1 00:00:09,093 --> 00:00:12,693 Speaker 1: You're listening to a podcast from Newstalk zed be follow 2 00:00:12,773 --> 00:00:16,933 Speaker 1: this and our wide range of podcasts now on iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:16,813 --> 00:00:19,412 Speaker 2: As part of our US the Experts series. As we 4 00:00:19,493 --> 00:00:22,932 Speaker 2: do every Wednesday, we are joined once again by Mark Vitti. 5 00:00:23,012 --> 00:00:25,893 Speaker 2: He is a world renowned animal behaviorist, dog trainer, and 6 00:00:26,093 --> 00:00:28,293 Speaker 2: educator who's been working with animals for over forty years. 7 00:00:28,333 --> 00:00:30,973 Speaker 2: He's a trained animal psychologist and he has created the 8 00:00:30,973 --> 00:00:35,093 Speaker 2: Dogs In Online training program. Mark Vitti joins us once again. Mark, 9 00:00:35,093 --> 00:00:35,772 Speaker 2: good afternoon. 10 00:00:36,732 --> 00:00:41,653 Speaker 3: Yeah, how bloody good. Let's start off with a simple one. 11 00:00:42,053 --> 00:00:45,053 Speaker 3: My chocolate lab eats duck poo when we walk by 12 00:00:45,132 --> 00:00:47,573 Speaker 3: the nearby lake. Is that okay, thanks, Liz? 13 00:00:48,653 --> 00:00:52,133 Speaker 4: Actually funny enough, But I mean there is a few 14 00:00:52,173 --> 00:00:56,693 Speaker 4: infections that birds obviously can transmit now, including some manella. 15 00:00:57,013 --> 00:01:00,773 Speaker 4: But yeah, as a general rule, dog with scavengers and 16 00:01:01,253 --> 00:01:05,413 Speaker 4: they've got a pretty discussed wrong you digestive system, so 17 00:01:05,653 --> 00:01:07,973 Speaker 4: it's probably not a big deal. But if you can 18 00:01:08,013 --> 00:01:09,933 Speaker 4: teach the Levett command, then do it. Yeah. 19 00:01:10,013 --> 00:01:13,693 Speaker 3: My friend was working on a show and by a 20 00:01:13,773 --> 00:01:18,493 Speaker 3: lake and got terrible salmonella just from duckpoo, So it's 21 00:01:18,493 --> 00:01:20,013 Speaker 3: not great for humans. I don't know if he was 22 00:01:20,053 --> 00:01:20,493 Speaker 3: eating her. 23 00:01:20,853 --> 00:01:23,893 Speaker 2: Well, that was my next should have been the first 24 00:01:23,893 --> 00:01:28,613 Speaker 2: thing right now, if exactly, if you've got a question 25 00:01:28,773 --> 00:01:30,572 Speaker 2: for Mark O eight hundred and eighty teen eighty the 26 00:01:30,613 --> 00:01:33,012 Speaker 2: lines are fall at the moment, but keep trying and 27 00:01:33,013 --> 00:01:34,373 Speaker 2: hopefully you will get through. 28 00:01:34,813 --> 00:01:34,973 Speaker 4: Pru. 29 00:01:35,053 --> 00:01:36,173 Speaker 3: Have you've got a question for Mark? 30 00:01:37,333 --> 00:01:37,493 Speaker 4: Oh? 31 00:01:37,572 --> 00:01:40,813 Speaker 5: Hi, yes, I So we've got a GSP. She's about 32 00:01:40,853 --> 00:01:44,573 Speaker 5: two and a half and she just gets really growley, 33 00:01:45,133 --> 00:01:52,213 Speaker 5: mainly with men and have unknown times and she she 34 00:01:52,253 --> 00:01:56,773 Speaker 5: hasn't she did jump at a guy yesterday, but she's 35 00:01:56,973 --> 00:01:59,413 Speaker 5: she's never like bitten any or anything. And I just 36 00:01:59,613 --> 00:02:03,093 Speaker 5: my question kind of is normally I'll really browl her 37 00:02:03,373 --> 00:02:06,053 Speaker 5: and really really tell her off and remove her from 38 00:02:06,093 --> 00:02:09,133 Speaker 5: the situation, like put her outside or something like that. 39 00:02:09,293 --> 00:02:10,973 Speaker 5: Is that the best way to deal with it or 40 00:02:11,013 --> 00:02:12,733 Speaker 5: is it something else? 41 00:02:12,933 --> 00:02:16,173 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's certainly it's something that you you know, 42 00:02:16,253 --> 00:02:18,493 Speaker 4: you reprimand when it happens, you know, tell her off. 43 00:02:18,532 --> 00:02:20,853 Speaker 4: But really it's it's not something that's going to change 44 00:02:20,933 --> 00:02:23,533 Speaker 4: just by doing that. So I teach a meat and 45 00:02:23,573 --> 00:02:27,613 Speaker 4: Greek technique with a clicker, and so what I'm doing 46 00:02:27,733 --> 00:02:30,813 Speaker 4: is teach teaching nicely command and I teach them a 47 00:02:30,893 --> 00:02:33,692 Speaker 4: touch target to someone's hands. So I do that first 48 00:02:33,733 --> 00:02:35,972 Speaker 4: of all to myself and I do it to family members. 49 00:02:35,972 --> 00:02:37,973 Speaker 4: So I teach her to touch her nose to the 50 00:02:38,013 --> 00:02:40,653 Speaker 4: hand of the person, and I click and reward her 51 00:02:40,693 --> 00:02:43,453 Speaker 4: for socialized and keep her on lead. I normally have 52 00:02:43,532 --> 00:02:46,733 Speaker 4: them on a nullin slip. Just got more control and 53 00:02:47,693 --> 00:02:49,813 Speaker 4: I've got my click and reward, because what you've got 54 00:02:49,813 --> 00:02:52,852 Speaker 4: to do is reshape that behavior because you know she's 55 00:02:52,893 --> 00:02:56,493 Speaker 4: being protective in that situation. She's either resource guarding you 56 00:02:56,613 --> 00:02:59,213 Speaker 4: or treating you. You know in a territorial way. She 57 00:02:59,293 --> 00:03:01,533 Speaker 4: might do it more at home and around the car. 58 00:03:02,413 --> 00:03:05,893 Speaker 4: So click on you click on rewarding pro social behavior 59 00:03:06,213 --> 00:03:09,293 Speaker 4: and your firm and saying no and leave it if 60 00:03:09,333 --> 00:03:13,093 Speaker 4: she shows any growling behavior. And with the click of 61 00:03:13,093 --> 00:03:14,973 Speaker 4: what you do is you're keeping your own learning state, 62 00:03:15,373 --> 00:03:19,253 Speaker 4: and so it's the most effective tool to shape that behavior. You. 63 00:03:19,333 --> 00:03:21,493 Speaker 4: I've got that online if you need to have a 64 00:03:21,532 --> 00:03:24,293 Speaker 4: look at how to do that. But it's important to 65 00:03:24,573 --> 00:03:25,933 Speaker 4: make sure you take that care of me. If we've 66 00:03:25,972 --> 00:03:28,813 Speaker 4: got a human orient and aggression case, sometimes we'll just 67 00:03:28,813 --> 00:03:31,373 Speaker 4: giving me a tingle and doing a virtual console. If 68 00:03:31,373 --> 00:03:34,693 Speaker 4: you think there's risks attached, and certainly sometimes we'll use 69 00:03:34,693 --> 00:03:35,173 Speaker 4: a muzzle. 70 00:03:35,493 --> 00:03:39,813 Speaker 3: Yeah you go, do you go, prough, We've got penny here. 71 00:03:39,853 --> 00:03:41,373 Speaker 3: You've got a spitting l packer. 72 00:03:43,373 --> 00:03:46,173 Speaker 6: I've got three l packers. They all come running up 73 00:03:46,213 --> 00:03:50,173 Speaker 6: when they want there, but one them he's a boy. 74 00:03:50,733 --> 00:03:53,453 Speaker 6: He has always keeps his ears back and he spits 75 00:03:53,493 --> 00:03:53,733 Speaker 6: at me. 76 00:03:53,853 --> 00:03:55,533 Speaker 7: He doesn't necessarily the others. 77 00:03:55,973 --> 00:03:57,733 Speaker 6: But I'm sick and part of getting his gold. 78 00:03:58,333 --> 00:04:07,933 Speaker 8: Naughty, naughty, Yeah, it doesn't work well as you know 79 00:04:08,093 --> 00:04:11,133 Speaker 8: what our packers and larmers that that is a threat display. 80 00:04:11,173 --> 00:04:13,373 Speaker 4: You know, when they they're spending at you, you know 81 00:04:13,453 --> 00:04:16,013 Speaker 4: that's turning you off from there in their language. What 82 00:04:16,093 --> 00:04:17,933 Speaker 4: I normally do, and I do the same with horses 83 00:04:17,973 --> 00:04:21,652 Speaker 4: and donkeys is you heard me talk about clicker training 84 00:04:21,653 --> 00:04:24,093 Speaker 4: with dogs. All I click a training all of my animals, 85 00:04:24,173 --> 00:04:28,253 Speaker 4: including our packers and larmers. And and so when I 86 00:04:28,333 --> 00:04:31,493 Speaker 4: teach them is I teach them to touch a ball 87 00:04:31,573 --> 00:04:35,813 Speaker 4: on a stick, which is you know, touch target. So 88 00:04:35,853 --> 00:04:38,253 Speaker 4: the first thing I do with that our packer, keep 89 00:04:38,333 --> 00:04:42,373 Speaker 4: him separate, work them independently. So just either put him, 90 00:04:42,413 --> 00:04:44,893 Speaker 4: put him on his holder and ti him up or 91 00:04:44,933 --> 00:04:48,013 Speaker 4: put him in a small area, and I teach him 92 00:04:48,013 --> 00:04:49,933 Speaker 4: touch that target with his nose and I click and 93 00:04:49,973 --> 00:04:52,413 Speaker 4: reward him, and I reward him with whatever it is, 94 00:04:52,453 --> 00:04:55,013 Speaker 4: sweet feet or whatever he particularly likes. So I have 95 00:04:55,053 --> 00:04:57,493 Speaker 4: a little pouch made with that in it, and as 96 00:04:57,493 --> 00:04:59,253 Speaker 4: soon as he touched it, I click and then deliver 97 00:04:59,293 --> 00:05:02,133 Speaker 4: a high value to reward to him. And once I've 98 00:05:02,133 --> 00:05:04,693 Speaker 4: got him on the touch target and he's not looking 99 00:05:04,733 --> 00:05:06,573 Speaker 4: to threaten you, you know, first of all, You've then 100 00:05:06,893 --> 00:05:10,053 Speaker 4: got him looking to you for attention and for direction. 101 00:05:10,613 --> 00:05:12,573 Speaker 4: And from there I can move him around with the 102 00:05:12,693 --> 00:05:16,453 Speaker 4: touch target, but most importantly engaging and will stop the 103 00:05:16,533 --> 00:05:19,573 Speaker 4: threat display that he's doing. So get touch target, click 104 00:05:19,613 --> 00:05:22,933 Speaker 4: of training. That's the trick for that everything, okay. 105 00:05:23,413 --> 00:05:25,933 Speaker 3: And and if that doesn't work, just to suck up 106 00:05:25,933 --> 00:05:28,413 Speaker 3: a big logie and spit back. 107 00:05:29,973 --> 00:05:30,413 Speaker 4: On fire. 108 00:05:30,653 --> 00:05:34,813 Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you very much for afternoon, and we have 109 00:05:35,053 --> 00:05:38,013 Speaker 2: Mark Vitti. He is a world renowned animal behavior is 110 00:05:38,093 --> 00:05:40,493 Speaker 2: dog trainer and educator. He joins us once again for 111 00:05:40,693 --> 00:05:43,213 Speaker 2: us the Experts series. Mark, thanks very much again for 112 00:05:43,253 --> 00:05:47,933 Speaker 2: your time. My bit Pen, you're on with Mark. 113 00:05:49,493 --> 00:05:52,813 Speaker 9: Hi Mark, we have a one year old? 114 00:05:54,013 --> 00:05:56,093 Speaker 4: Hello, Hi Pen? Do you go for it? 115 00:05:56,653 --> 00:05:56,853 Speaker 1: Oh? 116 00:05:56,933 --> 00:05:57,093 Speaker 4: Hi? 117 00:05:57,853 --> 00:06:00,973 Speaker 9: We're got a one year old Stephie who's lovely friendly, 118 00:06:01,013 --> 00:06:03,573 Speaker 9: lovely with the cares and us. But the only person 119 00:06:03,613 --> 00:06:06,453 Speaker 9: in the house I can walk her is my husband 120 00:06:07,093 --> 00:06:10,373 Speaker 9: because she gets ver excited when we come across other 121 00:06:10,493 --> 00:06:13,573 Speaker 9: dogs and starts to She greets them heavily friendly, has 122 00:06:13,573 --> 00:06:16,253 Speaker 9: a play, and then when it's time to go, she 123 00:06:16,893 --> 00:06:19,893 Speaker 9: won't go. She stumes at the league, fits and snarls 124 00:06:19,933 --> 00:06:22,853 Speaker 9: and turns into a bit of a sheep devil. So 125 00:06:22,893 --> 00:06:24,933 Speaker 9: my husband can handle her, but I'm kind of too 126 00:06:25,013 --> 00:06:28,693 Speaker 9: scared to go near snapping jewels. You've got any advice 127 00:06:28,773 --> 00:06:29,653 Speaker 9: for us? 128 00:06:30,773 --> 00:06:33,093 Speaker 4: Yeah, So when you see she's snapping you, she's not 129 00:06:33,133 --> 00:06:35,613 Speaker 4: actually fighting or threatening the other dogs. It's that you 130 00:06:35,693 --> 00:06:37,973 Speaker 4: just doesn't want to leave the situation, isn't it. 131 00:06:38,773 --> 00:06:39,013 Speaker 9: Yeah? 132 00:06:39,173 --> 00:06:39,653 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's it. 133 00:06:40,773 --> 00:06:44,173 Speaker 4: Yeah, Yeah, so important with it with it with your 134 00:06:44,293 --> 00:06:47,293 Speaker 4: dog at a one year old. They are teenagers at 135 00:06:47,333 --> 00:06:50,773 Speaker 4: that stage, and you know teenagehood goes from about five 136 00:06:50,773 --> 00:06:54,053 Speaker 4: months to eighteen months, and so they're very much in 137 00:06:54,133 --> 00:06:57,892 Speaker 4: a in an interactive phase with other dogs and people. 138 00:06:57,933 --> 00:07:00,453 Speaker 4: If they're really social, good only for having them social 139 00:07:00,493 --> 00:07:03,893 Speaker 4: to people and dogs. It's the critical issue. And now 140 00:07:03,893 --> 00:07:08,133 Speaker 4: it's just really that's really just a control issue. You'll see. 141 00:07:08,693 --> 00:07:12,133 Speaker 4: You know, in my schools, I teach them using clicker 142 00:07:12,173 --> 00:07:16,893 Speaker 4: training and what it called contrast training, and so those 143 00:07:16,893 --> 00:07:19,253 Speaker 4: are just all simple training jobs that that might't be 144 00:07:19,293 --> 00:07:23,613 Speaker 4: difficult to solve. So get her on the clicker. I 145 00:07:23,693 --> 00:07:25,333 Speaker 4: use a say the clicker is the pass and this 146 00:07:25,373 --> 00:07:28,573 Speaker 4: way to retrain a dog because you're reshaping that behavior 147 00:07:28,573 --> 00:07:33,173 Speaker 4: because she hasn't learned the right behavior, so's it's quite easy. 148 00:07:33,053 --> 00:07:36,853 Speaker 4: They're normally really good on the clicker. The Staffe's they 149 00:07:36,893 --> 00:07:39,933 Speaker 4: are a very highly aroused dog. They have a trait 150 00:07:40,013 --> 00:07:43,133 Speaker 4: called gaminess in the ball terreas, which means they're kind 151 00:07:43,133 --> 00:07:45,213 Speaker 4: of a bit over the top when they are when 152 00:07:45,213 --> 00:07:48,933 Speaker 4: they react. But particularly I want you to work on 153 00:07:48,973 --> 00:07:51,133 Speaker 4: the joining up technique. If you get into my work 154 00:07:51,173 --> 00:07:53,293 Speaker 4: and have a look, you'll see what are called joining up. 155 00:07:53,373 --> 00:07:56,373 Speaker 4: She needs to join up really well with you in particular, 156 00:07:56,413 --> 00:07:58,213 Speaker 4: and the kids, your husband is not going to have 157 00:07:58,213 --> 00:08:00,773 Speaker 4: so much trouble. Get her on the clicker, and you 158 00:08:00,853 --> 00:08:02,813 Speaker 4: want a good recall and be able to walk her 159 00:08:02,853 --> 00:08:05,893 Speaker 4: off away from other dogs, which you practice in low 160 00:08:05,933 --> 00:08:11,013 Speaker 4: arousals situations and then start generalize into a situation in 161 00:08:11,053 --> 00:08:14,853 Speaker 4: the park where, of course everything's up a few notches 162 00:08:14,893 --> 00:08:16,493 Speaker 4: in terms of hyper. 163 00:08:16,213 --> 00:08:20,653 Speaker 2: Arousal pen all the best in Stephy's our beautiful dogs. 164 00:08:20,693 --> 00:08:26,173 Speaker 7: Peter, how are you hey, boys? He much? You got 165 00:08:26,173 --> 00:08:29,213 Speaker 7: a nine year old? I got a nine year old 166 00:08:29,613 --> 00:08:33,973 Speaker 7: chop lab. She's got plates and pins and both front 167 00:08:34,013 --> 00:08:37,573 Speaker 7: legs from when she was one. So the arthritis has 168 00:08:37,653 --> 00:08:43,613 Speaker 7: come on a bit. We're used the arthriders treatment, you know, 169 00:08:43,653 --> 00:08:47,013 Speaker 7: the injection once a month's treatment. Yes, but it doesn't 170 00:08:47,132 --> 00:08:52,293 Speaker 7: seem to be much relieved. When when do you think 171 00:08:52,333 --> 00:08:54,693 Speaker 7: it's the right time to make that harsh call. 172 00:08:56,612 --> 00:08:58,613 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a tough call, isn't it at that stage. 173 00:08:58,612 --> 00:09:01,413 Speaker 4: I mean, you know, a lab nine, she's still you know, 174 00:09:01,533 --> 00:09:04,853 Speaker 4: and theories should have plenty of plenty to go, you know, 175 00:09:04,892 --> 00:09:08,252 Speaker 4: in terms of normally their large expenses you know, upround 176 00:09:08,413 --> 00:09:12,813 Speaker 4: ten to twelve, you know, and older. So you know, 177 00:09:12,852 --> 00:09:16,172 Speaker 4: you're right. The arthritis will be due to the surgical 178 00:09:16,973 --> 00:09:19,852 Speaker 4: techniques that have been had to be applied early on. 179 00:09:20,453 --> 00:09:24,093 Speaker 4: Now they've got techniques that they can actually remove arthritis 180 00:09:24,173 --> 00:09:28,053 Speaker 4: as well through surgical techniques. And the first thing I'd 181 00:09:28,053 --> 00:09:30,133 Speaker 4: do though, is I would have an X ray of 182 00:09:30,173 --> 00:09:36,213 Speaker 4: the area that the arthritis is then and determine the 183 00:09:36,333 --> 00:09:39,213 Speaker 4: extent of the arthritis, and the VET really is the 184 00:09:39,213 --> 00:09:42,853 Speaker 4: one that will make that decision. I prefer personally to 185 00:09:42,933 --> 00:09:47,333 Speaker 4: actually get a specialist opinion on something like that, but anyway, 186 00:09:47,533 --> 00:09:50,453 Speaker 4: your GP can do it. And once I've got a 187 00:09:50,533 --> 00:09:53,453 Speaker 4: reading on the extent of it, then i know number 188 00:09:53,453 --> 00:09:57,612 Speaker 4: one that's the cause and number two is the VET. 189 00:09:57,693 --> 00:10:01,293 Speaker 4: Will you really advise you well, normally on when we're 190 00:10:01,293 --> 00:10:04,173 Speaker 4: getting to that place, we might need to consider you 191 00:10:04,252 --> 00:10:07,372 Speaker 4: the major, but at this stage I would suggest there's 192 00:10:07,413 --> 00:10:10,973 Speaker 4: more to do with your VET to resolve the issue. 193 00:10:12,012 --> 00:10:14,053 Speaker 4: And there's some pretty good drugs there now that can 194 00:10:14,093 --> 00:10:15,413 Speaker 4: take to the next level too. 195 00:10:15,533 --> 00:10:17,093 Speaker 3: Yeah, there are some pretty good drugs that can take 196 00:10:17,132 --> 00:10:17,773 Speaker 3: to the next level. 197 00:10:17,892 --> 00:10:20,053 Speaker 2: Yep, yeah, yeah, Matt knows that well. 198 00:10:21,492 --> 00:10:22,012 Speaker 4: Sorry about that. 199 00:10:22,053 --> 00:10:25,693 Speaker 2: It's something yeah, Peter, all the very best to you. 200 00:10:25,813 --> 00:10:26,133 Speaker 4: Joe. 201 00:10:26,252 --> 00:10:27,132 Speaker 2: You're on with Mark. 202 00:10:28,573 --> 00:10:34,453 Speaker 6: Oh hey, lads love show listen every afternoon. Thank you, hey, 203 00:10:34,533 --> 00:10:35,093 Speaker 6: thank you, Matt. 204 00:10:35,333 --> 00:10:36,372 Speaker 9: I've got a little bit. 205 00:10:38,093 --> 00:10:43,333 Speaker 6: Two dogs. I introduced a new puppy probably about six 206 00:10:43,413 --> 00:10:47,053 Speaker 6: months ago. He's about seven eight months old now. He 207 00:10:47,132 --> 00:10:50,852 Speaker 6: loves her, absolutely loves her. Adors there, but he chases 208 00:10:50,892 --> 00:10:53,813 Speaker 6: her around pretty much non stop, and he won't live 209 00:10:53,892 --> 00:10:58,573 Speaker 6: with tea or two by himself literally all over the 210 00:10:58,612 --> 00:10:59,172 Speaker 6: whole time. 211 00:11:09,093 --> 00:11:16,013 Speaker 4: Okay, she's too crosses and and the pups hewent months now, 212 00:11:17,093 --> 00:11:19,973 Speaker 4: siventeen months. Okay, So he's getting into the late puberty 213 00:11:20,252 --> 00:11:26,133 Speaker 4: as he dext and he's just quiteer excited. He's not okay. 214 00:11:26,213 --> 00:11:30,933 Speaker 4: I mean he's not bothering her though, is he mounting 215 00:11:30,973 --> 00:11:32,093 Speaker 4: her or do not? Really? 216 00:11:32,132 --> 00:11:34,773 Speaker 6: I mean, you know, she's fine with him. It's just 217 00:11:34,892 --> 00:11:36,933 Speaker 6: and like as I said, they play really well. It's 218 00:11:37,012 --> 00:11:39,453 Speaker 6: just now that he's started hoping his leg, he's actually 219 00:11:39,533 --> 00:11:40,893 Speaker 6: literally peeing on your. 220 00:11:42,533 --> 00:11:45,853 Speaker 4: Right. Yeah, you know, i'd be thinking about desexing, you know, 221 00:11:45,852 --> 00:11:50,853 Speaker 4: particularly with them at that age. He's completed with his 222 00:11:50,973 --> 00:11:53,532 Speaker 4: development now, you know his physical development that you leave 223 00:11:53,612 --> 00:11:56,492 Speaker 4: him entire four if you want to do that, and 224 00:11:56,773 --> 00:11:59,093 Speaker 4: I tweak that back and get rid of those behaviors 225 00:11:59,093 --> 00:12:02,732 Speaker 4: and less unless you're breeding from him, and so that 226 00:12:02,933 --> 00:12:05,253 Speaker 4: just makes your life a lot easier, and he'd probably 227 00:12:05,413 --> 00:12:09,413 Speaker 4: less interested in her and worrying him. I use a 228 00:12:09,533 --> 00:12:13,533 Speaker 4: moderation technique that bounding all over and being too rough 229 00:12:13,573 --> 00:12:16,612 Speaker 4: and tumble, I've got to use a long line and 230 00:12:16,252 --> 00:12:18,693 Speaker 4: a slip color, and I'm just using a little check 231 00:12:19,012 --> 00:12:21,693 Speaker 4: as if it's coming from her, not from you. You're 232 00:12:21,732 --> 00:12:24,053 Speaker 4: not saying anything. I'm just trying to wind it because 233 00:12:24,093 --> 00:12:28,453 Speaker 4: she's obviously not got any defensive reaction to him that's effective. 234 00:12:28,813 --> 00:12:31,612 Speaker 4: So she's been in effective, so he's getting worse, and 235 00:12:31,773 --> 00:12:33,892 Speaker 4: so you need to What I try and do is 236 00:12:33,933 --> 00:12:36,652 Speaker 4: in partner a sense that that she has got a 237 00:12:36,693 --> 00:12:38,852 Speaker 4: little bit of I can tell you off cut that out, 238 00:12:39,252 --> 00:12:41,093 Speaker 4: you know, And so I'm just using a check, not 239 00:12:41,173 --> 00:12:44,732 Speaker 4: saying anything. It's coming from her. And so you can 240 00:12:44,732 --> 00:12:47,132 Speaker 4: always check on my schools to learn how to do 241 00:12:47,252 --> 00:12:50,213 Speaker 4: that technique. It's called moderation, and I use a moderating 242 00:12:50,333 --> 00:12:52,293 Speaker 4: technique take to take you about a couple of weeks 243 00:12:52,333 --> 00:12:54,693 Speaker 4: to get it sorted. But as well worth doing when 244 00:12:54,693 --> 00:12:56,853 Speaker 4: you've got one that's really bothering the other. 245 00:12:56,773 --> 00:13:00,292 Speaker 3: Dog, there's no need for that peeing on you. 246 00:13:00,693 --> 00:13:03,773 Speaker 2: It's fully behavior is no fun exactly. 247 00:13:03,973 --> 00:13:06,172 Speaker 4: It's not unusual that in time mails will do that, 248 00:13:06,372 --> 00:13:08,813 Speaker 4: you know, not regular, but it's a bit of a 249 00:13:08,933 --> 00:13:10,132 Speaker 4: it's a bothersome. 250 00:13:09,732 --> 00:13:13,733 Speaker 3: Baby that's well, No one wants to be paid on well. 251 00:13:17,012 --> 00:13:21,933 Speaker 2: Mark, Mark, You've been great as always, Thank you very 252 00:13:22,012 --> 00:13:23,813 Speaker 2: much and if people want to find out more week 253 00:13:23,813 --> 00:13:26,573 Speaker 2: can they go Yeah Dogdan. 254 00:13:26,213 --> 00:13:28,893 Speaker 4: Dot com or jump onto our Facebook page and uh 255 00:13:29,492 --> 00:13:33,173 Speaker 4: Facebook live on Monday nights and yeah, come come visit 256 00:13:33,252 --> 00:13:36,173 Speaker 4: us and we'll give you a hand. Virtual schools are available. 257 00:13:35,773 --> 00:13:38,132 Speaker 2: To you too, brilliant. We will catch up again in 258 00:13:38,132 --> 00:13:38,933 Speaker 2: about a month's time. 259 00:13:40,053 --> 00:13:41,253 Speaker 4: Yeah, look forward to seeing you guys. 260 00:13:42,012 --> 00:13:45,093 Speaker 1: Thank you for more from News Talks at b Listen 261 00:13:45,213 --> 00:13:48,132 Speaker 1: live on air or online, and keep our shows with 262 00:13:48,293 --> 00:13:51,413 Speaker 1: you wherever you go with our podcasts on iHeartRadio