WEBVTT - Looking at the World Differently with Ethically Kate 

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<v Speaker 1>With the Heads Podcast Network. Hi, and welcome back to

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<v Speaker 1>another episode of Slow It Down. I am your host,

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<v Speaker 1>PJ Harding, and this podcast is all about finding peace

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<v Speaker 1>in the chaos, ways that we can find a little

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<v Speaker 1>more sanity in this wild world that we're living in.

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<v Speaker 1>Every week I'm joined by a new guest who, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I think we'll bring to the table some inspiration with

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<v Speaker 1>how they live their life, and today is no exception.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm joined by Kate Hall, who is the genius behind

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<v Speaker 1>Ethically Kate. You may have seen her online. She is

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<v Speaker 1>an educator, writer, and content creator who advocates for living

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<v Speaker 1>and decision making that respects people and the planet. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's really easy to feel intimidated by people such

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<v Speaker 1>as Kate who come out and put their voice behind

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<v Speaker 1>sustainability in the environment, because you're always like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I could be doing wavyr there. So I'm really honest

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<v Speaker 1>about that with her in this conversation, and it's interesting

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<v Speaker 1>how she delves into the responsibility that she's felt on

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<v Speaker 1>her shoulders being a voice for the environment. In this conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>we talk about how she slows it down, how important

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<v Speaker 1>nature is, the beautiful rituals that she and her family

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<v Speaker 1>do to spice up life, to get out of ruts.

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<v Speaker 1>I really really enjoyed this conversation with Kate, and I

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<v Speaker 1>hope you do too. Thank you so much for coming

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<v Speaker 1>on today. Okay, it's so nice to meet you in person. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you too, you too?

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<v Speaker 2>What is background?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you? Oh my god, don't look at the plant.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not doing well. First of all, how are you, like,

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<v Speaker 1>how is life going at the moment? Have you go

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<v Speaker 1>a lot on lots of projects in the works, Like

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<v Speaker 1>how does life look for ethically Kate? At the moment?

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<v Speaker 2>Hmmm, I'm like preparing? Is it too echoe in here?

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<v Speaker 2>Does it sound echoey?

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<v Speaker 1>It's fine at less you've got another I mean it's

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<v Speaker 1>probably fine. I feel like we never it's through zone,

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<v Speaker 1>can sound a bit echo. That's probably fine.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>At the moment, I feel like, so we have a

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<v Speaker 3>long term houseit and that is really lovely.

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<v Speaker 2>For about seven months we settle in and this has

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<v Speaker 2>been in our rhythm for the last two years going

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<v Speaker 2>on three years. And so now now.

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<v Speaker 3>We're in the final kind of four weeks of packing

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<v Speaker 3>up and ready to be like transient again. So life

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<v Speaker 3>is a bit like yeah, just I think like mentally

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<v Speaker 3>physically just gearing.

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<v Speaker 2>Up to pack up our stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we work that out and just kind of sought

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<v Speaker 3>life and sort a lot of stuff, do a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of deep cleaning, prepare the house before the owners come back,

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<v Speaker 3>and then yeah, be a lot more transient again.

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<v Speaker 1>So when you say transient, do you may staying at

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<v Speaker 1>different places? Are you looking at a rental or you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how that's going to lie.

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<v Speaker 3>We rented at our house in January twenty twenty three

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<v Speaker 3>and went to India for three months and then house

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<v Speaker 3>that for a few months and then over winter, so

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<v Speaker 3>from kind of May till November we're in this permanent house,

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<v Speaker 3>which is amazing, and the rest of the year we

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<v Speaker 3>house it for you know, from three to two months

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<v Speaker 3>at the time, and also go on a nationwide tour

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<v Speaker 3>around the country every year. So we leave here in

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<v Speaker 3>four weeks and then over Christmas we have a house

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<v Speaker 3>for a month near family, which is great for Christmas activities,

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<v Speaker 3>and then we go on to it around the country

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<v Speaker 3>for two months and then we'll come back. Don't know

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to live at April yet, but then we'll

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<v Speaker 3>come back to the here to our winter house sit

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<v Speaker 3>in May.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you feel not having that base all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>because some people need that constant, you know, place of

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<v Speaker 1>grounding or anchoring. Do you kind of thrive off a

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<v Speaker 1>bit of where we're going to be next. I don't.

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<v Speaker 3>Like a lot of people like I tell them what

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<v Speaker 3>we're doing, They're like, oh my gosh, there must be

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<v Speaker 3>so cool.

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<v Speaker 2>It must feel like you're on holiday all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>And it is cool, like there's so many fun parts

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<v Speaker 3>about it. But I definitely I like routine. I'm really

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<v Speaker 3>affected by my environment and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>And also I'm not on holiday. I'm trying to live

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<v Speaker 2>my normal life.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to get groceries in a more sustainable way.

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<v Speaker 3>It's just very difficult and puts a lot more wastes

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<v Speaker 3>and stuff from house it because you don't have your

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<v Speaker 3>usual yes of things anyway, and even just your physical environment.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, we're living in.

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<v Speaker 3>These amazing, lovely houses, but it's not my stuff and

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<v Speaker 3>it's not my choice of colors and textures. And I'm

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<v Speaker 3>really affected by that, and I've realized that a lot more.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think our main priorities for him and I

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<v Speaker 3>to my husband are doing life together. Yeah, and yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>doing life in a certain way.

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<v Speaker 2>And so we also realized we love our home.

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<v Speaker 3>It's by the beach that we've renovated for the past

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<v Speaker 3>few years before we started doing this, and just adore

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<v Speaker 3>it like gardens and fruit trees and really made this

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<v Speaker 3>little little blissful spot. But we realized, you start to

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<v Speaker 3>get a little bit kind of like gollum.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, stay away from my pressures.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and that's not a bad thing, Like it's nice

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<v Speaker 3>to feel proud of something and nice to use your

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<v Speaker 3>favorite mug in the morning and have these routines. But

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<v Speaker 3>I think we really didn't want to like get stuck,

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<v Speaker 3>and we didn't want to I don't know, just become

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<v Speaker 3>like too particular too and not that we are like

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<v Speaker 3>we always have people staying at our house, open to

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<v Speaker 3>the policy, but we just we needed that challenge.

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<v Speaker 1>So is that what prompted the house sitting kind of

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<v Speaker 1>nomadic lifestyle moving around? How long do you plan on

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<v Speaker 1>doing that for until you go back to your precious cave?

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<v Speaker 2>I know? And there's saddest year.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, I'm moving back to my house in

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<v Speaker 3>December other than a dead buddy, like this is the.

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<v Speaker 2>Thing I'm doing.

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<v Speaker 3>And then after again being in this long term house set,

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<v Speaker 3>so you kind of, yeah, just have a little bit

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<v Speaker 3>more stability. We decided not to move back, so it'll

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<v Speaker 3>probably be in a year, so end of twenty twenty

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<v Speaker 3>five we'll move back home.

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<v Speaker 1>You're always coming up with interesting challenges to put yourself through, though,

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<v Speaker 1>aren't you?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>It seems like I love that though, And I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you've done how long did you not buy a new

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<v Speaker 1>clothes for?

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<v Speaker 2>There was a year? A year of twenty two and.

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<v Speaker 1>Was that one of the those challenges? Do you think

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<v Speaker 1>you've done or have you done tougher things of the easiest?

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<v Speaker 2>Really? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>It was surprisingly much more freeing and yeah, not as

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<v Speaker 3>hard as this. I'm currently doing New zeal Made Food

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<v Speaker 3>Challenge that's been much harder than the fashion one.

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<v Speaker 1>So how long is the New Zealand Made Food Challenge

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<v Speaker 1>for the whole year?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes? Yeah, first January?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, And so how have you gone? Have you slept

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<v Speaker 1>up at all?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? It's like I think you just kind of get

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<v Speaker 2>used to it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, after a while, and you just I'm also Celiac,

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<v Speaker 3>so I'm used to being able to tell myself you

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<v Speaker 3>can't eat that food, you know, Like I it's yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I was staying as Celia when I was three, So

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<v Speaker 3>that's you know, and I know, yeah, I kind of

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<v Speaker 3>just use that mentality and so you can't eat it

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<v Speaker 3>those bananas from the Philippines, someone try to tell myself.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's just those main staples like bananas and rice

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<v Speaker 3>and I don't know, just like fun stuff you see,

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<v Speaker 3>like I just need to try.

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<v Speaker 1>That, yeah, because I would think i'd go pretty like

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<v Speaker 1>I would think, oh, I could probably do that because

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<v Speaker 1>I like to shove organically and locally and stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 1>But actually there's a lot that way I don't realize

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<v Speaker 1>from overseas that snakes in a lot of.

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<v Speaker 3>The organic stuff and the stuff from Bolkan stores. That

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<v Speaker 3>is the overseas stuff discovered really.

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<v Speaker 2>Hard when you're.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, sometimes you have to weigh up your values around

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<v Speaker 3>waste free, organic, new zilla made fairly produced, and you

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<v Speaker 3>often can't find all of those.

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<v Speaker 2>So I do I do? I guess I.

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<v Speaker 3>Eat a lot. It's you know, that like meat and

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<v Speaker 3>the three ven kind of mentality, which sounds really boring.

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of do that, but in a far more

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<v Speaker 3>creative way. So I'm eating I mean, I've never really

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<v Speaker 3>done processed foods and stuff much anyway.

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<v Speaker 2>I really like cooking and making my own.

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<v Speaker 3>But I've kind of really gone back to the absolute basics.

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<v Speaker 1>I think you do, especially when you are being a

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<v Speaker 1>bit more conscious of like the produce you get. I

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<v Speaker 1>think you do kind of go back to basics a

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<v Speaker 1>bit more because you don't have all the extra fancy

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<v Speaker 1>bits and bobs and whatever. And it's there's a good

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<v Speaker 1>way to eat and seasonally as well. I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure you're a big advocate of eating seasonally.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely. I think it's good for our bodies too. Yeah, Like, yeah, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Remember seeing someone made a fruit platter at an event

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<v Speaker 3>and it was like July and there's a pineapplen of strawberry.

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<v Speaker 2>You're like, no, what is this?

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<v Speaker 3>Firstly, is this millionaire to like afford it because it's

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<v Speaker 3>come home from Yes, efensive, and just like, what is.

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<v Speaker 2>The life of this strawberry?

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<v Speaker 3>Where has it been hanging out since you know it

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<v Speaker 3>grew in summer?

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<v Speaker 2>Where did it come from?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? And we've come to so detached to that because

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<v Speaker 1>we can't have everything of our fingersip And yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I'm not perfect by any means, cheep as I'll

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<v Speaker 1>buy out of season, but I think it is a

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful kind of rule to sort of like guide ourselves

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<v Speaker 1>when it comes to trying to eat seasonally. Maybe if

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<v Speaker 1>there are more carrots, then you have more carrot dishes,

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<v Speaker 1>or you know, trying to get creative. But you talk about,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, your values with whatever it is you're navigating,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think they change all the time. And people

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<v Speaker 1>have probably found themselves evolving along this kind of sustainable

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<v Speaker 1>journey and you'll be really good at something for a

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<v Speaker 1>while and then that slips off and then you're like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well maybe I'll try this. And would you say that

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<v Speaker 1>that is the reality of embracing a life more sustainable

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<v Speaker 1>is it is constantly evolving.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I think that's what sustainability means is something

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<v Speaker 3>that can sustain itself, can continue over and over again.

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<v Speaker 3>And we don't know everything now, things that a few

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<v Speaker 3>years ago I was like, come on, everyone, this is

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<v Speaker 3>so great.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, oh, this isn't so great anymore. Let's

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<v Speaker 2>learn and change.

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<v Speaker 1>Because information evolves in changes absolutely.

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<v Speaker 3>And it's also like, there is no perfect sustainable lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 3>Some people may argue that, but the more I learn, like,

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<v Speaker 3>the more I think even when I started probably about

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<v Speaker 3>eight years ago, I was really like, Okay, cool, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>going to do like this, you know, rubbish like rubbish

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<v Speaker 3>been free thing and be really had core on waste

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<v Speaker 3>and all this stuff. And now I just there's sustainability

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<v Speaker 3>is so much more to me about every facet of life.

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<v Speaker 3>Sustainability doesn't mean environmentalism, it doesn't mean green things, it

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't mean less pastic. Sustainability is a term that relates

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<v Speaker 3>to every facet of our life. So over time I've

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<v Speaker 3>become way more passionate about sustainability for our health, for ourselves,

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<v Speaker 3>and knowing that over the last eight years, the times

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<v Speaker 3>when I have lived a less sustainable lifestyle or you know,

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<v Speaker 3>had more in my rubbish bin or made decisions that

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<v Speaker 3>didn't align with my values was when I was mentally low,

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<v Speaker 3>physically sick, you know, situationally didn't have the resources.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think, yeah, sometimes I.

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<v Speaker 3>See a lot of people say, oh, yeah, it's so

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<v Speaker 3>easy to live without ways and do this thing, but

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<v Speaker 3>they often in a privileged position of accessibility of resources and.

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<v Speaker 2>All that type of things. So that's why I think, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And a lot of my messaging, I'm not just saying

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<v Speaker 3>these are the eco friendly lifestyle hacks, and I also

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<v Speaker 3>go take a nap.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, because the irony is people who try me all

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<v Speaker 1>in one hundred percent sustainable. That's not stainable. And you

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<v Speaker 1>have to be able to be sustainable, and you have

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<v Speaker 1>to keep the passion alive. And you come to that

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<v Speaker 1>when you're just constantly failing, because people just give up

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<v Speaker 1>and I feel like it's just a battle that they're

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<v Speaker 1>never going to win.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, And that's what I think a lot of people

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<v Speaker 3>I talk to it and why people. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 3>started out ethically, Kate just you know, it was it

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't intentional, and now here it as being my full

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<v Speaker 3>time job. But I think people have continued on the

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<v Speaker 3>on the journey and continue reading and being part of

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<v Speaker 3>my work because they realize that they don't have to

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<v Speaker 3>be the sustainable giru to like try to just try,

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<v Speaker 3>and so I share. I try to share equally my

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<v Speaker 3>quote unquote failures, you know, but I really a failure,

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<v Speaker 3>but my imperfections let's call them, and and non sustainable

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<v Speaker 3>habits just as much because then they go.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, she's not doing well.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe I can just try like one thing and that's

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<v Speaker 3>going to be the change maker. Like that's going to

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<v Speaker 3>be what like actually drives this cultural shift of doing

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<v Speaker 3>better four people in planet rather than like a whole

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<v Speaker 3>bunch of hardcore have been living in tiny house, which

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<v Speaker 3>absolutely awesome to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah, we have to be realistic.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, as helping mainstream people who don't like care yet

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<v Speaker 3>to kre even just a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure there was quite a bit of pressure on

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<v Speaker 1>your shoulders when you sort of came forward and you

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<v Speaker 1>almost became this figure of sustainability in New Zealand. You

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<v Speaker 1>made something that previously wasn't mainstream cool And how did

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<v Speaker 1>you should navigate that sense of responsibility on your shoulders?

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<v Speaker 1>Was that when you were like atually have to embrace

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<v Speaker 1>the imperfection because this is just kind of ruin me.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean every day I think to myself, like her

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<v Speaker 3>mind to call myself.

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<v Speaker 2>Like that's a pretty yeah? Pretty? I mean, firstly, ethics

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<v Speaker 2>a subjective.

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<v Speaker 3>That's why I chose the word because it's you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I won't get into that.

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<v Speaker 2>But it is. It is scary because.

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<v Speaker 3>First and foremost I'm a person who's just sharing what

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<v Speaker 3>I'm learning and hoping that other people will learn from it.

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<v Speaker 2>I am I often you know, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Guess I know obviously more than like the average person,

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm just so privileged to have been kind of

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<v Speaker 3>in lots of different spaces, from lots of different industries.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm by no means an expert and a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of what I do and share, even I'm often in

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<v Speaker 3>the media commenting on things, and they say it's a

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<v Speaker 3>strain ability experts, hold on, hold on, I'm still a

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<v Speaker 3>person who's learning, growing, evolving, sharing, and I'm just sharing

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<v Speaker 3>as I go. So I think I definitely and people

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<v Speaker 3>often surprised to hear it because I come across, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>quite confident, which I am, but I'm confidently acknowledging my

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<v Speaker 3>all the things I don't know, and I experienced imposter

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<v Speaker 3>syndrome and kind of the overwhelm of it. But I

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<v Speaker 3>go here, If I'm going to let those feelings paralyze

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<v Speaker 3>me and stop me from doing this.

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<v Speaker 2>Screw it. That's like screw it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, benefits from me talking and actually going out

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<v Speaker 3>and speaking, but then being younger, okay to like you know,

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<v Speaker 3>backtrack or update people on information. That's that's you know,

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<v Speaker 3>what it should be like. I just feel like it

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<v Speaker 3>would be a disservice for me to keep all of.

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<v Speaker 2>This information of course, and learn, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>To myself when we must. We need to do it,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, for the sake of people on planet.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that transparency and the humanness is what

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<v Speaker 1>takes away that kind of pretentiousness that could be or

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm better than you. It never feels like that

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<v Speaker 1>from what I have consumed of your content. I love it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think it's fun, and I think it's a

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<v Speaker 1>really creative way of getting across really important information. So

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<v Speaker 1>get that so down out the way, Kate, You're doing

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<v Speaker 1>an amazing job. I want to know what kind of

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<v Speaker 1>got you on the road in the first place, because

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<v Speaker 1>this was never your plan, was it. Didn't you study

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<v Speaker 1>business at Messy or something like that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, well I studied business psychology, which some could argue

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<v Speaker 3>is actually directly related to what I do now, because

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<v Speaker 3>that was me being passionate about people in the workplace

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<v Speaker 3>working sustainably, you know, like thriving, loving their job, loving

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<v Speaker 3>their work.

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<v Speaker 2>And so I did actually come into this space. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of people come to.

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<v Speaker 3>It from you know, they don't want pollution in the

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<v Speaker 3>oceans because they're a surfer or.

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<v Speaker 2>But I came into it from a people point of view.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, obviously I love nature's environment, you know, are

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<v Speaker 3>we a part of it? But from that social site,

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<v Speaker 3>I so that business psychology does play into it. I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't intend like I was working in hr kind of

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<v Speaker 3>roles and that was I guess I was maybe going

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<v Speaker 3>to do my master's to become a industrial psychologist. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I just I started sharing in twenty fifteen and learning,

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<v Speaker 3>and I just kept communicating and talking. So you know,

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<v Speaker 3>when you kind of reflect back and you're, oh, that

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<v Speaker 3>was random, but then you look back through your life,

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<v Speaker 3>that was it random? And that kind of just to

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<v Speaker 3>be here. Yes, I had my business when I was

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<v Speaker 3>eight years old. It was called Kate Care and I

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<v Speaker 3>watered plants, clicked in mail. Then evolved into like mowing lawns, walking.

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<v Speaker 2>Dogs, hats.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, like up to ten houses over the summer at

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<v Speaker 3>a time.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so you've always just been a really good human from.

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<v Speaker 2>The Yeah, I guess I've always like been much.

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<v Speaker 1>Heard I can do that, I'll.

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<v Speaker 3>Start this so Yeah, to be honest, I actually wanted

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<v Speaker 3>to be a vet my whole life up until I

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<v Speaker 3>was about seventeen, So that was my plan but.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm happy to be here.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it for anyone lest saying who is feeling

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<v Speaker 1>guilty as we're speaking the words of sustainability, eco living

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<v Speaker 1>all of that. What easy bits of advice can you

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<v Speaker 1>say that could inspire them to get back on the

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<v Speaker 1>bandwagon that don't need to be huge overhauls of their life.

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<v Speaker 3>I would say, first start by learning and refreshing yourself

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<v Speaker 3>in a way that suits you. So if you like podcasts,

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<v Speaker 3>then you know, find some good podcasts to learn. And

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<v Speaker 3>I say learn and refresh your stuff, because if I

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<v Speaker 3>want to tell you to go out and buy a

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<v Speaker 3>certain thing or do a certain thing, it's kind of

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<v Speaker 3>irrelevant unless you have that like why is freshed? So

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<v Speaker 3>you might like podcasts or documentaries, or just you might

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<v Speaker 3>like sitting with community, you know, and go to your

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<v Speaker 3>local repair cafe. There's so many around the country now,

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<v Speaker 3>and just yeah, be with people, strike up conversation when

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<v Speaker 3>you're having a coffee with your neighbor or a friend

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<v Speaker 3>next ask them, you know, how they approach this topic

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<v Speaker 3>and if they think about people on planet and they're

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<v Speaker 3>kind of purchasing and habits.

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<v Speaker 2>Just I think starting with that.

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<v Speaker 3>Means sustainable of them becomes sustainable.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, not unrealistic, unattainable thing that that makes us feel

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<v Speaker 1>really shit about ourselves.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and we can't. We can't do things like things

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<v Speaker 3>aren't going to stick. You know. I could tell you

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<v Speaker 3>to compast and send you are good Habit recycling guide

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<v Speaker 3>and a list of places to shop in the whole

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<v Speaker 3>fashion which all my website, But like, that's irrelevant unless.

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<v Speaker 2>Unless you know why you're doing it, And you're not

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<v Speaker 2>going to stick to those things unless.

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<v Speaker 3>You know why and you're nected in with people and

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<v Speaker 3>you're learning in a way that suits you.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that. So finding out the why and however

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<v Speaker 1>it looks for you, whether it's however you.

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<v Speaker 2>Like to.

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<v Speaker 1>Ingest content. When it comes to locally shopping locally, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure you're massive on that.

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<v Speaker 3>I am miss upon shopping locally, but I'm not exclusive

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<v Speaker 3>to it. I certainly won't be sticking to just New

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<v Speaker 3>Zealand made food after this challenge.

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<v Speaker 1>I do like rice, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And secondly, there's also a huge power in supporting organizations

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<v Speaker 3>who employ people overseas.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 3>I think of the brand Hollybolly, who equal fashion brand.

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<v Speaker 2>They were still in Weltain as well, but mainly Aline.

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<v Speaker 3>And they employ women in rural India who you know

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<v Speaker 3>they talked to so is that long, beautiful story, but

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<v Speaker 3>they taught these long to so and then the women like,

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<v Speaker 3>we want jobs you know in this in this town

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<v Speaker 3>where women and nothing weren't allowed jobs like or he.

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<v Speaker 2>Completely oppressed.

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<v Speaker 3>And then you know there's this fashion label which means

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<v Speaker 3>they can make clothes, have employment treated with so much

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<v Speaker 3>more respect. It's really changing the whole culture of the city.

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<v Speaker 3>So to say we should only buy a New Zealand

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<v Speaker 3>made and local is to kind of yeah, stop, great

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<v Speaker 3>opportunities for being able to actually support our global community

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<v Speaker 3>as well. So I think it's a great it's a

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<v Speaker 3>great balance, and it's again it's up toide person. The

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<v Speaker 3>person's your individual values. Because for a lot of people,

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<v Speaker 3>they only shops you can hand and it's amazing, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>but for a lot of people maybe only supporting companies

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<v Speaker 3>like Hollibolly recreate clothing others overseas. That may be a

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<v Speaker 3>passion because you have that kind of that that global conscience.

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<v Speaker 2>So I think it's it's a bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Bit of everything. Just quickly. I'm sure you've written lots

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<v Speaker 1>on this, but your favorite ethical Keewi clothing brands in

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<v Speaker 1>New Zealand. As we're heading into Christmas, I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to I'll get into Christmas a little bit more, son,

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<v Speaker 1>But do you have just a couple of faves that

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<v Speaker 1>you want to give a shout out to?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean I've already mentioned Holly and yes, we're

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<v Speaker 2>great as a tall chip.

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<v Speaker 3>Koto is the jeans are so good. It was a

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<v Speaker 3>black tank top that still exists in my wardrobe.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I could guarantee if I bought it at the

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<v Speaker 2>mall from the brands.

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<v Speaker 1>I would I would have holes in it.

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<v Speaker 3>No, So yeah, Koto is brilliant standard issue.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm wearing one of the tops right now. I just

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<v Speaker 2>live in this stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I love your dancing videos within this so good makes

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<v Speaker 1>me want to just like get my husband wearing my clothes.

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<v Speaker 3>I know it is handy, tom as similar at heights

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<v Speaker 3>and can fit. I can even have fit his shorts

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<v Speaker 3>I just discovered the other day. But it's not happy

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<v Speaker 3>with me buying his shorts.

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<v Speaker 1>And so with Christmas obviously fast approaching, and there's the

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<v Speaker 1>cost of living crisis, so that is obviously in a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people's minds, but with the environment in mind

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<v Speaker 1>as well, what do you think is some good alternatives

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<v Speaker 1>for Chrissy presents some fun, creative ways that you can

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<v Speaker 1>show people you love them without just going to stock

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<v Speaker 1>standard shop and dropping fifty or one hundred bucks.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean personally, I actually just launched the biggest blot

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<v Speaker 3>I've ever written in my entire life, which was like,

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<v Speaker 3>it's huge. There are a hundred different options on there.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's like your classic sustainable Christmas gifts, which it's

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<v Speaker 3>still stuff which you know, personally still end up having

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<v Speaker 3>to buy some stuff, but it's your sex. It's like

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<v Speaker 3>soaps and underwear and towels and candles, but it's all

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<v Speaker 3>good ethically made mainly New Zealand brands.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's a great thing because it's a low cost point.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, like there are small gifts too, so you

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<v Speaker 3>know it kind of means a lot more.

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<v Speaker 2>You're still spending a small.

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<v Speaker 3>Amount, but it's like a boutique New Zealand maid, so

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<v Speaker 3>you know that it adds a bit of more.

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<v Speaker 2>Kudos to the gift.

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<v Speaker 3>For me and my funo, we often don't do any

0:25:32.040 --> 0:25:35.840
<v Speaker 3>physical gifts and like one year we all donated to

0:25:35.880 --> 0:25:40.080
<v Speaker 3>a charity that suited the person. So like, my brother

0:25:40.160 --> 0:25:43.040
<v Speaker 3>is a musician, and I think it was my mum

0:25:43.119 --> 0:25:45.959
<v Speaker 3>who got him as like a secret standard situation and

0:25:46.040 --> 0:25:49.159
<v Speaker 3>donated to like a music therapy group, you know. So

0:25:49.280 --> 0:25:54.000
<v Speaker 3>it's a it's a personalized gift still, but you're, yeah,

0:25:54.040 --> 0:25:57.520
<v Speaker 3>you're just donating. Or we donate vouchers for things. So

0:25:57.560 --> 0:26:00.159
<v Speaker 3>my sister gave Tim and I a voucher to it

0:26:00.240 --> 0:26:04.040
<v Speaker 3>up like a lovely date dinner meal and leave us

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<v Speaker 3>to it. And Tim and I gave mom and Dad

0:26:07.720 --> 0:26:10.600
<v Speaker 3>two hours of deep cleaning their house. And I really

0:26:10.800 --> 0:26:11.080
<v Speaker 3>like that.

0:26:12.320 --> 0:26:14.840
<v Speaker 1>Like really thoughtful girls.

0:26:15.160 --> 0:26:15.760
<v Speaker 2>So you can.

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<v Speaker 3>I know that it's hard because in some family cultures

0:26:20.080 --> 0:26:24.919
<v Speaker 3>there's this expectation of buying something and physically sitting around

0:26:24.960 --> 0:26:30.159
<v Speaker 3>and clifting. But I would suggest, you know, especially we

0:26:30.240 --> 0:26:32.399
<v Speaker 3>kind of have a bit of time before Christmas to

0:26:32.400 --> 0:26:35.600
<v Speaker 3>actually say, hey, should we do things differently this year

0:26:35.720 --> 0:26:39.879
<v Speaker 3>or or yeah, just plant that seed, because to be honest,

0:26:39.880 --> 0:26:42.320
<v Speaker 3>probably a lot of people will go, oh my gosh,

0:26:42.320 --> 0:26:46.200
<v Speaker 3>thank you for saying that. You know, I was stressed.

0:26:46.800 --> 0:26:49.639
<v Speaker 3>Let let's all commit to this. So I think it

0:26:49.680 --> 0:26:53.439
<v Speaker 3>does involve you know, I'm really grateful that my family

0:26:53.480 --> 0:26:56.480
<v Speaker 3>and Tim's family were all on board with the less

0:26:56.480 --> 0:27:00.919
<v Speaker 3>gifts and more time and and you need gifts. But

0:27:01.000 --> 0:27:03.720
<v Speaker 3>I know it has had to suggest that, you know,

0:27:04.359 --> 0:27:06.600
<v Speaker 3>because we were quite set in their ways. But I

0:27:06.680 --> 0:27:10.399
<v Speaker 3>found suggesting it in a cold, cold blooded moment, not

0:27:10.520 --> 0:27:13.399
<v Speaker 3>saying not sitting down on Christmas this year and going,

0:27:13.480 --> 0:27:15.600
<v Speaker 3>oh my gosh, I got all that's rabbit like, yeah,

0:27:15.720 --> 0:27:20.280
<v Speaker 3>actually being soft and kind about it and planting planting seeds. Yeah,

0:27:20.400 --> 0:27:25.000
<v Speaker 3>Like vouchers are great, you know, experiences this. We have

0:27:25.240 --> 0:27:28.639
<v Speaker 3>so many opportunities to buy gifts that aren't junk. A

0:27:28.680 --> 0:27:31.760
<v Speaker 3>majority of gifts end up, you know, in the rubbish

0:27:31.840 --> 0:27:33.040
<v Speaker 3>or in the junk cupboard.

0:27:33.359 --> 0:27:38.680
<v Speaker 1>So it's true you are a big fan of making traditions.

0:27:38.960 --> 0:27:41.360
<v Speaker 1>Was it a Christmas tradition? I can't remember. I saw

0:27:41.400 --> 0:27:45.480
<v Speaker 1>it where you and your husband literally had like breakfast naked.

0:27:46.640 --> 0:27:48.159
<v Speaker 1>Was there Christmas?

0:27:48.560 --> 0:27:50.840
<v Speaker 2>It was Christmas? And you know what it was.

0:27:50.880 --> 0:27:53.719
<v Speaker 3>We thought about it for ages and we did it

0:27:53.760 --> 0:27:55.439
<v Speaker 3>and it was so much fun that we got out

0:27:55.480 --> 0:27:56.960
<v Speaker 3>beautiful china.

0:27:57.119 --> 0:28:00.439
<v Speaker 2>And they like bread and we had this whole and

0:28:00.480 --> 0:28:04.920
<v Speaker 2>it was just a term and it was so much fun.

0:28:04.960 --> 0:28:07.200
<v Speaker 3>It was just kind of I think it's nice because

0:28:07.200 --> 0:28:09.480
<v Speaker 3>sometimes you can get caught up in all the family

0:28:09.560 --> 0:28:11.639
<v Speaker 3>things and you forget, especially when it's just two of you.

0:28:11.760 --> 0:28:14.679
<v Speaker 2>That like we're a family unit terms, it's fun.

0:28:15.200 --> 0:28:18.440
<v Speaker 3>But now that we're house sitting and over Christmas were

0:28:18.520 --> 0:28:20.080
<v Speaker 3>like staying with family.

0:28:21.280 --> 0:28:24.120
<v Speaker 2>Vision, we'll restart it mixt you do you.

0:28:24.280 --> 0:28:26.720
<v Speaker 1>Have like a certain special menu when you're not or

0:28:26.840 --> 0:28:29.640
<v Speaker 1>like some kind of food guys.

0:28:29.680 --> 0:28:34.080
<v Speaker 2>I mean, anything goes, But it's mainly the part.

0:28:34.160 --> 0:28:36.840
<v Speaker 3>It's not just being naked, but it's also having like

0:28:37.080 --> 0:28:41.600
<v Speaker 3>lovely you know, really working on making the bread and

0:28:41.880 --> 0:28:46.360
<v Speaker 3>getting fresh fruit and you know, a very very gourmet

0:28:46.480 --> 0:28:49.440
<v Speaker 3>kind of fancy breakfast to match our fancier times.

0:28:49.560 --> 0:28:50.600
<v Speaker 2>I love that.

0:28:54.360 --> 0:28:57.520
<v Speaker 1>I see you do upside down Thursdays as well. Is

0:28:57.560 --> 0:28:59.600
<v Speaker 1>that still going you do that every week?

0:29:00.640 --> 0:29:04.080
<v Speaker 3>Yes, though who've been house to have found it's too

0:29:04.160 --> 0:29:06.800
<v Speaker 3>just sorient it so we have to be pau but

0:29:06.840 --> 0:29:10.120
<v Speaker 3>it's definitely still yeah in our repertoire.

0:29:11.200 --> 0:29:12.760
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Again, that was just us.

0:29:12.720 --> 0:29:17.880
<v Speaker 3>Not wanting to get stuck in a rut of get in.

0:29:17.840 --> 0:29:20.560
<v Speaker 2>The bed and you have the same side of the bed, and.

0:29:22.000 --> 0:29:25.280
<v Speaker 3>I think it was Tim's idea and we just where

0:29:25.280 --> 0:29:28.080
<v Speaker 3>our feet usually are our heads are and we switched around.

0:29:28.880 --> 0:29:31.200
<v Speaker 3>Often it's a good day to like do the sheets

0:29:31.200 --> 0:29:35.760
<v Speaker 3>that they do. Yeah, yeah, not sleeping actually your.

0:29:35.640 --> 0:29:37.440
<v Speaker 1>Feet and it gives you a fresh perspective, do you

0:29:37.480 --> 0:29:41.040
<v Speaker 1>find and it gets you out of ruts exactly.

0:29:40.920 --> 0:29:43.520
<v Speaker 3>And you honestly, we have to go to bed quite

0:29:43.560 --> 0:29:47.800
<v Speaker 3>a bit beforehand because you're honestly looking at the room differently.

0:29:48.800 --> 0:29:50.920
<v Speaker 3>You come up with all these different ideas that we

0:29:51.000 --> 0:29:53.640
<v Speaker 3>just find ourselves to like it feels like a sleepover, yes,

0:29:54.400 --> 0:29:56.080
<v Speaker 3>and even though we've done it over the years and years,

0:29:56.080 --> 0:29:57.000
<v Speaker 3>it still feels like that.

0:29:57.240 --> 0:29:59.280
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, we'll definitely keep it up.

0:29:59.520 --> 0:30:01.680
<v Speaker 1>It's a bit of so do you have any support,

0:30:01.720 --> 0:30:03.280
<v Speaker 1>Like do you ever find you lose your pillow because

0:30:03.280 --> 0:30:04.200
<v Speaker 1>it's not up by the bed.

0:30:05.200 --> 0:30:08.160
<v Speaker 3>I've actually never lost my pillow And we started like

0:30:08.240 --> 0:30:12.480
<v Speaker 3>this six years on, so I think you kind of

0:30:13.200 --> 0:30:15.280
<v Speaker 3>because we're quite tall people, we have to pull the

0:30:15.280 --> 0:30:16.280
<v Speaker 3>bed off the wall.

0:30:16.720 --> 0:30:19.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, otherwise outfect don't fit.

0:30:20.000 --> 0:30:22.920
<v Speaker 3>And be Eccleston's kind of health the end of the

0:30:22.920 --> 0:30:27.200
<v Speaker 3>bed and yeah, I think you kind of it just

0:30:27.240 --> 0:30:31.200
<v Speaker 3>becomes like also pilot yeah type people go under a

0:30:31.240 --> 0:30:34.080
<v Speaker 3>bit and got a bit of space. Yeah, no problem

0:30:34.080 --> 0:30:37.880
<v Speaker 3>with that, But it depends on the fabric of your linen.

0:30:38.120 --> 0:30:41.520
<v Speaker 2>Yes, you're the thickness of your pillar. I'm sure there's

0:30:41.520 --> 0:30:42.480
<v Speaker 2>a science behind it.

0:30:42.600 --> 0:30:46.280
<v Speaker 1>I just love these cute little things that you infuse

0:30:46.320 --> 0:30:49.760
<v Speaker 1>into your life to obviously bring a bit of joy.

0:30:50.280 --> 0:30:52.560
<v Speaker 1>And I know that you talk about how you try

0:30:52.600 --> 0:30:55.720
<v Speaker 1>to encompass joy filled living. How does that look for

0:30:55.720 --> 0:30:57.720
<v Speaker 1>you on a daily basis, Like, how do you capture

0:30:57.760 --> 0:31:01.920
<v Speaker 1>those moments of joy that could often be overlooked by others?

0:31:02.880 --> 0:31:09.680
<v Speaker 2>M I think it starts with really good phone hygiene.

0:31:09.960 --> 0:31:12.680
<v Speaker 2>They call it my phone.

0:31:13.840 --> 0:31:17.000
<v Speaker 3>I'm charge in another room for a few hours before

0:31:17.000 --> 0:31:19.800
<v Speaker 3>I go to bed, and not for the first few

0:31:19.840 --> 0:31:20.520
<v Speaker 3>hours of my day.

0:31:21.120 --> 0:31:22.680
<v Speaker 2>I think that allows.

0:31:22.280 --> 0:31:25.920
<v Speaker 3>You to just be much more human and much more

0:31:26.440 --> 0:31:30.360
<v Speaker 3>awake and aware, especially when my work is so digital.

0:31:30.760 --> 0:31:34.040
<v Speaker 2>And I'm not saying I'm perfect at that two hour thing,

0:31:34.360 --> 0:31:35.240
<v Speaker 2>but it is.

0:31:35.840 --> 0:31:39.640
<v Speaker 3>I really find having my phone in my room just.

0:31:40.120 --> 0:31:43.920
<v Speaker 1>It's horrible, isn't it. You just you actually just can't disconnect,

0:31:44.000 --> 0:31:48.400
<v Speaker 1>and you feel the feelings of hundreds of different people

0:31:48.480 --> 0:31:51.200
<v Speaker 1>that you wouldn't usually be impacted by, and all of

0:31:51.240 --> 0:31:54.200
<v Speaker 1>a suddenly they're getting into your space and it's like, hey,

0:31:54.360 --> 0:31:57.440
<v Speaker 1>why am I feeling the secondhand? You don't need to,

0:31:57.840 --> 0:31:59.680
<v Speaker 1>and I'm so guilty of it, and I reckon. I

0:31:59.720 --> 0:32:02.160
<v Speaker 1>got really good for a couple of years, but since

0:32:02.200 --> 0:32:04.800
<v Speaker 1>getting back into work this year so bad.

0:32:05.560 --> 0:32:08.640
<v Speaker 2>It's hard I find. I brought a really fancy, beautiful

0:32:08.640 --> 0:32:10.600
<v Speaker 2>alarm clock. That's great.

0:32:10.640 --> 0:32:13.360
<v Speaker 3>It's really helped because I spent a lot of money

0:32:13.400 --> 0:32:16.480
<v Speaker 3>on this beautiful and it's ever got a power nap time.

0:32:18.880 --> 0:32:22.360
<v Speaker 3>So that means I'm yeah, really so yeah that that

0:32:22.560 --> 0:32:28.080
<v Speaker 3>phone trick and different things. Just I think if you

0:32:28.200 --> 0:32:32.040
<v Speaker 3>don't if you're not aware, the world can just catch

0:32:32.080 --> 0:32:34.959
<v Speaker 3>you up, and you're doing all these important things, you know,

0:32:34.960 --> 0:32:37.640
<v Speaker 3>but are they really important and you're not actually opening

0:32:37.920 --> 0:32:44.320
<v Speaker 3>space to find those little joys. So yeah, I spent

0:32:44.400 --> 0:32:47.360
<v Speaker 3>a lot of time outside. I'm really grateful to live

0:32:47.400 --> 0:32:50.360
<v Speaker 3>by the beach, to spend a lot of time in beach.

0:32:51.720 --> 0:32:56.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, in beach. In actually a lot of time in

0:32:56.320 --> 0:32:57.800
<v Speaker 2>the beach all the way around.

0:32:58.000 --> 0:32:59.920
<v Speaker 1>Yes, and.

0:33:01.440 --> 0:33:03.760
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, a lot of time with my family, which I

0:33:03.760 --> 0:33:05.719
<v Speaker 3>think when I hear the word joy, that's what I

0:33:05.720 --> 0:33:11.920
<v Speaker 3>think of two. So yeah, I want to analyze that

0:33:12.000 --> 0:33:14.360
<v Speaker 3>question more in my daily life too, because I wonder

0:33:14.880 --> 0:33:20.080
<v Speaker 3>how different. Yeah, yeah, my little routines and habits build

0:33:21.160 --> 0:33:23.720
<v Speaker 3>and the opportunity to find joy, because we can all

0:33:23.760 --> 0:33:28.920
<v Speaker 3>find it, but it's it's allowing more opportunities for it

0:33:28.960 --> 0:33:31.360
<v Speaker 3>and open yourself up to that. So I think also

0:33:32.080 --> 0:33:34.480
<v Speaker 3>feeling you know, I try to move every day.

0:33:34.880 --> 0:33:37.160
<v Speaker 2>You to do first thing in the morning, so if

0:33:37.160 --> 0:33:40.480
<v Speaker 2>you're feeling good and you're aware of your body and aware.

0:33:40.280 --> 0:33:43.840
<v Speaker 3>Of yourself, and I do that first thing. And I'm

0:33:43.840 --> 0:33:46.480
<v Speaker 3>also a religious napper, so.

0:33:46.400 --> 0:33:49.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm how many times do you get to nap to day? Oh?

0:33:50.000 --> 0:33:51.200
<v Speaker 2>I net once a day.

0:33:51.320 --> 0:33:55.080
<v Speaker 1>Do you like a little catnap in the afternoon? Oh

0:33:55.200 --> 0:33:58.480
<v Speaker 1>that sounds so blessful, Like twenty minutes or an hour?

0:33:59.400 --> 0:34:03.040
<v Speaker 2>Twenty minutes? An hour much? I can't Yeah, yeah.

0:34:02.880 --> 0:34:05.880
<v Speaker 3>Even fifteen sometimes I'm pretty pretty good.

0:34:06.080 --> 0:34:08.479
<v Speaker 1>Do you nestle up into like a little patch of sun?

0:34:09.880 --> 0:34:14.080
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, depending on the season, if the sun's available. Yeah,

0:34:14.120 --> 0:34:17.040
<v Speaker 3>but I have a little weighted an eye mask and

0:34:17.080 --> 0:34:20.319
<v Speaker 3>it's all yeah. But you know, I think all these

0:34:20.320 --> 0:34:22.440
<v Speaker 3>things we talk about, people go, oh, you're so lucky

0:34:22.440 --> 0:34:28.000
<v Speaker 3>to have a nap or oh there's all yeah, there's

0:34:28.000 --> 0:34:32.240
<v Speaker 3>all these things, which absolutely I'm lucky but but I don't.

0:34:32.680 --> 0:34:33.120
<v Speaker 2>You know, I.

0:34:33.080 --> 0:34:35.880
<v Speaker 3>Actually get more way more work done after I have

0:34:35.960 --> 0:34:38.560
<v Speaker 3>that nap than I would have if I hadn't, So

0:34:38.600 --> 0:34:43.160
<v Speaker 3>I'm not. It's about prioritizing time and actually being aware

0:34:43.200 --> 0:34:46.560
<v Speaker 3>of what your body needs how you can foster it,

0:34:46.600 --> 0:34:54.120
<v Speaker 3>like a thriving existence and a thriving Yeah, a thriving

0:34:54.160 --> 0:34:56.880
<v Speaker 3>space to find that joy to work on things you

0:34:56.920 --> 0:35:00.160
<v Speaker 3>want to to have capacity for relationships and create of

0:35:00.200 --> 0:35:04.879
<v Speaker 3>ideas and things like that. So yeah, we really get

0:35:04.880 --> 0:35:07.600
<v Speaker 3>built into this like gotta work, gotta do the hours,

0:35:08.600 --> 0:35:12.520
<v Speaker 3>and it's not it's not really helping helping anyone. And

0:35:12.200 --> 0:35:17.719
<v Speaker 3>I absolutely know like that I am you know, I

0:35:17.800 --> 0:35:20.880
<v Speaker 3>whip for myself. I love by the beach, I have

0:35:21.080 --> 0:35:23.560
<v Speaker 3>all these great things that set me up for success.

0:35:24.480 --> 0:35:26.640
<v Speaker 3>But we do have a lot more control, I think

0:35:26.840 --> 0:35:33.240
<v Speaker 3>than then we realize looking after ourselves and opening ourselves

0:35:33.320 --> 0:35:36.360
<v Speaker 3>up for more opportunities to feel dor and enjoy and

0:35:36.880 --> 0:35:37.399
<v Speaker 3>find it.

0:35:38.280 --> 0:35:40.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and you're just creating. I think it's so beautiful

0:35:40.719 --> 0:35:45.440
<v Speaker 1>that you're creating a life and a career around your passion.

0:35:45.719 --> 0:35:48.680
<v Speaker 1>That's pretty cool. Like, I think that is such an

0:35:49.040 --> 0:35:53.080
<v Speaker 1>important part of ones you know, purpose and whatnot and

0:35:53.080 --> 0:35:56.240
<v Speaker 1>it's just amazing that you're being able to follow that journey.

0:35:56.320 --> 0:35:58.440
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm sure you've still got lots of grand

0:35:58.480 --> 0:36:02.160
<v Speaker 1>plans along the way, but that's pretty cool when you

0:36:02.160 --> 0:36:04.359
<v Speaker 1>look back on what you've bechanged.

0:36:05.440 --> 0:36:07.800
<v Speaker 3>It's pretty like, to be honest, this year, I nearly

0:36:08.239 --> 0:36:08.879
<v Speaker 3>gave it up.

0:36:09.760 --> 0:36:13.120
<v Speaker 1>Really yeah, I think.

0:36:14.360 --> 0:36:20.720
<v Speaker 3>It's obviously brilliant and incredible kind of quality of life

0:36:20.840 --> 0:36:25.360
<v Speaker 3>and freedom. But you know, when you're when you're working

0:36:25.400 --> 0:36:29.319
<v Speaker 3>and dealing in something that is you're absolutely giving yourself

0:36:29.640 --> 0:36:34.040
<v Speaker 3>to thousands of other people every day, and that's your.

0:36:33.960 --> 0:36:35.600
<v Speaker 2>Job, that's your work.

0:36:37.080 --> 0:36:40.840
<v Speaker 3>It really does take a toll and you become you know,

0:36:40.920 --> 0:36:43.960
<v Speaker 3>you find yourself. So they go, oh my gosh, all

0:36:43.960 --> 0:36:45.839
<v Speaker 3>those people in the world who like go to work

0:36:46.320 --> 0:36:52.840
<v Speaker 3>go home, rather than like, oh, I wonder what jobs

0:36:52.840 --> 0:36:57.520
<v Speaker 3>are coming in this month. Yes, but obviously the grass

0:36:57.560 --> 0:37:02.000
<v Speaker 3>was always green. Now you know this, but it is

0:37:02.080 --> 0:37:02.399
<v Speaker 3>it is.

0:37:02.440 --> 0:37:07.040
<v Speaker 1>It is draining and exhausting when you're constantly expected to

0:37:07.160 --> 0:37:10.239
<v Speaker 1>put yourself authentically out there and you're obviously going to

0:37:10.280 --> 0:37:13.440
<v Speaker 1>have bad days and you're going to have moments that

0:37:13.480 --> 0:37:15.759
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to share, but you still have to

0:37:15.800 --> 0:37:20.359
<v Speaker 1>show up. And it's I think I think everyone in

0:37:20.360 --> 0:37:22.120
<v Speaker 1>that position would have those moments where they're like, I

0:37:22.160 --> 0:37:23.759
<v Speaker 1>don't know if I can do this anymore.

0:37:25.320 --> 0:37:27.640
<v Speaker 3>And I've always had those ups and downs, but I

0:37:27.680 --> 0:37:33.080
<v Speaker 3>think when life like it's been in the last few years,

0:37:33.200 --> 0:37:37.960
<v Speaker 3>it's it's not yeah, there's been more big, deep lows,

0:37:38.080 --> 0:37:43.640
<v Speaker 3>and so I've really experienced yeah, feeling oh, like how

0:37:43.680 --> 0:37:45.920
<v Speaker 3>can I do? You know, I'd love to just go

0:37:46.040 --> 0:37:47.480
<v Speaker 3>sit at my office job.

0:37:47.320 --> 0:37:48.920
<v Speaker 1>And like be able to switch off at the end

0:37:48.920 --> 0:37:50.960
<v Speaker 1>of the day. You don't have to think about how

0:37:51.040 --> 0:37:53.479
<v Speaker 1>you're going to show up to all of these people. Yeah,

0:37:53.560 --> 0:37:55.399
<v Speaker 1>I absolutely get it, But then you've got to think,

0:37:55.480 --> 0:37:58.600
<v Speaker 1>what are you? You know, you are literally changing lives

0:37:58.680 --> 0:38:00.799
<v Speaker 1>with the information that you are present in the way

0:38:00.840 --> 0:38:04.600
<v Speaker 1>that you're making it so palatable for so many people.

0:38:06.200 --> 0:38:08.759
<v Speaker 3>Yes, and you think, like that's what keeps me going

0:38:08.880 --> 0:38:14.960
<v Speaker 3>my messages of how I've impact yeah people's worlds, but

0:38:15.040 --> 0:38:16.879
<v Speaker 3>also I think, you know, I do.

0:38:18.560 --> 0:38:20.120
<v Speaker 2>The reason that I kind.

0:38:20.000 --> 0:38:23.400
<v Speaker 3>Of walked off the end of literally applying for some

0:38:23.480 --> 0:38:27.960
<v Speaker 3>of the jobs that I had looked at was even

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<v Speaker 3>though part of the job is why I can be

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<v Speaker 3>so down sometimes, it's also like I don't have to

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<v Speaker 3>get up and be somewhere every day at the same time,

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<v Speaker 3>I can go for a swim and I can do

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<v Speaker 3>something that I actually really need to look after myself

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<v Speaker 3>in that moment.

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<v Speaker 2>And so.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, this type of lifestyle also actually lends itself to, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>being more helpful for when you aren't.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's me it's a natural process and it's the

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<v Speaker 1>grass is green and rose turned to glasses mentality that

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<v Speaker 1>gets us all. I don't think any of us are

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<v Speaker 1>immune to that. Anyone who looks like they've got the

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<v Speaker 1>perfect life, there is always that water or you know,

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<v Speaker 1>life would be better if whether it's financial or there's

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<v Speaker 1>always some area of one's life that they're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>this could be bitter if dot dot dot.

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<v Speaker 3>Totally absolutely good, like good things aren't easy.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's also like, you know, it's just life, like

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<v Speaker 2>it's you know, yeah, if we were happy all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>It wouldn't know what happiness or joy was because it

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<v Speaker 3>couldn't hit us on the face at a time of

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<v Speaker 3>just you know like yes, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is my missage she to keep going. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a little write it down down, keep going. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>have any advice that you tell your younger self before

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<v Speaker 1>you got into this lifestyle, maybe like early twenty year. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what would you what would you tell her ahead of

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<v Speaker 1>everything you know is coming up?

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<v Speaker 3>I would tell her firstly, not to donate the black

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<v Speaker 3>ever jumpsuits that I gave up, because I regret that.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know where it's gone? Anywhere to located?

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<v Speaker 2>A great hop shot? Fine?

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<v Speaker 3>But secondly I would I'd tell her something that actually

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<v Speaker 3>someone told me when I was like fourteen in a

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<v Speaker 3>property manager, to spend more time stopping and smelling the roses.

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<v Speaker 3>And I know, like a lot of the things we've

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<v Speaker 3>talked about, people may think, oh, o, Kate, it's.

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<v Speaker 2>Really good at doing that.

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<v Speaker 3>But I think I have these challenges and I have

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<v Speaker 3>these strategies because I'm not someone who lives making in

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<v Speaker 3>the clouds stopping to smell the roses. Like my husband

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<v Speaker 3>is so good that and he inspires me so much

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<v Speaker 3>more to do that I can left to my own

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<v Speaker 3>advices be quite intense, quite like Taipei and full on

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<v Speaker 3>and I started a childcare company in my early twenties.

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<v Speaker 3>I started ethically, Kate, it was, it was, it was

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<v Speaker 3>a lot, and so even though I absolutely don't regret

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<v Speaker 3>any of.

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<v Speaker 1>It, I would just enjoy the right rees that to.

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<v Speaker 3>Younger Kate and say no, seriously, just sit more in

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<v Speaker 3>the moment and don't always be thinking about the future,

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<v Speaker 3>like that's a great skill of mine, but just don't

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<v Speaker 3>always like like, I've started learning a lot about meditation

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<v Speaker 3>in the last five years, so i'd tell her to

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<v Speaker 3>maybe start learn about that a bit earlier.

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<v Speaker 1>I reason ate with the re word you said, that's

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<v Speaker 1>literally why I started this podcast. You know, we know,

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<v Speaker 1>we know all the stuff, we know what we meant

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<v Speaker 1>to be doing. You've had these conversations over and over,

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<v Speaker 1>but actually embodying it is another whole thing, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think the more we can remind ourselves of that the better.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, Kate, thank you so much for coming on. It's

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<v Speaker 1>been so nice to meet you, and all the best

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<v Speaker 1>with what's to come over the next few years.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you so awesome. Love what you do.

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<v Speaker 1>That was made chat with Kate Hall, also known as

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<v Speaker 1>Ethically Kate. I just wanted to kick off the takeaways

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<v Speaker 1>that I got from the episode. I just love the

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<v Speaker 1>rituals that she's got with her family, the sort of traditions,

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<v Speaker 1>for example, that upside down Thursday. I know that may

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<v Speaker 1>not be Rod's cup of tea. But for me, I

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<v Speaker 1>get it like it's just something different that you do

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<v Speaker 1>once a week and it just gives you that perspective shift.

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<v Speaker 1>And even if you are almost falling off the bed,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's such a cool way of just getting

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<v Speaker 1>out of your everyday routine and mixing it up, and

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<v Speaker 1>I can see how that would give you fresh insights

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<v Speaker 1>and fresh perspectives. I love that. I also thought a

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<v Speaker 1>crucial takeaway from that in terms of sustainability was the

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<v Speaker 1>importance of why. When it comes to your sustainable journey.

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<v Speaker 1>If you don't know your why, there's no point and

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<v Speaker 1>everyone's why, we'll look a little bit different. There'll be

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<v Speaker 1>different things that motivate people to do things for the planet.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you just are going loosely for looking after

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<v Speaker 1>the planet, that's that's not going to necessarily motivate you.

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<v Speaker 1>You need to find a specific issue that gets you excited,

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<v Speaker 1>and sustainability I just love the refresher that sustainability needs

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<v Speaker 1>to be sustainable, something that you can actually keep up

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<v Speaker 1>and something that you get excited about. I love the

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<v Speaker 1>term that she uses joy bringer and just finding those

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<v Speaker 1>moments of joy where you can and opening yourself up

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<v Speaker 1>for those opportunities of joy. We just close ourselves off

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<v Speaker 1>and we don't even realize. You know, she lives near

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<v Speaker 1>the beach. That is obviously what keeps us saying she

0:44:03.920 --> 0:44:06.960
<v Speaker 1>swims all year round, brilliant. Yes, you may not live

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<v Speaker 1>near the beach, but we all, particularly here in New Zealand,

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<v Speaker 1>are so privileged with the gorgeous nature that we have

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<v Speaker 1>so close to us. So it's just about getting outside

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<v Speaker 1>and really connecting, taking your shoes off, getting in touch

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<v Speaker 1>with the mother nature. And also I really liked the

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<v Speaker 1>phone hygiene chat and being really conscious of having a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of hours off that I am really feeling the

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<v Speaker 1>negative affixing my phone. The last few months, I've just

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<v Speaker 1>felt so overwhelmed by it. And it's because I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>having that discipline. I'll find that I'm in bed scrolling,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on the couch scrolling market place on Facebook keeps

0:44:49.440 --> 0:44:51.200
<v Speaker 1>pulling me in and I'm like, no, I just need it,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I'm like, no, it's the dopamine hat I

0:44:53.280 --> 0:44:56.920
<v Speaker 1>am actually hooked. So being really strict on there, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think observing how you feel when you pull yourself

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<v Speaker 1>away from those habits is probably a really powerful thing

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<v Speaker 1>to do because you realize how much it's actually missing

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<v Speaker 1>with your mental health. So that was some of my

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<v Speaker 1>main takeaways that I got from Kate this week. I'd

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<v Speaker 1>love to know what you got from the chat, and

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<v Speaker 1>I'd also love to know who you'd love to hear

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<v Speaker 1>from on future episodes. You can always get in touch

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<v Speaker 1>with me on Instagram at pj DJ and I'll see

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<v Speaker 1>you next week for another episode.