1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: The huddle with New Zealand Southby's International Realty, the ones 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:07,480 Speaker 1: with worldwide connections that perform not a promise. 3 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:09,080 Speaker 2: On the huddle of this this Evening. Tris Sharson of 4 00:00:09,080 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 2: Shirston Willis pr Jo Spaguani of Child Fund, Hello you too, 5 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:13,840 Speaker 2: Hello hell Trish? Would you go up to space? 6 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:19,360 Speaker 3: I am not a space person. I'm an ocean person. 7 00:00:19,600 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 3: So people often say would you would you like to 8 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:22,000 Speaker 3: go to space? 9 00:00:22,040 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 4: And I'm like, that sounds very hippy, Trish. 10 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:26,880 Speaker 3: No, I love I love diving, so to me, I 11 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 3: love Oh. I love scuba diving, so that's my thing. 12 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 3: And often people say to me, oh my god, I 13 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 3: could never dive, I'm so afraid of the ocean. To me, 14 00:00:35,320 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 3: I find space much more terrifying, terrifying, black cold, whereas 15 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 3: under the ocean it's beautiful. 16 00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:44,559 Speaker 2: I don't reckon. I would pay a HUNDI found to 17 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 2: go into space for ten minutes. 18 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:47,880 Speaker 4: Would you know when you compared it to a really 19 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 4: nice cruise, I'm thinking right, cruise, cocktails, real sunshine, sunshine. 20 00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 2: But now you've just got Katy Perry and a little 21 00:00:56,080 --> 00:00:57,440 Speaker 2: tin little only for. 22 00:00:57,400 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 4: Ten minutes, thank god? Yeah, yeah, Katie Perry for ten 23 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 4: minut it's a tardess. 24 00:01:01,760 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, no fun, Okay, Trish. Do you think that this 25 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:07,480 Speaker 2: business with Winston Peters versus lux And is significant or 26 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:09,279 Speaker 2: is it, as the Prime Minister says, just a media 27 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:09,640 Speaker 2: beat up. 28 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 3: I think the Prime Minister is trying to gloss it over. 29 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 3: This is my read what National is trying to do. 30 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:21,200 Speaker 3: They're trying to balance pissing Trump off because we know 31 00:01:21,319 --> 00:01:24,240 Speaker 3: the US is watching everything that everyone does, and they're 32 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 3: very thin skin and unpredictable and unpredictable. So Nationals balancing 33 00:01:29,200 --> 00:01:32,399 Speaker 3: that with making the most of what they probably see 34 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:36,120 Speaker 3: as their best political opportunity to pull out of what 35 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:40,320 Speaker 3: have been pretty bad polls for them, pretty negative poles, 36 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 3: and stamp their mark. And someone over the weekend said 37 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 3: to me, oh, you know, do you think lux And 38 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 3: thinks this is sort of his christ Church earthquake moment, 39 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 3: This is his moment to really shine. I can't see 40 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 3: a reason otherwise, even even with that, why you wouldn't 41 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 3: have told Peters about this speech. I mean I watched it. 42 00:01:57,320 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 3: I don't think there was any particular magic in it. 43 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 3: And you can understand Peter's being grumpy about it and 44 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 3: grumpy about these calls going on with it. 45 00:02:06,280 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 2: At least you think that Winston's going to steal your thunder. 46 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:11,640 Speaker 4: But well he's been and he has been moving towards 47 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 4: this kind of you know, slightly trumpy populist support for Trump, 48 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 4: hasn't he? And I think, like everybody's trying to work out, 49 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:19,800 Speaker 4: you know, what do you do with a bully like 50 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 4: Trump and you can't ignore them? Is there only really 51 00:02:22,600 --> 00:02:26,079 Speaker 4: two options? You either suck up and kiss the ring 52 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 4: or you fight back. 53 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:31,120 Speaker 2: And I can't you say nothing, Josie, because we are 54 00:02:31,160 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 2: the tiniest little country at the bottom of the ocean. 55 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 2: You don't have to say anything. You can wait for 56 00:02:34,480 --> 00:02:35,560 Speaker 2: this whole thing to blow over. 57 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 4: Yes, so that's different. You can say nothing and be 58 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 4: off the radar, absolutely, but you still got to do 59 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 4: something because this crisis isn't going to fix itself, right, 60 00:02:44,800 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 4: so we have to go. We don't want to, we 61 00:02:47,240 --> 00:02:49,920 Speaker 4: don't want the bully to notice us, that's true, but 62 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 4: that's different to sucking up, right. So Trudeau tried to 63 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 4: sucking up things. Starmer tried to sucking up thing and 64 00:02:55,720 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 4: it backfired or it didn't help. And I think what 65 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 4: Luxin's trying to do I think is the right thing. 66 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 4: Where he's gone right is our what are our opportunities here? 67 00:03:04,400 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 4: CPTPP reach out become a kind of a sensible, rational, 68 00:03:09,639 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 4: rule of law trading group. That makes sense. You've got 69 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:16,359 Speaker 4: to make friends in Southeast Asia, You've got to reach 70 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 4: out to Japan, you've got to reach out to Canada. 71 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 4: I mean we've done bugger or actually to support Canada 72 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 4: who've been threatened with invasion. So we're trying not to 73 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:27,519 Speaker 4: be noticed. Yes, that doesn't mean we don't do stuff 74 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 4: behind the scenes. I think that's what Luxelan's doing. And 75 00:03:29,680 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 4: I think Winston is still in that slightly sucky uppy 76 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 4: phase and the sucker Uppers. I watch Game of Thrones, 77 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 4: the sucker Uppers don't make it to season two, season two, 78 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 4: they're dead. 79 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 3: Well look at I mean Mark Karney in Canada, hasn't 80 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 3: he done a great job of actually pushing back pretty 81 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 3: hard and doing well he was going to lose. 82 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:51,440 Speaker 4: And I've been He's possibly the most boring man I've 83 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:57,080 Speaker 4: ever met. And somehow starma Oh well, Kirs Starmer, Yeah, 84 00:03:57,120 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 4: you kind of if he shouted at a pigeon, the 85 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:01,920 Speaker 4: pigeon wouldn't move, is it does come across the quite 86 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 4: wooden I did. I kind of guy who said, you know, 87 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 4: what would you like? What kind of wood would you 88 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 4: like with that casket? Sir? That's kind of what you 89 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 4: expect him to say. 90 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 3: I did kind of think though. You know, Luxein's message today, 91 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 3: I don't know why. It sort of made me smile, 92 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:18,720 Speaker 3: but you know, I'm calling around everyone and I'm saying, hey, guys, 93 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 3: you know, I hope you're staying cool, calm and collected 94 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:24,280 Speaker 3: sort of you know, you can you can just imagine 95 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 3: it could be. 96 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 4: As momentarih I actually think it could the moment, it. 97 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,040 Speaker 2: Could also be. But even the politics aside, like see 98 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:32,360 Speaker 2: the politics aside, Josie, and just look at the practical 99 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 2: stuff that maybe that we may be at very delicate 100 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 2: stage of chats, you ever know, with the White House, 101 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 2: which Winston's all over, and then lux And goes and 102 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 2: does this and kind of rains on his parade, Right, 103 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 2: there's the practical problems could be real. 104 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:46,839 Speaker 4: Yeah, But again I come back to those that have 105 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 4: tried the suck up path and it just hasn't worked. 106 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 4: So we're not going to get below ten percent. We 107 00:04:53,200 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 4: might get some carve outs we might not. Who knows. 108 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:58,880 Speaker 4: Our biggest bet is to actually make the most of CPTPP, 109 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 4: which TPP. For God's sake, let's just call it TPP. 110 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 4: And it is the biggest trade block in the world. 111 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 4: It's bigger than our trade with the US. So the 112 00:05:08,400 --> 00:05:10,599 Speaker 4: potential lies there. We don't want to piss off the 113 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 4: US to the extent that we lose everything. But I 114 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 4: think what Luxein's doing is right. I think it's it's 115 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 4: where the opportunity is. 116 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:22,360 Speaker 1: The Huddle with New Zealand Southeby's international Realty achieve extraordinary 117 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:24,160 Speaker 1: results with unparallel reach. 118 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:26,679 Speaker 2: Right, you back with the Huddle triitious and Joseph Ganney, Josie, 119 00:05:26,680 --> 00:05:28,479 Speaker 2: you didn't watch the pocahon You're going to it's on 120 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 2: your watch list. 121 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:31,599 Speaker 4: It watch list. But I just got over the White Lotus. 122 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 4: It's just so much. 123 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:35,280 Speaker 2: No, I've got half an hour, don't spoil it. 124 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:38,280 Speaker 4: Well, guess who dies? I'm not going to tell you. 125 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 4: But anyway, if I wanted horror scandal and you know 126 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 4: who's guilty, who's innocent, I don't know. I just watched 127 00:05:43,680 --> 00:05:47,279 Speaker 4: the latest Trump tariff announcement. I don't need to watch this. 128 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:51,720 Speaker 4: I mean it does have that salacious, you know, appeal 129 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:54,039 Speaker 4: like the Lundee case and the Bain case where we 130 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:56,600 Speaker 4: want to watch, we want to watch the documentaries and 131 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 4: a hook monstrous. I mean it's it's compelling. I get that, 132 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:03,159 Speaker 4: but it's just, you know, I just us. 133 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:06,839 Speaker 2: You have got so hot actually. 134 00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 3: Steam just talking of it overheated. 135 00:06:13,920 --> 00:06:15,360 Speaker 4: You wouldn't know you've breastfeeding woman. 136 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:15,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. 137 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 3: Story, Well, let's move, move before we get. 138 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 2: He obviously regrets already talking about it. 139 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:26,680 Speaker 3: Well, and here's why. Did you read the key line 140 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 3: in his statement? He's talking about these the producers right. Well, 141 00:06:30,839 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 3: first of all, he calls this clickbait. I mean, hello, 142 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 3: you know, I mean as if there aren't huge elements, 143 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:41,320 Speaker 3: as if all of Auckland wasn't riveted to this grubbing 144 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 3: saga already. But then he says he's talking about the 145 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 3: producers in his statement, and he says, they told me 146 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:50,359 Speaker 3: what I wanted and needed to hear at the time, 147 00:06:50,760 --> 00:06:55,720 Speaker 3: understanding to prove my innocence. He is his line. They 148 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 3: said they would be able to help and without any advice. 149 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:02,200 Speaker 3: I trusted them both and what they said to me 150 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:07,600 Speaker 3: without any advice, I e. While you're on bail you 151 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 3: speak to documentary makers without telling your lawyer. 152 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what happened, right, There's clearly what happened, because 153 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 2: I would never let that out. 154 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 3: Who in their right mind would would do that? 155 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:26,360 Speaker 2: Polkhorn, I've got the answer for you. Hey, listen quickly, Josie. 156 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 2: When I was on maternity leave, I said this at 157 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 2: the start of the show. When as a matternity leave, 158 00:07:30,320 --> 00:07:32,560 Speaker 2: I stopped listening to ZB because it was too much 159 00:07:32,600 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 2: like work for me, and so I had to kind of, 160 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 2: you know, just focus on a few media anyway, got 161 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:40,920 Speaker 2: so frustrated. Do understand why people feel frustrated and have 162 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 2: this lack of trust in the media? Do you? 163 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 4: Absolutely? 164 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 165 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 4: And it's not just media, it's it's institutions, right, It's government, 166 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 4: it's government, it's government institutions as a general and New Zealand. Actually, 167 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 4: I think it's in the Adelman Trust Advice at Aidelman Barrometer, 168 00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:59,320 Speaker 4: which is a global one. Yes, Compair osselves, Globy, this 169 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:02,280 Speaker 4: is the aute. But I think we have like sixty 170 00:08:02,320 --> 00:08:05,480 Speaker 4: seven percent of this have a real sense of grievance 171 00:08:05,560 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 4: towards institutions, including the media, right, and that is well 172 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 4: above the global average. So we're really pissed off, as 173 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 4: you said, and I do understand it. I think there's 174 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 4: a if you look at all the institutions, it's a 175 00:08:18,360 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 4: feeling that the educated elite, and I'm one of them, 176 00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 4: have have sort of taken over the institutions. And so 177 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 4: the issues that the media focuses on, whether it's you know, 178 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 4: whether it's gender, whether it's diversity, whether it's school lunches, 179 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 4: it's a whole bunch of things that just they focus 180 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:37,280 Speaker 4: in on stuff and people go, hold on a minute, 181 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:39,200 Speaker 4: that's not the thing that's bothering me right now. 182 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 2: But when they focus in on something. I think the 183 00:08:40,800 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 2: Benjamin Doyle story was such an excellent example of why 184 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 2: we get so across with the media, because there was 185 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:48,800 Speaker 2: an accusation of something really weird and gross happening, and 186 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:52,080 Speaker 2: then the media just focused on something else, being Winston Peter's. 187 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 3: A simple way to sum this up, and you get 188 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 3: this especially when like I do, you go down and 189 00:08:57,480 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 3: visit the friends in far Nor in the king Country. 190 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:06,760 Speaker 3: They say the media don't have their finger on the pulse, 191 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 3: and that is a great way to sum it all up. 192 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:14,880 Speaker 3: It's not reflective of what you know. Middle New Zealand 193 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 3: is worried about They do feel it's gone off in 194 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 3: a tangent. And then if you mix the aut survey 195 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:26,079 Speaker 3: in today whether with stats that came out last week 196 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:31,199 Speaker 3: about left leaning, center leaning, right leaning media in New Zealand, 197 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 3: overwhelmingly the stats that came out were from newsrooms that 198 00:09:36,000 --> 00:09:40,440 Speaker 3: there is a left bias among journalists in newsroom. And 199 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 3: again I'm not commenting on whether that's right or wrong, 200 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 3: but that's also I think where this finger on the 201 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:49,200 Speaker 3: pulse things comes from, because a lot of New Zealanders 202 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 3: feel that that is just not representative of where they are, a. 203 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:56,200 Speaker 4: Remoteness from places we live, right. Yeah, it feels that 204 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:59,080 Speaker 4: the media is just not connected. And it used to 205 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:01,960 Speaker 4: be the job and you could do without a degree. 206 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 4: I mean, asked Mike Costing, you don't have to have 207 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 4: a degree, and that used to be really normal that 208 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 4: you would have a diversity of life experiences, diversity of incomes, 209 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 4: and diversitys it's all university education. 210 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:16,920 Speaker 2: Trish. Is it okay not to sleep in the same 211 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:17,720 Speaker 2: bed as your husband? 212 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 3: If I were in your situation right now, I would 213 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:24,440 Speaker 3: be downstairs getting as much sleep as I can, just 214 00:10:24,440 --> 00:10:25,199 Speaker 3: just as you are. 215 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 2: How long can I stretch this. 216 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 3: For hey forever? But again, this is absolutely different strokes 217 00:10:31,800 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 3: for different folks. I am what sleep is one of 218 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 3: my superpowers. I have to have at least eight and 219 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:40,720 Speaker 3: a half to nine hours a night. Any form of 220 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 3: disturbance is not great. And my biggest problem more is 221 00:10:45,600 --> 00:10:48,080 Speaker 3: that you know, I do have a very loving husband 222 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:50,680 Speaker 3: and a cat, and I wake up sandwich between them 223 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:53,800 Speaker 3: in the night, and you know, I'm like Fukushima. 224 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:54,840 Speaker 2: The core is just. 225 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 3: Absolutely melting down and I need calling. 226 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 4: Look, people who have have a higher rate of divorce. 227 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 4: That's a statistic. Don't ask me to source it, but 228 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:07,480 Speaker 4: I read it, and so I. If you can't get 229 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 4: good sleep, you're not going to have a good marriage. 230 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:12,439 Speaker 4: It's as simple as that. You're more irritable, you're less empathetic. 231 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 4: But enough about my marriage. 232 00:11:14,320 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 2: When your husband was on a boat for two months? 233 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 4: Absolutely yeah. And actually I live in a different half 234 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:19,960 Speaker 4: the time. I'm in a different sitting a little in 235 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:20,560 Speaker 4: a different bed. 236 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 3: Can I just say I love waking up in the 237 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 3: night because I'm also an absolute baby when it comes 238 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 3: to the dark. I love waking up in the night 239 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:30,839 Speaker 3: and having that lovely, warm person next to me, that 240 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 3: you can. 241 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:33,080 Speaker 4: Be your husband. 242 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 3: Oh absolutely, And I don't even need to think about it, 243 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 3: and he just sort of knows and cuddles into me, 244 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 3: And I find that absolutely delicious. 245 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:46,839 Speaker 2: Which is more selicious the Pocking Worn documentary or. 246 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:48,640 Speaker 3: Trish Well, I don't think that's selictious. 247 00:11:48,640 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 2: It's different, guys. 248 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:50,320 Speaker 4: There we go. 249 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:52,680 Speaker 2: There's the sex music for you, Trish. I always pulled 250 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 2: that one out. 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