1 00:00:00,009 --> 00:00:02,009 Speaker 1: Hello, Tazo. Hey, Taura and 2 00:00:02,019 --> 00:00:03,009 Speaker 2: I'm Jermaine and welcome 3 00:00:03,019 --> 00:00:05,059 Speaker 1: back to Cities Hush Podcast. 4 00:00:06,380 --> 00:00:09,340 Speaker 1: You know, previously goes, we talk about manifesting today. I 5 00:00:09,350 --> 00:00:15,819 Speaker 1: want to talk about something similar but not quite our intuition. Intuition. OK. OK. 6 00:00:15,829 --> 00:00:18,389 Speaker 1: First of all, what do you know about intuition and 7 00:00:18,399 --> 00:00:19,059 Speaker 2: a curse? 8 00:00:19,790 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 1: My goodness 9 00:00:20,370 --> 00:00:23,879 Speaker 2: intuition is that tingle, tingle that you get in your 10 00:00:23,889 --> 00:00:27,420 Speaker 2: gut right down in my stomach. Here usually tells me 11 00:00:27,430 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 2: if something is wrong 12 00:00:28,996 --> 00:00:29,656 Speaker 2: or something is 13 00:00:29,666 --> 00:00:32,866 Speaker 1: right. Right. You know how they say people have five senses. 14 00:00:32,875 --> 00:00:39,745 Speaker 1: I think intuition is women's six I six sense women only. Yeah. Actually, 15 00:00:39,756 --> 00:00:42,576 Speaker 1: I think it's skewed towards women. I mean, correct me 16 00:00:42,585 --> 00:00:44,665 Speaker 1: if I'm wrong. But I've always felt like the woman's 17 00:00:44,675 --> 00:00:48,166 Speaker 1: sixth sense. It's kind of stronger than the men's interesting. 18 00:00:48,175 --> 00:00:50,835 Speaker 2: OK. Let's start with a simple question. Right. OK. Do 19 00:00:50,845 --> 00:00:51,055 Speaker 2: you 20 00:00:51,312 --> 00:00:54,751 Speaker 2: to listen to your head or your heart? This 21 00:00:54,762 --> 00:00:59,451 Speaker 1: is such a tough question. I listen to my heart. Unfortunately, 22 00:00:59,462 --> 00:01:00,341 Speaker 1: it is hard for me 23 00:01:00,352 --> 00:01:04,310 Speaker 2: here. Can you answer for me? You listen to your heart? 24 00:01:04,331 --> 00:01:08,931 Speaker 1: Sure. So did you know that the term intuition has 25 00:01:08,941 --> 00:01:12,251 Speaker 1: no scientific evidence behind it? It is like a happy 26 00:01:12,262 --> 00:01:16,441 Speaker 1: little coincidence that intuition, the definition of it, 27 00:01:16,940 --> 00:01:20,040 Speaker 1: it is entirely intuitive. So it's a feeling, you know 28 00:01:20,050 --> 00:01:20,639 Speaker 1: what I mean? It's 29 00:01:20,650 --> 00:01:23,620 Speaker 2: not a verb, it's a fee. So we don't even 30 00:01:23,629 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 2: know if it's real or not 31 00:01:25,000 --> 00:01:27,489 Speaker 1: because it's basically that little voice at the back of 32 00:01:27,500 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 1: a head that tells you to trust or to be 33 00:01:29,370 --> 00:01:31,819 Speaker 1: wary of something. Right? You can't even explain this little 34 00:01:31,830 --> 00:01:37,239 Speaker 1: voice and it's a combination of experiences, observation, emotional intelligence 35 00:01:37,250 --> 00:01:39,169 Speaker 1: and our subconscious analysis. 36 00:01:39,180 --> 00:01:41,610 Speaker 2: I mean, who's to say whether it's right or wrong? 37 00:01:41,620 --> 00:01:44,050 Speaker 2: At the end of the day, you make that decision 38 00:01:44,059 --> 00:01:44,519 Speaker 2: and you 39 00:01:44,904 --> 00:01:46,605 Speaker 2: live the consequences of it, right? 40 00:01:47,415 --> 00:01:51,055 Speaker 1: No. But what I found really interesting was scientists and psychologists. 41 00:01:51,125 --> 00:01:54,885 Speaker 1: They have come to this theory that women because we 42 00:01:54,894 --> 00:01:58,915 Speaker 1: historically have had lower social power. This is why we 43 00:01:58,925 --> 00:02:01,925 Speaker 1: have stronger intuition because we spent all our time reading 44 00:02:01,934 --> 00:02:06,315 Speaker 1: the room absorbing the social cues. So we are better 45 00:02:06,324 --> 00:02:10,115 Speaker 1: with telling how this person feels or am I gonna 46 00:02:10,125 --> 00:02:12,285 Speaker 1: be in trouble if I get too near to this person? 47 00:02:12,690 --> 00:02:16,309 Speaker 1: And in society, of course, we we possess a natural 48 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:19,479 Speaker 1: inclination to be more in touch with people's emotions, not 49 00:02:19,490 --> 00:02:22,490 Speaker 1: just our own. Like I'm a hyper sensitive kind of 50 00:02:22,500 --> 00:02:24,418 Speaker 1: girl man. I watch a movie last night and I 51 00:02:24,429 --> 00:02:27,550 Speaker 1: cried for one hour straight. What movie you watch this 52 00:02:27,559 --> 00:02:31,020 Speaker 1: Chinese movie were very sad if I tell you women 53 00:02:31,029 --> 00:02:32,649 Speaker 1: are just so hyper sensitive, don't you 54 00:02:32,660 --> 00:02:35,300 Speaker 2: think I think we're very in touch with our emotions. 55 00:02:35,470 --> 00:02:37,979 Speaker 2: But I do think that both women and men can 56 00:02:37,990 --> 00:02:38,270 Speaker 2: have 57 00:02:38,382 --> 00:02:41,363 Speaker 2: intuition. It's just that because women are more in touch 58 00:02:41,373 --> 00:02:44,602 Speaker 2: with our emotions and our feelings, right? Whereas men are 59 00:02:44,613 --> 00:02:49,522 Speaker 2: more logical and rational thinking creatures, they gear more towards like, 60 00:02:49,532 --> 00:02:53,513 Speaker 2: is this logical? Right? Which is nothing wrong with that question? 61 00:02:53,522 --> 00:02:55,431 Speaker 2: Do you also think it's because we're a little bit 62 00:02:55,442 --> 00:02:58,692 Speaker 2: more observant? You know? It's like how if you're mad 63 00:02:58,703 --> 00:03:01,482 Speaker 2: with your partner because to you, it's like clear as 64 00:03:01,492 --> 00:03:03,742 Speaker 2: day that you did this or you said this, 65 00:03:04,115 --> 00:03:07,174 Speaker 2: obviously, they will never know. Right? Because they just don't 66 00:03:07,186 --> 00:03:09,035 Speaker 2: pick out these things. So is it because we are 67 00:03:09,046 --> 00:03:11,576 Speaker 2: a little bit more observant? And that's why we pick 68 00:03:11,585 --> 00:03:13,695 Speaker 2: up the smallest things and then we add them all 69 00:03:13,705 --> 00:03:14,216 Speaker 2: up together. 70 00:03:14,225 --> 00:03:16,595 Speaker 1: On the other hand, if our partner has had a 71 00:03:16,606 --> 00:03:19,475 Speaker 1: bad day, he comes home, I mean, as the girl 72 00:03:19,485 --> 00:03:22,484 Speaker 1: will know right away, there's something's wrong, right? So, but 73 00:03:22,496 --> 00:03:24,106 Speaker 1: how come they, you come 74 00:03:24,115 --> 00:03:25,895 Speaker 2: home with a bad day? He won't know. And then 75 00:03:25,906 --> 00:03:26,785 Speaker 2: you get angrier like 76 00:03:26,796 --> 00:03:29,496 Speaker 1: hello? He asked to drink more water. 77 00:03:30,699 --> 00:03:31,460 Speaker 1: The solution 78 00:03:31,470 --> 00:03:34,100 Speaker 2: to everything is drink more water. Trust me, the solution 79 00:03:34,110 --> 00:03:36,470 Speaker 2: to a lot of things is drink more water but 80 00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:38,690 Speaker 2: not to the end of a bad day. But I 81 00:03:38,699 --> 00:03:40,279 Speaker 2: think it's just that because women, 82 00:03:40,779 --> 00:03:43,149 Speaker 2: I guess express our feelings or are more in touch 83 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:45,839 Speaker 2: with our emotions we're able to be attuned to our 84 00:03:45,850 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 2: intuition a little bit more but not saying that men aren't. 85 00:03:48,899 --> 00:03:53,839 Speaker 2: We feel shifts in energy maybe a little bit better perhaps. 86 00:03:53,850 --> 00:03:57,490 Speaker 2: You know, like somebody says something a different way one 87 00:03:57,500 --> 00:04:00,399 Speaker 2: time or one day and you're like, something is not right. 88 00:04:00,580 --> 00:04:02,839 Speaker 2: And people tend to pass it off as like you're 89 00:04:02,850 --> 00:04:05,169 Speaker 2: reading too much, do it, you're overthinking it, you're being 90 00:04:05,179 --> 00:04:08,619 Speaker 2: crazy and one day the truth comes out and we 91 00:04:08,630 --> 00:04:08,789 Speaker 2: were 92 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:09,500 Speaker 1: right. 93 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:13,750 Speaker 1: And don't you think you of us as host, we 94 00:04:13,759 --> 00:04:16,660 Speaker 1: are able to read the room a little bit better. 95 00:04:16,750 --> 00:04:19,679 Speaker 1: Like we have enhanced skills in this for, we know 96 00:04:19,690 --> 00:04:22,940 Speaker 1: when our guests are feeling good or when they're not 97 00:04:22,950 --> 00:04:25,980 Speaker 2: or uncomfortable or they need a break and things like that. 98 00:04:26,339 --> 00:04:30,618 Speaker 1: So when does your intuition radar light up goes? Oh, 99 00:04:30,630 --> 00:04:34,239 Speaker 2: actually it's usually when I'm meeting new people for the 100 00:04:34,250 --> 00:04:37,058 Speaker 2: first time. Right. It can be in a work setting 101 00:04:37,070 --> 00:04:39,459 Speaker 2: or personal setting when I meet them. I'm kind of 102 00:04:39,565 --> 00:04:42,795 Speaker 2: reading them, not through their physical attributes but through the 103 00:04:42,803 --> 00:04:46,334 Speaker 2: energy and aura that they're giving off. And I kind 104 00:04:46,345 --> 00:04:48,385 Speaker 2: of know, ok. Do I want to get to know 105 00:04:48,394 --> 00:04:51,725 Speaker 2: this person more or is this person talking to me 106 00:04:51,734 --> 00:04:54,974 Speaker 2: for a reason for an advantage or something like that? 107 00:04:54,984 --> 00:04:56,445 Speaker 2: That's what I'm trying to read? 108 00:04:56,484 --> 00:05:00,625 Speaker 1: Ok. We're meeting new people. Agree. How about you? I 109 00:05:00,714 --> 00:05:04,553 Speaker 2: don't, actually, I feel like when I meet new people, 110 00:05:04,565 --> 00:05:07,345 Speaker 2: I'm a little bit more not thinking, 111 00:05:07,445 --> 00:05:07,784 Speaker 1: oh, 112 00:05:10,049 --> 00:05:13,079 Speaker 1: because you're not trusting you giving. But I know your 113 00:05:13,089 --> 00:05:16,058 Speaker 1: senses kick in after like, you will know whether this 114 00:05:16,070 --> 00:05:18,920 Speaker 1: person is good or not after a while, after a while. 115 00:05:18,928 --> 00:05:22,369 Speaker 2: Yes, because I think we spoke about this the other time. 116 00:05:22,380 --> 00:05:25,349 Speaker 2: Remember the ranking of like friendship? And I think for 117 00:05:25,359 --> 00:05:27,729 Speaker 2: me it starts at the bottom and if it's at 118 00:05:27,738 --> 00:05:29,140 Speaker 2: the bottom, right, it doesn't matter 119 00:05:29,220 --> 00:05:32,479 Speaker 2: to me. Like if you're irritating, then maybe like I 120 00:05:32,488 --> 00:05:34,029 Speaker 2: probably won't see you again or if I have to 121 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:37,519 Speaker 2: see you again, I just like, whatever doesn't matter to me. 122 00:05:37,880 --> 00:05:41,019 Speaker 2: But if it progresses and then we got to start 123 00:05:41,029 --> 00:05:45,308 Speaker 2: evaluating like you deserve to be promoted. Interesting. OK. 124 00:05:45,350 --> 00:05:48,480 Speaker 1: Right. OK. So this is something someone said online 125 00:05:48,750 --> 00:05:50,700 Speaker 1: every time I had a bad feeling about someone, it 126 00:05:50,709 --> 00:05:52,769 Speaker 1: turned out to be true when I first started talking 127 00:05:52,779 --> 00:05:56,619 Speaker 1: to my. Now ex I sometimes felt that something was off. 128 00:05:56,779 --> 00:05:59,089 Speaker 1: I used to have a lot of anxiety around him. 129 00:05:59,100 --> 00:06:01,950 Speaker 1: I even remember thinking something is wrong with this guy, 130 00:06:01,959 --> 00:06:04,859 Speaker 1: but I don't know what, even though he acted super soon, 131 00:06:04,928 --> 00:06:08,290 Speaker 1: super carrying, he was generous, bought me gifts, offered to 132 00:06:08,299 --> 00:06:11,679 Speaker 1: pay for things such as plane tickets, etc plane tickets. 133 00:06:11,850 --> 00:06:14,690 Speaker 1: So they were in the LDA long distance relationship. But 134 00:06:14,700 --> 00:06:17,410 Speaker 1: this girl, she eventually decided to shove a bad feelings 135 00:06:17,420 --> 00:06:20,730 Speaker 1: aside and ignore them and continue being together with this 136 00:06:20,738 --> 00:06:21,029 Speaker 1: guy 137 00:06:21,279 --> 00:06:25,079 Speaker 1: a year later. She discovered that he was a narcissist. 138 00:06:25,190 --> 00:06:29,609 Speaker 1: He was manipulative and had been emotionally abusing and gas 139 00:06:29,619 --> 00:06:32,350 Speaker 1: lighting her all at the same time. So her gut 140 00:06:32,359 --> 00:06:34,279 Speaker 1: feeling was right. Her intuition was 141 00:06:34,290 --> 00:06:37,450 Speaker 2: right. Actually, my friend just told me a very similar story. 142 00:06:37,470 --> 00:06:41,950 Speaker 2: Her boyfriend actually was gas lighting her for like over 143 00:06:41,959 --> 00:06:46,059 Speaker 2: a year. He was in two relationships at once and 144 00:06:46,250 --> 00:06:48,880 Speaker 2: basically they stay in the blocks next to each other. 145 00:06:49,010 --> 00:06:50,769 Speaker 2: So he was just going back and forth, back and 146 00:06:50,779 --> 00:06:53,078 Speaker 2: forth that house, this house, that house, this house, two 147 00:06:53,149 --> 00:06:54,279 Speaker 1: different women in 148 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:57,070 Speaker 2: each and every day, she would be like, what's wrong? 149 00:06:57,079 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 2: Are you cheating on me? You must be cheating on me. 150 00:06:59,049 --> 00:07:01,220 Speaker 2: And he would just straight out say, are you crazy? Like, 151 00:07:01,230 --> 00:07:03,359 Speaker 2: are you crazy? Why would you think that and turns 152 00:07:03,369 --> 00:07:06,140 Speaker 2: out he was and she and her intuition and her 153 00:07:06,149 --> 00:07:09,989 Speaker 2: friends intuition all told them it is true. But until 154 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:11,100 Speaker 2: the truth comes out, 155 00:07:11,579 --> 00:07:11,980 Speaker 2: yeah, 156 00:07:12,279 --> 00:07:15,829 Speaker 1: sometimes love is blind. Sometimes just refuse to believe that 157 00:07:15,839 --> 00:07:17,540 Speaker 1: the other half is cheating. But if you don't see 158 00:07:17,549 --> 00:07:20,420 Speaker 2: the evidence, right? And this person that you love so much, 159 00:07:20,429 --> 00:07:22,350 Speaker 2: you trust so much or you want to trust is 160 00:07:22,359 --> 00:07:24,869 Speaker 2: telling you I'm not cheating on you. You want to 161 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:28,739 Speaker 2: believe that. Yeah. And because it's an intuition, you can't 162 00:07:28,750 --> 00:07:29,869 Speaker 2: prove it either. 163 00:07:31,079 --> 00:07:34,670 Speaker 2: I know it somewhere. Something as a feel, right. But 164 00:07:34,739 --> 00:07:36,829 Speaker 2: I don't have anything to work with 165 00:07:37,010 --> 00:07:39,970 Speaker 1: like this girl from online she says, I knew in 166 00:07:39,980 --> 00:07:42,510 Speaker 1: my gut that my ex was cheating. I just had 167 00:07:42,519 --> 00:07:45,910 Speaker 1: no evidence. He was really good at covering his tracks. 168 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 1: I had full access to his phone and I knew 169 00:07:48,609 --> 00:07:50,049 Speaker 1: his password etc, but 170 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:53,459 Speaker 1: this cheating people, they can always cover their tracks anyway. 171 00:07:53,630 --> 00:07:56,369 Speaker 1: So this girl, she managed to get evidence while she 172 00:07:56,380 --> 00:07:58,940 Speaker 1: was away on vacation. So she dumped his ass and 173 00:07:58,950 --> 00:08:02,160 Speaker 1: level up. She says, I believe in my intuition. 100%. 174 00:08:03,019 --> 00:08:06,630 Speaker 1: I love that. This is MC main character energy. Absolutely. 175 00:08:06,799 --> 00:08:07,859 Speaker 2: I want to know like 176 00:08:08,250 --> 00:08:10,250 Speaker 2: how he was hiding it and how she found it. 177 00:08:10,260 --> 00:08:13,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you have full access to this person's phone, 178 00:08:13,130 --> 00:08:13,989 Speaker 1: then 179 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:17,149 Speaker 2: how OK, let me share with you a story. Ok. 180 00:08:17,679 --> 00:08:20,209 Speaker 2: I was at a crossroads in 181 00:08:20,220 --> 00:08:21,070 Speaker 1: life or like an extra 182 00:08:21,470 --> 00:08:24,140 Speaker 2: movie junction that no, no, I don't go out and 183 00:08:24,149 --> 00:08:27,309 Speaker 2: the sun is out. Remember vampire? 184 00:08:27,429 --> 00:08:27,929 Speaker 1: OK. What 185 00:08:27,940 --> 00:08:31,890 Speaker 2: crossroads? I was at a crossroads alive in life. I 186 00:08:31,899 --> 00:08:35,659 Speaker 2: had a decision to make and I couldn't 187 00:08:36,450 --> 00:08:39,099 Speaker 2: like, you know, some decisions you just wanna, you want 188 00:08:39,109 --> 00:08:40,579 Speaker 2: to follow your heart but your head is telling you 189 00:08:40,590 --> 00:08:43,409 Speaker 2: something else, you know all the time, correct? Can we 190 00:08:43,419 --> 00:08:45,130 Speaker 2: have more details? I'm very lost. 191 00:08:46,130 --> 00:08:50,340 Speaker 2: OK. You're making a decision about a person. OK. OK. OK. OK. 192 00:08:50,349 --> 00:08:54,210 Speaker 2: Like let's say hazy and I, and I'm deciding whether 193 00:08:54,219 --> 00:08:56,880 Speaker 2: to keep her in my life. Ok. Yes. And it 194 00:08:56,890 --> 00:08:58,890 Speaker 2: was just a nagging feeling that I will not find 195 00:08:58,900 --> 00:09:02,969 Speaker 2: another hazy which I won't love by the way. OK. Yeah. 196 00:09:03,215 --> 00:09:06,233 Speaker 2: OK. But it was a nagging feeling and I couldn't 197 00:09:06,244 --> 00:09:09,515 Speaker 2: let it go. So I actually asked this person and 198 00:09:09,525 --> 00:09:14,075 Speaker 2: I said, when you can't ignore your gut, what do 199 00:09:14,085 --> 00:09:18,075 Speaker 2: you do? Like if you think about it? Have you 200 00:09:18,085 --> 00:09:22,155 Speaker 2: ever heard anyone say shit? Man? I shouldn't have listened 201 00:09:22,164 --> 00:09:24,465 Speaker 2: to my God. No, you hear people say shit. I 202 00:09:24,474 --> 00:09:27,755 Speaker 2: should have listened to my God. That's true. And I 203 00:09:27,765 --> 00:09:28,265 Speaker 2: was like 204 00:09:28,859 --> 00:09:31,260 Speaker 2: that must count for something. No, it is true. Yeah. 205 00:09:31,380 --> 00:09:34,978 Speaker 2: So more often than not listening to your gut probably 206 00:09:35,210 --> 00:09:37,539 Speaker 2: is the right thing to do. We're not saying it's 207 00:09:37,570 --> 00:09:42,539 Speaker 2: 100 accurate. I'm sure someone has made some mistake by 208 00:09:42,549 --> 00:09:45,809 Speaker 2: listening to the God. But there's a reason 209 00:09:46,940 --> 00:09:50,750 Speaker 1: and this intuition in women somehow I feel like this 210 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 1: unique energy actually strengthens bonds between girls. Yeah, 211 00:09:55,131 --> 00:09:57,352 Speaker 1: I mean we share so many things girl math girl 212 00:09:57,362 --> 00:10:01,252 Speaker 1: cos shit like that. There have been so many instances 213 00:10:01,263 --> 00:10:04,643 Speaker 1: where women in tuition or six sense actually helped each 214 00:10:04,653 --> 00:10:07,903 Speaker 1: other out. So for example, this girl, she was at 215 00:10:07,913 --> 00:10:09,973 Speaker 1: the club with her friends and a guy was trying 216 00:10:09,982 --> 00:10:12,512 Speaker 1: to dance with her, but she showed no interest, right? 217 00:10:12,523 --> 00:10:15,562 Speaker 1: But this guy got so persistent and another group of 218 00:10:15,572 --> 00:10:19,512 Speaker 1: girls saw immediately pulled her into the circle and protected 219 00:10:19,523 --> 00:10:21,393 Speaker 1: her the whole night. I love that, right. 220 00:10:21,476 --> 00:10:22,314 Speaker 1: This is intuition 221 00:10:22,325 --> 00:10:25,526 Speaker 2: kicking in, I'll do that any time for any girl? Yeah. 222 00:10:25,976 --> 00:10:28,645 Speaker 1: Are there any like special moments like these where you 223 00:10:28,655 --> 00:10:31,426 Speaker 1: felt like your sixth sense and your intuition between yourself 224 00:10:31,434 --> 00:10:33,695 Speaker 1: and another goal? Just help you become friends. 225 00:10:33,705 --> 00:10:36,966 Speaker 2: Not so serious, not on such a serious note. But 226 00:10:36,976 --> 00:10:41,184 Speaker 2: I think more of just when a woman's intuition makes 227 00:10:41,195 --> 00:10:43,905 Speaker 2: her reach out to you. So what happened was I 228 00:10:43,916 --> 00:10:46,695 Speaker 2: was living overseas and I was dating someone that was 229 00:10:46,705 --> 00:10:47,726 Speaker 2: here but it was like, 230 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:50,539 Speaker 2: it was a relationship. I was like, casual, you know, 231 00:10:50,789 --> 00:10:53,070 Speaker 2: and I didn't post anything about this person. This person 232 00:10:53,080 --> 00:10:55,340 Speaker 2: didn't post anything about me. So it looked like probably 233 00:10:55,349 --> 00:10:57,630 Speaker 2: we had broken up. So this girl that I know 234 00:10:57,640 --> 00:11:00,750 Speaker 2: in Singapore she was on Tinder and she came across 235 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:03,630 Speaker 2: his profile on Tinder. If I put myself in her position, 236 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:05,739 Speaker 2: I would just think, oh, maybe they already broken up. 237 00:11:05,750 --> 00:11:08,000 Speaker 2: That's why he's on Tinder. Ok. But something I think 238 00:11:08,010 --> 00:11:11,359 Speaker 2: in her compelled her to reach out to me 239 00:11:11,502 --> 00:11:13,682 Speaker 2: and let me know. And that's how I found out 240 00:11:13,692 --> 00:11:16,312 Speaker 2: that he was on Tinder while we were still in 241 00:11:16,322 --> 00:11:19,682 Speaker 2: a relationship. She could have just ignored that feeling and 242 00:11:19,692 --> 00:11:21,992 Speaker 2: it could have gone away. But she felt compelled to 243 00:11:22,002 --> 00:11:24,043 Speaker 2: come and tell me about it even though I was like, 244 00:11:24,203 --> 00:11:26,312 Speaker 2: miles and miles away. Yeah. Oh, 245 00:11:26,372 --> 00:11:29,881 Speaker 1: that's nice. That's nice for me. Maybe it's more of 246 00:11:30,122 --> 00:11:32,703 Speaker 1: in a work setting. So we have this new colleague 247 00:11:32,713 --> 00:11:34,843 Speaker 1: from the radio competition. She came in second 248 00:11:34,926 --> 00:11:36,655 Speaker 1: she joined us on the evening drive time show. Her 249 00:11:36,666 --> 00:11:38,834 Speaker 1: name is E and I feel like, you know, your 250 00:11:38,846 --> 00:11:41,065 Speaker 2: show is three now. Girl, it's been a while. 251 00:11:41,075 --> 00:11:42,705 Speaker 1: It's been like one year, baby. 252 00:11:42,835 --> 00:11:45,846 Speaker 2: You're joking. No, you're joking. It's been 253 00:11:45,856 --> 00:11:48,875 Speaker 1: one year. She joined us for the entire way. You know, 254 00:11:48,885 --> 00:11:50,916 Speaker 2: like so many times she's 255 00:11:50,926 --> 00:11:55,026 Speaker 1: this petite girl, super cute. But we gel and we 256 00:11:55,035 --> 00:11:57,536 Speaker 1: bond so well because of our sixth sense. Like we 257 00:11:57,546 --> 00:11:58,226 Speaker 1: think the same 258 00:11:58,530 --> 00:12:01,780 Speaker 1: things in many aspects even when it comes to the show, 259 00:12:01,789 --> 00:12:04,659 Speaker 1: I mean, some might call it chemistry. But also I 260 00:12:04,669 --> 00:12:07,309 Speaker 1: think being a girl, girl thing, it plays a huge part. 261 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 1: I 262 00:12:07,530 --> 00:12:11,270 Speaker 2: saw a Tik Tok account actually of these best friends, 263 00:12:11,309 --> 00:12:14,570 Speaker 2: two girls. Ok? And then they did this video and 264 00:12:14,580 --> 00:12:16,989 Speaker 2: they were like we became friends to 265 00:12:17,090 --> 00:12:19,960 Speaker 2: because we dated the same guy. Wait, wow. 266 00:12:20,849 --> 00:12:22,669 Speaker 1: And I, I just have to know at the same 267 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:23,989 Speaker 1: time or what. I 268 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:27,000 Speaker 2: can't remember that. No, I've seen a lot of like, oh, 269 00:12:27,010 --> 00:12:29,450 Speaker 2: I'm friends with my ex ex. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. 270 00:12:29,460 --> 00:12:32,099 Speaker 2: Like sisters. That's a bit weird. 271 00:12:32,109 --> 00:12:35,500 Speaker 1: I have a friend. Ok. So she dated this guy 272 00:12:36,039 --> 00:12:39,590 Speaker 1: that she didn't know a lot of money. And one 273 00:12:39,599 --> 00:12:44,840 Speaker 1: day my friend received a text from her boyfriend's ex girlfriend. Ok, 274 00:12:44,849 --> 00:12:46,728 Speaker 1: so let's call my friend A and the ex girlfriend. 275 00:12:46,739 --> 00:12:49,020 Speaker 1: B so B comes up to A and say, hey, 276 00:12:49,030 --> 00:12:51,030 Speaker 1: I know you're dating this guy. I hope you're happy 277 00:12:51,039 --> 00:12:52,760 Speaker 1: and shit. But can you please get him to return 278 00:12:52,770 --> 00:12:56,059 Speaker 1: me my money? So, a is like what my boyfriend 279 00:12:56,070 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 1: owes you money. 280 00:12:57,299 --> 00:12:59,679 Speaker 1: When was this? And how much does he owe you? So, 281 00:12:59,690 --> 00:13:02,840 Speaker 1: after finding out like so many things, right? A realized 282 00:13:02,849 --> 00:13:06,409 Speaker 1: that her boyfriend doesn't just ob money, he owes a 283 00:13:06,419 --> 00:13:09,500 Speaker 1: lot of people out there. Yeah. And it's only because 284 00:13:09,510 --> 00:13:12,229 Speaker 1: B came up to tell her about it. Oh my God. 285 00:13:12,239 --> 00:13:13,929 Speaker 1: In the end, I think they kind of like bonded 286 00:13:13,940 --> 00:13:17,869 Speaker 1: over this tragic incident and b eventually told a, 287 00:13:18,869 --> 00:13:20,859 Speaker 1: you know, think about it. If he's not for you 288 00:13:20,869 --> 00:13:23,119 Speaker 1: just let it go. Did they break up? They did, 289 00:13:23,489 --> 00:13:27,130 Speaker 1: they've broken up now. So I think this is quite 290 00:13:27,140 --> 00:13:27,729 Speaker 1: sweet in a 291 00:13:27,739 --> 00:13:32,200 Speaker 2: way. No, I really believe that girls can be there 292 00:13:32,210 --> 00:13:35,140 Speaker 2: for each other and we can kind of sense when 293 00:13:35,150 --> 00:13:37,950 Speaker 2: another girl is in danger. Like for example, they have 294 00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 2: this thing where let's say you are having conversation, right? 295 00:13:41,700 --> 00:13:43,950 Speaker 2: And I give you a look, you know what kind 296 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:45,789 Speaker 2: of book it is. But if I give you this look, 297 00:13:45,799 --> 00:13:46,219 Speaker 2: I'm like, 298 00:13:47,570 --> 00:13:50,608 Speaker 1: oh you think this guy is cute? I give 299 00:13:50,619 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 2: you this look, 300 00:13:52,580 --> 00:13:53,200 Speaker 1: this guy, 301 00:13:56,140 --> 00:13:59,250 Speaker 2: you see, so you get a look, right? I mean, 302 00:13:59,260 --> 00:14:01,030 Speaker 2: girls are so in tune with each other. 303 00:14:01,039 --> 00:14:04,190 Speaker 1: I love that. But the thing about intuition is that 304 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:07,869 Speaker 1: there's no scientific meaning behind it. So sometimes it clashes 305 00:14:07,880 --> 00:14:08,939 Speaker 1: with our mind. Oh 306 00:14:08,950 --> 00:14:14,630 Speaker 2: my gosh, actually I saw this thing, ok. This woman, 307 00:14:14,994 --> 00:14:19,625 Speaker 2: her husband had died basically in a crash. I can't 308 00:14:19,635 --> 00:14:21,594 Speaker 2: remember what crash it was. I feel like it was 309 00:14:21,604 --> 00:14:25,815 Speaker 2: a helicopter crash. Oh, gosh. And she said even before 310 00:14:25,825 --> 00:14:29,715 Speaker 2: it happened, she knew and it was so strange because 311 00:14:29,724 --> 00:14:32,335 Speaker 2: when they turned up at her house it was like 312 00:14:32,344 --> 00:14:36,354 Speaker 2: your husband is dead. She's like, I know. And they 313 00:14:36,364 --> 00:14:38,505 Speaker 2: were like, no, you're not, you're not hearing us like 314 00:14:38,515 --> 00:14:39,255 Speaker 2: sit down, 315 00:14:40,030 --> 00:14:41,770 Speaker 2: your husband is dead. And she was like, 316 00:14:41,969 --> 00:14:42,369 Speaker 1: I know 317 00:14:42,900 --> 00:14:44,650 Speaker 1: because she had a gut feeling. She had a gut 318 00:14:44,659 --> 00:14:47,280 Speaker 2: feeling. Plus like, you know, when things don't add up 319 00:14:47,289 --> 00:14:49,109 Speaker 2: or when things are a little bit off because we're 320 00:14:49,119 --> 00:14:52,520 Speaker 2: so hyper sensitive to it. People always say we're overthinking 321 00:14:52,539 --> 00:14:54,900 Speaker 2: but they all add up. There's a reason why you 322 00:14:54,909 --> 00:14:57,299 Speaker 2: were like, you know, focus on this thing that was 323 00:14:57,309 --> 00:14:58,760 Speaker 2: out of place or something like that. 324 00:14:59,489 --> 00:15:00,969 Speaker 1: You know, I used to be so afraid of losing 325 00:15:00,979 --> 00:15:03,919 Speaker 1: my grandma to the extent that every time I received 326 00:15:03,929 --> 00:15:06,469 Speaker 1: a call from my house, I would think, oh my God, 327 00:15:06,479 --> 00:15:07,849 Speaker 1: is this my dad calling me to tell me my 328 00:15:07,859 --> 00:15:10,270 Speaker 1: grandma has died. No, I would be so scared. And 329 00:15:10,280 --> 00:15:11,789 Speaker 1: then when I pick up the call, it's just my 330 00:15:11,799 --> 00:15:12,090 Speaker 1: dad asked, 331 00:15:12,169 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 1: give me what I will be home. They'll be like, 332 00:15:14,469 --> 00:15:17,429 Speaker 1: oh luckily this is where my gut feeling is wrong. 333 00:15:18,309 --> 00:15:21,909 Speaker 1: But sometimes I'm just so sensitive that I trust it 334 00:15:21,919 --> 00:15:22,030 Speaker 1: too 335 00:15:22,039 --> 00:15:24,570 Speaker 2: much. But there are pros and cons obviously to being 336 00:15:24,580 --> 00:15:28,219 Speaker 2: so observant, so hyper sensitive, always thinking about everything, right. 337 00:15:28,229 --> 00:15:30,989 Speaker 2: And it can cause a lot of mental stress and 338 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:33,630 Speaker 2: pressure as well. For sure. Have you ever heard of 339 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:38,109 Speaker 2: something also called like a mother's intuition, intuition? Mother, mother 340 00:15:38,119 --> 00:15:40,849 Speaker 2: knows best. That's what they say. They say mother's intuitions 341 00:15:40,859 --> 00:15:41,309 Speaker 2: when 342 00:15:42,330 --> 00:15:46,549 Speaker 2: your senses heightened, when you become a mother and whatever 343 00:15:46,559 --> 00:15:50,940 Speaker 2: in relation to your child, you just have a heightened 344 00:15:50,950 --> 00:15:52,729 Speaker 2: sense of gut feel. 345 00:15:52,900 --> 00:15:55,270 Speaker 1: But it's because you want to protect your child. Right. 346 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:56,549 Speaker 1: I'm sure. Yeah, there 347 00:15:56,559 --> 00:16:01,330 Speaker 2: was once my mother, I came home and she looked 348 00:16:01,340 --> 00:16:04,750 Speaker 2: at me, she was like, ok, I'm fine. Mother's intuition. 349 00:16:05,070 --> 00:16:05,710 Speaker 2: I was like, why? 350 00:16:06,119 --> 00:16:09,739 Speaker 2: And she was like, I just have a feeling in 351 00:16:09,750 --> 00:16:12,520 Speaker 2: my heart like something does not feel right. I don't 352 00:16:12,530 --> 00:16:15,099 Speaker 2: know what it is. But are you ok? I'm fine. 353 00:16:15,520 --> 00:16:18,530 Speaker 2: And then apparently it was my dad la like something 354 00:16:18,539 --> 00:16:22,340 Speaker 2: happened I think. So. She had a feeling that something 355 00:16:22,349 --> 00:16:25,340 Speaker 2: was not right, but she didn't know she didn't. Right. Right. 356 00:16:25,349 --> 00:16:26,500 Speaker 2: It wasn't me. Right. 357 00:16:26,590 --> 00:16:28,969 Speaker 1: Well, speaking of this, mother's intuition is real. I just 358 00:16:28,979 --> 00:16:33,460 Speaker 1: recall recently. So I just ended a relationship, right? And 359 00:16:33,479 --> 00:16:36,330 Speaker 1: I didn't even speak to my parents about this. Not 360 00:16:36,340 --> 00:16:36,979 Speaker 1: a single word 361 00:16:37,299 --> 00:16:39,289 Speaker 1: but one time, one weekend I went home and my 362 00:16:39,299 --> 00:16:42,280 Speaker 1: mom was like, trying to test the waters. Hey, haven't 363 00:16:42,289 --> 00:16:45,130 Speaker 1: seen this person in so long. How are you guys doing? 364 00:16:45,510 --> 00:16:49,380 Speaker 1: And I'm like, my mom is crazy like she knows that, 365 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:51,369 Speaker 1: but I didn't even breathe a single word and there's 366 00:16:51,380 --> 00:16:53,090 Speaker 1: no way my sister would have told her about it. 367 00:16:53,099 --> 00:16:57,849 Speaker 1: No way. OK. So this is a story from our PD. 368 00:16:57,859 --> 00:16:59,520 Speaker 1: I think it is very interesting. Nothing to do with 369 00:16:59,530 --> 00:17:02,890 Speaker 1: mother daughter, more of like in a relationship kind of context. 370 00:17:03,450 --> 00:17:06,170 Speaker 1: She says I used to be close friends with this girl. 371 00:17:06,280 --> 00:17:08,989 Speaker 1: I always had a not necessarily bad feeling but a 372 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:11,949 Speaker 1: weird feeling about her. Over the years, there were instances 373 00:17:11,959 --> 00:17:14,329 Speaker 1: where I felt that she flirted with every boy I 374 00:17:14,339 --> 00:17:17,439 Speaker 1: was interested in. But because of our close friendship, I 375 00:17:17,449 --> 00:17:19,920 Speaker 1: trusted her and gave her the benefit of the doubt. 376 00:17:20,030 --> 00:17:23,389 Speaker 1: But very recently it proved to be true. I discovered 377 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:25,760 Speaker 1: that she had slept with a boy I liked at 378 00:17:25,770 --> 00:17:26,629 Speaker 1: that time. 379 00:17:27,069 --> 00:17:29,409 Speaker 1: It's like, ok, it happened years ago. But can you 380 00:17:29,420 --> 00:17:31,729 Speaker 1: imagine me opening up to her about it? And then 381 00:17:31,739 --> 00:17:33,670 Speaker 1: she's sleeping with him behind my back? 382 00:17:34,349 --> 00:17:38,550 Speaker 1: I think there's like red flag man, but I think 383 00:17:38,560 --> 00:17:41,650 Speaker 1: they're still in touch now which baffles me. But our 384 00:17:41,660 --> 00:17:44,900 Speaker 1: PD says it's tough because they are both bridesmaids for 385 00:17:44,910 --> 00:17:47,479 Speaker 1: this other friend's wedding. So they still have to see 386 00:17:47,489 --> 00:17:50,510 Speaker 1: each other. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. This our PD that, that 387 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:50,849 Speaker 1: one 388 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:55,819 Speaker 2: she's called out. You have a question. Sorry, this has 389 00:17:55,829 --> 00:17:58,109 Speaker 2: nothing to do with anything gut feel or anything. But 390 00:17:58,119 --> 00:18:00,829 Speaker 2: just wondering OK. Now A 391 00:18:01,180 --> 00:18:04,589 Speaker 2: has expressed her interest in this guy to be but 392 00:18:04,599 --> 00:18:07,199 Speaker 2: it just so happened that let's say B was not 393 00:18:07,209 --> 00:18:11,000 Speaker 2: after him, but he hit on her for example, she's 394 00:18:11,010 --> 00:18:14,300 Speaker 2: supposed to say no just because she knows that her 395 00:18:14,310 --> 00:18:16,649 Speaker 2: friend likes him. But this girl called what? I it's, 396 00:18:17,199 --> 00:18:19,459 Speaker 2: it's a lot then 397 00:18:19,469 --> 00:18:20,859 Speaker 1: I feel like you shouldn't because if you don't have 398 00:18:20,869 --> 00:18:20,889 Speaker 1: to 399 00:18:21,104 --> 00:18:24,525 Speaker 2: like, like, like, like real feelings, if a really has 400 00:18:24,535 --> 00:18:27,264 Speaker 2: real feelings for this person, understand it's 401 00:18:27,275 --> 00:18:31,665 Speaker 1: girl code. But then again, has there been a time 402 00:18:31,675 --> 00:18:37,185 Speaker 1: where your intuition influence your relationship? So it has that 403 00:18:37,194 --> 00:18:40,885 Speaker 1: for me, I was in this relationship 404 00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:43,030 Speaker 1: and towards the tail end of it, right? I just 405 00:18:43,040 --> 00:18:46,939 Speaker 1: felt like he wasn't that into me anymore. Yeah, of course, 406 00:18:46,949 --> 00:18:49,589 Speaker 1: I didn't go about like, looking through his staff, his 407 00:18:49,599 --> 00:18:51,500 Speaker 1: phone and everything, but it's just a feeling, you know, 408 00:18:51,959 --> 00:18:55,160 Speaker 1: and I trusted that feeling I broke up. It was 409 00:18:55,170 --> 00:18:58,420 Speaker 1: a mutual breakup but it was, it was great. Like 410 00:18:58,439 --> 00:19:00,589 Speaker 1: it was a happy breakup I would say. And then 411 00:19:00,599 --> 00:19:02,869 Speaker 1: two months later he got attached with the girl that 412 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:03,680 Speaker 1: I felt 413 00:19:04,300 --> 00:19:07,069 Speaker 1: like he bonded better with. I mean, nothing against that, 414 00:19:07,079 --> 00:19:09,640 Speaker 1: nothing against that. But it's just that I'm glad I 415 00:19:09,650 --> 00:19:12,609 Speaker 1: trusted my intuition and they're still together now. Very happy. 416 00:19:12,619 --> 00:19:16,140 Speaker 1: I'm very happy for them. Wow. Wow. So that's my 417 00:19:16,150 --> 00:19:17,089 Speaker 1: sixth sense kicking in. 418 00:19:17,099 --> 00:19:20,890 Speaker 2: No, it's true. It's really true. And so we all 419 00:19:20,900 --> 00:19:23,129 Speaker 2: know that. First of all, I'm not a jealous person. Secondly, 420 00:19:23,140 --> 00:19:26,379 Speaker 2: I can't be fucked. I won't take your phone, whatever. Obviously, 421 00:19:26,390 --> 00:19:30,399 Speaker 2: I can't be found. But we also know that I 422 00:19:30,829 --> 00:19:33,909 Speaker 2: was once cheated on. It was a gut feel that 423 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:37,810 Speaker 2: something was not right. And I had to check something 424 00:19:37,930 --> 00:19:38,849 Speaker 2: and I've never done it. 425 00:19:38,859 --> 00:19:40,810 Speaker 1: So, what do you check his phone? No, no, no, 426 00:19:40,819 --> 00:19:42,729 Speaker 2: we know this. Remember? Do you not know 427 00:19:42,739 --> 00:19:44,920 Speaker 1: that you mentioned this? I got one 428 00:19:44,930 --> 00:19:48,030 Speaker 2: of the episodes. I please do not learn from me. 429 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:49,919 Speaker 2: I don't think you can do this anymore right now. 430 00:19:49,930 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 2: But last time you can log into somebody's whatsapp on 431 00:19:54,530 --> 00:19:56,290 Speaker 2: web and it doesn't show on their phone, they will 432 00:19:56,300 --> 00:19:57,069 Speaker 2: never know. 433 00:19:58,510 --> 00:20:03,650 Speaker 2: Damn. Damn. Yeah. So he left the room. I scanned quickly. 434 00:20:04,250 --> 00:20:08,250 Speaker 2: Fellow left. OK, I went through and I found it. 435 00:20:08,260 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 2: I was like, 436 00:20:08,819 --> 00:20:11,890 Speaker 1: uh also make sure to check the archives chats. Sometimes 437 00:20:11,900 --> 00:20:13,280 Speaker 1: they hide it there. Oh my God, 438 00:20:14,660 --> 00:20:16,380 Speaker 2: sorry. 439 00:20:17,050 --> 00:20:21,349 Speaker 2: It's true. So, so your intuition was right? 100%. But 440 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:25,438 Speaker 2: what about his actions showed you that something was happening 441 00:20:25,449 --> 00:20:26,719 Speaker 2: almost nothing. 442 00:20:26,729 --> 00:20:30,189 Speaker 1: Wow, this is how, you know, he's a pro confirm 443 00:20:30,199 --> 00:20:31,920 Speaker 1: on the first time he's done this and 444 00:20:31,930 --> 00:20:36,560 Speaker 2: also her intuition is really spot on a bit scary. Yeah, 445 00:20:37,130 --> 00:20:38,400 Speaker 2: I don, I don't know, 446 00:20:39,012 --> 00:20:43,072 Speaker 2: has been like really, really wrong in that sense. But 447 00:20:43,083 --> 00:20:45,802 Speaker 2: I think it's one thing to have intuition. It's another 448 00:20:45,811 --> 00:20:48,782 Speaker 2: to act on it like he did with your ex. Yeah, 449 00:20:48,792 --> 00:20:51,762 Speaker 2: I think that was very brief of you. Thank you. 450 00:20:51,811 --> 00:20:55,311 Speaker 2: But there are sometimes when your intuition, I think over 451 00:20:55,343 --> 00:20:58,503 Speaker 2: reading into things can betray you, right? 452 00:20:58,993 --> 00:21:00,483 Speaker 1: Because we are just 453 00:21:00,586 --> 00:21:03,066 Speaker 1: so emotional and sometimes we let that get the better 454 00:21:03,076 --> 00:21:05,926 Speaker 1: of us and that sort of overrides our intuition a bit. 455 00:21:05,936 --> 00:21:07,875 Speaker 1: I think it's also very important to strike a balance 456 00:21:07,885 --> 00:21:12,286 Speaker 1: between intuition and not letting our over analytical tendencies cloud 457 00:21:12,296 --> 00:21:13,484 Speaker 1: our judgment. True. 458 00:21:13,494 --> 00:21:17,025 Speaker 2: I'm guilty of overthinking, right? Like sometimes my boyfriend told 459 00:21:17,036 --> 00:21:19,125 Speaker 2: me something and then I overthink about it so much 460 00:21:19,135 --> 00:21:20,625 Speaker 2: and you can see it in my eyes. I'm just 461 00:21:20,635 --> 00:21:22,326 Speaker 2: like staring at the ceiling and I'm going like, 462 00:21:23,380 --> 00:21:25,229 Speaker 2: and I'm just silent and then he would just pull 463 00:21:25,239 --> 00:21:27,160 Speaker 2: me in the heart. He'd be like, don't overthink it. 464 00:21:27,170 --> 00:21:28,198 Speaker 2: It's nothing more than that. 465 00:21:29,859 --> 00:21:33,160 Speaker 2: I don't know. It's really tough. Like I analyze these 466 00:21:33,170 --> 00:21:37,760 Speaker 2: things and, you know, I have theories for them. I 467 00:21:37,770 --> 00:21:41,760 Speaker 2: look into every single thing and people would say, you know, 468 00:21:41,770 --> 00:21:44,619 Speaker 2: don't overthink it or you don't have to read into 469 00:21:44,630 --> 00:21:47,089 Speaker 2: every single thing. It's really not that hard or it's 470 00:21:47,099 --> 00:21:49,839 Speaker 2: really not that serious. It's just, you know, but 471 00:21:50,410 --> 00:21:54,069 Speaker 2: it will turn out that way. Yeah, like over time 472 00:21:54,079 --> 00:21:57,459 Speaker 2: it will just prove to be right, whatever I was 473 00:21:57,469 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 2: thinking so we 474 00:21:58,530 --> 00:22:00,438 Speaker 1: can use this as a tool to help us in 475 00:22:00,449 --> 00:22:05,010 Speaker 1: our decision making process. For example, buying your home. I 476 00:22:05,020 --> 00:22:08,839 Speaker 1: think we have to rely strongly on our intuition. Like, 477 00:22:08,849 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 1: I have a friend who bought a home recently. She 478 00:22:10,290 --> 00:22:12,709 Speaker 1: was telling me that the moment she stepped into that piece, 479 00:22:12,719 --> 00:22:14,599 Speaker 1: she gasped, she went, like, 480 00:22:15,469 --> 00:22:17,530 Speaker 1: and that's how she knew this place was right for 481 00:22:17,540 --> 00:22:19,510 Speaker 1: her because out of all the other places that she's 482 00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:23,339 Speaker 1: been in, none of them gave her this feeling. Right. 483 00:22:23,390 --> 00:22:26,180 Speaker 1: Even though they were like better places out there. But she, 484 00:22:26,189 --> 00:22:28,659 Speaker 1: she just like this place. It's just a feeling. I 485 00:22:28,670 --> 00:22:31,599 Speaker 1: think buying cars for men as well in tuition is 486 00:22:31,829 --> 00:22:32,770 Speaker 1: a big part, right? 487 00:22:33,109 --> 00:22:34,010 Speaker 1: What other things are 488 00:22:34,020 --> 00:22:37,500 Speaker 2: like when you interview for a job? Yeah, I think 489 00:22:37,510 --> 00:22:39,219 Speaker 2: you can kind of sense. Is this place gonna be 490 00:22:39,229 --> 00:22:41,969 Speaker 2: right for you? Is it going to be the right fit? Right? 491 00:22:41,979 --> 00:22:44,688 Speaker 2: Sometimes you know, it's not the right fit but you 492 00:22:44,699 --> 00:22:47,280 Speaker 2: go for it because you want the money or you 493 00:22:47,290 --> 00:22:50,129 Speaker 2: want this or that, but then you end up miserable, right? 494 00:22:50,140 --> 00:22:52,050 Speaker 2: But I think with anything, try to give it a 495 00:22:52,060 --> 00:22:55,969 Speaker 2: chance as well because if you are guilty of overthinking, 496 00:22:55,979 --> 00:22:58,469 Speaker 2: you may just overthink yourself into 497 00:22:58,959 --> 00:23:03,260 Speaker 2: like nothingness right into confusion and just confuse yourself sometimes, 498 00:23:03,349 --> 00:23:06,680 Speaker 2: then you might, you know, because you're so tunnel vision, 499 00:23:06,739 --> 00:23:09,859 Speaker 2: then you miss all the experience around it. 500 00:23:10,709 --> 00:23:15,169 Speaker 1: I agree. And while intuition is very strong, is very powerful, 501 00:23:15,180 --> 00:23:17,149 Speaker 1: I just want to gently remind all of us listening 502 00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:20,010 Speaker 1: to Harsh podcast that it is not always right. No, 503 00:23:20,020 --> 00:23:23,489 Speaker 1: we have to remember this. Our gut feeling isn't always right. 504 00:23:23,500 --> 00:23:23,859 Speaker 1: So 505 00:23:24,329 --> 00:23:27,650 Speaker 1: act carefully. OK? Don't act rashly 506 00:23:27,660 --> 00:23:29,790 Speaker 2: at the end of the day, you wait it out, 507 00:23:30,260 --> 00:23:34,669 Speaker 2: your head, your heart, your gut was the saying. And 508 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,400 Speaker 2: at the end of the day, it's like everything else 509 00:23:37,410 --> 00:23:39,139 Speaker 2: in life, right? Whatever decision you make, you got to 510 00:23:39,150 --> 00:23:42,869 Speaker 2: live with it. Yeah, I think if you are just 511 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:45,479 Speaker 2: going through every day in your life, not reflecting about 512 00:23:45,609 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 2: what you observe, what you see. Some people could afford 513 00:23:49,010 --> 00:23:51,439 Speaker 2: to be a bit more intuitive and a bit more 514 00:23:51,449 --> 00:23:54,500 Speaker 2: present and mindful of what's going on around you, right? 515 00:23:54,510 --> 00:23:56,959 Speaker 2: Sometimes put that phone down, take a look around the room, 516 00:23:57,060 --> 00:23:59,119 Speaker 2: sense the vibe, sense the energy there. 517 00:24:00,239 --> 00:24:02,609 Speaker 1: OK? Right now, my intuition tells me that you should 518 00:24:02,619 --> 00:24:06,959 Speaker 1: take out your phone. Follow us on Instagram, it's clarity.co 519 00:24:06,969 --> 00:24:09,569 Speaker 1: and catch up on everything that you've missed. 100 520 00:24:09,579 --> 00:24:13,839 Speaker 2: percent. We about to hit 100 episode actually. So if 521 00:24:13,849 --> 00:24:16,199 Speaker 2: you've got nothing to do, this is basically like Game 522 00:24:16,209 --> 00:24:18,280 Speaker 2: of Thrones. Really, right? You just follow 523 00:24:19,819 --> 00:24:21,930 Speaker 2: so you can listen to us in Spotify. We listen 524 00:24:21,939 --> 00:24:24,790 Speaker 2: to Apple Podcast and don't forget to turn on your notifications. 525 00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:26,688 Speaker 2: That's right. Check us out on youtube as well and 526 00:24:26,699 --> 00:24:29,589 Speaker 2: we'll catch you next time on Hush podcast. See you. 527 00:24:30,599 --> 00:24:30,968 Speaker 2: Mhm.