WEBVTT - EP 26 - Zarya Ioka

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<v Speaker 1>It's the Flavor podcast network.

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<v Speaker 2>Island Roots Auckland Ways.

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<v Speaker 3>This one's for the Brown brothers and sisters who want

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<v Speaker 3>to be one with themselves, their culture, their identity, their roots.

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<v Speaker 2>This is Island Roots, Auckland Ways.

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<v Speaker 3>Can I start this episode with an impression of you?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, of course? What it is?

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<v Speaker 3>What it be?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay everyone? That was my impression of.

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<v Speaker 3>Marina to start out this week's episode.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, I mean, I must say, I think I sound

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<v Speaker 1>more annoying than that. I don't like the sound of

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<v Speaker 1>my own voice.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you serious? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>I listen to mine, it's like uh, nails on chalkboard.

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<v Speaker 3>But when I listen to yours, I'm like, Wow, someone's

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<v Speaker 3>really changed.

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<v Speaker 2>At Aaron's end, you can.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell welcome to the podcast this week, gir, how are you?

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<v Speaker 2>I am good? I am good.

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<v Speaker 3>I am so excited because today.

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<v Speaker 2>We have on the beautiful Zaria Yoka.

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<v Speaker 3>And she's such a freaking beautiful angel, such a nice

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<v Speaker 3>presence to be around, Like I just want to be

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<v Speaker 3>around it all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. She's calm, she's flowy, she's beautiful, she's beautiful, she's Astana.

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<v Speaker 1>Before we get into the episode, I have three shout

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<v Speaker 1>outs to make two girls that I meet in Wellington

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<v Speaker 1>and my mom graduated. Mia and Sarifa, thank you so

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<v Speaker 1>much for coming up and saying hi. They seen that

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<v Speaker 1>they love to you and Lissa, they say that they

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<v Speaker 1>love you girl. You're the Queen. Miya and Sarifa second

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<v Speaker 1>year law students.

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<v Speaker 4>I believe Good Girls is.

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<v Speaker 1>A third shout out from Milly, who listens every single week.

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<v Speaker 1>Shout out from the germ and actually one of one

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<v Speaker 1>of the gems and REWA.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, oh my gosh, okay, I'm gonna try to find you, Milly.

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<v Speaker 2>What jim are you at?

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<v Speaker 4>Girl?

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<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you off the mic after the episode begins.

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<v Speaker 3>Now, welcome back to another episode of Island Routes kan Ways.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's hear it from our favorite TikTok queen Mom full

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<v Speaker 3>inster and style. I can't Zaria your guy?

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry?

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<v Speaker 5>How are We're feeling great this morning? A little bit

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<v Speaker 5>nervous but feeling good.

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<v Speaker 1>She's feeling nervous, but it's okay. You have nothing to

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<v Speaker 1>be nervous.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually nothing, well actually nobody.

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<v Speaker 2>Like no one must girl.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Zaria, did you get it all right? You're west, saida,

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<v Speaker 1>aren't you? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? How is traffic it was actually there was no traffic.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, it was really good.

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<v Speaker 1>You know how Auckland be Saria. Every episode we share

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<v Speaker 1>what we love about home, So where you currently live,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that time where you were born, where you feel grounded,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever feels to you as home. What is home and

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<v Speaker 1>what do you love about it? We'll start off first,

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<v Speaker 1>and what I love about home this week is being

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<v Speaker 1>able to actually go home because I now flat. I've

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<v Speaker 1>gone flaring so moved out of home. I actually don't

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<v Speaker 1>live that far away from my family home. I live

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<v Speaker 1>like two streets away. So the benefit of that is

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<v Speaker 1>going from the flat to home.

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<v Speaker 2>And your papa cooked for you last night.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I had oca roast garloor. It was just so

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<v Speaker 1>it just yeah, it just hit different not having to cook.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, yes, doing your shopping from your parents' cupboard.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, definitely. Yeah. I took a whole bunch of stuff,

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<v Speaker 1>took that old glass contained meal. Prepping at the moment

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<v Speaker 1>because we're trying to get into seventy five hard girl. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's all going on. What do you love about home, Melissa?

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<v Speaker 3>What I love about home is my dad. I had

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<v Speaker 3>a different answer, but then I just remembered something that

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<v Speaker 3>my dad seemed to me last night. And my dad

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<v Speaker 3>and I we've had a journey. It's been a thing.

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<v Speaker 3>And if you're if you know me personally, you know

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<v Speaker 3>what I mean.

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<v Speaker 2>But he sent me.

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<v Speaker 3>This picture of like a old book he had and

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<v Speaker 3>I had laminated a bunch of prayers and put them

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<v Speaker 3>in this book, and a lot of the prayers speak

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<v Speaker 3>to like peace and justice and love and joy. And

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<v Speaker 3>I just realized, like, damn, I've always been this way.

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<v Speaker 3>I've always been a love of girl. I've always been

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<v Speaker 3>had the sense of like like urgency for peace, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>all these things. And I was like, it just gave

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<v Speaker 3>me so much I don't know. I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>everything's going.

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<v Speaker 2>To be okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Little me knew the things she wanted to value in life,

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<v Speaker 3>and it was just a reminder of how how much

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<v Speaker 3>if it and work my dad and I have put

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<v Speaker 3>into building this really cool relationship that we have now.

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<v Speaker 3>So I love my dad and I love the way

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<v Speaker 3>our relationship has taught me to value things like peace

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<v Speaker 3>and justice and love. So yeah, that's what I love

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<v Speaker 3>about her. This way we love your uncle. Yeah, he's lovely.

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<v Speaker 1>Zaria has been thinking about what she loves about home, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>What is it?

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<v Speaker 5>I am born and raised in west Auckland, so you

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<v Speaker 5>will always have my heart.

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<v Speaker 2>West is best.

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<v Speaker 5>When I think about home, west Auckland, no matter where

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<v Speaker 5>it is, will be my home.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Always.

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<v Speaker 1>Whereabouts are we talking and we say I do Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>As of recently, I've moved Toto Peninsula and that is

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<v Speaker 5>a vibe. But I was born and raised in Hindo,

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<v Speaker 5>so from.

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<v Speaker 1>Hando to tat Okay. I put this on my Instagram

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<v Speaker 1>the other week because we were is it we study?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh we're city and wow.

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<v Speaker 5>You know you know Hindo is meet up central that

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<v Speaker 5>all the meetups went down back in the day.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, what are like three words you would

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<v Speaker 4>use tobscribe Hindus for people like myself who are unfamiliar.

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<v Speaker 2>I would say Hindo is special.

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<v Speaker 5>I would say, honestly it probably couldn't think of any

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<v Speaker 5>other words Hindosindo says you got to experience you.

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<v Speaker 1>Ratchet Okay, Okay, I do agree with that. Ratchet homely

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<v Speaker 1>though in that way, like I truly felt like I

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<v Speaker 1>was back home in South Okay because sometimes when you're

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<v Speaker 1>in some parts of West it's giving us like you

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<v Speaker 1>feel like you're in a different country. It's so big

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<v Speaker 1>and it's so spacious. Yeah, so many suburbs.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>We did go to new Land recently and that was

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<v Speaker 3>an experience.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I feel like New Learner is a bit different.

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<v Speaker 5>But I would say Hindo, like Hindo is a type

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<v Speaker 5>of place you can rock up if you don't feel

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<v Speaker 5>like seeing anyone or being dressed a certain way, like

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<v Speaker 5>if you just want if you just want to go

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<v Speaker 5>and have like when we want butter chicken, or just

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<v Speaker 5>go over to Hindo in any old thing, rock up

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<v Speaker 5>and whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just comfortable.

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<v Speaker 5>It just feels like you're just no one's judging you,

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<v Speaker 5>like everyone's on.

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<v Speaker 1>The same level. Yeah, I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>It's great.

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<v Speaker 1>Great is my favorite.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't do it because it's it's done so much

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<v Speaker 2>for me.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, exactly, It's built you grow.

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking about this on my radio show because

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking about the occasion that I went out

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<v Speaker 1>to we City and someone from we Stalkland was like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>you're judging so hard. And I'm like, I'm literally from

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<v Speaker 1>the getto myself. It's not act like I live in Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm from Yeah, I'm well, you stalk yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm did. I never take it personally.

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<v Speaker 5>I always felt it's crack up it is, but I

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<v Speaker 5>feel like, yeah, it is what it is, but it's

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<v Speaker 5>it's special.

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<v Speaker 1>So I want to try the butter chicken from Slaps.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, can you take us on like a tour around side?

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<v Speaker 1>So this is where meet up.

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<v Speaker 5>Were being happy to do meet ups at hindos. So

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<v Speaker 5>we've like got certain spots around that more that signify.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so good.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, well, I guess the place that most people would

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<v Speaker 3>know you from is TikTok.

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<v Speaker 2>So let's talk about it. Girl.

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<v Speaker 3>You create like these iconic daily blog videos, share your

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<v Speaker 3>beautiful family with us, and your medicine studies because soon

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<v Speaker 3>to be ductor how did you get your start on TikTok?

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<v Speaker 3>Like how did you decide that? Yeah, I'm gonna start

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<v Speaker 3>posting daily blogs.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I feel like I've always I know everyone says this,

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<v Speaker 5>but I've always liked making videos. I used to make,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, like what's it called music videos and skits

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<v Speaker 5>on windows?

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<v Speaker 2>Movie making?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, like film on my mom's camera and then upload

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<v Speaker 5>it and then edit and everything. So all my close

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<v Speaker 5>friends and family, I'm a video girl Love. I think

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<v Speaker 5>it was when me and my husband got married. I

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<v Speaker 5>just ended up posting a couple of snippets, and then

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<v Speaker 5>I think that's when I started getting a little bit

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<v Speaker 5>of a following, which made it easier to launch, and

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<v Speaker 5>followed you yes yes, commenting on one of my videos,

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<v Speaker 5>and that's when I think I started posting. When I

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<v Speaker 5>found out I was having my son, and I started

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<v Speaker 5>posting more vlogs. Yeah, but I did actually post a

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<v Speaker 5>couple of years ago when I did first Year, but

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<v Speaker 5>they were so cringe and I deleted them. But I

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<v Speaker 5>actually I had previously vlogged, but they were so cringey.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, So you followed me on Instagram and I

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<v Speaker 3>was like instant follow back ter I had seen you

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<v Speaker 3>on my for you page, and then I think we

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<v Speaker 3>followed each other on TikTok. But I treat my TikTok

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<v Speaker 3>like a close friends, like the friends only goes off

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<v Speaker 3>for me, And that was one thing that was really

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, sorry, I was gonna see I'm a

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<v Speaker 3>fucking freak. She's gonna see all my lane videos. Who

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<v Speaker 3>is this girl?

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<v Speaker 1>So it's comforting to.

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<v Speaker 3>Know that you also think some of your old content

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<v Speaker 3>is a little bit cringe.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I think we all treat our tech talk like

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<v Speaker 2>a close friends.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I know I feel that way about myself as well.

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<v Speaker 5>But no, I think I love following so many different

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<v Speaker 5>people on TikTok, especially if I see people make effort

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<v Speaker 5>to make content. I really try my best to follow

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<v Speaker 5>back regardless because I feel like I've been shown so

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<v Speaker 5>much kindness in the industry. I do my best to

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<v Speaker 5>try and yeah, give it back.

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<v Speaker 3>Are there some people on TikTok who you really look

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<v Speaker 3>up to?

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<v Speaker 2>Like who like TikTok icons for you? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>I love Jane Ju and she recently followed me back,

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<v Speaker 5>and I was like fangirl moment because I've loved her

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<v Speaker 5>for years. But she would be my favorite, I would say,

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<v Speaker 5>and then Sam, but she's one of my friends. Also,

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<v Speaker 5>Miss Richard's oh teacher.

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<v Speaker 2>I think she's so we're both swift.

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<v Speaker 1>She's the school teacher.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she's so cool. Oh my god, what an icon?

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<v Speaker 2>He yes she is. That's crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Man, you're so personable and friendly. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you're like the You're the happy girl, lucky girl of TikTok,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know TikTok if you like and we know

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<v Speaker 1>from putting our show videos on our page. Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>kind of liked and we kind of not, like, are.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys not liked? I didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it comes. I think people hate to see

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<v Speaker 3>brown people winning. Yeah, I think there is a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of what it is and not an elitist, but sometimes

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, you just fucking wish she had a podcast.

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's the problem. Or you just kept someone

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<v Speaker 3>in a bad day and they like, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh no, I feel that biggest haters for me. I

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<v Speaker 3>feel like the ones that hate or that I felt

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<v Speaker 3>like have hated on me is because they want to

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<v Speaker 3>start a tech talk and comfortable enough in their own

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<v Speaker 3>skin to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so that's on them.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, exactly. I remember I remember following you when you

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<v Speaker 1>got married, when you're still zaria Fa. Yes, yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>think I might be related to you because we've got

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<v Speaker 1>some related Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's hard. Yeah, that's so. Yeah, that's my dad's side.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow offers.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that was a big one for me changing my

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<v Speaker 5>last name, but happy to rip my hobby.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you disc that medicine was the right study

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<v Speaker 1>route for you? Was it always medicine going into Uni.

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<v Speaker 5>So in high school I did science and and year

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<v Speaker 5>ten I did Wow. So I was like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 5>always wanted to be a forensic scientist growing up because

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<v Speaker 5>my mum used to watch CSI her shows.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to do that, that's me.

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<v Speaker 5>And then I did science, did well in that, and

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, oh, you know what, maybe I might

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<v Speaker 5>try and be a doctor. And yeah, that was my

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<v Speaker 5>moment of realization.

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<v Speaker 1>And that was it. When did you enroll into university?

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<v Speaker 1>And how was that first year of met? Because I

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<v Speaker 1>had that's quite hard.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's traumatizing. I came back when I was twenty three.

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<v Speaker 5>I came back, so I had live life a little bit,

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<v Speaker 5>had my daughter, worked a full time job, and then

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<v Speaker 5>I hated my job so much. I was working at

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<v Speaker 5>Winds working in pump Wow. And it was because I

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<v Speaker 5>hated my job. No, I was like on the phones.

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<v Speaker 5>I was a CSR.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, but it taught me a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>That job taught me a lot. And so my husband

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<v Speaker 5>actually and that. Yeah, so he went back and I

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<v Speaker 5>was like, hey, like, how can you go back when

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<v Speaker 5>we have like a kid.

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<v Speaker 2>That's strange. But then he got interesting decision making.

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<v Speaker 5>I was like, okay, like because you know my family,

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<v Speaker 5>my mom's like, you know, being a mom is you know,

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<v Speaker 5>really important? That should be priority. So I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I'd ridden off my dream. And then yeah, I saw

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<v Speaker 5>my husband do it, and I was like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 5>why not give it a crack. So I went back

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<v Speaker 5>the year after him and then got in as well.

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<v Speaker 5>So yeah, I was happy about that.

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<v Speaker 1>Awesome. How is studying medicine I imagine it would I've

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<v Speaker 1>studying hid in the box?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, yeah, I think it is.

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<v Speaker 5>It is a hard degree, I would say, but I

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<v Speaker 5>would say it's doable. Like I think people have this

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<v Speaker 5>real idea of medicine that you can't have a life,

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<v Speaker 5>you can't do this and there, and it's just all

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<v Speaker 5>your head in the books.

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<v Speaker 2>It's really not.

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<v Speaker 5>If you look at me and my husband and we

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<v Speaker 5>are very relaxed with it. And I think if you're

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<v Speaker 5>just smart about approaching the degree and knowing what you

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<v Speaker 5>need to study, I think it's fine.

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<v Speaker 1>Maori Pacific mid students.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so I think I believe about each of the

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<v Speaker 5>cohorts have about twenty percent Maldi and PACIFICA.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, that's good. Does it feel nice to have

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<v Speaker 1>some sort of camaraderie and amongst the cohort.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it does. I personally am not on campus much

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<v Speaker 5>to know. I've personally just want it more efficient for

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<v Speaker 5>me to study at home because of pick up and

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<v Speaker 5>drop off of my daughter. So I'll just go on

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<v Speaker 5>when I have like labs or something compulsory.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, that makes a lot of sense.

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<v Speaker 3>I also found that when I was on campus, because

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<v Speaker 3>I'm such a yeaper girl, I just want to know

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<v Speaker 3>what everyone else is up to, and then by the

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<v Speaker 3>end of the day no energy to do my own

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<v Speaker 3>work because I just spent the whole day talking socializement.

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<v Speaker 3>Buy meal, you love a budget meal? Can you meals

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<v Speaker 3>so they don't existing women? I think that is what

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<v Speaker 3>we're so in first year when we went howling, like

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<v Speaker 3>twenty eighteen, twenty nineteen was our first year, six dollars

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<v Speaker 3>fifty from any spot on campus got you a budgy meal.

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<v Speaker 3>So we always go to Gorilla Dumplings and get six

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<v Speaker 3>doors fifty and it was like ten dumplings.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeap leather with chili oil, soy sauce, have it and

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<v Speaker 1>Albert Park breakfast.

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<v Speaker 3>Lunch and dinner quite literally anything.

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<v Speaker 2>But to be fair, I'm on Grafton, so I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know the rules.

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<v Speaker 5>It's different and we don't have we only have like

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<v Speaker 5>one cafe and then Saint Pierres across the road.

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<v Speaker 2>Which also takes out to pay. Did you know that

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<v Speaker 2>I did not?

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<v Speaker 3>Sames takes after same per takes after pay.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, I'm sorry if you're needing to after pay sat

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<v Speaker 1>prs walk girl.

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<v Speaker 4>Have you after paid ps? One day I did after paid.

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<v Speaker 4>I bought okay, what I bought lunch for everyone?

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<v Speaker 3>It worked okay, and I after paid the whole lunch,

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<v Speaker 3>mother to mother to resard myself. No, I think I

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<v Speaker 3>after paid like a booty band once that was like

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<v Speaker 3>twenty bucks, like five bucks. I definitely after like because

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<v Speaker 3>the warehouse takes after paying.

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<v Speaker 2>I deal to pay something.

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<v Speaker 3>Put it on the on the payment is like adult

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<v Speaker 3>put that out.

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<v Speaker 1>Actually for the for the plot, let's get into this

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<v Speaker 1>love story. Girl, did you and your husband meet? What

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<v Speaker 1>is the tea from? After paid?

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<v Speaker 5>We met playing under sixteen tag, so we played all

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<v Speaker 5>met at the World Cup, both ripping ins in but

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<v Speaker 5>no it was yeah everyone that child made the team

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<v Speaker 5>so and he just he was on crutches, so he

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<v Speaker 5>was injured. After our final against Australia and he just

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<v Speaker 5>crushed up to me and asked how it went.

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<v Speaker 1>And the history together.

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<v Speaker 3>How did you know he was like the one? Because

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<v Speaker 3>I think this is something I'm struggling.

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<v Speaker 1>With because you were married, that's like nick level.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to be honest.

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<v Speaker 5>I think I loved him from the go. I was

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<v Speaker 5>like you are you are my guy. But I think

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<v Speaker 5>for us to mutually agree on that was like a process.

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<v Speaker 5>So yeah, so yeah, lovers lover is love.

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<v Speaker 1>Love is wild, especially young love while you're trying to

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<v Speaker 1>come to terms with your guys individual identities and through

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<v Speaker 1>high school and stuff. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I think I think what people see on tektok is

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<v Speaker 5>only where we are now. But I feel like it

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<v Speaker 5>was definitely a journey and we did have to navigate

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<v Speaker 5>things that you do go through when you're young. Yeah

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<v Speaker 5>my hand, when you're a twelve y Yes, I mean

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<v Speaker 5>looking back now, what do seventeen year olds know about

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<v Speaker 5>being together?

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<v Speaker 2>It's a massive commitment.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so yeah, I would say that it took me

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<v Speaker 5>a lot of years of maturity to understand that. But

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<v Speaker 5>I think trying to find your independence and mature when

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<v Speaker 5>you're in a relationship is different, Like takes a different

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<v Speaker 5>type of like when you're as opposed to when you're single,

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<v Speaker 5>you don't. You kind of have to really prioritize that

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<v Speaker 5>if you want to get there. Yeah, so that's been

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<v Speaker 5>a journey as well being more independent and yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah that's something that I feel like I'm almost too

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<v Speaker 3>independent now.

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<v Speaker 2>Like that's great.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's also a really great thing. But then like

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<v Speaker 3>I'll go on dates with people and I only ask

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<v Speaker 3>them questions about themselves, and they like, I don't often

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<v Speaker 3>give them the space to ask me anything, which is

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<v Speaker 3>not a thing. But then also like I'll be with

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<v Speaker 3>a guy and he'll go to open the door for me,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm like, what the what the.

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<v Speaker 2>Fuck do you think you're doing?

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm like, oh, I'm actually being rude because I

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<v Speaker 3>need to let him show me that care and attention.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm almost flip side of that. Yeah, but two

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<v Speaker 3>single ladies with it.

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<v Speaker 5>But I think when you work so hard to get

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<v Speaker 5>everything you have, you're not just gonna let some dusty ass.

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<v Speaker 3>It's also very, very, very true because.

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<v Speaker 5>I tell my sister the same thing. She's on the

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<v Speaker 5>same journey. She's so accomplished, she's studying full time working

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<v Speaker 5>full time, got her own apartment, she's she's a dog

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<v Speaker 5>mom and I that's what I mean. And I see,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm like, why would you lower that standard for anyone period?

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<v Speaker 5>So yeah, but I do feel for you guys, because

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<v Speaker 5>I think that some of the males here and orkand

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<v Speaker 5>are just trash.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna be honest, and you would be correct.

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<v Speaker 2>I've heard as well.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, a lot of that is a very accurate opinion.

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<v Speaker 1>And lucky for you, you don't got to worry about

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<v Speaker 1>all of them. Being a young mama, what advice would

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<v Speaker 1>you give to other young moms. What were the emotions

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<v Speaker 1>you were going through, and how's your experience being a mom?

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<v Speaker 1>First to your daughter, Shiloh.

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<v Speaker 5>I think with Shy, because I had her when I

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<v Speaker 5>was nineteen, I think I was navigating being a teen mom.

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<v Speaker 2>And also I lived at home.

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<v Speaker 5>I still live at home with my parents, so and

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<v Speaker 5>my parents they're so hands on, like they love their grandbabies.

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<v Speaker 5>They're very like they're the apple of their eyes kind

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<v Speaker 5>of thing. So I think for me, I didn't really

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<v Speaker 5>grow up when I had Shy. I was still kind

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<v Speaker 5>of like it's like we're sisters. And I think to

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<v Speaker 5>this day sometimes I find it tricky navigating her world.

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<v Speaker 5>So I went on a school trip with her recently,

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<v Speaker 5>and I think I just felt like a teen mom still.

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<v Speaker 5>Even though I am like an older mom, you still

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<v Speaker 5>kind of against the moms that of, you know, the

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<v Speaker 5>kids that are her age group. I think I still

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<v Speaker 5>feel young and incompetent sometimes.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, that's something we were talking to Jordan with

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<v Speaker 3>the WI about, is the sense of like imposter syndrome.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you almost get in post syndrome as a mum?

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<v Speaker 2>Definitely, Yeah, definitely.

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<v Speaker 5>I think with Houston, because I was older and it

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<v Speaker 5>was obviously expected, Yeah, I was like, you know, I

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<v Speaker 5>know what I'm getting in for, and as he's gone

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<v Speaker 5>through his milestones, I grew with him. But with Shiloh,

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<v Speaker 5>honestly me, I was taking her out to the driving

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<v Speaker 5>range with me and my friends at like two am.

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<v Speaker 5>We were making the track out south from West Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I love it. No carsie, We're just being in the

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<v Speaker 2>back seat jamming.

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<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 5>That's the thing I feel like when you're young, you

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<v Speaker 5>don't really know. Well, me I was, I was really immature.

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<v Speaker 5>So I feel like I have grown up with her,

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<v Speaker 5>like as we've kind of been like sisters. So I

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<v Speaker 5>feel like I'm learning to navigate, to have more confidence

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<v Speaker 5>in myself and just yeah, that's why I went on

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<v Speaker 5>her school trip to try and you know, connect with

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<v Speaker 5>her and get more into her world.

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<v Speaker 2>And those parents.

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<v Speaker 5>Word, it's a bit scary, but what a courageous Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>it is really scary. It's not so it's as scary.

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<v Speaker 5>It's not so much to go. I meant like, you

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<v Speaker 5>feel like the small talk with other parents. I don't

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<v Speaker 5>know if that's common knowledge, but I feel like I

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<v Speaker 5>find that so like I roll my eyes every time

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<v Speaker 5>I have something like I have to if I have

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<v Speaker 5>to take her somewhere.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you don't know that you have to

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<v Speaker 2>actually talk with other parents.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and when your social battery is gone after a

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<v Speaker 5>long day, all you want to do is just go

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<v Speaker 5>and watch your cad, like when I took her to

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<v Speaker 5>dance and everything. But you're chatting on the sideline with

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<v Speaker 5>like other parents who are nosy a if, so you know,

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<v Speaker 5>you're kind of almost like if you don't know how

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<v Speaker 5>to navigate those situations, you're almost just giving.

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<v Speaker 2>Your life story to them. Yeah, just because they're so

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<v Speaker 2>nosy where we live.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, anyway, now, I think that that sounds like a

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<v Speaker 3>pretty accurate description of a lot of parents out there.

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<v Speaker 3>And I think also people love to gossip and they

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<v Speaker 3>just want to know what's happening in your life, so

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<v Speaker 3>they can probably feel bit about this.

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<v Speaker 2>You're perfectly honest, definitely.

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<v Speaker 3>But like I can imagine that the small talk, even

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<v Speaker 3>sometimes when I have small talk with that older people

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<v Speaker 3>just like, oh, you really don't understand what it's like

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<v Speaker 3>to be me, and I also don't understand what it's

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<v Speaker 3>like to be you, And that is totally fine, but

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<v Speaker 3>why are you coming up with my girl talking shit?

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<v Speaker 5>Like Yeah, a hundred percent. I think our generations like

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<v Speaker 5>a bit different, So trying to connect with some of

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<v Speaker 5>some of them are great, the ones that are willing

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<v Speaker 5>to like come down and meet you where you are.

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<v Speaker 5>But the ones that are just set in their ways,

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<v Speaker 5>I feel like it makes it a bit hard to

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<v Speaker 5>connect with, you know. Yeah, and parenting styles also have

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<v Speaker 5>changed a lot, Oh yeah, I feel so they're probably

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<v Speaker 5>like I don't know, people just have a lot of

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<v Speaker 5>very intense opinions about how you should parent your child,

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<v Speaker 5>for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, on there have people tried to give you unsolicited

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<v Speaker 1>parenting advice before.

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<v Speaker 5>No, honestly, only from only my mom my heart. I

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<v Speaker 5>will take it from her any day because she has

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<v Speaker 5>done so much for me and especially my kids.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't I could.

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<v Speaker 5>I wouldn't be able to get through mid school without

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<v Speaker 5>the support of my parents. So she can have all

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<v Speaker 5>the opinions she wants. We've gotten into it many times.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, would you say you're more of a gentle

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<v Speaker 3>parent or a bit more direct?

0:24:13.960 --> 0:24:15.159
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm a gentle parent.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I think I always get told that I could be

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<v Speaker 5>a bit stricter and discipline a little bit more. But

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<v Speaker 5>I definitely believe my daughter and I have conversations. We're

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<v Speaker 5>very conversational, and she's very much me. Starts like parenting myself.

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<v Speaker 3>So what role has your cultural background like played in

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<v Speaker 3>your journey? I guess, you know, with the whole parenting thing,

0:24:33.400 --> 0:24:36.680
<v Speaker 3>you really it's not going to be like a lot of.

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<v Speaker 5>I would say, honestly, I would say that when I

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<v Speaker 5>went to UNI and learned about you know, how they

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<v Speaker 5>kind of teach you about racism and how it can

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<v Speaker 5>look differently, I think I started to look at take

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<v Speaker 5>a hard look at myself and see where I gotten

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<v Speaker 5>some of these ideas from and then I think I

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<v Speaker 5>started shifting my mindset to start admiring and looking up

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<v Speaker 5>to brown women and seeing them as cool. And then

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<v Speaker 5>I think ever since then, I felt like I felt

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<v Speaker 5>most confident in myself or more comfortable in my skin.

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<v Speaker 5>So yeah, I'd say that was a big one for me.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that going to UNI was a huge part

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<v Speaker 3>of my journey as well, like studying Pacific studies. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I think even just during one class really just opened

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<v Speaker 3>up my mind and I had had to learn to

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<v Speaker 3>be proud of my son wornness through experiences of racism,

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<v Speaker 3>so to go to UNI and finally learn to be

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<v Speaker 3>proud because of the epic things that our ancestors went through,

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<v Speaker 3>like that was that was so affirming. Yeah, and I

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<v Speaker 3>like I will always be like education is really important,

0:25:42.119 --> 0:25:44.760
<v Speaker 3>Like going to UNI, especially as a Pacific person, to

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<v Speaker 3>break those cycles is really important. It's not for everyone,

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<v Speaker 3>but if you are academic minded or into that, I

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<v Speaker 3>really do want to push people in that direction.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I agree completely.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well, you do so many You do so many things,

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<v Speaker 3>being a mom, being a wife. East to see you

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<v Speaker 3>to see what are some of the things that you

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<v Speaker 3>do to show up for yourself and really feel like yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>I was actually thinking of this question, and I think

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<v Speaker 3>every day, one thing I do, like it's a non negotiable.

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<v Speaker 3>It's the only thing I do that's non negotiable every

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<v Speaker 3>day is have a morning shower.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm a morning shower person always, so I was thinking

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<v Speaker 5>about it and realistically, it's the only thing that will

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<v Speaker 5>be reliable for me every single day.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep.

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<v Speaker 5>So yeah, that would be my way of showing up

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<v Speaker 5>for myself realistically.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. And its taking a moment to just like really

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<v Speaker 2>clean yourself.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and being real like when you have like just

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<v Speaker 5>normal life, it's hard to try and set self care time,

0:26:41.400 --> 0:26:45.200
<v Speaker 5>even though that is important. But for every day, definitely

0:26:45.440 --> 0:26:49.280
<v Speaker 5>having my morning shower, I think about the day, are

0:26:49.280 --> 0:26:52.399
<v Speaker 5>head and just even just it feels nice. Yeah, And

0:26:52.480 --> 0:26:56.040
<v Speaker 5>it makes me feel clean to start my day so fresh.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>What is your non negotiable, Melissa?

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<v Speaker 2>Every Day my non negotiable.

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<v Speaker 3>I really love. I mean it's not always a non negotiable,

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<v Speaker 3>but I do love to be in bed for like

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<v Speaker 3>at least an hour before I actually have to go

0:27:12.480 --> 0:27:16.239
<v Speaker 3>to sleep. Like there's something about like settling down, like

0:27:16.560 --> 0:27:20.439
<v Speaker 3>closing the day, cleaning my room, rotting jing out and

0:27:20.520 --> 0:27:23.520
<v Speaker 3>the bed and like just watching something. It could be

0:27:23.560 --> 0:27:26.080
<v Speaker 3>like one or two episodes of any show and I

0:27:26.080 --> 0:27:27.880
<v Speaker 3>don't even actually have to be watching it. I could

0:27:27.880 --> 0:27:30.960
<v Speaker 3>be on TikTok. Yeah, but that is the non negotiable,

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<v Speaker 3>I think, Yeah, what.

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<v Speaker 1>About you morning shower? Yes, okay, I.

0:27:36.280 --> 0:27:39.359
<v Speaker 3>Would say night shower. Then that's a negoiable, A night shower,

0:27:39.400 --> 0:27:40.160
<v Speaker 3>A night shower girl.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, so do you feel clean when you wake up

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<v Speaker 2>in the morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I do, but there are times where, especially in summer,

0:27:49.480 --> 0:27:51.040
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, let's just have another shower.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I always feel just grows when I wake up in

0:27:54.119 --> 0:27:56.280
<v Speaker 5>the morning, like I need a shower. Yeah, I don't know,

0:27:56.520 --> 0:27:58.880
<v Speaker 5>but I've always wandered with the nighttime girlies, the ones

0:27:58.880 --> 0:28:01.720
<v Speaker 5>that prefer and don't need a morning shower.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you just feel fresh when you wake up? I

0:28:03.280 --> 0:28:03.679
<v Speaker 2>think I do.

0:28:03.840 --> 0:28:05.760
<v Speaker 3>Just feel fresh when I wake up, brush my hair,

0:28:05.800 --> 0:28:07.720
<v Speaker 3>and then I'm good to go obviously make up and

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<v Speaker 3>out everything else.

0:28:08.960 --> 0:28:11.159
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, I have to do both.

0:28:11.640 --> 0:28:13.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, do you shower both?

0:28:13.240 --> 0:28:13.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, stinky book, But.

0:28:18.280 --> 0:28:20.040
<v Speaker 1>When you go to an all boys high school, like

0:28:20.440 --> 0:28:22.800
<v Speaker 1>You'm got to make sure your ass is clean. I

0:28:22.840 --> 0:28:25.359
<v Speaker 1>don't want any of that coming back to you. I

0:28:25.400 --> 0:28:28.040
<v Speaker 1>would have to say a really made bed, like I

0:28:28.080 --> 0:28:32.280
<v Speaker 1>can't leave home without my bed having been made, Okay,

0:28:32.480 --> 0:28:33.600
<v Speaker 1>I just feel incomplete.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I am definitely like a Sunday reset person or

0:28:37.760 --> 0:28:42.200
<v Speaker 3>like a Yeah, I would say, like a Sunday night reset,

0:28:42.680 --> 0:28:44.120
<v Speaker 3>get a hit for the week, and then that's when

0:28:44.120 --> 0:28:47.160
<v Speaker 3>I like, change my sheets, oh yeah, make my bed properly,

0:28:47.400 --> 0:28:50.640
<v Speaker 3>clean up my makeup area, and then the room was

0:28:50.680 --> 0:28:53.080
<v Speaker 3>like sit up, all good for the week. Yeah, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>that's nice.

0:28:54.320 --> 0:28:54.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:28:54.840 --> 0:28:56.480
<v Speaker 5>Do you feel like it stays kind of set up

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<v Speaker 5>until the next Sunday or do you have a lot

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<v Speaker 5>to do?

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<v Speaker 4>Nah?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think it stays set up.

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<v Speaker 3>And I'm also such a fashion girly that I have

0:29:03.720 --> 0:29:07.800
<v Speaker 3>to try on like outfits at least four times that

0:29:07.880 --> 0:29:10.920
<v Speaker 3>I was for the day. So there's just ship everywhere. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>that's my room.

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<v Speaker 1>And on that note, let's go to Our Rapid Fire.

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<v Speaker 1>Our Rapid Fire a game that we have for you, Zaria.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't have enough time to load on the audio,

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<v Speaker 1>so we.

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<v Speaker 3>Can sing it for you. Yeah, three two one.

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<v Speaker 1>These are a few love my favorite things, basically just

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<v Speaker 1>your favorites.

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<v Speaker 3>From these different categories. Okay, so rapid fire, think of

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<v Speaker 3>whatever your favorite clothing brand is.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, I've got it. Yeah yeah, okay, girls, I

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<v Speaker 2>do love girls. I want to be an Earl's girl.

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<v Speaker 5>I just want to say I from their first collection,

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<v Speaker 5>like okay, and when they had only a couple of

0:29:53.720 --> 0:29:56.680
<v Speaker 5>hundred followers of that, I was like in their comments

0:29:56.720 --> 0:30:01.720
<v Speaker 5>tagging hobby, I think they did like a giveaway American brand. No,

0:30:01.880 --> 0:30:06.200
<v Speaker 5>I think they're Australian. But I think Louis or Lewis

0:30:06.480 --> 0:30:09.880
<v Speaker 5>the guy cut that out. Well, he was like from

0:30:10.400 --> 0:30:12.040
<v Speaker 5>he played in n r L and then he went

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<v Speaker 5>over top.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he was a key with appeared a partner.

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<v Speaker 3>They did the Essex Yes Essex collection. Yea, I love

0:30:23.720 --> 0:30:25.800
<v Speaker 3>those shoes, but they were so expensive.

0:30:27.400 --> 0:30:29.960
<v Speaker 2>I die for a period of those literally.

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<v Speaker 5>But yeah, I feel like to have like a strong

0:30:33.080 --> 0:30:36.880
<v Speaker 5>shoe game, you got to have supporting clothes and budget could.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It was from the shorts, yeah, like everyone's copy them. Yeah,

0:30:46.760 --> 0:30:48.840
<v Speaker 1>but it was only through your tiktoks that I found

0:30:48.840 --> 0:30:50.960
<v Speaker 1>out that it was actually did other pieces of clothing.

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<v Speaker 5>It was just sure, yeah famous through their shorts a way.

0:30:56.360 --> 0:30:59.840
<v Speaker 5>They one of the first to do that basketball short vibe.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I remember this gray jumper with the matching

0:31:03.080 --> 0:31:05.000
<v Speaker 3>shorts that I really wanted. It must have been in

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<v Speaker 3>twenty nineteen.

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<v Speaker 2>I think everyone had it, but I was like, I

0:31:08.320 --> 0:31:09.480
<v Speaker 2>want that jumping up.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, yeah, I think I went to a six sixty

0:31:12.960 --> 0:31:15.000
<v Speaker 5>concert and they're earl shorts and it wasn't when it

0:31:15.080 --> 0:31:16.360
<v Speaker 5>was mainstream.

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<v Speaker 2>Year, and I was like, yeah, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>These are my favorite. It's from the set of music.

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<v Speaker 3>It is, Yeah, your favorite, mum essential. It could be

0:31:34.080 --> 0:31:35.520
<v Speaker 3>a thing, it could be a routine.

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<v Speaker 5>Probably the Swiss ball. That's how I rocked my kids

0:31:41.320 --> 0:31:44.400
<v Speaker 5>to sleep. It's very bad, but the house when you

0:31:44.480 --> 0:31:47.240
<v Speaker 5>don't want to rock them stands because you get them

0:31:47.320 --> 0:31:49.880
<v Speaker 5>used to doing that, to like being bounced.

0:31:49.880 --> 0:31:50.840
<v Speaker 2>You set them up and.

0:31:50.760 --> 0:31:52.760
<v Speaker 1>Then they weren't going to sleep. Yeah any other way.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it was a joke when my second one came

0:31:54.600 --> 0:31:56.480
<v Speaker 5>that we were going to throw the Swiss ball out Poppet.

0:31:57.280 --> 0:31:59.680
<v Speaker 5>It didn't get It's still on my blogs.

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<v Speaker 2>You'll see it on the back of my love that

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<v Speaker 2>I love that. That's the purpose of that.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, wow, I didn't know that. It's like

0:32:07.320 --> 0:32:09.680
<v Speaker 3>I have to listen to as full of sleep. It's

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<v Speaker 3>like one of those things you have to do stuff regulate.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, are a.

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<v Speaker 1>Few favorite things, and we really don't need audio.

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<v Speaker 3>Your favorite sum one food gallow for sure, you girl,

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<v Speaker 3>not funny noll? Yeah, no, no, gallow for sure. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>my dad's big on the bananas, but it's just not

0:32:34.000 --> 0:32:34.440
<v Speaker 3>really for me.

0:32:35.560 --> 0:32:37.120
<v Speaker 1>The sweetness I can taste.

0:32:38.000 --> 0:32:41.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what about you? Yeah, I like.

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<v Speaker 1>Hang out.

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<v Speaker 3>My favorite coffee order. Okay, yes, this is what I

0:32:58.480 --> 0:32:59.360
<v Speaker 3>wanted to ask you about.

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<v Speaker 2>Wet.

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<v Speaker 3>You're a nice letter and you just have regular milk

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<v Speaker 3>up with it.

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<v Speaker 2>I know.

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<v Speaker 5>I used to do the whole oat milk and stuff

0:33:05.560 --> 0:33:10.960
<v Speaker 5>to be special. I did, and then I was like,

0:33:10.960 --> 0:33:12.360
<v Speaker 5>you know what, I love regular milk, so.

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<v Speaker 3>You don't have tummy problems like me.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I love it for you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'm a dairy girl. I love cheese milk cream.

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<v Speaker 3>There is such a flick to be like, yeah, just

0:33:21.920 --> 0:33:23.840
<v Speaker 3>regular milk. Thanks, it's as the cheapest.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I love regular milk, so yeah, I'm jealous.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Last one my favorite and things. Okay, we don't know

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<v Speaker 3>if we've phrased this correctly, but meat specialization. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>because there's something in the medicine area that you're like, Nah,

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<v Speaker 3>I think that's the one I want to do.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I want to be a GP So I like

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<v Speaker 5>the idea of having my own little clinic and actually

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<v Speaker 5>talking with my patients and building relationship.

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<v Speaker 1>I've always wanted to.

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<v Speaker 5>Do that, so I hope that that stays with me

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<v Speaker 5>after I do my placements and everything.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Watch, once you start up your little I will enroll

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<v Speaker 1>me too.

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<v Speaker 2>Love it. Please take good care of you guys. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you've been Thank you so much for coming on. Queen.

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<v Speaker 3>We are with you, and we were saying before you

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<v Speaker 3>came on, we really do feel like we already know you,

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<v Speaker 3>but this is just the first time we've met, so

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<v Speaker 3>this is so exciting.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you so much. You guys are welcome. I feel

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<v Speaker 5>like I know you guys. Honestly, just been cackling before.

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<v Speaker 1>The podcast your heroes as Luscious in your life appears

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<v Speaker 1>so long.

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<v Speaker 2>Day five. Don't look closely. Oh my gosh, wait.

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<v Speaker 1>Before we go, do you naturally have straight hair?

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<v Speaker 2>No? No, no, no is crazy.

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<v Speaker 5>It's it used to be curly, but with all the

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<v Speaker 5>heat I've applied over the years, I've just damaged it.

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<v Speaker 5>And I also used to bleach at hard Out like

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<v Speaker 5>color a lot. Yeah, I see those photos.

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<v Speaker 1>One of them, one of them. It's Relic.

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<v Speaker 3>I love, I love. But where can the people find you?

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<v Speaker 2>Huh?

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<v Speaker 5>TikTok at my TikTok a Yeah, oh Saria Yoka underscore,

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<v Speaker 5>I think maybe Yeah, the same on Instagram. Yeah, the

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<v Speaker 5>same love, and you can probably also find her on

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<v Speaker 5>the West side somewhere. You always probably won't recognize me though.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, Soria, We love you. We'll catch you next

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<v Speaker 1>week on Island Talkland Ways we must have some drinkings

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<v Speaker 1>and Houston being babysit.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so excited. Okay, find us on TikTok Instagram.

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<v Speaker 1>Leve you guys, Bye bye,