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Speaker 1: The Hats Drive with media PJ thanks to Chemist Warehouse,

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Speaker 1: the Real House of Fragrances. On that Hello and welcome

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Speaker 1: to the podcast, you might be thinking, oh, this is different.

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Speaker 1: It's usually PJ that says hello and welcome to the podcast.

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Speaker 1: That is because PJ is not here today. Producer here

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Speaker 1: is with me though, Hello, Hello.

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Speaker 2: Yes, PJ is quote marks sick.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she says sick. But it is convenient that it

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Speaker 1: just happens to be that the first day back from

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Speaker 1: a long weekend, doesn't it.

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Speaker 2: It does three days off, she's posting all over her Instagram,

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Speaker 2: I know, and then suddenly on the Tuesday morning she

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Speaker 2: can't make it into it.

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Speaker 1: Tell me about it. We wanted to give her a

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Speaker 1: we wanted to do a welfare check today. We wanted

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Speaker 1: to call her and basically give her a hard time

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Speaker 1: for not being at work today. But no, she genuinely

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Speaker 1: is sick. Because we got a message back from her

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Speaker 1: saying I'm so sorry, I'm dealing with my son who's

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Speaker 1: got a bit of a fever and yeah, so not good. No,

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Speaker 1: So we genuinely we are thinking of PJ. She will

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Speaker 1: be at tomorrow, hopefully, hopefully she should be.

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Speaker 2: I feel like when people say that they're sick, everyone's like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, it's COVID, it's COVID, but like it's

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Speaker 2: just a bug.

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Speaker 1: No, it's just a bug, which I think is part

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Speaker 1: of the course when you've got like an eighteen month

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Speaker 1: old exactly. So I'm just trying to I was at

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Speaker 1: a wedding over the weekend and the I took so

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Speaker 1: many photos mate, of course, so it was my best

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Speaker 1: ring getting married, and I was in a bridal party,

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Speaker 1: and everyone kind of had like roles to play within

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Speaker 1: the bridle party, and mine was chief content creator.

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Speaker 2: And did you dub yourself that?

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Speaker 1: I know she dubbed me that. No, she dubbed me that,

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Speaker 1: But it does mean they took a lot of photos

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Speaker 1: and videos over the weekend on my phone and now

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Speaker 1: she sent me like a like a drop boat, a

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Speaker 1: drop box, yeah, like website to basically upload all the photos.

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Speaker 1: But my god, it's a pain in the ass. It's

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Speaker 1: taking so long.

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Speaker 2: With the work WiFi.

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Speaker 1: Tell me flow in the air. But I did. We

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Speaker 1: filmed like it. I saw a few like TikTok trends

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Speaker 1: over the last few months and I was like, well,

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Speaker 1: that'd be good we'll do that one. We'll do that one.

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Speaker 1: But of course, what you don't even, what you don't

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Speaker 1: really think about, is that the morning of someone's wedding

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Speaker 1: is crazy, busy, hectic, and there's so much going on.

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Speaker 1: And let me tell you, the last thing lots of

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Speaker 1: brides feel like doing is like filming TikTok trends. But

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Speaker 1: bless her. I mean, she's an extrovert like me. We

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Speaker 1: meet like doing school plays and stuff. Okay, yeah, so

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Speaker 1: she was. She was up for it.

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Speaker 2: How many did you film?

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Speaker 1: Only two? But one of them was a bit One

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Speaker 1: of them was quite short and sweet, like we just

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Speaker 1: did it in one quick take, but the other one

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Speaker 1: had different parts to it. And we filmed it across

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Speaker 1: the morning and I was getting in the way of

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Speaker 1: like I was getting in the way of a the

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Speaker 2: Like, who's been paid to be there, be paid to

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Speaker 1: We were running late, and I was like, holding up.

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Speaker 1: We're running like anyway, not because of me, just generally,

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Speaker 1: but I was holding things up even further because I

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Speaker 1: was like, sorry, sorry, We've got to film this TikTok trend. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And it had it involved lip syncing and the bride

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Speaker 1: lip syncing. Oh my god, when you're under pressure, like

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Speaker 1: let me tell you it takes quite a few goals

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Speaker 1: to get it right.

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Speaker 2: So yes, now I haven't had my own wedding yet,

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Speaker 2: so I know that it's a very stressful day. But

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Speaker 2: for me, I was at going to the Tailor Swift

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Speaker 2: concert getting ready, big deal and in Melbourne, and I

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Speaker 2: was like, I wanted to do all these TikTok trends

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Speaker 2: of like the before and after, like in the pajamas

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Speaker 2: and like wasting our time doing TikTok. So it looks

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Speaker 2: like it's so easy and fun, but there's so much

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Speaker 1: Oh that's so stressful, and sometimes I go is it

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Speaker 2: Check them out on TikTok.

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Speaker 1: Actually they did work out quite well. I showed you

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Speaker 1: Though it was amazing and being in a brother party,

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Speaker 1: it's just so much fun. Yeah. I did the speech,

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Speaker 1: which we didn't actually talk about on the show.

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Speaker 2: No, and because we actually brought it up on Friday,

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Speaker 2: we actually and from when you were away, Maddie was

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Speaker 2: away and me and PJ. I think it might have

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Speaker 2: been in this podcast intro as well. We brought up

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Speaker 2: that you sent us a message on Friday or Saturday morning,

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Speaker 2: you hadn't even written your speech yet.

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Speaker 1: For Jackie, that is not quite true. I was kind

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Speaker 1: of playing it up a little bit. Oh okay, I

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Speaker 1: had done quite a bit of work, but we definitely

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Speaker 1: finessed it. So so on Friday we had to go

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Speaker 1: to the sand Geeks, which was like the Indian traditional

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Speaker 1: was on Sunday. So Friday we picked up one of

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Speaker 1: my really good friends from the airport who was also

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Speaker 1: a bridesmaid and who and I were doing the speech together, right,

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Speaker 1: and we drove up to the sand Geek, which was

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Speaker 1: an hour in the car to like finesse it, and

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Speaker 1: we practiced it and we read it out to Ryan.

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Speaker 1: What I will say is because Ryan is bless him,

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Speaker 1: like quite savage at the best of times. And the

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Speaker 1: first draft that we read to him, he said, oh,

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Speaker 1: it's a bit mean, and he thought it was me yes,

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Speaker 1: And I thought, if Ryan is telling us it's a

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Speaker 1: bit mean, we have to change it. And we changed it,

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Speaker 1: and I think we I think we nailed it.

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Speaker 2: Was it like joke, you mean, like kind of.

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Speaker 1: Taking me, but maybe just like there was an element

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Speaker 1: a twenty first speech, it's a wedding speech. But we

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Speaker 1: through it, and I'm just so happy for my friend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm so glad. I'm glad you made it back

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Speaker 2: in one piece and you're not too hungover today.

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Speaker 1: No, No, I was actually fine the next day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I won't lie. We did. We did get takeaways

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Speaker 1: on Monday. Otherwise, No, we're good to go. We're good

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Speaker 1: the Sierrah, I mean, really holding down.

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Speaker 2: The foe been allowed to turn my mic on today.

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Speaker 1: Well, PJ was away. Hopefully she'll be back tomorrow, but we'll.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and we did tease on Friday as well, a

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Speaker 2: be able to bring those up tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't know about them, but I have heard

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Speaker 1: that there's stuff happening in the wings, so I'm curious

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Speaker 1: to see what they are. Should I be worried?

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Speaker 2: Nah, I think it's just it's fine.

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Speaker 1: Fine, your voice went I when you see that. Okay, Well, anyway,

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Speaker 1: hopefully that will happen tomorrow if PJ is back. But

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Speaker 1: in the meantime, enjoy today's podcast. There are some great

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Speaker 1: elements today to today's show. We open up the People's

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Speaker 1: Jury and I feel like this could be a thing.

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Speaker 2: Definitely could Yeah. Is it just because everyone wait agree

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Speaker 1: Yeah. The defendant was Victoria, Well, the defendant was Victoria's

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Speaker 1: spoiler alert. But we went into something that happened to

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Speaker 1: me over the weekend and I needed some feedback, so

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Speaker 1: we opened up the People's Jury and got a verdict.

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Speaker 1: Group therapy was fascinating this week. A really nice little

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Speaker 1: professional dilemma that someone had and we played Maddie shouts.

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Speaker 2: And guess who won again.

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Speaker 1: today's podcast. Enjoy bye the podcast. It's Pink Runaway on

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Speaker 1: with Maddy and PJ. Oh my gosh. Pj's away today.

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Speaker 1: So I'm I'm doing the heavy lifting today and I'm not.

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Speaker 1: I keep forgetting that I meant to do the I

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Speaker 1: meant to say what song it is and what artist

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Speaker 1: and it's not even it's only just gone through clock. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: but I'm here with producer Sierra. Hello, Sira, Hello, Sorry,

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Speaker 2: I was looking at you like, we're on, we are.

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Speaker 1: On, We're there, here we are. I of course, was

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Speaker 1: away over the weekend for the long weekend. My best

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Speaker 1: friend got married. This woman and I met when we

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Speaker 1: were thirteen. Wow, we're going back about twenty five years now.

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Speaker 1: This show's my age and it was amazing. It was

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Speaker 1: Well, we had the sangitas I mentioned before on the

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Speaker 1: the whole thing was amazing. But the Saturday night, so

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Speaker 1: the night before the wedding, all of the bridal party

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Speaker 1: the night before her wedding. And when we got out there,

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Speaker 1: she said to us, Lock, We're going to have a nice, fun,

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Speaker 1: we do need to tick off. Today's you straight to

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Speaker 1: work exactly, And to be fear that, we all said, absolutely,

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Speaker 1: put us to work. That's what we're here for. We

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Speaker 1: want to help out. Shouldn't all be on your shots

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Speaker 1: just because you're the bride. So tell us what you

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Speaker 1: she said, well, I've bitten off more than I could chew.

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Speaker 1: She said, she came up with this idea that she

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Speaker 1: wanted to write little love notes to every single guest

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Speaker 1: that was coming to the wedding. So you know, when

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Speaker 1: the seating chart. It'll tell you where you're sitting. So

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Speaker 1: the seating chart was actually the love letters. So you'd

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Speaker 1: go on to this big board, pull out your love no,

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Speaker 1: it would have like a cute little personalized message, and

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Speaker 1: then tell you where you were sitting.

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Speaker 2: Wait, so these personalized messages. She was getting the bridesmaids

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Speaker 1: So here's so this is the task. So she said,

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Speaker 1: I've written the messages. I've typed them.

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Speaker 2: Oh she wrote them.

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Speaker 1: I typed up all the messages. But she wanted to

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Speaker 5: Your handwriting is very very nice. I'm not looking at

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Speaker 1: I thank you. And it's got a little bit of

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Speaker 4: You've got very It's lovely writing and very readable. I

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Speaker 1: Madi and PJ. They say, I've got a bit of

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Speaker 1: I mean, first of all, amazing and it sounds like

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Speaker 1: it's time to take that opportunity.

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Speaker 2: Well, you think my first thoughts were I love to

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Speaker 2: have fun at my job, So I was instantly more

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Speaker 2: attracted to the second one. Money more fun, more money,

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Speaker 2: A little bit low level. I don't want to be

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Speaker 2: up in management. I don't want to worry about that stuff.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, le stress, Right, what do you think? I think

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Speaker 1: life is for living and you've kind of just got

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Speaker 1: to enjoy life. I truly think that work life balance

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Speaker 1: is so important. But there is something really appealing if

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Speaker 1: you love your job about taking a step up and

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Speaker 1: really feeling like you're professionally fulfilled. And if you play

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Speaker 1: it right, and especially if you're hitting the department, then

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Speaker 1: you're it's kind of in your hands to create a

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Speaker 1: culture where you can still have fun, have a bit

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Speaker 1: of work life balance, but still get that real professional

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Speaker 1: fulfillment as well.

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Speaker 2: And that's probably what they've been working towards this whole time,

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Speaker 2: that role probably.

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Speaker 1: Totally yeah, and they might not come up all the time, right,

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Speaker 1: So you kind of got to grab the ball by

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Speaker 1: the horn. It's a real tough one. So I mean

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Speaker 1: to be fear what if Sarah and I know, no,

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Speaker 1: we know a bit, but I would love to get

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Speaker 1: your thoughts on this, and maybe you've been in a

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Speaker 1: really similar situation, maybe you had to make this choice.

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Speaker 1: You can weigh in on group therapy this week. Please

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Speaker 1: get in touch on E one hundred The Hits, or

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Speaker 1: you can text us to four four eight seven Maddy, J.

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Speaker 6: Mady ANDPJ the podcast The Heads, Many and PJS Group therapy.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it is time for us to delve into the

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Speaker 1: lives of other people basically and their problems, their dilemmas, because,

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Speaker 1: as PJ always says, the problem shared is a problem halved.

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Speaker 1: So if you've ever got anything going on in your

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Speaker 1: life that you think, actually, I'd love a second opinion

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Speaker 1: on this, you can always get in touch with us

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Speaker 1: like this person did. I'll recap our dilemma for this week.

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Speaker 1: Hello Madie and PJ. I've got a bit of a

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Speaker 1: professional dilemma I wanted your thoughts on. I've been looking

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Speaker 1: to head overseas for work for a while now, and

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Speaker 1: I've been applying for a bunch of jobs around the world.

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Speaker 1: Great news I've been offered too. One of them is

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Speaker 1: an incredible professional offer. I'd be heading up a department

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Speaker 1: and it would be so powerful for my career. The

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Speaker 1: other job is great too, but not as much of

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Speaker 1: a professional step up as the first one, but it

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Speaker 1: actually pays slightly more and the lifestyle opportunities would be

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Speaker 1: really fun. So now I'm super torn. Do I go

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Speaker 1: for the job with a better position that could really

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Speaker 1: set me in my career up for the future, or

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Speaker 1: do I take the fun job that isn't a senior

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Speaker 1: but would pay me slightly.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 1: You can get in touch on the phones oh eight

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Speaker 1: hundred the hits if you'd like to weigh in, or

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Speaker 1: you can text us through to four four eight seven.

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Speaker 1: Harry has called us. Hi, Harry Hid very well. How

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Speaker 1: are you doing, my friend?

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Speaker 8: I'm good, Thank you?

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Speaker 1: What are Eurekim, what are your thoughts on this. Have

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Speaker 1: you been in a similar situation.

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Speaker 8: If the if the person who's called in is more

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Speaker 8: career oriented, they should go for the professional one. Yeah,

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Speaker 8: because obviously somebody who's offered them that job thinks that

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Speaker 8: they're worthy of that job. Totally if you can step

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Speaker 8: up and take the job off of But it's somebody who's,

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Speaker 8: like you said, late twenties and the early thirties, who

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Speaker 8: wants a bit of a lifestyle as well, then take

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Speaker 8: a coble, the one that plays a bit more but

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Speaker 8: has a lifestyle as well.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well it's a funny one, right, Harry, Because just because

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Speaker 1: you're a little bit old, it doesn't mean you're still

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Speaker 1: not looking for a little bit of fun in your life, you.

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Speaker 8: Know, absolutely not.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Hey, thank you so much for the call Harry

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Speaker 1: that he's got a Stephen on eight hundred the hits

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Speaker 1: Hi Stephen a game. Many are Yeah, very well, mate,

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Speaker 1: how are you?

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Speaker 3: You're not too bad?

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Speaker 1: What do you reckon?

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Speaker 3: I honestly reckon the same as what the other person

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Speaker 3: has said on the phone at your career driven and

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Speaker 3: that's what you want in life, like, definitely take that option.

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Speaker 3: But I've done in those high spots before and it

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Speaker 3: does bring on a lot of streets scenary thing. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it was me, I'd take the fun roll, enjoy life

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Speaker 3: how long you've got and just look it up.

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Speaker 1: That's kind of where I reckon. I land as well, Stephen.

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Speaker 1: I mean if you I feel like, if you don't

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Speaker 1: immediately jump at the opportunity for professional development, it means

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Speaker 1: you're not you're not ready for it, or you don't

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Speaker 1: want it, like you're not hungry for it, and not

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Speaker 1: everyone is right, Like some people really really seek that

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Speaker 1: out in life, and others are just quite happy having

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Speaker 1: a bit of fun in their jobs. And that's there's

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Speaker 1: nothing wrong with that.

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Speaker 3: No, that's exactly right. So yeah, if it was me,

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Speaker 3: you know, you've got me a time and life to

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Speaker 3: look at that more professional.

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Speaker 4: Stuff later on.

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Speaker 3: Just enjoy life then go from me, I reckon, go.

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Speaker 1: Have some fun and in a bit of money as well.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, I love.

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Speaker 1: It, Steven, Thank you so much. We've got a chemist

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Speaker 1: Warehouse prize to hook you up with my friend.

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Speaker 4: Awesome.

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Speaker 1: Thank you very much, Maddie, thank you so much for

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Speaker 1: giving us a call. I reckon. This is where we've

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Speaker 1: come to You've got to just decide what stage of

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Speaker 1: life are you in, and you'll know are you in

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Speaker 1: the stage where you desperately are seeking some professional development.

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Speaker 1: If so, take the bigger job. If you actually just

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Speaker 1: want a bit of fun and you want to just

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Speaker 1: chill out for a little bit. If you're in that

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Speaker 1: stage of life, take the fun job with a little

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Speaker 1: bit more money. There's plenty of time for a bit

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Speaker 1: more professional career development later on in life. Like I said,

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Speaker 1: if you've got any dilemmas you want us to weigh

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Speaker 1: in on, you can always hit us up at the

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Speaker 1: Hits dot co dot m Z.

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Speaker 3: Mady and PJ.

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Speaker 6: Mady and PJ the podcast thes Maddy's Shout.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it is time for me to shout you Well.

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Speaker 1: Often it's dinner, but we're mixing it up a little

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Speaker 1: bit today. And if you beat me in this tea

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Speaker 1: trivia quiz, I'm going to shout you one entry into

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Speaker 1: our jingle Ball competition to get you live to New York.

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Speaker 1: And I'm even going to shout you a little prize

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Speaker 1: from Chemist Warehouse. All you have to do is beat

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Speaker 1: me in a TV trivia quiz. We're going to play

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Speaker 1: clips from various TV shows that producer Sira has selected,

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Speaker 1: and as soon as one of us knows which TV

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Speaker 1: show that clip comes from, we say our names, we

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Speaker 1: guess it, and if we get it right, the point

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Speaker 1: goes to us. Tina, does that make sense?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Simple? How's your TV knowledge?

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Speaker 4: It's good?

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Speaker 1: Okay? All right, okay, I actually got beaten for the

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Speaker 1: first time last week. Could we go back to back

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Speaker 1: with me losing Maddie's shout? What are you rehim?

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Speaker 4: Someone's going to be watching? Okay.

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Speaker 1: Producer Serra has selected three clips from three different shows,

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Speaker 1: and is there a theme this week? Sarah?

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Speaker 2: There is a theme today. I have mixed it up. Okay,

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Speaker 2: keeping you on your toes, both of you. So the

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Speaker 2: theme today is theme tunes two shows.

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Speaker 1: Oh, so we hear the tune and then we have

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Speaker 1: to guess which show it comes from.

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Speaker 2: Yes, So as soon as you know, you need to

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Speaker 2: yell out your name, okay, Tina.

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, just the TV show, not this band, Who's

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Speaker 4: or the thing?

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Speaker 1: Correct? You just need to know which TV show it

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Speaker 1: comes from, Tina? Okay, all right, here we go. Here

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Speaker 1: is clip number one.

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Speaker 3: Maddie, Oh, Tina, there was Game of Thrones?

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Speaker 2: Were you going to guess that?

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Speaker 4: Tina, I've never watched that show, but I know that thing.

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Speaker 1: Go so I'm the same Tina. I've never seen Game

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Speaker 1: of Thrones either.

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, you both have to watch it. Okay,

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Speaker 2: take anything away from this today.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you were in there though, Tina, you were in there.

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Speaker 1: But that is a point to me. That is a

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Speaker 1: point to me.

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Speaker 4: I will watch an episode.

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Speaker 2: Okay, great, perfect, good promise. All right, here's number two.

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Speaker 4: I don't want to wrong.

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Speaker 2: That's okay, Tina. Did you say tany to just go

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Speaker 2: for it? Just stab in the dark.

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Speaker 4: It sounds like from like back in the day, like

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Speaker 4: Dawson's Creek kind of era.

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Speaker 2: It's not right though, not Dawson's Creek. Let's deflict to Maddie,

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Speaker 2: I know what it is.

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Speaker 5: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I can see them too in the in the intro

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Speaker 1: they are driving in a car, correct as the songs playing. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so that is to me, Tina. Here's what I'm gonna do,

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Speaker 1: because I'm feeling really generous today. If you can beat

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Speaker 1: me in this last question, I'm still going to give

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Speaker 1: you the prizes.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, here we go, come Tina, I'm going to

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Speaker 2: give you a hint. It's it's a it's a newer show,

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Speaker 2: newer than that seventies show. Okay, it's it's newer. All right,

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Speaker 2: here we go. Come on, Tina, really, Maddie, you're so

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Speaker 2: so yes, Tina, what do you think it's?

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Speaker 5: That is a yellowstone?

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Speaker 1: For no, I know what it is. It's the White Lotus.

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Speaker 1: You know what, Tina, you know what. I'm not going

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Speaker 1: to give you the Chemist Weirhouse Prize, but I'm feeling

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Speaker 1: very generous. I'm still going to put you in the

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Speaker 1: drawer for our jingle ball competition. Okay, thank you, you're

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Speaker 1: so well. God, I'm nice. It's so nice.

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Speaker 2: It was a great effort from both.

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Speaker 1: It was a really nice effort, Tina, but unfortunately I

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Speaker 1: remained victorious. If you want another shot, we'll play it

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Speaker 1: again next week. Mary J.

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Speaker 6: Many and PJ The podcast that the People's Poll, The

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Speaker 6: People's Poll, everybody comes together, It's the People's Poll.

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Speaker 1: Yes, every day we come to the table with let's

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Speaker 1: be honest, often a little trivial topic that we get

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Speaker 1: you to weigh in on, and we try and determine

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Speaker 1: the results for the People's Poll. PJ is not here,

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Speaker 1: but I'll get producer the Serra to weigh in with

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Speaker 1: her thoughts today because something happened to me that I'm

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Speaker 1: curious to know what you would have done. So I

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Speaker 1: was sent out on a mission over the weekend to

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Speaker 1: get three M hooks. You know the hooks that you

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Speaker 1: attached to the wall and often they use ye often

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Speaker 1: they used for hanging photographs or something.

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Speaker 2: That, yeah, mirror that kind of stuff.

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Speaker 8: Yep.

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Speaker 1: We wanted to use them, very short lived, for something

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Speaker 1: to do with the wedding. So we just wanted to

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Speaker 1: hang some things for the wedding that I was at

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Speaker 1: over the weekend. And I was sent out at very

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Speaker 1: late notice to go and find some three M hooks.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I didn't have long to get them. So I

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Speaker 1: went to the supermarket that was closest and really the

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Speaker 1: only one I could go to. No three EM hooks.

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Speaker 1: No three hooks. So I then went to a dairy

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Speaker 1: that was nearby, thinking maybe the deiry would have them.

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Speaker 1: They did not have them either. What they did have,

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Speaker 1: randomly was those like hooks for curtains.

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Speaker 2: Right, like the little kind of circle ones like yeah,

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Speaker 2: the key one.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you'd hang above and then you'd loop the curtains

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Speaker 1: through them.

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Speaker 2: Yep, yep.

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Speaker 1: So they had those, and I thought, well, what is

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Speaker 1: better here for me to return home empty handed? Because

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Speaker 1: I haven't managed to get me three emhooks. I don't

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Speaker 1: have enough time to go to multiple supermarkets or anything,

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Speaker 1: or do I return home with something that is not

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Speaker 1: the same? And I completely acknowledged that, but it least

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Speaker 1: is something similar that maybe we could do something with.

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Speaker 1: Boy oh boy, I made the wrong call clearly because

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Speaker 1: I turned home, returned back with the curtain hooks from

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Speaker 1: the Dairyes, and was absolutely roasted for my decision to

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Speaker 1: come home with something that wasn't what I was sent

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Speaker 1: out to get.

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Speaker 2: Did you try the curtain hooks once you brought them home,

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Speaker 2: DoD they at least try to see if they would work.

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Speaker 1: No, they didn't know.

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Speaker 2: You think they would have worked for what you needed?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know that they would have, Okay,

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Speaker 1: But I thought it was better to return home with

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Speaker 1: something than to return home with nothing. So that is

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Speaker 1: today's people's poll. When you were sent out to get

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Speaker 1: something specific and you cannot get the thing you were

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Speaker 1: sent out to get, what is better to return home

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Speaker 1: with something else that is slightly similar, or to return

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Speaker 1: home empty handed. You can weigh in on the Hits

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Speaker 1: Drive on Instagram, Maddy EMPTYJ, Maddy and PJ.

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Speaker 6: The podcast that the People's Poll, the People's Poll.

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Speaker 1: Everybody comes together, It's the People's Poll. Yes, it's time

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Speaker 1: for the People's Poll and today. This is a very

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Speaker 1: simple question. If you were sent out to get something

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Speaker 1: from the store or from the supermarket and they don't

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Speaker 1: quite have what you were sent out to get, is

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Speaker 1: it better to return home with something similar or in

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Speaker 1: the same slight vein is what you were asked to get?

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Speaker 1: Or are you better to just return home empty handed?

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Speaker 1: This was the dile Maria's faced with over the weekend.

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Speaker 1: What would you do? Producers here?

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Speaker 2: H Yeah, I've just had to think about this. I

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Speaker 2: am someone who kind of needs to check with someone

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Speaker 2: else for validation what I'm out and about, So I

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Speaker 2: would need to call and be like, do you think

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Speaker 2: the curtain hawks would work?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Right?

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Speaker 2: Do you think?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: But if you were in that situation and it was

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Speaker 2: a wedding, it was last minute, and you just needed

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Speaker 2: anything to hold whatever you were using it for up,

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Speaker 2: I think I would just get something similar.

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Speaker 1: So that at least you've at least you've returned with

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Speaker 1: an option as supposed to no option at all. Right, exactly,

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Speaker 1: My god, I was roasted for my decision. But anyway,

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Speaker 1: anyway we asked you, I would say that most people

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Speaker 1: on the text machine have actually seed the opposite. They've

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Speaker 1: seed return home empty handed. Wow.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well Instagram's a little bit different. So sixty two

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Speaker 2: percent have agreed with you, just get something similar, yep,

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Speaker 2: But thirty eight percent would return home empty handed.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so I was in the majority. Then, Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: feel like you've just got to try something right. Like

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Speaker 1: it's a little bit of a problem solve a situation

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Speaker 1: I tried to problem solve. Might not have worked, but

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Speaker 1: at least they came with a solution as opposed to

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Speaker 1: no solution at all.

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Speaker 2: You can tell everyone at the wedding that you were right.

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Speaker 1: My handwriting is fine, as we discussed earlier in the show,

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Speaker 1: and I was right in this situation. So god, I'm

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Speaker 1: feeling validated validated today. Anyway, if you've got any ideas

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Speaker 1: for any people pold that you would like us to do,

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Speaker 1: you can text them through now to four four eight seven.

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Speaker 1: Many INPJ the podcast see mpj's Science Chat.

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Speaker 6: Warning the following content may not be it's scientifically or otherwise.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so we decided pretty early on in the show

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Speaker 1: that PJ and I would get quite easily hooked in

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Speaker 1: by a headline. We'd see a fascinating headline, often about

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Speaker 1: something to do with science, you know, the body, space,

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Speaker 1: all sorts of science y things. It would think, this

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Speaker 1: sounds fascinating, let's talk about it on the show, and

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Speaker 1: then we would get immediately lost as we started to

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Speaker 1: try and explain this. We have to present a little

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Speaker 1: bit of a disclaimer before we come in here. Pj's

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Speaker 1: not here tonight. She's a little bit under the weather.

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Speaker 1: But I still wanted to bring this to the table,

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Speaker 1: and it's a shame she's not here because I feel

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Speaker 1: like she would have enjoyed this story. But produce the theory.

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Speaker 1: You might be able to weigh in. Are you into space.

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Speaker 2: A little bit? But I'll try be woo woo for

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Speaker 2: Pj's sake. If you want me to be, well.

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Speaker 1: You can be if you want to. Here's the thing

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Speaker 1: about space. For me, I'm fascinated by it right every

756
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Speaker 1: time I look up in the night sky. I just

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Speaker 1: I have a a bit of an existential crisis thinking

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Speaker 1: about how tiny we are and how much is out there.

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Speaker 1: Do you know that here's one of the most fun

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Speaker 1: fans about space for me. So some of the stars

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Speaker 1: that we see, yes, are actually not even there anymore.

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Speaker 1: They're burning they're burning out, yes, But because that's so

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Speaker 1: far away from us, we're still still seeing them.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. It is pretty wild when you think too hard

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Speaker 2: about it.

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Speaker 1: Crazy crazy, and when you think we're tiny within our

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Speaker 1: own galaxy, but then we're a tiny galaxy within a

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Speaker 1: bunch of other galaxy. Just yeah, which makes me think,

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Speaker 1: you know, there is life out there. There is absolutely

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Speaker 1: life out there. And I think what has happened is

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Speaker 1: over the years we've thought of aliens as little green

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Speaker 1: men with googly eyes that come in the UFOs, But

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Speaker 1: aliens could be anything, just like anything that's living, right right,

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Speaker 1: So NASA has said that we could find tiny aliens

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Speaker 1: hidden under Mars's surface. A particular scientist by the name are.

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to pronounce the name actually, Okay, so

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Speaker 2: a scientist said.

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Speaker 1: A scientist has said that actually NASA should be looking

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Speaker 1: underneath the ice exposures on Mars. Mars has been known

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Speaker 1: for age for some time that it's home to water

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Speaker 1: like this water, yes on Mars, and so the scientist

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Speaker 1: has said that underneath the water it has sheets of ice,

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Speaker 1: and so then underneath the ice they are likely to

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Speaker 1: find life.

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Speaker 2: So who's going there and hacking into the ice to check?

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Speaker 1: So they do have rovers on Mars? Oh okay, NASA does.

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Speaker 1: They haven't sent people to Mars yet, So I guess

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Speaker 1: a you get a rover that can like burrow into.

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Speaker 2: The ice, yeah, like a robot, right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, or you try and send people there. But

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Speaker 1: the issue is Mars is so far away that if

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Speaker 1: you send people there, they're probably not coming back.

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Speaker 5: No.

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Speaker 2: So there's actually a Doctor Who episode about aliens on Mars,

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Speaker 2: what I mean?

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Speaker 1: And always scientifically it could be right yeah, so they

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Speaker 1: say because there's the water and there's the ice, like

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Speaker 1: there would be likely to be living things underneath the water,

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Speaker 1: so full of life like fungi, algae.

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Speaker 2: And they would call those aliens or yeah.

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Speaker 1: Because it's it's living like an alien doesn't need to

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Speaker 1: be like a person or a human or anything like that.

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Speaker 1: It can just be a living organism.

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Speaker 2: Still pretty exciting.

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Speaker 1: So yes, it might not be the aliens that you're

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Speaker 1: thinking of in your head, but still we could be

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Speaker 1: closer to finding alien life forms not too far away

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Speaker 1: from Earth. How did I do in Science Chat?

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Speaker 2: Pretty good? I didn't get too lost.

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Speaker 1: Great, That's all we can strive for. Of Maddy and PJ.

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