Speaker 1: Hello, Tazo. Hey, Taura and
Speaker 2: I'm Jermaine and welcome
Speaker 1: back to Cities Hush Podcast.
Speaker 1: You know, previously goes, we talk about manifesting today. I
Speaker 1: want to talk about something similar but not quite our intuition. Intuition. OK. OK.
Speaker 1: First of all, what do you know about intuition and
Speaker 2: a curse?
Speaker 1: My goodness
Speaker 2: intuition is that tingle, tingle that you get in your
Speaker 2: gut right down in my stomach. Here usually tells me
Speaker 2: if something is wrong
Speaker 2: or something is
Speaker 1: right. Right. You know how they say people have five senses.
Speaker 1: I think intuition is women's six I six sense women only. Yeah. Actually,
Speaker 1: I think it's skewed towards women. I mean, correct me
Speaker 1: if I'm wrong. But I've always felt like the woman's
Speaker 1: sixth sense. It's kind of stronger than the men's interesting.
Speaker 2: OK. Let's start with a simple question. Right. OK. Do
Speaker 2: you
Speaker 2: to listen to your head or your heart? This
Speaker 1: is such a tough question. I listen to my heart. Unfortunately,
Speaker 1: it is hard for me
Speaker 2: here. Can you answer for me? You listen to your heart?
Speaker 1: Sure. So did you know that the term intuition has
Speaker 1: no scientific evidence behind it? It is like a happy
Speaker 1: little coincidence that intuition, the definition of it,
Speaker 1: it is entirely intuitive. So it's a feeling, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? It's
Speaker 2: not a verb, it's a fee. So we don't even
Speaker 2: know if it's real or not
Speaker 1: because it's basically that little voice at the back of
Speaker 1: a head that tells you to trust or to be
Speaker 1: wary of something. Right? You can't even explain this little
Speaker 1: voice and it's a combination of experiences, observation, emotional intelligence
Speaker 1: and our subconscious analysis.
Speaker 2: I mean, who's to say whether it's right or wrong?
Speaker 2: At the end of the day, you make that decision
Speaker 2: and you
Speaker 2: live the consequences of it, right?
Speaker 1: No. But what I found really interesting was scientists and psychologists.
Speaker 1: They have come to this theory that women because we
Speaker 1: historically have had lower social power. This is why we
Speaker 1: have stronger intuition because we spent all our time reading
Speaker 1: the room absorbing the social cues. So we are better
Speaker 1: with telling how this person feels or am I gonna
Speaker 1: be in trouble if I get too near to this person?
Speaker 1: And in society, of course, we we possess a natural
Speaker 1: inclination to be more in touch with people's emotions, not
Speaker 1: just our own. Like I'm a hyper sensitive kind of
Speaker 1: girl man. I watch a movie last night and I
Speaker 1: cried for one hour straight. What movie you watch this
Speaker 1: Chinese movie were very sad if I tell you women
Speaker 1: are just so hyper sensitive, don't you
Speaker 2: think I think we're very in touch with our emotions.
Speaker 2: But I do think that both women and men can
Speaker 2: have
Speaker 2: intuition. It's just that because women are more in touch
Speaker 2: with our emotions and our feelings, right? Whereas men are
Speaker 2: more logical and rational thinking creatures, they gear more towards like,
Speaker 2: is this logical? Right? Which is nothing wrong with that question?
Speaker 2: Do you also think it's because we're a little bit
Speaker 2: more observant? You know? It's like how if you're mad
Speaker 2: with your partner because to you, it's like clear as
Speaker 2: day that you did this or you said this,
Speaker 2: obviously, they will never know. Right? Because they just don't
Speaker 2: pick out these things. So is it because we are
Speaker 2: a little bit more observant? And that's why we pick
Speaker 2: up the smallest things and then we add them all
Speaker 2: up together.
Speaker 1: On the other hand, if our partner has had a
Speaker 1: bad day, he comes home, I mean, as the girl
Speaker 1: will know right away, there's something's wrong, right? So, but
Speaker 1: how come they, you come
Speaker 2: home with a bad day? He won't know. And then
Speaker 2: you get angrier like
Speaker 1: hello? He asked to drink more water.
Speaker 1: The solution
Speaker 2: to everything is drink more water. Trust me, the solution
Speaker 2: to a lot of things is drink more water but
Speaker 2: not to the end of a bad day. But I
Speaker 2: think it's just that because women,
Speaker 2: I guess express our feelings or are more in touch
Speaker 2: with our emotions we're able to be attuned to our
Speaker 2: intuition a little bit more but not saying that men aren't.
Speaker 2: We feel shifts in energy maybe a little bit better perhaps.
Speaker 2: You know, like somebody says something a different way one
Speaker 2: time or one day and you're like, something is not right.
Speaker 2: And people tend to pass it off as like you're
Speaker 2: reading too much, do it, you're overthinking it, you're being
Speaker 2: crazy and one day the truth comes out and we
Speaker 2: were
Speaker 1: right.
Speaker 1: And don't you think you of us as host, we
Speaker 1: are able to read the room a little bit better.
Speaker 1: Like we have enhanced skills in this for, we know
Speaker 1: when our guests are feeling good or when they're not
Speaker 2: or uncomfortable or they need a break and things like that.
Speaker 1: So when does your intuition radar light up goes? Oh,
Speaker 2: actually it's usually when I'm meeting new people for the
Speaker 2: first time. Right. It can be in a work setting
Speaker 2: or personal setting when I meet them. I'm kind of
Speaker 2: reading them, not through their physical attributes but through the
Speaker 2: energy and aura that they're giving off. And I kind
Speaker 2: of know, ok. Do I want to get to know
Speaker 2: this person more or is this person talking to me
Speaker 2: for a reason for an advantage or something like that?
Speaker 2: That's what I'm trying to read?
Speaker 1: Ok. We're meeting new people. Agree. How about you? I
Speaker 2: don't, actually, I feel like when I meet new people,
Speaker 2: I'm a little bit more not thinking,
Speaker 1: oh,
Speaker 1: because you're not trusting you giving. But I know your
Speaker 1: senses kick in after like, you will know whether this
Speaker 1: person is good or not after a while, after a while.
Speaker 2: Yes, because I think we spoke about this the other time.
Speaker 2: Remember the ranking of like friendship? And I think for
Speaker 2: me it starts at the bottom and if it's at
Speaker 2: the bottom, right, it doesn't matter
Speaker 2: to me. Like if you're irritating, then maybe like I
Speaker 2: probably won't see you again or if I have to
Speaker 2: see you again, I just like, whatever doesn't matter to me.
Speaker 2: But if it progresses and then we got to start
Speaker 2: evaluating like you deserve to be promoted. Interesting. OK.
Speaker 1: Right. OK. So this is something someone said online
Speaker 1: every time I had a bad feeling about someone, it
Speaker 1: turned out to be true when I first started talking
Speaker 1: to my. Now ex I sometimes felt that something was off.
Speaker 1: I used to have a lot of anxiety around him.
Speaker 1: I even remember thinking something is wrong with this guy,
Speaker 1: but I don't know what, even though he acted super soon,
Speaker 1: super carrying, he was generous, bought me gifts, offered to
Speaker 1: pay for things such as plane tickets, etc plane tickets.
Speaker 1: So they were in the LDA long distance relationship. But
Speaker 1: this girl, she eventually decided to shove a bad feelings
Speaker 1: aside and ignore them and continue being together with this
Speaker 1: guy
Speaker 1: a year later. She discovered that he was a narcissist.
Speaker 1: He was manipulative and had been emotionally abusing and gas
Speaker 1: lighting her all at the same time. So her gut
Speaker 1: feeling was right. Her intuition was
Speaker 2: right. Actually, my friend just told me a very similar story.
Speaker 2: Her boyfriend actually was gas lighting her for like over
Speaker 2: a year. He was in two relationships at once and
Speaker 2: basically they stay in the blocks next to each other.
Speaker 2: So he was just going back and forth, back and
Speaker 2: forth that house, this house, that house, this house, two
Speaker 1: different women in
Speaker 2: each and every day, she would be like, what's wrong?
Speaker 2: Are you cheating on me? You must be cheating on me.
Speaker 2: And he would just straight out say, are you crazy? Like,
Speaker 2: are you crazy? Why would you think that and turns
Speaker 2: out he was and she and her intuition and her
Speaker 2: friends intuition all told them it is true. But until
Speaker 2: the truth comes out,
Speaker 2: yeah,
Speaker 1: sometimes love is blind. Sometimes just refuse to believe that
Speaker 1: the other half is cheating. But if you don't see
Speaker 2: the evidence, right? And this person that you love so much,
Speaker 2: you trust so much or you want to trust is
Speaker 2: telling you I'm not cheating on you. You want to
Speaker 2: believe that. Yeah. And because it's an intuition, you can't
Speaker 2: prove it either.
Speaker 2: I know it somewhere. Something as a feel, right. But
Speaker 2: I don't have anything to work with
Speaker 1: like this girl from online she says, I knew in
Speaker 1: my gut that my ex was cheating. I just had
Speaker 1: no evidence. He was really good at covering his tracks.
Speaker 1: I had full access to his phone and I knew
Speaker 1: his password etc, but
Speaker 1: this cheating people, they can always cover their tracks anyway.
Speaker 1: So this girl, she managed to get evidence while she
Speaker 1: was away on vacation. So she dumped his ass and
Speaker 1: level up. She says, I believe in my intuition. 100%.
Speaker 1: I love that. This is MC main character energy. Absolutely.
Speaker 2: I want to know like
Speaker 2: how he was hiding it and how she found it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you have full access to this person's phone,
Speaker 1: then
Speaker 2: how OK, let me share with you a story. Ok.
Speaker 2: I was at a crossroads in
Speaker 1: life or like an extra
Speaker 2: movie junction that no, no, I don't go out and
Speaker 2: the sun is out. Remember vampire?
Speaker 1: OK. What
Speaker 2: crossroads? I was at a crossroads alive in life. I
Speaker 2: had a decision to make and I couldn't
Speaker 2: like, you know, some decisions you just wanna, you want
Speaker 2: to follow your heart but your head is telling you
Speaker 2: something else, you know all the time, correct? Can we
Speaker 2: have more details? I'm very lost.
Speaker 2: OK. You're making a decision about a person. OK. OK. OK. OK.
Speaker 2: Like let's say hazy and I, and I'm deciding whether
Speaker 2: to keep her in my life. Ok. Yes. And it
Speaker 2: was just a nagging feeling that I will not find
Speaker 2: another hazy which I won't love by the way. OK. Yeah.
Speaker 2: OK. But it was a nagging feeling and I couldn't
Speaker 2: let it go. So I actually asked this person and
Speaker 2: I said, when you can't ignore your gut, what do
Speaker 2: you do? Like if you think about it? Have you
Speaker 2: ever heard anyone say shit? Man? I shouldn't have listened
Speaker 2: to my God. No, you hear people say shit. I
Speaker 2: should have listened to my God. That's true. And I
Speaker 2: was like
Speaker 2: that must count for something. No, it is true. Yeah.
Speaker 2: So more often than not listening to your gut probably
Speaker 2: is the right thing to do. We're not saying it's
Speaker 2: 100 accurate. I'm sure someone has made some mistake by
Speaker 2: listening to the God. But there's a reason
Speaker 1: and this intuition in women somehow I feel like this
Speaker 1: unique energy actually strengthens bonds between girls. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean we share so many things girl math girl
Speaker 1: cos shit like that. There have been so many instances
Speaker 1: where women in tuition or six sense actually helped each
Speaker 1: other out. So for example, this girl, she was at
Speaker 1: the club with her friends and a guy was trying
Speaker 1: to dance with her, but she showed no interest, right?
Speaker 1: But this guy got so persistent and another group of
Speaker 1: girls saw immediately pulled her into the circle and protected
Speaker 1: her the whole night. I love that, right.
Speaker 1: This is intuition
Speaker 2: kicking in, I'll do that any time for any girl? Yeah.
Speaker 1: Are there any like special moments like these where you
Speaker 1: felt like your sixth sense and your intuition between yourself
Speaker 1: and another goal? Just help you become friends.
Speaker 2: Not so serious, not on such a serious note. But
Speaker 2: I think more of just when a woman's intuition makes
Speaker 2: her reach out to you. So what happened was I
Speaker 2: was living overseas and I was dating someone that was
Speaker 2: here but it was like,
Speaker 2: it was a relationship. I was like, casual, you know,
Speaker 2: and I didn't post anything about this person. This person
Speaker 2: didn't post anything about me. So it looked like probably
Speaker 2: we had broken up. So this girl that I know
Speaker 2: in Singapore she was on Tinder and she came across
Speaker 2: his profile on Tinder. If I put myself in her position,
Speaker 2: I would just think, oh, maybe they already broken up.
Speaker 2: That's why he's on Tinder. Ok. But something I think
Speaker 2: in her compelled her to reach out to me
Speaker 2: and let me know. And that's how I found out
Speaker 2: that he was on Tinder while we were still in
Speaker 2: a relationship. She could have just ignored that feeling and
Speaker 2: it could have gone away. But she felt compelled to
Speaker 2: come and tell me about it even though I was like,
Speaker 2: miles and miles away. Yeah. Oh,
Speaker 1: that's nice. That's nice for me. Maybe it's more of
Speaker 1: in a work setting. So we have this new colleague
Speaker 1: from the radio competition. She came in second
Speaker 1: she joined us on the evening drive time show. Her
Speaker 1: name is E and I feel like, you know, your
Speaker 2: show is three now. Girl, it's been a while.
Speaker 1: It's been like one year, baby.
Speaker 2: You're joking. No, you're joking. It's been
Speaker 1: one year. She joined us for the entire way. You know,
Speaker 2: like so many times she's
Speaker 1: this petite girl, super cute. But we gel and we
Speaker 1: bond so well because of our sixth sense. Like we
Speaker 1: think the same
Speaker 1: things in many aspects even when it comes to the show,
Speaker 1: I mean, some might call it chemistry. But also I
Speaker 1: think being a girl, girl thing, it plays a huge part.
Speaker 1: I
Speaker 2: saw a Tik Tok account actually of these best friends,
Speaker 2: two girls. Ok? And then they did this video and
Speaker 2: they were like we became friends to
Speaker 2: because we dated the same guy. Wait, wow.
Speaker 1: And I, I just have to know at the same
Speaker 1: time or what. I
Speaker 2: can't remember that. No, I've seen a lot of like, oh,
Speaker 2: I'm friends with my ex ex. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Like sisters. That's a bit weird.
Speaker 1: I have a friend. Ok. So she dated this guy
Speaker 1: that she didn't know a lot of money. And one
Speaker 1: day my friend received a text from her boyfriend's ex girlfriend. Ok,
Speaker 1: so let's call my friend A and the ex girlfriend.
Speaker 1: B so B comes up to A and say, hey,
Speaker 1: I know you're dating this guy. I hope you're happy
Speaker 1: and shit. But can you please get him to return
Speaker 1: me my money? So, a is like what my boyfriend
Speaker 1: owes you money.
Speaker 1: When was this? And how much does he owe you? So,
Speaker 1: after finding out like so many things, right? A realized
Speaker 1: that her boyfriend doesn't just ob money, he owes a
Speaker 1: lot of people out there. Yeah. And it's only because
Speaker 1: B came up to tell her about it. Oh my God.
Speaker 1: In the end, I think they kind of like bonded
Speaker 1: over this tragic incident and b eventually told a,
Speaker 1: you know, think about it. If he's not for you
Speaker 1: just let it go. Did they break up? They did,
Speaker 1: they've broken up now. So I think this is quite
Speaker 1: sweet in a
Speaker 2: way. No, I really believe that girls can be there
Speaker 2: for each other and we can kind of sense when
Speaker 2: another girl is in danger. Like for example, they have
Speaker 2: this thing where let's say you are having conversation, right?
Speaker 2: And I give you a look, you know what kind
Speaker 2: of book it is. But if I give you this look,
Speaker 2: I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh you think this guy is cute? I give
Speaker 2: you this look,
Speaker 1: this guy,
Speaker 2: you see, so you get a look, right? I mean,
Speaker 2: girls are so in tune with each other.
Speaker 1: I love that. But the thing about intuition is that
Speaker 1: there's no scientific meaning behind it. So sometimes it clashes
Speaker 1: with our mind. Oh
Speaker 2: my gosh, actually I saw this thing, ok. This woman,
Speaker 2: her husband had died basically in a crash. I can't
Speaker 2: remember what crash it was. I feel like it was
Speaker 2: a helicopter crash. Oh, gosh. And she said even before
Speaker 2: it happened, she knew and it was so strange because
Speaker 2: when they turned up at her house it was like
Speaker 2: your husband is dead. She's like, I know. And they
Speaker 2: were like, no, you're not, you're not hearing us like
Speaker 2: sit down,
Speaker 2: your husband is dead. And she was like,
Speaker 1: I know
Speaker 1: because she had a gut feeling. She had a gut
Speaker 2: feeling. Plus like, you know, when things don't add up
Speaker 2: or when things are a little bit off because we're
Speaker 2: so hyper sensitive to it. People always say we're overthinking
Speaker 2: but they all add up. There's a reason why you
Speaker 2: were like, you know, focus on this thing that was
Speaker 2: out of place or something like that.
Speaker 1: You know, I used to be so afraid of losing
Speaker 1: my grandma to the extent that every time I received
Speaker 1: a call from my house, I would think, oh my God,
Speaker 1: is this my dad calling me to tell me my
Speaker 1: grandma has died. No, I would be so scared. And
Speaker 1: then when I pick up the call, it's just my
Speaker 1: dad asked,
Speaker 1: give me what I will be home. They'll be like,
Speaker 1: oh luckily this is where my gut feeling is wrong.
Speaker 1: But sometimes I'm just so sensitive that I trust it
Speaker 1: too
Speaker 2: much. But there are pros and cons obviously to being
Speaker 2: so observant, so hyper sensitive, always thinking about everything, right.
Speaker 2: And it can cause a lot of mental stress and
Speaker 2: pressure as well. For sure. Have you ever heard of
Speaker 2: something also called like a mother's intuition, intuition? Mother, mother
Speaker 2: knows best. That's what they say. They say mother's intuitions
Speaker 2: when
Speaker 2: your senses heightened, when you become a mother and whatever
Speaker 2: in relation to your child, you just have a heightened
Speaker 2: sense of gut feel.
Speaker 1: But it's because you want to protect your child. Right.
Speaker 1: I'm sure. Yeah, there
Speaker 2: was once my mother, I came home and she looked
Speaker 2: at me, she was like, ok, I'm fine. Mother's intuition.
Speaker 2: I was like, why?
Speaker 2: And she was like, I just have a feeling in
Speaker 2: my heart like something does not feel right. I don't
Speaker 2: know what it is. But are you ok? I'm fine.
Speaker 2: And then apparently it was my dad la like something
Speaker 2: happened I think. So. She had a feeling that something
Speaker 2: was not right, but she didn't know she didn't. Right. Right.
Speaker 2: It wasn't me. Right.
Speaker 1: Well, speaking of this, mother's intuition is real. I just
Speaker 1: recall recently. So I just ended a relationship, right? And
Speaker 1: I didn't even speak to my parents about this. Not
Speaker 1: a single word
Speaker 1: but one time, one weekend I went home and my
Speaker 1: mom was like, trying to test the waters. Hey, haven't
Speaker 1: seen this person in so long. How are you guys doing?
Speaker 1: And I'm like, my mom is crazy like she knows that,
Speaker 1: but I didn't even breathe a single word and there's
Speaker 1: no way my sister would have told her about it.
Speaker 1: No way. OK. So this is a story from our PD.
Speaker 1: I think it is very interesting. Nothing to do with
Speaker 1: mother daughter, more of like in a relationship kind of context.
Speaker 1: She says I used to be close friends with this girl.
Speaker 1: I always had a not necessarily bad feeling but a
Speaker 1: weird feeling about her. Over the years, there were instances
Speaker 1: where I felt that she flirted with every boy I
Speaker 1: was interested in. But because of our close friendship, I
Speaker 1: trusted her and gave her the benefit of the doubt.
Speaker 1: But very recently it proved to be true. I discovered
Speaker 1: that she had slept with a boy I liked at
Speaker 1: that time.
Speaker 1: It's like, ok, it happened years ago. But can you
Speaker 1: imagine me opening up to her about it? And then
Speaker 1: she's sleeping with him behind my back?
Speaker 1: I think there's like red flag man, but I think
Speaker 1: they're still in touch now which baffles me. But our
Speaker 1: PD says it's tough because they are both bridesmaids for
Speaker 1: this other friend's wedding. So they still have to see
Speaker 1: each other. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. This our PD that, that
Speaker 1: one
Speaker 2: she's called out. You have a question. Sorry, this has
Speaker 2: nothing to do with anything gut feel or anything. But
Speaker 2: just wondering OK. Now A
Speaker 2: has expressed her interest in this guy to be but
Speaker 2: it just so happened that let's say B was not
Speaker 2: after him, but he hit on her for example, she's
Speaker 2: supposed to say no just because she knows that her
Speaker 2: friend likes him. But this girl called what? I it's,
Speaker 2: it's a lot then
Speaker 1: I feel like you shouldn't because if you don't have
Speaker 1: to
Speaker 2: like, like, like, like real feelings, if a really has
Speaker 2: real feelings for this person, understand it's
Speaker 1: girl code. But then again, has there been a time
Speaker 1: where your intuition influence your relationship? So it has that
Speaker 1: for me, I was in this relationship
Speaker 1: and towards the tail end of it, right? I just
Speaker 1: felt like he wasn't that into me anymore. Yeah, of course,
Speaker 1: I didn't go about like, looking through his staff, his
Speaker 1: phone and everything, but it's just a feeling, you know,
Speaker 1: and I trusted that feeling I broke up. It was
Speaker 1: a mutual breakup but it was, it was great. Like
Speaker 1: it was a happy breakup I would say. And then
Speaker 1: two months later he got attached with the girl that
Speaker 1: I felt
Speaker 1: like he bonded better with. I mean, nothing against that,
Speaker 1: nothing against that. But it's just that I'm glad I
Speaker 1: trusted my intuition and they're still together now. Very happy.
Speaker 1: I'm very happy for them. Wow. Wow. So that's my
Speaker 1: sixth sense kicking in.
Speaker 2: No, it's true. It's really true. And so we all
Speaker 2: know that. First of all, I'm not a jealous person. Secondly,
Speaker 2: I can't be fucked. I won't take your phone, whatever. Obviously,
Speaker 2: I can't be found. But we also know that I
Speaker 2: was once cheated on. It was a gut feel that
Speaker 2: something was not right. And I had to check something
Speaker 2: and I've never done it.
Speaker 1: So, what do you check his phone? No, no, no,
Speaker 2: we know this. Remember? Do you not know
Speaker 1: that you mentioned this? I got one
Speaker 2: of the episodes. I please do not learn from me.
Speaker 2: I don't think you can do this anymore right now.
Speaker 2: But last time you can log into somebody's whatsapp on
Speaker 2: web and it doesn't show on their phone, they will
Speaker 2: never know.
Speaker 2: Damn. Damn. Yeah. So he left the room. I scanned quickly.
Speaker 2: Fellow left. OK, I went through and I found it.
Speaker 2: I was like,
Speaker 1: uh also make sure to check the archives chats. Sometimes
Speaker 1: they hide it there. Oh my God,
Speaker 2: sorry.
Speaker 2: It's true. So, so your intuition was right? 100%. But
Speaker 2: what about his actions showed you that something was happening
Speaker 2: almost nothing.
Speaker 1: Wow, this is how, you know, he's a pro confirm
Speaker 1: on the first time he's done this and
Speaker 2: also her intuition is really spot on a bit scary. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I don, I don't know,
Speaker 2: has been like really, really wrong in that sense. But
Speaker 2: I think it's one thing to have intuition. It's another
Speaker 2: to act on it like he did with your ex. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I think that was very brief of you. Thank you.
Speaker 2: But there are sometimes when your intuition, I think over
Speaker 2: reading into things can betray you, right?
Speaker 1: Because we are just
Speaker 1: so emotional and sometimes we let that get the better
Speaker 1: of us and that sort of overrides our intuition a bit.
Speaker 1: I think it's also very important to strike a balance
Speaker 1: between intuition and not letting our over analytical tendencies cloud
Speaker 1: our judgment. True.
Speaker 2: I'm guilty of overthinking, right? Like sometimes my boyfriend told
Speaker 2: me something and then I overthink about it so much
Speaker 2: and you can see it in my eyes. I'm just
Speaker 2: like staring at the ceiling and I'm going like,
Speaker 2: and I'm just silent and then he would just pull
Speaker 2: me in the heart. He'd be like, don't overthink it.
Speaker 2: It's nothing more than that.
Speaker 2: I don't know. It's really tough. Like I analyze these
Speaker 2: things and, you know, I have theories for them. I
Speaker 2: look into every single thing and people would say, you know,
Speaker 2: don't overthink it or you don't have to read into
Speaker 2: every single thing. It's really not that hard or it's
Speaker 2: really not that serious. It's just, you know, but
Speaker 2: it will turn out that way. Yeah, like over time
Speaker 2: it will just prove to be right, whatever I was
Speaker 2: thinking so we
Speaker 1: can use this as a tool to help us in
Speaker 1: our decision making process. For example, buying your home. I
Speaker 1: think we have to rely strongly on our intuition. Like,
Speaker 1: I have a friend who bought a home recently. She
Speaker 1: was telling me that the moment she stepped into that piece,
Speaker 1: she gasped, she went, like,
Speaker 1: and that's how she knew this place was right for
Speaker 1: her because out of all the other places that she's
Speaker 1: been in, none of them gave her this feeling. Right.
Speaker 1: Even though they were like better places out there. But she,
Speaker 1: she just like this place. It's just a feeling. I
Speaker 1: think buying cars for men as well in tuition is
Speaker 1: a big part, right?
Speaker 1: What other things are
Speaker 2: like when you interview for a job? Yeah, I think
Speaker 2: you can kind of sense. Is this place gonna be
Speaker 2: right for you? Is it going to be the right fit? Right?
Speaker 2: Sometimes you know, it's not the right fit but you
Speaker 2: go for it because you want the money or you
Speaker 2: want this or that, but then you end up miserable, right?
Speaker 2: But I think with anything, try to give it a
Speaker 2: chance as well because if you are guilty of overthinking,
Speaker 2: you may just overthink yourself into
Speaker 2: like nothingness right into confusion and just confuse yourself sometimes,
Speaker 2: then you might, you know, because you're so tunnel vision,
Speaker 2: then you miss all the experience around it.
Speaker 1: I agree. And while intuition is very strong, is very powerful,
Speaker 1: I just want to gently remind all of us listening
Speaker 1: to Harsh podcast that it is not always right. No,
Speaker 1: we have to remember this. Our gut feeling isn't always right.
Speaker 1: So
Speaker 1: act carefully. OK? Don't act rashly
Speaker 2: at the end of the day, you wait it out,
Speaker 2: your head, your heart, your gut was the saying. And
Speaker 2: at the end of the day, it's like everything else
Speaker 2: in life, right? Whatever decision you make, you got to
Speaker 2: live with it. Yeah, I think if you are just
Speaker 2: going through every day in your life, not reflecting about
Speaker 2: what you observe, what you see. Some people could afford
Speaker 2: to be a bit more intuitive and a bit more
Speaker 2: present and mindful of what's going on around you, right?
Speaker 2: Sometimes put that phone down, take a look around the room,
Speaker 2: sense the vibe, sense the energy there.
Speaker 1: OK? Right now, my intuition tells me that you should
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Speaker 2: Mhm.