Speaker 1: Out of the Gate with Maddy McClean, Chris Henry and
Speaker 1: Brad Christensen.
Speaker 2: Oh, cheer, this is a nice little cold one. And
Speaker 2: to be honest, this is very naughty because this is
Speaker 2: it's Tuesday. To record the podcast on Tuesday and it
Speaker 2: comes out on a Wednesday. But today it's like a
Speaker 2: foam Monday because obviously weekend, so having a drink on
Speaker 2: a Monday night feels really naughty.
Speaker 1: It does feel a bit naughty.
Speaker 3: I'm here for it.
Speaker 1: I'm so here for it.
Speaker 3: Make your own rules.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well you came back.
Speaker 3: Yes, I was real stress that you would change your mind.
Speaker 1: But no, no, no, no, this is what what happens
Speaker 1: when a third comes back for a second go. Does
Speaker 1: that become something more serious than just a little fling?
Speaker 2: Oh? I don't know. I suppose he's he's seen all
Speaker 2: of her bits and pieces. He's seen how the good
Speaker 2: side of us, the bad side of us. And though
Speaker 2: we did put on a very good performance.
Speaker 1: We put in a great before.
Speaker 2: We were respectful, mindful, Yes, we were all of the things.
Speaker 1: Yes, but he's come back for us for round two.
Speaker 2: Maybe we are we going towards a thrapple.
Speaker 1: Well, do we have to do we have to show
Speaker 1: new moves tonight or do we just repeat like rinse
Speaker 1: and repeat what happened last time.
Speaker 3: I'm expecting some new materials.
Speaker 1: New material shit.
Speaker 2: Wow, I don't know what. And from listen to the
Speaker 2: podcast would know that it's definitely not something that we.
Speaker 1: Are never have been and don't plan on starting now.
Speaker 2: Yes, too old for that ship.
Speaker 1: Well, this is true, this is true.
Speaker 2: I did.
Speaker 1: I gave it a go once, and I've said this
Speaker 1: on the podcast. Wasn't for me. It wasn't for me.
Speaker 2: He wouldn't ask to go back.
Speaker 1: I wasn't asked to go back, and I didn't, not
Speaker 1: for anyway. Came a lovely to have you back on
Speaker 1: the podcast. Did you have fun last week?
Speaker 3: I had so much fun last week.
Speaker 1: No, no regrets, no repercussions or anything like that. No, No,
Speaker 1: we talked. We talked about the new Man last week
Speaker 1: on the podcast. Did the new Men listen to the podcast?
Speaker 3: Did listen to the podcast? He's very supportive, So oh.
Speaker 2: That is good.
Speaker 3: It's nice.
Speaker 2: Did you have like the real sort of PTSD that
Speaker 2: I have something leave the podcast where I think, oh,
Speaker 2: that's right, it's not just three people in a room
Speaker 2: having a beer and chat into each other. Actually, other
Speaker 2: people listen to it.
Speaker 3: I was driving home and I was like, oh God,
Speaker 3: did I say too much? Was that really appropriate? And
Speaker 3: I just started running through everything in my head and
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, well, there's nothing I can do
Speaker 3: about it now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, welcome to our worlds to be fear. I think
Speaker 1: I did stop caring a while ago, because we're coming
Speaker 1: out three years.
Speaker 2: I know, God, impressive, very long term relationship.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but maybe sometimes I do feel like maybe I
Speaker 1: do need to care just a little bit. Well, I
Speaker 1: think about it just a little bit.
Speaker 2: I think we're a little bit different these days. When
Speaker 2: new television Sean McLain interviewing the Prime Minister and then
Speaker 2: we were coming here and have some chats, I'd be
Speaker 2: a little bit like, well to you.
Speaker 1: And now I'm loosey goosey radio many he's crazy. Whatever
Speaker 1: I can do and say whatever I want.
Speaker 3: You've de aged about fifty years.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's funny because I do him. Obviously do a
Speaker 1: radio show now as well, and we record a little podcast. Well,
Speaker 1: we play like some of the best bits from our
Speaker 1: show on the podcast, but we do a separate introduction
Speaker 1: just for the podcast.
Speaker 2: Pouring his other podcasts away.
Speaker 1: In fairness, I often plug this podcast on that other one.
Speaker 1: It's okay, just don't do it the other way. No,
Speaker 1: But what happens is we'll go from like very family
Speaker 1: friendly content to as soon as the podcast which is on,
Speaker 1: it's just like it gives you permission to do be
Speaker 1: say whatever you want to do. Be say.
Speaker 2: Well, I think it's I think it's the Internet, this
Speaker 2: crazy old thing called the Internet, because I had situation
Speaker 2: today actually where I've unfortunately just received our second strike
Speaker 2: on Instagram on the out the gate channel for posting
Speaker 2: something inappropriate.
Speaker 1: What did we post?
Speaker 2: We'll talk about it. We'll talk about it so now,
Speaker 2: and I'll show you the photo that I tried to post.
Speaker 2: I didn't think it was that bad.
Speaker 3: I'm a drigued now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So if Instagram flags it, does that mean someone
Speaker 1: has someone complained?
Speaker 2: No, it was instant like it's obviously got some sort
Speaker 2: of little algorithm and it can find it. And it's
Speaker 2: like it was like, hey, second warning. So now we
Speaker 2: can no longer participate for we will and lives just
Speaker 2: in case we're going to do a live we can't
Speaker 2: do Have we ever done a live oh we can
Speaker 2: barely get a video together. Well, there also bless us
Speaker 2: with make a bold claim like let's go live, and
Speaker 2: then we never worked. So yeah, throughout the gate Stars.
Speaker 3: Maybe you need to move your content over to Twitter.
Speaker 2: Oh yes, well this photo had come from Twitter. So you.
Speaker 1: Is filthy.
Speaker 2: I find you. I find Twitter filthy on numerous different ways.
Speaker 2: But when it goes from like here's what Elon Musk
Speaker 2: has to say to hear some guy getting absolutely railed,
Speaker 2: it's quite the contrast. It isn't a contrast. Hello, Yeah,
Speaker 2: and then it's like, you know something in Palestine something indiction.
Speaker 3: Have you seen people you know on there?
Speaker 2: A couple consentually though, people that I know of, people
Speaker 2: I know of.
Speaker 3: No, I've definitely stumbled across a couple of Twitter accounts
Speaker 3: that I know you the person is that's posting and I'm.
Speaker 1: Like, oh wow, with face and everything. Yeah, yeah, that's bold,
Speaker 1: it's very good on them. Yeah, that's what you want
Speaker 1: to do.
Speaker 2: I actually actually know I example of this not that
Speaker 2: I knew this person super well, and I mean, to
Speaker 2: be fair, that quite public about it. I probably could
Speaker 2: say that say their name, but I used to follow it.
Speaker 2: Did follow this Australian comedian, stand up comedian guy, like
Speaker 2: really funny, all this sort of stuff. You'd see him
Speaker 2: all over TV, even like organized. He had like a
Speaker 2: shop where he used to sell kind of weird merchant
Speaker 2: that sort of stuff. Anyway, cool, great guy. I stumbled
Speaker 2: across him the other day. Who has a couple of
Speaker 2: finishes that are like not online with what's going on
Speaker 2: the end? I st to see him on like on
Speaker 2: the normal Instagram channel that I follow him, like appearing
Speaker 2: on Brickfast television and stuff, and I'm like, well, you know,
Speaker 2: we never yacked someone's arm, but I'm not sure the
Speaker 2: producers of their TV shoes knew about let's just say
Speaker 2: his desire for a trade.
Speaker 1: Can I tell you that I went to a wedding
Speaker 1: over the weekend, and I've got a few stories to
Speaker 1: share from that throughout the podcast. But we were taking
Speaker 1: a bunch of photos and I was in the bridal
Speaker 1: party and my best friend was getting married. And you know,
Speaker 1: if you're like when the bride, you often see when
Speaker 1: the bride and the bride'smaids are getting married, they wear
Speaker 1: like cute little rogues or pajamas or something like matching sets.
Speaker 1: So we've got these like Team.
Speaker 2: Bride, very cute, lovely nice, like a teal green.
Speaker 1: Yes, what I will say is definitely made for like
Speaker 1: petite women and not for a man, because.
Speaker 3: Like, you know where this is going.
Speaker 1: But do you know what I've just do you know
Speaker 1: what's happened is she just sent me like a drop
Speaker 1: box folded to upload but like all the photos that
Speaker 1: I took from over the weekend. And I think because
Speaker 1: I just wentles, you know, like swipe swap, swipe through
Speaker 1: my album just being like, here's all the photos from
Speaker 1: the wedding, I think I've uploaded the ass photo to
Speaker 1: the like shared dry.
Speaker 2: Do you have a beautiful bottom? So you should definitely
Speaker 2: show it off, take a closer look at it. We
Speaker 2: haven't got a sort of little nuts king at the bottom,
Speaker 2: do we no nuts?
Speaker 3: Set?
Speaker 2: No, just just checks just checks PG. Still wouldn't be
Speaker 2: able to get that away on Instagram though we could.
Speaker 2: You can't post ass, can't post ass crash. I don't know.
Speaker 2: The first time we got done was when the it
Speaker 2: was around the Olympics, and it was when two of
Speaker 2: the Olympic divers just had their medals on and they
Speaker 2: were showing their bottoms and that's what we got. Their
Speaker 2: first strike.
Speaker 3: Was just celebrating winners. I know who hates a winner?
Speaker 3: Father Natalie Instagram.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, agreed.
Speaker 3: I was gonna say which upload service were you using?
Speaker 3: Was it like Google Drive or something because you can
Speaker 3: remove things that you've uploaded.
Speaker 1: No, it was like a random It's called wed uploader,
Speaker 1: and I can upload the photos, but I don't have
Speaker 1: access to see it, which gives me faith that the
Speaker 1: only person that's seeing the photos is the bride. And
Speaker 1: we've known each other since we're thirteen, so we've seen everything. Yeah,
Speaker 1: how are you boys anyway?
Speaker 2: Goods?
Speaker 1: Good?
Speaker 3: Thanks?
Speaker 2: Yeah, Rail goods yep, no edit. Great long weekend. I
Speaker 2: really just leaned into my age over the long weekend.
Speaker 2: I spent the whole day in the garden. I did
Speaker 2: some DIY. I made like a little shower screen because
Speaker 2: we're getting out outdoor shower updated. I cooked lots of lunches.
Speaker 2: I just really enjoyed it, to be honest, it was
Speaker 2: really nice.
Speaker 1: You in your meal prep ero, Oh yeah, very.
Speaker 2: Much so, because I'm in charge of cooking in my house,
Speaker 2: so we have we have light blue jobs and dark
Speaker 2: blue jobs, and I am in charge of the kitchen,
Speaker 2: and Matthew is in charge of the laundry, which works
Speaker 2: quite well. So I didn't have to play Monday a
Speaker 2: good way. That's great. Always got clean andies folded, put
Speaker 2: in the drawer, best the dream. And he sent me
Speaker 2: to eat for lunch every day.
Speaker 1: See we split ours inside outside, so we can you.
Speaker 2: Get the raw deal on your inside outside.
Speaker 3: Are either inside or the outside?
Speaker 1: The inside, absolutely the inside.
Speaker 2: He's not allowed to participate in the outside.
Speaker 1: I'm not allowed.
Speaker 3: So what do you have to do in the outside?
Speaker 1: Just like mother lawns trimly hedges like handy work. I
Speaker 1: would say, oh yeah, bins bins.
Speaker 2: Yes, that's a good outside job.
Speaker 1: Yeap, here's what I Here's what happens though, And I've
Speaker 1: talked to a few people about this who have very
Speaker 1: specific like inside outside splits the outside. People often end
Speaker 1: up feeling like the heroes, like, for some reason, doing
Speaker 1: the heavy lifting of like trimming a hedge seems so
Speaker 1: much bigger than like doing a load of washing, or
Speaker 1: like vacuuming the floors, and so Ryan often feels like
Speaker 1: he's the hero of the household because he does all
Speaker 1: the things in the outside and no like consideration is
Speaker 1: given to the like cooking and the cleaning that I
Speaker 1: do inside the house.
Speaker 3: Wait, so if you cook, you also have to do
Speaker 3: the dishes.
Speaker 1: Ah No, he will often pick up the dishes. But
Speaker 1: I do do the cooking, and I do a lot
Speaker 1: of the I'm not saying it's like exclusively me that
Speaker 1: does the cooking, exclusively me that does the laundry. But
Speaker 1: I would say heavy lifting of those things I do,
Speaker 1: he'll be lifting of outside he does.
Speaker 2: Yeah, your inside outside is kind of like it's sort
Speaker 2: of like that real hetero norder thing around a barbecue
Speaker 2: where it's like the woman will like go to the supermarket,
Speaker 2: make the salads, everything already, throw the table, and man,
Speaker 2: we'll just be like I got some steak and everyone's like.
Speaker 1: Beautiful Cairo Hero, Hero, totally absolutely how you grilled those Yes,
Speaker 1: it was like well done. You turned a piece of
Speaker 1: steak once, look did it more than once?
Speaker 3: You did it wrong?
Speaker 2: What was your weekend, Cameron?
Speaker 3: My weekend was gougeous. It was done in ha Hai
Speaker 3: or a bunch of friends.
Speaker 2: Lovely. We love the regions.
Speaker 3: I love the regions. We had to get out of
Speaker 3: the super city and go visit the real New Zealand.
Speaker 2: What's the report from Real New Zealand? What are they
Speaker 2: up to? What are they talking about?
Speaker 3: Actually didn't speak to anybody who wasn't from Auckland, not
Speaker 3: by choice. There was just a big group of friends
Speaker 3: all hanging out. A few drinks, a few beach swims, swim, yeah,
Speaker 3: multiple swims. Actually yeah, a bit brisk, but worth it.
Speaker 1: It's so nice. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Now, I know that you did your wedding, but before that,
Speaker 2: because obviously it's just been a recent gay public holiday
Speaker 2: of Halloween. Did anyone in your life celebrate Halloween over
Speaker 2: the weekend?
Speaker 1: Well, I've truly felt like I was one of the
Speaker 1: only gays that wasn't at this party over the weekend.
Speaker 2: I agree only gained the village that didn't just spend Halloween.
Speaker 3: There was a gay party in the weekend.
Speaker 1: Okay, great, so we're all in the same boat. Because
Speaker 1: all I saw was photos of people that I know
Speaker 1: on Instagram going to this propaganda Halloween party, and I.
Speaker 2: Take my head off to them. As a fellow promoter
Speaker 2: of events in the homosexual space. It looked incredible, and.
Speaker 1: I take I bowed down to your absolutely, oh god, absolutely,
Speaker 1: But I'm not blowing smoke up your ass. I've never
Speaker 1: been to propaganda, and I've been to many a misbehavior
Speaker 1: and you do put on a very very fun even
Speaker 1: think very fun.
Speaker 3: Misbehavior is a vibe.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well another one on November the fifteen. Thanks, yeah,
Speaker 2: come along, get them on truly.
Speaker 1: If you are in Auckland, gay, straight, ally, whatever, we
Speaker 1: would love to see you. What misbehavior. I say, we
Speaker 1: as if I'm like, have any partner at all? I'm
Speaker 1: an eight to participant in misbehavior absolutely, And if.
Speaker 3: You're not in Auckland, we do welcome people from outside
Speaker 3: Auckland to come. Came Auckland for this event.
Speaker 2: I came, won't talk to you, but you can come along.
Speaker 3: Which is really funny because I was anyway, random, long story,
Speaker 3: but this lady was fitting some curtains for my mom
Speaker 3: on and she was like, oh, so where are you from?
Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, I live and lived in
Speaker 3: Total and then she's like, yeah, but where do you
Speaker 3: live now? And I was like oh and then I
Speaker 3: got real shine, real Auckland. I was like Auckland and
Speaker 3: she was like you don't like telling people that, do you?
Speaker 3: And I was like no, not at all.
Speaker 1: There's still an Auckland stigma, isn't there? Yeah, as a
Speaker 1: South Island or I really I get it, like I
Speaker 1: really feel that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just a town full of people that didn't
Speaker 2: I don't know whether the people who grew up here.
Speaker 1: Are Yeah, no, neither. I don't know. I know hardly
Speaker 1: any actual Aucklanders.
Speaker 2: Oh, actually be very am dating one.
Speaker 1: Oh yes, of course in the west, the West Auckland. Yeah, okay, hey,
Speaker 1: can I kick off the podcast or something?
Speaker 2: Yes you can.
Speaker 1: Last week, you were very kind and you got us
Speaker 1: a gift.
Speaker 2: I did.
Speaker 1: You got us the new firefighters calendar for twenty twenty
Speaker 1: five and we flipped through it, didn't we And we
Speaker 1: highlighted some of our favorites and we looked at each
Speaker 1: like months, and then we went then we went out,
Speaker 1: and then we went individually and we said, oh, I
Speaker 1: like the look of mister may or mister whatever. I
Speaker 1: know a firefighter here in Auckland.
Speaker 2: Was he in the calendar?
Speaker 1: He was the person I know was not in the calendar.
Speaker 3: It's a friend.
Speaker 1: But I got a message from him yesterday to say,
Speaker 1: I'm on shift with your favorite and then he attached
Speaker 1: a photogo of I can't remember what month he was maybe,
Speaker 1: mister June. Maybe anyway, this is Rob and can you
Speaker 1: have a look at what he is holding in his
Speaker 1: phone listening to Yeah, he listened to last week's podcast
Speaker 1: and heard our little shout out, and then I messaged
Speaker 1: my friend and said, if Rob would like to send
Speaker 1: a little message for the podcast, that would be great,
Speaker 1: he said. I said, I hope this shout out wasn't
Speaker 1: too awkward. Last week, he said, I was at dinner
Speaker 1: listening to it with sixteen other firefighters and was awesome.
Speaker 1: Heaps of laughs. I definitely appreciate this shout out. And
Speaker 1: then he sent a really lovely message which actually reminded
Speaker 1: that there is actually like a bigger picture at play
Speaker 1: for the firefighters, so he said, He said, I wanted
Speaker 1: to give your heads up about the Quei Firefighters calendar.
Speaker 1: Now we know our chiseled rigs and rugged looks for
Speaker 1: a site to behold, but beyond that, we wanted to
Speaker 1: shine a light on the serious message. Firefighters, like everyone else,
Speaker 1: face challenges with mental health. We see things that people
Speaker 1: should never see. We put ourselves out there serving the
Speaker 1: communities to the best of our abilities, and sometimes just
Speaker 1: sometimes things catch up with us. So this is what
Speaker 1: the QEI Firefighter Calendar is raising money for. It is
Speaker 1: raising money for the mental health challenges that a lot
Speaker 1: of firefighters are facing. And so yes, we can absolutely,
Speaker 1: let's be honest, drawl over people like Rob mister June.
Speaker 1: But also there's a serious message there. So go out
Speaker 1: and support the boys. Get the calendar. You can enjoy
Speaker 1: looking at the chiseled good looks and also really help
Speaker 1: out with the cause as well.
Speaker 2: And it was such a beautiful copappa that they're in.
Speaker 2: But also.
Speaker 1: Hello Rob, Hello Rob.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 3: It's brilliant work, isn't it amazing work?
Speaker 2: You know, Like, how do you get those muscles?
Speaker 1: I don't no.
Speaker 2: Bones.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't have a single muscle in my body.
Speaker 1: I you know what I'm This year, I've been on
Speaker 1: a bit of a like health kick. I've been running,
Speaker 1: I've been going to the gym, I do protein powder
Speaker 1: in my smoothies. I feel like I'm really getting on
Speaker 1: top of my exercise and stuff. There's no fucking way, Like,
Speaker 1: there is no way I could ever get to that point.
Speaker 3: I think genetics has a lot to do with it.
Speaker 1: I agree it is hard work.
Speaker 3: I definitely think hard work.
Speaker 1: But you're either built. You're either built to be able
Speaker 1: to do that or you're not. Yeah, yeah, I remember
Speaker 1: I was. I looked at the TikTok. Actually, you know
Speaker 1: Paul miscal there, Irish actor. He was in like Normal
Speaker 1: People and stuff. Yes, so he's in the upcoming Gladiator movie.
Speaker 2: I've just recently come across this and I have done
Speaker 2: a deep dive continue.
Speaker 1: And he was on the Graham Norton Show recently and
Speaker 1: he was talking about the fact that he had like
Speaker 1: it had to get a personal trainer for the for
Speaker 1: the training to be on glad Gladiator obviously and very
Speaker 1: full on. I think for a lot of movies movie starts,
Speaker 1: we've had to like bulk and work out and stuff.
Speaker 1: It's pretty rigorous training. And he said that the trainer
Speaker 1: arrived at his hotel to like to do like an
Speaker 1: assessment on him and made him strip in the hotel
Speaker 1: room and just stand there in his underwear. And first
Speaker 1: of all, I thought, the lucky bustard. It's a low
Speaker 1: lucky bustard. But also Paul said that the trainer just
Speaker 1: like circled him, staring at him and was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: there's things that we can work with here. But then
Speaker 1: pointed out the areas that though. He was just like,
Speaker 1: there's nothing we're going to be able to do to
Speaker 1: fix this particular part of you. I think it was
Speaker 1: his arm, yes, yeah, So it just made me think like,
Speaker 1: even with the best paid, like Hollywood trainer, there are
Speaker 1: some people that just aren't built to look like that.
Speaker 1: And that's fine, and that's fine, and that's fine.
Speaker 2: Well, I'm glad that we've got these boys, including Rob
Speaker 2: just out there looking after us and what made it
Speaker 2: last week? You know, don't take that to heart. I
Speaker 2: don't think that arson is the right approach here.
Speaker 1: No, it's not.
Speaker 2: No, Rather, you bought the calendar absolutely, now personally deliver
Speaker 2: it absolutely. Yeah. Speaking of chiseled Physachs, We're gonna message
Speaker 2: from our good friend Bradley this morning, didn't we we did?
Speaker 2: Did you listen to us?
Speaker 1: I haven't listened to it.
Speaker 2: Did you listen to it? Because I was like, no,
Speaker 2: we'll hear us on the podcast and this is gonna
Speaker 2: be a lime rit So it gets crossed.
Speaker 1: So Brad sent us a voice message and I'm just
Speaker 1: going to play it for us here. Okay, perfect.
Speaker 4: Cuta boys Cutter Gators quick message to say, missing you guys.
Speaker 4: Looking forward to being back next week with you guys
Speaker 4: in the studio.
Speaker 3: Awesome podcast.
Speaker 4: Last week with Cam you found a third our Heart.
Speaker 4: I'm over in Washington, DC being part of a bid
Speaker 4: team to try and secure the hosting rights for the
Speaker 4: World Gay Games in Auckland and twenty thirty. So watch
Speaker 4: this space. Lots of hoteies around. Of course, I get
Speaker 4: lots of secret service hotties. With the election coming up
Speaker 4: in a couple of days, so very good sight seeing.
Speaker 2: Watch off to New York in the morning.
Speaker 4: Looking forward to that for another five days, and then
Speaker 4: I'll be back next week in the studio. Don't forget
Speaker 4: up them no babies.
Speaker 1: Great it was actually there was actually more PG than
Speaker 1: I was anticipating it to be.
Speaker 2: Absolutely that was really nice and we couldn't realize that
Speaker 2: whether we could talk about what he had done and
Speaker 2: mentioned it there, yea. But he is part of I
Speaker 2: think there's three or four of them that have traveled
Speaker 2: over to Bid New Zealand to be the host of
Speaker 2: the Gay Game, which is like the Olympics of homosexuality.
Speaker 1: It's huge of.
Speaker 2: What there as many things that you can continue fun.
Speaker 1: Wouldn't that be fun. No, this is amazing and like
Speaker 1: such a cool thing for Bread to be part of
Speaker 1: in such an amazing opportunity for us to potentially become
Speaker 1: the host of this incredible event.
Speaker 3: That would be amazing.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's very talented as our Bread. He's got fingers
Speaker 1: in many parts.
Speaker 2: He's a dark horse technology. Its a great as well though,
Speaker 2: just sort of like at the bottom of the frame.
Speaker 2: We like to think that.
Speaker 1: He looks dodgy as fuck, did I say.
Speaker 2: Wonders lots of secret service.
Speaker 1: He's got like a black hair dark he's in a
Speaker 1: hoodie on. He looks like absolute riff raff.
Speaker 3: He looks like the guys on Succession when they're kind
Speaker 3: of going off the rails a little bit.
Speaker 1: Anyway, I'm sure that Bray will be able to tell
Speaker 1: us more about that, but but that was lovely to
Speaker 1: hear from him this week.
Speaker 3: We also just need to take a moment to appreciate
Speaker 3: what he's doing for the sight seeing an ALTI.
Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, the orange Face will be going off of
Speaker 2: the Gay Games come here.
Speaker 1: We want they want to. People won't know what to
Speaker 1: do with themselves.
Speaker 2: I mean, obviously, because it's like the Olympics of gay sport.
Speaker 2: You know you're going to be having some teams. Maybe
Speaker 2: it's going to be a little bit like when we
Speaker 2: had the World Cup here where you gets like pick
Speaker 2: a team and like maybe instead of like Nibbia, you're
Speaker 2: kind of like, I'm Marri from Brazil.
Speaker 1: Are I beat you? Are you? Have you dibbs Brazil?
Speaker 5: Already?
Speaker 1: Have you?
Speaker 2: Mean to be fair? I feel like I have a spiritual
Speaker 2: connection to the Latina.
Speaker 3: Can you tell us more about that connection.
Speaker 2: It's just an appreciation for the physical beauty.
Speaker 3: It's very much a visual thing.
Speaker 1: As I mentioned, was at a wedding over the weekend.
Speaker 2: It looked a lot of fun.
Speaker 1: It was amazing. So this is my best friend. We've
Speaker 1: known each other since we're thirteen. We met first out
Speaker 1: of high school, but she was new to Queenstown and
Speaker 1: the rest of us had all gone through like primary
Speaker 1: school and intermediate together. So that's like a hard thing,
Speaker 1: right to rock up as like the new kid on
Speaker 1: the block to already very established like year level, so
Speaker 1: it took her a while to integrate into our friend group.
Speaker 1: But the story goes that I had a best friend
Speaker 1: at high school and she was actually in the Slatin
Speaker 1: war Bird she was in a quite serious car accident.
Speaker 1: She's fine, like totally fine now, but it was serious
Speaker 1: at the time, and she ended up in hospital for
Speaker 1: like a couple of months. And so my best friend
Speaker 1: was like out of action for two months, just like
Speaker 1: Beard ridden in hospital, and so I needed like a
Speaker 1: new best.
Speaker 2: Friend giving me the giggles.
Speaker 1: So I asked Jackie, the woman that got married over
Speaker 1: the weekend, if she would fill in. There's like my
Speaker 1: temporary best friend. What an asshole thing to do, right?
Speaker 3: Did you explain it in that way, like once.
Speaker 1: She's back, you're done. But can you just fill in
Speaker 1: for a couple of months? Yeah?
Speaker 3: I did.
Speaker 2: She was like, hey, look, I'm new to town. It
Speaker 2: sounds like great, a little bit of a team contract.
Speaker 2: It's a good opportunity.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll get Yeah, I'll get some work on my
Speaker 1: resume and then I can apply for like a more
Speaker 1: full time position once the contracts are So I.
Speaker 2: Have a hunter round, workout, can work out who you
Speaker 2: can find. Yeah, you know, I think I'm going to
Speaker 2: go after UNI.
Speaker 1: Yeah. We'll hope to be heat hunted based on your
Speaker 1: previous work over the last couple.
Speaker 2: Of months, you know.
Speaker 1: So she took on the role and congratulations to her.
Speaker 1: And let me just say she was an exemplary employee
Speaker 1: over a couple of months.
Speaker 2: Would you give her a written and a herb reference?
Speaker 1: Absolutely? So much so that once the two months like
Speaker 1: probation was up and my other best friend returned to school,
Speaker 1: retained her in the position.
Speaker 2: So real.
Speaker 3: Was it like a first and first equal or was
Speaker 3: it like a one outshow on the other How did
Speaker 3: that work out?
Speaker 1: No, the other one remained one of my closest friends.
Speaker 1: But I will say that over the years, not immediately,
Speaker 1: but over the years, I did become closer to Jackie,
Speaker 1: the temporary best friend. We just had so much in
Speaker 1: common and ended up living together in Wellington when we
Speaker 1: left high school and all sorts. So anyway, she got
Speaker 1: married over the weekend. It was amazing, congratulations Jackie, congratulations
Speaker 1: chacking Jackie. So she married an Indian like a guy
Speaker 1: with then heritage, and so on Friday we had a
Speaker 1: sand gheete, which is like a traditional Indian ceremony. It
Speaker 1: just made me think, I don't know if either of
Speaker 1: you have ever been to a wedding with like a
Speaker 1: different cultural element. We are so boring as white people
Speaker 1: so boring. I'm not even going to try and argue,
Speaker 1: like I love all we some wedding, but my god,
Speaker 1: this is so much fun. There were so many fun elements,
Speaker 1: so I thought I would share some of them because
Speaker 1: it was brand new to me, like I've never been
Speaker 1: a part of anything like this.
Speaker 2: And lots of people that were at the wedding quite
Speaker 2: new for them too.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, I mean her almost her entire side would have
Speaker 1: never been to anything like this. So first of all,
Speaker 1: we get dressed up like we have to wear like
Speaker 1: traditional Indian garb. I loved the outfit. I just loved them.
Speaker 2: This is probably a little bit too dash of the podcast.
Speaker 2: I'm going to ask you, anyway, did you have to
Speaker 2: go like they easily about.
Speaker 1: Easily available, easily available. Yeah, yeah, there's like a few
Speaker 1: different shops and one quite close to me, and we
Speaker 1: stalk them that I could go to and get one.
Speaker 1: So we dressed up, and so the first thing that
Speaker 1: the happens is the bride's family were at the venue
Speaker 1: where the whole party was taking place, and the groom's
Speaker 1: family all went and got ready with him, and then
Speaker 1: the groom's family do almost like a parade with like
Speaker 1: drums and music, and the groom leads the parade and
Speaker 1: the whole family follow behind like dancing. They make their
Speaker 1: way to the venue where the bride's family and friends
Speaker 1: are and then the two like two sides gather and
Speaker 1: like meet and you they swap things so like one
Speaker 1: volunteer from each side of the family would swap something,
Speaker 1: so like one of Jackie's aunties would swap something with
Speaker 1: one of Jav's aunties the groom, and so it was
Speaker 1: like the two families whopping. It was like jewelry, you know,
Speaker 1: like necklaces and wristbands and things like that. It was amazing.
Speaker 1: And then this was really fun. So Jackie had to
Speaker 1: go behind like a like a rope almost almost like
Speaker 1: she was behind it behind a door kind of thing,
Speaker 1: and there was a rope and Jeb the groom, had
Speaker 1: to come up to the rope where the bridal party
Speaker 1: all stood. We stood in front of the rope and
Speaker 1: he was trying to get let into Jackie and we
Speaker 1: had to like rise him basically and be like no, no.
Speaker 5: No, no, no, what are you gonna like, what are
Speaker 5: you providing? Why do you deserve to be let across
Speaker 5: the threshold? And so were just like we were just
Speaker 5: going forgot. We were having so much fun with it.
Speaker 1: And then they get money and they like try and
Speaker 1: barter their way in, and so then it was just
Speaker 1: fun because we'd be like, that's not enough, Like you
Speaker 1: got to give us more money to get to our
Speaker 1: friend kind of thing. Amazing, and so then all of
Speaker 1: his family and like groomsmen start handing him money so
Speaker 1: that he has more money to be able to buy
Speaker 1: his way in. So much fun.
Speaker 2: Looked awesome, like went for quite a week while or yeah.
Speaker 1: It was like from three o'clock until kind of late
Speaker 1: into the night we're to do a choreograph dance routine.
Speaker 1: It was so much fun, Like the whole thing was amazing,
Speaker 1: so much fun. So if you even had.
Speaker 2: The chance to go, yeah, that would be lovely. It
Speaker 2: is weird like traditional Western weddings, aren't they, Like you know,
Speaker 2: we're talking about lots on the podcast. Obviously we many
Speaker 2: got married we were doing the podcast. We had our
Speaker 2: old school gates would know this, but we had a
Speaker 2: stag party for many in the studio. We played Pin
Speaker 2: the Penis on David Nika.
Speaker 1: A highlight, real highlight.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we've played lots of games, but you know, it's
Speaker 2: all very traditional when I suppose in our world we
Speaker 2: try and take the Western world of it and then
Speaker 2: we try and like make a quick change to it
Speaker 2: because obviously we of the same sex. So it's amazing
Speaker 2: to watch it completely different.
Speaker 1: Was incredible. And then we had a beautiful like wedding
Speaker 1: on Sunday as well, and it was still really fun
Speaker 1: to wow the same it was smaller, it was more
Speaker 1: like family oriented, and then the wedding was bigger and
Speaker 1: you know, more more what what we would be used
Speaker 1: to as a wedding celebration.
Speaker 2: How fun.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I did have to do a speech though, and
Speaker 1: we did it, and I did it with a friendom
Speaker 1: we did it in the form of a poem, and
Speaker 1: I've got like this, I'm still I've got like day
Speaker 1: after regret where I'm like, oh God, did I take
Speaker 1: it too far? Because I did tell a story. I
Speaker 1: did tell quite a naughty story that I think would
Speaker 1: have gone over most people's heads. But it was definitely
Speaker 1: a naughty story. Yeah, can I read you? Can I
Speaker 1: read you the excerpt from the speech and see if
Speaker 1: you understand. I don't want to be rude it up,
Speaker 1: so I'm just reading you.
Speaker 2: It's you're like, yesing on the mat go buckets story.
Speaker 1: I'm just going to read you one small part of it, Okay,
Speaker 1: I said, there's so many stories to tell about Jackie,
Speaker 1: but time's going fast. And besides, stories like what happened
Speaker 1: under the shotover Bridge should remain in the past. That's
Speaker 1: just a little, very little personal story that not many
Speaker 1: people know. But there's one tale that needs telling, and
Speaker 1: it's about a pet. No, not big Puss the cat,
Speaker 1: but a rabbit. And now Jackie's starting to sweat. She
Speaker 1: loved her bunny so much it often sheared her beard,
Speaker 1: until one morning she woke to find the bunny well dead.
Speaker 1: Now does that make any sense to the two of you?
Speaker 3: I think you're talking about a vibran.
Speaker 1: And is that immediately obvious? Though?
Speaker 2: Well, I thought, to be honest, I've took it a
Speaker 2: little bit too literly, and I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: why are you telling a filthy story that involves an animal.
Speaker 2: I don't think that's appropriate for a wedding. But no,
Speaker 2: I don't think Nana would have got that one.
Speaker 1: Nan would not have got that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just have friends who have that particular vibrator
Speaker 3: heard them talk about it.
Speaker 2: So I feel like it's the gold standard vibrators for I.
Speaker 1: Think it is. Yeah, yeah, but it's so safe. You
Speaker 1: think I'm okay.
Speaker 2: I think I think you're okay.
Speaker 1: And now I've just told it on the podcast. You've
Speaker 1: definitely doubled down.
Speaker 3: If you're going to do it once, you might as
Speaker 3: well do it to us.
Speaker 2: Oh oh, we haven't talked about the fact that we
Speaker 2: did our competition last week. Oh yeah, competition. So we
Speaker 2: did our competition, Troy or false and we got a winner.
Speaker 2: It was so nice to see all the people reacting.
Speaker 2: I realized a flaw in the plan was when you
Speaker 2: ask someone to comment the answer, people just copied the
Speaker 2: piston above.
Speaker 1: Them totally, except you kind of still need to double
Speaker 1: chick right.
Speaker 2: Because you need to give it a bit quick Google.
Speaker 1: You don't want you you don't want to know that.
Speaker 1: You don't want to just blindly follow someone if the
Speaker 1: answer is wrong, because.
Speaker 3: He could have the answer wrong. We just don't know that.
Speaker 2: Is that is very true? Very true? Or congratulations to
Speaker 2: Haley Haley the winner.
Speaker 3: Yes, that was just a random name.
Speaker 1: I was. I was like, you've just given away the
Speaker 1: punchline of the bloody let's putting like that didn't happen.
Speaker 1: Halet's literally announced the winner. Absolutely, I can't wait to
Speaker 1: hear who it is.
Speaker 2: Drug congratulations to Hailey Manson. The lie was that he's
Speaker 2: not a virgo because he's a Gemini, of course, and
Speaker 2: everyone that came into it was like, I know this
Speaker 2: was not right, and because it's very much a.
Speaker 1: Gemini, he's absolutely a Gemini.
Speaker 3: I don't know what a Gemini is.
Speaker 2: I mean, i'd be I'm it's just trusting the people
Speaker 2: to be for I could do it too well. But Hayley,
Speaker 2: you have won two tickets to go along side Troy
Speaker 2: savan on the second of decend Bets bik Arena, think
Speaker 2: so good friends at Life Nation. Incredibly exciting, incredible, But wait,
Speaker 2: there's more, No, there's not.
Speaker 1: We'll go another one.
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, we're having another game.
Speaker 2: We're having another game of Troy or Files.
Speaker 3: I love it.
Speaker 2: I've got three facts. One of them is files into
Speaker 2: them a tro so have you got the dock up? Boys?
Speaker 1: Got the dock up?
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, all right, let's go. Let's go one, three,
Speaker 2: three pockets. You can start? What is that first fact.
Speaker 1: Our first fact is that Troy was born in Australia.
Speaker 3: Cam Number two, our second fact is he used to
Speaker 3: date actor slash director Jacob Bixon. Men is that ho
Speaker 3: who he says his name?
Speaker 2: I think so? You think that works? And number three
Speaker 2: he's been in a movie with Hugh Jackman. Okay, so
Speaker 2: one of these is not true.
Speaker 1: So if you would like to win tickets to see
Speaker 1: Troy Sevonn in December when he plays in Auckland, all
Speaker 1: you've got to do is he to our Instagram page
Speaker 1: out the gate g A y t E and put
Speaker 1: a comment below. We're still going with the comment. Put
Speaker 1: the comment below, well, I think why break a winning
Speaker 1: absolutely so put a comic below with which fact you
Speaker 1: think is the lot lie which is false? And we'll
Speaker 1: pick another one in next week.
Speaker 2: And make sure you're following us. I did do a sneak.
Speaker 2: I did do a check to make sure that Hailey
Speaker 2: was following us, and she was so thank you very much.
Speaker 1: Good to hear, Good to hear, Haley. Yeah, well that's
Speaker 1: a good reminder that you can follow us on Instagram
Speaker 1: and we also have, of course the infamous Facebook page.
Speaker 2: We have a face, we have a group of group. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but it's fun in there. I love it. Yeah, people,
Speaker 2: it's really awesome. We get to see what the gates
Speaker 2: are up to. Everyone's to share a nicely meme. Cluck
Speaker 2: Chairs of the world also a great place to be
Speaker 2: sharing photos of your bedroom chairs one of our other
Speaker 2: big favorite things. So yeah, that is just out the Gates. Yeah,
Speaker 2: way to eat on Facebook as well.
Speaker 1: I did love the post. I did love the post
Speaker 1: from Katrina who was who was cleaning her house with
Speaker 1: her baby in the front pack while listening to Out
Speaker 1: the Gate, and I commented, and I just said, it
Speaker 1: is so funny, like such a funny reminder to me
Speaker 1: that you can be doing something really innocuous like vacuuming
Speaker 1: with your child in the front pack while the boys
Speaker 1: talk about like roomming or whatever. You know, it probably
Speaker 1: would have been No, it would have been it might
Speaker 1: have been no nut November.
Speaker 2: And tell you what, if she had listened to that device,
Speaker 2: you might not be in the in the situation. Sorry,
Speaker 2: I'm sure that there was very well planned.
Speaker 1: Can you've got a busy night tonight?
Speaker 3: Do you have a busy night tonight?
Speaker 2: I must say you are looking very chic.
Speaker 3: Thank you, well, the artist that I'm going to see
Speaker 3: message me on Instagram this afternoon. So it's like, oh sorry,
Speaker 3: And so I was like, oh, maybe I'll put a
Speaker 3: nice shirt on just in case, like get to say
Speaker 3: hi at some point, but I'm going to see Fletcher.
Speaker 2: Now. I've heard lots about Fletcher. I don't know if
Speaker 2: I could pick a song, but I feel like, if
Speaker 2: you're in the know, she's quite the fact.
Speaker 3: She is super cool. She played Miley Cyrus' New Year's
Speaker 3: Eve party last year and it was quite chaotic, like
Speaker 3: there was definitely some sexual tension between the two of them.
Speaker 1: So Fletcher is Fletcher in the family because she is
Speaker 1: very much a gay icon. Yes, specifically for the women.
Speaker 1: She is a lesbian, so she is so many of
Speaker 1: my queer female friends are obsessed with Fletcher.
Speaker 3: Coming from a homosexual male. She is ridiculously good looking.
Speaker 1: She is beautiful.
Speaker 3: This has this real cool energy.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I can say yeah, I would,
Speaker 2: I would.
Speaker 1: I mean, I wouldn't know what to do, but I'd
Speaker 1: give them a be shot.
Speaker 2: Oh neither might she yea.
Speaker 1: So hang on, do you have you met?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 3: She came to New Zealand. It was either last year
Speaker 3: or maybe the year before that, and I interviewed her
Speaker 3: when I was working in radio and hosted like a
Speaker 3: Q and A session and then I ridiculously got a
Speaker 3: little bit too happy on the bit of Raginos at
Speaker 3: her concert and.
Speaker 2: The best of us.
Speaker 3: And then the next day I was posting all these
Speaker 3: videos like super hungover in bed singing along to her songs.
Speaker 3: I don't think I tagged her in any of those videos,
Speaker 3: but I had tagged her in the videos from the
Speaker 3: concert the night before, and so she must have just
Speaker 3: been flicking through my Instagram story came across these videos.
Speaker 3: I'm literally in my underwear wearing like ridiculously ugly sunglasses
Speaker 3: in beds singing along to her songs, and she was like,
Speaker 3: why did you not tag me in these ones? This
Speaker 3: is like the funniest content I've ever seen.
Speaker 2: Oh my god.
Speaker 3: Right, and then she followed me, and then we've always
Speaker 3: just kind of like messaged back and forth from time
Speaker 3: to time.
Speaker 1: That's huge.
Speaker 3: She's so cool. I'm just obsessed with her.
Speaker 2: It's so exciting, and she's not the only kind of
Speaker 2: queer icon that's down these parts. We talked the other
Speaker 2: week about you obviously proposing marriage to your boyfriend and
Speaker 2: Klie no concert in January.
Speaker 3: This is happening. You better get the ring.
Speaker 2: See if you do that, I'm gonna get in well
Speaker 2: trouble because I went at home. It's just like, hurry
Speaker 2: the fuck. How else you've got what? I was he
Speaker 2: with Troy.
Speaker 1: Troy Savanna's coming as well. Charlie Yeks is going to
Speaker 1: be at lane Way next year. It's a big, big
Speaker 1: time for some queer artists or queer like ally artists
Speaker 1: as well.
Speaker 3: I should say yeah. And the other thing about Kylie
Speaker 3: Minogue show is it kind of like tease up in
Speaker 3: time with mighty grunts.
Speaker 1: Yeah, watch out, watch out.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Sydney is going to be local hot cocoa.
Speaker 2: Heaven you or you come out in a bodybag. But
Speaker 2: it's a lot of fun. Yeah, yeah, it's a lot
Speaker 2: of fun.
Speaker 1: Out the Gate.
Speaker 3: Family Excursion.
Speaker 2: Like I let that you're in such out the Gate
Speaker 2: fash you just set it out. It's almost right to say.
Speaker 2: It was like, oh no, it's never happening, So I
Speaker 2: just want to finish the looking to be fun.
Speaker 1: I heard the words coming out of my mouth. Put
Speaker 1: it on the dot. But in the dark it won't happen.
Speaker 2: But didn't we get to Mardigo or field Days first.
Speaker 1: I feel like the enthusiasm like, oh man, that's hard
Speaker 1: because field Days is probably easier for us to get
Speaker 1: to now.
Speaker 2: Long enough times, someone eventually who listened to this all
Speaker 2: know somebody at field Days and we're like, oh, fox sake.
Speaker 1: We've been talking about going to field Days as like
Speaker 1: a show excursion for a very long time.
Speaker 3: I swear it's field Days. They've got this dude that
Speaker 3: takes like ten minutes halle cup to flights. Surely they
Speaker 3: could just send the helicopters to come and pick you up.
Speaker 2: I if we can go to Field Days in a helicopter,
Speaker 2: that were the most boosie home sexual way they were.
Speaker 1: Doing it wouldn't to be fair. That's kind of the
Speaker 1: only way we could do field Days.
Speaker 2: Only private.
Speaker 1: But so I feel like field Days is like a
Speaker 1: more achievable goal for us. But man, Mardi Gras sounds fun.
Speaker 2: It'll be so much fun. I went a few years ago.
Speaker 2: I got to see Sam Smith, Kesha and julieper But
Speaker 2: the cool thing about Mardi Gras is that they're a
Speaker 2: big party. They have they have always amazing artists perform,
Speaker 2: but because there's lots of them and everyone's just dance away,
Speaker 2: they just get up and do like three of their
Speaker 2: best and fuck off again. So it's not like no
Speaker 2: one's sitting around it being like, ah, I'm going to
Speaker 2: play by new new song that you're like, They're like nah.
Speaker 2: They just get into it.
Speaker 3: It's given the anthems.
Speaker 1: Hey, we are very close to finishing this podcast, but
Speaker 1: really quickly, should we talk about Shan Mendez or do
Speaker 1: we want to save this for next.
Speaker 2: Well, I think we should talk about it because I
Speaker 2: feel like Cam's going to have a good hot taker,
Speaker 2: probably more than I would.
Speaker 1: So let's just we'll do a quick version of it
Speaker 1: and maybe we can even bring it up again next
Speaker 1: week if we need to. So.
Speaker 2: So long time gainers will know that we talk a
Speaker 2: lot about Short Mendez and well, this is not true.
Speaker 2: We've talked about the fact that Short Mendez has just
Speaker 2: been baited by society about the fact that he is,
Speaker 2: you know, must be a queer man, and he has
Speaker 2: been very clear about the fact that it's also nobody's
Speaker 2: business part himself. But he has come out with a
Speaker 2: new song where he has tackled those gay rumors.
Speaker 3: It's quite interesting, and I feel like it's quite unfair
Speaker 3: on him, like people have been saying these things about
Speaker 3: him from a super young age.
Speaker 1: Totally.
Speaker 3: I can relate to that because personally, when I was
Speaker 3: at school, a whole bunch of people were calling me
Speaker 3: gay before I even knew what.
Speaker 1: Same gay same.
Speaker 3: So I'm like that in itself can be quite damaging.
Speaker 3: So I'm like, let the guy bloody live. But he's
Speaker 3: basically released a new song. It's called The Mountain, and
Speaker 3: he wrote it from the perspective of him kind of
Speaker 3: responding to all of these moments throughout time where people
Speaker 3: have commented on his identity, him as a person, and
Speaker 3: just like things that he should or shouldn't be doing.
Speaker 3: There's actually a really cool video if you want to
Speaker 3: search it up online. He's doing like an acoustic set
Speaker 3: and he basically is just like I wrote this one.
Speaker 3: I'd had a few mushrooms and this is what I
Speaker 3: wanted to write this song about. Like he was super
Speaker 3: open about it, and so the lyrics in the song
Speaker 3: don't necessarily confirm or deny his sexuality, but it's basically
Speaker 3: just him saying, like, you know, whether you're talking about
Speaker 3: me liking boys or girls? Why is it your business anyway?
Speaker 1: Which is totally fair enough and kind of all he
Speaker 1: needs to say on the matter. And now I feel
Speaker 1: like everyone should just let him be. Yeah, And if
Speaker 1: he wants to talk about it, he'll talk about it,
Speaker 1: and if he doesn't, he doesn't, And it's really no
Speaker 1: one's business either way.
Speaker 3: And when you think about a lot of people who
Speaker 3: are in bands like this who don't come out for
Speaker 3: an extended period of time, and one that springs to
Speaker 3: mind right now, Ricky Martin.
Speaker 1: Ye Ah, yeah, she bangs, she bangs. Yeah.
Speaker 3: And he was a very public figure for a very
Speaker 3: long time before he ever felt comfortable enough to come out.
Speaker 1: There were so many rumors, people talk spoke about him
Speaker 1: and his sexuality so cruelly for such a long time.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And it's kind of the same, yes.
Speaker 1: And it's funny because we've moved on in so many ways,
Speaker 1: like we've moved forward in so many ways, and here
Speaker 1: we are still like speculating on someone's sexuality.
Speaker 3: I think it comes from the fact that when someone
Speaker 3: is as famous as Suw Mendez as you kind of
Speaker 3: expect to know every part of their lives. And then
Speaker 3: if there is this element of them that you don't
Speaker 3: know about. People think that they have the right to
Speaker 3: that information, to they know everything else. Yeah, when in
Speaker 3: actuality it's like sorry, bruh, but he doesn't want to.
Speaker 1: Share it totally.
Speaker 3: And who knows, maybe it's not even because.
Speaker 2: He did take I think there's a little slight element
Speaker 2: about where people are kind of like I wish he
Speaker 2: could be.
Speaker 1: Hopeful wishful thinking. Anyway, Well, see Kim Well said, I'm
Speaker 1: glad we got to weigh on that with you this week. Yes, definitely,
Speaker 1: and thank you for coming back.
Speaker 3: Thanks so much for having me have had it flis
Speaker 3: great pleasure.
Speaker 1: I hope you get pulled up on stage or backstage
Speaker 1: or something, so.
Speaker 3: I'll give you the full report if they do. But
Speaker 3: at least they won't happen.
Speaker 2: You don't know if you're in the DMS, I can see,
Speaker 2: is it her?
Speaker 1: Brad will be back with us next week in studio too.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think he's back permanently.
Speaker 1: We'll see my permanently now, but yeah, he'll be away
Speaker 1: gallivanting away somewhere at some point. But yes, the three
Speaker 1: of us should be back in studio next week. But Cam,
Speaker 1: it's been so such a pleasure. Thank you, Thank you
Speaker 1: for coming.
Speaker 2: Back hanging out with you, and you can come back
Speaker 2: any time next year when we get the real download
Speaker 2: about how proposing in front of all of us.
Speaker 3: Guys.
Speaker 1: Anyway, thank you for being with us and we will
Speaker 1: see you a guine next week. Bye bye mm hm