1 00:00:01,840 --> 00:00:03,960 Speaker 1: Hello, I am Paula Bennet and welcome to my new 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: Zealand Herald podcast, Ask Me Anything Now. One thing I've 3 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: bluten in life is it's never too late to do 4 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,480 Speaker 1: something new. So on this podcast, I've talked to people 5 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:23,600 Speaker 1: from all walks of life to hear how they got 6 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 1: to where they are, get some advice and guidance on 7 00:00:26,560 --> 00:00:30,440 Speaker 1: some of life's biggest questions. My guest today has been 8 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 1: on our entertainment scene for a long long time, but 9 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 1: is still so young. But it's because she started her 10 00:00:36,760 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: first acting job at just twelve years old. She's been 11 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:43,000 Speaker 1: on many local Telly shows about as a true wisty 12 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 1: you can imagine, The Outrageous Fortune and West Side stand 13 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:48,960 Speaker 1: out as favorites for me. I was even lucky enough 14 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 1: to meet her and week with her and give us 15 00:00:50,440 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 1: a clue. Her new show, Double Parked Season two is 16 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 1: out now on three and three Now. 17 00:00:57,080 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 2: And Tonia Prepple, welcome and thank you. 18 00:00:59,760 --> 00:01:03,240 Speaker 1: Love to see you again. After that crazy charades show. 19 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:05,199 Speaker 1: It was crazy, wasn't it? 20 00:01:05,200 --> 00:01:05,600 Speaker 2: It was? 21 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:07,920 Speaker 1: But I thought you did such a great job because 22 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 1: you had to do like ten a day or something, 23 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 1: and I obviously only did one and after that, I 24 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:15,720 Speaker 1: was exhausted and it was so hot, and you just 25 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 1: had to sort of keep up that level of energy 26 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:20,559 Speaker 1: for like twelve hours. It was quite funny because people, 27 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: you know, we had wonderful people like you, and some 28 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:24,040 Speaker 1: of them wore just said to come in and guy, 29 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:26,959 Speaker 1: it's just what I'm doing, and then get so competitive 30 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:27,640 Speaker 1: so quickly. 31 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, I mean you do. 32 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 1: You get sort of filled with the desire to win 33 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 1: and triumph, which is wonderful. 34 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:37,480 Speaker 2: And I definitely was that. I enjoyed it. I enjoyed it. 35 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:42,039 Speaker 1: Okay, easy, quick fine questions. If you'd go to the 36 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 1: pub or for a drink with any celebrity, who would 37 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 1: it be? 38 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 2: Or probably Phoebe waller Bridge. Do you know her? She's 39 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 2: the creator of Fleabag. 40 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: Yeah. So she's a writer and actress and Killing Eve 41 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 1: she was, yeah, yeah, creator of that, and she's just 42 00:01:59,120 --> 00:02:01,880 Speaker 1: like so I totally have a crush on her, Like 43 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: she's just so talented and smart and funny and brilliant. 44 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: And I feel like we'd be friends, you know, Like 45 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:09,360 Speaker 1: I feel like if we just had the chance to 46 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 1: hang out, we'd be friends. What would you drink be? 47 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 3: Oh? 48 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:17,720 Speaker 1: I think choice Nkronia. Yeah, do love her? Do love 49 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:18,240 Speaker 1: a Nigarrony? 50 00:02:18,400 --> 00:02:19,680 Speaker 2: Yeah? Nice? Nice? 51 00:02:19,840 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: And a favorite bar pub restaurant anywhere in the world. 52 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 1: Oh oh, where would I like to go? Oh I 53 00:02:29,320 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 1: want to go to like the Histon, Bloomintholes, the Fat 54 00:02:32,840 --> 00:02:35,440 Speaker 1: Duck and England. That sounds amazing. I think you can 55 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:37,720 Speaker 1: lick the walls or something like. It's, you know, a 56 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:40,799 Speaker 1: full multisensory experience. I think. 57 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:42,519 Speaker 2: Wow, mind you. 58 00:02:42,600 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 1: We were just before you came in here in the studio, 59 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:49,519 Speaker 1: we were talking about feeding children. Okay, that changes your 60 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: dietary quite a bit, doesn't Yeah. 61 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, although they probably would quite like to lick the walls. 62 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:55,880 Speaker 1: They would exactly what made me think about it? 63 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, this is great grace for kids. 64 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, they would, they would. Okay, we're going to 65 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 1: chat about the second season of Double Pack shortly, but 66 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 1: first let's talk a bit more about you, because as 67 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 1: we've already, I mean, I've literally got photos of me 68 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 1: with you because I was just so excited because my 69 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 1: whole family are kind of bonkers on outrageous fortune. 70 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:18,119 Speaker 2: Your true Westias. 71 00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:20,359 Speaker 1: So yeah, that were yeah, that was that was your 72 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 1: stuff that we were going to get I know, and 73 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 1: I would like walk into a baron Wellington or something 74 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:25,800 Speaker 1: and they would play Gutther Black for me, you know, 75 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:28,240 Speaker 1: like they kind of almost saw me as, yes, you're 76 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 1: part of the West Yeah, but you're another member of 77 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: our you know, the extension and the in all of it. 78 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 1: But I mean it was it must have been intense. 79 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 1: And you did I mean, how many seasons was Outrageous? Six? 80 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, and then six worth west Side? Yeah. 81 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 1: So that's a big chunk of your acting career, isn't it. 82 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 2: It was huge. Yeah. 83 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 1: I started when I was twenty on Outrageous and I 84 00:03:50,240 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 1: finished on West Side when I was thirty five. 85 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:55,200 Speaker 2: Wow. 86 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, And they made you look so much younger, you know, 87 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 1: like at twenty as you can look back at it 88 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 1: because I watched it with my step daughter, watched West 89 00:04:04,000 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 1: Side and because she hadn't seen Outrageous, huh, And so 90 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 1: then we went back and watched Outrageous again, and so 91 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:11,960 Speaker 1: I just saw you so young and with no may 92 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:16,200 Speaker 1: Caffe and yeah, I used to have fifteen minute makeup calls, 93 00:04:16,200 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 1: and for the first few seasons before Laretta kind of 94 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:21,279 Speaker 1: had her glow up. Yeah, I have your fifteen minutes. 95 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 1: It was amazing, you know, like tiny bit of foundation 96 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 1: on my face and that was it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 97 00:04:27,960 --> 00:04:29,600 Speaker 1: that would have been fun. It was great and could 98 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 1: you embrace your character? And it's quite a you know. 99 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 1: I interviewed Robin Malcolm and spent some time with her 100 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: as well in we both did this woman's event for 101 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 1: the day, and she was just saying that what she 102 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 1: also loved about the show was that it was body positive. 103 00:04:44,279 --> 00:04:47,039 Speaker 1: They wanted you to be real and who you were, 104 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 1: and there wasn't any of those kind of external pressures 105 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 1: that we unfortunately still see today for some of our actors. 106 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, what the expectations are. 107 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're absolutely right, Like it was body positive and 108 00:04:57,760 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 1: what I believe is the best way to be pop 109 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:03,240 Speaker 1: body positive and that bodies were not talked about. Yeah, 110 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:06,160 Speaker 1: it just was not on. It was not up for discussion. 111 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 1: No one ever talked about it. It wasn't like you 112 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 1: had a wardrobe fitting and you It wasn't even like 113 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:11,679 Speaker 1: we're a body positive show. 114 00:05:11,839 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 2: It just was not part of it, you know. 115 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 1: It was it was neutral, which I think is you 116 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 1: know the best way to be body positive is to 117 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 1: not talk about bodies, you know, like, how do you 118 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:22,040 Speaker 1: help your daughter feel positive in her body. Don't talk 119 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:24,719 Speaker 1: about everybody, you know, it's just that should be something 120 00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 1: that we just ultimately don't discuss, and that that was 121 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:27,720 Speaker 1: the case. 122 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love it. 123 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:30,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, so you were a child actor. Did you call 124 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 1: your SEP child actor? 125 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 2: Yeah? 126 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 1: I guess it. 127 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:33,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you. 128 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:37,920 Speaker 1: And like I read about that first job at twelve 129 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:40,960 Speaker 1: and then it was you know, friends, wasn't a family 130 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:44,120 Speaker 1: friends that they knew someone that got you into it? 131 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 2: Is it right? 132 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 1: Yeah? 133 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 2: It's such a classic New Zealand story. Yeah. 134 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:51,040 Speaker 1: So yeah, my best friend at primary school, her their 135 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:54,039 Speaker 1: neighbor was an acting agent. So my best friend's mum 136 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:55,520 Speaker 1: asked me if I would like to get signed up 137 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:57,720 Speaker 1: and I was like yes, absolutely, had no idea what 138 00:05:57,760 --> 00:06:01,080 Speaker 1: that meant or what they would entail, but I definitely 139 00:06:01,120 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 1: wanted to do it. So I was eleven and I 140 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 1: asked my parents and they're like, look, sure you can 141 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 1: get an agent, but you this particular agent, but you 142 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 1: have to do it yourself, you have to organize it. 143 00:06:09,720 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 1: So I was like, no problem. So rang up this 144 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 1: agent said can I can you represent me? And they 145 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:17,680 Speaker 1: were like, well this is weird having had a kid 146 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 1: rung up. So yeah, she took me on and then 147 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:22,360 Speaker 1: I started listening for a couple of things, and then 148 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:24,160 Speaker 1: I got my first TV show the following year when 149 00:06:24,200 --> 00:06:26,560 Speaker 1: I was twelve. So you so you knew, like you 150 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:28,840 Speaker 1: said to say that it was just kind of it 151 00:06:28,880 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 1: was in your DNA. 152 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:31,919 Speaker 2: But it's not in your family's tona. No, it's not. 153 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:34,479 Speaker 1: A lot of actors come from acting, Yes, absolutely, and 154 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:37,920 Speaker 1: so that's part of yeah, the tentlate of their life. Yeah, 155 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 1: but no, most of my families are lawyers or academics, 156 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:44,160 Speaker 1: so it was not part of that at all. But yeah, 157 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:46,919 Speaker 1: from my earliest memories, like literally three or four, I 158 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:49,280 Speaker 1: just knew it was what I wanted to do, and 159 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:52,359 Speaker 1: I would seek out every opportunity that I could to perform, 160 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 1: and every time I did, it just felt like something 161 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:56,760 Speaker 1: kind of ignited in me, and I was like this 162 00:06:56,839 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 1: is what I Wow. Yeah, my nephew's like that really Yeah, 163 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 1: he's in yeah, and no one else has kind of 164 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 1: got the jeans and he's just like we knew from 165 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:08,040 Speaker 1: three years old. Wow, And he performs on stage and 166 00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 1: he's been in Shortland Streege. 167 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 2: Oh cool. 168 00:07:09,960 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 1: You know, like look at place each sport, does you 169 00:07:12,320 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 1: know it's really nice about around and he'll you know, 170 00:07:14,360 --> 00:07:16,320 Speaker 1: doing whatever he wants. But yes, we just look at 171 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:18,720 Speaker 1: him and just go, wow, there's something in there, something 172 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: in that. Yeah, I know it's it's quite unusual, but 173 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:22,679 Speaker 1: but yeah, but true. 174 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 175 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 1: And then following that path, I suppose because you had 176 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 1: such a certainty that it was what you wanted to do, 177 00:07:29,200 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 1: those sorts of opportunities, did you just kind of grab 178 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 1: them and run with it, because it's not kind of 179 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 1: it's kind of hard to map out in New Zealand 180 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:37,320 Speaker 1: what you're sure is like, isn't it? 181 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:37,520 Speaker 3: Oh? 182 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, as sure as and you know, particularly for you know, 183 00:07:40,880 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 1: a girl growing up in Wellington whose family was absolutely 184 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 1: not part of any arts scene. Yeah. I I mean 185 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:49,400 Speaker 1: as a kid, I would just like as soon as 186 00:07:49,400 --> 00:07:51,560 Speaker 1: I could read, i'd like read the newspaper to see 187 00:07:51,560 --> 00:07:54,960 Speaker 1: if there were like general auditions for local repertory plays 188 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 1: and things like that, and then I'd go along and 189 00:07:56,840 --> 00:08:00,240 Speaker 1: audition and I got cast in a few. And then 190 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 1: when I got this agent when I was eleven, I 191 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:05,239 Speaker 1: started acting in professional TV shows from when I was twelve, 192 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 1: and I yeah, was quite busy throughout my teens and 193 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:11,240 Speaker 1: then towards the end of my teens all sort of 194 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 1: stopped because suddenly I was in a different category as 195 00:08:13,920 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 1: like a young adult and it was a lot more competitive, 196 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 1: and I remember feeling like, oh, it's so devastated. I 197 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 1: was like, I've just been a child actor. 198 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:21,800 Speaker 2: In my career is over. 199 00:08:21,960 --> 00:08:23,920 Speaker 1: And it was you know, sounds dramatic, but it was 200 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 1: very real, real worry at the time that I wouldn't 201 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 1: be able to do this thing again that I. 202 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:28,680 Speaker 2: Loved so much. 203 00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 1: But then sort of well, the big sort of next 204 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 1: step was getting outrageous fortune and that really catapulted my 205 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:38,160 Speaker 1: career in lots of ways. And I feel like, yeah, 206 00:08:38,200 --> 00:08:40,439 Speaker 1: from then things have been definitely up and down, but 207 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 1: from that point I've been able to really fullge your path. 208 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:47,120 Speaker 1: So when did you study because you've done you did 209 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:48,160 Speaker 1: study law for a little while. 210 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, maybe it to go. 211 00:08:49,880 --> 00:08:54,320 Speaker 1: And then you've studied acting numerous times, have you? But 212 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:56,720 Speaker 1: you've studied Yeah, I tried to. I still study as 213 00:08:56,800 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 1: much as I can. So I so after I finished school, 214 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:02,319 Speaker 1: I did go to university and I did a year 215 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 1: of law and then it's like, oh, it's. 216 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:04,760 Speaker 2: Just not for me. 217 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:07,600 Speaker 1: So I switched the credits to an arts degree. And eventually, 218 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:10,560 Speaker 1: at age thirty, I graduated with an arts degree. It 219 00:09:10,559 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 1: took me a long time, but so I didn't go 220 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 1: to drama school, and because I guess, I went to 221 00:09:15,559 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 1: university in that time where I could have gone to 222 00:09:17,200 --> 00:09:19,880 Speaker 1: drama school, and then I got cast an outrageous fortune, 223 00:09:19,880 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 1: and so then it sort of didn't feel quite right 224 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:23,440 Speaker 1: to go back and do a three year degree. But 225 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:29,079 Speaker 1: I really believe in continual growth and learning and development 226 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 1: in life, in anything, but particularly a few the thing 227 00:09:33,080 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 1: that means a lot to you and that you're passionate 228 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:36,720 Speaker 1: about because you can always get better at it. 229 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 2: So yeah, I still do lots of courses. 230 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 1: I'm doing one this weekend, for example, a weekend course 231 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:43,719 Speaker 1: with a teacher from Australia who's coming over. 232 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I love it, like, I mean, the wonderful thing. 233 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:47,320 Speaker 2: And do you learn something? 234 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 1: Sorry? Oh, because you are just phenomenal, So do you 235 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 1: genuinely learn? So? Oh? 236 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:54,600 Speaker 2: Yeah. 237 00:09:54,720 --> 00:09:59,400 Speaker 1: I am so painfully aware of my limitations as an 238 00:09:59,400 --> 00:10:02,240 Speaker 1: actor where I want to be. I mean, you know, 239 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:06,320 Speaker 1: it's just so inspiring seeing a beautiful performance in a 240 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:08,320 Speaker 1: play or a film and you go, wow, that's possible, 241 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:10,760 Speaker 1: And I'm not there yet so it's it's really clear 242 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:16,160 Speaker 1: how much better, deeper, more, truthful, whatever, you know, all 243 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 1: those words that I could be. So yeah, absolutely, training 244 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 1: is a big part of it. Wow, Okay, I'm not 245 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 1: going to say it surprises me, but I just think 246 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 1: that you you evolve your characters and I believe them 247 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 1: so much, and you portray them in a way that 248 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 1: you know, I do feel like I'd go and have 249 00:10:33,559 --> 00:10:36,199 Speaker 1: a drink with retail good luck to. 250 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 3: You actually know you'd hold your own. 251 00:10:39,240 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 1: Right Yeah yeah, okay, so then you love to learn 252 00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:46,800 Speaker 1: and do new things. So the random one of the 253 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:49,800 Speaker 1: random ones, which is you and Meddle in Paris at 254 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:52,360 Speaker 1: Clown School, which I did know that you had been 255 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:54,319 Speaker 1: because when you tuned up to give us a clue, 256 00:10:54,480 --> 00:10:57,880 Speaker 1: it was like there's a bit of experienced miming going on. 257 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:01,240 Speaker 1: There was announced and I think it was Tom Sainsbury 258 00:11:01,280 --> 00:11:02,679 Speaker 1: that revealed that's the nation. 259 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 2: That I've been to class school. Uh yeah yeah. 260 00:11:04,920 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 1: So yeah, So Madeline and I which is obviously because 261 00:11:07,559 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 1: now we're co stars and double packed, but we became friends. 262 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 1: She came and did a guest role on Outrageous Fortune 263 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 1: and we headed off and then she said that she 264 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 1: was going to Paris to do this to study with 265 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:22,320 Speaker 1: Philip Collier. And I did French at high school and university, 266 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:24,840 Speaker 1: and I always wanted to be able to haven't I 267 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 1: have an excuse really to go to France and speak 268 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 1: the language. And so even though we were only like 269 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 1: new friends, I was like, can I come with you? 270 00:11:31,880 --> 00:11:32,000 Speaker 3: Like? 271 00:11:32,160 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 1: And because it worked with a break and outrageous filming, 272 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:37,640 Speaker 1: so and she's like, yeah, okay. So anyway, I signed 273 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 1: up without really knowing much about what this teacher was like. 274 00:11:41,040 --> 00:11:44,920 Speaker 1: And yeah, he's very intense. He has a very intense 275 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:48,520 Speaker 1: you said that, really intense, really intense. Yeah, you get 276 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:51,040 Speaker 1: up and you so he gets you to do an 277 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 1: exercise which is often quite cryptic, and he held this 278 00:11:53,559 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 1: drum and you get up and start performing this exercise 279 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 1: in front of the class, and he will bang the 280 00:11:58,320 --> 00:12:00,559 Speaker 1: drum when he's had enough of it, like when it's bad, 281 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:02,040 Speaker 1: and honestly, sometimes you. 282 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:04,720 Speaker 3: Just stand up and he bangs the trumph. 283 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 2: And so I found it pretty tough. 284 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 1: It's all kind of in this like the first month 285 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:11,600 Speaker 1: is called leisure the game, so it is all kind 286 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 1: of in this playful way. 287 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:14,559 Speaker 2: But I'm like really. 288 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 1: Sensitive himself I found it quite hard to like just 289 00:12:17,440 --> 00:12:23,040 Speaker 1: get on board with the kind of joyful, constructive criticism we. 290 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:25,200 Speaker 3: Would get all the time. I stood up and I'm crap. 291 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 3: I stood up and I'm crap. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, 292 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:31,559 Speaker 3: thanks to that. Yeah, but look it got me to Paris. 293 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 3: What a story, right, yep, exactly. 294 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:37,320 Speaker 1: You know. So on the note of meeting people on 295 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:41,480 Speaker 1: seat that you get on well with, no I seek 296 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:46,040 Speaker 1: way there for me talking about your now husband six 297 00:12:46,120 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 1: months Dan, six months and year Dan. So I want 298 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:52,600 Speaker 1: to know which did you meet on we titled did 299 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:55,079 Speaker 1: you meet what you met? Outrageous Fortune? When did you 300 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:56,360 Speaker 1: start having eyes? 301 00:12:56,800 --> 00:12:57,199 Speaker 2: Yeah? 302 00:12:57,320 --> 00:13:02,640 Speaker 1: So we met, funnily enough, back in like two thousand 303 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:08,560 Speaker 1: and three in a theater lecture at Victoria University. Because 304 00:13:08,600 --> 00:13:11,559 Speaker 1: we're by studying, I can't remember that, but he can. 305 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 1: He remembers that we were sitting next to each other 306 00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:15,840 Speaker 1: and had a nice hit. I really can't remember that. 307 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:18,839 Speaker 1: And then he moved to Auckland, maybe like two thousand 308 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:21,200 Speaker 1: and eight, and I was already up here doing Outrageous Fortune. 309 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:23,719 Speaker 1: And because we're you know, similar age and both in 310 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:25,640 Speaker 1: the arts, we knew of each other and were kind 311 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:27,840 Speaker 1: of part of the same wider circle of friends, but 312 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:31,960 Speaker 1: never really had much of a connection or independent friendship 313 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 1: apart from just being in this wider circle of friends. 314 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:36,440 Speaker 2: And then kind of it was so strange. 315 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:39,840 Speaker 1: It must have been I think it was like season four, 316 00:13:39,960 --> 00:13:42,439 Speaker 1: is that right, season four of No I must have 317 00:13:42,440 --> 00:13:44,800 Speaker 1: been season three of West Side and we'd already done 318 00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 1: three seasons of it, yeah, and the same kind of 319 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:51,760 Speaker 1: not really connecting with each other in any kind of 320 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:54,079 Speaker 1: particular way, and it was so strange. 321 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:54,960 Speaker 2: It's never happened to me before. 322 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:56,840 Speaker 1: I don't know if it's ever happened to you, but 323 00:13:57,000 --> 00:13:58,640 Speaker 1: it was like, the best way I can describe it 324 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:01,680 Speaker 1: is like something like opened up in the universe that 325 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:03,400 Speaker 1: was not there before and we were both like, oh 326 00:14:03,480 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 1: oh hey, and yeah, it just like changed. 327 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:09,400 Speaker 2: It was really bizarre. 328 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:12,199 Speaker 1: Okay, so it was it weird then being at work 329 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 1: and you're now dating and you both hooked up with 330 00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:21,360 Speaker 1: someone else in your day job, yes, who we work with? 331 00:14:21,520 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 3: Yes? 332 00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 1: Yes? 333 00:14:22,160 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 2: Right? Yeah? Yeah so that I mean, mom, mind, you. 334 00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 1: You're an actor, your actor, and it's such a cliche, 335 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 1: right that you hook up with your co star like 336 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:35,680 Speaker 1: it happens so often. But funnily enough, with West Side, 337 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:38,280 Speaker 1: we actually have hardly any scenes together, like how you know, 338 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:40,200 Speaker 1: Lefty and Rita don't have much to do with each 339 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 1: other and don't really like each other all that much. 340 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:45,720 Speaker 1: So yeah, so it was, Yeah, it was. It was 341 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 1: kind of lovely actually, because we've got to hang out, 342 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 1: I mean quite as you say, for actors that okay 343 00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:53,200 Speaker 1: when they're genuinely playing a couple and you can see 344 00:14:53,200 --> 00:14:55,600 Speaker 1: that evil of intimacy and then it might just sort of, 345 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 1: you know, creep over and that's something. Yeah, but that 346 00:14:57,880 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 1: wasn't the case because, as you say, you both were 347 00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:03,960 Speaker 1: completely different, you were doing completely different scenes. Yes, yeah, 348 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:05,880 Speaker 1: that's right. Yeah, we so we kind of we did. Yeah, 349 00:15:05,880 --> 00:15:10,120 Speaker 1: we didn't actually get to hang out much at work. 350 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but you so you kind of even though 351 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:14,240 Speaker 1: you'd known each other a long time, you more or 352 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:15,440 Speaker 1: less had that instant moment. 353 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 2: Yeah we did. 354 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's weird and simultaneously as well, Oh I know 355 00:15:20,360 --> 00:15:22,000 Speaker 1: it is, And it is because it is such a 356 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 1: cliche to get together with someone you're working with, Like 357 00:15:24,360 --> 00:15:27,040 Speaker 1: often happens because you're working in this intense environment, and 358 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:30,360 Speaker 1: particularly if you are actually acting opposite them, which we weren't, 359 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:34,560 Speaker 1: you're like purposely creating these feelings of connection and intimacy. 360 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:37,880 Speaker 1: But yeah, this was kind of separate to that and 361 00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 1: obviously lasted. And so you got married about six months ago. 362 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 1: And I think just the obvious is that dress you 363 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 1: were wearing, Oh my godness, thank you, just absolutely adorable 364 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:52,359 Speaker 1: and beautiful. 365 00:15:52,520 --> 00:15:55,640 Speaker 2: And it was a bit shorter, so I had your 366 00:15:55,680 --> 00:15:56,240 Speaker 2: two dresses. 367 00:15:57,440 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 1: For my ceremony dress, I had a lot like my 368 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:03,360 Speaker 1: wedding dress. It's like sort of ye long laced sleeves 369 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 1: and a big, full skirt, and then for the reception 370 00:16:05,240 --> 00:16:07,840 Speaker 1: I changed into a little mini which was yeah, super fun. 371 00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:11,120 Speaker 2: You and we've got Freddy and Gas. Yeah, Freddy and Gas. Yeah, 372 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:15,160 Speaker 2: and Freddy's five just five turn five in July. Yeah. Wow. 373 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 2: School yep. 374 00:16:16,360 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 1: We actually went for our first school visit yesterday where 375 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 1: he's going to go in term four. So yeah, we 376 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:22,280 Speaker 1: went for yesterday for the first time. 377 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:25,760 Speaker 2: And where the mums will recognize you, won't they, I guess. 378 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 1: So, I mean in New Zealand, people I find you 379 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:33,040 Speaker 1: might have a different experience because of your politician role 380 00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 1: of people might have a different, you know, sense of 381 00:16:35,360 --> 00:16:38,680 Speaker 1: what they can say to you. But I find particularly 382 00:16:38,720 --> 00:16:43,560 Speaker 1: in Auckland, people can't sometimes say something, but often they don't. 383 00:16:43,640 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 1: Like I'll sometimes get a bit of like side eye, 384 00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:49,440 Speaker 1: but they usually like for example, yesterday when we went 385 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:51,720 Speaker 1: on the school visit, no one said anything. 386 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 2: I agree. 387 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:54,680 Speaker 1: So people, yeah, they're sort of engrossed in their own 388 00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 1: lives and yeah, we're not really that interesting, not that interested. Yeah, 389 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 1: we're not that interesting. And I think it's quite common, 390 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:02,280 Speaker 1: you know, and at to see people off the telly 391 00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:04,000 Speaker 1: or yeah, to see I used to say to people, 392 00:17:04,040 --> 00:17:05,800 Speaker 1: you know, you're right, it is a little bit different 393 00:17:05,800 --> 00:17:07,440 Speaker 1: outside of Auckland. And I used to say to people, know, 394 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:09,639 Speaker 1: if I really don't, if I really just want to 395 00:17:09,640 --> 00:17:11,960 Speaker 1: be with my friends and have that moment, you know, 396 00:17:12,000 --> 00:17:13,680 Speaker 1: go to a baron Ponts and be because they always 397 00:17:13,680 --> 00:17:16,080 Speaker 1: think they're far more important than you. 398 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:19,320 Speaker 2: Yea, so they should, right, so they should absolutely, yeah they. 399 00:17:20,680 --> 00:17:22,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, but then there's nothing like our out of out 400 00:17:22,920 --> 00:17:25,480 Speaker 1: of Auckland is who just embrace you and you know. 401 00:17:25,520 --> 00:17:27,480 Speaker 2: Like I find it gets more intense the more south 402 00:17:27,520 --> 00:17:27,840 Speaker 2: you go. 403 00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:31,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, like Dned and it's like, well that's that's that's 404 00:17:31,480 --> 00:17:31,760 Speaker 1: a lot. 405 00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:34,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely, I can imagine that. 406 00:17:34,680 --> 00:17:37,639 Speaker 1: So having children, I mean, how you're doing the juggle 407 00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:40,200 Speaker 1: because you know, this work and Dan works, and you're. 408 00:17:40,080 --> 00:17:43,480 Speaker 2: Both a lot. Yeah, it is, it's a lot. 409 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 1: And unfortunately, acting, like acting on TV shows, the hours 410 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:51,680 Speaker 1: just are really long, particularly if you're in a lead role, 411 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:55,439 Speaker 1: which is not conducive to family life and also not 412 00:17:55,440 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 1: conducive to being the kind of mother that I want 413 00:17:57,800 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 1: to be that's really important to me, which is one 414 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:01,159 Speaker 1: that's there, you know, all the time. I want to 415 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:03,120 Speaker 1: be there all the time, and also I want to work. 416 00:18:03,119 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 1: So it's it is difficult and it's a juggle. But 417 00:18:06,359 --> 00:18:09,960 Speaker 1: I actually have found decision making a lot easier since 418 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:13,480 Speaker 1: having them, because my values are so clear and they 419 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:16,359 Speaker 1: just are my priority. So I just I try to 420 00:18:16,359 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 1: be quite careful with how many TV shows I do 421 00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:22,480 Speaker 1: because really that's the only thing. 422 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:23,600 Speaker 2: That takes all of the time. 423 00:18:23,680 --> 00:18:25,240 Speaker 1: Like, yeah, all the other kind of bits of work 424 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 1: I do, I can sort of fit around their kindy 425 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 1: or I can do even at night when they're asleep. 426 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:34,960 Speaker 1: But yes, and luckily, so far, when I have done 427 00:18:35,000 --> 00:18:37,879 Speaker 1: like a lead role like on Double Parked or a 428 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:40,520 Speaker 1: couple of other things that I've done since they've been born, 429 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 1: then Dan has been able to kind of down tools 430 00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:45,399 Speaker 1: so he only works about four hours a day, so 431 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:48,359 Speaker 1: he's their primar key giver and then we have a 432 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:50,240 Speaker 1: wonderful nanny who looks after them for four hours a 433 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:53,000 Speaker 1: day or they're at kindy and yeah, he's their main 434 00:18:53,040 --> 00:18:54,800 Speaker 1: guy while I'm working, and they come and visit me 435 00:18:54,840 --> 00:18:55,680 Speaker 1: on set every day. 436 00:18:55,840 --> 00:18:56,040 Speaker 2: Yeah. 437 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:59,200 Speaker 1: So and it's healthy. Yeah, I think it's worked for 438 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:00,879 Speaker 1: us so far. I mean it's it is healthy for 439 00:19:00,920 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 1: them absolutely. Yeah. I less you're heat up occasionally, but 440 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 1: it's good for them. It's good for them, and it's 441 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:06,800 Speaker 1: what I want to do because I know it is 442 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:10,320 Speaker 1: good for them. But yeah, it's it's there's Yeah, there's 443 00:19:10,359 --> 00:19:12,199 Speaker 1: lots of things about this business that you know, the 444 00:19:12,280 --> 00:19:16,119 Speaker 1: uncertainty of it and the freelance nature of it, which 445 00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 1: is challenging but also beneficial to family. 446 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 2: Like we never can never really plan because we. 447 00:19:20,840 --> 00:19:23,239 Speaker 1: Never know, Like at the moment, I'm waiting to hear 448 00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:24,879 Speaker 1: if I'm if I'm going to be cast in this 449 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:26,720 Speaker 1: show in Australia, and if i am, then we're going 450 00:19:26,800 --> 00:19:28,359 Speaker 1: to go like in two weeks, but if I'm not, 451 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:29,119 Speaker 1: then will stay. 452 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:30,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, So it's strange. 453 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:34,879 Speaker 1: But the positive impact of that is that there is 454 00:19:34,920 --> 00:19:38,119 Speaker 1: more flexibility, so Dan can decide not to take on 455 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:40,280 Speaker 1: something if I've got something on, and we can any 456 00:19:40,359 --> 00:19:43,000 Speaker 1: understands your life, You understand each other's lives, yea, and 457 00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:45,719 Speaker 1: so in that context it's yeah, yeah, and we can 458 00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:48,639 Speaker 1: all pack up and go together. Like yeah, we all 459 00:19:48,680 --> 00:19:51,479 Speaker 1: went to Melbourne a few years two years ago for 460 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:52,960 Speaker 1: me to do a show and he was able to 461 00:19:53,000 --> 00:19:55,720 Speaker 1: just write from there, so that was that's great. I 462 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:57,680 Speaker 1: think it'll be really hard if we're going to talk 463 00:19:57,680 --> 00:20:00,320 Speaker 1: about double Packed in the second half of Little Bit 464 00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:03,400 Speaker 1: More and not getting type pats. But in Double Packed, 465 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:07,080 Speaker 1: we've got babies we do. Did did it make you 466 00:20:07,119 --> 00:20:09,760 Speaker 1: more or less inclined? Him another child? Did it? You know? 467 00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:12,800 Speaker 1: Like just being around those little places of smelling, the smelling, 468 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:15,479 Speaker 1: you forget this, You forget the smell so quick. I know. 469 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:19,080 Speaker 2: I know it's not fear. Yeah, I know, and then 470 00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:21,639 Speaker 2: you end up. I'm okay because I'm a grandmother, so 471 00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:24,000 Speaker 2: it's you're right for me to have. You got babies. 472 00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:27,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know they're all a bit older, but I 473 00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 1: sniff other people's babies and I just say to them 474 00:20:29,119 --> 00:20:31,520 Speaker 1: it's perfectly okay because I'm a grandmother. Yeah, Like it's 475 00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:34,240 Speaker 1: not creepy. Yeah, yeah, definitely not. Yeah, you're allowed to 476 00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:37,199 Speaker 1: sniff a baby. Yeah, surely, it's just an accepted And 477 00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:40,520 Speaker 1: how was it then working with babies? It was, Oh, 478 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:42,119 Speaker 1: it was great. They were so cute. I mean to 479 00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:44,080 Speaker 1: be honest, I was a little bit like, oh God, 480 00:20:44,119 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 1: how's this going to go? Because I've worked with a 481 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:48,120 Speaker 1: I always get cast as pregnant people who have babies. 482 00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:50,320 Speaker 1: So I've worked with heaps of babies over my career, 483 00:20:50,400 --> 00:20:53,800 Speaker 1: and it's usually pretty challenging for obvious reasons because they're 484 00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:56,880 Speaker 1: babies and often are upset because they have a saw 485 00:20:56,920 --> 00:20:58,640 Speaker 1: timmy or just don't feel like doing it or tired, 486 00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:00,520 Speaker 1: you know, all of the things. They can only be 487 00:21:00,560 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 1: on set again for good reason for a very short 488 00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:03,960 Speaker 1: amount of time because baby label laws. 489 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:05,679 Speaker 2: Are quite strict, as they should be. 490 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:08,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I was a little bit nervous about it, like, 491 00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:09,919 Speaker 1: oh god, it just makes things a lot harder. 492 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:11,880 Speaker 2: But these babies, they were great. 493 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:13,879 Speaker 1: So we had two newborns and then two they are 494 00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 1: about four months old because the season tracks about the 495 00:21:16,280 --> 00:21:18,440 Speaker 1: first four months of your life, and one was even 496 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 1: cast and usual of wow, but they were pretty chills like, 497 00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:24,840 Speaker 1: which is just such a crapshoot. 498 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:27,320 Speaker 2: Isn't it about how how baby? But they're little, they'll 499 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:28,880 Speaker 2: sleep anywhere, Let's be honest. 500 00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:31,639 Speaker 1: When they they don't even know though, Like I mean, 501 00:21:31,720 --> 00:21:34,400 Speaker 1: mine cried, cried a lot, but they sort of just did. 502 00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 1: I think we just got really lucky. But yeah, didn't 503 00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:37,840 Speaker 1: make me want to have babies more or less. 504 00:21:38,320 --> 00:21:40,560 Speaker 2: I don't know. I think we feel pretty good with two. 505 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:41,800 Speaker 2: We feel like again. 506 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:44,679 Speaker 1: For the lives that we want to have in the 507 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:46,879 Speaker 1: careers that we want to have. Too. Feels like a 508 00:21:46,920 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 1: good number. It's a carful. It's a carful. Yeah, that's right. 509 00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:50,920 Speaker 1: You can keep your car. 510 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:53,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, don't have to buy a seven seed. 511 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:56,240 Speaker 1: Okay, we're going to take break here, and when we 512 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:58,960 Speaker 1: come back, we will be chanting about not getting tight cast, 513 00:21:59,280 --> 00:22:13,400 Speaker 1: to brucify and always learning. I am back with Antonio 514 00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:16,000 Speaker 1: Prebople advice time, and I want to chat to you 515 00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:19,120 Speaker 1: about not getting typecast and the importance of always learning. 516 00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:21,679 Speaker 1: And we've already sort of touched on it, really, but 517 00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:25,080 Speaker 1: you know, you've talked about going and doing a week 518 00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:28,159 Speaker 1: in course this weekend. I mean, is it just that 519 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:31,680 Speaker 1: that's striving to be better? That listening to the experts. 520 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:34,240 Speaker 1: I mean what drives that. Yeah, I want to be 521 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:36,640 Speaker 1: as best as I can be at the thing I love, 522 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:40,120 Speaker 1: and with acting, the wonderful thing about it is there's 523 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:43,880 Speaker 1: no limit to how good you can be, and hopefully 524 00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:45,480 Speaker 1: the older you get, just the better you can get. 525 00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:48,080 Speaker 1: You know, it's tricky with in comparison to saving athlete, 526 00:22:48,240 --> 00:22:50,640 Speaker 1: you really pique at a certain aged level, and then 527 00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:55,040 Speaker 1: as your physical self declines, your career unfortunately declines and 528 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,720 Speaker 1: you have to start a new chapter. But for acting, 529 00:22:57,720 --> 00:23:00,720 Speaker 1: there really shouldn't be any endo it until you start. 530 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:02,440 Speaker 2: Losing your faculties when you're really really old. 531 00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:05,639 Speaker 1: But really otherwise you're just you know, it's understanding yourself, 532 00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:08,760 Speaker 1: it's understanding the world around you. It's gaining more experience 533 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:11,400 Speaker 1: and more tools. So you should just ideally get better 534 00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 1: and better and better. And that's what I want to do. 535 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:15,960 Speaker 1: I'm so aware of how much better I could be. 536 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:17,880 Speaker 1: But we look at some of those, you know, women 537 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:20,919 Speaker 1: that we could name, like Dame Judy Dentt and like 538 00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:23,320 Speaker 1: Meryl stre and you know, you just look at them 539 00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:25,119 Speaker 1: and what they can do and what they can do 540 00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:28,560 Speaker 1: and some respects when it's getting better, you know, like, well, 541 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:30,600 Speaker 1: I don't know it's fair to say, because there's been 542 00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:33,040 Speaker 1: so many amazing roles in their careers, but you know, 543 00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:36,320 Speaker 1: you can certainly see the maturity the wound there was though, 544 00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:39,280 Speaker 1: that kind of almost a shelf life, you know for it, 545 00:23:39,320 --> 00:23:42,879 Speaker 1: because you've tuned forty recently, right, Yeah, yeah, love a milestone, 546 00:23:43,000 --> 00:23:45,560 Speaker 1: Yeah love miss love a mile stone. Just rab it 547 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:49,200 Speaker 1: because the alternative not reaching one is worse. So I 548 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:51,639 Speaker 1: always think celebrated absolutely. I love that you went out 549 00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:53,960 Speaker 1: and seed you a forty two. Yeah, oh yeah, yeah, 550 00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:56,840 Speaker 1: I know we don't do it sometimes sometimes. Yeah, people 551 00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 1: are still a bit funny, aren't they about someone out 552 00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:02,320 Speaker 1: their age, particularly women? Maybe, Yeah, and you can understand 553 00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:05,760 Speaker 1: why because it has been a very ageist industry and world. 554 00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:07,919 Speaker 1: And yeah, probably still has twisted next, yeah it is, 555 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:12,159 Speaker 1: and and so in that context it has. Do you 556 00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:13,800 Speaker 1: think it is changing? I mean you can see some 557 00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:16,600 Speaker 1: great roles. I mean Robin talked about almost having to 558 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,200 Speaker 1: write her own yeah, you know, for after the party 559 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:20,679 Speaker 1: because you just sort of, you know, could see what 560 00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:23,720 Speaker 1: was sort of happening there. Yes, yeah, I think unfortunately 561 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:26,720 Speaker 1: it is still really prevalent. I mean, after the party 562 00:24:26,760 --> 00:24:28,840 Speaker 1: only came out last year. So the fact that Robin 563 00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:31,480 Speaker 1: was saying she had to write her own role means that, yes, 564 00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:36,160 Speaker 1: still even now it is it is really difficult. I 565 00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:40,840 Speaker 1: definitely notice a huge reduction in the number of auditions 566 00:24:40,880 --> 00:24:43,240 Speaker 1: that I get in comparison to when I was in 567 00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:46,679 Speaker 1: my twenties, because if you just think about most TV shows, 568 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:49,159 Speaker 1: most movies that you watch, they're generally about people in 569 00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:50,640 Speaker 1: their twenties or thirties. 570 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:53,120 Speaker 2: Well, he can be fifty, he can be. 571 00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:57,160 Speaker 1: Fifty, he can be twenty years older than his wife. Yeah, 572 00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:59,439 Speaker 1: I mean it's it's still going on. I think it 573 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:04,320 Speaker 1: is changed, absolutely and it is less acceptable for a 574 00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:07,480 Speaker 1: man to be twenty years older than his wife, but 575 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:11,400 Speaker 1: it's absolutely still happening. So we just have to keep 576 00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:14,879 Speaker 1: campaigning for it and making our own shows. And because like, 577 00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:17,720 Speaker 1: why is a woman in her forties or fifties or 578 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:20,919 Speaker 1: sixties or seventies or eighties any less interesting? I mean, 579 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 1: they'd be more interesting. They've got a lot more to tell. 580 00:25:24,080 --> 00:25:27,199 Speaker 1: And I think our viewing and we are an aging 581 00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:29,920 Speaker 1: population as well, so you know, one of the. 582 00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:32,639 Speaker 2: It's not devastating. 583 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:35,360 Speaker 1: That's such a dramatic expression I was going to use, 584 00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:37,879 Speaker 1: but you know, I've ticked from the twenty five to 585 00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:40,439 Speaker 1: fifty four age group. I now have to tick the 586 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:45,359 Speaker 1: other box. I don't count. I don't count because you know, 587 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,520 Speaker 1: we're not the biggest consumers, and we're not they're not 588 00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:49,600 Speaker 1: interested in it, and they're in our ratings and they're 589 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:51,959 Speaker 1: not interested in our and it's just like I'm spending 590 00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:56,479 Speaker 1: more money now than Yeah, I am in society more 591 00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:59,880 Speaker 1: than I ever have. Funny though, there is that kind 592 00:25:59,880 --> 00:26:01,560 Speaker 1: of tapping of aging. Yeah, there is. 593 00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:02,440 Speaker 2: I so do what you mean? 594 00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:05,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, just turning forty. I recently checked the new box, 595 00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:07,200 Speaker 1: like I think it was, like, you say, are thirty 596 00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 1: to thirty nine? I was like, oh no, I'm in. 597 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:10,760 Speaker 2: A new category now. 598 00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:13,680 Speaker 1: So that's a lot someone who's categorized me. 599 00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:15,719 Speaker 2: And out of the mainstream. 600 00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:19,399 Speaker 1: Yeah, in this chunk now, that's how it goes. So 601 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:22,399 Speaker 1: then needs to talk about double packs? Your Madeline have 602 00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:25,800 Speaker 1: been friends, yes for a long time. Yeah, yeah, And 603 00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:29,280 Speaker 1: so the opportunity came up. And I mean, and it 604 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:32,000 Speaker 1: is about lesbian couple. But isn't it great that I 605 00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:36,439 Speaker 1: mean it's mainstreamers. I don't but that's not the premise 606 00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:39,560 Speaker 1: of the show. Absolutely, I totally agree, And I think 607 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:42,960 Speaker 1: that's why this show in its own way is sort 608 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:48,160 Speaker 1: of quietly revolutionary, because it was made specifically to be 609 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:52,159 Speaker 1: a to have broad appeal, to be entertaining on a 610 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:56,600 Speaker 1: main broadcast network. And the central couple is queer, but 611 00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,080 Speaker 1: the fact that they are lesbians is not what the 612 00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:01,960 Speaker 1: show is about, and their sexuality is never in question, 613 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,399 Speaker 1: Like we have had, you know, lead characters who are 614 00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:07,760 Speaker 1: queer on TV before and the movie is, but a 615 00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:10,320 Speaker 1: lot of the time, their sexuality is the thing that's 616 00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:13,600 Speaker 1: being questioned, you know, are they act, are they actually queer? 617 00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:15,080 Speaker 1: Are they having or are they going to have an 618 00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:18,120 Speaker 1: affair or a straight person? But whereas with this their 619 00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:21,280 Speaker 1: sexuality is a given, and it's also not what the 620 00:27:21,320 --> 00:27:23,359 Speaker 1: show was about. It's about a relationship and how two 621 00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:27,640 Speaker 1: people navigate brotherhood. Society really has changed, Yeah, I think 622 00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:29,720 Speaker 1: it has. I still think there's a way to go though, 623 00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:33,400 Speaker 1: but yeah, we're moving in the right direction for four. Yeah, yeah, 624 00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:37,440 Speaker 1: I wonder I worry less about now the sexuality, if 625 00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:40,080 Speaker 1: you like, and more the genders. Yes, absolutely, and how 626 00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:42,439 Speaker 1: people navigate their way through that and we all get 627 00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:44,840 Speaker 1: our heads around it into a respectful way that yes, 628 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:47,080 Speaker 1: treats everyone as as they should be treated. 629 00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:48,040 Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely, But. 630 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:50,000 Speaker 1: I I mean I was on plane last night and 631 00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:52,400 Speaker 1: you know, and I sort of had these you know 632 00:27:52,720 --> 00:27:55,000 Speaker 1: guys my age really, so I shouldn't say older guys, 633 00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,480 Speaker 1: but you know guys my age. And one of them went, hey, 634 00:27:57,560 --> 00:27:59,440 Speaker 1: is this you? And you had my podcast? And I 635 00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,880 Speaker 1: said yeah. I said what are you going to listen? 636 00:28:01,880 --> 00:28:03,720 Speaker 1: Because download now before we go out. And I said, 637 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:05,240 Speaker 1: what are you gonna listen to? Her goes, I listen 638 00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:08,480 Speaker 1: to Ryan Bridge. I said, cool, listen to Ryan. Yeah, 639 00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:11,720 Speaker 1: it's a good one, you know. Anyway, about twenty five 640 00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:14,679 Speaker 1: minutes in, he literally he laughs out loud and he 641 00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,640 Speaker 1: takes his earphones out and you go and I said, 642 00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:19,399 Speaker 1: what are you laughing at? And he goes, oh, you 643 00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:21,360 Speaker 1: said to Ryan? Are you more conservative? And Ryan went, 644 00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:25,119 Speaker 1: for God's sake, I sleep with men, you know, I think, 645 00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:26,080 Speaker 1: so he was repeating it. 646 00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:26,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. 647 00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:29,000 Speaker 1: The guy in the middle seat goes, oh, is Ryan gay? 648 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:31,560 Speaker 1: And then someone else went, I didn't know Ryan is gay? 649 00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:33,360 Speaker 1: And then someone else went who cares? 650 00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:34,440 Speaker 2: And I care? 651 00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:38,920 Speaker 1: But yeah, I just kind of loved this random conversation. Yes, yes, 652 00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:41,120 Speaker 1: and so, which I guess shows that it is still 653 00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:43,640 Speaker 1: a thing. You know that people are still like, oh 654 00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:46,760 Speaker 1: oh oh is he gay? You know, it's still not 655 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:50,400 Speaker 1: completely normalized. Ye, but thankfully I think we are moving 656 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:52,360 Speaker 1: in the right Yeah. And the end that Ryan can 657 00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:54,600 Speaker 1: talk publicly about it. Yeah, because remember in the past, 658 00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 1: so particularly with men leading men or a leading journalist, 659 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:01,480 Speaker 1: they could not have met their sexuality, which is just 660 00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:04,200 Speaker 1: so it's awful, wasn't it. Yeah Yeah, yeah, yeah, I 661 00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 1: mean he would say that he almost feels privileged, but 662 00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:07,240 Speaker 1: he shouldn't. 663 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 2: That hand in this time and this time. 664 00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:11,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, when we look at the past and you know, 665 00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:14,560 Speaker 1: some of that that heaven. Okay, so let's talk about 666 00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:19,240 Speaker 1: not being typecast. Okay, of course you've done everything. Yeah, hey, 667 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:21,840 Speaker 1: like which is so fantastic and so do you think 668 00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:22,240 Speaker 1: about that? 669 00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:24,200 Speaker 2: So this is comedy, This is quite different. 670 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:27,720 Speaker 1: Yes, has been something that's kind of dramatic and intense, 671 00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:30,760 Speaker 1: like we side or it's quite different than almost you know, 672 00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:36,480 Speaker 1: your character grew considerably and outrageous, but it didn't start 673 00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:38,280 Speaker 1: as a well you were a main character, don't get 674 00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:39,320 Speaker 1: me wrong, but do you know what I mean, Like 675 00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:44,400 Speaker 1: you became more prominent yes, throughout the seasons really yeah, 676 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:45,960 Speaker 1: so do you think about. 677 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:48,400 Speaker 2: That diversification of not type casting. 678 00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:52,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I do, and I think I have been lucky 679 00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:57,040 Speaker 1: to avoid it, because, particularly with outrageous Watune west Side, 680 00:29:57,520 --> 00:30:00,440 Speaker 1: that was really against my type. You know, those two 681 00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:05,040 Speaker 1: characters are really not really me, and it's not really 682 00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:07,920 Speaker 1: how I come across, because often you are type cast 683 00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:11,680 Speaker 1: by your kind of natural vibe and what you naturally 684 00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:15,360 Speaker 1: look like, whereas I know that I don't come across 685 00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:17,600 Speaker 1: like a wisty you know, like that. Those both those 686 00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:21,280 Speaker 1: characters are quite different from my essence, I suppose, and 687 00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:24,280 Speaker 1: so I think, because those are still the two characters 688 00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,360 Speaker 1: that I'm kind of best known for, I think I'm 689 00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:29,680 Speaker 1: not I haven't been type cast because I'm able to, 690 00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:33,520 Speaker 1: I guess, show people the breadth of what I can do. 691 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:37,080 Speaker 1: And I also personally love the transformational process of playing 692 00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:38,040 Speaker 1: a character that's to you. 693 00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:39,880 Speaker 2: I love it. Yeah, I find it so. 694 00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:43,200 Speaker 1: One of my favorite things about acting is figuring out 695 00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:45,320 Speaker 1: the character. You know, who is this person? Why do 696 00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:46,760 Speaker 1: they do what they do, how do they move, how 697 00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:49,520 Speaker 1: do they talk. I'm with readA, for example. She was 698 00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:52,040 Speaker 1: a real transformation for me, like me a while to 699 00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:55,520 Speaker 1: find her, actually, but she really speaks differently to me. 700 00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,440 Speaker 1: She holds her body differently, she moves through the world 701 00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:01,080 Speaker 1: physically even quite different to me. 702 00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:03,840 Speaker 2: But I love that. I love that. Well, that's acting, 703 00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:04,360 Speaker 2: isn't it. 704 00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:07,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, it is. But some people sort of I think 705 00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:09,400 Speaker 1: there's not not no one where is right or wrong, 706 00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:12,760 Speaker 1: but some people kind of stick to their essence and 707 00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:15,400 Speaker 1: they bring that and it's beautiful and it's authentic. Like 708 00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:17,960 Speaker 1: Jack Nicholson is often the guy that people not like. 709 00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:22,720 Speaker 1: He's in every movie. He's Jack Nicholson and he's absolutely brilliant. 710 00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:25,720 Speaker 1: But then there are others you Grant, yeah, Hugh Grant exactly, 711 00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:27,600 Speaker 1: and you would never say that's a negative against them 712 00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:29,440 Speaker 1: because they're brilliant. But it's just kind of a different, 713 00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:33,600 Speaker 1: different way of approaching things. But yeah, I personally love Yeah. 714 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,280 Speaker 1: Isn't it funny because you quite I hadn't thought of 715 00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:38,040 Speaker 1: it until you were talking just then. But you know, 716 00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:40,720 Speaker 1: there are some actors that would you walk into the 717 00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:44,920 Speaker 1: pub and I would think, oh, there's there's Rita, you know, yes, 718 00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:46,960 Speaker 1: but if you walked into the pub, I would think, oh, 719 00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:50,560 Speaker 1: there's an Antonio. I wouldn't say you even though you. 720 00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:52,680 Speaker 2: Completely were her. But yeah, I don't think. 721 00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:52,959 Speaker 1: You are here. 722 00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:54,360 Speaker 2: It totally makes sense. 723 00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:56,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's there's a big difference between me and Rita, whereas, 724 00:31:57,000 --> 00:32:00,320 Speaker 1: for example, my character in Double Parked is the most 725 00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:02,880 Speaker 1: similar to me that I've ever played, And when I've 726 00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:06,080 Speaker 1: got the audition brief, it literally felt like that was 727 00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:10,120 Speaker 1: like has this been based on me? Like down to 728 00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:11,960 Speaker 1: things like you know, her dad is a lawyer? My 729 00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:13,440 Speaker 1: dad's a lawyer, and she knows she's a lawyer. I 730 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,000 Speaker 1: went to law school, but just everything about her. So 731 00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:18,520 Speaker 1: I'm playing the closest to me that I ever have 732 00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:20,400 Speaker 1: And yeah, yeah, which is great as well. 733 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:21,520 Speaker 2: Yeah it would be. 734 00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:25,520 Speaker 1: And working with a friend, right, yeah, yeah, not only 735 00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:27,800 Speaker 1: as an actor, but being directed by a friend as well, 736 00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:29,280 Speaker 1: because medal And directs the show as well. 737 00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:29,560 Speaker 3: Yeah. 738 00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:32,120 Speaker 1: It's a dream, isn't it to get to a point 739 00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:33,880 Speaker 1: where you can work with your friends. Yeah? 740 00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:35,760 Speaker 2: Exactly, absolutely. 741 00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:39,120 Speaker 1: I mean we've talked about the industry changing, but I 742 00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:40,040 Speaker 1: mean you're in your prime. 743 00:32:41,240 --> 00:32:43,560 Speaker 2: This is your prime. You won Best Actress at. 744 00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:45,400 Speaker 1: The NCTV Awards that I see for your role on 745 00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:48,840 Speaker 1: Double park That must have been about it was. It 746 00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:52,640 Speaker 1: was really special because often with comedies, they don't get 747 00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:55,080 Speaker 1: recognized for awards so much like it's usually dramas that 748 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:57,600 Speaker 1: pick up the gongs and you can sort of understand why. 749 00:32:57,640 --> 00:33:00,760 Speaker 1: So I wasn't really expecting it that it was. And 750 00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:02,880 Speaker 1: you've all, I mean you talked about auditioning in Australia. 751 00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:05,840 Speaker 1: Is overseas still an option? La, do you feel the pool? 752 00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:08,560 Speaker 1: I sort of do a bit more and more as 753 00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:12,240 Speaker 1: the kids get older, So yeah, Freddie's five and guses three, 754 00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:14,720 Speaker 1: and up until this point in their lives, it's just 755 00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:16,760 Speaker 1: felt like, oh my gosh, no, like that would be 756 00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 1: a nightmare. And there have been like a couple of 757 00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:21,280 Speaker 1: opportunities that have come up overseas, but I've just been like, no, 758 00:33:21,320 --> 00:33:23,480 Speaker 1: it's it's too hard, and you've got a way up 759 00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:27,640 Speaker 1: professional development with your family commitments and you know what 760 00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:29,920 Speaker 1: will work for all of you as a unit. But 761 00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 1: as they're getting older and things are a bit easier, Yeah, 762 00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:35,040 Speaker 1: I am thinking about that again and Australia definitely, Yeah, 763 00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:35,880 Speaker 1: and that feels Australia. 764 00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:37,720 Speaker 2: Working in Australia feels a lot easier. Yeah. 765 00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:40,160 Speaker 1: You can get literally pop backwards and pop backwards, and 766 00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:41,960 Speaker 1: we know quite a few people there now, so we 767 00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:45,200 Speaker 1: could sort of fit into that environment quite yeatly. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 768 00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:47,160 Speaker 1: you can kind of slot on. So you must feel 769 00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:49,280 Speaker 1: like you're at a great place in your life. I mean, 770 00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:52,160 Speaker 1: here you are, you're forty, you're married, You've got your children, 771 00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:55,440 Speaker 1: your careers, and a trajectory that's going up. You have 772 00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:59,600 Speaker 1: got massive local opportunities, and then you're able to sort 773 00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:03,240 Speaker 1: of think about that bigger and brighter and the horizon, 774 00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:04,280 Speaker 1: and so that's a. 775 00:34:04,200 --> 00:34:06,480 Speaker 2: Really special place to be. Do you feel thank you? Oh, 776 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 2: that's really lovely of you to say. Yeah, I think 777 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:10,399 Speaker 2: I mainly do. 778 00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:14,000 Speaker 1: I feel. I feel so lucky with my family situation. 779 00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:16,799 Speaker 1: You know that I have these two wonderful children, and 780 00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:20,279 Speaker 1: that my husband is someone who I deeply love and 781 00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:22,600 Speaker 1: who we have a very happy life together. You know, 782 00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:25,359 Speaker 1: we have a really great relationship and I love I 783 00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:27,440 Speaker 1: love that, and I feel really really lucky that. 784 00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:29,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, our domestic life is so wonderful. 785 00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:36,200 Speaker 1: And professionally, yeah, I probably don't feel as like, yes, 786 00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:40,520 Speaker 1: I'm on this upwards, tragic, clear upwards trajectory, just because 787 00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:40,879 Speaker 1: I at. 788 00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:42,839 Speaker 2: The moment I don't know what my next job is, like. 789 00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:44,880 Speaker 1: Maybe this one in Australia will happen, but if not, 790 00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:46,920 Speaker 1: I don't. 791 00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:47,279 Speaker 2: Know what it is. 792 00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:51,400 Speaker 1: So I'm better at the uncertainty now because I know 793 00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:52,640 Speaker 1: that something will happen. 794 00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:53,960 Speaker 2: But I guess I don't. 795 00:34:54,320 --> 00:34:56,839 Speaker 1: I don't feel like great, I'm set, you know, I'm 796 00:34:56,880 --> 00:34:59,160 Speaker 1: just gonna keep riding this wave. I sort of feel 797 00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:03,040 Speaker 1: like I have to really keep doing my best all 798 00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:05,360 Speaker 1: the time. Would you hope that you boys go into acting? 799 00:35:05,400 --> 00:35:10,000 Speaker 1: Would you recommend it to people? I really would just 800 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:14,120 Speaker 1: want them to do what interests them. So I'm not 801 00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:17,280 Speaker 1: a lot of people say, oh god, I'd never recommend 802 00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:19,480 Speaker 1: them getting into acting, or i'd really kind of discourage 803 00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:22,279 Speaker 1: them not to. But for me, I would support them 804 00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:24,760 Speaker 1: and whatever they wanted to do. So if it's acting, wonderful, 805 00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:27,200 Speaker 1: and if it's but the highs and lows, do you 806 00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:29,440 Speaker 1: think it's a certain personality that can handle it, because 807 00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:33,240 Speaker 1: often now actors are quite dramatic. Yeah, and so sensitive sensitive? 808 00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:35,640 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I think sensitivity comes with the territory. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 809 00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:37,080 Speaker 1: because you can't have to be to be good at it, 810 00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:39,280 Speaker 1: that's right. Yeah, you have to have a thin skin 811 00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:41,040 Speaker 1: for your work, but somehow a thick skin. 812 00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:44,200 Speaker 2: For the rejection. Yeah, yep, it is. It is really hard. 813 00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:47,839 Speaker 1: I mean There's something that I've found works as an 814 00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:50,320 Speaker 1: anchor for me over the years, as not letting it 815 00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:52,640 Speaker 1: be your identity, like being it, which is tricky because 816 00:35:52,760 --> 00:35:54,279 Speaker 1: you're when you love something so much and you're so 817 00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:57,360 Speaker 1: passionate about it, it very easily can become your full identity. 818 00:35:57,680 --> 00:35:58,080 Speaker 2: Who are you? 819 00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:00,840 Speaker 1: I'm an actress, but I now I really try to 820 00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:02,799 Speaker 1: have some separation in that, like it's my job and 821 00:36:02,840 --> 00:36:04,160 Speaker 1: it's my career and it's my calling. 822 00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:05,560 Speaker 2: I love doing it. 823 00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:07,520 Speaker 1: But if I'm not doing it, it doesn't mean that 824 00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:11,040 Speaker 1: I have no value as myself, Like I still exist 825 00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:12,960 Speaker 1: without it, which. 826 00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:13,760 Speaker 2: Is not easy. 827 00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:16,759 Speaker 1: But and I think, yeah, for younger people starting out, 828 00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:19,400 Speaker 1: it is not easy, but I think you know, the 829 00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:21,879 Speaker 1: people that stick at it, it's meaningful to them. And 830 00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:24,440 Speaker 1: you know, in life we just may as well pursue 831 00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:26,080 Speaker 1: what is meaningful. Yes, as far as we know, we 832 00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:31,240 Speaker 1: own it all once and then that can you say 833 00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:34,080 Speaker 1: that the rejection's not you, it's just you weren't quite 834 00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:36,719 Speaker 1: right for the part, or someone else was. I mean, 835 00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:40,359 Speaker 1: can you you know, because I'm quite good at that? Yeah, right, 836 00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:42,279 Speaker 1: you know you've got a problem. Well, actually you don't 837 00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:44,759 Speaker 1: know me. You might not like something I've done. It 838 00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:47,360 Speaker 1: was said, and you're perfectly entitled to eve an opinion 839 00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:49,520 Speaker 1: on that, but I'm not going to actually take it 840 00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:51,840 Speaker 1: personally because you don't know me as a person. 841 00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:53,600 Speaker 2: Well, that's I. 842 00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:55,359 Speaker 1: Was my quick because I was told I was allowed 843 00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:57,520 Speaker 1: to ask a question. It was going to be that, like, 844 00:36:57,680 --> 00:37:02,960 Speaker 1: how do you manage the feedback that you get about you? 845 00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:05,759 Speaker 1: Like the both are positive and the negative, because I 846 00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:10,080 Speaker 1: imagine being a former politician because at least with my work, 847 00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:12,480 Speaker 1: people are judging my work, but they're judging yeah that 848 00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:15,399 Speaker 1: you and and feel they can and feel they got 849 00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:17,319 Speaker 1: a right to say that, like how can I I'm not. 850 00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:19,640 Speaker 2: So at the end of the podcast now we're doing it. 851 00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:23,239 Speaker 1: Now, that astly fine because because it flows nicely in 852 00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:27,960 Speaker 1: there and it's look, you can pretend it never does 853 00:37:28,040 --> 00:37:29,280 Speaker 1: and of course that's not true. 854 00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:31,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, of course that's not true. 855 00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:33,840 Speaker 1: There are times when you know, I call it the 856 00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:37,640 Speaker 1: duvet over the head, you know, abotologen and feedal position 857 00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:39,920 Speaker 1: and I'll see you tomorrow, which I've even done. 858 00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:41,239 Speaker 2: But you know what I mean, or I go, you know, 859 00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:42,000 Speaker 2: does hurt? 860 00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,360 Speaker 1: It does hurt. Yeah, So there's got to be times 861 00:37:44,400 --> 00:37:47,080 Speaker 1: and that can be because you're overtired, it's been a 862 00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:50,240 Speaker 1: bit relentless. It's you know, like something's kind of taken 863 00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:53,720 Speaker 1: off and then it is. But lots of it's ridiculous, 864 00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:58,479 Speaker 1: like it's body shaming, or it's God, really that's still happening, yeah, 865 00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:02,279 Speaker 1: or it's you know kids, sorry, so that stuff, Well, 866 00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:05,000 Speaker 1: I see, I can, I can, I can because that's 867 00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:07,640 Speaker 1: just so ridiculous. Yes, you know what I mean, like, 868 00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:10,640 Speaker 1: that's that's that's that's on them, it's. 869 00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:11,960 Speaker 2: On them, It's it's an indictment on them. 870 00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:15,359 Speaker 1: You can almost feel sorry for them, to be quite honest, Yeah, 871 00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:17,120 Speaker 1: because I just sort of think, wow, what a small 872 00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,840 Speaker 1: seed life, Yes, that you feel you need to personally 873 00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:23,520 Speaker 1: attack you know what I look like? Yeah yeah yeah yeah, 874 00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:26,200 Speaker 1: So I am quite good at compartmentalizing that. 875 00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:28,120 Speaker 2: That's great. Do you have to work on that? 876 00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:30,560 Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah. So was it harder when you first got 877 00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:34,440 Speaker 1: into politics. Definitely, And the weight side was really hard. 878 00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:39,040 Speaker 1: You know, it's just like it's such a vulnerable topic. Yeah, 879 00:38:39,239 --> 00:38:41,919 Speaker 1: and you know, some days you don't feel great about yourself, right, 880 00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:44,759 Speaker 1: and so it was this human Yeah, it's just like this, 881 00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:48,359 Speaker 1: you know, the sort of constant but The other thing 882 00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:50,440 Speaker 1: I think that you've always got to remember is I 883 00:38:50,480 --> 00:38:53,560 Speaker 1: would say ninety nine out of one hundred are positive. 884 00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:55,680 Speaker 1: You know, like, let's remember the people that go out 885 00:38:55,680 --> 00:38:58,120 Speaker 1: of Well. I say, when I lie in bed at 886 00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:01,360 Speaker 1: night and I've had and I've heard from twenty people, 887 00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:04,880 Speaker 1: I choose whether I listened to the nineteen that were 888 00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:07,960 Speaker 1: positive or the one that was negative. And that took 889 00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,640 Speaker 1: me some time. But I get to choose who's in 890 00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:14,600 Speaker 1: my head at night. Great, Yeah, that's really that's sometimes 891 00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:17,880 Speaker 1: I have demntra that, yes, of course. Yeah, yeah, ongoing practice, 892 00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:20,160 Speaker 1: yaues we have a negativity bias. Yeah, we take on 893 00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:22,800 Speaker 1: evil men that shouted at me from the car next door. 894 00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:26,399 Speaker 1: You know that you don't you don't get to live 895 00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:26,879 Speaker 1: in my head. 896 00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:28,800 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, good advice. 897 00:39:28,880 --> 00:39:42,520 Speaker 1: That makes a lot of sense. So what's the best 898 00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:43,680 Speaker 1: advice you think that you've had? 899 00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:46,240 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, I liked thinking about this question. 900 00:39:46,360 --> 00:39:48,200 Speaker 1: I feel like I've had so much of it, so 901 00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:50,640 Speaker 1: it was kind of hard to choose one. But I 902 00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:53,000 Speaker 1: think ultimately I want to come back to the thing 903 00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,160 Speaker 1: that has sort of been in my head for most 904 00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:57,640 Speaker 1: of my life, which is treat others how you want 905 00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:02,200 Speaker 1: to be treated. Because I think almost almost everything, if 906 00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:05,400 Speaker 1: not everything, in life comes back to interpersonal relationships and 907 00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:07,520 Speaker 1: the quality of them and how you feel about them, 908 00:40:07,520 --> 00:40:12,200 Speaker 1: the richness of them, the depth of them, how you 909 00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:15,840 Speaker 1: feel about your place within the relationships you have, and 910 00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:17,839 Speaker 1: the best way to ensure that they are the best 911 00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:20,799 Speaker 1: they can be is to treat people with kindness and 912 00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:23,800 Speaker 1: respect and compassion and generosity, all the ways that we 913 00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:27,280 Speaker 1: hope we would be treated. So, yeah, that's that's an anchor, 914 00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:29,920 Speaker 1: a really simple anchor that I try to live by. 915 00:40:30,239 --> 00:40:30,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 916 00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:33,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, And if we all did that, wouldn't it just 917 00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,400 Speaker 1: be just such a better world? I know? Yeah, so 918 00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:39,320 Speaker 1: much better? You know. Yeah, And even when you're a 919 00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:41,719 Speaker 1: bit snappy or you know you're tired and you've done that, 920 00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:44,640 Speaker 1: and it's just like even explaining that to someone in 921 00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:47,680 Speaker 1: three words, you have to go into a link having 922 00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:48,799 Speaker 1: a bad day today because the. 923 00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:50,080 Speaker 2: Kids wouldn't Yeah, that's right. 924 00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:53,360 Speaker 1: And then apologizing, right, Yeah, if you do behave in 925 00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:55,200 Speaker 1: a way that you would not like to be someone 926 00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:56,799 Speaker 1: to behave towards you, then you can own it and 927 00:40:56,840 --> 00:40:58,959 Speaker 1: apologize and that goes a long way. 928 00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:02,319 Speaker 2: Why did I just sorry? Bad day? Too much going 929 00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:02,959 Speaker 2: on in my head. 930 00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:06,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, great, like I snapped yes, and then people 931 00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:08,759 Speaker 1: know that it's not them, it's you know, it's you 932 00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:11,879 Speaker 1: as well, you know, having a moment. Yeah, yeah, that's right, 933 00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:13,880 Speaker 1: and you can repair that relationship and hopefully we'll be 934 00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:18,400 Speaker 1: okay moving forward. Okay, all right, I've just thoroughly enjoyed 935 00:41:18,800 --> 00:41:20,719 Speaker 1: chanting to you. It's been amazing, and Tony, thank you 936 00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:24,879 Speaker 1: for coming in. For those who want to see more 937 00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:26,879 Speaker 1: of you, they need to go to see double part. 938 00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:28,040 Speaker 1: They do, they sure do. 939 00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:28,600 Speaker 2: It's on now. 940 00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:30,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, so if you haven't caught the first season, go 941 00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:33,160 Speaker 1: and watch that on three now plus. 942 00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:34,520 Speaker 2: So go and have a look there. 943 00:41:34,880 --> 00:41:37,839 Speaker 1: And but we've got season two out now and we're 944 00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:42,240 Speaker 1: going through that journey of the babies and and gosh, 945 00:41:42,280 --> 00:41:42,520 Speaker 1: what a. 946 00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:45,040 Speaker 2: Juggle letter is. So it'll be lots of fun to watch. 947 00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:46,279 Speaker 2: I'm really looking forward to it. 948 00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:48,240 Speaker 1: And that's it for another episode of Asking Me Anything. 949 00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:51,400 Speaker 1: If you've enjoyed this episode, please follow Ask Anything on 950 00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:55,520 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio or wherever you get your podcasts. While you are there, 951 00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,920 Speaker 1: check out some of the past ones. There's plenty industries 952 00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:00,600 Speaker 1: from and some fabulous people. I'll be back week Sunday, 953 00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:10,640 Speaker 1: but in the meantime, I'm Paula Bena. Ask me anything, Goodbye,