 Speaker 3: Yeah, that sounds wholesome, it sounds healthy. 1612 01:15:00,612 --> 01:15:03,772 Speaker 2: So she's going that someone beautiful over the edge on't 1613 01:15:03,772 --> 01:15:04,093 Speaker 2: have a lot. 1614 01:15:04,213 --> 01:15:07,212 Speaker 3: Yep, you know, I don't know, and vice versa. 1615 01:15:07,333 --> 01:15:09,253 Speaker 2: I'm trying to work out what the menu equivalent is 1616 01:15:09,293 --> 01:15:11,013 Speaker 2: that because we were trying to run that with you. 1617 01:15:11,173 --> 01:15:13,133 Speaker 2: It's like I do that all the time when I'm 1618 01:15:13,173 --> 01:15:13,692 Speaker 2: at a restaurant. 1619 01:15:13,692 --> 01:15:17,213 Speaker 3: I'll look over Genie, looks real nice, you know that 1620 01:15:17,253 --> 01:15:18,093 Speaker 3: partners it on top. 1621 01:15:18,652 --> 01:15:20,452 Speaker 2: Look at what that person's ordered. Is that on the menu? 1622 01:15:22,013 --> 01:15:22,692 Speaker 3: Food envy? 1623 01:15:22,812 --> 01:15:23,052 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1624 01:15:23,133 --> 01:15:26,173 Speaker 3: Good, right, there is where we'll leave it. And Matt 1625 01:15:26,372 --> 01:15:28,372 Speaker 3: was talking about this song the greatest love story of 1626 01:15:28,412 --> 01:15:30,092 Speaker 3: all time? I think, you said, Matt, No. 1627 01:15:30,053 --> 01:15:32,293 Speaker 2: I think it's a very confusing love story. And I'm 1628 01:15:32,293 --> 01:15:34,293 Speaker 2: not sure what the messages, but you know, they get 1629 01:15:34,293 --> 01:15:36,852 Speaker 2: back together. They both put personal ads out in the paper. 1630 01:15:36,893 --> 01:15:40,213 Speaker 2: That's the old school version of this, the veg and 1631 01:15:40,412 --> 01:15:44,293 Speaker 2: very specific tastes, and then they meet at o'melly's and 1632 01:15:44,293 --> 01:15:48,652 Speaker 2: it's all good. He recognizes the curve of her face, Yeah, 1633 01:15:48,692 --> 01:15:51,133 Speaker 2: lovely because he is into champagne. 1634 01:15:51,333 --> 01:15:53,133 Speaker 3: Yeah, they were both up for a good time. Though 1635 01:15:53,173 --> 01:15:55,572 Speaker 3: you look at those lyrics and say they were party people. 1636 01:15:55,612 --> 01:15:57,932 Speaker 2: For the rest of Rupert Holmes's relationship with this woman 1637 01:15:58,053 --> 01:16:00,372 Speaker 2: is he always checking that she's going down to put 1638 01:16:00,412 --> 01:16:05,013 Speaker 2: out another personal land and another list of specific requirements. 1639 01:16:05,133 --> 01:16:07,852 Speaker 3: Now, good chat that one, right, and after three o'clock, 1640 01:16:07,853 --> 01:16:09,572 Speaker 3: which is going to be another good chat. Matt has 1641 01:16:09,612 --> 01:16:10,652 Speaker 3: been a driving instructor. 1642 01:16:10,772 --> 01:16:12,652 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I'm teaching my son how to drive 1643 01:16:12,853 --> 01:16:15,732 Speaker 2: at the moment. And yeah, like some tips some people 1644 01:16:15,772 --> 01:16:18,012 Speaker 2: out there, I think I'm doing a great, great job. 1645 01:16:18,133 --> 01:16:21,532 Speaker 2: I'm actually pretty impressed with my driving instructing skills as 1646 01:16:21,532 --> 01:16:23,652 Speaker 2: a parent and a write a passage for me and 1647 01:16:23,692 --> 01:16:26,973 Speaker 2: my son. I love those moments as a parent. You go, 1648 01:16:27,053 --> 01:16:28,973 Speaker 2: I am now teaching my son how to drive. You know, 1649 01:16:29,013 --> 01:16:30,492 Speaker 2: those are big moments for me. It's like when I 1650 01:16:30,492 --> 01:16:31,852 Speaker 2: first showed them Star Wars. 1651 01:16:31,893 --> 01:16:34,333 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a beautiful moment. 1652 01:16:34,412 --> 01:16:37,852 Speaker 2: These are important things. But yeah, i'd love to We 1653 01:16:37,893 --> 01:16:40,692 Speaker 2: want to talk about some stories of driving, being taught 1654 01:16:40,692 --> 01:16:43,093 Speaker 2: to drive, how you teach your kids to drive, and 1655 01:16:43,093 --> 01:16:44,053 Speaker 2: how your parents taught you. 1656 01:16:44,213 --> 01:16:46,173 Speaker 3: Oh, eight one hundred and eighty ten eighty is the 1657 01:16:46,293 --> 01:16:48,772 Speaker 3: number to call. Nine two nine two is the text number, 1658 01:16:48,853 --> 01:16:51,812 Speaker 3: but a rupe it's homes to go out with it 1659 01:16:51,933 --> 01:16:56,772 Speaker 3: is three minutes to three. We'll catch again soon if 1660 01:16:56,812 --> 01:16:57,093 Speaker 3: you like. 1661 01:17:00,612 --> 01:17:10,253 Speaker 1: Time and Taylor Adams afternoons the Volvo x eighty on 1662 01:17:10,412 --> 01:17:11,613 Speaker 1: News Talk SEV. 1663 01:17:12,452 --> 01:17:16,333 Speaker 3: Good afternoon, welcome back into the show. And we think 1664 01:17:16,612 --> 01:17:18,772 Speaker 3: you're going to really like this topic. The text machine's 1665 01:17:18,812 --> 01:17:22,452 Speaker 3: already gone crazy. But Matt, you or have been teaching 1666 01:17:22,652 --> 01:17:24,412 Speaker 3: one of your sons or both of your sons how 1667 01:17:24,412 --> 01:17:25,452 Speaker 3: to drive one of your sons. 1668 01:17:25,412 --> 01:17:26,612 Speaker 2: Just one of my sons at the moment, but I'll 1669 01:17:26,612 --> 01:17:29,972 Speaker 2: teach the other one. And it's been Look, it's been 1670 01:17:30,013 --> 01:17:32,093 Speaker 2: one of the most rewarding things in my life. I 1671 01:17:32,133 --> 01:17:34,972 Speaker 2: was looking forward to the opportunity, and so I thought 1672 01:17:35,013 --> 01:17:37,652 Speaker 2: about it quite quite a lot before I did it. 1673 01:17:37,893 --> 01:17:39,692 Speaker 2: And he wouldn't know this, and he doesn't listen to 1674 01:17:39,772 --> 01:17:41,133 Speaker 2: the show, so he would ever know this. So don't 1675 01:17:41,133 --> 01:17:44,173 Speaker 2: tell him if you run into him. But I thought 1676 01:17:44,333 --> 01:17:46,772 Speaker 2: through it carefully. And he's actually been put through quite 1677 01:17:46,853 --> 01:17:51,412 Speaker 2: a quite a quite a clever little program to teach 1678 01:17:51,452 --> 01:17:53,893 Speaker 2: him how to drive. And I'll call it shock and or, 1679 01:17:54,412 --> 01:17:56,293 Speaker 2: because I believe you've got to put them in the 1680 01:17:56,333 --> 01:17:57,932 Speaker 2: difficult things. You've got to put them through the Royal 1681 01:17:58,013 --> 01:18:01,092 Speaker 2: Oak roundabout as soon as you can, because the hardest 1682 01:18:01,093 --> 01:18:03,933 Speaker 2: thing in driving is the multi lane roundabout. So you 1683 01:18:03,973 --> 01:18:06,652 Speaker 2: don't shy away from anything. And this is my theory. 1684 01:18:06,692 --> 01:18:09,293 Speaker 2: You don't put the fear into them. You put the 1685 01:18:09,333 --> 01:18:10,972 Speaker 2: fear of danger. You say, you've got to be aware. 1686 01:18:11,013 --> 01:18:12,532 Speaker 2: You've got to look at it here because safety is 1687 01:18:12,572 --> 01:18:15,412 Speaker 2: really really important. And as a parent, you boy, you 1688 01:18:15,452 --> 01:18:18,492 Speaker 2: worry about your kids driving, but you don't go this 1689 01:18:18,612 --> 01:18:20,612 Speaker 2: is a really hard but to do. You just talk 1690 01:18:20,692 --> 01:18:24,852 Speaker 2: them through, you know. I went on Google Google Maps 1691 01:18:24,853 --> 01:18:26,732 Speaker 2: and I looked down and I tracked things out for 1692 01:18:26,812 --> 01:18:30,093 Speaker 2: the for what I was going to say, and I 1693 01:18:30,133 --> 01:18:32,732 Speaker 2: took them to a car park and it was over 1694 01:18:32,772 --> 01:18:34,812 Speaker 2: the break, so there was no one there. I grabbed 1695 01:18:34,812 --> 01:18:36,692 Speaker 2: a lot of road cones because it's turned road cones 1696 01:18:36,732 --> 01:18:39,053 Speaker 2: on the road in Aokland. So I just grabbed a 1697 01:18:39,053 --> 01:18:43,173 Speaker 2: bunch of roadcrans. Everywhere they line them up all on 1698 01:18:43,213 --> 01:18:45,013 Speaker 2: a big line, so you can take every second one 1699 01:18:45,013 --> 01:18:47,852 Speaker 2: out and it doesn't make any difference and set up 1700 01:18:47,893 --> 01:18:50,213 Speaker 2: sort of a young Driver of the Year scalour up 1701 01:18:50,253 --> 01:18:52,213 Speaker 2: young driver of the Year type situation. 1702 01:18:51,973 --> 01:18:53,452 Speaker 3: Where did you do that it's just an empty car park. 1703 01:18:53,572 --> 01:18:55,892 Speaker 2: An empty car park. Yeah, this is good and set up. 1704 01:18:56,173 --> 01:18:58,732 Speaker 2: You know, a bunch of parking situations with the with 1705 01:18:58,772 --> 01:19:01,293 Speaker 2: the cones. Parallel parking got them doing that, even the 1706 01:19:01,293 --> 01:19:02,892 Speaker 2: difficult other way parallel park. 1707 01:19:03,093 --> 01:19:05,412 Speaker 3: You should be selling this program and you should be 1708 01:19:05,452 --> 01:19:06,093 Speaker 3: opening this day. 1709 01:19:06,133 --> 01:19:08,612 Speaker 2: I think I'll do a pamphlet on it. But I 1710 01:19:08,652 --> 01:19:12,612 Speaker 2: was really proud of how it went. But I'd like 1711 01:19:12,772 --> 01:19:14,293 Speaker 2: to hear people's tips on it as well because the 1712 01:19:14,572 --> 01:19:16,812 Speaker 2: ongoing process. I mean, so many people out there have 1713 01:19:16,893 --> 01:19:19,572 Speaker 2: taught their kids to drive, and everyone's been taught to 1714 01:19:19,652 --> 01:19:23,692 Speaker 2: drive by someone at some point, and so everyone's got 1715 01:19:23,692 --> 01:19:26,492 Speaker 2: a story about it, because you know, I remember and 1716 01:19:27,053 --> 01:19:30,053 Speaker 2: my driving lessons went pretty terribly at the start. But 1717 01:19:30,213 --> 01:19:34,253 Speaker 2: back then it was a manual. When you were coming 1718 01:19:34,333 --> 01:19:36,932 Speaker 2: up to an intersection, you had to start indicating you 1719 01:19:36,973 --> 01:19:39,412 Speaker 2: had to change gears. So there was a clutch involved 1720 01:19:39,452 --> 01:19:41,612 Speaker 2: you had to break. There was a lot to do 1721 01:19:42,053 --> 01:19:44,532 Speaker 2: as well as as well as the very complicated steering 1722 01:19:44,572 --> 01:19:44,973 Speaker 2: part of it. 1723 01:19:45,093 --> 01:19:46,652 Speaker 3: Technology wasn't saving you back then. 1724 01:19:46,772 --> 01:19:49,492 Speaker 2: I remember heading towards an intersection once and I was 1725 01:19:49,532 --> 01:19:52,253 Speaker 2: so concentrated on doing the gears, but I couldn't sort 1726 01:19:52,293 --> 01:19:54,333 Speaker 2: that out. So I just put the clutch and we're 1727 01:19:54,333 --> 01:19:58,012 Speaker 2: heading at the intersection at pace. I've got the indicating right, 1728 01:19:58,652 --> 01:20:00,812 Speaker 2: but I'm failing to break. In fact, they accidented to 1729 01:20:00,812 --> 01:20:02,933 Speaker 2: accelerate and we hit the corner at pace and my 1730 01:20:03,013 --> 01:20:05,572 Speaker 2: dad pulls the had to pull the handbrake on. We 1731 01:20:05,652 --> 01:20:08,892 Speaker 2: skid around the corner. You know, I've had none of that, 1732 01:20:09,412 --> 01:20:09,852 Speaker 2: none of that. 1733 01:20:10,053 --> 01:20:12,412 Speaker 3: They would have been exciting for both parties though, But now. 1734 01:20:12,412 --> 01:20:14,213 Speaker 2: There's no such thing as a hell park. I mean, 1735 01:20:14,652 --> 01:20:17,892 Speaker 2: like a hell start yep, because you know that. You 1736 01:20:17,933 --> 01:20:22,613 Speaker 2: know my cars got automatic you know, automatic handbrake. 1737 01:20:22,853 --> 01:20:27,412 Speaker 3: You change no gears for that matter, Get about gears. 1738 01:20:27,412 --> 01:20:30,133 Speaker 2: I was a column shift on the steering wheel of 1739 01:20:30,173 --> 01:20:30,972 Speaker 2: my Ford CORTEENA. 1740 01:20:31,093 --> 01:20:33,532 Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, so that was the huge test, the 1741 01:20:33,532 --> 01:20:34,412 Speaker 3: old column change. 1742 01:20:34,612 --> 01:20:37,572 Speaker 2: Yeah. So wait, one hundred and eighty ten eighty tips 1743 01:20:37,572 --> 01:20:39,412 Speaker 2: for teaching kids how to drive the car. What's the 1744 01:20:39,452 --> 01:20:42,852 Speaker 2: most important thing should you go to driving instructors? I 1745 01:20:42,893 --> 01:20:44,652 Speaker 2: think I think personally I don't want to put driving 1746 01:20:44,652 --> 01:20:47,213 Speaker 2: instructors out of business, but I think it's appearance duty 1747 01:20:47,253 --> 01:20:48,372 Speaker 2: to teach the kids how to drive. 1748 01:20:48,692 --> 01:20:48,852 Speaker 20: There. 1749 01:20:48,933 --> 01:20:51,412 Speaker 3: Gave up on me, gave up on me pretty quick. Actually, 1750 01:20:51,492 --> 01:20:53,492 Speaker 3: for some reason, he decided to try and teach me 1751 01:20:53,532 --> 01:20:55,773 Speaker 3: how to drive in Hamna Springs while we're on holiday. 1752 01:20:56,013 --> 01:20:58,093 Speaker 3: And it was the busy summer season. So if you 1753 01:20:58,093 --> 01:21:00,253 Speaker 3: know Hamna Springs, is you going kind of pass the 1754 01:21:00,293 --> 01:21:03,092 Speaker 3: poll towards the golf course. But there's not much parking, 1755 01:21:03,173 --> 01:21:05,732 Speaker 3: so there were cars parked on either side, very narrow, 1756 01:21:06,093 --> 01:21:08,372 Speaker 3: and my spatial awareness wasn't quite up to park. It 1757 01:21:08,452 --> 01:21:11,253 Speaker 3: was my first time in a blood column change as well, 1758 01:21:11,452 --> 01:21:13,652 Speaker 3: and he keeps saying, Tyler, getting close to those cars, 1759 01:21:13,652 --> 01:21:16,293 Speaker 3: You're getting close, You're getting close. And I had a 1760 01:21:16,293 --> 01:21:20,333 Speaker 3: bloody wing mirror ah, and Dad was screaming at me, saying, 1761 01:21:20,412 --> 01:21:22,892 Speaker 3: why I told you you were too close? Get out? 1762 01:21:22,973 --> 01:21:25,093 Speaker 3: Had to leave a note, do the insurance thing. And 1763 01:21:25,093 --> 01:21:27,692 Speaker 3: after that when he said his partner Chrissy, and see, 1764 01:21:27,732 --> 01:21:29,333 Speaker 3: Chrisy's going to teach you from this point, because. 1765 01:21:29,772 --> 01:21:31,652 Speaker 2: That worse than when you put the hammer through the drywall. 1766 01:21:34,053 --> 01:21:34,812 Speaker 3: You had a hard time. 1767 01:21:36,133 --> 01:21:37,933 Speaker 2: There was more disappointed. I'm glad that you've shared this 1768 01:21:37,973 --> 01:21:39,932 Speaker 2: with me, Tyler, because when I'm driving around with my son, 1769 01:21:40,013 --> 01:21:42,612 Speaker 2: I constantly think he's too close to the cars. But 1770 01:21:43,253 --> 01:21:46,053 Speaker 2: I'm thinking that is that just because I'm in the 1771 01:21:46,053 --> 01:21:48,092 Speaker 2: passenger seat and I have no control and I'm freaking 1772 01:21:48,093 --> 01:21:49,973 Speaker 2: out about it. But this is making me say he 1773 01:21:50,173 --> 01:21:50,972 Speaker 2: needs the center line. 1774 01:21:51,053 --> 01:21:53,572 Speaker 3: See, I reckon spatial awareness. It's not ingrained. You have 1775 01:21:53,652 --> 01:21:55,452 Speaker 3: to kind of learn that, particularly in the car, and 1776 01:21:55,492 --> 01:21:58,333 Speaker 3: I thought I had plenty of room. I talk about 1777 01:21:58,372 --> 01:21:59,293 Speaker 3: multiple wings, and. 1778 01:21:59,293 --> 01:22:02,013 Speaker 2: When you're driving in the States, it goes completely the 1779 01:22:02,053 --> 01:22:04,612 Speaker 2: other way and you end up in really really bad 1780 01:22:04,652 --> 01:22:07,572 Speaker 2: positions as well. Yes, it's not natural to where you 1781 01:22:07,572 --> 01:22:11,333 Speaker 2: are in the in the road, but yeah, so eight 1782 01:22:11,372 --> 01:22:14,732 Speaker 2: hundred eighty ten eighty nine two nine two. Let's let's 1783 01:22:14,732 --> 01:22:17,932 Speaker 2: work out the best way to teach our our kids 1784 01:22:17,933 --> 01:22:19,812 Speaker 2: to drive. And let's name and shame our parents for 1785 01:22:19,893 --> 01:22:23,772 Speaker 2: poor their poor job, their poor job of teaching us. 1786 01:22:23,812 --> 01:22:25,772 Speaker 3: This is going to be good. It is twelve past three. 1787 01:22:25,812 --> 01:22:26,452 Speaker 3: Back in the moth. 1788 01:22:27,412 --> 01:22:30,492 Speaker 2: I never heard teach a biological offspring how to drive. 1789 01:22:30,732 --> 01:22:33,093 Speaker 2: Took me two hours to learn that. Get anyone else 1790 01:22:33,133 --> 01:22:35,732 Speaker 2: that breathes auction to do it. It was two of 1791 01:22:35,772 --> 01:22:37,412 Speaker 2: the worst hours of my life. From Kate. 1792 01:22:37,492 --> 01:22:40,732 Speaker 3: Thanks No, I agree with Kate because, as I mentioned before, 1793 01:22:40,812 --> 01:22:43,412 Speaker 3: Dad City couldn't teach me to drive. After I took 1794 01:22:43,412 --> 01:22:45,892 Speaker 3: off some wing mirrors and hamna springs. But Mom did 1795 01:22:45,893 --> 01:22:48,053 Speaker 3: the same. When she taught me to drive, she got 1796 01:22:48,093 --> 01:22:51,052 Speaker 3: really upset. It was raining, just a little bit of drizzle, 1797 01:22:51,093 --> 01:22:52,972 Speaker 3: but she kept yelling at me to put my windscreen 1798 01:22:53,053 --> 01:22:54,973 Speaker 3: wipers on. I was like, Mom, it's just a bit 1799 01:22:54,973 --> 01:22:57,452 Speaker 3: of drizzle. I can see screaming at me. So at 1800 01:22:57,452 --> 01:23:00,692 Speaker 3: that point it was Dad's partner, Chrissy, and then private 1801 01:23:00,732 --> 01:23:01,933 Speaker 3: driving instructors. 1802 01:23:02,133 --> 01:23:04,652 Speaker 2: Well if she if the instructor Tyler tells you to 1803 01:23:04,652 --> 01:23:07,053 Speaker 2: put the one screenwapers on, put the bloody windscreen wipers on, 1804 01:23:07,253 --> 01:23:08,213 Speaker 2: you know you're learning. 1805 01:23:08,412 --> 01:23:10,053 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I was paying good money for that, and 1806 01:23:10,532 --> 01:23:12,652 Speaker 3: you know Mom didn't know what she was talking about. 1807 01:23:13,013 --> 01:23:15,253 Speaker 3: Eight hundred eighty ten eighty is the number to call, 1808 01:23:15,772 --> 01:23:17,652 Speaker 3: uh Andy, how are you? 1809 01:23:19,372 --> 01:23:19,572 Speaker 7: Yeah? 1810 01:23:19,652 --> 01:23:20,492 Speaker 4: Good? Good? 1811 01:23:21,893 --> 01:23:28,852 Speaker 8: It's interesting subject. I would say, if you can, you know, 1812 01:23:29,013 --> 01:23:33,293 Speaker 8: if you can, if you can do it, just get 1813 01:23:33,293 --> 01:23:38,452 Speaker 8: a massive paddock and uh because my dad just yeah, 1814 01:23:38,492 --> 01:23:43,412 Speaker 8: he couldn't teach me. He just says, uh, here's a paddock, 1815 01:23:43,933 --> 01:23:45,933 Speaker 8: the big I think the biggest paddock we had with 1816 01:23:46,213 --> 01:23:50,452 Speaker 8: fifty acres. Then the next old neighbor, the next old 1817 01:23:50,492 --> 01:23:53,653 Speaker 8: neighbor had a paddock of about one hundred and fifty acres. 1818 01:23:54,333 --> 01:23:58,372 Speaker 2: Next situation. In that situation, Andy, you can start teaching 1819 01:23:58,492 --> 01:24:00,572 Speaker 2: kids to drive from about five years old. Okay, if 1820 01:24:00,612 --> 01:24:01,412 Speaker 2: you got a bad exp like. 1821 01:24:01,452 --> 01:24:03,372 Speaker 4: That, oh yeah, you wouldn't go for it. 1822 01:24:03,452 --> 01:24:06,333 Speaker 8: He goes. The one on the one in the middle 1823 01:24:06,452 --> 01:24:07,092 Speaker 8: is the break. 1824 01:24:07,772 --> 01:24:12,573 Speaker 2: That's well, that arguably is the most important one. 1825 01:24:13,452 --> 01:24:13,692 Speaker 6: Yeah. 1826 01:24:13,772 --> 01:24:18,372 Speaker 8: Yeah, so you know, you know when you get well, 1827 01:24:18,412 --> 01:24:22,372 Speaker 8: I would say, teach them. If you've got kids, teach them. 1828 01:24:22,452 --> 01:24:26,812 Speaker 8: And motorbikes are involved, you need to teach them about that, 1829 01:24:26,933 --> 01:24:31,852 Speaker 8: because yeah, the sign I was on the motorbike, it 1830 01:24:31,933 --> 01:24:33,492 Speaker 8: was just full throttle. 1831 01:24:33,812 --> 01:24:36,692 Speaker 21: And straying to a ditch. 1832 01:24:39,013 --> 01:24:43,333 Speaker 12: Yeah yeah, bit of a cartwheel, Yeah. 1833 01:24:42,652 --> 01:24:44,412 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good one to start on the paddock 1834 01:24:44,452 --> 01:24:47,213 Speaker 2: as well. But I mean, I guess, well, yeah, but 1835 01:24:48,093 --> 01:24:50,213 Speaker 2: I agree with you in the starting the paddock, and 1836 01:24:50,253 --> 01:24:52,772 Speaker 2: I found an empty car park, as I've saying before, 1837 01:24:52,772 --> 01:24:56,452 Speaker 2: and laid out some road cones. But I think there's 1838 01:24:56,452 --> 01:24:58,293 Speaker 2: also something to be said for just getting them on 1839 01:24:58,333 --> 01:25:01,213 Speaker 2: the road as well. So once once I work out 1840 01:25:01,213 --> 01:25:04,133 Speaker 2: with the breakers, then then I think there's there's a 1841 01:25:04,213 --> 01:25:05,772 Speaker 2: trial by fire apart to it as well. 1842 01:25:06,093 --> 01:25:08,253 Speaker 3: I agree a little bit of put them in the deep, 1843 01:25:08,532 --> 01:25:10,333 Speaker 3: not too much. We're talking about driving here and you've 1844 01:25:10,333 --> 01:25:12,652 Speaker 3: got to be safe. But you know, like as you mentioned, 1845 01:25:12,732 --> 01:25:14,452 Speaker 3: you don't make a big deal about the Royal Oak 1846 01:25:14,572 --> 01:25:17,213 Speaker 3: roundabout which has multiple lanes. Yeah, but you get the 1847 01:25:17,253 --> 01:25:19,213 Speaker 3: mind at pretty quick and it's a bit of a 1848 01:25:19,213 --> 01:25:21,372 Speaker 3: test of hey, this is as bad it's going to get. 1849 01:25:21,412 --> 01:25:23,572 Speaker 3: After the fact, once I've done it, you say, that's it, 1850 01:25:23,572 --> 01:25:24,772 Speaker 3: that's as bad as it's going to get. 1851 01:25:24,933 --> 01:25:26,892 Speaker 2: Well, what I did as I took my son on 1852 01:25:26,933 --> 01:25:29,333 Speaker 2: the motorway pretty early on and I said, guess what, 1853 01:25:29,853 --> 01:25:32,052 Speaker 2: And I sort I played to his ego and I said, 1854 01:25:32,093 --> 01:25:34,892 Speaker 2: you know your dad from your granddad, my dad from Dunedin. Yeah, 1855 01:25:34,933 --> 01:25:36,732 Speaker 2: he's too scared to go on the motorways in Auckland. 1856 01:25:36,772 --> 01:25:40,052 Speaker 2: And you're already, you're already, you're already doing better than grandad. 1857 01:25:40,053 --> 01:25:43,013 Speaker 3: Reverse psychology and I love it. Yeah, Andy, thank you 1858 01:25:43,093 --> 01:25:43,412 Speaker 3: very much. 1859 01:25:43,452 --> 01:25:43,692 Speaker 4: Mate. 1860 01:25:45,532 --> 01:25:48,173 Speaker 3: Ever got avo oh eight hundred and eighty ten eighty 1861 01:25:48,333 --> 01:25:51,572 Speaker 3: is the number to call? Guys, remember those bunny hops 1862 01:25:51,652 --> 01:25:54,213 Speaker 3: when you didn't realize the clutch was in properly? 1863 01:25:54,293 --> 01:25:55,053 Speaker 6: Yeah, or what. 1864 01:25:55,372 --> 01:25:58,333 Speaker 2: About your dad screaming stop riding the clutch or you've 1865 01:25:58,333 --> 01:26:01,932 Speaker 2: got like years later, you'd come home and you'd park 1866 01:26:01,973 --> 01:26:05,892 Speaker 2: in the driveway and the whole place would stink of 1867 01:26:05,893 --> 01:26:08,412 Speaker 2: a clutch because you've just been riding the clutch all 1868 01:26:08,452 --> 01:26:11,732 Speaker 2: the way up Fulton Road in my in my case. 1869 01:26:11,612 --> 01:26:14,133 Speaker 3: Good memory, but how embarrassing at the lights when you're 1870 01:26:14,173 --> 01:26:16,012 Speaker 3: when you're back at the clutch and then you stall 1871 01:26:16,173 --> 01:26:17,852 Speaker 3: the car. Anyone's looking at you. 1872 01:26:17,893 --> 01:26:21,852 Speaker 2: And yeah, doing the cowards he'll start whill you just 1873 01:26:21,893 --> 01:26:22,932 Speaker 2: hold it on the clutch. 1874 01:26:25,333 --> 01:26:29,293 Speaker 3: Yeah, good memories, Lee, How are you fine? 1875 01:26:30,452 --> 01:26:34,692 Speaker 19: I'm coming at it from a totally different perspective. Brought 1876 01:26:34,812 --> 01:26:38,532 Speaker 19: my children and two of my step children to drive 1877 01:26:39,013 --> 01:26:43,492 Speaker 19: on the Chatham Island, Okay, driving a land river. So 1878 01:26:43,612 --> 01:26:48,413 Speaker 19: I learned all about four wheel drive off roading, avoiding 1879 01:26:48,492 --> 01:26:52,692 Speaker 19: sheep and cattle and all that sort of thing. With 1880 01:26:52,933 --> 01:26:58,452 Speaker 19: my step sons, I had two of them give and 1881 01:26:59,572 --> 01:27:03,492 Speaker 19: started them off. I had one inflexible rules. They were 1882 01:27:03,532 --> 01:27:08,052 Speaker 19: allowed to stall at once. One of them stalled twice, 1883 01:27:08,532 --> 01:27:11,812 Speaker 19: he got out and behind the wheel and his brother 1884 01:27:11,933 --> 01:27:18,172 Speaker 19: took over. You've never seen two teenagers get the grips 1885 01:27:18,173 --> 01:27:19,213 Speaker 19: with the clutch. 1886 01:27:19,333 --> 01:27:21,933 Speaker 3: Yes, yeah, a better competition. 1887 01:27:23,572 --> 01:27:26,692 Speaker 19: And of course my daughter also learned out to back 1888 01:27:26,732 --> 01:27:31,613 Speaker 19: a trailer at the age of sixteen, which rather astonished 1889 01:27:31,612 --> 01:27:37,812 Speaker 19: her fellow pupils at at boarding school, which is another 1890 01:27:38,812 --> 01:27:41,972 Speaker 19: Various things you learn on the Chathams that are not 1891 01:27:42,053 --> 01:27:47,293 Speaker 19: quite applicable. But the thing is when as my parents 1892 01:27:47,333 --> 01:27:50,452 Speaker 19: and big sister did to me, taught me to drive, 1893 01:27:50,973 --> 01:27:55,612 Speaker 19: then had a session with a driving instructor to polish 1894 01:27:55,692 --> 01:28:00,452 Speaker 19: up the shaky bits for the less desirable bit, and 1895 01:28:01,133 --> 01:28:05,652 Speaker 19: that it failed through. My boys failed through every time. 1896 01:28:06,412 --> 01:28:09,133 Speaker 3: Love it teach them on the Chatham. You'd recommend that 1897 01:28:09,213 --> 01:28:11,732 Speaker 3: for everyone league just head to the Chantems. It's nice 1898 01:28:11,732 --> 01:28:14,812 Speaker 3: and open. Not too many cars on the road, no, and. 1899 01:28:14,853 --> 01:28:16,932 Speaker 19: Of course lots of off roading as well. 1900 01:28:17,812 --> 01:28:20,173 Speaker 2: A few drunk drivers on the road in the Chatham's Islands, though, 1901 01:28:20,253 --> 01:28:21,692 Speaker 2: aren't you've got to You've got to deal with that 1902 01:28:21,853 --> 01:28:22,692 Speaker 2: coming back from the pub. 1903 01:28:24,812 --> 01:28:29,852 Speaker 19: No one one local believing policeman. Actually she was my cousin. 1904 01:28:32,253 --> 01:28:36,852 Speaker 19: She used the station herself, just up the access road 1905 01:28:36,893 --> 01:28:40,053 Speaker 19: from the Parliament and there's the young guy island that 1906 01:28:40,333 --> 01:28:44,532 Speaker 19: was leaving. Should stop them and say you've got a choice, 1907 01:28:44,612 --> 01:28:46,172 Speaker 19: give them your keys or breathing. 1908 01:28:46,333 --> 01:28:53,732 Speaker 25: That's that's funny, because I talked to a cop that 1909 01:28:53,853 --> 01:28:56,412 Speaker 25: there were chedn Islands cop once and he was saying 1910 01:28:56,452 --> 01:28:58,293 Speaker 25: it was real, you know, the policing there because you're 1911 01:28:58,293 --> 01:28:59,372 Speaker 25: only the only cop there is. 1912 01:28:59,853 --> 01:29:02,612 Speaker 2: You've got a sort of a massage and the behavior 1913 01:29:02,652 --> 01:29:05,452 Speaker 2: on the island. You can't go too highly because you're 1914 01:29:05,452 --> 01:29:07,692 Speaker 2: the only one there. Hey, thank you so much for 1915 01:29:07,732 --> 01:29:09,652 Speaker 2: your for your appreciate. 1916 01:29:09,213 --> 01:29:10,812 Speaker 19: It, most welcome. 1917 01:29:10,893 --> 01:29:11,732 Speaker 3: Have a good afternoon. 1918 01:29:11,893 --> 01:29:14,133 Speaker 2: You go get on get on a get on a 1919 01:29:14,173 --> 01:29:15,212 Speaker 2: ferry with your cars. 1920 01:29:14,973 --> 01:29:18,612 Speaker 3: And quick tease to the break high guys. Don't forget 1921 01:29:18,612 --> 01:29:23,492 Speaker 3: your emergency breaking at speed through puddles ideal. I used 1922 01:29:23,812 --> 01:29:26,492 Speaker 3: a large outdoor car park to teach my girls use 1923 01:29:26,532 --> 01:29:29,652 Speaker 3: the car without all the fancy braking systems. Gave them 1924 01:29:29,652 --> 01:29:32,412 Speaker 3: a real good feeling of what's needed and what happens 1925 01:29:32,412 --> 01:29:35,012 Speaker 3: when you might lose control From Joe, Oh that's right. 1926 01:29:35,173 --> 01:29:37,932 Speaker 2: Yeah, you remember all these sayings that you had from 1927 01:29:38,173 --> 01:29:41,253 Speaker 2: back in the day. The emergency braking, Yeah, through a puddle. 1928 01:29:41,253 --> 01:29:44,652 Speaker 3: And turn into a so so that was a thing 1929 01:29:44,692 --> 01:29:47,452 Speaker 3: that that your your parent, whoever it was. You'd just 1930 01:29:47,492 --> 01:29:49,772 Speaker 3: be driving along in an empty car park and you 1931 01:29:49,772 --> 01:29:51,412 Speaker 3: wouldn't know when it was going to happen. They just 1932 01:29:51,532 --> 01:29:54,932 Speaker 3: whack open the emergency brake and see. Yeah, that pretty well. 1933 01:29:54,973 --> 01:29:55,772 Speaker 3: Is that what we're talking about? 1934 01:29:55,772 --> 01:29:55,852 Speaker 22: You? 1935 01:29:55,933 --> 01:29:59,452 Speaker 2: No, No, I think I think it's like stop before this. Ah, 1936 01:30:00,053 --> 01:30:00,492 Speaker 2: We're not. 1937 01:30:00,452 --> 01:30:04,492 Speaker 3: Just checking up the handbrake. We'll see how you're going 1938 01:30:04,532 --> 01:30:07,452 Speaker 3: to handle this kid. Oh, eight hundred eighty to eighty 1939 01:30:07,572 --> 01:30:10,772 Speaker 3: is the number of is the text number? Twenty three 1940 01:30:10,812 --> 01:30:14,333 Speaker 3: past three back in the mine. Yeah, it sounds like 1941 01:30:14,372 --> 01:30:15,092 Speaker 3: a good program. 1942 01:30:15,213 --> 01:30:15,452 Speaker 11: Ian. 1943 01:30:15,532 --> 01:30:18,493 Speaker 4: How are you hey? Good? Thanks guys. 1944 01:30:18,973 --> 01:30:21,772 Speaker 21: Yeah, what we found is that doing a combination of 1945 01:30:21,812 --> 01:30:23,372 Speaker 21: the boat of both of them has been the best 1946 01:30:23,412 --> 01:30:26,333 Speaker 21: for us. Our son's just just got us restricted, so 1947 01:30:26,372 --> 01:30:29,333 Speaker 21: he's pretty happy. And we had a combination of driving 1948 01:30:29,412 --> 01:30:32,853 Speaker 21: lessons every second week and then going out with myself 1949 01:30:32,933 --> 01:30:34,612 Speaker 21: or was mother in between that time. 1950 01:30:35,572 --> 01:30:37,572 Speaker 2: Yeah, right, because because I think there's one thing that 1951 01:30:37,572 --> 01:30:40,012 Speaker 2: the like. There's being a good driver, and there's also 1952 01:30:40,053 --> 01:30:43,012 Speaker 2: passing the driving tests, and so I think it's quite 1953 01:30:43,053 --> 01:30:46,812 Speaker 2: handy to have the driving instructor involved in there at 1954 01:30:46,853 --> 01:30:49,932 Speaker 2: some point because you know, they'll they'll tell you the 1955 01:30:49,973 --> 01:30:52,892 Speaker 2: things that the driving tester is looking for. 1956 01:30:54,412 --> 01:30:54,612 Speaker 4: Yeah. 1957 01:30:54,652 --> 01:30:56,093 Speaker 21: I think one of the key things so as well 1958 01:30:56,213 --> 01:30:58,532 Speaker 21: is that we all think the great drive is right. 1959 01:30:58,572 --> 01:31:00,012 Speaker 21: But I mean went for the last time we looked 1960 01:31:00,013 --> 01:31:02,093 Speaker 21: at the road code thirty years ago. 1961 01:31:02,293 --> 01:31:05,053 Speaker 2: Oh yes, yeah, absolutely, my son was stalking through it, 1962 01:31:05,372 --> 01:31:08,372 Speaker 2: my son was studying for it. I realized that I 1963 01:31:08,372 --> 01:31:10,372 Speaker 2: didn't know a lot of the main things. 1964 01:31:11,173 --> 01:31:13,093 Speaker 3: Yeah, well they change it all the time, right in 1965 01:31:13,173 --> 01:31:15,452 Speaker 3: terms of what the trade should be, or how far 1966 01:31:15,532 --> 01:31:18,732 Speaker 3: do you go past school bus when it stopped. They 1967 01:31:18,812 --> 01:31:21,532 Speaker 3: keep up doing that, Yeah, exactly. 1968 01:31:21,572 --> 01:31:24,333 Speaker 21: And sometimes my son, when I'd take him out, he'd 1969 01:31:24,372 --> 01:31:27,253 Speaker 21: be advising me and what the actual correct mobiles worth, 1970 01:31:27,612 --> 01:31:29,173 Speaker 21: which is a little bit scary. But I think one 1971 01:31:29,173 --> 01:31:31,812 Speaker 21: of the things is that we all have bad habits 1972 01:31:31,853 --> 01:31:33,893 Speaker 21: as well, right after all these years of driving, and 1973 01:31:34,173 --> 01:31:36,892 Speaker 21: if we just teach our kids, then we're also passing 1974 01:31:36,933 --> 01:31:39,333 Speaker 21: on our bad habits. So I think having the driving 1975 01:31:39,372 --> 01:31:44,572 Speaker 21: instructure and that's their livelihood, and just having the conversation within. 1976 01:31:44,652 --> 01:31:46,612 Speaker 21: Once he came back from a lesson, bit of a debrief, 1977 01:31:46,652 --> 01:31:48,732 Speaker 21: what did he learn He get to the little student 1978 01:31:48,772 --> 01:31:50,892 Speaker 21: car where he's waited out of five for each section, 1979 01:31:51,853 --> 01:31:53,732 Speaker 21: and what the next lesson is going to entail when 1980 01:31:53,973 --> 01:31:56,812 Speaker 21: better speech things up. He was really confident with that. 1981 01:31:57,133 --> 01:31:59,412 Speaker 21: And then when I'm taking him out and we're basically 1982 01:31:59,412 --> 01:32:01,412 Speaker 21: going through what the instructors we taught them. 1983 01:32:01,732 --> 01:32:03,933 Speaker 2: Yeah, And ess interestingly, what you say about you know 1984 01:32:03,973 --> 01:32:06,612 Speaker 2: what we don't know because I found teaching my son 1985 01:32:06,692 --> 01:32:10,092 Speaker 2: that I think it's making me a better driver. Because 1986 01:32:10,253 --> 01:32:12,532 Speaker 2: I'm trying to describe exactly what you're supposed to do. 1987 01:32:12,612 --> 01:32:14,652 Speaker 2: I'm sort of saying, well, your luck into the and 1988 01:32:15,412 --> 01:32:20,213 Speaker 2: we you know, because because it's really you know, things 1989 01:32:20,333 --> 01:32:22,812 Speaker 2: like you know, entering in intersection, when you're exits, as 1990 01:32:23,412 --> 01:32:26,933 Speaker 2: as you blocked all all those kinds of things, and 1991 01:32:27,013 --> 01:32:29,933 Speaker 2: sometimes we can get a little bit. Yeah, there's a 1992 01:32:29,933 --> 01:32:31,852 Speaker 2: lot of gray nature, right, Yeah, there's a lot of 1993 01:32:31,853 --> 01:32:34,012 Speaker 2: gray area driving that you do that that you don't 1994 01:32:34,013 --> 01:32:36,253 Speaker 2: want to pass on to your kids, as what I'm saying. 1995 01:32:36,133 --> 01:32:36,293 Speaker 4: You know. 1996 01:32:36,452 --> 01:32:39,293 Speaker 3: Yeah, And and when you put your kid with the 1997 01:32:39,412 --> 01:32:43,093 Speaker 3: professional instructor, were you surprised by what they put them through, 1998 01:32:43,093 --> 01:32:45,372 Speaker 3: because I imagine that changes on a regular basis too. 1999 01:32:46,732 --> 01:32:48,732 Speaker 21: It's actually all the same sort of stuff that we 2000 01:32:48,853 --> 01:32:52,412 Speaker 21: learned all those decades ago, so it's pretty much similar. 2001 01:32:52,532 --> 01:32:54,892 Speaker 21: I guess the difference to when I learned was that 2002 01:32:54,933 --> 01:32:57,293 Speaker 21: there's so many more cars on the road. I mean, 2003 01:32:57,333 --> 01:32:59,972 Speaker 21: we live in Windy Hills and Warrington as well. And 2004 01:33:00,053 --> 01:33:03,213 Speaker 21: my son driving through some of those streets, even the 2005 01:33:03,213 --> 01:33:07,052 Speaker 21: street where are on cast both sides in this buses 2006 01:33:07,093 --> 01:33:09,133 Speaker 21: it's a bus route as well. So these are sort 2007 01:33:09,173 --> 01:33:11,133 Speaker 21: of things that I didn't have to deal with, you know, 2008 01:33:11,532 --> 01:33:13,852 Speaker 21: He's dealt with being a menu and a boys drove 2009 01:33:13,933 --> 01:33:17,732 Speaker 21: HIMNU where she still have the manual. But he's so 2010 01:33:17,812 --> 01:33:18,452 Speaker 21: that's the challenge. 2011 01:33:18,452 --> 01:33:18,732 Speaker 4: I think. 2012 01:33:18,772 --> 01:33:21,173 Speaker 21: The great thing is that he's using his mum's car, 2013 01:33:21,213 --> 01:33:24,492 Speaker 21: which is new and it's got all the flesh safety features, 2014 01:33:24,492 --> 01:33:26,812 Speaker 21: which is great, But on the flip side, there's just 2015 01:33:26,973 --> 01:33:29,692 Speaker 21: so many more cars on there's so many more dodgy driving. 2016 01:33:29,732 --> 01:33:31,492 Speaker 21: He's got the face than what we did. 2017 01:33:31,812 --> 01:33:33,532 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I was thinking about that because my car's 2018 01:33:33,572 --> 01:33:36,732 Speaker 2: got blind spot detection, right, and so if you're teaching 2019 01:33:36,732 --> 01:33:38,852 Speaker 2: a kid to drive in that blind spot detection, I 2020 01:33:38,973 --> 01:33:43,173 Speaker 2: was concerned in that he would then look at a 2021 01:33:43,173 --> 01:33:45,412 Speaker 2: mirror that doesn't have it and not see the light 2022 01:33:45,933 --> 01:33:46,973 Speaker 2: and then do it. You know what I mean. I 2023 01:33:47,013 --> 01:33:49,212 Speaker 2: think I think you should learn to drive in a 2024 01:33:49,253 --> 01:33:51,333 Speaker 2: car without that stuff, and you should learn to back 2025 01:33:51,372 --> 01:33:53,652 Speaker 2: without a reversing camera. If I think, I think the 2026 01:33:53,692 --> 01:33:56,852 Speaker 2: reversing camera's a bit of a trap myself, because you can't. 2027 01:33:57,213 --> 01:33:59,333 Speaker 2: You don't see as much around it. So yeah, I 2028 01:33:59,372 --> 01:33:59,892 Speaker 2: totally agree. 2029 01:33:59,973 --> 01:34:02,852 Speaker 21: Like he said, think that's that's spot on because he 2030 01:34:02,933 --> 01:34:06,253 Speaker 21: was doing the parallel parks using the mirror and he 2031 01:34:06,333 --> 01:34:10,572 Speaker 21: still couldn't get them did right because it's not perfect 2032 01:34:10,572 --> 01:34:14,333 Speaker 21: that camera. Yeah, you actually judge in especial awareness of 2033 01:34:14,372 --> 01:34:17,213 Speaker 21: where your car is compared to the curb. So you 2034 01:34:17,213 --> 01:34:18,772 Speaker 21: had to do a bit of both there to learn 2035 01:34:18,812 --> 01:34:19,532 Speaker 21: that that skill. 2036 01:34:19,772 --> 01:34:23,053 Speaker 2: Yeahah, yeah, good on you, and well good luck with 2037 01:34:23,093 --> 01:34:23,372 Speaker 2: all that. 2038 01:34:23,532 --> 01:34:25,372 Speaker 3: Yep, you sound like a great parent. Now I've got 2039 01:34:25,372 --> 01:34:29,013 Speaker 3: a bit of a learner's driver's license test in front 2040 01:34:29,053 --> 01:34:31,293 Speaker 3: of me. Matt, Oh no, Can I put you through 2041 01:34:31,532 --> 01:34:32,852 Speaker 3: the paces of a couple of questions here? 2042 01:34:33,133 --> 01:34:36,372 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'll answer them to can I reverse? When 2043 01:34:36,372 --> 01:34:38,252 Speaker 2: I said, I know obviously I'm on analyst. 2044 01:34:38,293 --> 01:34:40,492 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you've developed the bring it on it 2045 01:34:40,572 --> 01:34:43,892 Speaker 3: is flawless. You the best driving instructor in the country. Right, 2046 01:34:43,973 --> 01:34:47,212 Speaker 3: So first question, how long should you signal before passing 2047 01:34:47,293 --> 01:34:51,372 Speaker 3: another vehicle? I'll give you the options one second, two seconds, 2048 01:34:51,853 --> 01:34:56,572 Speaker 3: three seconds or d only signal if there's another vehicle 2049 01:34:56,612 --> 01:35:00,412 Speaker 3: behind you or one coming towards you three seconds three 2050 01:35:00,452 --> 01:35:07,213 Speaker 3: seconds submitt correct of course it is right. That's only 2051 01:35:07,213 --> 01:35:09,612 Speaker 3: one of fifty seven. It's still forty seven more questions. 2052 01:35:10,093 --> 01:35:11,732 Speaker 2: I'm concerned that you had to check that. 2053 01:35:12,492 --> 01:35:14,812 Speaker 3: Oh, one hundred eight ten eighty is a number to go. 2054 01:35:15,133 --> 01:35:16,812 Speaker 3: Bang on huppas three beacon of moot. 2055 01:35:19,492 --> 01:35:23,133 Speaker 13: You talk said the headlines with blue bubble taxis it's 2056 01:35:23,213 --> 01:35:26,812 Speaker 13: no trouble with a blue bubble. US President Donald Trump 2057 01:35:27,013 --> 01:35:30,972 Speaker 13: has pardoned fifteen hundred people sentenced over the January sixth 2058 01:35:31,053 --> 01:35:35,572 Speaker 13: Capital riots and commuted six sentences. He's kicked off as 2059 01:35:35,572 --> 01:35:38,293 Speaker 13: a return to office by signing a flurry of executive 2060 01:35:38,412 --> 01:35:43,972 Speaker 13: orders revoking many of Joe Biden's presidential actions. Wild weathers 2061 01:35:44,053 --> 01:35:47,733 Speaker 13: making its way down the Upper North Island, keeping electricity 2062 01:35:47,812 --> 01:35:52,173 Speaker 13: workers busy restoring power in Northland and Corimandel. Watches and 2063 01:35:52,253 --> 01:35:55,852 Speaker 13: warnings apply across the day in those areas and Auckland 2064 01:35:56,013 --> 01:35:59,572 Speaker 13: great barrier and tide afterty. Auckland's expected to get its 2065 01:35:59,612 --> 01:36:03,492 Speaker 13: heaviest rain and wind at Russia between three and six pm. 2066 01:36:04,532 --> 01:36:08,133 Speaker 13: A young christ Church pedestrian has been seriously injured of 2067 01:36:08,452 --> 01:36:11,293 Speaker 13: being hit by a car near the Palms mallland Shirley. 2068 01:36:12,412 --> 01:36:16,532 Speaker 13: In Coming Health Minister Simeon Brown's visiting hospitals, exploring the 2069 01:36:16,612 --> 01:36:20,452 Speaker 13: portfolio he's taken from Shane to Etti Brown. Yesterday visited 2070 01:36:20,492 --> 01:36:25,972 Speaker 13: Wellington Regional Hospitals ED and today toured Wicottel Hospital. From 2071 01:36:26,093 --> 01:36:29,812 Speaker 13: mass deportations to tax cuts. A look at all of 2072 01:36:29,973 --> 01:36:33,612 Speaker 13: Donald trump'sweeping promises as he takes office. You can read 2073 01:36:33,652 --> 01:36:36,452 Speaker 13: more at enzid Herald Premium. Back to Matt Eath and 2074 01:36:36,572 --> 01:36:37,293 Speaker 13: Tyner Adams. 2075 01:36:37,452 --> 01:36:39,932 Speaker 3: Thank you very much, Rayleen. We are talking about teaching 2076 01:36:40,013 --> 01:36:42,772 Speaker 3: your children how to drive, Matt, you're going through it 2077 01:36:42,812 --> 01:36:43,293 Speaker 3: at the moments. 2078 01:36:43,412 --> 01:36:46,852 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right, teaching my son and doing a great job. 2079 01:36:46,893 --> 01:36:47,612 Speaker 2: Thank you for asking. 2080 01:36:48,013 --> 01:36:51,452 Speaker 3: Now I've been going, well, I've got a kind of 2081 01:36:51,893 --> 01:36:53,893 Speaker 3: learner's driver's license test in front of me. Do you 2082 01:36:53,933 --> 01:36:56,253 Speaker 3: want the next question now or soon? 2083 01:36:56,372 --> 01:36:56,572 Speaker 4: Yep? 2084 01:36:56,572 --> 01:36:58,213 Speaker 2: Okay, and kind of an advance, can I tell you 2085 01:36:58,293 --> 01:36:59,492 Speaker 2: I guarantee I'll get it right. 2086 01:36:59,853 --> 01:37:01,333 Speaker 3: You're not going to get this one. If you get 2087 01:37:01,372 --> 01:37:04,173 Speaker 3: this one, it's almost games hit and match. Well, there's 2088 01:37:04,173 --> 01:37:06,932 Speaker 3: another fifty seven questions ago, right, so on the road. 2089 01:37:07,013 --> 01:37:08,093 Speaker 2: So you've found the hardest one. 2090 01:37:08,412 --> 01:37:11,052 Speaker 3: Yeah, I've found one that you're not going to get. Okay, 2091 01:37:11,213 --> 01:37:12,532 Speaker 3: just just put that out of your mind now on 2092 01:37:12,652 --> 01:37:15,572 Speaker 3: the road. A vehicle should not send out visible smoke 2093 01:37:15,772 --> 01:37:18,892 Speaker 3: for more than judy, do you want the options? Yep, 2094 01:37:19,853 --> 01:37:24,893 Speaker 3: A twelve seconds, B ten seconds, C eight seconds or 2095 01:37:25,053 --> 01:37:26,132 Speaker 3: D six seconds. 2096 01:37:26,812 --> 01:37:31,812 Speaker 2: Well that's a that's erroneous question. So it's ten seconds 2097 01:37:31,812 --> 01:37:34,452 Speaker 2: on the road obviously, But but it doesn't mean as 2098 01:37:34,492 --> 01:37:36,732 Speaker 2: it talking about an inspection, because in an inspection it's five. 2099 01:37:36,692 --> 01:37:39,692 Speaker 3: Seconds, so B ten seconds. Let's put this in and see. 2100 01:37:39,812 --> 01:37:42,852 Speaker 2: Yeah, but it hasn't given the does it say on 2101 01:37:42,893 --> 01:37:44,093 Speaker 2: the road? In the question you. 2102 01:37:44,572 --> 01:37:47,893 Speaker 3: Added, you right, a vehicle can only produce smoke for 2103 01:37:48,013 --> 01:37:49,692 Speaker 3: what did you say when you're getting an inspection? 2104 01:37:49,853 --> 01:37:51,173 Speaker 2: An inspection it's five seconds for. 2105 01:37:51,213 --> 01:37:54,612 Speaker 3: Anxmum of five seconds in an inspection and ten seconds 2106 01:37:54,692 --> 01:37:58,412 Speaker 3: on the road. Smoky vehicles cause unnecessary, unnecessary pollution. This 2107 01:37:58,612 --> 01:38:01,093 Speaker 3: also applies to smoke caused by loss of traction, which 2108 01:38:01,333 --> 01:38:04,492 Speaker 3: is itself an offense or there's you know. 2109 01:38:04,732 --> 01:38:07,293 Speaker 2: That's a rubbish question because it's not me. It's not 2110 01:38:07,452 --> 01:38:10,053 Speaker 2: did it define with a inspection? On the Rabbish Christ, 2111 01:38:10,333 --> 01:38:11,893 Speaker 2: I call him to I mean I got right, and 2112 01:38:12,053 --> 01:38:14,612 Speaker 2: more than right, I got right, double right, But still 2113 01:38:14,772 --> 01:38:15,692 Speaker 2: call the whole thing into question. 2114 01:38:15,732 --> 01:38:17,013 Speaker 3: You're right, I'm going to find one that you got. 2115 01:38:17,093 --> 01:38:19,133 Speaker 3: It's going to get your man Georgie. How are you? 2116 01:38:20,213 --> 01:38:21,213 Speaker 15: Hello, Tyler? 2117 01:38:21,412 --> 01:38:23,053 Speaker 3: Hello, Matt, Hello, how are you? 2118 01:38:24,013 --> 01:38:27,053 Speaker 26: Good things? I think it should be five seconds on 2119 01:38:27,173 --> 01:38:27,452 Speaker 26: the road. 2120 01:38:28,213 --> 01:38:30,532 Speaker 9: Okay, it's ten seconds on the road. 2121 01:38:31,213 --> 01:38:31,452 Speaker 2: Yeah. 2122 01:38:31,692 --> 01:38:33,652 Speaker 3: Well it's interesting that you can get a wheel going 2123 01:38:33,812 --> 01:38:36,812 Speaker 3: for ten seconds before they sting. Yeah, apparently, I. 2124 01:38:36,812 --> 01:38:38,412 Speaker 2: Mean I had have we had to sting someone for 2125 01:38:38,532 --> 01:38:42,412 Speaker 2: five seconds, you know, take the cops three seconds stick the. 2126 01:38:44,973 --> 01:38:45,772 Speaker 15: True Yes. 2127 01:38:46,173 --> 01:38:47,973 Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey, so you think you think you should that 2128 01:38:48,173 --> 01:38:50,013 Speaker 2: that they should kids should have to learn an a 2129 01:38:50,093 --> 01:38:50,492 Speaker 2: manual car. 2130 01:38:51,692 --> 01:38:54,492 Speaker 26: Yes, well, I don't think they should, but I think 2131 01:38:54,532 --> 01:38:59,412 Speaker 26: it's a great idea. My son kept his manual camriy 2132 01:38:59,532 --> 01:39:02,772 Speaker 26: to teach his third so he taught the other two 2133 01:39:02,893 --> 01:39:06,172 Speaker 26: in it, and they did well. They had one driving 2134 01:39:06,333 --> 01:39:10,333 Speaker 26: lesson from it, and you know instructor and they both 2135 01:39:10,412 --> 01:39:14,652 Speaker 26: got a first time round. Here'll be sixteen next month, 2136 01:39:14,853 --> 01:39:19,333 Speaker 26: so he'll be starting soon. And yeah, it's a good. 2137 01:39:19,253 --> 01:39:19,772 Speaker 15: Skill to have. 2138 01:39:19,973 --> 01:39:23,652 Speaker 26: I think I learned in a manual car, and this 2139 01:39:23,933 --> 01:39:26,213 Speaker 26: son will boast my son. I don't know about the 2140 01:39:26,293 --> 01:39:29,293 Speaker 26: other one. This my oldest son learned in a manual car. 2141 01:39:29,492 --> 01:39:34,533 Speaker 26: I taught him and I don't remember how many instructed 2142 01:39:34,933 --> 01:39:38,293 Speaker 26: tests he had. He was the second time round getting 2143 01:39:38,333 --> 01:39:42,133 Speaker 26: his license in Graymouth. But these two boys got it 2144 01:39:42,213 --> 01:39:47,253 Speaker 26: straight away, and they also did a defensive driving course 2145 01:39:47,293 --> 01:39:50,333 Speaker 26: which meant they could get their license walk. 2146 01:39:50,692 --> 01:39:52,652 Speaker 2: Yeah, you get it quicker, don't you. Yeah, I mean 2147 01:39:52,652 --> 01:39:55,293 Speaker 2: you're driving in a manual, as I mean, it's obviously 2148 01:39:55,412 --> 01:39:58,253 Speaker 2: so much, so much harder, But I think it's I 2149 01:39:58,293 --> 01:39:59,532 Speaker 2: think it's I mean, I wonder, I wonder if you 2150 01:39:59,572 --> 01:40:02,572 Speaker 2: should in degrees of difficulty. It's kind of like training, 2151 01:40:02,772 --> 01:40:05,492 Speaker 2: you know, like training reels on a bike, although they 2152 01:40:05,492 --> 01:40:06,852 Speaker 2: say that's a bad way to teach a kid to 2153 01:40:06,933 --> 01:40:09,293 Speaker 2: ride ride a bike, but like, you know, learn the 2154 01:40:09,412 --> 01:40:13,173 Speaker 2: road rules and everything in an automatic and then teach 2155 01:40:13,253 --> 01:40:14,892 Speaker 2: them in a manual after. 2156 01:40:14,692 --> 01:40:17,772 Speaker 26: That, because that would be a good idea, because. 2157 01:40:18,013 --> 01:40:19,852 Speaker 2: Because my son going on the road and the automatic, 2158 01:40:19,973 --> 01:40:21,652 Speaker 2: you know, all he has to think about is you know, 2159 01:40:21,692 --> 01:40:23,772 Speaker 2: where he is on the road, indicating looking around, checking 2160 01:40:23,812 --> 01:40:25,293 Speaker 2: his blind spots and all that kind of stuff, not 2161 01:40:25,933 --> 01:40:28,093 Speaker 2: writing the club, having mess screaming at him for writing 2162 01:40:28,133 --> 01:40:28,492 Speaker 2: the clutch. 2163 01:40:28,772 --> 01:40:31,372 Speaker 3: Well, they changed it because it used to be because 2164 01:40:31,412 --> 01:40:34,293 Speaker 3: I did this, is that if you learnt in a 2165 01:40:34,452 --> 01:40:37,772 Speaker 3: manual for you're restricted, you could drive whatever. But if 2166 01:40:37,772 --> 01:40:39,812 Speaker 3: you learned in an automatic, it would say on your 2167 01:40:39,933 --> 01:40:43,213 Speaker 3: license that you can only drive automatic until you did 2168 01:40:43,293 --> 01:40:45,333 Speaker 3: your full and then once you'd got your full license, 2169 01:40:45,372 --> 01:40:47,213 Speaker 3: it didn't matter whether it was auto or manual. You 2170 01:40:47,253 --> 01:40:47,932 Speaker 3: could drive whatever. 2171 01:40:48,772 --> 01:40:52,452 Speaker 2: Someone on it. Someone will know this. There is something 2172 01:40:52,652 --> 01:40:54,532 Speaker 2: a little bit weird how they do that now about 2173 01:40:54,612 --> 01:40:59,053 Speaker 2: manuals and automatics and when you can and can't set 2174 01:40:59,053 --> 01:41:01,933 Speaker 2: your test on it. Yeah, someone will pointed out. I 2175 01:41:02,013 --> 01:41:03,492 Speaker 2: just someone was telling me this other day, but. 2176 01:41:03,532 --> 01:41:05,812 Speaker 3: It blew my mind that just because once you get 2177 01:41:05,812 --> 01:41:08,813 Speaker 3: to the full license, even if you've only driven automatic 2178 01:41:08,933 --> 01:41:11,932 Speaker 3: all through that process, that you can still drive menual 2179 01:41:11,973 --> 01:41:14,092 Speaker 3: it doesn't matter. But then when you get your restricted 2180 01:41:14,173 --> 01:41:15,412 Speaker 3: it was on the back of your license. 2181 01:41:15,572 --> 01:41:19,293 Speaker 2: Yeah, what are you allowed to like? Because on my 2182 01:41:19,452 --> 01:41:22,132 Speaker 2: car right, it's got like this cool little Formula one paddles, 2183 01:41:22,253 --> 01:41:24,812 Speaker 2: so you can flick it onto manual triptronic and you 2184 01:41:24,933 --> 01:41:27,532 Speaker 2: just you can change the gears on your on your 2185 01:41:27,652 --> 01:41:33,652 Speaker 2: steering wheel. Yeah that's pretty cool. Yeah yeah, yeah, sorry, Georgie, Sorry, sorry, Georgie. 2186 01:41:33,692 --> 01:41:34,293 Speaker 2: We started talking to. 2187 01:41:34,293 --> 01:41:37,612 Speaker 26: A Sometimes I'm gone and I keep talking to you 2188 01:41:37,732 --> 01:41:38,492 Speaker 26: and you're not there. 2189 01:41:39,772 --> 01:41:41,372 Speaker 2: Well, thank you so much for your call. We we 2190 01:41:42,093 --> 01:41:45,773 Speaker 2: will sometimes we drift off and the things. 2191 01:41:46,612 --> 01:41:49,612 Speaker 3: Always a pleasure, Georgie, thank you so Yeah. So, if 2192 01:41:49,652 --> 01:41:52,133 Speaker 3: anyone does know about the old manual automatic rule, does 2193 01:41:52,213 --> 01:41:54,333 Speaker 3: it still exist? I just thought that was weird that 2194 01:41:54,532 --> 01:41:56,372 Speaker 3: when it met it for the restricted. 2195 01:41:56,492 --> 01:41:59,412 Speaker 2: But I pride myself and knowing everything. But I don't 2196 01:41:59,412 --> 01:42:01,173 Speaker 2: know that exactly. 2197 01:42:01,053 --> 01:42:01,532 Speaker 3: Got you there? 2198 01:42:01,572 --> 01:42:01,812 Speaker 2: To't know? 2199 01:42:02,093 --> 01:42:04,652 Speaker 3: One hundred eighty eighty is the number to call? Nine 2200 01:42:04,732 --> 01:42:06,692 Speaker 3: to nine too, is the text number. It's twenty to four. 2201 01:42:08,333 --> 01:42:10,012 Speaker 6: Experience awaits news talks. 2202 01:42:10,053 --> 01:42:13,972 Speaker 3: They'd be good afternoon. It is seventeen to four. 2203 01:42:14,093 --> 01:42:14,213 Speaker 4: Now. 2204 01:42:14,253 --> 01:42:17,213 Speaker 3: We asked the question before, does the rule still exist 2205 01:42:17,333 --> 01:42:20,093 Speaker 3: that if you learn to drive your restricted license and 2206 01:42:20,133 --> 01:42:22,892 Speaker 3: a manual automatic, does that become a condition on your license? 2207 01:42:22,973 --> 01:42:23,173 Speaker 4: Yeah? 2208 01:42:23,612 --> 01:42:24,852 Speaker 2: What you said it? And if you sait it in 2209 01:42:24,893 --> 01:42:25,253 Speaker 2: an auto? 2210 01:42:25,452 --> 01:42:25,652 Speaker 4: Yeah? 2211 01:42:26,013 --> 01:42:28,213 Speaker 2: And so Rob, do you know the answer to this question? 2212 01:42:30,692 --> 01:42:30,732 Speaker 13: No? 2213 01:42:30,973 --> 01:42:32,333 Speaker 18: Look, unfortunately I don't. 2214 01:42:32,372 --> 01:42:32,612 Speaker 4: Mate. 2215 01:42:32,732 --> 01:42:37,492 Speaker 18: I'm about to I'm about to go down that pathway 2216 01:42:37,572 --> 01:42:38,772 Speaker 18: with my sixteen year old. 2217 01:42:39,412 --> 01:42:41,053 Speaker 11: He's just got learned. 2218 01:42:42,692 --> 01:42:45,772 Speaker 18: On a manual two thousand and nine Swift. 2219 01:42:47,412 --> 01:42:50,532 Speaker 2: And what an a manual two thousand and nine Suzuki Swift. 2220 01:42:52,372 --> 01:42:54,133 Speaker 18: Yeah, Yeah, we actually. 2221 01:42:53,933 --> 01:42:54,692 Speaker 10: Down run and. 2222 01:42:59,372 --> 01:43:02,173 Speaker 18: So we had a we saw it on an auction 2223 01:43:02,333 --> 01:43:04,253 Speaker 18: side bought. I was actually not a bad little car, 2224 01:43:04,853 --> 01:43:07,293 Speaker 18: and I think it's an ideal car for him to 2225 01:43:07,412 --> 01:43:11,133 Speaker 18: learn on a manual. You know, we've already we've already 2226 01:43:11,133 --> 01:43:14,412 Speaker 18: started had a few, had a few lessons on it, 2227 01:43:14,532 --> 01:43:18,933 Speaker 18: and yeah, I think, look, you know when everything is 2228 01:43:18,973 --> 01:43:21,852 Speaker 18: going to take practice and we we've got a very 2229 01:43:21,933 --> 01:43:27,973 Speaker 18: clear plan to to and there's certain goals that he 2230 01:43:28,173 --> 01:43:30,692 Speaker 18: needs to demonstrate to me that he's safe in in 2231 01:43:31,013 --> 01:43:34,572 Speaker 18: in executing before we go out on the open road. 2232 01:43:34,692 --> 01:43:37,213 Speaker 18: So I mean, you know, like this is this is uh, 2233 01:43:37,652 --> 01:43:39,732 Speaker 18: you know, this is this is no racking. 2234 01:43:40,492 --> 01:43:46,093 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's quite something sitting in the passenger seat when 2235 01:43:46,093 --> 01:43:48,532 Speaker 2: you've got this card that you're worried about them for 2236 01:43:48,532 --> 01:43:51,933 Speaker 2: a start, and but you're also as much as you 2237 01:43:52,053 --> 01:43:54,293 Speaker 2: love them, you don't want to trust them with your life. 2238 01:43:55,692 --> 01:43:58,972 Speaker 3: It's a fine balance. Rob, How does your child feel 2239 01:43:58,973 --> 01:44:00,932 Speaker 3: about having to learn an E manual because it wasn't 2240 01:44:00,973 --> 01:44:04,012 Speaker 3: really a choice for us, right whereas nowadays it's kind 2241 01:44:04,053 --> 01:44:05,532 Speaker 3: of weird to come across a manual. 2242 01:44:07,772 --> 01:44:11,372 Speaker 18: Yeah, that's that's an interesting point too. And you know 2243 01:44:12,173 --> 01:44:15,333 Speaker 18: these days you know or the automatic sense to be 2244 01:44:15,452 --> 01:44:20,133 Speaker 18: the go to choice. But ironically he came to me 2245 01:44:20,492 --> 01:44:22,452 Speaker 18: and said that he wanted to learn in a manual. 2246 01:44:23,812 --> 01:44:29,932 Speaker 18: And when I press him as to why, he said 2247 01:44:29,973 --> 01:44:31,892 Speaker 18: that a lot of his friends are learning and manuals, 2248 01:44:32,133 --> 01:44:37,492 Speaker 18: and so we so, so we just pushed on and 2249 01:44:37,692 --> 01:44:41,732 Speaker 18: and uh and and and went down that pathway for him, 2250 01:44:42,013 --> 01:44:43,812 Speaker 18: you know. And and the other thing is that you know, 2251 01:44:44,213 --> 01:44:47,452 Speaker 18: because this this, this the t turkey doesn't have you 2252 01:44:47,732 --> 01:44:50,772 Speaker 18: cruise control, you know. The one thing I'm reiterating to 2253 01:44:50,893 --> 01:44:54,732 Speaker 18: him is that the gearbox is his cruise control. Like 2254 01:44:54,812 --> 01:44:58,253 Speaker 18: he can only go so fast in a certain year, 2255 01:44:58,772 --> 01:45:00,932 Speaker 18: you know, before he needs to change gears. So we're 2256 01:45:01,053 --> 01:45:04,253 Speaker 18: using that analogy to help him wrong his way. 2257 01:45:04,532 --> 01:45:07,253 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, it's my ex girlfriend and known that I 2258 01:45:07,333 --> 01:45:09,532 Speaker 2: heard had the stereo really loud and how to screaming 2259 01:45:09,572 --> 01:45:11,612 Speaker 2: up the road in second gear. I think she thought 2260 01:45:11,652 --> 01:45:16,692 Speaker 2: it was an automatic. But hey, there was an interesting 2261 01:45:16,732 --> 01:45:19,293 Speaker 2: story in the news recently where someone tried to I 2262 01:45:19,372 --> 01:45:21,492 Speaker 2: can't remember where it was, it was somewhere in New Zealand, 2263 01:45:21,532 --> 01:45:24,452 Speaker 2: but these people looked out and this woman tried to 2264 01:45:24,492 --> 01:45:26,732 Speaker 2: steal their car. So got the keys and got in 2265 01:45:26,812 --> 01:45:29,933 Speaker 2: the car, but then it was a manual, so she 2266 01:45:30,013 --> 01:45:32,852 Speaker 2: couldn't she couldn't get away with the car. So basically 2267 01:45:32,973 --> 01:45:37,293 Speaker 2: having a manual's is sort of a semi security system. Yeah, 2268 01:45:37,532 --> 01:45:39,732 Speaker 2: so I've got the answer this question we were asking 2269 01:45:39,853 --> 01:45:43,053 Speaker 2: before I'm here. Look, I'm on the air, I'm on 2270 01:45:43,133 --> 01:45:49,133 Speaker 2: the ZTA dot GOVNT dot n z YEP. And that says, 2271 01:45:49,492 --> 01:45:52,092 Speaker 2: if you set your restricted practical test in an automatic vehicle, 2272 01:45:52,213 --> 01:45:54,333 Speaker 2: you'll have a condition on your license that means you 2273 01:45:54,412 --> 01:45:57,812 Speaker 2: can only drive automatic vehicles. This condition doesn't apply if 2274 01:45:57,853 --> 01:46:00,373 Speaker 2: you have a supervisor with you. But there are situations. 2275 01:46:00,412 --> 01:46:02,333 Speaker 2: So you get a job, you're an eighteen year old 2276 01:46:02,372 --> 01:46:04,452 Speaker 2: and you get some kind of job where you have 2277 01:46:04,572 --> 01:46:07,532 Speaker 2: to drive a you know, like a mini van, like 2278 01:46:07,572 --> 01:46:09,173 Speaker 2: a you know, mini tra or something. You're having to 2279 01:46:09,253 --> 01:46:10,772 Speaker 2: move something around. A lot of those will end up 2280 01:46:10,812 --> 01:46:12,932 Speaker 2: being in menuals. So it's a good thing to learn. 2281 01:46:12,933 --> 01:46:14,852 Speaker 2: I'm going to teach my son manual eventually if I 2282 01:46:14,933 --> 01:46:15,532 Speaker 2: can find one. 2283 01:46:15,652 --> 01:46:17,133 Speaker 3: When was the last time you drove a manual? 2284 01:46:17,973 --> 01:46:19,253 Speaker 2: The only reason I bring this up was I was 2285 01:46:19,333 --> 01:46:21,892 Speaker 2: shifting furniture and I rented a truck and it was manual, 2286 01:46:21,933 --> 01:46:25,412 Speaker 2: and that was the last time I did it, but no, no, 2287 01:46:25,532 --> 01:46:29,213 Speaker 2: it wasn't actually, but you know, I started driving in 2288 01:46:29,253 --> 01:46:33,093 Speaker 2: a column shift. I love them, but there's something quite 2289 01:46:33,093 --> 01:46:35,692 Speaker 2: cool about driving in a manual if you feel more 2290 01:46:36,293 --> 01:46:38,333 Speaker 2: set to the road until you get stuck in traffic 2291 01:46:38,452 --> 01:46:42,372 Speaker 2: on the Auckland Motorway. You have to write the whole thing, 2292 01:46:42,452 --> 01:46:46,213 Speaker 2: the whole drive, buddy, hops and store. That's why automatics 2293 01:46:46,333 --> 01:46:48,772 Speaker 2: took over, was for sitting in traffic. 2294 01:46:49,253 --> 01:46:51,053 Speaker 3: Oh one hundred and eighty ten eighty is a number 2295 01:46:51,093 --> 01:46:55,612 Speaker 3: to call, Jason, how are you this afternoon? Now you 2296 01:46:55,772 --> 01:46:58,932 Speaker 3: reckon that parents shouldn't be teaching their kids how to drive. 2297 01:46:59,853 --> 01:47:03,173 Speaker 27: Well, I think a mixture of both, but definitely not 2298 01:47:03,572 --> 01:47:08,892 Speaker 27: just appearance, because the person you will teach will pick 2299 01:47:08,973 --> 01:47:12,572 Speaker 27: up the bad habits that you've accumulated over the years. 2300 01:47:13,652 --> 01:47:16,372 Speaker 27: Obviously they have to pass when they do it, test 2301 01:47:16,772 --> 01:47:19,532 Speaker 27: and not show those bad habits, but they tend to 2302 01:47:19,572 --> 01:47:24,613 Speaker 27: come back. And I find in a very strange phenomen phenomenon. 2303 01:47:24,853 --> 01:47:25,293 Speaker 4: There we go. 2304 01:47:27,013 --> 01:47:30,692 Speaker 27: That a lot of people here because they drive all 2305 01:47:30,732 --> 01:47:33,932 Speaker 27: to magic, they don't bother putting their handbrakes on when 2306 01:47:33,973 --> 01:47:36,972 Speaker 27: they part their vehicles, which we're dangerous. 2307 01:47:37,093 --> 01:47:39,852 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm with you. There that's crazy. I'd never just 2308 01:47:39,933 --> 01:47:41,452 Speaker 3: put it in the park without the handbrake on. 2309 01:47:41,492 --> 01:47:44,612 Speaker 2: If But this goes my point about cars. Modern cars 2310 01:47:44,692 --> 01:47:48,412 Speaker 2: make you terrible at driving. My car's got an automatic handbrake, 2311 01:47:49,133 --> 01:47:51,372 Speaker 2: and I was driving my partner's car the other day 2312 01:47:51,732 --> 01:47:53,933 Speaker 2: and it wouldn't go anywhere and she goes because the 2313 01:47:53,973 --> 01:47:55,893 Speaker 2: handbake's on, you muppet, And I was thinking, so I 2314 01:47:56,013 --> 01:47:57,933 Speaker 2: ever agreased as a driver to the point where I 2315 01:47:58,093 --> 01:47:58,813 Speaker 2: no longer. 2316 01:48:00,492 --> 01:48:01,412 Speaker 3: Control of the vehicle. 2317 01:48:01,612 --> 01:48:01,852 Speaker 2: Yeah. 2318 01:48:04,013 --> 01:48:09,213 Speaker 27: I also think that people should learn situation manual because 2319 01:48:09,213 --> 01:48:15,012 Speaker 27: you're at one with the vehicle. You're understanding engine and timing, 2320 01:48:15,412 --> 01:48:18,133 Speaker 27: and you're more at one with that and the road. 2321 01:48:18,933 --> 01:48:22,492 Speaker 27: But you know, I come from London and I've not 2322 01:48:22,572 --> 01:48:25,012 Speaker 27: been there since two thousand and eight. But if anyone 2323 01:48:25,093 --> 01:48:29,013 Speaker 27: goes on holiday from New Zealand, the people who've got 2324 01:48:29,612 --> 01:48:33,092 Speaker 27: just purely automatic licenses will not be able to drive abroad. 2325 01:48:34,572 --> 01:48:37,452 Speaker 2: So you're saying in the UK, it's still mainly manuals, 2326 01:48:38,293 --> 01:48:39,172 Speaker 2: mainly manual. 2327 01:48:39,253 --> 01:48:41,853 Speaker 27: Yeah, it's very rare to frindle automatic. 2328 01:48:45,652 --> 01:48:50,692 Speaker 3: Yeah, Jason, thanks very much for giving us a buzz. Yeah, 2329 01:48:50,692 --> 01:48:52,333 Speaker 3: I didn't know that. I mean, I had suspicion that 2330 01:48:52,372 --> 01:48:55,012 Speaker 3: they had more manuals there, but primarily manual. 2331 01:48:55,093 --> 01:48:57,372 Speaker 2: That is surprising how this six says, Hey, bros, I 2332 01:48:57,452 --> 01:49:00,452 Speaker 2: bought my teenage son and ex army armored personnel carrier 2333 01:49:00,492 --> 01:49:02,532 Speaker 2: on tank tracks. He can do anything he wants on 2334 01:49:02,572 --> 01:49:05,452 Speaker 2: the road. That's from me because he bought himself a tank. Yeah, 2335 01:49:05,572 --> 01:49:08,812 Speaker 2: I think he's he's being facetious. I mean yeah, I 2336 01:49:08,853 --> 01:49:10,293 Speaker 2: mean you can do everything you want, you know, roll 2337 01:49:10,333 --> 01:49:12,173 Speaker 2: over a few cars, but eventually the cops will come 2338 01:49:12,213 --> 01:49:14,012 Speaker 2: and crack that lit and taisy. 2339 01:49:14,173 --> 01:49:16,173 Speaker 3: Yeah, when you get five stars like coming for you. Oh, 2340 01:49:16,213 --> 01:49:18,732 Speaker 3: one hundred and eighty, ten eighty. It is ten to four. 2341 01:49:20,053 --> 01:49:23,412 Speaker 1: The big stories, the big issues, the big trends, and 2342 01:49:23,772 --> 01:49:27,372 Speaker 1: everything in between. Matt and Tyler Afternoons with the Volvo 2343 01:49:27,692 --> 01:49:30,852 Speaker 1: XC ninety attention to detail and a commitment to comfort 2344 01:49:30,973 --> 01:49:35,612 Speaker 1: Newstalgs EDB Coming up at four. It's Heather Duplessy Ellen 2345 01:49:35,772 --> 01:49:37,293 Speaker 1: Drive with Andrew Dickens. 2346 01:49:37,572 --> 01:49:38,053 Speaker 19: He's back. 2347 01:49:38,253 --> 01:49:40,333 Speaker 28: Tom Trump's got straight to work and he signed a 2348 01:49:40,372 --> 01:49:43,293 Speaker 28: bunch of executive orders. We'll talk to a Republican strata 2349 01:49:43,333 --> 01:49:47,253 Speaker 28: to start five. Westbac CEO Katherine McGrath on after four 2350 01:49:47,372 --> 01:49:49,852 Speaker 28: to talk about her idea for a basic bank account 2351 01:49:50,173 --> 01:49:54,053 Speaker 28: and the most ridiculous complaints about television ads in New Zealand. 2352 01:49:53,973 --> 01:49:57,692 Speaker 1: Asking the questions getting the information you need. Heather Duplessy 2353 01:49:57,732 --> 01:50:01,293 Speaker 1: Allen Drive with Andrew Dickens and One New Zealand Next 2354 01:50:01,492 --> 01:50:03,092 Speaker 1: on Newstalks. 2355 01:50:02,532 --> 01:50:07,053 Speaker 3: EDB seven to four Jazz, Good afternoon. Now you got 2356 01:50:07,093 --> 01:50:09,652 Speaker 3: into a bit of trouble for driving a manual on 2357 01:50:09,732 --> 01:50:10,572 Speaker 3: an auto license. 2358 01:50:12,013 --> 01:50:15,012 Speaker 5: I did seventeen years after I got my life out 2359 01:50:15,213 --> 01:50:19,013 Speaker 5: far so here. So my old man taught me to 2360 01:50:19,093 --> 01:50:22,452 Speaker 5: drive a manual when I started learning to drive. But 2361 01:50:22,612 --> 01:50:25,093 Speaker 5: I was too I was too nervous to sit my 2362 01:50:25,213 --> 01:50:27,572 Speaker 5: restricted in it because I didn't want to trail. I 2363 01:50:27,652 --> 01:50:29,692 Speaker 5: just wanted to get my license. I was eighteen at 2364 01:50:29,692 --> 01:50:31,852 Speaker 5: the time, and to make sure. 2365 01:50:31,853 --> 01:50:32,572 Speaker 4: And I knew that it be. 2366 01:50:33,333 --> 01:50:36,532 Speaker 2: And it's terrifying, isn't it at that point, chairs though, 2367 01:50:36,532 --> 01:50:39,253 Speaker 2: it is. You're so scared, Yeah, you're so scared. I 2368 01:50:39,412 --> 01:50:41,892 Speaker 2: was almost the most nervous I've been in my life 2369 01:50:41,893 --> 01:50:44,933 Speaker 2: as sitting by driving teas because you knew it. 2370 01:50:45,053 --> 01:50:46,652 Speaker 3: Was either a hill start that you had to do 2371 01:50:46,853 --> 01:50:49,133 Speaker 3: or a parallel park, and we all knew both of 2372 01:50:49,173 --> 01:50:52,652 Speaker 3: those things were far easier, and an automatic and an. 2373 01:50:52,652 --> 01:50:55,812 Speaker 5: Automatic exactly, So I said it in an automatic and look, 2374 01:50:56,093 --> 01:50:58,972 Speaker 5: I'm going to you know, it's been embarrassing. I'm still 2375 01:50:58,973 --> 01:51:01,173 Speaker 5: sitting on my restricted license now and I'm coming up 2376 01:51:01,173 --> 01:51:06,013 Speaker 5: to the age of thirty seven. But yeah, a year 2377 01:51:06,053 --> 01:51:08,213 Speaker 5: and a half ago, I got fined because my hu 2378 01:51:08,372 --> 01:51:10,612 Speaker 5: since truck as a manual and I live out in 2379 01:51:10,652 --> 01:51:13,732 Speaker 5: the country and it's much comfortable to drive a manual 2380 01:51:13,732 --> 01:51:15,812 Speaker 5: in the country than it is in Alkland City. Yeah, 2381 01:51:16,213 --> 01:51:19,253 Speaker 5: and yeah, I got pulled over and got a fine 2382 01:51:19,372 --> 01:51:22,492 Speaker 5: for driving on because it stays on my license only 2383 01:51:22,612 --> 01:51:25,572 Speaker 5: to use an automatic transmission, and because of that they 2384 01:51:25,732 --> 01:51:26,652 Speaker 5: gave me a fine. 2385 01:51:26,853 --> 01:51:29,412 Speaker 2: And what makes no sense to me is that the 2386 01:51:29,452 --> 01:51:31,932 Speaker 2: automatic restriction is lifted once you get a full license. 2387 01:51:32,772 --> 01:51:34,933 Speaker 2: So once you got your full license, even if you 2388 01:51:35,013 --> 01:51:38,293 Speaker 2: set your full license in an automatic, suddenly you there's 2389 01:51:38,333 --> 01:51:40,812 Speaker 2: no logic, is there that I'd love to know logic 2390 01:51:40,893 --> 01:51:41,013 Speaker 2: of that. 2391 01:51:41,333 --> 01:51:44,612 Speaker 5: And if you've got your full yeah, you're just expected 2392 01:51:44,652 --> 01:51:46,173 Speaker 5: to know how to drive a manual because you've got 2393 01:51:46,173 --> 01:51:47,253 Speaker 5: your full It's ridiculous. 2394 01:51:47,532 --> 01:51:49,572 Speaker 3: Yeah, And what was the fine for in the end, Jazz? 2395 01:51:49,612 --> 01:51:50,572 Speaker 3: Was it a couple hundred bucks? 2396 01:51:50,652 --> 01:51:50,772 Speaker 4: Was it? 2397 01:51:52,213 --> 01:51:52,412 Speaker 19: Yeah? 2398 01:51:52,412 --> 01:51:54,772 Speaker 5: I think it was one hundred and twenty I think, 2399 01:51:55,772 --> 01:51:57,732 Speaker 5: and women break the bag, but it's not the point. 2400 01:51:58,013 --> 01:52:00,452 Speaker 2: And when Jazz is gone, Oh she just dropped off. 2401 01:52:00,612 --> 01:52:01,852 Speaker 2: I was going to ask her when she's going to 2402 01:52:01,933 --> 01:52:03,932 Speaker 2: get around to getting civil license. 2403 01:52:04,732 --> 01:52:07,772 Speaker 3: She's done. Well, how are you mate? We've got about 2404 01:52:07,812 --> 01:52:08,293 Speaker 3: ninety seconds. 2405 01:52:09,333 --> 01:52:12,852 Speaker 19: That's a good good welcome back, thank you. I had 2406 01:52:12,893 --> 01:52:15,092 Speaker 19: the opposite problem. My son used to rest the cards 2407 01:52:15,133 --> 01:52:18,692 Speaker 19: in his mid teen so when I started to teach 2408 01:52:18,772 --> 01:52:22,293 Speaker 19: him to drive, he hit the first roundabout just around 2409 01:52:22,293 --> 01:52:28,213 Speaker 19: the heap and was terrifying. So there was a Volvo and. 2410 01:52:30,173 --> 01:52:30,612 Speaker 4: Straight home. 2411 01:52:32,333 --> 01:52:34,732 Speaker 19: I taught him in the transit van. The manual transit van. 2412 01:52:35,652 --> 01:52:38,573 Speaker 19: I've done make him a little bit more uncomfortable. 2413 01:52:38,933 --> 01:52:40,613 Speaker 3: It's pretty hard to get that sideways. 2414 01:52:41,412 --> 01:52:43,372 Speaker 2: Yeah, the transit van, though, I mean that's a lot. 2415 01:52:43,933 --> 01:52:45,532 Speaker 2: You get a good view from up there, though there's 2416 01:52:45,973 --> 01:52:47,692 Speaker 2: you know, in terms of what's going on. 2417 01:52:47,853 --> 01:52:48,933 Speaker 3: It's a lot of vehicle, isn't it. 2418 01:52:50,053 --> 01:52:50,253 Speaker 2: Yeah? 2419 01:52:50,333 --> 01:52:50,812 Speaker 9: Yeah it was. 2420 01:52:50,893 --> 01:52:53,532 Speaker 19: But he knows how to handle the vehicle, wasn't I 2421 01:52:53,612 --> 01:52:55,532 Speaker 19: was trying to teach him about how to avoid all 2422 01:52:55,572 --> 01:52:57,173 Speaker 19: the other people trying to crash it to him and 2423 01:52:57,612 --> 01:53:00,133 Speaker 19: avoid the pedestrians going across the crossing. And all those 2424 01:53:00,173 --> 01:53:01,612 Speaker 19: sort of things that you're supposed to be learning. 2425 01:53:01,853 --> 01:53:04,852 Speaker 2: That sounds like he knew how to handle a vehicle 2426 01:53:04,893 --> 01:53:06,453 Speaker 2: at pace, but not necessarily. 2427 01:53:08,093 --> 01:53:14,532 Speaker 19: Yeah, still does. Unfortunately he failed his license. It's time 2428 01:53:14,572 --> 01:53:16,372 Speaker 19: because he went round the round about too fast. 2429 01:53:16,492 --> 01:53:20,333 Speaker 2: There you go, you, yeah, you go? Hey, thanks so 2430 01:53:20,412 --> 01:53:21,253 Speaker 2: much for you call. Greg. 2431 01:53:21,652 --> 01:53:26,173 Speaker 3: Well, good discussion that. Look, I learned a few things there. 2432 01:53:26,692 --> 01:53:28,372 Speaker 3: I don't know if you learned anything, because you are 2433 01:53:28,692 --> 01:53:29,972 Speaker 3: Healing's best driving instructor. 2434 01:53:30,133 --> 01:53:33,933 Speaker 2: I hope that someone in authorities listening and that you 2435 01:53:34,013 --> 01:53:35,692 Speaker 2: get your license taken off you from their lack of 2436 01:53:35,732 --> 01:53:38,412 Speaker 2: knowledge you had. I just hope that when we leave 2437 01:53:38,492 --> 01:53:41,572 Speaker 2: there's a couple of couple of police officers waiting outside 2438 01:53:41,853 --> 01:53:44,093 Speaker 2: to take your license off you because your lack of 2439 01:53:44,173 --> 01:53:46,452 Speaker 2: knowledge on the road code I find terrifying. 2440 01:53:46,532 --> 01:53:49,173 Speaker 3: And if anyone wants the program by Matt Heath, it's 2441 01:53:49,213 --> 01:53:51,492 Speaker 3: in development. It's going to be up for sale very 2442 01:53:51,612 --> 01:53:53,812 Speaker 3: soon and near you. 2443 01:53:53,973 --> 01:53:56,652 Speaker 2: How to be the Greatest parental Driving Instructor. 2444 01:53:56,772 --> 01:53:57,812 Speaker 3: We'll catch it tomorrow. 2445 01:54:00,532 --> 01:54:03,093 Speaker 1: For more from News Talks, there'd be listen live on 2446 01:54:03,213 --> 01:54:06,173 Speaker 1: air or online and keep our shows with you wherever 2447 01:54:06,253 --> 01:54:08,812 Speaker 1: you go with our podcasts on IR radio