1 00:00:01,760 --> 00:00:05,240 Speaker 1: Pleee and Haley's mid Winter Christmas Cocktail Special. 2 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:12,479 Speaker 2: Welcome to the Midwinter Christmas Contown Special. The Big Pot 3 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 2: is back Monday, July fifteen. In the meantime, though, we 4 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:18,280 Speaker 2: will continue to read your shout outs. 5 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: I am so impressed at the mouthful that you were 6 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:21,599 Speaker 1: getting out. 7 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:22,439 Speaker 2: Thank you. 8 00:00:22,680 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 3: There is it goes bloody birthful. 9 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 2: You know what though, episode eleven and we've done so good. 10 00:00:38,520 --> 00:00:46,840 Speaker 3: Time we were we're blind. We also started later. 11 00:00:47,520 --> 00:00:50,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, so we just give Todd the hard word about 12 00:00:50,120 --> 00:00:54,040 Speaker 2: the paws on the cocktails as well, because yeah, because 13 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:56,960 Speaker 2: normally heavy poorer. 14 00:00:56,680 --> 00:01:01,920 Speaker 3: Oh yeah yeah, heavy poor ambers. 15 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 4: The first out of the blocks for the shoutouts from Auckland. 16 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 4: From Auckland, I'd like to shout out my baby boy 17 00:01:09,120 --> 00:01:09,959 Speaker 4: June and June. 18 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 3: Now with this this is coming out the end of June. 19 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 3: This baby could be upon us. This baby could be 20 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 3: It would be a member of days or weeks on. 21 00:01:16,560 --> 00:01:19,840 Speaker 2: Was the baby born on your birthday? Because I like 22 00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 2: all the attention. 23 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:21,720 Speaker 3: Was the baby born on. 24 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 1: My dad's birthday June twenty fourth or August my daughter's 25 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 1: birthday June fifteen, June twenty, June. 26 00:01:30,040 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 2: Twenty same as Morgan. Now free Morgan pen Yeah, June 27 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:38,400 Speaker 2: twenty or Carween July birthday. Oh, that's too far away 28 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:39,319 Speaker 2: from that would have been overdrew. 29 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 3: Baby, that's a ripe. Hey, that's baby the right baby. 30 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 31 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:47,360 Speaker 4: Amber's greatest regretting in life because we asked people if 32 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:49,400 Speaker 4: they need to get some their chests. The greatest regret 33 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 4: in life stealing mailboxes when drunk whole mailboxes. 34 00:01:56,000 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 2: We have to do it On to my dad. He 35 00:01:57,640 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 2: built a concrete mailbox at their old house because someone what. 36 00:02:01,680 --> 00:02:02,880 Speaker 3: You mean, do they just take it? 37 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 2: Which said the school kids used to walk down down 38 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:08,239 Speaker 2: the street and he was like those fucking always it 39 00:02:08,760 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 2: was really Yeah, you'd smack him in, smack him with 40 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 2: bats and stuff, but occasionally you just steal the whole 41 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:14,320 Speaker 2: letter box. 42 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:15,799 Speaker 1: Do you know what I grew up in, like quite 43 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: a small little township Astbourne. 44 00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, you wouldn't mean a specially the boxes. 45 00:02:20,520 --> 00:02:22,919 Speaker 1: And no, but there was one family that always had 46 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: creative you know mail boxes like a menion man at 47 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 1: a big well. This is pre minions, but this one 48 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 1: was a replica of the. 49 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 3: No of the lighthouse at the end of Eastbourne. It's 50 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 3: not Carstle points. 51 00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 2: The other one. 52 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:42,679 Speaker 3: Anyway, it's a lighthouse. 53 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 1: She had that shagpoint and one day, no it's not 54 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:49,960 Speaker 1: one day someone went by and they bashed it up. 55 00:02:51,240 --> 00:02:53,359 Speaker 3: It was in the Eastbourne newspaper. 56 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 2: Who would do such a crime? 57 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:03,800 Speaker 1: Lighthouse Pin Carrol actually courteous if I much recommends Pink 58 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:08,799 Speaker 1: from the the furry across Today's Bay to Day's Bay 59 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: and then there's bike higher places and then you just 60 00:03:11,040 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 1: go down the coast. 61 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 4: Fletch im you because we stopped and came back, but 62 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 4: you can keep going. 63 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:18,959 Speaker 2: There's a two day. 64 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 1: Verge and you go all the way, don't you, well, 65 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:24,639 Speaker 1: Pink Yeah, yes, yes, pinkarris. 66 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,040 Speaker 3: A bit of a dark history, doesn't don't know if 67 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 3: I can tell you. And it's not. 68 00:03:28,160 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 1: Funny at all. Someone was buried alive there. Yeah, goodness 69 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 1: before it has been made into a thing. Wow, just 70 00:03:37,480 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 1: before I was born, or maybe just after I was 71 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:42,320 Speaker 1: my God, I was didn't find it and taking out 72 00:03:42,320 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 1: there and there they found them. 73 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 3: But it was awful. 74 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, to go back to the lighthouse thing, not to 75 00:03:48,600 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 1: skim over the that that poor person. But I know 76 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 1: who did it the Pink Carrol lighthouse. 77 00:03:58,440 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 3: Yeah was it you? No? 78 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 1: No? 79 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 2: No, best friend Jess. 80 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 3: No, none of my friends bring Jess into I can't 81 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 3: name shame. I can't. 82 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:12,520 Speaker 2: What have we disguised your voice so they didn't know 83 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 2: it was you? 84 00:04:14,880 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 3: Okay, you can Jerry con censored? Censor beapery. How does 85 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 3: the sense of people? Can we try the seeds to 86 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 3: be Because this is a new thing, we're fiddling with 87 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 3: this podcast. 88 00:04:23,279 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 1: If I say the name then and it doesn't get censored, 89 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 1: I request an after censor. 90 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 4: Okay, because I know this, I'm going to say, Sultan 91 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 4: Vinegard chips you sense vinegar. Okay, Sultan Vinegard. 92 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:40,039 Speaker 2: Can hold it down. It doesn't. It doesn't cut it 93 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 2: down the voice. It just goes over the top. 94 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:43,280 Speaker 3: I can't tell you. 95 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:47,240 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm protecting that. Okay, but I'm not an accomplas. 96 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:48,160 Speaker 1: But I do know who did that? 97 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:51,280 Speaker 2: Wow, So they never It was in the local paper 98 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 2: but they never found out. 99 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:53,640 Speaker 3: But the youth knew. 100 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:54,520 Speaker 2: Yeah a bit. 101 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 3: We told you. 102 00:04:56,320 --> 00:04:58,560 Speaker 2: Vorn wants concreted in someone's waterman. 103 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:03,080 Speaker 4: We don't about it at all. 104 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 2: It does. 105 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 3: Rather you could say the name because it tries to 106 00:05:09,040 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 3: hang my mic. 107 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 1: The person the person who broke the pin Carrow Lighthouse 108 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 1: mailbox was oh, when I I this was like early days, 109 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:31,800 Speaker 1: and then I went to high school and I had 110 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:32,840 Speaker 1: such a crush on him. 111 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 3: He was a bad boy. 112 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 1: He's a bad boy, bad boy, and I wrote all 113 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:37,040 Speaker 1: over my desk I love. 114 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 2: And did like is he hot now? Like? Do you 115 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:43,840 Speaker 2: still have a crush on him now? 116 00:05:44,000 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 3: No, he's a total fucking loser. 117 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:51,080 Speaker 2: Look at my face? Who would have thought that? 118 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:53,880 Speaker 3: He's a total I don't even know if he's on Facebook. 119 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 3: I don't even know where I would. 120 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 2: Find in prison? Do you reckon he's in prison? Has 121 00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:58,719 Speaker 2: it on a stint? He will have done a leg 122 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:02,839 Speaker 2: a stunt. Yeah, it's all. There's always the cool people 123 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:04,480 Speaker 2: that peaked in high school. 124 00:06:05,040 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, God no, Jared. Look at that guy. 125 00:06:09,120 --> 00:06:13,640 Speaker 4: He's out there hiking. He's a nature stallion. He's out 126 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 4: there trying to walk. 127 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: I reckon This profile here feels a bit more because 128 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 1: of all the boy race of cars, and but it's locked. 129 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:27,600 Speaker 1: We're not together are because you can lock you you 130 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 1: can lock your see anything. 131 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 2: It's very hard to stalk people now on Facebook with 132 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 2: locked profile. Yeah. Annoying anyway, interesting, interesting, interesting, Remember the 133 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 2: days you could search someone by phone numbers? 134 00:06:39,800 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 3: You call them the good old days. I what about 135 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 3: just a general search with his name and the suburbs 136 00:06:47,640 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 3: that you grew up in. 137 00:06:48,920 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: Go. 138 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 3: No, that guy's handsome and he's a structural engineer. That's 139 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 3: a oh my god curly here. 140 00:06:56,880 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 2: Maybe that's maybe that's why he's a structural engineer, because 141 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 2: the lighthouse letter box wasn't up to standard wanted, and 142 00:07:03,480 --> 00:07:05,840 Speaker 2: that's why he hit the tear, and his opus is 143 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 2: going to be rebuilding it. 144 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:08,239 Speaker 3: Yeah. 145 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:12,240 Speaker 4: Now, anyway, is Amber had her regretted stealing mailboxes? 146 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 3: Who been drunk? 147 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 4: What's the most juicy thing that's happened to you this year? 148 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 4: My goodness, got to the er for having rough six. 149 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:23,800 Speaker 2: O Oh, do we get a tear? A tear in 150 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:25,360 Speaker 2: the banjo string? No? 151 00:07:25,400 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 4: I think it's I'm heavily pregnant and apparently this rough 152 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:32,480 Speaker 4: six damaged some of my tissue and it was blood. 153 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 3: It looked like a murder. 154 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 2: My are we dealing with a beg mega cock? 155 00:07:36,440 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 1: Oh my god, baby's okay? Vagina not so okay? My goodness, 156 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 1: I think we've got a bit. I think we've got 157 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 1: a yuey boom on our hands. 158 00:07:53,320 --> 00:07:57,280 Speaker 2: We do know somebody whether YUEI boom and it's yeah, 159 00:07:57,280 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 2: it's something else. The scenes have been ready. Who's got 160 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 2: the UI B Mega coop? Yeah? Oh wow, yeah, I know. 161 00:08:08,520 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 3: Oh the beach taking that one to the beach. 162 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 4: What do you need advice on how I'm going to 163 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:17,680 Speaker 4: push a wool and watermelon out the vagina? 164 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 3: Vagina sun roof, Yeah, take care of will come out 165 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 3: the top? 166 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. 167 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 2: And Alfred bighearted James, which is I believe he's rather eminent. 168 00:08:30,640 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 2: He's a gold star gay sun roof and it stars 169 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 2: never having hooked up, but could have been of vaginal birth. Yes, 170 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 2: Whereas he's planting latinam Elite President's club gay. 171 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:47,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, card club. He's caught a club game? 172 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 2: What gay? 173 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:55,960 Speaker 3: Yeah? I thought he was he was. I was telling 174 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:57,320 Speaker 3: us he was a plant little guy? 175 00:08:57,559 --> 00:09:05,680 Speaker 2: Is he out the vagina? 176 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:07,400 Speaker 3: Where can we ask? 177 00:09:07,440 --> 00:09:10,439 Speaker 1: Where you are in the scale of homosecurity? 178 00:09:12,840 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 3: Even ever been with a woman? 179 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:20,000 Speaker 4: He said, I've touched one and a tungsten gay as 180 00:09:20,040 --> 00:09:23,320 Speaker 4: with somehow you came out your mum's bumhole, you know 181 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:26,120 Speaker 4: when I was one again, somehow you came out your 182 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:26,840 Speaker 4: dad's bumhole. 183 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 2: Because I can't explain the. 184 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:36,200 Speaker 3: I don't even want to be in the vicinity near 185 00:09:36,280 --> 00:09:39,040 Speaker 3: this woman. He can carry me, he can carry me. 186 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:42,560 Speaker 3: My gosh, Amber, I hope you're fair. 187 00:09:43,240 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 4: By this stage the baby will be born let us know, Okay, 188 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 4: it'll be a vegeta bloody nightingw share shay. 189 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:54,520 Speaker 3: How would you say that name? 190 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:59,800 Speaker 4: Or like sheer Butter? Yeah, sheer butter Hutchinson from Hamilton? 191 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:00,880 Speaker 2: Is she Marjarine? 192 00:10:00,920 --> 00:10:06,960 Speaker 1: Actually it's from the body shop. 193 00:10:07,080 --> 00:10:11,680 Speaker 4: Yea, some mormite shout out out to the Hutcheson family 194 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 4: who were competing. 195 00:10:15,480 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 2: Not I don't know this is this is peanut but 196 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:19,040 Speaker 2: a whiskey. 197 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:22,080 Speaker 3: Can you explain Toddy on the mic what we're having. 198 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:27,160 Speaker 5: So it's closer to pretend I don't have bloody headphones. 199 00:10:28,920 --> 00:10:32,679 Speaker 5: Ubal peanut but a whiskey. Yeah, and that's basically all 200 00:10:32,679 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 5: I know. 201 00:10:33,640 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 3: Peanut but not this one. 202 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:37,720 Speaker 4: But you're a big fan of Is the sheep dog 203 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:39,199 Speaker 4: or is that Haley you were sheep dog? 204 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 2: Was sheep with genital pro? Sheep dog? I'm yet to try. 205 00:10:43,440 --> 00:10:45,400 Speaker 2: But Arry Kington been are. 206 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 3: And approach sheate doggy? It doesn't matter, don't be a 207 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:49,200 Speaker 3: little anyway. 208 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:52,560 Speaker 5: But our friend that gifted the dust this bottle that 209 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 5: we had to do a shot first try, and then 210 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 5: next I'm going to make a jelly Donuts cocktail. 211 00:10:59,480 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 2: Guy, you've now you've got me. 212 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 3: This whiskey doesn't even taste a whiskey. 213 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:04,319 Speaker 2: It tastes like. 214 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 4: Alcoholic peanut brittle, like peanut. 215 00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 3: This is better than the peanut whisky that we had. 216 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:12,280 Speaker 2: What is this? 217 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 3: This is nicer screwball? Oh, smooth endorsement. Chuck a bit 218 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 3: of cream in there. 219 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 2: Okay you're about to with a cock tarlate. Oh yeah, okay, 220 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:31,200 Speaker 2: I'm not a whiskey fan. Daddy likes does he? 221 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:32,560 Speaker 3: Is that better than Fireball? 222 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 2: I wouldn't even put that's obviously my own legue, like, yeah, 223 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:42,840 Speaker 2: fireballs trash, But I mean it's young, but it's cheap, right, 224 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:45,160 Speaker 2: Whereas that's like a propper fence. 225 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:48,600 Speaker 1: Very nice, mea that This is what I think about 226 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 1: the peanut But a whiskey over like a nice, classy 227 00:11:51,240 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 1: vanilla bean scoop, like an apaga shot, like a pudding with. 228 00:11:55,000 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 3: A little shot of that. 229 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:02,480 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm carrying a. 230 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 3: Lot for Jared to say, is that better than fireball? 231 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:04,839 Speaker 1: Oh? 232 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 3: My god, he's as buzzy, He's absolutely in his. 233 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:12,960 Speaker 4: So Shase's shout out to the Hutchinson family, who are 234 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:14,760 Speaker 4: completing their first year in New Zealand. 235 00:12:14,800 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 3: We moved here from the US last winter. Oh hello, welcome. 236 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:21,080 Speaker 2: What's the most juicy? Then this happened to you this year? Okay, 237 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:25,560 Speaker 2: tea time, the same way they moved from the US. 238 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:29,479 Speaker 2: It doesn't say it just is the U s Okay time. 239 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 3: Time. 240 00:12:32,240 --> 00:12:34,760 Speaker 4: Back in university, there was a couple that my wife 241 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 4: then girlfriend and I knew who were constantly trying to 242 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:41,480 Speaker 4: end our relationship, claiming it was in our best interest 243 00:12:41,640 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 4: of being like. 244 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:43,480 Speaker 3: He's not good for you, she's good for you? 245 00:12:44,960 --> 00:12:45,560 Speaker 2: People do. 246 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:51,000 Speaker 3: I hadn't put a because I know a male shape 247 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:52,200 Speaker 3: and I know a female shop. 248 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:55,560 Speaker 2: I know it male Margarine and a female shade. 249 00:12:56,160 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 3: Oh you shape, because Margarine, I think we know the 250 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:00,080 Speaker 3: same Mudge. 251 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 5: I think we know. 252 00:13:04,679 --> 00:13:06,559 Speaker 2: I can't believe Margarine. 253 00:13:06,880 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 3: It's not Minnie Auckland. Oh Marge, how is Marge? He's good? 254 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 2: They're great. 255 00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:15,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay, So I'm not getting involved in that silly 256 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:20,480 Speaker 4: Margarine talk. Shaye, I couldn't find who she was, so 257 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:23,079 Speaker 4: she said they were trying to enter relationship, claiming was 258 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:26,559 Speaker 4: about our best interests. See, they said, we know we 259 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 4: had no long term staying power and we should just 260 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 4: hand it. They tried to get every person in our 261 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 4: social circle on this side as well. 262 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 2: What what is wrong? 263 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 1: They're just sad and jealous. We literally cut them out 264 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 1: of our social lives altogether. 265 00:13:38,960 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 4: Dad's safebooks civil After graduation, we both got married on 266 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 4: the same day, I hope coincidentally, who knows, and life 267 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:49,119 Speaker 4: went on fast. 268 00:13:48,880 --> 00:13:53,320 Speaker 3: Forward to this year. Forward Kip for not boring us 269 00:13:53,360 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 3: with the. 270 00:13:54,080 --> 00:14:00,520 Speaker 4: Fighting when my wife half giddy informed me were getting 271 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:02,880 Speaker 4: a divorce, but weren't telling anyone why. 272 00:14:03,400 --> 00:14:06,480 Speaker 3: Yes, we love to see ouseholes unhappy. 273 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:08,719 Speaker 2: Do you remember that self rancious couple. We knew that 274 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:12,000 Speaker 2: was always like you know, and the whole time they 275 00:14:12,040 --> 00:14:12,760 Speaker 2: were being cheated on. 276 00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:18,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, don't get me wrong, we aren't normally happy about 277 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 4: people's pain, especially the end of a ten year marriage. 278 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 3: But to say we felt a little vindicated with being 279 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:24,240 Speaker 3: in a statement. 280 00:14:24,080 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 2: You on. 281 00:14:27,160 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 3: Time, What do you need advice? And we need some 282 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:29,920 Speaker 3: Kiwi friends. 283 00:14:30,440 --> 00:14:32,840 Speaker 4: I have board games and coffee, I'm told a good 284 00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:35,280 Speaker 4: way to start a really happy and wholesome conversations. Ask 285 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:39,560 Speaker 4: them about that amazing Australian dessert I have had called Pavlova. 286 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, no, you don't want to agitate the Kiwi. 287 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 2: Don't want to go in and poke the king. 288 00:14:47,520 --> 00:14:50,880 Speaker 3: The topics I could bring up to make friends three questions. 289 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:54,200 Speaker 2: No, no friends, wait for our friends. 290 00:14:55,040 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 3: Politics is always fun. 291 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:58,040 Speaker 2: No, you've already. 292 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 4: It's also good to know where people stand on those 293 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 4: sorts of things before you get too deep into it. 294 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:07,840 Speaker 3: Okay. Conversations to make friends in New Zealand TV shows 295 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:12,800 Speaker 3: shows good ones you've watched lately. 296 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:16,119 Speaker 2: Expect like people that have visited New Zealand and Australia, 297 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 2: and we've talked about this on the show, they find 298 00:15:17,760 --> 00:15:20,880 Speaker 2: it very hard to connect with Kiwis in Australians are 299 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:24,200 Speaker 2: very like clique. Yes, like people said, they say this 300 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:26,880 Speaker 2: all the time, people that visit New Zealand very clique. 301 00:15:27,120 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 4: Jared's actually from another country, Yes, Namibia by way of 302 00:15:31,120 --> 00:15:34,600 Speaker 4: South Africa. So you've you've had to make How did 303 00:15:34,640 --> 00:15:35,880 Speaker 4: you do it? You were young, when you were arriving, 304 00:15:35,920 --> 00:15:38,320 Speaker 4: your parents would have had this conundrum. Yeah, my parents 305 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:39,360 Speaker 4: never really made friends. 306 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:44,600 Speaker 2: Okay, so don't make friends. Put that down on the list. 307 00:15:44,680 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 2: Don't don't do it. 308 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 6: For example, Dad's best friend is from Namibia, who immigrated 309 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 6: a couple of years after we moved. 310 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:53,960 Speaker 2: Here, right, But so find other people that have moved 311 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:55,520 Speaker 2: here pretty much friends with them. 312 00:15:56,240 --> 00:15:58,479 Speaker 3: A good one is, hey, do you like fijos? 313 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:00,160 Speaker 1: Oh? 314 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:04,000 Speaker 2: Yeahs? And with fruit from your trees? 315 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:08,360 Speaker 3: Fruit from the trees. If you've got the general stuff. 316 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:11,480 Speaker 3: How about those mountains and Queenstown? Aren't they remarkable? 317 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:12,040 Speaker 2: Yeah? 318 00:16:12,520 --> 00:16:14,280 Speaker 3: Didn't they aren't? The A B's in good form at 319 00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:19,440 Speaker 3: the moment. The Warriors, the Warriors, Yeah, totally. 320 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 2: It would be hard. How would you do it? 321 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:25,040 Speaker 3: And christ you? She said, what school did you go to? 322 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 2: Yeah? 323 00:16:25,800 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 1: And then you'll tell them about the school you went to? 324 00:16:28,040 --> 00:16:30,880 Speaker 1: Overseas Aukland and Wellington. Got the traffic this morning? 325 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:33,800 Speaker 3: Hasn't the weather been terrible? 326 00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 1: There are lots of clubs and stuff, because I have 327 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:38,400 Speaker 1: friends that have moved for love and had to find 328 00:16:38,520 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 1: friends in new towns. And you go like, well, what 329 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:42,680 Speaker 1: are your hobbies? What were you into in high school? 330 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:44,200 Speaker 1: I might join a knitball team. 331 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 3: You make friends. Sports always good? Are you into tennis? 332 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:51,160 Speaker 3: Table tennis? They see they're going to the board games. 333 00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:54,040 Speaker 3: There's places where you can play board games and shops. 334 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you. 335 00:16:56,880 --> 00:17:03,120 Speaker 3: Like have lots of those games. Afternoons on this and stuff. Right, yeah, 336 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:08,399 Speaker 3: well you love I think though they're in Hamilton. Oh okay, 337 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:09,480 Speaker 3: yeah what a bugger? 338 00:17:09,720 --> 00:17:12,199 Speaker 2: Yeah, jar, I believe you've got some advice. 339 00:17:12,280 --> 00:17:14,600 Speaker 6: Maybe I hate to drag the nerdy side into it again, 340 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:19,240 Speaker 6: but pretty much any hobby store in New Zealand, once 341 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 6: a week we'll have a board game night, or a 342 00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:22,840 Speaker 6: D and D night or a like. If you're a nerd, 343 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:25,880 Speaker 6: it's quite easy. So just take along to one of those, 344 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 6: just start talking to people. I've made a few of 345 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:31,399 Speaker 6: my good mates through, like a vagabond or a hobbymaster. 346 00:17:32,040 --> 00:17:37,399 Speaker 2: Just you'll go to a swing this club clubs. It sounds. 347 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:41,000 Speaker 1: If it's a NERD's. If you're a nerd, it's a 348 00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:43,520 Speaker 1: bit easier. Which was the antethesis of high school. 349 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:48,119 Speaker 3: Great friends with other nerds. They were like the nerd bond. 350 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 4: Yeah they were good, and then after high school you 351 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:52,040 Speaker 4: just got to find the other ones, don't you follow 352 00:17:52,119 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 4: a hobby