WEBVTT - Jock Straps and Relationship Mishaps

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<v Speaker 1>This is an iHeartRadio New Zealand podcast Out the Gate

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<v Speaker 1>with Maddie McLean, Chris Henry and Brad Christensen.

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<v Speaker 2>Cheer, nice to be bet. It's nice to be back,

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<v Speaker 2>isn't it. It's the Two Musketeers though, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you what if if we if he was

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<v Speaker 1>our employee, I'd be having words to him. Are regon

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<v Speaker 1>to be a written warning? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he does have a good excuse tonight though, because

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<v Speaker 2>what's he doing is he's going to an awards dinner

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<v Speaker 2>for the Rainbow game. Yeah, and he thought of the.

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<v Speaker 1>Gay he thought it was tomorrow night, but it's actually tonight.

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<v Speaker 1>We got sent to photo do you think so we

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<v Speaker 1>got seen a photo in the group chat of bread

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<v Speaker 1>dressed up in attacks obviously at Dons's house. Is mum's house?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think Don's took that photo? Like there's a

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<v Speaker 1>proud mum photo and.

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<v Speaker 2>If you zoom in, like the zoom into a space

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<v Speaker 2>like he's got a real like seventh from Ball sort

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<v Speaker 2>of he does, like he said, a couple of Cody's

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<v Speaker 2>and he's ready to guy.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll put it, We'll put it up on We'll put

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<v Speaker 1>it up on Instagram. And Facebook. Yeah, but yes, so

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<v Speaker 1>Bread is away tonight. He's busy, He's got fingers and

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of pies. Does Bread he does?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I suppose this is a good excuse for

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<v Speaker 2>this this week, because he is doing something for the

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<v Speaker 2>LGBT community.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure we'll give it to him.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, a pert from obviously providing all of the

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<v Speaker 2>deck news you'd ever need in.

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<v Speaker 1>A age, and what a service we provide. Absolutely. Can

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<v Speaker 1>I start the podcast tonight with a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>a shout out? Yes? Absolutely. I got a message today

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<v Speaker 1>from my brother and my brother said, so, my brother

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<v Speaker 1>Rob lives in La now Yeah, yeah, yeah, he won

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<v Speaker 1>the Green Card lottery and he works for a cop,

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<v Speaker 1>isn't he just he honestly, he lives in Venice Beach.

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<v Speaker 1>A he's a semi bachelor. Well, he is seeing someone,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's you know, early days in American dating, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like you're allowed to do it for a wee while

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<v Speaker 1>not to but the videos get of him, like skateboarding

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<v Speaker 1>down the boardwalk in Venice Beach with his top off,

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<v Speaker 1>this crazy tan. He just is living the life over there. Anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>He got a message from someone that he previously worked

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<v Speaker 1>at the same company as him, but I don't from

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<v Speaker 1>reading the message, I don't think they'd ever interacted, Like

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<v Speaker 1>they never met. They obviously worked in different teams. But

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<v Speaker 1>this guy messaged Rob. And unfortunately, the guy has just

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<v Speaker 1>lost his job. They've had a bunch of redundancies at

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<v Speaker 1>this company. There's so many companies are right now, so

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<v Speaker 1>he's lost his job and he reached out to Rob

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<v Speaker 1>and he said, Hey, Rob, now that we're no longer

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<v Speaker 1>co workers and there's little chance of us ever meeting,

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<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to say that I've been listening to

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<v Speaker 1>your brother's podcast Out the Gate religiously for the last

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<v Speaker 1>year Kilna, he said. He said, it has become part

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<v Speaker 1>of my Wednesday bike commute. So I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>won't say this guy's name just in case he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to keep, you know, some privacy, but he will be

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<v Speaker 1>on his commute potentially listening to this right now in

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<v Speaker 1>his like and his like maybe in his like Crah,

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<v Speaker 1>and he will know who he is. So I just

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to let this gay to know that we really

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate you listening to the podcast absolutely. And is he

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<v Speaker 1>based in America too? This guy, he's based in America

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<v Speaker 1>as well, oh, we love an instance. We've got it.

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<v Speaker 1>We've got an American gator.

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<v Speaker 2>Kilda welcome, I hope that well, thank you for participating

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<v Speaker 2>in our little smutty corner of the internet.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just wanted to give a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>a shot because we love, we love meeting gators in

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<v Speaker 1>the wild, and we love hearing about gatas in the wild.

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<v Speaker 2>So absolutely speaking of that now we're away. Last week,

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<v Speaker 2>the winter els and shells just got us us.

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<v Speaker 1>It got us. It was just it was just not

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<v Speaker 1>our day. The stars were not aligning.

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<v Speaker 2>But before that we are well, idn't think all of

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<v Speaker 2>us because Brad wasn't there, but all the wags and

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<v Speaker 2>us went to mis Behavior.

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<v Speaker 1>What tonight we had a couple of amazing gators in

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<v Speaker 1>the world, so did I. But I were lovely. I

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<v Speaker 1>do remember meeting one. I remember having a I remember

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<v Speaker 1>having a conversation about the podcast. I was definitely a

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<v Speaker 1>fear few drinks deep at that point, can imagine, so

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation is hazy, but I do remember having a

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<v Speaker 1>conversation with gator at Misbehavior. I definitely remember this as well.

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<v Speaker 2>I did my really famous thing where I often asked

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<v Speaker 2>them what their name is and then have no recollection.

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<v Speaker 2>Was but you're not to sound like an old man.

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<v Speaker 2>You're a lovely young man and I'm so pleased that

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<v Speaker 2>you're part of the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>Was probably it was possibly the same It was possibly

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<v Speaker 1>the same one.

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<v Speaker 2>Possibly, yeah, who knows it was It was late in

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<v Speaker 2>the evening.

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<v Speaker 1>Misbehavior was so much fun. I know we're going over

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<v Speaker 1>territory from a couple of weeks ago because we missed

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<v Speaker 1>last week's, but it was Misbehavior was so much fun.

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<v Speaker 2>It was it was so much we happy with how

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<v Speaker 2>it win, really happy. It was just the venue was

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<v Speaker 2>called the vibe was awesome. I was great, such a

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<v Speaker 2>great time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I turned up in a short sleeve shirt with

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<v Speaker 1>I had three buttons undone, but by the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the night all the buttons were undone. No buttons for you,

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<v Speaker 1>And I do wonder from previous experience how much you

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<v Speaker 1>had to do with the lack of buttons by the

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<v Speaker 1>end of the night. I think they definitely helped with

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of the buttons. Yeah, right, it was so much.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's my party trick. It's the thing that way.

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<v Speaker 2>I wake up with a little bit of anxiety the

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<v Speaker 2>next day where.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like a little bit too. I mean, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think I wrapped it off. No, no, no, no no, the

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<v Speaker 1>buttons were still intact.

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<v Speaker 2>But I definitely was like, oh no, no, no, it

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<v Speaker 2>is not having any other Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was. It was great. Someone did say just

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<v Speaker 1>a little piece of feedback that they enjoy. They've they

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy pashing on the dance floor, maybe more than one person,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was not dark enough for them to feel

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<v Speaker 1>like they could go and do the passion and the

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<v Speaker 1>good feedback. So we need a dark area where you

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<v Speaker 1>could pesh back.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, okay, yeah, so there you go. Just something to

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<v Speaker 2>think about film Ali. Yeah, but it was safe. For

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<v Speaker 2>the record, it didn't stop lots of.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, I'm sure it didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>There was definitely there was. There were lips left right

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<v Speaker 2>in the center. I was like, whoa, we had the

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<v Speaker 2>best time. I think it's going like this Little Boys

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<v Speaker 2>Paradise as well, when it's sort of giving and you're like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just going to watch this going on.

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<v Speaker 1>No, we had a great time. So let this be

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<v Speaker 1>a lesson to you. If you missed this last miss behavior,

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<v Speaker 1>do not miss the next one.

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<v Speaker 2>We do one more in November, so you've heard it

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<v Speaker 2>here first. It's gonna be one in November. It'll come

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<v Speaker 2>out in the next week or so. I think I'll

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<v Speaker 2>put the dates out right, but we will, we will

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<v Speaker 2>do it.

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<v Speaker 1>Was our friend was our friend there, our friend, our

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<v Speaker 1>performer friend who's been has performed at previous misbehaviors. He

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<v Speaker 1>was there. I don't think I swam.

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<v Speaker 2>No, he was definitely their Ghosha. He'd done his he

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<v Speaker 2>done his work at club. Men of steel came across

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<v Speaker 2>to help. No, he was definitely there, very helpful. What

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<v Speaker 2>was he were, lady friends? I think it was a

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<v Speaker 2>sort of a little bit of a g string at

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<v Speaker 2>one stage, more like a leather jacket at one point.

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<v Speaker 1>Missed out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just sort of surprising to light. You were too

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<v Speaker 2>busy watching all the passion.

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<v Speaker 1>A true story, true story, true and unbuttoning my share, yes, allegedly,

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<v Speaker 1>but no, a lot of.

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<v Speaker 2>Fun and yeah, thanks everyone for coming and coming and

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<v Speaker 2>play along with us.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you how do you feel do you enjoy going

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<v Speaker 1>to those like do you feel like you can have

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<v Speaker 1>fun and relax and enjoy those things?

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<v Speaker 2>Or you have definitely got to the stage now where

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<v Speaker 2>I do. I mean, you've got a this is probably

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<v Speaker 2>a bit boring. We have to keep a certain level

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<v Speaker 2>of awareness around you. I'll give you an example. Just

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<v Speaker 2>before the end of the night, we had our only

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<v Speaker 2>sort of security slash disorder of the evenings.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a very minor one.

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<v Speaker 2>It was it was a something actually knew personally who

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<v Speaker 2>maybe had a couple too many cans of crocacola and

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<v Speaker 2>decided that using their power of argument was going to

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<v Speaker 2>be how they would get themselves out of a situation

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<v Speaker 2>with one of the bar staff, which never goes down

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<v Speaker 2>with I think once you have starving conversation with someone

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<v Speaker 2>at the bar and they're you're not agreeing, it's time

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<v Speaker 2>just to cut your loss so totally.

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<v Speaker 1>But I have also been the person that has decided

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<v Speaker 1>to argue and yeah, you're you're never in the winning

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<v Speaker 1>situation that you've kind of lost before it even starts.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely, And there was one point where that happened where

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<v Speaker 2>I had to go and just quickly intervene for a

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<v Speaker 2>brief moment. And I realized as I was going to

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<v Speaker 2>intervene that I was wearing a short pair of pink

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<v Speaker 2>shorts and note top, and I was like, do you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I think I'm like to throw. I think

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<v Speaker 2>I might throw a single back on again, just just.

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<v Speaker 1>With this one.

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<v Speaker 2>I shout out to the bar stuff for not really

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<v Speaker 2>making up my problem, but and to this poor I wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know whether there's together or not.

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<v Speaker 2>I appreciate you coming along, and sorry that you and

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<v Speaker 2>I ended up slightly earlier than.

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<v Speaker 1>There were a lot of homosexuals there, obviously, not that

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<v Speaker 1>it's just not that it's only for the for the homos,

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<v Speaker 1>but there were a lot of them there. And then

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<v Speaker 1>the next day, a little bit hungover, I got invited

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<v Speaker 1>to a new activity by a guy that I know,

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<v Speaker 1>and I went along, and all of a sudden, I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>is this the new gay hobby or activity? This is

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<v Speaker 1>not sort of a list of lock and cack on

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<v Speaker 1>sort of no, no, no, no, no, this was no. This

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<v Speaker 1>was like afternoon on the Sunday after this behavior. What

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<v Speaker 1>is activity? We went rock climbing. We went to an

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<v Speaker 1>indoor rock climbing wall.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, And first of all, readit with Credit's Joe, that

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<v Speaker 2>is very impressive.

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<v Speaker 1>After a few beverages the night before, I agreed, agreed,

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<v Speaker 1>but I thought I need to peel myself off the

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<v Speaker 1>couch and do something today. And I've been complaining to

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<v Speaker 1>Ryan that I haven't been putting enough effort into friends,

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<v Speaker 1>Like yeah, it's a hard one, very easy to just say, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>thanks for the invite, but I'm busy, or I'm yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm never busy. I'm actually just come fucked. I've

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<v Speaker 1>got a husband and and warm at home, and Emily

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<v Speaker 1>in Paris has just dropped like five new episodes on Netflix.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm just side note. Is the hot guy that

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<v Speaker 1>was her boyfriend? Is he's doing it? There's two yes,

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<v Speaker 1>which one are you talking about? One that owned the

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<v Speaker 1>chef one, Yeah, he's doing it. But I'm actually I'm

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<v Speaker 1>team Alfie, the guy from London, really definitely in this anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry I digress. So yes, So I thought I could

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<v Speaker 1>easily say no, and this would be the perfect excuse,

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<v Speaker 1>an opportunity to say no, hungover on a Sunday. But

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<v Speaker 1>I went along and I turned up and there was

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<v Speaker 1>a parade of homosexuals at this indoor climbing wall, and

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, is this the innuactivity for gam end.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we only talked only a couple of weeks on

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<v Speaker 2>the podcast about the rising gay sports off the back

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<v Speaker 2>of the Rainbow Game.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is really where Brad should be coming out

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<v Speaker 1>of me.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, maybe rock climbing should be part of the

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<v Speaker 2>Rainbow Games twenty twenty five.

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<v Speaker 1>I swear every like every week I'm seeing a new group,

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<v Speaker 1>a new gay sport group emerging. Now is it has

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<v Speaker 1>very So I race it. So I got the air.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know if you've ever been to an

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<v Speaker 1>indoor climbing wall before, not since I was a child.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is one where you're not like, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>you're not strapped in. It's not like we're not talking

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<v Speaker 1>ropes and caribbeaners and no, no, no, ironically no, So

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<v Speaker 1>this is just a free for all, like you're you're

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<v Speaker 1>just left to your own devices. So they're not big

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<v Speaker 1>walls obviously because you can't have them too high up

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<v Speaker 1>because health and safety. So I was looking at these walls, going,

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<v Speaker 1>this is so small, like, surely anyone can do this,

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<v Speaker 1>This is so easy. No, it is so hard. I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't even imagine. Your body has to contort and stretch

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<v Speaker 1>itself into positions I'm not used to believe it or not. No,

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<v Speaker 1>marriage you take the easy route, don't you really easy route?

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<v Speaker 1>I should say, and so I was like on this

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<v Speaker 1>wall trying to like because also famously very competitive, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and so it was desperately trying to like get my

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<v Speaker 1>weight clamber my way up this wall, and some of

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<v Speaker 1>them were so so hard. And then I got off

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought, well, no one, surely no one can

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<v Speaker 1>do this. And then this little kid, like this seven

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<v Speaker 1>year old kid just bowls up to the wall and

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<v Speaker 1>just monkey like climbs up this wall and put like

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<v Speaker 1>shows me up something chronic. I was so embarrassed. But

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<v Speaker 1>it was really really fun. And we've been we've talked

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<v Speaker 1>on this podcast previously about new hobbies. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that I'm going to go to the climbing war every

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<v Speaker 1>week or anything, but it was really fun to do,

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<v Speaker 1>especially with a group of like group of guys. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I will.

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<v Speaker 2>To make some sort of like grandiose statement like that

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<v Speaker 2>sounds fun, I'd be into it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think I've got the strength for it. Like

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<v Speaker 1>how how sore was you? Bo on? The forearms were

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<v Speaker 1>burning my hands like I've still got callouses on my hands.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was fun. I really enjoyed doing it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well good on you for I mean this in the

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<v Speaker 2>least patronizing way possible. Good on you for walking the talk,

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<v Speaker 2>getting out there, giving it a go. Thank you very much,

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<v Speaker 2>and I hope to see more stories of you out

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<v Speaker 2>and about competing.

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<v Speaker 1>And you heard it here first the gays to rock climber.

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<v Speaker 1>They love to climb. The guys of sport aigle man.

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<v Speaker 2>In this town, you'd be you'd really be a fat one,

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't you heet with all these gay sports to go.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, speaking of my husband and another wag together swimming

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Really they've doing their first session with the Tans. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the Auckland gay swim group. Amazing. So this is actually

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<v Speaker 1>this is actually bringing some thoughts back.

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<v Speaker 2>This is actually a drinken misbehavior conversation about being about

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<v Speaker 2>being part of this in the ocean swimming.

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<v Speaker 1>The tams are quite fun, really fun. Ryan did say

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<v Speaker 1>he was a little bit nervous. You know what it's

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<v Speaker 1>like when you're especially when you're an adult and you're

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<v Speaker 1>like joining this new group. Hopefully he was a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit nervous about it, but I'm very eager to hear

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<v Speaker 1>how it wins, and I'm sure he'll love it. Plus,

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<v Speaker 1>it's also one of these things where it's like once

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<v Speaker 1>you're in the water, You're kind of just doing your

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<v Speaker 1>own thing anyway, really, aren't you.

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<v Speaker 2>And also I feel like sometimes when you're doing that stuff,

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<v Speaker 2>it's almost about just getting in there and doing it,

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<v Speaker 2>and the adrenaline of like having to keep up with

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<v Speaker 2>everyone just sort of makes it all happen as biical

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<v Speaker 2>down there as when Beca's there as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Two of them have gone a lot, rocked along together

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<v Speaker 1>to join the tams fun. I know good in them

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<v Speaker 1>And how are you. I'm really good?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm I'm I'm on the back end of being good.

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<v Speaker 2>We had a pretty grim weekend at our household. We

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<v Speaker 2>picked up a little bit of the old gastro. So

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<v Speaker 2>I know that our gators will be right into this

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<v Speaker 2>because I know many of the gators have got children,

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<v Speaker 2>and it sounds like it's very much a ride of

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<v Speaker 2>passage you've got kids, especially.

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<v Speaker 1>Ones that go to daycare.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, we went out and Saturday night had a

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<v Speaker 2>really good time snear. The end of the night, we

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<v Speaker 2>were like congratulating ourselves.

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<v Speaker 1>Matt and I were like, oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we've played this really well. We've been to one

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<v Speaker 2>of Matt's work events. We're not going to be that hungover.

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<v Speaker 2>We're in the uber on the way home. Matt's like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't feel very goos and I was like, oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, well we'll.

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<v Speaker 1>Be home soon.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, we get home, make it into bed for about

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<v Speaker 2>three and a half minutes and he's up and that

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<v Speaker 2>is just him for the night, vomiting and all of

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<v Speaker 2>the works. And then I joined in about sex in

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<v Speaker 2>the morning, and yeah, it was horrific, a solid twenty

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<v Speaker 2>four hours of just being absolutely like just grossly ill.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know what it would have been? Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>think it was guestro. Well, it's two parts.

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<v Speaker 2>One obviously he's involved in the education system, so that's

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<v Speaker 2>I've got yes, spectly, and then had another couple of

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<v Speaker 2>friends that had been sick as well. But it sounds

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<v Speaker 2>like it's really during the rounds at the moment. But

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<v Speaker 2>we did actually come out of the weekend all two parts.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, we came out of the weekend still together,

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<v Speaker 2>which I think is all also, which is a great thing. Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, when you're sick, well you really are seeing

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<v Speaker 1>each other at you you're very very.

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<v Speaker 2>Lowest, and it's it's when someone is sick and you

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<v Speaker 2>live in a smaller s house.

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<v Speaker 1>It's you know, it's an audio visual experience.

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<v Speaker 2>H Yeah, there are things I heard and things that

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<v Speaker 2>I saw. Yeah, and so two parts one we were

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<v Speaker 2>obviously we managed to be nice enough to each other

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<v Speaker 2>across the course of the weekend. Who did like, did

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<v Speaker 2>you get to did you have to take it in

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<v Speaker 2>turns to be the the hero?

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<v Speaker 1>Well? Yes and no, I think to be.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll lay it down on the table. I think he

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<v Speaker 2>had it worse than I did. Yeah, I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>it definitely got me.

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<v Speaker 1>But I the I don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Be too gross because I can appreciate this early in

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<v Speaker 2>the morning for some people different times that were people

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<v Speaker 2>listening to this. But my physical symptoms didn't last as

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<v Speaker 2>long as his dad. Right, But we still felt pretty awful,

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<v Speaker 2>I because I went second.

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<v Speaker 1>I did some like some Lord's work early in the

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<v Speaker 1>battle solid yeah. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>But then as we were coming right the back end

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<v Speaker 2>of it, so to speak, I definitely picked up at

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<v Speaker 2>the mental and.

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<v Speaker 1>It's horrible the way I had it last year, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I couldn't tell you the last time I

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<v Speaker 1>really got sick click there, and it was awful getting

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of kilos down. It's true, she's feeling she's

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<v Speaker 1>feeling slim. That's true.

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<v Speaker 2>But the one thing that was very that was interesting

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<v Speaker 2>about it, or we we sort of reminisced about it's

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<v Speaker 2>not often when you've been dating someone for a while

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<v Speaker 2>that you get to have like a first with someone,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, like one of those.

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<v Speaker 1>Sort of yeah kind of like oh wow, we've never

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<v Speaker 1>done this before.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep, ye might happened sort of about four am on

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<v Speaker 2>Sunday morning when I hit a cry from the bathroom

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<v Speaker 2>of I vomited on the floor and I had to

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<v Speaker 2>get up and I cleaned the volet off the floor

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<v Speaker 2>because he couldn't himself.

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<v Speaker 1>That's love, Yeah, there is love and love you babe,

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<v Speaker 1>stronger for it? Do you think? Absolutely? Yeah, Well I'm glad,

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<v Speaker 1>glad to know that you made it through. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're fighting. We're fighting for it now. Although did have

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<v Speaker 1>a great situation so is you're no.

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<v Speaker 2>We record this podcast on its Tuesday, so I had

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<v Speaker 2>to down for it yesterday because I felt awful and

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<v Speaker 2>b I was like, there's no way that I'm taking

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<v Speaker 2>this to work with me because this I'm not giving this.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyone is a stay and we're never no one else

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<v Speaker 1>is allowed to have no, no, no, and we'll talk about

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<v Speaker 1>it on the podcast and then we'll never mention it again.

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<v Speaker 2>I got a I did a round to a wan

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<v Speaker 2>of work today and I said, oh, I will give

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<v Speaker 2>you a hug. But I've been kidstro But the weekend

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<v Speaker 2>it was fucking like old COVID days.

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<v Speaker 1>She couldn't have gone away from me. I really appreciate that. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go have got one by Chris and I

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<v Speaker 1>see you. Bye bye bye bye bye bye. Bite. Hey

0:20:10.424 --> 0:20:15.744
<v Speaker 1>some sad gay news today or gay adjacent news. You

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<v Speaker 1>may remember the amazing story of the same sex penguin

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<v Speaker 1>power couple in Australia.

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<v Speaker 2>Now I've seen the top line of it this, but

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't read about it till I'm very excited to

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<v Speaker 2>hear this.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Sven and his partner Magic. They shot to

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<v Speaker 1>global stardom in twenty eighteen, so about six years ago

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<v Speaker 1>when they fell in love at the Sea Life Aquarium

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<v Speaker 1>in Sydney, and then they later adopted and raised two

0:20:48.544 --> 0:20:53.064
<v Speaker 1>chicks as a same sex male couple. Get it, Gels.

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<v Speaker 1>It was such a beautiful story and just goes to

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<v Speaker 1>show to any bigots out there, we're everywhere. The gay

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<v Speaker 1>Agenda is alive and wow, JK Rowling just grown. Brian

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<v Speaker 1>Tamaki will have something to say about Sphin and Magic,

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<v Speaker 1>But I have some very sad news to report. Spin

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<v Speaker 1>has sadly passed away r P R I P. They

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<v Speaker 1>he made it to the ripe old age of eleven,

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<v Speaker 1>which apparently is very well, like very you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a solid innings for this particular penguin species, and it

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<v Speaker 1>feels like that feels like a solid effort. Yeah, Magic's

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<v Speaker 1>a toy boy, because Spin was eleven, Magic's eight.

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<v Speaker 2>So wow, Daddy and the twin new Daddy. I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>that's probably callous of me. It's too early in the

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<v Speaker 2>piece for information like that.

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<v Speaker 1>So Magic, they took Magic to see Spinn's body to

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<v Speaker 1>like show Magic that Spin wasn't coming back, and they

0:22:06.784 --> 0:22:14.224
<v Speaker 1>immediately started singing, I showed tune. Probably you have to laugh.

0:22:14.264 --> 0:22:20.704
<v Speaker 1>You have to laugh at these things, something from Frozen. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>it's very sad news, but it was such a beautiful

0:22:25.184 --> 0:22:29.224
<v Speaker 1>story that funnily enough, you know, like I don't know,

0:22:29.744 --> 0:22:33.704
<v Speaker 1>hearing something like that, we realize, fuck, you know, even

0:22:33.744 --> 0:22:39.184
<v Speaker 1>the penguins are living these beautiful, authentic lives. Something really

0:22:39.304 --> 0:22:42.504
<v Speaker 1>sweet about it. He was just take a little moment

0:22:42.504 --> 0:22:53.024
<v Speaker 1>of silence. Yeah. So anyway, but again is do you know.

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<v Speaker 2>That this year is one hundred and fifty years since

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<v Speaker 2>the jockstrack was inventors?

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<v Speaker 1>It isn't that all? It is that old. I saw this.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw one of my favorite editor entertainers, Matthew camp

0:23:03.824 --> 0:23:05.304
<v Speaker 2>If you're not across Matthew camp.

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<v Speaker 1>Are well worth it? Swimmer? No, No, Matthew Campy's a.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, He's a an influencer porn starry only

0:23:15.224 --> 0:23:17.824
<v Speaker 2>sort of guy. He this is a little bit niche,

0:23:17.864 --> 0:23:19.824
<v Speaker 2>but also a great thing to go in your recommendation.

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<v Speaker 2>There was a documentary what's it called?

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<v Speaker 1>What's Like?

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<v Speaker 2>Not a documentary because a momentary is funny, isn't that

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<v Speaker 2>what It's like? A documentary like a kind of a

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<v Speaker 2>highbridy documentary movie thing about him being a go go

0:23:31.224 --> 0:23:34.344
<v Speaker 2>dancer in New York. Terrible stories cart with the information

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<v Speaker 2>and it also can't google at the same time because

0:23:36.304 --> 0:23:37.504
<v Speaker 2>boy and I'm telling the story.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'll come back to this anyway. I found out

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<v Speaker 1>through him.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, invented one hundred and fifty years ago, and

0:23:45.664 --> 0:23:50.904
<v Speaker 2>it was originally done it was originally made for those

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<v Speaker 2>for bicycle riding messengers and delivery men or bike jockeys,

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<v Speaker 2>So people that used to ride around and deliver things

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<v Speaker 2>on the bikes.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what they used to be at wow, for for

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<v Speaker 1>ease and for comfort. Yeah, so I think it was.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm guessing so that maybe so that you weren't

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<v Speaker 2>so sweaty, because I think there's the original idea that

0:24:12.384 --> 0:24:12.664
<v Speaker 2>isn't it.

0:24:12.784 --> 0:24:15.144
<v Speaker 1>Although you'd think if you were on a bike all

0:24:15.304 --> 0:24:18.944
<v Speaker 1>day you'd want some extra petting. They're not less petting.

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<v Speaker 2>I suppose maybe the underway they were wearing in those

0:24:20.944 --> 0:24:24.344
<v Speaker 2>days though it would be too bunch. Yeah, yeah, that's true. Also,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think I learned there's also a female equivalent

0:24:26.864 --> 0:24:29.144
<v Speaker 2>of a jock sep called a jill strap a gill Yeah,

0:24:29.184 --> 0:24:31.384
<v Speaker 2>and it's designed to protect the vulver from getting stuck.

0:24:31.544 --> 0:24:34.624
<v Speaker 1>I'm not sure where it's getting stuck, but yeah, but

0:24:34.784 --> 0:24:35.944
<v Speaker 1>same concept.

0:24:35.984 --> 0:24:39.344
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so just sort of like the same design, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I think. So, Okay, do we have to actually what

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<v Speaker 2>them in it's.

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<v Speaker 1>He in the Wikipedia. If any of our gators have

0:24:46.504 --> 0:24:48.544
<v Speaker 1>ever used a jill strap.

0:24:48.704 --> 0:24:51.024
<v Speaker 2>Let us know who love to say, I'm going to

0:24:51.064 --> 0:24:54.464
<v Speaker 2>find that out because the internet here at radio towers

0:24:54.584 --> 0:24:55.344
<v Speaker 2>not super strong.

0:24:55.424 --> 0:24:58.424
<v Speaker 1>No, sorry, but yeah, and so but.

0:24:58.464 --> 0:25:02.184
<v Speaker 2>So eighteen seventy fours when they first were invented, and

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<v Speaker 2>then it wasn't until the fifth nineteen fifties that the

0:25:05.184 --> 0:25:05.824
<v Speaker 2>gates were like.

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<v Speaker 1>Hang, I know a little that did it? Why would?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean no, I was gonna say, why did it

0:25:12.584 --> 0:25:15.344
<v Speaker 1>get commandeered by the gay community, But it's like very

0:25:15.384 --> 0:25:18.584
<v Speaker 1>obvious why I got commandeered by the gay community. I

0:25:18.624 --> 0:25:21.824
<v Speaker 1>will I will want to misbehavior? Yeah, do you feel good?

0:25:21.984 --> 0:25:22.264
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:25:22.464 --> 0:25:25.824
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, I quite like it's there's something quite I

0:25:25.864 --> 0:25:28.224
<v Speaker 1>think we've talked about it before. There's something quite sexy

0:25:28.224 --> 0:25:28.744
<v Speaker 1>and empowering.

0:25:28.904 --> 0:25:32.624
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, definitely, Well, yes, I totally agree. And you wouldn't

0:25:32.624 --> 0:25:33.824
<v Speaker 2>have been the only one that was. I mean, there

0:25:33.864 --> 0:25:35.784
<v Speaker 2>was definitely something that would that had them just them on.

0:25:36.504 --> 0:25:39.344
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I love it. The clear bottoms. I actually i've

0:25:39.384 --> 0:25:48.864
<v Speaker 1>been watching Orange is the New Black watch. Yeah, really good. Anyway,

0:25:49.144 --> 0:25:52.224
<v Speaker 1>in the literally in the episode that I most recently watched,

0:25:52.704 --> 0:25:58.584
<v Speaker 1>there's a subplot where the prisoners start making underwear for

0:25:58.664 --> 0:26:03.544
<v Speaker 1>like a private company, and it's like lingerie, like women's

0:26:03.584 --> 0:26:07.184
<v Speaker 1>lingerie that they're making and one of the prisoners talks

0:26:07.224 --> 0:26:12.184
<v Speaker 1>about the fact that for women, lingerie is less about

0:26:12.504 --> 0:26:18.064
<v Speaker 1>the like impressing a man or a woman. I guess

0:26:18.264 --> 0:26:23.784
<v Speaker 1>it's more about the wearer feeling confident and sexy. Yeah,

0:26:23.824 --> 0:26:26.784
<v Speaker 1>do you think the jock strap's the same, Like, do

0:26:26.824 --> 0:26:29.664
<v Speaker 1>you think it's more about you feeling empowered wearing it

0:26:29.704 --> 0:26:33.024
<v Speaker 1>as opposed to wearing it for someone else? Well, to

0:26:33.064 --> 0:26:35.384
<v Speaker 1>be honest, that's how I would feel. I am. I

0:26:35.384 --> 0:26:37.664
<v Speaker 1>think that's how I feel. I hadn't really kind of

0:26:38.464 --> 0:26:40.304
<v Speaker 1>thought about it until I heard them talking about it

0:26:40.344 --> 0:26:44.304
<v Speaker 1>on Oranges, the New Blank of all places. Yeah, it's

0:26:44.544 --> 0:26:46.584
<v Speaker 1>it's it's a performative thing.

0:26:46.624 --> 0:26:48.104
<v Speaker 2>But that's not really even the right way of putting it,

0:26:48.184 --> 0:26:49.664
<v Speaker 2>is that it's kind of one of those things that.

0:26:49.784 --> 0:26:54.024
<v Speaker 1>Is just you. Yeah, I suppose it's what ever makes

0:26:54.064 --> 0:26:58.704
<v Speaker 1>you feel good? A jill strap. I've googled it very

0:26:58.824 --> 0:27:00.704
<v Speaker 1>very similar in design to a.

0:27:00.664 --> 0:27:03.424
<v Speaker 2>Jobs Yeah, I mean if you were going to the

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<v Speaker 2>if you go to the store, you might even picked

0:27:04.744 --> 0:27:07.704
<v Speaker 2>the wrong one upn't you. Yes, it looks a lot

0:27:07.864 --> 0:27:11.304
<v Speaker 2>thinner like this because you're obviously not really in the

0:27:11.304 --> 0:27:13.064
<v Speaker 2>balls're not coup and as you're not having a.

0:27:12.984 --> 0:27:15.944
<v Speaker 1>Cup as much. So yeah, it's a lot thinner.

0:27:16.664 --> 0:27:19.344
<v Speaker 2>Shall we stand on the TV theme and move across

0:27:19.384 --> 0:27:24.224
<v Speaker 2>to great television news of the week. Long time listeners

0:27:24.224 --> 0:27:27.224
<v Speaker 2>to the podcast would know that we're big fans of

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<v Speaker 2>the television franchise Sibre Trees of Ireland.

0:27:30.304 --> 0:27:32.704
<v Speaker 1>In fact, some of must have been honest. I'll stop.

0:27:34.464 --> 0:27:38.664
<v Speaker 1>We were once or twice twice. Yes, I was on

0:27:38.704 --> 0:27:44.544
<v Speaker 1>the first season of the New Iteration in twenty nineteen

0:27:45.144 --> 0:27:49.944
<v Speaker 1>and then didn't go well but got brought back, bullied

0:27:49.944 --> 0:27:53.824
<v Speaker 1>by Barbicane, got bullied by poor Barbara. I will stop

0:27:53.864 --> 0:27:57.584
<v Speaker 1>talking about it one day and I don't think she's

0:27:57.624 --> 0:28:03.024
<v Speaker 1>listening to this podcast and she's gurgling. And then got

0:28:03.064 --> 0:28:06.504
<v Speaker 1>brought back for fans versus favorites a couple of year

0:28:06.544 --> 0:28:09.464
<v Speaker 1>years ago. Well, I did make it all the way

0:28:09.504 --> 0:28:11.504
<v Speaker 1>to the end, and I did when.

0:28:13.784 --> 0:28:16.544
<v Speaker 2>But they're releasing new contestants for this year and it

0:28:16.544 --> 0:28:18.384
<v Speaker 2>looks like a great series.

0:28:18.984 --> 0:28:22.704
<v Speaker 1>I've heard, I mean I haven't heard. I haven't heard specifics,

0:28:22.744 --> 0:28:27.984
<v Speaker 1>but I've heard as a general vibe, very very strong season.

0:28:28.104 --> 0:28:31.504
<v Speaker 2>Well, the level of talent is very impressive, I think,

0:28:31.504 --> 0:28:34.024
<v Speaker 2>and I think it's credits to the show and I

0:28:34.064 --> 0:28:36.984
<v Speaker 2>think how much people enjoy it. Where people who maybe

0:28:36.984 --> 0:28:39.544
<v Speaker 2>you wouldn't have normally expected to go on the show,

0:28:39.584 --> 0:28:42.864
<v Speaker 2>such as sitting MP Carl zeppalone, yes, who did a

0:28:42.904 --> 0:28:44.024
<v Speaker 2>great job of lying about that.

0:28:44.224 --> 0:28:48.304
<v Speaker 1>FYI like, actually, you know what, let's give it a go.

0:28:48.824 --> 0:28:51.424
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know, But just to put it into the

0:28:51.464 --> 0:28:56.984
<v Speaker 2>context of our wonderful podcast, statistically.

0:28:57.224 --> 0:29:01.024
<v Speaker 1>Gaze great at the show? Is that fair well? Of

0:29:01.224 --> 0:29:04.784
<v Speaker 1>the five seasons we've had of them, of the more

0:29:04.824 --> 0:29:08.264
<v Speaker 1>recent iteration since twenty nine, team, there have been three

0:29:09.064 --> 0:29:10.224
<v Speaker 1>gay winners.

0:29:10.384 --> 0:29:11.864
<v Speaker 2>And we think we're going to go for one, go

0:29:11.944 --> 0:29:14.904
<v Speaker 2>for one more because this season, by my calculation, it

0:29:14.944 --> 0:29:17.584
<v Speaker 2>is some good detective book on this afternoon. I think

0:29:17.584 --> 0:29:23.744
<v Speaker 2>that there are three homosexual in this series. Okay, possibly more,

0:29:23.824 --> 0:29:25.704
<v Speaker 2>but I think also let's let's just go with those

0:29:25.744 --> 0:29:26.224
<v Speaker 2>that are out.

0:29:26.184 --> 0:29:30.264
<v Speaker 1>Loud and proud. Yeah, so obviously Tarmati Coffee, Amity Coffee,

0:29:30.504 --> 0:29:33.784
<v Speaker 1>former Labor MP, former Breakfast were the presenter Dancing with

0:29:33.784 --> 0:29:36.944
<v Speaker 1>the Stars Champion. Yes, he's strong.

0:29:37.264 --> 0:29:39.864
<v Speaker 2>He is really strong, absolutely big muscle, is ready to

0:29:39.864 --> 0:29:44.424
<v Speaker 2>go and competitive and schemey like, not in a bad way,

0:29:44.424 --> 0:29:46.264
<v Speaker 2>but he would he'll do what it takes.

0:29:46.064 --> 0:29:47.344
<v Speaker 1>To kind of get to the endement.

0:29:47.944 --> 0:29:54.344
<v Speaker 2>We've got Janay Henry Comedian fantastic, remember the rambag community wonderful.

0:29:54.424 --> 0:29:57.344
<v Speaker 2>I think quite funny. People might like sort of think

0:29:57.344 --> 0:30:01.584
<v Speaker 2>that she can't Henry spin is exactly right. And then

0:30:01.664 --> 0:30:05.344
<v Speaker 2>number three from my calculations, speaking Jackson.

0:30:05.304 --> 0:30:09.984
<v Speaker 1>I know winner of Opal's Drag Race down Under fascinated

0:30:10.024 --> 0:30:12.704
<v Speaker 1>as well to probably get a little bit television meta

0:30:12.744 --> 0:30:14.904
<v Speaker 1>here to work out with a because on the promo

0:30:14.944 --> 0:30:16.544
<v Speaker 1>photo full drag.

0:30:16.424 --> 0:30:18.424
<v Speaker 2>Full drag, do you think stays in full drake the

0:30:18.424 --> 0:30:20.664
<v Speaker 2>whole time. I kind of have to for it to work,

0:30:20.824 --> 0:30:22.024
<v Speaker 2>is how I feel about it.

0:30:22.304 --> 0:30:27.944
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, except having done the show and having competed

0:30:27.984 --> 0:30:30.024
<v Speaker 1>in the challenges and stuff. Yeah, I mean it would

0:30:30.064 --> 0:30:31.664
<v Speaker 1>be a pain in the ass is a woman having

0:30:31.664 --> 0:30:34.344
<v Speaker 1>to deal with breasts and stuff, let alone being a

0:30:34.384 --> 0:30:38.904
<v Speaker 1>fake woman having to deal with like breastplates and wigs

0:30:38.984 --> 0:30:40.704
<v Speaker 1>and all the rest of it.

0:30:40.944 --> 0:30:44.544
<v Speaker 2>It wouldn't make any sense because speaking Jackson, out of drag,

0:30:45.544 --> 0:30:46.744
<v Speaker 2>you wouldn't recognize them.

0:30:47.464 --> 0:30:49.624
<v Speaker 1>No, but I guess you've got a story to tell

0:30:49.624 --> 0:30:51.664
<v Speaker 1>on the show, right, So maybe you start and drag

0:30:51.704 --> 0:30:55.184
<v Speaker 1>on the episode one and by episode two you've d dragged.

0:30:55.944 --> 0:30:58.944
<v Speaker 1>Did you like SPI I've arrived in my film out

0:30:58.984 --> 0:31:01.984
<v Speaker 1>for Yeah, I don't know. I just think it's a

0:31:02.024 --> 0:31:04.784
<v Speaker 1>lot of upkeep to maintain drag if you make it

0:31:04.824 --> 0:31:07.264
<v Speaker 1>all the way to the end, you know, for maybe

0:31:07.304 --> 0:31:09.824
<v Speaker 1>that she stays in dregs would be big for so

0:31:09.864 --> 0:31:12.904
<v Speaker 1>funny if she did. Yeah. So three, I mean, anyone

0:31:12.904 --> 0:31:14.024
<v Speaker 1>else is welcome to join the family.

0:31:14.024 --> 0:31:16.104
<v Speaker 2>I'm absolutely I wouldn't know, but I'm just taking based

0:31:16.144 --> 0:31:20.104
<v Speaker 2>off public information. One that I wouldn't mind joining the

0:31:20.104 --> 0:31:22.064
<v Speaker 2>group is Vinnie Wolston.

0:31:22.104 --> 0:31:26.344
<v Speaker 1>Did you know about Vinnie Wilson? Ever heard of him? Sonny,

0:31:26.624 --> 0:31:31.104
<v Speaker 1>Vinnie Wilston is an international model, like I think It's

0:31:31.144 --> 0:31:35.064
<v Speaker 1>done some pretty big campaigns before to the spin off.

0:31:35.064 --> 0:31:39.304
<v Speaker 2>He's the global face of You've seen Laurent uh and

0:31:39.344 --> 0:31:40.344
<v Speaker 2>now he lives in Raglan.

0:31:41.584 --> 0:31:45.704
<v Speaker 1>That's his two claims to fame. He looks beautiful, though stunning,

0:31:46.304 --> 0:31:51.304
<v Speaker 1>like just your classic male model, all right. He's got

0:31:51.304 --> 0:31:54.784
<v Speaker 1>a real like fifties vibe to him.

0:31:55.904 --> 0:31:58.784
<v Speaker 2>I like this photo here where he's just this and

0:31:58.824 --> 0:32:00.744
<v Speaker 2>the promotion photo where he's just like arms up, like

0:32:00.784 --> 0:32:02.424
<v Speaker 2>showing a little bit of the purse.

0:32:02.384 --> 0:32:04.184
<v Speaker 1>Arms up like he's looking like a model. But he's

0:32:04.224 --> 0:32:07.864
<v Speaker 1>also wearing like the most unassuming clothing as well. I

0:32:07.864 --> 0:32:08.384
<v Speaker 1>can't work out with.

0:32:08.424 --> 0:32:10.584
<v Speaker 2>It's like almost like a sponsors thing. Is it a

0:32:10.704 --> 0:32:15.384
<v Speaker 2>kiwis it's like a tank like a it's a single?

0:32:15.664 --> 0:32:17.984
<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Is it a Kiwi singleer? Like?

0:32:18.264 --> 0:32:20.024
<v Speaker 2>It's probably it's probably the only person that's break a

0:32:20.064 --> 0:32:21.584
<v Speaker 2>sp sponsor clothes.

0:32:22.544 --> 0:32:28.344
<v Speaker 1>Ride Tech, build Transfer Solutions. He's he's a very very

0:32:28.384 --> 0:32:29.024
<v Speaker 1>handsome man.

0:32:29.384 --> 0:32:32.024
<v Speaker 2>Now, I suppose you can't give any any spoilers, But

0:32:32.104 --> 0:32:33.904
<v Speaker 2>have you seen any of it? Because I know you

0:32:33.984 --> 0:32:36.264
<v Speaker 2>are the resident commentator on all these things.

0:32:36.424 --> 0:32:39.184
<v Speaker 1>I haven't seen any of it, but I have been

0:32:39.184 --> 0:32:42.824
<v Speaker 1>invited to the premiere in a couple of weeks, and

0:32:42.864 --> 0:32:46.984
<v Speaker 1>that will come out. I will see it before it

0:32:47.224 --> 0:32:50.024
<v Speaker 1>obviously arrives on television, so I'll be able to tell

0:32:50.064 --> 0:32:52.144
<v Speaker 1>you about it before it lands on TV.

0:32:52.544 --> 0:32:56.584
<v Speaker 2>Do you think, but just between you and me and

0:32:56.624 --> 0:32:59.424
<v Speaker 2>the gators, do you think we might be able to

0:32:59.464 --> 0:33:00.344
<v Speaker 2>pick a favorite.

0:33:00.024 --> 0:33:01.544
<v Speaker 1>From the LGBT community how we think is going to

0:33:01.584 --> 0:33:04.664
<v Speaker 1>win it? I honestly would not put it past time

0:33:04.744 --> 0:33:06.024
<v Speaker 1>to go all the way and win it.

0:33:06.264 --> 0:33:10.624
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, controversial take. I think he could win it and

0:33:10.664 --> 0:33:14.784
<v Speaker 2>then have no friends. Yeah, I know exactly what you mean.

0:33:15.184 --> 0:33:17.744
<v Speaker 1>He will. He could either win it or he'll go

0:33:17.904 --> 0:33:21.024
<v Speaker 1>very far but be the villain of the season. Yeah,

0:33:21.144 --> 0:33:28.064
<v Speaker 1>it could go either way. And then Jordan, Yeah, I'm sorry,

0:33:28.064 --> 0:33:31.744
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't cats. I would love to see a woman

0:33:31.824 --> 0:33:35.664
<v Speaker 1>win it, like I would love I love Michelle Langston.

0:33:35.704 --> 0:33:38.064
<v Speaker 1>I think she's brilliant the actress. She would be great

0:33:38.064 --> 0:33:40.624
<v Speaker 1>and I feel like she could go quite far me

0:33:40.664 --> 0:33:44.504
<v Speaker 1>and more too. The boxer is so fierce, so fierce,

0:33:44.624 --> 0:33:46.904
<v Speaker 1>she looks terrifying. You don't want to mess with her.

0:33:47.264 --> 0:33:49.144
<v Speaker 2>I've worked a little bit with Gabbie Simola and she

0:33:49.424 --> 0:33:54.744
<v Speaker 2>is very impressive. So could go far, I think, so, Yeah,

0:33:55.704 --> 0:33:58.224
<v Speaker 2>you can't. You really can't go past to someone woman, though,

0:33:58.264 --> 0:34:00.784
<v Speaker 2>can you. Like if they've got the wets, they've got

0:34:00.824 --> 0:34:01.984
<v Speaker 2>the brain and they got the brawn like the.

0:34:02.824 --> 0:34:06.744
<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah yeah. And also Gabby is someone that not

0:34:06.824 --> 0:34:09.744
<v Speaker 1>a lot of people know, so she could easily like

0:34:09.864 --> 0:34:11.624
<v Speaker 1>slide under the radar a little bit.

0:34:12.104 --> 0:34:13.944
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we know that Carmel's not winning because she heard

0:34:13.944 --> 0:34:15.984
<v Speaker 2>her phone andjet to come home with you.

0:34:17.064 --> 0:34:21.144
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know. But anyway, it starts in a couple

0:34:21.184 --> 0:34:25.064
<v Speaker 1>of wee yes, it does with the tag we've got

0:34:25.064 --> 0:34:25.624
<v Speaker 1>to give this credit.

0:34:25.664 --> 0:34:30.024
<v Speaker 2>The project begins Monday, the ninth of September on TV

0:34:30.104 --> 0:34:31.544
<v Speaker 2>and Z two and tv Z Plus.

0:34:32.784 --> 0:34:35.544
<v Speaker 1>There you go, put that in their jack I'm a

0:34:35.624 --> 0:34:38.064
<v Speaker 1>tv Z I'm a TV and Z man at heart.

0:34:38.144 --> 0:34:44.464
<v Speaker 1>You know, Hey, something's happened to me and I really

0:34:44.464 --> 0:34:50.264
<v Speaker 1>need your help. Sounds dominous, It is kind of okay,

0:34:50.544 --> 0:34:54.824
<v Speaker 1>it's quite scandalous, and it's not about me personally, but

0:34:54.904 --> 0:35:01.064
<v Speaker 1>it has I have been dragged into the middle of this. Yeah.

0:35:02.104 --> 0:35:10.944
<v Speaker 1>So I got this random me saig in my DM

0:35:11.144 --> 0:35:14.904
<v Speaker 1>requests we're all going to messages going like my other

0:35:15.784 --> 0:35:20.104
<v Speaker 1>other folder, And it was from someone I didn't know,

0:35:20.824 --> 0:35:24.344
<v Speaker 1>and I clicked into their profile and it was completely private.

0:35:24.704 --> 0:35:27.544
<v Speaker 1>I couldn't see anything except for their profile picture. It

0:35:27.584 --> 0:35:29.904
<v Speaker 1>didn't look like we had any mutual friends in common.

0:35:31.584 --> 0:35:36.144
<v Speaker 1>And it just said do you know that this person

0:35:36.544 --> 0:35:38.224
<v Speaker 1>And I'm not going to name them, but it's someone

0:35:38.264 --> 0:35:46.304
<v Speaker 1>that I know is on gay dating apps looking to

0:35:46.384 --> 0:35:51.424
<v Speaker 1>hook up. Now, this guy that I know is married

0:35:51.944 --> 0:35:56.784
<v Speaker 1>to a woman with children. And if it was just

0:35:56.904 --> 0:35:59.904
<v Speaker 1>that message, I might have I would have just probably

0:35:59.944 --> 0:36:03.264
<v Speaker 1>ignored it and been like, who is this weirdo? Like,

0:36:05.384 --> 0:36:13.464
<v Speaker 1>but they've attached three photos to the message, nude photos

0:36:14.224 --> 0:36:23.504
<v Speaker 1>of this guy that I'm from. Yeah, and it's definitely him. WHOA,

0:36:24.344 --> 0:36:28.344
<v Speaker 1>So this is wild. So one of a few things

0:36:28.384 --> 0:36:31.984
<v Speaker 1>I reckon has happened. One it is absolutely as this

0:36:32.064 --> 0:36:35.384
<v Speaker 1>person says, And this guy is on a gay dating

0:36:35.424 --> 0:36:37.304
<v Speaker 1>app look at a hook up and has obviously sent

0:36:37.384 --> 0:36:41.304
<v Speaker 1>someone nudes and they have, for whatever reason, decided to

0:36:41.984 --> 0:36:45.984
<v Speaker 1>message someone or maybe multiple people within his contacts list

0:36:46.704 --> 0:36:51.224
<v Speaker 1>to let them know, yeh. Or as someone else that

0:36:51.264 --> 0:36:53.864
<v Speaker 1>I told the story to has suggested, we know a

0:36:53.864 --> 0:36:58.344
<v Speaker 1>lot of AI scams are around at the moment. Could

0:36:58.344 --> 0:37:01.544
<v Speaker 1>this be an AI scam where they've taken his face

0:37:01.904 --> 0:37:06.344
<v Speaker 1>and created nudes to send out to contacts as a

0:37:06.784 --> 0:37:11.664
<v Speaker 1>potential scam, blackmail, trying to get money, extortion.

0:37:11.904 --> 0:37:15.664
<v Speaker 2>It's terrifying if that's actually I'm sure it is a thing,

0:37:15.744 --> 0:37:18.144
<v Speaker 2>but if that's happening around us?

0:37:19.224 --> 0:37:22.904
<v Speaker 1>Or are the nudes real? But they've hat his phone

0:37:23.584 --> 0:37:27.144
<v Speaker 1>and maybe he took them for his wife and this

0:37:27.264 --> 0:37:33.224
<v Speaker 1>is completely innocent. And so there's so many things and

0:37:33.264 --> 0:37:36.384
<v Speaker 1>I don't have any more information, and the person's profile

0:37:36.504 --> 0:37:39.504
<v Speaker 1>has now disappeared. I can't click into their profile.

0:37:39.624 --> 0:37:42.304
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but you're still the message is still there.

0:37:42.304 --> 0:37:46.824
<v Speaker 1>The message and the photos are still there, and so

0:37:46.984 --> 0:37:51.224
<v Speaker 1>now I'm left with this dilemma. What do I do

0:37:51.264 --> 0:37:57.304
<v Speaker 1>with this information? Is it my responsibility to say something

0:37:58.584 --> 0:38:00.624
<v Speaker 1>to either part of it, to the to the wife

0:38:00.664 --> 0:38:06.744
<v Speaker 1>who I know reasonably well, to him, or do I

0:38:06.864 --> 0:38:11.544
<v Speaker 1>just do I just ignore it and not get involved

0:38:11.584 --> 0:38:20.064
<v Speaker 1>in this very messy situation. Well, it's yeah, wow, that's

0:38:20.144 --> 0:38:22.664
<v Speaker 1>that's a very very hard one.

0:38:23.824 --> 0:38:31.624
<v Speaker 2>Excuse the part it was, what's yeah, I mean, my

0:38:31.704 --> 0:38:32.984
<v Speaker 2>gut is that you just leave it.

0:38:33.144 --> 0:38:34.704
<v Speaker 1>My gut is that I leave it as well.

0:38:35.144 --> 0:38:38.344
<v Speaker 2>And then I thought, if I were to do anything,

0:38:38.944 --> 0:38:40.744
<v Speaker 2>I don't think I say anything to her.

0:38:41.144 --> 0:38:43.144
<v Speaker 1>Definitely not No, nevous. This is his business and his

0:38:43.224 --> 0:38:46.264
<v Speaker 1>business only. So do I maybe just send him a

0:38:46.264 --> 0:38:50.784
<v Speaker 1>message and say, hey, I'm not meddling, I'm not judging,

0:38:50.904 --> 0:38:53.704
<v Speaker 1>I'm not doing anything. I just want you to know

0:38:54.584 --> 0:38:59.304
<v Speaker 1>that these photos and this message have come my way,

0:38:59.784 --> 0:39:03.464
<v Speaker 1>and if I've received it, there's every chance that other

0:39:03.504 --> 0:39:07.424
<v Speaker 1>people have or are going to receive it. Your wife.

0:39:07.864 --> 0:39:10.624
<v Speaker 1>I'm just letting you know, so that you have the information.

0:39:11.304 --> 0:39:14.184
<v Speaker 1>You do with that what you will, whether that involves

0:39:14.264 --> 0:39:18.264
<v Speaker 1>telling people or not. At least you have the information

0:39:18.384 --> 0:39:22.624
<v Speaker 1>and you can make an informed decision. I mean.

0:39:24.384 --> 0:39:27.344
<v Speaker 2>That is the that it's probably the answer to be fair,

0:39:28.144 --> 0:39:30.624
<v Speaker 2>that you need to tell that person there because if

0:39:30.624 --> 0:39:32.864
<v Speaker 2>they are as I followed up with, like what a

0:39:32.904 --> 0:39:38.184
<v Speaker 2>fucking dickhead for cheating around in your messes with a

0:39:38.184 --> 0:39:39.024
<v Speaker 2>man or a woman.

0:39:39.224 --> 0:39:42.144
<v Speaker 1>Totally totally, But then it's also one of those things

0:39:42.184 --> 0:39:43.504
<v Speaker 1>where it's like, well, we don't know what goes on

0:39:43.584 --> 0:39:46.024
<v Speaker 1>behind closed doors. Maybe they have an arrangement, maybe you

0:39:46.024 --> 0:39:50.584
<v Speaker 1>know who knows who knows, and so I don't want

0:39:50.624 --> 0:39:53.024
<v Speaker 1>to I don't want to make assumptions. I don't want

0:39:53.024 --> 0:39:56.224
<v Speaker 1>to judge either, But also part of me is like,

0:39:58.744 --> 0:40:00.984
<v Speaker 1>maybe he has the right to know so that he

0:40:01.024 --> 0:40:04.224
<v Speaker 1>can do something about this on either side, like whether

0:40:04.264 --> 0:40:06.864
<v Speaker 1>it's stop doing it, whether it's stopped yeah, whether it's

0:40:06.904 --> 0:40:09.464
<v Speaker 1>stopping doing what he's doing, whether it's coming clean to

0:40:09.504 --> 0:40:13.264
<v Speaker 1>his wife, or whether it's looking into someone who is

0:40:13.304 --> 0:40:19.864
<v Speaker 1>potentially manipulating photos, scamming or blackmailing him or whatever it

0:40:19.944 --> 0:40:24.704
<v Speaker 1>might be. Because the activity on this person's behalf is illegal.

0:40:25.424 --> 0:40:29.664
<v Speaker 1>Sending sending nude photos, yeah, maybe it is.

0:40:29.704 --> 0:40:38.024
<v Speaker 2>We're sending someone else's nud for us out is definitely Yeah, yes, pockets,

0:40:38.024 --> 0:40:38.704
<v Speaker 2>I don't envy.

0:40:38.584 --> 0:40:40.624
<v Speaker 1>You, mate. That is not a very nice place to be.

0:40:40.904 --> 0:40:42.664
<v Speaker 1>It was not what I expected. It was not a

0:40:42.704 --> 0:40:46.944
<v Speaker 1>situation I expected to find myself in. And yeah, it's weird.

0:40:46.984 --> 0:40:50.064
<v Speaker 1>If any look, I would love to get people's thoughts

0:40:50.064 --> 0:40:52.624
<v Speaker 1>on this, and we'll revisit it next week with maybe

0:40:52.664 --> 0:40:56.824
<v Speaker 1>some sub advice or some opinions. I'd love for the

0:40:56.864 --> 0:40:59.264
<v Speaker 1>Gators to weigh in on this. What do I do

0:40:59.384 --> 0:41:02.504
<v Speaker 1>in this situation? Or do I not do anything? But

0:41:02.744 --> 0:41:04.784
<v Speaker 1>let us know. You can obviously hit us up on

0:41:04.784 --> 0:41:10.944
<v Speaker 1>Facebook it out out the Gate Facebook page, or you

0:41:10.984 --> 0:41:13.464
<v Speaker 1>can follow us out the Gate on Instagram as well.

0:41:14.544 --> 0:41:19.744
<v Speaker 1>Oh dear juicy, right, real juicy juicy? Yeah, I don't.

0:41:19.784 --> 0:41:22.904
<v Speaker 1>I don't enview it at all. No, should we finish

0:41:22.904 --> 0:41:28.064
<v Speaker 1>on something a little bit lighter and brighter, perhaps destroying

0:41:28.184 --> 0:41:32.264
<v Speaker 1>someone's marriage in the legal nerds? Yes, go on, what

0:41:32.304 --> 0:41:36.104
<v Speaker 1>do you got? I saw that there was some beautiful

0:41:36.144 --> 0:41:41.304
<v Speaker 1>news in there about about a bit of a queer icon.

0:41:41.424 --> 0:41:44.024
<v Speaker 2>Really, yes, in this game, this is where I hope

0:41:44.344 --> 0:41:45.624
<v Speaker 2>this is. Bradley should be taking this.

0:41:45.744 --> 0:41:47.904
<v Speaker 1>We really should be. But well we'll cover it, and

0:41:47.904 --> 0:41:50.104
<v Speaker 1>we'll cover it as well as we can so.

0:41:50.224 --> 0:41:52.624
<v Speaker 2>We would like to congratulate on behalf of out the

0:41:52.624 --> 0:41:56.824
<v Speaker 2>gate and our wonderful gators. To referee Nigel Owens, who

0:41:56.904 --> 0:42:01.184
<v Speaker 2>is quite a famous referee very referees, all right. Him

0:42:01.224 --> 0:42:05.664
<v Speaker 2>and his partner or now husband, Barry got married what

0:42:05.784 --> 0:42:08.104
<v Speaker 2>looks like maybe the Scotland.

0:42:08.184 --> 0:42:16.104
<v Speaker 1>Wales, Wales, Wales. Nigel Owens is Welsh a yep, and

0:42:16.224 --> 0:42:19.704
<v Speaker 1>so looks like they got married at a resort in Wales.

0:42:20.264 --> 0:42:23.304
<v Speaker 1>Nigel Owens called it an amazing day and the proudest

0:42:23.384 --> 0:42:27.064
<v Speaker 1>day of my life. Isn't that so beautiful?

0:42:27.184 --> 0:42:30.024
<v Speaker 2>It is so cool and massive shout out to him,

0:42:30.064 --> 0:42:33.464
<v Speaker 2>and yeah beautiful, it's a lovely, lovely way to end

0:42:33.464 --> 0:42:34.024
<v Speaker 2>the podcast.

0:42:34.144 --> 0:42:37.424
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and that just you know, Nigel is someone who

0:42:37.464 --> 0:42:43.224
<v Speaker 1>has really led the charge in a in an.

0:42:41.624 --> 0:42:43.224
<v Speaker 2>The amount of shit you get is a reef at

0:42:43.264 --> 0:42:45.944
<v Speaker 2>the best of time, a gay red yes, I know.

0:42:46.544 --> 0:42:49.064
<v Speaker 1>And so to be able to know in a sport

0:42:49.064 --> 0:42:52.304
<v Speaker 1>where we don't have a huge great track record of

0:42:52.344 --> 0:42:56.304
<v Speaker 1>people being able to live authentically while they're in the

0:42:56.584 --> 0:42:58.704
<v Speaker 1>in the midst of the sport, for him to come

0:42:58.744 --> 0:43:01.864
<v Speaker 1>out and live his life authentically amazing, So big shout

0:43:01.904 --> 0:43:04.424
<v Speaker 1>out to Nigel and Barry for getting married. They look

0:43:04.544 --> 0:43:09.064
<v Speaker 1>very handsome, by the way, very very anyway, thank you

0:43:09.104 --> 0:43:12.384
<v Speaker 1>for listening, Gators, and we will be back next week.

0:43:12.424 --> 0:43:14.624
<v Speaker 2>Bradley should be back with us. We should definitely be

0:43:14.664 --> 0:43:18.184
<v Speaker 2>joining us, which would be lovely. I'm sure there'll be

0:43:18.224 --> 0:43:20.184
<v Speaker 2>plenty of great new things to talk about next week.

0:43:20.744 --> 0:43:22.344
<v Speaker 2>We need to do a deep dive because the Paralympic

0:43:22.384 --> 0:43:24.544
<v Speaker 2>starts tomorrow and you know, we did such great coverage

0:43:24.544 --> 0:43:25.024
<v Speaker 2>of the Olympics.

0:43:25.104 --> 0:43:29.104
<v Speaker 1>We've got it Queer Stars of the Paralympic.

0:43:28.664 --> 0:43:30.224
<v Speaker 2>Where you can definitely do that if you know any

0:43:30.264 --> 0:43:33.744
<v Speaker 2>hot Paralympians, Queer Paralympians now girls, and we.

0:43:33.744 --> 0:43:35.624
<v Speaker 1>Will see you next week. Bye bye bye