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Speaker 1: The Hits Drive with Media and pag thanks to Chemist

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Speaker 1: were House the Real House of Fragrances. Sorry, I'm just

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Speaker 1: going to start the podcast by ordering a curage.

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Speaker 2: You are not? Is this really? This is where we've

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Speaker 2: gotten to with the podcast. This is what people want

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Speaker 2: to hear.

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Speaker 1: Hi there. I was just wonder if like bees make

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Speaker 1: a takeaway order for Polly? Ye? Could I get a

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Speaker 1: butter check and a cheese and garlic nan and a

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Speaker 1: crunchy poneer percorder. It was medium? Thank you?

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Speaker 3: Sorry?

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Speaker 1: What was the name again? Polly p l l y.

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Speaker 2: This is outrageous.

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Speaker 1: Perfect. I look forward to it. Thank you, bye bye.

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Speaker 1: I always have to say Polly with a P because

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Speaker 1: everyone thinks it's Holly. I had my whole life.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well I get this week someone. I went to

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Speaker 2: mc an event and there they had like a bio

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Speaker 2: printed out for me, and they called me Matthew McLean

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Speaker 2: Matthew and spelled Matthews, spelt my last name with two c's.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, McClay sod that make it McClean McClean, yeah, McClean

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Speaker 1: yourself up. Do we need to talk about the significant

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Speaker 1: event that haven't.

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Speaker 2: I forgot? I actually forgot I just remembered we had

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Speaker 2: Mum and Dad had their first fight. It wasn't.

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Speaker 1: I was like, how minimum of the conflict is between

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Speaker 1: us that this was considered our.

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Speaker 2: First I know. So we were doing it doing a

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Speaker 2: zoom interview with someone which will play out later on

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Speaker 2: this week.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was great, Chant, it was really great.

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Speaker 2: And there was a little bit of debate over how

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Speaker 2: you pronounced his last name, and I was I swore

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Speaker 2: that HEJ pronounced incorrectly before this person connected to the

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Speaker 2: zoom call. So I corrected her on the zoom call,

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Speaker 2: which is.

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Speaker 1: In fairness, the right thing to do. But I think

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Speaker 1: I just got because I actually said it the right

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Speaker 1: way that both you and producing Sarah, to be fair,

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Speaker 1: did hear me say it wrong? And then Maddy sort

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Speaker 1: of was like, no, HEJ it's and you corrected me

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Speaker 1: when I got a little bit hurt, and it was

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Speaker 1: probably obviously clear that I got like a little upset

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Speaker 1: and emotion. In the end, I got my first real

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Speaker 1: texture from anything like hey, I'm really sorry today, like

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Speaker 1: it's not about you, it's just I said to go

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Speaker 1: over a walk, blah blah blah.

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Speaker 2: It's funny though, because we didn't actually fight about that

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Speaker 1: But I think we're quite in tune with the B

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Speaker 1: and I think you know something's up, and I know

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Speaker 1: something's up because I was like sitting a message door

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Speaker 1: and then when you sent me the message, I was like,

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Speaker 1: oh god, okay, the ear is clear and everything felt great.

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Speaker 2: And we're fine. Now we're fine.

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Speaker 1: I'd forgotten, like, honestly, if that's the biggest fight with

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Speaker 1: has and it's not even fie.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're doing so make up six tonight.

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Speaker 1: Madly, So you're to our partners.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's yeah. I've put it in your foot in

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Speaker 2: your mind now, so it's definitely going to be a dream.

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Speaker 1: Well, I have got chili, I've got cheese and garlic,

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Speaker 1: gun cheese cheese. Does you know cheese?

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Speaker 2: Dreams?

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Speaker 1: Really were I she had a sixty dream last night

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Speaker 1: about bej and I never have sixty dreams about how

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Speaker 1: I have six dreams about everyone else?

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Speaker 2: Remember Adam that's right?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and Harry styles understandable. But what about Beja last night?

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Speaker 1: Which was great? I didn't feel guilty, so that's good, right.

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Speaker 2: I mean, famously, I had a six dream about Beach

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Speaker 1: Oh, my god, I forgot about that. I forgot about

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Speaker 1: that was hey good?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I forgot about that many Hey. Speaking

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Speaker 2: have heard on the podcast with a content idea and

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Speaker 2: are we're moving forward with it?

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Speaker 1: So I got home last night and I actually went

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Speaker 1: was like, okay, sweet, so date or mistake. If people

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Speaker 1: go on to dad, if one of them gets ghosted,

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Speaker 1: we did look cool the person a ghost of them.

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Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be quite confrontational.

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Speaker 2: You and I are not confrontational.

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Speaker 1: Not It kind of feels like punked, but like ghosted

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Speaker 2: Going to go? Who knows.

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Speaker 1: But I'm willing to try it.

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Speaker 2: I'm willing to give it a go.

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Speaker 1: Our shock Jock Eraror is about to start.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, just call me Kyle Sandlands.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, move along, Howard Stern.

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Speaker 2: So okay, let's give it. We've got next week off,

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Speaker 1: You and I we're going to have to put it

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Speaker 2: Okay, well we can do that. We could float.

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Speaker 1: Why don't we just start here, start here on the podcast.

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Speaker 1: Maybe people can start getting in touch. Have you been

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Speaker 1: on a shitty date that you never heard back from

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, So yeah, you'll we protected and we'll explore it.

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Speaker 2: But I think we put it into action once we're

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I kind of want belch dictionally, I kind of

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Speaker 1: is him doing my job. He's like, I did the dish,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, let's let's let's explore it and we'll see how

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Speaker 2: it goes. See how it goes. I don't know that

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Speaker 1: Try as a spike spike anyway? Coming up in today's show.

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Speaker 1: What the today's show, we had oh Maddy's new obsession

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Speaker 1: with one of Ryan's positions that rhymes.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yeah it did. Plus we had to make a

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Speaker 1: find out today's story some really good strong opinions, which

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Speaker 2: Go get your curry.

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Speaker 1: Oh I cannot want PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 2: a great start, can we can we start that.

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Speaker 1: We are actually having a fear ball as a cat.

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Speaker 2: So this weekend we are heading off to walk the

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Speaker 1: Are you though, because it wasn't that we're supposed to.

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Speaker 2: We're going with kids. I don't even have hiking but

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Speaker 2: We ain't gone and we're getting takeaways and we're playing

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Speaker 2: rest of it. And then Ryan found himself a jaunty

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Speaker 2: It's like a cap, but it's got those like fluffy

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Speaker 2: But I said to him, go for gold if you

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Speaker 2: bloody looks fantastic.

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Speaker 2: The It's different from the acubra. I'm really pulling it off.

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Speaker 2: And so now my thing is I might have to

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Speaker 1: God, you must really be lost.

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Speaker 1: But there's a ride of passage. Gener relationship is to me,

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Speaker 2: Kate O'Brien. Hi, Kate Gay. Have you ever had to

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Speaker 2: up with all the time. You're constantly in each other's lives,

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Speaker 2: You're always calling or texting or catching up in person,

442
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Speaker 2: and there are friends that you just don't see very often.

443
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Speaker 2: Doesn't mean that you are any less of a friend,

444
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Speaker 2: doesn't mean that that's the end of a friendship. Absolutely

445
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Speaker 2: not a couple. I have people who who I consider

446
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Speaker 2: some of my nearest and deurest closest friends, and we

447
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:47,280
Speaker 2: barely catch up. But when we do catch up, you

448
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:51,360
Speaker 2: know that it is like a strong, firm friendship.

449
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Speaker 1: I concur, I absolutely concur my best friends, I don't

450
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Speaker 1: need to say for a very long time. However, in

451
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Speaker 1: this situation, it feels like with this particular growth, there's

452
00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:02,920
Speaker 1: always been this event, and there has obviously been a

453
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Speaker 1: lot of communication, and all of a sudden, this communication

454
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Speaker 1: has dropped off. So maybe her assumption that they don't

455
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Speaker 1: like your partner is the truth. We don't know that,

456
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Speaker 1: but I would say it's it's pretty rubbish behavior on

457
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Speaker 1: their behalf to just go ahead and particularly post photos.

458
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Speaker 2: Of its totally. But do you know what I've realized,

459
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Speaker 2: the older I get, nostalgia can only get you so

460
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Speaker 2: far when it comes to relationships, Like, just because you've

461
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Speaker 2: been friends with someone for a long time, it does

462
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Speaker 2: not mean that you were always going to be in

463
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Speaker 2: each other's lives reason season, lifetime, right, Oh that's good,

464
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Speaker 2: A yes, And so I wonder whether maybe this friendship

465
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Speaker 2: has just run its course and that's okay. It's gutting

466
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Speaker 2: and you can mourn it, you know, but you also

467
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Speaker 2: have to realize that this happens in life and hopefully

468
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Speaker 2: find a way to move on.

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Speaker 1: The thing I will bring up is she said, I

470
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Speaker 1: never heard from anyone this year, so I assumed it

471
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Speaker 1: wasn't going ahea, you didn't hear from them. But friendship

472
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:05,160
Speaker 1: is a two way straight totally, so maybe they were

473
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Speaker 1: waiting to hear from you. And sometimes you assume that

474
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Speaker 1: the other person is going to initiate you have to

475
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Speaker 1: do it as well.

476
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Speaker 2: So true.

477
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Speaker 1: So I don't I don't know if it's the end,

478
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Speaker 1: but I would say that communication definitely needs to improve

479
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Speaker 1: it with the friendship.

480
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Speaker 2: Yeah, if this is going to continue on, Yeah, you

481
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Speaker 2: definitely need to pick up the pick up the pas.

482
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Speaker 1: Oh wait, one hundred hats. What are your thoughts? Have

483
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Speaker 1: you been in a similar situation. We've got an never

484
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Speaker 1: Year prize pack up for grabs. We'd love to know

485
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Speaker 1: what you think on the future of this friendship. Do

486
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Speaker 1: you think it's done? Is it time to just get

487
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 1: past the drama? It seems like they're being immature. We

488
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:39,439
Speaker 1: want to know and we'll take your calls near.

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Speaker 4: Maddy, MPG, Many and PJ the podcast Many and PJS

490
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Speaker 4: Group Therapy.

491
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Speaker 1: In the meantime, it is time for some therapy. I'll

492
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Speaker 1: just quickly recap the dilemma this week, and don't forget.

493
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Speaker 1: You can always get in touch with us four for

494
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Speaker 1: eight seven on the text. Hey Tam, I hope you

495
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Speaker 1: have a good way. Look, I don't know if you

496
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Speaker 1: can help me, but I thought I would throw it

497
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Speaker 1: out there. My friends and I have done a girl's

498
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:06,719
Speaker 1: trap once a year for the last few years and

499
00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:08,879
Speaker 1: it's always such a highlight. I never heard from anyone

500
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Speaker 1: this year, so I assumed it wasn't going ahead, But

501
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 1: then over the weekend it popped up on my feed.

502
00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:16,119
Speaker 1: They had all gone away together. I feel so guded

503
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Speaker 1: that I didn't get the call up, and I just

504
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 1: can't work out why. Although I do know a few

505
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:22,399
Speaker 1: of them weren't the biggest fan of my partner, but

506
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Speaker 1: I feel the history we have as friends, they should

507
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Speaker 1: be able to get past that. I don't want this

508
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Speaker 1: to be the end of our friendship, but it truly

509
00:25:28,720 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 1: feels like they have based me out as a friend,

510
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Speaker 1: as I never hear from them these days. Do you

511
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:35,679
Speaker 1: think we can come back from this or is it

512
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Speaker 1: time to move on? Oh? Wait, one hundred minutes to

513
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Speaker 1: weigh in? Or of course you can text us on

514
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Speaker 1: four four eight seven and but from Hamilton is joining

515
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Speaker 1: the show. What are your thoughts? Amba?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: Hi, I just think if they've being friends for that long,

518
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:55,560
Speaker 8: there should be she should be able to just ask them,

519
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Speaker 8: you know, just communicate.

520
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Speaker 6: Like what's up?

521
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Speaker 8: Have I done something wrong? Or just actually front up?

522
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Speaker 2: Yeah, totally talk right, talk it through. It doesn't mean yeah,

523
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 2: there's not doesn't have to be any dramatic cutting off

524
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Speaker 2: of any friendships or anything like that. Just actually do

525
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:15,720
Speaker 2: some good old fashioned communicating.

526
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Speaker 1: It's just that awkwardness after seeing them all together, like

527
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Speaker 1: you just I feel like you just have that shame

528
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Speaker 1: of you, Like, well what if I how would you

529
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Speaker 1: approach the whole group? Would you go to just one

530
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Speaker 1: person maybe the one you're closest with yesterday?

531
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Speaker 2: Yeah, you just go to one person in the group

532
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Speaker 2: and then and address it with.

533
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Speaker 9: Them, right, absolutely, Yeah, they have been say that she

534
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 9: has a history, so she should have a close friend

535
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Speaker 9: and just straight up you know what's going on.

536
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Speaker 8: But yeah, it sounds like if she didn't hear anything,

537
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Speaker 8: then maybe her communication hasn't been so good with her friends.

538
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Speaker 10: True.

539
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Speaker 2: That also true?

540
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Speaker 1: Well, actually on there someone text and saying listening to

541
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Speaker 1: this made me a little sad and angry at the

542
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Speaker 1: same time. His friendships are a two way street. But

543
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Speaker 1: to not invite her and posted all over Facebook is

544
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:03,359
Speaker 1: just made They would have known she was miss saying

545
00:27:03,440 --> 00:27:05,400
Speaker 1: out and to be fear. If they don't see past

546
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,679
Speaker 1: themselves to see the low level of maturity, then she

547
00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 1: deserves bitter friends. Late is weighing in on our hundred

548
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Speaker 1: the hets. What are your thoughts, Late.

549
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Speaker 11: Yeah, my thoughts are Yeah, she needs to kick them

550
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Speaker 11: to the curb because they shouldn't reached out to her. Yeah,

551
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 11: I'm sorry, but that's like especially them listing on social media.

552
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Speaker 11: Come on now, I mean, they could have done it

553
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:29,080
Speaker 11: to the lou she couldn't see it, but to know that,

554
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Speaker 11: to plan it to go away and they've already done

555
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:34,760
Speaker 11: several trips prior, Yeah, that would be the end for me.

556
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Speaker 11: As I had mentioned, I've done.

557
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Speaker 8: With a friends for away that.

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Speaker 11: I would definitely be like, that's it. Or if you

559
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Speaker 11: do have somebody like you were just doing that you're

560
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Speaker 11: close to, or that's the adult in the group, then

561
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Speaker 11: I would question, you know, ask them and just see

562
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Speaker 11: what the accountability is and maybe get the truth. But

563
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Speaker 11: if it is because of your partner, I don't think

564
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Speaker 11: that's a good reason or a viable reason for them

565
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Speaker 11: not to at least include you or invite you, or

566
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Speaker 11: reach out or say look, we want you to come,

567
00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 11: but we don't like it or whatever.

568
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, I feel like you're coming from a place

569
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Speaker 1: of experience. Have you been through a similar situation?

570
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Speaker 11: Oh, you, you don't have enough time, But I've got

571
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Speaker 11: I've got friends when I lived in the States, and

572
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Speaker 11: I've had friends for over thirty five years that I've

573
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Speaker 11: worked with and we still meet up every couple of

574
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Speaker 11: years and it's just we connect back up and it's

575
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Speaker 11: like we've never been apart. So those are those are

576
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 11: the strong friendships that, like Maddie was saying earlier, that

577
00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 11: you just reconnect and it's like you haven't been apart

578
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Speaker 11: and you're in sync with each other. The young people

579
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Speaker 11: that you know, if they're going to do things like that,

580
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Speaker 11: it's not worth your time, And at some point you

581
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Speaker 11: just be like, you know what, I'm far more important

582
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Speaker 11: to myself than to worry about.

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Speaker 2: This wageous love. Thank you so much for your advice.

584
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Speaker 2: We really appreciate that.

585
00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:50,320
Speaker 5: Many and Paja the podcast.

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Speaker 1: Just a quick glad MEETIM bit of a hypothetical. If

587
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Speaker 1: you husband was listening to the playlist that was curated

588
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Speaker 1: by an X so many alarm bells.

589
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 2: Years so the X head put together a playlist of songs.

590
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: No, so the X just has like has a good

591
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Speaker 1: playlist and constantly updates good music in there. So it's

592
00:29:21,600 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 1: not it's not like a specific this is my relationship playlist, right,

593
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Speaker 1: But your partner hypothetically is listening to the playlist because

594
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Speaker 1: they like the music.

595
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Speaker 2: It depends would you get jealous? I guess it depends

596
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:40,480
Speaker 2: on how much I like the music, because I think

597
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Speaker 2: that would have bearings on how I felt about it.

598
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Speaker 2: If they was playing, if the whole playing banger after banger,

599
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Speaker 2: I'd go fear play to them.

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Speaker 1: Would you be like, damn, I'm actually feeling quite three

601
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Speaker 1: really good?

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Speaker 2: That's also true. What is hypothetically where do we stand

603
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Speaker 2: on peach?

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Speaker 1: Hypothetically, I mean hypothetically, my husband has this really cool

605
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Speaker 1: playlist that he has sort of tapped into over the years,

606
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Speaker 1: and it may or may not have been created by

607
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Speaker 1: an ex lover of his. But I know that it's

608
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Speaker 1: not like, it's not the love playlist, but sometimes I

609
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Speaker 1: can't help when it comes on, I'm like, there's a

610
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:27,680
Speaker 1: song remind you of it? Like no, no, it's not

611
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 1: like no, it's like and maybe this is where I

612
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Speaker 1: get slightly threatened, because the music's quite like not dubby, No,

613
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Speaker 1: it's like a bit housey and it's quiteence and like

614
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Speaker 1: quite cool modern dance music that I wouldn't usually be across.

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Speaker 2: Right, So you're you're worried that they've got better taste

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Speaker 2: of music than you, hypothetically, hypothetically.

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Speaker 1: Idly, I'm just saying, like, is this a red flag?

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Speaker 1: It does remind me, it does tell you what it

619
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Speaker 1: doesn't remind me of because I had an X once

620
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Speaker 1: and we like we went on a break and we

621
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Speaker 1: did have like a mutual playlist that we would add

622
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Speaker 1: songs to and it will be our way of communicating

623
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Speaker 1: with each other. We were literally talking, but we'd add

624
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Speaker 1: songs that had titles, so be like, he knows, But

625
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Speaker 1: like I'm being quite obliviate. Am I overthinking?

626
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 2: You are so dramatic? And I love it.

627
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 1: It was a real dramatic, But that's to be fair

628
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Speaker 1: to defend Bej. I actually just think she's got good

629
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Speaker 1: taste of music. I know they haven't talked in years,

630
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Speaker 1: but you're just like.

631
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Speaker 2: I want good taste of music.

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Speaker 5: Mary and Mary and PJ.

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Speaker 1: The podcast As we get up for the school holidays

634
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Speaker 1: of course kicking off next week, and it's just been

635
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Speaker 1: revealed officially the busiest day for travel for the school holidays.

636
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Speaker 1: Any guesses? Any picks?

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Speaker 2: So school holidays of last day of school on Friday.

638
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Speaker 2: So school holidays technically start on Monday. Is it Monday?

639
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Speaker 2: You know? Give people the weekend and then they.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, I should have got a real buzz Friday. This Friday?

641
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Speaker 2: Is it coming?

642
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Speaker 5: Friday?

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Speaker 1: Correct expected to be the busiest day with over thirty

644
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Speaker 1: four thousand customers flying on in New Zealand specifically, and

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00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 1: as for where people are traveling, apparently, Wally is a

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Speaker 1: real hot spot obviously with the All Blacks playing against

647
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 1: the Wallabies at Sky Stadium on Saturday and then the

648
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Speaker 1: World of Wearable Art show on Friday night at tsp

649
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Speaker 1: A rennes so a lot of people are going to

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Speaker 1: be in the Capitol. If you want to heat the queues,

651
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:50,200
Speaker 1: maybe just lay low for the first couple of days

652
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Speaker 1: and then make your way out the doors.

653
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Speaker 2: Smart smart, Smart i'd.

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Speaker 1: Start coming up with ideas of how you're going to

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Speaker 1: enter contain the kids for two weeks. You've got this

656
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 1: actually texta. Have you got any ideas out there? You

657
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:05,959
Speaker 1: can start texting through your creative ideas to keep entertained

658
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Speaker 1: throughout the school holidays to four four eight seven.

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Speaker 4: Maddy and PJ Mady and Pja' the podcasts.

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Speaker 2: Hey, we had a fantastic Friday night. We've already talked

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Speaker 2: about it pretty extensively. We threw our whole ball Intimata

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Speaker 2: just outside of Raglin. It was incredible.

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Speaker 1: It really was like I think we were pumped, but

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Speaker 1: we didn't really know how great it was going to be.

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Speaker 1: And I just think their community. We'd heard so many

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Speaker 1: rumors about how amazing the community were. That was so true.

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Speaker 1: And I can't wait to put out the video of

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Speaker 1: the night because that is in the works and it's

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Speaker 1: going to be up online in the next day or two.

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Speaker 2: But you'll just.

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Speaker 1: Feel the wholesomeness through the screen. It truly was a

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Speaker 1: highlight from this year so far.

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Speaker 2: But we met so many people when we were there,

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Speaker 2: and like you said, incredible community, some very friendly people

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Speaker 2: in that community as well. We had a few laughs.

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Speaker 2: You got stuck in some pretty At one point I

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Speaker 2: walked over to you and you were deep in conversation

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Speaker 2: about Peri menopause.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I had a very in depth discussion about what's

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Speaker 1: to look forward to with Pieri minipause. And I loved it.

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Speaker 1: She felt comfortable to talk to me. She's given me

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Speaker 1: all the tips and tricks, so you know it was

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Speaker 1: It was definitely a colorful evening of conversation.

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Speaker 2: Yes, one of the more colorful, colorful characters was a

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Speaker 2: guy in the community whose nickname is Willie the Waiter,

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Speaker 2: apparently like an old mascot of White Cuttle Draft. And

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Speaker 2: when this guy went on as owe as a youngster,

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Speaker 2: he took a case of White Cuttle Draft with him.

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Speaker 2: And so we've run said, oh, you must be Willy

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Speaker 2: the Waiter because you're carrying this bearer with you everywhere

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Speaker 2: you go.

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Speaker 1: Yes, but that wasn't what quarter attention.

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Speaker 2: It was not. It was his job that really got

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Speaker 2: us very intrigued. And but quite a few questions from

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Speaker 2: us peache.

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Speaker 1: I know I couldn't do this job. Could you do

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Speaker 1: this job?

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Speaker 2: I don't think I could do this job. Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: power to him for doing this job. He is the

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Speaker 2: Timuta gravedigger.

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Speaker 1: And you know, when you hear that, you go, that

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Speaker 1: must be a really heavy job. But do you know what,

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Speaker 1: He was so candid with me, and he said, there's

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Speaker 1: something really rewarding. I know that sounds quite grum, but

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Speaker 1: he said, it's really rewarding knowing that you can be there. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, for I guess quite what can be quite

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Speaker 1: an emotional, very final time for family members. He feels

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Speaker 1: like he actually gives back to the community by doing

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Speaker 1: the job.

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Speaker 2: And god, someone's got to do it right. But it

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Speaker 2: would have to be one of the weirder jobs out there,

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Speaker 2: you know. So I don't know that when you're a

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Speaker 2: youngster and they say what do you want to be

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Speaker 2: when you grow up, I don't know that many people

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Speaker 2: say gravedigger for him in the family, isn't his uncle?

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Speaker 1: His uncle did a sit down chat with Holmes back

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Speaker 1: and did an extensive interview about being like a day

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Speaker 1: in the life of a grave digger, and it is

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Speaker 1: one of those jobs. Initially, you know, it gets the

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Speaker 1: head turning, It probably gets a double take from the

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Speaker 1: person you're talking to. So I got thinking, do you

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Speaker 1: have one of those jobs when you tell people that

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Speaker 1: this is what you do for a full time occupation,

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Speaker 1: do you get a strange response? And what is your job?

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, a hundred the hits. And maybe there's an

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Speaker 1: unfair perception of what you do in society, but you

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Speaker 1: can prove to us actually it's not as bad as people.

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Speaker 1: I'm not a wido. What I do for a living

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Speaker 1: is really important. Oh wait, hundred the hats is a

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Speaker 1: number to join the show if you want to stay anonymous.

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Speaker 1: What is the strange occupation you do for a level

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Speaker 1: many the podcast? We're talking strange occupations after one have

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Speaker 1: many conversations had. On Friday night at the Teata Hall

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Speaker 1: ball which we threw, we came across a guy who

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Speaker 1: was the town gravedigger and he told us about his

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Speaker 1: job and how he loved it, be doing it for years.

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Speaker 1: Almost ran in the family, his uncle was doing it,

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Speaker 1: and he told us of how it was such a

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Speaker 1: rewarding job for a living. So got us thinking, well,

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Speaker 1: do you have a strange occupation? Give us a call.

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Speaker 1: Eight hundred the Hits. Now, Ross, you're actually in a

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Speaker 1: very similar position. You you worked as a grave digger

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Speaker 1: for how long? Oh, you're cutting out that, Ross, can

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Speaker 1: you hear me?

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Speaker 2: Yes, we've got your name.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I've got you.

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Speaker 11: I'll standing here in the corner of christ Her.

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Speaker 2: How long were you doing the job for, Ross?

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Oh god, kick you keep cutting it.

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Speaker 1: In the corner. Fifteen years years, fifteen years. Your partner

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Speaker 1: worked in a similar industry as well, Is that right?

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Speaker 6: The cremator where I worked? She used to cremate the people.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, so you guys? Would would you share work

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Speaker 1: stories when you came home or was it sort of like, no,

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Speaker 1: we're not going to go there tonight?

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Speaker 2: Still do yeah? Right? Did you meet on the did

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Speaker 2: you meet on the job? Ross and then fall in love?

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Speaker 2: Would here we did? Yeah? Right? Wow?

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Speaker 5: And rewarding job?

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Speaker 2: You loved it?

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Speaker 3: Great job, great job.

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Speaker 6: You meet so many different people saying would always make

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Speaker 6: a bad day a nice day for people that if

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Speaker 6: you could.

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Speaker 2: I like that. Ross. That's great.

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Speaker 1: You're not you're not doing it anymore? Ross, Well that's

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Speaker 1: what did you? What did you go on to do

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Speaker 1: after finishing up as a grave digger?

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Speaker 11: Done a few jobs, but now I do I look

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Speaker 11: after properties.

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Speaker 7: Mont A at the moment.

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Speaker 2: Good on you?

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Speaker 1: Hey, well, Ross, it's not a job that everyone could do.

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Speaker 1: So good on you for doing that for so long,

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Speaker 1: and I'm sure that you brought comfort to a lot

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Speaker 1: of people over the years.

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Speaker 11: I've been blessed by a lot of people.

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Speaker 2: So oh nice, beautiful. Well, yes, we did get a

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Speaker 2: call from someone who wanted to say anonymous. They want

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Speaker 2: to actually wanted us to put a voice Dakoda over,

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Speaker 2: but we can't. It can't easily do that.

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Speaker 10: Right since youal missus, I do we get it in music? Well,

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Speaker 10: apparently we just legal answer that I wish we had

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Speaker 10: a moister coder. That was so good Tonight on sixty Minutes.

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Speaker 5: Mary J. Many and PJ the podcast that