1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:01,760 Speaker 1: It's coming up nineteen away from six. 2 00:00:02,120 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 2: The Huddle with New Zealand Southby's International Realty exceptional marketing 3 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:08,360 Speaker 2: for every property. 4 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:10,520 Speaker 1: On the Huddle. This evening got David Farrakuria Polster and 5 00:00:10,600 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 1: KII Blog and Allie Jones read Piahlo guys Yheather David, 6 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:17,120 Speaker 1: is it normal for our spies to warn the other 7 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:19,000 Speaker 1: spies that we busted them spying? 8 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 3: It is quite normal, would be my assumption. 9 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:27,440 Speaker 1: I feel like spycraft though, does it no? 10 00:00:27,640 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 3: But it's sort of like you had saved a lot 11 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:32,280 Speaker 3: of time and bother if you just say look, we're 12 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:35,159 Speaker 3: on to you, we know what you're doing, rather than 13 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:37,360 Speaker 3: have to keep monitoring that they'll go away. 14 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:41,600 Speaker 1: But they'll just try harder to hide themselves, wren't they? 15 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 3: They They will, But it's not the sort of activity 16 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,760 Speaker 3: where if you had found out, y know, there was 17 00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 3: a secret agent who was stealing secrets, that's not something 18 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 3: you'd say we know about all right. But this is 19 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 3: like having front groups at set find to stir things up. 20 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 1: Okay, Allie, how do you feel about this? 21 00:01:01,800 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 4: In freaking I think yeah, it doesn't. I think there 22 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 4: are two different things here. Firstly, there's that spying and 23 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 4: that infiltration that we heard a bit about there, and 24 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 4: then I think they're those lunatics that try and promote ideologies. 25 00:01:15,959 --> 00:01:18,679 Speaker 4: And in christ Church, of course we're well aware of 26 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:22,839 Speaker 4: that after the terrible, tragic Mosque shootings some years ago. 27 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:25,040 Speaker 4: But I also, you know, and I don't want to 28 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,080 Speaker 4: make light of this because that was tragic and it 29 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 4: could happen again. But I find this really quite bizarre. 30 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:32,839 Speaker 4: I mean, I watch a lot of Netflix, I watch 31 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 4: a lot of streaming stuff on spies, and I think 32 00:01:35,920 --> 00:01:38,399 Speaker 4: we are very relaxed in New Zealand. But I just 33 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 4: can't imagine spies here, can you. I mean, it makes 34 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:43,080 Speaker 4: me think of Wellington paranormal. 35 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 1: It just seems bizarre, it does, I mean, David, I mean, 36 00:01:47,560 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 1: Allie makes a really good point, right because we had 37 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 1: a couple of spies in Parliament. We kicked them out. 38 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 1: They're not very good at it, are they. 39 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 3: Well. The thing is, we don't off probably since the 40 00:01:57,560 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 3: seventies eighties, do we have yo like see on Netflix 41 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:04,960 Speaker 3: the Americans the deep undercover spies. Probably not, because our 42 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 3: military defense secrets aren't really that important. But what we 43 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 3: definitely have is influence operations. We see and our name. 44 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:17,920 Speaker 3: One of People's Republic of China puts many millions of 45 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 3: dollars into Confucius Institutes, into funding through universities to try 46 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 3: and get their view of the world normalized. In New Zealan, 47 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:30,160 Speaker 3: I think there is the bigger issue that we need 48 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 3: to be concerned about that you've got these influence operations 49 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 3: rather than traditional spies. 50 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:38,160 Speaker 1: David Okay, explain to me why I should be worried 51 00:02:38,200 --> 00:02:39,839 Speaker 1: about that, because I look at that and think, Okay, 52 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:42,360 Speaker 1: it's an idea. You're pitching an idea at me. You're 53 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:44,040 Speaker 1: putting a lot of money into an idea. I'm not 54 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:46,359 Speaker 1: scared of your idea. I want to understand your idea. 55 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 1: It doesn't feel to me particularly nefarious, should it. 56 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:54,480 Speaker 3: Well, the furious part is when it comes that he 57 00:02:54,560 --> 00:02:57,560 Speaker 3: who has the gold you know, the Golden role. And 58 00:02:57,800 --> 00:03:00,520 Speaker 3: what you've then had is that the universe start to 59 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 3: self censor, for they don't want to lose the funding 60 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:08,920 Speaker 3: they have, certain areas dimmed off topic. You've had protest 61 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 3: benners removed from campus because they were worried they might 62 00:03:12,120 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 3: upset the government of China. That's when it becomes a 63 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 3: real problem of the fundings, no strings attached, fine, but 64 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 3: the funding of courses attached. 65 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, that is the problem, Mayali. Where there's money, if 66 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 1: you step out of line and you lose the money. 67 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:28,760 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, absolutely. And as we know, you just follow 68 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:30,280 Speaker 4: the money. You just look at some of the money 69 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 4: that's being spent in the Pacific at the moment. We're 70 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 4: in Fiji a couple of years ago and there's some 71 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 4: amazing stuff happening there and it's all funded by the 72 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 4: People's Republic of China. And we know that we're in 73 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 4: a great position here in the Pacific. There are country 74 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 4: is very interested in getting a hold on, you know, 75 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:47,400 Speaker 4: in the Pacific here, and that would be the main reason. 76 00:03:47,440 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 4: But I still can't get past that almost comic idea 77 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 4: of you know, get smart or it just seems bizarre 78 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 4: in a country like New Zealand, it just seems weird. 79 00:03:58,480 --> 00:04:04,040 Speaker 2: Buddle with New Zealand's Zeby's international realty, unparalleled reach and results. 80 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 1: Back of Huttle, Allie Jones and David Farrah Ali, what 81 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 1: do you think about this tourism levy going up and 82 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:09,839 Speaker 1: are you worried about it putting the tourists off? 83 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 4: No, not worried about it putting the two. The only 84 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:14,960 Speaker 4: tourists I am concerned about it putting off is the 85 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 4: I was going to say lower spending. They actually don't 86 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:22,080 Speaker 4: spend less when you add it up because they stay longer. 87 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:25,359 Speaker 4: But I'm talking about the backpackers. The backpackers and the 88 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:28,280 Speaker 4: self contained cheap car travelers come here. Now two things. 89 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 4: As I said, they stay here longer, so they spend 90 00:04:31,600 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 4: less per day, but they stay here longer so they 91 00:04:34,240 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 4: spend well. And also they come back when they're older 92 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 4: and they spend more than and they bring their kids. 93 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:41,720 Speaker 1: I think, I think that's definitely ALI. This thing is 94 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:44,280 Speaker 1: kind of slightly geared towards getting rid of them. 95 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 4: Well, I think that's a shame, and I don't you know, 96 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:48,719 Speaker 4: they're not looking at their own stats. If that's the case, 97 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 4: I think overall it's a good idea. You know, when 98 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:53,039 Speaker 4: we were in Europe recently, you pay anything from two 99 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 4: bucks to ten bucks a night on top of what 100 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:57,800 Speaker 4: you're paying for accommodation, and that's the tax there. We 101 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:01,159 Speaker 4: paid forty eight dollars for a three hour over going 102 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 4: through the US. So you know, I do think we've 103 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:05,760 Speaker 4: charged too little in New Zealand. But I would hate 104 00:05:05,800 --> 00:05:08,479 Speaker 4: to think that we're going to lose those longest staying 105 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:10,839 Speaker 4: backpacker tourists. 106 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:12,920 Speaker 1: David, I reckon this is going to prove to be 107 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 1: popular amongst the public because we are sick of them 108 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:17,280 Speaker 1: kind of being subsidized at us having to subsidize it. 109 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:19,040 Speaker 1: But I just wonder if the timing is a bit. 110 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:23,839 Speaker 3: Off, it will be popular. People always like taxes, and 111 00:05:23,880 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 3: effectively it's a tax that someone else pays. This is 112 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:31,479 Speaker 3: from a popularity point of view. No one who votes 113 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:34,679 Speaker 3: in New Zealand will have to pay this tax where 114 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 3: it's a cumbers a lot. I understand the need that 115 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:40,159 Speaker 3: you have to have infrastructure funded for, and you know 116 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:43,520 Speaker 3: GST might not be enough, but just one hundred dollars 117 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 3: per airport entry seems a bit of like someone who 118 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 3: comes here for a one day conference will pay the 119 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:55,359 Speaker 3: same as someone who spends three weeks traveling around touristeem 120 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:59,040 Speaker 3: through New Zealand, etc. You know, an actual bed tax 121 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:02,400 Speaker 3: would probably make a bit more sense than just this 122 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 3: flat one hundred dollar levy. Yeah. 123 00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 1: Actually, somebody on the text has said exactly that, David, 124 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 1: so great minds think alike that. Now, Allie, tell me 125 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:11,200 Speaker 1: something because you're over fifty, aren't you. 126 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 3: Yes? 127 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 1: Hey, are you people getting divorced? 128 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 3: Oh? 129 00:06:15,680 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 4: Look, there are a lot of us getting divorced. I'm guessing. 130 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 4: I'm I think we probably get to an age where 131 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:23,120 Speaker 4: we know what we want and what we don't want, 132 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:25,359 Speaker 4: you know, and we go right, bugger it. And also 133 00:06:25,400 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 4: I think society has changed and we can do it. 134 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 4: It seems so common now and so normal. I think. Also, 135 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:34,720 Speaker 4: women are more financially independent than they have been, although 136 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:37,159 Speaker 4: less than the key we say, because we stopped working 137 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:39,839 Speaker 4: for a while to have kids. We like to travel. 138 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:41,880 Speaker 4: He likes to stay at home and watch the tally. 139 00:06:42,680 --> 00:06:44,479 Speaker 4: You know, there are things like that happening too. But 140 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:47,599 Speaker 4: I think it's got to do with women just going no, 141 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:50,360 Speaker 4: actually I want this and I'm going to do this, 142 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:51,280 Speaker 4: and good on them. 143 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, and David, are you over fifty? 144 00:06:53,760 --> 00:06:57,160 Speaker 3: I am? And as you know, God said yes yes, 145 00:06:57,279 --> 00:06:58,680 Speaker 3: So I wan't my decisions. 146 00:06:58,880 --> 00:06:59,800 Speaker 1: What was it, David? 147 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:00,839 Speaker 3: It did you stop? 148 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 1: Do you just start doing the dishwasher properly? 149 00:07:04,080 --> 00:07:07,760 Speaker 3: I think they've been part of the could well be 150 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:12,120 Speaker 3: part of it. But I think most people in their fifties, 151 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 3: I've got younger kids, you know, the kids have got adults. 152 00:07:15,440 --> 00:07:17,760 Speaker 3: I've since my crage, I've talked to a lot of 153 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 3: friends and the issues that were in our relationship. I 154 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:23,559 Speaker 3: may so many of them have said R and D's 155 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 3: too that you do get frustrated that tensions do build up. Now, 156 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 3: obviously some people work through them, some don't. But the 157 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 3: number one I have take for it is you have 158 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:39,080 Speaker 3: to keep working really hard at a relationship. You can't 159 00:07:39,120 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 3: just say, yep, we're now on this comfortable routine, et cetera. 160 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:48,960 Speaker 3: There because they all have these tensions and stresses that 161 00:07:49,080 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 3: build up. 162 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 1: David, do you reckon because your kid is young? Do 163 00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 1: you reckon that the tension? I mean like it's exacerbated 164 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 1: by having kids, right, because young kids, especially under five, 165 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:58,240 Speaker 1: are really tough to have around. 166 00:07:59,000 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 4: Oh. 167 00:08:00,080 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 3: Absolutely, The real challenge when you have young kids is 168 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 3: having enough time for you and your partner partners, not 169 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 3: just parents. And I'm sure so many families have gone 170 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 3: through this and some do it better than others. But 171 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:19,480 Speaker 3: it has absolutely a challenge because when you do get 172 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 3: above times years usually just want to go to sleep. 173 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:26,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, but a big part of that as well as 174 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 4: don't forget you know, some of us are having all 175 00:08:28,040 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 4: some of us had kids much older, so parents are older. 176 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 4: Parents of parents are older. So you know, in the 177 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:36,120 Speaker 4: days when we used to rely on our parents to 178 00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:38,840 Speaker 4: help out, that's not happening so much anymore either. So yes, 179 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 4: it does add stress, but it's great when they go. 180 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:45,720 Speaker 4: It's good when they leave the charm and I think, yesh, Ellie, 181 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 4: you know parents. 182 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 1: Ellie, you're telling us to two people who are like 183 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 1: decades away from that. Mate. 184 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, we'll just keep looking at It's like light at 185 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:56,920 Speaker 4: the end of the tunnel. Enjoy them now. But it's 186 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 4: great when they go. 187 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:00,839 Speaker 3: I just have to share this my see video of 188 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 3: knowing no one on the radio put a letter under 189 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:06,880 Speaker 3: the door saying can we please have a wine gum? 190 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 3: Flip over this paper pot it back out to tell 191 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 3: us if we can or not. PS, I love you 192 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:13,160 Speaker 3: very much. 193 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:15,400 Speaker 1: Did you did you do that? 194 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:18,800 Speaker 3: No, I've only just found the letter. 195 00:09:20,640 --> 00:09:23,920 Speaker 1: Yes, that is so sweet. You give them a wine gum. 196 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:27,959 Speaker 1: David please, that's David Farah and help them. Yeah. Probably 197 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:31,560 Speaker 1: they covered all bases, smart little ones. It's how gorgeous 198 00:09:31,600 --> 00:09:34,079 Speaker 1: is that? David Farah and Aarlie Jones a huddled. 199 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 2: For more from hither Duplessy Allen Drive. Listen live to 200 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 2: news talks it'd be from four pm weekdays, or follow 201 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 2: the podcast on iHeartRadio