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Speaker 1: The Hits Drive with Medi and PJ.

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Speaker 2: Thanks to Chemist Warehouse the Real House of Fragrances.

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Speaker 1: Many and PJ on that Hi everyone, welcome to the podcast.

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Speaker 1: You are with Metty and PJ.

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Speaker 3: Hey question we did kind of We talked about people

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Speaker 3: calling in sick, like pulling sikis. Have you ever be honest?

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Speaker 1: Be honest?

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Speaker 3: Have you ever done that?

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Speaker 4: Ah?

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Speaker 1: No, not like blatantly.

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Speaker 2: I might have been genuinely feeling a little under but then,

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Speaker 2: like you know, when it's really awkward.

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Speaker 1: When you're like, oh, but I would love to go.

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Speaker 2: And do this thing, when you do still need to

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Speaker 2: go out and about it, and then you feel really

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Speaker 2: guilty for going up. For example, if it is an appointment,

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Speaker 2: or if it is an event and it's a concert,

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Speaker 2: and like you pulled out of work, but then you're

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Speaker 2: at a concert that night.

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Speaker 1: So I've probably like I've played in that area. I

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Speaker 1: don't think I've done a.

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Speaker 3: Deliberate I don't think I have that.

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Speaker 1: We're so boring.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I would be the kind of person

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Speaker 3: that would get caught as well. Someone teached him that.

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Speaker 3: We didn't read this text on the show, but someone

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Speaker 3: teaches him. So I called him sick to go to

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Speaker 3: a cricket match at the Basin Reserve in Wellington. All

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Speaker 3: my work colleagues watching the game in the lunch room

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Speaker 3: saw me on the TV. That would happen to me.

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Speaker 3: I would be that person.

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Speaker 1: That would ever to you. At least you're not cheating though.

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Speaker 1: That would have caught a few people are.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever seen have you seen that infamous video

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Speaker 3: of the guy like in Brazil or Spain or something

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Speaker 3: like that, and he went to a game like a

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Speaker 3: football game and got caught on TV cheating on his partner.

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Speaker 1: Were they fall on hooking up or was he just

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Speaker 1: with another woman?

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Speaker 3: He was with another woman and they were very like

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Speaker 3: flirty and touchy and like yeah, terrible, so bad.

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Speaker 2: It would be like it's bad enough to discover someone's

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Speaker 2: cheating on you, but for everyone else to say yeah

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Speaker 2: at the same time.

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Speaker 1: I know which that would suck.

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I I need to be more rebellious. Maybe

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Speaker 2: it's time to go into my rebellious pace.

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Speaker 3: This is what happened. This is my one This was

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Speaker 3: my one rebellious moment at high school. And it's so

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Speaker 3: low level. This is how what how much of a loser?

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Speaker 3: I was at high school, so I was the I

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Speaker 3: was the media rep for our school, So of course

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Speaker 3: you were. So I used to like I used to

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Speaker 3: work at one of the local radio stations. I wrote

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Speaker 3: for the tear Away magazine to tear away magazies.

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Speaker 5: That was quite cool.

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Speaker 3: Was that very cool?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I interviewed Super Groove tear Away magazine.

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Speaker 1: How did you? Was t away magazine run by students?

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Speaker 3: I think it might have had student input, Okay, And

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Speaker 3: so it's the media rep for our school. It was

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Speaker 3: like a thing you could apply for and and so

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Speaker 3: is the media rep. I had to write for Terra Away.

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Speaker 3: And they did this competition I think it was one

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Speaker 3: of the local for one of the national radio stations,

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Speaker 3: not this one, a different one I won't say the name.

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Speaker 3: And you could win like a band. The prize was

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Speaker 3: that a band would come and play at your school ball. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and you had to do you had to do make

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Speaker 3: a video to prove why your school had had the

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Speaker 3: best school spirit. And so I was in charge of

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Speaker 3: filming the video as the media rep. And I wanted

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Speaker 3: to go and do some filming off campus at lunch time,

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Speaker 3: and we were not allowed to leave school grounds. At

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Speaker 3: lunch time, and I asked the teacher for permission. The

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Speaker 3: teacher said no, so but I did it anyway. And

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Speaker 3: and she called me into her office and I ended

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Speaker 3: she just spent the whole time consoling me because I

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Speaker 2: Oh, Blisse, you're cotton socks. You're a pure You're a

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Speaker 2: pure one.

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Speaker 3: You're so pure as my four A into like naughtiness

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Speaker 3: at high school.

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Speaker 2: Here you were doing like an extracurricular cultural project. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and like you were anything. You were like smoking in

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Speaker 3: No, I was school. I wasn't like No.

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Speaker 2: And then did you end up like having a really

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Speaker 2: close relationship with that teacher after but they were like,

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Speaker 2: oh minute, you probably got like a new bond and

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Speaker 2: then you became the favorite all over again.

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Speaker 3: Actually, yeah, I think we did end up with quite

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Speaker 3: a cute bond. Actually she was my history teacher.

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Speaker 1: Did you stay in touch with any of your teachers

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Speaker 3: Yeah, a couple of them. Both of them were my

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Speaker 3: drama teachers. I had one drama teacher earlier on in

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Speaker 3: high school, and then another one later in high school,

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Speaker 3: and both of them I keep in touch with.

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Speaker 2: I has a classics teacher. He just had really good

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Speaker 2: banter and he I ended up being friends with him

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Speaker 2: on Facebook. He was a good sort.

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Speaker 1: We still usually.

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Speaker 2: I've seen him a few times since school, but not

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Speaker 2: in a weird way. He was always just a good sort.

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Speaker 2: He called me manchild. That was my neck name, Harding Manchild.

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Speaker 2: It was fine. It wasn't like in an abusive way.

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Speaker 2: It was like we had like that kind of why

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Speaker 2: man able bond. I don't know, I had big brothers.

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Speaker 2: I was probably quite like tom boyish maybe I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know eed to know where he came from.

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Speaker 1: I think it was just them of them.

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Speaker 3: We also ran that we also had one of your

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and missus Best. She was elite, she was so great.

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Speaker 2: I talked to her on Instagram and then it tunes

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Speaker 2: art that she was talking to our pe teacher, miss Armond,

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Speaker 2: and Miss Armond was listening to my show, and I

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Speaker 2: was like, that's true, because you just forget, like these

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Speaker 2: characters are such big parts of your life and then

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Speaker 3: Miss for at primary school was mister Pentecost. He was

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Speaker 3: the cool teacher and everyone wanted to be a mister

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Speaker 3: Pentecost's class. And I got in his class one.

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Speaker 1: Year and it was of course he did.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it was so good.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, we better get into it. We've got a big

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Speaker 2: show coming up. We talk what rogue ingredient was not

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Speaker 2: welcome and your meal.

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Speaker 3: We talk elopements in our group therapy session, and.

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Speaker 2: When you got caught out pulling a sicky as we said.

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Speaker 2: Medicles on that and much more in today's podcast.

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Speaker 1: Enjoy Many and pja the podcast.

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Speaker 2: At the risk of sounding incredibly ignorant in naive.

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Speaker 3: Well for both to be fear for both of us.

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Speaker 3: I mean, one of us is going to appear like

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Speaker 3: an idiot here and the other one might be a genius.

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Speaker 2: A debate erupted between us just as we were about

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Speaker 2: to start the show, and medio say it, save it,

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Speaker 2: let's bring this.

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Speaker 3: Up on here.

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Speaker 1: And I don't know if this is a good idea

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Speaker 1: because we could look like idiots.

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Speaker 2: But anyway, I was talking about the air con remote

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Speaker 2: in the studio. I was like, hang on, why don't

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Speaker 2: you have to point the remote at the air con system.

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Speaker 1: Hard does that work? Because you know how like with.

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Speaker 2: A remote for your TV, you often have to point

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Speaker 3: And then I said, but you don't have to point

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Speaker 3: it at the TV. You can just turn the remote on.

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Speaker 3: I mean, not anywhere. It just has to be kind

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Speaker 2: No, I can tell you hands down, if I don't

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Speaker 2: point at the teally, the remote's not going to have

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Speaker 3: Are you. Are you saying if you were sitting on

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Speaker 3: the couch and you turned the remote the wrong way round, it.

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Speaker 2: Wouldn't absolutely not, because why do you think there's that

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Speaker 2: little circle, that little you know, the thing that's just

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Speaker 3: That's just a range finder.

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Speaker 2: No, that is a specific that starts the point that

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Speaker 2: goes to the I mean, look, I don't have the

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Speaker 3: Here's here's my thinking with the remote. Yes, your best

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Speaker 3: bet at turning the TV on or the air conditioning

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Speaker 3: unit whatever it is, is by pointing it. That is

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Speaker 3: the best range of sight, line of sight that you're

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Speaker 3: in a hand. But if you turn the remote slightly

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Speaker 3: as you're close enough to the TV or the conditioning unit,

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Speaker 1: Nah.

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Speaker 2: No, No, I've never met anyone that doesn't use the

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Speaker 3: Surely we have not googled this yet, and to fear

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Speaker 3: be a bit of a minefield. Exactly I need we

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Speaker 3: need to open this up to the people because someone

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Speaker 3: out there will know. There will be an expert that

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Speaker 3: will have a diffinite, definitive answer for us.

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Speaker 2: Maybe yeah, and maybe there are like a few different

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Speaker 2: answers out there, So text throw take us out of

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Speaker 2: our misery to kick the show off for for eight seven?

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Speaker 2: Do you need to directly point the remote at the

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Speaker 2: tally or can you just be in the same road?

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Speaker 5: Maddy and PJ. Mady and Pj, the podcast.

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Speaker 2: Art x Machine has absolutely bload up. We were just

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Speaker 2: talking about how a debate erupted between Meddy and I

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Speaker 2: before the show kicked off about.

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Speaker 1: To point a remote at the TV for it to

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Speaker 2: Matty thinks you just need to be in a close

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Speaker 2: vicinity and it should pack it up.

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Speaker 1: Wow, we have so many ticks.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna get to these before the end of the

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Speaker 2: hour and work out the definitive use. I still don't

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Speaker 2: know what the right answer is because there's a lot

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Speaker 2: of contraduction car.

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Speaker 3: But I think we can. I think we can hash

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Speaker 3: this out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll get to that. Just before four o'clock.

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Speaker 2: At the meantime, I was on a road trip over

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Speaker 2: the weekend. I had a seven hour round trip from

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Speaker 2: where we live in the Word up to two Dongy.

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Speaker 1: I had a little puppy drop off which went smoothly.

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Speaker 2: It was really lovely having that interaction with the new

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Speaker 2: owner and they were like, you guitar, I just like

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Speaker 2: made made their life.

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Speaker 3: Do you know what they've named it?

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Speaker 5: I do coba.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's a cool name.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like a really like powerful like jitter totally.

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Speaker 2: That's what I think of anyway. So I was I

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Speaker 2: We've been talking about the rogue ingredient that wasn't welcome

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Speaker 3: You found bacon hock in your steak and cheese pie.

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Speaker 2: See, at least I think it was, but it could

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Speaker 1: Was any of us. I don't know what you are.

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Speaker 2: What was the rogue ingredient?

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Speaker 6: It was the tato and gravy and it had like

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Speaker 3: It, fluff, like belly button fluff.

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Speaker 7: Job?

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Speaker 2: Great?

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Speaker 3: What did you do?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I went back and I told them and they

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Speaker 2: Last thing I want, please go to mea tire me

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Speaker 4: And my uncle had a pincil and his burger what what?

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Speaker 4: The day and why the burgers?

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Speaker 1: It must have just got stuck ind ohnah. And this

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Speaker 3: Yeah, oh my gosh. What did he do? Did he

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Speaker 4: He took it back and they gave him Belcher's.

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Speaker 1: Charlie's got something out of it.

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Speaker 1: Actually it's to go to him.

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Speaker 2: How do you know, because.

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Speaker 3: My god, I did not even the dog wants that.

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Speaker 7: Nathan, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna give.

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Speaker 1: Just like did you did you call them and say, hey,

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Speaker 1: I've got to tell you about something.

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Speaker 3: I found in my burger?

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Speaker 1: Or did you just never go back there again?

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Speaker 3: I just enough, Nathan.

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Speaker 2: We've got some fast food coming away. We're gonna help

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Speaker 2: Now, thank you very much for your text through to

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Speaker 2: four four eight seven.

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Speaker 1: We sparked the debate as we kicked the show off.

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Speaker 2: Do you need to point the remote at the tally

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Speaker 1: I belie, leave you.

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Speaker 3: Do, And I said, these newer TV it's not like

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Speaker 3: You don't need to directly pointed at it. It just

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Speaker 3: it's a range finder, Peach, it's a range But then.

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Speaker 2: Why do they have the little dot at the top

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Speaker 3: At that's the range finder. So as long as it's

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Speaker 2: With me, No, they don't, I said most.

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Speaker 3: I didn't say I said most.

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Speaker 2: I think what we can conclude is that technology has

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Speaker 3: Someone said old remotes, yes, direct infrared, though with most

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Speaker 1: Well, don't do that. Do not do that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So do we have a conclusion that basically, the

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Speaker 3: So how news your TV?

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Speaker 5: Do you?

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Speaker 3: Can you go home tonight and test it out and

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's to be fair, I've actually never tried it

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Speaker 2: If I've never actually pointed it the other way, I've

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Speaker 1: To go torek. So tonight I'll try and I'll report

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Speaker 1: back on the SHOUW.

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Speaker 3: Please do Many and.

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Speaker 5: PJ the podcast. It's Many and PJS group therapy.

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Speaker 3: Thank's gonna get in touch with us about group therapy.

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Speaker 2: Now, all right, and it's time to hear our dirty laundry.

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Speaker 2: We do this every week. And there's something going on

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Speaker 2: gonna come to the table, we're gonna try and give advice,

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Speaker 2: of New Zealand, oh Waite, hundred the hats and you

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Speaker 3: And the thing is, you're all so good with your advice.

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Speaker 3: it's so great to just get that outsiders perspective. If

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Speaker 3: Thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: Thanks.

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Speaker 3: I'm a bit stuck with the relationship problem that I

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Speaker 3: we are so happy. Congratulations and Congress. We really enjoy

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Speaker 1: It's lope, What is a good one?

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Speaker 2: I totally understand the appeal of just going away and

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Speaker 2: Can you This would be my initial reaction.

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Speaker 1: Could you go on a lope?

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Speaker 2: Could you go and do the official thing overseas and

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Speaker 3: And then then it's like, well you might as well

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Speaker 3: have just had the Like if you're doing all of

450
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Speaker 3: the If you're doing the whole big thing, then you

451
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Speaker 3: might as well just do it all in one together

452
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Speaker 3: at the same time, right.

453
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Speaker 2: But not everyone will be able to go overseas. No,

454
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Speaker 2: that's no, do you know what I mean?

455
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Speaker 1: And so you go, yeah, what's the point of doing

456
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Speaker 1: it overseas?

457
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Speaker 3: Then if it's just you? But no, that's fine. You

458
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Speaker 3: go into it overseas. But if you're coming back to

459
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Speaker 3: then throw a party, Well you might as well just

460
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Speaker 3: have the wedding because you're throwing the party anyway.

461
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Speaker 2: Right, like low key, Like I'm just thinking, like a

462
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Speaker 2: low key lunch or like a nice little dinner.

463
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Speaker 3: Here's my thinking. I feel like as a society we

464
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Speaker 3: have fallen into a trap of feeling like a wedding

465
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Speaker 3: has to be this one certain thing. This is the

466
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Speaker 3: way that everyone does it, so therefore I have to

467
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Speaker 3: do it this way. You absolutely don't a wedding. You

468
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Speaker 3: can do the whole ceremony, the whole shaban as a

469
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Speaker 3: very low key get together. It doesn't have to be

470
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Speaker 3: the massive, crazy, big expensive thing that everyone seems to

471
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Speaker 3: see and do on social media. We don't have to

472
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Speaker 3: do it that way. The thing about a wedding is

473
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Speaker 3: you can make up the rules yourselves. You can do

474
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Speaker 3: whatever you want to do.

475
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Speaker 2: So you could just a lot. Why don't you just say, okay,

476
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Speaker 2: well why don't you come? And if you can't come,

477
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Speaker 2: so be it.

478
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Speaker 3: That's that's our decision, and it's our winding, and it's

479
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Speaker 3: our marriage. And this is what we were thinking about here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all light one hundred of the hats. Now as

481
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Speaker 2: you're turned away in what do you think they should

482
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Speaker 2: do? Do you have some advice? Maybe you've been in this

483
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Speaker 2: position to elope, to not alpe? How do you meet

484
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Speaker 2: all the needs of the family.

485
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Speaker 1: Let us know.

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Speaker 5: Maddi and PJ the podcast The Heads Many and pj's

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Speaker 5: group therapy.

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Speaker 2: All right, this week's question is to a lope or

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Speaker 2: not to a loaf? That's basically they're just for realizn't Matie.

490
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Speaker 3: Yeah, My partner and I got engaged back in January,

491
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Speaker 3: but now we faced a dilemma that we're butting heads over.

492
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Speaker 3: I wanted to elope least precium or cost effective, nice

493
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Speaker 3: and intimate. He does think the same. However, he's reluctant

494
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Speaker 3: due to his family pressuring him into a wedding closer

495
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Speaker 3: to home. Instead, what do we do?

496
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Speaker 1: All right?

497
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Speaker 2: A lot of texts coming through, Thank you so much.

498
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Speaker 2: Someone said we had a small wedding in my mother

499
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Speaker 2: in law's backyard. There were twelve guests, just immediate family

500
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Speaker 2: and grandparents. We had a photographer celebrant and had a

501
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Speaker 2: caterer come and cook for us. Then the next day

502
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Speaker 2: we had a barbecue in my parents' backyard and invited

503
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Speaker 2: all the rest of the family and our friends, and

504
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Speaker 2: that is when we.

505
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Speaker 1: Had the cake.

506
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Speaker 2: It was perfect fact, just showcasing you can do what

507
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Speaker 2: you want, you know, go to the feet of your

508
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Speaker 2: own drum.

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Speaker 1: TV's joining us, TeV. What do you reckon? He loves

510
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Speaker 1: you say that.

511
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Speaker 8: We were so far down planning our wedding and my

512
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Speaker 8: husband and I we were like, is this really worth it?

513
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Speaker 8: We drove down to the beach, we spent a month's

514
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Speaker 8: party and at the coast.

515
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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I love that and I beat you.

516
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Speaker 2: That was so relaxing and there was no streets involved.

517
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Speaker 9: No stress.

518
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Speaker 8: Nineteen years later, we didn't have the debt, we didn't

519
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Speaker 8: have the divorce papers cause.

520
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Speaker 3: And did it cause any family problems?

521
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Speaker 5: Was it or was it?

522
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Speaker 3: Pretty smooth sailing? Once you decided that's what we want

523
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Speaker 3: to do as a couple.

524
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Speaker 8: You know what, they were a little bit upsets because

525
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Speaker 8: they want to be there special. You know, today's time.

526
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Speaker 8: You've got to be realistening do they have for a

527
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Speaker 8: hundred k to feed you and your family?

528
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Speaker 5: Yes?

529
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Speaker 8: Is what you want. So I've think left the couple

530
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Speaker 8: the side and be happy and whatever they do is

531
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Speaker 8: to take them up for dreams before after they.

532
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Speaker 2: Get love that love that DEBI thank you so this

533
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Speaker 2: special of advice that people say you have to do

534
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Speaker 2: what you guys want to do. Don't just fold everyone

535
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Speaker 2: else's demands because then you are going to really regret it.

536
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Speaker 3: Make up your own rules. I think it's the perfect

537
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Speaker 3: way to go.

538
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Speaker 2: All right, it's got a nicolaur just to wrap this up,

539
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Speaker 2: hundred hats what do you regain?

540
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Speaker 3: Definitely alpe Hey for you have you have experience with

541
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Speaker 3: this Nicola?

542
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Speaker 9: No, I don't know, but I look at the end

543
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Speaker 9: of the day, it's your day, and you've got to

544
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Speaker 9: do what works for you. And you know you can

545
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Speaker 9: have us get together and celebrate with everyone else when

546
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Speaker 9: you're back. And but yeah, you've got to be doing

547
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Speaker 9: what's you know, what you.

548
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Speaker 3: Want totally make up your rules.

549
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Speaker 2: Yeah, thank so much forgetting in touch. We're going to

550
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Speaker 2: hook you up with the little hell peaks about you cool.

551
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Speaker 2: Thanks so much.

552
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Speaker 3: Someone else said, I eloped do it. Our family had

553
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Speaker 3: to deal with it. You could have drinks with everyone

554
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Speaker 3: when you're back. If they love you, they won't expect

555
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Speaker 3: to put you into just so that they can have

556
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Speaker 3: a party exactly.

557
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Speaker 1: They're going to be out for a little bit, but

558
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Speaker 1: they will get over it in time. Surely.

559
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Speaker 3: I love that, So Elope, go do it. Live your life,

560
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Speaker 3: have far Live.

561
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Speaker 5: Maddy and PJ.

562
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Speaker 3: Madi and PJ the podcasts Big Saturday at the McLean

563
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Speaker 3: Tease Household this Saturday. This Saturday.

564
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Speaker 1: We we've just talked about the mess of Friday that

565
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Speaker 1: you just has. It's never ending.

566
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Speaker 3: We are hosting a midwinter Christmas at our house. There

567
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Speaker 3: be there will be wall to wall boublay.

568
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Speaker 1: The Christmas going to say there houlnerable boobs.

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Speaker 3: No boobs, and our halfshold page no boobla and the

570
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Speaker 3: Christmas sweaters will come out. I'm cooking a really nice

571
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Speaker 3: legal lamb oh. Ryan wants to make eggnog. Neither of

572
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Speaker 3: us have ever had eggnog. Before, have you had, oh, the.

573
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Speaker 1: Idea of ignog's great? And I don't. I think I might.

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Speaker 7: I don't know.

575
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Speaker 1: I don't think I have love the idea of it.

576
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Speaker 3: Though, same, Well, we'll report back. I'll tell you what

577
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Speaker 3: it's like.

578
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Speaker 1: Thanks.

579
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Speaker 3: So we decided that we were going to do a

580
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Speaker 3: late afternoon midwinter Christmas because we're trying to get our

581
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Speaker 3: group together. And it was obviously you know what it's like.

582
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Speaker 3: It's very hard to get a whole group of people

583
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Speaker 3: to get there. And we cats absolutely and one couple said,

584
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Speaker 3: we can't do this weekend. Another couple said, we can't

585
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Speaker 3: do this weekend. One of our friends we can't do

586
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Speaker 3: this Saturday night because we've got a leaving party, but

587
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Speaker 3: we can. Then Ryan said, why don't we just do

588
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Speaker 3: it in the afternoon? Perfect, everyone can come in the afternoon.

589
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Speaker 1: That's my favorite times.

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Speaker 3: And again after absolutely, the older I get, the more

591
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Speaker 3: I go get an early, get it done and bed

592
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Speaker 3: by night. I love that.

593
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Speaker 2: Nothing good actually hymns after midnight. And that is one

594
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Speaker 2: of the truest sayings I've ever heard.

595
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Speaker 3: Our friend who said he's got a leaving party on

596
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Speaker 3: Saturday night though, said you'll probably invited to the leaving

597
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Speaker 3: party as well, because we know the couple that are leaving,

598
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Speaker 3: they'll be heading off to Europe, and so we thought, well,

599
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Speaker 3: maybe we could do the midwinter Christmas and then he

600
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Speaker 3: belong to this leaving party. So we waited for the

601
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Speaker 3: call up for the invite and waited and waited, and

602
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Speaker 3: it hasn't happened. And I even messaged the couple on

603
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Speaker 3: Instagram and said when you guys leaving and they said,

604
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Speaker 3: we're leaving on this day and I said, great, it

605
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Speaker 3: would be so nice to catch up before you left,

606
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Speaker 3: and they said, yeah, totally, it really would. No invite

607
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Speaker 3: to the leaving.

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Speaker 1: You threw out the rod and got nothing, nothing nothing.

609
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Speaker 1: You cannot go.

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Speaker 2: You can't go if there was no like no invitation

611
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Speaker 2: after that problem.

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Speaker 3: This is my question because my friend that's coming to

613
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Speaker 3: the midwinter Christmas come, you're finally it's totally not I'm

614
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Speaker 3: saying out to this party at someone's house without being invited.

615
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Speaker 2: Not well, actually, how dot off and what time are

616
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Speaker 2: they starting? Just depending on like the event start time,

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Speaker 2: maybe you could go and later normal do we.

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Speaker 3: Send like a canary down a coal mine? Do we

619
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Speaker 3: send the friend along first to get a lay of

620
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Speaker 3: the land and then report.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, get me all on

622
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Speaker 2: the inside, and then make the call.

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Speaker 3: Don't make any rash okay, fear call, page, fear call.

624
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Speaker 2: You need to run everything by me, which is a

625
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Speaker 2: concern the podcast.

626
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Speaker 3: You know, those days we're just not really feeling it,

627
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Speaker 3: you're not vibing with the day. Maybe you're feeling a

628
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Speaker 3: little bit, you know, like feel like something's coming on,

629
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Speaker 3: or just the head's not like feeling right, and you go,

630
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Speaker 3: should I, should I teach the boss? Should I get

631
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Speaker 3: the boss a call and say I'm sick.

632
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Speaker 2: I've had that temptation a lot last few weeks. I've

633
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Speaker 2: been so close. I've been so close, but I can't

634
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Speaker 2: do it.

635
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Speaker 3: I can't do it.

636
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Speaker 1: Now I'm actually okay, I can go work.

637
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Speaker 5: You're all good.

638
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Speaker 3: I'm such a goodie good and one of those people

639
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Speaker 3: that just never utilizes this sickly ether if.

640
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Speaker 2: So, and like even at school, everyone will weare not

641
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Speaker 2: that you show kids if you're listen so.

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Speaker 5: Much good good.

643
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Speaker 1: I think I have my rebellious phase later on.

644
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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's definitely not as a teenager for me. No, yeah,

645
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Speaker 3: even I will be like I will be talking like

646
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Speaker 3: that said, I'll be like bye, no, gude, I can

647
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Speaker 3: come here.

648
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Speaker 1: Believe it, like eight out of ten don't feel good bye.

649
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Speaker 3: But for those people that do, you've got to either

650
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Speaker 3: have a good plan, you know, you've got to have

651
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:56,200
Speaker 3: a good plan in place, or you've got to genuinely

652
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Speaker 3: be sick. But if you're not sick, definitely don't do

653
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Speaker 3: what this woman, as one woman did. She works, she's

654
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Speaker 3: a freelancer and she splits her time between Europe and Indonesia.

655
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Speaker 1: Must be weary enough, must be lovely.

656
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Speaker 3: So she often works remotely and she's regularly traveling between

657
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Speaker 3: the two countries. And one day she really wanted to

658
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Speaker 3: get to Indonesia, and but she was during the office

659
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Speaker 3: on a Friday. So she texts the boss and said,

660
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Speaker 3: I can't come in. I'm sick. I've got a doctor's visit.

661
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Speaker 2: Do you need to shel certificate? These days we can

662
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Speaker 2: use say now I'm going to the dark.

663
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Speaker 3: I guess that's down to the workplace, right, I'd say

664
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Speaker 3: they probably can in some place. It's definitely in New Zealand.

665
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Speaker 3: I'm sure they can request it. But I guess a

666
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Speaker 3: lot of no and a lot of workplaces, you know,

667
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Speaker 3: put put a bit of trust into their workers, but

668
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Speaker 3: maybe maybe they shouldn't, and for good reason. Because Grace

669
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Speaker 3: was not going to the doctors. She was going to

670
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Speaker 3: the airport to fly to Barley.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't do it.

672
00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:04,640
Speaker 2: I'd be way stry. I'd have to wear prosthetics. If

673
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:06,280
Speaker 2: I was going to do that, I'd wear a big,

674
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 2: large cost.

675
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 3: Except there would be that part of you that would

676
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Speaker 3: go What could possibly go wrong?

677
00:31:11,640 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 5: Like how long.

678
00:31:13,560 --> 00:31:16,280
Speaker 2: Someone from your where sees you and snaps you and

679
00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:18,360
Speaker 2: takes a photo and sends into the boss.

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00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 3: Well it was got worse than that page because she

681
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:24,160
Speaker 3: turned up to the airport, checked in for a flight,

682
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:28,120
Speaker 3: went through, went through customs, went through security, lined up

683
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 3: for her flight. Who was standing behind her in line

684
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 3: for the flight, but her boss?

685
00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:39,480
Speaker 2: Come on, Rachel, one O one work out where your

686
00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 2: boss is that.

687
00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 3: Day exactly, and make sure your boss is not also

688
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 3: booked a flight to Bali for the weekend. Oh no,

689
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:52,360
Speaker 3: She had to get on this flight and then sit

690
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 3: there knowing full well that her manager knew exactly what

691
00:31:57,880 --> 00:31:58,560
Speaker 3: she was doing.

692
00:31:58,800 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 2: My doctor is in Honestly, there's only one doctor I trust.

693
00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 3: I have to go, but I mean, there's nothing you

694
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:09,800
Speaker 3: can do right Like she's on the flo. You gotta

695
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 3: own it and just go. Look, I lied, I just

696
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 3: wanted to get to Bali.

697
00:32:14,160 --> 00:32:15,240
Speaker 1: It's a horrible offense.

698
00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:18,280
Speaker 3: Maybe it is. You'd hope that the boss had a

699
00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 3: little bit of lewayem would be like, look, fear, I

700
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 3: get it. I want to go to Bali too.

701
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:25,680
Speaker 2: So lit's open the phones. I wite hundred of the hats.

702
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 2: Have you been caught out pulling a seki? I want

703
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 2: something so stupidly obvious. Come on, mate, you should have

704
00:32:32,880 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 2: thought of that before you did it. We can keep

705
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 2: you anonymous if you don't want to get in trouble.

706
00:32:36,840 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 3: Maybe it was maybe it was school days. Maybe you

707
00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 3: did weg off school one day and you got caught

708
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:44,840
Speaker 3: by your parents or by your teacher or by someone,

709
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:46,960
Speaker 3: or maybe it happened later on in life when you

710
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:49,480
Speaker 3: were working. We want to hear your stories today.

711
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 2: I waite hundred the hats. You can text four for

712
00:32:52,480 --> 00:32:59,440
Speaker 2: eight seven the podcast when did you pull a seci

713
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:01,440
Speaker 2: and get caught out?

714
00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 3: I was telling you about a story about a woman

715
00:33:04,040 --> 00:33:07,200
Speaker 3: who asked her boss for a day off on a

716
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 3: Friday so that she could have a doctor's appointment, and

717
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 3: she did not have a doctors appointment. She was flying

718
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 3: to Bali. He was on the same flight as her

719
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 3: to bar What are the chance? Oh terrible, what are

720
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:21,000
Speaker 3: the chances? So we wanted to know when did you

721
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 3: get caught out? You thought you were being sly, but

722
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:31,000
Speaker 3: you weren't. Oh wait, hundred, hats hi Holly, Hello, Holly, Hollo.

723
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:33,720
Speaker 2: Holy Harley, Harley?

724
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Speaker 1: Is she there? Should we?

725
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 5: Oh?

726
00:33:35,360 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, Holly, Hi, how are you going?

727
00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:40,880
Speaker 6: I'm good?

728
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 1: So we need to get caught out pulling a sec.

729
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 6: So I was in high school. I can't remember what

730
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:50,640
Speaker 6: you I was, but I decided to pull sticky and

731
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:55,240
Speaker 6: walk home. And I'm walking home my mom pulls over

732
00:33:55,320 --> 00:34:00,400
Speaker 6: in the car. That's the worst part I was. And

733
00:34:00,480 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 6: there's my mum calling up for help like she was abducte.

734
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:07,360
Speaker 3: To try and live.

735
00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 1: To get of your case.

736
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:12,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, did it?

737
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:15,279
Speaker 3: Did it work? Or were you grounded for the rest

738
00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 3: of the week college?

739
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 6: I was pretty much grounded and I probably got the

740
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Speaker 6: belts now on.

741
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 2: A different times, different times. Hey, thank you so much.

742
00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 2: You call al He's going to Sharon. Hundred the hats hi, Sharon,

743
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 2: When did you get caught out doing a Sickie.

744
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:32,800
Speaker 4: Well, it was quite a long time ago, but I

745
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 4: used to work in a bank and I asked for

746
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:36,960
Speaker 4: annual leave to go off to a concert in Auckland

747
00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 4: and I lived in Nelson at the time, and they

748
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:41,520
Speaker 4: did no, we were short starts, you can't go. So

749
00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 4: I took a sticky and win anyway. And then while

750
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:46,040
Speaker 4: I was up there, I put the wrong for number

751
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:48,480
Speaker 4: and the ifpost machine that slided my card and so

752
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:50,760
Speaker 4: of course it sent my card back to the bank

753
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:54,359
Speaker 4: where they where I worked, and they said come your

754
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:56,560
Speaker 4: card was followed up at a bank and orpened, and

755
00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:57,799
Speaker 4: it was like on a Friday when I.

756
00:34:57,719 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 3: Was supposed to Was it worth it? Those shares? Was

757
00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:05,560
Speaker 3: of a good concept?

758
00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 1: Yeah?

759
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 4: Took to me bad. Yeah, I was worth.

760
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:14,279
Speaker 2: We got to give us to our house. We're going

761
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 2: to keep us your house prize coming away. Let's reaping

762
00:35:16,600 --> 00:35:19,840
Speaker 2: that with Karen, I mean Katherine, Sorry Kathryne.

763
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:22,800
Speaker 1: When did you get caught out pulling a secade?

764
00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:25,880
Speaker 10: So I didn't get called out, but my husband and

765
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:29,279
Speaker 10: I were sheer milking and we had a sixteen year

766
00:35:29,360 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 10: old girl like just farm assistant, and she said to

767
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 10: my husband that she would couldn't get back to milking

768
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:41,280
Speaker 10: because she had food poisoning from eating a bad chicken,

769
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 10: right right, She said, it's okay, my mom's going to

770
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 10: the doctors to get antibarics for me, so I'll be

771
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:52,759
Speaker 10: for milking in the morning. We're like, oh, yep, okay,

772
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Speaker 10: not sure.

773
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:56,880
Speaker 3: Quick turnaround from food poisoning.

774
00:35:57,040 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, and in the end of it would work.

775
00:36:01,760 --> 00:36:04,759
Speaker 10: And then she so she showed up for milking the

776
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 10: next the next morning with her hair dyed and her nails.

777
00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:12,560
Speaker 9: WHI, yeah, that's what.

778
00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:14,880
Speaker 10: You're there, she was like. She still denied it for

779
00:36:15,200 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 10: a good couple.

780
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 2: Of days lest wear gloves and a head.

781
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:27,439
Speaker 10: I don't know where she thought we were. Yeah, God

782
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:29,560
Speaker 10: only knows what she was thinking on her head.

783
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:35,799
Speaker 5: Maddy and PJ. Mady and PJ the podcast.

784
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:40,319
Speaker 3: I know you and BJ your husband have gotten into

785
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 3: a bit of a night nighttime routine.

786
00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:45,240
Speaker 1: You no, no, no, we don't bring this up. Remember

787
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:46,399
Speaker 1: it got out to the rugby table.

788
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, but the Rabbit team already knows about it, so

789
00:36:49,000 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 3: we might as well continue to talk about it. You

790
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:53,799
Speaker 3: do cute little couple's messages. He puts on the led

791
00:36:54,000 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 3: light mask manicures like you've had his nail.

792
00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:59,680
Speaker 1: No, no, there are no manicures. Yes.

793
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:02,239
Speaker 2: I put on like a nice binaormal beat sound in

794
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:05,000
Speaker 2: the background which helps us relax. I dim the lighting,

795
00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 2: I put the led mask on, and then I message

796
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:07,319
Speaker 2: his arm.

797
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 1: And that's it. It's totally masculine and manly. Guys, what

798
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 1: are you talking about.

799
00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 3: Well, my husband Ryan and I are absolute creatures of habit.

800
00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 3: We get into bed, We do the New York Times

801
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:26,960
Speaker 3: Mini cross word together first thing, and then we have

802
00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 3: taken really taken into taken to reading. Yeah, every night,

803
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:32,680
Speaker 3: and for the.

804
00:37:32,719 --> 00:37:34,760
Speaker 1: Last like, do you guys read the same book?

805
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:38,480
Speaker 3: No, different different books, but we'll kind of like will alternate,

806
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:40,680
Speaker 3: so like he'll read the book and then it'll be oh,

807
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 3: that was a good one, you should read that next,

808
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 3: and then I'll be like, oh, you'll love this one

809
00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 3: that I'm reading, and then so we kind of go

810
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:47,680
Speaker 3: back and forth. But I realized that Ryan and I

811
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:52,279
Speaker 3: have very different ways of reading because he loves to

812
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:58,120
Speaker 3: read on either his IPEd like digitally or on his

813
00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:01,280
Speaker 3: even on his phone like on his I phone, whereas

814
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:04,680
Speaker 3: I am very very old school and I have to

815
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 3: read everything in an actual book form, especially for bed.

816
00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:09,840
Speaker 1: Like it's just good for your eyes.

817
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:11,719
Speaker 2: Ah, Like you just always know when you've been on

818
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:14,000
Speaker 2: your phone too much, you're just like you're hanging a

819
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:14,440
Speaker 2: little Wait.

820
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, you can do the dim light, oh yeah, and

821
00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 3: especially on like kindles and stuff. I know that the

822
00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 3: lighting on there is kind of socially that you know

823
00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 3: it's not as harsh. But I can't do I just

824
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:31,680
Speaker 3: can't do it. Something about it. Just I have to

825
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 3: read a proper paper book.

826
00:38:33,840 --> 00:38:37,680
Speaker 2: I also feel like there's something really like comforting about

827
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 2: the sound of turning a page quite like that, and

828
00:38:41,760 --> 00:38:43,840
Speaker 2: it keeps you on, like you're ready to go to sleep.

829
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 1: Stay.

830
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 3: What I will say is the is the issue is.

831
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 2: Oh honestly, same time every night where you come to

832
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:55,360
Speaker 2: the table where you and Ryan have something totally different.

833
00:38:55,920 --> 00:39:01,279
Speaker 3: The issue is it's not cost effective because buying books

834
00:39:01,320 --> 00:39:04,400
Speaker 3: constantly is actually quite expensive. And if Ryan's also then

835
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:07,839
Speaker 3: buying books on kindle, but I'm buying books paperback which

836
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,840
Speaker 3: were terrible, So one of us has money, one of

837
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:14,080
Speaker 3: us has to change. Really, so I was curious to

838
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 3: know where do people stand on this. Are people really

839
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:24,880
Speaker 3: really against kindles and or digitally reading, or is paperback

840
00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 3: on the way out?

841
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:27,760
Speaker 1: Do I have to move with the times.

842
00:39:27,960 --> 00:39:29,560
Speaker 2: Maybe you have to move with the times because it

843
00:39:29,600 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 2: will probably be cheaper if you're both on the kindle.

844
00:39:32,520 --> 00:39:35,959
Speaker 3: Because five dollars you can get them for real cheap.

845
00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:39,640
Speaker 2: Okay, so kendle or old school texts for four eight

846
00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 2: seven is many need to move with the times.

847
00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 5: The podcast

848
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 3: That