1 00:00:00,880 --> 00:00:02,640 Speaker 1: The ZiT M podcast network. 2 00:00:03,960 --> 00:00:06,240 Speaker 2: Flee Haley's little bit of pod. 3 00:00:06,800 --> 00:00:10,280 Speaker 3: Treat yourself to macasfe coffee with my macas rewards. 4 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:12,480 Speaker 1: Welcome to a little bit of pod. 5 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:17,440 Speaker 2: I had a connection with the florist this week. Did 6 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:21,919 Speaker 2: you what was my wedding anniversary? A bunch of roses, 7 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 2: roses that we had as our wedding flowers, which Flint, 8 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 2: you were there, you were right up front. You will 9 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:34,839 Speaker 2: remember they were white and what kind of white? What 10 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 2: kind of roses? And I did it? I always have 11 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 2: every time I have to find a wedding photo on Facebook. 12 00:00:44,120 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 2: Look at that. 13 00:00:45,360 --> 00:00:48,000 Speaker 4: That was a GISs. Yeah, especially because the wedding photos 14 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:48,519 Speaker 4: were black and. 15 00:00:48,479 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 2: White, so white one because the bouquet that the bride 16 00:00:53,400 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 2: had was pink and white. As long as I got 17 00:00:56,800 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 2: a mix of pink and white. But anyway, I was 18 00:00:58,840 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 2: kind of. 19 00:00:59,360 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 4: We were skinny and we that. No, it wasn't that 20 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 4: when we're doing yeah marathons. 21 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 2: Yeah you should be. You'd be happy with your body 22 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:10,479 Speaker 2: now though I don't know you're more Jack you ja okay, 23 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:11,840 Speaker 2: thanks Jack? Looking better than ever. 24 00:01:12,360 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 1: That's the thing you look back at, you think. 25 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 2: Show me your titties. 26 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: Was a good work. 27 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:20,279 Speaker 2: Should be showing anybody your titties. 28 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel okay. 29 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 5: Actually, isn't listening there for me? 30 00:01:23,560 --> 00:01:27,680 Speaker 2: Yes, no, sir, I will not. She's done. 31 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:30,080 Speaker 4: Well, do you think we'll end up having to do 32 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:33,280 Speaker 4: those fucking video courses? But for like things like that, 33 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:36,759 Speaker 4: you know, for we we have to do those videos already. Internet, 34 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 4: you get an email from a suspicious link and it 35 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:42,720 Speaker 4: sees your career packages coming. 36 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 1: What should you do? 37 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:47,760 Speaker 2: A B C your D Welcome to this month's HR training. 38 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 2: A senior manager has just asked to see your TITTI 39 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 2: is at a staff party. What do you do he 40 00:01:54,240 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 2: give him? Give him dim titty? Say? Shall speaking give 41 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:02,400 Speaker 2: him just the left? 42 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 1: Only show him your teddies. If he shows you his yes. 43 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 2: Yes, demand a pay increase and then shown him todd 44 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:10,480 Speaker 2: d D. 45 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 3: Don't show him your Okay, I'm finally in your Facebook. 46 00:02:14,840 --> 00:02:16,919 Speaker 3: I'm back to the wedding day great bouquet. 47 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:20,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, so I went in and I think a little 48 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 2: bit of Now I do too, Yeah, yeah, I think, yeah, 49 00:02:24,080 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 2: why what. 50 00:02:24,600 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 1: What do your point at me? 51 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 5: And you've grown into your think you've grown into your. 52 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:30,079 Speaker 2: Man, grown into. 53 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: That's a man. 54 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 2: But that's a twenty eight year old boy. Yeah, that's 55 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 2: it's a boy. 56 00:02:36,320 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 5: And the beard. 57 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:40,919 Speaker 3: The beards now me, now me, fletch, You've been hot 58 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:43,480 Speaker 3: from day one. Thanks, thanks, thanks, I've got them deep. 59 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 5: In the Facebook. I'm back to that time that you 60 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 5: had Ebbs born. 61 00:02:46,320 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 2: God man, how good was that that guy? 62 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:54,359 Speaker 5: That guy show ask him to show me his TD. 63 00:02:54,800 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 1: Colleague shows you a photo of him with Ebbs in 64 00:02:57,240 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 1: the beach? Do you say, hey, man, I would have guy. 65 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 4: I'm never gonna somebody commented on one of our videos 66 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:10,000 Speaker 4: on TikTok this week is the hr in New Zealand. 67 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, Jesus, how do you guys get away 68 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 2: saying this stuff? 69 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 5: We're just saying it. No apologies. 70 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 2: Ah, so went we still haven't got there. That's good though. 71 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:23,160 Speaker 2: We went to buy these flowers. The florists used to 72 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 2: just be the side of the road caravan thing, but 73 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 2: now they've got like a porta coom situation. I know 74 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:30,679 Speaker 2: where you went, New Beautiful Yeah Cumu oh. I don't 75 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:31,960 Speaker 2: even know the name of the place, but if you're 76 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 2: driving through Qumu, it's and you're hitting with it's on 77 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 2: the left hand side. 78 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 1: But it's the place. It's not fast food. 79 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 3: Takeaway Yeah, there's a couple of florest places, but that 80 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 3: one sort of stand alone in the middle of a boom. 81 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 4: Yeah. 82 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 2: So I went in there and they had exactly the roses, 83 00:03:50,920 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 2: and I was waiting. There was another lady ordering, and ah, 84 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:56,400 Speaker 2: I won't go into the details, but she'd been through 85 00:03:56,440 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 2: the fucking ringer. She had been through the lady in front, 86 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 2: had been through the getting. 87 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 1: Flowers just for she was literally getting flowers for herself. Good. 88 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 2: She'd been through the rings. She was getting peonies. Oh 89 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:14,680 Speaker 2: my god. They they're not a rose. Because I asked, 90 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 2: I got the question. They're not a rose. They are 91 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:17,600 Speaker 2: a ball flower. 92 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:18,360 Speaker 5: They're like that. 93 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 2: There's you pay twenty dollars for while tight and they 94 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 2: can't be growing in New Zealand, in New Zealand's North 95 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 2: Islands because they need a reliable frost. They come up 96 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:31,280 Speaker 2: from a bowl and they won't flower unless there's a 97 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 2: reliable series of frosts. Okay, so they are sort after flows. 98 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:36,160 Speaker 2: She's getting yourself some pionies. 99 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 5: And but once they opened the god, they go quickly, Yeah. 100 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 2: You've got a they ball and then they you've got 101 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 2: to cherish them, cherish those ponies. So there were some 102 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:47,160 Speaker 2: of those, and she was getting some of those and good, 103 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 2: as I said, she mean through the rings. So the 104 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 2: woman deserved more than flowers, in my opinion. But to 105 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 2: just be pisting and lingering and with flowers all around 106 00:04:58,920 --> 00:04:59,480 Speaker 2: the sides. 107 00:04:59,320 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 1: There's just not. 108 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:04,280 Speaker 5: I didn't want to get wet. 109 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:06,600 Speaker 2: I don't want to get wet how long it was 110 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:07,680 Speaker 2: going to be. So I was just like and then 111 00:05:07,720 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 2: and I was looking at the other flowers because I 112 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 2: love flowers, and uh, and so then I got to 113 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:15,640 Speaker 2: my chin and the But the Irish lady running this 114 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 2: florist had that demeanor where this woman was telling her 115 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 2: about the bad stuff, and she was just that sort 116 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 2: of relaxing force presence. Presence has probably been the force 117 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 2: for but she was a force. It wasn't. She wasn't 118 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 2: passively like just taking it on the bott. She was 119 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:35,440 Speaker 2: really like engaging with her and she knew what to say. 120 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:36,680 Speaker 2: And the Irish accent, of course, it was one of 121 00:05:36,720 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 2: the I asked where she was from, killed Kenny in Ireland, 122 00:05:39,440 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 2: one of those soft ny from yeah with the beers 123 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:44,040 Speaker 2: from I had one of those just the other day 124 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 2: in moderation, dropping moderation, and she was just dealing dealing 125 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:51,360 Speaker 2: with this lady and then anyway, and then it was 126 00:05:51,440 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 2: my turn and I said, did you feel like you 127 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:56,040 Speaker 2: had to come up with a story? Nah? I didn't. 128 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 2: She kind of said, oh, that lady heard I suppose 129 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 2: you heard a lot of that she's got. She's been 130 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 2: through it. And I was like, oh, yeh's real tough. 131 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:09,480 Speaker 2: Then she started me not like said but she changed 132 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:12,040 Speaker 2: for that woman. She was like this compassionate but then 133 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 2: I was still her about my wedding and she's like, oh, yes, 134 00:06:14,440 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 2: and I've been married about the same length at time 135 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:19,800 Speaker 2: and just talk to talk talk talk talk talk great 136 00:06:19,839 --> 00:06:24,160 Speaker 2: at reading people. Yeh wow did he start crying? Also 137 00:06:24,320 --> 00:06:27,800 Speaker 2: opening up therapist free therapy That smelled real good because 138 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:30,360 Speaker 2: of all the fresh flower dreamy therapy. So then we 139 00:06:30,400 --> 00:06:32,480 Speaker 2: talked about ponies, and then we talked about another sort 140 00:06:32,520 --> 00:06:36,240 Speaker 2: of flower, and then we talked about Ulster marias, which 141 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 2: is a flower I've got a lot of at our house. 142 00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, I bit, you blood. 143 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:42,520 Speaker 2: Really find it hard to keep those contained. And she's like, 144 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 2: oh you've got any spear like off. It just was 145 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:48,040 Speaker 2: just lovely and then I got the ros She's like, 146 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 2: have a great day, and I said I will have 147 00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 2: a good day and I will tell you what You've 148 00:06:51,560 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 2: made it significantly nicer. Oh that's nice, thank you very much, 149 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:57,720 Speaker 2: Like she was finally getting something back. 150 00:06:57,800 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 5: You see, this is what I love. 151 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:00,720 Speaker 3: This is what This is my problem with q our codes, right, 152 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:04,840 Speaker 3: we lost these opportunities. You know, it's time we go 153 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 3: to a cafe or restaurant, we're sitting in a QR code. 154 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 3: I hate them because I'm like, I know, because. 155 00:07:10,200 --> 00:07:12,760 Speaker 1: You it's quick and you can pay. 156 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 2: You don't have to do that thing at the end 157 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 2: we split the bills. 158 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 3: We're missing out on them. I love it when this happens. Yeah, 159 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:21,400 Speaker 3: very female thing to do. I love that you, Linden, 160 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 3: And that's I know. I always make friends of people 161 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 3: quick to connect. 162 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 2: I think it was the whole thing was it was 163 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:29,240 Speaker 2: the proximity, like the closed quarters. 164 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, the fact that I always flowers, kind of emotional thing. 165 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 2: The woman in front of me who would open up 166 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 2: just this perfume. 167 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:38,640 Speaker 5: I'm going to go today. I live nearby. I'm going 168 00:07:38,680 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 5: to go today, get myself some flowers, maybe see some things. 169 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 2: My discount code. 170 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 5: Hi, what do you want? 171 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 4: I start booking in our slots for these therapy sessions 172 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:50,760 Speaker 4: and at the end you get a bunch of flowers. 173 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, my god, yes, great idea floral therapy. Genius because 174 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 2: I watched. Also, there's something mismerizing about watching a florist 175 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 2: construct a bunch from just a bunch of like rogue roses. 176 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 5: They've got a vision of the artists. Yeah, oh god, stunning. 177 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 5: I'm going to go today.