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Speaker 1: From the Zidium podcast network.

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Speaker 2: It's Fleechborn and Hayley's a little bit of pod.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to a little bit of pod. Auntie Pat, Auntie Pat.

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Speaker 2: Auntie Pat, black and white cat.

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Speaker 3: In the morning at my AUNTI Pat passed away and

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Speaker 3: no one.

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Speaker 1: Told me when did she die?

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Speaker 3: She's like, hold on because it was My brother just

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Speaker 3: found out as well. No one told us.

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Speaker 1: He formed of a death your family.

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Speaker 3: One comes into work today is like, come as Anti

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Speaker 3: Pat died.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sometimes so we are now in whatever, November, December, whatever,

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Speaker 2: It's all a blur to me now. Anti Pet died

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Speaker 2: in September. My Nan, her sister Marlene died in July,

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Speaker 2: and Anti Pat was two years older than Nan and

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Speaker 2: Anti Pet. When I was a kid, Anti Pat used

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Speaker 2: to say when's Vaorn coming and staying in the summer holidays.

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Speaker 2: She had coincide a visit up from New Plymouth to

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Speaker 2: stay with my Nan and me because me and Anti

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Speaker 2: Pet got on house.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, yeah we didn't.

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Speaker 1: I tell you what.

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Speaker 2: If you were on the road between New Plymouth and

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Speaker 2: the White cutto there's a sign just before the big

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Speaker 2: sweeping corner that takes you into the place that it

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Speaker 2: always sells the white bait's images.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's with him. Melchow, Molkow, Molkow.

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Speaker 2: There's a sign on the way and there's an old

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Speaker 2: couple white bating that's Anti Pet.

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Speaker 3: Oh Anti Pet. So she passed away in September and like,

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Speaker 3: no one to And then the other day Mom said

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Speaker 3: to me, oh, you were going down to New Plymouth

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Speaker 3: for Anti Pat's memorial. I said, oh my god, Anti

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Speaker 3: Pap pass away. And I was like, oh, yeah she did.

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Speaker 3: I was like, this is my favorite grade, the great aun't.

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Speaker 2: You I had a great relationship with Yeah, why didn't

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Speaker 2: they tell you at the time? Mom said, I had

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Speaker 2: a lot on my plate and it would have added

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Speaker 2: I mean you did to be fair, you have your

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Speaker 2: twenty twenty five plate has been like an American's buffet

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Speaker 2: and more and more.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a heeline crack in the middle and the paper.

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Speaker 2: It was one of those plastic plates before we had

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Speaker 2: paper plates, you know you take to the barbecue.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's had a lot on the plate.

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Speaker 2: And then yeah, she was just like no, we just

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Speaker 2: we just didn't want to overload you with that story.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, oh, okay, that's really sad because

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Speaker 2: You know I loved Auntie Pet.

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Speaker 1: It's just such an adult thing to do, not tell

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Speaker 1: you major life things like both of our parents have

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Speaker 1: been guilty of this. You know, I'm fine, just popped

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Speaker 1: into hospital for little kid.

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Speaker 3: How are you good? Win to hospital last week?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What cut off? It was big.

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Speaker 3: You want to bother you boomers?

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Speaker 1: You bother me? Can you tell me after the fact

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Speaker 1: that you've died?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: Anti Pet Pet Auntie Pet, Anti black and White cat.

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Speaker 2: Anti Pet was the one that she was on the

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Speaker 2: escalators and Central Center City.

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Speaker 3: What's that new plumbing the wall? She was on the

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Speaker 3: escalators and a little punk kild kept the stop button.

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Speaker 3: Did she fell?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, she.

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Speaker 2: Did herself with She gets some gashes. Abrasions, yes, abrasions.

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Speaker 2: Anti Pat was the one I saved from choking on

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Speaker 2: a pee. I was when we were kids were because

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Speaker 2: that's why she always came up in summer holidays and

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Speaker 2: that was gangese peas would be ready, yangese peas would

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Speaker 2: be out there and she'd be like, don't tell your grandad,

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Speaker 2: I'm eating the peas. And then one time she choked on.

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Speaker 3: Them, And how did you save it? I whacked her

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Speaker 3: on the back real hard, and she coughed up the pie.

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Speaker 3: It's not the home loook, though, was it? Like that's

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Speaker 3: a bit of a no.

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Speaker 1: I think you are supposed to just give them a fight.

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Speaker 3: I don't think. Then we went back to the whack. Oh,

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Speaker 3: we're going back to the whacka fear fair and.

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Speaker 2: Anti Pat said, when you're making sand castles of the beach,

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Speaker 2: you use her name. You go Pat Pat Pat on

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Speaker 2: the memory, you make your packet all really hard into

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Speaker 2: a bucket and then you flip the bucket upside down.

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Speaker 2: But the key was to give it a pat Pat Pat,

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Speaker 2: Pat Pat, and the bucket like loosen the sand.

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Speaker 3: If you pulled it up, the sand would just kind

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Speaker 3: of like stick to the buckets.

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Speaker 2: Because I would just spray my sand buckets worth like

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Speaker 2: the baking olive oil.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I grew up with great privilege.

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Speaker 3: Butter you buttered your bucket.

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Speaker 1: I buttered my bucket and then I'd butter it, and

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Speaker 1: then I'd put in a you know, a baking liner.

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Speaker 2: And then that thing was that's why your sand castles

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Speaker 2: are always so they called memoth smooth.

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Speaker 1: Sand castle sprow. That was me man O well r

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Speaker 1: O P pet r o p pet