1 00:00:03,059 --> 00:00:05,739 Speaker 1: WX and he was butt naked and we saw every 2 00:00:05,750 --> 00:00:08,930 Speaker 1: single damn thing I wanted to poke my eyes out 3 00:00:08,939 --> 00:00:10,369 Speaker 1: after seeing the sausage, 4 00:00:11,439 --> 00:00:15,609 Speaker 1: I have been flashed at seven times in my life. Seven. 5 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 1: Hello and welcome back to the hot pot where we 6 00:00:25,049 --> 00:00:27,860 Speaker 1: hop into different parts of spaces. People find themselves in 7 00:00:27,870 --> 00:00:31,260 Speaker 1: during life transitions. I'm Joey. I'm Nick. I'm Q If 8 00:00:31,270 --> 00:00:33,810 Speaker 1: you're new here, welcome to our Cozy podcast. And if 9 00:00:33,819 --> 00:00:36,849 Speaker 1: you're not subscribed yet, subscribe, now join the Tay, even 10 00:00:37,610 --> 00:00:41,069 Speaker 1: join us. Ok. Before we hop into today's topic, how's 11 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:41,740 Speaker 1: everyone been? 12 00:00:41,750 --> 00:00:44,759 Speaker 2: I think so. Yeah. So I'm a bit raspy. Ok. 13 00:00:44,770 --> 00:00:47,250 Speaker 1: I just came back from my second snowboarding trip. I'm 14 00:00:47,259 --> 00:00:49,098 Speaker 1: really living my best life these days. 15 00:00:49,646 --> 00:00:51,976 Speaker 1: I made a lot of new friends and then we 16 00:00:51,986 --> 00:00:54,266 Speaker 1: are meeting a lot these days. I feel like I 17 00:00:54,277 --> 00:00:56,486 Speaker 1: found a new friend group at age 29. So, 18 00:00:56,696 --> 00:00:58,867 Speaker 2: is that why you never Joe us out anymore? 19 00:00:59,146 --> 00:01:02,227 Speaker 1: When have we ever went out together? We're not friends 20 00:01:02,236 --> 00:01:04,327 Speaker 1: outside of the podcast. Yeah. Actually, we don't like each other. 21 00:01:04,336 --> 00:01:06,747 Speaker 1: So today's topic is what today's 22 00:01:06,757 --> 00:01:09,696 Speaker 2: topic is a very interesting one because we are back 23 00:01:09,706 --> 00:01:13,946 Speaker 2: with our all time favorite Reddit stories. Again, this time 24 00:01:13,956 --> 00:01:16,416 Speaker 2: around we're gonna be reacting to worst name 25 00:01:16,763 --> 00:01:18,462 Speaker 2: stories in Singapore. I was 26 00:01:18,473 --> 00:01:21,753 Speaker 1: not expecting this topic. I'm so excited actually, 27 00:01:21,763 --> 00:01:24,323 Speaker 2: but actually it's very relatable, right? A lot of people 28 00:01:24,333 --> 00:01:27,212 Speaker 2: because like everybody got a Yeah. Yeah. No matter how 29 00:01:27,223 --> 00:01:28,533 Speaker 2: big your house, you got neighbor, no 30 00:01:28,543 --> 00:01:31,682 Speaker 1: matter how you will have neighbor in Singapore, at least. 31 00:01:31,694 --> 00:01:35,664 Speaker 1: That's right. Story number one by user Red Rider 74. 32 00:01:35,674 --> 00:01:38,153 Speaker 1: My quilt cover was blown by the wind of the 33 00:01:38,164 --> 00:01:41,003 Speaker 1: bamboo pole and landed on a unit two floors below 34 00:01:41,013 --> 00:01:43,182 Speaker 1: me because the rain was very heavy. I didn't go 35 00:01:43,194 --> 00:01:43,314 Speaker 1: to 36 00:01:43,420 --> 00:01:46,140 Speaker 1: collected immediately when the rain subsided, I looked down and 37 00:01:46,151 --> 00:01:48,250 Speaker 1: the item was gone. It was nowhere to be found 38 00:01:48,261 --> 00:01:50,721 Speaker 1: at ground level. So the neighbor must have taken it 39 00:01:50,731 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 1: after knocking on the door. She denied seeing it fine. 40 00:01:53,771 --> 00:01:56,271 Speaker 1: I went downstairs to look again. Maybe it had flown 41 00:01:56,280 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 1: off not being able to find it. I went back 42 00:01:58,651 --> 00:02:01,871 Speaker 1: home and concluded that she kept the thing for herself. Anyway, 43 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:03,841 Speaker 1: I looked out the window again to see if maybe 44 00:02:03,850 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 1: it flew further out. At that very instant. I saw 45 00:02:05,890 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 1: her open her window and throw my quilt out the window. 46 00:02:08,731 --> 00:02:10,201 Speaker 1: Wtf 47 00:02:10,768 --> 00:02:12,768 Speaker 1: Who is this, Karen? And what is she doing? Hey, 48 00:02:12,779 --> 00:02:17,179 Speaker 1: this is giving you strange. This is 49 00:02:17,188 --> 00:02:22,809 Speaker 2: ridiculous. Ok. Ok. But maybe right, the neighbor downstairs at 50 00:02:22,819 --> 00:02:24,548 Speaker 2: first didn't see the cute cover. 51 00:02:24,679 --> 00:02:26,949 Speaker 1: That's not possible. No. It's not possible. Logically. 52 00:02:26,958 --> 00:02:30,208 Speaker 2: She maybe like her husband or someone else in the 53 00:02:30,218 --> 00:02:32,669 Speaker 2: household brought the cover in. 54 00:02:32,979 --> 00:02:34,828 Speaker 1: Ok. Ok. Maybe. Then she 55 00:02:34,839 --> 00:02:37,498 Speaker 2: didn't see, then when the guy came down I was like, 56 00:02:37,508 --> 00:02:39,627 Speaker 2: you go see my cover. She's like, no, 57 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:42,479 Speaker 2: then she go in the time, then she, I have 58 00:02:42,490 --> 00:02:45,049 Speaker 2: the cover faster through. So she 59 00:02:45,059 --> 00:02:48,019 Speaker 1: true because she, she like, she, 60 00:02:48,029 --> 00:02:50,100 Speaker 2: like, she, like, without knowing that she, like, maybe 61 00:02:50,110 --> 00:02:53,009 Speaker 1: she throw so that the neighbor will look down and 62 00:02:53,020 --> 00:02:55,039 Speaker 1: see it and be like, oh, there is. But if 63 00:02:55,050 --> 00:02:57,630 Speaker 2: she knew that she don't know which unit, if she 64 00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:00,130 Speaker 2: knew that, like, there was a quick cover, then she 65 00:03:00,139 --> 00:03:01,829 Speaker 2: should have just given it back to him because you 66 00:03:01,839 --> 00:03:02,029 Speaker 2: don't 67 00:03:02,038 --> 00:03:04,809 Speaker 1: know which floor that maybe she don't know, disposing of evidence. No. 68 00:03:04,925 --> 00:03:06,845 Speaker 1: So she's trying to be nice. She was like, ok, 69 00:03:06,856 --> 00:03:08,395 Speaker 1: if I do here when she looked down, she will 70 00:03:08,406 --> 00:03:08,695 Speaker 1: definitely 71 00:03:08,705 --> 00:03:11,106 Speaker 2: see it. I mean, nice is a bit of a stretch. 72 00:03:11,205 --> 00:03:12,565 Speaker 2: Nice is like bringing it back. 73 00:03:12,985 --> 00:03:15,876 Speaker 1: We hate you. And of story. But 74 00:03:15,886 --> 00:03:19,305 Speaker 2: this guy also never secure. His is a guy. This 75 00:03:20,266 --> 00:03:24,225 Speaker 2: list redry and before so never secure his laundry properly, please. 76 00:03:24,235 --> 00:03:26,746 Speaker 2: If you are hanging your clothes right, you need to 77 00:03:26,755 --> 00:03:29,735 Speaker 2: clip anyway. Raining. Why I bring your laundry. Yeah. 78 00:03:30,001 --> 00:03:32,591 Speaker 1: Ah, he said I didn't go to collect it immediately 79 00:03:32,602 --> 00:03:34,542 Speaker 1: means he must wash it again. That's not how you 80 00:03:34,552 --> 00:03:38,912 Speaker 1: should live your life. Doing laundry to is not very fun. 81 00:03:39,311 --> 00:03:40,832 Speaker 1: Like someone could cover 82 00:03:41,552 --> 00:03:44,261 Speaker 2: so some like the cover land on other people's bamboo pole, 83 00:03:44,561 --> 00:03:49,042 Speaker 2: then everything soggy raining. Right? So now the neighbors bamboo 84 00:03:49,052 --> 00:03:51,992 Speaker 2: pole is occupied with your qui cover. Then you never 85 00:03:52,001 --> 00:03:54,141 Speaker 2: go and immediately because we, so who is the red 86 00:03:54,151 --> 00:03:54,671 Speaker 2: flag here? 87 00:03:55,899 --> 00:03:57,649 Speaker 2: Wow. Right. 88 00:03:57,899 --> 00:04:00,889 Speaker 1: Let's relate this story back to like real life experiences. 89 00:04:00,899 --> 00:04:04,610 Speaker 1: Have you ever dropped something on your neighbor's bamboo pole? 90 00:04:04,619 --> 00:04:07,529 Speaker 1: And then a bit p to take because I have, 91 00:04:07,539 --> 00:04:11,949 Speaker 1: I think last time sensitive laundry, sensitive laundry, it's a 92 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:14,279 Speaker 1: bit embarrassing. Like you wouldn't go downstairs and like, hey, 93 00:04:14,289 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 1: can I retrieve my underwear? 94 00:04:17,428 --> 00:04:24,679 Speaker 1: Well, the I need the tiku is, you know where, what? 95 00:04:24,720 --> 00:04:28,820 Speaker 1: Actually sometimes these are just accidents. One. Yeah, there's no 96 00:04:28,829 --> 00:04:31,730 Speaker 1: way you can avoid. It. Is the wind. Maybe that 97 00:04:31,738 --> 00:04:34,329 Speaker 1: day he ran out of clips. Maybe he was gonna 98 00:04:34,339 --> 00:04:36,399 Speaker 1: buy the clips. You know, I mean, nothing is not, 99 00:04:36,410 --> 00:04:36,859 Speaker 1: everything is on 100 00:04:36,869 --> 00:04:37,910 Speaker 2: purpose his first time. 101 00:04:38,450 --> 00:04:38,958 Speaker 1: Yeah. No, everything 102 00:04:38,970 --> 00:04:41,209 Speaker 2: is malicious. Actually, I think the one thing that is 103 00:04:41,220 --> 00:04:44,869 Speaker 2: within our control is don't hang dripping laundry. Oh, for sure. 104 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:47,450 Speaker 2: A lot of people do that because the washing machine 105 00:04:47,459 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 2: will spin dry. So you shouldn't be dripping it. But 106 00:04:50,769 --> 00:04:53,309 Speaker 2: then all the like people who hand wash right when 107 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:54,029 Speaker 2: they just hang. 108 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:58,089 Speaker 1: Ok, let's move on next story by Clement Garcia. My 109 00:04:58,100 --> 00:04:58,679 Speaker 1: neighbor is a, 110 00:05:00,260 --> 00:05:03,670 Speaker 1: she constantly lies and bitches and calls all forms of 111 00:05:03,678 --> 00:05:07,019 Speaker 1: authorities to my house. Her door faces ours and it's 112 00:05:07,029 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 1: within 5 m of each other. So it's horrid 113 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:13,540 Speaker 1: once she called the police in during our granddad's funeral. 114 00:05:13,549 --> 00:05:17,219 Speaker 1: Sit too noisy and disturbing her rest. Her husband spray 115 00:05:17,230 --> 00:05:20,589 Speaker 1: pesticide and our dogs. What? You, I'm sorry, you pic 116 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:21,928 Speaker 1: was dog? You then? 117 00:05:22,750 --> 00:05:23,950 Speaker 2: That's quite bad. Oh my 118 00:05:23,959 --> 00:05:27,469 Speaker 1: God. She has called any A HDB SPF P and 119 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:30,570 Speaker 1: tried to complain about non-existent stuff until both parties had 120 00:05:30,579 --> 00:05:33,839 Speaker 1: to go to mediation. This then tried to verbally bully 121 00:05:33,850 --> 00:05:36,260 Speaker 1: my mom in front of everyone until I literally 122 00:05:36,363 --> 00:05:38,575 Speaker 1: told her to shut, started claiming she was going to 123 00:05:38,584 --> 00:05:40,515 Speaker 1: have a heart attack and that I shouldn't be butting 124 00:05:40,524 --> 00:05:43,665 Speaker 1: in as a kid. I was 25. Thankfully, the mediation officers, 125 00:05:43,674 --> 00:05:47,265 Speaker 1: neutral stances changed after listening to the countless horror stories 126 00:05:47,394 --> 00:05:49,915 Speaker 1: and them not actually denying anything. Oh my God, I 127 00:05:49,924 --> 00:05:51,765 Speaker 1: hate them so much. I want to punch them in 128 00:05:51,774 --> 00:05:52,355 Speaker 1: the face. 129 00:05:52,424 --> 00:05:54,135 Speaker 2: This kind of very difficult and these are the kind 130 00:05:54,144 --> 00:05:56,315 Speaker 2: of stories, right? Put you in a very helpless position. 131 00:05:56,325 --> 00:05:58,625 Speaker 1: Yeah, actually there's a lot of Tik Tok videos on 132 00:05:58,635 --> 00:06:00,864 Speaker 1: this kind of neighbors. The banging on a shout out 133 00:06:00,875 --> 00:06:02,464 Speaker 1: to that guy keep posting 134 00:06:02,570 --> 00:06:05,529 Speaker 1: videos. I watched them and I empathize with you man. Yeah. 135 00:06:05,540 --> 00:06:08,149 Speaker 1: So basically on Tik Tok, right? There's this neighbor of 136 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 1: theirs that keeps banging on the walls or the door 137 00:06:10,890 --> 00:06:13,669 Speaker 1: at like 3:04 a.m. and all the neighbors are already 138 00:06:13,678 --> 00:06:16,350 Speaker 1: very helpless. They already called the police they reported to 139 00:06:16,359 --> 00:06:18,909 Speaker 1: H DB, their kids sleep in class because they're not 140 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:20,719 Speaker 1: sleeping at night. You know, like some of the comments 141 00:06:20,730 --> 00:06:23,109 Speaker 1: were just saying just move like complain so much but 142 00:06:23,119 --> 00:06:25,609 Speaker 1: moving is not something that is accessible and like you 143 00:06:25,619 --> 00:06:27,070 Speaker 1: want to move there and just move in and people 144 00:06:27,079 --> 00:06:27,579 Speaker 1: move for one 145 00:06:27,589 --> 00:06:28,618 Speaker 2: person, there should be a 146 00:06:28,774 --> 00:06:31,354 Speaker 2: system or structure in place, right? That even within the 147 00:06:31,363 --> 00:06:34,415 Speaker 2: confines of your own home, you should not be harassing 148 00:06:34,424 --> 00:06:37,515 Speaker 2: or being a nuisance to like people in your immediate vicinity. 149 00:06:37,524 --> 00:06:41,024 Speaker 1: People grandfather die you and call police. Then the husband 150 00:06:41,035 --> 00:06:43,914 Speaker 1: spray pesticide at the dog that is on site. Like 151 00:06:43,924 --> 00:06:45,704 Speaker 1: you can make fun of me. You can make fun 152 00:06:45,714 --> 00:06:48,045 Speaker 1: of my husband. You make fun of my parents, grandfather, 153 00:06:48,053 --> 00:06:51,225 Speaker 1: whatever you spray pesticide at my dog. Imagine Joey beating 154 00:06:51,234 --> 00:06:51,363 Speaker 1: the 155 00:06:52,105 --> 00:06:53,654 Speaker 2: crime. It is a 156 00:06:53,665 --> 00:06:54,845 Speaker 1: crime. It's hard. 157 00:06:54,980 --> 00:06:57,899 Speaker 1: I was pretty pet. You, are you crazy? Honestly, I 158 00:06:57,910 --> 00:06:59,910 Speaker 1: can relate to this story, right? So I used to 159 00:06:59,920 --> 00:07:02,890 Speaker 1: have a neighbor called the police on us just because 160 00:07:02,899 --> 00:07:06,040 Speaker 1: my sister was playing piano and this was before 10 p.m. 161 00:07:06,049 --> 00:07:08,618 Speaker 1: and every time they see us, they will give us 162 00:07:08,630 --> 00:07:11,920 Speaker 1: like there like I just don't interact much. But the 163 00:07:11,929 --> 00:07:13,730 Speaker 1: moment they called the police on us, I'm like my 164 00:07:13,739 --> 00:07:15,640 Speaker 1: sister want to have hobby also. Cannot, she want to 165 00:07:15,649 --> 00:07:20,899 Speaker 1: play river flows in. You also cannot. Hello, 166 00:07:21,184 --> 00:07:24,214 Speaker 1: the police, the police came then what can they do? No, 167 00:07:24,225 --> 00:07:26,135 Speaker 1: they just say, oh, your neighbor complain. So actually, 168 00:07:26,144 --> 00:07:28,545 Speaker 2: like whenever you move house also, right. That's the biggest 169 00:07:28,554 --> 00:07:31,154 Speaker 2: stressor because you can check everything, make sure everything good. Right? 170 00:07:31,165 --> 00:07:32,345 Speaker 2: But neighbor is a question 171 00:07:32,355 --> 00:07:35,024 Speaker 1: mark. Maybe the trick to identifying whether you have bad 172 00:07:35,035 --> 00:07:37,804 Speaker 1: neighbors or not is just to, like, scout the area 173 00:07:37,815 --> 00:07:39,265 Speaker 1: quite a number of times. 174 00:07:39,315 --> 00:07:41,774 Speaker 2: Actually, whenever, like when I was buying my own place 175 00:07:41,785 --> 00:07:43,385 Speaker 2: or like how shopping was. Right. The first thing you 176 00:07:43,394 --> 00:07:45,605 Speaker 2: do is like, make sure look at the corridor like, 177 00:07:45,614 --> 00:07:47,204 Speaker 2: whether hoarding or not, 178 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:51,149 Speaker 2: like whether like, there's a lot of clutter outside, try 179 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:53,029 Speaker 2: to visit, like at different times of the day, try 180 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:55,570 Speaker 2: to listen like any noise, that kind of thing. If 181 00:07:55,579 --> 00:08:00,250 Speaker 2: they play mahjong, my childhood home, the immediate neighbor on my. Right. Right. 182 00:08:00,260 --> 00:08:03,149 Speaker 2: They are running a gambling den. So it's like morning 183 00:08:03,160 --> 00:08:05,730 Speaker 2: to its 24 hours mahjong and then the whole house 184 00:08:05,739 --> 00:08:08,209 Speaker 2: just smells like smoke because people are just constantly smoking inside. 185 00:08:08,705 --> 00:08:11,026 Speaker 2: It's crazy. What would you do if you were clever? 186 00:08:11,615 --> 00:08:11,726 Speaker 2: I 187 00:08:11,735 --> 00:08:15,686 Speaker 1: will not murder anybody. But really the moment you touch 188 00:08:15,696 --> 00:08:19,196 Speaker 1: like my dogs or my animals pick on someone your size, 189 00:08:19,246 --> 00:08:21,585 Speaker 1: you pick on someone that cannot even talk like and 190 00:08:21,596 --> 00:08:25,305 Speaker 1: defend themselves properly. I confront them. Yeah. 100. Only because 191 00:08:25,316 --> 00:08:28,235 Speaker 1: of the granddad's funeral. True. Actually, that will be the 192 00:08:28,496 --> 00:08:29,045 Speaker 1: first thing. 193 00:08:29,601 --> 00:08:32,242 Speaker 1: True breaking point in that situation. What would you do? 194 00:08:32,252 --> 00:08:33,521 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm trying to think if someone 195 00:08:33,530 --> 00:08:35,641 Speaker 2: like move house. I think I move 196 00:08:35,660 --> 00:08:37,762 Speaker 1: house. No, I will be a tyrant. I'll make it 197 00:08:37,771 --> 00:08:39,761 Speaker 1: my life's mission to make that. Then move out. You 198 00:08:39,771 --> 00:08:42,021 Speaker 1: want to play two campaign at this game? You host 199 00:08:42,030 --> 00:08:44,012 Speaker 1: a house party, right? Invite all your neighbors and you're 200 00:08:44,021 --> 00:08:47,351 Speaker 1: not invited. Suddenly I'll be an opera singer and I 201 00:08:47,361 --> 00:08:49,341 Speaker 1: like to be inspired at your doorstep 202 00:08:49,452 --> 00:08:50,411 Speaker 2: until 10 pm. 203 00:08:51,799 --> 00:08:53,739 Speaker 1: When the police come, I just like selective 204 00:08:53,750 --> 00:08:58,190 Speaker 2: mutism. Ok. Next story by tracking airports. My current next 205 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 2: door neighbor hates my Moringa plant and keeps trying to 206 00:09:01,650 --> 00:09:04,039 Speaker 2: rip it up. Saw her on my CCTV using her 207 00:09:04,049 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 2: bare hands to rip the plant. Unfortunately, for her, this 208 00:09:07,010 --> 00:09:10,079 Speaker 2: plant is extremely resilient and kept growing back. Ok? Moringa 209 00:09:10,109 --> 00:09:12,179 Speaker 2: plant is also an edible. So a lot of old 210 00:09:12,190 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 2: people like to pluck the leaves to grow to brew 211 00:09:15,289 --> 00:09:16,340 Speaker 2: tea and cook and 212 00:09:16,543 --> 00:09:18,482 Speaker 2: like that, I didn't even need to give it fertilizer 213 00:09:18,492 --> 00:09:21,122 Speaker 2: or additional soil. It's now a small tree. She used 214 00:09:21,131 --> 00:09:23,023 Speaker 2: the saw to try to cut off the stem but 215 00:09:23,033 --> 00:09:25,692 Speaker 2: quickly gave up because it was not budging. I confronted 216 00:09:25,703 --> 00:09:28,653 Speaker 2: her about it and she apologized by saying she thought 217 00:09:28,663 --> 00:09:30,801 Speaker 2: we didn't want the plant anymore. So she was doing 218 00:09:30,812 --> 00:09:32,852 Speaker 2: us a favor by trying to kill it actually is 219 00:09:32,862 --> 00:09:36,172 Speaker 2: something that I've realized sometimes when I'm walking like public 220 00:09:36,182 --> 00:09:39,762 Speaker 2: spaces and things like that, right? Some of our elderly folks, 221 00:09:39,773 --> 00:09:41,802 Speaker 2: they like to pluck a 222 00:09:42,145 --> 00:09:45,306 Speaker 2: especially the edibles, the mango and they will go, 223 00:09:46,226 --> 00:09:48,055 Speaker 1: they will be under the tree on the fruit to 224 00:09:48,065 --> 00:09:48,935 Speaker 1: drop on it. If you 225 00:09:48,945 --> 00:09:51,084 Speaker 2: wait, it's ok. If you go and pluck right, it's 226 00:09:51,096 --> 00:09:54,635 Speaker 2: a $5000 fine. The funniest part is that like you 227 00:09:54,645 --> 00:09:56,556 Speaker 2: go and pluck like things like lime and all that, right? 228 00:09:56,565 --> 00:09:58,915 Speaker 2: You go supermarket by like $1 is like them. A 229 00:09:58,926 --> 00:10:00,026 Speaker 2: lot of lime in the 230 00:10:00,035 --> 00:10:03,536 Speaker 1: animal crossing era. They want to like harvest fish. Yeah. 231 00:10:03,676 --> 00:10:05,215 Speaker 1: Like what? 232 00:10:07,630 --> 00:10:09,750 Speaker 2: Yeah. So actually, like, it happens a lot where, like, 233 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:13,530 Speaker 2: sometimes you are growing plants outside, right? Like neighbors come in, like, 234 00:10:13,539 --> 00:10:15,409 Speaker 2: take that kind of thing. They don't want to ask you, 235 00:10:15,419 --> 00:10:17,609 Speaker 2: they think you won't notice. But this kind of thing, like, 236 00:10:17,619 --> 00:10:18,549 Speaker 2: if you want, you ask, 237 00:10:18,580 --> 00:10:21,510 Speaker 1: it's 2024 people always put CCTV. You all better. Don't 238 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:24,400 Speaker 1: do this kind of thing. Yeah. A common theme so far. 239 00:10:24,429 --> 00:10:27,969 Speaker 1: They like to pick on defenseless things. They are aggressors 240 00:10:27,979 --> 00:10:29,289 Speaker 1: to people that cannot fight back 241 00:10:29,570 --> 00:10:31,919 Speaker 1: the plan do to you? You think so? Do you 242 00:10:31,929 --> 00:10:33,729 Speaker 1: think that these people are usually retired and they have 243 00:10:33,739 --> 00:10:34,299 Speaker 1: nothing to do? 244 00:10:34,309 --> 00:10:36,949 Speaker 2: Yes, I think so. I think like, when people, like, 245 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:39,390 Speaker 2: are not working, then they got a lot of free 246 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:42,099 Speaker 2: time at home, then they will find things when they 247 00:10:42,109 --> 00:10:42,330 Speaker 2: pick 248 00:10:42,340 --> 00:10:44,210 Speaker 1: on. They just want to fight with their neighbors. Guys 249 00:10:44,219 --> 00:10:46,880 Speaker 1: use your skills, future, pick up a new skill, a 250 00:10:46,890 --> 00:10:50,890 Speaker 1: hobby or something. Make new friends go play mahjong 251 00:10:52,190 --> 00:10:52,880 Speaker 1: question. 252 00:10:56,000 --> 00:10:59,989 Speaker 1: Nice. Thanks for practicing my opera. What's the most absurd 253 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:02,390 Speaker 1: thing you've ever done to impress a crush? 254 00:11:03,049 --> 00:11:04,699 Speaker 2: Well, I feel like you would have done some. 255 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:08,079 Speaker 1: I love this question. A crush. Have you ever pretended 256 00:11:08,090 --> 00:11:10,108 Speaker 1: to like something you actually do? I always do. 257 00:11:10,119 --> 00:11:12,750 Speaker 2: Like, what, what, what's the, what's the most you don't like? Like, 258 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:13,069 Speaker 2: what's 259 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:16,119 Speaker 1: the e thing you've done? Like, ok, maybe like some 260 00:11:16,130 --> 00:11:18,369 Speaker 1: people like to play game. Right? Then they tell me 261 00:11:18,380 --> 00:11:20,718 Speaker 1: the game. Oh, yeah, I heard about it before. Then 262 00:11:20,729 --> 00:11:22,849 Speaker 1: I'll go and find like the characters or whatever. They 263 00:11:22,859 --> 00:11:25,549 Speaker 1: are just like when I was younger I like to 264 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:28,250 Speaker 1: impress people by pretending to like, what do you like? 265 00:11:28,260 --> 00:11:30,189 Speaker 1: Maybe I could play last time. Which one? 266 00:11:31,609 --> 00:11:32,449 Speaker 1: Magic you, 267 00:11:35,289 --> 00:11:37,679 Speaker 2: if you had to swap wardrobes with anyone on the couch, 268 00:11:37,690 --> 00:11:40,299 Speaker 2: whose closet would you rate? I think Joey 269 00:11:40,320 --> 00:11:43,479 Speaker 1: Joey actually has a very wide range 270 00:11:43,489 --> 00:11:45,789 Speaker 2: and I think she, we like more like oversized stuff 271 00:11:45,799 --> 00:11:48,080 Speaker 2: that I can wear. Like yours. I cannot wear anything 272 00:11:48,090 --> 00:11:50,309 Speaker 2: because I go away her clothes before for shoot. 273 00:11:50,530 --> 00:11:51,979 Speaker 1: If you wear this T shirt, you can look like 274 00:11:52,619 --> 00:11:56,450 Speaker 1: a and this one of a physical 100. 275 00:11:57,270 --> 00:11:57,319 Speaker 2: Hey, 276 00:11:58,469 --> 00:12:02,320 Speaker 1: come on, I watch this. I cannot get, you don't 277 00:12:02,330 --> 00:12:02,929 Speaker 1: get how it made 278 00:12:02,940 --> 00:12:06,500 Speaker 2: me feel but go and look, watch back the episodes, 279 00:12:06,510 --> 00:12:09,429 Speaker 2: our episodes and see, try to spot which episodes I 280 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:13,090 Speaker 2: wore Joey's clothes. Yeah. Yeah, that's true. I think 281 00:12:13,349 --> 00:12:13,709 Speaker 1: it is a good, 282 00:12:15,179 --> 00:12:18,559 Speaker 1: would you rather have everyone become smarter and you become 283 00:12:18,570 --> 00:12:22,820 Speaker 1: dumbest or everyone become dumber and you become smartest. So 284 00:12:22,830 --> 00:12:24,909 Speaker 1: I'm going to pick the one where I'm dumber because 285 00:12:24,919 --> 00:12:29,960 Speaker 1: it's less painful. It's less painful. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It really, 286 00:12:30,159 --> 00:12:32,880 Speaker 1: I feel like thinking too much sometimes is like, damn tiring. 287 00:12:32,890 --> 00:12:33,719 Speaker 1: I want to be stupid. 288 00:12:34,950 --> 00:12:36,848 Speaker 2: Like the dumbest in the room. 289 00:12:36,859 --> 00:12:39,750 Speaker 1: No thoughts just vibes because you d, you don't realize 290 00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:42,830 Speaker 1: you're dumb then no pain. I mean the burden is 291 00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:44,489 Speaker 1: on other people that like was she damn stupid? 292 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:46,579 Speaker 2: Like legally blonde vibes? 293 00:12:46,909 --> 00:12:47,440 Speaker 1: Yeah. OK. 294 00:12:49,229 --> 00:12:53,169 Speaker 1: Next story by user idiopathic gastro POA used to have 295 00:12:53,179 --> 00:12:55,650 Speaker 1: this really weird couple who lived two doors away from 296 00:12:55,659 --> 00:12:57,960 Speaker 1: me when I was around 10 to 12 years old. 297 00:12:57,969 --> 00:13:01,530 Speaker 1: This particular couple used to have really heated arguments bra 298 00:13:01,539 --> 00:13:04,718 Speaker 1: get lots of hawking vulgarities and f words that my 299 00:13:04,729 --> 00:13:07,309 Speaker 1: bro and I always hear from our rooms. One day 300 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:08,189 Speaker 1: when we were alone at 301 00:13:08,234 --> 00:13:10,664 Speaker 1: home, we had a super huge fight with furniture being 302 00:13:10,674 --> 00:13:13,054 Speaker 1: thrown around and loads of yelling. My brother and I 303 00:13:13,065 --> 00:13:16,215 Speaker 1: decided to peep at them while hiding behind our front door. Apparently, 304 00:13:16,224 --> 00:13:18,554 Speaker 1: the guy stormed out from his house and was pacing 305 00:13:18,565 --> 00:13:20,705 Speaker 1: back and forth along the corridor while shouting like a 306 00:13:20,715 --> 00:13:23,984 Speaker 1: mad dog. Then he started taking off his clothes piece 307 00:13:23,994 --> 00:13:27,375 Speaker 1: by piece while the woman was begging him to stop 308 00:13:30,104 --> 00:13:32,715 Speaker 1: and he was butt naked. And we saw every single 309 00:13:32,835 --> 00:13:35,755 Speaker 1: damn thing. I wanted to put my eyes out after 310 00:13:35,765 --> 00:13:36,854 Speaker 1: seeing the sausage. 311 00:13:38,789 --> 00:13:41,978 Speaker 1: But till today I remember his butt being super white 312 00:13:41,989 --> 00:13:42,260 Speaker 1: la ma. 313 00:13:44,539 --> 00:13:49,909 Speaker 2: There is a new argument like tactic, you know, take 314 00:13:49,929 --> 00:13:50,479 Speaker 2: out everything. 315 00:13:50,739 --> 00:13:51,559 Speaker 1: You don't force me to pick 316 00:13:51,750 --> 00:13:53,750 Speaker 2: up my T shirt. I think my pants are only 317 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:53,979 Speaker 2: left under 318 00:13:54,679 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 1: maker. No, I OK. Fine. OK, fine. But honestly, right. 319 00:13:58,890 --> 00:14:01,700 Speaker 1: If someone does that right, I'll, I'll beg them to stop, 320 00:14:01,710 --> 00:14:04,299 Speaker 1: like come down, come down, come down. I don't be 321 00:14:04,309 --> 00:14:07,549 Speaker 1: able to see. Let me say no to your t no, 322 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:09,559 Speaker 1: I don't know which part to focus on the white, 323 00:14:09,599 --> 00:14:11,968 Speaker 1: but obviously the white, but that's the biggest thing. 324 00:14:12,372 --> 00:14:14,442 Speaker 2: Stay away if he always take out his clothes and 325 00:14:14,453 --> 00:14:17,093 Speaker 2: go out, right? Should be quite right. But he 326 00:14:17,102 --> 00:14:21,942 Speaker 1: go indoors. We all know that being naked is illegal, 327 00:14:21,953 --> 00:14:25,572 Speaker 1: legal in public, public unity and in your house. But 328 00:14:25,583 --> 00:14:28,023 Speaker 1: this way he go out of the house piece by piece, 329 00:14:28,033 --> 00:14:32,732 Speaker 1: very calculated and he really thought he did something. He 330 00:14:32,742 --> 00:14:36,213 Speaker 1: thought he ate and then he just revealed himself to 331 00:14:36,223 --> 00:14:39,153 Speaker 1: two Children. I can imagine it. They, they also never eat, 332 00:14:39,163 --> 00:14:40,663 Speaker 1: they lose their appetite. He 333 00:14:40,745 --> 00:14:44,156 Speaker 1: pacing back and forth along the corridor while shouting. That 334 00:14:44,166 --> 00:14:47,046 Speaker 1: would cause me to be a bit fearful of coming 335 00:14:47,056 --> 00:14:48,845 Speaker 1: back home like in the middle of the night. What 336 00:14:48,856 --> 00:14:52,195 Speaker 1: if he suddenly outside naked, his white but flashing at me. 337 00:14:52,455 --> 00:14:55,416 Speaker 1: Oh my God. Talking about flashing fun fact. I've been 338 00:14:55,426 --> 00:14:59,776 Speaker 1: flashed at seven times in my life. Seven. Yeah, it 339 00:14:59,786 --> 00:15:02,156 Speaker 1: is an old fun fact that I mentioned before. So 340 00:15:02,166 --> 00:15:04,046 Speaker 1: the first time I ever got flashed that was with 341 00:15:04,056 --> 00:15:07,325 Speaker 1: my friends around my HDB area. There's always like flashes 342 00:15:07,335 --> 00:15:08,556 Speaker 1: around how you react after 343 00:15:08,806 --> 00:15:09,116 Speaker 2: that. 344 00:15:10,409 --> 00:15:12,479 Speaker 2: So the first few times you like shock, the 345 00:15:12,489 --> 00:15:15,340 Speaker 1: first time ever was with my friends and then we 346 00:15:15,349 --> 00:15:17,859 Speaker 1: were sitting opposite this guy and then he started staring 347 00:15:17,869 --> 00:15:20,469 Speaker 1: at us, moving his hands up and down. And then 348 00:15:20,479 --> 00:15:22,020 Speaker 1: I said to my friend, hey, why are you holding 349 00:15:22,030 --> 00:15:22,919 Speaker 1: on to this block? 350 00:15:24,159 --> 00:15:26,919 Speaker 1: But it looks like a block of wood. It was wood. 351 00:15:26,929 --> 00:15:29,469 Speaker 1: Then they like just some more. Then I look at 352 00:15:29,479 --> 00:15:32,669 Speaker 1: my friend that's not wood. I tell you the area really. 353 00:15:32,690 --> 00:15:35,409 Speaker 1: The after that after that multiple times is like around 354 00:15:35,419 --> 00:15:37,969 Speaker 1: my H DB area. Got the most unique one was 355 00:15:37,979 --> 00:15:41,789 Speaker 1: a man masturbating on a bicycle while cycling as I 356 00:15:41,799 --> 00:15:44,159 Speaker 1: was jogging. Technically, he don't need to move his hand. 357 00:15:45,260 --> 00:15:48,140 Speaker 1: I cannot flash once on the train. My helper laugh 358 00:15:48,150 --> 00:15:50,380 Speaker 1: at me. I panicked. I was like that he c 359 00:15:50,710 --> 00:15:52,570 Speaker 1: but in front of me, I remember I texted her 360 00:15:52,580 --> 00:15:54,599 Speaker 1: panicking because he really stand in front of me on 361 00:15:54,609 --> 00:15:56,890 Speaker 1: the train and he like he like really ar his 362 00:15:56,900 --> 00:15:59,349 Speaker 1: crotch towards my face because I remember looking, I had 363 00:15:59,359 --> 00:16:02,950 Speaker 1: to look at people, right? I see button then hair, 364 00:16:03,780 --> 00:16:06,809 Speaker 1: hair and like like flesh. They are like, 365 00:16:07,219 --> 00:16:09,270 Speaker 1: and then I texted my helper who was sitting across 366 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:11,250 Speaker 1: from me, you know, the two cabin to cabin. Right. Yeah. 367 00:16:11,260 --> 00:16:13,900 Speaker 1: Then she just keep laughing at. I wasn't very traumatized. 368 00:16:13,909 --> 00:16:15,799 Speaker 1: I was more like, wow, there's a lot of hair. 369 00:16:16,159 --> 00:16:18,159 Speaker 2: I've not been flashed that before. Ok. 370 00:16:18,169 --> 00:16:19,169 Speaker 1: Good for you. Good 371 00:16:19,179 --> 00:16:21,140 Speaker 2: for you. I mean, I think this kind of thing, 372 00:16:21,150 --> 00:16:23,429 Speaker 2: usually the only thing you can do is probably report 373 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:26,859 Speaker 2: to police because they did actually technically break a law 374 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:29,609 Speaker 2: in like public nudity, right? But I think as a 375 00:16:29,619 --> 00:16:31,780 Speaker 2: good neighbor, why you should also sort of be my 376 00:16:31,789 --> 00:16:33,109 Speaker 2: full office is that if you know that the 377 00:16:33,224 --> 00:16:36,375 Speaker 2: this sort of domestic squabbles that get quite intense right? 378 00:16:36,385 --> 00:16:38,724 Speaker 2: In your neighbor's house, you also need to pay attention 379 00:16:38,734 --> 00:16:40,804 Speaker 2: a bit because you never know when is the day, 380 00:16:40,815 --> 00:16:43,325 Speaker 2: like when one of these arguments become violent 381 00:16:44,125 --> 00:16:47,465 Speaker 1: by user deleted, husband and wife next door in my 382 00:16:47,474 --> 00:16:50,164 Speaker 1: old condo were very reclusive. The wife has some sort 383 00:16:50,174 --> 00:16:53,005 Speaker 1: of OCD. She will close the door seven times, lock 384 00:16:53,015 --> 00:16:55,335 Speaker 1: it seven times, then push and pull the door seven 385 00:16:55,344 --> 00:16:57,265 Speaker 1: times to make sure it was locked. She does it 386 00:16:57,275 --> 00:16:59,125 Speaker 1: quite loudly to the whole level can hear, 387 00:16:59,229 --> 00:17:01,919 Speaker 1: bang, bang, bang, bang, bang, bang, bang. So yes, I 388 00:17:01,929 --> 00:17:04,698 Speaker 1: counted also the wife was a hoarder and kept every 389 00:17:04,709 --> 00:17:07,319 Speaker 1: single newspaper by the door, meaning there are floor to 390 00:17:07,329 --> 00:17:10,160 Speaker 1: ceiling piles of newspaper every time they came out or 391 00:17:10,170 --> 00:17:12,209 Speaker 1: went in they had to squeeze through a tiny gap 392 00:17:12,219 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 1: because the door couldn't open. One day I came home 393 00:17:14,770 --> 00:17:17,149 Speaker 1: and saw they had some pest control guys in their house. 394 00:17:17,160 --> 00:17:19,199 Speaker 1: The moment I stepped out of the lift, the guys 395 00:17:19,209 --> 00:17:22,930 Speaker 1: were spraying pesticide and cockroaches started pouring out their house. 396 00:17:22,939 --> 00:17:25,119 Speaker 1: I screamed and ran back into the lift when 397 00:17:25,234 --> 00:17:26,984 Speaker 1: down to the pool side to chill and only went 398 00:17:26,994 --> 00:17:28,375 Speaker 1: home when the coast was clear. 399 00:17:28,385 --> 00:17:29,285 Speaker 2: This is my worst 400 00:17:29,295 --> 00:17:33,354 Speaker 1: nightmare. Right? Sometimes I, when I see my neighbors corridor 401 00:17:33,364 --> 00:17:36,333 Speaker 1: area being like cluttered, right? I try to just avoid 402 00:17:36,584 --> 00:17:39,204 Speaker 2: what your thoughts on this corridor thing to me. I 403 00:17:39,214 --> 00:17:41,784 Speaker 2: feel like, right, the rule should be, don't put anything 404 00:17:41,795 --> 00:17:42,224 Speaker 2: in corridor. 405 00:17:42,265 --> 00:17:44,004 Speaker 1: No, but you know how some people like make it 406 00:17:44,015 --> 00:17:47,165 Speaker 1: into like a shared space, like a little outdoor sitting 407 00:17:47,175 --> 00:17:48,415 Speaker 1: area for their neighbors. 408 00:17:48,425 --> 00:17:50,435 Speaker 2: I feel like if you want to do to repurpose 409 00:17:50,444 --> 00:17:51,135 Speaker 2: the corridor 410 00:17:51,260 --> 00:17:54,180 Speaker 2: at your own expense into a community thing, then you 411 00:17:54,189 --> 00:17:57,280 Speaker 2: must apply for a permit. But by default, right? I 412 00:17:57,290 --> 00:18:00,540 Speaker 2: feel like it is easier. If everyone doesn't put stuff 413 00:18:00,550 --> 00:18:02,260 Speaker 2: in the corridor, you can put plants and you just 414 00:18:02,270 --> 00:18:04,589 Speaker 2: need to leave a certain with for the walkway so 415 00:18:04,599 --> 00:18:07,119 Speaker 2: that like structure can go through and 416 00:18:07,130 --> 00:18:09,229 Speaker 1: things like that. But then I think that's the thing, right? 417 00:18:09,239 --> 00:18:12,619 Speaker 1: Like it becomes very stifling like Singapore is already so 418 00:18:12,630 --> 00:18:16,099 Speaker 1: cramped and like we are staying in boxes, right? I agree. 419 00:18:16,189 --> 00:18:17,140 Speaker 1: So that's why the plant 420 00:18:17,354 --> 00:18:20,425 Speaker 2: live up. The, what is the lesser of two evils? 421 00:18:20,645 --> 00:18:21,304 Speaker 2: I think it depends 422 00:18:21,314 --> 00:18:23,474 Speaker 1: on what you put outside. It's very hard to be like, oh, 423 00:18:23,484 --> 00:18:26,125 Speaker 1: you can because it looks nice. You cannot cause not nice. 424 00:18:26,234 --> 00:18:30,915 Speaker 1: It's a bit difficult. But I think generally to be an, 425 00:18:31,064 --> 00:18:34,734 Speaker 1: an easy going neighbor, like you don't put unsightly things. Like, 426 00:18:34,744 --> 00:18:37,744 Speaker 1: I think plants are fine. II, I really like seeing 427 00:18:37,755 --> 00:18:40,224 Speaker 1: plants outside. I feel like, like happy, 428 00:18:40,234 --> 00:18:42,895 Speaker 2: you know. Yeah, I mean, as a plant person also, like, 429 00:18:42,905 --> 00:18:43,145 Speaker 2: I like, 430 00:18:43,250 --> 00:18:45,510 Speaker 2: like that people keep plants and I want everybody to 431 00:18:45,520 --> 00:18:47,650 Speaker 2: be able to keep plants, right? But sometimes I see 432 00:18:47,660 --> 00:18:50,550 Speaker 2: on like the groups that the Facebook groups or that in, right? 433 00:18:50,560 --> 00:18:52,260 Speaker 2: Some people really take it a bit too fast to 434 00:18:52,270 --> 00:18:56,869 Speaker 2: the extent where a the structure confirm cannot go through. OK, 435 00:18:56,880 --> 00:19:01,069 Speaker 1: when it in. Yeah, if it inconveniences your neighbors, then 436 00:19:01,079 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 1: I think then that's not being very neighborly of you. 437 00:19:03,260 --> 00:19:05,949 Speaker 1: But I guess like, maybe sometimes the neighbor might feel like, 438 00:19:05,959 --> 00:19:07,510 Speaker 1: why didn't you just talk to me directly? Why you 439 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:08,989 Speaker 1: must report me? But there's no home. 440 00:19:09,810 --> 00:19:12,030 Speaker 1: The idea is that you don't know which it has 441 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:15,400 Speaker 1: to be anonymous, I feel. But it's quite obvious sometimes 442 00:19:15,410 --> 00:19:17,510 Speaker 1: like you are part of a few units at the 443 00:19:17,520 --> 00:19:20,589 Speaker 1: end of the corridor, right. Then it's clearly like you 444 00:19:20,599 --> 00:19:23,489 Speaker 1: or the other person. Yeah. So that's why, that's why 445 00:19:23,500 --> 00:19:25,550 Speaker 1: I think like maybe from the neighbor's perspective is like 446 00:19:25,709 --> 00:19:28,579 Speaker 1: you could have talked to me first rather than reporting 447 00:19:28,589 --> 00:19:29,900 Speaker 1: me to the authorities 448 00:19:29,939 --> 00:19:31,780 Speaker 2: when it's like a question of like 449 00:19:32,209 --> 00:19:35,390 Speaker 2: someone is mentally unwell, which seems to be the case 450 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 2: based on the OCD and all that. Also, no matter 451 00:19:37,810 --> 00:19:40,430 Speaker 2: what you say is not gonna work, it's true. And 452 00:19:40,439 --> 00:19:42,400 Speaker 2: the worst thing you I would want to do is 453 00:19:42,410 --> 00:19:46,069 Speaker 2: that like I then redirect their OCD not to write 454 00:19:46,079 --> 00:19:49,089 Speaker 2: to me by being the one that is trying to 455 00:19:49,099 --> 00:19:50,709 Speaker 2: stop them from Hoing. 456 00:19:51,310 --> 00:19:55,790 Speaker 2: Yeah. Next story by user thea heard shouting at our 457 00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:59,119 Speaker 2: lift landing area. Only four units per floor in my block. 458 00:19:59,130 --> 00:20:02,790 Speaker 2: Mum went out to investigate Bracket Cap and our neighbors 459 00:20:02,800 --> 00:20:05,060 Speaker 2: mom and sister were on the floor trying to pull 460 00:20:05,069 --> 00:20:07,469 Speaker 2: him back into the house. He was holding a meat 461 00:20:07,479 --> 00:20:09,829 Speaker 2: cleaver and struggling to run away. 462 00:20:11,010 --> 00:20:15,689 Speaker 2: My mom called the cops because WTF Bracket Cap found 463 00:20:15,699 --> 00:20:18,109 Speaker 2: out a few days later he went to his girlfriend's 464 00:20:18,119 --> 00:20:21,739 Speaker 2: house in Buket Batok Bracket. We are hardcore East Siders. 465 00:20:21,750 --> 00:20:23,000 Speaker 2: What is the hardcore? Why 466 00:20:23,010 --> 00:20:24,959 Speaker 1: he keep giving random information again to 467 00:20:24,969 --> 00:20:28,260 Speaker 2: try to butcher her? Because she once dated a friend 468 00:20:28,270 --> 00:20:31,380 Speaker 2: of his before they even met. Clearly he didn't kill 469 00:20:31,390 --> 00:20:34,170 Speaker 2: her because they eventually got married and had a kid. 470 00:20:34,180 --> 00:20:36,790 Speaker 2: Saw him the other day. They are now divorced, he 471 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:38,149 Speaker 2: and his family are still out. 472 00:20:38,584 --> 00:20:39,255 Speaker 2: It sounds 473 00:20:39,265 --> 00:20:42,895 Speaker 1: like very discombobulated until I don't know what the purpose 474 00:20:42,905 --> 00:20:43,135 Speaker 1: of this 475 00:20:43,145 --> 00:20:45,435 Speaker 2: story is. But I like that the mom go out 476 00:20:45,444 --> 00:20:49,744 Speaker 2: and investigate, investigate. It always happens. Like people always like 477 00:20:49,755 --> 00:20:50,175 Speaker 2: to go out and 478 00:20:50,185 --> 00:20:51,964 Speaker 1: see, oh, I like to go and see. Also I 479 00:20:51,974 --> 00:20:53,175 Speaker 1: like to keep all. So if 480 00:20:53,185 --> 00:20:55,284 Speaker 2: like you hear like a bomb outside your house, 481 00:20:55,295 --> 00:20:56,744 Speaker 1: I will go and see. No, go on time my 482 00:20:56,755 --> 00:21:00,324 Speaker 1: neighbors screaming outside. Right. I faster run to the wooden door. 483 00:21:00,334 --> 00:21:01,524 Speaker 1: I look at the people 484 00:21:02,535 --> 00:21:03,895 Speaker 2: but you don't go out. I like 485 00:21:06,890 --> 00:21:12,880 Speaker 1: then my mom, yeah, sometimes two ami hear screams right. 486 00:21:12,890 --> 00:21:14,629 Speaker 1: Then I get very scared like I feel like I'm 487 00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:16,909 Speaker 1: a bit too, I'd be hyper vigilant that I scared 488 00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:19,069 Speaker 1: that there's an abuse case that I need to save 489 00:21:19,079 --> 00:21:21,319 Speaker 1: someone from. So in the middle of that, that I 490 00:21:22,260 --> 00:21:24,919 Speaker 1: want to listen, right? I put my ear by the window. 491 00:21:24,930 --> 00:21:27,349 Speaker 1: Then I'm trying to look out like any signs on 492 00:21:27,359 --> 00:21:30,449 Speaker 1: neighborhood watch. I feel like the internet has prepped me 493 00:21:30,459 --> 00:21:33,780 Speaker 1: for the worst scenario possible that I will overthink these things, 494 00:21:33,790 --> 00:21:34,010 Speaker 1: but I 495 00:21:34,095 --> 00:21:36,995 Speaker 1: better to be safe. And so you know what I mean? 496 00:21:37,125 --> 00:21:39,436 Speaker 1: I really feel like out of all the stories we've 497 00:21:39,446 --> 00:21:42,845 Speaker 1: read today, right? It just shows that people are stressed 498 00:21:42,855 --> 00:21:44,514 Speaker 1: and we are all going through like a lot of 499 00:21:44,526 --> 00:21:47,656 Speaker 1: different things. Not like they cut your plants, spray pesticide, 500 00:21:47,666 --> 00:21:50,215 Speaker 1: your dog. If it doesn't like directly affect your living 501 00:21:50,225 --> 00:21:53,315 Speaker 1: situation or put anyone in danger, then maybe just like 502 00:21:53,326 --> 00:21:57,686 Speaker 1: accept that someone's life or living situation is very unfortunate 503 00:21:57,696 --> 00:21:58,276 Speaker 1: like different 504 00:21:58,286 --> 00:21:59,755 Speaker 2: from you and at the end of the day, 505 00:21:59,852 --> 00:22:03,151 Speaker 2: right? Like resolving all these issues, right? As much as 506 00:22:03,161 --> 00:22:05,852 Speaker 2: possible if you can resolve it like neighbor to neighbor. Great. 507 00:22:06,061 --> 00:22:08,331 Speaker 2: But if not, then you know, there are always like 508 00:22:08,342 --> 00:22:10,802 Speaker 2: the authorities that you can seek help from and things 509 00:22:10,811 --> 00:22:13,852 Speaker 1: like that be a good neighbor guys behind. Yeah, let's 510 00:22:13,862 --> 00:22:16,081 Speaker 1: bring the kampong spirit back. You never know when you 511 00:22:16,092 --> 00:22:18,232 Speaker 1: need your neighbor's help. If you want them to water 512 00:22:18,241 --> 00:22:20,552 Speaker 1: your plant, take your meal for you when you're over 513 00:22:20,751 --> 00:22:21,602 Speaker 1: of your cat. Yeah, 514 00:22:21,612 --> 00:22:22,741 Speaker 2: the day I borrow can 515 00:22:22,751 --> 00:22:24,901 Speaker 1: opener, do you return them something? The can 516 00:22:24,911 --> 00:22:25,371 Speaker 2: opener 517 00:22:26,459 --> 00:22:28,250 Speaker 2: next time if they need to borrow my account? Open 518 00:22:28,260 --> 00:22:30,209 Speaker 2: our line? Ok. Be kind. 519 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:33,689 Speaker 2: So thank you for joining us on the hot pot. 520 00:22:33,699 --> 00:22:36,839 Speaker 2: Don't forget to listen to us on Apple podcast, Spotify 521 00:22:36,849 --> 00:22:38,369 Speaker 2: and me listen as well and 522 00:22:38,380 --> 00:22:40,959 Speaker 1: subscribe to us if you haven't already. Also if you 523 00:22:40,969 --> 00:22:43,349 Speaker 1: have any crazy neighbor stories, leave it down in the 524 00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:44,469 Speaker 1: comments below. We will 525 00:22:44,479 --> 00:22:46,050 Speaker 2: see you on the next episode. 526 00:22:46,060 --> 00:22:51,530 Speaker 1: Bye bye. Red Rider 74. Is it Red Dryer or 527 00:22:51,540 --> 00:22:55,270 Speaker 1: Red Dry Dr Redry? The is it Red, red, red 528 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:56,479 Speaker 2: Rider? Oh my God, 529 00:22:56,589 --> 00:22:57,489 Speaker 1: sorry.