1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: Movie mum Stacy is still writing shotgun, I have something 2 00:00:04,720 --> 00:00:08,960 Speaker 1: for you. They say actions speak louder than words, and 3 00:00:09,039 --> 00:00:11,719 Speaker 1: now women seem to be proving it. A new study 4 00:00:11,760 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 1: suggests that women in particular value small acts of service 5 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 1: like cooking dinner or doing chores more than verbal affection. Absolutely, 6 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 1: do I need to go on fourth stop? Play song? Yeah, well, 7 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 1: I'll finish the blur of researchers. They surveyed over five 8 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:32,239 Speaker 1: hundred heterosexual adults comparing reactions to talk, I love you, etc. 9 00:00:32,640 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: Verse actually doing stuff like vacuuming the hallway rather than 10 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:39,560 Speaker 1: just talking about it. Women far more likely to see 11 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 1: action orientated partners as dependable and trustworthy. What was interesting, 12 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:48,239 Speaker 1: men didn't seem to shew preference. In some cases, they 13 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:51,840 Speaker 1: even leaned more toward words, experts saying that it's because 14 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 1: we prefer the instance gratification, the immediate payoff, whereas women 15 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: are looking for the long term commitment and the you know. 16 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 2: That makes sense, I spoke, yeah, yeah. 17 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 1: The practicalities of it all. Yeah, so ladies liking us 18 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 1: to pitch, and sometimes I reckon that there's more to 19 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 1: this or maybe, if anything, a limit. I mean, in principle, yes, 20 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 1: of course, you like the idea of the other half 21 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 1: pulling their weight and pitching in, especially with two young 22 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: kids drawing a lot of time. However, there's got to 23 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 1: be some stuff that we prefer to tackle alone. I 24 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:22,040 Speaker 1: put this to Amber last night and I said, Okay, 25 00:01:22,280 --> 00:01:24,840 Speaker 1: is there one, sure, wife, Amber, that you'd rather I 26 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 1: not do. I didn't expect her to come back with 27 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: a swathe of them, big long list, but the one 28 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 1: that said at the top. She said, it really irks 29 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:37,160 Speaker 1: me when you clean the toilets because apparently there's special 30 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 1: cloths for doing said job right. And she says, well, 31 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 1: I kind of did, but I just don't care. Nothing 32 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 1: extra more than me using the wrong type of cloth 33 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 1: to clean the bog. My acumen is they all go 34 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:51,520 Speaker 1: in the wash and they end up clean at the 35 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 1: end of the day, right, Yeah, So she'd rather do 36 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 1: that herself. What about you? 37 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 2: So there are things that I don't like going in 38 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:03,279 Speaker 2: the dryer that that he will put on the dryer. 39 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 2: So that's what we've all been there and then and 40 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:13,000 Speaker 2: then our main topic of contingent is the dishwasher. 41 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:16,080 Speaker 1: It's always the dish. 42 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:16,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I put the cutlery up one way. He puts 43 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:19,680 Speaker 2: it up the other way and neither of us will back. 44 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 1: Oh okay, So it's not necessarily you know, unloading the 45 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: thing or the plates, because sometimes you know, that can 46 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 1: be a touch point to you know, even just putting 47 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:30,520 Speaker 1: the plates and if they're too close together, it's on 48 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 1: a surface area doesn't clean. It's all about the cutlery, that's. 49 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 2: All the coloring. 50 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:36,920 Speaker 1: Who's right, he reckons, he's right. 51 00:02:39,560 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 2: But you know what, at the library, we all do 52 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 2: it the same way that I do it, so I 53 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:46,200 Speaker 2: feel like I'm right there. 54 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 1: It is. Yeah, I've got the people's vote. Well, sit down, erin, 55 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:54,639 Speaker 1: yes dear, yes, dear. What's it for you? Chat on 56 00:02:54,680 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 1: the hawkishbut and Facebook page. We'd love to know your thoughts.