1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,000 Speaker 1: So new data shows only one in three Kiwi periods 2 00:00:03,080 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 1: have rules around their children's use of social media well 3 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:09,920 Speaker 1: the other two out of three doing while a report 4 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:12,720 Speaker 1: by Save the Children add net Safe shows over seventy 5 00:00:12,720 --> 00:00:16,959 Speaker 1: five percent of Kiwi kids what greater restrictions on harmful content. 6 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:20,119 Speaker 1: It comes as TikTok presented new child safety features to 7 00:00:20,160 --> 00:00:23,480 Speaker 1: Parliament on Wednesday. So I'm joined now by netsafe's online 8 00:00:23,520 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 1: safety officer, Sean Lyons, and good Morningita. 9 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 2: Sean, good morning. 10 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:30,639 Speaker 1: So you spoke to nearly one thousand kids around New 11 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: Zealand and you found out what they want, and they 12 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 1: want less nasties. So why are the adults still faffing about? 13 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:39,239 Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I think part of that is they 14 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 2: should be listening to those young users that are out 15 00:00:41,800 --> 00:00:45,840 Speaker 2: there beriencing some of those challenges online. Those young people 16 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 2: had a real common sense approach to what it was 17 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:52,680 Speaker 2: that they wanted. They understand and recognize that there's good 18 00:00:52,680 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 2: stuff that they see online, that they do online, but 19 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:58,080 Speaker 2: also that there are steps that could be taken to 20 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 2: make them safer online. And you know, like I said, 21 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 2: I think it's a real common sense approach that they've 22 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 2: come up with. 23 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:05,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, the kids want to be safe online. So who 24 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 1: is responsible for these kids seeing harmful content online? Is 25 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 1: it the content providers or is it the government with 26 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 1: laws and regulations, or is it the parents? 27 00:01:15,800 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 2: Well, I mean who's responsible for them seeing it would 28 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:21,399 Speaker 2: be the people that put harmful content online and those 29 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 2: that seek to harm individuals. And that's as much the 30 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 2: case for young people as it is for adults. And 31 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 2: in terms of whose responsibility is it to stop that 32 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 2: or deal with that situation, it's a joint responsibility. And 33 00:01:33,680 --> 00:01:38,319 Speaker 2: it goes from the responsibility of parents to ensure that 34 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 2: they know what they are young people are doing and 35 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:44,400 Speaker 2: provide support for it for young people directly if they 36 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 2: need it. But it's also about regulation, it's also about 37 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 2: the platforms, and it's also about education and the support 38 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 2: that young people get. But the main thing is it's 39 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 2: really about empowering young people to ensure that they know 40 00:01:57,320 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 2: how to look after themselves, how to how to deal 41 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:01,720 Speaker 2: with the situation that they come across. 42 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:05,160 Speaker 1: And that's very sensible and go the kids. But here's 43 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:06,960 Speaker 1: the thing. The thing that got me is that two 44 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:10,680 Speaker 1: out of three QUEUE parents have no rules around their 45 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 1: children's use of social media. So what would you like 46 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:18,240 Speaker 1: to say to those parents. 47 00:02:16,160 --> 00:02:20,360 Speaker 2: Certainly when it's no rules at all, that that's something 48 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:22,800 Speaker 2: that needs to be reviewed and reviewed regularly. I mean 49 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 2: that may well be because without rules, what they have 50 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 2: is other systems in place, or they have a degree 51 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 2: of confidence in their young people that they know what 52 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 2: to do. We could be talking about parents of fifteen 53 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:39,520 Speaker 2: sixteen year olds who feel that their children are incredibly 54 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 2: well equipped to deal with the challenges that they experience. 55 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:45,840 Speaker 2: And if that's the case, then so be it are 56 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 2: real worry is that that comes out of parents who 57 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:51,240 Speaker 2: don't really understand or haven't really engaged. But's what it 58 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:53,720 Speaker 2: is that those online spaces and places that they're young 59 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:56,800 Speaker 2: people are in look like. And really what we would 60 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:58,640 Speaker 2: the challenge I get that we would give to parents 61 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 2: in that situation is that is the case, then this 62 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 2: is the time to step in, take a look yourself, 63 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:05,120 Speaker 2: talk to you young people about what it is that 64 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:08,800 Speaker 2: they experience and how they handle both challenges online, and 65 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:10,919 Speaker 2: if you still feel like there's no need to put 66 00:03:10,919 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 2: anything in place, then that's that's an informed decision. I 67 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:17,519 Speaker 2: think the likelihood is in that case that it's then time. 68 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 2: What you will find out is that it's time to 69 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 2: institute something around those young people, be that educating them, 70 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 2: be that making a plan, be that working out what 71 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 2: it is and isn't. It's stickling your house, but something 72 00:03:27,919 --> 00:03:30,079 Speaker 2: will probably need to step into that place. 73 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 1: Sean very good work. That is Sean Lyon's the net 74 00:03:33,520 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 1: Safetief Online Safety Officer. For more from earlier edition with 75 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 1: Ryan Bridge, listen live to news talks. It'd be from 76 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 1: five am weekdays, or follow the podcast on iHeartRadio