1 00:00:00,060 --> 00:00:02,820 S1: Hi, Faisal. He did Zahra, and it's germane, 2 00:00:02,830 --> 00:00:04,470 S2: and welcome back to another episode of 3 00:00:04,470 --> 00:00:06,370 S1: Clematis Sprocket 4 00:00:07,560 --> 00:00:09,510 S3: today in the studio with us, we have our 5 00:00:09,510 --> 00:00:15,110 S1: first male guest ever. Windmills, yo, 6 00:00:15,120 --> 00:00:18,660 S3: local singer-songwriter and Universal Music, Singapore's latest signing. 7 00:00:18,690 --> 00:00:22,320 S1: Congratulations. Yo, you want to see how this goes up? 8 00:00:22,829 --> 00:00:26,490 S4: Yes. So as the cameras are out now? Hi, guys, 9 00:00:26,489 --> 00:00:29,760 S4: I'm y'all. I'm a singer songwriter from Singapore and yeah, 10 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:32,550 S4: I'm really excited to be here. Yeah, those are b. 11 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:35,699 S3: Do you feel about the female energy in this room 12 00:00:35,700 --> 00:00:37,919 S3: because our entire crew is female? Yeah, all of us 13 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:38,550 S3: are female 14 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:40,500 S4: kind of nervous, you know, like this my first time 15 00:00:40,500 --> 00:00:42,779 S4: and on being interview with like full woman. 16 00:00:43,630 --> 00:00:43,950 S1: It's pretty 17 00:00:43,950 --> 00:00:45,879 S4: interesting. I think it'll be fun. Yeah, we'll be nice 18 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:46,180 S4: to you. 19 00:00:47,190 --> 00:00:49,000 S2: I'm curious, though, yo, what does the yellow stand for? 20 00:00:49,020 --> 00:00:50,250 S2: Is it like a part of your full name? 21 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:52,890 S4: Oh, it's actually my real name. So my full name 22 00:00:52,890 --> 00:00:55,680 S4: is on Django. I used to be called NZ Vibe. 23 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:58,410 S4: Then Wow had this moniker Python, but I decided like 24 00:00:58,410 --> 00:01:01,950 S4: I was to leave, you know? And yeah, NZ was like, 25 00:01:01,950 --> 00:01:02,700 S4: Yo yo, you know, 26 00:01:02,730 --> 00:01:04,710 S3: NZ later seems like a boy band. I was. 27 00:01:05,459 --> 00:01:07,470 S4: Back then he was cooler. But, you know, an hour later, 28 00:01:07,920 --> 00:01:08,330 S4: I think, you 29 00:01:09,220 --> 00:01:10,350 S1: know, it's very cool 30 00:01:10,350 --> 00:01:12,750 S3: indeed. So tell us, yeah, how long have you been 31 00:01:12,750 --> 00:01:13,500 S3: making music? 32 00:01:13,770 --> 00:01:16,980 S4: I started music when I was in primary school. Yeah. 33 00:01:17,030 --> 00:01:19,110 S4: So when when I was in primary school, like my mum, 34 00:01:19,110 --> 00:01:21,750 S4: my mom was actually a single Chinese orchestral player, so 35 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:24,540 S4: she should have music full time. So I took up 36 00:01:24,540 --> 00:01:26,640 S4: an instrument when I was in primary school and as 37 00:01:26,640 --> 00:01:29,190 S4: I grew older, you know, I guess music became like 38 00:01:29,190 --> 00:01:30,810 S4: a thing in my life, you know, like it was 39 00:01:30,810 --> 00:01:32,850 S4: like a distraction for me and like, Yeah, it's just 40 00:01:32,850 --> 00:01:35,190 S4: make me feel good about myself. So yeah, 41 00:01:35,190 --> 00:01:39,630 S1: that's that's what Helen looks like. Passion looks like as well. 42 00:01:40,420 --> 00:01:43,650 S3: Thanks. And speaking of making us feel good with music, 43 00:01:43,950 --> 00:01:45,420 S3: I love your latest cover. 44 00:01:45,660 --> 00:01:49,300 S1: Hopelessly devoted to you. So good with Asia, Aziz. Yeah, 45 00:01:49,350 --> 00:01:50,250 S1: baby girl. 46 00:01:50,250 --> 00:01:51,850 S4: Oh, she's amazing. Yeah. 47 00:01:51,870 --> 00:01:54,240 S3: So tell us, you know, what does this song mean 48 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:55,980 S3: to you hopelessly devoted to you? 49 00:01:56,310 --> 00:01:58,680 S4: It's a really good song about falling in love and, 50 00:01:58,690 --> 00:02:02,340 S4: you know, finding your soul mate to say so like, Yeah, 51 00:02:02,340 --> 00:02:04,320 S4: I guess I don't really sing songs like that. So like, 52 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:06,450 S4: you know, for me, this was a really new experience 53 00:02:06,450 --> 00:02:09,450 S4: was right and like singing, if I shot this crazy, 54 00:02:09,450 --> 00:02:11,340 S4: you know, I didn't expect would be able to sing 55 00:02:11,350 --> 00:02:13,380 S4: by the first time I saw her. She was just 56 00:02:13,380 --> 00:02:15,020 S4: like a celebrity to me. You know, I kind of 57 00:02:15,030 --> 00:02:18,450 S4: feels like, yeah, you know, being able to work if 58 00:02:18,450 --> 00:02:19,280 S4: I just crazy love. 59 00:02:19,300 --> 00:02:21,030 S1: Yeah, that is so precious. 60 00:02:22,530 --> 00:02:25,410 S3: But today we are talking about something related to that 61 00:02:25,419 --> 00:02:28,200 S3: hopelessly devoted to you, about the person that you love 62 00:02:28,200 --> 00:02:30,690 S3: about soulmates and all of that. So it is to 63 00:02:30,690 --> 00:02:33,420 S3: celebrate your new release, and I believe that you are 64 00:02:33,419 --> 00:02:34,440 S3: in a relationship yourself. 65 00:02:34,500 --> 00:02:36,450 S4: Yes, I am in a relationship this. 66 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:37,550 S1: Tell us more. 67 00:02:40,350 --> 00:02:42,840 S4: So I've been in a relationship for about six years now. 68 00:02:42,870 --> 00:02:43,740 S1: Wow. 69 00:02:45,419 --> 00:02:47,820 S2: And you are 24 this year, which means you got 70 00:02:47,820 --> 00:02:49,620 S2: into this relationship when you see, 71 00:02:49,669 --> 00:02:51,810 S4: you know, baby, the classic, you 72 00:02:51,810 --> 00:02:53,010 S3: know, when you are NYC like 73 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:57,329 S1: you are yo yo. 74 00:02:57,660 --> 00:02:59,760 S2: So as you sit through with you when you were 75 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:01,230 S2: in A. When you was 76 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:03,450 S3: schooling, yes, when you were bald. 77 00:03:04,590 --> 00:03:05,220 S4: Yes, it 78 00:03:05,270 --> 00:03:08,000 S3: is one of the biggest sacrifices is compatible. 79 00:03:08,190 --> 00:03:09,900 S1: Wow. Oh, that was a silver. 80 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:12,690 S3: I declined to comment. 81 00:03:13,910 --> 00:03:16,590 S4: So six years, yeah, six years. And honestly, I would say, 82 00:03:16,590 --> 00:03:18,690 S4: like when I was like in my younger days of 83 00:03:18,690 --> 00:03:20,700 S4: growing up, I didn't look like as cool as I 84 00:03:20,700 --> 00:03:23,570 S4: look now. So, you know, with confidence, you know, here 85 00:03:23,970 --> 00:03:26,100 S4: we are. We all have that phase, right? So like, 86 00:03:26,160 --> 00:03:28,800 S4: it's pretty interesting, you know, thinking back about it, like, wow, 87 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:31,329 S4: I should state for this dude. Like, you know, like 88 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:32,910 S4: when I look like this and you like 89 00:03:32,910 --> 00:03:34,080 S1: me and I'm like, 90 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:35,910 S2: How do you guys meet within school? 91 00:03:36,340 --> 00:03:38,480 S4: Oh, yeah, I'm in school. I was in this like 92 00:03:38,490 --> 00:03:43,020 S4: IG called Replogle before you have it. Yeah, so it's 93 00:03:43,020 --> 00:03:46,260 S4: like a performance kind of k. Then I met her there, 94 00:03:46,380 --> 00:03:48,900 S4: but she actually knew me way before that. Like, you know, 95 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:51,240 S4: the moment, like when she came in for the orientation, 96 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:53,220 S4: she was behind me. So I didn't know that the 97 00:03:53,220 --> 00:03:55,800 S4: entire time. So and she remembered like as I what 98 00:03:55,800 --> 00:03:57,420 S4: I did and you know, all the little things that 99 00:03:57,420 --> 00:03:59,140 S4: I did, it was quite interesting, you know, like how 100 00:03:59,140 --> 00:04:00,720 S4: we actually know each other 101 00:04:01,140 --> 00:04:02,520 S1: is so amazing. 102 00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:06,120 S3: Yeah, you wedding bells ringing your accent. 103 00:04:06,310 --> 00:04:08,220 S1: So, so so I hope you know 104 00:04:09,460 --> 00:04:12,720 S4: we need cash, though. Yeah, you know, that's the reality 105 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:12,870 S4: of 106 00:04:12,870 --> 00:04:14,010 S1: it is dream your 107 00:04:14,460 --> 00:04:16,050 S4: dream now so I can get married. 108 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:19,500 S3: But you know, we want to talk a bit more 109 00:04:19,500 --> 00:04:22,440 S3: about your experience falling in love, and I think things 110 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:24,600 S3: have really changed. I mean, you guys met in school, 111 00:04:24,600 --> 00:04:27,300 S3: but these days, people meet on Tinder, 112 00:04:27,300 --> 00:04:28,620 S2: Instagram and coffee. 113 00:04:28,620 --> 00:04:31,310 S3: Even Bagel picked up TikTok as well. 114 00:04:31,740 --> 00:04:32,930 S2: I wouldn't be surprised. 115 00:04:33,240 --> 00:04:34,890 S3: Maybe we can finally see someone at the door. 116 00:04:34,900 --> 00:04:37,680 S1: OK? Please go ahead. Oh yeah. 117 00:04:37,860 --> 00:04:40,740 S3: Falling in love dating has become so different with technology 118 00:04:40,740 --> 00:04:43,170 S3: and all that right? Will it still be the same 119 00:04:43,170 --> 00:04:46,710 S3: as last time, you know, people writing love letters? Has 120 00:04:46,710 --> 00:04:48,750 S3: anyone receive a love letter in your life? Yes. 121 00:04:49,100 --> 00:04:53,550 S1: Oh yeah, everybody. Thanks so. Oh, that's very nice to 122 00:04:53,550 --> 00:04:54,299 S1: get from. 123 00:04:54,300 --> 00:04:55,950 S2: Like a long time ago back when I was in 124 00:04:56,100 --> 00:04:59,370 S2: secondary school, when, like all these things were still popular, 125 00:04:59,370 --> 00:05:02,100 S2: I know we even had like those little diaries, but 126 00:05:02,100 --> 00:05:04,640 S2: all of us exchange our names. Contact number two, 127 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:06,750 S1: he'll get a whole horoscope even, 128 00:05:06,990 --> 00:05:09,090 S2: and then they'll write like a little love note at 129 00:05:09,089 --> 00:05:11,730 S2: the bottom of the page. Good times. Like good 130 00:05:11,730 --> 00:05:13,800 S3: times. Good times. I remember last time they used to 131 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:14,250 S3: fault the 132 00:05:14,250 --> 00:05:16,360 S1: stars right before 133 00:05:16,380 --> 00:05:17,250 S4: also pointing to Canada. 134 00:05:17,339 --> 00:05:18,870 S3: Then a guy gave it to me as I was 135 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:19,460 S3: doing this. 136 00:05:19,470 --> 00:05:21,720 S1: Oh, so yeah, I could not really get to experience 137 00:05:21,850 --> 00:05:23,719 S1: why I threw it away. Yeah, it 138 00:05:23,730 --> 00:05:24,610 S4: takes a lot space, right? 139 00:05:26,100 --> 00:05:27,359 S2: So you never got any of those? 140 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:29,940 S4: Honestly, no. Like, yeah, I didn't really do a lot 141 00:05:29,940 --> 00:05:32,010 S4: of that. Yes, more like, we messed up a lot, 142 00:05:32,010 --> 00:05:32,400 S4: I guess. 143 00:05:32,670 --> 00:05:33,930 S2: And then we sing songs for her. 144 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:36,060 S4: Yeah, because and the thing is, like this, she really 145 00:05:36,060 --> 00:05:38,010 S4: likes to sing as well. She likes music. So I 146 00:05:38,010 --> 00:05:41,220 S4: guess that's how we even connected on a deeper level. 147 00:05:41,230 --> 00:05:43,370 S4: So like, there are things that we liked in comments 148 00:05:43,380 --> 00:05:44,430 S4: or like, it's nice, you know? 149 00:05:44,670 --> 00:05:46,409 S1: Oh, that is amazing. 150 00:05:47,010 --> 00:05:48,780 S2: So before anything else, I would like to ask you, 151 00:05:48,779 --> 00:05:50,969 S2: Do you think she is the one? 152 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:54,440 S4: Honestly, right now, yes, I do feel like she's the one. 153 00:05:54,450 --> 00:05:56,900 S4: But like the truth is, people change and like, you know? 154 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:01,890 S4: Circumstances change. And I guess the true love that exists 155 00:06:02,010 --> 00:06:04,830 S4: is when the circumstances change, whether like we have money 156 00:06:04,830 --> 00:06:06,779 S4: or not. You know, if the love is there, you know, 157 00:06:06,779 --> 00:06:08,640 S4: it's there's always like if you want to take in 158 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:10,860 S4: consideration of whether like he's he or she is a 159 00:06:10,860 --> 00:06:12,360 S4: soul mate, I think that comes to play, you know, 160 00:06:12,630 --> 00:06:14,849 S4: like the circumstances, you know, and if you guys are 161 00:06:14,850 --> 00:06:16,830 S4: able to fight through that. So yeah, I 162 00:06:16,830 --> 00:06:19,560 S5: think at the end of the day, like while love 163 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:22,140 S5: is a basis, I think just love is not 164 00:06:22,140 --> 00:06:24,460 S4: enough. Yeah, right, right and right. 165 00:06:24,540 --> 00:06:26,489 S5: You know, I think it's a choice at the end 166 00:06:26,490 --> 00:06:28,440 S5: of the day because there's so many other factors in 167 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:29,580 S5: play is very true. 168 00:06:29,610 --> 00:06:31,530 S2: So let's take a quick poll. All of us here. 169 00:06:31,650 --> 00:06:34,289 S2: Do you belong to Team Destiny? OK, which is the 170 00:06:34,290 --> 00:06:36,420 S2: one the whole notion of the one. Oh, do you 171 00:06:36,420 --> 00:06:39,900 S2: belong to team growth? You believe in nurturing the relationship. 172 00:06:39,900 --> 00:06:43,679 S2: You believe in commitment, like making things work. We've had 173 00:06:43,950 --> 00:06:48,180 S2: an effort. OK, so a destiny or B growth cannon 174 00:06:48,180 --> 00:06:48,380 S2: both 175 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:51,750 S1: on this list, though in general, do you think, 176 00:06:51,779 --> 00:06:55,500 S4: man? Honestly, I'm leaning more towards growth, but I think 177 00:06:55,860 --> 00:06:58,350 S4: we need both, you know, to to have a relationship 178 00:06:58,740 --> 00:07:00,839 S4: that lasts. I kind of believe in those kind of 179 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:03,659 S4: spiritual things as well. So, you know, I lean more 180 00:07:03,660 --> 00:07:06,330 S4: towards that and my partner is also really deeply religious. 181 00:07:06,510 --> 00:07:08,849 S4: So like, we both really learn a lot from each other. 182 00:07:08,850 --> 00:07:11,820 S4: So after meeting her, I realized that love has a 183 00:07:11,820 --> 00:07:14,520 S4: lot of layers. You know, it really is not just like, Oh, 184 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:16,530 S4: I like you, you're so pretty or whatnot because that 185 00:07:16,530 --> 00:07:20,220 S4: comes to play. But like, honestly, family comfortable. Yeah, yeah. 186 00:07:20,220 --> 00:07:22,890 S4: Family comes to play relationships and like just how you 187 00:07:22,890 --> 00:07:25,470 S4: think our mindsets do. We work well with each other, 188 00:07:25,470 --> 00:07:25,710 S4: you know? 189 00:07:26,130 --> 00:07:29,670 S3: So you said that you're both very religious currently, we 190 00:07:29,670 --> 00:07:32,190 S3: understand that you're in an interracial relationship. Does that mean 191 00:07:32,190 --> 00:07:33,900 S3: that you belong to different religions? 192 00:07:34,140 --> 00:07:36,210 S4: This is quite sensitive, but I also talk about it 193 00:07:36,210 --> 00:07:38,550 S4: because it's, you know, we need to talk about it. 194 00:07:38,850 --> 00:07:42,360 S4: I was born to this, OK? And yeah, like my 195 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:44,880 S4: family wasn't really like a strict Buddhist kind of family. 196 00:07:44,880 --> 00:07:47,580 S4: So I honestly, I grew up as a typical Chinese 197 00:07:47,730 --> 00:07:50,480 S4: boy in Singapore. A lot of us may not be religious. 198 00:07:50,490 --> 00:07:52,710 S4: I'm not saying everyone is like that, but for me, 199 00:07:52,710 --> 00:07:56,580 S4: I wasn't really into Buddhism. I just grew up studying, 200 00:07:56,580 --> 00:07:59,190 S4: aiming to get money, trying to, trying to, trying to 201 00:07:59,190 --> 00:08:02,430 S4: do well in school and while struggling all this family stuff. 202 00:08:02,430 --> 00:08:04,710 S4: I have a home. So like back then it was 203 00:08:04,710 --> 00:08:07,650 S4: really like just me trying to stay afloat. And I 204 00:08:07,650 --> 00:08:10,860 S4: think as a young, young Singaporean kid growing up like 205 00:08:10,860 --> 00:08:13,980 S4: that is pretty tough for anyone, actually. So I think 206 00:08:13,980 --> 00:08:16,140 S4: it's a blessing that I met this girl that I 207 00:08:16,140 --> 00:08:17,940 S4: know now who she was brought up in a very 208 00:08:17,940 --> 00:08:20,670 S4: like religious background, and she had a close knit family, 209 00:08:20,670 --> 00:08:22,950 S4: the family so close knit. And you know, I love 210 00:08:22,950 --> 00:08:25,860 S4: my family, but man, her family is just it just 211 00:08:25,860 --> 00:08:28,950 S4: feels like I have another family and it touches, really 212 00:08:28,950 --> 00:08:30,690 S4: touches my heart a lot, you know, like knowing that, 213 00:08:30,690 --> 00:08:32,700 S4: you know, I have I have another shoulder to lean on. 214 00:08:32,700 --> 00:08:33,209 S4: I guess, why 215 00:08:33,210 --> 00:08:34,170 S1: is this so touching? 216 00:08:35,610 --> 00:08:37,260 S4: Yeah. And you know, it's just very 217 00:08:37,530 --> 00:08:37,750 S1: part 218 00:08:39,570 --> 00:08:41,329 S3: feeling very emotional about it. 219 00:08:41,350 --> 00:08:44,190 S2: Yeah, yeah. I can see why, y'all things that growth 220 00:08:44,250 --> 00:08:47,130 S2: is actually more important in a relationship like finding the 221 00:08:47,130 --> 00:08:49,500 S2: one right away. Yes. OK, so that's your take. What 222 00:08:49,500 --> 00:08:51,500 S2: about you? What do you think, destiny or groove? 223 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:54,780 S5: I think a little bit of both, but I also 224 00:08:54,780 --> 00:08:58,140 S5: do think it's a little bit more growth, OK, because 225 00:08:58,230 --> 00:09:02,250 S5: love is lovelier, right? But I think given circumstances, if 226 00:09:02,250 --> 00:09:05,670 S5: things change, if something happens, you know the adversities that 227 00:09:05,670 --> 00:09:08,160 S5: you could have faced in life. I don't think just 228 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:09,840 S5: love is enough to carry you through, 229 00:09:09,900 --> 00:09:13,350 S2: especially in Singapore. Videos are expensive. OK, look, have you do? 230 00:09:13,410 --> 00:09:13,859 S1: Oh dear, 231 00:09:14,100 --> 00:09:15,690 S4: please lower the prices down, man. 232 00:09:16,380 --> 00:09:18,300 S3: Yeah, August video who apply 233 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:21,120 S2: so much to what school as well? 234 00:09:21,179 --> 00:09:23,370 S5: Yes, a bit more, because I do think that there's 235 00:09:23,370 --> 00:09:26,459 S5: a lot of other things in the mix. You know 236 00:09:26,460 --> 00:09:29,670 S5: that that is very important. It's a choice, right? So 237 00:09:29,670 --> 00:09:32,429 S5: it's really at the end of the day, it's two 238 00:09:32,429 --> 00:09:35,910 S5: people choosing to be with each other every single day. 239 00:09:36,059 --> 00:09:38,790 S5: It doesn't mean that you say it once and then 240 00:09:38,790 --> 00:09:41,880 S5: that is true for the next 10, 15 years. But 241 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:45,150 S5: I think it's an everyday thing conscious effort. Yeah, that 242 00:09:45,150 --> 00:09:47,929 S5: in spite of this and that despite this and that, 243 00:09:47,970 --> 00:09:49,110 S5: I still choose you. 244 00:09:49,830 --> 00:09:51,500 S2: So this is a nice way to put it. So 245 00:09:51,510 --> 00:09:53,699 S2: funny thing is, I thought I was team growth as well. 246 00:09:53,970 --> 00:09:56,220 S2: But if you're unsure, you know this actually this quiz 247 00:09:56,220 --> 00:09:58,620 S2: that you can take, although I took the quiz in 248 00:09:58,620 --> 00:10:00,260 S2: the middle and I thought, yeah, it 249 00:10:00,270 --> 00:10:02,100 S1: wasn't always that 250 00:10:02,559 --> 00:10:05,370 S2: I at least got quite highly when it comes to 251 00:10:05,370 --> 00:10:08,910 S2: Team Destiny. Oh yeah. And it surprised me that really, 252 00:10:08,910 --> 00:10:11,630 S2: really surprised me because I've always see myself as I'm 253 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:14,250 S2: very practical. And all these have romantic things that, you know, 254 00:10:14,250 --> 00:10:16,939 S2: wouldn't really take me through in life, but upon thinking 255 00:10:16,950 --> 00:10:19,740 S2: of Greece, I found it. I think for me is 256 00:10:19,740 --> 00:10:22,880 S2: very important to put in an effort into a relationship. 257 00:10:22,890 --> 00:10:25,470 S2: But what's more important is you must find a suitable 258 00:10:25,470 --> 00:10:27,090 S2: person to begin with. Yeah. 259 00:10:27,660 --> 00:10:29,550 S3: So if it's not meant to be, is not meant 260 00:10:29,550 --> 00:10:29,939 S3: to be. 261 00:10:30,120 --> 00:10:32,939 S2: Yeah, exactly who this person is. The frequency is so 262 00:10:32,940 --> 00:10:35,610 S2: different from yours. I think to a certain extent, no 263 00:10:35,610 --> 00:10:38,880 S2: matter how much what you put in, that relationship is 264 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:40,679 S2: going to be very, very hot, no 265 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:44,819 S3: matter how handsome he is. If his personality sucks, it sucks. 266 00:10:44,820 --> 00:10:47,699 S5: It's true because I think it's just not meant to 267 00:10:47,700 --> 00:10:50,429 S5: be like, just what if you just do different? I 268 00:10:50,429 --> 00:10:52,589 S5: think that's when people stop and go, is it really 269 00:10:52,590 --> 00:10:53,670 S5: supposed to be this hot? 270 00:10:53,700 --> 00:10:58,260 S3: Yeah, that's true. I think personally, for me, I believe 271 00:10:58,260 --> 00:11:00,689 S3: in soul mates. Oh, but it's of it's not my 272 00:11:00,690 --> 00:11:03,330 S3: soul mate. My soul mate is actually my best friend. I. 273 00:11:04,440 --> 00:11:07,740 S3: Also another Jimi. Yeah. So she's my soul mate because 274 00:11:07,740 --> 00:11:10,559 S3: we are like twin flames. You know, we get each other. 275 00:11:10,860 --> 00:11:16,320 S3: And sorry, it's a but Kindle Fire. But then again, 276 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:18,720 S3: I do believe Azoff is the one. Therefore, I think 277 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:21,990 S3: it's different soulmates and the one he is someone that 278 00:11:21,990 --> 00:11:24,300 S3: you know, can help me grow, can heal me. And 279 00:11:24,300 --> 00:11:25,950 S3: in fact, he did. Like, you know, I was in 280 00:11:25,950 --> 00:11:28,680 S3: a really dark place for many years and he took 281 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:31,770 S3: the hard work. He stayed with me and he helped me. 282 00:11:31,770 --> 00:11:33,630 S3: And today I am a much better person because of 283 00:11:33,630 --> 00:11:36,780 S4: him was amazing. He's always the one that stays that 284 00:11:37,050 --> 00:11:39,420 S4: you should really look at person personally, even though you 285 00:11:39,420 --> 00:11:42,450 S4: don't really like certain things about yourself, the other person 286 00:11:42,570 --> 00:11:44,929 S4: that you wouldn't expect. He likes that part of you. 287 00:11:44,940 --> 00:11:46,559 S4: So that's like something very beautiful. 288 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:49,290 S2: And what is wonderful about their relationship is they were 289 00:11:49,290 --> 00:11:51,510 S2: actually together for a period of time, and then they 290 00:11:51,510 --> 00:11:53,829 S2: broke up, but they found each other back in their life. 291 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:54,420 S2: You know, a funny 292 00:11:54,420 --> 00:11:59,140 S4: thing that happened to me as well. Yeah, we broke 293 00:11:59,140 --> 00:12:01,540 S4: up and, you know, after many months, I try to 294 00:12:01,570 --> 00:12:03,760 S4: cut things off and let you know we're both taking 295 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:05,829 S4: our time out space. You came back to each other 296 00:12:05,830 --> 00:12:08,870 S4: and took it personally like six years. So that's quite know. 297 00:12:09,010 --> 00:12:11,320 S2: You mean this six years was after you guys patched back. 298 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:13,089 S2: So you guys were together before the season is 299 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:17,290 S4: not used together. So including the band, including the breakup? 300 00:12:17,650 --> 00:12:20,199 S3: That's amazing. I think when you break up, you're going 301 00:12:20,200 --> 00:12:21,699 S3: to see what's out in the world and you make 302 00:12:21,700 --> 00:12:24,460 S3: a conscious decision to patch back with this person is 303 00:12:24,460 --> 00:12:25,309 S3: stronger than ever. 304 00:12:25,410 --> 00:12:26,220 S1: Oh, definitely, yeah. 305 00:12:26,260 --> 00:12:27,730 S3: Look at J.Lo and Ben Affleck. 306 00:12:29,410 --> 00:12:30,730 S1: Yeah, I don't know. 307 00:12:30,830 --> 00:12:33,340 S3: I don't know if it's publicity, but. OK, so I 308 00:12:33,340 --> 00:12:36,219 S3: guess a lot of us believe in destiny, but see 309 00:12:36,220 --> 00:12:39,820 S3: as well, you know? So for hazy, since you are 310 00:12:39,820 --> 00:12:42,670 S3: single right now, do you think you will find the one? 311 00:12:43,270 --> 00:12:47,949 S2: I honestly don't. I honestly don't. I think this there's 312 00:12:47,950 --> 00:12:50,780 S2: so many people will just sample the entire world. And 313 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:54,100 S2: what if the one for me is Tom Holland? Because 314 00:12:54,100 --> 00:12:57,339 S2: of circumstances, because of distance, because of I don't know 315 00:12:57,370 --> 00:12:58,150 S2: the time 316 00:12:58,150 --> 00:13:01,510 S1: difference that I've waited out. How can I everyone get 317 00:13:02,790 --> 00:13:06,890 S1: away to believe in destiny, right? Destiny. If it happens 318 00:13:06,890 --> 00:13:07,810 S1: to happen, you got me. 319 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:09,090 S2: How would that meet to 320 00:13:09,210 --> 00:13:10,780 S5: you walking on the street one day? 321 00:13:11,980 --> 00:13:14,350 S4: Yeah, you in Sentosa and and you're just having fun. 322 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:15,819 S4: A holiday, you know? 323 00:13:15,850 --> 00:13:20,500 S1: Very encouraging. No, no, no. I gave you that. 324 00:13:20,570 --> 00:13:23,740 S3: He is a bit skeptical about finding the one at 325 00:13:23,740 --> 00:13:24,240 S3: this age. 326 00:13:24,250 --> 00:13:26,979 S2: I think actually in the entire world and many the 327 00:13:26,980 --> 00:13:29,679 S2: ones out there, you just have to put in effort 328 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:34,300 S2: to make him that one. Mm hmm. That's what I think. 329 00:13:34,300 --> 00:13:36,580 S2: So I think is it must be a good balance 330 00:13:36,580 --> 00:13:39,880 S2: of both. You must find someone suitable and then both 331 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:42,160 S2: of you have to put an equal amount of effort 332 00:13:42,220 --> 00:13:43,420 S2: to make this relationship work. 333 00:13:43,570 --> 00:13:44,920 S1: All right. Well, and 334 00:13:45,400 --> 00:13:48,160 S3: then do you think that people still believe in finding 335 00:13:48,160 --> 00:13:50,710 S3: the one these days in general, like with Tinder and 336 00:13:50,710 --> 00:13:52,660 S3: all that? I mean, you swipe, swipe, swipe if you 337 00:13:52,660 --> 00:13:53,439 S3: swipe the one away. 338 00:13:53,710 --> 00:13:56,290 S2: Exactly. Yeah. Like, for me, I will see my next 339 00:13:56,290 --> 00:13:58,210 S2: relationship is going to be my last, and I really, 340 00:13:58,210 --> 00:14:00,760 S2: really hope that happens, which is why I'm so skeptical 341 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:03,370 S2: about stepping into it, because there's just so many things 342 00:14:03,370 --> 00:14:05,949 S2: to make sure you know I'm so scared. Like, what 343 00:14:05,950 --> 00:14:07,750 S2: if this guy doesn't turn out to be who I 344 00:14:07,750 --> 00:14:09,579 S2: want him to be? Or what a vision my future 345 00:14:09,580 --> 00:14:12,520 S2: husband or the father of my future kids to be? Yeah, 346 00:14:12,910 --> 00:14:15,130 S2: it just scares me, la. So I think any of 347 00:14:15,130 --> 00:14:17,650 S2: you is, like, very blessed that you guys have all 348 00:14:17,860 --> 00:14:20,230 S2: the ones in your life as Voice of America. It's 349 00:14:20,570 --> 00:14:20,780 S2: it's 350 00:14:22,370 --> 00:14:22,920 S1: really 351 00:14:24,510 --> 00:14:26,050 S2: cool. Yeah, I think it takes a lot. It really, 352 00:14:26,050 --> 00:14:27,100 S2: really takes a lot. Yeah. 353 00:14:27,110 --> 00:14:29,020 S3: What do you think? Do you think that people believe 354 00:14:29,020 --> 00:14:30,160 S3: in the one these days? 355 00:14:30,700 --> 00:14:33,400 S4: I think honestly, people still do believe in the one, 356 00:14:33,820 --> 00:14:36,490 S4: and I think it is because it's just a natural 357 00:14:36,490 --> 00:14:38,700 S4: thing for us humans to do. You know, like we, 358 00:14:38,710 --> 00:14:41,620 S4: we always look up to it something that is magical and, 359 00:14:41,620 --> 00:14:43,690 S4: you know, just something that we kind of explain, but 360 00:14:43,690 --> 00:14:46,470 S4: it's meant to be. So I think in that sense, 361 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:48,970 S4: people who still believe in the one, you can't take 362 00:14:48,970 --> 00:14:51,280 S4: it all of them, it's impossible. But I think the 363 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:53,650 S4: only thing that affects that is how we see love 364 00:14:53,650 --> 00:14:56,530 S4: as how we interact with each other as we go. And, 365 00:14:56,860 --> 00:14:57,190 S4: you know, 366 00:14:57,520 --> 00:14:58,100 S3: what do I use? 367 00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:01,330 S5: Because it sounds so magical in my head. I want 368 00:15:01,330 --> 00:15:04,360 S5: to believe that this exists. But whether it does or not, 369 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:06,100 S5: I don't know. And I like to keep it that 370 00:15:06,100 --> 00:15:09,460 S5: way in my hit right soulmate is doesn't have to 371 00:15:09,460 --> 00:15:12,100 S5: be romantic. Hmm. All right. So it doesn't have to 372 00:15:12,100 --> 00:15:15,640 S5: be a romantic partner. Yes. And because seven billion people 373 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:18,940 S5: in the world, right? It really feels like there must 374 00:15:18,940 --> 00:15:22,050 S5: be that one person out there who's your twin flame? Yeah, 375 00:15:22,070 --> 00:15:25,090 S5: who who? You know, literally you like, split the two 376 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:27,760 S5: and you could be living like all leading very, very 377 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:32,560 S5: different lives with absolutely like completely different circumstances. But I 378 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:34,750 S5: always feel like if you meet this person and if 379 00:15:34,750 --> 00:15:37,540 S5: you ever meet this lesson in this lifetime, it'll feel 380 00:15:37,540 --> 00:15:37,990 S5: like 381 00:15:38,350 --> 00:15:43,330 S1: your souls have met all these all like this together. 382 00:15:43,600 --> 00:15:45,880 S5: Still with no reason. 383 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:47,250 S2: Tom Holland, I'm waiting for you. 384 00:15:47,450 --> 00:15:49,180 S3: OK? You're listening. The House 385 00:15:49,210 --> 00:15:51,040 S1: podcast. Join us! 386 00:15:52,780 --> 00:15:55,180 S3: But here is something that might be interesting to know, right? 387 00:15:55,190 --> 00:15:58,390 S3: People who believe in true love are actually more likely 388 00:15:58,390 --> 00:16:01,720 S3: to ghost their partners or, you know, ghost out of 389 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:04,920 S3: a relationship. OK, because when you believe in true love, right? 390 00:16:04,930 --> 00:16:08,230 S3: Sometimes you blind yourselves to the negative parts of your 391 00:16:08,230 --> 00:16:11,230 S3: partner and you just blindly believe this is my soulmate. 392 00:16:11,230 --> 00:16:13,690 S3: I will love this person no matter what. Then in 393 00:16:13,690 --> 00:16:15,460 S3: the end, they get set. Then it goes this person. 394 00:16:16,000 --> 00:16:19,150 S2: Oh, meaning if they argue, yeah, they will start thinking, Oh, 395 00:16:19,180 --> 00:16:21,480 S2: maybe this person isn't the one for me. He's in 396 00:16:21,490 --> 00:16:24,230 S2: my soul mate because it seems to be magical. 397 00:16:24,250 --> 00:16:25,900 S5: Yes, exactly perfect, right? 398 00:16:25,930 --> 00:16:27,400 S2: So it's time for me to step out of this 399 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:29,290 S2: relationship because of all the negativity. 400 00:16:29,410 --> 00:16:32,210 S4: See, I didn't and have never seen it before. I think, 401 00:16:32,210 --> 00:16:35,110 S4: because like I've always been in like a single relationship 402 00:16:35,110 --> 00:16:37,750 S4: and do not, and I've seen their relationship. So I 403 00:16:37,750 --> 00:16:40,060 S4: wouldn't know because for me, like I feel like once 404 00:16:40,060 --> 00:16:42,970 S4: you step into a relationship, it's really a commitment. It's 405 00:16:42,970 --> 00:16:46,300 S4: how far you got to. You got to work towards something, 406 00:16:46,300 --> 00:16:46,540 S4: you know? 407 00:16:46,600 --> 00:16:49,000 S3: Exactly. I feel the same way, you know, I told 408 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:52,660 S3: Lisa recently how I know that I am destined to 409 00:16:52,660 --> 00:16:55,450 S3: be with him forever. Is that when I was dating 410 00:16:55,450 --> 00:16:58,380 S3: like other people, right? I would always think, like, is 411 00:16:58,380 --> 00:17:00,210 S3: this going to be the one? What if East is 412 00:17:00,210 --> 00:17:01,530 S3: the one that I meant to be with for the 413 00:17:01,530 --> 00:17:04,740 S3: rest of my life? So when I'm with S.F., I 414 00:17:04,740 --> 00:17:07,500 S3: don't have that thought like, should I be with someone else? 415 00:17:07,530 --> 00:17:09,510 S3: Is there someone else out there? So that's how I 416 00:17:09,510 --> 00:17:11,940 S3: told him, Yeah, I know I'm stuck with you forever 417 00:17:11,970 --> 00:17:16,410 S3: or decided. So we'll see. We'll see you in the hospital. 418 00:17:18,660 --> 00:17:18,840 S1: Yeah. 419 00:17:18,840 --> 00:17:21,720 S2: And I think that believing that soul mates are perfectly 420 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:23,850 S2: compatible for each other can also give rise to a 421 00:17:23,850 --> 00:17:27,800 S2: lot of unrealistic expectations. And that is very detrimental in 422 00:17:27,810 --> 00:17:28,530 S2: a relationship. 423 00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:31,260 S3: Definitely. I think when you when you believe such right, 424 00:17:31,500 --> 00:17:33,480 S3: maybe you wouldn't put in as much effort because you 425 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:35,130 S3: think like, Oh yeah, my soul mate, like things should 426 00:17:35,130 --> 00:17:37,649 S3: just wake up by themselves. But I think we have 427 00:17:37,650 --> 00:17:41,669 S3: come to the conclusion relationships are hot work. Yeah. Even 428 00:17:41,670 --> 00:17:44,730 S3: if this person is your twin flame. Mm hmm. That's right. 429 00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:47,580 S3: So I think that while like Casey said, how do 430 00:17:47,580 --> 00:17:49,649 S3: you find the one? There are billions of people in 431 00:17:49,650 --> 00:17:51,810 S3: this world. It could be like a French guy having 432 00:17:51,810 --> 00:17:53,690 S3: coffee right now in berries. You don't know 433 00:17:53,760 --> 00:17:55,740 S1: who was you. Well, you never 434 00:17:55,740 --> 00:17:59,970 S3: know the time. Yeah. And scientists say that it's very 435 00:17:59,970 --> 00:18:03,480 S3: unlikely that you'll find that true soul mate just because 436 00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:07,500 S3: of geographical boundaries, right? But perhaps the notion of the 437 00:18:07,500 --> 00:18:10,710 S3: one has also evolved and changed, and it might not 438 00:18:10,710 --> 00:18:13,050 S3: happen at the start of the relationship. But as you grow, 439 00:18:13,050 --> 00:18:16,080 S3: you realize that actually this is the one. 440 00:18:16,410 --> 00:18:18,600 S2: Yeah, I think. Like what? Yes, it takes time to 441 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:21,180 S2: know whether or not this person is the one for 442 00:18:21,180 --> 00:18:23,459 S2: you and of course, a lot of work. So what 443 00:18:23,460 --> 00:18:25,500 S2: went through your mind when you know you guys were 444 00:18:25,619 --> 00:18:28,830 S2: going through that brick? What, what made you go back 445 00:18:28,830 --> 00:18:29,220 S2: to her? 446 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:31,950 S4: Just, it's going to sound cheesy, but like doing that brick. 447 00:18:31,990 --> 00:18:36,119 S4: I couldn't stop thinking about that person. And honestly, like, 448 00:18:36,119 --> 00:18:38,159 S4: it was only that person that could make me feel 449 00:18:38,490 --> 00:18:41,520 S4: better about myself. And because, you know, I personally, I 450 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:44,070 S4: I'm the type of guy that really like, I hate myself, like, 451 00:18:44,070 --> 00:18:45,689 S4: I don't like how I look. You know, I have 452 00:18:45,690 --> 00:18:48,090 S4: a lot. I am deeply insecure. I honestly felt like 453 00:18:48,300 --> 00:18:49,889 S4: I need someone who can help me. And because I 454 00:18:49,890 --> 00:18:52,169 S4: can't be self helping myself every time I can, I 455 00:18:52,170 --> 00:18:54,750 S4: don't have the emotional capacity to do that, and I 456 00:18:54,750 --> 00:18:57,060 S4: was just yearning to talk to her again, you know? 457 00:18:57,119 --> 00:18:59,430 S4: It's just that it's really hard to explain, but it's 458 00:18:59,430 --> 00:19:02,610 S4: just that innate feeling of wanting to be accepted by someone. 459 00:19:02,790 --> 00:19:04,950 S4: And yeah, all the time we got back together again, 460 00:19:04,950 --> 00:19:07,320 S4: we talked, and this time we actually talked to each other. 461 00:19:07,320 --> 00:19:09,389 S4: We tried to really hash out all the problems that 462 00:19:09,390 --> 00:19:11,700 S4: we had and all the other disagreements that we had. 463 00:19:11,730 --> 00:19:14,480 S4: It was really understanding each other kind of moment. 464 00:19:15,750 --> 00:19:17,790 S3: I mean, think about it, when you first got together, 465 00:19:17,790 --> 00:19:20,609 S3: you guys were eighteen. That's very young. Yeah, your brain 466 00:19:20,609 --> 00:19:23,070 S3: is not even fully developed. Yeah, yeah. You might have 467 00:19:23,070 --> 00:19:26,970 S3: been maybe a bit more immature. Don't really understand too 468 00:19:26,970 --> 00:19:29,400 S3: much about life. And I think that I'm just so 469 00:19:29,400 --> 00:19:32,260 S3: happy that you guys managed to find each other. Thank you. 470 00:19:32,340 --> 00:19:35,310 S3: So I think falling in love, you know, dating and 471 00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:40,439 S3: having that whole situation while it has changed so much. Personally, 472 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:43,199 S3: for me, it was actually the same. So now people 473 00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:45,390 S3: fall in love on the internet. I fell in love 474 00:19:45,390 --> 00:19:47,160 S3: with S.F. on MSN Messenger. 475 00:19:47,190 --> 00:19:49,130 S1: Oh my gosh, the cool I 476 00:19:49,330 --> 00:19:51,570 S5: you when he never talked you, they low 477 00:19:52,230 --> 00:19:57,870 S1: level is beneficial to for life. 478 00:19:58,410 --> 00:20:00,390 S3: But the thing is that we were in secondary school. 479 00:20:00,390 --> 00:20:03,270 S3: We were so immature. I pretended I didn't know him. 480 00:20:03,390 --> 00:20:06,210 S3: But in night on MSN Messenger, we were video call 481 00:20:06,210 --> 00:20:06,810 S3: for the whole night. 482 00:20:06,859 --> 00:20:08,719 S1: Yeah, yeah. 483 00:20:09,510 --> 00:20:11,109 S2: Well, why would you want to pretend you didn't know him? 484 00:20:11,310 --> 00:20:11,939 S2: It's I don't 485 00:20:11,940 --> 00:20:13,590 S3: know when you're in secondary school, it's just like that, 486 00:20:13,590 --> 00:20:15,600 S3: you know? Yeah, when I see him, I'm like, Who 487 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:19,890 S3: are you by? So we fell in love on the internet. 488 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:20,970 S2: Oh, you, they're so sweet. 489 00:20:21,450 --> 00:20:23,760 S3: But I guess these days is different. How did you 490 00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:24,899 S3: and everyone fall in love? 491 00:20:25,270 --> 00:20:32,970 S1: Um. Huh. Why so long pause? Yeah, but oh yeah, 492 00:20:32,990 --> 00:20:35,000 S1: I've never had this. How you fell in love? I 493 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:35,150 S1: don't 494 00:20:35,150 --> 00:20:37,250 S2: think so. Usually with asthma, but I'm not 495 00:20:37,250 --> 00:20:40,179 S1: sure you want to go on, OK? You know, if 496 00:20:40,190 --> 00:20:40,639 S1: you're out on the 497 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:43,820 S5: weekend, Ken, can I make you shop again? OK, so 498 00:20:43,820 --> 00:20:47,090 S5: a pretzel each other? No, it's not much meat. Oh, 499 00:20:47,150 --> 00:20:47,990 S5: so that was like 500 00:20:48,230 --> 00:20:50,090 S2: family friend then, right? 501 00:20:50,530 --> 00:20:53,720 S5: And then after that, they they had something over the house. 502 00:20:53,990 --> 00:20:58,070 S5: So OK, Pride Day. So he says, just like him, actually, no. Actually, 503 00:20:58,070 --> 00:21:01,700 S5: just like his girlfriend, he Erwin says that he has 504 00:21:01,700 --> 00:21:03,830 S5: met me before the time I remember it. 505 00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:08,570 S1: OK? I don't remember anything when I'm like, Sorry, you are. 506 00:21:10,070 --> 00:21:11,389 S4: But he he met you before last time. 507 00:21:11,690 --> 00:21:14,810 S5: So he said that I've been to his house before 508 00:21:14,810 --> 00:21:18,410 S5: and he has seen me before because apparently when I 509 00:21:18,410 --> 00:21:19,939 S5: was at his house the first time, though, and I 510 00:21:19,940 --> 00:21:23,359 S5: don't remember he wasn't at home and his mother called 511 00:21:23,359 --> 00:21:25,420 S5: him and said he can hold on. 512 00:21:26,900 --> 00:21:30,850 S1: Oh oh, oh, oh, well, I don't remember. 513 00:21:30,859 --> 00:21:32,540 S5: I think he came home. He was like, What? His 514 00:21:32,540 --> 00:21:32,600 S5: out 515 00:21:32,619 --> 00:21:33,260 S1: of everything? 516 00:21:34,190 --> 00:21:38,300 S4: Wow, man. Lovely comes in different situation and it's not 517 00:21:38,300 --> 00:21:39,080 S4: just like internet 518 00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:41,450 S3: or whatnot, right? So you guys fell in love in person, 519 00:21:41,900 --> 00:21:42,800 S3: not on the internet? 520 00:21:43,140 --> 00:21:47,120 S5: Not really. But the first communication tool is into the dilemma. 521 00:21:47,340 --> 00:21:51,230 S3: Oh, so also technology is involved. Right, right, right. But 522 00:21:51,230 --> 00:21:53,359 S3: I think on the internet, it's easier to fall in 523 00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:55,649 S3: love because you are more open to sharing. Exactly. 524 00:21:55,830 --> 00:21:56,100 S1: Right. 525 00:21:56,100 --> 00:21:59,090 S2: Right? OK. I wanted to talk a bit about dating 526 00:21:59,090 --> 00:22:02,389 S2: in the Singaporean context. They started dating in Singapore is very, 527 00:22:02,390 --> 00:22:06,970 S2: very unromantic because the way of proposal is a want 528 00:22:06,980 --> 00:22:07,429 S2: to beat you. 529 00:22:07,940 --> 00:22:09,530 S3: If anyone came to me and say, I want to 530 00:22:09,530 --> 00:22:12,400 S3: beat you, and that's the proposal. So I would say goodbye. 531 00:22:12,410 --> 00:22:14,239 S2: Yeah. Yo, hold it in there. Perforce, please don't tell 532 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:15,109 S2: me the 533 00:22:15,109 --> 00:22:17,350 S1: video about it can be cool of someone. 534 00:22:17,540 --> 00:22:20,179 S4: Yeah, yeah. You know, I always like, I don't. I 535 00:22:20,180 --> 00:22:22,930 S4: don't spoil it. Like, OK, OK, maybe OK. I just see, 536 00:22:22,950 --> 00:22:25,280 S4: like what you do plan. You know, I'll tell her 537 00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:28,760 S4: not to watch. OK, maybe that form part of the curve. OK, 538 00:22:28,770 --> 00:22:31,880 S4: so I plan to bring her to like, I haven't 539 00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:34,060 S4: come from the place, but like an amusement park. OK, OK. 540 00:22:34,070 --> 00:22:35,980 S4: I mean, it's like and I was thinking, like, you know, 541 00:22:36,140 --> 00:22:39,109 S4: maybe like Japan or something, you know, like universal studio campuses. 542 00:22:39,410 --> 00:22:41,000 S4: And then like, you know, I would want to rent 543 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,730 S4: like a auditorium or something. You know why? Yeah. And 544 00:22:43,730 --> 00:22:47,210 S4: then I would sing a song that I written originally 545 00:22:47,570 --> 00:22:50,570 S4: just for her with audience. And then I'll just make 546 00:22:50,570 --> 00:22:53,090 S4: a rent and do it like she has to say yes. 547 00:22:53,630 --> 00:22:55,620 S3: So that's what my boyfriend is. 548 00:22:55,700 --> 00:22:56,540 S1: It is 549 00:22:56,540 --> 00:22:58,540 S4: just this. This is just like a, you know, all 550 00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:00,330 S4: my hit line. Or maybe it will not work out 551 00:23:00,330 --> 00:23:01,880 S4: that way. But yeah, this is like my dream. 552 00:23:02,580 --> 00:23:04,490 S3: You're almost like a hopeless romantic. Oh yeah. 553 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:06,320 S4: Oh, I, when I show some, I love it. I 554 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:09,500 S4: want to show it like for like feeling, you know, like. 555 00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:13,280 S2: So see, what age do you intend to propose to her? 556 00:23:13,690 --> 00:23:18,860 S4: Oh, um, that's another good question. Realistically, like, I will 557 00:23:18,859 --> 00:23:21,950 S4: want to propose to her like before I'm 30. Yeah. 558 00:23:21,980 --> 00:23:24,440 S4: Like really? And get a house in Marion. I guess 559 00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:26,330 S4: that's why I love privacy. Like having a relationship with 560 00:23:26,330 --> 00:23:28,440 S4: Singapore is so unromantic and stuff like that, you know, 561 00:23:28,730 --> 00:23:31,460 S4: because like, everything's just so expensive and the love isn't 562 00:23:31,460 --> 00:23:33,649 S4: the central focus is mom to do you have this? 563 00:23:33,650 --> 00:23:35,179 S4: Do you have a house? Do you have a car 564 00:23:35,180 --> 00:23:38,119 S4: to travel? Do you have insurance? Well, actually, if you 565 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:40,100 S4: think about back then how our parents used to meet 566 00:23:40,100 --> 00:23:41,920 S4: and fall in love and stay together and give birth 567 00:23:41,930 --> 00:23:45,020 S4: to us and give up the children. It's true, just 568 00:23:45,020 --> 00:23:47,900 S4: like love, and you are still very back to the basics, 569 00:23:47,900 --> 00:23:50,030 S4: you know, like the simple things that we all as 570 00:23:50,030 --> 00:23:53,790 S4: humans know, company and a shelter, you know? Yeah. 571 00:23:53,810 --> 00:23:56,840 S3: So yeah, that's a very interesting notion, you know, talking 572 00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:59,359 S3: about our parents and how love was so different in 573 00:23:59,359 --> 00:24:02,510 S3: their time, right? My parents met at a bowling alley. 574 00:24:02,810 --> 00:24:05,630 S3: Oh yeah. It was like mutual friends, and he went 575 00:24:05,630 --> 00:24:08,000 S3: to ball and that was their first meeting. 576 00:24:09,210 --> 00:24:10,730 S1: Quite cool. Yeah. Well, yeah. 577 00:24:10,730 --> 00:24:13,189 S3: So a lot of them fall in love in different ways, 578 00:24:13,190 --> 00:24:15,199 S3: and it was definitely not what we have now. 579 00:24:15,350 --> 00:24:17,880 S2: So my parents, they were introduced by my aunt, so 580 00:24:17,900 --> 00:24:21,500 S2: my dad was a matchmaker. And honestly, I think matchmaking 581 00:24:21,500 --> 00:24:24,740 S2: really doesn't work. You really have to meet the person 582 00:24:24,740 --> 00:24:27,080 S2: and find if you have that common interest and stuff 583 00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:30,260 S2: like that. So back in their times, right? Upon matchmaking, 584 00:24:30,260 --> 00:24:34,660 S2: then they cannot get married. Have kids that kind of recent. Yeah, 585 00:24:34,820 --> 00:24:37,129 S2: it's really, really simple. But you know what my parents 586 00:24:37,130 --> 00:24:39,800 S2: have shown me, even though I personally don't think that 587 00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:42,410 S2: the may be the one for each other, but they 588 00:24:42,410 --> 00:24:46,010 S2: definitely put a lot of and effort into this relationship 589 00:24:46,010 --> 00:24:49,850 S2: and also onto us, the three kids, and they just 590 00:24:49,850 --> 00:24:52,639 S2: try to make things work. And I'm very, very appreciative 591 00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:53,090 S2: of that. 592 00:24:53,150 --> 00:24:56,000 S4: That's beautiful. I like to stick together through thick and thin. 593 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:58,310 S4: You know that there is the notion of being married, right? 594 00:24:58,730 --> 00:25:00,859 S4: It's not just love, but it's really like through thick 595 00:25:00,859 --> 00:25:02,090 S4: and thin. We had to stay together, 596 00:25:02,090 --> 00:25:04,760 S2: so I wouldn't say that people all each can go 597 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:06,770 S2: through that and not go through a divorce. You know, 598 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:09,410 S2: probably the two months in with, you know what you're 599 00:25:09,410 --> 00:25:11,959 S2: working on? Let's get a divorce. Yeah, but they have 600 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:14,120 S2: been together for three years now. 601 00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:15,620 S3: It's crazy to think. 602 00:25:15,950 --> 00:25:17,669 S5: I think as much as people these days, you know, 603 00:25:17,690 --> 00:25:19,280 S5: do you want to believe in love? They watch Korean 604 00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:22,700 S5: dramas and like I all. But at the same time, 605 00:25:22,700 --> 00:25:25,280 S5: I feel like because there's been so much importance that's 606 00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:29,310 S5: been put on. Career growth, let me be just material 607 00:25:29,310 --> 00:25:32,580 S5: things exactly, you know, nice things, not just the bare minimum, 608 00:25:32,580 --> 00:25:36,480 S5: but actually more than just there. Yeah. And because so 609 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:38,400 S5: much importance has been put in that I feel like 610 00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:42,120 S5: sometimes people forget about why they're together in the first place. 611 00:25:42,390 --> 00:25:45,300 S5: They they put so much focus on, Oh, I need 612 00:25:45,300 --> 00:25:48,570 S5: to get this, this this buzz, and then I can 613 00:25:48,570 --> 00:25:50,909 S5: focus on this. But I think at the end of 614 00:25:50,910 --> 00:25:53,520 S5: the day, if you look a little bit deeper into it, 615 00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:56,520 S5: I feel like why can't you just focus on the 616 00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:59,430 S5: thing that actually is going to help you grow if 617 00:25:59,430 --> 00:26:01,890 S5: you focus a little bit more on your relationship? You 618 00:26:01,890 --> 00:26:03,690 S5: might both grow and excel better. 619 00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:05,090 S1: Definitely true. Yeah. 620 00:26:05,190 --> 00:26:07,080 S4: So I think it's quite important to have like a 621 00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:10,560 S4: partner that kind of shares the same kind of maybe 622 00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:13,440 S4: like your hobby or your goals, like what do you 623 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:15,540 S4: guys like about each other as on? But for me, 624 00:26:15,540 --> 00:26:17,639 S4: like she, she likes music a lot and I like music. 625 00:26:17,850 --> 00:26:20,520 S4: So as an artist right now, whatever songs that I 626 00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:23,340 S4: put out and whatever things that I do in my career, 627 00:26:23,460 --> 00:26:25,950 S4: she's always that rooting for me. And you know, it's 628 00:26:25,950 --> 00:26:28,530 S4: the small things I did kind of make the relationship 629 00:26:28,530 --> 00:26:31,010 S4: a bit more deep rooted know like more deep roots 630 00:26:31,020 --> 00:26:32,970 S4: and just share really common things together. 631 00:26:33,150 --> 00:26:35,369 S2: What you need. Kimmy, shut up, Lisa. 632 00:26:35,369 --> 00:26:36,930 S4: Shut up. And I said, 633 00:26:37,180 --> 00:26:38,129 S1: You usually 634 00:26:38,130 --> 00:26:40,430 S5: go. She can go, watch this. 635 00:26:40,500 --> 00:26:43,020 S1: Oh, that's right. I mean, this is something that passes. 636 00:26:43,020 --> 00:26:44,340 S1: Keep that passion. Yeah, yeah. 637 00:26:44,450 --> 00:26:45,670 S4: Yeah. Just put a thing 638 00:26:45,700 --> 00:26:47,280 S1: that oh, so 639 00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:49,469 S2: before we end one question for all of us, what 640 00:26:49,470 --> 00:26:52,020 S2: is one word of advice you have for those who 641 00:26:52,020 --> 00:26:53,040 S2: are still looking for love? 642 00:26:53,310 --> 00:26:56,580 S1: Do you think love can be looked for? Means water? 643 00:26:56,820 --> 00:26:57,720 S1: But we have all been 644 00:26:57,720 --> 00:26:58,980 S2: looking for love, haven't we? 645 00:26:59,340 --> 00:27:01,770 S5: Correct. But like, do you think sometimes when you're not 646 00:27:01,770 --> 00:27:04,560 S5: looking and that it comes to you, which I know 647 00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:05,280 S5: you don't know you were on the 648 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:06,479 S1: streets of Portland? 649 00:27:09,030 --> 00:27:12,210 S2: Oh, well, I think that's possible, but the chances are 650 00:27:12,210 --> 00:27:15,359 S2: absolutely slim. Yeah. Uh, this is what I think. 651 00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,330 S5: So you think if someone is looking for love for 652 00:27:18,330 --> 00:27:20,310 S5: that matter, they have to actively go out there to 653 00:27:20,310 --> 00:27:21,090 S5: find at 654 00:27:21,090 --> 00:27:24,270 S2: least normal people so that you can filter who is 655 00:27:24,270 --> 00:27:26,490 S2: on your frequency and who is not? I think that 656 00:27:26,490 --> 00:27:27,330 S2: gives you a better shot, 657 00:27:27,540 --> 00:27:29,640 S3: but you never know. Sometimes you're looking in this direction 658 00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:32,160 S3: and suddenly someone comes in the other direction. Yeah, hello. 659 00:27:33,460 --> 00:27:35,949 S3: You got me. You never know. Yeah. So that's what 660 00:27:35,970 --> 00:27:39,300 S3: my advice. Keep an open mind, right? Don't close off 661 00:27:39,300 --> 00:27:41,820 S3: to anyone. Just cause of looks, just cause of, you know, 662 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:43,260 S3: something that you don't like about them. 663 00:27:43,260 --> 00:27:45,930 S4: I think that's a very good thing because that looks 664 00:27:45,940 --> 00:27:47,970 S4: team because I feel a lot deep because of social media. 665 00:27:47,970 --> 00:27:50,490 S4: You know, Instagram, like honestly, a lot of the you 666 00:27:50,490 --> 00:27:53,010 S4: look through Instagram and just to just see whatever that 667 00:27:53,020 --> 00:27:55,859 S4: is pretty and like, you know, people like someone who 668 00:27:55,859 --> 00:27:58,380 S4: looks a certain way. So I think that's like the 669 00:27:58,380 --> 00:28:01,620 S4: the impact of social media on the love. 670 00:28:01,980 --> 00:28:04,469 S5: That's right. All you girls looking at all these guys 671 00:28:04,470 --> 00:28:05,070 S5: are take the 672 00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:08,370 S1: looks will not last. Even the other will not pay 673 00:28:08,369 --> 00:28:12,480 S1: your bills. Hey, look or not, take care of you. 674 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:16,220 S1: But nice to look at a nice life. 675 00:28:16,859 --> 00:28:18,959 S2: So for me, if there's one word of advice people 676 00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:21,389 S2: out there, I think it's to take your time and 677 00:28:21,390 --> 00:28:24,840 S2: not jump into any relationships. Really, really know this person 678 00:28:24,840 --> 00:28:26,669 S2: before you commit to it, because the last thing you 679 00:28:26,670 --> 00:28:29,100 S2: want is for you to put in your heart, all 680 00:28:29,100 --> 00:28:31,860 S2: your love your soul into this relationship, only to find 681 00:28:31,859 --> 00:28:33,960 S2: out that he or she is leaving. This is going 682 00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:37,740 S2: to crumble, Eula. So, you know, no rush. I always 683 00:28:37,740 --> 00:28:40,140 S2: advice to take your time before you commit. 684 00:28:40,650 --> 00:28:41,970 S3: That should be your advice to yourself. 685 00:28:42,030 --> 00:28:45,050 S2: So, yeah, it is. It is this actually singular? What 686 00:28:45,060 --> 00:28:45,750 S2: do you what I'm hauling? 687 00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:48,210 S4: Wait it out now. 688 00:28:48,630 --> 00:28:50,640 S5: What about you, Ezra? It might not be such a 689 00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:54,330 S5: bad idea to, you know, meet people and talk to 690 00:28:54,330 --> 00:28:57,570 S5: people and actually connect. It doesn't have to be on 691 00:28:57,570 --> 00:29:00,540 S5: a relationship level, but just on a human level, just 692 00:29:00,540 --> 00:29:02,910 S5: connect with people. Because I think if everybody has this 693 00:29:02,910 --> 00:29:05,670 S5: idea that, oh, they want to be with the first 694 00:29:05,670 --> 00:29:07,350 S5: person they fall in love with or, you know, if 695 00:29:07,350 --> 00:29:09,750 S5: that is like a romantic idea in your head. But 696 00:29:09,750 --> 00:29:13,440 S5: I think you will learn something from every person that 697 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:16,620 S5: you meet. And I think you may not even know 698 00:29:16,620 --> 00:29:20,400 S5: what you actually really one from a relationship, or you 699 00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:22,890 S5: may not know what you look like in a relationship 700 00:29:22,890 --> 00:29:25,860 S5: when you're in one. So I think it's OK to 701 00:29:25,860 --> 00:29:28,260 S5: take that time and just like, go with it, you know? 702 00:29:28,860 --> 00:29:31,590 S5: And I think that will grow you into the person 703 00:29:31,590 --> 00:29:34,410 S5: that you would be happy with, and in turn, that 704 00:29:34,410 --> 00:29:37,380 S5: will attract the person that you you should be with. Yes. 705 00:29:37,530 --> 00:29:38,550 S5: Your vibe attracts you. 706 00:29:38,550 --> 00:29:44,560 S1: Try more. Right, is life more oh, look solemn, isn't it? 707 00:29:44,910 --> 00:29:47,740 S1: I do it, do it, yeah. So last but not least, 708 00:29:49,270 --> 00:29:52,390 S4: I'll carry a credit union for me. Like I totally 709 00:29:52,390 --> 00:29:54,790 S4: agree as. You just have to be friends with the 710 00:29:54,790 --> 00:29:56,710 S4: person first. You really just have to get to know 711 00:29:57,070 --> 00:29:59,920 S4: the person that you're you're currently trying to talk to 712 00:30:00,190 --> 00:30:02,740 S4: and really understand each other on a deeper level rather 713 00:30:02,740 --> 00:30:05,290 S4: than just surface level like small talk. Honestly, I hate 714 00:30:05,290 --> 00:30:05,740 S4: small talk. 715 00:30:05,890 --> 00:30:07,750 S2: I've said he's on Hush podcast before, but I thought 716 00:30:07,750 --> 00:30:09,370 S2: it would be nice to bring it back again. So 717 00:30:09,370 --> 00:30:14,320 S2: the CEO of lunch, actually, there's the details, violet. She 718 00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:17,020 S2: actually said that when you're speaking to someone else. Don't 719 00:30:17,020 --> 00:30:20,350 S2: look at him or her as your lifelong partner because 720 00:30:20,350 --> 00:30:22,720 S2: you will form these expectations in your head. So just 721 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:24,910 S2: talk to the other party as if you were friends, 722 00:30:24,910 --> 00:30:27,220 S2: like what you mentioned. And who knows, better things may 723 00:30:27,220 --> 00:30:28,510 S2: come out of this conversation. 724 00:30:28,540 --> 00:30:29,710 S4: I see them as people, right? 725 00:30:29,740 --> 00:30:30,520 S2: Yeah, exactly. 726 00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:30,970 S5: Exactly. 727 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:33,340 S3: While it is, you know, we are seeing like, Oh, 728 00:30:33,340 --> 00:30:36,070 S3: don't have this love conquers all attitude where you go 729 00:30:36,070 --> 00:30:38,920 S3: in blindly, but it's nice to have a romantic side. 730 00:30:38,950 --> 00:30:41,440 S3: It's nice to one more. We're not telling you, no, 731 00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:44,620 S3: don't be romantic. Be super practical. No, you can still be, 732 00:30:44,620 --> 00:30:47,530 S3: you know, a dreamer and thinking that you will find 733 00:30:47,530 --> 00:30:49,940 S3: your one. It's just that you need to protect yourself. And, 734 00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:50,350 S3: you know, love 735 00:30:50,350 --> 00:30:51,010 S4: yourself first, right? 736 00:30:51,220 --> 00:30:53,620 S3: Love yourself first before you can love somebody else. 737 00:30:54,060 --> 00:30:58,510 S1: I think what RuPaul said pretty much. Yeah, but 738 00:30:58,510 --> 00:30:59,860 S5: you know, just before we close this off, I just 739 00:30:59,860 --> 00:31:04,180 S5: want to ask the question, OK? Would you rather have 740 00:31:04,180 --> 00:31:07,120 S5: loved and lost or never loved at all? Loved and 741 00:31:07,510 --> 00:31:09,790 S5: loved and lost, loved and lost or never loved a 742 00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:11,709 S5: let's say you meet somebody and you know this is 743 00:31:11,710 --> 00:31:14,040 S5: the one. It's a perfect love everything you've been looking for. 744 00:31:14,050 --> 00:31:16,780 S5: But maybe circumstances doesn't allow you to be together. So 745 00:31:16,780 --> 00:31:19,750 S5: would you rather have met that person? I just don't 746 00:31:19,930 --> 00:31:21,970 S5: know what this love is in the first place at all. 747 00:31:22,300 --> 00:31:23,830 S2: Love and lust? Definitely. 748 00:31:23,890 --> 00:31:24,670 S4: Yeah, I agree. Yeah. 749 00:31:24,940 --> 00:31:27,610 S2: I don't want to miss out on this experience, right? 750 00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:27,940 S1: Yes. 751 00:31:28,390 --> 00:31:29,830 S3: I've never loved at 752 00:31:29,830 --> 00:31:31,050 S1: all, really, because 753 00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:34,870 S3: it was heartbreaking to know that I lost this person. 754 00:31:35,740 --> 00:31:37,170 S4: I think different people have different kind of, 755 00:31:37,180 --> 00:31:41,020 S2: you know, happiness is their happiness when you guys were loving. 756 00:31:42,040 --> 00:31:43,480 S2: And that matters a lot for me. 757 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:48,040 S1: You, you haven't thought about that until 758 00:31:50,350 --> 00:31:52,150 S4: I was in love and loss, you know, because we 759 00:31:52,480 --> 00:31:54,790 S4: as human beings like we, we have to experience things 760 00:31:54,790 --> 00:31:57,520 S4: to grow, right? Yes. So I think for me, it's like, 761 00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:59,350 S4: I want to grow, so I want to experience things. 762 00:31:59,350 --> 00:31:59,760 S1: So yeah, 763 00:32:00,190 --> 00:32:03,730 S3: before we end up enough. One last thing? Can can 764 00:32:03,730 --> 00:32:07,980 S3: we have y'all sing one line up his song? Would 765 00:32:07,980 --> 00:32:09,880 S3: you mind my? 766 00:32:11,010 --> 00:32:12,440 S1: I figured with the links to 767 00:32:13,460 --> 00:32:15,390 S4: Syria, let me just pull out the lyrics because, honestly, 768 00:32:15,390 --> 00:32:18,150 S4: I forgot the lyrics. Sorry, guys. 769 00:32:18,210 --> 00:32:20,040 S3: Hey, no, no, no, no, this is worth waiting for. 770 00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:27,630 S1: That's right. My head is saying, Fool fucking hell. Hmm. 771 00:32:28,380 --> 00:32:37,110 S1: My heart is sinking. Don't let go. Hold on to 772 00:32:37,110 --> 00:32:45,600 S1: the end. That's what I intend to do. Hopelessly devoted 773 00:32:45,600 --> 00:32:53,030 S1: to you. Oh, how not to fall in love. So 774 00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:55,920 S1: you understand why I love. We know. We don't know. Yes, 775 00:32:55,920 --> 00:33:01,380 S1: it is better. But yeah, 776 00:33:01,380 --> 00:33:03,030 S3: we're so happy to have you here and thank you 777 00:33:03,030 --> 00:33:06,030 S3: very much for being our first ever male guest on horseback. 778 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:07,940 S1: Yo yo, 779 00:33:07,970 --> 00:33:11,730 S2: you also listen to his new song Hopelessly Devoted to you. 780 00:33:11,750 --> 00:33:15,680 S1: Is all good. Very, very good. Very good. All righty 781 00:33:15,690 --> 00:33:15,870 S1: with 782 00:33:15,870 --> 00:33:17,730 S2: that, thank you so much for tuning in to this 783 00:33:17,730 --> 00:33:18,960 S2: episode of Clarity's 784 00:33:19,710 --> 00:33:23,670 S1: podcast. I'm Hazel. I'm a zebra. I'm Germaine, and thank 785 00:33:23,670 --> 00:33:27,800 S1: you so much for your. I think it's so good 786 00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:28,880 S1: to have you here. Thank you. 787 00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:31,450 S3: Make sure you follow us on Instagram. It's clarity that 788 00:33:31,490 --> 00:33:34,040 S3: call for more updates on our next episode if you 789 00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:37,280 S3: want to check out y'all's beautiful face on YouTube as well. 790 00:33:37,310 --> 00:33:41,140 S5: That's right. Listen to us on me. Listen, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, 791 00:33:41,150 --> 00:33:45,110 S5: wherever you consume you podcasts, follow us. Guess number one? 792 00:33:45,140 --> 00:33:47,930 S2: Yeah. And don't forget a ton of push notifications. Okay, 793 00:33:47,930 --> 00:33:50,390 S2: so you will be notified the minute we put up 794 00:33:50,390 --> 00:33:51,110 S2: a new episode 795 00:33:51,170 --> 00:34:00,590 S1: and stream your video. Okay, all right. See you guys.