1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:02,600 Speaker 1: Hey, we've got a little podcast to check on your 2 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: podcast radar. It is called When I Grow Up and 3 00:00:06,080 --> 00:00:09,480 Speaker 1: it is out every Friday. You can catch it on iHeartRadio. 4 00:00:09,560 --> 00:00:11,639 Speaker 1: Will ever you listen to your podcasts? 5 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 2: It's starring our very own big boys here from the 6 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:19,240 Speaker 2: Hits and his thirteen year old daughter, Siena, who is 7 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 2: so talented. But it's so many teenagers. Know, it's hard 8 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:25,600 Speaker 2: to know what you do with talent when you grow up, right, 9 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:28,040 Speaker 2: what to be when you get a little bit older. 10 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: I don't know if I have much talent not, but 11 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 1: I do know that I wanted to be the weather girl, 12 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:36,720 Speaker 1: which lead to being a meteorologist, which also then lead 13 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 1: to being a massage therapist. I don't know, They're kind 14 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 1: of all coincist. 15 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:44,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, wrong existed at once? What about you? 16 00:00:44,360 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 2: I desperately wanted to be a pilot. I just thought 17 00:00:46,280 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 2: it was such a cool job to have until I 18 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 2: realized you needed to be good with numbers and maths 19 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:54,280 Speaker 2: and then went out out the window. And then I thought, 20 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 2: what else can I do? I can talk crap for 21 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:57,680 Speaker 2: a living. 22 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 1: Hey, So every episode of When I Grow Up ams 23 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 1: to showcase a different well known kee. We female and 24 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:07,480 Speaker 1: shine a light of them what it takes to do 25 00:01:07,520 --> 00:01:09,320 Speaker 1: their job, and learn about this story of how they 26 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:12,759 Speaker 1: got to where they are. Very inspirational drops every Friday, 27 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:17,679 Speaker 1: So go catch it on iHeartRadio, the Heads podcast network Mine. 28 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:20,400 Speaker 4: Never seeing it and this is my dadmin. Hi, And 29 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 4: when I grow up, I want to be a TikTok 30 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:27,479 Speaker 4: start right, or a sports player hang on, yeah, even 31 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 4: a fashion designer. 32 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:30,319 Speaker 5: Actually maybe in Auclay. 33 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 6: Slow down, Maybe we should talk to some amazing females 34 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:36,480 Speaker 6: who inspire you and who you want to be. 35 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:38,400 Speaker 4: Like, yeah, and we can find out what they did 36 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 4: to get where they are. 37 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 3: Yes, and let's do it as a TV show. 38 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 4: Oh, dad, only old people watch TV. Let's do it 39 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:46,040 Speaker 4: as a podcast. 40 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, yeah, I guess that Worksno, this. 41 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 5: Is when I grow up. Today's guest is Jazz Thornton. 42 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 4: As you're hear, Jazz does incredible things to help people 43 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:58,440 Speaker 4: with mental health, especially young people. 44 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:00,840 Speaker 5: She shares her inspire story on the. 45 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 3: Podcast Jazz is Awesome. She's great. I'd say you like, 46 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 3: she's got lots of riz He's. 47 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:10,000 Speaker 5: Never said that. Every time you see someone call you 48 00:02:10,040 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 5: think something's to you. Oh, they got lots of risks. 49 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:14,280 Speaker 4: She tells a pin that there's lots of risk because 50 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 4: you think your work song I love. 51 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 3: To say, because it winds you up so much. 52 00:02:17,440 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 5: Oh my god. 53 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:20,840 Speaker 3: Seriously, though, Jairs is amazing. 54 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:23,239 Speaker 6: It was really cool to find out some tips for 55 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 6: mental health for teens appearance, you know, actually for everyone, 56 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 6: and also some. 57 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 4: Good ways when you're dealing with anxiety and when you're 58 00:02:29,720 --> 00:02:30,919 Speaker 4: feeling low jeers. 59 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:33,360 Speaker 6: At one point on the podcast, you'll hear she even 60 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:36,320 Speaker 6: got me crying with one story, Dad, you cry. 61 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:40,679 Speaker 4: With every movie, every animated movie, Thank you, joy story 62 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:43,120 Speaker 4: and turned out And that's if you don't full of 63 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 4: sleep because they're all I care. 64 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 6: Okay, okay, all right, there's enough about me watching the movies. Okay, Yeah, 65 00:02:48,080 --> 00:02:48,560 Speaker 6: that's true. 66 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 4: Jazz is also a TikTok style with millions of followers, 67 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 4: and I found it really interesting asking her to answer 68 00:02:54,360 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 4: to whether social media is good or bad? 69 00:02:56,880 --> 00:03:00,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, and the power of the block. But it is 70 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 3: quite interesting, right. 71 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:04,120 Speaker 4: And she also hangs out with famous people. We find 72 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 4: out how she almost missed the child to hang out 73 00:03:06,320 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 4: with Prince Harry and. 74 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 3: Mega Marca and now Jazz got to hang out with me. 75 00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:12,639 Speaker 3: So that's great, isn't that yet that's not quite as cool. 76 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:16,240 Speaker 4: Told me, I have you enjoyed our chat as much 77 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:16,760 Speaker 4: as we did. 78 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:18,600 Speaker 3: It really felled me with hope. 79 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:20,919 Speaker 6: And as you did, I'd be pretty proud if you 80 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 6: ended up helping people like Jess does. 81 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:25,720 Speaker 4: Hey, dad today, when I grow up, I want to 82 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 4: be someone who helps people like Jazz. 83 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 5: Thoughtan. 84 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 6: Okay, Well, sh it's I don't know if it's awk 85 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 6: good or not, but Jess is with us right now 86 00:03:33,919 --> 00:03:34,639 Speaker 6: as you say that. 87 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's so nice to meet you. I've been such 88 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 4: a big fan for a while now, Oh, it's so 89 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 4: nice to meet you. I think that was the best 90 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 4: introduction I've ever had. 91 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I love that I you on the spot. Esa. 92 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:46,760 Speaker 3: What do you admire about Jazz? 93 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 6: Then? 94 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 3: Why would you want to be someone like Jess? 95 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 4: Well, first of all, I love your tektik, I love you, love. 96 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 6: It when I do TikTok and do I get involved. 97 00:03:57,720 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 6: You're embarrassing me. 98 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 4: That's just because you're you, Okay, fine, But I also 99 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 4: love that jazz helps people so many, like so many 100 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 4: people my age, and by sharing a story and giving 101 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 4: people hope. Now, Jazz, you help people with their mental 102 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 4: health and with doing this work You've got to experience 103 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 4: some amazing things, making movies, meeting famous celebrities and royalty, 104 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 4: writing books, and even speaking of the U in Yeah. 105 00:04:22,680 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 6: But I guess to get to where you are now, Jazz, 106 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:27,799 Speaker 6: it was such a journey for you, you know, going 107 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:31,040 Speaker 6: through some horrible, horrible times, and that's to put it lightly. 108 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 6: How do you feel when you look back at that 109 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:34,760 Speaker 6: and you go, well, here I am now. But I 110 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:36,640 Speaker 6: had to get through that to get to where I 111 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:37,039 Speaker 6: am now. 112 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:37,479 Speaker 5: Yeah. 113 00:04:37,520 --> 00:04:40,160 Speaker 7: Absolutely, And I think I often find myself kind of 114 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:42,200 Speaker 7: looking back at it and being like, man, what I 115 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 7: like trade all of that bad stuff so that I 116 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:47,600 Speaker 7: could just have like a normal life. But every day 117 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:49,920 Speaker 7: that someone comes up to me and they're like, oh, 118 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:52,040 Speaker 7: your story's helped me so much or like it and 119 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:54,679 Speaker 7: allowed me to see hope to stay another day, I'm like, oh, 120 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:56,560 Speaker 7: you know what, Actually, all of that stuff, as much 121 00:04:56,560 --> 00:04:59,279 Speaker 7: as it sucked and it was so hard, I wouldn't 122 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 7: take it, wouldn't change it because I now get to 123 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:05,040 Speaker 7: do all of these things and just impact people and 124 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:07,240 Speaker 7: be able to share my story, which is twelve year 125 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 7: old Jaz. 126 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 3: Would have never thought was possible. 127 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, So Jazz, I read around my age, you didn't 128 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:14,240 Speaker 4: want to be around anymore, which is really sad. 129 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 5: But what would you tell your younger self at my age? 130 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, well, I guess what you're saying, are you're looking back? Yeah, 131 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 6: it's a twelve year old year old jazz. 132 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 5: Oh man. 133 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:25,719 Speaker 7: I just like, there's so much more in the world 134 00:05:25,760 --> 00:05:28,599 Speaker 7: than what you can see now. And I think that 135 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:30,599 Speaker 7: when you're you know, when you're twelve, when you're thirteen, 136 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:33,039 Speaker 7: that all you can kind of really see. And I 137 00:05:33,040 --> 00:05:35,800 Speaker 7: think for me, because I didn't have the opportunity to 138 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 7: travel or see anything. 139 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 3: Outside of the small town that I grew up. 140 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 7: In, New Zealand, my perception was that the world was 141 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:44,920 Speaker 7: just this tiny kind of town that I was in 142 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 7: that nothing could ever change. And it's like, oh man, 143 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 7: there's so much out there, like getting to finish school 144 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 7: and going to the ball and then going into you know, 145 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:56,760 Speaker 7: whether it be university or whatever it may be. There's 146 00:05:56,800 --> 00:05:58,040 Speaker 7: just this so much. 147 00:05:57,839 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 3: More of the world than what you know. 148 00:06:00,760 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 6: I mean, I grew up a mask and the world 149 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 6: before social media. I mean, you know, no one wants 150 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 6: to hear about. 151 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 5: Your stupid musk what you talk about. 152 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:15,040 Speaker 4: When I grew up, I don't have social media, okay. 153 00:06:13,760 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 6: But when you do grow up in mass little wherever 154 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:19,960 Speaker 6: you grow up, but your world is school and everything 155 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:21,040 Speaker 6: around it at the time. 156 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 7: And I think what happens and what happened for me, 157 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 7: especially around that age and with bullying, which is such 158 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 7: a prominent thing in schools now for young people, was 159 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:30,920 Speaker 7: that when you're in that position where you're getting bullied, 160 00:06:31,000 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 7: you feel like the whole world hates you because your 161 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:35,720 Speaker 7: perception of the whole world is so small. So again 162 00:06:35,760 --> 00:06:38,600 Speaker 7: it's quite hard to see like, oh, actually this isn't 163 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:41,280 Speaker 7: the case, and not everyone in the whole world doesn't 164 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 7: like me. It's just a couple of bloody school bullies. 165 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:45,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean it's hard. The teenage ers is hard 166 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 6: for every everyone. I'm looking back. I wore a Looney 167 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 6: Tune douvet and made it into a waistcoat and bandanna 168 00:06:52,000 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 6: and pants sitting and went to the school board. And 169 00:06:54,080 --> 00:06:56,039 Speaker 6: now I'm like, what was I doing? Geez, I wanted 170 00:06:56,960 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 6: it's terrible afterwards, it's not good. No one wants to 171 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:04,159 Speaker 6: use a teenage boys do something you wear for the ball, 172 00:07:04,200 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 6: but I did. Nature you embarrassing school ball stories. 173 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 3: Gosh, but it's hard to be teenagers. 174 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 6: I mean any teenager, right, Jess, You're a bubbly kid, 175 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 6: and I look at seeing my daughter, you know, and 176 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 6: she's a bubbly kid. But you somewhere you lost that 177 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 6: light as a teen and as a parent, that's heartbreaking 178 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 6: to hear that that happened. 179 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 7: I think my child protection files literally said that I 180 00:07:27,640 --> 00:07:30,080 Speaker 7: went from being happy and bubbly to dull and lacking emotion. 181 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 7: And I think that for me was like knowing and 182 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 7: seeing people like you know yourself in this real, bright, 183 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 7: bubbly teenage and being like, man, that could have been me. 184 00:07:39,720 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 7: And it took me so long to find that bubbly 185 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 7: again and to find the kind of person that I 186 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 7: used to be. But then once I found it, I 187 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:48,160 Speaker 7: was like, oh my gosh, this. 188 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 3: Is this is who I am. 189 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:55,240 Speaker 4: If someone's getting bullied, feeling down, or feeling helpless, what 190 00:07:55,360 --> 00:07:56,480 Speaker 4: a good ways to cope? 191 00:07:56,920 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 7: I think that the biggest thing and the best thing 192 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:01,200 Speaker 7: that you can do is to ask for help. I 193 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 7: think that there are so many people, especially in school, 194 00:08:04,520 --> 00:08:07,320 Speaker 7: like teachers that are older and wiser and are able 195 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 7: to kind of guide you through that. Being able to 196 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 7: kind of sit there in silence is just going to 197 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:12,560 Speaker 7: make it. 198 00:08:12,520 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 3: A lot worse. 199 00:08:13,280 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 7: Yeah, and so yeah, I do think that the best 200 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:17,480 Speaker 7: thing that you can do is to ask for help, 201 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 7: but in doing that to also always ask for help 202 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:24,040 Speaker 7: from older and wiser. I think when you're really struggling, 203 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:26,680 Speaker 7: asking from help from people that are your own age 204 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:28,920 Speaker 7: or friends at school, it's good that people know what's 205 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 7: going on. But as wise as you are sometimes I 206 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:34,360 Speaker 7: mean not even as wise as you are. Yeah, and 207 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:36,959 Speaker 7: so you know, older and wiser and just learning to 208 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:41,880 Speaker 7: ask for help is yeah. 209 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:41,800 Speaker 5: This is when I grow up. 210 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 6: What about, as I guess as a parent as well, 211 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 6: we advice you know, for someone who's just got a 212 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 6: daughter thirteen? 213 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:50,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's mine. 214 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 6: I think you are, I say, yeah, but there's us 215 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 6: worry met all seriousness about you know, the things that 216 00:08:57,240 --> 00:08:59,360 Speaker 6: kids have to go through these days, whether it's you know, 217 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 6: whether it's even vaping, whether it's social media, body image, 218 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 6: all those sorts of things is quite worrying as a parent. 219 00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:06,320 Speaker 3: What advice? 220 00:09:06,480 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 6: I mean, it's probably you haven't been a parent nowfore, 221 00:09:08,880 --> 00:09:11,440 Speaker 6: But what would you give first people like me that 222 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 6: want to support our my kids through that time. 223 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:16,320 Speaker 7: I think that the biggest thing to do is to 224 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 7: be having these open and honest conversations as much as possible. 225 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 7: I think you can't expect them to come to you 226 00:09:23,960 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 7: when things are happening at school or when you know, 227 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 7: even things like vaping or social media is happening if 228 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:32,240 Speaker 7: you haven't been opening up, especially like I think the 229 00:09:32,280 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 7: dinner table used to be really good for that, but 230 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:36,000 Speaker 7: now it's kind of just become we go and. 231 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 3: Watch screens or whatever it may be. 232 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 7: But if you're not having that constant space where you're 233 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 7: just like allowing your kids to debrief their day or 234 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:46,200 Speaker 7: you know, constantly ask and like how, I know, how 235 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:48,680 Speaker 7: are you really like how's your day going? Or doing 236 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:51,320 Speaker 7: it in a way that's not judgmental too, because what 237 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 7: I've noticed, especially with social media, the parents that try 238 00:09:54,840 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 7: to be super strict on it, that's when the kids 239 00:09:57,120 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 7: turn sneaky and the kids don't want to talk. 240 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:02,080 Speaker 3: Learning to a team. 241 00:10:01,960 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 7: You don't have to understand it, or you know, don't 242 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 7: be like, oh, back of my day or so much worse, 243 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 7: it's got to silence your kid. Yeah, just having those spaces, 244 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:11,440 Speaker 7: try and reactivate dinner times if you can, or just 245 00:10:11,679 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 7: even like a couple of times a week where you're 246 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:16,319 Speaker 7: at the dinner table, no screens and having this conversations 247 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 7: so that if stuff does hit the fan, they feel 248 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:20,640 Speaker 7: like they can talk to you openly and honestly, without 249 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:21,640 Speaker 7: sneaking around. 250 00:10:21,360 --> 00:10:23,080 Speaker 3: And dropping off at the school gates. Still give them 251 00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 3: big hugging Oh yeah, that sort of stuff. 252 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 4: You know you're already at worked by like five years. 253 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:35,679 Speaker 6: You don't give me, give me picking up picking up 254 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 6: inside school. Jot me picking up inside School's right. 255 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 4: You bring a lot of people hope with what you've done. 256 00:10:42,679 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 4: But I read that you didn't do it alone. As 257 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:47,560 Speaker 4: a teenager, you in a pretty dark place and a 258 00:10:47,600 --> 00:10:49,360 Speaker 4: doctor named doctor step helped you out. 259 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:52,960 Speaker 6: Yes, doctor Stiff, Yeah, I guess that was someone that you, well, 260 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 6: you turn to not but I guess by choice at 261 00:10:55,280 --> 00:10:57,480 Speaker 6: the moment, but someone who did, like you're saying before, 262 00:10:57,760 --> 00:10:59,720 Speaker 6: someone older and wiser that sort of sat with you 263 00:10:59,760 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 6: for a long time, A long time. 264 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:03,320 Speaker 7: It was supposed to be like a fifteen minute doctor's 265 00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 7: appointment ended up being ninety. And she said that reality 266 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:10,440 Speaker 7: is that if it was a physical thing, if someone 267 00:11:10,559 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 7: was having a heart attack, then it doesn't matter how 268 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 7: long you spend with them, you will stay with them 269 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 7: until you can make sure they're stable. And she said 270 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 7: it's the same with mental health to be able to 271 00:11:19,400 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 7: sit and stay with someone. And she's like just responding 272 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:23,120 Speaker 7: to it the same way, which is the same thing 273 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:25,360 Speaker 7: with learning to ask for help, like responding it to 274 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:28,120 Speaker 7: the same way as you do with physical health. But yeah, 275 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 7: she was amazing and said a lot of stuff to 276 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 7: me that I'd never really heard from medical professionals. Medical 277 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 7: professionals hadn't told me that there was hope for me, 278 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:38,600 Speaker 7: that things could change. And having someone like that tell 279 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:41,080 Speaker 7: me that, I was like, WHOA Like, if she thinks this, 280 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 7: maybe things could change. 281 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:45,560 Speaker 3: And now many many many years later, she's. 282 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 7: On the board of our charity and I have adopted 283 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:50,240 Speaker 7: myself into their family holiday. 284 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 3: With her at stuff Done. Yeah. See, young people can 285 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 3: hang out with old people people than she with my 286 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:00,520 Speaker 3: mum over here. She wasn't to impress. 287 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 4: So, Jazz, do you recommend for young people when their 288 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:06,480 Speaker 4: load talk to someone that will they trust. 289 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 5: To find your own doctor, Steff, someone. 290 00:12:08,800 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 7: You can talk to always, always, And I think just 291 00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 7: keep asking until someone listens, because there always will be 292 00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:17,760 Speaker 7: and sometimes you might not get someone who understands right away. 293 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 7: But I didn't like it took me so long to 294 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:23,120 Speaker 7: find doctor Steff, But eventually someone will listen and be 295 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:23,760 Speaker 7: able to help. 296 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, Can I ask on any tips like things like anxiety? 297 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 4: It happens to all of us. I get anxiety, You 298 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 4: get anxious. 299 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 5: But you have a technique, right. 300 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:33,640 Speaker 3: I do. 301 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 7: And it's quite a known technique as well. But box 302 00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 7: breathing as a really have you heard of it before? 303 00:12:38,200 --> 00:12:39,040 Speaker 5: I think I've heard of it. 304 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 3: Yeah. 305 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:42,080 Speaker 7: So it's basically where you breathe in for fo you 306 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 7: count to four, breathing for four, hold it for four, 307 00:12:44,760 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 7: breathe out for four, and then hold like no ear 308 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:49,880 Speaker 7: for four and you keep doing that over and over again, 309 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:52,520 Speaker 7: and it will literally calm down your nervous system, like 310 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:55,360 Speaker 7: biologically scientifically we'll calm it down. 311 00:12:55,720 --> 00:12:56,320 Speaker 3: And so you. 312 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:58,880 Speaker 6: Just take a moment for yourself somewhere if it's feeling it, 313 00:12:58,920 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 6: and just gone through that breathing. 314 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:03,160 Speaker 7: Yeah, And I will do that often before I get 315 00:13:03,240 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 7: up on stage and speak at things. 316 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:07,080 Speaker 6: And because do you still you know, you deal with 317 00:13:07,120 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 6: some of these things and you find what techniques and 318 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:11,760 Speaker 6: ways to deal with them now, right, absolutely, it doesn't 319 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:14,960 Speaker 6: just mean because you were feeling low one time there, 320 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:17,280 Speaker 6: You're not anymore. It's not going to happen again. You know, 321 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 6: it's kind of ways to find ways of dealing with it. 322 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:22,200 Speaker 7: That's been the thing is learning, learning the tools, learning 323 00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 7: the techniques. In that way, things won't get as bad 324 00:13:24,080 --> 00:13:26,040 Speaker 7: as they were because now I know I know what 325 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:27,600 Speaker 7: to do, I know how to handle it. 326 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:28,960 Speaker 3: I know when to. 327 00:13:28,960 --> 00:13:31,520 Speaker 7: Get off my phone and sign out of social media. 328 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, all of those things are very very good. But yeah, 329 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:36,360 Speaker 3: box breathing is a really good thing for people to learn. 330 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 6: Now, you at your charity, you know, voices of hope, 331 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 6: You've got your podcast, hope is real as well. I 332 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:44,360 Speaker 6: guess your message is always about finding hope. I hope, 333 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 6: I've got hope. I've got the right message from all 334 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:48,600 Speaker 6: the things that you do. Yeah, I think it's find 335 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:52,679 Speaker 6: that hope. Though sometimes when things feel about hopeless, used 336 00:13:52,720 --> 00:13:53,880 Speaker 6: hope a lot during that question. 337 00:13:55,559 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 5: That's frambling answer the question. 338 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:01,560 Speaker 3: Time, go Jazz. 339 00:14:01,960 --> 00:14:04,360 Speaker 7: I think that what I found is and when it 340 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:06,720 Speaker 7: was really dark, I thought that hope just didn't exist, 341 00:14:06,760 --> 00:14:08,440 Speaker 7: And I'm like, oh, hope is always there. 342 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:10,439 Speaker 3: Sometimes it's just really hard to find it. 343 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:13,840 Speaker 7: And sometimes it's where other people can come in and 344 00:14:13,960 --> 00:14:16,280 Speaker 7: kind of try to hold the hope when you're trying 345 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:18,200 Speaker 7: to find it, and that's what Stiff did with me. 346 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:20,080 Speaker 7: She was like, no, Jaz, is hope for you. But 347 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 7: I think being able to try and look forward and 348 00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:25,880 Speaker 7: dream to the future. If you could do anything, what 349 00:14:25,920 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 7: would it be, Because it's really hard to fight if 350 00:14:28,520 --> 00:14:31,000 Speaker 7: you don't know what you're fighting for. And so if 351 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:33,520 Speaker 7: you can say, like for me, one of the biggest things. 352 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:35,600 Speaker 7: And I remember writing this down in the hospital one day. 353 00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 7: They keep trying to make me write a bucket list, 354 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:38,920 Speaker 7: and I was like, I want to write a bucket list, 355 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 7: and eventually I did, and at the top of their 356 00:14:40,600 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 7: bucket list was to visit New York City. And then 357 00:14:42,920 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 7: when I finally was there, I now work there all 358 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 7: the time. 359 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:45,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, you go there. 360 00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 6: You're going in a couple of days to speak at 361 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:49,960 Speaker 6: the U Yes, tomorrows. 362 00:14:50,040 --> 00:14:51,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. 363 00:14:51,360 --> 00:14:53,760 Speaker 7: And so to be able to stand there and be like, 364 00:14:53,760 --> 00:14:56,480 Speaker 7: oh my gosh, like this is what you know, fifteen 365 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:58,760 Speaker 7: year old Jazz was fighting for to one day have 366 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 7: that moment. I've been able to hold hope that way 367 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:04,479 Speaker 7: is yeah, just a day at a time sometimes. 368 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 4: So when did you decide to use your story and 369 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:11,680 Speaker 4: your profile, your social media, public speaking books, speeches, and 370 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:13,440 Speaker 4: your podcast, like use it. 371 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 3: To help others? 372 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 5: Did that just like happen or did you decide to 373 00:15:16,600 --> 00:15:16,880 Speaker 5: do it? 374 00:15:16,960 --> 00:15:19,880 Speaker 7: I mean it was It was definitely a decision, but 375 00:15:19,920 --> 00:15:22,320 Speaker 7: I never expected it to be what it's become. 376 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 3: Like this is wild. Like I remember, actually. 377 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 7: Your dad and John O were in our first ever 378 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:29,440 Speaker 7: Voices of Hope campaign. 379 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:29,840 Speaker 5: There we did. 380 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:32,640 Speaker 3: Do you remember that we had a rugby ball and 381 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:33,840 Speaker 3: you were like throwing the ball. 382 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 7: But I decided to go to film school because when 383 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:40,840 Speaker 7: I was in the middle of my struggles, I spent 384 00:15:40,920 --> 00:15:43,640 Speaker 7: a lot of time trying to research other people's stories 385 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:45,280 Speaker 7: just to know that there was hope, and back then 386 00:15:45,320 --> 00:15:48,200 Speaker 7: I couldn't find anything. I think John Kernwain had to 387 00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 7: kind of just come out with his story and that 388 00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 7: was really it. And so when I came out the 389 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 7: other side, I was like, I just want to learn 390 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:56,880 Speaker 7: to tell these stories so that people can, no matter 391 00:15:56,920 --> 00:15:58,800 Speaker 7: what it is they're facing, can go and find hope. 392 00:15:58,840 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 3: So study directing. 393 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 7: But yeah, my first show got picked up the two 394 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 7: terms into film school, and then the movie got signed 395 00:16:05,760 --> 00:16:07,320 Speaker 7: and the books got signed the year after, and. 396 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 3: Then it kind of just then I got on TikTok. 397 00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 3: I don't even want it to do but talk to 398 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 3: Stiff's kids, but like, you gotta get on TikTok. 399 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:16,880 Speaker 7: And I was like, no, in the first video over 400 00:16:17,000 --> 00:16:18,240 Speaker 7: post it was so lame. 401 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:20,960 Speaker 3: It was a freaking dog with a stick like a right, 402 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 3: I don't know what I was doing, and then started 403 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 3: to share. 404 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 7: But I did the series and the movie and the 405 00:16:26,640 --> 00:16:30,560 Speaker 7: first book before TikTok existed, and I guess TikTok really 406 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 7: is just what blew up Yeah, everything, but yes it was. 407 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 7: It was a decision to tell these stories, not necessarily 408 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:38,120 Speaker 7: my story to. 409 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:40,360 Speaker 3: This extent, but it happened. 410 00:16:40,400 --> 00:16:42,600 Speaker 7: And now I'm like, oh, well, if people find hope 411 00:16:42,600 --> 00:16:43,840 Speaker 7: in it is what it happens. 412 00:16:43,880 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 4: Is it hard putting yourself out there? And like how 413 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 4: many nasty comments you encounter? 414 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:49,360 Speaker 5: Like how do you deal with that? 415 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean there's always negativity, I guess, Jaz, I mean, 416 00:16:52,120 --> 00:16:54,080 Speaker 6: just google John O and Bean if you want to 417 00:16:54,080 --> 00:16:55,000 Speaker 6: make yourself feel better. 418 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 7: I've learned the power of the block button on social media. 419 00:16:57,840 --> 00:17:00,560 Speaker 7: Love a good block, love a life. Even I mean, 420 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:04,800 Speaker 7: I'm like, I don't have to see this. People don't 421 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:06,200 Speaker 7: have to comment this is the thing, and it probably 422 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 7: sounds like an old man ranting here, so you know, 423 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 7: we'll roll her eyes. But you don't have to comment 424 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:12,159 Speaker 7: on everything. If you don't like something, you don't have 425 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:12,679 Speaker 7: to comment. 426 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:13,120 Speaker 3: It's true. 427 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:15,320 Speaker 4: You can get away though, Like why do you feel 428 00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:17,679 Speaker 4: the need to comment on someone else's video. 429 00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:18,120 Speaker 3: All the time? 430 00:17:18,280 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 6: You know, but that's kind of I guess we think 431 00:17:19,920 --> 00:17:24,919 Speaker 6: social media is encouraged to comments. Yeah, but sometimes I'm like, oh, 432 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:26,919 Speaker 6: you can probably walk away and not comment. 433 00:17:27,160 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 7: Well, I think a lot of the main backlash that 434 00:17:29,320 --> 00:17:31,520 Speaker 7: I've had was at the start, and it was all 435 00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:34,720 Speaker 7: like middle aged specifically, to be honest, middle aged men. 436 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:38,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. It was basically just. 437 00:17:41,119 --> 00:17:43,520 Speaker 7: But they were very much just like because they still 438 00:17:43,520 --> 00:17:46,440 Speaker 7: couldn't get past the attention seeking as so they were 439 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:48,560 Speaker 7: just like the film was getting announced and they were 440 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:49,000 Speaker 7: like this. 441 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 3: Attention seeking big like blah blah blah. And I was like, 442 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:52,280 Speaker 3: oh my. 443 00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:55,960 Speaker 7: Gosh, like come on, But I've started to kind of 444 00:17:56,000 --> 00:17:59,119 Speaker 7: I'm like, hey, most of our statistics and middle aged men, so. 445 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 3: This is not just there are teenagers. Yeah, it's for 446 00:18:01,920 --> 00:18:03,679 Speaker 3: you everyone, every right. 447 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:07,119 Speaker 4: You didn't just upset older people like that, you were 448 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:08,840 Speaker 4: upset it UK. 449 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:11,440 Speaker 5: Hey, one of the chocolates wrong. 450 00:18:11,840 --> 00:18:14,280 Speaker 3: This is the most viral thing I have ever done. 451 00:18:14,359 --> 00:18:16,119 Speaker 6: So if not if people are listening that what the 452 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:17,960 Speaker 6: heck was this? There was a chocolate from the UK 453 00:18:18,040 --> 00:18:19,920 Speaker 6: you got sent from a friend and you weren't sure 454 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:21,600 Speaker 6: how to eat it, but you ate it on TikTok 455 00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 6: and everyone was like, it almost calls the national incident 456 00:18:24,359 --> 00:18:26,880 Speaker 6: between New Zealand and the UK because you ate it wrong. 457 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:27,959 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah it was. 458 00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:30,800 Speaker 7: It was, and all the like media radio stations from 459 00:18:30,840 --> 00:18:32,560 Speaker 7: around the world were covering this. 460 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:34,600 Speaker 3: What the world do you get it? 461 00:18:34,680 --> 00:18:35,040 Speaker 5: Bloody? 462 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:36,959 Speaker 7: If any food item and go, oh you know how 463 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:39,160 Speaker 7: I eat this? I smash it on a table. 464 00:18:39,240 --> 00:18:39,919 Speaker 3: And I ate it. 465 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:40,240 Speaker 1: Yeah. 466 00:18:40,320 --> 00:18:41,760 Speaker 3: I thought the way you ate it, to be fair, 467 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:43,919 Speaker 3: was the way it was. How did you eat it? 468 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:44,359 Speaker 3: I got it? 469 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 7: So you're supposed that the whole concept, thank you. You're 470 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 7: supposed to smash it and then it falls into segments 471 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:52,480 Speaker 7: and then you eat the segments. 472 00:18:53,000 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 3: But I didn't know this information. Does it have instructions 473 00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:55,880 Speaker 3: on it? 474 00:18:56,119 --> 00:18:56,280 Speaker 6: No? 475 00:18:56,359 --> 00:18:58,879 Speaker 3: Mine didn't because it was a nineteenth jubilee box. 476 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:02,199 Speaker 4: Well yeah they can't. They can't get mad, you know. 477 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:02,920 Speaker 4: But didn't have. 478 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 7: Instructions they have trying to prevent me now from getting 479 00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:07,600 Speaker 7: in the border of the United Kingdom, like a petition 480 00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:08,240 Speaker 7: that went out. 481 00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 3: Really sometimes. 482 00:19:14,600 --> 00:19:16,360 Speaker 5: This is when I grow up. 483 00:19:18,240 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 4: You're big on tech took love what you do, but 484 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 4: you have millions of followers. I found myself watching too 485 00:19:23,359 --> 00:19:25,159 Speaker 4: much techtok and dad tells me to get off. 486 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:26,560 Speaker 5: Yeah. 487 00:19:26,720 --> 00:19:28,879 Speaker 4: So what do you actually think of social media? 488 00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 5: Good or bad? 489 00:19:30,240 --> 00:19:35,439 Speaker 7: I think both, and you say good. I think what 490 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:39,520 Speaker 7: is amazing about social media is that when your dad 491 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:42,800 Speaker 7: was growing up, and especially I think a woman that 492 00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:45,760 Speaker 7: you know your age, the only idea that you had 493 00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:49,320 Speaker 7: of people were magazines was the Kardashians was edited things 494 00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:52,440 Speaker 7: that were selected by the media. So there was no 495 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:55,119 Speaker 7: other way, at least it was like reality TV. There 496 00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 7: was no other way to see normal lives. So you 497 00:19:57,320 --> 00:19:59,960 Speaker 7: were only kind of growing up seeing this picture perf 498 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:02,840 Speaker 7: affect body and like these perfect bodies and that's it. 499 00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:06,680 Speaker 7: We're social media has completely taken that power away from 500 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:09,760 Speaker 7: the media and is like this is real life, these 501 00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:12,119 Speaker 7: are real bodies, these are real stories. My life is 502 00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:15,159 Speaker 7: not glamorous, and I think there's definitely a lot of 503 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:19,200 Speaker 7: negatives to social media. We all know that the bullying, 504 00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:22,000 Speaker 7: the time consumed, but the stuff that you can learn 505 00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:23,879 Speaker 7: on there, the fact that you can grow up and 506 00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:27,280 Speaker 7: see people like myself on there or people that don't 507 00:20:27,280 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 7: aren't cut Ashians or have pitch perfect lives. 508 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:31,840 Speaker 3: But that's actually really healthy in my opinion. 509 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:35,399 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, it's a way. You're right, it's opened the 510 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:38,080 Speaker 6: world up to not just that select Yeah, screen time 511 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:39,520 Speaker 6: not as healthy. I don't even want to know what 512 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:40,000 Speaker 6: line is. 513 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:43,160 Speaker 7: And obviously there is a lot of danger to social 514 00:20:43,240 --> 00:20:45,640 Speaker 7: media and stuff, but I think the reality is it's 515 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:46,600 Speaker 7: not going anywhere. 516 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:48,119 Speaker 3: So learning how to use that. 517 00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:53,160 Speaker 7: Setting screen time limits for especially your age, as very important. 518 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:55,960 Speaker 3: Otherwise in your world just becomes. 519 00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:57,960 Speaker 7: Social media and how many likes can I get in that, 520 00:20:58,200 --> 00:21:00,000 Speaker 7: which is not important in the real world. 521 00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:02,399 Speaker 6: But you can see things can go off. Put this 522 00:21:02,480 --> 00:21:05,119 Speaker 6: video ut they didn't get your. 523 00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:07,160 Speaker 7: Self worth starts to go with it because you're like, oh, 524 00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:09,320 Speaker 7: this photo didn't get as many likes, or you're looking 525 00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 7: through to see who liked it, like my friend didn't 526 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:14,600 Speaker 7: like Well where it may be. So my biggest thing 527 00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:16,960 Speaker 7: is how do we teach young people to not put 528 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:20,280 Speaker 7: their worth and their identity in social media? 529 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:23,399 Speaker 3: That's kind of more. I think that how even how 530 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:25,440 Speaker 3: parents and stuff, how we can encourage. 531 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:28,400 Speaker 4: That You've done so many amazing things, from winning reality 532 00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:31,080 Speaker 4: shows to speaking at the un movies. 533 00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:34,880 Speaker 6: Books podcast, this podcast, this podcast. 534 00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:37,000 Speaker 4: What is the one thing you're most proud of? 535 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:38,160 Speaker 5: Man? 536 00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:41,120 Speaker 7: I think all of these things have been really cool 537 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:43,600 Speaker 7: to do, and you know, I would have never imagined 538 00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:45,560 Speaker 7: winning Dancing with the Stars, will been able to work 539 00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:47,320 Speaker 7: with Prince Harryt and do this crazy things. But I 540 00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:51,360 Speaker 7: think above absolutely everything, there was a moment I'll never 541 00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 7: forget where I was speaking at a conference and there 542 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:56,000 Speaker 7: was this mother that came up to me and she 543 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:58,680 Speaker 7: was just crying and I looked at her and I 544 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:02,720 Speaker 7: hugged her, and then she just said, my daughter, she's 545 00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:04,480 Speaker 7: been in and out of sight words for a long time. 546 00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:07,680 Speaker 7: She's been really struggling, and she I got her your 547 00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:10,320 Speaker 7: book and when she read it, it was the first 548 00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:12,320 Speaker 7: time that she felt her the first time that she 549 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:14,760 Speaker 7: felt like there was hope. And I remember kind of 550 00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 7: looking up and the daughter was there and she's crying, 551 00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:19,920 Speaker 7: and I just in that moment, was like, man, this 552 00:22:20,160 --> 00:22:23,760 Speaker 7: is why this tops anything any kind of achievements, as 553 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:26,480 Speaker 7: you don't do it for anything else than those moments 554 00:22:26,480 --> 00:22:29,200 Speaker 7: of going these people know that there's hope. 555 00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:32,680 Speaker 6: It must be special for you, you know, And I mean 556 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:34,520 Speaker 6: your story has helped so many people. 557 00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:37,399 Speaker 7: I think I cry every time that I meet people 558 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:39,800 Speaker 7: like that. And now it's happening all over the world. 559 00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:42,359 Speaker 7: I was in the US or the UK and Scotland 560 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:44,560 Speaker 7: and there's people coming up to me there saying the 561 00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:47,280 Speaker 7: same thing. And it's so cool to go. Actually, Like 562 00:22:47,320 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 7: all I've done is gone, hey, there's hope, and other 563 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 7: people have chosen to fight to stay and I think 564 00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:54,040 Speaker 7: that's what's really cool. 565 00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:57,479 Speaker 6: Yeah, above Prince William and Prince Harry hanging out with them, 566 00:22:57,600 --> 00:22:59,200 Speaker 6: you know, I mean cool. 567 00:22:59,000 --> 00:22:59,760 Speaker 3: But not as cool as that. 568 00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:04,479 Speaker 7: I'm like, I don't care about it, Like it's cool, 569 00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:06,639 Speaker 7: and I'm like, wow, how do I end up here? 570 00:23:06,720 --> 00:23:09,199 Speaker 3: But that's never the reason you do it? And I 571 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:09,680 Speaker 3: stopped it. 572 00:23:09,840 --> 00:23:12,240 Speaker 7: If people weren't getting impacted by the story, I'm not 573 00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:14,720 Speaker 7: doing my job right. So it's you know that one 574 00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:19,440 Speaker 7: hundred percent, it's always those stories that just oh that's why, why. 575 00:23:19,520 --> 00:23:21,199 Speaker 6: Why, that's the why you do it? Okay, so we 576 00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:23,400 Speaker 6: need to ask how did you end up hanging out 577 00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:24,679 Speaker 6: with Megan and Harry. 578 00:23:25,400 --> 00:23:29,280 Speaker 3: So we actually nearly missed this entire opportunity. We were 579 00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:30,479 Speaker 3: getting this this email. 580 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:31,879 Speaker 7: I do a lot of speaking, and I got this 581 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:34,600 Speaker 7: email from this woman who sits us from Wellington being like, hey, 582 00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:37,080 Speaker 7: can you come down and speak at this conference? And 583 00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:39,199 Speaker 7: at the time I was like, I'm really busy, Like 584 00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:41,240 Speaker 7: I just she was like, give me a call when 585 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,800 Speaker 7: you can. We played phone tag for like two weeks 586 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:45,680 Speaker 7: and eventually I was like, oh, I need to answer 587 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:48,240 Speaker 7: the lady from Wellington, And so I answered the phone 588 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:50,400 Speaker 7: and she goes, I don't actually want you to speak 589 00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:53,920 Speaker 7: in an event. I'm a Royal Advisor and Prince Harry 590 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 7: Meghan are coming to New Zealand and they want to 591 00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:56,240 Speaker 7: have coffee with you. 592 00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:56,920 Speaker 5: Oh my gosh. 593 00:23:57,080 --> 00:23:59,960 Speaker 3: And I was like oh. And so afterwards there emails. 594 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:02,800 Speaker 3: The first time I think she just wanted like to know. 595 00:24:02,840 --> 00:24:05,280 Speaker 7: I was legit right and I wasn't just going to 596 00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:08,040 Speaker 7: jump on it for that reason. And then her like 597 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:12,119 Speaker 7: the signature afterwards added Royal Advisor, and I was like, 598 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:14,080 Speaker 7: you told me that in the first place. 599 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:16,320 Speaker 3: So you meet them for like your coffee? 600 00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:17,080 Speaker 6: Yeah? 601 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:17,440 Speaker 3: Yeah. 602 00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:19,439 Speaker 7: So we went down to Wellington, we meet them for coffee, 603 00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 7: and I remember sitting there being like. 604 00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:23,520 Speaker 3: What do we do you bow do you say you're 605 00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:24,160 Speaker 3: like wood? 606 00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:27,479 Speaker 7: And then came in and they just kind of like 607 00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:30,439 Speaker 7: shook our hands, sit down, and like afterwards were hugging us, 608 00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:32,600 Speaker 7: and I was like, I feel like we weren't supposed 609 00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:35,440 Speaker 7: to do that, and you're also not supposed to like 610 00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:38,080 Speaker 7: like take photos properly with them, but we did that, 611 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 7: which I'm so glad that we did. But yeah, they 612 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:43,879 Speaker 7: were so nice. And then wait, I don't know, this 613 00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:47,200 Speaker 7: is really funny. We were doing interviews afterwards and one 614 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:48,600 Speaker 7: of the reporters was. 615 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:49,440 Speaker 3: Asking us how was that? 616 00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 7: It was a good and gin So we're having coffee 617 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:55,200 Speaker 7: and then there was like slices and stuff. 618 00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:57,399 Speaker 3: On there and she was like, the ginger Crunch was 619 00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:57,960 Speaker 3: really good. 620 00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:05,680 Speaker 7: The reporter thought that she was talking about Prince Harry. 621 00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:06,480 Speaker 3: So he got the nickname the Ginger Crunch from Crossing. YEA, yeah, I. 622 00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:08,680 Speaker 6: Mean that shows that they are, you know, I'm sure 623 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:11,119 Speaker 6: they're just real people, you know, like, yes, they have 624 00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:14,040 Speaker 6: again they have a thing that their jobs where the 625 00:25:14,200 --> 00:25:16,920 Speaker 6: actors or oral family has put them on a real 626 00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:17,720 Speaker 6: public profile. 627 00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:19,760 Speaker 3: I think it's really funny though, because we even then. 628 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 7: I don't know if you know this, but me and 629 00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 7: Jing got an award from Her Majesty, the Queen compel us. 630 00:25:24,520 --> 00:25:27,160 Speaker 7: We were supposed to bucking so we did some stuff 631 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,919 Speaker 7: with obviously with Harry and Meghan, and then we went 632 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:32,520 Speaker 7: and met with the Royal Foundation, which is the people 633 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:34,119 Speaker 7: that they were doing stuff with. 634 00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:36,560 Speaker 3: But yeah, the award from the Queen. 635 00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:38,400 Speaker 7: We were supposed to go and receive it in Buckingham, 636 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,320 Speaker 7: but it was in COVID so we couldn't. So I 637 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,399 Speaker 7: arrived at our house in the post cracked and this 638 00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:44,880 Speaker 7: like it was so bad and. 639 00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:46,960 Speaker 3: I was like, this is from palace and it's like 640 00:25:47,200 --> 00:25:51,360 Speaker 3: in this little but it's got a little Queenie's signature 641 00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:52,120 Speaker 3: on it. Ri ip. 642 00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:55,320 Speaker 5: But what was it? It was an. 643 00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:58,399 Speaker 7: Award for our service to mental health as well in 644 00:25:58,440 --> 00:25:59,000 Speaker 7: the Commonwealth. 645 00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, do you want each? Just wonder shire one each? 646 00:26:01,480 --> 00:26:04,000 Speaker 3: That's good, that's good. It is a great time. 647 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:07,040 Speaker 4: You've done a lot of reality TV. What was harder 648 00:26:07,160 --> 00:26:10,160 Speaker 4: learning dancing steps and dancing with the stars or going 649 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,240 Speaker 4: without much food on Celebrity Treasure. 650 00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:16,879 Speaker 3: Celebrity Treasure Island. Really, oh my gosh, learning dance steps 651 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:17,560 Speaker 3: through the day and not. 652 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:20,200 Speaker 7: I mean Dancing with the Stars was rough, like that's 653 00:26:20,240 --> 00:26:23,240 Speaker 7: eleven hour like eleven hour days, eleven weeks, like you 654 00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:27,080 Speaker 7: don't have a single day because we were in rehearsals before. 655 00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:30,040 Speaker 3: Anything was an hours and so it was crazy TikTok 656 00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:33,440 Speaker 3: TikTok Dancing the Stars and it was live as well, 657 00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:36,119 Speaker 3: which was scary show that TikTok Dancing the Stars. Just 658 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:38,000 Speaker 3: put it up, who gets the most views over a week? 659 00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,639 Speaker 6: Great idea, dance, don't I see it? I was like, 660 00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:43,360 Speaker 6: please dig up, don't you go on that You've tried 661 00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:45,879 Speaker 6: to teach something does stay in my brain though dancing 662 00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,240 Speaker 6: obviously it does with you, you know you can learn. 663 00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:50,960 Speaker 3: Steps managed to do it Treasure Island. 664 00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:54,680 Speaker 7: First of all, I'm like, there's so many reasons that 665 00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:55,000 Speaker 7: I could. 666 00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:55,800 Speaker 3: I was just terrible. 667 00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:57,840 Speaker 7: I had just had COVID as well, like I was 668 00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:00,479 Speaker 7: pushed out a day from going because I had COVID. 669 00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:04,680 Speaker 7: And then I'm asmadicic, I'm disleksick, I'm adhd. My hand 670 00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:08,639 Speaker 7: was broken, and so trying to do anything was was 671 00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:12,080 Speaker 7: so hard. But I think, yeah, living on rice and 672 00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:15,440 Speaker 7: beans and I've got i'm allergic to seafood and so 673 00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:17,679 Speaker 7: like people were trying to catch fish and I was like, well, 674 00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:18,440 Speaker 7: I can't you know. 675 00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:19,680 Speaker 3: Eat any of that. 676 00:27:20,160 --> 00:27:23,320 Speaker 7: And then you're doing these big endurance challenges and yeah, 677 00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:25,520 Speaker 7: it's like it's crazy. You get like we got emergency 678 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:29,480 Speaker 7: evacuated one night, and it's just you just cry every day. 679 00:27:29,600 --> 00:27:30,159 Speaker 3: I feel like for. 680 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:33,000 Speaker 6: TV, they would go and stop recording and then be like, 681 00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:35,120 Speaker 6: all right, guys, great, shoot, let's go to the Airbnb 682 00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:38,000 Speaker 6: the hotel. Nah, but it's like it's legit. You guys 683 00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:38,480 Speaker 6: are in there. 684 00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:39,720 Speaker 3: You don't have pillows. 685 00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:41,560 Speaker 7: I think that was the big thing, like you had 686 00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:45,440 Speaker 7: and I was just like, no, no, you weren't allowed. 687 00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:47,679 Speaker 7: So you had to like roll up sweatshirts and like 688 00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:48,679 Speaker 7: just try to use that. 689 00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:50,320 Speaker 4: And you're allowed to bring like a pillow case and 690 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:51,199 Speaker 4: stuff it with clothes. 691 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:54,080 Speaker 7: So that's what some people did. I didn't know this information, 692 00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:56,480 Speaker 7: and so I'm going to out myself here. When we 693 00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:59,239 Speaker 7: got emergency evacuated and we went to the hotels, I 694 00:27:59,280 --> 00:28:01,919 Speaker 7: took the hotel. 695 00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:04,919 Speaker 3: I was like, I'm so sorry, I will pay the 696 00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:08,000 Speaker 3: hotel back. They have so many of them because some 697 00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:09,879 Speaker 3: people did that. But yeah, you just kind of had 698 00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:10,600 Speaker 3: to like roll. 699 00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:11,760 Speaker 4: Up like cloth. 700 00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:14,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, and then just kind of use it as the case. Yeah, 701 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:16,879 Speaker 6: school camp, they give you a list of going on. 702 00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:18,639 Speaker 6: These are all the things you kind of yes, but I. 703 00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:20,800 Speaker 7: Got so much stuff taken off me because they bagsart 704 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:22,960 Speaker 7: you as if you were like coming into a new 705 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,399 Speaker 7: country and you've got all the illegal stuff. So like 706 00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:27,480 Speaker 7: I had, like baby wipes got taken off me because 707 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,080 Speaker 7: they could be used as toilet paper. 708 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,440 Speaker 5: Use toilet paper. I was like, this is all. 709 00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:35,399 Speaker 7: Like no mirrors, but they us have makeup, so you 710 00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:38,360 Speaker 7: could do your makeup without any mirrors, which was I 711 00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:40,200 Speaker 7: just was like this, maybe you could like smash the 712 00:28:40,240 --> 00:28:43,040 Speaker 7: mirror something well a year or like maybe the mirror 713 00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,960 Speaker 7: would start a fire if you know. And where we 714 00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:49,640 Speaker 7: were and Wonnaca like it's quite dry land, but he was. 715 00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:52,480 Speaker 3: I think slippertish Ryland was the hardest thing I had 716 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:56,080 Speaker 3: done you ever done, Absolutely like it was wild. 717 00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:56,920 Speaker 5: Would I do it again? 718 00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:00,680 Speaker 3: Probably probably, because that's I love that. I think it's fun, 719 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:02,040 Speaker 3: but it definitely takes it. 720 00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:04,800 Speaker 4: Before we go, I want to fire at you some 721 00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:07,360 Speaker 4: quick fire questions to find out if I really want 722 00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:07,760 Speaker 4: to be like you. 723 00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 5: This game is. 724 00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:10,480 Speaker 3: Called this or that? 725 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:15,320 Speaker 4: Okay, ready, TikTok or Instagram TikTok Harry Styles or Harry Potter, 726 00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:19,720 Speaker 4: Harry Styles, okay, Jandles or Crocs, Crocs, Minecraft or Fortnite. 727 00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 3: I haven't played either. 728 00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:26,400 Speaker 4: Prime Energy or Frank Green Drink Bottle. 729 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:33,520 Speaker 7: Frank Green everyone I love Frank Emotion or support Watery. 730 00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:37,920 Speaker 4: Kindle or a real book, real book, Netflix or Snapchat, Netflix, 731 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:40,479 Speaker 4: air pods or a zero point five photo. 732 00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:44,320 Speaker 6: Zero point five is the new Well, it's probably not 733 00:29:45,120 --> 00:29:46,760 Speaker 6: feel like I've just gone on to it. It's very 734 00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:48,160 Speaker 6: cool high angle stuff. 735 00:29:48,400 --> 00:29:50,959 Speaker 7: Yeah, but I have my Aarpod Maxes, which I love 736 00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:54,040 Speaker 7: like those of different. Yeah, it is a different Okay, 737 00:29:54,040 --> 00:29:55,800 Speaker 7: I'm gonna get in that case, I'm going to do 738 00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:56,720 Speaker 7: zero point five. 739 00:29:56,800 --> 00:30:01,720 Speaker 4: But also, all right, sleep in or stay up late, 740 00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:07,600 Speaker 4: sleep Barby movie or Fast and Furious. Prince Harry or 741 00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:10,640 Speaker 4: Prince William. They're probably not going to hear that. 742 00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:13,680 Speaker 6: You know. She don't think anyone is going to do 743 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:15,920 Speaker 6: the chocolate thing either. We don't want another how about 744 00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:17,720 Speaker 6: we don't know answer that one. We don't want to 745 00:30:17,760 --> 00:30:19,800 Speaker 6: cause another incidence incident. 746 00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:21,400 Speaker 5: It's the final Johnno will be in. 747 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:26,240 Speaker 3: Oh you can't want that there, Yes, thank you so 748 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:27,200 Speaker 3: much for what you did. 749 00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:29,480 Speaker 4: I definitely want to be like you because you have 750 00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:32,480 Speaker 4: so many people. What you do now literally saves lives. 751 00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:34,840 Speaker 4: Thank you for doing your story and giving people hope. 752 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:38,200 Speaker 3: Oh, thank you so much. Thanks for having me. How 753 00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:39,200 Speaker 3: cool is Jazz? 754 00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,200 Speaker 5: Do you see why I want to be like her? 755 00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:44,120 Speaker 3: She is cool? But also she chose you over me? 756 00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:44,560 Speaker 4: Right? 757 00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:49,160 Speaker 3: Yeah? Now really inspiring us. So much great advice from Jazz. 758 00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:51,240 Speaker 6: And I actually found really interesting in her answer about 759 00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:54,160 Speaker 6: how she choose to help people over anything that she's 760 00:30:54,160 --> 00:30:56,240 Speaker 6: achieved personally is yehally awesome. 761 00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:58,080 Speaker 5: It shows a sort of person she is. 762 00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:00,479 Speaker 6: Yeah, you know, so settled, you want to grow up 763 00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:01,880 Speaker 6: and you want to be Jesse Thornton. 764 00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:05,800 Speaker 5: Right, Well maybe, but there's plenty of other inspiring. 765 00:31:05,320 --> 00:31:07,000 Speaker 3: People who I could be like, Oh, so we're doing 766 00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:07,760 Speaker 3: this again, aren't we? 767 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:09,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, don't forget. 768 00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:11,080 Speaker 4: To like and subscribe or you'll miss out. 769 00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:13,240 Speaker 5: And who the nixt inspiring person could be