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Speaker 1: the real house of fragrances on that brown rice cakes.

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Speaker 1: Brown rice probably not even that good, to be honest,

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Speaker 1: but it's better than me docing myself up.

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Speaker 2: Sugar.

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Speaker 3: Well, here's what I did as I went out into

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Speaker 3: the office, and I was peakish, and I mentioned I

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Speaker 3: was peakish, and someone said, oh, we've got a beg

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Speaker 3: of chips here. You know radio stations. I'll tell you what.

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Speaker 1: They just always have stuff, an infinite supply of junk

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Speaker 3: Someone said I've got a begg of chips and I went,

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Speaker 3: I shouldn't. I shouldn't shuld And before I, before i'd

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Speaker 3: even formed the conscious thought on my head that I shouldn't,

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Speaker 3: the words, yeah, go on with.

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Speaker 1: Your sour cream and chivee.

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Speaker 3: They were sour cream and chives. They're not mad, they weren't.

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Speaker 3: They're not my go to sour cream and chives, but

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Speaker 1: They were good sour cream and drives reigned supreme and

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Speaker 1: your flavor World, don't they.

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Speaker 3: I love them. I really like salt and vinegar as well.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, see something. I also like chicken. No,

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Speaker 1: there's just something about it like I wouldn't do it much,

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Speaker 1: But every now and then I'm like, oh, yeah.

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Speaker 3: No, I couldn't do it. There's a not the non

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Speaker 1: Hashake, not sponsored, just good.

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Speaker 3: The snacker chany sweet chili ones are really.

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Speaker 1: is so good too. They take me back to what

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Speaker 3: It sound quite sixy when I do that?

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Speaker 1: Oh you mean no?

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Speaker 3: Six? Do you mean sixty?

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Speaker 1: Try again?

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Speaker 3: Oh it's gone now.

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Speaker 1: Like a bubble.

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Speaker 3: It was like a bubble.

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Speaker 1: You love when you get a bubble?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Do you reckon? I continue on with something? I say, No,

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Speaker 1: you don't think so? No, he mady, I've got I've

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Speaker 1: got a big hay mady, are you tired? Oh no,

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Speaker 1: it's weird. I just feel like I can. I feel

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Speaker 1: like I can get you like you get me sometimes,

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Speaker 1: even though we're not distracted to each other's genders. I mean,

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Speaker 1: dreams about but like I'm meanto guys, but just not you.

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Speaker 1: I'm not into you. Why it's got weird? You've made

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Speaker 1: it weird anyway? Back to where I was. Hey there,

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Speaker 1: Hey do you do you want to come over? Why

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Speaker 1: are you American? Do you want to touch? Can we

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Speaker 1: bought this? Can we have bought this podcast? I just

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Speaker 1: thought I get you. But it just got real weird,

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Speaker 1: real fuss get up coming out and today's podcast. It's

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Speaker 1: at the end of the show, so we're off cool.

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Speaker 1: We had a really good group therapy one regarding long

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Speaker 1: distance weather twist. It was about heartbreaking to be honest

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Speaker 1: but good.

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Speaker 3: I just I hope, I hope they listen to the advice.

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Speaker 3: That's all come across.

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Speaker 1: Too strong, But I think we needed to be firm

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Speaker 3: Plus we in a more fun segment, we talked about

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Speaker 3: It was really sweet.

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Speaker 1: So maybe realize I think I need to up my game.

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Speaker 1: It often think about how I need to up my

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Speaker 1: game as a wife, Like I am so focused sometimes

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Speaker 1: and doing my job and bigger mum. I probably don't

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Speaker 1: Oh God, I'm sorry. Here's the podcast.

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Speaker 3: I'm always really curious on social media by who chooses

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Speaker 3: to follow me on my pages.

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Speaker 3: That's interesting that they've made a conscious effort to follow me.

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Speaker 1: But maybe it's sheit curiosity and they want to follow

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Speaker 3: They're following nineteen people and I am one of them.

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Speaker 6: Who is it?

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Speaker 3: Auckland weight loss surgeon?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god? Maybe they saw do you remember when

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Speaker 1: there was that fabricated AI ad where it was you

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Speaker 3: Really I just saw the notification and I went, now

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Speaker 3: Have they reached out, Hey, Maddie would love to collab

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Speaker 1: Who else do they do they follow?

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Speaker 3: Let me have a look. They follow nineteen people? They

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Speaker 3: they do follow a couple of other TV ands.

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Speaker 1: Maybe they're just looking for media opportunities and maybe that's

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Speaker 3: So I shouldn't be offended.

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Speaker 3: Don't think this is them reaching out to Have you

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Speaker 1: to go, Mary and Mary and the podcast. We did

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Speaker 1: just get back from holiday at the end of last

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Speaker 1: Our toddler, Charlie, who's a busy boy at the best

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Speaker 3: And the question is, because you were so hungry, what

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Speaker 1: you were a child willingly or unwillingly threw you under

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Speaker 1: the bus. We were on holiday getting room service on

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Speaker 3: Do you know what it reminds me of? It reminds

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Speaker 3: me of this classic photo that has seemed like a

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Speaker 3: did for work. They drew a picture of what very

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Speaker 3: much looked like a mum on a pole with money

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Speaker 3: being thrown at her. But it was actually the mum

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Speaker 1: To go onto the class, Lauran is joining us, Hello.

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Speaker 7: Hello, how are you today?

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Speaker 1: You know when you get thrown under the bus.

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Speaker 7: This is going back a few years ago. I was

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Speaker 7: very farming in Canterbury and their neighbor it was actually

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Speaker 7: Frank Ellen before we're all black all right.

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Speaker 1: Oh.

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Speaker 7: He was moving sheep down the road and it was

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Speaker 7: just looks across at Frank lightly. He just goes, sheep, sugar,

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Speaker 3: Yescus. I'm with medi Live your best life, set up

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Speaker 1: You say, run, I say, I feel like she needs

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Speaker 8: Hi sorry with you? So, yeah, So I was traveling

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Speaker 3: last two years face timed or video called. So she

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Speaker 3: has never seen this guy before. It is in she's

445
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Speaker 3: never been able to face video call with this person, which.

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Speaker 1: That does change everything for me.

447
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Speaker 3: I think it changes. I mean I I was pretty

448
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Speaker 3: firm on you have to get out of this beforehand,

449
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Speaker 3: and hearing that, as much as it breaks my heart

450
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Speaker 3: to say this, I think you've got to get out.

451
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Speaker 3: I don't think that this person is coming to this

452
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Speaker 3: with genuine intent. There's no reason in twenty twenty four

453
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Speaker 3: that you cannot video call with someone in two years.

454
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Speaker 3: The meeting is one thing they've not meaning.

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Speaker 1: That's yeah, not knowing that I couldn't make such a

456
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Speaker 1: strong call. But now that we know that there's been

457
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Speaker 1: no FaceTime, no video chat, I'm exactly with you, and

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Speaker 1: I think red flag And.

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Speaker 3: I'm really sorry because it must feel really heartbreaking having

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Speaker 3: put two years of your life into a relationship that

461
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Speaker 3: you genuinely thought was something. But I'm telling you now

462
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Speaker 3: you have to get out for your own for your

463
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Speaker 3: own health and well being, You've got to get out.

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Speaker 1: Well, let's wrap it up with actually, oh, wite hundred

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Speaker 1: the hats, what do you want to say?

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Speaker 10: Ash, Yeah, I was with you guys about the video call.

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Speaker 10: Who doesn't have a friend, family member that has a

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Speaker 10: device to kem or go to a public library. There's

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Speaker 10: no reason why you can't video.

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Speaker 3: Call someone else, So get out.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, definitely run.

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Speaker 10: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Brings a lot of alarm bells and it is heartbreaking

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Speaker 1: because you've obviously put a lot of emotion into it

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Speaker 1: over the last couple of years. But to protect yourself

476
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Speaker 1: moving forward, I think you've got to get out out.

477
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Speaker 1: You got to get out. Yeah. There was a simple

478
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Speaker 1: answer this week. It ended up. We all ended up

479
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Speaker 1: on the same page.

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Speaker 6: Absolutely many and the podcast.

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Speaker 3: I made what turned out to be a bit of

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Speaker 3: a crucial era, probably a couple of weeks ago when

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Speaker 3: I was gonna say doing the show, but that was

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Speaker 3: and I rew the day every day since. No, no,

485
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Speaker 3: I'm kidding, I love it. I went to the club.

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Speaker 1: With sorry what like the night class.

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Speaker 3: I went to a nightclub with some friends for a party,

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Speaker 3: and I wore my very nice white shoes, like white

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Speaker 3: white shoes.

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Speaker 1: You obviously even been to the club in a while,

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Speaker 1: because those red ball and Vodkas that gets spilt on

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Speaker 1: the d floor, they ain't gonna leave your shoes white.

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Speaker 3: So I got home and they were filthy. They were

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Speaker 3: so disgusting. And I love these shoes, and so I thought,

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna I wash them. I'll put them in the

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Speaker 3: washing machine.

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Speaker 1: And are they canvas or leather?

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Speaker 3: Leather?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, have the washingine.

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Speaker 3: Yeah that was a mistake. That was my first mistake.

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Speaker 3: But it's not actually, well maybe it does play into

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Speaker 3: what has happened since because they came out beautiful, like

503
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Speaker 3: that's so white. I added some little some nappy sand. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: came out white as white. So I thought, great job done.

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Speaker 3: I dried them and I've been wearing them. The issue

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Speaker 3: is there is now the most irritating squeak every single

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Speaker 3: step I take. You can hear the squeak in the

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Speaker 3: heel of the shoe. I got produced the Seia to

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Speaker 3: follow me with her phone and we went for a

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Speaker 3: walk to a for a coffee to earlier today to

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Speaker 3: record the sound. Now, I will preface this by saying,

512
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Speaker 3: because she was basically following me with a phone, it's

513
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Speaker 3: not the best audio, but I think you'll get a

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Speaker 3: sense of what I'm talking about. Have he listened to this?

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Speaker 3: Can you hear the squeak? Just yes, it's producer SI.

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Speaker 3: Can you can vouch for how annoying the squeak is was?

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Speaker 12: It was pretty squeaky at times. Yes, And we try

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Speaker 12: to outside on the footpath as well, and inside on

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Speaker 12: the tile.

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Speaker 3: Very squeak, very squeaky. So it's so annoying and it's

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Speaker 3: only happened since I put them in the wash, And

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Speaker 3: I need to know is this a thing? Is there

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Speaker 3: a way that I can get rid of the squeak?

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Speaker 3: What do I do?

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Speaker 1: Are they still partially wish I would say moisture.

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Speaker 3: No, it's been like two weeks since I put them

527
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Speaker 3: in the washing machine. I dried them out for like

528
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Speaker 3: two days before I wore them again. But it's got

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Speaker 3: this bloody, annoying squeak. And I thought someone out there

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Speaker 3: will know what's got, what I'm talking about, and why

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Speaker 3: this is father out there, and how do I get

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Speaker 3: rid of the squeak? If someone knows, please stick through

533
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Speaker 3: to four four eights even I need to know. I

534
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Speaker 3: need to get rid of it.

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Speaker 1: Maybe you put them in Rice, Rice Foxes, Everything.

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Speaker 6: May and PJ Mady and PJ the podcast The Heads.

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Speaker 1: I take you back to when I was pregnant a

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Speaker 1: couple of years ago, to the cravings that I had

539
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Speaker 1: heard everyone talk about, you know, leading up to the

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Speaker 1: Oh it's a real thing. Absolutely. I never had nothing

541
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Speaker 1: too strange though I loved I actually cooking up butter

542
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Speaker 1: pasta a lot. I just wanted plain feta genie, right,

543
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Speaker 1: like just plain pasta with lots of butter and salt

544
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Speaker 1: and cheese.

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Speaker 3: The thing they do think, though, is that I have

546
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Speaker 3: cravings all the time as well, and I'm not pregnant.

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Speaker 3: Do you think do you think it's just a good

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Speaker 3: excuse for pregnant.

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Speaker 1: This was different. Like I do to have cravings, but

550
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Speaker 1: these were different, Like it's almost like you have to

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Speaker 1: have it right Like in the morning, oh my god,

552
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Speaker 1: I would have to have my cup of tea and toast.

553
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Speaker 1: I think that's because I was just quite nauseated and

554
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Speaker 1: in the second I needed something in me. But it

555
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Speaker 1: is like it's really overpowering, right, okay, And when you

556
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Speaker 1: have that crave, got to have it. And yeah, I

557
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Speaker 1: probably did milk it a few times, but I really

558
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Speaker 1: I need I need this now fair enough. A similar

559
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Speaker 1: situation has happened to a well known Kiwi TikToker. His

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Speaker 1: name is Louis and he has We actually tried to

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Speaker 1: get him on the show because this has made news

562
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Speaker 1: articles here in New Zealand about a situation with his

563
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Speaker 1: wife who was experiencing pregnancy craving. Now we couldn't get

564
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Speaker 1: him on the show, but here he is to explain

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Speaker 1: what happened.

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Speaker 4: That's just pregnant and she has a very specific pregnancy craving.

567
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Speaker 4: It's a little bit difficult because it has to be fresh,

568
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Speaker 4: it has to be big, and I have to get

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Speaker 4: it with my own hands. Ideally it would just be

570
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Speaker 4: ice cream or a burger or something.

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Speaker 6: But for her, it's a delicacy that we call quina.

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Speaker 4: Despite what people think about the Pacific Ocean, it is

573
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Speaker 4: very cold this time of the year. And if it

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Speaker 4: wasn't for the overwhelming amount of love that I have

575
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Speaker 4: for my darling, I would not be doing this and

576
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Speaker 4: saying that I don't have a baby inside of me,

577
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Speaker 4: so I'd go to the ends of the earth for

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Speaker 4: her crazy little cravings.

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Speaker 1: Oh, partner of the year, right there, lowis Davis who

580
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Speaker 1: in diving for twelve hours to get the kinner for

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Speaker 1: his wife that she's so strongly craved.

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Speaker 3: I did just put this together because we reached out

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Speaker 3: to Louis and he missed me and said, I'd love

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Speaker 3: to come on the show, but I'm in the middle

585
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Speaker 3: of the Pacific Ocean right now. Is he back out

586
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Speaker 3: finding trying.

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Speaker 1: To find he didn't give enough. I'm not a fan.

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Speaker 1: I don't think even if I was Brigner. I'd like

589
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Speaker 1: them to be honest for you, even though for.

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Speaker 3: Me, but each to their own, each to their own.

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Speaker 1: I thought this was a great opportunity to platform the

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Speaker 1: unsung heroes this afternoon, and I would like to take

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Speaker 1: nominations for Partner of the Year award. Oh wait, hundred

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Speaker 1: of the hats you can text wolf for eight seven.

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Speaker 1: Has your partner gone above and beyond to earn the

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Speaker 1: Partner of the Year awards? I love it. It could

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Speaker 1: be a little tongue in cheek maybe you know, it's

598
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Speaker 1: not like saving a life, but something that they did

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Speaker 1: that you're like, you know what, babe, you are You're

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Speaker 1: in top position for Partner of the Year. Get in touch.

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Speaker 1: Oh eight hundred per hats.

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Speaker 6: Mary and PJ Mady and PJ the podcast.

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Speaker 1: The nominations are now open for Partner of the Year award.

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Speaker 1: We've been talking about this guy, Louis Davis, who went

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Speaker 1: on a twelve hour mission to fulfill his pregnant wife's

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Speaker 1: craving of Kenner. There have been a few messages of

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Speaker 1: concern that raal fish probably isn't the best thing when

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Speaker 1: you're pregnant on it. I don't know what the deal

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Speaker 1: is with Kenna actually, but anyway, it's the idea behind

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Speaker 1: it is the intention, the good intention that he had

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Speaker 1: to take care of his wife, because you don't want

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Speaker 1: to get in between a craving. I know a firsthand.

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Speaker 1: We do want to know, though, what has your partner

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Speaker 1: done to go above and beyond? You can text four

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Speaker 1: for eight seven or give us a call one hundred hats.

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey is joining us. Hello, Jeffrey good, how are you good? Thanks?

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Speaker 1: Why does your partner deserve Partner of the Year award?

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Speaker 5: Look, she goes above and beyond every day. So we've

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Speaker 5: got poor kids, and I'm constantly at doing things within

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Speaker 5: the community and working on that, and she also works

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Speaker 5: all time. But she's above and beyond every day making

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Speaker 5: sure that we're all looked after.

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Speaker 1: And so oh Free you just sounds so smarter. It's

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Speaker 1: like Jeffrey has been waiting for this moment to call up.

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Speaker 1: I love what your name? Give her a proper shout out.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so Rebecca Bath. So we've been married, coming up

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Speaker 5: fourteen years. I say, love your bad.

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Speaker 3: Oh je free God. Now she's going to have to

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Speaker 3: call up about you.

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Speaker 1: Oh Jeffrey, love you dem yourself a helpizz Actually, thank

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Speaker 1: you very much for getting in touch. Let's go to Anna.

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Speaker 1: I waite hundred the hats. Why does your partner good

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Speaker 1: luck being in that deserve part of the Year award.

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Speaker 11: Well, whenever I was actually had babies. Whenever I got

635
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Speaker 11: up to breastfeed, he would roll over to my side

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Speaker 11: of the bed, and when I came back, he'd roll

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Speaker 11: back and leave me a nice warm side of the bed.

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Speaker 11: You just did it every time.

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Speaker 1: It's just like a real life hot water bottle electric blanket.

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Speaker 3: It's a good man and.

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Speaker 6: A many and the podcast.

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Speaker 1: So last week we were on a flight to Australia

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Speaker 1: with our toddler and we had to do two flights.

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Speaker 1: We had to do one to Auckland and then we

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Speaker 1: had to do one to Bridgeman, which is a bit

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Speaker 1: of an ask with a toddler, like you really have

647
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Speaker 1: to have a game plan. You got to have all

648
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Speaker 1: the snacks up your sleeve. You've got to just have everything.

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Speaker 1: You have books, you'd have something on the iPad, just

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Speaker 1: something really to go. We did pretty well our first

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Speaker 1: flight to Auckland, and probably a little bit cocky as

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Speaker 1: we ded it the second flight. The first half went

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Speaker 1: really really well and he was an angel child. And

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Speaker 1: then he went to sleep and BJ and I looked

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Speaker 1: at each other and we were like.

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Speaker 3: We got this.

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Speaker 1: We've got an hour and a half ago, we have

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Speaker 1: got this in the back and then Charlie woke, and

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Speaker 1: he woke, I think, in quite a disorientated state on

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Speaker 1: a plane, hot and flustered. And then it happened the

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Speaker 1: meltdown of all meltdown, which lasted for about fifteen to

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Speaker 1: twenty minutes. Oh yeah, yeah, let go go away, get

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Speaker 1: off me, like at full boar, and you just feel

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Speaker 1: so bad. But also it's so funny in those moments

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Speaker 1: because fellow parents just look to you with this with

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Speaker 1: this gaze that they understand. They're like, I know, I

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Speaker 1: know what you're going through.

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Speaker 3: But it's probably a mix of I know, but also

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Speaker 3: thank god it's not me.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, that's it, like a real smugness about them going,

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Speaker 1: oh honey, I'm so sorry, but oh thank god. But anyway,

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Speaker 1: that's an occasionally and you know, like I just wanted

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Speaker 1: to give Charlie the biggest cuddle. It wasn't his fault,

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Speaker 1: he just didn't know where he was. Anyway, that that

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Speaker 1: came to an end, and it was like and afterwards

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Speaker 1: the flood attendant was amazing sort of came to us

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Speaker 1: and said, look, do you guys want your own role?

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Speaker 1: We can move you and then you guys can have

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Speaker 1: a bit more space this lady, we can jiggle around.

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Speaker 1: And we were like, oh my gosh, thank you, Like

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Speaker 1: it's so nice when they go above and beyond when

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Speaker 1: you do have a kid. And then he came back

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Speaker 1: again and he sort of said, oh, look, we can

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Speaker 1: give you guys a little complimentary cake. Is there anything

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Speaker 1: else I can do? And then he went off and

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Speaker 1: he came back and he goes, do you know what,

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Speaker 1: and he sort of I realized he sort of was

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Speaker 1: talking to BJ, my husband potentially more than this.

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Speaker 3: Okay, And he was like, I see you, just like.

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Speaker 1: He's like, actually, we do have some additional pastries that

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Speaker 1: haven't been used. We've got some sausage rolls. We've got

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Speaker 1: some meat pies. And I didn't mean to do that hand.

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Speaker 1: I did not mean to do that hand. I was

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Speaker 1: just getting into character.

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Speaker 3: Well anyway, I'm putting the pieces of the puzzle together.

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Speaker 1: But he just kept coming back and I was like,

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Speaker 1: oh my god, this surface is above and beyond. This

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Speaker 1: guy has been amazing. And then he goes, what one

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Speaker 1: do you think your husband would like? Do you think

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Speaker 1: I already liked the sausage troll? Because BJ had gone

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Speaker 1: to the toilet and I was like, ah, so I

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00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 1: thought we were getting this special and then and I

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Speaker 1: realizes the flight when I think he had the hots

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Speaker 1: for beach and he just kept coming back, and yeah.

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Speaker 3: To be fear, to be fair, I mean we all

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Speaker 3: have the hots for beach. I thought you're gonna.

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Speaker 1: Say something profound. Get away from.

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Speaker 6: My he's mine and the podcast.

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Speaker 1: Mess producing sirahs at the studio for us to wait

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Speaker 1: in on more topics. With head or mess. We cannot

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Speaker 1: sit on the fence. We have to weigh with a

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Speaker 1: hat or a mess. What have you got? The savening

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Speaker 1: s hereah.

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Speaker 12: Buying someone a gift card as a gift.

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Speaker 1: Or mess hat, I ride it. Yeah, I write it.

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Speaker 3: Like especially if you know, but because I feel like

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Speaker 3: I could go and buy some clothes for my dad

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Speaker 3: or my mom or even Ryan. But it's so subjective.

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Speaker 3: So if I give them the gift card, it's like,

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Speaker 3: go and pick what you want and then you can

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Speaker 3: be happy with it. I'm still giving. I'm still thinking

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Speaker 3: of you.

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Speaker 1: We got some pretty cards for a wedding gift. Make

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Speaker 1: we use the my oversakes for a holiday. I loved

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Speaker 1: it right, although then I just I couldn't tell how

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Speaker 1: much was on it, so I'd like keep pushing it

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Speaker 1: at the end, and like, there were quite a few

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Speaker 1: times declined. I'll just try again with like because I'd

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Speaker 1: try like one hundred bucks that didn't work. So I

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Speaker 1: was like, Okay, well the next pitture, I'll see fifty.

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Speaker 1: Still decline. I'm like, maybe I could get eighteen. Nope, declined.

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Speaker 12: A little tip you can just write every time you

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Speaker 12: finish your transaction with Vivid, because I know you just

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Speaker 12: had a Vivid on your pocket right on the back

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Speaker 12: of the card. How much is.

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Speaker 1: Livet I know that's a lot of it next to it.

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Speaker 12: Tongue scrapers, Miss, I'm going to say that I don't

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Speaker 12: use it, but I must say.

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Speaker 1: They're pretty satisfying to think about.

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Speaker 12: Like when you're brushing your teeth. I use a plastic one.

741
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Speaker 12: Apparently they're bad and you need to be using a

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Speaker 12: metal one and you go like this.

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Speaker 1: And it gets all like that tongue doesn't that yellow?

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Speaker 1: Us yellow?

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Speaker 12: Maybe that wasn't me, that was I can bring one

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Speaker 12: in tomorrow, Mattie if you want to see what they

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Speaker 12: look like, not.

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Speaker 1: A used one.

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Speaker 3: Are they goods?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, I don't I don't have one,

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Speaker 1: but I've used it like from time to time, and

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Speaker 1: it's one of those things like when you get you

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Speaker 1: weeks out. It's just one of those satisfying things. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if give it a home, but give

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Speaker 1: it a home, you might get hooked after one time.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I will.

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Speaker 12: Going to the beach in winter.

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Speaker 1: Misst Yeah, not to cresp for a beautiful walk on

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Speaker 1: a nice clear day.

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Speaker 3: Lovely.

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Speaker 1: I love how you started this year being an ice batha.

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Speaker 1: How many times did you do that?

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Speaker 3: I tried it twice when we went in though. We

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Speaker 3: did a couple of ice baths and they were Yeah,

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Speaker 3: they were really good.

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Speaker 1: Is it because you came out from a steaming hot spark?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that helped, But it was just it was the

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Speaker 3: it was the edm of doing it at home when

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Speaker 3: it was real, like all the air and ready to go.

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Speaker 3: I'm happy to do it.

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Speaker 1: What about the guitar that you said you're going to

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Speaker 1: take up with, has it going?

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Speaker 3: It's out of the boat? What about out of the

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Speaker 3: boot that singingly sends?

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Speaker 1: What about liking to joke now I'm just joking.

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Speaker 3: No, I did so.

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Speaker 12: I was going to do dancing there okay, just stick

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Speaker 12: to one, Just stick to one.

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Speaker 1: How did the dancing go that Hasn't Been You? Twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty four? Going well?

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